My Ex’s Best Friend Asked Me to Spot Her… I Stood Behind Her. She Smirked, “You Can Come Closer.” — Transcript
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- 0:00At 7:00 on a Saturday morning, my
- 0:03ex-girlfriend's best friend, the woman
- 0:05who had spent 2 years rolling her eyes
- 0:08at me, lay down on a weight bench,
- 0:10looked up at me, and said, "Hey, Miller,
- 0:13spot me."
- 0:14I almost dropped my water bottle.
- 0:17Jordan Reyes had never asked me for
- 0:19anything. Not once. Not a ride, not a
- 0:22favor, not even the salt at dinner.
- 0:25She'd always just reached across me for
- 0:27it and said, "Excuse me, Sparky."
- 0:30But now, there she was, flat on her back
- 0:33under a bar loaded with 185 lb, staring
- 0:37up at me with those dark brown eyes and
- 0:39a look I'd never seen before.
- 0:42So, I walked over and stood behind the
- 0:44bench, about 3 ft back, hands hovering
- 0:47politely in the air, like I was afraid
- 0:49the bar might bite me.
- 0:51Jordan tilted her head back and looked
- 0:53at me upside down. Then she smirked.
- 0:56"You can come closer, Cole. I don't
- 0:58bite." And right there, at 7:00 a.m. in
- 1:01a gym that smelled like rubber mats and
- 1:04protein powder, my whole life tipped
- 1:06sideways.
- 1:08My name is Cole Miller. I'm 31 years
- 1:11old, and I'm a power lineman in Tulsa,
- 1:14Oklahoma. When a storm knocks out the
- 1:16electricity, I'm the guy 40 ft up a pole
- 1:19in the rain putting the lights back on.
- 1:22It's dangerous, it's exhausting, and I
- 1:25love it. For 2 years, I dated a woman
- 1:28named Chelsea. She was fun, loud, and
- 1:31always planning the next trip. 8 months
- 1:34ago, she went to Cabo with her
- 1:35girlfriends and texted me from the
- 1:37beach, "I think I need someone more
- 1:40spontaneous. I'm sorry, Cole." With a
- 1:42palm tree emoji. A palm tree emoji.
- 1:46That's how 2 years ended. And Jordan was
- 1:49Chelsea's best friend since the third
- 1:52grade. For 2 years, Jordan and I fought
- 1:55about everything. At every game night,
- 1:58every cookout, every birthday party. She
- 2:00called me Sparky because of my job. She
- 2:03said my chili tasted like a sad cowboy's
- 2:06boot. She beat me at cornhole and did a
- 2:08victory dance in my face. We argued
- 2:11about football, about country music,
- 2:13about whether pineapple belongs on
- 2:15pizza. It does. She's wrong.
- 2:18She was sharp, stubborn, and impossible.
- 2:22She owned a little hair salon on Cherry
- 2:24Street, trained at the gym 6 days a
- 2:26week, and had a laugh you could hear
- 2:28from across a parking lot. And I'll be
- 2:30honest, sometimes when she was arguing
- 2:33with me across the table, eyes
- 2:35sparkling, cheeks pink, I'd forget what
- 2:37we were even fighting about. I never let
- 2:40myself think about why.
- 2:42After Chelsea left, I joined Red Dirt
- 2:45Barbell, a little gym on the east side
- 2:48of town. 2 weeks later, Jordan walked
- 2:50in. Turns out, she'd been a member for
- 2:53years. For 6 months, we ignored each
- 2:56other. She'd nod, I'd nod. That was it.
- 2:59Until that Saturday morning.
- 3:02So, I stepped closer, right up to the
- 3:05head of the bench. From up there, I was
- 3:07looking straight down at her face. Her
- 3:09dark hair was pulled into a tight braid.
- 3:12There was a little sweat on her
- 3:13forehead. Her cheeks were already pink.
- 3:16"Better." She said. "How many?" "Five."
- 3:20"At 185 lb? That's a lot." "I'm training
- 3:24for a powerlifting meet. 6 weeks. I need
- 3:27to bench 225 by then." Whistle. "225,
- 3:32Jordan, that's huge." "I know it's huge,
- 3:35Sparky. That's why I need a spotter."
- 3:38She wrapped her hands around the bar.
