Once You Understand How Frequency Works, You Become Dangerously Magnetic — Transcript
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- 0:00You have met someone like this. They
- 0:02walk into a room and something in it
- 0:04changes. Not because they are loud. Some
- 0:06of them barely speak. Things just move
- 0:08toward them. Opportunities, people,
- 0:11money usually, though that is the part
- 0:13people notice last. There is a word for
- 0:15what you were standing next to.
- 0:17Magnetic, dangerously so. And you have
- 0:19probably told yourself they were lucky
- 0:21or born that way or that it is simply
- 0:24personality.
- 0:25It is none of those three. There is a
- 0:27mechanism underneath it. and almost
- 0:29nobody explains it. So why them and not
- 0:32you? You have worked harder than most of
- 0:34the people you know. You have been
- 0:36decent. You did what you were told would
- 0:38work. The saving, the hoping, the
- 0:40getting up and trying again in the
- 0:41morning. And somewhere along the way,
- 0:43you started to suspect that effort was
- 0:45not the thing because you have supplied
- 0:47plenty of effort and the shape of your
- 0:48life has not changed much. That
- 0:50suspicion is correct. And the reason is
- 0:53not the one you have been carrying. So
- 0:55here is what I am going to do over the
- 0:56next few minutes. First, I will show you
- 0:59what frequency actually is. Not the
- 1:01vague version you have heard a hundred
- 1:02times. The mechanical one in plain
- 1:05English with nothing you have to take on
- 1:07faith. Then I will give you the four
- 1:09steps that change it. There are only
- 1:11four. And the fourth is where almost
- 1:12everybody fails. And last, and this is
- 1:15the part I want you to stay for, I am
- 1:17going through the misconceptions. Five
- 1:19of them. They are the reason good people
- 1:21do this work for years and get nothing.
- 1:23And hardly anyone will say them out
- 1:25loud. Before any of that, one thing.
- 1:27[music] Nobody ever explained this to
- 1:29you. Not your parents, who did not know
- 1:31it themselves. Not school. Not the
- 1:33church, though the church comes closer
- 1:35than most. You were handed a world and
- 1:37told that the way to change your
- 1:38position in it was to work. And you did
- 1:40that faithfully for decades. You were
- 1:42not lazy. You were not doing it wrong.
- 1:45[sighs] You were working on the wrong
- 1:47part. Here is the mechanism, and I want
- 1:49you to picture it rather than think
- 1:50about it. You remember a radio with a
- 1:52dial, a real one, a needle sliding
- 1:55across a lit strip, and a knob you
- 1:56turned with your fingers until something
- 1:58came in clear. Now, every station on
- 2:01that strip is playing right now. All of
- 2:03them at the same time. The orchestra,
- 2:05the ball game, the preacher, the farm
- 2:07report. They do not take turns. They are
- 2:10in the room you are sitting in at this
- 2:11moment, passing straight through you.
- 2:13But you hear one. And which one you hear
- 2:15has nothing to do with which is
- 2:17strongest or which deserves it or which
- 2:19you would prefer. It has to do with one
- 2:21thing only, where the needle is sitting.
- 2:24Move it an eighth of an inch and the
- 2:26orchestra is gone and the ball game is
- 2:28there instead. The orchestra did not
- 2:30stop playing. You stopped receiving it.
- 2:32Your life works exactly this way. And
- 2:35there is one station almost everybody in
- 2:37this country is parked on without ever
- 2:38knowing its name. I will tell you what
- 2:40it is in a minute. The station most
- 2:42people are tuned to is called Not Yet.
- 2:45Not Yet. Not for me. Not this year.
- 2:48Maybe when things settle down. It plays
- 2:50underneath everything so constantly that
- 2:52you stopped hearing it as a sound a long
- 2:54time ago. It is just what the room
- 2:56sounds like. And everything in your life
- 2:58right now, the number in your account,
- 3:00the work you do, the way people speak to
- 3:02you is not a judgment on you. It is not
- 3:05punishment and it is not luck. It is
- 3:07reception. It is what comes through when
- 3:09the needle is parked there. Which means
- 3:11the thing you have been trying to fix
- 3:13was never the thing. You have been
- 3:15moving the furniture around a room while
- 3:16the radio plays the same station it has
- 3:18played for 40 years.
