Once I Understood This About Manifestation, My Life Changed — Transcript
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- 0:00If your life isn't where you want it to
- 0:01be, manifestation is the lever to
- 0:04finally change it. However, most of
- 0:06what's being taught doesn't work. Even
- 0:08worse, it might actually be stopping you
- 0:10from achieving your vision. I know this
- 0:12because I've tried everything until I
- 0:14finally stumbled across what actually
- 0:16works consistently. And I've helped
- 0:18hundreds of people create their dream
- 0:20life as well. That's why in this video,
- 0:22I will walk you through a simple
- 0:24framework so that by the end, you'll be
- 0:26equipped to finally create the life you
- 0:29want. Clarity about what you want is the
- 0:33first step. But before I get into this,
- 0:34you don't need to take notes. I've got
- 0:36you covered. In the description below
- 0:37this video, there's a link to a free PDF
- 0:40or you can scan this QR code. It will
- 0:42give you everything that I'm going to
- 0:43give you in this video step by step.
- 0:45First, watch the rest of this video so
- 0:47you have a broad overview of how this
- 0:48works. then grab that PDF and do the
- 0:51steps. Most people think that they know
- 0:53what they want because they have a goal.
- 0:55But that's just the very very beginning
- 0:57and that's just the smallest piece of
- 0:59information that you could probably
- 1:01start with. What I tell people about
- 1:02goal setting is that the goal is
- 1:04actually the least important part. There
- 1:06is so much more to understand about what
- 1:08it is that you're wanting and
- 1:10understanding what's motivating you to
- 1:11want that and what you think that will
- 1:13fulfill for you. If you don't know those
- 1:15things, going after a goal is like
- 1:17trying to thread a needle. It's very
- 1:19difficult and most of the time people
- 1:20run out of motivation and then they
- 1:22think they need willpower and discipline
- 1:23and all these things to push themselves
- 1:25over the finish line. And the truth is
- 1:26is if you just have clarity about what
- 1:29you want, that clarity is all the
- 1:31motivation that you need. Just think
- 1:32about it like this. If you had nothing
- 1:34but clarity in the sense of you're
- 1:37running a marathon and you can see the
- 1:39finish line in front of you and you have
- 1:41that clarity, you can see the end.
- 1:43Suddenly you have a lot more energy and
- 1:45it doesn't matter how long you've been
- 1:46running and how tired you are because
- 1:48you can see it. You're going to be
- 1:49motivated to go after it. And that's
- 1:51what's really important here is you need
- 1:53to be able to see what it is that you
- 1:55want. And what you're seeing needs to be
- 1:58deeply connected with what it is you
- 2:00truly want. What I mean by that is
- 2:01understanding what is going to fulfill
- 2:03you by achieving this thing, by getting
- 2:06this thing that you want. For most
- 2:07people, this is deeply unconscious. And
- 2:10if you allow this to stay unconscious,
- 2:12you're just leaving a lot up to chance
- 2:14that you're going to haphazardly find
- 2:16your way to what it is that you want.
- 2:18Some people do, but you're taking a lot
- 2:20of chances here. And you might as well
- 2:22set yourself up for success and put the
- 2:24odds in your favor by going much deeper
- 2:27to what is behind all of this. What is
- 2:30it that you're really after? Because
- 2:32people don't truly understand this and
- 2:34they're trying to go at it and they have
- 2:35this goal that they want. They will read
- 2:37books about having a vision. And that
- 2:39sounds great, right? You'll read these
- 2:40books that say you got to have a vision
- 2:42for your life. You got to have a vision
- 2:43for certain areas of your life if you
- 2:45really want to get what you want. And I
- 2:46agree with that. And then I would say,
- 2:47okay, how do I create that vision? Cuz
- 2:50they would never explain that. They
- 2:51would just like, you got to have a
- 2:52vision. Okay, what do I do from there?
- 2:54Okay, I have a goal. Then I just
- 2:55visualize achieving the goal maybe. And
- 2:59yeah, that's somewhat motivating to sort
- 3:01of see myself doing the thing that I
- 3:02want or getting the thing that I want.