- 3:40"Now, listen to me. Do not touch that
- 3:42bar unless I'm actually dying." "Define
- 3:46dying." "If my face turns purple and I
- 3:49start crying, you can help." "Got it.
- 3:52Purple and crying."
- 3:54She lifted the bar off the rack. Her
- 3:56whole face changed. The teasing
- 3:58disappeared. Pure focus. One rep,
- 4:01smooth. Two. Three. Four. On the fifth,
- 4:06the bar slowed down halfway up. Her arms
- 4:09shook. Her jaw clenched. My hands moved
- 4:12closer, right under the bar, not
- 4:14touching. "Come on," I said quietly,
- 4:16"you've got it. Push." She pushed. The
- 4:19bar went up. She racked it with a loud
- 4:21clang. Then she lay there breathing
- 4:24hard, looking up at me. "You didn't
- 4:26touch it. You didn't need me to."
- 4:28Something flickered in her eyes,
- 4:30something surprised. She sat up slowly
- 4:33and turned around on the bench to face
- 4:35me.
- 4:36"Chelsea always said you're the guy who
- 4:38fixes everything. I figured you'd grab
- 4:40the bar the second it got hard." "I
- 4:43don't fix people. I just stand behind
- 4:45them in case they need it."
- 4:47Jordan looked at me for a long moment.
- 4:49Then she stood up, grabbed her water
- 4:51bottle, and said, "Same time Tuesday?"
- 4:54"You want me to spot you again?" "You're
- 4:56tall, you're strong, and you don't talk
- 4:59too much." She smirked. "Don't let it go
- 5:01to your head, Sparky."
- 5:03So, that's how it started. Tuesdays,
- 5:06Thursdays, and Saturdays at 7:00 a.m., I
- 5:09spotted Jordan Reyes on the bench.
- 5:12At first, we barely talked. She'd lift,
- 5:15I'd spot, she'd say thanks, and leave.
- 5:18But by the second week, the banter came
- 5:20back, except it was different now,
- 5:23softer around the edges.
- 5:26"Your form's off," I told her one
- 5:28Thursday.
- 5:29"My form is perfect." "Your left elbow
- 5:32flares out."
- 5:34She stared up at me from the bench.
- 5:36"You've been watching my elbows?"
- 5:40"I'm your spotter. It's my job to watch
- 5:42your elbows."
- 5:43"Mhm." Her mouth twitched.
- 5:46"Just my elbows?"
- 5:49My face went hot.
- 5:51She laughed and lifted the bar.
- 5:53By the third week, she was bringing me
- 5:55coffee, black, no sugar. She remembered
- 5:58from some game night a year ago.
- 6:00"How do you remember how I take my
- 6:02coffee?" I asked. "I remember everything
- 6:05about you, Sparky. Mostly so I can make
- 6:07fun of it.
- 6:08Uh-huh, is that right?
- 6:11She handed me the cup and didn't quite
- 6:13look at me.
- 6:14That's right.
- 6:16Then one Saturday, after her set, she
- 6:18reached up and flicked a piece of my
- 6:20hair off my forehead.
- 6:22Okay, I can't take it anymore, she said.
- 6:25When's the last time you got a haircut?
- 6:28I thought about it. Before Cabo.
- 6:31She gasped. Cole, that's 8 months. You
- 6:35look like a golden retriever that got
- 6:37lost in the woods.
- 6:39Thanks.
- 6:41Come by my salon tomorrow, 2:00. I'm
- 6:43fixing this.
- 6:45Jordan, you don't have to. 2:00 or I'm
- 6:48cutting it right here in the gym with
- 6:50the scissors from the first aid kit.
- 6:52So, the next afternoon, I walked into
- 6:55Shear Genius on Cherry Street.
- 6:57It was a cute little place. An old lady
- 7:00named Miss Opal was sitting under a
- 7:02dryer, reading a magazine. She looked me
- 7:04up and down over her glasses.
- 7:07So, you're the lineman, she said. I
- 7:10looked at Jordan. Jordan turned bright
- 7:12red.
- 7:14Miss Opal, you said you were going to
- 7:16read your magazine.
- 7:17I am reading it, honey. I can read and
- 7:20listen. I'm 84, not deaf.