- 3:21Let me say one thing here then leave it
- 3:23alone. If you are still with me 4
- 3:25minutes into something like this, you
- 3:26are not browsing. You have been carrying
- 3:29something for a long while and you have
- 3:30tried the easy answers and they did not
- 3:32hold. So subscribe if you want to. Not
- 3:36as a kindness to me because what I just
- 3:38told you is one idea and one idea has
- 3:40never changed anybody's life. What
- 3:42changes a life is hearing a thing enough
- 3:44times that you stop arguing with it.
- 3:47That is all this channel is. People who
- 3:49heard it once and came back. That is
- 3:51all. Let us keep going. None of this is
- 3:53mine, by the way. A man named Neville
- 3:56Goddard was saying it in lecture halls
- 3:57in the 1940s and50s to rooms full of
- 4:00ordinary people who had come through a
- 4:02depression and a war and wanted to
- 4:04understand why their lives looked the
- 4:06way they did. And the line he kept
- 4:07returning to was this. Man moves in a
- 4:10world that is nothing more than his own
- 4:12consciousness objectified, which sounds
- 4:14like a great deal until you hear what it
- 4:16actually says. The world you are walking
- 4:18around in is the outside of what is
- 4:20going on inside you. Not a reward for
- 4:22it, not a response to it, the outside of
- 4:25it. Now, here is the part that makes the
- 4:27difference and it is the part people are
- 4:29almost never told. [music] A radio set
- 4:31does not only receive, it also puts
- 4:33something out. Whatever station you are
- 4:35sitting on, you are broadcasting it not
- 4:37in words. In how you hold your shoulders
- 4:39walking into a bank, in what your face
- 4:41does in the half second before you
- 4:43answer a question about money, in which
- 4:45opportunities you say out loud and which
- 4:47ones you let go past without mentioning,
- 4:49people read it immediately, not
- 4:51consciously, they just come away with a
- 4:53feeling about you. And the feeling is
- 4:55accurate because you transmitted it.
- 4:57Think about the person I opened with the
- 4:59one things move toward. They are not
- 5:01doing anything to anybody. They are
- 5:02broadcasting a station where it has
- 5:04already worked out and every person and
- 5:06every opportunity within range is
- 5:08responding to that signal rather than to
- 5:10anything they said. That is what
- 5:12magnetic is. It is not charm and it is
- 5:15not confidence. It is a transmission
- 5:18and it is coming off you right now
- 5:20whether you meant it to or not. And here
- 5:22is why it holds so well. It runs in a
- 5:25circle and the circle feeds itself.
- 5:28Start anywhere. Start with what you
- 5:30believe you are. A person who has always
- 5:32had to be careful. That belief produces
- 5:35a feeling and the feeling is not an
- 5:37opinion. It is physical.
- 5:40A tightening across the chest when the
- 5:41mail comes. A particular way of
- 5:43breathing when you open the account.
- 5:45That feeling decides what you do. You do
- 5:47not apply. You do not ask. You take the
- 5:50smaller thing because the bigger one
- 5:51felt like a reach. You say no to the
- 5:53dinner because of what it would cost.
- 5:55And you say it lightly so nobody [music]
- 5:57notices. And those choices produce
- 5:59results. modest ones, careful ones. And
- 6:02then this is the part that locks the
- 6:04door. You look at the results and you
- 6:05think, well, there it is. That is who I
- 6:08am. A person who has always had to be
- 6:10careful. You have just proved your own
- 6:12case using evidence you made yourself.
- 6:15Round and round for 30 years. Not
- 6:17because anything is wrong with you,
- 6:19because nobody ever told you that you
- 6:20were allowed to start the circle
- 6:22somewhere else. Which is why working
- 6:24harder has never shifted it. You can
- 6:26take the second job. You can get the
- 6:27raise. And four months later, the number
- 6:29is back where it was because something
- 6:31came due or something broke or it simply
- 6:33went in a way you cannot fully account
- 6:35for. [sighs and gasps] That is not bad
- 6:37luck arriving on a schedule. That is a
- 6:39station playing. You added volume. You
- 6:42did not change what was being played.
- 6:43And you cannot think your way out of it
- 6:45either. You can understand exactly where
- 6:47it came from. You can name the year it
- 6:49started and the person you got it from.
- 6:51I did that. I did it thoroughly. and the
- 6:53number did not move for two more years.
