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0:00two relationships since i was 18.
0:04and i'm older than you
0:07i told you aj is nothing hey guys and
0:11welcome back to
0:12little black book you know what time it
0:14is
0:15i told you guys about married at first
0:17sight talking about
0:19karen and miles aj nothing but a number
0:22baby
0:22eight ain't nothing but a number i can
0:26do
0:26this thing i don't know anyway listen
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0:33those of you returning well you already
0:35know the model baby
0:36you got the minerals rules
0:39let's get into the review so tomorrow
0:41mars and karen now you guys know i've
0:43been um
0:44quite harsh on karen and quite harsh um
0:47on woody as well um but yeah we're going
0:49to talk about that so
0:50um with the mars and current situation i
0:52think you saw in this episode
0:54i'm still not happy with why am i still
0:56not happy because
0:57as much as i really um can see that
0:59these two could
1:00make something work there's obviously a
1:03hurdle and a barrier to get over
1:05right we heard from the very first
1:06episode karen saying you know he's too
1:08emotional
1:09and also the fact that she obviously
1:12finding out that he's younger than her
1:13by four years at least
1:15um that plays a psychological effect now
1:17many people might say 18 nothing by the
1:19number
1:20but it is a number okay and it's a
1:22number and it's also a psychological
1:24effect why because
1:25socially as human beings we tend to
1:28mutter and
1:29and and have a problem when there is an
1:31age gap right
1:33and that and that ends up being uh i
1:35guess
1:36uh a reason as to why some people break
1:39up because we'll say oh the reason why
1:40you broke up because the age weren't
1:41right
1:42and there was an age gap between two now
1:44when a woman's older than a man
1:46um because of what society has said we
1:48always say that women grow up faster
1:50than men women are more mature than men
1:51so therefore choosing a man younger than
1:53you
1:53is actually like suicide because
1:55actually what you're saying is
1:56a man who hasn't matured at 26 how it
1:59amanda's at 26 is still behind the woman
2:02who's at 26 because
2:03the woman matures faster so imagine if
2:05you're 30 and he's 26 right
2:08um so now it's now every single action
2:12becomes magnifying let me give an
2:13example right now okay
2:16open yourself up little brother
2:19shake it off
2:22even me i looked and i thought he looks
2:24hella young there not that he is young
2:26but
2:26he looks hella young now in comparison
2:28to them right because in my mind
2:30the information that's coming in is
2:32starting to determine a picture that i'm
2:34beginning to see
2:35because it's my perception right so i
2:37can only imagine what was going through
2:39um you know uh karen's head when she's
2:42seen
2:42certain behavior like that but let's
2:44just dive a little bit deeper into
2:45actual show as well
2:46so um obviously um
2:49you know with karen and miles uh the
2:51very first thing they spoke about was
2:52that you know what she's
2:53quite fearful because obviously she's
2:54never lived with another person before
2:56living another guy before
2:58uh miles hasn't necessarily another
3:00female in terms of her partner
3:02but has lived in female before um and so
3:04then she goes on to say something which
3:05is really interesting she goes
3:06um she's scared um about things
3:10because i'm not used to sharing my space
3:12and i'm just worried about just
3:14like moments where i want alone time i
3:17guess
3:18like everybody needs a space in
3:19relationship okay everybody does
3:21right um we all need it because we only
3:24time to reflect we only time to
3:25recalibrate we all need it time to to
3:28adjust ourselves and find ourselves
3:30and where we are now when i heard karen
3:33say that
3:33part of me was thinking i know why
3:36you're saying that you're saying that
3:38because it's a form of protection
3:39rather than actually i need a breather
3:41it's a form of protection to give myself
3:43so i don't lose myself in you
3:45so that if i and so and because i don't
3:47want to lose myself in use because i
3:48want to protect myself from being hurt
3:50right if i don't lose myself in you i
3:51still have control right because the
3:53whole thing about love is this
3:55as the bible says it is about mutual
3:57submission to one another yeah
3:59contrary to what a lot of people believe
4:00because they don't read the whole of the
4:01bible it's not just men and women
4:03it's not just women submitting to men
4:04the bible says submit to one another
4:07the bible says that your body is his
4:08body his body is yours
4:10you have something it's a mutual
4:12submission when you're in love with the
4:13other person right
4:14and so what you're what you see from a
4:16relationship is that when you've been
4:18hurt
