NON ACCETTARE LA RABBIA | Buddha e Thich Nhat Hanh: la libertà di non odiare — Transcript
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- 0:07Welcome to this new philosophical foray
- 0:10.
- 0:11The man who wanted to insult the Buddha
- 0:14.
- 0:15The gift that is not accepted.
- 0:19Anger is one of the most common, yet at
- 0:22the same time most difficult, human
- 0:24experiences to understand.
- 0:29A word spoken in the wrong way, an
- 0:32unexpected offense, or a gesture we
- 0:35perceive as humiliating is enough to set
- 0:39something in motion within us.
- 0:44We feel the need to respond, to defend
- 0:46ourselves, to return to the other person
- 0:48the pain they caused us.
- 0:52Sometimes we continue arguing mentally
- 0:54with those who hurt us long after the
- 0:57encounter has ended.
- 1:00But are we truly obligated to react? And
- 1:03, above all, what happens when we decide
- 1:07not to?
- 1:09A surprising answer to these questions
- 1:11comes from an ancient Buddhist discourse
- 1:14, the Akosa Sutta, belonging to the
- 1:17Samyutta Nikaya, one of the canonical
- 1:19collections of Pali Buddhism.
- 1:24The protagonist is the Brahmin Akosa
- 1:26Bharadvaja, a man deeply irritated with
- 1:29the Buddha, whom he reproaches for
- 1:32having welcomed a member of his family
- 1:35among his disciples.
- 1:39What happens during their meeting gives
- 1:41us an unexpected lesson.
- 1:44We are not always obligated to pick up
- 1:46what others throw at us.
- 1:49Let the text speak for itself.
- 1:53Akosa Sutta, the discourse on insults.
- 1:58Thus have I heard.
- 2:02Once, the Blessed One was staying near
- 2:05Rajagaha, in the bamboo grove, at the
- 2:08squirrels 'sanctuary.
- 2:12Then the Brahmin Akosaka Bharadvaja
- 2:15heard that a Brahmin from the Bharadvaja
- 2:18clan had left domestic life for
- 2:20asceticism, taking refuge in the Blessed
- 2:23One.
- 2:26Irritated and displeased, he went to the
- 2:29Blessed One and, upon arriving, insulted
- 2:32him with harsh and insolent words.
- 2:36When he finished speaking, the Blessed
- 2:38One said to him, "What do you think,
- 2:40Brahmin?"
- 2:42"Do friends and colleagues, parents and
- 2:44relatives visit you as guests?"
- 2:48"Yes, Master Gotama."
- 2:51"Sometimes friends and colleagues,
- 2:53parents and relatives visit me as guests
- 2:56."
- 2:58"And what do you think?""Do you serve
- 3:00them good and delicious food?"
- 3:04"Yes, sometimes I serve them good and
- 3:07delicious food."
- 3:09"And if they do not accept it, to whom
- 3:10does that food belong?"
- 3:13"If they do not accept it, Master Gotama
- 3:15, that food is mine."
- 3:18"In the same way, Brahmin, since you
- 3:21have insulted me, I am not insulting you
- 3:24back."
- 3:26"Since you have mortified me, I am not
- 3:28mortifying you."
- 3:31"Since you have reproached me, I am not
- 3:34reproaching you."
- 3:36"Therefore, I do not accept them."
- 3:39"They are all yours, Brahmin, your
- 3:41insults."
- 3:43"It is all yours, Brahmin, it is all
- 3:45yours."
- 3:47Whoever returns an insult to one who is
- 3:50insulting him, mortifies the one who is
- 3:52mortifying him, and reproaches the one
- 3:55who is reproaching him.
- 3:59It is said that he shares everything
- 4:01with that person, but I am not sharing
- 4:04anything with you, brahmin.
- 4:07It is all yours, it is all your own.
- 4:12The king and his court know these words
- 4:15of Master Gotama.
- 4:18Gotama, the ascetic, is an arahant and,
- 4:21furthermore, Master Gotama has mastered
- 4:24anger.
- 4:28For the Buddha, there is no anger in one
- 4:32who is free of anger, calm, and at peace
- 4:36through perfect knowledge.
