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0:00Not every decision that you make has to
0:02be rooted on that. Sometimes you just
0:03have to add value to people's lives.
0:05>> Yes, true.
0:09But it takes time, strength, and effort
0:12to be a good one. Yeah. When you're
0:13growing up, it's not a competition with
0:15other people. It's really just trying to
0:17be a better person than you were before.
0:20The meaning of success used to be for me
0:21hustle, hustle, hustle. Now, no. Rest is
0:24my definition of success. If you have
0:26the time to rest, you are successful.
0:29Your priorities are all in check. Then,
0:32if so, you can enjoy the fruit of your
0:34labor. That's not a bad thing.
0:36>> [music]
0:40>> But before we get into that, if you're
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0:55let's get into it.
0:55>> What's up, you guys? And welcome to
0:56another episode of Adulting with Joyce
0:58Spring. I feel like I'm in a time
1:00capsule of some sort because one of my
1:03most
1:05tagged episodes, one of the oldest
1:07episodes that I had on the podcast, was
1:10this was with this inspiring woman.
1:14When she was I think that was your first
1:17guesting on a podcast. She was busy
1:20building her business. She was doing all
1:22of these different things in her life.
1:24And now she is officially back in the
1:26Philippines for a visit. And she made
1:30time to be on the podcast. Please
1:32welcome once again Miss Angeli Dy.
1:37>> [laughter]
1:42[laughter]
1:44>> Hi. Thank you so much.
1:51I'm still the same Angeli.
1:56>> [laughter]
1:57>> It's That episode was 2018. Can you
2:00believe it?
2:10Sorry, 2019. I don't know about
2:13Oh, you 2020 but I am first episode and
2:16then 5 years ago.
2:19So many
2:23That was earlier but
2:25Uh no, I know that. It's 2020 of March
2:28because you remember we had that
2:30conversation I was online. No, no, no.
2:33There We were in the studio and then
2:34people were saying we're going to
2:36lock down. But then they're going to
2:38close down and everything. Yes, it was.
2:42But I'm
2:435 days before the lockdown.
2:47Yes.
2:48Oh, okay. So many things has happened
2:51since then. You moved to Spain. You got
2:53your masters. You built multiple
2:55businesses. How are you, girl? You look
2:59beautiful.
3:02>> [laughter]
3:05>> I'm okay. I've survived a lot of things
3:08and
3:09I'm proud of it. And I'm actually happy
3:11that I went through that. It really
3:13shaped me. It really helped me become
3:17who I am today.
3:36Yeah.
3:53Yeah, I I feel like that's such a
3:54beautiful perspective because
3:57to a certain extent, especially people
3:59who are very hardworking.
4:04We tend to do things on our own because
4:07we think that's the only way to go about
4:09things. And I think that's how I found
4:10my relationship with God to begin with
4:12because I don't I'm big at big at being
4:14God. There's too much. I am carrying too
4:17much. I'm working too much.
4:19I have too many things on my plate and I
4:21couldn't carry it anymore.
4:23So I'm glad to hear that. But I am
4:27I would say when you moved to a
4:29different country.
4:31How has life changed?
4:34God wise or everything?
4:35>> Everything. Tell us everything.
4:43So I moved to Spain. Wait, pandemic and
4:46Pandemic. Pandemic was very hard.
4:48Imagine my business was my whole life.
4:54That was done and test your skills go.
4:57Now okay, Angeli Dy. People say you're
4:59amazing. Your mom say you're great.
5:03But are you really great? Can you
5:05survive this?
5:18So that was the time first time going to
5:20experience can question going to go
5:22existence go.
5:24I was like
5:25Never going to go in my town and I say
5:27to
5:28I don't know what to do.
5:31This is spontaneous and I don't know
5:32what to do.
5:34I just surf. I don't know with the waves
5:37of life.
5:42There was no life. Life stopped.
5:45Especially with your life
5:46yeah.
5:51Somebody asked
5:56I
5:58said yes to everything.
6:04What's the point of questioning
6:06yourself? If you core
6:10you are that person. Yes, yes, yes, yes,
6:12yes, yes, yes.
6:14So
6:17I feel I am aligned with values.