- 3:04seems like there needs to be more to
- 3:06this. If we're talking about something
- 3:08that is supposed to be powerful enough
- 3:10to get me there, like how do I create a
- 3:11powerful vision so that this becomes my
- 3:14clarity that this becomes my finish line
- 3:16at the end of a marathon that I'm deeply
- 3:18drawn to and motivated to going after
- 3:20even when I'm already tired. I already
- 3:23feel empty. How do I create that
- 3:24powerful vision to get me there? If
- 3:26you've been in personal development and
- 3:27self-help, you've heard about
- 3:29visualization so much, but very rarely
- 3:31do they tell you like how to visualize
- 3:33and the best ways to visualize. People
- 3:35will kind of sit around just visualizing
- 3:37things and then you'll realize very
- 3:39quickly that that's not really that
- 3:41effective and it it can be to a certain
- 3:43extent, but it usually falls short. So,
- 3:45people will go out seeking solutions,
- 3:46easier ways to do this, better ways to
- 3:48do this, and inevitably they will come
- 3:50across the vision board and they'll go,
- 3:52"Oh, yeah, this is the missing piece.
- 3:53Well, I'll just print pictures off of
- 3:55the internet or I'll clip them out of
- 3:56magazines of things that look good, the
- 3:58things that I like, that motivate me,
- 4:00the things that I would want in my life
- 4:01and then I just put this on a board and
- 4:03I put it on my wall next to my bed and
- 4:05then and and then what? So, I've made
- 4:08plenty of vision boards and I would do
- 4:10exactly what I just explained and it
- 4:11gets boring very quickly. That vision
- 4:13board that seemed exciting when I first
- 4:15made it, it doesn't move. It doesn't
- 4:16grow. The images are two-dimensional and
- 4:19they're on a flat two-dimensional board.
- 4:20I see it twice a day and nothing. It's
- 4:24not It's not doing anything. It's not
- 4:26happening. It's not motivating me
- 4:28anymore. People will swear by these
- 4:29vision boards, but when I talk to people
- 4:31and I look at their vision boards and
- 4:33then I ask them, "Did this actually
- 4:34happen? Did this actually come true?"
- 4:36Most people will admit to me, "No, it
- 4:38has not. The vision board really did
- 4:40nothing." And it's not surprising. For
- 4:42one thing, those images on the vision
- 4:43board, you didn't generate with your
- 4:45mind. You didn't generate with your
- 4:46imagination. And they weren't generated
- 4:49from your values. They weren't generated
- 4:50from what's really important to you
- 4:52because you never explored that. You
- 4:53just found these images, you thought
- 4:54they looked good, and you slapped them
- 4:56onto the board. A true vision is
- 4:58dynamic. A true vision is created by
- 5:01your mind, your imagination. It's
- 5:03created from your motivation and the
- 5:06things that you really want and that are
- 5:07truly fulfilling to you. You're not
- 5:10going to find that on the internet.
- 5:11You're not going to find that in a
- 5:12magazine. That's in your mind. That's in
- 5:14your heart, your soul, your gut. So, how
- 5:16do you get what's in your heart, your
- 5:18soul, and your gut out into a vision?
- 5:21That's going to come from what is called
- 5:23a values elicitation. Let's first start
- 5:25with what is a value. A value according
- 5:28to my mentor Steve Andreas is a
- 5:30generalization about an experience
- 5:32that's important to you. So, if you
- 5:33value happiness, kindness, passion, joy,
- 5:37peace, empathy, these are all values.
- 5:40These are all generalizations about
- 5:42experiences that are important to you.
- 5:44And this is deeply unconscious for most
- 5:46people. Most people will never truly
- 5:48know what their deeper core values are
- 5:50because they don't have an exercise like
- 5:51the one I'm giving you here. When you
- 5:53have a goal and you have settled on this
- 5:55is what you want to achieve, what you
- 5:56want to do is do a value solicitation.
- 5:58And how that goes is you ask yourself
- 6:00what is important to me about achieving
- 6:02this or what will achieving this do for
- 6:04me? You will get an answer. And when you
- 6:05get that answer, you ask the same
- 6:08question to that new answer. If the goal
- 6:10is a money-making goal and you ask
- 6:11yourself, "What is important to me about
- 6:13this?" And the word security comes up.
