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Once I Understood This About Manifestation, My Life Changed — Transcript

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  1. 0:00If your life isn't where you want it to
  2. 0:01be, manifestation is the lever to
  3. 0:04finally change it. However, most of
  4. 0:06what's being taught doesn't work. Even
  5. 0:08worse, it might actually be stopping you
  6. 0:10from achieving your vision. I know this
  7. 0:12because I've tried everything until I
  8. 0:14finally stumbled across what actually
  9. 0:16works consistently. And I've helped
  10. 0:18hundreds of people create their dream
  11. 0:20life as well. That's why in this video,
  12. 0:22I will walk you through a simple
  13. 0:24framework so that by the end, you'll be
  14. 0:26equipped to finally create the life you
  15. 0:29want. Clarity about what you want is the
  16. 0:33first step. But before I get into this,
  17. 0:34you don't need to take notes. I've got
  18. 0:36you covered. In the description below
  19. 0:37this video, there's a link to a free PDF
  20. 0:40or you can scan this QR code. It will
  21. 0:42give you everything that I'm going to
  22. 0:43give you in this video step by step.
  23. 0:45First, watch the rest of this video so
  24. 0:47you have a broad overview of how this
  25. 0:48works. then grab that PDF and do the
  26. 0:51steps. Most people think that they know
  27. 0:53what they want because they have a goal.
  28. 0:55But that's just the very very beginning
  29. 0:57and that's just the smallest piece of
  30. 0:59information that you could probably
  31. 1:01start with. What I tell people about
  32. 1:02goal setting is that the goal is
  33. 1:04actually the least important part. There
  34. 1:06is so much more to understand about what
  35. 1:08it is that you're wanting and
  36. 1:10understanding what's motivating you to
  37. 1:11want that and what you think that will
  38. 1:13fulfill for you. If you don't know those
  39. 1:15things, going after a goal is like
  40. 1:17trying to thread a needle. It's very
  41. 1:19difficult and most of the time people
  42. 1:20run out of motivation and then they
  43. 1:22think they need willpower and discipline
  44. 1:23and all these things to push themselves
  45. 1:25over the finish line. And the truth is
  46. 1:26is if you just have clarity about what
  47. 1:29you want, that clarity is all the
  48. 1:31motivation that you need. Just think
  49. 1:32about it like this. If you had nothing
  50. 1:34but clarity in the sense of you're
  51. 1:37running a marathon and you can see the
  52. 1:39finish line in front of you and you have
  53. 1:41that clarity, you can see the end.
  54. 1:43Suddenly you have a lot more energy and
  55. 1:45it doesn't matter how long you've been
  56. 1:46running and how tired you are because
  57. 1:48you can see it. You're going to be
  58. 1:49motivated to go after it. And that's
  59. 1:51what's really important here is you need
  60. 1:53to be able to see what it is that you
  61. 1:55want. And what you're seeing needs to be
  62. 1:58deeply connected with what it is you
  63. 2:00truly want. What I mean by that is
  64. 2:01understanding what is going to fulfill
  65. 2:03you by achieving this thing, by getting
  66. 2:06this thing that you want. For most
  67. 2:07people, this is deeply unconscious. And
  68. 2:10if you allow this to stay unconscious,
  69. 2:12you're just leaving a lot up to chance
  70. 2:14that you're going to haphazardly find
  71. 2:16your way to what it is that you want.
  72. 2:18Some people do, but you're taking a lot
  73. 2:20of chances here. And you might as well
  74. 2:22set yourself up for success and put the
  75. 2:24odds in your favor by going much deeper
  76. 2:27to what is behind all of this. What is
  77. 2:30it that you're really after? Because
  78. 2:32people don't truly understand this and
  79. 2:34they're trying to go at it and they have
  80. 2:35this goal that they want. They will read
  81. 2:37books about having a vision. And that
  82. 2:39sounds great, right? You'll read these
  83. 2:40books that say you got to have a vision
  84. 2:42for your life. You got to have a vision
  85. 2:43for certain areas of your life if you
  86. 2:45really want to get what you want. And I
  87. 2:46agree with that. And then I would say,
  88. 2:47okay, how do I create that vision? Cuz
  89. 2:50they would never explain that. They
  90. 2:51would just like, you got to have a
  91. 2:52vision. Okay, what do I do from there?