- 4:40He is calm and serene.
- 4:44You make things worse when you become
- 4:46heated with someone who is angry.
- 4:51Whoever does not become heated with
- 4:53someone who is angry wins a battle that
- 4:55is hard to win.
- 4:59You live for the benefit of all, your
- 5:03own and others, when, knowing the
- 5:05other’s anger, you carefully cultivate
- 5:09calm.
- 5:12When you work for the healing of all,
- 5:15your own and the other’s, those who
- 5:19think you are a fool know nothing of the
- 5:22Dhamma.
- 5:25At these words, the brahmin Akosaka
- 5:28Bharadvaja said to the Blessed One, "
- 5:30Magnificent Master Gotama, extraordinary
- 5:34."
- 5:36Just as if one were to set upright what
- 5:39was overturned, reveal what was hidden,
- 5:43show the way to one who was lost, or
- 5:46bring a lamp into the darkness so that
- 5:50those with eyes might see forms.
- 5:54In the same way, Master Gotama, by
- 5:57various methods, has made the Dhamma
- 5:59clear.
- 6:01I take refuge in Master Gotama, in the
- 6:04Dhamma, and in the community of monks.
- 6:09May I obtain the going forth from the
- 6:12worldly life in the presence of Master
- 6:14Gotama and the ordination as a monk.
- 6:20Then the brahmin Akosaka Bharadvaja
- 6:23received the novice initiation in the
- 6:26presence of the Blessed One, and not
- 6:29long after his ordination, dwelling
- 6:32alone, secluded, ardent, and resolute,
- 6:35he pursued and led the holy life.
- 6:42Thus he knew that birth is ended, the
- 6:45holy life fulfilled, and the task
- 6:48completed.
- 6:51And so the venerable Bharadvaja became
- 6:53another of the Arahants.
- 6:57There is something surprising about this
- 6:59story.
- 7:01The Buddha does not seek to win an
- 7:03argument, he does not humiliate his
- 7:06interlocutor, he does not return the
- 7:08aggression he received; instead, he
- 7:11introduces an apparently simple question
- 7:14, that of the refused gift, and through
- 7:17it opens a completely different
- 7:19possibility of being in a relationship
- 7:22with another.
- 7:25The discourse does not end with an
- 7:27effective retort or the momentary defeat
- 7:29of an opponent.
- 7:32The brahmin, who initially came to
- 7:34insult the Buddha, remains deeply moved
- 7:37by his words.
- 7:40He asks to be welcomed into the
- 7:42community of disciples, abandons his
- 7:45previous condition, and undertakes the
- 7:47path indicated by the Buddha until he
- 7:49reaches awakening.
- 7:53The man who had come to sow discord thus
- 7:56ends up finding a new direction for his
- 7:59existence.
- 8:02Anger, rather than generating more anger
- 8:04, becomes an occasion for transformation
- 8:07.
- 8:29Anger and suffering, the poisons of the
- 8:32mind.
- 8:35The first thing we must understand is
- 8:38that from the Buddhist perspective,
- 8:41anger is not simply an unpleasant
- 8:43emotion to control; it is a state of
- 8:46mind that, when it takes over, alters
- 8:49our perception of reality and conditions
- 8:52the way we relate to others.
- 8:57We no longer see a person in their
- 8:59complexity; we see someone to defend
- 9:01ourselves against, someone to accuse,
- 9:04someone to fight.
- 9:08Suffering thus becomes the soil in which
- 9:10hostility sprouts.
- 9:14To understand this dynamic, we must
- 9:16recall one of the fundamental teachings
- 9:18of Buddhism: the three poisons of the
- 9:20mind.
- 9:24Tradition identifies them as craving (
- 9:26lobha), aversion (dosa), and ignorance (
- 9:29moha).
- 9:33These are not three independent moral
- 9:35flaws, but three roots of unawareness
- 9:38that fuel the cycle of suffering.
- 9:42Craving binds us to what we desire,
- 9:45aversion drives us to reject what we
- 9:49dislike, and ignorance prevents us from
- 9:52understanding the changing and
- 9:54interdependent nature of things.