6:20You can be both but I am not. Yeah.
6:26I can say I can start. Yes, yes, yes,
6:28yes, yes. I was driving coming here. So
6:31I can go.
6:32Angeli You're the same person.
6:39I don't think of that. Yeah. I just
6:41execute. That's apparently
6:44I don't know
6:45what I am going to do
6:47showing up. I am consistent doing
6:49things. My whole life has been like
6:51that. I just showed up.
6:55And you know, you know what some of the
6:58truly content and in their lives.
7:01They're not directed by this ideology of
7:05I don't know what I am going to do with
7:06it. Or I don't know what I am going to
7:08do with it. I don't know what I am going
7:09to do with it.
7:11Whatever. It's adding value to others
7:14and then figuring out along the way,
7:16okay, I'm adding value to this person.
7:18I'm just going to do this. You know, I'm
7:20just going to say yes and maybe I can
7:21learn something from it. I'll I'll make
7:23a good connection if anything. And
7:25that's the kind of character that a lot
7:27of young people sometimes miss out on
7:29today.
7:35Which of course you have to think about
7:36those things. But not every decision
7:38that you make has to be rooted on that.
7:40Sometimes you just have to add value to
7:42people's lives.
7:43>> Yes, true. There's one thing I don't
7:45know what to do in life.
7:47I don't know what to do
7:50but it takes time, strength, and effort
7:53to be a good one. But I'm not saying I'm
7:55perfect. I'm just saying I put effort
7:58into being a good person. Mhm. Life is
8:02not just about money and business.
8:03There's so many aspects of life that I
8:05don't know what to do.
8:08I don't know what to do. I've learned to
8:10live my life outside my business. Wow.
8:14My business is no longer my whole life.
8:23My 20s
8:25I don't know what I am going to do with
8:26my business. I love my work.
8:31But life comes in seasons. My 30s
8:37I don't know what I am going to do
8:38today. It's okay. I'm going to do
8:39something else. You know what I am going
8:41to do in Spain. When I moved to Spain
8:55When I moved to Spain, Joyce, people
8:56don't work on weekends. Wow.
9:00And they question me people in my
9:02environment. Why are we working on
9:04weekends?
9:06And there are some places that say no
9:08laptop on weekends. This space is
9:11no laptops. Oh, wow.
9:13for people
9:14and then I don't know. So
9:16I adjust go.
9:20It's never too late to change something.
9:23I don't know.
9:24Character development. I don't know what
9:26I am going to do. I don't know what I am
9:27going to do.
9:28I don't Yeah. I don't know what I am
9:29going to do. I do things.
9:33I don't know. Yeah, but I think that
9:35also comes that is a privilege that you
9:37afforded yourself. Because you cannot
9:39have that unless you worked hard and
9:41smart first and foremost. That's a
9:43privilege that you have to afford for
9:45yourself. I can do that now in your I
9:48also do that now in my 30s. I pick and
9:50choose the jobs that I want to do
9:51because I worked my butt off in my 20s.
9:54I I put my head down. I did everything
9:56that I had to do. I said yes to every
9:58opportunity. You know, quite
10:04because I wanted to build a life for
10:05myself where my time was mine.
10:09And I think that's such an important
10:10thing to talk about,
10:12you move to Spain, you're learning so
10:15many different cultures in your life,
10:17but you travel as your life.
10:24to travel. I fell in love with my life
10:27in Spain.
10:30I'm actually slowly
10:34I was going to shut it listen. And that
10:37is okay. I grieved a lot. Because you
10:41know my whole life here. Then I talked
10:43to a lot of people. Even
10:47who you are won't stay with you. You
10:49know, it's funny that you talk about
10:51grief and your a part of yourself not
10:54saying who you are. Cuz I was talking to
10:56a girlfriend of mine about this and
11:01life goes
11:02attack
11:04work 24/7. I am an intense workaholic.
11:09When when I was in my 20s, that was me.
11:11And then when I had children, I tried to
11:13be the same kind of person. I was
11:16working as much as I wanted to. My
11:18schedule was revolving around me, not
11:20not my son at that time. And then I just
11:23felt so miserable. And then I realized
11:25it was because I was forcing old rhythms
11:28into a new season.
