Manifesting physical appearance changes when you feel insecure — Transcript

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1. 0:00How do you manifest your desired
2. 0:01appearance if you feel insecure about
3. 0:03the one you have? Now, a lot of people
4. 0:05have asked me this question and also
5. 0:08about how to detach and stop obsessing
6. 0:10over their appearance. These two things
7. 0:14are completely linked because once you
8. 0:16figure out you are not defined by your
9. 0:19appearance, once you start to let go of
10. 0:21it, looking better becomes more of a
11. 0:24preference than a need. And whenever
12. 0:27something is a preference and not a
13. 0:29need, that's how it's going to be able
14. 0:31to manifest easily. Because if something
15. 0:33is a need, that's you placing conditions
16. 0:36on how you feel and how you show up in
17. 0:38this world. Okay, let me just assume
18. 0:41that you want to look a specific way
19. 0:43because you want to feel better. You
20. 0:45want to feel better in yourself. You
21. 0:46want to feel better about what you see
22. 0:48in the mirror. You want to be able to
23. 0:50move around in the world like a hot
24. 0:53person. But currently, you don't feel
25. 0:56like that hot person right now. You
26. 0:57don't feel like you have the authority
27. 0:59to move around in the world the way you
28. 1:01want to. What if I told you that you
29. 1:04need to have the authority first before
30. 1:07your manifestation can come to you? If
31. 1:10you're feeling insecure, that's
32. 1:12basically like over here and then
33. 1:14security is over here. Now, in your
34. 1:16mind, you're probably linking security
35. 1:19to hotness, insecurity to not looking
36. 1:23good enough. So, do you see? It's not
37. 1:26about the appearance. It's about what
38. 1:28your appearance means to you. So, I want
39. 1:31you to just completely detach these two
40. 1:33concepts in your head. Now, you're
41. 1:34probably like, "How do I do that? Like,
42. 1:36it's just not true. You know, there's
43. 1:38pretty privilege, there's this and
44. 1:39that." Yes, these things exist, but they
45. 1:42are not the truth of who you are.
46. 1:45You are God and God is perfection,
47. 1:49beauty and harmony. So God cannot be
48. 1:51anything but these things. You right now
49. 1:54have a perspective that makes you feel
50. 1:58like you're not good enough. Like you
51. 2:00need to change something about yourself
52. 2:02in order to feel differently. But the
53. 2:04truth is you don't. You don't actually
54. 2:06need to change your external. You need
55. 2:08to change your internal. And that's why
56. 2:10things like therapy, coaching, mindset
57. 2:14work, like all of it is very very
58. 2:16beneficial. And often times it can lead
59. 2:19to like huge breakthroughs. Like for
60. 2:21example, me after like therapy and
61. 2:24hypnotherapy to basically stop detaching
62. 2:28sorry to stop attaching my worth to my
63. 2:30appearance. After I had that process, I
64. 2:33had a huge breakthrough in the way I
65. 2:34looked. And it wasn't because of the
66. 2:36actions I was doing, although I was
67. 2:38doing certain actions that contributed.
68. 2:41Like I did implement habits in my daily
69. 2:42life to make me look better. But the
70. 2:44only way I even got to that point to
71. 2:46find those things was because I
72. 2:49completely detached my worth from my
73. 2:51appearance. Now, I know you might be
74. 2:52thinking, okay, so does that mean to
75. 2:54look the way I want? I need to like
76. 2:57spend loads of time healing and
77. 2:58whatever. No, you don't. But you need to
78. 3:01locate the source of the error that's
79. 3:04causing an issue with your perception.
80. 3:07Because you thinking that you don't look
81. 3:09a certain way is an issue with your
82. 3:11perception. It's not the reality of the
83. 3:13situation. Because you can look not the
84. 3:16way you want to look, not the way you
85. 3:17prefer. And you can still feel good. You
86. 3:20can still show up confidently and you
87. 3:23can still attract the people you want as
88. 3:24well. Although people will try to
89. 3:26convince you that you can't. And
90. 3:28obviously the way you look does impact
91. 3:30the way you feel. And when you like, you
92. 3:32know, take time to like look good and
93. 3:33put yourself together, you do feel good.
94. 3:36But this all has to come from a internal
95. 3:38place of love and acceptance. It can't
96. 3:40come from hate. Because if you hate
97. 3:42yourself and then start trying to change
98. 3:44yourself from that place, that's going
99. 3:46to go so downhill. Like that's not going
100. 3:49to work. Why do you think it is that a
101. 3:51lot of people with body dysmorphia have
102. 3:53plastic surgery and still feel
103. 3:54unsatisfied? It's cuz the issue wasn't
104. 3:56the way they look. It was the way they
105. 3:58felt about themselves. And they were
106. 4:00linking that to their appearance. And I
107. 4:02completely get why you would link that
108. 4:04to your appearance.
109. 4:06Society has taught you basically to do
110. 4:08that. But the trick is to separate these
111. 4:10things. Learn to accept what you see
112. 4:13right now, even if it's not what you
113. 4:15prefer. Uh for me, like when I was um
114. 4:18shifting my face, I had a lot of periods
115. 4:21where my face was very asymmetrical. And
116. 4:23it still happens from um time to time.