- 7:23Jordan sat me down in a chair and put a
- 7:26cape around my neck. Then she leaned me
- 7:28back over the sink and turned on the
- 7:30warm water.
- 7:31And she washed my hair.
- 7:34Her fingers slid slowly through my hair,
- 7:36massaging my scalp. She was leaning
- 7:39right over me. So close I could smell
- 7:42her shampoo, coconut and something
- 7:44sweet. I closed my eyes. I couldn't help
- 7:48it.
- 7:49You okay down there? She asked softly.
- 7:52Mhm.
- 7:53You're very quiet.
- 7:54I'm trying not to fall asleep or say
- 7:57something stupid.
- 7:58She laughed quietly.
- 8:00Which one's winning? Ask me in 5
- 8:03minutes.
- 8:04Her fingers paused in my hair just for a
- 8:06second. then they started moving again,
- 8:09slower this time.
- 8:11When she sat me up and started cutting,
- 8:13she stood right in front of me. Her hip
- 8:15was against my knee. Her hand was under
- 8:18my chin, tilting my face up. She was
- 8:20concentrating so hard, she had her
- 8:22tongue between her teeth. I couldn't
- 8:25stop looking at her.
- 8:26"Stop staring at me," she said without
- 8:29looking down.
- 8:30"Where else am I supposed to look?
- 8:32You're right in front of me."
- 8:34"Look in the mirror." "You're in the
- 8:36mirror, too."
- 8:37She stopped cutting. She looked down at
- 8:39me. Our faces were maybe 6 in apart. Her
- 8:43eyes dropped to my mouth for just a
- 8:45second. And from under the dryer, Miss
- 8:47Opal said loudly,
- 8:49"Well, kiss him or finish the haircut.
- 8:52I've got bingo at 4:00."
- 8:54Jordan dropped the scissors. I laughed
- 8:57so hard the whole chair shook. Jordan
- 8:59covered her face and said, "I'm going to
- 9:02move to Kansas."
- 9:04She finished the haircut. When she spun
- 9:06me around to the mirror, I barely
- 9:07recognized myself.
- 9:09"Well?" she asked, arms crossed, cheeks
- 9:12still pink.
- 9:14"I look like a human being again."
- 9:16"You look like you." She paused, then
- 9:19quieter, "You look really good, Cole."
- 9:23It was the first time she'd ever called
- 9:24me Cole without Sparky attached to it.
- 9:28Then the ice storm hit. It was the
- 9:31second week of December, freezing rain
- 9:34all night. By morning, half of Tulsa had
- 9:36no power. Trees were down everywhere.
- 9:39Lines were snapped. My crew got called
- 9:42in at 4:00 a.m. and we didn't stop. 16
- 9:46hours up and down poles in the ice. My
- 9:49hands were frozen. My back was killing
- 9:51me.
- 9:52By 8:00 that night, we were set up at
- 9:54the staging area in a church parking lot
- 9:56on the north side, trying to grab 10
- 9:58minutes of rest in the trucks.
- 10:01Then somebody knocked on my truck
- 10:02window. I looked up. Jordan was standing
- 10:06there in a huge puffy coat and in
- 10:08holding a big thermos in a foil-wrapped
- 10:10plate. I rolled down the window. Jordan?
- 10:14What are you doing here?
- 10:16Your power company posted where the
- 10:18crews were staging.
- 10:19She held up the thermos. Hot coffee,
- 10:22black, no sugar, and my abuela's
- 10:24tamales. She made three dozen for your
- 10:26whole crew.
- 10:28I just stared at her. You drove out here
- 10:31in the ice?
- 10:33I drove very slowly, Sparky. I'm not an
- 10:35idiot.
- 10:36My crew guys came out of their trucks
- 10:38like zombies smelling food. Jordan
- 10:40handed out tamales to all of them. My
- 10:43foreman, Big Earl, bit into one and
- 10:45said, "Miller, if you don't marry this
- 10:47woman, I will."
- 10:49Jordan laughed. I didn't.
- 10:51When the crew went back to their trucks,
- 10:53she climbed into the passenger seat of
- 10:55mine and handed me the last tamale. I
- 10:57ate it in about three bites.
- 10:59"Thank you," I said. "You have no idea."
