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  1. 0:00Please, pretty please send me one of
  2. 0:03your videos. I don't know how to even
  3. 0:06say the words. Well, what what give me a
  4. 0:09roundabout what you're thinking?
  5. 0:11That somebody in my family's dead. This
  6. 0:14is the story of Granamato. He became
  7. 0:16obsessed with a Bulgarian webcam model
  8. 0:18named Sylvie. His addiction spiraled out
  9. 0:21of control and he ended up stealing
  10. 0:23large amounts of money from his own
  11. 0:24family just to keep chatting with her.
  12. 0:26His family noticed something was wrong
  13. 0:28and tried to help. Eventually, they gave
  14. 0:31him a choice. Stop talking to Sylvie or
  15. 0:34move out. Grant didn't take it well. He
  16. 0:36was forced to leave the house and the
  17. 0:38very next day, his brother didn't show
  18. 0:40up for work. Concerned police went to
  19. 0:42the house and what they found was
  20. 0:45horrifying. All three of Grant's family
  21. 0:47members had been murdered. Grant claimed
  22. 0:50he had nothing to do with it, but
  23. 0:51investigators didn't buy it. He was
  24. 0:53found guilty and sentenced to life in
  25. 0:55prison. It's a chilling reminder of how
  26. 0:58dangerous unchecked obsession and
  27. 1:00addiction can become. Now, let's jump
  28. 1:02into Grant's police interrogation. It
  29. 1:05started off like most do, calm and by
  30. 1:07the book. The detectives asked him to
  31. 1:10state his name and share some basic
  32. 1:11information. Nothing unusual. They asked
  33. 1:14about his education, and Grant told them
  34. 1:16he had a bachelor's degree in nursing.
  35. 1:18He also mentioned that he had a job
  36. 1:20interview the day before, which caught
  37. 1:22the detective's interest. They pressed
  38. 1:24for more details.
  39. 1:27So, you got to walk through Coke or
  40. 1:28anything? No, no, no, no. I'll hold off
  41. 1:30on that. Okay. Hi, I'm Eva. Hi. How are
  42. 1:32you?
  43. 1:34I'm here. Hey, we really appreciate you
  44. 1:37coming up here with us and uh at any
  45. 1:40time during this you need to stop and go
  46. 1:41to the bathroom, want a drink, um
  47. 1:44snacks, just let me know and we we'll be
  48. 1:47happy to get to it. Um my name is Danny
  49. 1:49Anderson and uh I'm a deputy county
  50. 1:52Sheriff's Office as is Eva. Um, so we
  51. 1:55just want to talk to you a little bit
  52. 1:56and we'll get this in and out. Be on our
  53. 1:58way. Okay. Um, full name. My, uh, full
  54. 2:03name is Grant Tieran Amato. How do you
  55. 2:05spell Tan? T I E R N A N. I like that.
  56. 2:11Your birth? Um, May 20th, 1989. Okay.
  57. 2:16Um, home address. Home address is 2112
  58. 2:19Sultan
  59. 2:20Circle, Trulio, Florida.
  60. 2:2532766.
  61. 2:28Um, phone number uh for the home or for
  62. 2:32home. Well, I mean my original cell
  63. 2:34phone number was
  64. 2:394076870738. Uh, home phone number was
  65. 2:454079711422. Uh, my cell phone currently
  66. 2:47doesn't have any service with it. So, I
  67. 2:49mean, it's just So, you don't have you
  68. 2:52haven't moved to another just that one's
  69. 2:54no longer good. My dad had told me that
  70. 2:56he that when he disconnected my service
  71. 2:57that he also changed my phone number.
  72. 2:59So, I don't know what the new phone
  73. 3:00number is, but uh I mean it's probably
  74. 3:03like you can probably still see it. Do
  75. 3:04you have the phone or it it was in my
  76. 3:06duffel bag. Oh, there gotcha.
  77. 3:10Um email. You have an email if we need
  78. 3:12to. My main email is Giamato all one
  79. 3:16word all all lowercase. uh Giamato light
  80. 3:19like a light bulbgmail.com
  81. 3:26education I have a bachelor's of science
  82. 3:28in nursing from UCF back in
  83. 3:332011 uh and that's my highest level okay
  84. 3:36what what is there any special uh
  85. 3:38nursing degree what you do or uh I mean
  86. 3:41I have like other certifications
  87. 3:43um but uh I mean with that like I
  88. 3:46primarily worked in the hospital
  89. 3:48for I think 5 years, five or six years
  90. 3:52and then I was pursuing a master's of
  91. 3:54science in nurse anesthesia. Um that was
  92. 3:57back in 2015 I believe. Okay. Um, but
  93. 4:01then I didn't complete that and then I
  94. 4:02just went back to nursing. And then when
  95. 4:04this
  96. 4:05whole like wrongful accusation of the
  97. 4:08grand theft charge that I told you about
  98. 4:09in the car when that happened, uh, I
  99. 4:12stopped working at the hospital and then
  100. 4:14that took like I don't think we I don't
  101. 4:16think we talked about that in the car.
  102. 4:17Oh. Oh. Well, I had I was accused of
  103. 4:19grand theft of the third degree back
  104. 4:22in June of 2018. Um that like went on
  105. 4:28for 6 months and during that time I
  106. 4:30obviously wasn't allowed to work because
  107. 4:31of it. Um and then where was that at?
  108. 4:35Florida Hospital South, the main one
  109. 4:37down in Orlando. General Orange Avenue.
  110. 4:39Uh
  111. 4:41Rollins, that's where it is. Rollins.
  112. 4:43Okay. Um so when that happened,
  113. 4:46obviously I was dismissed from that job
  114. 4:48and then I couldn't get another job
  115. 4:49because now you have an outstanding
  116. 4:51felony charge on your name. Sure. Um so
  117. 4:53then I got the attorney. It it all went
  118. 4:55through and then finally in December
  119. 4:57they posted on the Orange County clerk
  120. 5:00courts or whatever website where your
  121. 5:02where your file is that there was no
  122. 5:04evidence ever ever presented. All the
  123. 5:06charges were dropped and now I'm just in
  124. 5:08the process of expuning that from my
  125. 5:09records. But
  126. 5:12um because you know I can't keep just
  127. 5:15not working forever. Uh and you know
  128. 5:17that was that was kind of a a topic
  129. 5:20around the house was you know I need to
  130. 5:22get started here right? Um, who was your
  131. 5:24attorney for for that? Uh, Lauren Lyham,
  132. 5:26Chapman, Chapman Law Group. Okay.
  133. 5:28They're I think that one's based in
  134. 5:30Sarasota. Okay.
  135. 5:33Um, so then, but they didn't really have
  136. 5:35to do anything. State attorney file any
  137. 5:37charges. So, state attorney didn't file
  138. 5:39anything and then she just presented
  139. 5:41that she was going to be my attorney and
  140. 5:42that was the most work she ever had to
  141. 5:44do. Okay.
  142. 5:46Um, and then I'd been applying for jobs
  143. 5:50for the last couple weeks. I'd gotten a
  144. 5:52like three or four call backs. Um, and
  145. 5:55then I went on a job interview yesterday
  146. 5:56for a home infusion nurse job. Where
  147. 5:59where was that at? Um, that was with uh
  148. 6:05God a Creta a credto.
  149. 6:09Is that like a staffing or is that a
  150. 6:12like a like a head hunter kind of job?
  151. 6:14No, no, no. That's uh that's like their
  152. 6:16actual company. It's uh God, why can I
  153. 6:18not remember the first name? It's
  154. 6:19something scripts team scripts.
  155. 6:25Where's the location? Uh, it's out close
  156. 6:28to the airport. It's on Lee Vista.
  157. 6:32What time was your interview yesterday?
  158. 6:34Uh, it was scheduled for 10:00. I got
  159. 6:36there around 9.
  160. 6:38Uh, and then I think we actually had the
  161. 6:40interview at about 9:45. How'd that go?
  162. 6:42I mean, it was all good. Uh, they didn't
  163. 6:44have anything. They said that they'd
  164. 6:45probably be getting back to me by
  165. 6:46Tuesday or Thursday this coming week.
