My Kids Skipped Their Mothers Funeral For A Spa Trip & A Business Dinner Then My Son Called 44 Times — Transcript
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- 0:00Neither of my children came to my wife's
- 0:02funeral on time. My son was in a
- 0:04business dinner in Frankfurt. My
- 0:06daughter was at a wellness hotel by Lake
- 0:08Constance trying to clear her head as
- 0:11she put it in her text message. Wait,
- 0:14let me start from the beginning. Before
- 0:16we continue, if you enjoy stories like
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- 0:25story.
- 0:27Now, back to my story. My name is Walter
- 0:30Brener. I'm 73 years old. And on the day
- 0:33we buried my wife, Ingred, neither of my
- 0:36two children walked through the church
- 0:37door on time. I stood at the front of
- 0:40the small church in Hinard's Ardan
- 0:41beside my wife's casket, waiting for my
- 0:44children to arrive. They didn't come. My
- 0:47phone buzzed inside my jacket pocket
- 0:49once, twice, then again. And again. When
- 0:53I finally looked at it, there was a
- 0:54message from Marcus, my son. Dad, my
- 0:58card got declined. Can you call the bank
- 1:01real quick? It's urgent. Not one word
- 1:04about his mother. Not one question about
- 1:07how I was holding up. Just a number.
- 1:102,400
- 1:12for a business dinner he'd tried to
- 1:14charge to my credit card. I looked at
- 1:16the empty front pew, the place where my
- 1:19children should have been sitting, and
- 1:20something inside me turned cold. Ingred
- 1:24had worked as a kindergarten teacher at
- 1:25St. Martin for 44 years. That morning,
- 1:29the small church filled to the last seat
- 1:31anyway with people I didn't even
- 1:33recognize. A woman told me, crying, how
- 1:37Ingred used to give her a bandage and a
- 1:39tissue every single day as a child
- 1:41because nobody at home had time for her.
- 1:43A man in a firefighter's uniform said,
- 1:46"My wife had taught him not to be afraid
- 1:48of the dark. My own children hadn't
- 1:50come, but an entire village had." After
- 1:54the service, back at our house, I sat in
- 1:57the kitchen with my neighbor, Mr.
- 1:59Wagner, when my phone rang again. This
- 2:02time it was Sabine, my daughter. Her
- 2:05voice was high and panicked. Dad, you
- 2:08have to help me. There's a problem with
- 2:11my bill here at the hotel. They won't
- 2:13let me leave until it's paid. €1,800
- 2:17for three nights of spa treatments while
- 2:19her mother was being buried. I hung up
- 2:22without saying a word. Mr. Wagner looked
- 2:25at me for a long moment and then said
- 2:27quietly, "Walter, I think you should
- 2:31look at the footage from your front door
- 2:32camera. Ingred asked me a few weeks ago
- 2:34to back it up for you." At that moment,
- 2:38I had no idea what I would find. But
- 2:40that evening, when I opened the video
- 2:42files, I heard my own daughter's voice
- 2:44say things I would never be able to
- 2:46forget. I clicked through the dates
- 2:48slowly, my hands trembling the way they
- 2:51had every night since the hospice nurse
- 2:53left for the last time. Ingred's reading
- 2:56glasses still sat on the desk beside me,
- 2:58folded exactly the way she always left
- 3:00them, next to a cup of tea that had long
- 3:03since gone cold. The house still smelled
- 3:06faintly of her lavender hand cream, and
- 3:08for a second, I almost closed the
- 3:10laptop. Some part of me already knew
- 3:13that whatever was on those recordings
- 3:14would change the way I thought about my
- 3:16children forever. And I wasn't sure I
- 3:18was ready for that. Mr. Wagner sat
- 3:21across from me, not saying anything,
- 3:23just waiting. He'd been my neighbor for
- 3:26over 30 years. Had carried Ingred's
- 3:28groceries when her hands got too weak.
