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0:00What if you could simply decide that
0:02things will work out and they did?
0:06What if there was this little secret
0:08about the way in which you relate to
0:11reality that determines literally what
0:14you perceive in your reality [music] and
0:18that when you are in the energy of
0:21wanting things to work out, you're in
0:24the energy of desire, which is lack.
0:27When you're in the energy of doing
0:30things to get somewhere else, you're in
0:33the energy of this moment right here is
0:35not good enough the way that it is.
0:37[snorts] But what if there was a way in
0:39which you could decide from the identity
0:41level that would completely transform
0:43your life from the inside out? This is
0:46exactly what I did back in 2017 that
0:49allowed me to go from a 9-to-five job
0:51goer selling women shoes to having over
0:54a 100,000 followers on YouTube within 6
0:56months and then also from YouTube into
0:59traveling the world running live events
1:01helping people transform live on stage.
1:04I made a choice at the level of the
1:07being the identity.
1:10So, in this video, I'm going to show you
1:12how to transform at the [music] level of
1:14being so that you decide to be that
1:16version of you every day. I'm going to
1:19show you how to transform old meaning
1:21and release old unprocessed emotion
1:23[music] from the body that's actually
1:25blocking what you want. And I'm going to
1:27show you how to actually let it be
1:29natural for your identity to be [music]
1:31in love, to be in connection, and to be
1:34in abundance and wealth as [music] well,
1:37even if it's never felt familiar to the
1:39past. So let's get into it right now.
1:43So for me back in 2017, what I did is I
1:47made a decision from the level of my
1:50identity.
1:52I made a decision to make videos every
1:55single day on YouTube, no matter what.
1:58And that was the process I was
2:00committing to.
2:02So recognize first off that your
2:05identity is what you commit to.
2:09You could in a way say it's what you
2:11decide and who you decide you are.
2:14But the thing to really understand with
2:16this entire process
2:18is it really is a matter of the energy
2:22you are embodying.
2:25This isn't a mental thing. Mental is a
2:28component of it. But here's where most
2:30people get blocked. Most people have one
2:34of three things that gets blocked inside
2:36of their body and their energy that
2:39literally blocks their frequency or
2:41blocks them from experiencing what they
2:43want. Either their thoughts are in
2:47contradictory alignment with what they
2:49want. So they may be consuming lots of
2:52content, focused on other things, or
2:56doubting that they can even accomplish
2:58what they want. even though they might
3:00be feeling it from a certain level in
3:02meditation and taking action. So belief
3:06is a part of it. The other second thing
3:08that might block people is maybe they're
3:11thinking of what they want and they're
3:13taking action
3:15but they feel repressed energy
3:18underneath the surface. They feel a
3:21certain level of shame
3:23and you can feel underneath their energy
3:25that they're not as magnetic as they
3:27could be because there's unprocessed
3:30energy under the surface.
3:33One of the things I've always understood
3:35about the content that I share on
3:37YouTube is that people feel what I feel.
3:41Like the energy that I feel in my body
3:44while I'm making videos is something
3:47that energetically people tune to.
3:50And even though I might be saying just
3:53about the same dang thing in a lot of
3:55videos,
3:57you might still be listening. You might
3:59find that every now and like, I've heard
4:01that before, but deeper.
4:03There's an energy there that draws you
4:05in because people feel what you feel.
4:09And the more you clean out your energy
4:12and release unprocessed energy
4:14underneath the surface, the more
4:16magnetic you are and the more people
4:18feel drawn to you.
4:20So part of the decision for you to
4:22become this new version of you is making
4:25a decision to process one of these three
4:29layers to see where your block might be.
4:32And there might be a block even under
4:34that that once you become aware of
4:36shifts everything that I'll share with
4:38you in a minute. So you could say that
4:40there's unprocessed energy there and
4:42that blocks you from deciding to do it.
4:45So for me back in 2012 when I or 2017
4:50when I made daily videos on YouTube
4:52there are a lot of emotional blocks that
4:54came up. I didn't feel credible. I was
4:57worried about what my friends from high
4:59school would think.
5:01And what happens is that energy would
5:04block me and I would then stop for
5:05making videos.
5:08But remember, a decision is something
5:11you decide from your level of being. I
5:14was being a full-time YouTuber in
5:16February of 2017.
5:19And part of being a YouTuber meant
5:22that if I'm going to take action every
5:25day, make videos every day, even if
5:28they're not doing that well, I knew that
5:31the more reps I put in, the more that
5:34that would become my dominant reality.
5:38I decided that I was going to commit to
5:40the process
5:42more than I was going to commit to
5:45needing to be some some way to get some
5:48other result to escape where I am in the
5:50present moment right now.
