Manifest your *DREAM* relationship — Transcript

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1. 0:00What if I told you that you can have
2. 0:01your dream relationship? You can
3. 0:03manifest your dream relationship, even
4. 0:06if you've been through so many toxic
5. 0:08relationships, even if you've never had
6. 0:10a relationship before, even if you don't
7. 0:13know how to be in a
8. 0:15dream healthy relationship. What if I
9. 0:17told you that you can manifest your
10. 0:18dream relationship where you're being
11. 0:20treated exactly the way that you want,
12. 0:22where you're with the person you
13. 0:23absolutely want to be with, where
14. 0:25everything is working out. Of course,
15. 0:27relationships have a lot of nuance to
16. 0:29them. They do come with the up and
17. 0:30downs, but for the most part, being in
18. 0:32the relationship you've always wanted to
19. 0:33be in, your dream one, the healthy one,
20. 0:36and the one that's actually good for
21. 0:37you. Okay? What if I told you you can
22. 0:39manifest that into existence despite all
23. 0:42the circumstances you are in, despite
24. 0:44everything that is happening in your
25. 0:45life right now, you can manifest your
26. 0:47dream relationship, and that is exactly
27. 0:49what we're going to break down in
28. 0:50today's video. I'm so excited. I don't
29. 0:52really talk about um
30. 0:54uh relationships on this channel, but
31. 0:55I'm going to start to because why we're
32. 0:57talking about identity and we're working
33. 1:00on rewiring our identity, and that is
34. 1:03why this is a perfect topic to talk
35. 1:05about. So, if you're interested in that,
36. 1:06then keep on watching. Hello everyone,
37. 1:08it's Courtney. Welcome to my channel. If
38. 1:10you're new here on the channel, we talk
39. 1:11all about closing the gap between our
40. 1:13current self, our desired self, and
41. 1:15getting the reality we truly, truly
42. 1:18want, the one we truly want to wake up
43. 1:20to every single morning where everything
44. 1:22is exactly as we want. Don't we all want
45. 1:25that? And that is exactly why you need
46. 1:27to subscribe to the channel. That is
47. 1:28exactly why this whole channel is
48. 1:30created. So, it's always me time. Let's
49. 1:32actually get into the video. First order
50. 1:34of business, everything revolves around
51. 1:36identity. Your identity is the root
52. 1:38cause to why you do or don't have
53. 1:40certain things, why you do or don't have
54. 1:42the career you want, why you do or don't
55. 1:44have the relationship you want, why you
56. 1:46do or don't have the finance you want,
57. 1:47and everything else in between. That is
58. 1:50why I'm so proud of the identity we
59. 1:52code, which I highly recommend to anyone
60. 1:54that comes across my videos to go and
61. 1:56get because literally it is rewiring
62. 1:59your identity step by step, week by week
63. 2:02in order to manifest a completely new
64. 2:04reality. If you want a completely new
65. 2:06reality, then the identity we code is
66. 2:08for you. It's literally about rewiring
67. 2:10your identity to manifest a completely
68. 2:12different, different, unrecognizable
69. 2:14reality. It's in the link down below.
70. 2:17Now, let's get actually into the video.
71. 2:19Number one, identity is the root to all
72. 2:21manifestation. It's the root to all of
73. 2:23your manifestation, the reason why
74. 2:24things do or don't work out, the reason
75. 2:26why you say yes or no to certain things,
76. 2:28why you tolerate certain things, why you
77. 2:29allow certain things, why you let
78. 2:31certain things into your life or not
79. 2:33speaking in relationship form, why
80. 2:35things do or don't work out, why you do
81. 2:37or don't sabotage things. It is
82. 2:39literally the root cause as to why you
83. 2:42do or don't have your dream
84. 2:43relationship. If you're here, you're
85. 2:45either here because you're single and
86. 2:46you want a relationship, you're here
87. 2:48because you're in a relationship that's
88. 2:49not good for you, or you're here because
89. 2:51you've had a lot of bad relationships
90. 2:53coming up to this point, and that is
91. 2:54okay. That is exactly what we're going
92. 2:56to break down in this video. Why do I
93. 2:58say identity is the root to all
94. 2:59manifestation including your dream
95. 3:00relationship? Why do I say that? Because
96. 3:03identity controls your unconscious
97. 3:05being, your unconscious ability to do
98. 3:07absolutely everything you're doing right
99. 3:10now in your life, and that includes your
100. 3:12relationship. Okay? Now,
101. 3:14your dream relationship. Okay? Whatever
102. 3:16this may be to you, I hope and I assume
103. 3:18it's a healthy one, but you want to be
104. 3:20in a healthy relationship. But in order
105. 3:22to do that, you have to have a healthy
106. 3:24uh identity towards these relationships.