- 3:30Had sat with me in the hospital waiting
- 3:32room more times than I could count. When
- 3:34I finally pressed play on the first
- 3:36file, dated 3 weeks before Ingred died,
- 3:39he didn't look away either. The footage
- 3:41showed our front hallway. Through the
- 3:43gap in the living room door, I could see
- 3:45Ingred asleep on the sofa, her oxygen
- 3:48tube resting at her side. And then I
- 3:50watched my son and my daughter let
- 3:52themselves into our house with a spare
- 3:54key I'd given them years ago for
- 3:56emergencies only. She's out cold, Marcus
- 4:00whispered, glancing toward the living
- 4:02room. The nurse said she won't wake
- 4:04until 5. Let's do it now. Did you bring
- 4:07the power of attorney? Right here,
- 4:09Sabine answered. General authorization
- 4:12covers all the accounts and the house.
- 4:14She just needs to sign. And if she
- 4:17refuses, she won't. We tell her it's in
- 4:20case something happens to dad. My notary
- 4:23back in Fryberg still owes me a favor. I
- 4:26sat frozen in my chair, the laptop
- 4:28screen glowing in the dark study, and
- 4:31felt something inside my chest crack
- 4:33quietly, like ice giving way under
- 4:35weight I hadn't noticed building for
- 4:37years. and mom's jewelry. Marcus asked,
- 4:40"Take it. Just get me the house signed
- 4:42over," Sabine said. A chair creaked
- 4:45somewhere off camera. "Honestly," Sabine
- 4:48continued. "The old woman is taking
- 4:50forever. Back in July, they gave her 6
- 4:53weeks tops. Sabine, don't." "Why not?
- 4:57It's the truth. The house alone is worth
- 5:00600,000, easy, and Jonas needs the money
- 5:03by the end of the year or his company's
- 5:05finished." I sat in my study that night,
- 5:09Ingred's reading glasses still on the
- 5:11desk beside me, and listened to my own
- 5:13daughter talk about her mother's death
- 5:15like it was a line item on a
- 5:17spreadsheet. I thought about the little
- 5:19girl who used to fall asleep on my chest
- 5:21during thunderstorms, who cried for an
- 5:24hour the first time a goldfish died. I
- 5:26couldn't find her anywhere in that voice
- 5:28on the recording.
- 5:30Mr. Wagner stood behind my chair and put
- 5:33his hand on my shoulder.
- 5:36Walter, there's more. Look at the file
- 5:39from September 20th. In that recording,
- 5:42Ingred was awake. She sat in her
- 5:44wheelchair by the window when the two of
- 5:46them came back. This time with the
- 5:48papers already in hand. I heard my wife
- 5:51say with whatever strength she had left.
- 5:54I'm not signing anything until I've
- 5:56spoken to a lawyer who isn't one of your
- 5:58friends. Marcus's voice rose. Mom, don't
- 6:02be stubborn. This is just in case. out.
- 6:05Ingred said, "Both of you, get out of my
- 6:08house." I had to watch that clip twice
- 6:10before I believed it. My wife, two weeks
- 6:13before she died, barely strong enough to
- 6:15lift a cup of tea, had thrown our own
- 6:17children out of the house to protect me.
- 6:20And she had never said a single word
- 6:22about it. Not once in all our quiet
- 6:24evenings together after that had she let
- 6:27on what had happened in that room while
- 6:29I was out running errands.
- 6:32The next morning, I called Dr. for
- 6:34Haidamarie Fuks, our notary for over 20
- 6:36years. A woman who had drawn up our very
- 6:39first will back when the children were
- 6:41still in grade school. I expected her to
- 6:44help me understand the current will, the
- 6:46paperwork, the formalities. Instead, she
- 6:50told me something I wasn't prepared for.
- 6:53Walter Ingred came to see me in
- 6:55September alone without telling you. She
- 6:58changed her will. I remember having to
- 7:01sit down. My knees simply gave out and I
- 7:04lowered myself into the kitchen chair
- 7:06before I fell. Changed it how? She
- 7:09wanted me to wait until after the
- 7:11funeral to show you. She said, "You
- 7:13deserved to grieve first without
- 7:15thinking about money, without your mind
- 7:17being pulled in two directions at once."