5:52So this is one of the keys that we'll
5:54talk about in a minute that changes
5:56everything. Okay. So first off now let's
5:59look where the other block might be. So
6:01there may be blocks around thinking,
6:04feeling or acting.
6:07And what my friend did from high school
6:08back in the day, he's like, "When I'm on
6:11tour and I'm a famous musician,
6:15when when" and then I remember we had
6:17this one friend that would like trigger
6:19him and he would say, "If" and then my
6:22friend would be like, "Don't say that.
6:23You're negative."
6:25No, if if that happens. Like, and here's
6:28the thing. When you begin to embody a
6:31new you, you may believe it, but if you
6:34are looking for other people to affirm
6:36that reality, you don't really believe
6:38it.
6:40If you really believe it, even in the
6:42face of other people, you're committed
6:45to the process. And it's okay.
6:48When I first got on YouTube, I remember
6:50seeing friends and even one of my one of
6:54my sisters, for example, she was like I
6:56was like, "Oh, I'd already started
6:57making daily videos." And she's like,
6:59"You going to go make videos for your I
7:01think 35 subscribers or 200 subscribers
7:04or whatever it was.
7:06I could have stopped in that moment, but
7:08I chose to keep going because I chose I
7:11decided that that is who I'm going to
7:13be." Do you see the difference in the
7:16energy there? A decision means to cut
7:19off other options.
7:23And to cut off other options means you
7:25commit.
7:26You commit to that version of you.
7:30And in a moment, I'm going to share with
7:32you a consciousness shift of this idea
7:34as well because we can learn it from
7:36this level. So, if you're watching this
7:38video right now, maybe something in that
7:41you just became aware of that maybe to
7:44decide something will work out and then
7:46it will. It's about realizing that your
7:50thinking, your feeling, and your acting.
7:53If one of these is not in alignment and
7:55you have blocks,
7:57the key is to become aware. Observe
8:00those. Observe the thinking, not
8:03identifying with it. Observe the
8:05emotions.
8:06Let it let it be there instead of trying
8:08to control it. And then taking action.
8:11Are you taking action or not?
8:14And committing to it means being it
8:16consistently even when it feels
8:17unfamiliar.
8:20[snorts] I remember for a long time even
8:22for uh when imposter syndrome would come
8:25up and I would see this like I would be
8:28like is this the real me? No the real me
8:30is the nineto-five job real me. One of
8:33the things I realized is that that 9
8:34toive job version of me was actually the
8:37real impostor
8:39because I was pretending for years to be
8:42a nineto-ive jobgo.
8:44But guess what? That wasn't really me.
8:47That was me still in a childhood
8:49pattern.
8:50That was me just playing out the
8:52dynamics that felt familiar to childhood
8:54where I had a boss tell me what to do
8:57and this is who I am and I don't like
8:59it, but it is the reality.
9:01I had to in a way break my core, break
9:04part of my core pattern to get into the
9:06energy
9:08of really being this new version of me.
9:12And it is here's the missing key for so
9:14many people watching this to really
9:16decide means there is most likely a core
9:20pattern from childhood you're going to
9:22have to begin to integrate.
9:26And that's the thing that always holds
9:28you back.
9:29Because if you have a childhood pattern
9:32around being afraid to be seen, well,
9:34guess what? When you start putting
9:36yourself out there, you start expressing
9:38the real you. You're going to be seen.
9:41When you're afraid of tension from other
9:44people and you start to actually express
9:46how you really feel, that's a block that
9:48will come up that will keep you in the
9:50childhood pattern that feels familiar.
9:54So, a big part of this decision that you
9:56make is about recognizing
9:59that you're making a decision, a choice
10:02to be the most authentic version of you.
10:06Not because of what it will get you, but
10:08because it's who you choose to be.
10:11And one of the things you want to become
10:12aware of also is what is your identity
10:14under the surface?
10:17And this is like part of the the deeper
10:19level here that we'll talk about for a
10:20moment. your identity, how you view
10:23yourself, you are thinking, feeling and
10:25acting equal to that identity.
10:28Until you become aware of that identity
10:32and become aware that that identity
10:34subconsciously is fighting to keep you
10:37in familiar, it will run your life.
10:40And making a decision literally means to
10:45abandon your old identity.
10:48Let that settle in for a moment. Your
10:51old identity has brought you safety.
10:54Your old identity has brought you, even
10:57if it's survival mode, it's got you by.
11:00So now what we're going to do is we're
11:03going to create a shift and we're going
11:04to decide that everything's going to
11:05work out. And we're going to start being
11:08this new version of ourselves.