- 9:59Anger belongs primarily to the second
- 10:01root, but it cannot be separated from
- 10:03the others.
- 10:06It often arises from a frustrated desire
- 10:08, a disappointed expectation, or an
- 10:10image of ourselves that we feel is
- 10:11threatened.
- 10:15Thich Nhat Hanh, in his 2002 book "
- 10:17Taming the Tiger Within," invites us to
- 10:20look beyond the outward manifestation of
- 10:22anger.
- 10:25Someone who shouts, attacks, or uses
- 10:27offensive words is not necessarily a
- 10:30strong person.
- 10:33They may be someone who carries within
- 10:35them a suffering they cannot recognize
- 10:37or communicate.
- 10:41Anger then becomes a distorted language
- 10:43of pain.
- 10:46Understanding this origin does not mean
- 10:48justifying aggression, but recognizing
- 10:50that a wound may be hidden behind
- 10:53hostile behavior.
- 10:56A particularly effective image is that
- 10:58of nourishment.
- 11:00Thich Nhat Hanh invites us to ask
- 11:02ourselves what we are feeding our
- 11:04consciousness with.
- 11:07We do not nourish ourselves only through
- 11:10food; conversations, reading, images,
- 11:13news, and relationships also enter our
- 11:16inner life and contribute to shaping our
- 11:19state of mind.
- 11:22We can nourish serenity or continuously
- 11:25feed fear, envy, and hostility.
- 11:30In other words, we can continue to "eat
- 11:33" anger by exposing ourselves without
- 11:35discernment to everything that triggers
- 11:38and reinforces it.
- 11:40The issue thus takes on a deeper
- 11:43dimension.
- 11:45We are not just victims of external
- 11:47provocations; we participate, often
- 11:50unconsciously, in the formation of our
- 11:52own inner dispositions.
- 11:56The anger we receive can become anger
- 11:59that is ruminated, cultivated, and
- 12:02rethought until it occupies a
- 12:04disproportionate space in our existence
- 12:07.
- 12:10The first exercise of freedom then
- 12:12consists of observing what we introduce
- 12:14into our consciousness and recognizing
- 12:17the conditions that fuel suffering.
- 12:22Even before learning how to extinguish
- 12:24the fire of anger, we must understand
- 12:26what we keep throwing into it.
- 12:49Do not fight anger; embrace it and
- 12:52transform it.
- 12:55Recognizing anger is only the first step
- 12:57.
- 12:58The most difficult issue is
- 13:00understanding how to behave when it has
- 13:03already taken hold of our consciousness
- 13:05.
- 13:06We are used to considering negative
- 13:09emotions as enemies to be fought,
- 13:11something to be repressed or eliminated
- 13:14.
- 13:15Thich Nhat Hanh proposes a different
- 13:17perspective.
- 13:19Anger must not be defeated, but
- 13:21understood and transformed.
- 13:24In the chapter "Transformation," the
- 13:26Vietnamese master introduces a
- 13:28particularly effective metaphor.
- 13:32Anger is a suffering child who needs to
- 13:35be embraced.
- 13:38He writes: Anger is an energy field, it
- 13:40is part of us, it is a suffering child.
- 13:45This image overturns our habitual way of
- 13:48dealing with emotions.
- 13:51When a child cries, we do not scold them
- 13:53for disturbing our peace.
- 13:57We hold them, try to understand their
- 13:59discomfort, and offer them our attention
- 14:01.
- 14:03We should behave the same way with our
- 14:05anger.
- 14:08This does not mean indulging it, but
- 14:10recognizing the suffering that manifests
- 14:12through it.
- 14:16To achieve this shift, we must develop
- 14:18the energy of mindfulness, "sati."
- 14:22Thich Nhat Hanh describes it as a
- 14:25presence capable of embracing and taking
- 14:28care of painful mental formations.
- 14:32Conscious breathing and walking
- 14:35meditation allow us to generate this
- 14:37energy that does not fight anger, but
- 14:39wraps it in attention and gentleness.
- 14:44In this regard, the Vietnamese master
- 14:46warns us against a misunderstanding.
- 14:50Do not turn yourself into a battlefield
- 14:53where one part of you fights the other.