- 7:21On Thursday, I sat across from Marcus
- 7:23and Sabine in Dr. Fuks's office, 14
- 7:26floors above the city. The kind of room
- 7:28with a view that makes people feel
- 7:30smaller than they are. It was the first
- 7:33time in years both of my children had
- 7:34arrived on time for anything, let alone
- 7:37early. Sabine kept checking her phone.
- 7:40Marcus wouldn't stop clicking his pen.
- 7:43The will is short, Dr. Fuk said, opening
- 7:45a thin folder. Everything held in
- 7:47Ingred's own name goes to Walter. Each
- 7:49of you receives a personal letter
- 7:51handwritten. The house was jointly
- 7:53owned, so it passes to Walter
- 7:55automatically outside the estate
- 7:57entirely. The life insurance policy,
- 8:00€180,000,
- 8:02names the Children's Cancer Foundation
- 8:03as beneficiary. She changed that
- 8:06designation in September.
- 8:08September, Marcus repeated flatly,
- 8:11leaning forward. She wasn't even
- 8:13thinking clearly by then. She was on
- 8:15morphine half the day. Her physician
- 8:18certified her full mental capacity in
- 8:20writing on September 18th. Dr. Fuches
- 8:22said calmly, sliding a document across
- 8:25the table. Two days before she had both
- 8:27of you removed from the house. Sabine's
- 8:30face went white, the color draining out
- 8:32of it the way water drains from a sink.
- 8:35Marcus opened his mouth to say
- 8:36something, some protest, some
- 8:38accusation, but nothing came out.
- 8:42For the first time in his life, my son
- 8:44didn't have an excuse ready. I didn't
- 8:46put the camera footage on the table. Not
- 8:49yet. I wanted to see what they would do
- 8:51first, whether some small part of them
- 8:53would finally say the right thing, would
- 8:56finally ask how I was doing, would
- 8:58finally mention their mother's name
- 8:59without a dollar figure attached to it.
- 9:02They didn't. I already knew what was
- 9:04coming next. My wife had spent her last
- 9:07weeks quietly building something I
- 9:09wouldn't fully understand until the
- 9:11following week. A kind of justice that
- 9:13needed no shouting, no accusations,
- 9:16nothing but the truth, laid out in her
- 9:19own steady handwriting, waiting
- 9:21patiently for the right moment to be
- 9:22read aloud. That moment came sooner than
- 9:25any of us expected. And when it finally
- 9:27arrived, it wasn't me who delivered it.
- 9:30The following Monday, Dr. Fuks called
- 9:32the three of us back to her office along
- 9:34with someone I didn't expect. Catherine
- 9:37Vogle, a young associate who it turned
- 9:39out had been quietly working with Ingred
- 9:42since July. Marcus and Sabine sat
- 9:44stiffly in their chairs, clearly hoping
- 9:47this was about to be a negotiation. It
- 9:49wasn't.
- 9:51Before she passed, Dr. Fuk said, "Your
- 9:54mother asked me to hold something until
- 9:55this exact meeting." She placed two
- 9:58sealed envelopes on the table, one
- 10:00addressed to Marcus, one to Sabine in
- 10:02Ingred's familiar slanted handwriting.
- 10:06She also asked that these be read here
- 10:08together in front of your father.
- 10:11Sabine's hands trembled as she broke the
- 10:14seal. Inside was a single page. I
- 10:16watched my daughter's eyes move across
- 10:18it. Watched her face change from
- 10:20irritation to confusion to something I
- 10:23hadn't seen on her since she was a
- 10:24teenager caught in a lie. She knew,
- 10:27Sabine whispered. She knew about Jonas's
- 10:30company. She knew about the investment
- 10:32he made with my money. She knew
- 10:34everything. Marcus unfolded his letter
- 10:36more slowly. His mother's words were
- 10:39simple, direct, nothing like the
- 10:41dramatic confrontation he must have
- 10:43braced himself for. She didn't accuse
- 10:46him. She simply wrote what she had seen
- 10:48on the recordings, dated and specific,
- 10:50and beneath it, a single line. I raised
- 10:54you both better than this. I hope one
- 10:56day you remember who you were before
- 10:58money became louder than love. Then Dr.
