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Menstruation, menstrual health and menopause in the workplace | Mariella Frostrup and BSI — Transcript

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  1. 0:05finally this is my great pleasure to
  2. 0:07welcome presenter journalist and
  3. 0:09campaigner Mariella frostrop in 2018 she
  4. 0:12made her acclaimed BBC program the truth
  5. 0:14about the menopause and then wrote the
  6. 0:16best-selling book of which I was
  7. 0:18fortunate enough to be co-author
  8. 0:20cracking the metaphors which was
  9. 0:22published in 2021
  10. 0:24last year she co-founds at the campaign
  11. 0:26group menopause Mandate of which she is
  12. 0:28a chair she has spoken and written
  13. 0:31widely about the importance of menopause
  14. 0:33education access to treatment and
  15. 0:35informed Choice currently helming her
  16. 0:38own afternoon show and times radio
  17. 0:40Mariella was recently named one of
  18. 0:42vogue's 25 most influential women in the
  19. 0:45UK her wit passion and quick minds are
  20. 0:48legendary good luck
  21. 0:50[Applause]
  22. 0:58thank you very much Alice Witt what else
  23. 1:01did you say look brain fog
  24. 1:03um I'm afraid that um I was going to say
  25. 1:06fresh from my radio show but um that
  26. 1:08would be uh the wrong description of how
  27. 1:11you feel after two hours of live radio
  28. 1:13in three days so far I've just enough
  29. 1:15one more to go anyway I'm absolutely uh
  30. 1:17delighted to be here in such excellent
  31. 1:20company I'm not sure what the collective
  32. 1:22noun is for business people a success a
  33. 1:25drive a host I'm not sure but anyway I'm
  34. 1:28delighted to see you all here and um I
  35. 1:31was just listening to this session uh
  36. 1:34here I mean such a fascinating panel and
  37. 1:36just listening to people speak with such
  38. 1:39passion and eloquence about women's
  39. 1:41health I think we all have to remember
  40. 1:43how unusual just that very thing is and
  41. 1:48um how far we've come already and it
  42. 1:52looks like it's been an incredible
  43. 1:53afternoon chock full of informative talk
  44. 1:55from an array of speakers about an array
  45. 1:57of top topics that were ironically
  46. 2:00considered unspeakable
  47. 2:03um as a teenage girl who used to hide
  48. 2:05her tampons under a cereal box when I'd
  49. 2:08go to the shops uh to get them I didn't
  50. 2:10even need the cereal
  51. 2:12um so that no one knew I was having a
  52. 2:14period to find myself on this platform
  53. 2:17and deeply immersed in the issues being
  54. 2:20discussed feels like the great world has
  55. 2:23really spun to paraphrase the wonderful
  56. 2:25author Colin McCann if you haven't read
  57. 2:28his book let the great world spin me I
  58. 2:30highly recommend it
  59. 2:32um menstruation menopause and the
  60. 2:34workplace are very much the topics du
  61. 2:37jour I can only congratulate the BSI on
  62. 2:39their excellent standard and full-on
  63. 2:42recognition of the Zeitgeist the
  64. 2:43standard has already had such an impact
  65. 2:45and and Promises uh to have far more
  66. 2:48over the following years and standards
  67. 2:51aren't necessarily what we expect in the
  68. 2:53world at the moment exposed as we are to
  69. 2:55the incessant lowering of them in so
  70. 2:59many aspects of Our Lives from the
  71. 3:01political world to the online world
  72. 3:03where Anonymous voices create salem-like
  73. 3:05conditions without a shred of what used
  74. 3:07to be called common decency so what a
  75. 3:10pleasure it is to be here at an
  76. 3:12institution devoted to creating positive
  77. 3:14standards that can be referred to and
  78. 3:17measured and ultimately will lead to
  79. 3:20making our lives better
  80. 3:22embarrassingly until this year sorry my
  81. 3:25glasses have stretched because I keep
  82. 3:26wearing them on my head it's sliding
  83. 3:28down my nose embarrassingly until uh
  84. 3:30this year I was woefully ignorant of the
  85. 3:34bsi's work
  86. 3:35and didn't really realize it was
  87. 3:37possible to create a standard for the
  88. 3:39workplace that could play a key role in
  89. 3:41embracing women's biological Journey
  90. 3:43instead of sidelining it as a pesky
  91. 3:46stumbling block to continuing business
  92. 3:48as usual from Century to Century the