  92. 2:54Okay, I have a goal. Then I just
  93. 2:55visualize achieving the goal maybe. And
  94. 2:59yeah, that's somewhat motivating to sort
  95. 3:01of see myself doing the thing that I
  96. 3:02want or getting the thing that I want.
  97. 3:04seems like there needs to be more to
  98. 3:06this. If we're talking about something
  99. 3:08that is supposed to be powerful enough
  100. 3:10to get me there, like how do I create a
  101. 3:11powerful vision so that this becomes my
  102. 3:14clarity that this becomes my finish line
  103. 3:16at the end of a marathon that I'm deeply
  104. 3:18drawn to and motivated to going after
  105. 3:20even when I'm already tired. I already
  106. 3:23feel empty. How do I create that
  107. 3:24powerful vision to get me there? If
  108. 3:26you've been in personal development and
  109. 3:27self-help, you've heard about
  110. 3:29visualization so much, but very rarely
  111. 3:31do they tell you like how to visualize
  112. 3:33and the best ways to visualize. People
  113. 3:35will kind of sit around just visualizing
  114. 3:37things and then you'll realize very
  115. 3:39quickly that that's not really that
  116. 3:41effective and it it can be to a certain
  117. 3:43extent, but it usually falls short. So,
  118. 3:45people will go out seeking solutions,
  119. 3:46easier ways to do this, better ways to
  120. 3:48do this, and inevitably they will come
  121. 3:50across the vision board and they'll go,
  122. 3:52"Oh, yeah, this is the missing piece.
  123. 3:53Well, I'll just print pictures off of
  124. 3:55the internet or I'll clip them out of
  125. 3:56magazines of things that look good, the
  126. 3:58things that I like, that motivate me,
  127. 4:00the things that I would want in my life
  128. 4:01and then I just put this on a board and
  129. 4:03I put it on my wall next to my bed and
  130. 4:05then and and then what? So, I've made
  131. 4:08plenty of vision boards and I would do
  132. 4:10exactly what I just explained and it
  133. 4:11gets boring very quickly. That vision
  134. 4:13board that seemed exciting when I first
  135. 4:15made it, it doesn't move. It doesn't
  136. 4:16grow. The images are two-dimensional and
  137. 4:19they're on a flat two-dimensional board.
  138. 4:20I see it twice a day and nothing. It's
  139. 4:24not It's not doing anything. It's not
  140. 4:26happening. It's not motivating me
  141. 4:28anymore. People will swear by these
  142. 4:29vision boards, but when I talk to people
  143. 4:31and I look at their vision boards and
  144. 4:33then I ask them, "Did this actually
  145. 4:34happen? Did this actually come true?"
  146. 4:36Most people will admit to me, "No, it
  147. 4:38has not. The vision board really did
  148. 4:40nothing." And it's not surprising. For
  149. 4:42one thing, those images on the vision
  150. 4:43board, you didn't generate with your
  151. 4:45mind. You didn't generate with your
  152. 4:46imagination. And they weren't generated
  153. 4:49from your values. They weren't generated
  154. 4:50from what's really important to you
  155. 4:52because you never explored that. You
  156. 4:53just found these images, you thought
  157. 4:54they looked good, and you slapped them
  158. 4:56onto the board. A true vision is
  159. 4:58dynamic. A true vision is created by
  160. 5:01your mind, your imagination. It's
  161. 5:03created from your motivation and the
  162. 5:06things that you really want and that are
  163. 5:07truly fulfilling to you. You're not
  164. 5:10going to find that on the internet.
  165. 5:11You're not going to find that in a
  166. 5:12magazine. That's in your mind. That's in
  167. 5:14your heart, your soul, your gut. So, how
  168. 5:16do you get what's in your heart, your
  169. 5:18soul, and your gut out into a vision?
