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1. 0:00On a weekend morning, a husband
2. 0:01exhausted from a week of overtime walked
3. 0:03into the living room, looking disheveled
4. 0:04.
5. 0:05His wife, who had been folding piles of
6. 0:06laundry and mopping the floor since
7. 0:08morning, was already worn out from
8. 0:09handling the housework alone. Seeing the
9. 0:11messy living room, the husband felt
10. 0:13sorry and reached for the vacuum cleaner
11. 0:14. At that moment, his wife sighed and
12. 0:17said. "They say Jieun's husband takes
13. 0:19the kids camping every weekend, but you
14. 0:21just sleep all the time." The husband
15. 0:23pulled back the hand he had reached out
16. 0:24. "Then go live in that house." He
17. 0:26blurted out curtly and shut the bedroom
18. 0:28door.
19. 0:29The wife only wanted her husband to be a
20. 0:31little more affectionate and proactive.
21. 0:33The husband only wanted his wife to
22. 0:35acknowledge the weight on his shoulders
23. 0:36after a long week. But the moment she
24. 0:38brought up another man instead of making
25. 0:40an honest request like "Could you vacuum
26. 0:41for me?", the regret turned into
27. 0:43resentment and the conversation turned
28. 0:44into a fight.
29. 0:45Nietzsche said this. "Can you hold good
30. 0:47conversations with this person until you
31. 0:49grow old?" Everything else in marriage
32. 0:51is fleeting. When choosing someone to
33. 0:53marry, you shouldn't look for fancy
34. 0:54credentials.
35. 0:55You should see if they are someone who
36. 0:57won't judge your humble day by comparing
37. 0:58it to others 'brightest moments when you
38. 1:00are exhausted and down.
39. 1:01Anyone can be a good person on a good
40. 1:03day. But marriage is not about spending
41. 1:06good days together; it is about enduring
42. 1:07the lacking days together. Between the
43. 1:09one who looks at other people's lives on
44. 1:10those lacking days and the one who looks
45. 1:12at your own burdens. Marriage is about
46. 1:14choosing the latter. So, do not look for
47. 1:16someone better. Choose someone who will
48. 1:18look at you with eyes on your side, even
49. 1:20on your worst days.
50. 1:22The content just shared is from the book
51. 1:23, "Nietzsche's Life Lessons."