107. 3:27But because we are all human and because
108. 3:28we all go through certain things, our
109. 3:30identity isn't obviously going to be the
110. 3:32most healthiest. Okay? So, it's not
111. 3:34going to be the most healthiest. We
112. 3:35obviously have our own beliefs,
113. 3:37thoughts, and experiences we have gone
114. 3:38through to shape up the identity we have
115. 3:41right now. Okay? To shape up who we are
116. 3:43right now and how what we tolerate, what
117. 3:45thoughts we have, what we allow in, what
118. 3:46we say no to, what we say yes to, what
119. 3:48we see, what we don't see, what we hear,
120. 3:49what we don't hear. Okay? That is why we
121. 3:52get into these awful relationships,
122. 3:54these toxic ones, the ones where the
123. 3:56people are not treating us the way we
124. 3:57want. So, how does identity influence
125. 4:00all of that? It starts with you. It
126. 4:02starts with the identity you hold. What
127. 4:04do you believe you can tolerate? What do
128. 4:06you believe you can have? What do you
129. 4:07believe you deserve? What do you believe
130. 4:09about yourself? What do you believe
131. 4:11about love? What do you believe about
132. 4:12the world? What is your identity rooted
133. 4:14in when it comes to relationships and
134. 4:16love? Have you always been raised with a
135. 4:18certain identity where you don't you
136. 4:20need to work hard in order to get
137. 4:22things? You need to go and chase after
138. 4:24things? You need to first earn it? Is
139. 4:27that it where your identity is? Is it
140. 4:29because you need to please people all
141. 4:30the time? Maybe you feel your whole life
142. 4:32you just you can't get close to people?
143. 4:35You just can't get close to people? You
144. 4:36can't attach yourself to people, but
145. 4:37also you're low-key attached, but you're
146. 4:38also not attached? Do you feel like you
147. 4:40can tolerate disrespect because you've
148. 4:42always tolerated it your whole entire
149. 4:44life? Like, what is your identity around
150. 4:47relationships? You need to understand
151. 4:48that because that will influence
152. 4:50everything else. It will influence your
153. 4:52thoughts. It will influence what your
154. 4:54brain filters through or not. If for
155. 4:56example, let's say you go into a club,
156. 4:58okay? You're young girl, you go into a
157. 5:00club, and you meet all different kinds
158. 5:02of guys, okay? You meet all different
159. 5:03kinds of guys. You're going to walk out
160. 5:05with one tonight, and that person will
161. 5:07either be a your dream guy, your dream
162. 5:10man, that's this person that's going to
163. 5:11make up your dream relationship, or it's
164. 5:13going to be obviously
165. 5:15everything else, not good, not good for
166. 5:17you, not a good guy, or toxic one, or
167. 5:18just not the one you like, or whatever
168. 5:20the case may be. You're either going to
169. 5:21walk out with a really good guy that's
170. 5:22going to get you in this relationship
171. 5:23that you truly want or not. Okay? So,
172. 5:26now you go into the club. The club, what
173. 5:28you see, what you imprint, what you see
174. 5:31and what you notice will all be
175. 5:32determined by your identity. It
176. 5:34literally all be determined by your
177. 5:35identity. You're going to notice some
178. 5:37guys, and you're going to completely
179. 5:39disregard some other guys. Why? Because
180. 5:41your identity is wired to let your brain
181. 5:43only filter certain thoughts. Our brain
182. 5:45cannot filter too many thoughts at once.
183. 5:47It cannot filter the whole scene at
184. 5:48once. It's going to pick up on certain
185. 5:50things that are important to you and
186. 5:51important to your identity. So, when you
187. 5:53go in, and say for now your goal is look
188. 5:55for guys. Let's just say your goal is to
189. 5:56look for guys. Okay? That is what it is
190. 5:58when you go into the club. Now, you're
191. 5:59going to see a certain group of guys.
192. 6:01You can see these many guys, but you're
193. 6:02going to see only a certain
194. 6:04percentage of those guys. Why? Because
195. 6:06those are the guys that your identity is
196. 6:08comfortable and used to. Okay? Now, when
197. 6:11you say now you go over to a guy and you
198. 6:12talk to this guy. Okay?