  170. 5:21That's going to come from what is called
  171. 5:23a values elicitation. Let's first start
  172. 5:25with what is a value. A value according
  173. 5:28to my mentor Steve Andreas is a
  174. 5:30generalization about an experience
  175. 5:32that's important to you. So, if you
  176. 5:33value happiness, kindness, passion, joy,
  177. 5:37peace, empathy, these are all values.
  178. 5:40These are all generalizations about
  179. 5:42experiences that are important to you.
  180. 5:44And this is deeply unconscious for most
  181. 5:46people. Most people will never truly
  182. 5:48know what their deeper core values are
  183. 5:50because they don't have an exercise like
  184. 5:51the one I'm giving you here. When you
  185. 5:53have a goal and you have settled on this
  186. 5:55is what you want to achieve, what you
  187. 5:56want to do is do a value solicitation.
  188. 5:58And how that goes is you ask yourself
  189. 6:00what is important to me about achieving
  190. 6:02this or what will achieving this do for
  191. 6:04me? You will get an answer. And when you
  192. 6:05get that answer, you ask the same
  193. 6:08question to that new answer. If the goal
  194. 6:10is a money-making goal and you ask
  195. 6:11yourself, "What is important to me about
  196. 6:13this?" And the word security comes up.
  197. 6:16Okay? Then you would ask, "What is
  198. 6:17important to me about security?" Or,
  199. 6:19"What will this security do for me?" The
  200. 6:21answer you might get after that is
  201. 6:22peace. Then you would ask yourself,
  202. 6:24okay, what's important to me about
  203. 6:26peace? And you keep this going until
  204. 6:28you've pulled out all of your values.
  205. 6:30And then you're going to start to see
  206. 6:32what's really driving this. Once you
  207. 6:33have your values out like that, then you
  208. 6:35want to check back with the goal. Is
  209. 6:37this goal the right goal for fulfilling
  210. 6:39these values? The values are more
  211. 6:41important than the goal itself. And
  212. 6:43here's why. If you achieve a goal, but
  213. 6:45it is not aligned with your values, it
  214. 6:47will feel very empty. You probably have
  215. 6:49experienced this before. You were
  216. 6:50working so hard toward a goal. You
  217. 6:51finally achieved it. There was a lot of
  218. 6:53relief because it was over. And you may
  219. 6:55have celebrated for about an hour and
  220. 6:56then it started to feel really empty.
  221. 6:58That's probably because that goal was
  222. 7:00not aligned with your true values. So if
  223. 7:02the goal is not aligned with the values,
  224. 7:04you don't throw out the values and try
  225. 7:05to squeeze yourself into the goal. It's
  226. 7:07the opposite. The value is where your
  227. 7:09true fulfillment is, where your
  228. 7:10motivation is. The goals are disposable.
  229. 7:13The goals may or may not fulfill your
  230. 7:15values. If you catch on very quickly,
  231. 7:17and this might happen at the very
  232. 7:18beginning of this process, or you might
  233. 7:19have to start working toward that goal
  234. 7:21to realize it's not aligned with your
  235. 7:23values. Sometimes we have to test it a
  236. 7:24little bit. When you realize that that
  237. 7:26goal is not aligned with your values,
  238. 7:27you throw that goal out and you find a
  239. 7:29new goal that does align with these
  240. 7:31values. You'll be much happier for that
  241. 7:33because what you will realize is even in
  242. 7:35the process of achieving the goal, you
  243. 7:37don't even have to wait till you achieve
  244. 7:38the goal. If that goal is aligned with
  245. 7:40your values, as you're working toward
  246. 7:41that goal, you're going to feel it.
  247. 7:43You're going to feel fulfillment every
  248. 7:45time you take a step closer to that
  249. 7:46goal. This is really important to not
  250. 7:48have to wait to achieve a goal to
  251. 7:50experience fulfillment. You want to be
  252. 7:52experiencing it every step of the way.
