Patrice O'Neal - We Have To Be Diligent & Purposeful — Transcript

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1. 0:00The word [ __ ] represents something
2. 0:01that's so repugnant to women, but the
3. 0:04fact is I choose to say it or choose not
4. 0:07to. That's the amount of respect that
5. 0:08you earn from me. It's not the amount of
6. 0:10respect that you automatically are
7. 0:12entitled to. You're not entitled to the
8. 0:14door being open. You're not entitled to
9. 0:16me laying my good coat on a puddle.
10. 0:19You're not entitled to me wrestling an
11. 0:20alligator to save your life. It's
12. 0:23desire. That's all. That's what the word
13. 0:25[ __ ] is. Just to let you know, "Hey,
14. 0:26bitch." And you go, "Don't be calling me
15. 0:27no bitch." You go, "Okay, bitch."
16. 0:30Now what? What's option two? That's all
17. 0:32I want to say. I want to give you
18. 0:33options to make me not want to call you
19. 0:36a [ __ ] You understand what I'm saying?
20. 0:37Do you love your mother? I love my
21. 0:39mother to death.
22. 0:40You understand? But that has nothing to
23. 0:42do with you. You know what I mean? Like
24. 0:43I said one time, that's my mother like
25. 0:46my mother used to be somebody's [ __ ]
26. 0:48He was my, you know, my mother had
27. 0:50boyfriends. And they had to deal with my
28. 0:52mother's [ __ ] My mother knows what
29. 0:54she used to do to guys sometimes. She
30. 0:56would tell me. She would [ __ ] with their
31. 0:57manhood. She made MY MY SISTER'S MOTHER
32. 1:00THROW A FAN AT HER.
33. 1:01SHE TOLD ME THAT STORY.
34. 1:03WOW.
35. 1:03MADE HIM SO TOUCH HIS MANHOOD SO MUCH
36. 1:05THROW A [ __ ] FAN AT HER CUZ SHE
37. 1:07BOILED HIM DOWN to what he had over her,
38. 1:10which is
39. 1:12manness, physicality. And that's what
40. 1:14I'm trying to help dudes to not have to
41. 1:16ever
42. 1:17conquer your woman with physicality,
43. 1:19man. You have to try to conquer them
44. 1:20with logic and make them look at you
45. 1:22like, "You know what? I'm going to
46. 1:23follow this guy cuz he knows where he's
47. 1:25going." You know what I'm saying? But
48. 1:26when a woman don't respect you, they
49. 1:27test your manhood constantly, dude. It's
50. 1:30It wears you out. But I'm going to tell
51. 1:31you what, soldier. If If If If It's just
52. 1:33like fighting the terrorists, man. You
53. 1:35going to stop? You going to stop? You
54. 1:37going to take a break? They don't take a
55. 1:39break. You understand? They They out
56. 1:40there trying to figure out how to kill
57. 1:41us with orange juice and [ __ ]
58. 1:43Gatorade and lotion. And they They don't
59. 1:46take a break. And that's what women are.
60. 1:48They are [ __ ] insurgents
61. 1:50MAKING IMPROVISED EXPLOSIVE DEVICES.
62. 1:53AND AND THE DAY YOU GO, "I DON'T FEEL
63. 1:55LIKE CHECKING FOR MINES.
64. 1:58I'M TIRED.
65. 1:59POW! FINGERLESS [ __ ]
66. 2:03YOU UNDERSTAND? YOU FINGERLESS [ __ ]
67. 2:06YOU
68. 2:07YOU'RE SITTING THERE LIKE HOW YOU CAN'T
69. 2:10be tired. You're dealing with the the
70. 2:13worst terrorist there are, women.
71. 2:16They're brutal and here's what makes
72. 2:18them the brutalest
73. 2:20is that they don't do it maliciously.
74. 2:23You understand? It's organic It's an
75. 2:25organic [ __ ]
76. 2:27response.
77. 2:28It It's It's like
78. 2:29instinct.
