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MILES DEPRESSION ISN'T MASCULINITY FOR KAREN | MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT SEASON 11 EPISODE 6 — Transcript

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  1. 0:00red flag for me like i really wanted a
  2. 0:03very
  3. 0:03masculine male and i do wonder about
  4. 0:06how strong our marriage will be able to
  5. 0:09be and if i'll be able to support him
  6. 0:12hey guys and welcome back to little
  7. 0:14player book you
  8. 0:17about uh married at first sight karen
  9. 0:20and
  10. 0:20miles i really don't think karen likes
  11. 0:22miles that
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  16. 0:30returnees uh
  17. 0:31you already know what it is baby you got
  18. 0:33the minerals
  19. 0:34you got the minerals yeah
  20. 0:37yeah yes okay
  21. 0:41so uh guys as well don't forget as well
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  26. 0:48merchandise all right cool
  27. 0:49now let's talk about it let's talk about
  28. 0:51it that's all about it so obviously
  29. 0:53um we see obviously miles and karen
  30. 0:56i think many people might have seen the
  31. 0:58the preliminary video that was
  32. 0:59that was a a snippet that was given by
  33. 1:01married at first sight
  34. 1:02love time tv on instagram and when i
  35. 1:05watched it i was like um and i saw the
  36. 1:07comments as well i saw that it was a bit
  37. 1:08heavy against karen and and you know
  38. 1:10saying you know
  39. 1:12that she's not been very supportive i
  40. 1:14guess so kind of break some things down
  41. 1:16so
  42. 1:16um i really don't believe that karen is
  43. 1:19sold on mouse i'm sorry
  44. 1:21like we've gone we've we've talked about
  45. 1:22stranger behavior we've talked about the
  46. 1:24way that she's
  47. 1:25uh you know was a little bit annoyed
  48. 1:26about the fact he had ten monogamous
  49. 1:28relationships we
  50. 1:29i've seen um now also this situation
  51. 1:32where
  52. 1:33the way she's behaved in terms of the
  53. 1:34fact that she i mean there's a few
  54. 1:36things in this video which i i could
  55. 1:38talk about where she said obviously
  56. 1:39you know um about an intimacy and she
  57. 1:42joked about saying
  58. 1:43never and he was like no no not about
  59. 1:45never you know what i'm saying
  60. 1:47the part where she did you know she's
  61. 1:48dictated for mango like brother
  62. 1:50just a few things like i i genuinely
  63. 1:52don't know
  64. 1:54i generally don't think that miles is
  65. 1:56going to be carrying tight
  66. 1:58i mean we we keep going back to the very
  67. 2:00beginning we keep going back to the very
  68. 2:01beginning we keep going back to the very
  69. 2:02beginning when she said he's too
  70. 2:03emotional
  71. 2:04and now we've got a scene where we are
  72. 2:07seeing miles
  73. 2:08um having to explain to karen
  74. 2:11that you know he's been diagnosed with
  75. 2:14clinical
  76. 2:15depression and so he takes tablets for
  77. 2:16it etc now let me just pause there
  78. 2:20many people might be a little bit you
  79. 2:22know on karen's shoulders because she
  80. 2:24mentioned about the fact that she wants
  81. 2:25a masculine man
  82. 2:26and that you know when she when she
  83. 2:28heard about the clinical depression
  84. 2:29that's not a way to react
  85. 2:31and i agree i mean i i believe the
  86. 2:33initial reaction of what i believe that
  87. 2:34a reaction to say um i don't believe is
  88. 2:37masculine because he doesn't deal with
  89. 2:39or because he deals with uh you know um
  90. 2:42clinical depression
  91. 2:43again is an understatement um of
  92. 2:46what being masculine is number one and
  93. 2:48number two as well what
  94. 2:50sharing your emotions are really with
  95. 2:52the idea that