4:19and you want to protect yourself one of
4:21the ways that we do this in
4:22relationships
4:22is to make sure we still have control so
4:25we don't want to fall too deep in love
4:26that we are moved by our emotions we
4:28don't fall too deep in love so that we
4:30can
4:31stand strong and say uh and have have
4:34complete control over how we feel so
4:36that we can determine
4:37the course of actions right um it's
4:39often a fear
4:41um that we feel um
4:44towards uh the relationship
4:47because we are scared that if we allow
4:49ourselves to be too vulnerable
4:51you will take advantage that's what
4:52we've experienced in the past and we
4:53don't experience it again
4:54right and so one of the ways that you
4:56protect yourself by saying i need my
4:58space
4:58right but that i need my support
5:00oftentimes okay i can tell you because i
5:02am one of those people that needs a
5:03space
5:04it is coming from a place of try not to
5:06lose yourself in that person
5:08because you might have done that
5:08previously and they hurt you now we know
5:10this is true because
5:11when karen goes on to speak about her
5:13situation and relationship
5:15she does speak about the fact that she
5:17has been hurt by her previous boyfriend
5:19her boyfriend of five years not only
5:20this she said they were already having
5:21relationship problems what topped off
5:23the cake
5:24what was the cherry on the icing on the
5:25cake okay um
5:27was the fact that uh you know the she
5:30found out that he
5:31got his ex pregnant right so imagine
5:35imagine um or got another girl pregnant
5:37imagine
5:38the mindset of now karen it's a siege
5:40mentality
5:41what you have to understand is when you
5:42get cheated on and you get cheated on a
5:44certain way just like brett got cheated
5:46we're going to discuss him as well
5:47that the mind goes into a siege
5:49mentality why it wants to protect itself
5:51it wants to make sure that no one else
5:53can hurt hurt hurt it right
5:55so you have to find a way of being able
5:57to deflect
5:58the oncoming enemy the enemy's love why
6:01because when
6:02we we noticed a pattern when we fell in
6:04love we felt vulnerable and your mind
6:06tells you hey you fell in love last time
6:08you were vulnerable and you got taken
6:10advantage of how do i change that
6:11well you'd be crazy to continue the same
6:13thing so the mind says
6:15no in order for us to be able to make
6:18sure that this we don't get we don't get
6:19hurt again because our mind remember the
6:21the the soul the mind it wants to
6:23protect itself you understand it the ego
6:26and the pride has to protect itself
6:27because
6:27it doesn't get hurt again your heart
6:29doesn't get broken again so
6:31what it does is it puts you into a siege
6:32mentality which is that
6:34you have to you have to any hostile in
6:36any hostile
6:37um coming your way got a nuke it
6:39straight away antibodies got a nuke any
6:41virus inside any
6:42bacteria inside nothing's getting past
6:44the barrier right and that's what we're
6:46seeing from karen in a way
6:47so it's not as it's not as prominent as
6:49other people but you can see there's
6:51aspects of that she's been hurt in the
6:53past and now
6:54she's got a man that's younger okay um
6:57i've got a man that's
6:58um you know that she feels overly
7:00emotional okay
7:02um and and and potentially you've got a
7:05mixture of
7:06your upbringing plus your experiences
7:08kind of making you feel a certain way in
7:09terms of the kind of guy you want to
7:10choose
7:11right um because for her for instance
7:14making that comment that he's too
7:15emotional
7:16what does that mean it means that listen
7:17from what i've experienced
7:19um i have not dated many men who are
7:21that in tune with emotions
7:23you know they're more stoic they're more
7:25usually
7:27so to see that that could be a problem
7:29why because it's foreign to me
7:31um you know what i'm saying and also
7:33maybe she also is carrying a lot of
7:35masculine energy which is
7:36and mastering energy doesn't often deal
7:38with emotions
7:39the feminine feminine aspect of us deals
7:41with emotion if you've dealt with a
7:43father figure who is very masculine and
7:45very regimented and not going to come
7:47outside of confinement
7:48and deal with emotions very often then
7:51what can happen is
7:52the child picks up on that and
7:54especially as a girl she picks up the
7:56masculine energy
7:57when she enters into a relationship she
7:59does not recognize or does not compute
8:01feminine energy on that level from a man
8:03because that to her
8:04is not masculine do you understand what
8:07i'm saying so
8:08when he's bringing the emotions it's not
8:10registered in her mind now let's go on a
8:11bit further
8:12into the actual conversation they had um
8:15you know because uh you know i obviously
8:19miles made a comment a
8:20slide comment and again it's a little
8:22thing but i'm picking up on these little