  93. 3:51long linear hierarchical progression uh
  94. 3:54best suited to the male of the species I
  95. 3:57didn't understand that we needed a
  96. 3:59standard for the workplace I just knew
  97. 4:01full well that we didn't have
  98. 4:02legislation protecting those of us whose
  99. 4:05possession of ovaries wombs and vaginas
  100. 4:07made our working lives different and far
  101. 4:10less linear perhaps to the experience of
  102. 4:13the other half of the population
  103. 4:15why it still comes as a surprise that a
  104. 4:18different arrangement of hormones means
  105. 4:21just that not demanding or difficult but
  106. 4:25different I don't know but there are
  107. 4:27unquestionably still many people who
  108. 4:30look upon 50 of the population's biology
  109. 4:33as inferior and irritating
  110. 4:37so I can't quite emphasize that my joy
  111. 4:41enough at the excellent beautifully
  112. 4:43researched and perfectly presented new
  113. 4:46standard menstruation menstrual health
  114. 4:48and menopause in the workplace launched
  115. 4:51with a Fanfare of excitement news
  116. 4:53stories and general Joy this year
  117. 4:56deserving of all of them I've read it
  118. 4:58from start to finish though I won't be
  119. 5:00taking questions thank you but I can
  120. 5:03assure you that it is a masterpiece and
  121. 5:05I've read a few of those uh there is
  122. 5:08I've recently learned a standard for
  123. 5:10everything there are standards for all
  124. 5:12manner of sectors you know food and
  125. 5:14Retail Energy Healthcare manufacturing
  126. 5:16the list goes on I'll try not to
  127. 5:19standards are the structure around which
  128. 5:22our workplaces and economy are woven and
  129. 5:25built and as I say I had no fully formed
  130. 5:28understanding of their imperative
  131. 5:30contribution to our lives until we spoke
  132. 5:32with BSI before our last menopause
  133. 5:34mandate meeting in Parliament and we're
  134. 5:37fortunate is enough to have a preview of
  135. 5:40the current one
  136. 5:41looking on the BSI website I read that
  137. 5:45new standards are developed when there's
  138. 5:46a market or organizational need for one
  139. 5:49from an employer point of view a
  140. 5:51standard can help a business to succeed
  141. 5:53reduce costs boost growth and which is
  142. 5:56really the end game of any business help
  143. 5:58companies become more profitable in the
  144. 6:01case of menstruation menopause and the
  145. 6:04associated Joys this is the sort of
  146. 6:06Clear Blue Sky Thinking and policy that
  147. 6:10we desperately need I can't help
  148. 6:12wondering why the entire governing of
  149. 6:14the UK isn't handed over to the BSI
  150. 6:16let's just get it over and done with and
  151. 6:18maybe they're just too professional
  152. 6:21and the aim of this particular standard
  153. 6:25is for organizations to do more for
  154. 6:27those employees suffering from the
  155. 6:29impact of a totally natural biological
  156. 6:32progression from menstruation to
  157. 6:34menopause with all the stuff imperative
  158. 6:36to our survival as a species in between
  159. 6:39including but not primarily focused on
  160. 6:42fertility has been the ca which has been
  161. 6:44the case for far too long the standard
  162. 6:47can be used if necessary to appoint
  163. 6:49Employers in the right direction but
  164. 6:51really
  165. 6:52really it's to enable everyone to do
  166. 6:55better to make life easier and to fill
  167. 6:57it there and to facilitate employers uh
  168. 7:00employees to continue working
  169. 7:02as I say I'm not going to deconstruct
  170. 7:04the whole thing you can all do that at
  171. 7:06your own Leisure but I will flag up a
  172. 7:09few excellent points it tackles myths
  173. 7:12reminds employers that they should
  174. 7:14recognize that there are racial and
  175. 7:16ethnic disparities in experiences
  176. 7:18something that's coming to the fore more
  177. 7:20and more at the moment and needs to be
  178. 7:21highlighted by all of us and it gives
  179. 7:25clear and very practical suggestions for
  180. 7:27employers many of whom do come up with
  181. 7:30baffled looks on their faces just going
  182. 7:31we really want to do something but we
  183. 7:33don't know what to do well here's here's
  184. 7:36a clue more than a clue a Direction
  185. 7:40the emphasis is on education awareness
