Men Wearing Purses, Studio Etiquette & Lace Fronts: The Fashion Debate | Big Facts — Transcript
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- 0:00Everybody sitting here, you are the new
- 0:01OG's. OG's. The internet is who you go
- 0:04up against when you a real [ __ ]
- 0:06>> Young people don't trust us.
- 0:08>> Why should they though? Cuz they
- 0:09confused. Like this [ __ ] got the lace
- 0:11front. This [ __ ] taking off.
- 0:13>> Yeah.
- 0:14>> But a [ __ ] with a low fade. That [ __ ]
- 0:15going to take him a minute. So it's
- 0:16confusing.
- 0:18>> Whatever you do in fashion, I respect it
- 0:19cuz it's art. The purses is kind of
- 0:21wild, man.
- 0:22>> I don't I don't have those. Wear what
- 0:24you want. But when you get out, you know
- 0:25it. You know people going to have the
- 0:27thing. You know, they going to have
- 0:28their things to say. It's difficult to
- 0:29really break through the space. You got
- 0:31to have something that either connects
- 0:32to people or you got to have some type
- 0:33of hook and some people going for the
- 0:36hook. I try to connect the frequency.
- 0:38>> Like it's no etiquette in like in the
- 0:39studio when an artist is focused or
- 0:42whatever. Like you got all these [ __ ]
- 0:43in here like bro shut the [ __ ] up. Why
- 0:45are all y'all [ __ ] in here you don't
- 0:46do nothing? And I came from Atlanta
- 0:48where [ __ ] you got to have respect.
- 0:49You get hit in your mouth.
- 0:50>> [ __ ] ain't getting hit in the mouth no
- 0:51more. You can't really do that. I think
- 0:53if there were consequences to a lot of
- 0:54these actions that people do, these
- 0:56whole activities, these [ __ ] ass
- 0:58actions, if there were consequences to
- 1:00you not standing on principle, it would
- 1:02be more people standing on principle.
- 1:08Live from Revolt Studios in the ATL,
- 1:11it's time for big facts. Big bank is
- 1:13here. DJ Scream is here. Special guest
- 1:15in the building, Trinidad James is here.
- 1:17We got Best. They are coming together to
- 1:20the group best dressed, right? And of
- 1:23course, Vice City representing that
- 1:24Midwest is in the building, too.
- 1:26>> You know what I mean? Clap it up for the
- 1:27brothers. Clap it up for the brother.
- 1:28>> Hey, hey, hey. What's going on,
- 1:29gentlemen? How y'all feeling?
- 1:31>> About time, man.
- 1:32>> Y'all ain't interviewing me. I'm
- 1:33interviewing y'all. That's
- 1:34>> This is a conversation. [laughter] This
- 1:35a conversation. Oh, you going to start
- 1:37it up? Go ahead, kick it off.
- 1:38>> Well, I mean, the first things first,
- 1:40it's good to see y'all in face
- 1:41>> because we do a lot of internet now,
- 1:43right? And um
- 1:45>> uh for me I want to say this you know
- 1:47just rest in peace to our boy Ally just
- 1:50I just I have to say that like I've been
- 1:53able to anybody that I've worked with
- 1:54when you work with somebody that I think
- 1:56bank can relate to the screen you can
- 1:57relate to even you when you collab or
- 1:59whatever like that's a bond that we a
- 2:01decision that we make unspoken
- 2:03>> to to ride for each other in a type of
- 2:05way because we got a song together we
- 2:06made a kid together pause respectfully
- 2:08you know what I'm saying we got a thing
- 2:09together and so
- 2:11>> um when we lose lose that person. Um
- 2:15it's it it you don't feel the way the
- 2:18person say like a family member feel.
- 2:19But it is still like family though
- 2:21because we did we did this music
- 2:23together this thing that we love so much
- 2:24together. So I just wanted to to set it
- 2:26off top of like
- 2:27>> being able to see in your face. I was
- 2:29just at the restaurant. You know what
- 2:30I'm saying? Shout out to the the
- 2:32restaurant. We want to go there after
- 2:33this. Give me you give that salmon. That
- 2:36salmon crazy if y'all [ __ ] don't know
- 2:37about that salmon. Um but no it's it's
- 2:40beautiful to be here man. It's beautiful
- 2:41to see transition and to see, you know,
- 2:46different versions of graduation.
- 2:48[laughter]
- 2:48>> Appreciate it, brother.
- 2:49>> You know what I'm saying? No, it's
- 2:50blessing, man.
- 2:52>> Hey, man. I'm happy to be here, bro.
- 2:53Like, I uh like I said, me and X, I was
- 2:55talking to him. I saw you get in the
- 2:57movie and it's good to see a cat that
- 2:58come up how we come up and make that
- 3:00transition. Um, we met in LA a minute
- 3:02ago. Yes, sir.
- 3:03>> You know, and it was like good. And you
- 3:04gave me some real good advice. I think I
- 3:06was out. I was still trapping. You was
- 3:07like, "Man, just keep rocking on your
- 3:08music. Keep going. It's going to
- 3:10happen." And I'm like, "All right." He
- 3:11said, "Just cuz it's not I don't even
- 3:12know if you remember this." He said, "It
- 3:14might not be the traditional way, but if
- 3:15it's in you, if it's in you, you going
- 3:17to get it." And I'm like, "Damn, that's
- 3:19dope." And um, yeah, we here, man.
- 3:21Period. You know, so happy to be here,
- 3:24man. I I watch the podcast. I love what
- 3:25y'all is doing.
- 3:27>> [ __ ] is fire, boy.
- 3:29>> What's going on, y'all? I'm Beth. Um,
- 3:32and [ __ ] I've known this crazy dude for
- 3:3411 years. We met out in LA. Um, and I'm
- 3:37a producer. I started producing with
- 3:39him. You know, that's how we link just
- 3:40on some music stuff. Had a crazy session
- 3:43with this dude. And um this [ __ ] said
- 3:46the craziest [ __ ] to me off the top. I I
- 3:48did a million sessions. This [ __ ] said,
- 3:50"Uh, play me the craziest [ __ ] nobody
- 3:52can ever write to." Just it's some real
- 3:54like when you think back about it's like
- 3:56some movie [ __ ] Some [ __ ] come in with
- 3:57this crazy ass big ass afro crazy. Hey
- 3:59man, play me the craziest thing that
- 4:02nobody can attack. And I had never heard
- 4:04it. I work with all these writers.
- 4:05Everybody's basically wants the same
- 4:06thing. They want to copycat [ __ ] and he
- 4:09came in and destroyed these crazy beats.
- 4:11Um, and then we kind of, it's one of
- 4:13them things where it's like, oh, this is
- 4:14my, you see right away this my tribe
- 4:17right away. Like,
- 4:19you know, you do all these sessions.
- 4:20Some people cool, but man, it was just
- 4:22like right away. Um, you know, and
- 4:24saying to see I'm I'm honored to be here
- 4:26cuz I lived in Atlanta for a little bit,
- 4:28had my time here, but we actually linked
- 4:30in LA and, you know, for us to come back
- 4:32here and have this thing here is really
- 4:34dope. you know, debuting the group, you
- 4:36know what I'm saying? Together here in
- 4:38Atlanta is really dope and beautiful.
- 4:39>> Can we Can we do our intro? Can we do
- 4:41our intro? How
- 4:42>> I got an intro.
- 4:42>> We got [laughter] Listen, you got It
- 4:45wouldn't be right if we didn't do it.
- 4:46>> We're professional. You know what I'm
- 4:47saying? Like, all right. All right. All
- 4:49right.
- 4:50>> All right. Now, world. What's going on?
- 4:51Yo, I am best.
- 4:52>> I'm dressed and we are best dressed.
- 4:55>> Come on now. [laughter]
- 4:56>> Continue.
- 4:57>> You heard? You heard?
- 4:58>> I ain't got no intro, bro. I ain't I
- 5:00ain't cold like that, bro. I'm just
- 5:02city. You already know what it is, boy.
- 5:03[laughter]
- 5:04Give me that water.
- 5:05>> Now listen, man. Um, we had an episode a
- 5:08few weeks ago, and this is the perfect
- 5:10start to this conversation, right? We
- 5:11had a episode a few weeks ago. We were
- 5:13just trying to understand fashion and
- 5:15where fashion is and where it's going
- 5:17and so forth, right? Where where I left
- 5:19off with it was me personally,
- 5:23whatever you do in fashion, I respect it
- 5:24cuz it's art. I'm cool with it, right?
- 5:27>> But I am a little confused about one
- 5:28thing.
- 5:29>> Yes, sir.
- 5:30And and and know if y'all do this, I'm
- 5:33just we just keep it real because it's
- 5:34good.
- 5:35>> Yeah.
- 5:36>> The purses is kind of wild, man.
- 5:38>> Okay. Purses.
- 5:39>> Do y'all carry purses? If y'all do, you
- 5:41know you carry purses, but like you
- 5:43understand what I'm saying though. Not
- 5:44like a not like a little like the homie
- 5:46is carry
- 5:46>> talking about like the Chanel
- 5:49car purses like
- 5:51>> I don't have those. I don't I don't have
- 5:53those. Um,
- 5:56>> the bags, the bags that I have, he got
- 6:00more bags than me, but like the bags
- 6:02that that draw to me that I have, um,
- 6:05how I grew up, that would be considered
- 6:07a purse.
- 6:08>> Where I'm at now mentally when it come
- 6:10to fashion is like, nah, the way that I
- 6:13carry it, the way that I'm holding is
- 6:14like first I'm not even thinking about
- 6:17>> how it's coming across. But to me, I
- 6:19think it's like levels of it.
- 6:20>> Whereas like certain things I truly do
- 6:23like, bro, that's for
- 6:24>> Yeah.
- 6:24>> for a woman. Like, let her have that.
- 6:26That's I could say that. You know what
- 6:27I'm saying? Like with these nails, with
- 6:29everything that I have, it's certain
- 6:31things that like I It's really a ton of
- 6:33things cuz I work with so many women.
- 6:35All I do is help women in the industry,
- 6:37rich women.
- 6:38>> And speaking of you help like sexy red,
- 6:40you sexy even newer than that. Like I've
- 6:43been working with Brisk, you know,
- 6:44brisk, you know what I'm saying? Like,
- 6:46>> you know what I'm saying? Shout out. You
- 6:47know, that's that's hometown. That's
- 6:48home. You know what I'm saying? Um, and
- 6:51the reason why I've been doing it with
- 6:53bro for a while, too, is because you
- 6:56can't understand how to have patience
- 6:58for a woman until you have to do
- 6:59something you have to have patience with
- 7:01other than a child.
- 7:02>> H
- 7:03>> self-care is patience.
- 7:06It takes time. You have to sit there and
- 7:08get your hair done, blah blah blah. Time
- 7:10to think, you understand when you go
- 7:11through it for yourself and it becomes
- 7:13like I get paid to look like this. It's
- 7:15my job,
- 7:16>> right? So now when I go work or deal
- 7:18with a woman period, however, the things
- 7:20that I realize get make people
- 7:23aggravated and things like this because
- 7:24like well [ __ ] you don't understand. So
- 7:26now taking back to what we're talking
- 7:27about with the bag and the purse,
- 7:29>> how I feel is that
- 7:32the Chanel clutches and things like
- 7:33that, like you said, do whatever you
- 7:35going to do cuz y'all [ __ ] going to do
- 7:36it anyway.
- 7:37>> We already passed it. It's already in
- 7:38the field,
- 7:39>> right?
- 7:39>> Y'all [ __ ] doing what y'all want to
- 7:41do. However, like when Thug wore a
- 7:42dress, he did what he wanted to do.
- 7:45>> He did what he wanted to do. do, you
- 7:46know, your freedom to do what you want.
- 7:48>> You know what I'm saying? So, it's like
- 7:50the expression
- 7:53um of when you see uh a man masculine or
- 7:58not or whatever because I don't got
- 8:00nothing against nobody.
- 8:01>> Um it's kind of more of I more care
- 8:03about your intention than the piece.
- 8:05That's what I'm trying to say to you. So
- 8:07whether it's Chanel small thing like
- 8:09Future be wearing now on his belt or
- 8:11whether it's clutch up under his arm
- 8:12like ASAP Rocky that's $25,000
- 8:16or $250,000 Birkkins or whatever. You
- 8:19know what I'm saying for real back in
- 8:21the day when he had the purple Birkin
- 8:22and the first person put the big A
- 8:24Birkin is a woman's bag gang.
- 8:27>> I mean I just
- 8:28>> it's a woman's bag especially back then
- 8:30but he made a thing cool you know. So
- 8:32that's how I feel. How you feel?
- 8:34>> Yeah. I mean, I feel like you just wear
- 8:36whatever you want to wear. I don't
- 8:37really care what nobody think.
- 8:39It's just that simple. If you if you
- 8:41wear whatever you want, nobody don't got
- 8:44no dominion over nobody's body. But you
- 8:46allowed to have the opinion, too. You
- 8:47just got to take you got to be able to
- 8:48take the bullet with whatever you wear.
- 8:50You know what I'm saying? Like you wear
- 8:52what you want, but when you get out, you
- 8:53know, you know, people going to have the
- 8:54thing. You know, they going to have
- 8:55their things to say.
- 8:57>> So, you just got to stand in whatever
- 8:58that is that you going to wear. You
- 9:00know, in terms of the bags though, like,
- 9:02you know, all the bags that I got is
- 9:04it's it's on some like what I like is
- 9:06unique stuff more than anything. Some
- 9:08that just don't look like anything else.
- 9:10So, I'm I'm not necessarily looking for
- 9:12women's bags or anything like that
- 9:13either. It's just like some cool cool
- 9:16little I don't know. It might be an
- 9:18animal or something that's turned into a
- 9:19bag or something that's or a briefcase
- 9:21or something that's like just cool. You
- 9:23know what I mean? Like a pencil.
- 9:25>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Some cool like just
- 9:27quirky quirky type of thing. So that's
- 9:29what you know that's what tap back with
- 9:30that do.
- 9:31>> How you feel bro?
- 9:32>> I mean teaches on that ain't my thing
- 9:34though. Uh because how I come up you
- 9:37feel me and what I what I resonate
- 9:38towards. I feel like hey man if anybody
- 9:41want to wear it want to wear it they can
- 9:42do that cuz art you know fashion is art
- 9:43and you got to create and express
- 9:44yourself and that's their expression.
- 9:46But me personally I'm not into it. You
- 9:48know what I'm saying? I got a bag and if
- 9:50I do get a bag it's functional. It's for
- 9:52a purpose. You know I need this cuz I
- 9:53can't carry this and that and that and
- 9:54this. You feel me? But you know like I
- 9:57like they say teachers on. It's all
- 9:58creative. It's all art. I have zero
- 10:00judgment to anybody. If you comfortable
- 10:02with it, cool. But you know, whatever
- 10:03choice you decide to make, know that
- 10:05with those choices come the lane that
- 10:07come with those choices. So if you cool
- 10:08with that and you confident in you,
- 10:10[ __ ] rock your [ __ ] It just ain't my
- 10:11thing. You feel me?
- 10:13>> So when you get dressed, I'm saying and
- 10:14this is just me cuz we go way back to
- 10:16him styling me, right? And then he kind
- 10:19of created the pocket of he created the
- 10:21pocket of our balance. He was like,
- 10:22"This is what you can do." and I let
- 10:24them know this is what I'm probably not
- 10:26going to do and we find a balance and
- 10:27everything like that. But I'm saying
- 10:28when you get dressed creatively and
- 10:31expressing yourself,
- 10:33>> um,
- 10:35>> is it just creativity or is there a
- 10:37certain amount of I know I will seek
- 10:39attention with this too. Just keeping it
- 10:41real cuz a woman might a woman might do
- 10:44certain things because she's trying to
- 10:45be seen. You know what I'm saying?
- 10:47>> Yeah. And [ __ ] do too. And [ __ ] do.
- 10:49>> Yeah. I think it's a part of the job if
- 10:50you're in entertainment. You know what
- 10:52I'm saying? To a certain degree. He kind
- 10:53of he's supposed to be a little
- 10:54different. Um, it starts to me like
- 10:57before he was even in the professional
- 10:58field of just being like creative for
- 11:00like just it felt creative. Especially
- 11:02when you ain't got no money. You know
- 11:04what I'm saying? When you broke
- 11:05>> and you got to where you got to mix [ __ ]
- 11:07and try to figure out how to make
- 11:08something cool out of the same things
- 11:09you been had. That's kind of how the
- 11:11fashion thing started for me. Just
- 11:12trying to figure out how to make
- 11:13something new out of what I already got.
- 11:15>> You know what I'm saying? And then you
- 11:17just start to get a little bit more
- 11:18bread and you try other things. You
- 11:20might have homies that's in the fashion
- 11:22that kind of give you that confidence to
- 11:23step out and do other things too. But
- 11:25yeah, like you know, to each his own.
- 11:28Always for me, to each his own.
- 11:30>> Do y'all see [ __ ] where y'all feel like
- 11:32people went too far or trying or
- 11:34stretching?
- 11:35>> Yeah. It's like because
- 11:38>> because I presented myself like this,
- 11:40like what I told you, I was like,
- 11:41"Nigga, you can't find me. I'mma find
- 11:43you.
- 11:44>> I'm 4,000. I'm James 4000.