  166. 6:48get you back to work. Yeah. Yeah. Cuz I
  167. 6:51mean it's like it's crappy world when
  168. 6:54you know you don't have any money, you
  169. 6:55can't do anything. So financially, how
  170. 6:58how's the the nursing what you did? I'm
  171. 7:00sorry I just don't know that much. She
  172. 7:01knows all about nursing. The nursing how
  173. 7:03how does it pay? How does it pay? Um I
  174. 7:05mean if you work your your standard 3 31
  175. 7:0712 hours a week, you get anywhere
  176. 7:09between I'd say 45 and $55,000 a year.
  177. 7:12So I mean it's not bad. Um, obviously if
  178. 7:15you work overtime like some of the
  179. 7:17nurses who have also been nurses for a
  180. 7:18long time. Uh, I mean they can make six
  181. 7:21figures if if you work five years. What
  182. 7:23was your best What was your best year? I
  183. 7:25think my best year I made like 55,000.
  184. 7:2755 cuz I rarely worked overtime, right?
  185. 7:29You know, and I was just cuz I I had the
  186. 7:31whole plan of going to uh to graduate
  187. 7:33school. So I was just kind of using it
  188. 7:35as a stepping stone for that time. Just
  189. 7:36to pay the bills to get you where you
  190. 7:37gota and that and what you're going for,
  191. 7:41what does that pay? Nurse anesthesia
  192. 7:43pays I mean base like about 150 up to
  193. 7:47175. You work a lot of overtime. You can
  194. 7:49cusp 200 but then you know. So what
  195. 7:51would you actually be doing if I could
  196. 7:54do anything? No I mean with that job
  197. 7:55that an nursing right what would you Oh
  198. 7:59yeah nursing test. Thank you. Uh you
  199. 8:01just be you're the you're in the O. You
  200. 8:04put the patients to sleep keep them
  201. 8:05alive during surgery. Wake them up. Send
  202. 8:07them off to I thought that was a doctor
  203. 8:09that did that in Florida. Yeah. In
  204. 8:11Florida, the anesthesiologist, which is
  205. 8:13the MD equivalent, if you will, they
  206. 8:16have to come in at the start of surgery,
  207. 8:18they have to induce the patient to put
  208. 8:20them to sleep. And then as long as
  209. 8:21they're comfortable with you, the
  210. 8:22surgeon's comfortable with you, then the
  211. 8:24anesthesiologist leaves and then you
  212. 8:26take care of the whole entire surgical,
  213. 8:28right? Okay. And then again, you know,
  214. 8:31by the time you're a CRNA, you're
  215. 8:33obviously confident enough to wake the
  216. 8:35patient up. So when I was a student
  217. 8:37though, the anesthesiologist would
  218. 8:38sometimes come back in for wake up to
  219. 8:40make sure everything's okay and then you
  220. 8:42take them to the uh pack or the posttop
  221. 8:44area, drop them off, you give the nurse
  222. 8:47report and then you go on to your next
  223. 8:48case. Okay.
  224. 8:50Um high school, where'd you go? I went
  225. 8:53to Timber Creek High School on Avalon.
  226. 8:56Okay. And graduated what year? Uh 2007.
  227. 9:00Okay. And then did you go right to UCF
  228. 9:02and start your degree? Summer. Summer.
  229. 9:04Yeah. spoken.
  230. 9:06This interview took place just one day
  231. 9:08after the murders. At first, the
  232. 9:10detectives asked Grant casual, harmless
  233. 9:12questions. Things like his daily life,
  234. 9:15past relationships, and hobbies. The
  235. 9:17goal was to make him feel comfortable so
  236. 9:19they could later surprise him with the
  237. 9:21tough questions. Grant opened up easily.
  238. 9:24He talked about watching anime and
  239. 9:26playing video games with his brother. He
  240. 9:28spoke fondly of him, which made it hard
  241. 9:30to believe he could be responsible for
  242. 9:32his death. As the conversation went on,
  243. 9:35it became clear that Grant was really
  244. 9:37into computers and gaming. He talked
  245. 9:40about trying to build a career on Twitch
  246. 9:42and eventually brought up the trouble
  247. 9:43he'd gotten into for stealing. Then the
  248. 9:46topic shifted and things took a darker
  249. 9:48turn. Grant began talking about his
  250. 9:51online girlfriend, the woman he had
  251. 9:53become dangerously obsessed with.
  252. 9:56Uh, just like all the videos, you have
  253. 9:58to tell us. a cam model. It's like they
  254. 10:01they it's like a virtual girlfriend, I
  255. 10:04guess you could say. Okay. Like that
  256. 10:05type of situation. Mhm. So, a lot of the
  257. 10:08money went to her. Okay. Where's she at?
  258. 10:10She lives in Bulgaria. Where? Bulgaria.
  259. 10:13Where's that? Over in Europe. It's like
  260. 10:16outside of Germany. Something like that.
  261. 10:17You ever been there? No. Okay. Um it
  262. 10:20wasn't it wasn't that serious. What
  263. 10:21would you give her money for? Um just
  264. 10:23for like the time online with her. Yeah.
  265. 10:26So, it was just like that type of thing.
  266. 10:28And what does she charge by the minute?
  267. 10:30By the hour? Minutes. Okay. And how much
  268. 10:32is it per minute? Oh god. I think it was
  269. 10:34like
  270. 10:36it was like 90 tokens a minute. And it's
  271. 10:40like the conversion rate for all of that
  272. 10:43is like like $600 for like a like 5,000
  273. 10:50or something tokens or something like
  274. 10:51that. So, and then it was 4 hours a
  275. 10:54night.
  276. 10:55Um, so I mean it's I mean that's
  277. 10:57basically just where all like the cost
  278. 10:58went to was you pay real money for the
  279. 11:00tokens then you use the company's
  280. 11:02digital currency for that. So you do and
  281. 11:05when did you meet her? I met her
  282. 11:08[Music]
  283. 11:11um at the beginning of July. Yeah. At
  284. 11:15the very beginning of July. Okay. And
  285. 11:18and still talking to her? Still. Yeah. I
  286. 11:21mean, more just on uh like Twitter, like
  287. 11:23just through direct messaging. Um,
  288. 11:25again, cell phone service doesn't work,
  289. 11:27so it's like I can't use the the
  290. 11:29chatting like that. How much do you
  291. 11:30think you spent on this? Cuz it seems
  292. 11:32kind of pricey. Yeah. 90 tokens and and
  293. 11:36$5,000 for for how many tokens?
  294. 11:40No, no, it's $600 for for 5,000. For
  295. 11:435,000. Okay. So, how much do you think
  296. 11:45you spent um on this?
  297. 11:48probably close
  298. 11:52to like
  299. 11:54$200,000, I'd say. $200,000? Yeah. And
  300. 11:59where did the money come from? Money
  301. 12:00came from me, uh, my brother, and then
  302. 12:04my dad.
  303. 12:05Did they know where the money was going
  304. 12:07to? They didn't know that it was going
  305. 12:09to, uh, a cam, a cam model. I was saying
  306. 12:12that it was going towards my Twitch
  307. 12:15streaming uh like
  308. 12:18stuff. Yeah. Like advertising, like
  309. 12:19putting my name out there and that that
  310. 12:21type of thing. But based on what you're
  311. 12:23telling me, only so many people make so
  312. 12:25much money just I think just a few make
  313. 12:28a bunch of money. So that that was like
  314. 12:30that the ultimate goal is to get to
  315. 12:31that. I was hoping that that the stars
  316. 12:33would align and then I would be like one
  317. 12:35of those people because I was good at
  318. 12:36the games and I you know I'm a like a
  319. 12:39funny pleasant person on the camera and
  320. 12:41that type of thing. So um yeah I mean
  321. 12:45that's so I guess to like bring it all
  322. 12:47back with why I was brought to
  323. 12:49Cornerstone. Uh it was a mix of all of
  324. 12:53those things. It's like he felt
  325. 12:55like you know I
  326. 12:58um he felt like you needed to be
  327. 13:00grounded. Yeah. Yeah. And so then I was
  328. 13:04there, you know, I spoke to like the
  329. 13:06therapist and psychiatrist and all that
  330. 13:07stuff. I didn't need any medications for
  331. 13:09anything. They had analyzed it as this
  332. 13:13is an isolated event. You've been out of
  333. 13:14work. You have this PTSD from the whole
  334. 13:18getting arrested thing. And I mean, the
  335. 13:20last thing on my record was, I think, a
  336. 13:22speeding ticket back when I was at UCF.
  337. 13:24And then, you know, just having all of
  338. 13:26that stuff going on.