  96. 2:53something was like wrong with me or like
  97. 2:55that i was more emotional to other
  98. 2:56people or like why am i in this funk
  99. 2:58and i don't understand like i don't
  100. 3:03where he's understand he likes her and
  101. 3:06he's willing to share the problem is
  102. 3:07here
  103. 3:08is that his partner is not at that level
  104. 3:10the problem here is that his partner
  105. 3:12has not gone to the depth that he's gone
  106. 3:14to the problem here is a partner has her
  107. 3:16own ideas of what a man should be
  108. 3:18and you don't feel it mars unfortunately
  109. 3:20okay so when we look at the very
  110. 3:22beginning when he's talking to her
  111. 3:23you know you can see that it's a very
  112. 3:24difficult conversation and i
  113. 3:27and i have to be honest i appreciate her
  114. 3:28response because she said you know thank
  115. 3:30you for sharing with me i really
  116. 3:31appreciate it because you didn't have to
  117. 3:32and then you know she also says well how
  118. 3:34do i how do i know how to react to you
  119. 3:36how do i know what to say to you when
  120. 3:37you're in that funk of a mood
  121. 3:39you know and those are good questions to
  122. 3:40ask um i think anybody's lying to
  123. 3:43themselves if they think it's simple
  124. 3:44case of when you hear someone say
  125. 3:46they're clinically depressed to go whoa
  126. 3:47we really appreciate you yeah yeah yeah
  127. 3:49no you're not gonna do that so i'm
  128. 3:50saying so
  129. 3:51i can't bash karen for that because i
  130. 3:53also understand that that's another
  131. 3:54heavy
  132. 3:55weight to have on your shoulders and i
  133. 3:58guess it's another reason for her as
  134. 3:59well to potentially leave
  135. 4:01because this is not what she stand up
  136. 4:02for as she said i didn't sign up to be
  137. 4:05in a position where my partner's got
  138. 4:07mental issues
  139. 4:08and that's what it is that's your mental
  140. 4:10health issue so you have to deep
  141. 4:11does the person really have the strength
  142. 4:13the character
  143. 4:15the wisdom and the knowledge and
  144. 4:16understanding to actually deal with the
  145. 4:17subject
  146. 4:18maybe not maybe that's why they feel
  147. 4:19frightened about it because they're like
  148. 4:21hold on a minute i'm trying to be your
  149. 4:23comfort
  150. 4:24no i'm trying to be i'm trying to make
  151. 4:26you my comfort i'm trying to make you
  152. 4:27feel like you should
  153. 4:28have your arms wrapped around me and
  154. 4:30keep me safe and now it looks like
  155. 4:32no not your hands around me looks like i
  156. 4:34put my hands around you and for karen
  157. 4:36that may not work you wonder about how
  158. 4:39strong
  159. 4:39our marriage will be able to be and if
  160. 4:41i'll be able to support him
  161. 4:43right now for karen that not may not be
  162. 4:45her emma for karen
  163. 4:46that just might not be on the list for
  164. 4:48her and i can understand that
  165. 4:50i don't want to kill her for that you
  166. 4:51know what i'm saying i do want to say
  167. 4:54that
  168. 4:56her idea of masculine or masculinity may
  169. 4:58be slightly fractured and it may be
  170. 5:00because of the past boyfriend or past
  171. 5:02partner
  172. 5:02or past partners but to
  173. 5:06to equate you know your mental health
  174. 5:07with masculinity i do understand why you
  175. 5:09may say that
  176. 5:10but it doesn't mean that the person is
  177. 5:11less masculine because of that
  178. 5:13so to feel like obviously on a man
  179. 5:15that's masculine and this is another
  180. 5:16reason why he's not masculine
  181. 5:18um dealing with all his emotions etc
  182. 5:21again i've got to put that box up and
  183. 5:22say
  184. 5:23hey sis that does not mean that he's not
  185. 5:26masculine