11:30I had to grieve the fact that I'm no
11:33longer the same person. That I didn't
11:36want the same things anymore. That I
11:38couldn't do the same things anymore.
11:40That I had different priorities and that
11:42I had a different season in my life. So,
11:44I also had to evolve. And I think that's
11:47the most one of the most important
11:48things that you have to learn about when
11:49you're growing up. It's accepting the
11:51fact
11:56And I kind of just move on and and
11:59explore this new person that you're
12:01becoming. So, what have you been
12:03learning in this new season of your life
12:05that you're in right now? Okay, so but I
12:08moved to Spain because I was really in
12:10love with this man. He was the love of
12:12my life.
12:15My old version said he was the love of
12:18my life.
12:20But people leave. It's part of
12:23everything. I did not end up with him.
12:25Actually, last night
12:26I was driving with my mom. So, I become
12:29I did not end up with this guy.
12:33So, because I thought you knew me.
12:37I was going to end up with him. I was
12:38going to have a family and everything.
12:40That didn't happen. I should have tried
12:42to make reconnect this year.
12:47He was still doing the same things.
12:52Yeah. I realized I
12:55am a completely new person and I grieve
12:59last year October.
13:01A year ago.
13:02>> Mhm.
13:04I woke up. I was super super super sad.
13:08And normally when I used to personality
13:09go because even I am sad, I can find
13:12something to be happy.
13:14Yeah, you're a ball of energy.
13:15>> Oh, yes. I'm just like whatever.
13:21>> [laughter]
13:23>> That time last year October again a year
13:25ago, I was so sad, Joyce. I booked a
13:28trip to Croatia.
13:30I was
13:32sitting in a coffee shop in the morning
13:34after my run.
13:41Oh my I was like, I'm so sorry. It's
13:43just
13:44I'm just so sad. I don't know why.
13:47So, they were like, oh, it's okay.
13:50They were like, we thought you were
13:51British. I was like, I'm not British. I
13:52British. I can speak Filipino. You
13:53should tell me with me.
13:54>> [laughter]
13:55>> That was
13:56It was so good that I am
13:58I I can be just a human being. Yeah. I
14:01am in Europe and you know what I am
14:03going to do again but I am going to
14:0510 seconds later I am going to
14:08give up because they did not understand
14:10me.
14:11I am
14:12a new follower and it has nothing to do
14:15with that. Just because you have social
14:17media presence, it doesn't mean you
14:19don't have emotions. Yeah.
14:21>> It doesn't mean
14:25life is just about followers likes. At
14:27the end of the day, that means nothing.
14:29Yeah.
14:30At at some point, I am going to realize
14:33those things are nothing.
14:36Yeah.
14:37For us, it's just work. Yeah.
14:43So,
14:44now
14:48everything that happened in my life even
14:51you are sadness and I feel good last
14:52year. You know what I am grieving
14:55going to I was letting go now of
14:57everything.
14:58Who I've been my whole life in the
14:59Philippines. I
15:03am in Spain. I am going to
15:06see new people. I find myself being an
15:07introvert. Wow.
15:10Like after I'm going to shut myself now.
15:13I
15:14am just going to be in Madrid.
15:18I
15:20don't even lead tours anymore to access.
15:23I just learned that it's a new life
15:26goal. I just want to make it again.
15:31I can have a conversation with old
15:33people. Yes, I connect so fast.
15:35I am going to
15:37after I go.
15:39Where do you think that came from?
15:41>> Language barrier in Spain.
15:43That triggered Okay, that's what started
15:46it.
15:47Yes, yes, yes.
15:50That language barrier triggered
15:52something in me. I am going to take a
15:55minute.
15:58Observing the world around you.
16:00>> Yes, so I became like that. So, I am
16:02going to
16:06May memory recall here.
16:12I enjoy
16:14both. I am feeling for the first time. I
16:18am going to
16:19say comments that I am
16:21yes, I know, but
16:22it's not just about being famous or
16:25relevant. I have a business say. Yeah.
16:27>> So, I am required everywhere.
16:30It's not even about social media because
16:32I am so much post like work and I am
16:35going to do
16:36additional stuff. It's more of you can
16:39kill everywhere.