- 6:56Knowing where the needle is does not
- 6:57move the needle. Something has to
- 6:59actually turn the knob and that is a
- 7:01different kind of action than any you
- 7:02have been taking. So that is what
- 7:04frequency is, not a mood, not a
- 7:06vibration you have to hold up like a man
- 7:08balancing a plate on a stick. A setting,
- 7:11one setting which decides what comes in
- 7:13and what goes out and which has been
- 7:14sitting where it is for most of your
- 7:16life because nobody ever showed you the
- 7:18knob. In a moment I am going to show you
- 7:20how to move it. four steps and I will
- 7:22tell you now. The fourth is where almost
- 7:24everybody loses it, including me the
- 7:27first time. All right, four steps. I'll
- 7:29name them now so you know where we're
- 7:31going and then we'll take them one at a
- 7:32time. One, you decide who you are, not
- 7:36who you'd like to become. Two, you feel
- 7:38it before there's anything to see.
- 7:40Three, you make one choice today that
- 7:43the new version would make. And four,
- 7:45you hold it through the stretch where
- 7:46nothing's happening yet. That fourth one
- 7:49is where nearly everybody loses it. I'll
- 7:51tell you exactly what it feels like when
- 7:53we get there because if you can
- 7:54recognize it, you can survive it and
- 7:56most people can't. Nobody ever warned
- 7:58them it was coming. Step one, you
- 8:01decide. And I want to be careful with
- 8:03that word because it gets thrown around
- 8:04until it stops meaning anything. So, let
- 8:07me give you the difference between
- 8:08deciding and what you've actually been
- 8:10doing. Hoping is a request. It's
- 8:12addressed to somebody, the universe,
- 8:14God, luck, the manager, who might
- 8:16finally notice. [music] A request has to
- 8:19be received and granted by someone who
- 8:20isn't you, which means you've already
- 8:22handed the whole thing over before you
- 8:24finished the sentence. Deciding isn't
- 8:26addressed to anyone. You're not asking
- 8:28for a setting to be changed. You're
- 8:30changing it. And you've done this
- 8:32before, by the way. Think about how you
- 8:34decided you were somebody who's always
- 8:35had to be careful. You didn't apply for
- 8:37that. There was no ceremony and no
- 8:39particular Tuesday. At some point, it
- 8:42simply became what was true about you,
- 8:43and you've been living from inside it
- 8:45ever since without once checking whether
- 8:47it still had to be. You can do that
- 8:49again deliberately [music] in the other
- 8:51direction. It takes about 4 seconds,
- 8:54four words. But I'll say this before I
- 8:56give them to you. If you say them while
- 8:58you're still hoping, nothing happens at
- 9:00all. That's not me building it up.
- 9:02That's the entire difference between the
- 9:04people this works for and the people who
- 9:05tell me they tried it. Here they are. I
- 9:08am already living it. Let that sit for a
- 9:11second. I am already living it. Now look
- 9:14at what each piece is doing because this
- 9:16is built specifically to get past the
- 9:18thing that's killed every affirmation
- 9:19you've ever tried. [music] I am. Neville
- 9:22built his entire life's work on those
- 9:24two words. He said, "I am is the name of
- 9:27the creative power in you and that
- 9:29whatever you fasten to it stops being a
- 9:31description and becomes an assignment.
- 9:34You've been fastening things to it for
- 9:35years. I am broke. I am tired. I am the
- 9:39one who always goes without. You thought
- 9:41you were reporting the weather. You were
- 9:42writing the forecast already. This is
- 9:45the one doing the quiet work. Not soon.
- 9:48Not when the money comes. Not once
- 9:49things settle down. Already, which means
- 9:52there's no date in it. And a sentence
- 9:54with no date in it has no date to fail
- 9:56on. Living, not having. Having is a
- 9:58thing you own, and anything you own can
- 10:00be checked. Living is just how you're
- 10:03moving through a Tuesday. And nobody can
- 10:04audit that. Not even you. And it notice
- 10:08I never tell you what it is. That's
- 10:09deliberate. The second you name an
- 10:11amount, some part of you reaches for the
- 10:13account to see whether it's true. And
- 10:15that part wins every single time because
- 10:17it has evidence and you don't. Leave it
- 10:19unnamed and there's nothing to check it
- 10:21against. It goes straight through. Now,
- 10:23put it in writing, not in your head, in
- 10:25the comments where it's outside of you
- 10:27and somebody else can see it. There's a
- 10:29reason for that and it isn't engagement.