  253. 7:53and that's your motivation. That way you
  254. 7:55won't quit. And when this happens,
  255. 7:57you'll start to realize the goal is not
  256. 7:58the most important part. This is really
  257. 8:00about how it's developing you, growing
  258. 8:01you, and bringing you fulfillment every
  259. 8:03step of the way. Now, once you have
  260. 8:05those values, then you're going to
  261. 8:07create your vision based on those
  262. 8:09values. You're going to imagine a blank
  263. 8:11canvas. And this blank canvas will
  264. 8:13represent this area of your life or
  265. 8:15whatever the goal is. Then you start
  266. 8:17putting those values on that canvas like
  267. 8:19you were making a vision board, but this
  268. 8:20time you're making the vision board in
  269. 8:21your mind. It's based on your values
  270. 8:23which you've already uncovered and now
  271. 8:25you're creating visual aspects to those
  272. 8:28values. What do these values look like
  273. 8:31in front of me if I were fulfilling them
  274. 8:32in this area of my life? Let your
  275. 8:34imagination go wild. There's complete
  276. 8:37creative freedom here. Visions are not
  277. 8:39supposed to be specific like goals are.
  278. 8:41Goals are either you cross that
  279. 8:43threshold or you don't. You either
  280. 8:44thread that needle or you don't. Your
  281. 8:46vision is not like that. Your vision
  282. 8:48should be vague. Your vision should be
  283. 8:50powerful. It's a compass. It sets the
  284. 8:52direction. It doesn't tell you how to
  285. 8:53traverse the terrain. This is very
  286. 8:55important. This is why visions are so
  287. 8:57powerful. And they will guide you like
  288. 8:58headlights. Even when the world seems so
  289. 9:01dark, it's your vision that's going to
  290. 9:03light the way and show you the way
  291. 9:05forward. Like I said, it's like a
  292. 9:07compass. It sets the direction. The
  293. 9:08other stuff, figuring out how to
  294. 9:10traverse the terrain and the exact
  295. 9:12goals, that comes later. First, you need
  296. 9:15a direction. You need a light. You need
  297. 9:17a pathway. That's what your vision does.
  298. 9:19And from there you figure out the steps.
  299. 9:23The next step is understanding
  300. 9:24resistance. When you see this vision in
  301. 9:26front of you, the only thing that can
  302. 9:27stop you from achieving it, from
  303. 9:29fulfilling it is resistance. Most people
  304. 9:31do not understand the first thing about
  305. 9:33resistance. They think of resistance or
  306. 9:35of parts of themselves that are
  307. 9:37objecting or holding themselves back.
  308. 9:38People make up these stories about
  309. 9:40there's parts of themselves sabotaging
  310. 9:42themselves. That's not actually what's
  311. 9:43happening. The last thing you want to do
  312. 9:45when you're embarking on fulfilling a
  313. 9:47powerful vision is to be in a fight with
  314. 9:49yourself. So ideas like discipline and
  315. 9:52willpower, this is basically fighting
  316. 9:54yourself. If you have to will yourself,
  317. 9:56if you have to discipline yourself to do
  318. 9:58something, first of all, you're not very
  319. 10:00clear about why you want to do this.
  320. 10:02Because part of being clear about it is
  321. 10:04no resistance. Meaning you're fully
  322. 10:06aligned with what it is you want to do.
  323. 10:08There's nothing holding you back. You're
  324. 10:09so clear about it that all of you wants
  325. 10:11it. There's not one part holding back.
  326. 10:13There's no parts trying to sabotage you.
  327. 10:15When you have that vision in front of
  328. 10:16you, you want to check in with yourself.
  329. 10:18Do I have any resistance to fulfilling
  330. 10:21this vision? Is there any part of me
  331. 10:22that objects to fulfilling this vision?
  332. 10:24You might get things like fear and doubt
  333. 10:26and worry about failure or you might
  334. 10:29have fears about embarrassing yourself.
  335. 10:31These are all forms of resistance and
  336. 10:33they need to be dealt with. The second
  337. 10:34step is acknowledging the resistance and
  338. 10:37integrating it. Yes, you heard me
  339. 10:39correctly. You're going to integrate
  340. 10:40resistance. You're not going to fight
  341. 10:42resistance. Like I said, if you fight
  342. 10:43resistance, you're just fighting
  343. 10:45yourself. And imagine that you got this
  344. 10:46mountain to climb. You know, that's your
  345. 10:48vision. It's this huge lofty goal that
  346. 10:50you want to go after. And instead of
  347. 10:51just going at it full swing, full stead
  348. 10:53ahead, clear about what you want, all of
  349. 10:55you on board, you're busy fighting with
  350. 10:57yourself and trying to will yourself and
  351. 10:59discipline yourself to push yourself.