- 6:16Okay? Then you would ask, "What is
- 6:17important to me about security?" Or,
- 6:19"What will this security do for me?" The
- 6:21answer you might get after that is
- 6:22peace. Then you would ask yourself,
- 6:24okay, what's important to me about
- 6:26peace? And you keep this going until
- 6:28you've pulled out all of your values.
- 6:30And then you're going to start to see
- 6:32what's really driving this. Once you
- 6:33have your values out like that, then you
- 6:35want to check back with the goal. Is
- 6:37this goal the right goal for fulfilling
- 6:39these values? The values are more
- 6:41important than the goal itself. And
- 6:43here's why. If you achieve a goal, but
- 6:45it is not aligned with your values, it
- 6:47will feel very empty. You probably have
- 6:49experienced this before. You were
- 6:50working so hard toward a goal. You
- 6:51finally achieved it. There was a lot of
- 6:53relief because it was over. And you may
- 6:55have celebrated for about an hour and
- 6:56then it started to feel really empty.
- 6:58That's probably because that goal was
- 7:00not aligned with your true values. So if
- 7:02the goal is not aligned with the values,
- 7:04you don't throw out the values and try
- 7:05to squeeze yourself into the goal. It's
- 7:07the opposite. The value is where your
- 7:09true fulfillment is, where your
- 7:10motivation is. The goals are disposable.
- 7:13The goals may or may not fulfill your
- 7:15values. If you catch on very quickly,
- 7:17and this might happen at the very
- 7:18beginning of this process, or you might
- 7:19have to start working toward that goal
- 7:21to realize it's not aligned with your
- 7:23values. Sometimes we have to test it a
- 7:24little bit. When you realize that that
- 7:26goal is not aligned with your values,
- 7:27you throw that goal out and you find a
- 7:29new goal that does align with these
- 7:31values. You'll be much happier for that
- 7:33because what you will realize is even in
- 7:35the process of achieving the goal, you
- 7:37don't even have to wait till you achieve
- 7:38the goal. If that goal is aligned with
- 7:40your values, as you're working toward
- 7:41that goal, you're going to feel it.
- 7:43You're going to feel fulfillment every
- 7:45time you take a step closer to that
- 7:46goal. This is really important to not
- 7:48have to wait to achieve a goal to
- 7:50experience fulfillment. You want to be
- 7:52experiencing it every step of the way.
- 7:53and that's your motivation. That way you
- 7:55won't quit. And when this happens,
- 7:57you'll start to realize the goal is not
- 7:58the most important part. This is really
- 8:00about how it's developing you, growing
- 8:01you, and bringing you fulfillment every
- 8:03step of the way. Now, once you have
- 8:05those values, then you're going to
- 8:07create your vision based on those
- 8:09values. You're going to imagine a blank
- 8:11canvas. And this blank canvas will
- 8:13represent this area of your life or
- 8:15whatever the goal is. Then you start
- 8:17putting those values on that canvas like
- 8:19you were making a vision board, but this
- 8:20time you're making the vision board in
- 8:21your mind. It's based on your values
- 8:23which you've already uncovered and now
- 8:25you're creating visual aspects to those
- 8:28values. What do these values look like
- 8:31in front of me if I were fulfilling them
- 8:32in this area of my life? Let your
- 8:34imagination go wild. There's complete
- 8:37creative freedom here. Visions are not
- 8:39supposed to be specific like goals are.
- 8:41Goals are either you cross that
- 8:43threshold or you don't. You either
- 8:44thread that needle or you don't. Your
- 8:46vision is not like that. Your vision
- 8:48should be vague. Your vision should be
- 8:50powerful. It's a compass. It sets the
- 8:52direction. It doesn't tell you how to
- 8:53traverse the terrain. This is very
- 8:55important. This is why visions are so
- 8:57powerful. And they will guide you like
- 8:58headlights. Even when the world seems so
- 9:01dark, it's your vision that's going to
- 9:03light the way and show you the way
- 9:05forward. Like I said, it's like a
- 9:07compass. It sets the direction. The
- 9:08other stuff, figuring out how to
- 9:10traverse the terrain and the exact
- 9:12goals, that comes later. First, you need
- 9:15a direction. You need a light. You need
- 9:17a pathway. That's what your vision does.
- 9:19And from there you figure out the steps.