8:23things
8:24um he said obviously he picked out the
8:25sunshades for her and i said oh
8:26fantastic look that's showing a bit more
8:28uh you know forward thinking we like
8:30that um you know
8:32and then he got onto the boat and you
8:35know obviously
8:35miles was saying obviously he that's my
8:37stranger i'm her stranger okay okay
8:40so you belong to each other yeah so
8:42break it down i appreciate the fact that
8:44you know what
8:44they've moved from strangers to my
8:47stranger now here's my thing
8:49again uh remember the kind of woman that
8:51she is so this is in relation to who
8:52karen is
8:53i just don't again this is just like the
8:55bed situation that i said
8:57i didn't like the fact that he slept it
8:59seemed like he slept for a moment or
9:00time it could have been
9:01or couldn't i don't know he wanted to
9:03rub her feet and sleep at the end of the
9:04bed
9:04yeah but then now obviously he's he's
9:07almost excited but the fact that he's
9:09no longer a stranger but my stranger and
9:11he sees it as progress and i do there is
9:13some progress to it i'm going to
9:14there's an aspect of progress to it but
9:16as a masculine male
9:18who's carrying a lot of masculine energy
9:21right um
9:22go getting you know making sure that you
9:24are about completing tasks objectives
9:26you're the hunter yeah
9:28the hunter is not satisfied with this
9:29position like
9:31other man would have been like well i'm
9:33still i'm my stranger
9:35like no no no no i can't rock on that
9:37right this is why a lot of women like
9:38bad boys it's not the fact that the bad
9:40boy the bad boys is kind of a lot of
9:41masculine energy like
9:42i'm just being real with you the bad
9:44boy's got confidence the bad boy's
9:45um is assertive he's firm yeah there's
9:48some other qualities i'm not great but
9:49he's these that he is also those
9:51are positive things what i'm seeing for
9:53miles is very caring
9:55nurturing very endearing and loving
9:58and these are great qualities having
9:59richard you need it right
10:01like no man should go into [ __ ] and not
10:02have these qualities but
10:04when they override and there is no
10:06assertiveness and no firmness
10:08there's a problem right and that's what
10:10i'm saying to you like in this part when
10:11he's always saying
10:12my uh we've upgraded to my stranger
10:14listen if if you're telling me that i'm
10:15gonna be like i'm not satisfied with
10:16that like i'm going to make sure that
10:17you
10:18know that you're not going to be my
10:19stranger it's going to be my woman you
10:21understand
10:21like i'm going to take straight this is
10:22where we're going like i'm telling you
10:24this is where we're going
10:25why am i doing that because i have to
10:26assert that if i don't assert that
10:28i let you run the road if i let you run
10:30the reigns already i like i said i don't
10:32really feel like you respect me in that
10:33respect so
10:34we've really got a problem you
10:36understand and you've really told me
10:37well she hasn't said to him but she
10:38really said that she feels like he's too
10:40emotional
10:42do you from saying that this is so i'm
10:43picking up on those things like i i've
10:46seen already blogs i think they
10:47definitely make it past eight weeks
10:49i'm not thinking about eight weeks parks
10:50i'm thinking about after that because
10:52it's only eight weeks you know
10:55all right cool um and then on the
10:58boating you saw this
10:59also body language when they asked how
11:01is it going to mars and karen
11:02miles actually did what i remember a
11:04couple of seasons ago with what's his
11:05name
11:06um i've got all his name the the black
11:08couple um
11:10where the guy wasn't working but he
11:11became a doctor i'll put bishop anyway
11:13but basically the same thing he did like
11:15whenever when the question came to him
11:16he answered it a little bit then passed
11:18her back over why he doesn't have the
11:19answer
11:20it's not that he's invited to the
11:21conversation he doesn't have the answer
11:23he doesn't know
11:24because he's not in control right he's
11:27not in control of the
11:28the situation or the proceedings now i'm
11:30not trying to say that you have to be a
11:31domineering
11:32um a man no no i'm saying though you
11:35should have as much say as this other
11:36person right
11:37um you should have must say as in
11:39knowing where it's going like for
11:40instance
11:40i my partner right um i knew she was had
11:44experienced a lot of things in the past
11:45but i'm still dictating the pace like
11:47i'm like listen look that it was still
11:49my final decision of where we're going
11:50do you know what i'm saying like it was
11:51still my final decision why because
11:53that's the way i roll it
11:55i'm an emotive person i am i've got a
11:57lot i carry a lot of feminine energy if
11:59you talk about my endearing my nurturing
12:00my listening