11:10But there's a part of you that you're
11:12literally going to feel like you're
11:13abandoning.
11:15You might feel like you're going to be
11:17abandoned by friends and family if you
11:19step into a new you.
11:21You might feel like you're going to
11:22abandon a part of yourself.
11:25And something you want to realize is
11:27what you're really learning to do if you
11:29want the deeper level of this of how to
11:31move forward is you want to see, hear,
11:35soothe, and nurture that part of you
11:38that's afraid to be abandoned.
11:41the fra the part of you that's inside
11:42the the childhood pattern.
11:47So in a way when you think of this think
11:49of like
11:51when you make a choice from the level of
11:53an identity like I made a choice back in
11:562017 that I'm going to make daily videos
11:59that was coming from a level of
12:01presence.
12:03It wasn't just a mental thing. When I
12:05got into a flow state there was more
12:08presence underneath the surface.
12:10and people would feel what I felt. And
12:14that's what attracted people to my
12:15content. And that's why I went from zero
12:18to 100,000 followers in six months.
12:21Every time I showed up, I got more
12:23comfortable and familiar. Every time I
12:25showed up and I got into a flow state,
12:27something greater than me flow through.
12:30So that was the identity that was
12:32beginning to form inside of myself. But
12:35it wasn't an identity like I sat up
12:37every morning said I'm going to be
12:39YouTuber now. How do I model the
12:42actions? It wasn't a mental thing. It
12:44was a flow that happened as I released
12:47the old identity of the full-time
12:50version of myself.
12:52But what I had to do is I had to decide
12:55to get into the flow state. I had to
12:58decide to be more present.
13:01And part of that initiation is this.
13:05And if there's one thing you get from
13:06this video, I think this can completely
13:08transform your life.
13:10It's understanding that the block to
13:13this decision that everything will work
13:15out is partially a block because there's
13:19an old identity under the surface of who
13:24you believed you had to be as a kid in
13:27order to get your needs met,
13:30in order to get the approval or
13:31validation.
13:33So if as a kid you had one of the six
13:35core patterns as I call it, there's
13:38different core patterns. There's people
13:39pleasing,
13:41there's being invisible,
13:44there's controlling, self-reliance, and
13:46independence,
13:48overgiving.
13:50These are all different patterns.
13:53Perfectionism is another one. These are
13:55all patterns of who you had to be as a
13:57kid. Well, guess what? to make the
14:00decision to be that new version of you.
14:02One of these core patterns might be
14:05under the surface and you might feel
14:07like you're subconsciously leaving that
14:09part of yourself.
14:11And the key to this is to actually
14:13accept that part of you.
14:16I have a saying that goes, you can't
14:18change the pattern from the level of the
14:20pattern.
14:22You have to in a way accept that
14:24pattern, acknowledge it and then you
14:28begin to become more free because you
14:30begin to integrate another aspect of
14:32you.
14:34So one of the things to realize about
14:35this reality is that nothing has any
14:38built-in meaning other than the meaning
14:41you give it.
14:44Which means that at any moment you are
14:48the one that is choosing. Remember A
14:53B C
14:56always be choosing
14:58and what you are always choosing is the
15:00meaning you give things.
15:03And if I chose a meaning in 2017 of what
15:08brings me fulfillment for me to get into
15:10a flow state to be making videos
15:13and then I embody it and then I embody
15:16it again. And what happened after that?
15:20Oh yeah, I embodied it again.
15:23And you put in enough reps, it becomes a
15:25part of who you are.
15:28And what happened is with repetition
15:31that became something that I chose.
15:34But what a lot of people do is they
15:35choose it and then they let something
15:38else draw them away from it. They let
15:41doubt creep in because of what their
15:43friends or family will think.
15:46They let somebody else get in their ear
15:49and then they don't choose it anymore.
15:52They choose to instead be at the whims
15:54of other people.
15:56They choose to be back in the childhood
15:58pattern many times where things happen
16:01to you, not for you.
16:04So the key to this is recognizing that
16:07you do choose what things mean in your
16:09life. And at any moment if you give
16:12something a positive meaning,
16:16you can't help but get a positive effect
16:19out of it.
16:20Even if something negative happens and
16:23you give it a positive meaning, that may
16:26that positive meaning you give it will
16:28lead to more insights, more awareness
16:32or a better timeline due to that energy.
16:36It's a neutral thing though. Remember
16:38that you're the one giving things
16:40meaning.
16:42So you decide that things will work out
16:45and they will. It's just what is your
16:48definition for things working out?