79. 2:30It's instinct. Thank you. It's like It's
80. 2:32like if you have a a a a pet a pet a
81. 2:36rattlesnake
82. 2:38That's what
83. 2:38You got TO ALWAYS KNOW THAT IT'S GOING
84. 2:40TO BITE YOU. You'll be like, "Damn, this
85. 2:42Don't this [ __ ] know I feed it
86. 2:43every day? I GOT FISH that don't GIVE A
87. 2:45[ __ ] ABOUT ME AND STUFF where I I FEED
88. 2:47THEM. THAT'S WHEN THEY COME TO THE
89. 2:48GLASS." AND THEN WHEN I GO TO THE GLASS
90. 2:50AND TAP THE glass or I do something like
91. 2:51I'm I'm trying to have some bonding with
92. 2:53them, THEY SWIM AWAY LIKE ANY OTHER
93. 2:57AND THEY'LL TAKE FOOD FROM ANYBODY.
94. 3:00That's what Look, man.
95. 3:01No loyalty.
96. 3:02That's what I'M SAYING, MAN. WOMEN DO
97. 3:03THINGS INSTINCTIVELY. I'm not saying
98. 3:05that they're disloyal, but they do
99. 3:07things with this instinctive level and
100. 3:09they bash you down and it's not It's not
101. 3:13cuz they want to and that's the thing.
102. 3:15It's like
103. 3:17Going back to terrorist thing. It's like
104. 3:18you are fighting somebody with a ideal
105. 3:21and
106. 3:21ideology a [ __ ] a a a philosophy
107. 3:25philosophy about uh uh killing you. And
108. 3:28all you doing is going to work. I'm the
109. 3:30TSA guy at the airport. All I want to do
110. 3:32is go to work and check for for the for
111. 3:34the
112. 3:35for the belt buckle and the chain and
113. 3:37the watch and the and the take your cell
114. 3:38phone out the pocket. That's all I want
115. 3:40to do and I'm trying to fight that ethic
116. 3:44versus uh It's not even an ethic. It's
117. 3:46just a belief system. I AM FIGHTING
118. 3:49SOMEBODY WITH A BELIEF SYSTEM. You This
119. 3:51is what I'm saying, FELLAS. YOU GOT TO
120. 3:52GET A belief system in into your
121. 3:55happiness.
122. 3:56with it.
123. 3:56And and and make it unconscious. Make it
124. 3:59a an unconscious natural thing. That's
125. 4:02when women will start to get the point
126. 4:04where if they start doing this [ __ ]
127. 4:05DON'T YOU DON'T YOU DON'T THINK MAN let
128. 4:06me tell you something, man.
129. 4:08I'm getting going again cuz I've BEEN
130. 4:11WITH MY GIRL AND NOT GETTING all the
131. 4:12[ __ ] and and and being decent and this
132. 4:15that and the third and it takes away
133. 4:17your fangs. I START PULLING MY FANG OUT.
134. 4:20YOU KNOW, I'M GOING TO TAKE IT OUT. I
135. 4:22don't need it. Like I start saying,
136. 4:24"Damn, I'M NOT EVEN MAD NO MORE." I'm
137. 4:25like, "Honey, get me" He was over my
138. 4:27crib. Me, my man
139. 4:30him and Gavin. TWO BIG [ __ ] and my
140. 4:33girl and me and we chilling in my IN MY
141. 4:36HOUSE MADE FOR [ __ ] And my girl is
142. 4:38like, "Hey, you guys need water?" And
143. 4:40I'm like, "Yeah." She's bringing down
144. 4:41everybody some water. We eating steaks
145. 4:43and she's upstairs not bugging me. And
146. 4:45I'm sitting there going
147. 4:46"When you going to get rid of this [ __ ]
148. 4:47so we can have
149. 4:50Boy, you got yourself a good woman. When
150. 4:51this [ __ ] going to get out of here so
151. 4:52we CAN HAVE A ORGY, [ __ ] I WANT TO
152. 4:54[ __ ] ON TOP OF THIS TELEVISION. AND I'M
153. 4:56SITTING here like, "Hey, fellas, ain't
154. 4:58she a great girl?"
155. 5:00Don't give A [ __ ] ABOUT THAT. WHAT IT
156. 5:01TAKE IT DOES [ __ ] WITH YOU, MAN, when a
157. 5:03girl relentlessly
158. 5:05will not let you
159. 5:07She just will love you till you go
160. 5:10That's the That's the That's the saying
161. 5:11once you say I'm going to be in love. I
162. 5:13love my girl, BUT DUDE, I GOT TO STAY ON
163. 5:15HER, MAN. I got to watch her every
164. 5:17second of the day.
