My 3 Pillars to Self-Concept. For when you are “doing everything right but nothing is changing.” — Transcript

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1. 0:00So, don't try to manifest anything until
2. 0:02you actually understand this in full.
3. 0:04Otherwise, you're just wasting your
4. 0:05time.
5. 0:21What's up, guys? What's up, guys? It's
6. 0:23Axel. I'm so [ __ ] happy to be back.
7. 0:25I'm restarting this YouTube channel. If
8. 0:27you're new here, welcome to the Arcane.
9. 0:29This is where like the Greek fates, you
10. 0:31can thread your own destiny. I'm a
11. 0:34manifestation and mindset mentor who
12. 0:36focuses on getting to the root of the
13. 0:38problem, cutting it, and growing from a
14. 0:41new one. I help my clients identify that
15. 0:44problem in their mindset and transform
16. 0:46to the version of themselves that they
17. 0:48see in their minds. I am also a witch. I
18. 0:52cast rituals over my clients' life. I do
19. 0:54energy work in order to bring what
20. 0:56people want into their realities. So,
21. 0:59before we get into this video, if you
22. 1:00want any of these transformative
23. 1:01services with me, the link is always
24. 1:03going to be the first one in the
25. 1:05description box. Love you guys. Let's
26. 1:07get into it. So, as I was saying before,
27. 1:10this is what made me start manifesting.
28. 1:12As in, I could not consistently get
29. 1:15results beforehand. What the three
30. 1:17pillars to self-concept is is a guide.
31. 1:21This is not a method. And I want to
32. 1:22clarify that on this channel, I do not
33. 1:25tolerate, you know, the exclusivity
34. 1:28of a method, telling somebody that you
35. 1:31can only use this method or that you can
36. 1:33only do this to manifest. That doesn't
37. 1:35make sense and does not fall under the
38. 1:37law of assumption, which is what I
39. 1:39teach. This is a guide, so learn from it
40. 1:43because this is going to help you stop
41. 1:45contradicting yourself. Having a strong
42. 1:47self-concept, which is the key to
43. 1:49manifestation because we manifest
44. 1:51through our what?
45. 1:53Identity. In other words, our dominant
46. 1:55assumptions. So, your first pillar is
47. 1:57your manifestation pillar and this acts
48. 1:59as either a door
49. 2:02or a blockade, a strong [ __ ]
50. 2:05blockade. This is where you need to
51. 2:06start analyzing yourself and
52. 2:11identifying where your mindset is at.
53. 2:14Because without having this controlled
54. 2:16in your dominant assumptions, your
55. 2:18dominant thoughts, you can potentially
56. 2:21be closing yourself off to your desires
57. 2:23even coming in. This is possibly going
58. 2:25to be the most annoying [ __ ] one to
59. 2:28hear, but trust me, the second one
60. 2:30you're going to want to [ __ ] hear.
61. 2:32Okay?
62. 2:34But as for this first pillar, I find
63. 2:37that a lot of people don't like to hear
64. 2:39it. And actually, now that I think about
65. 2:41it, reasonably so because I don't think
66. 2:43a lot of people fully understand
67. 2:45manifestation to be able to think to
68. 2:47themselves, "Oh, okay. Maybe this is not
69. 2:50my problem, but something else is." So,
70. 2:52the manifestation pillar.
71. 2:54The annoying part of this is that you
72. 2:56get told all the time, "Stop saying that
73. 2:59your manifestation isn't working."
74. 3:00That's exactly what this is. When you
75. 3:02say things such as manifestation is
76. 3:03hard, manifestation is difficult, it
77. 3:05takes a long time, "How do I make it
78. 3:07more powerful? It doesn't work for me.
79. 3:09It doesn't work for me."
80. 3:11Different things along those lines. This
81. 3:14is what you are doing in an analogy
82. 3:15form. You are getting a key that you own
83. 3:18and that you own to a room in your house
84. 3:21or your apartment. You are locking that
85. 3:25door
86. 3:26and you are heading over to a volcano
87. 3:28and throwing it into that volcano.
88. 3:31Now, yes, you have that room. You have
89. 3:34that desire. You have the room.