- 11:47>> Not
- 11:47>> I don't I'm already here. I'm looking
- 11:50look I'm actually taking a lap back to
- 11:51like oh [ __ ] my bad. What I got going on
- 11:53or whatever I went so far or whatever.
- 11:55So I say that to say that when it comes
- 11:57to
- 11:58>> fashion all I care about is your
- 12:00intention.
- 12:02You can make a mistake with a piece.
- 12:03>> What you mean by intention though
- 12:04>> of like oh did I buy this bag so I'm
- 12:07going to I'm going to make the I'm make
- 12:09these [ __ ] jealous with this bag.
- 12:12That's weird for a man to say that.
- 12:14That's weird. Like that's weird. That is
- 12:16weird bro. That is weird gang. Like if
- 12:18you bought the Chanel bag from the
- 12:20resale shop for whatever price that you
- 12:22bought it from, the same thing that a
- 12:23bad [ __ ] with money would come and do
- 12:25>> or whatever. Boom boom. And I know the
- 12:27shops. I shop. I know the shops.
- 12:29>> However, it's all about intention.
- 12:32Anybody can buy the same pieces. We are
- 12:34peace collecting. When you're a real
- 12:35shopper, you are peace collecting.
- 12:37>> So that's the proper intention.
- 12:38>> Peace collecting. Peace. Oh man, that's
- 12:40crazy. Like I I might say that for my
- 12:43daughter when I have when I don't have
- 12:44no kids. I buy I'll buy this crazy
- 12:46purple Versace purse thing crazy and I
- 12:49get it off too when I'm super in my bag
- 12:51because it's a crazy piece because when
- 12:54somebody takes a picture of me that
- 12:56picture is going to end up in a Japanese
- 12:57magazine and they're breaking down my
- 12:59fit
- 13:00>> and that breakdown can get me flew out
- 13:01to Korea to be a model because I'm
- 13:04putting this [ __ ] on
- 13:06>> or whatever because peace people
- 13:08recognize their tribe. You're only
- 13:10trying to do things your intention
- 13:12should be to find your tribe, not to be
- 13:14like, I'm f to swag on this [ __ ] No,
- 13:16[ __ ] you're weird. That's weird. When
- 13:19[ __ ] try too hard, like a [ __ ] uh is
- 13:22a young man. He's a very famous uh
- 13:24streamer. His name is Playboy Max. He
- 13:27wore a lace front recently. He been
- 13:28performing heavy with the lace front.
- 13:31Bro, I grew up in this city right here
- 13:32of Atlanta, Georgia. [ __ ] cannot wear
- 13:35no goddamn lace front. is like you could
- 13:37get extended braids, you can get
- 13:39extensions in your dreads. It's a lot of
- 13:42things that you do [ __ ] like boy
- 13:46[ __ ]
- 13:48But a lace front is when now young
- 13:50[ __ ] the lace front is thug with the
- 13:53dress. It's like all right, bro. You
- 13:54jumped out there and did something that
- 13:56is completely against the whole grain.
- 13:59And a part of that is rockstar [ __ ] If
- 14:01your intention is to be a rockstar,
- 14:03>> I understand where you're coming from.
- 14:05>> Yeah. Yeah. [laughter]
- 14:07>> Doug is a rock star. Thug has proved to
- 14:09me that he's a rock star. When he wore
- 14:11the dress and to make it through
- 14:12everything, he wore the dress. Just did
- 14:15five years locked up with [ __ ] that
- 14:18don't wear dresses,
- 14:19>> right?
- 14:20>> Came out,
- 14:21>> y'all had conversation. Boom. Boom. He's
- 14:23the man. He's still the same man. He's
- 14:25making great music, building a whole new
- 14:27army of amazing people. His intention,
- 14:30he's Look at all the young [ __ ] around
- 14:31him. They're basically him. The
- 14:34different versions of him. If you take
- 14:35Thug Mixtape,
- 14:36>> you could take the artist and put him by
- 14:38the mixtape that he sounds like Thug.
- 14:40This ain't a diss. This the truth
- 14:42because I am from here.
- 14:43>> No.
- 14:43>> Thug is my [ __ ] We went to the same
- 14:45high school. Went to South Carolina High
- 14:46School. That's my [ __ ] Dolly and
- 14:49Sister Dora. That's my [ __ ] I know
- 14:51when you're being like my [ __ ] But
- 14:52they're kids. You're supposed to be like
- 14:55your idol till you figure out how to be
- 14:57like yourself.
- 14:58>> That is how the [ __ ] goes. Do you think
- 15:00um it make people start trying to just
- 15:02push the boundary different like like
- 15:04you said Thor wore a dress he was he was
- 15:06crazy as enough to wear the dress. Now
- 15:08[ __ ] want to get lace front. Now
- 15:09[ __ ] want to do this do this. Do you
- 15:10think the intentions is to push
- 15:13boundaries?
- 15:15>> Yes.
- 15:15>> Like what you guys I think I think some
- 15:18cash intentions is to push boundaries
- 15:19like like you saying if you really if
- 15:20your intentions are to be cuz I see some
- 15:22pieces I'm like this is slick and I'm
- 15:23like just the vibration of it the
- 15:25frequency of it. So I think the
- 15:26intentions are for some is to push
- 15:27boundaries, for others is to get
- 15:29attention. And I think if you doing
- 15:30anything to get attention, that's where
- 15:32you always going to fall.
- 15:33>> Yeah. Cuz how far would you go?
- 15:35>> Right. If if it ain't no line that
- 15:37>> you won't cross, then you'll fall. Say
- 15:40if you ain't going to stand for
- 15:41something, you'll fall for anything. So
- 15:42if you doing it for attention, like I'm
- 15:44going to do this. I ain't seen the cat
- 15:45with the lace front. I
- 15:47>> teach his own. But that ain't my thing.
- 15:49>> I can't diss him. Like
- 15:50>> now you'll be lame. Like I'm I'm just
- 15:52speaking with you.
- 15:52>> No, but yeah, but like you can't you
- 15:53can't really
- 15:54>> pull him up.
- 15:55>> You can't really You [laughter] know
- 15:56>> what? What? Yeah. What do you mean? He's
- 15:58doing numbers bank. Like I'm hate on him
- 16:01because to hate on them,
- 16:03>> you going to look lame now because
- 16:04there's so many people that's riding for
- 16:06it. That's when it's kind of like, oh
- 16:08[ __ ] this you have done what you're
- 16:09supposed to do. You supposed to make the
- 16:11thing that you stand on that's like
- 16:13egregious become acceptable.
- 16:14>> I think I think a lot of people too,
- 16:15they just it's like and you know you you
- 16:17in the space, we in the space. It's
- 16:19difficult to really break through the
- 16:20space. You got to have something that
- 16:21either connects to people or you got to
- 16:23have some type of hook. And some people
- 16:25going for the hook. I try to connect the
- 16:27frequencies. You feel me? So like what
- 16:29y'all doing? I I I see y'all show I'm
- 16:30like, "Yo, I [ __ ] with bro cuz I see
- 16:32what they talking about." That's the
- 16:33connection. You ain't going for hook.
- 16:34You just being you and it's connecting.
- 16:37Then you got people that's doing stuff
- 16:38they like I'mma do anything to get
- 16:40attention. And
- 16:41>> I think that's what we all all speaking
- 16:43on. Like sometimes it just gets so
- 16:45>> far out it's like all right. I can't
- 16:47deal with this [ __ ]
- 16:47>> Yeah. I mean teachers on man. teachers
- 16:49on like everybody on what they on
- 16:50>> he's going crazy right now in the music
- 16:52we going crazy that's we could never
- 16:55>> let me see
- 16:56>> man it's a lot that I do but it's things
- 16:59that I just ain't going to do screen
- 17:00like it's a lot that I do because it
- 17:02just in my mind I don't have
- 17:04>> as much in the future that I think I am
- 17:07so
- 17:07>> I'm not that much in the current
- 17:09>> I'm glad you said that though Jame you
- 17:10said goddamn
- 17:12>> that would be hating if if you said
- 17:14something
- 17:15>> how is that hat
- 17:17>> if you disagree with that how is hating.
- 17:19>> Well, hating hating based on the
- 17:21standards based on our character and how
- 17:23we came up and how I wasn't even born in
- 17:25Atlanta. How I came here as an
- 17:27immigrant. So, what I learned as a I
- 17:30always say that your teenage years is
- 17:31what actually molds you as a man that
- 17:34you're going to be. A lot of things that
- 17:36you see that men do now, they learned
- 17:38that when they were teenagers. That's
- 17:39the same nick.
- 17:40>> However, I grew up here my whole teenage
- 17:43life for the most part in Carolina, but
- 17:45really here. So, Atlanta is where I'm
- 17:47from. It molded me. It made me Trinidad
- 17:49James. So everything that you see in
- 17:51front, I learned it from this city
- 17:52first. I wasn't traveling,
- 17:54>> you know. Hell no, [ __ ] I was in the
- 17:56city. So I said that to say where it
- 17:58comes to when
- 18:00somebody does something that's like what
- 18:04the hell and you say something about it.
- 18:06The way that this industry works now is
- 18:08like no, if you got enough people saying
- 18:10that it's right, whatever, even if it's
- 18:13it can't be wrong. And when you say that
- 18:15it's right,
- 18:16>> [ __ ] up though.
- 18:17>> No, it's [ __ ] up because your that it
- 18:19shouldn't change your opinion. What you
- 18:21don't [ __ ] with, you should stand on.
- 18:23>> Yeah,
- 18:23>> that should never change if your
- 18:25intention for why you not standing on it
- 18:27is an actual fact.
- 18:29>> I can say, [ __ ] I am never wearing no
- 18:32goddamn lace front to do nothing. The
- 18:36music that he's making that he's putting
- 18:37out or whatever, if you choose to go
- 18:39listen to it, whether he had a lace
- 18:40front or not, it didn't make it better.
- 18:44It didn't need it. It didn't need it.
- 18:46But it did what it's supposed to realize
- 18:48because perception of image is what
- 18:50actually makes the new rockstar.
- 18:53>> But for him to feel like he wants to
- 18:54creatively express himself in that way,
- 18:58I guess I just don't understand what
- 19:00that means.
- 19:00>> I mean, it did what it did cuz look at
- 19:01us. We talking about it.
- 19:03>> He did what exactly what he did. So
- 19:05whatever.
- 19:06>> Trolling. Trolling. I never heard the
- 19:07word trolling. I never heard that word
- 19:09in Atlanta, Georgia my whole life until
- 19:10I that that's a new thing. got troll
- 19:12like stand
- 19:14>> like that's you get pushed in the like a
- 19:15[ __ ] hit you in your mouth if you troll
- 19:17him like you know like troll like what
- 19:19do you mean troll like who's on a
- 19:21>> who's trolling trouble troll like who's
- 19:23trolling like what are you going you
- 19:25don't troll [ __ ] in the city like
- 19:26that's a new thing these are nuances
- 19:28>> I had to learn that bro dead ass I had
- 19:30from Chicago like
- 19:31>> yeah being from the crib like cats would
- 19:32troll and I was on like a live one time
- 19:34and dude was woo woo and I was like I
- 19:37went to trying to find out who the
- 19:38address way was pull up on okay yeah man
- 19:41you Okay. Okay. I'm trying to find it
- 19:42cuz I'm like I'mma see this [ __ ] And
- 19:44then one of my home girls was like, nah,
- 19:46you can't. That's trolling. I'm like,
- 19:48what? Nah, this [ __ ] going too far.
- 19:50He's like, nah, that's trolling. That's
- 19:51how that, you know, that's what it is.
- 19:53I'm like, [sighs] I had to adjust my
- 19:55whole way of thinking cuz I was like,
- 19:57dude, he was going way in like, oh, bro,
- 19:59your mama w you zesty. I was like,
- 20:03but like you said, that's that's
- 20:04trolling. He was doing something to get
- 20:06me to respond. Mhm.
- 20:07>> And the minute I respond now, he got the
- 20:10power over me and now it's everybody
- 20:12looking at dude. But I was on him. I was
- 20:14like, I'm going to fan. So I had to fall
- 20:15back off that. So trolling is some you
- 20:18can't do that cuz that's like,
- 20:20you know, it's a form of hate now. Like
- 20:22you you people do it, but you can't
- 20:23respond to it is what I'm saying.
- 20:26You can't respond. I'm telling you, bro.
- 20:27>> So [ __ ] just different.
- 20:29>> It's it's way different. You [ __ ] around
- 20:30and
- 20:33listen, bro. I'mma keep it a thousand,
- 20:35man. Like I even got to be mindful of
- 20:37how I communicate on phone calls with
- 20:41people cuz people will record your ass.
- 20:44They they'll bait you, rage bait you and
- 20:46you know you human.
- 20:47>> Mhm.
- 20:48>> And the minute you be like
- 20:49>> what you if you take it there,
- 20:52they pressing play.
- 20:55That [ __ ] even matter with AI though cuz
- 20:57somebody can just take your voice and
- 20:59just
- 20:59>> they can but
- 21:00>> regardless like if we talking about bro
- 21:03with the lace front you know and salute
- 21:04to whatever he doing hope it go
- 21:06everywhere
- 21:07>> fact
- 21:08>> it's also perception is reality
- 21:11>> you feel me so if you are perceived to
- 21:14be something
- 21:16you know you might be looked at that way
- 21:18you got to have a real strong spirit and
- 21:19you got to have the god in your life for
- 21:21real to stand through all that
- 21:22>> cuz if everybody going nah nah n n n n n
- 21:24n n n n n n n n n n n n n n nah n n n n
- 21:24n n n n n n n n n n n n n n n nah Ah,
- 21:25and you like the only one standing there
- 21:26for a while, you going to look like
- 21:27you're wrong.
- 21:29>> You feel me?
- 21:30>> What about the kids that can't make
- 21:31their mind up yet, but they make their
- 21:33mind up off just seeing people pushing
- 21:35boundary. They try to push a different
- 21:36boundary and be more different and then
- 21:39that ain't what they really wanted, but
- 21:40they they going with this rockstar [ __ ]
- 21:43and it don't farewell for them and then
- 21:45they, you know what I'm saying, go
- 21:46through depression and all that. Like,
- 21:48how do we
- 21:49>> cuz we got a responsibility as adults,
- 21:52you know what I'm saying? we will put
- 21:53out to these people what they see. So,
- 21:56we have to explain, too. We can't just
- 21:57do this [ __ ] and let it be art and not
- 21:59explain what we're doing. You get what
- 22:01I'm saying?
- 22:01>> Yeah.
- 22:02>> So, the there's two parts of it. Part of
- 22:06we going to have to share this answer
- 22:07together. That's the whole idea of like
- 22:09why we made the album. What's the dress
- 22:11code? Like I was doing all the stuff for
- 22:12sexy whoever, all these people, right?
- 22:15Working behind the scenes, working with
- 22:16bro behind the scenes, helping people,
- 22:17helping people. He's an amazing
- 22:18producer. This [ __ ] did T pays album.
- 22:20Carter Ford. He was a legendary producer
- 22:23before we even met 11 years ago.
- 22:26>> And so he's already used to servitude
- 22:28and being in servitude. I start off as
- 22:30Trinidad James. What that mean?
- 22:31>> Servitude means where you're in service
- 22:32to people like Yeah. That type of Right.
- 22:35And so the for me I start off as
- 22:38Trinidad James. I don't know what
- 22:38servitude is. My servitude is to the
- 22:40consumer.
- 22:41>> It's not I don't I don't know about
- 22:43producing for nobody, writing for
- 22:44nobody. Like I'm only thinking about me.
- 22:46It ain't until probably like five or six
- 22:48years later in till I go to LA and they
- 22:50introduce me like yo you want to write
- 22:51music for the soundtrack or for however
- 22:54I get a chance to write for Rihanna and
- 22:55something like that and it's like okay I
- 22:57try it out it's interesting the name
- 22:59Rihanna sound crazy how obviously it
- 23:01doesn't work out but it shows me that oh
- 23:03this is another part of the business
- 23:05however I say that to say that
- 23:08>> everything that I went through he went
- 23:09through then we went through together to
- 23:11get to the a point right now of our
- 23:13album called what's the dress code That
- 23:15is our responsibility. We are the new
- 23:18OG's. Everybody sitting here, you are
- 23:20the new OG's. OG's. The internet is who
- 23:23you go up against when you a real [ __ ]
- 23:25>> Yeah.
- 23:25>> Because the internet is not real.
- 23:27>> It's not a real place at all.
- 23:28>> It's not real. Real things are happening
- 23:30on the internet, but the internet does
- 23:32not have a soul. The soul of the
- 23:34internet is like AI. Like it's
- 23:36>> But perception is a new reality.
- 23:38>> Well, but that's it. still matters for
- 23:40what you say to that same young [ __ ]
- 23:42that's going between my parents or
- 23:44Instagram and my big homie bank. For the
- 23:47person that falls into that if it the
- 23:49goal is for there to be more gentlemen
- 23:52like the one sitting in front of us that
- 23:55give a damn about actual reality, not
- 23:58perceptionbased reality. And that's what
- 24:01that's why I don't waste conversation
- 24:03with people.
- 24:03>> People respect what they see anyway.