- 11:01Fuks did something neither of them
- 11:03expected. She opened her laptop and
- 11:05played the footage from September 6th,
- 11:08the conversation about the power of
- 11:09attorney, Jonas's company. The comment
- 11:12about how long their mother was taking.
- 11:15She played it once all the way through
- 11:18without a word of commentary. The
- 11:20silence afterward was heavier than
- 11:22anything either of them could have said.
- 11:24"This recording has already been
- 11:26reviewed by legal counsel," Dr. Fuches
- 11:28said attempting to obtain a power of
- 11:31attorney from someone under medical care
- 11:33without her consent, discussing her
- 11:35death as an inconvenience while she
- 11:37slept 20 ft away. This is something your
- 11:40mother documented deliberately. She
- 11:42wasn't building a case against you for
- 11:44revenge. She wanted you to see
- 11:47yourselves clearly once while there was
- 11:49still time to change.
- 11:52Marcus stared at the table. For the
- 11:54first time since the funeral, I saw
- 11:56something other than panic on his face.
- 11:59Shame, maybe. Real shame. Not the
- 12:02performed kind he'd shown at the house
- 12:04with his jacket half off and his excuses
- 12:06ready. I'm not here to punish either of
- 12:09you. I said, "Your mother already
- 12:11decided how this would go, and I won't
- 12:13undo what she built in her last weeks.
- 12:16The house stays mine. The accounts stay
- 12:18mine. The insurance goes where she
- 12:20wanted it to go. to children who need it
- 12:23far more than either of you do right
- 12:25now. Dad, please. Sabine started. I'm
- 12:29not finished, I said. But I'll tell you
- 12:32both this. The door isn't locked. If
- 12:35either of you ever wants to come back,
- 12:37not for a check, not for a signature,
- 12:39but to sit at my kitchen table and ask
- 12:41me how I'm doing. You're welcome there.
- 12:44Until then, I don't think we have much
- 12:46else to say to each other. Marcus left
- 12:49without another word. Sabine lingered by
- 12:52the door for a moment, and for just a
- 12:54second, I thought she might turn around.
- 12:56She didn't. 3 months passed. Jonas's
- 13:00company folded in November, exactly as
- 13:02Sabine had feared. Marcus was quietly
- 13:05let go from his job after irregularities
- 13:07surfaced in his expense reports. The
- 13:09same kind of reports that had funded
- 13:11more than one business dinner over the
- 13:13years. Neither of them called to ask for
- 13:15anything after that. And in a strange
- 13:18way, the silence felt more honest than
- 13:20anything they'd said to me in years. In
- 13:23January, I used part of what Ingred left
- 13:25me to renovate the old community room at
- 13:28St. Martin, the one where she used to
- 13:30keep spare mittens in the filing cabinet
- 13:32and granola bars in her desk drawer for
- 13:34the children who came in hungry. We
- 13:37named it after her. At the opening, half
- 13:40the village showed up again. the same
- 13:42firefighter, the same woman with the
- 13:44bandage story. Dozens of children who
- 13:46had grown up and still remembered her
- 13:48name. Six months after that, on a Sunday
- 13:51afternoon, there was a knock at my door.
- 13:54It was Marcus, alone, no jacket, no
- 13:58excuses prepared. He stood on the mat
- 14:01the way he had the last time, except
- 14:03this time he waited for me to invite him
- 14:05in instead of pushing past me. I don't
- 14:08want anything, Dad, he said quietly. I
- 14:11just wanted to ask how you're doing. It
- 14:14wasn't everything. It wasn't enough to
- 14:16undo what I'd watched on those
- 14:17recordings or what I'd felt standing
- 14:20alone at that podium with an empty front
- 14:22pew behind me. But it was a start. And
- 14:25for the first time since Ingred died, I
- 14:28let him in. If this story moved you, let
- 14:31me know in the comments where you're
- 14:32watching from and what you would have
- 14:34done in my place. If you want more
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