90. 3:37But you have just thrown away the
91. 3:38[ __ ] key that allows you to enter
92. 3:41that room. So, that is what this pillar
93. 3:43acts as. You cannot put this label to
94. 3:47manifestation, to making things come
95. 3:51true, to achieving things in your life
96. 3:53because that's what manifestation is.
97. 3:56And you are giving it a door.
98. 3:58Now it can no longer no longer enter to
99. 4:02this side where your desire is at.
100. 4:04Pretend that my face is your desire.
101. 4:06>> [laughter]
102. 4:06>> Pretend that over here is your desire,
103. 4:08okay? You get me over here. Okay.
104. 4:11And over here is you.
105. 4:13You cannot enter cuz you said it does
106. 4:15not work.
107. 4:17You threw away the key. How the [ __ ] are
108. 4:19you going to open this [ __ ]
109. 4:21this door, right?
110. 4:23So, that is my way of explaining it.
111. 4:27So, analyze what you are thinking in
112. 4:29regards to your manifestation pillar.
113. 4:32And if you are the type of person that
114. 4:34isn't necessarily thinking negatively
115. 4:36about manifestation, isn't necessarily
116. 4:38constantly spewing about and bitching
117. 4:41about and complaining about how
118. 4:43manifestation just doesn't work, isn't
119. 4:45real, or it's difficult, or takes too
120. 4:47long.
121. 4:49You don't do that? Then let's continue
122. 4:51troubleshooting. Go on to pillar number
123. 4:53two.
124. 4:54Why do I say it like that? Pillar number
125. 4:56two, desire pillar. This is what I call
126. 4:58the meat.
127. 5:00Sorry. The meat and [ __ ]
128. 5:04bones. And where I often and where I
129. 5:08majority of the times see my clients go
130. 5:10wrong in their mindset composition.
131. 5:15Have some strength. Stop being a little
132. 5:16[ __ ] Your desire pillar is
133. 5:18self-explanatory. It is the pillar on
134. 5:20your desire. So, whatever your desire is
135. 5:25the pillar is where you can identify how
136. 5:29you are describing your desire because
137. 5:32the context, the narrative, the
138. 5:34narrative that you have surrounding your
139. 5:36desire is far more important than I
140. 5:41already have this desire affirmations.
141. 5:43The way that you describe your desire is
142. 5:46ultimately how you're going to
143. 5:48experience it in your reality because
144. 5:50your self-concept is what you're
145. 5:52constantly seeing reflected. When you
146. 5:55look in the mirror and you see something
147. 5:58on the sink area, you look at yourself
148. 6:00in the position that you are in, right?
149. 6:02And you want something to change in the
150. 6:04reflection of the mirror. What do you
151. 6:05do?
152. 6:07You move your body.
153. 6:09Or you move the things around the sink
154. 6:12and then the mirror reflects something
155. 6:13different.
156. 6:15So the power's within you to reflect
157. 6:17something different in the mirror.
158. 6:19You just have to change
159. 6:23the surroundings
160. 6:25for the reflection to change.
161. 6:27So let's get into an example.
162. 6:31Let's say you are manifesting love or a
163. 6:34specific person, either or or both
164. 6:37together cuz sometimes it's it's often
165. 6:39together. You can say a million times
166. 6:42over that I'm in this relationship. I'm
167. 6:46with this person. I'm with this person.
168. 6:47I'm with this person. I'm with this
169. 6:48person. I'm with this person. And like
170. 6:49that's [ __ ] great. That's great and
171. 6:51all. Let's say you even are able to
172. 6:53manifest them back with a shitty
173. 6:56self-concept cuz it's more than
174. 6:58possible. It all depends on the person
175. 7:01and their unique mindset, okay? Say you
176. 7:04do manifest them back and it's not like
177. 7:07the common situation where you can't
178. 7:10manifest them back because of your
179. 7:11shitty mindset. You get them back, but
180. 7:13you notice the constant hot cold, the
181. 7:16constant
182. 7:18um attachments, the constant
183. 7:21avoidant attachment, the constant
184. 7:23negativity, the toxic cycles, the
185. 7:26breakups and makeups that leave you
186. 7:28absolutely [ __ ] shattered. Let's take
187. 7:31a look at what you think about your
188. 7:33person and let's take a look about what
189. 7:35you think about love. This is what you
190. 7:38need to analyze whenever you are
191. 7:39manifesting for any topic. Not just not
192. 7:43just love and SP, it could be for money,
193. 7:44appearance, anything.