12:01let's be honest i care a lot of that but
12:02when it comes to the final box i
12:04realized this when it comes to
12:05relationship you've got
12:06you've got to be assertive you've got to
12:07be firm you've got let me know listen
12:08look i'm coming
12:09at this point listen this is what we're
12:10doing all right this is what i can do
12:12it's what i can't deal with
12:13yeah objective goals ambitions hitting
12:16things
12:17saying this is what it is not hitting
12:18not wanting people hitting things in
12:20terms of your goals
12:20saying this is what it is this is what
12:22is defining what it is this is why adam
12:24in the bible
12:24was defining what the names of animals
12:26were define it
12:28you understand yeah define what you are
12:30going to be right when you let her run
12:32that
12:32of what she's defining as it to be at
12:34any moment she can quit whenever she
12:35feels like
12:36because she feels like she's running the
12:37thing and i'm not trying to say that you
12:39have to run it so you can quit anytime
12:40you want
12:41no because you already know how you feel
12:43so because you already know how you feel
12:45you define it say listen look it's how
12:46i'm feeling are you about this or not
12:48so that she gets into so she gets into
12:50lying and i'm saying get into line i'm
12:52talking about getting into line with
12:53division
12:54not you in line with the vision you
12:56understand of
12:57you've been a relationship right
13:00carry that firmness and assertiveness
13:02trust me we'll save you a lot of things
13:04um and then she goes on to explain that
13:06obviously it's like
13:07um you know a stranger um it's like a
13:11stranger
13:12um you know in the to her and it's like
13:14a
13:15sound like a security guard etc and i
13:17totally get listen i totally get it but
13:18let me be very very frank of you
13:20i totally get the example she gave
13:21here's my problem with that um
13:23yeah but if the guy was if the guy was
13:25your type you wouldn't be saying like he
13:26feels
13:27familiar but it still feels weird for me
13:29calling him like
13:30my husband or like saying i'm a wife
13:33sound like he's stranger nonsense
13:36the reason why she's saying that's
13:37because she's not sure it's simple as
13:39that like i
13:40i i know people are going to be like
13:41they're new they're new but how do you
13:43behave when the person is new
13:46when you first start dating someone when
13:48you start talking to somebody yes a
13:49person's a stranger we don't mention
13:51you're like a stranger
13:52when you click you click when you get on
13:53you get on when you're lacking something
13:55you like somebody you understand you
13:56don't mention these other things that
13:57you're
13:58a stranger to me that you don't mention
13:59those things right because you're just
14:01trying to get to know the person you're
14:02focused on getting to know the person
14:04the issue here is that karen does not
14:06feel he
14:07is the one now she may con she may over
14:10time gradually come to that
14:12understanding
14:12but at the moment she's not convinced i
14:14said this last episode she's not
14:16convinced
14:16the things that you say are coming from
14:18your heart the bible says that uh
14:19i so um it's the issue
14:23of basically we speak from my heart so
14:24it's not what goes into a man that
14:26defiles what comes out
14:27why because he speaks from the heart and
14:28the heart is wicked above all things
14:29look
14:30we speak from the heart so what's in
14:31your heart you're saying it you know
14:33what i mean
14:33yeah just trust that one um
14:43and uh
14:47you know she obviously mentioned well
14:48when he was sitting at dante was saying
14:49about
14:50you know she wants more honesty more
14:51communication um
14:53and you know she wants she wants a man
14:55to be ready basically
14:56and basically those are the things that
14:58her ex won the man wasn't ready
15:00um he wasn't communicating and he wasn't
15:02honest so the five years she spent
15:03she experienced that right and what the
15:06truth about is that she's tired
15:08of those type of relationships and what
15:09she's doing is trying to weigh
15:11up whether miles
15:14is going to follow the same line or
15:16lineage of her ex-boyfriend
15:18um so the problem with her at the moment
15:20one of the biggest problems for her is
15:21that
15:22seeing some of the behaviors maybe
15:24potentially could trigger her
15:25number two when you try to define what
15:28you actually want
15:29or need in a relationship and you're
15:30doing it in a relationship what happens
15:32is you're trying to
15:33compare with the past past uh partner
15:36that you had
15:37see if you did this work while you were
15:39single and you knew exactly what you
15:40wanted oh sorry
15:42what you needed i was going for
15:43everybody else everybody else not doing
15:44mine at first sight because you ain't