- 10:31A thought you had at 11 at night is a
- 10:33mood. A sentence you wrote down in
- 10:35public is a decision and your mind knows
- 10:37the difference even when you don't.
- 10:39Here's the format and the format matters
- 10:41more than you'd think. I am then your
- 10:43name. I am already living it. Then the
- 10:46life, not the amount, the life. So it
- 10:48reads like this. I am Carol. I am
- 10:51already living it. Debtree and sleeping
- 10:53through the night. I am Raymond. I am
- 10:55already living it. Working because I
- 10:57want to, not because I have to. I am
- 10:59Denise. I am already living it. able to
- 11:02help my daughter without checking first.
- 11:04Notice what those have in common. Not
- 11:06one of them is a number. They're all a
- 11:08Tuesday. A specific ordinary Tuesday
- 11:10inside a life where the thing has
- 11:12already worked out [music] because
- 11:13that's what you're tuning to, not a lump
- 11:15sum. A way of living that a lump sum
- 11:17would only ever be the evidence of. Go
- 11:20and write yours. It takes 30 seconds and
- 11:22it's the only part of this video that
- 11:24does anything by itself. And while
- 11:25you're down there, subscribe. Here's my
- 11:28reasoning, then I'll leave it alone.
- 11:29What you just did was turn a knob once.
- 11:32Once is a beginning. Once is also where
- 11:34most people's attempt ends because on
- 11:36Thursday the old station comes back in
- 11:38and there's nobody around to tell them
- 11:40that's normal and to hold their
- 11:41position. That's what this channel is,
- 11:43not inspiration. [music]
- 11:45Repetition. A thing said to you often
- 11:47enough that eventually you stop arguing
- 11:48with it, [music] which is the only way
- 11:50anybody's state has ever genuinely
- 11:52changed. So, if you'd rather still be
- 11:54holding this in a month than remembering
- 11:56it as a video you watched once,
- 11:58subscribe and let the next one find you.
- 12:00That's all. Back to it. Step two, you
- 12:03feel it before there's anything to see.
- 12:06This is where most people go wrong
- 12:07because they assume this step means
- 12:09visualizing, picturing the check,
- 12:11picturing the house, seeing the number
- 12:13on the screen. It isn't. And here's why.
- 12:16A picture is something you look at,
- 12:18which means you're still outside of it
- 12:19watching the way you'd watch it happen
- 12:21to somebody else. and your mind files it
- 12:24exactly like that as a nice thing
- 12:26happening over there to a person who
- 12:28isn't you. What changes the setting
- 12:30isn't the picture, it's the body. So
- 12:33tomorrow morning before you're properly
- 12:34awake while you're still soft and your
- 12:36guard hasn't come up yet. And that
- 12:38stretch between sleeping and waking is
- 12:40the one Neville cared about more than
- 12:42any other, by the way. Take about 90
- 12:44seconds and don't picture anything at
- 12:46all. Ask one question instead. How does
- 12:49my body sit in a life where this has
- 12:51already worked out? Then let your body
- 12:53answer because it will. The shoulders
- 12:55come down about half an inch. The jaw
- 12:57lets go and you probably didn't know you
- 12:59were holding it. The breath drops lower
- 13:01in the chest. There's a particular
- 13:03looseness through the stomach that you
- 13:05felt maybe four times in your adult
- 13:06life, usually on the second day of a
- 13:08holiday. That's the [music] state.
- 13:10That's the whole thing, not the house.
- 13:13The way a man sits in a chair on an
- 13:15ordinary morning when the money question
- 13:16has gone quiet. 90 seconds. Then get up
- 13:20and make the coffee. Step three, one
- 13:22choice today. Frequency isn't real until
- 13:25it moves through your hands. You can
- 13:26decide and you can feel it. And if
- 13:29nothing in your actual Tuesday changes,
- 13:31then you've had a pleasant morning and
- 13:32nothing more. But I'm not asking you to
- 13:34overhaul your life. And I want to be
- 13:36clear about that because the usual
- 13:38advice at this point is take massive
- 13:40action. And for most people, that's just
- 13:42a new and more exhausting way to fail by
- 13:44Friday. One choice today. One decision
- 13:48the already living it version of you
- 13:49would make without stopping to think
- 13:51about it. It'll be small. That isn't a
- 13:53problem. That's the point. Make the call
- 13:55you've been putting off because you
- 13:57assumed the answer was no. Ask what the
- 13:59rate would be instead of deciding in
- 14:01advance that you can't afford it. Say
- 14:03yes to the thing on Saturday. Put $10
- 14:05aside instead of the nothing you were
- 14:07going to put aside. Not because $10
- 14:09matters, but because of who puts money
- 14:11aside. And here's why this works. And it
- 14:13isn't willpower. Every one of those
- 14:15choices is evidence. And you're the one
- 14:18filing it. Your whole life, the circle
- 14:20has run in one direction. The belief
- 14:22made the feeling. The feeling made the
- 14:24choice. The choice made the proof.