- 24:05Like I try you try to chop it up with
- 24:07them. So like like we just did a film
- 24:09American Clay, right? Short film. It's
- 24:10on a cool F festival run, official
- 24:13selection that can all that stuff. And
- 24:15people looking at me like, damn, oh you
- 24:16you a writer of movies. I'm like I'm a
- 24:18rapper singer. I just know how to write
- 24:20and create things. I came up as a
- 24:22writer.
- 24:22>> So when I'm talking to people about what
- 24:25we doing, like shorties doing what's
- 24:26going on, they hear me, but then when
- 24:28they see then it was like the
- 24:31conversation changed. You know, you
- 24:32could talk all day long, but it's like I
- 24:33could tell you, "Yeah, man. Get your
- 24:35bread up or get your bag up or do this
- 24:36wool or be righteous or be on this. But
- 24:38if I'm not moving and walking that same
- 24:39way, you not listening to nothing. I'm
- 24:40talking about
- 24:40>> fact,
- 24:41>> you feel me? So it's about what they
- 24:43see. Big facts, right?
- 24:45>> Y'all did a big fact button. [laughter]
- 24:48>> Say that for a while.
- 24:50>> We got to get one.
- 24:51>> We got to get one.
- 24:51>> Big staple. We going to have them. That
- 24:54[ __ ]
- 24:56[laughter]
- 24:57That's crazy.
- 24:58>> Well, that's the truth though. Like I I
- 25:00really align with what bro is saying,
- 25:02man. Yeah.
- 25:03>> Um, man, you know how much proving I had
- 25:05to do, man. And it's like, what the
- 25:07hell? Like, I feel like I know who I am.
- 25:10The worst thing that you could ever have
- 25:11to do is prove [ __ ] that you already
- 25:12know that you are.
- 25:13>> That's the worst thing when you when
- 25:14you're a creative. Let me say that much.
- 25:16>> Yeah.
- 25:16>> You know what I'm saying? In the street,
- 25:18I understand. It's like a real thing.
- 25:20It's like, okay, this equals that equals
- 25:22that equals that equals that. It's mess
- 25:23ups. It's still the numbers don't
- 25:25change. For the most part, in
- 25:27entertainment,
- 25:29>> people say the numbers don't lie.
- 25:30Everything lies. Everything lies now.
- 25:33The numbers lie. Now the numbers
- 25:35actually lie. So hey, what are we doing
- 25:38now, man? What we doing? What we doing?
- 25:40The numbers lie now.
- 25:41>> But they've been lying. They've been
- 25:42lying. It's just now we got so much
- 25:44information we can see it. We looking
- 25:45behind the curtain now,
- 25:46>> right? [clears throat]
- 25:48Yeah. We look behind the curtain. I
- 25:49remember when I was like really just
- 25:50trying to come up and I'm taking myself
- 25:51to radio and they like, "Oh, it ain't
- 25:53this ain't it. This ain't it. It ain't
- 25:54wool. I'm trying to get it popping on
- 25:55this and this ain't it." And then I get
- 25:57in it and I realize, oh, all I needed
- 25:59was $200,000 and this would have been
- 26:01it. Damn. You ain't telling me it took,
- 26:04you feel me? You making me think I ain't
- 26:06my [ __ ] ain't special,
- 26:07>> right?
- 26:07>> When in reality, I just ain't have no
- 26:10behind.
- 26:11>> I ain't have a budget. I ain't had a
- 26:12key.
- 26:13>> You could have just told me I need to
- 26:14get the key.
- 26:15>> So when I got the key and I'm like, "Oh,
- 26:17okay." Then cuz I was one of the first
- 26:19to stay independent. I got to deal with
- 26:21Universal as a writer. I got dropped
- 26:23from Mottown. And everybody was like,
- 26:24"Oh, oh, now people like, damn, how you
- 26:26doing independent, nigga?" Cuz when I
- 26:28told you, if I find the key, it's going
- 26:29to be rap. You can stay there. So, it's
- 26:31about having the key. All the numbers
- 26:32been lying. We just seeing behind the
- 26:33curtain now.
- 26:34>> That's real.
- 26:35>> You know, ain't nobody keeping, you know
- 26:36what? They fire half of black music and
- 26:38all the music [sighs]
- 26:39>> and not everybody on telling the truth.
- 26:42>> Now, they whistle.
- 26:43>> No, you you if I had a million dollars,
- 26:45I could have worked a record, but you
- 26:46ain't telling me that when you was
- 26:47behind the seat telling me it wasn't
- 26:48special. You could have told me I needed
- 26:49a a ticket. We could have we could have
- 26:51got busy,
- 26:52>> but nah. So numbers been high.
- 26:55>> No. But and and we're doing now. Yeah.
- 26:58>> That's unfort It's it's unfortunate.
- 27:00It's unfortunate, but it's powerful.
- 27:01>> Yeah.
- 27:02>> Because our arrows are the arrows that
- 27:04the young ones shouldn't have to take in
- 27:06their back.
- 27:07>> Yeah.
- 27:07>> Because that's real.
- 27:09>> No, I saw the arrow. The arrow our
- 27:11arrows have labels on it. Our OG's
- 27:13arrows that have no labels on it. Them
- 27:14[ __ ] just had arrows and they made it
- 27:16look cool. Like you're supposed to be
- 27:17buff and have arrows in your back or
- 27:19whatever. our arrows cuz we talk about
- 27:21our [ __ ] now. Our arrows have labels on
- 27:23them like this was depression, this was
- 27:26hatred, this was jealousy, this was a
- 27:28[ __ ] this was me. You know what I'm
- 27:30saying? And the young and the young
- 27:32people are now paying attention to all
- 27:34of our flaws
- 27:36>> that they see so much on the internet
- 27:37now because of all the whistleblowing
- 27:41>> however. And so like they don't trust
- 27:43us.
- 27:44>> That's what I realized. Young people
- 27:45don't trust us.
- 27:46>> Young people don't trust us.
- 27:48>> They don't trust us. Ah, cuz things
- 27:50ain't
- 27:50>> how why should they though? Cuz they
- 27:52confused.
- 27:53>> Yeah,
- 27:53>> they confused. Why should they trust us?
- 27:55When they confused, they don't know
- 27:56which way to go. They They see, okay,
- 27:58you got one person saying do this. You
- 28:00got one person saying do this. You got
- 28:02one person saying dress like this, one
- 28:03person saying dress like this.
- 28:04>> You don't know what to do because you
- 28:06don't know. I'm just speaking like if I
- 28:08was a kid, I wouldn't know what to do
- 28:10because say for instance, Bank saying he
- 28:12not going to put on nail polish. He not
- 28:14going to do this rockstar [ __ ]
- 28:15>> right? But he I feel like that but he
- 28:19ain't going to get to this status if he
- 28:21don't. You get what I'm saying? Like
- 28:22certain [ __ ] like this [ __ ] got the
- 28:24lace front. This [ __ ] taking off.
- 28:26>> Yeah.
- 28:27>> But a [ __ ] with a low fade. That [ __ ]
- 28:28going to take him a minute. So it's
- 28:30confusing. But that's when you got
- 28:31>> How does that Go ahead. Go ahead. Go
- 28:33ahead. I'm saying that's when you got to
- 28:34like it's a old you know saying like
- 28:36what [ __ ] Shakespeare said to thine own
- 28:37self be true. You got to stay true to
- 28:39you and that's when you got to be
- 28:40confident in like you know saying like
- 28:43yeah I bro I'm going tell you me coming
- 28:45up coming up you know coming up how I
- 28:47came up I ain't going to get too deep
- 28:48into it but like you know moving around
- 28:50you know we you get it I had to do a
- 28:52couple things to get some things going
- 28:55and it's like
- 28:57everybody like that's that's that's not
- 28:59going to pull it. Meanwhile I got cast
- 29:00that's coming out and they making
- 29:02extreme creative stuff and they popping.
- 29:06And I'm like, "Fuck, man. I ain't going
- 29:09to go put no dress on. That ain't my
- 29:10thing.
- 29:11>> I'm not about to, you know, wear no
- 29:12dread. I'm not going to be less than
- 29:13myself." And it take longer.
- 29:15>> But boy, when that [ __ ] cook, when that
- 29:17foundation is right, it when it come, it
- 29:19come. So, you just got to be patient and
- 29:21you got to be true to who you are and
- 29:22stop trying to,
- 29:23>> you know, that's easy to say than do.
- 29:26You know what I'm saying? Like,
- 29:28>> Trin, you've been doing pushing the
- 29:30pushing the limits. You know what I'm
- 29:31saying? And whatever you do, it fits
- 29:33you. You know what I'm saying? I'm a
- 29:34100% you're an artist. You've been that
- 29:36way. I don't see you being nobody. It's
- 29:38my first time meeting you today. But I
- 29:40feel like you comfortable with yourself
- 29:42and whoever you you ain't give a [ __ ]
- 29:43how nobody looked at you from the
- 29:45beginning of the time.
- 29:46>> I respect that. But you got some [ __ ]
- 29:48that'll come in and try to emulate what
- 29:50you do and then once they get there,
- 29:53it'll run them crazy cuz that's never
- 29:54was them. So we have to speak to those
- 29:56people.
- 29:57>> Yes, sir.
- 29:58>> So to now go ahead jumping into it to go
- 30:01back to the question that you asked all
- 30:02of us. Um
- 30:05because I came in like this, however, it
- 30:08allowed me to slow down and like pay
- 30:11attention to like everything, all the
- 30:13angles of the game and realize like
- 30:15damn, okay, this is how it's changing.
- 30:17or whatever when I didn't make another
- 30:19all go everything right away or
- 30:21whatever. That gave me time to like okay
- 30:24not have to focus on being famous
- 30:26because this song because of where they
- 30:28took it.
- 30:29>> Mhm.
- 30:29>> They are making my name go up and up and
- 30:33up and up and me based on how I grew up
- 30:36here in this city of Atlanta is like bro
- 30:38you got to have some structure. You got
- 30:39to have a team. You got to have like a
- 30:41trap. Like you got to have like a
- 30:42community like Four Seasons like a a
- 30:44Thomasville or something. like you got
- 30:46to have a thing like you can't just
- 30:48>> you can't have all this motion in the
- 30:50city and you don't have no community.
- 30:52That's how I came up.
- 30:54>> And so in my mind I'm like
- 30:57I need to figure out how to goddamn move
- 31:00how I've been moving my whole life in
- 31:02this city.
- 31:04>> Um and that didn't make sense honestly.
- 31:08Chill it took me like
- 31:12>> five something years bro.
- 31:13>> Yeah. this young almost year 15 for me.
- 31:16>> Um, and I and I say that to say where
- 31:18you ask like how is the young man going
- 31:20to know the difference between whether
- 31:22to listen to Bank or listen to Playboy
- 31:24Max or whatever or listen to Trinidad
- 31:27because we having this conversation
- 31:29right now and this a young man going to
- 31:30look at this and be like, "Bank don't
- 31:31got no nail polish on. I know what I
- 31:33think about Bank. He duct tape boom. I
- 31:35know what I think about Trinidad. He got
- 31:37nail polish on. Both of these [ __ ]
- 31:39talking big facts. I don't know how to
- 31:41listen to now.
- 31:44How my daddy raised me was
- 31:48throwing that [ __ ] in the water figure
- 31:51out how to swim. That's how my daddy
- 31:53raised me. I'm not even proud of that
- 31:55[ __ ] but that's how my daddy raised me.
- 31:57>> Throw him in there. He'll figure it out.
- 31:59Throw him in there. He'll figure it out.
- 32:00So that's all I've been doing my whole
- 32:02life from my origin country of Trinidad
- 32:05to every place in America that I've had
- 32:08to come up.
- 32:10The Atlanta has taught me that. Hey bro,
- 32:14at first they didn't use this word, but
- 32:16now I'm an adult and I go through things
- 32:17and I know stuff. What it was,
- 32:19>> it's like, bro, you got to you got to
- 32:21know what the [ __ ] going on. You got to
- 32:22have discernment.
- 32:22>> Discernment.
- 32:23>> Discernment. Discernment.
- 32:25>> Everybody ain't got it though.
- 32:27>> You got to find it because that's
- 32:28adulting. That's being an adult. That's
- 32:30what growing up is, Bang.
- 32:31>> Right. But we're speaking about the kids
- 32:32that make them cho before they become
- 32:34adults.
- 32:35>> I got it. I got
- 32:35>> Yeah. Jump in. Please. Please jump in,
- 32:37bro. Please. There's the flip of that
- 32:39too, right? So, it's also the weird
- 32:41[ __ ] that's trying to conform and be a
- 32:44>> a regular [ __ ] or facts.
- 32:47>> We just got they go through it, too. You
- 32:49know what I'm saying? For me,
- 32:50>> Trinidad allowed a lot of [ __ ] that
- 32:52was in the hood that didn't that didn't
- 32:54relate to the hood [ __ ] to be able to be
- 32:56themselves too.
- 32:58>> You know what I'm saying? So, that's
- 32:59another perspective of it is
- 33:01>> I think we looking at it from our own
- 33:02perspective. Are we going to obviously
- 33:03judge from our perspective outwardly?
- 33:05But there's the same kid that's looking
- 33:07and it's like, "Bro, I'm not really no
- 33:08gangster, but I don't want to wear this
- 33:10every day."
- 33:10>> Yeah. N real [ __ ] I don't want to fit
- 33:12in with that. I really want to be I want
- 33:13to wear,
- 33:13>> but I'm afraid to be like this.
- 33:15>> I couldn't wait for a [ __ ] to come out
- 33:16with a lace front. Thank God.
- 33:18>> I [ __ ] with that. I [ __ ] with that right
- 33:19now.
- 33:20>> I love that perspective.
- 33:20>> I'm going say that's because that's a
- 33:21life I live. I'm from Iowa. I'm a small
- 33:23town dude where everybody's regular. So
- 33:26for me to wear anything crazy, I'm
- 33:27talking about even just
- 33:28>> anything,
- 33:29>> anything, bro. Like if it's not a
- 33:31flannel or something super regular, you
- 33:33look crazy out there. So for me, I
- 33:35always was looking for [ __ ] that was
- 33:37doing some crazy outcast was the best
- 33:39thing that ever happened to my life.
- 33:40>> You know what I'm saying? Probably grown
- 33:42men that's cool as hell was doing some
- 33:44cool [ __ ] and they wasn't lame cuz it
- 33:46was lame where I'm from if you did
- 33:47anything that was weird. You know what
- 33:49I'm saying? You got to do regular [ __ ]
- 33:50[ __ ] you lame.
- 33:51>> That's their mentality, too.
- 33:52>> I can't even lie, bro. You just you just
- 33:54you just struck something for me right
- 33:56there. You just struck something because
- 33:57you're right.
- 33:58>> It's just me thinking from my
- 33:59perspective. It's different people
- 34:02>> that's struggling
- 34:04>> to fit in with with me
- 34:08>> and it's different people that's
- 34:10>> you know what I'm saying there's [ __ ]
- 34:12in the gang right now bank that's like I
- 34:14don't want to be in the gang I want to
- 34:15just I want to be I want to put the wig
- 34:18on I don't want to be in this gang bank
- 34:20I don't want to be duct tape I JUST WANT
- 34:22TO WEAR THIS I WANT TO WEAR WIG I WANT
- 34:25TO WEAR wig big bro but I can't wear it
- 34:27around you because I'll disappoint you
- 34:29and I don't want to disappoint
- 34:31It's gone. Exactly. [laughter]
- 34:35But that's how the young I'm just
- 34:36talking for the young [ __ ] That's how
- 34:37in their mind going off what he's
- 34:39saying. That's the reverse of it. Like
- 34:41in the gang,
- 34:42>> they everybody hard.
- 34:44>> And God forbid, man. School, man. I
- 34:47probably shouldn't bring this up, but he
- 34:48dyed his hair one time and I gave him
- 34:50all the criticism in the world for that.
- 34:53But I just didn't I just I didn't
- 34:55understand it.
- 34:56>> How did he react to it?
- 34:57>> Huh?
- 34:57>> How do they respond to the criticism?
- 34:59[ __ ] I don't know. You know what I'm
- 35:01saying? He, you know, he took it in, but
- 35:03>> he probably was upset. Now, me thinking
- 35:05about it, I wouldn't allow him to be
- 35:07whatever it is that he wanted to be.
- 35:09>> Why did he do it? You know what I'm
- 35:10saying?
- 35:10>> Exactly. Cuz [laughter] why did you do
- 35:11it?
- 35:11>> Why did he do that? Like, we know who he
- 35:13is.
- 35:13>> You tripping. You know what I'm saying?