15:45got the same choice
15:46but when you when you sit down after a
15:48relationship break up
15:50and you define what you actually need
15:52and define
15:53what's essentially a quintessential to a
15:55a healthy relationship for you
15:57then what happens is when you meet
15:59people you define this is my terms and
16:01conditions
16:02media or don't mean it and that goes for
16:03both parties do you feel what i'm saying
16:05um i feel like obviously what she's
16:07doing she's trying to trying to see
16:09where miles if he's gonna if he's gonna
16:11change his behavior that's cause that's
16:13one of her fears right the fear is that
16:14you know that he's that it's good
16:16science at the beginning
16:18but obviously he will change later on
16:20that's her
16:21fear and probably because she saw that's
16:23what she saw our past partner
16:24good at the beginning bad towards the
16:26end right
16:27um and then obviously she mentioned
16:30about the ten
16:31relationships um and those interesting
16:33was at the beginning you see miles
16:35leaning in
16:36body language talking about fact that
16:37he's been in several relationships
16:39at the end he's like whoa why because
16:42way the way she reacts to the fact that
16:43he's been intense relationships
16:45monogamous relationships
16:46and she makes a point about his age this
16:48is my
16:49issue the age thing right yeah you
16:52were she's annoyed later on it caused
16:54her cooler but in the very beginning
16:57she was here stating that obviously look
16:59the a situation
17:00i've wanted to be like that guy my whole
17:03life
17:04like my dad jokes but like it's kind of
17:07real like
17:07i've been in like 10 like monogamous
17:11relationships
17:12right the fact that oh um you know
17:14you've been in 10 relationships and
17:16you're only 26 why are you making it 18
17:18if he's been in 10 yeah but you're
17:19younger than me you've made 10
17:20relationships so so you've made it about
17:22an ace thing
17:23right and then later on when he's making
17:24jokes about acing you're now pissed off
17:26why because you started it right you
17:29can't start the thing and don't finish
17:31it you understand
17:32so the truth of the matter is when she
17:34when he when he said about the
17:35terminations her mind was going to think
17:37how can i disqualify you if because it
17:39doesn't sound right to me so
17:41can i just qualify that's the question
17:42that's going on going on in my head
17:44this doesn't sound normal to me ten
17:46relationships it's not it's not a norm
17:48that i hear from men oftentimes
17:49even people my age and you see her body
17:51language shift when she goes and she
17:53says oh my gosh ten do today
17:54and she even turns her face away from
17:56him and goes i mean i'm only in 30 and i
17:58had ten relationships so i already see
18:01that okay it becomes an issue
18:02right um body language is very very key
18:05to let you know
18:05how she felt about his 10 relationships
18:08um
18:09and then obviously uh later on uh
18:12you know they they were in bed and you
18:16know they made a joke about their a
18:17situation again now
18:18making jokes is fine because it shows
18:19that we're mature enough to to have
18:21a laugh and a banter about the a
18:23situation it's fine until
18:25it becomes a problem it's fine until
18:27someone actually takes it seriously
18:29so they're generally made in a bit about
18:30he you know saying miles keeps
18:32calling me a cougar and oh i just never
18:36said oh i said she was a cougar
18:39and i said that's attractive that's in
18:42um you know he said about obviously that
18:45you know he hasn't got his she said i
18:46was he hasn't he hasn't yet he needed a
18:48school note to get into
18:49this trip to come whatever and he said
18:50something else as well right
18:52it was fine then right until they got
18:54into the bus with romani and woody
18:56and it's no longer fine the cougar jokes
18:58are no longer fine now here's where it
19:00may
19:01pay a difference where because obviously
19:03age can equal
19:04maturity age can equal
19:07maturity why because experiences of age
19:10can mature us
19:11in some shape or form so when they're on
19:13the bus and they're talking
19:15okay and woody's i mean and obviously uh
19:18you know miles is making the
19:20conversation and joke about
19:21um about the age well um actually armani
19:24brings it up and then he says obviously
19:26look you know it's got nothing there's
19:27nothing for me
19:28i've been i've been a cougar pup for a
19:30little minute you won't stop calling my
19:32friends you're not a cool they
19:34updated all women in the past all day
19:35cougars in the past right
19:37and the cougar hits a nerve of karen why
19:39does it hit a nerve of karen
19:40well it's the influence that it's the
19:42label that's with a cougar
19:44uh number two again this wasn't her idea
19:46of an ideal man she would have