  352. 11:01You're just making it so much more
  353. 11:03difficult. It's like trying to climb
  354. 11:05that mountain while also trying to drag
  355. 11:07a horse or a cow up the mountain as
  356. 11:09well. It doesn't make any sense. You
  357. 11:11don't want to be fighting yourself
  358. 11:12throughout this process. It's just going
  359. 11:13to slow you down and it's going to be
  360. 11:15less fulfilling. And even if you do
  361. 11:17achieve what it is that you want, if you
  362. 11:18had to fight yourself every step of the
  363. 11:20way, how good is that? Actually, that's
  364. 11:22not going to be that's not going to be
  365. 11:24very enjoyable. That's not very
  366. 11:25fulfilling if only part of you got what
  367. 11:27it wanted and the other part didn't. So,
  368. 11:29what you need to understand about your
  369. 11:31resistance is that there is a positive
  370. 11:33intention behind all resistance. Another
  371. 11:35word for positive intention is value.
  372. 11:38Yes, believe it or not, that part of you
  373. 11:40that's objecting, that part of you
  374. 11:41that's resisting, it actually wants to
  375. 11:43fulfill a value for you. In fact, it
  376. 11:46probably wants to fulfill more than one
  377. 11:47value for you. What happened here is
  378. 11:49that this part of you got disconnected
  379. 11:51from the rest of you. And there's lots
  380. 11:53of reasons why that can happen. The main
  381. 11:55one, the main reason this happens is
  382. 11:57because of pain, emotional pain. When
  383. 11:59you were younger, if something happened
  384. 12:00to you, like you got embarrassed, you
  385. 12:03had to do something for class and you
  386. 12:05got up, you tried to do it or whatever,
  387. 12:07and you failed, all the kids laughed at
  388. 12:09you. There was probably a part of you
  389. 12:10that felt very hurt by that. And then
  390. 12:12you told that part to never let this
  391. 12:14happen again. Never allow yourself to
  392. 12:16feel this pain again. Never allow
  393. 12:18yourself to be in a situation where this
  394. 12:20can happen again. So what happens when
  395. 12:22you do that? Well, that part listens.
  396. 12:24It's doing its job. and you gave it an
  397. 12:26away from strategy, meaning it's trying
  398. 12:27to not do something rather than do
  399. 12:29something. You didn't give it an
  400. 12:30alternative. You didn't say, "Okay, hey,
  401. 12:31let's not do that. Let's do this other
  402. 12:33thing instead." You just told it what
  403. 12:34not to do. So, its job is to keep you
  404. 12:37from doing things. Now, the mission of
  405. 12:39this part of you is to keep you from
  406. 12:40trying even when you really want
  407. 12:42something. And that way, it's protecting
  408. 12:44you. Most of your resistance and these
  409. 12:45internal objections are basically
  410. 12:47protection. It's just parts of you
  411. 12:48trying to protect you because you gave
  412. 12:50it that order. The problem is is it
  413. 12:51happened a long time ago. You completely
  414. 12:53forgot about it. Now later in life it's
  415. 12:55surfacing and holding you back from what
  416. 12:57it is that you want. So you want to
  417. 12:58invite this part to the conversation and
  418. 13:00ask it okay what are you trying to do
  419. 13:02for me? What is your positive intention
  420. 13:04for me by not doing this or by not going
  421. 13:06forward with this? What it will tell you
  422. 13:08will probably come out stated in the
  423. 13:09negative because you gave it a negative
  424. 13:11order. So it'll probably come out and
  425. 13:12say well I don't want you to be
  426. 13:14disappointed or I don't want you to
  427. 13:15fail. I don't want you to get hurt. I
  428. 13:16don't want you to get embarrassed. This
  429. 13:18part is not working against you. This
  430. 13:19part is trying to help you. None of your
  431. 13:21parts are trying [snorts] to actually
  432. 13:23hurt you or harm you or keep you from
  433. 13:24being happy and fulfilled. Some of these
  434. 13:26parts are just trying to protect you.
