Never Give Up Until You Win | A Man Failed 7 Times, Lost Everything, Then This Happened — Transcript
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- 0:00Have you ever failed so many times that
- 0:02you started to believe success just
- 0:03wasn't meant for you?
- 0:05Maybe you launched a business and it
- 0:07collapsed.
- 0:09Maybe you tried again and failed again.
- 0:12Maybe you're on your third, fourth, or
- 0:15fifth attempt and people are telling you
- 0:18to just give up and get a real job.
- 0:21Here's what I want you to know.
- 0:23Failure is not the opposite of success.
- 0:26It's the price of admission.
- 0:29This is the story of a man who failed 11
- 0:31times,
- 0:32lost everything, declared bankruptcy,
- 0:36was homeless,
- 0:37became a laughing stock in his town,
- 0:40and then built a $10 million company.
- 0:43His name was Victor.
- 0:45And if you've ever felt like giving up,
- 0:47this story will change your life.
- 0:50Stay with me until the end.
- 0:53Because the secret to his success wasn't
- 0:55talent, connections, or luck.
- 0:58It was something much simpler and much
- 1:01harder.
- 1:10In a mid-sized industrial city where
- 1:12factories lined the riverbanks and
- 1:14dreams were considered luxuries,
- 1:16there lived a 28-year-old man named
- 1:18Victor Chen.
- 1:20Victor wasn't born poor.
- 1:22His father owned a small printing shop.
- 1:25Nothing fancy, but stable.
- 1:27The family ate well.
- 1:29Victor went to college. Life was
- 1:32ordinary.
- 1:34But Victor didn't want ordinary.
- 1:37He wanted to build something,
- 1:39to create,
- 1:40to prove that he was capable of more.
- 1:44At 22, fresh out of college, Victor used
- 1:47his savings to open a mobile phone
- 1:49accessory store.
- 1:51This was 2008.
- 1:53Smartphones were just becoming popular.
- 1:56He thought he'd caught wave.
- 1:58He hadn't.
- 1:59Within 8 months, the store closed.
- 2:03He lost $15,000.
- 2:06His father said,
- 2:07"That's okay, son. Come work at the
- 2:09printing shop.
- 2:11Learn the family business."
- 2:13But Victor couldn't.
- 2:15He felt like working for his father
- 2:17would be admitting defeat.
- 2:19At 23, he tried again. An online
- 2:22tutoring service.
- 2:24He spent a year building a website,
- 2:27recruiting tutors, marketing to parents.
- 2:3012 months, three paying customers, total
- 2:33revenue $280.
- 2:35He shut it down.
- 2:37At 24,
- 2:38a food delivery startup. Failed. Lost
- 2:42$8,000.
- 2:43At 25, a clothing boutique. Failed. Lost
- 2:47$12,000.
- 2:49At 26,
- 2:51an event planning company.
- 2:52Failed. Lost $6,000.
- 2:56People started to notice a pattern.
- 2:58And they started to talk.
- 3:00Victor Chen?
- 3:02"Oh, he's the guy who keeps failing."
- 3:05Another business? How many is that now?
- 3:07Five?
- 3:09His poor father.
- 3:10Imagine having a son who just wastes
- 3:13money.
- 3:14His college friends who had climbed
- 3:16corporate ladders and bought cars and
- 3:18homes stopped inviting him to reunions.
- 3:22He was an embarrassment.
- 3:24A cautionary tale.
- 3:27Victor felt the weight of their
- 3:28judgment.
- 3:30But worse than that,
- 3:31he felt his own doubt creeping in.
- 3:34Late at night, he would lie awake and
- 3:36think,
- 3:38"Maybe they're right.
- 3:40Maybe I'm not an entrepreneur.
- 3:42Maybe I'm just a failure who's too
- 3:43stubborn to accept reality."
- 3:46His savings were gone.
- 3:48His [clears throat] credit cards were
- 3:49maxed.
- 3:50He had borrowed money from relatives who
- 3:52now avoided his calls.
- 3:55At 27, he hit rock bottom.
- 3:58His sixth business, a digital marketing
- 4:00agency, collapsed spectacularly.
- 4:03He had taken out a loan, hired two
- 4:05employees, signed an office lease.
- 4:09Within 6 months, all his clients left.
- 4:12He couldn't make payroll.
- 4:15He couldn't pay rent.
- 4:17The landlord evicted him.
- 4:19The bank demanded payment.