16:41>> Yeah. I am going to go now.
16:48So, I am going to say we go.
16:50I am going to go now. I am going to kill
16:52anywhere.
16:56I am just me. Yeah. And um
16:59people don't ask what do you do for a
17:01living? Do you have a a husband? What's
17:04your religion? What's your political
17:05view? What up?
17:06They just know me. That's a no no in
17:08Europe though, right?
17:09>> Yes. Like that's it's not something that
17:12people talk about. And it's so funny
17:15because when I that I when I traveled,
17:17that was the only time that I realized
17:19it.
17:23Yes.
17:25The first thing people ask you when you
17:27enter the cafe hola, que tal? Hi, how
17:30are you?
17:32So, you
17:34you feel seen.
17:36>> Yeah.
17:37What's your order?
17:39>> [laughter]
17:39>> Not everyone is like that here, but I am
17:42going to experience a different world
17:43because I am going to be a tourist and I
17:44am going to be excited here. I am going
17:47to
17:47go to Joyce.
17:49I am going to go away from my house.
17:54Buenos días. Buenos días.
17:57I am going to something. I am going to
17:59go to phone now. Yeah. I am going to go
18:02to town.
18:03I am going to go to the building. I am
18:05going to go to the building. So, I am
18:07going to go to the world
18:09because before I was just a tourist.
18:11Now, I really live somewhere. I am going
18:14to go to culture. I am going to go to
18:15the way.
18:19Yeah.
18:19>> I am going to go to the way. Yeah.
18:25I am going to build build up now. I am
18:27really proud of who I am today.
18:29I am so glad and that's the one thing
18:31that you you want, right? When you're
18:33growing up, it's not even it's not a
18:35competition with other people. It's
18:36really just trying to be a better person
18:38than you were before. It's really
18:40figuring out, okay, who am I now? What
18:43do I value? What is my goal? What are my
18:46what are my priorities? And I think if
18:48you have those things in check, it's
18:50easier to move around in the world. I
18:53remember when I studied in the UK a few
18:56years ago.
18:59Everybody sat down on the table. I
19:00remember this the first time I sat down
19:03with some of my classmates and nobody
19:05was using their phones.
19:07Nope. As in and like and some of my
19:09classmates didn't have social media,
19:11didn't have a Facebook, didn't have an
19:13Instagram. Nobody asked for that.
19:15Everybody was just talking about, you
19:16know, recent news life life music that
19:20they're listening to, a book that
19:21they're reading. And then that's when I
19:22realized
19:25you bring conversation to the table.
19:28You bring yourself to the table. You
19:30improve yourself so much so that when
19:32you go into a table, you're actually
19:34growing with people and getting to know
19:36people more. I want to ask you because
19:39when I met you and ever since I met you,
19:42I feel like you've embodied the phrase
19:45that you have in the title of your
19:47podcast, which is life in progress. What
19:50does that look like to you right now?
19:52What are some
19:53>> [snorts]
19:53>> I guess definitions of success and then
19:56you let go of them.
19:57What are some differences in your values
19:59right now? What are the things that
20:07>> [laughter]
20:12>> Every girl has a dream to go to school,
20:15to be heard, to grow up free from fear.
20:18But for many Filipino girls, these
20:20dreams are out of reach. They face the
20:22harsh realities of early marriage,
20:24dropping out of school, and being
20:26silenced by poverty and inequality. But
20:29it doesn't have to stay this way. With
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20:34and speak up. She can learn, she can
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20:41can say no to the things that hold her
20:43back and yes to the life that she truly
20:45deserves.
20:46We ask you to please join the movement
20:49to raise your voice for a girl and walk
20:51alongside her on her journey to
20:53empowerment. Sponsor a girl by October
20:5611, International Day of the Girl, and
20:58be the reason she says, "Yes, I can."
21:01Because girls can. Visit
21:03worldvision.org.ph
21:05to learn more. So, let's start with my
21:08podcast, Life in Progress. That was just
21:11an experiment. Someone asked me, "Do you
21:13want to have a podcast?" I was like,
21:14"Yeah, I'm going to go ahead and go
21:15out."