  435. 13:27Once it tells you that, that's good
  436. 13:29information. It's telling you what it
  437. 13:31doesn't want for you, but we can't move
  438. 13:32forward with that cuz it's still in
  439. 13:34negation, right? So, we ask it, "What do
  440. 13:36you want from me instead? If you don't
  441. 13:37want me to get hurt, what do you want
  442. 13:38from me instead? If you don't want me to
  443. 13:40be disappointed, you don't want me to be
  444. 13:41embarrassed, you don't want me to fail,
  445. 13:43what do you want from me instead?" And
  446. 13:45it's going to give you a powerful value.
  447. 13:47A lot of times that is, I want you to be
  448. 13:49successful. I want you to be happy
  449. 13:51instead. Great. Does happiness and
  450. 13:53success does that work with your vision?
  451. 13:55Of course, it does. So, all you have to
  452. 13:56do is elicit from your resistance a high
  453. 13:59enough value that it is compatible with
  454. 14:02your vision. And once you do that, you
  455. 14:03add that value to your vision. And what
  456. 14:06you're going to find from time to time,
  457. 14:07this is extraordinary, is that the value
  458. 14:10that that resistant part is trying to
  459. 14:12fulfill for you often is already a value
  460. 14:14that you have in your vision. So, you
  461. 14:16might be thinking, well, then I don't
  462. 14:17need to add it. Yes, you do. Because the
  463. 14:19value that it's trying to fulfill for
  464. 14:21you from your resistance adds another
  465. 14:23layer of dimension to that value. I'll
  466. 14:25give you an example. You might already
  467. 14:26have the value of love in your vision.
  468. 14:29It's a very powerful value. There's a
  469. 14:31lot of complexity and dimension to love.
  470. 14:33The part that's resistant might also be
  471. 14:35trying to fulfill love for you. What it
  472. 14:37has is a extra layer of love, an added
  473. 14:40dimension of love. So, you still want to
  474. 14:42add it to your vision because you want
  475. 14:43to make sure you're adding that extra
  476. 14:45layer, that extra dimension to your
  477. 14:46vision, which is just going to make your
  478. 14:48vision even more powerful. Once you do
  479. 14:50this with all resistance, you elicit
  480. 14:52those values and get them integrated
  481. 14:53into your vision until you have zero
  482. 14:56resistance left. Think about what you're
  483. 14:58looking at. You're looking at this
  484. 14:59amazing complex vision that is so
  485. 15:03powerful, so full of dimension and
  486. 15:05complexity and layers that it just wants
  487. 15:07to suck you into it. It's like drawing
  488. 15:09you forward with zero resistance. How do
  489. 15:11you think this is going to affect you?
  490. 15:13When you do this, you will realize you
  491. 15:14have just created the most powerful
  492. 15:16vision you have ever created and it will
  493. 15:18naturally pull you toward it. In fact,
  494. 15:20this is not something you want to
  495. 15:21practice over and over. Once you set the
  496. 15:23vision, once you integrate the
  497. 15:24resistance, let it go. Let it slip back
  498. 15:26into unconsciousness. It will become
  499. 15:28more powerful there because it will be
  500. 15:29influencing you even when you're not
  501. 15:31consciously aware of it. The good part
  502. 15:33about that is you're not having to
  503. 15:34negotiate with it. You're not saying,
  504. 15:36"Well, should I do this or should I do
  505. 15:37that?" You're not hesitating. Your
  506. 15:39vision is showing you the way,
  507. 15:40especially when you're not consciously
  508. 15:42aware of it. You're making these choices
  509. 15:44at rapid speed without having to analyze
  510. 15:47it and think a lot about it. And those
  511. 15:48decisions are guiding you toward that
  512. 15:50vision because it's compelling. It's
  513. 15:52based on your values and there's zero
  514. 15:54resistance getting in your way.
