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My Ex’s Best Friend Asked Me to Spot Her… I Stood Behind Her. She Smirked, “You Can Come Closer.” — Transcript

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  1. 0:00At 7:00 on a Saturday morning, my
  2. 0:03ex-girlfriend's best friend, the woman
  3. 0:05who had spent 2 years rolling her eyes
  4. 0:08at me, lay down on a weight bench,
  5. 0:10looked up at me, and said, "Hey, Miller,
  6. 0:13spot me."
  7. 0:14I almost dropped my water bottle.
  8. 0:17Jordan Reyes had never asked me for
  9. 0:19anything. Not once. Not a ride, not a
  10. 0:22favor, not even the salt at dinner.
  11. 0:25She'd always just reached across me for
  12. 0:27it and said, "Excuse me, Sparky."
  13. 0:30But now, there she was, flat on her back
  14. 0:33under a bar loaded with 185 lb, staring
  15. 0:37up at me with those dark brown eyes and
  16. 0:39a look I'd never seen before.
  17. 0:42So, I walked over and stood behind the
  18. 0:44bench, about 3 ft back, hands hovering
  19. 0:47politely in the air, like I was afraid
  20. 0:49the bar might bite me.
  21. 0:51Jordan tilted her head back and looked
  22. 0:53at me upside down. Then she smirked.
  23. 0:56"You can come closer, Cole. I don't
  24. 0:58bite." And right there, at 7:00 a.m. in
  25. 1:01a gym that smelled like rubber mats and
  26. 1:04protein powder, my whole life tipped
  27. 1:06sideways.
  28. 1:08My name is Cole Miller. I'm 31 years
  29. 1:11old, and I'm a power lineman in Tulsa,
  30. 1:14Oklahoma. When a storm knocks out the
  31. 1:16electricity, I'm the guy 40 ft up a pole
  32. 1:19in the rain putting the lights back on.
  33. 1:22It's dangerous, it's exhausting, and I
  34. 1:25love it. For 2 years, I dated a woman
  35. 1:28named Chelsea. She was fun, loud, and
  36. 1:31always planning the next trip. 8 months
  37. 1:34ago, she went to Cabo with her
  38. 1:35girlfriends and texted me from the
  39. 1:37beach, "I think I need someone more
  40. 1:40spontaneous. I'm sorry, Cole." With a
  41. 1:42palm tree emoji. A palm tree emoji.
  42. 1:46That's how 2 years ended. And Jordan was
  43. 1:49Chelsea's best friend since the third
  44. 1:52grade. For 2 years, Jordan and I fought
  45. 1:55about everything. At every game night,
  46. 1:58every cookout, every birthday party. She
  47. 2:00called me Sparky because of my job. She
  48. 2:03said my chili tasted like a sad cowboy's
  49. 2:06boot. She beat me at cornhole and did a
  50. 2:08victory dance in my face. We argued
  51. 2:11about football, about country music,
  52. 2:13about whether pineapple belongs on
  53. 2:15pizza. It does. She's wrong.
  54. 2:18She was sharp, stubborn, and impossible.
  55. 2:22She owned a little hair salon on Cherry
  56. 2:24Street, trained at the gym 6 days a
  57. 2:26week, and had a laugh you could hear
  58. 2:28from across a parking lot. And I'll be
  59. 2:30honest, sometimes when she was arguing
  60. 2:33with me across the table, eyes
  61. 2:35sparkling, cheeks pink, I'd forget what
  62. 2:37we were even fighting about. I never let
  63. 2:40myself think about why.
  64. 2:42After Chelsea left, I joined Red Dirt
  65. 2:45Barbell, a little gym on the east side
  66. 2:48of town. 2 weeks later, Jordan walked
  67. 2:50in. Turns out, she'd been a member for
  68. 2:53years. For 6 months, we ignored each
  69. 2:56other. She'd nod, I'd nod. That was it.
  70. 2:59Until that Saturday morning.
  71. 3:02So, I stepped closer, right up to the
  72. 3:05head of the bench. From up there, I was
  73. 3:07looking straight down at her face. Her
  74. 3:09dark hair was pulled into a tight braid.