  339. 13:30Um, but then I didn't they had signed me
  340. 13:33they they had signed me up I think to be
  341. 13:35there for 60 days but then I was only
  342. 13:37there until January 4th. So who paid for
  343. 13:40that? My brother Cody. What was the cost
  344. 13:41of that? You know 15,000. It was
  345. 13:44$15,000 and then I think uh when I had
  346. 13:48gotten back, we were going through the
  347. 13:49process of calling them and seeing if we
  348. 13:50could get any type of refund. And I
  349. 13:52think they said that he was going to get
  350. 13:54refunded $3,000 from his 15. Sure. Um
  351. 13:57but I don't there so long. Right. Right.
  352. 13:59But I don't know if that transaction had
  353. 14:01ever gone through yet. So their final
  354. 14:03diagnosis of you was what? That I was
  355. 14:05fine. That didn't need to be there.
  356. 14:07Yeah. That I was I was fine. I told them
  357. 14:09all about like my living situation and
  358. 14:11how it had been stressful and then it
  359. 14:13got better and then now it's just
  360. 14:14stressful again. But they had all just
  361. 14:17said that it was just this isolated
  362. 14:18event situational PTSD from Right. Yeah.
  363. 14:20Yeah, like once once you can get this
  364. 14:22legal thing taken care of, which I I
  365. 14:25don't know if I mentioned, but when we
  366. 14:27looked online and we saw that all the
  367. 14:28charges have been dropped, that was on
  368. 14:30like November 30th or 31st, the day
  369. 14:32before we were going to Japan. So, while
  370. 14:35that was good and everything, um I still
  371. 14:38knew that it was still going to be like
  372. 14:40on your record until you get it expuned.
  373. 14:42So, you know, I was still thinking,
  374. 14:44okay, at least now I can maybe start
  375. 14:46applying when we get back from Japan.
  376. 14:49Um, but you
  377. 14:52know, yeah. So, I mean, after you get
  378. 14:55back, you got back on the 15th of
  379. 14:58December of December.
  380. 15:02Got
  381. 15:02back. I thought you said you went on the
  382. 15:0522nd of December. Yeah, that's when
  383. 15:07that's when I went to Yeah, it was after
  384. 15:08Japan. And it was because when I had
  385. 15:11gotten back, my um my mom and dad were,
  386. 15:15you know, dealing with a lot of the
  387. 15:17financial stuff while we were up there.
  388. 15:18Mhm. And then um when I got back, that's
  389. 15:22where my dad started to get really kind
  390. 15:24of overbearing. And I mean, rightfully
  391. 15:26so. I know what I did, but it's like
  392. 15:28with him, it was every single day, hours
  393. 15:30a day, excuse me, hours a day. He'd come
  394. 15:33home from work and then he would just
  395. 15:36talk to me just about the same exact
  396. 15:38thing over and over and over and over
  397. 15:39and over again. And did he get did he
  398. 15:41get heated? He would get heated, but he
  399. 15:43How about you? Did you get heated? No. I
  400. 15:45mean, I was, you know, I I was always
  401. 15:47the person in the family where like my
  402. 15:49brother Cody would interrupt my dad when
  403. 15:51he was talking. Uh my mom would
  404. 15:53interject and say, "You can't be saying
  405. 15:55that," or whatever. But for me, I would
  406. 15:57just sit there and I would just let my
  407. 15:58dad talk so that he could say everything
  408. 15:59that he wanted to say. Um and then if I
  409. 16:02saw that it was something that he wanted
  410. 16:03me to respond to, then I'd respond. But
  411. 16:05I would never be heeded to him. Sure.
  412. 16:07Especially if I felt like I was in the
  413. 16:08wrong, right? Um do you think you were
  414. 16:11in the wrong? I mean, yeah. To some
  415. 16:13extent. To some extent. you know, uh,
  416. 16:15spending that amount of money, it's
  417. 16:16idiotic to do that, you know, especially
  418. 16:18when you're not making 200,000. At this
  419. 16:21point, Amato begins to explain how he
  420. 16:23met Sylvie, the woman who would
  421. 16:25ultimately ruin his life. She was a cam
  422. 16:28model on a website and spending time
  423. 16:29with her didn't come cheap. Amato
  424. 16:32quickly became hooked. He ended up
  425. 16:34spending nearly $200,000 of his family's
  426. 16:36money just to keep talking to her. He
  427. 16:39never told them the truth. Instead, he
  428. 16:41lied and said the money was going toward
  429. 16:44his streaming career. During the
  430. 16:46interview, he admitted to the police
  431. 16:47that he had spent a huge amount on
  432. 16:49Sylvie. But the strange thing was how
  433. 16:51casually he talked about it as if he
  434. 16:54didn't see anything wrong with what he
  435. 16:55had done. He had conversation. Uh it
  436. 16:57would
  437. 16:58be Thursday, Thursday. Uh
  438. 17:02because one of his rules was that I
  439. 17:05wasn't allowed to talk to the woman
  440. 17:06anymore that I had been talking to. Um,
  441. 17:10but I guess you could say behind the
  442. 17:12scenes, my mom would let me talk to her
  443. 17:15through her cell phone using Twitter.
  444. 17:18Um, and you know, she would tell me
  445. 17:21like, "Look, you got to keep it, you
  446. 17:24have to keep it just basic because if
  447. 17:26you say anything or if you entice
  448. 17:28anything or do anything like that, it
  449. 17:30might lead her
  450. 17:33to say something to like my dad or
  451. 17:35something like that." Because how would
  452. 17:36she get in touch with him? Because
  453. 17:38apparently when I was in Cornerstone, my
  454. 17:40dad told her because because he had like
  455. 17:44hacked my computer or something like
  456. 17:45that and then he found everything
  457. 17:47electronics guy like you and your
  458. 17:48brother except he's more of that like
  459. 17:50hacking level like able to do all that
  460. 17:52stuff. So he had found you know um like
  461. 17:56just the stuff that was related to her
  462. 17:59and
  463. 18:00then you know he like he like erased my
  464. 18:03whole entire computer. He put a password
  465. 18:05on it. So, it's like even when I came
  466. 18:06back up until Thursday, like I wasn't
  467. 18:08able to go onto my own computer to look
  468. 18:10at anything. I basically he was treating
  469. 18:12you like a small child, right? And
  470. 18:14rightfully so. I mean, spending that
  471. 18:16amount of I was acting childish. I I can
  472. 18:18kind of get it. But, um, so yeah,
  473. 18:21anyways, on Thursday, he had apparently
  474. 18:24found out that I was speaking to her
  475. 18:26again. And when I came back on the 4th,
  476. 18:31me, my mom picked me up from the
  477. 18:33Cornerstone place. And then me and my
  478. 18:35mom met my dad at California Pizza Grill
  479. 18:38or Kitchen in Waterford Lakes. And he
  480. 18:41had this list front and back on a piece
  481. 18:43of paper of all the rules. This is
  482. 18:46what's going to happen. This is why I'm
  483. 18:48acting the way that I'm going to act.
  484. 18:49I'm not going to be dad anymore. I'm
  485. 18:50going to be Chad. And I basically told
  486. 18:54him that I'm going to be I'm going to be
  487. 18:58present. I'm going to do what I can. I'm
  488. 19:00going to start to try and get jobs. Now,
  489. 19:01I told him what my plan was.
  490. 19:03Um, you know, it wasn't really my
  491. 19:06intention to get This shows just how far
  492. 19:08Gran's family went to stop him from
  493. 19:10talking to the Bulgarian woman. They
  494. 19:12took serious steps to block his access.
  495. 19:14Almost like they were dealing with a
  496. 19:16child, not a grown man. What's shocking
  497. 19:18is that Grant still didn't see anything
  498. 19:20wrong with what he was doing. Even after
  499. 19:23his father told him to stop, Grant kept
  500. 19:25talking to her in secret. He went behind
  501. 19:27his family's back and did it anyway. was
  502. 19:31um you know it wasn't really my
  503. 19:34intention to continue talking to this
  504. 19:35woman but it just kind of happened. Um
  505. 19:39and then because there was like that
  506. 19:41emotional connection I guess you could
  507. 19:42say uh between her and me like I I like
  508. 19:46you know it felt like like like a
  509. 19:47relationship you know I didn't want to
  510. 19:48just stop cold turkey on it.