165. 5:19Cuz she will do SOMETHING UNCONSCIOUS
166. 5:22UNTIL I'M A UNATTRACTIVE [ __ ]
167. 5:24MAN. THE HER ATTRACTIVENESS TO ME IS
168. 5:26THAT I'M A SHE I'M A PILLOW.
169. 5:28It's your strength that makes you
170. 5:29attractive.
171. 5:30As soon as you change, it's a problem.
172. 5:31OUT-LOGIC HER, MAN. SHE CAN'T OUT-LOGIC
173. 5:34THERE'S BEEN TIMES SHE GOES, "FORGET IT.
174. 5:36I JUST GIVE UP." CUZ ALL YOU GOING TO DO
175. 5:38THIS IS HER [ __ ] ALL I'M GOING TO DO
176. 5:39when we argue is turn it around so that
177. 5:43she feels wrong.
178. 5:44That's her That's what she think now.
179. 5:46All you going to do is make me feel like
180. 5:48I'm wrong, which is just THE SECOND AS
181. 5:50DUMB AS I'VE EVER HEARD.
182. 5:51THAT'S second degree black belt, though.
183. 5:53BUT SHE JUST GAVE UP BUT in a in a
184. 5:55tricky way. I'mma tell you what she did
185. 5:57one day when I was feeling soft. She
186. 5:59goes like this. She said some [ __ ] I
187. 6:01forgot what she said. She said um
188. 6:04Yeah, something something It was
189. 6:06something that I should have checked her
190. 6:07on and I didn't.
191. 6:09And then I said, "Uh-oh, wait a minute.
192. 6:11Let me check her, right? What you say,
193. 6:12[ __ ] Did you just say?" And then she
194. 6:14goes, "I thought you was going to let me
195. 6:16get away WITH THIS SHIT."
196. 6:19SHE KARATE KICKED ME AND I DIDN'T KNOW
197. 6:21and she thought that [ __ ] hit me and
198. 6:23knocked me out and she was She was now
199. 6:25looking forward to the next level of
200. 6:27taking my [ __ ] so that she can feel
201. 6:29comfortable, dude. She hates me but she
202. 6:33loves me but she loves hating me, dude.
203. 6:35Does that make sense? She loves the
204. 6:37passion that her hatred for me has. It
205. 6:40gives her passion. LET ME TELL YOU
206. 6:41SOMETHING.
207. 6:42I TELL MY GIRL, "IF YOU EVER in your
208. 6:44life yell at another guy,
209. 6:47you might as well go with him.
210. 6:49If you If some guy you don't know evokes
211. 6:52passion in you that you yelling and
212. 6:55screaming and you hate some other
213. 6:57[ __ ] dude, that that Let me tell you,
214. 7:00women's hatred is just like love. It's
215. 7:03the same thing. It's passion. If a girl
216. 7:05has indifference towards you, like if a
217. 7:07chick If girls aren't getting mad at me,
218. 7:10right, for saying what I'm saying, THIS
219. 7:11IS A USELESS SHOW.
220. 7:13YOU GOT TO HAVE THEM IF THEY SIT THERE
221. 7:14AND GO AND dismiss me, like, "Okay, turn
222. 7:17from this. This guy is just corny." Not
223. 7:19turn from this, "Fuck him." Or turn from
224. 7:21this, "What is he talking about?" But
225. 7:23turn like, "Boring."
226. 7:25And really believe that, that's a chick
227. 7:26that's lost. She's like, "Fuck you."
228. 7:29WHEN YOUR GIRL GETS LIKE THAT AND SOME
229. 7:31GUY IN THE STREETS can evoke like
230. 7:34passion
231. 7:34anger in my girl, [ __ ] YOU KNOW WHAT I
232. 7:37PUT MY GIRL THROUGH to make her angry?
233. 7:39[ __ ] ANGER AND SHE loves me. So you
234. 7:41don't give out your emotions
235. 7:43frivolously, [ __ ] You give your
236. 7:45emotions you be selective. You don't be
237. 7:48hating nobody. You know WHAT I'M SAYING?
238. 7:50THAT'S I'M TELLING YOU IT'S CONSTANT. It
239. 7:53never stops, dude. I'm telling y'all.
240. 7:55Fellas, it never stops.
241. 7:59rest.
242. 7:59Cuz they pretend that what they're doing
243. 8:02is not malicious and it's not it's just
244. 8:05nature and so we have to be diligent and
245. 8:09purposeful to combat their their [ __ ]
246. 8:12belief system.
247. 8:13to be on guard.