  186. 5:27that does not mean you can put him in a
  187. 5:28box where he's not masculine that does
  188. 5:30not mean
  189. 5:30that he isn't a good guy for you okay
  190. 5:33but i understand why you may feel
  191. 5:35apprehensive and you may feel nervous
  192. 5:37about you know being in a relationship
  193. 5:38with somebody who's clinically depressed
  194. 5:39because it isn't simple
  195. 5:41there are down days and when the days
  196. 5:42are down like he said he may need some
  197. 5:44space
  198. 5:45right and he may need his own time and
  199. 5:46then there's days that are like
  200. 5:48i'm just in a funk birthdays where i
  201. 5:51just want to be by myself
  202. 5:52obviously he's got better he's coming
  203. 5:54he's a communicator he will communicate
  204. 5:55to the person saying look hey
  205. 5:57just give me my space so i appreciate
  206. 5:58that as well that he stated that let her
  207. 6:00know listen hey if it does get to that
  208. 6:02i will let you know so that you know
  209. 6:04where you stand and so that there's not
  210. 6:05an unnecessary argument which is
  211. 6:06actually
  212. 6:07the fact that i maybe i may you may feel
  213. 6:10disconnected from you or i may before
  214. 6:11this look
  215. 6:12disconnected from you i may be you know
  216. 6:14moving away from you but actually what
  217. 6:16it really is
  218. 6:17i'm having an episode i'm having an
  219. 6:18episode and i need to help
  220. 6:20john saying oh i need my time to recover
  221. 6:22and recuperate i get that
  222. 6:24um you know and i think for karen her
  223. 6:27worst
  224. 6:27feeling her worst fears have been
  225. 6:29realized in cat and michael employ
  226. 6:31michael in miles saying that he's
  227. 6:33clinically depressed
  228. 6:34her worst fears have been realized in
  229. 6:37miles saying he's clinically depressed
  230. 6:39because she wanted a strong man she
  231. 6:41wanted an emotionally strong man
  232. 6:42she wanted someone who's going to be
  233. 6:44there she wanted something to be her
  234. 6:45rock and now suddenly the rocks no
  235. 6:47longer going to be the rock
  236. 6:48because now she's going to be supporting
  237. 6:49him emotionally um
  238. 6:52you know so um
  239. 6:55you know i i appreciate that what was
  240. 6:57interesting obviously the fact that you
  241. 6:58know
  242. 6:59later on miles obviously rates of
  243. 7:01relationship as an eight she relates it
  244. 7:02as a six
  245. 7:03and here this is where i love what
  246. 7:05amelia did where she's corrected
  247. 7:07currently
  248. 7:07he speaks that but i haven't seen it yet
  249. 7:12i think he might actually just be really
  250. 7:14cool and nice listen
  251. 7:16pet darling girl wherever you are snatch
  252. 7:19your wigs
  253. 7:20whoever you are listen let me tell you
  254. 7:21the truth uh
  255. 7:23for you to say that obviously you feel
  256. 7:25like he's
  257. 7:26not he's not the kind of guy that you
  258. 7:29like and then emilia has to come and say
  259. 7:31listen my friend
  260. 7:32look maybe he just likes you maybe he's
  261. 7:34just really interested in you maybe he's
  262. 7:36you know maybe he's infatuated by you
  263. 7:38and so that was almost like the the
  264. 7:40counter argument to what karen was
  265. 7:42feeling because
  266. 7:42she's feeling like oh this is not type
  267. 7:44of guy for me i'm not really on it i'm
  268. 7:46giving it a six
  269. 7:47um she kind of loosely explained why
  270. 7:49she's given that um
  271. 7:50you know she just wants more of a master
  272. 7:52man um you know
  273. 7:55a more masculine man to kind of i guess
  274. 7:57against for safety purposes
  275. 7:59that's what she understands as being a
  276. 8:00man and and then amelia obviously then
  277. 8:02has to come and correct her in that
  278. 8:03space
  279. 8:04um and i think obviously what was