  511. 19:51Um, so he had apparently found out and
  512. 19:55then one happy, right? And one of the
  513. 19:57stipulations was that he told at the
  514. 19:59dinner was if you speak to this woman
  515. 20:02again, you're out of the house. I'm
  516. 20:04kicking you out. You can pack up your
  517. 20:06[ __ ] and then you're off my property.
  518. 20:08Mhm. And then because of the way that he
  519. 20:11used to be, he had told me
  520. 20:14that basically if that happens that if I
  521. 20:17ever step back onto his property that he
  522. 20:19would kill me. So, you know, on
  523. 20:23Thursday,
  524. 20:25um um that all happened and then I was
  525. 20:29in the process. I was getting all my
  526. 20:30stuff together. I was peacemealing it
  527. 20:32out to the car and then uh you know I
  528. 20:36had interview on Friday so I I had to
  529. 20:39get my suit out to my car. I was trying
  530. 20:41to just get all of my necessities as
  531. 20:43best as I could from, you know, a
  532. 20:45lifetime of living inside the house. And
  533. 20:47then
  534. 20:49um
  535. 20:51um my brother was working that night and
  536. 20:54I think he was working like one of his
  537. 20:56long nights but he ended up getting off
  538. 20:57early and then I had met with my brother
  539. 21:01before he came home just like in the
  540. 21:03neighborhood area and then where it was
  541. 21:06just on the uh like the back side of the
  542. 21:09house like along I don't remember what
  543. 21:10that road's called but it's like you
  544. 21:12take the bend where it has those two
  545. 21:14blinking lights and then it's just down
  546. 21:16that road
  547. 21:17Not for Christmas.
  548. 21:19Is it for Christmas when you still turn
  549. 21:21the corner? I think so. I'm not I think
  550. 21:24so. Well, it was Yeah, it was just it
  551. 21:26was just down that road. Okay. Um and
  552. 21:30then I basically brought him up to speed
  553. 21:32and he had told me that he was going to
  554. 21:34do whatever. What time was anything?
  555. 21:37Uh God, what time was that? What What
  556. 21:40time do you go to Let me back up a
  557. 21:41second. I apologize. You, mom, and dad
  558. 21:44go to California Pizza Kitchen in
  559. 21:46Waterford at what time? Oh, that was all
  560. 21:48the way back on January 4th.
  561. 21:51Oh, you said Thursday. Oh, that wasn't
  562. 21:52Thursday. No, no, no. That was that was
  563. 21:55when I had come back from Cornerstone
  564. 21:56and he was giving me the the rules.
  565. 21:58Okay. Okay. Yeah. So, due Thursday then.
  566. 22:01That Well, what happened with that? That
  567. 22:02Thursday you meet with Cody down the
  568. 22:04street. This is this past Thursday. Yes.
  569. 22:06Okay. Tell me tell me about that. after
  570. 22:07you and your dad argue. After me and my
  571. 22:09dad had argued and he had told me, you
  572. 22:12know, this is how it's going to be and
  573. 22:14you know, all that stuff. Okay. Um, this
  574. 22:16is at the house this past Thursday. Yes.
  575. 22:19Yeah. Okay. Cuz this is what now?
  576. 22:20Saturday. So, yeah. Past Thursday, I
  577. 22:23guess you could say. Yeah. Um,
  578. 22:26so then, yeah, I spoke with Cody. He
  579. 22:29told me about all that. He had given me
  580. 22:32his debit so that because I mean, I
  581. 22:34don't have any money and I don't know
  582. 22:35where to go. Mhm. You know, I'd never
  583. 22:37been out of the house on my own. Um, and
  584. 22:39then the last thing that I was told was
  585. 22:41just that, you know, basically once
  586. 22:42again that he'll take care of it because
  587. 22:44this is Cody. This is Cody. What time
  588. 22:46What time is this approximately?
  589. 22:48I'd say a little
  590. 22:51after 10 10:30ish at night. Thursday
  591. 22:55night. Thursday night. Okay.
  592. 22:58Um and
  593. 23:00then yeah, so then after that I just
  594. 23:04like
  595. 23:05[Music]
  596. 23:06stayed in that air in the vicinity area
  597. 23:10for a number of hours and then I had
  598. 23:13remembered over some of the nights when
  599. 23:14I would work overnight and then I'd be
  600. 23:16able to come like get off early that I
  601. 23:18could that the Publix on 50 on Colonial,
  602. 23:22the one that's by the Tractor Supply
  603. 23:24419. Yeah. Yeah. Mhm. that that Publix
  604. 23:27it's like their guest Wi-Fi is always
  605. 23:29still active even when the store closes
  606. 23:31down. So I was like, "Okay, well I'm
  607. 23:32going to go there cuz I have my
  608. 23:33Surface." Um, and I can, you know, check
  609. 23:35on my emails. I had to pull up the
  610. 23:38address to my interview because I don't
  611. 23:40have GPS. Um, so then I would like write
  612. 23:42all that stuff down and then,
  613. 23:45um, I was basically just waiting in that
  614. 23:48parking lot until I had to leave to go
  615. 23:51to the interview.
  616. 23:53Um, and then I mean that was the LA
  617. 23:55because again it's like no cell phone
  618. 23:57service. Uh, I mean email was literally
  619. 24:01like my only form of communication. And
  620. 24:04then you know Yeah. I just I didn't have
  621. 24:07any I didn't you know I was I went to
  622. 24:10the the Double Tree cuz I was like I
  623. 24:12can't just stay in my car again all
  624. 24:13night. Right. And how did you pay for
  625. 24:15that? I paid for it with my with my
  626. 24:17debit card. With your debit card? Yeah.
  627. 24:19cuz I think there was like the 400 or
  628. 24:21300 and something dollars still left on
  629. 24:22it. Okay. Um, when did you get there?
  630. 24:25The double tree.
  631. 24:29I think I got there
  632. 24:33around 3 or 4 p.m. Friday. Friday.
  633. 24:38And then Yeah. And then I was just I
  634. 24:40mean I would like go out to my car so I
  635. 24:41get like a bottle of water or something
  636. 24:43like that or if I forgotten something,
  637. 24:44you know, just like necessity wise. Um,
  638. 24:47and then I was just there the whole
  639. 24:48night. Talk to Cody, talk to mom, talk
  640. 24:51to dad. No, I I couldn't talk to anybody
  641. 24:53cuz I didn't have But you had the phone
  642. 24:55in the room. Oh, yeah. I did have the
  643. 24:56phone in the room. But anybody? No. I
  644. 25:00just I didn't even honestly think about
  645. 25:02it cuz I was I was
  646. 25:04like, you know, away from a place where
  647. 25:08I lived for 25 years or something like
  648. 25:10that. I had never, you know, as
  649. 25:11embarrassing as it is, I'd never been on
  650. 25:13my own. Right. Right. The longest period
  651. 25:15I ever been away from anybody is 2 weeks
  652. 25:16when we were up in Japan.
  653. 25:19So, I mean, yeah, but you had your
  654. 25:21brother with you, so Right. Right. You
  655. 25:23had family with you. But yeah, I mean,
  656. 25:26so I guess I was waiting to see what
  657. 25:29would happen with this job cuz I was
  658. 25:31told I'd either be told Tuesday or
  659. 25:33Thursday. And then maybe I would try an
  660. 25:37outreach or something like that. or the
  661. 25:38last time um you know when it was like
  662. 25:42an issue where I didn't have my phone
  663. 25:43like my brother would email me so I was
  664. 25:46just thinking okay well I mean if
  665. 25:47anything he knows the situation he'll
  666. 25:49just email me so I checked my email a
  667. 25:51few times last night and then I just
  668. 25:53inevitably was able to to go to sleep um
  669. 25:57was it Thursday night that your dad told
  670. 25:59you that if you talked to the girl that
  671. 26:01he would kick you out or was that the
  672. 26:02conversation on the 4th at California
  673. 26:04that was on that was yeah on the 4th and
  674. 26:06then he just went through with it on
  675. 26:09Thursday. Okay. So, so Thursday, you're
  676. 26:12home all day? Yes. With your mom. She
  677. 26:14works at home, correct? Yes. Your dad's
  678. 26:16at work. What's his normal work hours?