- 9:23The next step is understanding
- 9:24resistance. When you see this vision in
- 9:26front of you, the only thing that can
- 9:27stop you from achieving it, from
- 9:29fulfilling it is resistance. Most people
- 9:31do not understand the first thing about
- 9:33resistance. They think of resistance or
- 9:35of parts of themselves that are
- 9:37objecting or holding themselves back.
- 9:38People make up these stories about
- 9:40there's parts of themselves sabotaging
- 9:42themselves. That's not actually what's
- 9:43happening. The last thing you want to do
- 9:45when you're embarking on fulfilling a
- 9:47powerful vision is to be in a fight with
- 9:49yourself. So ideas like discipline and
- 9:52willpower, this is basically fighting
- 9:54yourself. If you have to will yourself,
- 9:56if you have to discipline yourself to do
- 9:58something, first of all, you're not very
- 10:00clear about why you want to do this.
- 10:02Because part of being clear about it is
- 10:04no resistance. Meaning you're fully
- 10:06aligned with what it is you want to do.
- 10:08There's nothing holding you back. You're
- 10:09so clear about it that all of you wants
- 10:11it. There's not one part holding back.
- 10:13There's no parts trying to sabotage you.
- 10:15When you have that vision in front of
- 10:16you, you want to check in with yourself.
- 10:18Do I have any resistance to fulfilling
- 10:21this vision? Is there any part of me
- 10:22that objects to fulfilling this vision?
- 10:24You might get things like fear and doubt
- 10:26and worry about failure or you might
- 10:29have fears about embarrassing yourself.
- 10:31These are all forms of resistance and
- 10:33they need to be dealt with. The second
- 10:34step is acknowledging the resistance and
- 10:37integrating it. Yes, you heard me
- 10:39correctly. You're going to integrate
- 10:40resistance. You're not going to fight
- 10:42resistance. Like I said, if you fight
- 10:43resistance, you're just fighting
- 10:45yourself. And imagine that you got this
- 10:46mountain to climb. You know, that's your
- 10:48vision. It's this huge lofty goal that
- 10:50you want to go after. And instead of
- 10:51just going at it full swing, full stead
- 10:53ahead, clear about what you want, all of
- 10:55you on board, you're busy fighting with
- 10:57yourself and trying to will yourself and
- 10:59discipline yourself to push yourself.
- 11:01You're just making it so much more
- 11:03difficult. It's like trying to climb
- 11:05that mountain while also trying to drag
- 11:07a horse or a cow up the mountain as
- 11:09well. It doesn't make any sense. You
- 11:11don't want to be fighting yourself
- 11:12throughout this process. It's just going
- 11:13to slow you down and it's going to be
- 11:15less fulfilling. And even if you do
- 11:17achieve what it is that you want, if you
- 11:18had to fight yourself every step of the
- 11:20way, how good is that? Actually, that's
- 11:22not going to be that's not going to be
- 11:24very enjoyable. That's not very
- 11:25fulfilling if only part of you got what
- 11:27it wanted and the other part didn't. So,
- 11:29what you need to understand about your
- 11:31resistance is that there is a positive
- 11:33intention behind all resistance. Another
- 11:35word for positive intention is value.
- 11:38Yes, believe it or not, that part of you
- 11:40that's objecting, that part of you
- 11:41that's resisting, it actually wants to
- 11:43fulfill a value for you. In fact, it
- 11:46probably wants to fulfill more than one
- 11:47value for you. What happened here is
- 11:49that this part of you got disconnected
- 11:51from the rest of you. And there's lots
- 11:53of reasons why that can happen. The main
- 11:55one, the main reason this happens is
- 11:57because of pain, emotional pain. When
- 11:59you were younger, if something happened
- 12:00to you, like you got embarrassed, you
- 12:03had to do something for class and you
- 12:05got up, you tried to do it or whatever,
- 12:07and you failed, all the kids laughed at
- 12:09you. There was probably a part of you
- 12:10that felt very hurt by that. And then
- 12:12you told that part to never let this
- 12:14happen again. Never allow yourself to
- 12:16feel this pain again. Never allow
- 12:18yourself to be in a situation where this
- 12:20can happen again. So what happens when
- 12:22you do that? Well, that part listens.