  186. 7:42and an individual approach that
  187. 7:44considers the diversity of experiences
  188. 7:46I'd like to think that it's going to be
  189. 7:48launched on a global scale uh one of the
  190. 7:51great rewards of the work we've been
  191. 7:52doing recently on menopause is that many
  192. 7:55other countries are looking to the UK
  193. 7:58for inspiration how wonderful to think
  194. 8:00that we might be global leaders in
  195. 8:02something
  196. 8:04if only there had been a standard in
  197. 8:07place throughout my personal and I
  198. 8:09absolutely hate this word and I hate
  199. 8:11using it but it just felt appropriate
  200. 8:13here Journey
  201. 8:15um
  202. 8:15I can't think of a of a better word in a
  203. 8:18way because that's what we all go
  204. 8:19through it though I say that it's not
  205. 8:21really been so much of a progressive
  206. 8:24Journey as a a slow Dawning realization
  207. 8:27that awareness about women's health has
  208. 8:29been so appalling that even I a
  209. 8:32dedicated campaigner for women's rights
  210. 8:34my entire career my entire life seemed
  211. 8:37to have overlooked parts of it as
  212. 8:39demonstrated by my lack of knowledge
  213. 8:41about my own menopause
  214. 8:43it's the biggest elephant in the room
  215. 8:46ever or at least it was a few years ago
  216. 8:49and hopefully gradually is dissipating
  217. 8:51the biological experience of women
  218. 8:53including trans men and those who
  219. 8:55identify as non-binary effects over half
  220. 8:58the population 52 percent of the
  221. 9:01population
  222. 9:01as such it's surely ought to be an
  223. 9:04instant number one or maybe maybe we'll
  224. 9:08put up with number two
  225. 9:10um priority on any government or
  226. 9:11employer Health Care agenda
  227. 9:15rather it's been the case that our
  228. 9:17health has relied for far too long on
  229. 9:19the idea that the possession of certain
  230. 9:20physical attributes means that we are
  231. 9:23lesser versions of humanity The Spare
  232. 9:27Rib theory has haunted us down the ages
  233. 9:29with the assumption that we're fashioned
  234. 9:31from a cast off bit of male anatomy and
  235. 9:34our health needs are one and the same or
  236. 9:37where they diversify irrelevant
  237. 9:40I absolutely can't myself complain about
  238. 9:43menstruation or indeed pregnancy on on a
  239. 9:46personal level the only downside to
  240. 9:48pregnancy for me was my horrific craving
  241. 9:51for sardines my husband would come home
  242. 9:53and find me inside the fridge door like
  243. 9:56cramming another load of them and I mean
  244. 9:58that's not um physically unpleasant I
  245. 10:00suppose unless you're trying to kiss me
  246. 10:02afterwards
  247. 10:03um but a boss at the BBC did I
  248. 10:06remembered when I was jotting down notes
  249. 10:08for this speech tell me when I returned
  250. 10:10uh to work 12 weeks after my second
  251. 10:13child that my breastfeeding schedule was
  252. 10:16inconveniencing the production of the
  253. 10:19culture show
  254. 10:21um I'm very happy to say that that would
  255. 10:22never happen now I think um such
  256. 10:25accepted misogyny is no longer tolerated
  257. 10:29but I have to admit that my own
  258. 10:31menopause hit me like a truck an
  259. 10:33invisible one as I had no idea at all
  260. 10:37utterly clueless about what was coming
  261. 10:39down the track at me
  262. 10:41um I mean it's shameful it feels
  263. 10:43shameful now because things have already
  264. 10:45started to move on which is a really
  265. 10:46positive thing but you know I went
  266. 10:48through two years of low level anxiety
  267. 10:50high level insomnia completely oblivious
  268. 10:55to the idea that this complete change of
  269. 10:57character and alarming struggle to cope
  270. 11:00might have anything to do at all with
  271. 11:02midlife hormones menopause was something
  272. 11:05you didn't talk about and you knew you
  273. 11:07had it if you had a hot flush or turn
  274. 11:10and and that was it so it just never
  275. 11:13even occurred to me I I suffered from
  276. 11:15really
  277. 11:16um horrendous anxiety
  278. 11:19um but completely irrational you know
  279. 11:20I'd be as agitated about you know
  280. 11:22whether I'd ordered Tomatoes uh on the
  281. 11:25uh Supermarket list to whether we could
  282. 11:28achieve world peace uh or whether I was