  75. 3:12There was a little sweat on her
  76. 3:13forehead. Her cheeks were already pink.
  77. 3:16"Better." She said. "How many?" "Five."
  78. 3:20"At 185 lb? That's a lot." "I'm training
  79. 3:24for a powerlifting meet. 6 weeks. I need
  80. 3:27to bench 225 by then." Whistle. "225,
  81. 3:32Jordan, that's huge." "I know it's huge,
  82. 3:35Sparky. That's why I need a spotter."
  83. 3:38She wrapped her hands around the bar.
  84. 3:40"Now, listen to me. Do not touch that
  85. 3:42bar unless I'm actually dying." "Define
  86. 3:46dying." "If my face turns purple and I
  87. 3:49start crying, you can help." "Got it.
  88. 3:52Purple and crying."
  89. 3:54She lifted the bar off the rack. Her
  90. 3:56whole face changed. The teasing
  91. 3:58disappeared. Pure focus. One rep,
  92. 4:01smooth. Two. Three. Four. On the fifth,
  93. 4:06the bar slowed down halfway up. Her arms
  94. 4:09shook. Her jaw clenched. My hands moved
  95. 4:12closer, right under the bar, not
  96. 4:14touching. "Come on," I said quietly,
  97. 4:16"you've got it. Push." She pushed. The
  98. 4:19bar went up. She racked it with a loud
  99. 4:21clang. Then she lay there breathing
  100. 4:24hard, looking up at me. "You didn't
  101. 4:26touch it. You didn't need me to."
  102. 4:28Something flickered in her eyes,
  103. 4:30something surprised. She sat up slowly
  104. 4:33and turned around on the bench to face
  105. 4:35me.
  106. 4:36"Chelsea always said you're the guy who
  107. 4:38fixes everything. I figured you'd grab
  108. 4:40the bar the second it got hard." "I
  109. 4:43don't fix people. I just stand behind
  110. 4:45them in case they need it."
  111. 4:47Jordan looked at me for a long moment.
  112. 4:49Then she stood up, grabbed her water
  113. 4:51bottle, and said, "Same time Tuesday?"
  114. 4:54"You want me to spot you again?" "You're
  115. 4:56tall, you're strong, and you don't talk
  116. 4:59too much." She smirked. "Don't let it go
  117. 5:01to your head, Sparky."
  118. 5:03So, that's how it started. Tuesdays,
  119. 5:06Thursdays, and Saturdays at 7:00 a.m., I
  120. 5:09spotted Jordan Reyes on the bench.
  121. 5:12At first, we barely talked. She'd lift,
  122. 5:15I'd spot, she'd say thanks, and leave.
  123. 5:18But by the second week, the banter came
  124. 5:20back, except it was different now,
  125. 5:23softer around the edges.
  126. 5:26"Your form's off," I told her one
  127. 5:28Thursday.
  128. 5:29"My form is perfect." "Your left elbow
  129. 5:32flares out."
  130. 5:34She stared up at me from the bench.
  131. 5:36"You've been watching my elbows?"
  132. 5:40"I'm your spotter. It's my job to watch
  133. 5:42your elbows."
  134. 5:43"Mhm." Her mouth twitched.
  135. 5:46"Just my elbows?"
  136. 5:49My face went hot.
  137. 5:51She laughed and lifted the bar.
  138. 5:53By the third week, she was bringing me
  139. 5:55coffee, black, no sugar. She remembered
  140. 5:58from some game night a year ago.
  141. 6:00"How do you remember how I take my
  142. 6:02coffee?" I asked. "I remember everything
  143. 6:05about you, Sparky. Mostly so I can make
  144. 6:07fun of it.
  145. 6:08Uh-huh, is that right?
  146. 6:11She handed me the cup and didn't quite
  147. 6:13look at me.
  148. 6:14That's right.
  149. 6:16Then one Saturday, after her set, she
  150. 6:18reached up and flicked a piece of my
  151. 6:20hair off my forehead.
  152. 6:22Okay, I can't take it anymore, she said.
  153. 6:25When's the last time you got a haircut?
  154. 6:28I thought about it. Before Cabo.