- 12:24It's doing its job. and you gave it an
- 12:26away from strategy, meaning it's trying
- 12:27to not do something rather than do
- 12:29something. You didn't give it an
- 12:30alternative. You didn't say, "Okay, hey,
- 12:31let's not do that. Let's do this other
- 12:33thing instead." You just told it what
- 12:34not to do. So, its job is to keep you
- 12:37from doing things. Now, the mission of
- 12:39this part of you is to keep you from
- 12:40trying even when you really want
- 12:42something. And that way, it's protecting
- 12:44you. Most of your resistance and these
- 12:45internal objections are basically
- 12:47protection. It's just parts of you
- 12:48trying to protect you because you gave
- 12:50it that order. The problem is is it
- 12:51happened a long time ago. You completely
- 12:53forgot about it. Now later in life it's
- 12:55surfacing and holding you back from what
- 12:57it is that you want. So you want to
- 12:58invite this part to the conversation and
- 13:00ask it okay what are you trying to do
- 13:02for me? What is your positive intention
- 13:04for me by not doing this or by not going
- 13:06forward with this? What it will tell you
- 13:08will probably come out stated in the
- 13:09negative because you gave it a negative
- 13:11order. So it'll probably come out and
- 13:12say well I don't want you to be
- 13:14disappointed or I don't want you to
- 13:15fail. I don't want you to get hurt. I
- 13:16don't want you to get embarrassed. This
- 13:18part is not working against you. This
- 13:19part is trying to help you. None of your
- 13:21parts are trying [snorts] to actually
- 13:23hurt you or harm you or keep you from
- 13:24being happy and fulfilled. Some of these
- 13:26parts are just trying to protect you.
- 13:27Once it tells you that, that's good
- 13:29information. It's telling you what it
- 13:31doesn't want for you, but we can't move
- 13:32forward with that cuz it's still in
- 13:34negation, right? So, we ask it, "What do
- 13:36you want from me instead? If you don't
- 13:37want me to get hurt, what do you want
- 13:38from me instead? If you don't want me to
- 13:40be disappointed, you don't want me to be
- 13:41embarrassed, you don't want me to fail,
- 13:43what do you want from me instead?" And
- 13:45it's going to give you a powerful value.
- 13:47A lot of times that is, I want you to be
- 13:49successful. I want you to be happy
- 13:51instead. Great. Does happiness and
- 13:53success does that work with your vision?
- 13:55Of course, it does. So, all you have to
- 13:56do is elicit from your resistance a high
- 13:59enough value that it is compatible with
- 14:02your vision. And once you do that, you
- 14:03add that value to your vision. And what
- 14:06you're going to find from time to time,
- 14:07this is extraordinary, is that the value
- 14:10that that resistant part is trying to
- 14:12fulfill for you often is already a value
- 14:14that you have in your vision. So, you
- 14:16might be thinking, well, then I don't
- 14:17need to add it. Yes, you do. Because the
- 14:19value that it's trying to fulfill for
- 14:21you from your resistance adds another
- 14:23layer of dimension to that value. I'll
- 14:25give you an example. You might already
- 14:26have the value of love in your vision.
- 14:29It's a very powerful value. There's a
- 14:31lot of complexity and dimension to love.
- 14:33The part that's resistant might also be
- 14:35trying to fulfill love for you. What it
- 14:37has is a extra layer of love, an added
- 14:40dimension of love. So, you still want to
- 14:42add it to your vision because you want
- 14:43to make sure you're adding that extra
- 14:45layer, that extra dimension to your
- 14:46vision, which is just going to make your
- 14:48vision even more powerful. Once you do
- 14:50this with all resistance, you elicit
- 14:52those values and get them integrated
- 14:53into your vision until you have zero
- 14:56resistance left. Think about what you're
- 14:58looking at. You're looking at this
- 14:59amazing complex vision that is so
- 15:03powerful, so full of dimension and
- 15:05complexity and layers that it just wants
- 15:07to suck you into it. It's like drawing
- 15:09you forward with zero resistance. How do
- 15:11you think this is going to affect you?