- 35:15But he wasn't tripping. He was being
- 35:16>> himself. He not lame. He not gay. He not
- 35:19he just creative expressive. I I didn't
- 35:22look at it like I think the best thing
- 35:24you that's a blessing bro because that's
- 35:25truly one of the things I think we cyp
- 35:27we we all of us black men huff we suffer
- 35:30from hyper masculinity bro like anything
- 35:33that's even edging on femininity is is
- 35:36trauma for [ __ ] bro like you can't do
- 35:38nothing and so you know when you see
- 35:41outcast I mean you literally got Andre
- 35:42with a skirt on bro like he got skirts
- 35:44on bro he's doing anything you could
- 35:47ever think about ever thinking of doing
- 35:49it just is super empowering I think for
- 35:51the longest this time we got even on the
- 35:52white side you got rockstar boys it's
- 35:54just super manly this is man chest out
- 35:56[ __ ] a white boy you know that
- 35:58was the whole thing and and anybody that
- 36:00didn't represent didn't feel like that
- 36:02inside they were outcast that even goes
- 36:04for nerd [ __ ] like [ __ ] that was
- 36:05just nerdy you know what I'm saying
- 36:07nerds is cool though I loved I think
- 36:09nerd is cool everybody got to be
- 36:10authentel I I honestly whenever I do any
- 36:12work with anybody especially with
- 36:13engineers anything creative
- 36:15>> I want to work with a nerd bro I ain't
- 36:16gonna hold you because they g cuz I I'm
- 36:18a nerd about what I'm a nerd about you
- 36:20feel And when you really locked in,
- 36:22nerds is the coolest mother in the
- 36:24world. Know what the Amen. I love me a
- 36:26fashion engineer who don't rap.
- 36:29>> Please don't engineer and rap. Please
- 36:31just engineer. You went to school for
- 36:33it. Please. You do not rap. [laughter]
- 36:35You don't get ANR. You don't manage
- 36:38three girls from the west side. No. All
- 36:41you do is engineer. I love that person
- 36:44on there for [ __ ]
- 36:46>> I got a uh editor for the film we did.
- 36:48She her name Rose. Bro, let me tell you
- 36:50something. All she do is edit, cut,
- 36:52edit, cut, edit. And she's hyper about
- 36:54that [ __ ] I send her something. I say,
- 36:56"Rose, do whatever you do. Make that
- 36:57[ __ ] dope." And she I was like, "Damn, I
- 36:59would have never thought to do that."
- 37:00>> She locked in now. You ain't going to go
- 37:02hang out with her. She not going to go
- 37:03to the club with you. She got her own
- 37:04little thing. But boy, when she come to
- 37:06doing that, Asian girl, she doing that
- 37:09out of here.
- 37:09>> How hard is it? How hard is it now? I
- 37:11was speaking Atlanta and even outside of
- 37:13that to get somebody that's so great at
- 37:16this thing because [ __ ] everybody rap
- 37:19>> but it ain't hard because it it it all
- 37:20boils down to authenticity at the end of
- 37:22the day cuz no matter how much bread you
- 37:24throw at something if that [ __ ] ain't it
- 37:25it ain't it and people will feel it. You
- 37:27know what true is if it's real you could
- 37:29that's the one thing you can't fake
- 37:31>> is authenticity. You could pretend but
- 37:34you can't fake authenticity. If you
- 37:36authentically that way it's not I can't
- 37:38pretend to be nobody. I can't. I gotta
- 37:40be me. And if I'm not me, you gonna feel
- 37:42it. Even if you don't [ __ ] been good
- 37:44lately, but
- 37:45>> [ __ ]
- 37:47the good to a degree. I live in LA,
- 37:51[ __ ] Them [ __ ] is professional.
- 37:53[laughter]
- 37:54>> But they good. I get what you say. Good
- 37:55to a degree. They good. That's when your
- 37:57discernment come in. They good to a
- 37:58degree. You know, the proof is when you
- 38:00do it. If I tell you I can do something,
- 38:03>> I could talk all day long. But until I
- 38:05do it,
- 38:06>> I'm just talking.
- 38:07>> You feel me? And to piggy back off what
- 38:09y'all saying too is two things I want to
- 38:10go to what you said and what you just
- 38:12said. It's like bad people still get
- 38:13wins.
- 38:14>> And so you can't like because we look at
- 38:16money as such the reward of everything
- 38:18when a bad person a person with bad
- 38:20intentions win. Everybody get a chance
- 38:22to win. Everybody they're not our people
- 38:24they're God's people. So a good person
- 38:25and a bad person is the same person.
- 38:26Just the decision they made that day and
- 38:28what came with that.
- 38:29>> The rainfall and the just and unjust
- 38:31alike. So we all God's children. And
- 38:33then from what you asked him of to go
- 38:35back to like um where do you find these
- 38:39professional people that
- 38:41>> engineer the editor
- 38:44>> that's when we had dinner the other day.
- 38:45I'mma bring this part of it up. However,
- 38:48you got to get back outside and you got
- 38:50to go to the young people that's coming
- 38:52out of full sale
- 38:53>> and like hey [ __ ] don't rap.
- 38:55>> Still rap though. Let me tell you the
- 38:57first question. This is some real [ __ ]
- 38:59>> [laughter]
- 38:59>> If you want to be part of team big
- 39:00facts, we're shot shine in here.
- 39:03>> What's the first Well, you're an
- 39:04exception cuz you tease a goat. But the
- 39:08first question we going to ask is he's
- 39:10probably rapping. The first thing we
- 39:12going to [laughter] ask is,
- 39:14>> do you rap?
- 39:16>> And in our chat, if you rap, we just
- 39:17going to look at it a little different
- 39:19because it's like, man, we want James
- 39:20and Sha and T. We We want people who do
- 39:23that [ __ ] We do this. You know what I'm
- 39:25saying? Like, we don't we need people
- 39:27who do that. That's how you create
- 39:28[clears throat] That's how you create
- 39:29great teams.
- 39:31>> And but you also to play a little bit of
- 39:33devil's advocate, you have to understand
- 39:34like now the artist and the rappers now
- 39:37coming into this space and taking it
- 39:38over. Correct. So you we in there
- 39:40goddamn foot up on the table on the
- 39:42[ __ ] Joe B 200 million up
- 39:45>> just came and took 200 million up of all
- 39:47the [ __ ] that been talking while we
- 39:49was rapping.
- 39:50>> Yeah.
- 39:51>> You know what I'm saying? We came and
- 39:52bullied that.
- 39:53>> We in that ain't nothing you could do
- 39:54about that.
- 39:54>> Saying everything is hybrid. got to.
- 39:56>> Y'all are pretty much saying in this
- 39:58[ __ ] and in fashion, y'all just saying
- 39:59everything, the weed, everything is just
- 40:01hybrid.
- 40:02>> Everything.
- 40:02>> I go for that.
- 40:04You got to do everything to get it done.
- 40:06>> Yeah, but it's back it's back to what it
- 40:07was when what back in the days when
- 40:09Sammy Davis and all them cats was doing
- 40:10everything, dancing, acting, singing,
- 40:12writing, they you got to be multifaceted
- 40:15and then it started to be going
- 40:16separate. But now, yeah, everything a
- 40:17hybrid.
- 40:17>> Think about how many think about how
- 40:19many things that y'all had to do
- 40:21separately to get to each other
- 40:22>> to do this. And then this kind of like
- 40:24just cruise control for you.
- 40:26>> You know how many things y'all had to do
- 40:28separately had nothing to do with each
- 40:29other
- 40:30>> to get here.
- 40:32>> I ain't gonna lie, bro. I ain't gonna
- 40:33lie, bro.
- 40:36>> And back to what he said. Just cuz some
- 40:38ain't for me don't mean it ain't for
- 40:40him,
- 40:40>> right?
- 40:41>> You know what I'm saying? And and just
- 40:42being just one track minded by [ __ ] that
- 40:46really is a hater.
- 40:48>> Or I really is a hater. [laughter] I
- 40:50want
- 40:52you see you from Chicago based off from
- 40:54Atlanta, Georgia. A person from Atlanta
- 40:57because I'm an immigrant. I tell you, I
- 40:58came up here. They taught these
- 40:59religions of like, bro, I've been doing
- 41:02podcasts. I've been telling you like,
- 41:03bro, the one thing you cannot be in this
- 41:05city, the one thing I always keep in my
- 41:06mind seared in it. Don't be lame, [ __ ]
- 41:09I'll be broke. Don't be lame.
- 41:12>> Oh, yeah.
- 41:13>> Don't be lame. This city is You can't be
- 41:14lame here, bro. It's very hyper. Don't
- 41:18be lame. But real talk, bro. This city
- 41:20don't play that. Chicago don't play it
- 41:21either though.
- 41:22>> But I don't know the details in Chicago.
- 41:24>> I know the details.
- 41:25>> Like if you a goofy that's said you
- 41:26can't you can't get if you get labeled a
- 41:28goofy. You can't unlabel that.
- 41:30>> Yeah.
- 41:30>> Like they can get you shot. You call
- 41:31somebody that goofy in Chicago probably
- 41:33like a [ __ ] that like whoa. Hell no.
- 41:35You spazz out.
- 41:38That's how lame is. That's how in my
- 41:40mind how lame was trained to me. [ __ ]
- 41:42if you end up lame, that's a a pool and
- 41:45you never get out of that pool, [ __ ]
- 41:47You lame for life. You're dripping in
- 41:49it. [ __ ] not going to ever touch you
- 41:51the same. You can come around. I see
- 41:53lame [ __ ] at parties all the time. I'm
- 41:54like, damn. All right, bet. But they
- 41:57never You never get respected the same,
- 41:58bro. You never This city will shun you,
- 42:01[ __ ] Like a Jehovah Witness getting
- 42:02dysfellowship. I'm telling you, you
- 42:04can't be lame in Atlanta, Georgia.
- 42:06>> Well, my question is this then. Go
- 42:07ahead, brother.
- 42:07>> Who determines what's a lame?
- 42:09>> What's a lame?
- 42:10>> Cuz if if if you say
- 42:12>> that ain't for me
- 42:14>> and you can say, "Oh, that's lame."
- 42:15>> Yes, sir.
- 42:16>> Right. But then dude being him or he or
- 42:19she whomever being they self and they
- 42:21take that emotion they move with it who
- 42:23was really the lame
- 42:25>> that ties back to what he said. That's
- 42:27what he t said. It's like now when you
- 42:28understand the mindset that we were
- 42:30taught and we are relearning and
- 42:31reprogramming things like damn we were
- 42:33the haters.
- 42:34He was hating
- 42:35>> real [ __ ] [ __ ] that I looked at and
- 42:37didn't understand just for me. I was
- 42:39hating. I wouldn't say a [ __ ] was a
- 42:41lame. Like it's a different like like he
- 42:44always Trinidad always been different
- 42:45but he never been a lame.
- 42:47>> You see Trinidad? What's up bro? It was
- 42:48love. Like [ __ ] we couldn't wait to do
- 42:50music with you. Whatever this
- 42:51[clears throat] family
- 42:52>> what I'm saying but you different but he
- 42:54never was a lame
- 42:55>> cuz you was being true to yourself. They
- 42:57could tell that.
- 42:59They can tell that like [ __ ] ain't too
- 43:00hood to not discern where it's like oh
- 43:02no don't. It's just like it's like when
- 43:04you come up in the hood they be like
- 43:05don't mess with the basketball player
- 43:06and the basketball [ __ ] the high school
- 43:08good [ __ ] like hey don't come over here
- 43:09bro go home. Yeah.
- 43:10>> However, we always have the same. We
- 43:12always care about each other. It's
- 43:13levels of it. In the hood, like, "No,
- 43:14[ __ ] you play basketball. Go home." I
- 43:16went to South Atlanta, [ __ ] It was a
- 43:17[ __ ] named Vincent Banks.
- 43:18>> Yeah.
- 43:19>> They played at South Atlanta High
- 43:20School. This [ __ ] was God in Atlanta,
- 43:23Georgia. God with tennis shoes on.
- 43:25Whatever. And they protected this man.
- 43:28Everybody, he was Obama of that hood and
- 43:31everything around this. This is Pool
- 43:32Creek. This is zone three. This is
- 43:34everything around it. They protected
- 43:36this man. However, wouldn't let him get
- 43:37get in trouble. And for me being an
- 43:39immigrant, seeing that, that's what made
- 43:41me even start basketball first. I'm
- 43:43going to go be an athlete cuz these
- 43:44[ __ ] protect you if you any kind of
- 43:46good type of [ __ ] You know what I'm
- 43:48saying? So, but just the I now as an
- 43:50adult, the idea of there is versions of
- 43:53protection. There is versions of trauma.
- 43:55There is versions of hating that we
- 43:57didn't know the whole time that we was
- 43:59training each other.
- 44:00>> But the one thing that you said that we
- 44:02all said and the point of it is that
- 44:04man, we were taught these things.
- 44:06>> Yeah.
- 44:06>> We didn't make this up. Mhm.
- 44:08>> We were taught these things. So
- 44:09everything that's happened, that's why
- 44:10we have to unlearn things to relearn it
- 44:12>> and be okay with that. Yeah.
- 44:14>> What you don't know.
- 44:16>> See, I just don't understand this kind
- 44:17of [ __ ]
- 44:18>> That one That one I just saw that one.
- 44:20That one That one is tough.
- 44:23>> That one is tough. So that is
- 44:25>> That one's tough.
- 44:27>> That one is tough though, bro. You know,
- 44:28>> I just saw that one today.
- 44:29>> I ain't going to hate on the little boy,
- 44:31but I don't understand it.
- 44:32>> And but you should be able Go ahead,
- 44:34bro. I'm sorry. Go ahead.
- 44:35who understand that man
- 44:37>> know this is a baby how he know
- 44:39>> I mean right right I think but that's
- 44:40when it come to parenting and who around
- 44:42you and if they ain't got parent that's
- 44:44when it come to guidance around you cuz
- 44:45we got to still take responsibility like
- 44:46if if any shorties I don't got no kids
- 44:48but if I have some shorties and they out
- 44:50there moving in a way that that they
- 44:52can't understand based on me that's on
- 44:54me
- 44:54>> but who are you to who are you to stop
- 44:56that growth
- 44:57>> as a kid I'm a dad
- 44:59>> he got I about say you talk you got kids
- 45:01one of those things I got a young son
- 45:03right
- 45:03>> my dad is very militant He wasn't really
- 45:05rocking with none of that [ __ ] He ain't
- 45:07[ __ ] with none of that. So,
- 45:08>> you know, I think and I got a son now
- 45:10and you know, one thing I try not to do
- 45:13is get in the way of his expression in
- 45:15any way. Yeah.
- 45:15>> You know what I'm saying? I'm not trying
- 45:17to guide coach or nothing. I'm not You
- 45:19do exactly what you want to do. One of
- 45:21the things I feel like as a kid that
- 45:23always hindered me was people trying to
- 45:25tell me what the hell to do. But like
- 45:27I'mma do what I want to do anyway. Like
- 45:28that's what make you rebellious is when
- 45:30you just doing what you want to do
- 45:31>> is me me not following your rules makes
- 45:33me rebellious. You made them shits up
- 45:35and now I'm rebellious but I just am
- 45:37doing what I actually want to do. So as
- 45:39a parent bro I never want my son to feel
- 45:42like he can't do whatever. Bro, even
- 45:44down to like
- 45:45>> it's a silly [ __ ] like my son might make
- 45:46a lot of noise when he taking a little
- 45:48[ __ ] and your your dad sense might be
- 45:50like hey man shut up bro cuz people
- 45:51gonna make fun of you when they hear you
- 45:52making noise on [laughter] your [ __ ]
- 45:54But then in my mind, it's just like,
- 45:56bro, like that's his natural [ __ ]
- 45:58noise. When he decides to stop making
- 46:00that noise,
- 46:01>> he'll stop making that [ __ ] noise
- 46:03because he wants to make
- 46:04>> you you don't think so. But
- 46:05>> can there's there's I think there's
- 46:08limits in
- 46:08>> Okay. I was about to say your son can do
- 46:10something wrong that you feel is wrong.
- 46:12>> Absolutely. Absolutely. There's
- 46:14definitely limits,
- 46:14>> but it boils down to guidance. Like you
- 46:16got to you can you can encourage his
- 46:17expression, but but kind of guide like
- 46:19on some X [ __ ] You got to just guide
- 46:21his superpower in the way that's going
- 46:23to be the most beneficial to him and
- 46:25what he doing.
- 46:26>> Yeah. Because again, all we doing is
- 46:27unlearning trauma, bro. Like it's it's
- 46:29it's things that I'm trying not to put
- 46:30trauma on him to unlearn. You know what
- 46:32I'm saying? So he can feel free this
- 46:34whole time. Imagine
- 46:36>> whatever first thoughts you thought
- 46:37nobody didn't come down and tell you you
- 46:38was crazy for it and you just got to
- 46:40excel and be. You know what I'm saying?
- 46:42That's kind of life I'm trying to
- 46:44provide for my son. I feel like just be.
- 46:46>> Who put the pitch out though? I'm
- 46:48wondering who put the pitch out. Like
- 46:49why did what that was on a site
- 46:50somewhere, right?
- 46:51>> Yeah.
- 46:52>> That could be AI. It could be AI. That a
- 46:55people be sacrificing their kids like
- 46:57for attention that I'm saying like like
- 47:00the person that had the baby singing the
- 47:02Young Miami song. That wasn't AI.
- 47:04>> Oh yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
- 47:05>> That one AI kid was all
- 47:07>> What's the word you said? Intention.
- 47:08Like your intention is bad. It's like,
- 47:10bro, you're a bad person.
- 47:12>> I hate you.
- 47:13>> That's exploitation
- 47:15>> because you thought about this.
- 47:18>> Yeah. You knew what would happen.
- 47:20>> Yeah.
- 47:22>> Like I could respect a drug dealer. He
- 47:25know what's going to happen from these
- 47:26drugs. But I can't respect a drug lady.
- 47:27Don't tell me there's fentanyl in my
- 47:29[ __ ]
- 47:30>> I can't respect you.