  283. 11:31getting home in time to relieve the
  284. 11:33babysitter I mean everything was at a
  285. 11:35completely heightened level and I just
  286. 11:38had no clue about what was happening
  287. 11:42um incidentally back then just a few
  288. 11:44years ago I definitely didn't have the
  289. 11:46confidence or indeed the knowledge of
  290. 11:48the subject to be standing here my my
  291. 11:5150th birthday was a particularly muted
  292. 11:53event as I just couldn't face large
  293. 11:55crowds at all at my 60th I'm happy to
  294. 11:58report
  295. 12:00um just a few months ago was a rather
  296. 12:02raucous weekend with dear friends
  297. 12:06probably yeah embarrassingly raucous
  298. 12:08really uh with dear friends and and
  299. 12:10family from which I emerged um exhausted
  300. 12:13but very happy
  301. 12:15um but back to Perimeter perimenopause I
  302. 12:18mean my temper was horrific I suspect my
  303. 12:21husband would gladly testify to this uh
  304. 12:24but he says all of it was horrific
  305. 12:25pregnancy everything really getting me
  306. 12:27pregnant in the first place I mean it's
  307. 12:30a sort of constant it's nice to have a
  308. 12:31constant in life isn't it
  309. 12:34um but alongside the kind of tamper was
  310. 12:36the self-loathing and the confusion
  311. 12:39because I didn't know what it was so I
  312. 12:41just thought I was actually falling
  313. 12:43apart and and also that I'd I'd lost
  314. 12:45myself I just couldn't find myself in
  315. 12:48this morass of hormonal activity as I
  316. 12:51understand it now
  317. 12:52um I'll gloss over the road to diagnosis
  318. 12:54but as is the case for so many women it
  319. 12:57was a bit of a postcode and also bank
  320. 12:59balance lottery I ended up going private
  321. 13:02in order to just get some answers and I
  322. 13:04was very very lucky to be able to do
  323. 13:06that I know there are lots of people who
  324. 13:08go private and don't get their answers
  325. 13:09so there is no you know one size fits
  326. 13:12all on that
  327. 13:14um but suffice it to say there's a
  328. 13:16there's a happy ending a sort of happy
  329. 13:17HRT pact ending for me anyway
  330. 13:22um did my career suffer probably yes uh
  331. 13:25but like every other woman on the planet
  332. 13:27until very recently there's only been
  333. 13:29the niggling sensation of feeling below
  334. 13:32par and trying to mitigate and most
  335. 13:35importantly disguise uh what pesky
  336. 13:38hormones are putting us through in
  337. 13:40instead of um shaping the Working World
  338. 13:43around our imperative presence in it and
  339. 13:47I mean I mean economically imperative uh
  340. 13:49presence in it we're forced to try and
  341. 13:51find space for our inclusion and that
  342. 13:54has to has until recently depended on
  343. 13:56maintaining a male standard
  344. 13:59and that's really the issue because it's
  345. 14:02a playing field full of lumps and bumps
  346. 14:04that only one half of the population
  347. 14:05have to navigate and until recently
  348. 14:08appeared to the other a handicap they
  349. 14:11hoped we'd find a way through whilst
  350. 14:13keeping our noses firmly to the
  351. 14:15grindstone
  352. 14:17so like most other women I just got on
  353. 14:19with it we've been bred to be stoic to
  354. 14:22accept hormones and hormonal turbulences
  355. 14:24a lot and to pretend actually that our
  356. 14:27hormones don't really exist especially
  357. 14:29when it comes to work
  358. 14:31I struggled horrendously uh brain fog
  359. 14:34and air is better I couldn't even say it
  360. 14:36irritability aren't ideal when you're on
  361. 14:39uh live radio uh neither is lack of
  362. 14:42sleep but in our book cracking the
  363. 14:45menopause um we wrote about menopause
  364. 14:48being the third shift uh something to be
  365. 14:50got on with alongside work and home life
  366. 14:52uh the only ones to really suffer being
  367. 14:55of course women
  368. 14:57had there been the awareness of these
  369. 14:59life stages that there are today a mere
  370. 15:01decade on then perhaps I might have
  371. 15:03recognized my symptoms better sooner
  372. 15:06been supported when they were at their
  373. 15:08most debilitating and navigated my way
  374. 15:11through this inevitable biological phase
  375. 15:14most importantly it could have been a