- 15:13When you do this, you will realize you
- 15:14have just created the most powerful
- 15:16vision you have ever created and it will
- 15:18naturally pull you toward it. In fact,
- 15:20this is not something you want to
- 15:21practice over and over. Once you set the
- 15:23vision, once you integrate the
- 15:24resistance, let it go. Let it slip back
- 15:26into unconsciousness. It will become
- 15:28more powerful there because it will be
- 15:29influencing you even when you're not
- 15:31consciously aware of it. The good part
- 15:33about that is you're not having to
- 15:34negotiate with it. You're not saying,
- 15:36"Well, should I do this or should I do
- 15:37that?" You're not hesitating. Your
- 15:39vision is showing you the way,
- 15:40especially when you're not consciously
- 15:42aware of it. You're making these choices
- 15:44at rapid speed without having to analyze
- 15:47it and think a lot about it. And those
- 15:48decisions are guiding you toward that
- 15:50vision because it's compelling. It's
- 15:52based on your values and there's zero
- 15:54resistance getting in your way.
- 15:57The third step is becoming the person
- 16:00who lives that vision. Most people don't
- 16:02understand how to do this. So, they go
- 16:04looking for solutions. One of them is
- 16:07probably affirmations. Another one is
- 16:09fake it till you make it. There's all
- 16:10these ideas about how to shift your
- 16:13identity into becoming the person you
- 16:14want to be. Especially becoming the
- 16:16person you want to be who creates that
- 16:18life that you want to live. None of
- 16:20those other things like affirmations and
- 16:21fake it till you make it are going to
- 16:22work to shift your identity. Why?
- 16:24Because your identity is based on your
- 16:26beliefs about yourself. And most of
- 16:28those beliefs were forged very early in
- 16:31life like from the ages of between 0 and
- 16:347 years old. So, you can say things
- 16:36about yourself in the mirror that sound
- 16:38good. You can try to fake being
- 16:40something you're not, but all you're
- 16:42going to do is just get better at being
- 16:43fake. You're not going to move those
- 16:45core beliefs about yourself until you
- 16:48can go in there and find out what are
- 16:50those core beliefs you have about
- 16:51yourself. And how are they structured?
- 16:53It's the structure that holds them in
- 16:54place. If you're not changing the
- 16:56structure of your beliefs, you're not
- 16:57changing your beliefs. So, how do you
- 16:59know who do you need to become in order
- 17:01to create this wonderful vision that you
- 17:03just created? that vision that has zero
- 17:05resistance to it. Once again, you're
- 17:07going to find that in your values. When
- 17:09you go back and look at that list of
- 17:10values, that list of values has so many
- 17:13clues about who you need to be in order
- 17:15to make this happen. Your values might
- 17:17be happiness, joy, peace, passion, love,
- 17:22success, achievement. That's who you
- 17:25need to become. When you look at those
- 17:26list of values, you want to ask
- 17:28yourself, am I a happy person? Am I a
- 17:30joyful person? Do I believe I'm a
- 17:32successful person? Am I an achiever? Am
- 17:34I loving? Am I lovable? It does not help
- 17:36you to not be 100% honest with yourself
- 17:39about this. When I did this process the
- 17:41first time and I came to success as a
- 17:43value and I looked at that and I asked
- 17:45myself, am I a successful person? The
- 17:47honest truth, what I believed about
- 17:49myself was a flatout no. And that wasn't
- 17:52the easiest thing to admit to myself
- 17:53because in admitting that, what I was
- 17:56admitting is that what I truly believed
- 17:58about myself was that I was a failure.
- 18:00Nobody wants to admit that to
- 18:01themselves. So when you go down this
- 18:03list of values and you're asking
- 18:04yourself, am I insert the value as a
- 18:06quality of who you are, if you hesitate
- 18:08or you go, hm, sometimes yes, sometimes
- 18:10no, it is not a certain solid quality
- 18:12that you believe. That's a problem
- 18:13because if you don't believe this about
- 18:15yourself, it's going to hold you back.
- 18:16It's going to bring your self-esteem
- 18:18down. It's going to make you feel like
- 18:19you can't succeed. So like if your value
- 18:22is success and you don't believe you're
- 18:23a successful person, you're not very
- 18:24likely to try things. Why? Because you
- 18:26deep down believe you're going to fail.