- 14:57This is a philosophically important
- 15:00consideration.
- 15:02Meditation does not consist of
- 15:04establishing an inner war between a good
- 15:07and a bad part of our personality.
- 15:11Positive and negative feelings belong to
- 15:14the same organic reality.
- 15:18We do not need to destroy a part of
- 15:20ourselves, but learn to transform it.
- 15:24To clarify this principle, Thich Nhat
- 15:26Hanh resorts to the metaphor of compost
- 15:29.
- 15:30Organic waste can become nourishment for
- 15:33flowers.
- 15:35In the same way, suffering can turn into
- 15:38an opportunity for growth.
- 15:41Anger, if embraced by awareness, can
- 15:44become an occasion for self-knowledge
- 15:46and understanding of others.
- 15:50The Buddhist principle of "interbeing"
- 15:53is connected to this vision.
- 15:55Nothing exists in isolation. Every being
- 15:59is linked to others through a web of
- 16:02relationships and conditions.
- 16:05Non-violence also arises from this
- 16:07understanding.
- 16:09Doing violence to another means fueling
- 16:12a condition of suffering that involves
- 16:14the entire reality of our relationships
- 16:17.
- 16:19The transformation of anger thus becomes
- 16:21something more than the attainment of
- 16:24personal quality.
- 16:26It is a different way of inhabiting the
- 16:28world, starting from the relationship
- 16:30with ourselves.
- 16:53The practice of freedom: breathing,
- 16:56awareness, and transformation.
- 17:00Understanding anger is not enough; one
- 17:02must learn to behave differently when it
- 17:05manifests.
- 17:06Buddhism does not propose only a
- 17:09theoretical knowledge of the mind, but a
- 17:11daily exercise of transformation.
- 17:15Thich Nhat Hanh insists on a fundamental
- 17:17principle.
- 17:19When we are angry, we must avoid
- 17:21speaking or acting impulsively.
- 17:25The first thing to do is return to
- 17:27ourselves, regaining mindfulness through
- 17:30our breath.
- 17:32He writes that it is not wise to say or
- 17:35do anything when you are angry; it is
- 17:37more urgent to return to yourself to
- 17:40take care of your anger.
- 17:44Mindful breathing is one of the
- 17:46fundamental tools of this practice.
- 17:50Inhaling and exhaling with awareness
- 17:52means returning to the body, momentarily
- 17:55stopping the flow of thoughts, and
- 17:58recognizing what is happening inside us
- 18:01.
- 18:03Walking meditation also allows us to
- 18:05recover this presence.
- 18:08Each step becomes an opportunity to
- 18:10regain contact with the present moment.
- 18:14It is not about distracting ourselves
- 18:16from the problem, but about creating the
- 18:19inner conditions to face it without
- 18:21being overwhelmed.
- 18:23Another particularly interesting
- 18:25teaching is that of so-called selective
- 18:28watering.
- 18:31Thich Nhat Hanh compares mental
- 18:33dispositions to seeds that can be
- 18:35nourished or left to wither.
- 18:40Within us exist seeds of anger,
- 18:42intolerance, and despair, but also seeds
- 18:45of love, understanding, and compassion.
- 18:50Our words, our behaviors, and our daily
- 18:53relationships contribute to growing one
- 18:56or the other.
- 18:59The practice consists of not
- 19:01continuously fueling negative
- 19:03dispositions and consciously cultivating
- 19:06the positive ones.
- 19:09But how should we behave when anger
- 19:12involves someone we are close to?
- 19:16Thich Nhat Hanh proposes a very concrete
- 19:18communication exercise, articulated in
- 19:20three sentences.
- 19:23Darling, I am suffering, I am angry, and
- 19:25I want you to know.
- 19:28I am doing my best to take care of my
- 19:31anger.
- 19:33Please, help me.
- 19:36These are not words of accusation, but a
- 19:38way to communicate one's own suffering
- 19:39without transforming it into aggression
- 19:41.
- 19:44The master also suggests not letting too
- 19:46much time pass without addressing the
- 19:48conflict, dedicating a moment of shared
- 19:51reflection to feelings and their causes
- 19:53.