21:17For me, my life is
21:20like a tree.
21:23Means
21:24fall season,
21:28the leaves, winter,
21:31then that I think is spring, then
21:33summer, it's all shiny.
21:35And
21:37I have accepted that.
21:38I don't want to be a perfect human
21:40being. That's boring. I want to make
21:42mistakes. I want to
21:44have struggles. I want to have a
21:46problems because
21:48that's a life worth remembering.
21:51I don't want to have a life everything
21:52is provided now.
21:59I have this playlist
22:02TikTok call stories for my kids.
22:05That's when I realized that
22:08I want to have someone who will listen
22:11to all the stories.
22:12Imagine having a mom who traveled well.
22:18Imagine having a mom that you can brag
22:21to school. My mom has been there. That's
22:24a legacy that my kids will be proud of.
22:30Yeah.
22:33When I was in my 20s, that's when I
22:35realized that
22:39>> [laughter]
22:40>> You know I realized that then I started
22:42to create stories meaningful now. I
22:44didn't know you must have a style now.
22:46So, that's what changed about me. And
22:49one thing is
22:51the meaning of success used to be for me
22:53hustle, hustle, hustle, productive
22:56now no rest is
22:58my definition of success. If you have
23:00the time to rest, you are successful.
23:03Amen. That's true.
23:03>> And if you have the time every day to go
23:06work out like two to three hours, that's
23:08success for me because people can't even
23:12walk.
23:13It's okay.
23:19That's all right.
23:21>> [laughter]
23:22>> So, you want to learn
23:27things to say something
23:29I want to do three things today.
23:34And you say there three things now.
23:37But I want to be there completely, fully
23:41and even my late
23:43and then you okay you need to learn the
23:46latest that I expect to have Yeah.
23:54in between to rest, to have coffee
23:58because rest is now success. Yeah. For
24:01me material things like
24:07because
24:09I didn't have anything before. But you
24:11know that's every successful person I
24:14know who came from nothing and got
24:16something always say
24:20Because I hear people say things about
24:23me.
24:29>> [laughter]
24:36>> Because I want to wear these things
24:38because they could have
24:41I love to wear Zimmerman. The whole
24:43collection
24:44why there's a story. You need to learn.
24:47I used to travel to Australia.
24:57Then the day came, my day came, my time
25:00is here and now I'm going to enjoy it
25:02and I'm never going to feel guilty about
25:04that.
25:08Some people say something because I can
25:10because I want to. I'm not doing it for
25:12other people.
25:20Yeah. Because I've seen so many people
25:23and I've learned my lesson from them.
25:25These these are closest people to me.
25:35Yeah. So, they gave me their lessons
25:37Angeli
25:44You just enjoy being a mom.
25:48You need to learn to let go.
25:50Biblical thing you know enjoy the fruits
25:51of your labor.
25:52Because I
25:54opposite before didn't even know
25:56I came from nothing. I I was one of
25:59those people that that you need to learn
26:01the most expensive and then
26:03my stepdad he told me you know it's
26:05biblical to enjoy the fruits of your
26:07labor because you work hard for it so
26:10how to how do you handle your money in a
26:13God honoring way?
26:19You prioritize are all in check. Then if
26:22so, you can enjoy the fruit of your
26:24labor. That's not a bad thing. So, I
26:26think that's really important then
26:28you're right when you become a mom you
26:29have a new priorities.
26:44emotionally, physically, mentally and my
26:48L L I L L Y
26:50Can I realize that you wanted to be a
26:52mom? Can I ask that personal question?
26:56I went on okay.
26:58I reunited ex-boyfriend call my ex love
27:01of my life. So,
27:02love of my life.
27:06I fired him.
27:07>> [laughter]
27:13[laughter]
27:14>> So,
27:15I reunited this year.
27:21And I try and try and no problem.
27:26But he did the
27:32I went on a long trip, birthday trip. I
27:34did New York, Arizona, Las Vegas, Mexico
27:38yeah.
27:42So, last trip was last segment of the
27:45trip was Easter Island. Easter Island is
27:47my favorite place.
27:50Everything felt so quiet.