- 4:21His employees quit, angry.
- 4:24And Victor, for the first time in his
- 4:26life, declared personal bankruptcy.
- 4:30At 28 years old,
- 4:32Victor moved back into his childhood
- 4:34bedroom.
- 4:35His father barely spoke to him.
- 4:38His mother cried when she thought he
- 4:40couldn't hear.
- 4:42He had no money,
- 4:43no prospects,
- 4:45no confidence left.
- 4:48One night, sitting on his old bed,
- 4:51staring at rejection letters from job
- 4:53applications, Victor made a decision.
- 4:57"One more,"
- 4:58he whispered.
- 4:59"Just one more try.
- 5:02If I fail again,
- 5:03I'll give up forever.
- 5:05I'll accept that I'm not meant for this.
- 5:07But I need one more chance to prove to
- 5:10myself, more than anyone,
- 5:13that I can do this."
- 5:15But this time,
- 5:16he knew he couldn't do it alone.
- 5:19Victor needed capital.
- 5:21But no bank would lend to a seven-time
- 5:24failed entrepreneur with bankruptcy on
- 5:26his record.
- 5:27So, he did something humiliating.
- 5:30He took a job as a waiter at a high-end
- 5:32restaurant.
- 5:34Every night, he served wealthy business
- 5:36people.
- 5:37He listened to them discuss deals,
- 5:39investments, expansions.
- 5:42And every night,
- 5:44he went home feeling like a failure
- 5:46serving successful people their
- 5:48expensive meals.
- 5:50One evening,
- 5:51a regular customer,
- 5:53a man in his 60s named Mr. Joe, sat in
- 5:56Victor's section.
- 5:58Mr. Joe owned a chain of manufacturing
- 6:01plants and was known in the city as a
- 6:04self-made millionaire.
- 6:06As Victor served his meal, Mr. Joe
- 6:09looked up and said,
- 6:11"You're too smart to be a waiter."
- 6:14Victor froze.
- 6:15"I've watched you for weeks.
- 6:17You listen to conversations.
- 6:19You ask thoughtful questions. You're
- 6:21learning.
- 6:22Why are you here?"
- 6:24Victor hesitated, then decided to be
- 6:27honest.
- 6:28"Because I've failed at everything
- 6:29else."
- 6:31Mr. Joe smiled.
- 6:33"How many times?"
- 6:35"Seven businesses. All failed."
- 6:38Mr. Joe leaned back in his chair.
- 6:40"You know what I see?
- 6:42I see someone who's tried seven times.
- 6:45Most people don't try once. Sit down."
- 6:48"Sir, I'm working." "Sit. I'll handle
- 6:51your manager."
- 6:53Victor sat.
- 6:55"I failed 11 times before my first
- 6:57success," Mr. Joe said calmly.
- 7:00"Lost my house,
- 7:01slept in my car. My wife almost left me.
- 7:04But on attempt number 12, something
- 7:06clicked."
- 7:08Victor's eyes widened.
- 7:1011 times.
- 7:11This successful man sitting in a $3,000
- 7:14suit had failed 11 times.
- 7:16"What changed?" Victor asked.
- 7:20"I learned three things,"
- 7:22Mr. Joe said.
- 7:24"Three lessons that turned me from a
- 7:25serial failure into someone who could
- 7:27build something real.
- 7:30If you're serious about trying again,
- 7:32and I mean truly serious,
- 7:34not just stubborn,
- 7:36meet me tomorrow morning at 6:00 a.m. at
- 7:38my office.
- 7:40I'll teach you what I learned.
- 7:42But only if you're ready to actually
- 7:43learn instead of just repeat the same
- 7:45mistakes.
- 7:48Victor didn't sleep that night.
- 7:51The next morning at 5:45 a.m. Victor
- 7:54stood outside Mr. Joe's office building.
- 7:57When Mr. Joe arrived at 6:00, he smiled.
- 8:02You're early. Good.
- 8:04That's the first sign you might actually
- 8:05make it this time.
- 8:08Mr. Joe led Victor into his office, a
- 8:11room filled with books, awards, and
- 8:13photos of successful ventures. But in
- 8:16the corner sat a small frame with a list
- 8:18of 11 businesses, each one crossed out
- 8:21in red.
- 8:23I keep that to remember, Mr. Joe said.
- 8:26Now, let me teach you the three laws
- 8:29that turned my failures into a
- 8:30foundation.