  155. 6:31She gasped. Cole, that's 8 months. You
  156. 6:35look like a golden retriever that got
  157. 6:37lost in the woods.
  158. 6:39Thanks.
  159. 6:41Come by my salon tomorrow, 2:00. I'm
  160. 6:43fixing this.
  161. 6:45Jordan, you don't have to. 2:00 or I'm
  162. 6:48cutting it right here in the gym with
  163. 6:50the scissors from the first aid kit.
  164. 6:52So, the next afternoon, I walked into
  165. 6:55Shear Genius on Cherry Street.
  166. 6:57It was a cute little place. An old lady
  167. 7:00named Miss Opal was sitting under a
  168. 7:02dryer, reading a magazine. She looked me
  169. 7:04up and down over her glasses.
  170. 7:07So, you're the lineman, she said. I
  171. 7:10looked at Jordan. Jordan turned bright
  172. 7:12red.
  173. 7:14Miss Opal, you said you were going to
  174. 7:16read your magazine.
  175. 7:17I am reading it, honey. I can read and
  176. 7:20listen. I'm 84, not deaf.
  177. 7:23Jordan sat me down in a chair and put a
  178. 7:26cape around my neck. Then she leaned me
  179. 7:28back over the sink and turned on the
  180. 7:30warm water.
  181. 7:31And she washed my hair.
  182. 7:34Her fingers slid slowly through my hair,
  183. 7:36massaging my scalp. She was leaning
  184. 7:39right over me. So close I could smell
  185. 7:42her shampoo, coconut and something
  186. 7:44sweet. I closed my eyes. I couldn't help
  187. 7:48it.
  188. 7:49You okay down there? She asked softly.
  189. 7:52Mhm.
  190. 7:53You're very quiet.
  191. 7:54I'm trying not to fall asleep or say
  192. 7:57something stupid.
  193. 7:58She laughed quietly.
  194. 8:00Which one's winning? Ask me in 5
  195. 8:03minutes.
  196. 8:04Her fingers paused in my hair just for a
  197. 8:06second. then they started moving again,
  198. 8:09slower this time.
  199. 8:11When she sat me up and started cutting,
  200. 8:13she stood right in front of me. Her hip
  201. 8:15was against my knee. Her hand was under
  202. 8:18my chin, tilting my face up. She was
  203. 8:20concentrating so hard, she had her
  204. 8:22tongue between her teeth. I couldn't
  205. 8:25stop looking at her.
  206. 8:26"Stop staring at me," she said without
  207. 8:29looking down.
  208. 8:30"Where else am I supposed to look?
  209. 8:32You're right in front of me."
  210. 8:34"Look in the mirror." "You're in the
  211. 8:36mirror, too."
  212. 8:37She stopped cutting. She looked down at
  213. 8:39me. Our faces were maybe 6 in apart. Her
  214. 8:43eyes dropped to my mouth for just a
  215. 8:45second. And from under the dryer, Miss
  216. 8:47Opal said loudly,
  217. 8:49"Well, kiss him or finish the haircut.
  218. 8:52I've got bingo at 4:00."
  219. 8:54Jordan dropped the scissors. I laughed
  220. 8:57so hard the whole chair shook. Jordan
  221. 8:59covered her face and said, "I'm going to
  222. 9:02move to Kansas."
  223. 9:04She finished the haircut. When she spun
  224. 9:06me around to the mirror, I barely
  225. 9:07recognized myself.
  226. 9:09"Well?" she asked, arms crossed, cheeks
  227. 9:12still pink.
  228. 9:14"I look like a human being again."
  229. 9:16"You look like you." She paused, then
  230. 9:19quieter, "You look really good, Cole."
  231. 9:23It was the first time she'd ever called
  232. 9:24me Cole without Sparky attached to it.
  233. 9:28Then the ice storm hit. It was the
  234. 9:31second week of December, freezing rain
  235. 9:34all night. By morning, half of Tulsa had
  236. 9:36no power. Trees were down everywhere.
  237. 9:39Lines were snapped. My crew got called
  238. 9:42in at 4:00 a.m. and we didn't stop. 16
  239. 9:46hours up and down poles in the ice. My
  240. 9:49hands were frozen. My back was killing
  241. 9:51me.