- 19:55Buddhist practice therefore teaches us
- 19:57three movements.
- 20:00Recognize the anger, take care of it,
- 20:02and transform it through awareness.
- 20:07We will not always be able to do this
- 20:08immediately.
- 20:11It takes practice, patience, and
- 20:13consistency, but every time we manage to
- 20:16interrupt an impulsive reaction, we gain
- 20:19a space of freedom.
- 20:22Wisdom does not consist of never getting
- 20:25angry,
- 20:27but in learning not to become a slave to
- 20:29one's own anger.
- 20:53Compassion and the art of communicating
- 20:55with no enemies.
- 20:59Transforming anger does not only concern
- 21:01our relationship with ourselves; it must
- 21:03necessarily involve our relationships
- 21:05with others.
- 21:07Suffering, in fact, is often fueled by
- 21:10mutual misunderstanding.
- 21:14We fail to communicate what we feel, we
- 21:17interpret others' words as aggression,
- 21:19we defend ourselves by attacking.
- 21:23The result is a spiral in which everyone
- 21:26feels like the other's victim and no one
- 21:28can truly listen anymore.
- 21:32Thich Nhat Hanh identifies communication
- 21:35itself as one of the fundamental
- 21:37conditions for interrupting this dynamic
- 21:40.
- 21:41In the chapter "No Enemies," he writes
- 21:43that without communication, there cannot
- 21:46be true understanding.
- 21:49But communication must begin with
- 21:51ourselves.
- 21:54If we are unable to recognize our own
- 21:56wounds, fears, and habits, we will
- 21:59hardly be able to understand those of
- 22:01others.
- 22:04In this regard, the principle of "
- 22:05interbeing" we have already encountered
- 22:07becomes important once again.
- 22:10We are also made up of what is
- 22:12apparently external to us.
- 22:16Our parents, ancestors, the environment
- 22:18, and our lived experiences all become
- 22:21part of our identity.
- 22:24Rejecting the other completely often
- 22:26means ignoring a part of the conditions
- 22:29that helped form us.
- 22:32From this awareness, deep listening is
- 22:35born.
- 22:37In the chapter "Communicating with
- 22:40Understanding," Thich Nhat Hanh invokes
- 22:42the figure of the Bodhisattva
- 22:44Avalokiteśvara, a symbol of great
- 22:47compassion and the ability to hear the
- 22:49suffering of living beings.
- 22:53Listening means offering the other a
- 22:56space where they can express their pain
- 22:59without feeling immediately judged.
- 23:04We must not interrupt them to defend
- 23:06ourselves or mentally prepare a response
- 23:08while they speak; we must try to
- 23:10understand.
- 23:13The author insists: listen with one sole
- 23:16purpose, to allow the other to express
- 23:18themselves and to find relief from their
- 23:21suffering.
- 23:23Compassion, however, does not mean
- 23:26weakness.
- 23:27Thich Nhat Hanh states this with
- 23:29particular resolve in the chapter "No
- 23:31Enemies."
- 23:34Compassion is intelligent.
- 23:37Understanding those who attack us does
- 23:39not mean letting them continue to do so
- 23:41with impunity.
- 23:43We can oppose injustice, protect
- 23:45ourselves, and intervene with firmness.
- 23:49The difference lies in not turning the
- 23:52person in front of us into the target of
- 23:55our hatred.
- 23:57The author expresses this principle with
- 24:00a particularly incisive phrase.
- 24:02Human beings are not the enemy.
- 24:06For the Buddhist, the enemy is hidden
- 24:08instead in the seeds of ignorance, fear
- 24:11, and anger present in each of us.
- 24:15A concrete application of this vision is
- 24:17the Peace Treaty found in the book's
- 24:20appendix.
- 24:22It is a set of mutual commitments for
- 24:24dealing with conflicts.
- 24:27Do not speak when anger is too intense,
- 24:30do not repress it, return to mindful
- 24:32breathing, communicate your suffering,
- 24:34and look for an opportune moment to
- 24:37listen to each other.
- 24:40Not an abstract declaration of good
- 24:42intentions, but an exercise in
- 24:44responsibility in daily relationships.