  679. 26:18Uh, he works
  680. 26:20until I think he had to go in early that
  681. 26:22day. Uh, cuz he had to start like doing
  682. 26:24overtime or something like that. And he
  683. 26:27normally works though from like 5 or
  684. 26:296:00 in the morning to I think he gets
  685. 26:32home between like 5:30 and 6:00 at night
  686. 26:34or something like that. What time do you
  687. 26:35get home that day? Uh, he got home at
  688. 26:38like 5:30. 5:30. 5:30. 5:45. One of
  689. 26:41those two. Okay. Um,
  690. 26:45comes in. Were you there when he came
  691. 26:47in? Yes. Okay.
  692. 26:49Describe your dad normal come in. Uh,
  693. 26:51when my dad normally comes in, he'll
  694. 26:53come in. He'll look into the uh the
  695. 26:56living room, which is like there's the
  696. 26:58kitchen and then there's the living room
  697. 26:59where it's got like the long couch and
  698. 27:02whatnot that's inside. And then there's
  699. 27:04the TV right there. Okay. So, he'll
  700. 27:06normally come in through there and then
  701. 27:08he'll talk or he'll ask his questions or
  702. 27:11he'll Where were you? Where were you at
  703. 27:12when he came in? I was just in there. I
  704. 27:14was just watching uh in the virtual
  705. 27:15reality where where you said you had
  706. 27:17that set up, right? Right. Yeah. I was
  707. 27:18just watching And that's in what room?
  708. 27:20The living room. The living room. Yeah.
  709. 27:21I was just watching YouTube at that
  710. 27:23time. Just like did I talk to you? Yeah.
  711. 27:26Okay. Uh, and that's where
  712. 27:29uh cuz he had I don't know how he found
  713. 27:33out, but he had apparently found out and
  714. 27:35then found out why that I was talking to
  715. 27:38you to the woman. Yeah. And then uh he
  716. 27:41came in and then he asked me in a calmer
  717. 27:44state, I guess you could say. Like
  718. 27:48basically the the leading question of,
  719. 27:50you know, why do you think we're about
  720. 27:53to have this conversation? giving me, I
  721. 27:56guess, that opportunity to be honest and
  722. 27:58truthful, to maybe tone it down a little
  723. 28:00bit. I of course did what I always did
  724. 28:03where I kind of didn't admit to it. Um,
  725. 28:08and then he he came out and he told me
  726. 28:10that I'd been doing that. He had proof.
  727. 28:12Yeah. Um, have an argument. Yeah. And
  728. 28:15then, you know, he
  729. 28:18got
  730. 28:20just he had kind of reverted back to the
  731. 28:23way that he was when we were younger
  732. 28:24where, you know, he kind of, you know,
  733. 28:27pulled me up from the couch and then he
  734. 28:29was yelling at me to pack my [ __ ] up and
  735. 28:31just get out of the house that he was
  736. 28:32the one who had to be the hammer and
  737. 28:35that, you know, why am I making him have
  738. 28:37to go through this and all this other
  739. 28:39kind of stuff. Okay.
  740. 28:40So, you know, basically I had um he's
  741. 28:43becoming violent.
  742. 28:45Like the way you described when you were
  743. 28:47you when you and Cody were kids, right?
  744. 28:49What do you do? Um like I said, he
  745. 28:51pulled me up from the couch just by like
  746. 28:54the shirt that I was wearing. And then,
  747. 28:56you know, after that, he was basically
  748. 28:58just having that yelling where it was
  749. 29:00kind of kind of like cracking, you know,
  750. 29:02like his voice would either crack or he
  751. 29:05would just he was basically just yelling
  752. 29:06at that point and monitoring your mom.
  753. 29:09My mom was in her office. Okay.
  754. 29:12Because And I'm sorry to cut you off.
  755. 29:15Does mom have like an office hours? Like
  756. 29:17she would get up and do her work all day
  757. 29:19and a certain time I'm done doing my
  758. 29:21office work and I'm doing my family
  759. 29:22stuff. Not really. Okay. You work there
  760. 29:24all the time, right? She would I think
  761. 29:26the the major thing that she would do is
  762. 29:28she would like cook dinner. Okay. And
  763. 29:30then after that um she would go back
  764. 29:32into her office. What time was dinner
  765. 29:34usually? Generally between
  766. 29:36like 7 like I guess usually around 7:00
  767. 29:397:00 7:30 is when we'd usually have
  768. 29:41dinner most nights. Did you guys already
  769. 29:43have dinner at night? No. No. I think
  770. 29:45what was she going to make? I think she
  771. 29:47was going to make something with like
  772. 29:48chicken or something like that. stir fry
  773. 29:50or something like that because Cody was
  774. 29:52working late so she didn't want to make
  775. 29:53something where cuz my dad would always
  776. 29:55buy meals that were for four. So he we
  777. 29:58didn't want to pull out anything where
  778. 29:59there would be leftovers or something
  779. 30:00like that. So but she hadn't uh started
  780. 30:03making it yet. I think she was
  781. 30:04defrosting the chicken. That was about
  782. 30:06what time?
  783. 30:10Uh what
  784. 30:11time? I think she took those out like at
  785. 30:144 or something like that in the
  786. 30:16afternoon. And at this time the the
  787. 30:18argument with dad is at what time? The
  788. 30:20argument with dad is
  789. 30:21like 6 6:30 or so. 6:30. Yeah. Okay.
  790. 30:27Um you have your argument. You pack your
  791. 30:30stuff. I have my argument and then I'm
  792. 30:32packing my stuff. I'm, you know, taking
  793. 30:33it out to the car. It took me like a
  794. 30:35couple hours to get as much as I could.
  795. 30:37Just kind of out into there. Um, and
  796. 30:40then yeah, it's like mom's kind of just
  797. 30:43staying out of it to a certain degree
  798. 30:46because she knows like how dad can be.
  799. 30:49And then uh yeah, I
  800. 30:53mean, you know, I was and that's just
  801. 30:55pretty much where I was just kind of
  802. 30:56like waiting. So you wait outside. Did
  803. 30:59anybody call Cody and tell him what's
  804. 31:00going on? No, not I mean, not that I
  805. 31:02know of. Okay. And how did you know to
  806. 31:04meet Cody down the street? It's because
  807. 31:06u my mom had actually come and told me
  808. 31:10that you know she again she was trying
  809. 31:12to bridge the gap and then before I
  810. 31:15actually physically left I had told my
  811. 31:18mom that you know I'm going to be close
  812. 31:21I'm going to be local I'm just going to
  813. 31:22be like down those were tough words for
  814. 31:23a father to say to his son but maybe
  815. 31:26that was the only way he could get
  816. 31:27through to him no matter what the family
  817. 31:29did it didn't work Grant kept breaking
  818. 31:32the rules and things at home kept
  819. 31:34getting worse.
  820. 31:35Eventually, they had no choice but to
  821. 31:37kick him out of the house. Later, Grant
  822. 31:40talked about meeting his brother after
  823. 31:42he had moved out. But this is where his
  824. 31:44story starts to fall apart and where the
  825. 31:47detectives begin to catch him in his
  826. 31:48lies.
  827. 31:52[Music]
  828. 31:53Sorry, I need the bathroom. And I wanted
  829. 31:56to point out a picture of Fort Christmas
  830. 31:58cuz we're not aware I I'm not familiar
  831. 32:00with the area. that. So, we're going to
  832. 32:02go back and talk again about this cuz
  833. 32:04it's kind of important to me about
  834. 32:06Cody and you meeting that night, right?
  835. 32:09So, then that that night, which was
  836. 32:11Thursday, Thursday night, you meet Cody.
  837. 32:15Um because And did he ever tell you why
  838. 32:18he left work early? No. No. I mean, he
  839. 32:20was I I'd assume that it was just
  840. 32:22because he had been allowed to leave
  841. 32:23early. You've been allowed to leave
  842. 32:24early. Okay.
  843. 32:26So, here's I think this is the blinking
  844. 32:29lights there. So this is to to me this
  845. 32:32is 419 left on Lake Mills, right? Left
  846. 32:35on Fort Christmas. Okay. Um where would
  847. 32:39you say you met Cody on Fort Christmas?
  848. 32:42So wait, is this is this that other like
  849. 32:44neighborhood? I think maybe I'm wrong. I
  850. 32:46think it comes this way is is 419. This
  851. 32:50is where this county side. No, I think I
  852. 32:53think this
  853. 32:54is I think this is up by the Hitchen
  854. 32:57Post. You come up, you make a right on
  855. 32:58for Christmas. This is where the blanks
  856. 33:00are. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Cuz Yeah. This
  857. 33:03goes into Sultan or Picket Downs, right?