- 47:31>> Yeah.
- 47:32>> I can't respect you.
- 47:34>> No, bro. No, bro. I've been buying drugs
- 47:37from you, bro.
- 47:38>> Yeah.
- 47:38>> Tell me, bro.
- 47:39>> Don't send a [ __ ]
- 47:41>> What is that?
- 47:42>> Yeah. Give me a choice.
- 47:43>> Give me a choice, bro.
- 47:44>> Intention.
- 47:44>> The intent. Like, what is your like Why
- 47:46would you do that? Why would you do
- 47:48that? Like why would why would you do
- 47:49that? Like how does that make sense for
- 47:51you when you do that to your child? Like
- 47:53why why like what's that about? You know
- 47:55what I'm saying? Like but now the the
- 47:58not even devil's advocate is like at the
- 48:00end of the day y'all doing what y'all
- 48:01want to do when to go back to what you
- 48:03said way earlier. You are allowed the
- 48:07the thing that it feels like you're not
- 48:09allowed to have an opinion that's
- 48:10against the masses. You are allowed to
- 48:12have it. The only thing that matters is
- 48:16how you say it.
- 48:17>> Yeah.
- 48:18>> Because if you are too passionate or
- 48:21overzealous about your truth, now it
- 48:23come across like you hate him.
- 48:24>> And that's the issue.
- 48:25>> Yeah.
- 48:26>> It's like if you know it's the truth,
- 48:28>> just like the guy you are, you ain't
- 48:29going to lose your cool about it's like
- 48:30y'all tripping. All right. I'm not with
- 48:32that. However, I'm walking away. I ain't
- 48:34doing no extra talking with you. We
- 48:36ain't going I ain't not doing a [ __ ]
- 48:37thesis, [ __ ] No, [ __ ] I'm cool, bro.
- 48:40>> Yeah, because it don't affect my life.
- 48:42>> Go ahead, bro. Go ahead, big dog. [ __ ]
- 48:44I see I never met the [ __ ] I keep
- 48:45talking about the lace front. I never
- 48:47met him. I see him if I see him
- 48:48somewhere. But
- 48:49>> yeah,
- 48:50>> that [ __ ] cute. And I get rock. I'm get
- 48:52the [ __ ] away from him cuz I I can't It
- 48:54don't make sense. It don't make sense
- 48:55for me to go. I don't care.
- 48:57>> Yeah.
- 48:58>> I hope you know why you doing it because
- 49:00I know what that comes like. And you are
- 49:03Are you trying to be an artist? You have
- 49:05consumers to look after. There are new
- 49:07consumers now. There are people that
- 49:09identify with that. whatever. From what
- 49:11he presents to us, you're not a gay man.
- 49:15So, you're doing this because you feel
- 49:17like a diva. He has diva tatted on him.
- 49:19You feel like a diva.
- 49:20>> So, do you think do you think these days
- 49:22that's the new new [ __ ] is like
- 49:26act gay beyond? I
- 49:29>> I think it's like if you think of the
- 49:3090s um it was an era where it felt like
- 49:33damn were they acting gay beyond? I
- 49:35[clears throat] think that it was like
- 49:36um fashion. So fashion does this thing
- 49:38where when uh high fashion start mixing
- 49:41in with street wear, you start seeing
- 49:43different body types wearing [ __ ] they
- 49:45not usually wearing. And so the
- 49:47perception of it is like you don't know
- 49:50at one point in time you used to call it
- 49:51in the closet. You don't know who is
- 49:53feminine, who is not. So we just all
- 49:55existing. So when you seeing everybody
- 49:57in the club looking a certain type of
- 49:59way, however, the masses influence the
- 50:01masses. Yeah. The people who choose to
- 50:03stand on who they choose to stand on
- 50:04what they choose to stand on, that's
- 50:06that person. You your own man or woman.
- 50:08However, the masses always controlled
- 50:10the masses. That's how this sheep follow
- 50:13sheep. And so when these type of to me
- 50:16when these type of things happen it's
- 50:18was like
- 50:21[ __ ] they to answer your question yes
- 50:23part of it is true cuz two things can be
- 50:25true at once whereas like yes [ __ ] are
- 50:27seeking attention
- 50:28>> they do.
- 50:28>> So did that start with Prince?
- 50:30>> No it's before Prince.
- 50:32>> You got Escarita. I'm just asking. No no
- 50:34no. I'm I'm It's a guy named Escarita.
- 50:36This says who lives Esclarita. Escarita.
- 50:38Something like that.
- 50:39>> What year was that?
- 50:39>> This is 1970 1964. Yeah,
- 50:42>> like if you look at Lil Richard.
- 50:46>> So you had Lil Richard, right? Lil
- 50:47Richard got his swag from Esclarita.
- 50:50Esclarita had the crazy shades on. You
- 50:52can go look up a picture. Escarita got
- 50:54shades on just like bro. The same exact
- 50:55shades as bro 1963.
- 50:58>> However, [ __ ] was fly as [ __ ]
- 51:00>> He was he was you know
- 51:01>> how you spell
- 51:02>> like I'm had to look at my phone. E S C
- 51:05L some [ __ ] like that. Hold on. I ain't
- 51:07that good at spelling. I'm a math guy.
- 51:10I think they be doing that extra
- 51:13over-the-top fashion and be questionable
- 51:15[ __ ]
- 51:15>> Yeah. [laughter]
- 51:16>> For like black men though, too. I think
- 51:17they push it to us heavy.
- 51:19>> I do. That's just my my thought process.
- 51:21I think they really be trying to mask
- 51:23black.
- 51:24>> Yeah. E S K E R I T A.
- 51:27>> Look at that. That's Look at that.
- 51:29That's 196. Look how fly he is.
- 51:32>> Look at them glasses. Look at the
- 51:33glasses he got on. Look at this [ __ ]
- 51:35Look at this. It's 1963.
- 51:39Go ahead.
- 51:40>> U E R I T A. So it's like s
- 51:44>> It's like a Spanish word. Escarita.
- 51:46>> E S Q U E R got no [laughter]
- 51:50I don't lie. I don't lie. This big
- 51:52facts. I'm not lying. Like I'm not going
- 51:54to lie. Like that's the purpose of Big
- 51:56Facts cuz like we literally was a little
- 51:58bit confused with that conversation.
- 52:00Like I said, I don't trip on fashion.
- 52:01You do what you do. But it's like bank
- 52:03even broke it down to like damn man. Not
- 52:05only they getting the purses, they kind
- 52:07of like trying to hold the purses in a
- 52:09feminine way and walk in a particular
- 52:10way though. Like the dude with the lace
- 52:12I bro might probably ain't got no hair
- 52:14right there. I don't know. I mean no.
- 52:17>> I mean it could be like he probably I'm
- 52:18just saying like who he might really
- 52:20just be like him got. [laughter]
- 52:23I'm telling you he just don't want to do
- 52:25spray stuff. You feel? So he probably
- 52:26just
- 52:26>> Man got
- 52:28young man. He said he got diva t I'm
- 52:31trying to get [laughter]
- 52:33you something. you say it's like where
- 52:35does that come from? Right. It's like
- 52:36his expression.
- 52:37>> It's like why is Prince
- 52:39>> Prince like why what made this [ __ ]
- 52:42>> Prince
- 52:43animal something all right? You know
- 52:45y'all dress what however y'all dress
- 52:47whatever nails and all that [ __ ]
- 52:49>> So how do you take it as a straight man
- 52:50when a man approach you on some
- 52:52homosexual [ __ ]
- 52:54>> I think that gay men have better
- 52:55discernment than straight men.
- 52:57>> For sure. Cuz I don't be I
- 52:58>> because gay men know a straight man a
- 53:01gay man know a gay man only act gay
- 53:03around gay men. For sure.
- 53:04>> I don't know.
- 53:06>> Eight out of 10 times a gay man is
- 53:08>> acting gay because he think that you
- 53:10gay.
- 53:11>> And concern.
- 53:12>> Yeah. Yeah. I get what you're saying.
- 53:13>> Yeah. [laughter] Because he think that
- 53:15you gay. Like he only going for what he
- 53:17going for. Gay men don't be really going
- 53:20for straight men unless it's a bunch of
- 53:21gay men and then you in their world.
- 53:24It's like, [ __ ] why are you here?
- 53:25>> That's what dude said. Who's on our
- 53:26podcast?
- 53:27>> What his name?
- 53:28>> Oh. Um, Saucy. No. No. Like
- 53:31>> we know our kind.
- 53:33>> Yeah. I work with Saucy. I I'm not I go
- 53:36and do the [ __ ] I go to all type of
- 53:38[ __ ] cuz I don't care. I want to see the
- 53:41fashion. I want to learn the music. I
- 53:43want to learn the culture. Black people
- 53:44are everywhere.
- 53:46>> They gay, they not gay, they this, they
- 53:47all type of things. You a director, you
- 53:49know that.
- 53:49>> Yeah. Writer, producer, you know what
- 53:51I'm saying? But I I think I think I
- 53:53mean, if that's the case, cool. But
- 53:55>> honestly, I was on a plane coming just
- 53:56came back from Paris. dude, the the
- 53:59flight attendant
- 54:00was a a dude, but he was a a girl. He
- 54:04had a whole dress, the hair, everything.
- 54:06>> And I'm like, and as I'm leaving the
- 54:09plane, like I didn't know the voice was
- 54:11at the man. I hate I ain't going to come
- 54:13have a conversation. I was like, it
- 54:15wouldn't have been no conversation to be
- 54:16had.
- 54:17>> But why though?
- 54:18>> Just ask.
- 54:19>> Because you wasn't in my I was in a
- 54:21different cabin, so it wouldn't have
- 54:23been us to really talk about. I was in
- 54:24the first class cabin. You was in the in
- 54:25the coach cabin. So you would have been
- 54:27coming up there specifically and that's
- 54:29not my vibration. So it's I'm not
- 54:30communicating.
- 54:30>> Oh, he felt like he was trying to holl
- 54:31at you.
- 54:32>> He felt he thought Oh, he thought he was
- 54:33going to have a and I was like,
- 54:34>> did he know you as an artist though?
- 54:36>> He didn't know me at all.
- 54:37>> Oh, okay. Okay.
- 54:37>> And it was like he had spent so it was
- 54:39like so when you I can't say because I
- 54:40think people be just trying what they be
- 54:42trying and seeing if they they push
- 54:43boundaries see if they can pull it.
- 54:45>> And I think you see [clears throat] you
- 54:46feel me? I think people
- 54:47>> I definitely hear what you're saying.
- 54:48But it go both ways. I think that what
- 54:50you said is that
- 54:52>> unless he really threw something and
- 54:54advanced at you. No, it went it went
- 54:56like it was just kind of like he saying
- 54:59he did.
- 54:59>> It was just kind of like I wish we could
- 55:01have talked and I was like about
- 55:02>> if you approached me and say you
- 55:03>> Oh, did you ask him about what?
- 55:04>> No, I just looked at him like, "Hey,
- 55:05have a good one, broki."
- 55:06>> Oh, cuz he was getting off. Right.
- 55:07Right.
- 55:08>> Yeah. I'm like, "Have a good one." Like
- 55:09it wasn't nothing to me. I'm not going
- 55:10to like disrespect, bro, if that's his
- 55:11choice. But I'm looking at him like in
- 55:12my mind. I'm like,
- 55:13>> "What you going to talk to me about?"
- 55:14Like,
- 55:15>> you feel me? So, it's like I don't think
- 55:17they people I get it when people say
- 55:18they know they can't, but I think people
- 55:19going to pull it on how they try to pull
- 55:20it. And if you allow them to, then they
- 55:24going to keep pushing cuz it's chicks
- 55:25out there. I'll be like, I'mma get at
- 55:28her. And I'mma try it. Try to holl at
- 55:31her. And if she going, she going. If she
- 55:33not, cool. You know.
- 55:34>> Mhm. It ain't that I knew she was going
- 55:36to pull it or she was going to go. It
- 55:37was just like, let me see what she own.
- 55:39And if she on it, she on it. And if she
- 55:41ain't, she I respect.
- 55:42>> And so it felt like Sh was doing that to
- 55:43you.
- 55:43>> I I don't know if that's what he was
- 55:44doing, but I know when he said I get a
- 55:47chance to talk to me, I'm looking at him
- 55:48like
- 55:49>> it didn't feel right. You [ __ ] you
- 55:51single me out of all these people. All
- 55:53the people you gonna say to me because
- 55:54you got star energy, bro.
- 55:55>> So I was gonna say I don't
- 55:56>> You're in first class. You a [ __ ] in
- 55:58first class.
- 55:59>> I mean I appreciate you a [ __ ] in first
- 56:00class. [laughter] I think so.
- 56:01>> You a [ __ ] in first class. You got
- 56:03shades on. [ __ ] that wear shades make
- 56:05people
- 56:05>> but you got a whole you got a whole
- 56:07dress up on. Bro, you
- 56:08>> got a dress on with working. I mean it's
- 56:10still [laughter] a flight attendant.
- 56:12>> My thing is we putting a lot of
- 56:13attention to his appearance and not the
- 56:15actual individual. Maybe he just
- 56:17actually on was curious. That that's
- 56:19what I'm saying. I'm only saying
- 56:21[laughter]
- 56:22like, "Oh, bro, he could be an actor.
- 56:24Actors acts a lot." I'm sorry. Go ahead.
- 56:27>> Look at Bro, it was everybody walking
- 56:30off and he looked at me and was like, "I
- 56:31hate I didn't get a chance to talk to
- 56:32you." And I was like, "Oh, okay, man.
- 56:34Have a good one." I have a good one,
- 56:36bro. Ski and I was I kept it moving and
- 56:37it was I was like,
- 56:38>> "Oh, look."
- 56:39>> Did he say it in that voice like that?
- 56:41>> It was deep like that,
- 56:42>> right?
- 56:43>> He's like, "Hey, uh, [laughter]
- 56:46he's like, "Man,
- 56:46>> you got to get all the details." No, it
- 56:48was just like that. He was like, "Oh,
- 56:49man."
- 56:49>> He said it was like he just said,
- 56:50"What's up?" NAH, [laughter] BRO.
- 56:52>> I DID WHAT GAVE PEOPLE
- 56:56trying to help me about YOU IN THE CRIB,
- 56:58TOO. YOU SERIOUS? I'M NOT THAT [ __ ]
- 57:02SAID.
- 57:02>> The [ __ ] [laughter] said, "Oh man, I
- 57:03hate I didn't get a chance to come talk
- 57:04to you." And
- 57:05>> you know what that means?
- 57:05>> That means I'm like, "Talk to me." I was
- 57:07like, "All right, bro. Okay, let's let's
- 57:08let's break it all the way down.
- 57:10>> What if what if a man said that to a
- 57:12woman? How we how would we take it?"
- 57:15>> Damn, baby. I hate I missed the goddamn
- 57:17Yeah, I'll let you.
- 57:18>> So, it ain't like [laughter]
- 57:19>> [ __ ] know they try.
- 57:22>> There's no gray area there.
- 57:24>> No, that was what he said. I I hadn't
- 57:25had no conversation with him.
- 57:27>> Uh we we deboarding the plane.
- 57:29>> I'm coming from the first class cabin.
- 57:31>> I'm I'm walking off and
- 57:33>> that [ __ ] belineed and it zeroed in on
- 57:34me. I was like,
- 57:35>> "Hey, I didn't get a chance to talk to
- 57:36you." I was like, "Huge. Okay." I was
- 57:39like, "All right, man. Be cool, bro." I
- 57:40kept
- 57:41>> the only thing The only thing I'm saying
- 57:42to you, bro, is first of all, stand on
- 57:44your 10.
- 57:44>> Yeah. 100%. what you going to do
- 57:46regardless or whatever the the I love
- 57:48this type of conversation with grown men
- 57:50because we're at that place where we can
- 57:51have these type of conversations
- 57:52[clears throat] because I just want to
- 57:54put it out there. It's like bro give a
- 57:55gay person a chance not to holler at
- 57:57you.
- 57:58>> Yeah. But to see what he is on or she is
- 58:00on
- 58:03I'm not saying I'm not saying that I'm
- 58:05not saying that you anti environment
- 58:08though it depends on
- 58:09>> he on a plane like he he know the plane
- 58:12all I'm saying is this man is that like
- 58:14that person could have been a actor
- 58:18>> that person don't know
- 58:19>> this [ __ ] look like an actor this [ __ ]
- 58:22look like a director he's sitting in
- 58:23first class [laughter] YOU BRO I DO THIS
- 58:25[ __ ] BRO THIS [ __ ] LOOK I BE IN
- 58:28[ __ ] LIKE THEN THEY LOOK THE HAIRCUT
- 58:30THE GLASSES LIKE
- 58:31>> NOBODY SAYING YOU LOOK like somebody
- 58:32that
- 58:33>> hey YOU COULD PUT ME ON BRO LA IS
- 58:35OPPORTUNIST PLACE [ __ ] YOU COULD PUT ME
- 58:36ON [ __ ] I'MMA SAY SOMETHING TO YOU I'M
- 58:38GAY [ __ ] SO WHAT I'm say about that
- 58:41part of it what I'm trying to tell you
- 58:42is the way he said it was like that's
- 58:44all I'm saying
- 58:44>> no I mean if he like CHOOSING NO [ __ ]
- 58:47DON'T GET CHOSEN ON be saying yo I got a
- 58:48script or I got something I got some
- 58:50mute whatever I'm I'm whatever but you
- 58:52know
- 58:52>> just to add to his point I think that's
- 58:54a detriment to our community that's the
- 58:56reason why I think he's standing on
- 58:57Because a lot of opportunity hide behind
- 58:59that stuff too. Just get like if you not
- 59:00gay, you're not gay, bro.