194. 7:47Let me give you some example. These are
195. 7:49going to be love specific and then I'm
196. 7:50going to give a little bit of SP
197. 7:52specific, specific person specific.
198. 7:55Love is so difficult. Love is not easy.
199. 7:57It's hard. You have to work
200. 8:00hard to maintain a healthy relationship.
201. 8:02All men are trash. All men are dogs.
202. 8:05All women cheat. All men lie. The
203. 8:07honeymoon phase dies.
204. 8:09Um you go through rough patches in
205. 8:11relationships. People always leave me. I
206. 8:13always have X, Y, and Z experience in
207. 8:16relationships. This has always happened
208. 8:18to me. Those are just a couple of golden
209. 8:21examples as to what can be [ __ ] up
210. 8:24your love life experience.
211. 8:27Again, dominant assumptions, it's going
212. 8:29to reflect in the mirror.
213. 8:31Now, for your SP, and I see this so
214. 8:35[ __ ] often. People always wonder,
215. 8:37"Hey, I manifested my SP back. Why do I
216. 8:39keep having this behavior? Why do I keep
217. 8:41struggling with love if I manifested
218. 8:43them back? Like, what the [ __ ] am I
219. 8:44doing wrong?"
220. 8:46You just described your SP in your
221. 8:48desire pillar, right? This is why we
222. 8:49have this guide to be able to identify
223. 8:52to ourselves where we are at in our
224. 8:55mindset constantly thinking, "My SP is
225. 8:58avoidant." Correct. You labeled them as
226. 9:01such, so now they're going to be
227. 9:02avoidant.
228. 9:04Remember, people have different facets
229. 9:07to them. Nobody is two-dimensional.
230. 9:10We all have multiple different versions
231. 9:14of ourselves, especially when you
232. 9:16understand the law of assumption and how
233. 9:19we get to choose versions of our
234. 9:21experience.
235. 9:22So, if you are labeling this person
236. 9:24avoidant, if you are telling them they
237. 9:26are hot and cold, you are back and
238. 9:28forth, you are toxic, this person always
239. 9:32acts this way, this person has bad
240. 9:34communication, this person treats you
241. 9:35like [ __ ] maybe this person is a [ __ ]
242. 9:38person. Okay, you have you have decided
243. 9:40that they are a horrible [ __ ] person.
244. 9:43You're going to always experience that
245. 9:45version of them.
246. 9:47I remember I used to be in a similar
247. 9:48situation many years ago and I had to
248. 9:51stop thinking the from the constant
249. 9:53victim mentality because that's what it
250. 9:55is when you are the creator of your own
251. 9:57reality and you are complaining.
252. 10:01I had to stop thinking from the
253. 10:03they're so [ __ ] awful to me. This
254. 10:05person is like this and this person
255. 10:06always does this and I know we're bound
256. 10:08to get into an argument or we're bound
257. 10:10to break up. When I had those thoughts
258. 10:12in the back of my mind ruminating, okay,
259. 10:15in the back of my mind.
260. 10:18No matter how many times I said I was
261. 10:19with this person and I manifested them
262. 10:21back, constantly left. And then I
263. 10:24switched to they can never leave me.
264. 10:28Never left me.
265. 10:30But guess what? Still had that toxic
266. 10:32cycle. And then I added another
267. 10:35affirmation, another thought because
268. 10:36this is this was my learning process. I
269. 10:38had to learn how to manifest too, okay?
270. 10:40I wasn't taught this from birth by my
271. 10:42parents or anything.
272. 10:44I then added, we are in a happy and
273. 10:46healthy relationship.
274. 10:49What [ __ ] happened?
275. 10:51Happy and healthy relationship. You see
276. 10:54how it is critical to analyze and
277. 10:57pinpoint
278. 10:59what you are thinking about the topic,
279. 11:03the context.