  515. 15:57The third step is becoming the person
  516. 16:00who lives that vision. Most people don't
  517. 16:02understand how to do this. So, they go
  518. 16:04looking for solutions. One of them is
  519. 16:07probably affirmations. Another one is
  520. 16:09fake it till you make it. There's all
  521. 16:10these ideas about how to shift your
  522. 16:13identity into becoming the person you
  523. 16:14want to be. Especially becoming the
  524. 16:16person you want to be who creates that
  525. 16:18life that you want to live. None of
  526. 16:20those other things like affirmations and
  527. 16:21fake it till you make it are going to
  528. 16:22work to shift your identity. Why?
  529. 16:24Because your identity is based on your
  530. 16:26beliefs about yourself. And most of
  531. 16:28those beliefs were forged very early in
  532. 16:31life like from the ages of between 0 and
  533. 16:347 years old. So, you can say things
  534. 16:36about yourself in the mirror that sound
  535. 16:38good. You can try to fake being
  536. 16:40something you're not, but all you're
  537. 16:42going to do is just get better at being
  538. 16:43fake. You're not going to move those
  539. 16:45core beliefs about yourself until you
  540. 16:48can go in there and find out what are
  541. 16:50those core beliefs you have about
  542. 16:51yourself. And how are they structured?
  543. 16:53It's the structure that holds them in
  544. 16:54place. If you're not changing the
  545. 16:56structure of your beliefs, you're not
  546. 16:57changing your beliefs. So, how do you
  547. 16:59know who do you need to become in order
  548. 17:01to create this wonderful vision that you
  549. 17:03just created? that vision that has zero
  550. 17:05resistance to it. Once again, you're
  551. 17:07going to find that in your values. When
  552. 17:09you go back and look at that list of
  553. 17:10values, that list of values has so many
  554. 17:13clues about who you need to be in order
  555. 17:15to make this happen. Your values might
  556. 17:17be happiness, joy, peace, passion, love,
  557. 17:22success, achievement. That's who you
  558. 17:25need to become. When you look at those
  559. 17:26list of values, you want to ask
  560. 17:28yourself, am I a happy person? Am I a
  561. 17:30joyful person? Do I believe I'm a
  562. 17:32successful person? Am I an achiever? Am
  563. 17:34I loving? Am I lovable? It does not help
  564. 17:36you to not be 100% honest with yourself
  565. 17:39about this. When I did this process the
  566. 17:41first time and I came to success as a
  567. 17:43value and I looked at that and I asked
  568. 17:45myself, am I a successful person? The
  569. 17:47honest truth, what I believed about
  570. 17:49myself was a flatout no. And that wasn't
  571. 17:52the easiest thing to admit to myself
  572. 17:53because in admitting that, what I was
  573. 17:56admitting is that what I truly believed
  574. 17:58about myself was that I was a failure.
  575. 18:00Nobody wants to admit that to
  576. 18:01themselves. So when you go down this
  577. 18:03list of values and you're asking
  578. 18:04yourself, am I insert the value as a
  579. 18:06quality of who you are, if you hesitate
  580. 18:08or you go, hm, sometimes yes, sometimes
  581. 18:10no, it is not a certain solid quality
  582. 18:12that you believe. That's a problem
  583. 18:13because if you don't believe this about
  584. 18:15yourself, it's going to hold you back.
  585. 18:16It's going to bring your self-esteem
  586. 18:18down. It's going to make you feel like
  587. 18:19you can't succeed. So like if your value
  588. 18:22is success and you don't believe you're
  589. 18:23a successful person, you're not very
  590. 18:24likely to try things. Why? Because you
  591. 18:26deep down believe you're going to fail.
  592. 18:28Why would you go and try something if
  593. 18:29you know you're going to fail? So, it's
  594. 18:30really important that you take these
  595. 18:32values, you understand where you are
  596. 18:34with them in terms of whether or not you
  597. 18:36believe them about yourself. And it's
  598. 18:38either going to be yes, I fully believe
  599. 18:40this about myself without hesitation. Or
  600. 18:42it's going to be ambiguous. Well,
  601. 18:44sometimes I am this value, sometimes I'm
  602. 18:45not, like sometimes I am successful,
  603. 18:47sometimes I'm not, or it's going to be a
  604. 18:49flatout no. And if it's a flatout no,
  605. 18:51that means you believe the opposite
  606. 18:53about yourself. The good news is there
  607. 18:54is a framework and there is a model for
  608. 18:57transforming beliefs about yourself.