19:48she this she didn't choose to date
19:50someone younger okay it was given to her
19:52so it's completely different
19:53number three um you know
19:56um the stigma the stigma that comes with
19:58being an older woman dating a younger
20:00guy
20:00and you throwing cougar on there it's
20:02making her feel uncomfortable because
20:03it makes her feel good with the cougar
20:05is someone who's taken advantage almost
20:07of a young guy
20:08a cougar is what is what jada was doing
20:10to uh
20:11to to young man uh what's his name uh
20:14freaking out what's his name uh august
20:16oh cena right
20:17yeah that's that's the crew god what jd
20:20did to august
20:21cougar in a bit but i mean so you don't
20:23want to be labeled so she doesn't want
20:24to be labeled with that
20:25you know i mean so that's where the
20:27frustrations come from that's where
20:28and he's not noticing that it's actually
20:30a problem he thinks it's a normal thing
20:32because he's
20:32assuming that listen maybe he's dating
20:34women in the past and they don't mind
20:35being called a cougar
20:36but she doesn't want to call it she's
20:37only 30. right she's still young
20:40so if i in her eyes because of his age
20:43she feels young older she's not older
20:46she's
20:46so i'm not i'm not i'm not annoyed
20:48because i can understand why she will
20:49feel the way she feels
20:51i can understand why she feels a little
20:53bit annoyed and a little bit frustrated
20:55at that
20:55and and the fact that she may feel like
20:57if this guy's not serious i'm going to
20:58waste my time again
21:00when i already know that younger guys
21:01probably aren't going to be serious
21:03do you understand so i can understand
21:05that point of view but my thing with
21:07also
21:07this is that what's the biggest problem
21:09with having dated 10
21:10people in monogamous relationships
21:13compared to having
21:14slept with 10 women before and here's
21:16here's the difference the difference is
21:17this
21:18in society we normalize sex so a man
21:21has 10 20 women it's almost like okay
21:23yeah he's had 10 20 women he's
21:25experienced
21:26okay he's had ten relationships well so
21:27what's happened there like
21:29and it's because obviously not only is
21:31this the society view on relationships
21:33and the society view on sets a problem
21:35the problem is obviously when people
21:36enter relations they're entering
21:37that's why you ask them a question are
21:39you entitled with the mindset of
21:41marriage now all ten i don't know maybe
21:44he has maybe he's not
21:45maybe he entered it because he really
21:46liked the girl and he entered a
21:47relationship didn't want to just
21:48you know have sex regardless it doesn't
21:51make a difference the truth of the
21:52matter is
21:53obviously the way that we look at things
21:54in terms of comparison
21:5610 women that you slept with and 10
21:57relations that you've entered into
21:59there's a big difference
22:00the way that we view it and the way we
22:01interpret it so
22:03i can understand again a viewpoint of
22:05having 10 it's almost like you've done
22:07so many what's going on that [ __ ] are
22:08you a relationship hopper
22:10you know i need to know because i don't
22:11want to get hurt again that's the key
22:12thing
22:13um but he made a very very
22:17very good point he said i would say
22:19listen um
22:20like my maturity's there obviously
22:22evidently because look
22:23me being ready at 26. i think my entire
22:26life
22:26i've always been put in positions where
22:28i was the youngest
22:30but like stepped up to whatever that is
22:31right and so like i'm 26 years old
22:33i'm 26 i'm one of the youngest people to
22:36run a school
22:37the people there's private school have
22:38actually entrusted me to run the school
22:40what's to say i can't be in the
22:41relationship with older women german and
22:43plus the fact he made a comment in the
22:44bus the fact that he's dated older than
22:46before it seems like he has a taste
22:48for older women right and maybe because
22:50his mindset is not 26 he's 30. maybe his
22:52mindset is 35
22:53but he actually is 26 his body's saying
22:5526. that can be a very high plausibility
22:58um so yeah i mean we're gonna see um
23:01i think they can be great it's just
23:03depending on whether karen's gonna
23:05continue to defend herself
23:06and that could end up being a
23:07self-sabotaging mission right or
23:09she can end up defending herself to a
23:11point where mars gets too frustrated and
23:12can't deal with no longer
23:14i think i'll be alone i think i've been
23:15a long long way before miles gets a
23:17point where he's fed up
23:18but definitely for karen i think she
23:19could be closer than she even realizes
23:22um because of the way that she perceives
23:24a certain idea of what relationships
23:25should be like
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