  280. 8:06interesting about that is the fact that
  281. 8:08you know someone else had to say and
  282. 8:10point out to her listen your guy is good
  283. 8:12like yo you're threatened about
  284. 8:13something but the guy is actually really
  285. 8:15good like
  286. 8:16don't get stressed don't let this thing
  287. 8:18take you out of a good situation you see
  288. 8:21when you're broken your lens is broken
  289. 8:23when you're hurt your lens is hurt
  290. 8:25when when you've been when you've been
  291. 8:26hurt by a guy and if you don't take time
  292. 8:29to recuperate and recover in the right
  293. 8:30way
  294. 8:31the lens that you look through life this
  295. 8:32way you get red pill from yeah it's
  296. 8:34gonna be skewed
  297. 8:35when you start looking at live through
  298. 8:37broken lenses you can't get the full
  299. 8:39picture you get a distorted picture
  300. 8:40because you
  301. 8:41looking through a certain type of lens
  302. 8:43and i really believe that
  303. 8:44obviously i get it again for karen it's
  304. 8:46like you're 26
  305. 8:47you're not sure for her anyway you're
  306. 8:49not showing me masculine leadership
  307. 8:50skills
  308. 8:52you're not being as firm and as
  309. 8:53assertive as you need to be um
  310. 8:56you're now clinically depressed like
  311. 8:58ralph like i didn't ask for a feminine
  312. 8:59woman even though i don't agree that
  313. 9:01i didn't answer that i asked for a
  314. 9:02masculine man and some of the
  315. 9:04masculinity sometimes
  316. 9:06well i said sometimes i mean this guy is
  317. 9:08not a small guy
  318. 9:09he's a tall guy he's a he's quite
  319. 9:11sizeable so she's not talking about
  320. 9:13physicality she's talking about
  321. 9:15the way that he handles himself and i do
  322. 9:17get it i understand it
  323. 9:19you know i said again i don't rock with
  324. 9:20the fact that you know masculinity is
  325. 9:22attached to your mental health that
  326. 9:23you're more feminine if you've got
  327. 9:25mental health issues or you've gone
  328. 9:26through a mental health situation
  329. 9:27no i don't reckon that um you know and
  330. 9:30then obviously
  331. 9:31um you know come the morning i think
  332. 9:34what's interesting for me is that
  333. 9:35obviously when he tried to wake her up
  334. 9:37she was grouchy she was a bit pissed
  335. 9:40yeah
  336. 9:41we have i can show more excitement when
  337. 9:44i'm awake
  338. 9:45he's so hyped you're so
  339. 9:48a bit annoyed again i understand and
  340. 9:51then they get to the dinner table at
  341. 9:52the the morning breakfast table and as
  342. 9:54they're talking what's really
  343. 9:56interesting well one of them talking
  344. 9:57when what's really interesting is that
  345. 9:59the way she asks
  346. 10:01for his mango now she doesn't say oh can
  347. 10:03i have some of your mango she goes no
  348. 10:05can i have your mango and i'm saying a
  349. 10:06bit more direct than she said it but
  350. 10:08the fact that she used um can i have
  351. 10:10your mango can have your mangos
  352. 10:12it's almost the same like you're gonna
  353. 10:13eat all the mangoes on my plate and not
  354. 10:15think about me
  355. 10:16like normally what someone should say is
  356. 10:17that oh can i have some of your mangoes
  357. 10:19right that means i'm gonna can i share
  358. 10:21some of your mangoes what do you say can
  359. 10:22i have your mangoes you're not trying to
  360. 10:23take it all for me
  361. 10:24and then you see his response which is
  362. 10:26that oh no you can have some yeah you
  363. 10:28can
  364. 10:28you can have you can you know you can
  365. 10:30have a portion i got you you
  366. 10:32have half thanks thank you you've been
  367. 10:34pretty nice yourself
  368. 10:35you've been trying
  369. 10:36[Music]