- 14:26You're reaching into the middle of that
- 14:27and placing one piece of proof that
- 14:29doesn't belong to the old station. Do
- 14:31that today. And the circle has something
- 14:33in it that it cannot explain. Step four.
- 14:36And this is the one. I told you at the
- 14:38start that the fourth step is where
- 14:40nearly everybody loses it. So here it
- 14:42is. You turn the dial and the new
- 14:44station doesn't come in clean. There's a
- 14:46stretch first. Static hiss. Sometimes a
- 14:50few seconds of the old station bleeding
- 14:51back through. In radio they call that
- 14:53dead air. And it's exactly the right
- 14:56name for what happens next in your life.
- 14:58Because you'll do all of this. You'll
- 14:59decide. You'll feel it. You'll make the
- 15:02choice. And then Wednesday will arrive
- 15:04and look precisely like every Wednesday
- 15:06that came before it. The account will
- 15:07say what it said. The phone won't ring.
- 15:10Nothing will have visibly moved. That's
- 15:12the dead air. It isn't failure and it
- 15:14isn't a sign you did it wrong. It's the
- 15:16ordinary gap between a setting changing
- 15:18and the world catching up to the
- 15:20setting. But here's what people do
- 15:21inside it. And it's so natural you'd
- 15:23never catch yourself doing it. About 4
- 15:25days in, with nothing to show, you
- 15:27quietly go back. Not dramatically. You
- 15:30don't announce it. You just stop saying
- 15:32it. You start checking the account the
- 15:33old way. And within a week, you're on
- 15:35not yet again. And you've decided this
- 15:37doesn't work for people like you. You
- 15:39didn't fail at it. You turn the dial
- 15:41back during the static. So, here's the
- 15:43rule, and it's the only hard one in this
- 15:45video. During the dead air, you do
- 15:47nothing. You don't adjust. You don't try
- 15:50harder. You don't go hunting for a
- 15:52better method on somebody else's
- 15:53channel. You hold the setting, and you
- 15:55let it hiss. That's the whole of step
- 15:57four. Hold it while nothing is
- 15:59happening. So four, decide instead of
- 16:03hoping. Feel it in the body before
- 16:05there's anything to see. Make one choice
- 16:07today that the new version makes without
- 16:09thinking and hold the setting through
- 16:11the dead air which is coming and which
- 16:13means nothing. That's the method.
- 16:15There's nothing else to it and nothing
- 16:16to buy. But it still doesn't work for
- 16:18most people and the rest of this video
- 16:20is why. Right? This is the part I told
- 16:23you to stay for. Five things people have
- 16:25wrong about this. And I don't mean
- 16:27beginners. I mean, people who've been at
- 16:29this seriously for years and getting
- 16:30nothing and can't work out why. Every
- 16:33one of these is a place where the
- 16:34standard advice isn't just unhelpful,
- 16:36it's backwards. The fifth one changes
- 16:39how people treat you, not how you feel,
- 16:41how they behave around you. So stay with
- 16:44me to the end of this part. [music]
- 16:45Number one, feeling bad doesn't mean
- 16:47you've broken it. This stops more people
- 16:50than anything else, and it stops the
- 16:51sincere ones hardest. [music] You do the
- 16:5490 seconds in the morning. You hold it
- 16:56beautifully. And then at 2:00 in the
- 16:58afternoon, a letter arrives or your son
- 17:00calls about something and the whole
- 17:02thing drops out from under you. The
- 17:04chest goes tight. The old worry walks
- 17:06back in like it never left. And here's
- 17:08what you do next. And this is the actual
- 17:11mistake. You think, "Well, I've ruined
- 17:13it. I was at the right frequency and now
- 17:16I'm not. So, it's undone and I'll have
- 17:18to start again tomorrow." That's not
- 17:20what happened. Feeling something low
- 17:22isn't a failure of the method. It's
- 17:24information. It's showing you exactly
- 17:26where the old setting is still holding
- 17:27on, which is useful because now you know
- 17:30where it lives. Neville never taught a
- 17:32life with no fear in it. He taught a man
- 17:34who notices the fear and doesn't take it
- 17:36as the final word on the matter. The
- 17:38goal was never to feel good all day. No
- 17:41adult has ever managed that, and nobody
- 17:43with a mortgage ever will. The goal is
- 17:46not to live down there. There's a
- 17:47difference between weather passing
- 17:49through a house and moving into the
- 17:50basement. So, when the drop comes and
- 17:53it'll come today or tomorrow, you don't
- 17:55have to fix it and you don't have to
- 17:57pretend it isn't happening. You notice
- 17:59it. You name it. That's the old station
- 18:01still playing in the next room. And then
- 18:03you get on with your afternoon. Number
- 18:06two, and it follows straight on. Good
- 18:08vibes only is not a high frequency.