- 11:03"I know," she said softly. "I saw you on
- 11:06the news this morning up a pole on
- 11:08Harvard Avenue in the ice. You looked so
- 11:10small up there." Her voice wobbled. "I
- 11:14couldn't stop thinking about it all
- 11:15day."
- 11:16I turned and looked at her. The
- 11:18dashboard lights lit up her face. Her
- 11:21nose was red from the cold.
- 11:23"Jordan," I said,
- 11:25"can I ask you something?
- 11:27Okay.
- 11:28Why were you always so mean to me?"
- 11:31She went very still. She looked out the
- 11:33windshield at the ice on the trees.
- 11:36"For 2 years you made fun of my chili.
- 11:39You called me Sparky. You rolled your
- 11:41eyes every time I talked. I always
- 11:43thought you hated me."
- 11:45She was quiet for a long time.
- 11:48Then she laughed softly, not a happy
- 11:50laugh.
- 11:51"I didn't hate you, Cole. That was the
- 11:54problem." My heart stopped.
- 11:56"The first night Chelsea brought you to
- 11:58game night, you lost at cornhole to me,
- 12:01and instead of getting mad, you bowed in
- 12:03the middle of the backyard. And then you
- 12:05spent the rest of the night helping my
- 12:07abuela set up folding chairs because
- 12:09nobody else noticed she was struggling."
- 12:12She turned and at me.
- 12:14And I went home that night and thought,
- 12:16"Oh, no, not him. He's Chelsea's."
- 12:20I couldn't breathe.
- 12:21So, I was mean because it was easier to
- 12:24fight with you than to like you. Liking
- 12:27you made me a terrible friend. Fighting
- 12:29with you made me just a jerk. She
- 12:31shrugged, eyes wet. "I picked jerk."
- 12:35Jordan.
- 12:37And when she dumped you with a palm tree
- 12:38emoji, I wanted to drive to Cabo and
- 12:41throw her phone in the ocean. She
- 12:43laughed through her tears.
- 12:45But I couldn't say that, either. So, I
- 12:48just avoided you for 6 months until I
- 12:51couldn't anymore.
- 12:52That's why you asked me to spot you.
- 12:55There were four other guys in the gym
- 12:57that morning, Cole. I picked you.
- 13:00I reached over slowly and wiped a tear
- 13:02off her cold cheek with my thumb. She
- 13:04leaned into my hand.
- 13:06"For the record," I said quietly, "when
- 13:09you argued with me across the table at
- 13:11game night, I always lost track of what
- 13:13we were fighting about. Every time." She
- 13:16smiled. "Really?
- 13:19I just knew I liked watching you be
- 13:21right. Even when you were wrong." "I'm
- 13:24never wrong." "Pineapple on pizza."
- 13:27"Pineapple is a crime against Italy."
- 13:30I laughed. Then she leaned across the
- 13:33seat, grabbed the front of my reflective
- 13:35jacket, and kissed me.
- 13:38Right there in my work truck in a church
- 13:40parking lot in the middle of an ice
- 13:42storm with the heater blasting and the
- 13:44windows fogging up.
- 13:46Her lips were cold at first, then warm.
- 13:50She tasted like coffee and cinnamon.
- 13:53I slid my frozen hand into her hair
- 13:56under her beanie, and she gasped against
- 13:58my mouth and laughed. "Your hands are
- 14:00ice." And kissed me harder anyway.
- 14:04When we finally pulled apart, her
- 14:06forehead was pressed against mine.
- 14:09"Well," she whispered, "that was better
- 14:11than fighting."
- 14:13Then Big Earl banged on the truck
- 14:15window. Miller, breaks over. Kiss your
- 14:18girl and get up the pole.
- 14:20Jordan covered her face. I grabbed my
- 14:23gloves. Be careful up there, she said. I
- 14:27always am. Be extra careful. She
- 14:30squeezed my hand. You've got somebody
- 14:32waiting now.
- 14:34For the next 2 weeks, everything was
- 14:37perfect. We spotted on Tuesdays,
- 14:40Thursdays, and Saturdays. But now, after
- 14:43her last set, she'd sit up on the bench
- 14:45and kiss me before anybody could see.
- 14:48She came to my place and criticized my
- 14:50chili again, then ate two bowls. I took
- 14:53her line dancing at an old bar downtown,
- 14:56and she was terrible at it and refused
- 14:58to admit it.