- 8:32Mr. Joe drew a simple diagram on a
- 8:34whiteboard.
- 8:36Tell me about your seven failures, not
- 8:39the external reasons, competition, bad
- 8:42timing, lack of capital.
- 8:44Tell me what you did wrong each time.
- 8:48Victor thought for a moment, then began.
- 8:51I jumped into ideas without research. I
- 8:54didn't understand my customers. I ran
- 8:56out of money before gaining traction.
- 8:59I Stop. Mr. Joe said.
- 9:02You just described the same mistake
- 9:04seven times with different words.
- 9:06He circled a phrase on the board.
- 9:09Passion without preparation.
- 9:12Victor, imagine you're building a house.
- 9:15You're excited about the house, the
- 9:17design, the furniture, how it will look.
- 9:21But you skip the foundation. You skip
- 9:24the blueprint.
- 9:25You just start building walls because
- 9:27you're passionate.
- 9:29He drew a house collapsing.
- 9:31Every time the house falls, and every
- 9:34time you blame the materials, the
- 9:36weather, the workers. But the real
- 9:38problem?
- 9:39No foundation.
- 9:41Law one,
- 9:43study before you start.
- 9:45Before your next attempt, spend 3 months
- 9:48learning everything about the industry,
- 9:50the market, the competition.
- 9:52Not 3 days, 3 months. Most people fail
- 9:56because they confuse excitement with
- 9:58expertise.
- 10:00Victor wrote frantically in a notebook
- 10:02Mr. Joe handed him.
- 10:04Why did all your businesses fail so
- 10:06quickly?
- 10:07Mr. Joe asked.
- 10:09I
- 10:10ran out of money, lost motivation,
- 10:13customers didn't come fast enough.
- 10:16Exactly.
- 10:17Because you expected success in 6
- 10:19months.
- 10:21Let me tell you a secret that will save
- 10:22your life.
- 10:24Any business worth building takes 18
- 10:26months minimum to show real traction. He
- 10:29wrote large numbers on the board.
- 10:31Months 1 to 6, learning and suffering.
- 10:35Months 7 to 12, small progress, still
- 10:38struggling.
- 10:40Months 13 to 18,
- 10:42breakthrough begins, months 19 and
- 10:44beyond,
- 10:46growth accelerates. Law two,
- 10:48commit to 18 months, not 6 months,
- 10:51not until you run out of money, not
- 10:54until you get discouraged.
- 10:5618 months of showing up every single
- 10:58day, even when it looks like nothing is
- 11:00working.
- 11:02Can you do that?
- 11:03Victor felt the weight of that question.
- 11:0618 months.
- 11:08He had never stuck with anything for 18
- 11:10months.
- 11:11I can,
- 11:12he said quietly.
- 11:14Your seventh business was digital
- 11:16marketing.
- 11:17Do you know why it failed?
- 11:19I lost clients. No.
- 11:21You tried to offer everything.
- 11:23Social media, SEO, content creation, web
- 11:28design, email marketing. You were a
- 11:30full-service agency, which means you are
- 11:33mediocre at everything and excellent at
- 11:35nothing."
- 11:36Mr. Joe drew a single arrow.
- 11:39"Law three,
- 11:41do one thing better than everyone else,
- 11:43not 10 things okay.
- 11:45One thing extraordinarily well.
- 11:48Become so good at one specific service
- 11:50that people can't ignore you."
- 11:53Mr. Joe closed his notebook.
- 11:56"Victor,
- 11:57I'm going to give you three months of
- 11:59free mentorship. Every Saturday morning
- 12:02at 6:00 a.m. you come here.
- 12:04I will teach you how to research, plan,
- 12:07and build a foundation.
- 12:09Then, you will choose one service in one
- 12:11industry and become the absolute best at
- 12:14it.
- 12:15And then, you will commit to 18 months,
- 12:18no matter what happens."
- 12:21He leaned forward.
- 12:23"But if you quit before 18 months,
- 12:25don't ever contact me again,
- 12:28because I don't waste time on people who
- 12:30waste their own potential. Deal?"
- 12:33Victor extended his hand.
- 12:35"Deal."
- 12:37For the next three months, Victor's life
- 12:39changed completely. Every Saturday at
- 12:426:00 a.m. Victor met Mr. Joe.