- 18:11There's an enormous amount of advice out
- 18:12there telling you to stay positive. Keep
- 18:15your energy up. Don't let anything in.
- 18:17Smile. I understand why that's
- 18:19appealing. It also doesn't work. And
- 18:21there's a mechanical reason. Remember
- 18:23what we said in the first part. You're
- 18:25broadcasting whatever you're actually
- 18:26sitting on, not what you're displaying,
- 18:29what you're sitting on. So, if you're
- 18:31smiling at the church social while
- 18:32underneath you're running the numbers on
- 18:34Tuesday's bill, the smile isn't what's
- 18:36going out. The arithmetic is. Every
- 18:38person in that room is picking up the
- 18:40arithmetic, and not one of them could
- 18:42tell you how they know, but they come
- 18:44away certain that something's wrong.
- 18:46Suppressing a thing doesn't change your
- 18:47frequency. It puts a lid on it and
- 18:49leaves the frequency exactly where it
- 18:51was, broadcasting from under the lid.
- 18:54What actually works is slower and a good
- 18:56deal less flattering. You let the thing
- 18:58be there. You feel it without building a
- 19:00story on top of it. And the story is the
- 19:03dangerous part, not the feeling. The
- 19:05feeling lasts about 20 seconds. The
- 19:07story lasts 3 hours. Then you choose
- 19:10from a place where you've admitted
- 19:12what's true. That's a high frequency,
- 19:14not cheerfulness, honesty followed by a
- 19:17decision. A man who can say out loud
- 19:19that he's frightened and then set the
- 19:21setting anyway is broadcasting something
- 19:23far stronger than a man performing
- 19:25contentment with his jaw clenched. Let
- 19:27me stop here a moment because this is a
- 19:28good place to do something small. Go
- 19:30down to the comments and find somebody
- 19:32else's, not to agree with it, to read
- 19:34one properly. Somebody has written down
- 19:37the life they're reaching for in public
- 19:39under their own name on a Saturday. And
- 19:41most of them have nobody at all who
- 19:43knows they did it. They haven't told
- 19:45their husband. They haven't told their
- 19:46daughter. They typed it to strangers
- 19:48because strangers felt safer. Find one
- 19:50whose life sounds like it might be near
- 19:52yours and write them a line back. It
- 19:54doesn't have to be clever. That's a good
- 19:56one. I hope you get it. I'm doing this,
- 19:58too. And I'll tell you why that matters.
- 20:00Because it isn't what you'd assume.
- 20:02You've spent this whole video learning
- 20:04that your state decides what comes back
- 20:06to you. The fastest way to change a
- 20:08state quicker than 90 seconds in the
- 20:10morning, quicker than anything else I've
- 20:12given you, is to be for about 10 seconds
- 20:14the kind of person who encourages
- 20:16somebody who's struggling. You can't do
- 20:18that from inside scarcity. It simply
- 20:20isn't available down there. So, doing it
- 20:22pulls you up deliberately, and the
- 20:24person you did it for gets the first
- 20:26encouragement they've had in a year.
- 20:28Both of you move. That's the whole
- 20:30reason. Go on, I'll wait. Number three,
- 20:33wanting it that badly is part of what's
- 20:35keeping it away. This one stings because
- 20:37wanting it badly feels like commitment.
- 20:40It feels like you care more than the
- 20:41people who aren't trying. But think
- 20:43about what wanting actually broadcasts.