199. 6:14What's going to happen? The first things
200. 6:16he's going to say to you is going to
201. 6:18determine whether this guy is good for
202. 6:20you or not. But you won't know that
203. 6:23because say for example, you've always
204. 6:25been in bad relationships. You've always
205. 6:27been in bad relationships in your past.
206. 6:29Okay? So, what is your brain used to?
207. 6:31What is your identity rooted in and used
208. 6:33to and want to be around? That kind of
209. 6:35person. So, when you walk up to a
210. 6:37person, let's say you walk up there's
211. 6:38two guys, a good guy and a a not so
212. 6:40great guy. You walk up to these guys and
213. 6:42they talk to you. Who are you going to
214. 6:44hear? Who are you physically going to
215. 6:46hear and be most interested in? That
216. 6:48guy, the bad guy, the one you're so used
217. 6:50to. You are not even going to pick up or
218. 6:52notice this good guy. He may be the
219. 6:54great guy, the best guy. He may be the
220. 6:56guy for you. You never know. But you
221. 6:59will never know that because what he
222. 7:01said didn't correlate to anything that
223. 7:03has to do with your identity. To your
224. 7:04identity, that is a boring guy. I don't
225. 7:07like him. Whatever he's talking about,
226. 7:08don't like it. I like this guy. I want
227. 7:11this guy. Okay? Because that is what
228. 7:12your identity is used to. If it's been
229. 7:14used to bad guys in the past, it's going
230. 7:16to pick up on this guy that's going to
231. 7:17reinforce, reinstate, and re-affirm your
232. 7:21current identity that this is the guy
233. 7:23you get to have. And even if he's a good
234. 7:25guy first cuz maybe your identity say
235. 7:27that they're first good, they're first
236. 7:28good guys, and then afterwards they fall
237. 7:30off. Okay? Why? Because that is who your
238. 7:32identity is looking for. Now, this guy,
239. 7:34he treats you good at first. Maybe you
240. 7:36what you want to hear is everything
241. 7:37you're hearing right now, not even
242. 7:39knowing that the things this person
243. 7:40might be saying might just give you the
244. 7:43exact information you need to know that
245. 7:45this guy's going to leave you or drop
246. 7:46you down the line later on. Whereas this
247. 7:49guy who's talking about nothing to do
248. 7:50about the sexual relationship you're
249. 7:52about to have or the things you're about
250. 7:54to do together. He's not talking about
251. 7:56that. He's talking about a simple thing,
252. 7:57my jacket, this thing, why I like the
253. 7:59jacket you're wearing, where did you get
254. 8:00it from? So boring, right? But what if
255. 8:02that is the exact information you need
256. 8:04to hear to know that this guy has other
257. 8:07interests? He's not interested in just
258. 8:08like this guy's completely complimenting
259. 8:10you and interesting you and love bombing
260. 8:12you the minute you start talking to them
261. 8:14because this is the type of person you
262. 8:15get. You get with these guys that are
263. 8:17like this, good at first, and then
264. 8:19suddenly drop you down the line. Okay?
265. 8:21Because these are the kind of guys you
266. 8:22don't even know that your brain is
267. 8:24filtering, processing information,
268. 8:26influencing your behavior, and
269. 8:27attracting you to the same, similar kind
270. 8:30of situations because that is what your
271. 8:32identity is used to. That is what you
272. 8:33keep manifesting into existence because
273. 8:36of your identity.
274. 8:38Okay? Now, this other guy could be the
275. 8:40guy of your dreams. You never know.
276. 8:42We're just saying. We're just making an
277. 8:43example in this specific scenario. And
278. 8:46then this guy is not talking about how
279. 8:49he thinks you're cute and he thinks you
280. 8:51are so pretty. He's talking about
281. 8:52something else. He's talking about your
282. 8:54jacket you're wearing, where did you get
283. 8:55the jacket from? Are you Do you always
284. 8:57wear heels? Is this something you always
285. 8:58do? Is this a regular thing for you? Uh
286. 9:00whatever the case may be. But to your
287. 9:02brain, that sounds boring. But little
288. 9:04did you know that that could be the
289. 9:05exact thing that is a healthy
290. 9:07relationship. is just not used to it.