- 18:28Why would you go and try something if
- 18:29you know you're going to fail? So, it's
- 18:30really important that you take these
- 18:32values, you understand where you are
- 18:34with them in terms of whether or not you
- 18:36believe them about yourself. And it's
- 18:38either going to be yes, I fully believe
- 18:40this about myself without hesitation. Or
- 18:42it's going to be ambiguous. Well,
- 18:44sometimes I am this value, sometimes I'm
- 18:45not, like sometimes I am successful,
- 18:47sometimes I'm not, or it's going to be a
- 18:49flatout no. And if it's a flatout no,
- 18:51that means you believe the opposite
- 18:53about yourself. The good news is there
- 18:54is a framework and there is a model for
- 18:57transforming beliefs about yourself.
- 18:59Actually, you can use it to transform
- 19:01any beliefs. It's a step-by-step process
- 19:03for changing beliefs about yourself and
- 19:05changing them and transforming them into
- 19:07beliefs that you value about yourself.
- 19:09And this is the biggest gamecher because
- 19:11when you become that person who creates
- 19:14this vision, not just someone who's
- 19:15chasing this vision, now you're not
- 19:17chasing fulfillment, you're not chasing
- 19:19value. You recognize that you are the
- 19:21value because you believe this about
- 19:23yourself. How much easier do you think
- 19:25it is to achieve what you want when you
- 19:28completely fully believe that you are
- 19:30the person who creates it? It's going to
- 19:33get a lot easier and a lot funner and a
- 19:35lot more fulfilling and you'll never run
- 19:37out of motivation. The truth about
- 19:39manifestation is you actually have to
- 19:42make this work. The idea behind
- 19:44manifestation that a lot of people are
- 19:46teaching out there is all I have to do
- 19:47is visualize. All I have to do is
- 19:49vibrate, whatever that means, or be on
- 19:51the right frequency, which doesn't
- 19:53really exist. As a metaphor, I guess
- 19:54it's fine. But there is no such
- 19:56frequency. There is no vibration. Just
- 19:58simple visualization is not going to
- 20:00make the universe deliver what you want
- 20:01to your front door. It just doesn't work
- 20:03that way. And if you think about things
- 20:04like, let's say, flight, you know, from
- 20:06probably the beginning of time, humans
- 20:09had a dream of flying. And probably
- 20:11plenty of people had fantasies of just
- 20:13opening their arms and flying into the
- 20:15sky. I remember being a kid, I had those
- 20:16fantasies myself. Then you had people
- 20:18who say, "Okay, well, let's actually try
- 20:20to figure this out." And you had people
- 20:22doing things like strapping wings to
- 20:23their arms and jumping off of cliffs and
- 20:25probably dying as a result. Eventually,
- 20:27a little more than 100 years ago, you
- 20:29had two brothers who said, "We're going
- 20:31to figure this thing out." And they kept
- 20:33trying and trying. And by process of
- 20:35trial and error, they finally figured
- 20:37out how to fly. The Wright brothers
- 20:38finally created an airplane. And now
- 20:40flight is one of the most amazing modern
- 20:43marvels humans have ever created. It
- 20:45didn't come from just fantasizing
- 20:46things. It didn't come from frequencies.
- 20:48It came from people actually figuring
- 20:49this thing out. So when it comes to your
- 20:51life, you don't want to leave those
- 20:52things up to chance. You want to
- 20:54actually start making this work. What
- 20:55could be more important than creating
- 20:57the life that you want to live and being
- 20:58that person who you truly want to be. So
- 21:00do yourself a favor and drop law of
- 21:02attraction. Drop law of assumption and
- 21:04start learning how to make these things
- 21:06work through actual techniques and
- 21:08processes. The only true shortcut really
- 21:10is to sit down and do the work. If you
- 21:13just stop short of the first two parts
- 21:15of this where you're understanding
- 21:17what's important to you, you're getting
- 21:18clear about what you want, you're taking
- 21:20those values, creating a vision, and
- 21:22you're overcoming the resistance, that
- 21:23will take you far further than any of
- 21:26the law of assumption and law of
- 21:27attraction stuff. Now, if you want to
- 21:28take that additional step and learn how
- 21:31to become the person, meaning you
- 21:33transform beliefs about yourself so that
- 21:35you become that person, then check out
- 21:37this next video right here.
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