248. 8:14The most you could hope for is a couple
249. 8:16of months rest. Where she's not trying
250. 8:19to get her belts. In between belts.
251. 8:22Where she calls you master. Yes, master.
252. 8:25But believe me, you're going to get
253. 8:26challenged.
254. 8:27Like my girl I'm you know, I'm diabetic,
255. 8:28man, right? I'm I'm trying to get my
256. 8:30health right.
257. 8:32And that is a thing that keeps her in
258. 8:34control. Like the fact that
259. 8:38she loves me enough to make me take care
260. 8:40of my health. So, take your pills. Did
261. 8:43you take your pills? It's It's because I
262. 8:45can't go, [ __ ] STOP CARING ABOUT MY
263. 8:47HEALTH.
264. 8:48MIND YOUR [ __ ] BUSINESS. I'LL
265. 8:50HAVE A HEART ATTACK IF I FEEL LIKE IT,
266. 8:51HO. THAT DON'T MAKE NO SENSE for me to
267. 8:54do that. BUT THAT THAT'S A THING that
268. 8:56keeps her in this state of like that's
269. 8:59my way to find a way to
270. 9:01control
271. 9:02something that that he has to listen to
272. 9:06and and and I can gain some type of
273. 9:08command and I look at her to let her
274. 9:11know that's what she's doing so that she
275. 9:13can go, look, I love you, just please
276. 9:15take you know, like where it's like, all
277. 9:16right. It gives me a desire beyond
278. 9:19myself because it's hard for yourself
279. 9:21sometimes to take care of yourself. So,
280. 9:23you know, it's like men are like have
281. 9:25this ego like even like with the mother
282. 9:27thing. I you know, I don't want to make
283. 9:28my mom look like a bad person, but if
284. 9:29she goes she she says to me, do
285. 9:32something and it's right. I don't want
286. 9:34to just say no cuz she's telling me. You
287. 9:37know what I mean? Sometimes you do, but
288. 9:39sometimes you as a man you go get them
289. 9:40get out of here, man. I'll I'll handle
290. 9:42everything. But sometimes you go, "Okay,
291. 9:44I'll I'll release myself
292. 9:47as long as you don't get abusive, which
293. 9:48is what happens to women. They become
294. 9:50abusive soon as they get a in. Soon as
295. 9:53you give them a inch, they take a mile.
296. 9:55They can't help it. But you can't be mad
297. 9:57about it. You can't hit them. You can't
298. 10:00choke them. You can't yell at them. You
299. 10:01have to be diligent till they get the
300. 10:04option in their head of okay, they have
301. 10:07to think first.
302. 10:08Okay, the [ __ ] am I getting ready to do
303. 10:11some righteous [ __ ] or am I getting
304. 10:13ready to do some drama [ __ ] just to get
305. 10:15his attention? Because it's not worth
306. 10:18what's going to happen because
307. 10:20if I need to talk to my girl for hour, I
308. 10:22talk to her for five till she's like
309. 10:26I'm going to die listening to this
310. 10:29[ __ ]
311. 10:30She cannot argue me. I'm going to out
312. 10:32I'm going to find a way cuz two things.
313. 10:34One, I feel like I'm right. Two, I'm a
314. 10:37guy and we're competitive.
315. 10:39I'm not going to lose to you as a girl.
316. 10:41Are you think I'm going to let you out
317. 10:43argue me?
318. 10:44Never.
319. 10:46I will I will I will do anything to make
320. 10:48your point stupid. The sun shines. NO,
321. 10:51IT DON'T, [ __ ]
322. 10:58WHAT YOU LOOKING AT?
323. 10:59ARE YOU CRAZY?
324. 11:01IT DOESN'T SHINE. YOU KNOW, IT'S JUST
325. 11:03you got to be like that. Dude, sometimes
326. 11:06like if you RAISING A CHILD, SOMETIMES
327. 11:08eight and you know, man, sometimes eight
328. 11:09out of the 10 you might be right eight
329. 11:12times and two times you are horribly
330. 11:14wrong, but it it's worth it to be right
331. 11:16the eight times and then sneak in that
332. 11:19you were wrong the other two by buying
333. 11:21them a goofy doll or, you know, giving
334. 11:23them a ice cream sandwich. Okay, sorry.
335. 11:26That's your sorry. But the eight times
336. 11:28you need it. You need that [ __ ] man.
337. 11:30I'm telling you.