- 20:45[music] Want is a statement about
- 20:47absence. Every time you want something
- 20:49with real intensity, the honest
- 20:51translation of what you're transmitting
- 20:53is, I do not have this. And the setting
- 20:56obliges. It isn't punishing you. It's
- 20:59reading what you sent and returning the
- 21:00matching station, which is more wanting.
- 21:03You already know this from everywhere
- 21:04else in your life. Think of a man who
- 21:06needs the job so badly it's coming off
- 21:09him in the interview. Everyone in that
- 21:10room feels it and it makes them uneasy
- 21:13and he doesn't get it. Not because he
- 21:15isn't good, because need is loud and
- 21:17it's unattractive and it overrides every
- 21:20sensible thing he said. Now, think of
- 21:22the other one. The person who'd be glad
- 21:24to have it and would also be perfectly
- 21:26all right without it. They get offered
- 21:28things constantly and from the outside
- 21:30it looks like luck. It isn't luck. It's
- 21:33the absence of need in the signal. Which
- 21:35is exactly why the sentence is what it
- 21:37is. I am already living it. Not I want
- 21:40it. Not I'm working toward it. Already.
- 21:44Because already has no wanting in it.
- 21:46There is nothing in those four words
- 21:48that admits an absence. And that's
- 21:50precisely what lets them through. Stop
- 21:52reaching for it and start sitting in it.
- 21:54That's the whole shift. Number four, you
- 21:57can't do this sitting still. And I want
- 22:00to be very plain here because this is
- 22:02where the whole subject gets a bad name
- 22:04and deservedly. You cannot think your
- 22:06way into a different life while living
- 22:08exactly the same one. You can hold the
- 22:10state perfectly at 7 in the morning. And
- 22:12if your Tuesday is identical to every
- 22:14Tuesday that came before it, the state
- 22:16has nowhere to land. The setting changes
- 22:19what you notice and what you're willing
- 22:20to do. But something still has to be
- 22:23done. Here's what it actually looks like
- 22:25when it's working. You hold the state
- 22:27and then something small and slightly
- 22:29odd shows up. A message from somebody
- 22:31you haven't spoken to in 2 years. A name
- 22:34mentioned in a conversation that wasn't
- 22:36about work. A price that comes in lower
- 22:38than you'd braced for. It's always
- 22:40small. It's always deniable. And your
- 22:43job is to move on it. Reply to the
- 22:45message. Follow the name up. Ask the
- 22:47question. That's what step three was
- 22:49for. One choice a day, not a
- 22:52transformation. a door you walk through
- 22:54instead of noticing and letting it
- 22:56close. The people who get results from
- 22:58this aren't sitting in a chair with
- 22:59their eyes shut hoping. They're the ones
- 23:02who held the setting and then answered
- 23:03the phone. And number five, the one I
- 23:06told you to wait for. It isn't other
- 23:08people's energy holding you back. You'll
- 23:10hear a great deal about this. Protect
- 23:12your field. Cut out the low vibration
- 23:14people. Be careful who you let near you.
- 23:17And there's something in it. Who you
- 23:18spend your evenings with matters. But if
- 23:21your state depends on everybody around
- 23:22you behaving well, then it isn't your
- 23:24state. You've handed the dial to a
- 23:26committee. And here's where this ends
- 23:28up, which is the best part of the whole
- 23:30thing. Once you can hold a setting,
- 23:32regardless of the room, not by avoiding
- 23:34difficult people, but by being genuinely
- 23:36unbothered by them, something turns
- 23:38around. You stop being the one who gets
- 23:40influenced. You become the one doing the
- 23:43influencing. You walk into your
- 23:45daughter's kitchen in the middle of an
- 23:46argument, and it settles, and nobody
- 23:48could tell you why. You sit down across
- 23:50from somebody who's been dreading the
- 23:52conversation and they relax without
- 23:54deciding to. That's what magnetic
- 23:56actually means. Not that things come to
- 23:58you. That the room moves toward wherever
- 24:01you're already standing. One more thing,
- 24:02[music]
- 24:03and it's new. I open memberships on this
- 24:05channel this month. Here's why. I read
- 24:08every comment, and the people writing
- 24:10them are not who you'd assume. Not
- 24:12naive, not lazy. There are people who've
- 24:15held a household together on a number
- 24:16that should never have held one and who
- 24:18never said it out loud to anybody until
- 24:20they typed it under a video. You might
- 24:22have done that tonight. Whatever you
- 24:24think of yourself right now, that took
- 24:26something. And it isn't for everybody.