  370. 10:39and she said obviously she's trying and
  371. 10:42i said
  372. 10:43what do you mean you're trying darling
  373. 10:45how are you trying
  374. 10:47why are you trying this should be a
  375. 10:48natural flow when i say natural flow
  376. 10:50i ain't talking about the chemistry i'm
  377. 10:51so like the way that you're operating it
  378. 10:53should be natural
  379. 10:54it shouldn't be that you're trying
  380. 10:55you're trying to force it you're trying
  381. 10:57to
  382. 10:57force it that's the point so she's not
  383. 10:59feeling this brother at all
  384. 11:00at this moment she's not feeling
  385. 11:02everything even if she stays for eight
  386. 11:04weeks after
  387. 11:04she's still not feeling it maybe she
  388. 11:06needs the cameras to be a way to
  389. 11:07actually reduce her embarrassment
  390. 11:09of dating somebody's four years younger
  391. 11:10maybe that's what it is but for me at
  392. 11:12the moment i'm just looking at going
  393. 11:13hold on a minute
  394. 11:14like are you all right or are you all
  395. 11:18right
  396. 11:18like i didn't scatter your brain or does
  397. 11:21it scatter your brain you understand
  398. 11:23yeah um you know to say that was he you
  399. 11:25know he's he said you're being nice
  400. 11:27you're saying he's being nice and then
  401. 11:28you say oh i am trying and it's like
  402. 11:31[Music]
  403. 11:32and you saw his face when she said
  404. 11:33trying i was like um
  405. 11:35sis you're not helping your casey at all
  406. 11:39yet me and then obviously he talks about
  407. 11:41intimacy should happen
  408. 11:42no she well he said obviously about
  409. 11:44talking to the rest of the people the
  410. 11:45group into my intimacy
  411. 11:46and you know he wants to know that kind
  412. 11:47of like when when do they think they can
  413. 11:49be a bit more intimate
  414. 11:50now what's interesting is that
  415. 11:51beforehand the question about obviously
  416. 11:54kiss he stated quite emphatically that
  417. 11:57you know he had a kiss on her cheek and
  418. 11:58this morning and you know what
  419. 12:00for him he's not washing that cheek now
  420. 12:02i get the pace listen
  421. 12:03i get the pace that she's going at i get
  422. 12:06it i mean if you look at herself and
  423. 12:07freaking
  424. 12:08uh henry they're two different paces
  425. 12:10even though she's slow he's slow
  426. 12:12she's obviously at a different pace now
  427. 12:14what's interesting is obviously the fact
  428. 12:15that you know he talked about jokes
  429. 12:16around saying he had a kiss on her cheek
  430. 12:17and that's the only kids ever had
  431. 12:19but for me it makes me makes me wonder
  432. 12:21why is she not entering into that space
  433. 12:22of intimacy not to want sex now to my
  434. 12:24intimacy
  435. 12:25um on a physical touch level why is it
  436. 12:27not kissing where is it not hugging
  437. 12:28why kiss on the cheek today okay baby
  438. 12:32steps
  439. 12:32i haven't washed my cheeks since i mean
  440. 12:35why is there not more of that particular
  441. 12:36behavior right um
  442. 12:38but you're seeing that obviously the
  443. 12:39first you can get a kiss on the cheek
  444. 12:41brother
  445. 12:42this girl don't rate you she ain't
  446. 12:44waiting because they don't need to wait
  447. 12:46per se for that
  448. 12:47you wait for sex yes but to wait not to
  449. 12:49kiss it's not actually in celibacy he's
  450. 12:50not using abstinence
  451. 12:52bro she's just not on you blood she's
  452. 12:54not
  453. 12:55on you you understand it's that simple
  454. 12:59a girl who doesn't make a girl doesn't
  455. 13:01want to make that move in an intimate
  456. 13:02level
  457. 13:02more time than not it's not always more
  458. 13:04time than not it's not