280. 11:05Okay? Not just I'm with this person or I
281. 11:08have this, I have that. No, if you have
282. 11:10a certain narration, a certain narrative
283. 11:13about love or about your person, those
284. 11:15narratives are going to continue to pop
285. 11:18up over and over and over again
286. 11:21because you reflect who you are.
287. 11:25Period. Who you are being dominantly.
288. 11:28See, so all of that advice was just
289. 11:31golden. If you never heard that before
290. 11:33and you understood what I just said,
291. 11:34then I'm sure you just had a [ __ ]
292. 11:35mind-blowing experience.
293. 11:37Not enough people talk about that part.
294. 11:39Not enough people talk about
295. 11:41uh describing the situation.
296. 11:45So, that's what changed it for me.
297. 11:47Describing. Never could leave me. Oh,
298. 11:50wait. And we're in a healthy
299. 11:51relationship. Period.
300. 11:53And those things came to be true.
301. 11:56This applies to any topic. Period.
302. 12:00In your desire pillar, this is for any
303. 12:03desire, right? That's why it's not the
304. 12:04love pillar. It's for any desire.
305. 12:07Think about appearance. I'm going to
306. 12:08give you one last example really quick.
307. 12:10In your appearance, you might be saying,
308. 12:13"I look this way. I look X, Y, and Z
309. 12:15way. I look this way. I look this way. I
310. 12:17have A. I have B. I have C."
311. 12:20Okay?
312. 12:22And then you are telling yourself, "It
313. 12:24is difficult to
314. 12:27insert thing." So, maybe it's difficult
315. 12:29to lose weight. It's difficult to gain
316. 12:31weight. It's impossible to change my
317. 12:34appearance. Let me tell you something.
318. 12:37You see my hair?
319. 12:39You would say it's like fluffy, I think.
320. 12:42It's like a fluffy wolf-cut style,
321. 12:44right? I like it. I like it. This is the
322. 12:46hair that I always wanted. The hair that
323. 12:47I have now.
324. 12:49I used to have greasy [ __ ] hair.
325. 12:52There better be a picture right here for
326. 12:53you. And if there's not a picture,
327. 12:54[ __ ] scream picture in the comments,
328. 12:56okay? But, I'm sure there will be one.
329. 12:59I used to have very greasy hair.
330. 13:00It didn't look how I wanted it to look.
331. 13:03And I remembered my roots. I remembered
332. 13:06manifestation. I intentionally told
333. 13:08myself, "My hair is fluffy, and I no
334. 13:11longer have greasy hair."
335. 13:13Overnight.
336. 13:14You [ __ ] heard me right. Overnight,
337. 13:16my hair stopped being greasy.
338. 13:19And I no longer had greasy hair ever
339. 13:21again. Cuz I I just had greasy hair for
340. 13:24no [ __ ] reason, whether I sweat or
341. 13:26didn't sweat. I had it. But I
342. 13:28intentionally stopped describing myself
343. 13:29as such and
344. 13:31it changed. The last pillar you need to
345. 13:33know about is your self pillar and this
346. 13:35is crucial.
347. 13:36And this is also crucial. It is
348. 13:38manifestation and your desires aside,
349. 13:41this is just what's left of your self
350. 13:43concept. What you think about yourself
351. 13:46and just yourself, your capabilities and
352. 13:49who you are.
353. 13:51I'm going to start this one off with
354. 13:52like a 30-second story to let you guys
355. 13:55know the importance of this. This is the
356. 13:58first part of your self pillar that I
357. 14:00want to highlight and then I have
358. 14:02another one.
359. 14:03So the first part is
360. 14:05believing you are
361. 14:08a certain person. So I remember when I
362. 14:10came out as trans, I told the world,
363. 14:12"Hey,
364. 14:12>> [clears throat]
365. 14:13>> you know, I told the world, 'Hey, you
366. 14:15know, I am a more masculine person, but
367. 14:18I also feel that is part of my gender,
368. 14:21right?'"
369. 14:22I was born female, but automatically,
370. 14:25you know, Western colonization dictates
371. 14:28that is equivalent to woman, womanhood
372. 14:32and
373. 14:33all of these constructs.