- 59:02>> Nah, but that was me speaking on when
- 59:03you said people be choosing their time.
- 59:04It's like that's not always the case.
- 59:06Some people just going to pull it and
- 59:07how they pull it and it's like
- 59:07>> for sure. For sure. Yeah. Yeah. You know
- 59:11what I'm saying?
- 59:12>> But like generally like there's a lot of
- 59:14men that think about that about
- 59:15everything. Like you have discernment,
- 59:17but it's a lot of men that don't have
- 59:19that discernment and that is their whole
- 59:21identity. Like hey [ __ ] get the [ __ ]
- 59:22off my mother. I ain't
- 59:23>> But you whole wig gonna dress man.
- 59:26Depot, hey man. Hey, I'm such and such,
- 59:28bro. I feel like you blood up a
- 59:30different type of etiquette, right?
- 59:31>> You got to off the rip tell me what you
- 59:32talking about, bro.
- 59:33>> Yeah. Right.
- 59:34>> How the hell you just walk on telling
- 59:35you you didn't get a chance to talk to
- 59:36me about what
- 59:38I don't know. I don't know what type of
- 59:40man you are. And the the like I said, I
- 59:42don't know. Like when you're on the
- 59:44plane, like the energy and how you are
- 59:46portraying yourself right now. When you
- 59:48just chilling on the plane and you've
- 59:49been sitting there for 4 hours, I've
- 59:51been serving you drinks. I've been
- 59:53walking past you. Even if I'm not
- 59:54dealing with you in first class, I got
- 59:55to go to the front sometimes to talk to
- 59:56my people. If I work there, I'm I'm
- 59:58seeing like, damn man, I think this
- 1:00:00person is somebody or whatever type
- 1:00:01[ __ ]
- 1:00:03>> If I'm a gay person, I can't stop being
- 1:00:05gay. I don't know how to ungay myself
- 1:00:07when I'm talking to you and nobody I'm
- 1:00:09just presenting myself to you.
- 1:00:11Hopefully, sir, that you won't think
- 1:00:13that I'm trying to hollic. I'm not
- 1:00:14trying to holler. I just want to break
- 1:00:15the ice. I might not be good at it. I
- 1:00:17I'm agreeing with you back from the
- 1:00:18standpoint of etiquette needs to be
- 1:00:20better from a game to straight man the
- 1:00:21conversation.
- 1:00:22>> That's all I'm saying. Like when you
- 1:00:23when you when you when you when you when
- 1:00:25you approach me, don't say something
- 1:00:27that make it seem as that's a advance.
- 1:00:30Like I hate I didn't get a chance to
- 1:00:32talk to you. Hey, well take my number
- 1:00:33then. We could talk. That's what that
- 1:00:34sound like. He wanted him to say instead
- 1:00:36of just hey man, you look like someone
- 1:00:38that's in the music industry. I do this.
- 1:00:40>> Yes, sir.
- 1:00:41>> Because you should be aware that what
- 1:00:43kind of like respect my masculinity you
- 1:00:46say or whatever it is.
- 1:00:47>> Well, like as as a straight man, it's
- 1:00:49discernment. It's how you hear that. You
- 1:00:52feel me? If I'm having a conversation
- 1:00:54with you and I'm if I look like I'm a
- 1:00:56you know that I'm coming any kind of way
- 1:00:58that's not against that's not what you
- 1:00:59own. I got to be careful with how how I
- 1:01:01do things. I'm trying to say this. Um
- 1:01:03>> bro, when you walked in you look
- 1:01:04standoffish until you came and dapp me
- 1:01:06up.
- 1:01:07>> That's just I ain't gay at all.
- 1:01:09>> I ain't scared of you. Ain't nothing but
- 1:01:11you standing there like oh this [ __ ]
- 1:01:12cool as [ __ ] Like damn. Like then you
- 1:01:14reminded when I heard your voice I was
- 1:01:15like oh this is about the [ __ ] You see
- 1:01:16what I'm saying? But if I if if somebody
- 1:01:19come to you and they like basically what
- 1:01:21I'm saying is when basically pick up
- 1:01:22what you was talking about is because I
- 1:01:23ain't gonna get to they it ain't I don't
- 1:01:25think it's people know they own. I think
- 1:01:27some people in that some cases that's
- 1:01:29true but I think some people just pull
- 1:01:31it bro. I don't think it's more of a you
- 1:01:33know and it's not don't be rude to
- 1:01:34people if they not in your vibe and they
- 1:01:36not you know what you own. Don't be
- 1:01:37rude. Don't don't don't [ __ ] on nobody
- 1:01:38for what they choices are what they how
- 1:01:40they born. That's to each his own. You
- 1:01:41got to respect everybody. But I don't
- 1:01:43think I don't agree with hey, you know,
- 1:01:45people go what they on because I've seen
- 1:01:47so many scenarios where people be like,
- 1:01:49"What dude on?" And it's like,
- 1:01:51especially in Hollywood.
- 1:01:53>> Yeah. Cuz [ __ ] go with they move cuz
- 1:01:54how how how do you know a down low
- 1:01:56nigga's down low?
- 1:01:58>> Can't you don't
- 1:01:58>> like how do a gay guy know that a down
- 1:02:00low nigga's down low? Like what what's
- 1:02:02the signal for them?
- 1:02:04>> I think it's like it's like a dog
- 1:02:05whistle.
- 1:02:06You
- 1:02:07>> said a dog [laughter] whistle, bro.
- 1:02:09>> Yeah, bro.
- 1:02:10>> It's a dog whistle. I don't know. But
- 1:02:12you get what I'm saying?
- 1:02:13>> NO, NO, NO. I KNOW. BUT THAT BUT but
- 1:02:15that's what it, bro. I've dealt with so
- 1:02:16many gay people because of the music
- 1:02:18industry, because of hanging out in New
- 1:02:19York City, how whatever. It's like, "Oh,
- 1:02:21okay." Like, "That's how you operate
- 1:02:22with each other." I was like, "Okay,
- 1:02:23this is your straight friends. These
- 1:02:24your gay friends, y'all intertwine." So,
- 1:02:26it's so gender fluid in New York City.
- 1:02:29>> However, like if I didn't ever get out
- 1:02:30of Atlanta, I wouldn't even know that
- 1:02:31[ __ ] I'm not saying that nobody don't
- 1:02:33get out of Atlanta. just saying when I
- 1:02:34got out at the time and like started
- 1:02:36traveling and touring and we took me on
- 1:02:38tour overseas and Germany and boom and
- 1:02:40like you go party party in the places
- 1:02:42where they not playing rap or whatever.
- 1:02:44It's like damn conversation though.
- 1:02:46That's you fluidly moving through
- 1:02:47creativity and dealing with people in in
- 1:02:49the the business and the vibe. But
- 1:02:50that's different. I'm talking about when
- 1:02:52the statement was like, "Oh, people know
- 1:02:53their own." It's like that's not always
- 1:02:54Now if I'mma work with somebody, I don't
- 1:02:56care what you got going on. Long as you
- 1:02:57dope at what your work is, we can
- 1:02:59connect, bro. As long as you're a cool
- 1:03:00person, it's all good with me. Well,
- 1:03:01like if you trying to zero in on
- 1:03:04somebody and ain't on that type of time
- 1:03:05and you keep or you push that energy and
- 1:03:07all that stuff, then that's not always
- 1:03:09the case. C, you can't do that to
- 1:03:10people. You know what I'm saying? So,
- 1:03:11like
- 1:03:11>> one of the realest things that y'all
- 1:03:12said and it takes back when I met bro 11
- 1:03:15years ago, some of the one of the things
- 1:03:16that made us like lock in when it came
- 1:03:18to like creativity was we cared about
- 1:03:20the etiquette of music. I realized there
- 1:03:22was no etiquette in music period or
- 1:03:24whatever. Like I know we started talking
- 1:03:25what we talking about, but like let's
- 1:03:26take it back to music, right? There was
- 1:03:27no etiquette and there's like no
- 1:03:28etiquette in the studio. It ain't like
- 1:03:30no. Like, damn, bro. Like, in the street
- 1:03:32is etiquette.
- 1:03:33>> And I'm like, how is no etiquette in
- 1:03:35this multi-billion dollar business?
- 1:03:36>> Now, what you saying?
- 1:03:37>> So, in the street is etiquette. It's
- 1:03:39like, hey, bro, you lost this bag. You
- 1:03:41owe me some money. Handle that. And you
- 1:03:43got a certain amount of time. You know,
- 1:03:44I don't got to say this to you.
- 1:03:46>> And if you don't, I'mma touch you.
- 1:03:49You know this. This is the etiquette of
- 1:03:51the streets. You like, "Hey, bro, you
- 1:03:52lost this. You owe me this or whatever."
- 1:03:55in the music business.
- 1:03:57Uh you could say ask somebody, "Hey bro,
- 1:04:01let's do a song." [ __ ] I'll do a song.
- 1:04:03What you bet? And then do the song.
- 1:04:04They'll do the feature. Boom, boom,
- 1:04:06boom. And then when it's time to put it
- 1:04:08out, they charge you $45,000.
- 1:04:11>> And then now it become like their song.
- 1:04:14However, they get a more percentage of
- 1:04:16your song than you. And ain't nothing
- 1:04:18you can do about it.
- 1:04:19>> However, like that ain't that that it's
- 1:04:21no etiquette. And that's unfair [ __ ]
- 1:04:23But it's like it's no etiquette in like
- 1:04:24in the studio when an artist is focused
- 1:04:27or whatever. Like you got all these
- 1:04:28[ __ ] in here like, "Bro, shut the [ __ ]
- 1:04:30up. Why are all y'all [ __ ] in here?
- 1:04:32You don't do nothing. [clears throat]
- 1:04:33>> Why all y'all [ __ ] in here? You don't
- 1:04:35do nothing.
- 1:04:36>> I hate when it's more than three [ __ ]
- 1:04:38in the Why you don't do nothing? I don't
- 1:04:41need you."
- 1:04:42>> Yeah.
- 1:04:42>> This artist don't need you, [ __ ] If If
- 1:04:45you was tight, I wouldn't be here. I
- 1:04:48only get called to help people when they
- 1:04:50need help. That's why I call
- 1:04:52>> why you [ __ ] wasting each other's time
- 1:04:54and it's because there's no etiquette in
- 1:04:56this [ __ ] There's never been no
- 1:04:57etiquette. Like [ __ ] just don't have
- 1:04:58no respect in this [ __ ] And I came from
- 1:05:01Atlanta where [ __ ] you got to have
- 1:05:02respect. You get hit in your mouth.
- 1:05:04>> Yeah.
- 1:05:04>> And you know that was just something I
- 1:05:06had to like continuously like learn and
- 1:05:08kind of almost like
- 1:05:11deal like deal with it, get through it
- 1:05:14>> or whatever. It's it's it's tough
- 1:05:16because I I even though I present myself
- 1:05:18the way that I do, my inner core was
- 1:05:21molded from things I learned here in
- 1:05:23this city. And we not going for that. It
- 1:05:26don't matter what [ __ ] think about
- 1:05:27this city.
- 1:05:28>> [ __ ] who come to this city, you know
- 1:05:30that.
- 1:05:30>> You know what's up, bro. Like, no.
- 1:05:33>> I think you said something key, too,
- 1:05:34though.
- 1:05:35>> [ __ ]
- 1:05:36>> [ __ ] ain't getting hit in the mouth no
- 1:05:37more. You can't really do that. I think
- 1:05:38if there were consequences to a lot of
- 1:05:40these actions that people do these whole
- 1:05:42activities, these [ __ ] ass actions. If
- 1:05:44there were consequences to you not
- 1:05:46standing on principle,
- 1:05:47>> it would be more people standing on
- 1:05:49principle. And you can't really do that
- 1:05:51nowadays.
- 1:05:52>> I wish we communicated better. You see
- 1:05:53how you know how to communicate through
- 1:05:55everything? I wish that us as
- 1:05:57>> as people
- 1:06:00communicated better. I wish that
- 1:06:01everybody knew how to communicate.
- 1:06:03>> I don't wish that everybody was rich. I
- 1:06:04don't wish everybody was poor. I don't
- 1:06:05wish I wish that everybody knew how to
- 1:06:07communicate.
- 1:06:08>> Allow not allow things to go over their
- 1:06:10head.
- 1:06:10>> Yeah. It's like you understand
- 1:06:12>> what I'm saying. Not listening to talk
- 1:06:14back. Listening to hear me.
- 1:06:17>> Yeah.
- 1:06:17>> So you can feel what I'm saying.
- 1:06:20>> That's why I keep coming back to what he
- 1:06:21said. You know what I'm saying? Cuz it's
- 1:06:23like actually heard him.
- 1:06:24>> You heard that?
- 1:06:25>> Cuz you know what I'm saying? That could
- 1:06:26be a miserable place too for a [ __ ]
- 1:06:28that's trying to
- 1:06:30>> like I'm saying like a thinking from a
- 1:06:32[ __ ] that forcing himself to fit in
- 1:06:34with what y'all doing. But what about
- 1:06:35the [ __ ] that's forcing to fit in to
- 1:06:37what we doing?
- 1:06:38>> Yeah, that's real.
- 1:06:39>> That's it's misery on both sides. That's
- 1:06:40real [ __ ] right there.
- 1:06:41>> So dangerous.
- 1:06:45>> You better fit in, boys.
- 1:06:46>> I'mma leave my safe house and
- 1:06:48neighborhood to I I want to hang with
- 1:06:51duct tape. I got to be duct tape.
- 1:06:53>> That's some real [ __ ] I'm taking that.
- 1:06:55I'm put I put that in my
- 1:06:56>> Yeah.
- 1:06:57>> in my goddamn treasure chest, man. I'm
- 1:06:59taking that cuz cuz bro, we can be so
- 1:07:02hyp so critical of other people that we
- 1:07:05bring them miseries.
- 1:07:06>> Wow. Don't be so critical that it
- 1:07:08becomes hypocritical.
- 1:07:09>> Yeah.
- 1:07:10>> That's a real That's real.
- 1:07:11>> Cuz you bring people misery too by by
- 1:07:13>> your standards of what you see for them.
- 1:07:15Yes, sir.
- 1:07:16>> And some [ __ ] inside of them that they
- 1:07:18want. I think that's where depression
- 1:07:19and all that suicidal [ __ ] come from.
- 1:07:22That type of shit%.
- 1:07:23>> And you know what's so crazy to pick off
- 1:07:24what you're saying? I actually truly
- 1:07:26agree with you because depression and
- 1:07:28that type of music and things it came
- 1:07:29around 2015 2016. Mhm.
- 1:07:31>> How come in four years before 2012
- 1:07:33before that that's busting for trouble
- 1:07:36all like that's it's all type of
- 1:07:38energies like that of course t all that
- 1:07:40you know um uh t boys turned into two
- 1:07:44chain so that's masculine music like you
- 1:07:46know he's basically a pimp whatever like
- 1:07:47you know like if you think about two
- 1:07:49chain James [laughter] like you know
- 1:07:50what I'm saying like basically whatever
- 1:07:52type [ __ ] so like everything about our
- 1:07:54city is like hyper masculine like
- 1:07:56>> [ __ ] the only thing that's gay is
- 1:07:58bulldogs that's one club in one place in
- 1:08:02one area. [ __ ] this city big as hell,
- 1:08:04huh?
- 1:08:04>> Bulldogs the club.
- 1:08:05>> Bulldogs the club. Yeah.
- 1:08:06>> That's wild.
- 1:08:07>> And um
- 1:08:08>> bunch of [ __ ] in line with their hands
- 1:08:10in their pocket looking straight.
- 1:08:11>> Yeah. Straight up. [laughter] Straight
- 1:08:13up. Straight up. Straight like that.
- 1:08:15>> [ __ ] ain't looking to the [ __ ]
- 1:08:18>> I don't think I don't think I don't
- 1:08:19think people should be ashamed of
- 1:08:20whoever. If that's what you are, that's
- 1:08:21what you are. Be authentic. But at the
- 1:08:23end of the day, just be true to who you
- 1:08:25are. And like you were saying, the eticy
- 1:08:27in the music business, that [ __ ] is
- 1:08:29non-existent, bro. People will do
- 1:08:31whatever
- 1:08:32>> [ __ ] Eticacy across the globe is every
- 1:08:35business.
- 1:08:35>> It's it's out of there now.
- 1:08:36>> But I like it in the street though. In
- 1:08:38the street there consequences still
- 1:08:40exist in the street.
- 1:08:41>> N like it used to be.
- 1:08:43>> Speaking about when you been in studio,
- 1:08:48it's not what it used to be.
- 1:08:50>> No more etiquets. No more.
- 1:08:51>> No more
- 1:08:53anarchy. Unless you demand it.
- 1:08:55>> Yeah.
- 1:08:55>> You see how which is still Yeah.