  459. 13:06feeling you and she's just going through
  460. 13:07the motions that's what i feel
  461. 13:12going through the motions getting that
  462. 13:14contractual eight weeks in you
  463. 13:15understand
  464. 13:16making sure that she gets appeased okay
  465. 13:17i mean a bit harsh but it just looks
  466. 13:19like she's not on him
  467. 13:20it really doesn't it realizes he's not
  468. 13:22on him um you know what i'm saying like
  469. 13:25he said obviously you know like he
  470. 13:26hasn't got a chance to really really hug
  471. 13:28her properly and stuff like that you
  472. 13:29know what i'm saying
  473. 13:30and he just wants him to do that he
  474. 13:31wants to be more affectionate on that
  475. 13:32level
  476. 13:33but she has not allowed it just yet
  477. 13:34what's interesting for me is the fact
  478. 13:36that
  479. 13:37you're absolutely right she's not gonna
  480. 13:38allow that on that level because she's
  481. 13:39not feeling you on that level
  482. 13:41i've noticed that especially women when
  483. 13:42you when you when they like you
  484. 13:44or whether they want you to flirt with
  485. 13:45you they close proximity
  486. 13:47they they touch they feel listen i've
  487. 13:50been felt up at work bro listen i'm in a
  488. 13:52work office
  489. 13:53and people have grabbed my bum like they
  490. 13:54will let you know
  491. 13:56they will let you know a hug a touch on
  492. 13:58your neck
  493. 13:59something seductive to make you feel and
  494. 14:01know that you want it
  495. 14:04touch me kiss me baby until i lose
  496. 14:08control you know what i'm saying like
  497. 14:10blood there should be some level of
  498. 14:12touch in my game
  499. 14:13if you can't even get a hug out of here
  500. 14:14out here brother it's not the one for
  501. 14:16you
  502. 14:17you saying that i'm you know i'm really
  503. 14:18respecting that yes you are respecting
  504. 14:20my brother
  505. 14:21but is she respecting you you're not
  506. 14:22saying that at the moment she's in
  507. 14:24control like she said herself like you
  508. 14:26know
  509. 14:26she wants to work at her pace that she's
  510. 14:28working at fine but your pace right now
  511. 14:30is
  512. 14:30burning slow sis just be honest
  513. 14:34he ate your type he ain't the one that
  514. 14:37you wanted
  515. 14:38you know what i'm saying he ain't the
  516. 14:39one that you like
  517. 14:41oh baby when you like what you see would
  518. 14:44you come over check up on it check up on
  519. 14:45it check up on the chicken on it
  520. 14:47check on me tonight i don't know if
  521. 14:50that's right words but anyway
  522. 14:51and then um you know i there was a focus
  523. 14:54part i focused on the last scene where i
  524. 14:55saw
  525. 14:56um where you know he was from obviously
  526. 14:58intimacy and she was like you know we
  527. 14:59don't have to go at anybody else's
  528. 15:00patient obviously don't compare
  529. 15:01yourselves
  530. 15:02to woody and the money and i was like
  531. 15:04blood he never really said woody the
  532. 15:05money
  533. 15:05but he was just saying obviously the
  534. 15:06other couples now
  535. 15:09obviously we know that we're in the
  536. 15:10money of six days you know they've had
  537. 15:12sex they've
  538. 15:13got really close to touchdown they
  539. 15:14touched each other and everything like
  540. 15:15that kissed each other
  541. 15:17and their chemistry is amazing now am i
  542. 15:19saying that you know uh
  543. 15:20karen should automatically start just
  544. 15:22you know giving it up to miles no no
  545. 15:24one's asking that what we are saying
  546. 15:25though is that
  547. 15:26show some interest show some distinct
  548. 15:29interest this there is a
  549. 15:30physical touch is a very important part
  550. 15:32of any relationship hugs