- 12:46They studied market research, analyzed
- 12:48successful businesses, dissected
- 12:50Victor's previous failures to extract
- 12:53lessons. Victor chose his focus,
- 12:56LinkedIn lead generation for
- 12:58business-to-business tech companies.
- 13:01One service, one industry,
- 13:04nothing else.
- 13:05He spent three months learning
- 13:07everything. LinkedIn algorithms,
- 13:10business-to-business sales cycles, tech
- 13:12company pain points, competitor
- 13:15strategies.
- 13:16He didn't start the business yet.
- 13:18He just learned. His father thought he
- 13:20was wasting time.
- 13:23Another three months of no income?
- 13:25But Victor remembered, foundation before
- 13:28building.
- 13:29In month four, Victor launched
- 13:32Tech Lead Connect,
- 13:34LinkedIn lead generation exclusively for
- 13:37business-to-business tech companies.
- 13:39No website, no office, no employees,
- 13:43just Victor, a laptop, and a specific
- 13:46promise.
- 13:48"I will generate 20 qualified
- 13:50business-to-business leads per month
- 13:52or you don't pay."
- 13:54His first client, a small software
- 13:57company, $500 a month.
- 14:00His mother cried.
- 14:01Finally, some income.
- 14:04But, Victor knew
- 14:05this was just the beginning.
- 14:0718 months,
- 14:08he had committed.
- 14:10Month five, one client,
- 14:13$500 a month, barely enough for food.
- 14:16Month six, two clients,
- 14:19$1,000 a month.
- 14:21Month seven, lost one client,
- 14:25back to 500.
- 14:26Victor's father confronted him.
- 14:28"Eight months, you're making $500 a
- 14:31month. This is the same pattern. You
- 14:33need to stop."
- 14:35Victor felt the old doubt creeping in.
- 14:39Maybe his father was right.
- 14:41Maybe this was just failure number
- 14:42eight.
- 14:43But, he remembered Mr. Joe's words.
- 14:46Months one to six, learning and
- 14:49suffering.
- 14:50He was on track.
- 14:52This was supposed to be hard.
- 14:54Month nine,
- 14:55three clients, $1,500 a month.
- 14:59Month 10,
- 15:00five clients, $2,500 a month.
- 15:04Month 11,
- 15:05seven clients,
- 15:06$3,500 a month.
- 15:09It still wasn't enough to move out or
- 15:11pay back debts.
- 15:13But, something was different.
- 15:15The clients were staying.
- 15:17They were getting results.
- 15:19Word was spreading.
- 15:21Month 13,
- 15:23a mid-size tech company hired him for
- 15:25$3,000 a month.
- 15:27Victor nearly cried when the contract
- 15:29was signed.
- 15:31Month 14,
- 15:33that company referred two others.
- 15:35Suddenly, $8,000 a month.
- 15:38Month 15, $12,000 a month.
- 15:42Victor hired his first employee.
- 15:45Exactly 18 months after launching,
- 15:48Victor landed his biggest client yet.
- 15:51A venture-backed tech startup that paid
- 15:54$10,000 a month for lead generation.
- 15:57Total monthly revenue,
- 15:59$28,000.
- 16:02He sat in his childhood bedroom, the
- 16:04same room where he'd hit rock bottom 2
- 16:06years earlier,
- 16:08and called Mr. Joe.
- 16:10"18 months,"
- 16:12Victor said, his voice breaking.
- 16:15"You were right."
- 16:17Mr. Joe laughed.
- 16:19"Now, the real work begins."
- 16:22With proven results and testimonials,
- 16:24growth accelerated. Year two,
- 16:27$400,000 in annual revenue.
- 16:30Hired five employees.
- 16:32Year three,
- 16:33$1.2 million in revenue.
- 16:36Moved into an office. Paid back all
- 16:38debts.
- 16:39His father finally smiled.
- 16:42Five years after that breakfast meeting
- 16:43with Mr. Joe,
- 16:45TechLead
- 16:48Connect hit $10 16 employees.
- 16:51Offices in three cities. Featured in
- 16:54business magazines.
- 16:55And Victor, now 33 years old, stood on
- 16:59stage at a business conference sharing
- 17:01his story.
- 17:03At the conference, a young entrepreneur
- 17:05approached Victor during the break.
- 17:08"Mr. Chen, I've failed twice. Should I
- 17:11try again?"
- 17:12Victor smiled. "How badly do you want
- 17:15it?"
- 17:16"I want it more than anything.