- 1:08:57>> You see how when you when you come here,
- 1:08:58you have to send the name of the guest
- 1:08:59room. We make it. We It's It's
- 1:09:02>> It's got to be demanded inside of your
- 1:09:04like say in your studio session. Yes.
- 1:09:06Hey bro, we're not having more than two,
- 1:09:08three people in the studio. You have to
- 1:09:10demand etiquette. Top two
- 1:09:12>> cuz people don't automatically have it
- 1:09:14no more.
- 1:09:14>> No. They'll try. They'll try. They'll
- 1:09:16pull they'll try it. You got to kind of
- 1:09:17like nah. And then they'll all right.
- 1:09:20All right, man. Cuz I I have closed
- 1:09:21sessions. It be me, the engineer,
- 1:09:23whoever the artist I'm working with, or
- 1:09:24me and my engineer with me and my uh
- 1:09:26production partner, Vega, and that's it.
- 1:09:28I ain't gonna have a bunch of chicks in
- 1:09:29there, a bunch of dudes in there. Nah,
- 1:09:30because I'm in there to actually feel
- 1:09:32free and create whatever I'm trying to
- 1:09:34create, and I don't need a bunch of
- 1:09:35distractions around. Some people love to
- 1:09:37do that. So, if you set that up and
- 1:09:38catch when they come in with me, say if
- 1:09:40we do something, you going to know you
- 1:09:41pull up, you pull up with your your
- 1:09:43people, I'm like, you got one or two
- 1:09:44people you can bring with you, but
- 1:09:44that's it.
- 1:09:45>> Right.
- 1:09:45>> And we ain't bringing no gang of people
- 1:09:46up in that thing cuz you want you want
- 1:09:48your space,
- 1:09:48>> right?
- 1:09:49>> That's why I love golf, especially
- 1:09:50playing in country club. Oh yeah.
- 1:09:52>> You got to have your shirt tucked in.
- 1:09:53You got to have your hat to the front.
- 1:09:54You can't talk while people on the tea
- 1:09:56box. You can't talk while somebody put
- 1:09:57can't walk across somebody line. Like
- 1:09:59they got the real etiquets of life on
- 1:10:02the golf course, bro.
- 1:10:03>> It's like you have to really move like a
- 1:10:05gentleman.
- 1:10:06>> Yeah.
- 1:10:06>> On my life. I ain't think you was going
- 1:10:07to say golf. I [ __ ] with that.
- 1:10:08>> No, that's the truth. That's why I golf.
- 1:10:11Look, I saw Schoolboard Q.
- 1:10:13>> He schoolboard Q was on a double XXL. He
- 1:10:15cover with me. Yeah, he's on a He was I
- 1:10:18know the man that was on in the double
- 1:10:19XXL freshman room with me when we did
- 1:10:21the cover for it in 2013. The man now,
- 1:10:25bro, that is growth. That is like you
- 1:10:27got to you got to earn being a
- 1:10:29gentleman.
- 1:10:29>> It teaches respect.
- 1:10:31>> We weren't like born in like, you know,
- 1:10:33these nice houses and went to West Point
- 1:10:36and we wasn't born into gentlemanship.
- 1:10:38Yeah,
- 1:10:39>> that's not even a word. We wasn't born
- 1:10:40into that.
- 1:10:40>> You know what I've been getting into a
- 1:10:42lot lately?
- 1:10:42>> Tell me.
- 1:10:42>> Ski shooting. Oh, that [ __ ] ski when you
- 1:10:46shoot the target clear and you shoot it
- 1:10:48>> clear. That [ __ ] is beyond relaxing,
- 1:10:51bro.
- 1:10:52>> Cuz you got to pop a target moving at so
- 1:10:54far away and you can't make noise with
- 1:10:55people around you and it's not like out
- 1:10:57there.
- 1:10:57>> But it's really easy cuz you using buck
- 1:10:59shots, right?
- 1:10:59>> Yeah, buck shots. But you But if you put
- 1:11:01it on the advance, they shooting that
- 1:11:02[ __ ] at a certain speed. You got to
- 1:11:03follow it. This [ __ ] is It keeps you
- 1:11:05hand eye coordination. It mellows you
- 1:11:06out. It's a relaxing thing, bro. It's
- 1:11:08>> better than Top Golf.
- 1:11:09>> Oh yeah. No, that [ __ ] that's that's the
- 1:11:11one that I can see that damn stress
- 1:11:12reliever. It's a stress reliever cuz you
- 1:11:15getting whatever frustration you might
- 1:11:16have, you you letting it off on
- 1:11:17something that's that's controlled. It's
- 1:11:19safe.
- 1:11:20>> It's healthy.
- 1:11:21>> And it's teach you hand acquination. And
- 1:11:23you got to relax. You got to breathe.
- 1:11:24The breathing got to be right. Cuz if
- 1:11:26you off your breathing, you'll miss it.
- 1:11:27It's it's a beautiful thing.
- 1:11:29>> Yeah, bro. Check it. I say we should get
- 1:11:30into that.
- 1:11:31>> Try it out.
- 1:11:32>> Yeah. Know for sure.
- 1:11:34>> Um, best dress album.
- 1:11:37>> What's the dress code?
- 1:11:38>> What's the dress code?
- 1:11:39>> I took a walk with it. He sent it to me.
- 1:11:42I looked at the cover. I was like, "All
- 1:11:43right,
- 1:11:44>> yeah." Okay.
- 1:11:45>> I want you to check it out. When you're
- 1:11:46on the golf course, it's when you go
- 1:11:47into the When you going to the golf
- 1:11:49course, that drive,
- 1:11:49>> I'm on the trail. I'll be hiking every
- 1:11:51day. So,
- 1:11:51>> Oh. Oh, please. It's
- 1:11:52>> good for nature.
- 1:11:53>> Oh, yeah. It's
- 1:11:54>> good for nature. I ain't going
- 1:11:55>> lie. It's It's a self-awareness album.
- 1:11:57It starts off with best self as the
- 1:11:59first song and ends on higher. The goal
- 1:12:01is for if you're already your best self,
- 1:12:03it's for you to get to a higher place.
- 1:12:05If you're not at your best self is to
- 1:12:07get there and then go to a higher place.
- 1:12:08>> She ain't going to make me be no
- 1:12:09fingernails.
- 1:12:10>> No sir. [laughter]
- 1:12:12Well, I'm I'm calling you. I'm like,
- 1:12:17[laughter]
- 1:12:18>> I might get them glasses.
- 1:12:21>> Hey, you know, you know, it's so
- 1:12:23amazing. [laughter] You got to
- 1:12:24understand it. You guys understand the
- 1:12:26bank, you've been you've been doing this
- 1:12:28a long time. You know what I'm saying?
- 1:12:30Like for me, it's like I'm going on, you
- 1:12:31know, 15 years. And so, but I've been
- 1:12:33this for 15 years. And I've
- 1:12:36>> I'm so blessed to be respected by a
- 1:12:39gentleman like yourself. Man, I was
- 1:12:40excited, [ __ ] He said, "Trinette, hell
- 1:12:42yeah. That's my nigga." Like, this [ __ ]
- 1:12:44always been the cool dude, bro. For
- 1:12:47>> sure.
- 1:12:47>> Like, regardless of what, I'm going tell
- 1:12:49you what makes you cool, bro. Cuz you
- 1:12:50don't give a [ __ ] what a [ __ ] think
- 1:12:52about.
- 1:12:52>> I don't give a [ __ ]
- 1:12:54>> That's what make you the coolest to me,
- 1:12:55bro. You always been like that. Even as
- 1:12:57a Cuz you was to me was a kid when I
- 1:12:59first met.
- 1:12:59>> Yeah. Yes.
- 1:13:00>> It's like
- 1:13:01>> Trinidad pull straight up on the
- 1:13:02gangsters,
- 1:13:04[laughter]
- 1:13:06>> regular Trinidad James. So, I [ __ ] with
- 1:13:08that, bro. real [ __ ] I [ __ ] with that.
- 1:13:10>> I'm playing basketball rest with young
- 1:13:12Scooter. I'm playing basketball in the
- 1:13:13hood with and Scooter like, "Come to the
- 1:13:16studio."
- 1:13:17>> I'm like, "Yeah, let go. I'm there by
- 1:13:19myself. I got one partner with me." But
- 1:13:21and and it's it's been a blessing from
- 1:13:24it started here in Atlanta with self,
- 1:13:27Ally, Trouble Scooter. I just named
- 1:13:28three people that we don't have no more.
- 1:13:30How I'm like, damn, bro. Like I all the
- 1:13:34people who are like were the realest
- 1:13:36with me, I've lost. And that [ __ ] hurts
- 1:13:39me from time to time, bro. From the
- 1:13:41three people I named to Nipy to like
- 1:13:44Bankroll Fresh or whatever. Like these
- 1:13:46people like
- 1:13:48>> is whatever [ __ ] think they street.
- 1:13:50Like [ __ ] you being this person life
- 1:13:51like you like this is a real street
- 1:13:53person and you are a street writer. It's
- 1:13:56different. However, like these are the
- 1:13:58people who I got embraced by. However,
- 1:14:01accepted and loved and did songs with.
- 1:14:03Like I said, we got
- 1:14:05>> children together. How whatever. You
- 1:14:07know what I'm saying? It's it's it's
- 1:14:08really crazy of how unforgiving
- 1:14:11sometimes it feels like life is.
- 1:14:14>> But that's why it's so important and why
- 1:14:15you have it to be so precious with it
- 1:14:17>> and to and not just for self but to for
- 1:14:20others empathy. He this man has so much
- 1:14:23empathy.
- 1:14:24>> He reads so much books. I'm not big on
- 1:14:26reading or whatever because I feel like
- 1:14:28my life is the book. I hear so much
- 1:14:31happening all the time or whatever type
- 1:14:33of [ __ ] So I listen to facts, big facts
- 1:14:35from when like he reads some [ __ ] like,
- 1:14:37"Man, I just got to I just read this
- 1:14:38book." Boom boom. I'm like, "Damn." Some
- 1:14:40things he'll say to me, I'm like, "Oh
- 1:14:41shit." I have perspective on that. But
- 1:14:43then sometimes he'll say some [ __ ] I'm
- 1:14:44like, "Damn, I lived that [ __ ] four
- 1:14:46years ago. However, produced me a
- 1:14:48Southern Soul record, man."
- 1:14:50>> Oh, I got it for sure.
- 1:14:52>> What?
- 1:14:54You know how happy they made to give you
- 1:14:55a hit,
- 1:14:55>> bro? Give it to me,
- 1:14:56>> man. What? You don't understand.
- 1:14:58>> Southern Soul record.
- 1:15:00Not not not not getting crazy, but you
- 1:15:02know he going to try to style you too.
- 1:15:04You know what I mean?
- 1:15:04>> I ain't he GOT THIS BOOT THIS BOOT AND
- 1:15:08[ __ ] NO, YOU DID A NO BOOTS. I'M JUST
- 1:15:10FINGERNAILS.
- 1:15:11>> NO. YEAH. We understand. [laughter]
- 1:15:14>> COME ON NOW.
- 1:15:15>> FINGERNAILS ON MY BOOTS.
- 1:15:17MAN, come on now.
- 1:15:19>> No, but on some real [ __ ] I need the
- 1:15:21record,
- 1:15:21>> bro. I done, bro. I look forward. That's
- 1:15:23why I work with Sexy, bro.
- 1:15:24>> Yeah.
- 1:15:25>> Because I was like, damn, bro. When sexy
- 1:15:27pulled up, too,
- 1:15:28>> bro. sexy pulled up on me in a Maxima
- 1:15:30with black rims. Like not rims, hubcaps.
- 1:15:34She two [ __ ] driving it and her
- 1:15:38sitting in the middle like it was a
- 1:15:39[ __ ] Rolls-Royce.
- 1:15:40>> I was like, "Oh, this is this is
- 1:15:42exciting to me because I'm like, what is
- 1:15:44this or whatever." And then I was like,
- 1:15:47then I went to her hood because I was
- 1:15:48like, you know what? If I'm going to do
- 1:15:49creative direction stuff,
- 1:15:51>> I need to understand artists. A lot of
- 1:15:52times people just jump into the job
- 1:15:54because you got a check and it's clout
- 1:15:56>> or whatever. I don't do nothing for
- 1:15:57clout. I don't have from here.
- 1:15:59>> We didn't we don't even make up Chase
- 1:16:01Clout. Somebody else made that. Like if
- 1:16:02we are the clout that people chase like
- 1:16:04we don't we you know what I'm saying?
- 1:16:05Like like you understand from the crib.
- 1:16:08Like think about everything. He from the
- 1:16:09Midwest. Like Midwest [ __ ] don't
- 1:16:11really chase clout. Like southern [ __ ]
- 1:16:13don't really chase. Midwest [ __ ] and
- 1:16:14southern [ __ ] are very similar. That's
- 1:16:15why Chief Keef felt like such a native
- 1:16:17to Atlanta when he came with that whole
- 1:16:19block. Like he's like this [ __ ]
- 1:16:20gangster. Where [ __ ] from? He could
- 1:16:22have been from John Bur south. Who?
- 1:16:25Chief Keef could have been from John Bur
- 1:16:27South. Like there's a [ __ ] that look
- 1:16:29just like Chief Keef and John Bur South
- 1:16:31that's on the [ __ ] [ __ ] just like him.
- 1:16:33Hell you talking about all that.
- 1:16:36Anyhoos, I say that to say that
- 1:16:40>> I it's it's something that happens in me
- 1:16:42that get super super excited when I get
- 1:16:45to work with a real person in the
- 1:16:47street. When I went to Sex Hood, I went
- 1:16:48to St. Louis
- 1:16:49>> and went to her block. It was um it was
- 1:16:52four five day. They do like a April 5th.
- 1:16:54That's when I met her in her hood. And
- 1:16:56the reason why I remember that is
- 1:16:57because she from the 45 block and that's
- 1:16:59how they do their days. Whatever the
- 1:17:00first two numbers of your street is,
- 1:17:02that date that correlates to the year,
- 1:17:04that'll be your day.
- 1:17:05>> Yeah.
- 1:17:05>> So, boom, it's 45 block day, whatever,
- 1:17:08blah blah blah. And I'm like, "Oh shit."
- 1:17:11I had realized that he said to me
- 1:17:13earlier, "But you ain't been in the
- 1:17:14street for a while cuz these [ __ ] don't
- 1:17:15have no etiquette no more in the street
- 1:17:16either or whatever." I was like, "Oh
- 1:17:18[ __ ] I ain't been in the hood in a
- 1:17:20minute, man. This is the real gangsters
- 1:17:22and shit." I was like, "Oh shit." Even
- 1:17:24the women is gangster. Like more guns
- 1:17:26than the [ __ ] I ain't never seen
- 1:17:28women who had guns like [ __ ]
- 1:17:30>> at a [ __ ] thing.
- 1:17:32>> I was like, "Oh shit."
- 1:17:35>> Like, bro, you don't you don't want that
- 1:17:36smoke with her. And I say that to say my
- 1:17:38point of bringing that up and bringing
- 1:17:39up her greatness is the authentic and
- 1:17:42the rawness of the street is like it
- 1:17:43make because I have that power because
- 1:17:45I've met superpowers like him and
- 1:17:47together we could help people in the
- 1:17:49street go platinum. That makes me
- 1:17:51excited when a [ __ ] get out the street
- 1:17:52and go superstar to see sexy go
- 1:17:55superstar
- 1:17:56>> when I saw it when the maxima like oh if
- 1:17:59you could be this confident in the
- 1:18:00maxima [ __ ] you a show out in a
- 1:18:02Rolls-Royce
- 1:18:03>> fact [clears throat]
- 1:18:05>> if you can be like this in a maxima
- 1:18:10>> sky's is the limit for you still got to
- 1:18:11do the work
- 1:18:12>> I'm going to go get me a maximum pull up
- 1:18:14on [laughter]
- 1:18:17>> get my son
- 1:18:19[laughter] I look I promise you I am not
- 1:18:21bullshitting, bro. We'll go tonight.
- 1:18:23>> Like straight up neither.
- 1:18:25>> I promise you. Send me the studio. I'll
- 1:18:27get your number. We'll pull up. Like,
- 1:18:28bro, got one more day in town. Tonight.
- 1:18:30Today. We do it right now. We do this
- 1:18:33[ __ ] baby.
- 1:18:34>> I need you to just go make it and send
- 1:18:35it.
- 1:18:35>> Oh, perfect. Got it. Done. [laughter]
- 1:18:37Listen, I'll get your information.
- 1:18:38>> You got studio etiquette.
- 1:18:40>> I see transparency. See, communication.
- 1:18:43That's why I rather you see remember
- 1:18:44that to go back to what you were saying
- 1:18:46about like, damn, we got away from
- 1:18:47hitting [ __ ] in the mouth. Don't get
- 1:18:48mistaken. I rather we go in the boxing
- 1:18:50ring and let's box it out. Because if I
- 1:18:52hit a [ __ ] in the mouth now, he going
- 1:18:54to shoot me.
- 1:18:54>> Facts.
- 1:18:55>> Because he can't shoot the fade.
- 1:18:56>> Yeah.
- 1:18:57>> He just can't shoot the fade. So if you
- 1:18:58can't shoot the fade, you're going to
- 1:18:59shoot me. That's that process right
- 1:19:01there. It's mad rappers. Chicago for
- 1:19:03show that say [ __ ] Chicago don't even
- 1:19:05talk about fighting.