374. 14:36Right? But I'm telling the world, "Hey,
375. 14:39no." So when I did this, because there
376. 14:41is so much stigma around it and so much
377. 14:45hatred, stereotypes and like weird [ __ ]
378. 14:49going on in our political climate,
379. 14:52I thought for the longest time that
380. 14:54didn't that meant that I could never go
381. 14:55on to pursue creative careers or that I
382. 14:58could never put myself out there or that
383. 15:01I would never be liked
384. 15:03or loved. And I wish I knew how much
385. 15:06more support there was that I simply
386. 15:09couldn't see around me because I was too
387. 15:12blinded by a certain perspective. That's
388. 15:14why your mindset is so important to
389. 15:16protect.
390. 15:17So I would have never put myself out
391. 15:19there, you would I would seen my face, I
392. 15:21would have never
393. 15:22had the level of success that I have now
394. 15:24and the level of success that I'm going
395. 15:25to have in the future as well. I would
396. 15:27have never lived a happy life. Because
397. 15:30of what? A stupid ass [ __ ] mindset
398. 15:32that was not even true. Another example
399. 15:34I want to give of this really quick, is
400. 15:36somebody told me that I'm only
401. 15:37successful because of my skin color.
402. 15:40Imagine somebody telling you that you're
403. 15:42only successful because of your skin
404. 15:43color.
405. 15:44What the [ __ ] is that? That is a mindset
406. 15:48problem.
407. 15:49Who you are, religion, ethnicity, race,
408. 15:52sexuality, gender, whoever the [ __ ]
409. 15:54that does not define where you're going
410. 15:56to go. And it doesn't mean that you have
411. 15:58to accept in your reality that you're
412. 16:00going to have struggle.
413. 16:03I don't have struggle. That is part one
414. 16:06of what I wanted to put into perspective
415. 16:09about yourself pillar. If you believe
416. 16:13things like I will never be enough for
417. 16:15society or I will never be enough for my
418. 16:16desires or, you know, I'm not
419. 16:19going to be this type of person. I'm not
420. 16:22this type of person.
421. 16:24Then you're never going to be. Again,
422. 16:26energetic block, that [ __ ] door that
423. 16:28we were talking about.
424. 16:30The second thing that I want to
425. 16:31contextualize, that I want to put into
426. 16:33perspective for you guys,
427. 16:35is
428. 16:36less about who you are
429. 16:39cuz that is important. You need to have
430. 16:40a strong self concept. That's what I
431. 16:41just explained. Who the [ __ ] are you and
432. 16:44stand in that. It doesn't matter what
433. 16:45the [ __ ] the world is saying.
434. 16:48The second part, right, is just about
435. 16:51your capabilities,
436. 16:53right?
437. 16:54Why the [ __ ] are you
438. 16:57telling yourself, this is part of your
439. 16:59self pillar, believe it or not, telling
440. 17:01yourself that something is unrealistic
441. 17:02for you.
442. 17:05That something is illogical. Something
443. 17:07is unrealistic. You can't do something.
444. 17:09You need a plan B. You need this. You
445. 17:12can't do this.
446. 17:13Don't branch out.
447. 17:15You're not believing in yourself.
448. 17:18That's a shitty self-pillar.
449. 17:20You're not believing in yourself.
450. 17:21I believe that I can go to the [ __ ]
451. 17:23moon.
452. 17:26Yeah. Some people will probably look at
453. 17:27me and be like, "What the [ __ ] are you
454. 17:28talking about?"
455. 17:29You know how Kanye West said once, "I am
456. 17:31a god."
457. 17:33And he said, "When you tell people who
458. 17:34you think you are and you say, 'I am a
459. 17:36god.' They say, 'Who the [ __ ] does this
460. 17:38guy think he is?' I just told you who
461. 17:40the [ __ ] I thought I was. I'm a god."
462. 17:43That is the [ __ ] mentality that I
463. 17:45have. I can go to the moon. I can be a
464. 17:47celebrity. I can make
465. 17:49100,000 a month. I can
466. 17:52any goal, any goal at all. I can do
467. 17:55anything that I set my mind to. Some
468. 17:57people don't think that way. I quit my
469. 17:59job on a whim. I quit college. [ __ ]
470. 18:02everything that the logical
471. 18:06world was telling me to do. But, that's
472. 18:09not the vision I ever saw for myself.