291. 9:09Your identity is not used to it. You
292. 9:11don't manifest these kind of guys. You
293. 9:12manifest these kind of guys. So, that's
294. 9:13what you're going to keep manifesting
295. 9:15into existence. Or you can start to
296. 9:17actually change your identity and become
297. 9:20more aware and oblivious to all kind of
298. 9:23guys. That's where you can decide what
299. 9:25you tolerate and decide what you don't
300. 9:27tolerate. Manifestation is also about
301. 9:29what you do and don't tolerate because
302. 9:31your identity says yes and no to
303. 9:33specific things. If you are someone who
304. 9:35say, "I tolerate disrespect. I tolerate
305. 9:37disrespect." Of course, your identity is
306. 9:39saying I tolerate disrespect, it will
307. 9:41allow you to say yes to things that are
308. 9:43disrespectful to you. It's going to
309. 9:45allow you even the small micro things
310. 9:47you don't notice at first, but you say
311. 9:49yes to it, and that is the exact
312. 9:51indication to tell you that this is not
313. 9:53a good person. This is not a healthy
314. 9:55relationship. If you want to continue
315. 9:57manifesting unhealthy relationships,
316. 9:59you're going to keep saying yes. You're
317. 10:01going to keep tolerating certain things
318. 10:02because your identity is rooted in that.
319. 10:05It allows you to set certain standards
320. 10:07or to not set certain standards. It
321. 10:09allows you to set certain boundaries or
322. 10:11to not set certain boundaries. Who you
323. 10:14tolerate at the end of the day. If you
324. 10:16had to choose between this dynamic
325. 10:17between this guy and this guy, who you
326. 10:19tolerate? If you don't tolerate
327. 10:20compliments the first round and not
328. 10:22compliments but she's complete like
329. 10:25flirtatious, you're not talking about
330. 10:27anything interesting, there's not nuance
331. 10:28to you. All you're talking about is like
332. 10:30basically how cute I'm like, yes, I know
333. 10:32how cute I am. Like, okay, there's going
334. 10:34to be 1,200 people in this bar telling
335. 10:36me how cute I am. Oh my gosh, so
336. 10:38unoriginal and so pathetic. But anyways,
337. 10:40if you're going to keep saying that, I
338. 10:41can already pick up on who you are.
339. 10:42You're smoothing me up, you're trying to
340. 10:44get me and I see this pattern. I've been
341. 10:46through this before. I know these kind
342. 10:48of guys and I know how it ends.
343. 10:49Identity, I'm about to prove you wrong.
344. 10:51Look at me going talk to the most boring
345. 10:53guy on the planet about what kind of
346. 10:55heels I'm wearing and what jacket I'm
347. 10:56wearing. But let little did you know
348. 10:58that you talking about those things
349. 11:00shows that this person is interested in
350. 11:02something completely different. He's not
351. 11:04interested in telling you how you look
352. 11:05and trying to smooth you up. He doesn't
353. 11:07care to smooth you up or not in that
354. 11:08moment. Why? Because this person is not
355. 11:10immediately attracted to you, meaning
356. 11:12there's certain intention behind what
357. 11:13he's doing. He's not immediately
358. 11:15attracted to me. He's thinking like, oh,
359. 11:17this is interesting about me but he's
360. 11:18not immediately trying to lay me over
361. 11:21and trying to like be a try make me feel
362. 11:23some sort of way. He's a neutral person.
363. 11:25He's going into this neutral, it means
364. 11:27he has a more neutral perspective on
365. 11:29things. He's not here for some certain
366. 11:31thing for me. He's not trying to
367. 11:33you know, there is just differences. If
368. 11:35you go into it and you actually start to
369. 11:37work on your identity, you will start to
370. 11:39see you yourself manifesting
371. 11:41and tolerating, saying yes to saying no
372. 11:43to certain things that's going to let
373. 11:45you into certain relationships, whether
374. 11:46that is with a guy, with friends. Who
375. 11:49you tolerate in life is going to be
376. 11:51determined by your identity. Your
377. 11:53identity sets the standard. It chooses
378. 11:55your behavior. It chooses what you say
379. 11:57yes or no to. Okay? And when you go
380. 12:00and you talk to this person, you can
381. 12:01also start to filter through whether
382. 12:03this person's
383. 12:04intentions are good or not because
384. 12:06you're able to actually hear it through
385. 12:08a brain, through a proper identity that
386. 12:10is healed and it has healed from those
387. 12:13toxic things you felt once before. When
388. 12:15a guy shows immediate interest, he must
389. 12:17be interested. If he shows you for 2
390. 12:18weeks interest, okay, this is the guy
391. 12:20and in the third week he drops you and
392. 12:21the cycle repeats all again because you
393. 12:24when you walked into the bar the first
394. 12:25time around, all you saw was this guy.