- 1:19:06>> Nah, we just
- 1:19:07>> y'all stopped. They all y'all stopped
- 1:19:08that.
- 1:19:09>> It's a better way to
- 1:19:10>> y'all said no, we going to So that's why
- 1:19:12I said communication. I wish that
- 1:19:13everybody knew how to communicate
- 1:19:15because you could communicate to me.
- 1:19:16That's the example. You could tell me,
- 1:19:18"Hey, Trina, I don't got good etiquette
- 1:19:19in the studio, but go ahead and do that
- 1:19:21thing and I'm gonna do what I need to
- 1:19:22do." And I could and I have
- 1:19:23>> once you get it to me, send it to me. I
- 1:19:25can come to you and you show me how to
- 1:19:26lay it down.
- 1:19:27>> Oh, okay. That's what I'm saying. But to
- 1:19:28go through the that
- 1:19:29>> Yeah. I just
- 1:19:31>> But you see the transparency to tell me
- 1:19:33that allows me to know like, "Oh, I
- 1:19:34don't need him in my vibe when I'm
- 1:19:35creating cuz he going to throw it off."
- 1:19:37>> Yeah. Cuz I'm going be like, "Man, come
- 1:19:38on. That's
- 1:19:39>> communication."
- 1:19:42Too too too short.
- 1:19:44>> But I'm the same way. I hate to sit
- 1:19:45there and and once somebody make beats,
- 1:19:47I lose my mind. [ __ ] are making a beat
- 1:19:49playing that same little thing. Boy, I
- 1:19:51don't make no beats. I'm f to go do
- 1:19:53anything.
- 1:19:53>> Cuz you got to be able to see past their
- 1:19:55start. And then somebody could be
- 1:19:57starting some [ __ ] You be like, man,
- 1:19:58that [ __ ] trash. And you'll throw them
- 1:20:00fo before they get to where they trying
- 1:20:02to go.
- 1:20:02>> I ain't FEELING THIS. [ __ ] YOU DON'T
- 1:20:04PRODUCE. Let me not come in here because
- 1:20:06if I'm in here, I'm a boss. I'm gonna
- 1:20:07say something.
- 1:20:08>> Yes.
- 1:20:09>> Yes.
- 1:20:09>> This [ __ ] sound.
- 1:20:10>> Hell no, bro. Hell no. But then at the
- 1:20:12end it'll be hard and I'll be looking
- 1:20:14stupid or I'll be done [ __ ] it up
- 1:20:15before I got a chance to get to the end.
- 1:20:18>> Everybody
- 1:20:18>> growth growth. If we could do this you
- 1:20:20know that screen would be
- 1:20:22>> if we could do this life over
- 1:20:24>> me man so much stuff bro I'm so
- 1:20:26grateful. Um the movie
- 1:20:27>> got the short film American Clay which
- 1:20:29is doing a festival run. Uh official
- 1:20:32selection at Cans one Shan Alise one's
- 1:20:35uh Venice shorts. Uh so we're still
- 1:20:37doing good on that. We're going to do
- 1:20:38the full feature on that. I did the
- 1:20:39music soundtrack out everywhere. I got
- 1:20:41my project. So now what? Um which I just
- 1:20:44shot a couple visuals for that in Paris.
- 1:20:45So that's killing. Got a show that I'm
- 1:20:47finishing up right now uh called City
- 1:20:49Life. It's about basically it's like
- 1:20:51loosely based scripted reality based on
- 1:20:53my life. It's like Entourage meets the
- 1:20:55Vince Staple show with a little curvy
- 1:20:57enthusiasm one day. So it's going to be
- 1:20:58do we start shooting that in Malibu in a
- 1:21:00week.
- 1:21:00>> Good combo.
- 1:21:01>> Yeah. Appreciate it. So, and then I got
- 1:21:03the clothing line. Um, and the jewelry
- 1:21:05line I bet they own, which is these
- 1:21:07these pieces, you know, non-conlict
- 1:21:09diamonds, real, you know, joints. Uh,
- 1:21:11and then the clothing line is on God,
- 1:21:14>> non like ain't nobody dying or getting
- 1:21:16murdered up for these type of stones. It
- 1:21:17costs more to get to them, but it's like
- 1:21:19preserving us as, you know, cuz we are
- 1:21:21the ones that's working in those diamond
- 1:21:23mines. And so, I don't want to see no
- 1:21:24harm or nothing come to anybody.
- 1:21:25>> Those not blood diamonds, non.
- 1:21:28>> How were you able to know, if you don't
- 1:21:29mind me asking? because I I I partner
- 1:21:30with a jeweler that's been in his family
- 1:21:32been in the game for like 50 years. So,
- 1:21:33it's a certain company like that the
- 1:21:35beers go through and all them things and
- 1:21:36there certain lanes you go through, but
- 1:21:37then there are actual companies that's
- 1:21:39out there that help you know mine the
- 1:21:40diamonds for you and they'll let you
- 1:21:42know that these people this is how this
- 1:21:44is done. That's how how that's done.
- 1:21:45It's full transparency and they got to
- 1:21:46go through like the I forget the company
- 1:21:48though, but it's it's international
- 1:21:49company that oversees all that.
- 1:21:51>> Okay.
- 1:21:52>> So, you know, you pay a little more for
- 1:21:53it, but I sleep better at night.
- 1:21:56>> You feel me?
- 1:21:57>> What's it got? Now, I must ask this
- 1:21:58question cuz I'm just that type of
- 1:22:00person.
- 1:22:00>> I've [clears throat] always tried my
- 1:22:02best to stay away from diamonds. I just
- 1:22:03made myself a gold person because I just
- 1:22:05don't trust it. Right.
- 1:22:06>> From the jeweler to where it come from.
- 1:22:09>> Unless you go yourself.
- 1:22:11>> Can you really trust these people? Do
- 1:22:13you think so?
- 1:22:14>> I mean, you know what I'm saying?
- 1:22:15>> You want to trust the team you got
- 1:22:16around you, but I mean, yeah. I mean,
- 1:22:18there's always room for something to be
- 1:22:20not right, but you want to try to trust
- 1:22:21the people you got around you and hope.
- 1:22:22Now I say that cuz like non-conlicted
- 1:22:24diamonds it now puts your brand in in
- 1:22:27the hot seat to make sure like oh
- 1:22:29>> I mean listen you know what I'm saying
- 1:22:30cuz if the white folks get banged up now
- 1:22:33my [ __ ] [ __ ] up like bro you got me
- 1:22:35out here saying n no n but like every
- 1:22:38mean that's when you got to be true if I
- 1:22:39find out that something is going on that
- 1:22:41you know to that's not against my you
- 1:22:42know what you mean you get in front I'm
- 1:22:43going speak on it like hey well I wasn't
- 1:22:45aware of this and I try to do as much as
- 1:22:46my due diligence. Um, so you know, you
- 1:22:50it's it's it's it's [ __ ] A foot in
- 1:22:52any situation. You just try to do your
- 1:22:54best to keep it keep it under wrap.
- 1:22:56>> Do your best
- 1:22:57>> at that. And then you know the I'm going
- 1:22:58to go back in and do another project,
- 1:23:00City Life
- 1:23:01>> um on that one for the for the show. So
- 1:23:04>> you know, man.
- 1:23:04>> Oh, the music for the music for Yeah,
- 1:23:06sir. Like with with the with the movie
- 1:23:08American Clay. Uh me and my writer RV,
- 1:23:10we co-wrote it. My boy Chris directed
- 1:23:12it. Um, I co-wrote it, executive
- 1:23:14produced it, did the music for it, and
- 1:23:16[ __ ] you know, it's doing a lot of It's
- 1:23:19doing real good, bro. It's doing
- 1:23:20numbers. It's doing real like real
- 1:23:22numbers. And then I got a couple visuals
- 1:23:24that's at like 40 million, 44 million,
- 1:23:2638 million views.
- 1:23:27>> Congratulations.
- 1:23:27>> It's moving. So,
- 1:23:28>> yeah,
- 1:23:29>> I'm just happy they rocking with me, you
- 1:23:30feel me?
- 1:23:31>> That's that's probably what dude want to
- 1:23:32have a conversation about, man.
- 1:23:34>> On the plane.
- 1:23:35>> N [laughter] maybe, right? Maybe.
- 1:23:37>> He probably went to you went to a
- 1:23:40festival and saw the Saw the film, bro.
- 1:23:44>> Just told him the film. [laughter]
- 1:23:47>> I mean, yo, your
- 1:23:49>> He does know your name. He do know your
- 1:23:50name. He do know your name,
- 1:23:52>> I guess. So, right.
- 1:23:53>> You know what I'm saying? He got the
- 1:23:54manifest.
- 1:23:55>> Yeah, he got the manifest. [laughter]
- 1:23:57>> He do. Scream. He do.
- 1:23:59>> You want to say something to the people
- 1:24:00before we get out of here, bro?
- 1:24:01>> Um, yeah. Check the album. One thing I'm
- 1:24:03going to say, I mean, we we talked about
- 1:24:04a lot of stuff today. This is a crazy
- 1:24:06interesting conversation.
- 1:24:07>> Big facts.
- 1:24:08>> Big facts. Everything was facts, though.
- 1:24:11Uh, but you know, we got the album out
- 1:24:13and you know, one thing about us, like
- 1:24:14he said, it's different. It's is for the
- 1:24:16walk. It's for all that thing. I just
- 1:24:17want everybody to give it a chance. You
- 1:24:18know, go listen to the music. Um, I'm
- 1:24:20not really big into the super, hey man,
- 1:24:22go listen to the but like we did the
- 1:24:24work um to to make a quality body of
- 1:24:27work that's worth listening. You know
- 1:24:28what I'm saying? Start from it and
- 1:24:30actually get into the brand. Um, I'm
- 1:24:32also talk about, you know, what we got
- 1:24:33going on. You know what I'm saying? It's
- 1:24:34it's bigger than the music. Everybody
- 1:24:37know Trinidad into fashion and this is a
- 1:24:39real brand um that we created together
- 1:24:41that's on you know Imagine Elite Fashion
- 1:24:45um you know and and clean and and just
- 1:24:47you know made by us for us and it's a
- 1:24:49it's a beautiful thing. It's a full
- 1:24:50expression. It's not just the music.
- 1:24:52It's also the clothes. It's a brand
- 1:24:54something you can get behind that's
- 1:24:55bigger than just the individual.
- 1:24:58>> Yeah.
- 1:24:58>> Check out the website. So the the it's
- 1:25:01important for the reason why it's
- 1:25:02important for you to even check out the
- 1:25:03website before you check out the album
- 1:25:05is because it's like this is a
- 1:25:07lifestyle. You are not the master of
- 1:25:09anything that you don't have students
- 1:25:10in.
- 1:25:11>> You are not the master of anything. And
- 1:25:14I'm talking to everyone in this
- 1:25:15[ __ ] room that you don't have
- 1:25:18students in. Do
- 1:25:19>> you have to be able to teach people
- 1:25:21after a while? And so our website
- 1:25:23thebestdress.com
- 1:25:25we show you styling tips like oh maybe
- 1:25:29put a cuff on your pant it'll be better
- 1:25:31with Diors or Chuck Taylor's or Jordan 1
- 1:25:33ones color palettes all the different
- 1:25:36things what to wear nails with what not
- 1:25:37to wear with that's a purse that's a man
- 1:25:40like information knowledge that's what
- 1:25:43we built the whole best dress brand
- 1:25:45about because it's not just the music is
- 1:25:47the lowest hanging fruit bank if I can't
- 1:25:50make a song I'm trash bro this is what
- 1:25:52we've been doing for the last 14 15
- 1:25:54years. Him more than me. This [ __ ] came
- 1:25:56up with T Payne. T Payne is incredible,
- 1:25:58man. He's incredible in the studio. He
- 1:26:01is incred on on the stage. He is
- 1:26:04incredible. What every record label want
- 1:26:05is a T pay. They want a T pay
- 1:26:08>> as a black bird. They all these other
- 1:26:09[ __ ] what they dealing with it. They
- 1:26:11want a T pay because the [ __ ] is all
- 1:26:14the thing. That's why he doing all the
- 1:26:15things now.
- 1:26:16>> That's why he's doing all the things now
- 1:26:17because that's what black people should
- 1:26:19be allowed to do. all the [ __ ]
- 1:26:21things.
- 1:26:21>> Yeah.
- 1:26:22>> Stop stopping us from doing all the
- 1:26:23things and we're just representation of
- 1:26:26what that looks like because that's what
- 1:26:28you supposed to do as a OG. You're
- 1:26:30supposed to walk what you talk or
- 1:26:31whatever. So, what's the dress code is
- 1:26:32out now. That's why that question
- 1:26:34matters so much. That's why we have the
- 1:26:36website. That's what best dress stands
- 1:26:37for. It's accountability first.
- 1:26:39Everything else could come in after.
- 1:26:41>> So, please.
- 1:26:42>> And babe, I'm going to pull back up on
- 1:26:43you when uh when the show show wrap and
- 1:26:46I'm going to do a a screening here for
- 1:26:47the American Clay movie. I'm setting it
- 1:26:48up in the next I want to see. That
- 1:26:50shit's cold, bro.
- 1:26:52>> You going to do a screen here?
- 1:26:52>> We do a screen in Atlanta. Yeah. Yeah,
- 1:26:54cuz we did we did New York, Chicago, LA,
- 1:26:57Austin, Martha's Vineyard for that film
- 1:26:59festival. And what else other city we
- 1:27:02do? Uh, and we did Paris. I got to do
- 1:27:04something in in a and I got to do
- 1:27:06Houston. Them the two cities I want to
- 1:27:07do.
- 1:27:08>> Locked in.
- 1:27:08>> Yeah.
- 1:27:08>> I appreciate this conversation, man.
- 1:27:10Y'all kind of alter my perspective a
- 1:27:12little bit.
- 1:27:12>> That's what it's about.
- 1:27:13>> That [ __ ] you said, bro. No real [ __ ]
- 1:27:15because you can you can definitely put a
- 1:27:17person in a weird space and and and I I
- 1:27:20I could say I I regret
- 1:27:24doing that to school that day, man. Cuz
- 1:27:26I I definitely was hard on him about
- 1:27:28that dying as hell and I that probably
- 1:27:30was just an expression of his take from
- 1:27:32his manhood or nothing. School 100%
- 1:27:35gangster. You know what I'm saying?
- 1:27:36>> That was
- 1:27:37>> a trillion% gangster. [laughter] But I
- 1:27:39just didn't understand it at the time.
- 1:27:41And that probably, you know what I'm
- 1:27:42saying, put a damp on our friendship.
- 1:27:44But
- 1:27:45>> I want to apologize to him even in
- 1:27:47death. I love
- 1:27:48>> Yes. You have to say these things. You
- 1:27:50have to say these things. It's important
- 1:27:53to put it out there because the young
- 1:27:55person who is looking, he the OG who is
- 1:27:57looking, he could understand
- 1:27:59forgiveness. My dad won [ __ ] when I was
- 1:28:02coming up from the standpoint of being
- 1:28:04the dad I needed. Yeah. This the last
- 1:28:06thing I'm going to say.
- 1:28:07>> The dad I needed. He's just a dad. I
- 1:28:10work hard. They going to be like me.
- 1:28:11What the [ __ ] is that? That's not being
- 1:28:13a dad. You're a father. Being a dad and
- 1:28:16being a father is two different thing.
- 1:28:17Being a father, being fatherly, that's
- 1:28:20why it's a different word. Anybody? I'm
- 1:28:23dad. Okay, [ __ ] That's a title. Being
- 1:28:25a father, that means you have to father
- 1:28:27something.
- 1:28:27>> Yeah.
- 1:28:27>> You have to take [ __ ] care of it,
- 1:28:29man.
- 1:28:30>> You have to learn. You have to when you
- 1:28:32deal the the new young parents who care
- 1:28:34about being the parents now, if you
- 1:28:36actually like healthy parents now, how
- 1:28:38tapped in they are with their kids,
- 1:28:39they're different. But my dad, I bring
- 1:28:41up my dad because he ain't know how to
- 1:28:43be that because that's what he was
- 1:28:44trained. My dad didn't turn into the
- 1:28:46[ __ ] that I needed him to be until I
- 1:28:47became Trinad James.
- 1:28:49>> And now the last 15 years, that [ __ ]
- 1:28:51been incredible. I don't give a [ __ ] how
- 1:28:53[ __ ] went in my teenage years. So it's
- 1:28:55not about how you start, it's about how
- 1:28:57you end. You always have your while you
- 1:28:59have life, you can make something right
- 1:29:02>> because you just made [ __ ] right in the
- 1:29:03grave. understand
- 1:29:05>> and somebody saw it live on TV so they
- 1:29:08can go make it right while the person is
- 1:29:09alive
- 1:29:10>> who they did wrong by not trying to cuz
- 1:29:13you can't be too critical then you
- 1:29:14become hypocritical
- 1:29:15>> 100%
- 1:29:16>> big facts
- 1:29:17>> it is we appreciate y'all pulling up man
- 1:29:20great conversation great energy y'all
- 1:29:22check out everything these brothers got
- 1:29:23going on and check us out too at
- 1:29:25wwigfaxpod.com
- 1:29:27salute
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