- 24:48Reconciliation becomes possible when
- 24:50each person stops considering the other
- 24:53solely as the cause of their own
- 24:55unhappiness.
- 24:58It will not always be possible to
- 25:00recover a relationship, nor can every
- 25:02conflict be resolved, but we can prevent
- 25:05pain from turning into permanent hatred
- 25:07.
- 25:10Having no enemies does not mean having
- 25:12no opponents to struggle against; it
- 25:14means never forgetting the humanity of
- 25:16those with whom, for one reason or
- 25:18another,
- 25:19we are in conflict.
- 25:42The freedom not to hate: a lesson for
- 25:45our time.
- 25:48There is a reason why the Buddhist
- 25:50teaching on anger retains a particular
- 25:52power, even outside the spiritual
- 25:54context in which it was born.
- 25:57It doesn't just concern the way we face
- 26:00a personal offense, a family argument,
- 26:02or a daily conflict.
- 26:05It also concerns how we inhabit the
- 26:08world, react to events, judge others,
- 26:10and participate in collective life.
- 26:15And one only needs to observe what is
- 26:17happening around us to realize how much
- 26:19anger has become a constant presence.
- 26:24It permeates public debate, fuels
- 26:26political polarization, and accompanies
- 26:28the reporting of international conflicts
- 26:30.
- 26:33In the words used to describe wars,
- 26:35human beings sometimes disappear behind
- 26:38abstract categories, enemy peoples,
- 26:40identities to be erased, groups to be
- 26:42despised.
- 26:44Even on social media, discussion easily
- 26:47degenerates into a binary frontal clash
- 26:50.
- 26:51The speed of reaction prevails over the
- 26:54patience of listening; judgment precedes
- 26:56understanding.
- 26:59A single sentence, an image, or a
- 27:00different opinion is enough to trigger a
- 27:02sequence of accusations and
- 27:03condemnations.
- 27:06Thus, almost on cue, the same patterns,
- 27:09the same phrases, and the same reactive
- 27:11quips are repeated.
- 27:14Few arguments, little willingness for a
- 27:16real confrontation.
- 27:19We think we are acting, expressing our
- 27:22thoughts freely, when in reality we are
- 27:25very often just reacting.
- 27:29It almost seems that not reacting
- 27:31immediately means being weak, that not
- 27:33hating equates to having no convictions
- 27:36, that understanding someone's reasons
- 27:39necessarily means justifying their
- 27:41actions.
- 27:43But these are false equivalencies, and
- 27:46it is precisely on this point that the
- 27:48reflection of Thich Nhat Hanh becomes
- 27:50particularly interesting.
- 27:53In the chapter "No Enemy," the
- 27:55Vietnamese monk proposes an essential
- 27:57distinction.
- 27:59The enemy is violence, ignorance, and
- 28:02injustice within us and in others.
- 28:05Therefore, it is not human beings as
- 28:07such who should become the object of our
- 28:10hatred.
- 28:11It is the conditions that produce
- 28:14violence and suffering that must be
- 28:16recognized and countered.
- 28:19The distinction is not just moral; it
- 28:22changes the way we approach conflict.
- 28:26We can oppose an unjust behavior without
- 28:29depriving those who commit it of their
- 28:32human dignity.
- 28:34We can openly denounce the
- 28:36responsibilities of those who commit
- 28:38crimes, demand justice, protect those
- 28:41exposed to violence, and prevent abuse
- 28:43from continuing.
- 28:46Compassion does not ask us to renounce
- 28:49judgment or to suspend all moral
- 28:52evaluation; it asks us, rather, not to
- 28:54let judgment turn into hatred, because
- 28:57hatred risks reproducing the very
- 29:00dehumanization we wish to fight.
- 29:04It is a decisive point.
- 29:06Buddhism is not an escape from reality,
- 29:08spiritual indifference toward injustice
- 29:10, or an artificial pacification of
- 29:12conflicts.
- 29:16In the thought of Thich Nhat Hanh,
- 29:18non-violence can be an energetic action
- 29:20, capable of openly opposing violence.
- 29:24Moreover, this is not a conviction that
- 29:26has remained merely on a theoretical
- 29:28level.