- 15:00Then, 2 days [clears throat] before
- 15:01Christmas, everything blew up. One of
- 15:05the girls from the gym posted a video
- 15:07online. Just a short clip of Jordan and
- 15:10me laughing at the bench press. She
- 15:12tagged both of us. Chelsea saw it. That
- 15:16night, Jordan's phone rang while we were
- 15:18sitting on her couch. She looked at the
- 15:20screen and went pale. It's Chelsea, she
- 15:23whispered. She answered. I could hear
- 15:26Chelsea's voice through the phone. Loud,
- 15:29angry. 20 years, Jordan. 20 years, and
- 15:33you're dating my ex behind my back?
- 15:37Chels, it's not behind your back. You
- 15:39broke up with him 8 months ago from a
- 15:41beach. That doesn't matter. There are
- 15:44rules. You don't date your best friend's
- 15:46ex, ever.
- 15:48Jordan's hand was shaking. I know. I
- 15:51know there are rules. I tried, Chelsea.
- 15:54I really tried. So, you're choosing him
- 15:57over me?
- 15:59Jordan looked at me. Tears were running
- 16:01down her face. I don't know, she
- 16:03whispered into the phone. I don't know.
- 16:07Chelsea hung up. Jordan sat there
- 16:09holding the phone crying. I put my arm
- 16:12around her. She leaned into me for a
- 16:14minute, then she pulled away.
- 16:16Cole, she said very quietly,
- 16:19"I think we need to stop."
- 16:21My chest went cold. "Jordan,
- 16:24she's been my best friend since we were
- 16:268 years old. She held my hand at my
- 16:29dad's funeral. She drove me to the
- 16:31hospital when I broke my wrist. I can't
- 16:33throw that away." She wiped her eyes.
- 16:36"I'm so sorry. I can't do this to her."
- 16:40"Is that what you really want?"
- 16:42"No," she whispered, "but it's what I
- 16:44have to do."
- 16:46I wanted to argue. I wanted to tell her
- 16:48that Chelsea dumped me with an emoji,
- 16:51that we didn't do anything wrong,
- 16:53but I could see it in her face. She was
- 16:55breaking, and I wasn't going to push her
- 16:57into breaking more.
- 16:59"Okay," I said softly. I kissed her
- 17:01forehead. "I'm not going anywhere,
- 17:04Jordan. If you change your mind, I'll be
- 17:06at the gym Tuesdays, Thursdays,
- 17:09Saturdays, 7:00 a.m."
- 17:12Then I left.
- 17:13She didn't come to the gym on Tuesday or
- 17:16Thursday or Saturday.
- 17:18For 3 weeks, I stood next to that empty
- 17:21bench every morning at 7:00, pretending
- 17:23to do my own workout, watching the door.
- 17:26She didn't come.
- 17:28Miss Opal called me on the third
- 17:30Saturday. I have no idea how she got my
- 17:32number.
- 17:33"Young man," she said, "that girl has
- 17:36been cutting hair crooked for 3 weeks.
- 17:39She gave Mrs. Henderson a mullet. You
- 17:41need to do something."
- 17:44"She asked me to stop, Miss Opal."
- 17:46"Honey, she asked you to stop because
- 17:48she thinks she's supposed to, not
- 17:51because she wants to." She paused. "Her
- 17:54meet is next Saturday, the Oklahoma
- 17:57State Powerlifting Championships at the
- 17:59convention center in Oklahoma City.
- 18:02She's going alone."
- 18:05"Alone?"
- 18:06"Chelsea was supposed to drive her.
- 18:09Chelsea's not speaking to her."
- 18:12Then Miss Opal hung up, and I sat there
- 18:14for a long time thinking. Then I called
- 18:16the meet director and asked if they
- 18:18needed volunteers.
- 18:19The Oklahoma State Powerlifting
- 18:21Championships were loud and packed.
- 18:24Chalk in the air, music blasting. I'd
- 18:27volunteered as a spotter and loader for
- 18:29the women's platform. Gray volunteer
- 18:31T-shirt. I was standing behind the bench
- 18:34with two other spotters when they called
- 18:36her name.
- 18:37Jordan Reyes, third attempt, bench
- 18:40press, 225
- 18:42lb. The crowd cheered. Jordan walked out
- 18:45onto the platform in her lifting
- 18:47singlet. Her braid tight, chalk on her
- 18:50hands, staring straight ahead like a
- 18:52warrior.