395. 12:27You saw this guy and he was like this
396. 12:29guy that was smoothing you up and you're
397. 12:30so used to this is what's normal to you.
398. 12:32So you're going to go in that direction.
399. 12:34Now, this is just kind of like a small
400. 12:36example but to manifest your dream
401. 12:37relationship is simple. It starts with
402. 12:40understanding the identity you were
403. 12:41always holding, especially if you have a
404. 12:43pattern or record of being with specific
405. 12:45guys. And if you are single and you want
406. 12:48to manifest a completely new
407. 12:49relationship, all you need to do is
408. 12:50decipher what kind of relationship you
409. 12:53truly, truly want to be in. And then ask
410. 12:55yourself, what kind of person do you
411. 12:57need to be in order to deserve that kind
412. 13:00of relationship? You need to have a
413. 13:02specific identity to match with a
414. 13:04specific relationship or reality you
415. 13:06want to experience and live in. So if
416. 13:08you want to manifest this relationship,
417. 13:11you will say, this is the person I want.
418. 13:12This is how I want things to be. This is
419. 13:14who we need to be. The minute he talks
420. 13:15to me, the minute he talks to me, this
421. 13:17is who he needs to be. This is how he
422. 13:18needs to be. This is how he needs to
423. 13:19act. This is what he needs to be like.
424. 13:21Okay? And once you decipher that, that
425. 13:23is who you want, you will start to say
426. 13:25yes or no to certain things. If you say
427. 13:28if you saying
428. 13:30I want this guy to the first date we go
429. 13:32on, he's completely investing in me.
430. 13:34He's making it a very, very good date.
431. 13:37You are showing your investment. That's
432. 13:39just a personal preference. You're
433. 13:40showing your investment. Okay? Now,
434. 13:43when you go on this first date and it's
435. 13:44not up to par to what you had in mind,
436. 13:47your identity is going to determine
437. 13:48whether you say yes or no, whether you
438. 13:50tolerate, whether you walk away, whether
439. 13:52you stay, what behaviors you have. Now,
440. 13:53if your identity is I'm not good enough,
441. 13:56you're going to accept this and you're
442. 13:57going to say, okay, he tried his best.
443. 13:59Okay, it's not even that bad. It's not
444. 14:01We can see with a second. No, red flag.
445. 14:04You're walking right back into your old
446. 14:06identity. But if you're going to say,
447. 14:08wait, these are the things I set for
448. 14:10myself. I'm not going to tolerate this.
449. 14:12I can go a little bit longer alone than
450. 14:15tolerate this behavior right now from
451. 14:17the get-go,
452. 14:18you're going You're manifesting it.
453. 14:20Those decisions, those micro decisions
454. 14:22you're making is manifesting up to a
455. 14:25healthy relationship because you set the
456. 14:27standard for your identity. You told
457. 14:29yourself, this is who I am, the person
458. 14:30that says no to stuff that are not up to
459. 14:33par with what I want. I get what I want
460. 14:36is my identity and if this isn't it, I
461. 14:39say no and I'm okay without it because I
462. 14:41do not even I discard things that aren't
463. 14:44yes, this is what I want. That is how it
464. 14:46works.
465. 14:48Okay, this was a long one. I didn't even
466. 14:49get into all the chapters because my
467. 14:51phone storage is about to die but
468. 14:52basically I said all the chapters that I
469. 14:54was going to talk about in any case. So
470. 14:57don't don't um come for me, okay? So
471. 15:00basically that is the video for today. I
472. 15:02hope this video helped you. I'll make a
473. 15:03more new ones in-depth version of this
474. 15:05where I'm a little bit more prepared
475. 15:06with all the chapters and then we will
476. 15:08go through everything you need to do in
477. 15:09order to manifest your dream
478. 15:10relationship. I hope you enjoyed this
479. 15:12video. Before we go, just remember very
480. 15:14proud of the identity we got in number
481. 15:16one place for you to manifest
482. 15:18any life you want, any reality you want,
483. 15:21anything that you want just by rewiring
484. 15:23that identity of yours. Literally, I
485. 15:27It's my holy grail. Please go and check
486. 15:29it out if you're really serious about
487. 15:31manifesting completely different reality
488. 15:33just by rewiring
489. 15:34that little identity of yours. Now, I'll
490. 15:36see you guys very soon in another video.