  376. 15:16shared experience to laugh about with
  377. 15:19friends over a glass of wine recklessly
  378. 15:21ignoring the bad night's sleep that that
  379. 15:23would ensure and maybe I would have felt
  380. 15:26confident enough even uh to mention it
  381. 15:28at work
  382. 15:31of course being me at once I had my
  383. 15:33hands on a pocket full of HRT which
  384. 15:35coincided with the nice guidelines God
  385. 15:37bless the nice guidelines If Only They
  386. 15:39were employed more often
  387. 15:42um so coincided with the nice guidelines
  388. 15:44being Rewritten I started to write and
  389. 15:47talk and actually make a documentary
  390. 15:50about menopause and why it so badly
  391. 15:52needed uh demystifying
  392. 15:55but all the elements of our biology from
  393. 15:59menstruation to menopause have been seen
  394. 16:01as an inconvenience in the workplace
  395. 16:03periods pregnancy and Associated
  396. 16:06complications pregnancy loss fertility
  397. 16:09problems fibroids endometriosis and pmdd
  398. 16:12or until very recently swept under the
  399. 16:16carpet
  400. 16:17and all of this because it's not been of
  401. 16:19interest to those who've historically
  402. 16:21written the medical textbooks and made
  403. 16:23the rules it's effectively a gas
  404. 16:26lighting and a cover-up bigger than the
  405. 16:28fact that there was room on that
  406. 16:30floating door in Titanic
  407. 16:33um
  408. 16:34a good example perhaps of how it all
  409. 16:38started is back in 300 BC when Aristotle
  410. 16:41the revered Greek philosopher we might
  411. 16:45question why it suggested that the
  412. 16:47reason we have periods is because we are
  413. 16:50colder than men as well as less active
  414. 16:53positively lazy so we need to get rid of
  415. 16:57our excess blood and I'd be tempted to
  416. 17:00scrutinize Aristotle's pioneering
  417. 17:02philosophies with a Stern eye if they're
  418. 17:04anything like as flawed as his
  419. 17:06description of women's bodies periods
  420. 17:09According to Aristotle are the process
  421. 17:11of getting rid of this excess blood
  422. 17:13hence the issue when menstruation stops
  423. 17:17whereas men of course are constructed
  424. 17:20with perfect balance and just the right
  425. 17:22amount of heat and blood which they make
  426. 17:25into semen for which were incredibly
  427. 17:27grateful
  428. 17:30um this idea of menstruation as a
  429. 17:33cleansing process of some sort or rather
  430. 17:36endures for almost another 2 000 years
  431. 17:41um incidentally uh just in case you
  432. 17:43can't get enough of Aristotle uh he
  433. 17:45thought of women as mutilated males
  434. 17:49and he may have kicked off the theme of
  435. 17:51women being little more than an
  436. 17:53embarrassing biological footnote but
  437. 17:56things are only just changing now and
  438. 17:58medical misogyny I'm afraid Still
  439. 18:00Remains Rife obviously the presence of
  440. 18:03ovaries and wombs doesn't make us second
  441. 18:05best just listen to that sentence
  442. 18:08and how ludicrous it sounds nor are they
  443. 18:11impediments that need to be worked
  444. 18:13around our biology is what should be
  445. 18:16shaping business as we go forward that
  446. 18:19means that working practice must
  447. 18:21fundamentally change to stop the brain
  448. 18:23drain that happens along the route of
  449. 18:25the female biological Journey that just
  450. 18:27happens to coincide with our working
  451. 18:30lives and that's what I see starting
  452. 18:32very gradually to happen now the
  453. 18:35realization that our biology isn't
  454. 18:38something to apologize for but accepted
  455. 18:40as a part of our lives with time and
  456. 18:42research devoted to how we can be at our
  457. 18:45individual best and supported when it
  458. 18:48comes to the occasional trial and
  459. 18:50tribulation as I emerged from my own
  460. 18:52experience of menopause an educated
  461. 18:54journalists considering myself to be
  462. 18:56well informed and aware of my body
  463. 18:59I was really really shocked at the death
  464. 19:02of general knowledge about the subject
  465. 19:04and I remain so I mean if only my
  466. 19:07company had had a standard my various
  467. 19:09companies I mean I don't mean my various
  468. 19:12companies I'm not a magnet but at
  469. 19:15various companies I work with in my
