Master the Art of Texting Women — Transcript
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- 0:00this video will serve as your texting
- 0:02Bible it doesn't matter what your skills
- 0:03are or which goal you're talking to in
- 0:05this video I will explain everything you
- 0:07need to know about texting in detail and
- 0:09if you ever feel confused or face any
- 0:11issues with texting come back to this
- 0:13video and you'll 100% find the solution
- 0:16to your problem the first thing you need
- 0:18to understand is that the purpose of
- 0:19texting is to set up a date and meet the
- 0:22woman not just to chat the goal of
- 0:24texting is not just conversation but
- 0:25meeting up listen carefully as a man you
- 0:28won't gain anything from texting it's a
- 0:30waste of time and won't bring you any
- 0:32benefit this is the first point I want
- 0:34you to understand the second point is
- 0:36that a woman will not develop feelings
- 0:38for you just through texting and this is
- 0:40the mistake that many men make they text
- 0:42just for the sake of chatting no you
- 0:44should use texting to get to the stage
- 0:46of setting up a date and here I'll
- 0:48slightly diverge to talk about something
- 0:50important men who talk to girls who
- 0:52don't live in the same city if you live
- 0:53in one state and the girl lives in
- 0:55another that means you shouldn't waste
- 0:57your time with her and I'm not
- 0:58criticizing anyone but if you're talking
- 1:00to a girl who doesn't live in your city
- 1:02why are you talking to her what will you
- 1:03gain even if you meet once a month or
- 1:06once every 3 months you need to
- 1:08understand that this is a losing
- 1:09equation for you as a man there are
- 1:11hundreds of thousands maybe even
- 1:12millions of women in your city so why
- 1:14are you looking for a girl in a Nova
- 1:16City think carefully before you waste
- 1:18your time and energy on this finally the
- 1:20third point I want you to understand is
- 1:22that texting is just a conversation in
- 1:24the digital world this digital
- 1:26conversation although it has rules
- 1:28different from The Real World Is Still
- 1:29still just a reflection of the real
- 1:31world this means that to succeed in the
- 1:33digital world you first need to know how
- 1:35to communicate in the real world if
- 1:37you've been following my series on how
- 1:39to attract women you probably won't have
- 1:41an issue with this because I've
- 1:42explained everything you need and you
- 1:44likely already understand how a woman
- 1:46thinks if you haven't watched this
- 1:47series please when you finish this video
- 1:50go back and start from the first episode
- 1:52so you can get the most benefit from
- 1:53today's video now let's return to the
- 1:56topic of texting from my experience I've
- 1:58noticed that the mistake I used to make
- 2:00and that most guys make when texting is
- 2:02that they don't know when to ask a girl
- 2:04for a date that's why I'm now going to
- 2:05explain a basic concept in texting you
- 2:08need to know what stage you're in are
- 2:09you in the stage where you should ask
- 2:11for a date or in the stage where you
- 2:12should just continue the conversation or
- 2:14are you in the stage where you need to
- 2:16build attraction the important thing is
- 2:18that you know which stage you're in now
- 2:20now I'm going to give you a compass that
- 2:21I want you to hold on to this Compass
- 2:23will help you figure out which stage
- 2:25you're in if you're texting a girl or
- 2:27want to start talking to one there are
- 2:28four stages you might be in stage one
- 2:31the silent stage this is when she leaves
- 2:33you on read and doesn't reply this means
- 2:35that attraction has dropped don't worry
- 2:37we'll discuss this in detail just be
- 2:39patient with me stage two the testing
- 2:41stage this is when she criticizes you
- 2:43disagrees with you or talks about other
- 2:45guys if you've watched the entire series
- 2:47you already know that I always say girls
- 2:50test guys it's a biological Instinct
- 2:52they have and they do it without
- 2:53realizing it I also always tell you that
- 2:55I'll make a video explaining how to pass
- 2:57these tests I apologize for the delay
- 2:59but soon I'll make a video where I
- 3:01explain these tests in detail stage
- 3:03three The Logical stage this is when she
- 3:05starts discussing topics with you
- 3:06logically or sometimes emotionally stage