- 29:30During the Vietnam War, the Vietnamese
- 29:32monk became personally involved in the
- 29:34peace movement, promoting relief
- 29:36initiatives for populations affected by
- 29:38the bombings and giving life to the form
- 29:41of social engagement that he would
- 29:43define as engaged Buddhism.
- 29:47However, its strength should not come
- 29:49from the desire to annihilate the
- 29:52adversary, but from an understanding of
- 29:54the causes that produce evil and the
- 29:56will to stop its propagation.
- 30:01As he writes, non-violence born of love
- 30:03can only be an intelligent action.
- 30:07We must pause on this expression:
- 30:10intelligent action.
- 30:13Good intentions alone are not enough.
- 30:17One must know how to evaluate the
- 30:18consequences of one's own words,
- 30:20gestures, and reactions.
- 30:24Protesting may be necessary, denouncing
- 30:27an injustice may be a duty, and even
- 30:30offering resistance may become
- 30:32indispensable, but when anger takes full
- 30:35control, we risk losing clarity and no
- 30:38longer distinguishing between actions
- 30:41truly capable of countering evil and
- 30:44those that end up only fueling more
- 30:46hostility.
- 30:49The issue also concerns our relationship
- 30:51with information.
- 30:53Every day we are exposed to images of
- 30:56war, aggressive and alarmist statements
- 30:58, dramatic news, and interpretations
- 31:01that demand an immediate stance from us
- 31:03.
- 31:06We cannot shirk the responsibility of
- 31:08staying informed and judging, but we can
- 31:10question the quality of what we
- 31:12introduce into our consciousness every
- 31:14day.
- 31:18The poisoned climate of social media and
- 31:20the pseudo-informative trash served to
- 31:23us non-stop by propaganda are not
- 31:26harmless elements; they can fuel fear,
- 31:29resentment, hostility, and prejudice.
- 31:33We should learn to pay attention to what
- 31:36we consume, just as we do with food.
- 31:39It is not enough to water the good seeds
- 31:41of our consciousness; we must also check
- 31:43what we nourish ourselves with.
- 31:45It is a matter of mental hygiene and, if
- 31:47you'll allow the expression, digestive
- 31:49hygiene as well.
- 31:52The Buddhist practice of mindfulness
- 31:54teaches us exactly this: to introduce a
- 31:57pause between what happens and our
- 31:59response, a space in which to recognize
- 32:01the emotions passing through us,
- 32:03understand their origin, and decide if
- 32:06we really want to let ourselves be
- 32:08guided by them.
- 32:11It does not mean withdrawing from the
- 32:14world, but learning to inhabit it
- 32:16without being dragged into the spiral of
- 32:18hostility and violence.
- 32:21Let us then return to the initial story
- 32:23.
- 32:23The man who insults the Buddha would
- 32:25like to get a response consistent with
- 32:28his own anger, but the Buddha does not
- 32:30accept the gift—not because he didn't
- 32:32hear the insult, nor because he is
- 32:34incapable of recognizing the conflict,
- 32:36but simply because he does not hand over
- 32:39to the other the power to determine his
- 32:41own conduct.
- 32:43Well, perhaps this is truly the deepest
- 32:45meaning of the teaching we have explored
- 32:48.
- 32:50We cannot prevent others from offering
- 32:52us their anger, but we can learn not to
- 32:55accept it and not to transmit it further
- 32:57.
- 33:00We can recognize evil and counter it
- 33:02with determination without letting our
- 33:04resentment end up resembling it.
- 33:08The challenge is precisely this: to
- 33:10oppose violence with a strength capable
- 33:12of stopping it without reproducing its
- 33:14logic.
- 33:17The freedom not to hate is not a
- 33:19comfortable freedom; it requires
- 33:20attention, discipline, and courage.
- 33:24But perhaps the true victory does not
- 33:27consist in defeating those before us,
- 33:30but in succeeding to resist what we
- 33:32consider unjust without losing, in doing
- 33:35so, our own humanity.
- 33:39Practicing, ultimately, means training
- 33:41ourselves to remain human.
- 33:56And with that, we have finished for
- 33:58today.
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