  470. 19:17experience might have been preempted and
  471. 19:19now that's true for so many women out
  472. 19:22there
  473. 19:23um you know now we have the possibility
  474. 19:24of being understood being understood
  475. 19:27what might happen and the possibilities
  476. 19:29of adjustments being made that very
  477. 19:31simply just make working life better
  478. 19:35um and this is uh right across the board
  479. 19:37as well I mean it's not just in the area
  480. 19:39of menopause and that's what I feel so
  481. 19:42passionately passionately about today
  482. 19:44because working in the menopause sphere
  483. 19:47is only highlighted for me the fact that
  484. 19:49you know right across the board women's
  485. 19:51biology is seen as something that we
  486. 19:53have to apologize and make up for that
  487. 19:58we need mentors to help us through and
  488. 20:01so on and what we've entirely failed to
  489. 20:03grasp is that we are 50 to 52 percent of
  490. 20:06the population and
  491. 20:09absolutely imperative to the future of
  492. 20:12our world and so actually it's a
  493. 20:14woman-shaped space that we want in the
  494. 20:17Working World and it's a completely
  495. 20:19different shaped space to the linear
  496. 20:21hierarchical one that I referred to
  497. 20:23earlier that men have created because
  498. 20:25their bodies work differently it's not
  499. 20:27as an act of you know punishment to us
  500. 20:30but I think it's just what's happened to
  501. 20:32evolve and that's what we need to change
  502. 20:34today it's not minor adjustments and
  503. 20:37slight tweaks you know we who'd ever
  504. 20:39thought that we'd be working you know
  505. 20:41flexi hours and flexi days until the
  506. 20:44pandemic came along and actually opened
  507. 20:46the world's eyes to the fact that there
  508. 20:48were different ways to do things and
  509. 20:50that's what we need to continue with
  510. 20:52today I interviewed um
  511. 20:55just a few weeks ago on my program on
  512. 20:58times radio a young woman I think just
  513. 21:01in her early 30s when I spoke to her
  514. 21:03um about her endometriosis
  515. 21:05um and what she described was just it
  516. 21:08was spellbinding radio because it was so
  517. 21:10horrifically unjust 10 years of
  518. 21:13excruciating Agony that was repeatedly
  519. 21:16dismissed as just painful periods and
  520. 21:19that she needed to just suck it up and
  521. 21:21get on with it and she had to pretend
  522. 21:23she was fine until a decade later she
  523. 21:26really wasn't by the time she was
  524. 21:27diagnosed after a whole 10 years of
  525. 21:30humiliation and career setbacks any of
  526. 21:32you who've actually found yourselves
  527. 21:34calling up
  528. 21:36um a a boss and saying to them I'm sorry
  529. 21:39I've got bad period pain will know that
  530. 21:42you're treated often as though you're
  531. 21:44calling up with a hangover or it's a
  532. 21:46bear bear excuse for for something else
  533. 21:49that you've been up to and and this was
  534. 21:51something that this woman had endured
  535. 21:52for over a decade and so by the time she
  536. 21:55was diagnosed after this decade of
  537. 21:57humiliation and career setbacks her
  538. 22:00condition was critical because
  539. 22:01endometriosis obviously gets worse
  540. 22:04her career was in tatters and her
  541. 22:07fertility entirely gone her story
  542. 22:09doesn't just highlight the agonies that
  543. 22:11we might face but also the patronizing
  544. 22:14I'm afraid and unhelpful societal
  545. 22:16attitude that covers the female
  546. 22:18situation you know as I just mentioned
  547. 22:21it's seen as flaky shameful even to call
  548. 22:24your boss and say you're having a bad
  549. 22:26period or indeed that you haven't slept
  550. 22:28because of menopausal symptoms and both
  551. 22:31those things just add extra stress to an
  552. 22:34already stressful situation and here are
  553. 22:37some statistics to further show the need
  554. 22:39for this standard and support for us 1.5
  555. 22:43million British women suffer from
  556. 22:45endometriosis as many as 30 percent of
  557. 22:48moderate to severe PMs and five to eight
  558. 22:51percent have pmdd premenstrual dysphora
  559. 22:54dysphoric disorder in addition according
  560. 22:58to Women's Health concern one in three