  242. 9:52By 8:00 that night, we were set up at
  243. 9:54the staging area in a church parking lot
  244. 9:56on the north side, trying to grab 10
  245. 9:58minutes of rest in the trucks.
  246. 10:01Then somebody knocked on my truck
  247. 10:02window. I looked up. Jordan was standing
  248. 10:06there in a huge puffy coat and in
  249. 10:08holding a big thermos in a foil-wrapped
  250. 10:10plate. I rolled down the window. Jordan?
  251. 10:14What are you doing here?
  252. 10:16Your power company posted where the
  253. 10:18crews were staging.
  254. 10:19She held up the thermos. Hot coffee,
  255. 10:22black, no sugar, and my abuela's
  256. 10:24tamales. She made three dozen for your
  257. 10:26whole crew.
  258. 10:28I just stared at her. You drove out here
  259. 10:31in the ice?
  260. 10:33I drove very slowly, Sparky. I'm not an
  261. 10:35idiot.
  262. 10:36My crew guys came out of their trucks
  263. 10:38like zombies smelling food. Jordan
  264. 10:40handed out tamales to all of them. My
  265. 10:43foreman, Big Earl, bit into one and
  266. 10:45said, "Miller, if you don't marry this
  267. 10:47woman, I will."
  268. 10:49Jordan laughed. I didn't.
  269. 10:51When the crew went back to their trucks,
  270. 10:53she climbed into the passenger seat of
  271. 10:55mine and handed me the last tamale. I
  272. 10:57ate it in about three bites.
  273. 10:59"Thank you," I said. "You have no idea."
  274. 11:03"I know," she said softly. "I saw you on
  275. 11:06the news this morning up a pole on
  276. 11:08Harvard Avenue in the ice. You looked so
  277. 11:10small up there." Her voice wobbled. "I
  278. 11:14couldn't stop thinking about it all
  279. 11:15day."
  280. 11:16I turned and looked at her. The
  281. 11:18dashboard lights lit up her face. Her
  282. 11:21nose was red from the cold.
  283. 11:23"Jordan," I said,
  284. 11:25"can I ask you something?
  285. 11:27Okay.
  286. 11:28Why were you always so mean to me?"
  287. 11:31She went very still. She looked out the
  288. 11:33windshield at the ice on the trees.
  289. 11:36"For 2 years you made fun of my chili.
  290. 11:39You called me Sparky. You rolled your
  291. 11:41eyes every time I talked. I always
  292. 11:43thought you hated me."
  293. 11:45She was quiet for a long time.
  294. 11:48Then she laughed softly, not a happy
  295. 11:50laugh.
  296. 11:51"I didn't hate you, Cole. That was the
  297. 11:54problem." My heart stopped.
  298. 11:56"The first night Chelsea brought you to
  299. 11:58game night, you lost at cornhole to me,
  300. 12:01and instead of getting mad, you bowed in
  301. 12:03the middle of the backyard. And then you
  302. 12:05spent the rest of the night helping my
  303. 12:07abuela set up folding chairs because
  304. 12:09nobody else noticed she was struggling."
  305. 12:12She turned and at me.
  306. 12:14And I went home that night and thought,
  307. 12:16"Oh, no, not him. He's Chelsea's."
  308. 12:20I couldn't breathe.
  309. 12:21So, I was mean because it was easier to
  310. 12:24fight with you than to like you. Liking
  311. 12:27you made me a terrible friend. Fighting
  312. 12:29with you made me just a jerk. She
  313. 12:31shrugged, eyes wet. "I picked jerk."
  314. 12:35Jordan.
  315. 12:37And when she dumped you with a palm tree
  316. 12:38emoji, I wanted to drive to Cabo and
  317. 12:41throw her phone in the ocean. She
  318. 12:43laughed through her tears.
  319. 12:45But I couldn't say that, either. So, I
  320. 12:48just avoided you for 6 months until I
  321. 12:51couldn't anymore.
  322. 12:52That's why you asked me to spot you.
  323. 12:55There were four other guys in the gym
  324. 12:57that morning, Cole. I picked you.