  609. 18:59Actually, you can use it to transform
  610. 19:01any beliefs. It's a step-by-step process
  611. 19:03for changing beliefs about yourself and
  612. 19:05changing them and transforming them into
  613. 19:07beliefs that you value about yourself.
  614. 19:09And this is the biggest gamecher because
  615. 19:11when you become that person who creates
  616. 19:14this vision, not just someone who's
  617. 19:15chasing this vision, now you're not
  618. 19:17chasing fulfillment, you're not chasing
  619. 19:19value. You recognize that you are the
  620. 19:21value because you believe this about
  621. 19:23yourself. How much easier do you think
  622. 19:25it is to achieve what you want when you
  623. 19:28completely fully believe that you are
  624. 19:30the person who creates it? It's going to
  625. 19:33get a lot easier and a lot funner and a
  626. 19:35lot more fulfilling and you'll never run
  627. 19:37out of motivation. The truth about
  628. 19:39manifestation is you actually have to
  629. 19:42make this work. The idea behind
  630. 19:44manifestation that a lot of people are
  631. 19:46teaching out there is all I have to do
  632. 19:47is visualize. All I have to do is
  633. 19:49vibrate, whatever that means, or be on
  634. 19:51the right frequency, which doesn't
  635. 19:53really exist. As a metaphor, I guess
  636. 19:54it's fine. But there is no such
  637. 19:56frequency. There is no vibration. Just
  638. 19:58simple visualization is not going to
  639. 20:00make the universe deliver what you want
  640. 20:01to your front door. It just doesn't work
  641. 20:03that way. And if you think about things
  642. 20:04like, let's say, flight, you know, from
  643. 20:06probably the beginning of time, humans
  644. 20:09had a dream of flying. And probably
  645. 20:11plenty of people had fantasies of just
  646. 20:13opening their arms and flying into the
  647. 20:15sky. I remember being a kid, I had those
  648. 20:16fantasies myself. Then you had people
  649. 20:18who say, "Okay, well, let's actually try
  650. 20:20to figure this out." And you had people
  651. 20:22doing things like strapping wings to
  652. 20:23their arms and jumping off of cliffs and
  653. 20:25probably dying as a result. Eventually,
  654. 20:27a little more than 100 years ago, you
  655. 20:29had two brothers who said, "We're going
  656. 20:31to figure this thing out." And they kept
  657. 20:33trying and trying. And by process of
  658. 20:35trial and error, they finally figured
  659. 20:37out how to fly. The Wright brothers
  660. 20:38finally created an airplane. And now
  661. 20:40flight is one of the most amazing modern
  662. 20:43marvels humans have ever created. It
  663. 20:45didn't come from just fantasizing
  664. 20:46things. It didn't come from frequencies.
  665. 20:48It came from people actually figuring
  666. 20:49this thing out. So when it comes to your
  667. 20:51life, you don't want to leave those
  668. 20:52things up to chance. You want to
  669. 20:54actually start making this work. What
  670. 20:55could be more important than creating
  671. 20:57the life that you want to live and being
  672. 20:58that person who you truly want to be. So
  673. 21:00do yourself a favor and drop law of
  674. 21:02attraction. Drop law of assumption and
  675. 21:04start learning how to make these things
  676. 21:06work through actual techniques and
  677. 21:08processes. The only true shortcut really
  678. 21:10is to sit down and do the work. If you
  679. 21:13just stop short of the first two parts
  680. 21:15of this where you're understanding
  681. 21:17what's important to you, you're getting
  682. 21:18clear about what you want, you're taking
  683. 21:20those values, creating a vision, and
  684. 21:22you're overcoming the resistance, that
  685. 21:23will take you far further than any of
  686. 21:26the law of assumption and law of
  687. 21:27attraction stuff. Now, if you want to
  688. 21:28take that additional step and learn how
  689. 21:31to become the person, meaning you
  690. 21:33transform beliefs about yourself so that
  691. 21:35you become that person, then check out
  692. 21:37this next video right here.

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