  561. 23:00described that period as heavy and at
  562. 23:02least one in 20 women speak to their
  563. 23:03doctor every year about this problem as
  564. 23:07did the young woman that I spoke to
  565. 23:09according to the brilliant Fawcett
  566. 23:11Society report from last year menopause
  567. 23:13in the workplace one in ten women who
  568. 23:16worked during the menopause have left
  569. 23:18their job June due to menopause symptoms
  570. 23:22eight out of ten say their employer
  571. 23:24hasn't shared information trained staff
  572. 23:26or put in place and menopause absence
  573. 23:29policy when it comes to menstruation
  574. 23:31this all makes just dismal dismal
  575. 23:34listening
  576. 23:36um and also worryingly as I do now go
  577. 23:39often to different companies to give
  578. 23:41talks I'm often accosted in the toilet
  579. 23:44afterwards something that began after I
  580. 23:46made the menopause documentary and has
  581. 23:48continued ever since the toilet's now no
  582. 23:52longer a refuge for me but somewhere
  583. 23:54where I have some of my most heated
  584. 23:56discussions but I often find myself in
  585. 23:58these companies and having listened to
  586. 24:00you know various bosses described the
  587. 24:03wonderful policies that they have in
  588. 24:05place the menopause Mentor
  589. 24:07Etc and then have women tell me that
  590. 24:10actually the the culture is completely
  591. 24:12different and that nothing has changed
  592. 24:15and I I'm really sad to say that I think
  593. 24:17perhaps menu washing might be a new
  594. 24:20inclusion in the Oxford Dictionary next
  595. 24:23year
  596. 24:24um the workplace as I've said is
  597. 24:26designed in a linear hierarchical and
  598. 24:30patriarchal fashion no wonder after
  599. 24:32hundreds and indeed thousands of years
  600. 24:34it's not because we're being actively
  601. 24:36discriminated against but because the
  602. 24:38female form is such a relatively new
  603. 24:40presence in every walk of working life
  604. 24:45if you want women and trans women and
  605. 24:48non-binary individuals to be involved
  606. 24:50and to stay involved and frankly if you
  607. 24:52want your business to be successful you
  608. 24:53don't have a choice
  609. 24:55and you want them to give their best and
  610. 24:57to actively Aid your company's success
  611. 24:59then it's got to be a sea change not
  612. 25:03just little changes as I said and tweaks
  613. 25:06but an absolute acceptance that the
  614. 25:08world that we live in now has been
  615. 25:09constructed around one half of humanity
  616. 25:12and not around the other and that is
  617. 25:15what needs to change a tsunami of change
  618. 25:19from the ground up
  619. 25:21would I Rejoice over and the BSI
  620. 25:23standard is an excellent example of this
  621. 25:25is the fact that menstruation pregnancy
  622. 25:27and menopause are finally in 2023
  623. 25:30accepted as not just an inconvenience
  624. 25:33but a fact and one to be openly and
  625. 25:35enthusiastically celebrated for its
  626. 25:38imperative to the future of our species
  627. 25:39not just as something that stops us
  628. 25:41being as biologically perfect apparently
  629. 25:45as the male of the species
  630. 25:48um and I think it's really really great
  631. 25:50that so many of you here today
  632. 25:51highlighting the fact that businesses
  633. 25:52are finally taking responsibility for
  634. 25:55the health of half of their employees
  635. 25:57the amount of successful people taking a
  636. 26:00stand using their voices is increasing
  637. 26:03daily all of you here today my menopause
  638. 26:06sisters including Davina Penny Lancaster
  639. 26:09Lisa Snowden Michelle Griffith Robinson
  640. 26:11and Gabby Logan of course my co-author
  641. 26:13Alice who's safe hands you've been in
  642. 26:16all day there's also Daisy Network
  643. 26:18raising awareness of premature ovarian
  644. 26:21insufficiency and of course Davina
  645. 26:23McCallen and Kate Muir have recently
  646. 26:24spoken at about contraception as well
  647. 26:27and its failings
  648. 26:30um I am personally incredibly proud to
  649. 26:33have been a part of the discussions and
  650. 26:34as chair of menopause mandate pioneered
  651. 26:37some of them
  652. 26:38I'm just as excited also to have the
  653. 26:41conversation opened up even further and