  325. 13:00I reached over slowly and wiped a tear
  326. 13:02off her cold cheek with my thumb. She
  327. 13:04leaned into my hand.
  328. 13:06"For the record," I said quietly, "when
  329. 13:09you argued with me across the table at
  330. 13:11game night, I always lost track of what
  331. 13:13we were fighting about. Every time." She
  332. 13:16smiled. "Really?
  333. 13:19I just knew I liked watching you be
  334. 13:21right. Even when you were wrong." "I'm
  335. 13:24never wrong." "Pineapple on pizza."
  336. 13:27"Pineapple is a crime against Italy."
  337. 13:30I laughed. Then she leaned across the
  338. 13:33seat, grabbed the front of my reflective
  339. 13:35jacket, and kissed me.
  340. 13:38Right there in my work truck in a church
  341. 13:40parking lot in the middle of an ice
  342. 13:42storm with the heater blasting and the
  343. 13:44windows fogging up.
  344. 13:46Her lips were cold at first, then warm.
  345. 13:50She tasted like coffee and cinnamon.
  346. 13:53I slid my frozen hand into her hair
  347. 13:56under her beanie, and she gasped against
  348. 13:58my mouth and laughed. "Your hands are
  349. 14:00ice." And kissed me harder anyway.
  350. 14:04When we finally pulled apart, her
  351. 14:06forehead was pressed against mine.
  352. 14:09"Well," she whispered, "that was better
  353. 14:11than fighting."
  354. 14:13Then Big Earl banged on the truck
  355. 14:15window. Miller, breaks over. Kiss your
  356. 14:18girl and get up the pole.
  357. 14:20Jordan covered her face. I grabbed my
  358. 14:23gloves. Be careful up there, she said. I
  359. 14:27always am. Be extra careful. She
  360. 14:30squeezed my hand. You've got somebody
  361. 14:32waiting now.
  362. 14:34For the next 2 weeks, everything was
  363. 14:37perfect. We spotted on Tuesdays,
  364. 14:40Thursdays, and Saturdays. But now, after
  365. 14:43her last set, she'd sit up on the bench
  366. 14:45and kiss me before anybody could see.
  367. 14:48She came to my place and criticized my
  368. 14:50chili again, then ate two bowls. I took
  369. 14:53her line dancing at an old bar downtown,
  370. 14:56and she was terrible at it and refused
  371. 14:58to admit it.
  372. 15:00Then, 2 days [clears throat] before
  373. 15:01Christmas, everything blew up. One of
  374. 15:05the girls from the gym posted a video
  375. 15:07online. Just a short clip of Jordan and
  376. 15:10me laughing at the bench press. She
  377. 15:12tagged both of us. Chelsea saw it. That
  378. 15:16night, Jordan's phone rang while we were
  379. 15:18sitting on her couch. She looked at the
  380. 15:20screen and went pale. It's Chelsea, she
  381. 15:23whispered. She answered. I could hear
  382. 15:26Chelsea's voice through the phone. Loud,
  383. 15:29angry. 20 years, Jordan. 20 years, and
  384. 15:33you're dating my ex behind my back?
  385. 15:37Chels, it's not behind your back. You
  386. 15:39broke up with him 8 months ago from a
  387. 15:41beach. That doesn't matter. There are
  388. 15:44rules. You don't date your best friend's
  389. 15:46ex, ever.
  390. 15:48Jordan's hand was shaking. I know. I
  391. 15:51know there are rules. I tried, Chelsea.
  392. 15:54I really tried. So, you're choosing him
  393. 15:57over me?
  394. 15:59Jordan looked at me. Tears were running
  395. 16:01down her face. I don't know, she
  396. 16:03whispered into the phone. I don't know.
  397. 16:07Chelsea hung up. Jordan sat there
  398. 16:09holding the phone crying. I put my arm
  399. 16:12around her. She leaned into me for a
  400. 16:14minute, then she pulled away.
  401. 16:16Cole, she said very quietly,
  402. 16:19"I think we need to stop."
  403. 16:21My chest went cold. "Jordan,
  404. 16:24she's been my best friend since we were
  405. 16:268 years old. She held my hand at my
  406. 16:29dad's funeral. She drove me to the
  407. 16:31hospital when I broke my wrist. I can't
  408. 16:33throw that away." She wiped her eyes.