  858. 33:05Is right here. Then this is the circle.
  859. 33:08Is this where you live at? Where do you
  860. 33:09live at? If this is if this is like the
  861. 33:12entrance to Pickicket Down. Yeah, I live
  862. 33:13like Okay. So, here's there's blinking
  863. 33:15light. There's blinking lights right
  864. 33:17here so people don't run up into his
  865. 33:19house. I think that's what there's two
  866. 33:20red lights. Oh, yeah. That's on the
  867. 33:22dude's fence. Yeah. Then there's those
  868. 33:23sir. There's those two yellow arrow
  869. 33:26blinking one to the corner. The corner.
  870. 33:28So these are blinking lights here.
  871. 33:31All right. So then where do you and Cody
  872. 33:33meet? Like way down this road like Yeah.
  873. 33:36Further past on that road. So past does
  874. 33:40this dead end anywhere? I don't think
  875. 33:42so. I think it like it literally I think
  876. 33:44goes into Blo and then it go and then if
  877. 33:46you keep going it which was the way that
  878. 33:48I inevitably took it uh where it'll dump
  879. 33:51you out on to 50 and then I came up 50
  880. 33:54to go back to the Publix. Right. So here
  881. 33:56are the blinking lights. How far down do
  882. 33:58you think you met? Half mile, mile? Uh,
  883. 34:01I mean, a significant ways. I mean, just
  884. 34:05an approximate.
  885. 34:09I mean, I would say it was probably over
  886. 34:10a mile. Is this somewhere you and
  887. 34:12haven't met before? We know uh like you
  888. 34:15know where that if you're on this road,
  889. 34:18the intersection where it's like it
  890. 34:21intersects with another another road and
  891. 34:23then it's got like a guardrail or
  892. 34:24something like that right there. It was
  893. 34:26still past that area, but it was it was
  894. 34:29close to that intersection. Was it in
  895. 34:31the roadway? Like off the roadway or in
  896. 34:34Yeah, it just off. When someone is lying
  897. 34:36and you ask them to be specific, they
  898. 34:38usually get nervous or try to move on
  899. 34:40quickly. In the clip we just saw, that's
  900. 34:43exactly what happened. Amato tried to
  901. 34:45avoid giving a clear answer about where
  902. 34:47he was and instead mentioned a location
  903. 34:49that wasn't even on the map just to
  904. 34:51brush it off and move on.
  905. 34:54I think that there was something that
  906. 34:55obviously happened at the house. Tell me
  907. 34:58what happened. I don't know what
  908. 35:00happened. I know better. Listen to me. I
  909. 35:04know better. I can help you, Grant, with
  910. 35:07honesty. I can help you with honesty. We
  911. 35:11think something else happened before you
  912. 35:12left the home that you're either afraid
  913. 35:15of or embarrassed to talk about, but we
  914. 35:19need to know exactly what happened cuz
  915. 35:21like Danny said, we can place you there
  916. 35:23at certain times. And so we need to know
  917. 35:26what happened before you left that house
  918. 35:28because you didn't leave with everything
  919. 35:30being okay.
  920. 35:32I I honestly I don't I don't have
  921. 35:35anything else that I can really say. I
  922. 35:37mean, I don't I don't know. Do you even
  923. 35:38know why law enforcement got involved?
  924. 35:42The detectives made it clear they didn't
  925. 35:45believe his story. They started asking
  926. 35:47their questions more directly, cutting
  927. 35:49through the small talk. But Amato kept
  928. 35:51pretending he didn't understand, still
  929. 35:54playing dumb. He had to know their
  930. 35:56patience was running out. And it was
  931. 35:58only a matter of time before the
  932. 35:59pressure got to him. Like that, but
  933. 36:02something happened Thursday unlike
  934. 36:04anything you've ever experienced in 29
  935. 36:06years of your life. And maybe you felt
  936. 36:08that was rock bottom for you. You were
  937. 36:09getting kicked out of the house. Your
  938. 36:11father gave you an ultimatum. I mean,
  939. 36:13that's, you know, you're already dealing
  940. 36:15with the the debt and, you know, now you
  941. 36:18have to stop talking to this girl and
  942. 36:20now you're being kicked out of the home.
  943. 36:22I mean, that's I I can understand how
  944. 36:25you would
  945. 36:27feel. I mean, that you'd want to lash
  946. 36:29out or, you know, if something happened,
  947. 36:32you'd want to defend yourself. Sure.
  948. 36:34Absolutely. But we need to know what
  949. 36:37happened.
  950. 36:38I mean, I know I can tell that you guys
  951. 36:40are like leading me into a certain way
  952. 36:43of what
  953. 36:45the only thing we're leading you to is
  954. 36:46wanting to get the truth from you. Not
  955. 36:48trying to make you say something that's
  956. 36:50not true, that's not accurate. The
  957. 36:52truth. The end. That's it. That's all we
  958. 36:56want is the absolute truth. Because it's
  959. 36:58got to come from you. It can't come from
  960. 37:00us. It can't come from us. Do we know
  961. 37:02what happened? Yeah, we we we already
  962. 37:05know what happened, but it has to still
  963. 37:07come from you, the truth, because the
  964. 37:09parties
  965. 37:10involved. That's in all cases, you want
  966. 37:13the truth from I don't want somebody to
  967. 37:14say something that's not true.
  968. 37:15Absolutely not. I want them to say,
  969. 37:19"This is what happened, and here's why
  970. 37:21it happened." Cuz some sometimes there
  971. 37:23are things that are justifiable. I'm
  972. 37:25dealing with a case right now where some
  973. 37:28people were were jumped in a house.
  974. 37:30there was a shooting and the people
  975. 37:32involved in the shooting are not going
  976. 37:33to be charged because they have the
  977. 37:35right to defend themselves. Nothing in
  978. 37:37the in in in the state or federal law
  979. 37:39says you have to be seriously physically
  980. 37:43harmed or or or or killed. Nothing does.
  981. 37:46You have a right to defend yourself.
  982. 37:48Absolutely. You have fear of your sure
  983. 37:51you being hurt or your life. But Grant,
  984. 37:54I just need you to come. It's It's
  985. 37:56there. It's there. I can see it. It's on
  986. 37:58the tip of your tongue. You want to say,
  987. 38:00"Let me tell you what what happened."
  988. 38:03I'm being honest. I think you're being
  989. 38:04honest about 95% of the story. I truly
  990. 38:07do believe you're being honest about
  991. 38:08that. I think it's that 5% as most
  992. 38:10people because they're afraid to
  993. 38:12actually talk to us and tell us their
  994. 38:13story. And sometimes we can help justify
  995. 38:16their story once they tell us the truth.
  996. 38:19It just it it's it's a fact. It happens.
  997. 38:21The detectives laid it all out. They
  998. 38:23told Amato the version of events they
  999. 38:25believed had really happened. And deep
  1000. 38:27down, Amato knew they were on to him. He
  1001. 38:30could tell they believed he was the
  1002. 38:31killer. They tried to reassure him,
  1003. 38:34saying he'd be protected and that he was
  1004. 38:36safe with them. All they wanted was the
  1005. 38:38truth, nothing more. A motto was
  1006. 38:41starting to crack, and the detectives
  1007. 38:43saw it. So, they kept the pressure on
  1008. 38:45knowing he was close to breaking. You
  1009. 38:47got to open up. You got to open up to
  1010. 38:49me, man. I'm here. here to take that
  1011. 38:52information from you to get you over
  1012. 38:54this hump to to little piece in your
  1013. 38:58mind. You'll never have peace without
  1014. 39:01saying here, let me know. This is
  1015. 39:04exactly what happened. And I already I
  1016. 39:06already know. I'll be honest. You
  1017. 39:07already know. This isn't my first rodeo.
  1018. 39:09She's been doing We've been doing this
  1019. 39:10what between the two of us 50 years.
  1020. 39:13Over 50 years. Our age. Over 50 years.
  1021. 39:16I've seen So what is it you need to tell
  1022. 39:18us that we're missing? step over. I
  1023. 39:22mean, the only thing that I know is just
  1024. 39:25that I mean, I I uh left the house later
  1025. 39:28than what I had
  1026. 39:30said.