  654. 26:44along with colleagues such as BSI it
  655. 26:47looks out to continue improve and
  656. 26:49perhaps get even louder but if you leave
  657. 26:52this room with anything from what I've
  658. 26:54said I really think it has to be a
  659. 26:56wholesale Revolution
  660. 26:58um you know the times have come for
  661. 27:01Change and it really needs to happen now
  662. 27:03it's a completely ridiculous
  663. 27:05unsustainable and I think unjust uh
  664. 27:08situation still and we need to change
  665. 27:10that each and every one of us can play a
  666. 27:12part thank you
  667. 27:15[Applause]
  668. 27:21nice
  669. 27:23[Applause]
  670. 27:25isn't she a washer thank you thank you
  671. 27:29very much Mariella and
  672. 27:31um thank you to everyone who has been
  673. 27:33here who's working towards a more
  674. 27:35inclusive and supportive working
  675. 27:36environment and finally I'm going to
  676. 27:39hand you over to the excellent and Haze
  677. 27:41for her closing words after which her
  678. 27:43invited to join us for drinks thank you
  679. 27:46thanks Alice
  680. 27:48um tough at to follow just so we all
  681. 27:50know so what I'm going to say is that
  682. 27:53um I believe the revolution has started
  683. 27:55I believe that this standard is is a
  684. 27:58great tool for you
  685. 27:59um I also believe that there are drinks
  686. 28:01outside so I'm not going to go on too
  687. 28:02long there are three three things that
  688. 28:04really struck me today are um sort of
  689. 28:06the role of this standard is to
  690. 28:08normalize the conversation so there's
  691. 28:10there's uh a document out there that you
  692. 28:13can now take into your workplaces you
  693. 28:15can talk to people about it and actually
  694. 28:16you have a starting place in order to
  695. 28:19have that conversation the other key
  696. 28:21thing is not one size fits all what
  697. 28:23might work for our organization might
  698. 28:25not work in another organization and I
  699. 28:27think that's come up a number of times
  700. 28:28in the questions and I really can't
  701. 28:30emphasize that enough the standard
  702. 28:32doesn't say you have to do one thing it
  703. 28:34gives you a whole plethora of ideas and
  704. 28:36things that you can use about it and
  705. 28:38finally there's been a lot of questions
  706. 28:39today around or comments today around
  707. 28:41people leaving the workforce early not
  708. 28:44necessarily of their own choice but
  709. 28:46because they feel feel it's impossible
  710. 28:48to go on and and I'm actually
  711. 28:50coincidentally really proud to say that
  712. 28:52today BSI have launched some research
  713. 28:54that we've done globally on the second
  714. 28:56glass ceiling and why women leave the
  715. 28:58workplace and so there should be a QR
  716. 29:00code that will appear in a minute and if
  717. 29:02it doesn't we'll make sure you get it so
  718. 29:04that you can download that report
  719. 29:05because all of this information which is
  720. 29:08validated information is out there to
  721. 29:10help that conversation that you can take
  722. 29:12back to your businesses
  723. 29:14um our board constantly asked me about
  724. 29:15what is the call of action that you're
  725. 29:17you're giving people so my call of
  726. 29:18action to you is to say uh you need to
  727. 29:21go out of here and you need to tell at
  728. 29:22least five people about this standard
  729. 29:24and you need to tell them that they need
  730. 29:25to download it it's free to download we
  731. 29:28will take on board comments or at least
  732. 29:30the team at BSI well not me personally
  733. 29:32but we will all gather together and take
  734. 29:33on board the comments we want to make it
  735. 29:35a success we believe we have a real
  736. 29:37opportunity to make a difference in
  737. 29:38having you all here today and online
  738. 29:41um just makes that easier for us so
  739. 29:43thank you for your attention please stay
  740. 29:45for a drink and some food and we really
  741. 29:47appreciate the efforts you've all made
  742. 29:48to get here today because I know
  743. 29:49transport and schools situations has
  744. 29:52made that difficult so thank you very
  745. 29:53much and thank you to Alice actually
  746. 29:55huge thank you
  747. 29:58[Applause]

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