Outro Emotional Intelligence With Uncle Larry — Transcript

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1. 0:00all right guys video lesson three here
2. 0:02with my uncle larry hey guys we're going
3. 0:04to talk a little bit this time about
4. 0:07emotional intelligence and
5. 0:09specifically how you think that it can
6. 0:12be applied to trading and everything in
7. 0:14life absolutely so as i said in an
8. 0:17earlier video emotional intelligence is
9. 0:20the cornerstone to everything we do it's
10. 0:22really the correspond to our mental
11. 0:23health um so whether it's trading
12. 0:26relationships
13. 0:28you know you're
14. 0:29if you're athletics uh if you're um
15. 0:33still studying for anything helping you
16. 0:35just do a better job helping your kids
17. 0:37you know if you have have kids yourself
18. 0:39and you want to help them uh develop in
19. 0:42a healthier manner to teach them how to
20. 0:44use their emotions
21. 0:45so one of the terms i really
22. 0:48don't like a lot is is like anger
23. 0:51management anger management to me sounds
24. 0:54like anger's this bad thing that we have
25. 0:56to
26. 0:56control where in reality anger is one of
27. 0:59the most powerful emotions we have and
28. 1:02a really important emotion
29. 1:04the trick is how do we use it just
30. 1:06because we're angry at somebody doesn't
31. 1:08mean we got to punch him
32. 1:09so being able to interpret your feelings
33. 1:11whether it's anger or sadness or
34. 1:15anxiety
35. 1:17and being able to say what is that
36. 1:18really telling me it tells you something
37. 1:20has to change and then
38. 1:22from there how do you change it so in
39. 1:24the following videos which will not
40. 1:27unfortunately be with jack i'll be doing
41. 1:29those on my own but i'm going to teach
42. 1:31you guys how to use some of these skills
43. 1:33and develop your emotional intelligence
44. 1:36a lot of this stuff
45. 1:38again it's not going to be just towards
46. 1:40trading it's got to be towards life in
47. 1:41general but if you do these things and
48. 1:44practice them you will see it impacting
49. 1:47every aspect of your life including your
50. 1:49trading okay
51. 1:51so
52. 1:52i'm hoping that this is something that
53. 1:53can really be helpful to you guys and uh
54. 1:56and
55. 1:57you know get some feedback from jack and
56. 1:59tim over uh
57. 2:01over the months and see what they think
58. 2:03yeah so before i
59. 2:06even really started to um find any
60. 2:09traction in my trading you know i would
61. 2:11always go to family events in 2017 2018
62. 2:142019
63. 2:15whatever it was and i would always talk
64. 2:17to uncle larry for a good deal of time
65. 2:20just about like where i am and how i
66. 2:22feel and what i'm learning and what's
67. 2:24going on
68. 2:25and
69. 2:27really that was a great time for me to
70. 2:29really just learn from what uncle larry
71. 2:32just had to say to me and i always took
72. 2:35those things to
73. 2:36to heart because
74. 2:38he always sounded um
75. 2:41and he always was looking out for my
76. 2:42best interest and how i could get better
77. 2:46and how i could keep moving forward and
78. 2:48how i could not let negative things that
79. 2:50are happening whether i'm taking losses
80. 2:52or i'm in a bad position or whatever how
81. 2:54i could just keep moving on without um
82. 2:57feeling these emotions and kind of just
83. 3:00mastering these emotions so
84. 3:03before um
85. 3:04i'm sure he wasn't even really you know
86. 3:06trying to to help me he was just doing
87. 3:09what he's really really good at and he's
88. 3:11just talking to um talking to me and
89. 3:14just
90. 3:15giving me this sense of calmness that
91. 3:17things are going to be okay because i
92. 3:18did have a lot of anxiety back in those
93. 3:20days where i felt like maybe i wasn't
94. 3:23going to make it and like i said i was
95. 3:24thinking about quitting and giving up so
96. 3:26talking with you really really helped me
97. 3:28and i think that
98. 3:30uncle larry can also help you guys out
99. 3:32there especially if you're a new trader
100. 3:34and you're struggling with
101. 3:36your emotions so definitely uh give give
102. 3:40uncle larry a follow give him a try
103. 3:42and
104. 3:44i'm telling you i have all the faith in
105. 3:46the world
106. 3:47and um in him and he is a really good
107. 3:50person to talk to
108. 3:52and i'm sure he will help you in every
109. 3:54aspect of your life just not trading
110. 3:56multi-dimensional as well
111. 3:57jack that was really nice and a little
112. 3:59humbling to hear that um
113. 4:02but really you know it's it's about
114. 4:04you
115. 4:05and you guys following your dreams and
116. 4:08sometimes we get told by you know our
117. 4:11parents or our loved ones um to be
118. 4:14practical and they mean the best they
119. 4:16really do they they want us to be safe
120. 4:17they want us to be successful
121. 4:19and there is that balance of you know
122. 4:22chasing a dream that
123. 4:24isn't going to happen
124. 4:25but also you know just taking the safe
125. 4:28path
126. 4:29that's where your emotional intelligence
127. 4:31will help you and you know
128. 4:33jack took some risks but they weren't
129. 4:35crazy risks they really weren't he took
130. 4:38calculated risks and that led to him
131. 4:41being able to live his dream um that's
132. 4:43what we want for you guys too and and
133. 4:45you know what this is my dream to be
134. 4:47able to kind of do this kind of work
135. 4:49with you guys and just you know
136. 4:51people i talk to so
137. 4:54anyway
138. 4:55thank you very much uh again as jack
139. 4:57said um
140. 5:00follow me on twitter now and uh larry
141. 5:03blackwell
142. 5:04follow jack if you're not already
143. 5:06jackaroo trades
144. 5:08check out tim sykes training videos
145. 5:10again those are uh the key foundation
146. 5:13point
147. 5:14but hopefully uh i can
148. 5:16share some stuff with you guys that will
149. 5:18help your lives in all aspects
150. 5:21all right
151. 5:22all right see you guys take care guys
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