  1027. 39:33Um, did you leave the house with your
  1028. 39:36brother Cody looking like
  1029. 39:39that or did you leave the house with
  1030. 39:41your father looking like that or your
  1031. 39:44mother? Is that how you left your
  1032. 39:46family?
  1033. 39:49No,
  1034. 39:52nobody. Nobody else went into that
  1035. 39:54house. Who left your family like this?
  1036. 39:57If you were the one that's been
  1037. 39:58depressed, you were the one that owes
  1038. 39:59money, you were the one that got into a
  1039. 40:01confrontation with your father, who did
  1040. 40:02this to your
  1041. 40:06family. If you were trying to defend
  1042. 40:09yourself or something else happened, we
  1043. 40:11need to know now to help
  1044. 40:15you. So, tell us what happened, Grant.
  1045. 40:20We're here to listen to you. You need
  1046. 40:22the truth. We're We're here to make this
  1047. 40:26right. You got to tell the truth. It's
  1048. 40:28on the tip of your tongue, my man. I get
  1049. 40:30that. Did your father go after you and
  1050. 40:32you try to protect yourself? No, I
  1051. 40:35didn't do any of this.
  1052. 40:43there there's something that's going to
  1053. 40:44come
  1054. 40:45up that
  1055. 40:48that is going to make this all come
  1056. 40:51real. I'd rather it come from you than
  1057. 40:55have to do it that way cuz the evidence
  1058. 40:57tells us what happened. You have to fill
  1059. 40:59in the blanks. They can't tell me what
  1060. 41:01happened. Fact. Fact. I know she she
  1061. 41:04never she never held a gun. She didn't
  1062. 41:07have a gun that night. Fact. He never
  1063. 41:10fired a gun. Fact. He never fired a gun.
  1064. 41:13Never did. This is the person right
  1065. 41:16here. Mom. The detectives hit him hard
  1066. 41:19with the photos, turning up the pressure
  1067. 41:22as Amato began to break down. He started
  1068. 41:24talking about how his father would
  1069. 41:26threaten to hurt him if he messed up
  1070. 41:28again or tried to come back home, trying
  1071. 41:30to make it sound like he acted in
  1072. 41:32self-defense. But the reports tell a
  1073. 41:34different story. There were no signs of
  1074. 41:36any fights happening in the house when
  1075. 41:38his family died.
  1076. 41:41Okay.
  1077. 41:43This this is the the last time before
  1078. 41:44I'm going to walk out now and then I'm
  1079. 41:45done and I'm done for good. When I'm
  1080. 41:47done I'm done
  1081. 41:48done. They won't be hey can I come back
  1082. 41:50and talk to you. The minute I walk out
  1083. 41:52that door with your story is where you
  1084. 41:55stay at. That's your that's your lot in
  1085. 41:57life. I am more than willing to sit here
  1086. 41:59all day and all night if you want to to
  1087. 42:01talk to find the facts. But I can't I
  1088. 42:04told you from the beginning I will not
  1089. 42:05deal with somebody that's not being
  1090. 42:06truthful with me. You're not being
  1091. 42:07truthful. You're not telling me the
  1092. 42:09truth. You've lied and we've forgiven
  1093. 42:11you over that. We forgive you over it.
  1094. 42:14You can't lie about this, Grant. You
  1095. 42:16can't. This is too important for your
  1096. 42:18family of what has happened. There's not
  1097. 42:21somebody There's not somebody out
  1098. 42:23running around United States that killed
  1099. 42:26them. There's not. There's no There's
  1100. 42:28nobody out there some hidden killer.
  1101. 42:31There's not.
  1102. 42:35You don't show the the remorse that you
  1103. 42:37should for someone who's who lost three
  1104. 42:38family
  1105. 42:39members. Body language, eyes, and
  1106. 42:43demeanor. Grant was showing all the
  1107. 42:45signs of someone who felt guilty. The
  1108. 42:47detective told him what they believed
  1109. 42:49had really happened. But instead of
  1110. 42:51backing down, Grant only pushed harder
  1111. 42:53with his story. The detective told him
  1112. 42:55he needed to confess. There was no
  1113. 42:58imaginary killer out there. It was time
  1114. 43:00to face the truth.
  1115. 43:03body language, eyes, and demeanor.
  1116. 43:06Here's the time, man. I know it's tough.
  1117. 43:08Tell the truth because when I walk out,
  1118. 43:10there is no there's no another day. And
  1119. 43:12it's going to look worse for you when we
  1120. 43:14prove it by the DNA, the gunpowder, the
  1121. 43:19blood spatter,
  1122. 43:20fingerprints. Now is the time for you to
  1123. 43:22be honest with us and is exactly what
  1124. 43:24happened in that house before you
  1125. 43:26left. We We'll be there for weeks
  1126. 43:29gathering evidence. We are going to
  1127. 43:31build the case because we're going to
  1128. 43:32disprove the fact that nobody else came
  1129. 43:34in this house. We already we already
  1130. 43:36know that answer, but at some point we
  1131. 43:38will build a case to the conclusion that
  1132. 43:40nobody else
  1133. 43:44will. And I just I don't have anything
  1134. 43:46else that I can say.
  1135. 44:02You know, my brother even said the same
  1136. 44:03thing of
  1137. 44:05like when all this financial stuff was
  1138. 44:08happening like why I couldn't show like
  1139. 44:12a like sadness towards
  1140. 44:14it and
  1141. 44:17uh I just don't know. I mean I don't
  1142. 44:26I just don't know what else to say.
  1143. 44:30Do you not feel bad for doing this to
  1144. 44:31your family?
  1145. 44:42I I don't I don't know. You don't know
  1146. 44:45what? You don't know if you feel bad for
  1147. 44:46doing this to your family.
  1148. 44:49I mean, I've been getting blamed for the
  1149. 44:51last half a year for everything. And
  1150. 44:53I've been trying to move forward into a
  1151. 44:56positive
  1152. 44:57direction. And then every day I'm
  1153. 44:59reminded of all the trouble that I had
  1154. 45:03caused. And then I keep being told the
  1155. 45:07same thing over and over again, but
  1156. 45:08there's nothing that I can do to change
  1157. 45:10it. Do you regret doing this to each one
  1158. 45:13of your family members? I didn't do that
  1159. 45:15to each one of them. When the detectives
  1160. 45:18asked Amato if he felt bad about what
  1161. 45:20happened, there was only silence. Then
  1162. 45:23he said he was blamed for everything and
  1163. 45:25reminded of it every single day. The
  1164. 45:28reason behind it all was right there. In
  1165. 45:30his mind, Amato saw himself as innocent.
  1166. 45:33He felt pushed to the edge and probably
  1167. 45:35thought he had no way out. His whole
  1168. 45:37life, everything had been given to him.
  1169. 45:40But once he was kicked out of the house,
  1170. 45:41it felt like an injury he could never
  1171. 45:43heal from.
  1172. 45:46And I just I don't have anything else
  1173. 45:47that I can
  1174. 46:02say. You know, my brother even said the
  1175. 46:04same thing of
  1176. 46:06like when all this financial stuff was
  1177. 46:09happening like why I couldn't show like
  1178. 46:13a like sadness towards it.
  1179. 46:16And
  1180. 46:18uh I just don't know. I mean, I
  1181. 46:25don't I just don't know what else to
  1182. 46:30say. Do you not feel bad for doing this
  1183. 46:32to your family?
  1184. 46:43I I don't I don't know. You don't know
  1185. 46:46what? You don't know if you feel bad for
  1186. 46:47doing this to your family.
  1187. 46:50I mean, I've been getting blamed for the
  1188. 46:52last half a year for everything. And
  1189. 46:54I've been trying to move forward into a
  1190. 46:57positive
  1191. 46:58direction. And then every day I'm
  1192. 47:00reminded of all the trouble that I had
  1193. 47:04caused. And then I keep being told the
  1194. 47:08same thing over and over again, but
  1195. 47:09there's nothing that I can do to change
  1196. 47:11it. Do you regret doing this to each one
  1197. 47:14of your family members? I didn't do that
  1198. 47:16to each one of them.
  1199. 47:21Who did? Who has such an axe to grind
  1200. 47:24with your family that they shot him
  1201. 47:26twice in the head, him in the head, and
  1202. 47:28her? Who has it? Who? Here, you sit in
  1203. 47:31my seat for a
  1204. 47:33minute. Sit in my seat. Get out of here.