  409. 16:36"I'm so sorry. I can't do this to her."
  410. 16:40"Is that what you really want?"
  411. 16:42"No," she whispered, "but it's what I
  412. 16:44have to do."
  413. 16:46I wanted to argue. I wanted to tell her
  414. 16:48that Chelsea dumped me with an emoji,
  415. 16:51that we didn't do anything wrong,
  416. 16:53but I could see it in her face. She was
  417. 16:55breaking, and I wasn't going to push her
  418. 16:57into breaking more.
  419. 16:59"Okay," I said softly. I kissed her
  420. 17:01forehead. "I'm not going anywhere,
  421. 17:04Jordan. If you change your mind, I'll be
  422. 17:06at the gym Tuesdays, Thursdays,
  423. 17:09Saturdays, 7:00 a.m."
  424. 17:12Then I left.
  425. 17:13She didn't come to the gym on Tuesday or
  426. 17:16Thursday or Saturday.
  427. 17:18For 3 weeks, I stood next to that empty
  428. 17:21bench every morning at 7:00, pretending
  429. 17:23to do my own workout, watching the door.
  430. 17:26She didn't come.
  431. 17:28Miss Opal called me on the third
  432. 17:30Saturday. I have no idea how she got my
  433. 17:32number.
  434. 17:33"Young man," she said, "that girl has
  435. 17:36been cutting hair crooked for 3 weeks.
  436. 17:39She gave Mrs. Henderson a mullet. You
  437. 17:41need to do something."
  438. 17:44"She asked me to stop, Miss Opal."
  439. 17:46"Honey, she asked you to stop because
  440. 17:48she thinks she's supposed to, not
  441. 17:51because she wants to." She paused. "Her
  442. 17:54meet is next Saturday, the Oklahoma
  443. 17:57State Powerlifting Championships at the
  444. 17:59convention center in Oklahoma City.
  445. 18:02She's going alone."
  446. 18:05"Alone?"
  447. 18:06"Chelsea was supposed to drive her.
  448. 18:09Chelsea's not speaking to her."
  449. 18:12Then Miss Opal hung up, and I sat there
  450. 18:14for a long time thinking. Then I called
  451. 18:16the meet director and asked if they
  452. 18:18needed volunteers.
  453. 18:19The Oklahoma State Powerlifting
  454. 18:21Championships were loud and packed.
  455. 18:24Chalk in the air, music blasting. I'd
  456. 18:27volunteered as a spotter and loader for
  457. 18:29the women's platform. Gray volunteer
  458. 18:31T-shirt. I was standing behind the bench
  459. 18:34with two other spotters when they called
  460. 18:36her name.
  461. 18:37Jordan Reyes, third attempt, bench
  462. 18:40press, 225
  463. 18:42lb. The crowd cheered. Jordan walked out
  464. 18:45onto the platform in her lifting
  465. 18:47singlet. Her braid tight, chalk on her
  466. 18:50hands, staring straight ahead like a
  467. 18:52warrior.
  468. 18:53She walked up to the bench. She chalked
  469. 18:55her back. She lay down.
  470. 18:57And then she looked up, straight up,
  471. 19:00straight into my face. She froze.
  472. 19:04"Cole?" she whispered. "Hey Jordan."
  473. 19:08"You What are you doing here?"
  474. 19:10"I told you I wasn't going anywhere." I
  475. 19:12said quietly. "I told you I wasn't going
  476. 19:15anywhere."
  477. 19:16Her eyes filled with tears instantly.
  478. 19:18Her lip trembled.
  479. 19:19The head referee said, "Lifter, you have
  480. 19:221 minute."
  481. 19:23I leaned down a little. "Hey, look at
  482. 19:26me. You've done 215 in the gym. You've
  483. 19:29got this. I'm right here."
  484. 19:31She stared up at me for a long moment.
  485. 19:34Then she smirked, that same smirk from
  486. 19:36the first morning.
  487. 19:37"You can come closer." she whispered. So
  488. 19:40I did. I stepped right up to the bar.