- 18:53She walked up to the bench. She chalked
- 18:55her back. She lay down.
- 18:57And then she looked up, straight up,
- 19:00straight into my face. She froze.
- 19:04"Cole?" she whispered. "Hey Jordan."
- 19:08"You What are you doing here?"
- 19:10"I told you I wasn't going anywhere." I
- 19:12said quietly. "I told you I wasn't going
- 19:15anywhere."
- 19:16Her eyes filled with tears instantly.
- 19:18Her lip trembled.
- 19:19The head referee said, "Lifter, you have
- 19:221 minute."
- 19:23I leaned down a little. "Hey, look at
- 19:26me. You've done 215 in the gym. You've
- 19:29got this. I'm right here."
- 19:31She stared up at me for a long moment.
- 19:34Then she smirked, that same smirk from
- 19:36the first morning.
- 19:37"You can come closer." she whispered. So
- 19:40I did. I stepped right up to the bar.
- 19:43She wrapped her hands around it, took a
- 19:45deep breath. The referee called,
- 19:47"Start." She lowered the bar to her
- 19:49chest, held it. "Press."
- 19:52And she pushed. The bar went up slow, so
- 19:56slow. Halfway it stopped. Her arms
- 19:59shook. Her face went red. My hands were
- 20:02right under the bar, not touching,
- 20:04ready.
- 20:05"Push Jordan." I said low and steady.
- 20:08"You've got it. Push." She screamed, and
- 20:12the bar went up, all the way up, arms
- 20:14locked. "Rack."
- 20:17We guided the bar back into the rack.
- 20:19Three white lights flashed on the
- 20:21scoreboard. Good lift.
- 20:24225
- 20:26lb, a personal record.
- 20:29The whole convention center exploded.
- 20:31Jordan sat up on the bench breathing
- 20:34hard, staring at the white lights. Then
- 20:36she turned around and looked at me.
- 20:39And then she jumped off that bench,
- 20:41threw her chalky arms around my neck,
- 20:43and kissed me right there on the
- 20:45competition platform in front of three
- 20:48referees, two other spotters, and about
- 20:51800 screaming people.
- 20:53Her lips were salty, her hands were
- 20:56covered in chalk, and she left white
- 20:58handprints all over my gray volunteer
- 21:00shirt. I didn't care. I lifted her right
- 21:03off the ground and kissed her back.
- 21:06When we finally broke apart, the head
- 21:08referee was standing there with his arms
- 21:10crossed. "Ma'am," he said, "you have to
- 21:13clear the platform." "Sorry," Jordan
- 21:16said, laughing and crying at the same
- 21:18time. "Sorry, sir."
- 21:21Backstage in the warm-up area, she held
- 21:23both my hands and wouldn't let go.
- 21:26"I called her," she said, "last night."
- 21:29"Chelsea?" She nodded. "I told her I've
- 21:33put her first for 20 years. Every
- 21:35boyfriend, every fight, every bad
- 21:38decision, I've always been in her
- 21:40corner, and I always will be." She took
- 21:43a shaky breath. "But I told her I wasn't
- 21:46going to lose the one guy who's ever
- 21:48made me feel strong instead of
- 21:50difficult. I told her she could be mad,
- 21:53but I wasn't going to give you up for a
- 21:55rule."
- 21:57"What did she say?" "She hung up on me."
- 22:00Jordan laughed through her tears. "But I
- 22:02meant it, Cole. I was going to come find
- 22:04you after the meet. I was going to drive
- 22:06to your house still covered in chalk.
- 22:09Then I lay down on that bench, and you
- 22:12were standing there."
- 22:13"Miss Opal called me."
- 22:15Jordan's mouth fell open. "That old
- 22:18busybody? She said you gave Miss
- 22:20Henderson a mullet." She buried her face
- 22:23in my chest and groaned. It was a
- 22:26disaster. I wrapped my arms around her
- 22:29and held her tight in the middle of the
- 22:31warm-up area, both of us covered in
- 22:33chalk.
- 22:34"I'm proud of you." I whispered into her
- 22:36hair. "Not for the lift, but for
- 22:38choosing what you wanted." She pulled
- 22:41back and smiled up at me. "I'm choosing
- 22:44you, Sparky."