16:51Because many people want to become a new
16:53version of themselves. But in order for
16:55it to work out, what that means is
16:57everything needs to be really really
16:59good and positive instead of the tension
17:02being created for you to become the
17:05version of you where these things are
17:07natural.
17:09When I look at my life over the last 8
17:12years, I've had a lot of amazing things
17:14that have happened in my life. I've also
17:16had a lot of things that were very
17:18challenging and hard.
17:20The things that were very challenging
17:22and hard were the some of the biggest
17:24gifts and the gold that allowed me to
17:27become the kind of person I am today
17:29where I can handle high stress
17:32experiences.
17:33I can handle going on stage in front of
17:36hundreds of people with no planned
17:38content whatsoever.
17:40I to get to this place now I had to go
17:42through some pretty uncomfortable
17:43emotions.
17:45So when I say decide everything will
17:47work out and it will understand this it
17:51will work out. But if you accept
17:53yourself on the journey and all the
17:56things that you'll experience along the
17:57way and see it as a part of the larger
18:00vision of the things you will learn, you
18:03will become the person where it is
18:05normal to your nervous system to be in
18:07that reality.
18:10Because it would be ridiculous to say
18:11just decide you will be given all of
18:13these things or win the lottery or get
18:16that job immediately when you apply and
18:18then if it doesn't you're like you said
18:20everything decide everything will happen
18:21and it will
18:24remember though you choose what meaning
18:27you give things and you choose when it's
18:28time to give up.
18:31I remember when I used to work at
18:33Nordstrom's in women's shoes at the rack
18:36I got paid hourly. I got paid like 10
18:38bucks an hour back in 2007 to 2010
18:41and I wanted to go to the fullline store
18:44where you got paid 20 $30 an hour
18:46commission job. I wanted to transfer
18:49over. I was told that if I stayed for 6
18:52months at that job that I could then
18:54transfer after the 6 months. I stayed
18:56for 6 months was a great employee after
18:58the end of six months I said I want to
19:00go to the full line store now. It's been
19:01six months. They said no.
19:05They said, "Uh, you you're not you're
19:07not going to the full line store because
19:08you're not ready." I said, "What do you
19:10mean I'm not ready? I'm like the best
19:11employee here. I show up consistently."
19:13They had a high turnover rate at that
19:15Nordstrom's rack. So, they didn't want
19:17me to go to the full line store because
19:19they wanted me to stay because I was a
19:21good employee. I knew that. I could I
19:24could sense that. So, what I decided to
19:26do is I decided to go to the full line
19:29store. I decided to talk to the manager
19:32of the whole entire store, which took
19:34like 20 minutes. I had to basically
19:36pretend that I had a customer issue
19:38because that was the only way they would
19:39bring the store manager down. It was a
19:41three-story big store. Down comes this
19:44woman named Lorie Joe, lady with short
19:46blonde hair. It was like kind of a boss
19:48chick that was like came over and I just
19:51explained it to her. I said, "Listen,
19:54these people at the rack, they're
19:55corrupt. They are running an operation
19:58where they're trying to keep me trapped
20:00working a 9 to5 job I don't like and we
20:03have to do something about it. I'm just
20:05kidding. I didn't say that. I said
20:07listen I said I am highly motivated. I
20:11want to get paid commission. I want to
20:13become a top salesperson. I want to work
20:15here in women shoes. I've been working
20:16for 6 months over there. I put in the
20:18request but they're not allowing me to
20:20come over because they say I'm not
20:21ready. I feel they're saying I'm not
20:23ready cuz I'm a good employee and
20:24there's a high turnover rate. She
20:26understood. She said, "Okay, I'm going
20:28to see what I can do." I go back. I get
20:30a call to the office the next day and
20:32you want to go again. I got told I got
20:35told, "Uh, we don't think you're ready,
20:38but we're going to let you go anyways.
20:41We don't think it we we're setting you
20:42up for failure, but we're going to let
20:43you go." And I said, "Okay, cool. I'll
20:45go fail." I went over to the fullline
20:48store. Within two or three months, I was
20:50considered an allstar. Somebody that
20:52like gave the best customer service. my
20:54people pleaser overgiving pattern paid
20:56off in retail sales. [laughter]
20:59And guess what? I got I went to a
21:00department meeting, a store meeting
21:02where even the rack came, the managers
21:03from the rack came and I got called up
21:05to the front for being one of the top
21:06salespeople and an all-star. And I
21:08remember making eye contact with those
21:10managers, thinking to myself, did you
21:12set me up for failure?
21:14The reason I share this story is at any
21:16moment I could have been like, I'm going
21:17to go to the full line store and I go
21:19and then and they say no. And I say,
21:20okay, I decided, but you said no.