27:55Normally some of you guys can adjust.
27:58You guys can
27:59anything. You guys can be happy.
28:01Ever since baby your favorite baby you
28:04guys can adjust. You guys can
28:06something.
28:09So, So, I I'm still am like that.
28:13Everything was so quiet. The plane, the
28:16airports.
28:23So, you
28:25can quiet.
28:27So, you can quiet in apartment.
28:29You need to
28:31learn birds
28:33you need to learn the way.
28:36So, you need to realize I don't want
28:38this.
28:40When I'm a little bit older.
28:44I don't know what you going to do so you
28:45can learn
28:46sexy things.
28:47All these things superficial things.
28:50You need to learn
28:51something about perfect your career
28:53success. You need to learn it. For me
28:56you need to realize experience
28:58maybe I think the reason why I feel so
29:01quiet is I'm ready for my next stage.
29:07You need to learn your first time to
29:09feel. So, when my mom comes home up to
29:12this day
29:28>> [gasps]
29:28>> I can I can already see my daughter who
29:30goes to school mama.
29:39Yeah.
29:41If I don't have kids you need to learn
29:44every time
29:46I don't want that. I called my eggs. No.
29:51I'll prepare you. So that I can take a
29:53lot of time to prepare myself for my egg
29:55freezing
29:57exercise. You know,
29:59as I've said earlier, I just want to
30:01prepare you next stage of life because
30:05this stage I'm enjoying right now when I
30:07had access, I was not prepared for it
30:09because nobody gave me
30:12a guidebook. Yeah. I'm so grateful to my
30:15parents. They were my loving they were
30:17responsible parents.
30:19>> Yeah.
30:19They provided me some responsibilities
30:22that they provide to and I will be
30:24forever grateful for that. Never going
30:27to discredit your parents. Go.
30:29But I built my life myself. I don't know
30:31what you call it self-made whatever you
30:32want to call it but you need to be a
30:34good person because I am good.
30:36>> Yeah. Because some people they only
30:38credit the self-made guy. Mhm. But
30:42why do we have to remove our parents
30:44from the picture? This is why I love you
30:47because you're a level-headed person.
30:49There's no such thing as a self-made
30:50person. My mom is part of my journey up
30:53to this day. So that interview I
30:55mentioned
30:56how can I just remove my mom and tell
30:59the world I'm self-made?
31:02My mom gave me education,
31:04home, shelter, food when my father died,
31:07everything. My mom is part of the
31:09formula. Yes. Until my last breath cuz
31:13I'm a chef a formula. So that's why
31:18you were not prepared when you gave
31:19birth to me because you married so young
31:22but I'm going to make sure I will be
31:24prepared for the next stage of my life.
31:26That's why I also went to therapy. I've
31:28been going for 3 years.
31:30Emotionally prepared now and mentally
31:32because I don't want to pass triggers
31:36we think those are small things. Those
31:39are not small things. We will pass that
31:41day. Yeah. Some people ask me after egg
31:43freezing.
31:47I was like no.
31:49My father died. Mhm.
31:53Yeah. So I need a difference. I
31:56personally believe in belief.
32:00Your family
32:02father may go go in mommy may go go in.
32:06Yeah. But when I have a choice to be a
32:07single mom going to be in both but if I
32:10have the choice to have a dad, why would
32:13I choose to pass on what I already
32:15experienced that I never wanted to
32:16experience with my own dad. Go. It's so
32:19important the role of fathers. Yeah.
32:21>> We cannot just say oh feminism
32:23whatsoever. I can have my own child.
32:25Yes, you can. Absolutely. That's your
32:27personal choice but that's not
32:29applicable to me. Yeah. I want a father
32:32for my kids.
32:33Because you buy your own you buy your
32:35own go. Mhm. I'm not sure if this is
32:38proven on the go.
32:41Your father down with the provide say in
32:43identity. Mhm.
32:45Like see no guy in the world now you mom
32:47down in a nurture your identity because
32:50you know you part.