  489. 19:43She wrapped her hands around it, took a
  490. 19:45deep breath. The referee called,
  491. 19:47"Start." She lowered the bar to her
  492. 19:49chest, held it. "Press."
  493. 19:52And she pushed. The bar went up slow, so
  494. 19:56slow. Halfway it stopped. Her arms
  495. 19:59shook. Her face went red. My hands were
  496. 20:02right under the bar, not touching,
  497. 20:04ready.
  498. 20:05"Push Jordan." I said low and steady.
  499. 20:08"You've got it. Push." She screamed, and
  500. 20:12the bar went up, all the way up, arms
  501. 20:14locked. "Rack."
  502. 20:17We guided the bar back into the rack.
  503. 20:19Three white lights flashed on the
  504. 20:21scoreboard. Good lift.
  505. 20:24225
  506. 20:26lb, a personal record.
  507. 20:29The whole convention center exploded.
  508. 20:31Jordan sat up on the bench breathing
  509. 20:34hard, staring at the white lights. Then
  510. 20:36she turned around and looked at me.
  511. 20:39And then she jumped off that bench,
  512. 20:41threw her chalky arms around my neck,
  513. 20:43and kissed me right there on the
  514. 20:45competition platform in front of three
  515. 20:48referees, two other spotters, and about
  516. 20:51800 screaming people.
  517. 20:53Her lips were salty, her hands were
  518. 20:56covered in chalk, and she left white
  519. 20:58handprints all over my gray volunteer
  520. 21:00shirt. I didn't care. I lifted her right
  521. 21:03off the ground and kissed her back.
  522. 21:06When we finally broke apart, the head
  523. 21:08referee was standing there with his arms
  524. 21:10crossed. "Ma'am," he said, "you have to
  525. 21:13clear the platform." "Sorry," Jordan
  526. 21:16said, laughing and crying at the same
  527. 21:18time. "Sorry, sir."
  528. 21:21Backstage in the warm-up area, she held
  529. 21:23both my hands and wouldn't let go.
  530. 21:26"I called her," she said, "last night."
  531. 21:29"Chelsea?" She nodded. "I told her I've
  532. 21:33put her first for 20 years. Every
  533. 21:35boyfriend, every fight, every bad
  534. 21:38decision, I've always been in her
  535. 21:40corner, and I always will be." She took
  536. 21:43a shaky breath. "But I told her I wasn't
  537. 21:46going to lose the one guy who's ever
  538. 21:48made me feel strong instead of
  539. 21:50difficult. I told her she could be mad,
  540. 21:53but I wasn't going to give you up for a
  541. 21:55rule."
  542. 21:57"What did she say?" "She hung up on me."
  543. 22:00Jordan laughed through her tears. "But I
  544. 22:02meant it, Cole. I was going to come find
  545. 22:04you after the meet. I was going to drive
  546. 22:06to your house still covered in chalk.
  547. 22:09Then I lay down on that bench, and you
  548. 22:12were standing there."
  549. 22:13"Miss Opal called me."
  550. 22:15Jordan's mouth fell open. "That old
  551. 22:18busybody? She said you gave Miss
  552. 22:20Henderson a mullet." She buried her face
  553. 22:23in my chest and groaned. It was a
  554. 22:26disaster. I wrapped my arms around her
  555. 22:29and held her tight in the middle of the
  556. 22:31warm-up area, both of us covered in
  557. 22:33chalk.
  558. 22:34"I'm proud of you." I whispered into her
  559. 22:36hair. "Not for the lift, but for
  560. 22:38choosing what you wanted." She pulled
  561. 22:41back and smiled up at me. "I'm choosing
  562. 22:44you, Sparky."
  563. 22:45Chelsea didn't speak to Jordan for 2
  564. 22:48months. Then one day in March, she
  565. 22:50showed up at Jordan's salon. Jordan
  566. 22:53called me afterward, crying. "She said
  567. 22:55she was sorry." Jordan told me. "She
  568. 22:58said she was angry because deep down she
  569. 23:00always knew you and I made more sense
  570. 23:02than you and her ever did. And she said,
  571. 23:05'He used to look at you across the table
  572. 23:07at game night. I just pretended not to
  573. 23:09see it.'"