- 3:09four the attraction stage this is when
- 3:11the girl starts showing her attraction
- 3:13towards you like sending you her
- 3:14pictures reacting positively to your
- 3:16pictures or hinting at a possible Meetup
- 3:18in any text conversation with a girl
- 3:20you'll always be in one of these stages
- 3:22100% you need to know which stage you're
- 3:24in right now so you can act accordingly
- 3:26and don't worry I'll explain what you
- 3:27need to do in each stage to make it
- 3:29clearer let's assume you're in the stage
- 3:31where the girl has shown her attraction
- 3:33to you and what did you do you continued
- 3:35talking to her and carried on with the
- 3:36conversation here my friend you've made
- 3:38a big mistake why are you still talking
- 3:40to her when you reach this stage it
- 3:42means you should ask her out if you
- 3:44don't ask for a date and just keep
- 3:45talking after a while she'll reject the
- 3:47idea of a date because you didn't
- 3:48recognize the stage you were in and
- 3:50didn't take the right action or let's
- 3:52assume you're in the first stage where
- 3:53the girl responds with a few words and
- 3:55leaves you on read without replying
- 3:57further then you go ahead and ask for a
- 3:59date that's another mistake you've taken
- 4:01an action that doesn't fit the stage
- 4:02you're in so once you know what stage
- 4:04you're in it's time to figure out the
- 4:06right way to handle the situation with
- 4:07the girl but before I tell you what to
- 4:10do in each stage I need to explain
- 4:12something about the world of texting if
- 4:13you've been following me for a while
- 4:15you'll know that women are emotional
- 4:17beings for them the world of texting is
- 4:19an emotional game and all of their
- 4:20actions are based on emotions as a man
- 4:23you won't be able to play this game with
- 4:24her because you're not an emotional
- 4:26being you're a logical one that's why in
- 4:28this video I'm explaining things to to
- 4:29you from a logical perspective I want
- 4:31you to understand texting from a logical
- 4:33point of view and approach it that way
- 4:35so you don't get pulled into the
- 4:37emotional game that women try to involve
- 4:39you in this may sound strange to you but
- 4:41this is just how women are for them
- 4:42dating is like a game and it's part of
- 4:44their nature consider it an unavoidable
- 4:46reality but when you enter this game and
- 4:48see it through a logical lens you can
- 4:50win because logic is your strength this
- 4:52is what I try to do in all my videos
- 4:54even if you don't always realize it in
- 4:56this series I'm not just giving you
- 4:58information I'm trying to shift your
- 5:00perspective on dating so you see it in a
- 5:02more logical way if you'd like me to
- 5:03make a video discussing the logic of men
- 5:06versus the emotions of women let me know
- 5:07in the comments now let's get back to
- 5:09our topic and go through the stages one
- 5:11by one by the way these stages aren't in
- 5:13a fixed order you could find yourself in
- 5:15any stage and sometimes you might even
- 5:17start in the attraction stage so let's
- 5:20begin with the first stage the silence
- 5:22stage in this stage the girl doesn't
- 5:24respond or takes a long time to reply or
- 5:26she might not seem interested in this
- 5:28case you should avoid overwhelming her
- 5:30with messages don't send too many and
- 5:32don't ask for anything that requires a
- 5:34response most importantly don't bring up
- 5:36a date the only thing you can do is
- 5:38leave a simple comment like reacting to
- 5:40her story or saying something that
- 5:41doesn't require a reply the goal here is
- 5:43to maintain your value and not show any
- 5:46neediness even if she doesn't respond
- 5:48the second stage is the testing stage
- 5:50here the girl might start provoking you
- 5:52talking about someone else or
- 5:53disagreeing with you this stage is
- 5:55relatively easy because all you need to
- 5:57do is pass her tests I'll explain this
- 5:59more in a dedicated video but briefly
- 6:01here are some ways to pass these tests
- 6:03one completely ignore what she said two
- 6:05take a comment and turn it into a joke
- 6:07three give a response that's completely
- 6:08unrelated to what she said in this stage
- 6:11don't ask for a date yet because
- 6:12attraction is still being built stage
- 6:14three is the conversation stage where
- 6:16the conversation flows more naturally
- 6:18and might even involve exchanging voice