- 24:28It's for the ones who've already
- 24:29decided. Not hoping, decided. What it
- 24:33actually is is the dead air. That's the
- 24:36stretch I told you about in step four,
- 24:38the week where you've turned the dial
- 24:39and nothing's come in yet. And every
- 24:41instinct you have is telling you to turn
- 24:43it back. Almost nobody holds that alone.
- 24:46That's the entire reason the room
- 24:47exists. In there, I know your name
- 24:50instead of a username. I watch your
- 24:51first few weeks. Your question gets
- 24:53answered first, not eventually. It's
- 24:55less than a Starbucks coffee and the
- 24:57coffee's gone by 11. Don't if money's
- 25:00tight. I mean that. But if you've
- 25:02already decided, come in. I'd like to
- 25:04watch this happen for you. [snorts]
- 25:06All right, let me put the whole thing
- 25:08together so you can hold it tonight
- 25:10without coming back to rewind. One,
- 25:13every station is playing right now in
- 25:15the room you're sitting in. Which one
- 25:17you hear has nothing to do with which
- 25:18deserves it. It has to do with where the
- 25:20needle is sitting and yours has been
- 25:22parked on not yet for most of your life
- 25:24because nobody showed you there was a
- 25:26knob. Two, you're not only receiving,
- 25:29you're broadcasting. People read it
- 25:31before you speak and everything within
- 25:33range is responding to that signal
- 25:35rather than to anything you said. Three,
- 25:38four steps. Decide instead of hoping.
- 25:41Feel it in the body before there's
- 25:42anything to see. Make one choice today
- 25:45the new version makes without thinking
- 25:47and hold it through the dead air. Four,
- 25:50the sentence is I am already living it.
- 25:53It works because there's no date in it
- 25:54and no amount in it. So there's nothing
- 25:56for any part of you to check it against.
- 25:59Five, feeling bad hasn't broken it.
- 26:02Pretending isn't a high frequency.
- 26:04Wanting it that badly is keeping it
- 26:05away. And none of this works sitting
- 26:07still. Six. [music] And when you can
- 26:10hold the setting in any room at all, you
- 26:12stop being the one who gets influenced.
- 26:14The room starts moving toward you.
- 26:16That's all of it. There's nothing else
- 26:17to learn and nothing to buy before
- 26:19tonight. If you haven't written yours
- 26:21yet, write it now. Your name, the
- 26:24sentence, and the life. Not the amount,
- 26:26the life. Then find somebody else's and
- 26:28tell them you hope they get it because
- 26:30it costs you 10 seconds and it's the
- 26:32fastest way to move your own state that
- 26:34I know of. Then come back in a week and
- 26:36tell us what showed up. even if it's
- 26:38small, especially if it's small, because
- 26:41small is honestly what the first week
- 26:43looks like and nobody ever posts that
- 26:45part, which is exactly why somebody down
- 26:47there needs to read yours. And subscribe
- 26:49if you haven't, not as a favor to me,
- 26:52because a setting held once is a nice
- 26:54evening, and a setting held for a month
- 26:56is a different life. And the difference
- 26:58between those two is almost entirely
- 27:00whether anybody was still saying it to
- 27:01you in week three. Now, one last thing,
- 27:04and it's the piece I deliberately left
- 27:06out. Everything in this video happens
- 27:08while you're awake. You decide. You feel
- 27:11it. You hold the setting through the
- 27:12static, but there's a window that opens
- 27:14once every 24 hours, and it's stronger
- 27:17than anything daylight has to offer, and
- 27:19almost nobody uses it. Worse than that,
- 27:22most people run it perfectly every
- 27:24single night, pointed in exactly the
- 27:26wrong direction. It's the few minutes
- 27:28before you fall asleep. The part of you
- 27:30that argues has already clocked off, and
- 27:33whatever you're holding when you go
- 27:34under goes in without resistance. Of
- 27:36everything Neville taught across 40
- 27:38years, that window is the one he came
- 27:40back to hardest. [music] Nothing in the
- 27:42whole body of work moves faster. It's on
- 27:45your screen now. Click it before you go
- 27:46to bed tonight and you'll be running
- 27:48both at once. I'll see you over there.
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