  574. 23:11They're friends now. Not exactly the
  575. 23:13same as before, but friends. Chelsea
  576. 23:15even came to our engagement party. She
  577. 23:18brought a gift, a palm tree tea chain.
  578. 23:21Jordan laughed so hard she cried.
  579. 23:24Because, yes, there was an engagement
  580. 23:26party.
  581. 23:27One year after that first Saturday
  582. 23:29morning, I asked Jordan to meet me at
  583. 23:31Red Dirt Barbell at 7:00 a.m. "Why? It's
  584. 23:35a Sunday. The gym's closed on Sundays."
  585. 23:38I talked to the owner.
  586. 23:39She walked in and the whole gym was dark
  587. 23:42except for the lights over one bench,
  588. 23:45her bench. The bar was racked and loaded
  589. 23:47with 225 lb and taped to the middle of
  590. 23:51the bar, right where she'd look straight
  591. 23:53up at it, with a little piece of paper.
  592. 23:56"Lie down." I said. She looked
  593. 23:59suspiciously. "Cole Miller, what did you
  594. 24:02do?"
  595. 24:03"Just lie down."
  596. 24:05She lay down on the bench and looked up
  597. 24:07at the bar, and there, taped to it, in
  598. 24:09my messy handwriting, it said, "Jordan,
  599. 24:12will you marry me?"
  600. 24:14She covered her mouth with both hands.
  601. 24:17I stood behind the bench, about 3 ft
  602. 24:20back, hands hovering politely, just like
  603. 24:22the very first morning.
  604. 24:24She tilted her head back and looked up
  605. 24:26at me upside down. Tears were already
  606. 24:29running down into her hair. Then she
  607. 24:32smirked. "You can come closer," she
  608. 24:34whispered. So I did. I got down on my
  609. 24:38knees right behind her head, so our
  610. 24:40faces were upside-down to each other,
  611. 24:42and I held up a ring. "Jordan Reyes,
  612. 24:45you've been fighting with me, teasing
  613. 24:47me, and making fun of my chili for 3
  614. 24:50years. I want you to keep doing it for
  615. 24:53the rest of your lives. Will you marry
  616. 24:55me?" "Yes," she sobbed. "Yes, Sparky.
  617. 24:59Yes, even though your chili tastes like
  618. 25:02a sad cowboy's boot." We kissed
  619. 25:04upside-down like a terrible movie. She
  620. 25:07laughed against my mouth. Then she sat
  621. 25:10up, threw her arms around me, and we
  622. 25:12both fell off the bench onto the gym
  623. 25:14mats. We got married that fall at her
  624. 25:17abuela's house in a big backyard full of
  625. 25:19string lights and folding chairs. Big
  626. 25:22Earl and my whole line crew came. Miss
  627. 25:24Opal sat in the front row and told
  628. 25:26everyone she'd arranged the whole thing.
  629. 25:29Chelsea was a bridesmaid. And at the
  630. 25:31reception, during our first dance,
  631. 25:33Jordan was standing a little too far
  632. 25:36away, being shy for once in her life. So
  633. 25:39I smirked at her and said, "You can come
  634. 25:41closer." She laughed, stepped right into
  635. 25:44my arms, and laid her head on my chest.
  636. 25:47And we danced under the string lights
  637. 25:49while her abuela cried and Big Earl ate
  638. 25:52the last of the tamales. Now every
  639. 25:54Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday at 7:00
  640. 25:57a.m., I still spot my wife on the bench
  641. 26:00press. She's up to 245 lb now. And every
  642. 26:04single time she lays down, she looks up
  643. 26:07at me with that same smirk and says,
  644. 26:09"You can come closer." And every single
  645. 26:12time, I do.
  646. 26:14So tell me, have you ever fallen for
  647. 26:16someone you were never supposed to? Your
  648. 26:19ex's best friend? Your best friend's ex?
  649. 26:22Did you fight it? Or did you come
  650. 26:24closer? Share your story in the
  651. 26:26comments. And if this story made you
  652. 26:28smile, hit like, subscribe, and I'll see
  653. 26:31you in the next one.

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