- 17:18Then yes.
- 17:20But let me tell you what no one else
- 17:21will.
- 17:22Failure is not a detour.
- 17:25It's the road.
- 17:28People think successful entrepreneurs
- 17:29are the ones who never failed.
- 17:32The truth?
- 17:33We're the ones who failed the most, but
- 17:35didn't quit.
- 17:37He continued.
- 17:38I failed seven times before I met my
- 17:41mentor.
- 17:42But those seven failures taught me seven
- 17:44expensive lessons.
- 17:47When I started business number eight,
- 17:49I didn't make the same seven mistakes.
- 17:51I made new ones.
- 17:53But I learned from those, too.
- 17:57If you're going to try again,
- 17:59remember three things.
- 18:01First, study before you start.
- 18:04Passion without preparation is just
- 18:06expensive hope.
- 18:08Spend 3 months learning your market,
- 18:10your customers, your competition.
- 18:13Build the foundation.
- 18:15Second,
- 18:16commit to 18 months.
- 18:18Not until you feel like quitting.
- 18:21Not until money runs low.
- 18:2318 full months of daily work.
- 18:26Most businesses don't fail.
- 18:28Most people quit during the suffering
- 18:30period before success arrives.
- 18:33Third,
- 18:35master one thing.
- 18:36Don't be mediocre at everything.
- 18:39Be extraordinary at one specific thing.
- 18:42Become so good they can't ignore you.
- 18:45And here's what I learned from 11
- 18:48failures.
- 18:49No,
- 18:5012.
- 18:52Because my eighth attempt was
- 18:53technically my 12th, including childhood
- 18:56lemonade stands.
- 18:58The audience laughed.
- 19:00Failure is only permanent if you stop.
- 19:04Every successful business is built on a
- 19:06graveyard of failed attempts.
- 19:09The difference between success and
- 19:10failure isn't talent.
- 19:12It's not luck.
- 19:14It's not even hard work."
- 19:16He paused for impact.
- 19:18"It's simply this,
- 19:20showing up one more time than you fell
- 19:22down."
- 19:23Victor visited Mr. Joe's office one last
- 19:26time before the old man retired.
- 19:29"Thank you." Victor said simply.
- 19:31"You saved my life."
- 19:33Mr. Joe shook his head.
- 19:36"No, Victor.
- 19:37I just taught you what you already had
- 19:39inside. The ability to keep going.
- 19:42You saved yourself.
- 19:44I just showed you the path.
- 19:46My friend,
- 19:48if you're watching this video,
- 19:49maybe you failed.
- 19:51Maybe you've failed multiple times.
- 19:54Maybe people told you to give up.
- 19:57Let Victor's story be your permission to
- 19:59try again.
- 20:01But this time,
- 20:02do it differently.
- 20:04Study for 3 months before starting.
- 20:06Commit to 18 months, no matter what.
- 20:10Master one specific thing
- 20:12extraordinarily well.
- 20:14I can't promise you'll build a $10
- 20:15million business.
- 20:18But I can promise this.
- 20:20If you apply these three laws, you'll
- 20:22get farther than you ever have before.
- 20:25And maybe, just maybe,
- 20:28attempt number eight or nine or 10
- 20:32will be the one that changes everything.
- 20:35If this story gave you the courage to
- 20:37try one more time,
- 20:38hit that like button right now as your
- 20:41commitment.
- 20:42Not to me,
- 20:44to yourself.
- 20:46Drop a comment.
- 20:47I'm on attempt number X.
- 20:50Let's see how many people in this
- 20:51community are still fighting.
- 20:54We're all in this together.
- 20:56Share this video with someone who's
- 20:58about to give up.
- 20:59Maybe it's the message that keeps them
- 21:01going one more day.
- 21:03And subscribe to this channel.
- 21:05Because every week, I bring you stories
- 21:08of people who failed, persisted, and
- 21:10won.
- 21:12You're not alone in this fight.
- 21:15Remember Victor's journey.
- 21:17Seven failures,
- 21:19bankruptcy,
- 21:20homelessness,
- 21:21humiliation,
- 21:23and then $10 million.
- 21:26The only difference between his seventh
- 21:27failure and his eighth success wasn't
- 21:30luck.
- 21:31It was three laws and 18 months of
- 21:33refusing to quit.
- 21:35Your breakthrough isn't as far away as
- 21:37you think.
- 21:38It's just one more attempt away.
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