473. 18:12Some people will unfortunately never be
474. 18:14anything for themselves that they wanted
475. 18:16to be when they were a kid. They will
476. 18:18block They will block out the dream,
477. 18:21label it as just a childhood dream or a
478. 18:23childhood fantasy. It's so sad when I go
479. 18:25into TikTok comment sections and I see
480. 18:28And this is a specific comment I
481. 18:29remember. "I would have loved to be a
482. 18:31singer, but that's unrealistic." So,
483. 18:38who the [ __ ] said that? Your thoughts
484. 18:41are not your own thoughts. You are
485. 18:44taking that from the logical world and
486. 18:46you
487. 18:47you're being infiltrated. You're being
488. 18:51mind-fucked. You're being compromised.
489. 18:54You're being limited. You know how many
490. 18:59[ __ ] new singers That was so
491. 19:01aggressive. You know how many [ __ ]
492. 19:03new singers are being popped out of the
493. 19:04vaginas of these companies?
494. 19:07So many new ones, always. It's just
495. 19:10There's always a new celebrity to look
496. 19:12at and to like and to see yourself in
497. 19:14and to stan and to love and to entertain
498. 19:16yourself with. Singers, actors, content
499. 19:19creators about content creators. You
500. 19:22know what would have happened if I told
501. 19:23myself it was unrealistic or I told
502. 19:24myself the market is over saturated?
503. 19:28You would have never seen my face.
504. 19:31So, stop telling yourself that things
505. 19:32are unrealistic or you can't do
506. 19:35something.
507. 19:37So many other people did. You would have
508. 19:39never seen my face. The dozens of people
509. 19:42that have benefited from seeing my
510. 19:43videos, just the videos I've put out,
511. 19:45not even including the mentorships that
512. 19:46I do for clients,
513. 19:48everything that I do for clients,
514. 19:50just the videos I have put out have made
515. 19:52people actually understand manifestation
516. 19:55and be inspired as well through my
517. 19:58mindsets, pep talks, and all the
518. 20:00inspirational videos that I put out
519. 20:01there. I put things in a way that people
520. 20:04understand. And I have the knowing that
521. 20:06what I put out there is generally
522. 20:08changing [ __ ] lives. Like, this guide
523. 20:11that I'm putting out, the guide that I
524. 20:12constantly talk about, that made me
525. 20:14start manifesting, that made me start
526. 20:15actually changing my life. All of these
527. 20:17people would have never benefited if I
528. 20:20thought to myself that's unrealistic or
529. 20:23the market is over saturated or I cannot
530. 20:26do this thing. Having a strong self
531. 20:29pillar also led to me quitting my job on
532. 20:33a whim, quitting college on a whim
533. 20:34because guess [ __ ] what?
534. 20:36I was listening to again the logical
535. 20:39the logical,
536. 20:41like I did earlier, part of me.
537. 20:45Your thoughts are not your own.
538. 20:48Your thoughts are
539. 20:50infiltrating you. They're
540. 20:54limiting you. They're being put in by
541. 20:56the world. They're [ __ ] lying to you.
542. 21:00Your thoughts are not your own. They are
543. 21:03thoughts influenced by your external
544. 21:06world.
545. 21:08Your mom who told you don't do
546. 21:10something. My mom told me look for
547. 21:11another job ASAP. You need another job.
548. 21:13You can't just quit your job on a whim
549. 21:14when I was living with her at the time.
550. 21:17I did not I I refused. Now a month later
551. 21:21after I quit my job, made $11,000.
552. 21:25Whereas I was making below $2,000 a
553. 21:27month
554. 21:28at my little like 9-5 kind of job.
555. 21:33I believe in myself.
556. 21:35You should believe in yourself. You
557. 21:37should do things that are aligned with
558. 21:40the version of you that you see in your
559. 21:41mind to be, that version of you that is
560. 21:43ultra [ __ ] powerful.
561. 21:46That version of you.
562. 21:48Because once you start making decisions
563. 21:50based on that version of you, you start
564. 21:52becoming that version.