- 22:45Chelsea didn't speak to Jordan for 2
- 22:48months. Then one day in March, she
- 22:50showed up at Jordan's salon. Jordan
- 22:53called me afterward, crying. "She said
- 22:55she was sorry." Jordan told me. "She
- 22:58said she was angry because deep down she
- 23:00always knew you and I made more sense
- 23:02than you and her ever did. And she said,
- 23:05'He used to look at you across the table
- 23:07at game night. I just pretended not to
- 23:09see it.'"
- 23:11They're friends now. Not exactly the
- 23:13same as before, but friends. Chelsea
- 23:15even came to our engagement party. She
- 23:18brought a gift, a palm tree tea chain.
- 23:21Jordan laughed so hard she cried.
- 23:24Because, yes, there was an engagement
- 23:26party.
- 23:27One year after that first Saturday
- 23:29morning, I asked Jordan to meet me at
- 23:31Red Dirt Barbell at 7:00 a.m. "Why? It's
- 23:35a Sunday. The gym's closed on Sundays."
- 23:38I talked to the owner.
- 23:39She walked in and the whole gym was dark
- 23:42except for the lights over one bench,
- 23:45her bench. The bar was racked and loaded
- 23:47with 225 lb and taped to the middle of
- 23:51the bar, right where she'd look straight
- 23:53up at it, with a little piece of paper.
- 23:56"Lie down." I said. She looked
- 23:59suspiciously. "Cole Miller, what did you
- 24:02do?"
- 24:03"Just lie down."
- 24:05She lay down on the bench and looked up
- 24:07at the bar, and there, taped to it, in
- 24:09my messy handwriting, it said, "Jordan,
- 24:12will you marry me?"
- 24:14She covered her mouth with both hands.
- 24:17I stood behind the bench, about 3 ft
- 24:20back, hands hovering politely, just like
- 24:22the very first morning.
- 24:24She tilted her head back and looked up
- 24:26at me upside down. Tears were already
- 24:29running down into her hair. Then she
- 24:32smirked. "You can come closer," she
- 24:34whispered. So I did. I got down on my
- 24:38knees right behind her head, so our
- 24:40faces were upside-down to each other,
- 24:42and I held up a ring. "Jordan Reyes,
- 24:45you've been fighting with me, teasing
- 24:47me, and making fun of my chili for 3
- 24:50years. I want you to keep doing it for
- 24:53the rest of your lives. Will you marry
- 24:55me?" "Yes," she sobbed. "Yes, Sparky.
- 24:59Yes, even though your chili tastes like
- 25:02a sad cowboy's boot." We kissed
- 25:04upside-down like a terrible movie. She
- 25:07laughed against my mouth. Then she sat
- 25:10up, threw her arms around me, and we
- 25:12both fell off the bench onto the gym
- 25:14mats. We got married that fall at her
- 25:17abuela's house in a big backyard full of
- 25:19string lights and folding chairs. Big
- 25:22Earl and my whole line crew came. Miss
- 25:24Opal sat in the front row and told
- 25:26everyone she'd arranged the whole thing.
- 25:29Chelsea was a bridesmaid. And at the
- 25:31reception, during our first dance,
- 25:33Jordan was standing a little too far
- 25:36away, being shy for once in her life. So
- 25:39I smirked at her and said, "You can come
- 25:41closer." She laughed, stepped right into
- 25:44my arms, and laid her head on my chest.
- 25:47And we danced under the string lights
- 25:49while her abuela cried and Big Earl ate
- 25:52the last of the tamales. Now every
- 25:54Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday at 7:00
- 25:57a.m., I still spot my wife on the bench
- 26:00press. She's up to 245 lb now. And every
- 26:04single time she lays down, she looks up
- 26:07at me with that same smirk and says,
- 26:09"You can come closer." And every single
- 26:12time, I do.
- 26:14So tell me, have you ever fallen for
- 26:16someone you were never supposed to? Your
- 26:19ex's best friend? Your best friend's ex?
- 26:22Did you fight it? Or did you come
- 26:24closer? Share your story in the
- 26:26comments. And if this story made you
- 26:28smile, hit like, subscribe, and I'll see
- 26:31you in the next one.
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