  551. 15:34kisses hand around the waist turn around
  552. 15:36the shoulders you know what i'm saying
  553. 15:37holding hands some kind of things
  554. 15:39they're they're all part and parcel so
  555. 15:41if
  556. 15:41if we're talking about being slow and
  557. 15:43trying to take it there i need to see
  558. 15:44the other aspects of your physical um
  559. 15:46physical touch i need some other aspects
  560. 15:48of physical behavior
  561. 15:49you know what i'm saying yeah i'm just
  562. 15:51saying my man there
  563. 15:53the levels bro when a girl likes you she
  564. 15:55she touches you bro
  565. 15:56i'm just saying she touches you um you
  566. 15:59know
  567. 15:59and so when obviously he says obviously
  568. 16:01about the fact that you know um
  569. 16:03he says never and he says never again
  570. 16:05twice um i saw that i saw a little more
  571. 16:07firmness
  572. 16:08and a bit more assertiveness and you saw
  573. 16:09the way she she kind of laughed and i
  574. 16:11had she
  575. 16:11kind of lost with it a little bit and
  576. 16:12said no that's not what i was saying i
  577. 16:14was just joking blah blah
  578. 16:16but that little bit of assertiveness
  579. 16:18beautiful
  580. 16:19second night three weeks 83rd night
  581. 16:22never
  582. 16:23i don't know about that but now i'm just
  583. 16:26saying like
  584. 16:27i don't know about it that's what we
  585. 16:28need from you mark miles this is what we
  586. 16:30need from you
  587. 16:31assert yourself soldier assert yourself
  588. 16:34let her know there's some things that
  589. 16:36are acceptable not acceptable let her
  590. 16:38know you've got boundaries blood
  591. 16:39let her know she can't take you for a
  592. 16:40mug in a mugu you understand
  593. 16:42let her know that listen listen babes i
  594. 16:45like you though
  595. 16:45i'm going to be rude to i like you i
  596. 16:47don't do this wishy-washy
  597. 16:49that's what i like to do with you you
  598. 16:51understand i'm not saying about sex part
  599. 16:52i'm talking about physical intimacy
  600. 16:54you're for me and
  601. 16:56you know what i'm saying like all that
  602. 16:57sleeping on the edge of the bed and all
  603. 16:58that kind of stuff
  604. 16:59ain't when you know brownie points okay
  605. 17:01all that i respect her and i love her
  606. 17:02and when you know brownie points because
  607. 17:04the truth of the matter is you're not
  608. 17:06showing her the um she's not you're not
  609. 17:07showing her that assertiveness
  610. 17:09that she needs just like henry ain't
  611. 17:11showing
  612. 17:12um you know christina that assertiveness
  613. 17:14that's slightly different because i
  614. 17:15think
  615. 17:16karen is a bit more responsive than
  616. 17:17henry or a bit more responsive
  617. 17:19um so i understand that and you know
  618. 17:21they've discussed it but the truth of
  619. 17:23the matter is found she's just not
  620. 17:25ready for this relationship she's not on
  621. 17:27it for me and i'm not saying what made
  622. 17:29eight weeks
  623. 17:29what i am saying though is though
  624. 17:31they're not going to be successful and
  625. 17:32happy if this is
  626. 17:33why they're going to they keep
  627. 17:34continuing on this lane if for me
  628. 17:36i don't know um you know how can two
  629. 17:39votes again unless they agree
  630. 17:40and i'm saying we should share one
  631. 17:41another's burdens um
  632. 17:43you know this is love we need to share
  633. 17:45his burdens and so when he shares
  634. 17:46obviously about his mental illness
  635. 17:48we just hope that karen's going to be
  636. 17:49sensitive real
  637. 17:52appreciative and just build him up in
  638. 17:54that case as well
  639. 17:55so guys if you're new to the channel
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