32:56But that's true data. So there's data
32:58that shows that children who have no
33:00father figure growing up are more likely
33:02to end up in prison, are less likely to
33:04finish college, are more likely to get
33:07into trouble because having a strong
33:08father figure
33:10is really important in their lives and
33:12and I think that's such a valuable
33:13insight. You know, there's there's
33:15certain people who don't have that
33:17choice but you're right there. If you
33:19have that choice, why will you rob your
33:21child
33:22>> Yes. of that opportunity and privilege
33:24to grow up with a father and and that's
33:26so important and I think that's why I'm
33:29going to say
33:31taking care of our marriage, loving each
33:33other, taking care of each other so that
33:36our children can benefit from a healthy
33:38marriage cuz at the end of the day
33:39that's really what you want, right?
33:43Yes.
33:45>> [laughter]
33:45>> Thanks to my therapist Anna.
33:49Emotional, mental, physical and
33:51spiritual growth.
33:52>> Yes. All in a span.
33:55>> [laughter]
34:01[laughter]
34:01>> I'm so I'm so blessed to hear all of
34:04that. I I feel like we could go on for 6
34:07more hours.
34:10>> [laughter]
34:11>> Fast
34:13facts. The first the first principle or
34:16idea that comes to your mind when I say
34:18these words.
34:19>> Okay.
34:23Travel. Education.
34:26Purpose.
34:30Evolves. Mhm. Family.
34:33Everything. Love.
34:37Uh
34:39changes. Aw. Money.
34:43It shows who just work. No, it doesn't
34:46have to be just a word. Well, then I'm
34:47going to change all my answers.
34:49>> [laughter]
34:50>> I think money money shows who you really
34:53are. Mhm. Once you have it. Once you get
34:56to touch it. Chinkee Tan said the same
34:59thing here on the podcast. He says money
35:01doesn't change people. It reveals them.
35:03>> It shows who you are. That's why that's
35:05what I've said earlier.
35:09Mhm.
35:15Choice.
35:16That's the most
35:19thing.
35:20You have to be patient to say you can
35:23see it really shows all about the way
35:25you are a person cuz you Mhm.
35:30Yeah.
35:33You treat me how I was
35:36when I was just starting. You don't
35:38treat me who I am today. Yeah.
35:43I need a gift for you.
35:46>> [laughter]
35:51>> So I don't want people
35:53to treat me differently just because
35:55well, I consider myself I made it based
35:57on my definition.
35:59I actually get hurt when people
36:01treat me differently. Mhm.
36:06This is me. If I don't look at myself
36:08like that,
36:10why other people are looking at me like
36:12that? Like you're going to question the
36:14but
36:17level of understanding.
36:19>> I think it's also defense mechanism for
36:20a lot of people who have experienced how
36:23people change or reveal themselves when
36:26they have money. Then all of a sudden
36:28they act more important, they demand
36:30more things. It's a different kind of
36:32person already but I think that's what
36:35makes you special in my opinion. You
36:37know, you you know who you are. You're
36:39grounded in your values so money doesn't
36:41really change anything. It just reveals
36:43that.
36:43>> just want to add like when people call
36:45me oh influencer, I'm going to be
36:48I'm an entrepreneur. Yeah. Because
36:49that's how I started and I want to keep
36:51it that way. I never want to change like
36:54I don't want to start. You're just an
36:56influential entrepreneur.
36:57>> I'm just an entrepreneur. I don't want
36:59to be called anything else. I mean with
37:01all due respect to all the influencers.
37:03I am Yeah. I just like who I am and
37:08I just want to evolve from there. The
37:10world always tells you be like this, be
37:12like that. I've accepted myself now.
37:15Everything. That's why
37:17when you accept yourself completely,
37:20nobody can use it against you.
37:22Yeah. Okay. Finally. I am final.
37:25Progress.
37:29Progress, you are allowed to change and
37:32please change. That would be my goal.
37:40>> [laughter]
37:47>> See right but look at my diamond girl.
37:51>> [laughter]
37:52>> And I enjoy it. I've seen myself from
37:55this to this to this when you see all of
37:58your versions. You love more Joyce.
38:01I'm so so proud.
38:03>> So Angeli now with everything stripped,
38:07your traveling, your life here in
38:09Manila, maybe even your businesses and
38:11your work, who are you?
