Married at First Sight: Karen Is Worried about Miles' Dating History (S11, E4) | Lifetime — Transcript

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1. 0:04hi
2. 0:05again i need your passport please thank
3. 0:07you
4. 0:10yes
5. 0:11[Music]
6. 0:15these five couples have been married
7. 0:17under extreme circumstances
8. 0:20so they need to take advantage of this
9. 0:22very special time alone
10. 0:24they can't just have fun and go swimming
11. 0:26with the dolphins i mean that's great
12. 0:28but they really need to have those tough
13. 0:30in-depth conversations to find out
14. 0:33who they married so that they can
15. 0:34connect on a much
16. 0:36deeper level because in less than eight
17. 0:38weeks
18. 0:39they're going to have to decide whether
19. 0:40they want to stay married or get a
20. 0:42divorce
21. 0:43what about you whatever your practice
22. 0:45should look like my last
23. 0:47relationship he had a child with someone
24. 0:50else
25. 0:51while we were together you know we had
26. 0:54other problems i would definitely say
27. 0:56that
28. 0:56but that was kind of the icing on the
29. 0:58cake for me like i couldn't
30. 1:00deal with it like because i don't want
31. 1:02to sit up here and like
32. 1:04okay i'm falling in love and then like
33. 1:07you or i
34. 1:07are sitting there like i'm not quite
35. 1:10there yet you know like
36. 1:11just communicate sure i want you to feel
37. 1:14like
38. 1:15however long you need i'm gonna be here
39. 1:17and be patient and like
40. 1:18figure this out with you i've wanted to
41. 1:20be like that guy
42. 1:22my whole life like my dad jokes but like
43. 1:25it's kind of real like
44. 1:27i've been in like 10 like monogamous
45. 1:30relationships
46. 1:32like straight up i've been in
47. 1:36two relationships since i was 18.
48. 1:40and i'm older than you
49. 1:43i told you aj is nothing aj
50. 1:46nothing i'm experienced i'm a vet
51. 1:50so the fact that he's been in 10 serious
52. 1:52relationships
53. 1:53that seems like a lot being only at the
54. 1:55age of 26.
55. 1:57i wonder is he just a relationship
56. 1:59hopper like is it from one person to the
57. 2:01next
58. 2:02am i just number 11. i've only been in
59. 2:04two serious relationships
60. 2:07you have been in
61. 2:11tennis relationships for me
62. 2:15it's because like i'm really like
63. 2:17thinking in my head like this
64. 2:19is somebody that i could see myself
65. 2:22marrying one day
66. 2:24which doesn't happen for me a lot i
67. 2:26guess like i want to understand
68. 2:28why the amount of relationships that
69. 2:32you've had
70. 2:32yeah i've always dated with the
71. 2:35intention to marry
72. 2:36and so like do whatever it can it takes
73. 2:40to like
74. 2:40make it work and if it doesn't work it's
75. 2:43not serving both of us
76. 2:44like i want to be able to like move
77. 2:47forward
78. 2:47um to me
79. 2:51i feel like oh okay i know what i want i
80. 2:54know what i don't want
81. 2:54like the last two years were like me
82. 2:57figuring that out for myself
83. 2:59um and like there were people that were
84. 3:01like around over the last two years
85. 3:02but i was very adamant i'm like hey i'm
86. 3:04not going to be in a relationship again
87. 3:07until i know that i'm the man that i
88. 3:08want to be to be in a relationship
89. 3:10because i want my last my next
90. 3:11relationship be my last
91. 3:13i'm not a serial dater i happen to to
92. 3:16meet some really great women and
93. 3:18invested myself and they've invested
94. 3:20themselves in relationships and
95. 3:22i think that's what what dating is about
96. 3:24it's about figuring out who you're
97. 3:25compatible with
98. 3:26and in order to really figure out who i
99. 3:28am what i want what i don't want
100. 3:30so i could be the man that i want to be
101. 3:32from my life
102. 3:35i guess on the flip of it is right so
103. 3:37you've had
104. 3:38fewer relationships than i have um that
105. 3:42could be
106. 3:42a concern in terms of like what does
107. 3:44that look like in terms of us
108. 3:45interacting
109. 3:46um i think is a legitimate concern
110. 3:50um i probably will be rusty
111. 3:54like it's been a while um i think i have
112. 3:57a lot of
113. 3:57good qualities for relationship but i
114. 4:01also
115. 4:01take my time that's why communication
116. 4:05is just really big for me because
117. 4:08hey i want you to understand how i'm
118. 4:10feeling but i also want to understand
119. 4:12like how
120. 4:12you're feeling so like if there's a
121. 4:16moment where you're like you're not
122. 4:17giving me enough
123. 4:18or you seem kind of closed off like it's
124. 4:22okay to call me out on it
125. 4:38you