21:23Sometimes decision happens and there's
21:25bumps that come up along the way. But
21:27guess what? You find a way to go through
21:30it. You don't let that hold you back.
21:33You are the one that decides and you are
21:35the one that decides to not decide any
21:37longer. But to you become this new
21:40version of you, guess what? You must
21:42take action consistently. You must show
21:45up every day. You must recognize that
21:48even though it might not make sense in
21:49the moment, maybe this is a larger
21:51picture of your life and the person you
21:53will become is somebody that's even more
21:56resilient than you can imagine.
21:59Okay, so let's look at this. First off,
22:01your identity is a very important part
22:04of a thing to become aware of your
22:06self-image.
22:08Become aware also that the actions
22:10you're taking, if you're coming like I'm
22:12a nineto-five jobgo, that's my identity
22:15and I'm going to be a YouTuber. You will
22:17find resistance with that like I did
22:19because I'm I'm like it's it's in a it's
22:23not in alignment with like my identity.
22:26I switched my identity to realize this
22:27is the real me. This was who I pretended
22:31to be for a long period of time. This
22:32nineto-ive job go with consistency. This
22:35was unfamiliar. With consistency of
22:37choosing it every day, whether videos
22:39went well or not,
22:42it was consistency. I became the person
22:45I learned. I I became resourceful. I
22:48became someone that was always learning.
22:49I learned how to edit videos. I learned
22:51thumbnails that would convert well and
22:52people would click on. I'd learn about
22:54topics I was passionate about. I became
22:56this version of me. And then eventually
22:58I used that same thing to become a
23:01person that runs live events that hot
23:03seat coaches people live on stage. Same
23:06thing. It was unfamiliar for a while. I
23:07was like, you know what? This has
23:08brought me a lot of safety making videos
23:10for 8 years. This is actually more in
23:12alignment with who I am.
23:15The decision that I've made at each of
23:16these levels was ani a decision from the
23:19level of the identity and it was a
23:22decision knowing that any adversity that
23:24would come up in the process was a part
23:26of the person I was becoming.
23:31So let that tension be your initiation
23:34into a new you.
23:37It's like if you were thinking of uh
23:39deciding that people aren't going to
23:41affect me anymore and I'm going to shed
23:42the peopleleasing pattern for example.
23:45The moment tension comes up you say nope
23:47I'm going to decide not to anymore. You
23:49have to decide even if it's
23:50uncomfortable. The uncomfortable is the
23:53goal. You have to decide even when your
23:56inner child stuff comes up and then see
23:58it, feel it, and let it be there.
24:00Acknowledge that part of you. This
24:03decision you're making is recognizing
24:05that meaning has nothing has built-in
24:07meaning other than the meaning you give
24:08it.
24:10And one of the most powerful things to
24:12understand
24:13is that in any moment you can allow
24:16yourself to show up consistently and
24:18decide who you are from a level of
24:20presence and identity.
24:23So when you look at having, doing, and
24:25being, many people are from the level of
24:28doing to get there, doing, doing, doing.
24:32Who do I need to be to become
24:34successful? I need to take lots of
24:36action. To get to the next level, I need
24:38to work harder. To get to the next
24:39level, I need to um whatever the pattern
24:43is. Normally, I need to give more. If
24:45it's an overgiver, I need to be uh it's
24:47it's or if you're invisible, I need to
24:49be seen. It feels uncomfortable. The
24:51person you become in this process is
24:53when you start to be it. Not because of
24:55the results,
24:57but it's because it's who you choose to
24:58be.
25:00and realize that this is where things
25:03really begin to shift is when you shift
25:04from focusing on outcome to your state
25:06of being and knowing that underneath the
25:10surface,
25:11this is who you really are.
25:15So, something else if you want to learn,
25:17something I'll be doing soon [music] is
25:19a uh identity shift challenge. It is
25:22completely free. [music] You can go on
25:24and sign up below, grab your spot. We're
25:26going to be I'm gonna be showing you how
25:27to shift your identity from the inside
25:29out [music]
25:30and it will help you to literally become
25:32a new version of yourself. Um, you can
25:35grab your spot below if you want a
25:37meditation as well that will help you to
25:39wire in this new version of you, this
25:41identity, and to let it be natural. One
25:43of my most powerful meditations [music]
25:44is on raising your dominant vibration
25:46permanently. I'll go and link this
25:47meditation right here. Read the comments
25:49to see what's possible. Do it for 21
25:51days and notice how normal this begins
25:53[music] to feel for your nervous system.
25:55So you can check it out right here.

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