38:13What is the season of Angeli now? Right
38:17now,
38:19I think everything I've done in my life
38:22I don't want to enjoy.
38:25I mean I've always said this. I don't
38:27want to be perfect and I'll never be and
38:28I don't want to be.
38:30But I want to continue to learn.
38:33The world is
38:34so big.
38:36There's there's one thing I've listened
38:38to 2 days ago. Some guy it's always the
38:42uneducated people
38:44who think they know it all. Mhm. But if
38:47you are an educated person,
38:50you'll always be a curious person. Mhm.
38:54And it has nothing to do with school.
38:56Yeah. When we say educated and educated,
38:58it's just
38:59you look at the world
39:01like a school. Mhm. Open university. I
39:04learn from you. I learn from this
39:06person. But every person you learn
39:08something. Yeah. That's who I am right
39:10now. Everything
39:13for last my whole life basically.
39:19My clients don't look for me anymore.
39:22Yeah.
39:22For me, I want to enjoy that. I want to
39:26enjoy
39:28every watch I can buy, every Max Mara
39:31suit I can buy. I want to enjoy. We I
39:33don't feel guilty. Yeah. I'm so sorry if
39:36you did not get what you wanted in life.
39:41Get what you wanted in life. Probably
39:44didn't get
39:52I had the least among us all.
40:01So, some of my my brother and sisters
40:03didn't want to get married. But,
40:11You are not my responsibility. We gave
40:13you way more than
40:15way more than enough. And that's love.
40:17And that's love. You have to learn life
40:19on your own.
40:20I'm going to give you anything. I'm not
40:21going to give you anything. I'm not
40:22going to give you anything.
40:28I'm in a family and I so loved the
40:30whole. We love each other.
40:37But, as the eldest child, I have to
40:39remind my siblings. I'm here because the
40:42noble down work.
40:45So, okay now.
40:46So, I want to enjoy that. And you know
40:48what, Angeli? The reason why I adore you
40:51is because you are the perfect balance
40:54of crazy and level-headed.
40:56>> Yes.
40:57>> That is that and that's really what you
40:58want in life. Crazy enough to dream big
41:01dreams, crazy enough to move to a
41:03different country to try new things, to
41:05meet new people, but level-headed enough
41:07to know what really matters in life. And
41:09I think that's really inspiring.
41:16People ask me to talk about travel. So,
41:18yes, traveling is good, but there's also
41:21a thing called life. You cannot just
41:22keep on rewarding yourself.
41:28Travel is a reward. We live in reality.
41:31Yeah.
41:33But, it's not everyone's reality. You
41:35cannot just tell people travel, inspire,
41:37see the world.
41:39>> Yeah. We we you have to create systems,
41:41financial stability.
41:43So,
41:45life
41:46is more enjoyable when we are
41:48responsible. Yeah.
41:52I'm having words of wisdom. [laughter]
41:58Thank you, Angeli, for being on the
41:59podcast. For making time, for always
42:02being humble, and always being confident
42:05at the same time.
42:06>> Last last learning.
42:07>> Okay. Last learning.
42:08>> My client wants to hold me.
42:10The same confidence you used to build
42:13your business will be misinterpreted by
42:16people
42:17as arrogance. And that's okay. You never
42:20let that
42:22come close to you.
42:24That insight.
42:30It's a cultural thing.
42:31>> Because it's a sin to love your life,
42:35to be confident about your journey, and
42:37to believe in your timeline.
42:40Or to just be straight-forward. Yes,
42:42it's a sin.
42:47To whom it may concern. I don't like and
42:50I don't have time. I'm sorry. I'd rather
42:53spend the time with my mother.
42:54>> [laughter]
43:00>> Angeli, thank you for being on the
43:02podcast.
43:04Always a pleasure to sit down and catch
43:06up with you. You're inspiring, you're
43:08beautiful, and I can't wait. And crazy,
43:10but crazy good at what you do and who
43:13you are. And I pray for the best for
43:15you. Can't wait to have you on the
43:16podcast again. Let's not wait for 5
43:19years.
43:19>> No, no, no. Amen and amen.
43:23>> [laughter]
43:25>> See you guys in the next episode of
43:26Adulting with Joy Spring.

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