- 6:20messages at this point you can ask for a
- 6:22date in this stage I want you to apply
- 6:24everything you've learned in this series
- 6:26like qualifying techniques or asking
- 6:28emotional questions and try to
- 6:30incorporate them into your texting but
- 6:32remember texting is slightly different
- 6:34from talking on the phone or having a
- 6:36face-to-face conversation to succeed in
- 6:38texting you need to include a lot of
- 6:40humor in your messages the funnier your
- 6:42texts the more positive responses you'll
- 6:44get from the girl one key to text
- 6:46messaging success is to avoid using the
- 6:48girl's real name instead give her a
- 6:50playful nickname like munchkin cutie or
- 6:53my dear these nicknames will help you
- 6:55get faster replies here's a text
- 6:57messaging technique I've personally
- 6:58developed that Works quite well you hey
- 7:01chickp how good is your memory on a
- 7:02scale of 1 to 10 huh well 10 you okay
- 7:05let's test it if you lose you're buying
- 7:07me dinner ready huh yes you what color
- 7:09shoes was I wearing when we met H hm I
- 7:11think black you wrong answer young lady
- 7:14now you owe me dinner big time then call
- 7:16her immediately after even if she gives
- 7:18the right answer still call and
- 7:19playfully argue that you had on a
- 7:21different color shoes see how simple
- 7:23this is all you need is a bit of
- 7:24creativity and you can easily secure
- 7:26date after date with minimal risk of
- 7:28rejection the the reason some guys often
- 7:30get rejected is because their messages
- 7:32are just too dull they send texts like
- 7:35can I call you are you free would you
- 7:36like to watch a movie not only are these
- 7:38messages boring but they are also
- 7:40practically asking to be rejected here
- 7:42are a few examples of messages that will
- 7:44get you quick and positive responses you
- 7:46won't believe how badly I embarrass
- 7:48myself today my mom would be so ashamed
- 7:51call me I'm starving I'll let you buy me
- 7:53a burger if you promise to take me out
- 7:55my cousin's here she's just like you you
- 7:57have to meet her this is the best day of
- 7:58my life I finally did it buzz me when
- 8:00you're free as long as your messages
- 8:02include humor mystery and a touch of
- 8:04excitement you'll always get positive
- 8:05responses Now we move on to the final
- 8:07stage where the girl starts sending you
- 8:09her pictures or showing significant
- 8:11interest such as engaging positively
- 8:14with your pictures at this stage if you
- 8:16haven't met her in person yet it becomes
- 8:18essential and Urgent to ask her for a
- 8:20date if you don't ask for a date at this
- 8:22point you risk losing her if you like
- 8:23the girl and want to keep talking to her
- 8:25you must ask her for a date if you don't
- 8:27she'll either place you in the friend
- 8:28zone or stop talking to you altogether
- 8:30now you should have a clear
- 8:32understanding of the text in game like
- 8:33any game There are rules you need to
- 8:35know and follow to succeed in short
- 8:37these rules are in general keep your
- 8:39text short and to the point they should
- 8:41be emotionally stimulating she should
- 8:43feel something from your text you should
- 8:45not be texting her all the time you are
- 8:47a man who has important things to do
- 8:49texting her constantly is not one of
- 8:51them every text should serve a purpose
- 8:53to spark her emotions or to set up a
- 8:55date send her the first text within 48
- 8:57Hours of getting her number don't ask
- 8:59boring questions don't try to impress
- 9:01her don't be mentally waiting for her to
- 9:03respond go about your busy day as you
- 9:05normally do and respond to her texts
- 9:08when you get a chance text like a man
- 9:10don't ask her too many questions instead
- 9:12of asking questions make statements and
- 9:14commands and here we have come to the
- 9:16end of our guide in the description
- 9:18you'll find the link to the full series
- 9:20for free on YouTube if you're still
- 9:22watching at this point don't forget to
- 9:24hit the like button and if you have any
- 9:25questions leave them in the comments so
- 9:27I can know what challenges you're facing
- 9:29take
- 9:31care
- 9:38Str emotional
- 9:42flicker you are my
- 9:46everything we know we could have done it
- 9:50better thought for the little things we
- 9:55wanted and know it was good together
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