117. 4:26But I've learned that that doesn't mean
118. 4:28anything. Just cuz my face looks
119. 4:30slightly asymmetrical doesn't mean I'm
120. 4:33going to change who I am. Doesn't mean
121. 4:35I'm going to show up in the world
122. 4:36differently. And that is the shift that
123. 4:39makes everything click. That is the
124. 4:40shift that actually causes you to look
125. 4:42differently and to literally glow from
126. 4:45within. Now when I say glow from within,
127. 4:47I mean it like your aura will be like
128. 4:51huge. [laughter]
129. 4:53You will have the kind of aura where
130. 4:55people feel you and feel your frequency
131. 4:58and your vibe and are attracted to that
132. 5:00before they even really like process the
133. 5:02way you look. That is like god tier,
134. 5:05goddess tier beauty, honestly. And from
135. 5:09that kind of place, what do you think
136. 5:11you're going to attract into your life?
137. 5:13What are you going to attract onto your
138. 5:14face, onto your body? Because everything
139. 5:16is energy. So, when you're putting out
140. 5:18that kind of goddess tier beauty energy,
141. 5:22you're going to attract things that are
142. 5:24going to help you achieve that. It's
143. 5:26basically just like a domino effect. But
144. 5:28you have to choose, do you want a
145. 5:29positive domino effect where
146. 5:31everything's going to go well, you're
147. 5:32going to keep looking better. You're
148. 5:33going to keep shining even to your old
149. 5:35age. Or are you going to pick the domino
150. 5:37effect where you look bad and you feel
151. 5:40bad and you hate yourself and you know
152. 5:42you just basically you're like why is
153. 5:44the world like this? Oh my god, I need
154. 5:46beauty. I need beauty. No, don't. That
155. 5:48that's a black hole of self-destruction.
156. 5:51Don't go there. That's low vibe. Pick
157. 5:53the high vibe option. Even if it feels
158. 5:56kind of difficult, even if at first
159. 5:58you're feeling a bit lost, you're
160. 5:59feeling like overwhelmed, like how am I
161. 6:00going to do this? Is this even possible?
162. 6:03It's okay.
163. 6:05Let yourself feel those things. You're
164. 6:07allowed to feel those things and you can
165. 6:09have your emotions during this process.
166. 6:11But I need you to have faith. I need you
167. 6:14to have some faith in something. Um, and
168. 6:17just look around you. If you don't
169. 6:19believe things, just look and observe
170. 6:21the world and observe people in it and
171. 6:23see how things go for them. Not just to
172. 6:25do with appearance, cuz appearance just
173. 6:27follows the same energetic pattern that
174. 6:29everything else follows. So pay
175. 6:31attention to people. see like why do
176. 6:34like the lucky people keep getting
177. 6:35luckier and luckier and why do the
178. 6:37miserable people keep getting more and
179. 6:39more miserable? I think the quote from
180. 6:40the Bible is something like for those
181. 6:42that have more will be given and for
182. 6:44those that don't more will be taken.
183. 6:46That's why it's cuz the energy you're
184. 6:48putting out. So be audacious. Just put
185. 6:52yourself out there in the way that you
186. 6:54would put yourself out there if you
187. 6:55looked exactly the way you wanted. If
188. 6:57you were hot as if you were a
189. 6:59model, walk around, do those things.
190. 7:01Look at people from that perspective of
191. 7:03you being a model. Pick your clothes,
192. 7:05pick your outfit, put yourself together
193. 7:07as the person who looks exactly the way
194. 7:10you want. Whether that's, you know, you
195. 7:12want to be hot like a model or you want
196. 7:14to be like effortlessly demure and
197. 7:16beautiful, it doesn't matter. Just pick
198. 7:17what you want. Tell yourself you are
199. 7:19that and don't let anything on the
200. 7:22outside tell you otherwise. The outside
201. 7:25doesn't matter. You're already
202. 7:26perfection. You're already beautiful.
203. 7:28Your natural nature is harmony. So
204. 7:30believe in that, align with that. Stop
205. 7:33judging what you see. Like I said,
206. 7:35self-reflection and selfwork is so
207. 7:37important. Like actually invest in this
208. 7:40because if you're not investing in
209. 7:41yourself, what are you doing? What are
210. 7:43you investing in? You're just giving
211. 7:44money to corporations that are going to
212. 7:46sell you things again later. So instead
213. 7:48of using your money to feed other
214. 7:50people's profits, use your money to fund
215. 7:52yourself, your energy. Go get therapy.
216. 7:54Go get coaching. You can work with me if
217. 7:56you want. I'm like a master at helping
218. 7:58you heal whatever you need to heal in
219. 8:00order to start looking better, in order
220. 8:02to feel better and have that aura that's
221. 8:04literally going to attract everything
222. 8:06and everyone you want. So, if you want
223. 8:07to work with me, my guidance is down
224. 8:09below. Also, I have to sell my manifest
225. 8:11your dream appearance guide where I
226. 8:13basically break down step by step what
227. 8:15to do if you want to manifest a specific
228. 8:17look, how to achieve acceptance,
229. 8:19neutrality, and everything like that is
230. 8:21in the book. If you're stuck in a state
231. 8:23of confusion and desperation, that guide
232. 8:24is going to help you so much. Okay, let
233. 8:27me know if you have any other questions
234. 8:28and thank you for watching my video.