  1205. 47:35Sit right here. Come here. Sit right
  1206. 47:37here. Get out of that seat. Sit right
  1207. 47:38there for me. Sit on it. Look at it.
  1208. 47:40Look at it from from from our side. Look
  1209. 47:43at it from our
  1210. 47:45side. Think of it from what the way we
  1211. 47:47look at it. Independent. What are we
  1212. 47:50here for? One thing. The blindfolded
  1213. 47:53ladies with justice. Justice. All we're
  1214. 47:55here for. Justice. Look at it. Who has a
  1215. 48:00motive? Who has a motive to hurt your
  1216. 48:02family?
  1217. 48:04You could say Jason, but we already know
  1218. 48:06where Jason was. I can account for every
  1219. 48:08bit of of Jason's
  1220. 48:11activity. Every bit of it. Jason gave a
  1221. 48:14statement. He What's the first thing we
  1222. 48:15looked at? Is Jason telling the truth?
  1223. 48:18Can we verify what he told us? And in
  1224. 48:21quick succession, we did. He said, "I
  1225. 48:23was XXX." Yep. He sure was.
  1226. 48:29And we know exactly when Cody left work.
  1227. 48:33and know when Cody got home and know
  1228. 48:35when Cody stopped answering his
  1229. 48:40phone and know when bills were
  1230. 48:43paid and knows when vehicles left and
  1231. 48:47know when they when phones tagged
  1232. 48:53hotspots. Know it all. Know every bit of
  1233. 48:56it. Now it's time for you to admit to
  1234. 48:59what you know cuz you're saying I didn't
  1235. 49:01do something. I don't know
  1236. 49:04something. It's an easy easy thing to
  1237. 49:06say to yourself, but you can't say it to
  1238. 49:09us
  1239. 49:12because facts and evidence don't lie.
  1240. 49:16I've done everything I can do to get to
  1241. 49:19the bottom in the
  1242. 49:20truth,
  1243. 49:22and we're not getting
  1244. 49:25there. But I promise you down the down
  1245. 49:28at some point, the facts will get there.
  1246. 49:32And then you're going to ask, "Hey, can
  1247. 49:33I talk to you and tell you what
  1248. 49:35happened?" And the answer is
  1249. 49:37no. After it's after we walk out of the
  1250. 49:40room, like I said, when it's done, there
  1251. 49:42is not a second chance. There's only
  1252. 49:44there's one time to make a first
  1253. 49:46impression. Heard that one before. This
  1254. 49:48is it. I believe you're not a bad guy. I
  1255. 49:52do. I believe you want to tell us what
  1256. 49:54happened. And there's a reason this got
  1257. 49:56so bad. There's a reason.
  1258. 50:00They're all safe.
  1259. 50:32I mean, I just I don't have anything
  1260. 50:34else that I can
  1261. 50:36say. I mean, I don't I don't have the
  1262. 50:38answers
  1263. 50:40that you can say or want to say that I
  1264. 50:42can say. I mean, I don't I don't know. I
  1265. 50:45don't I I know from sitting over here
  1266. 50:49what it looks like. I mean, it's just
  1267. 50:51like when I was accused of the whole
  1268. 50:53grand theft thing and then it's, you
  1269. 50:55know, everything from security cameras
  1270. 50:58and all this other stuff are saying
  1271. 50:59this, that, and the other, but then
  1272. 51:00there's nothing that showed that I had
  1273. 51:03done anything
  1274. 51:07wrong. And I just I don't know what else
  1275. 51:10I can say.
  1276. 51:13[Music]
  1277. 51:20So what they accused you of you didn't
  1278. 51:22do.
  1279. 51:36Grand two things that happened here
  1280. 51:39today. Two
  1281. 51:41things. You're a guy swimming out in the
  1282. 51:44middle of the ocean and we're going to
  1283. 51:45give you one of two things based on
  1284. 51:47based on you. You can have a life
  1285. 51:49preserver to keep to keep from drowning
  1286. 51:52or you get the boat
  1287. 51:56anchor. Which one do you
  1288. 51:59want? Cuz we will give you whichever one
  1289. 52:01you asked for. The life preserver, the
  1290. 52:04boater.
  1291. 52:07No, I want the life preserver that I've
  1292. 52:08said everything that I can. You You want
  1293. 52:10it and I I believe you do, but you have
  1294. 52:13not said everything you can say. Be
  1295. 52:16careful of locking yourself into
  1296. 52:17something because just like this, you've
  1297. 52:19locked yourself into I was down for
  1298. 52:22Christmas. That's where me and Cody met,
  1299. 52:24which we've proven to be a lie. We We
  1300. 52:27already knew that. We already knew that
  1301. 52:28wasn't true. But I'm going to let you
  1302. 52:29say it. I'm going to let you say what
  1303. 52:33you want to about being honest in
  1304. 52:35here. And then at some point, we will
  1305. 52:38pick that apart of why you're not honest
  1306. 52:41and what physical evidence shows to be.
  1307. 52:45what physical evidence shows to
  1308. 52:52me. You want to be honest. This is this
  1309. 52:54is the time right now to be honest. You
  1310. 52:57see, if I can say what you you're saying
  1311. 52:59what you want to say to me right now,
  1312. 53:01just like you wanted me to believe that
  1313. 53:03you were down on Fort Christmas down the
  1314. 53:04road with Cody, that you wanted to.
  1315. 53:07That's what you wanted me to believe.
  1316. 53:09And there's a reason you were being
  1317. 53:10deceptive to me. Because it doesn't
  1318. 53:12matter where you met him and had this
  1319. 53:13conversation. If you lie about something
  1320. 53:15small, you lie about something
  1321. 53:17big. You're being deceptive over
  1322. 53:20something that doesn't matter if you met
  1323. 53:22him down the road or not. There's no
  1324. 53:23reason to lie about where you met him
  1325. 53:26at. This is it. Your one chance in the
  1326. 53:30rest of your life to be honest about
  1327. 53:32this right here. You say, "I've told you
  1328. 53:34what I can tell you. You told me what
  1329. 53:36you want me to know just like you told
  1330. 53:38me what you wanted me to know about
  1331. 53:39that." and for Eva to know what you want
  1332. 53:41to know about that. But it's not it's
  1333. 53:43not
  1334. 53:44true. Just like you want to tell me what
  1335. 53:47you want me to know about
  1336. 53:52this. I get this. I get that. I don't
  1337. 53:57get that. I don't get that. I don't get
  1338. 54:00it. I
  1339. 54:04don't one I get. I
  1340. 54:07understand. She didn't bully you. She
  1341. 54:09didn't belittle you. She didn't run you
  1342. 54:11into the ground. Nor did we. I don't get
  1343. 54:16it. But this is it. Cuz you're just
  1344. 54:19about I've kind of got a number in my
  1345. 54:21mind that I'm going to get up and I'm
  1346. 54:22going to walk out and we'll take our
  1347. 54:24stuff and be on our way and you're going
  1348. 54:25to go the way you
  1349. 54:26go. But there will be a time where you
  1350. 54:29ask for that life preserver. I can't
  1351. 54:33give it to you. I can't. Once I cross
  1352. 54:36once I cross the line, I got to step
  1353. 54:38over. Can't do it. Won't do
  1354. 54:44it. Think think about
  1355. 54:46that. I want to talk to her for a
  1356. 54:48minute. Think think about the the the
  1357. 54:50the
  1358. 54:52last life preserve I can give
  1359. 54:55you. Think about it. Take a few minutes
  1360. 54:58just to to reflect on it and then we'll
  1361. 55:01come back to you in a couple of minutes
  1362. 55:02and then we'll go from there. And what
  1363. 55:04happens is what happens. Fair enough.
  1364. 55:10[Applause]
  1365. 1:05:48You all right, man? You
  1366. 1:05:51okay? Need some food, some water? All
  1367. 1:05:55right. You good? You good to stay for a
  1368. 1:05:57while longer? You okay?
  1369. 1:05:59I mean, I just I just don't have
  1370. 1:06:01anything more that I can say. Fine.
  1371. 1:06:03Okay.
  1372. 1:06:05I'm not keeping you. If you want to
  1373. 1:06:06stay, we'll I'll talk to you till
  1374. 1:06:08whatever till you're you're happy with
  1375. 1:06:10with everything and you're okay.
  1376. 1:06:14[Music]
  1377. 1:06:16Um, you're not detained. You're not
  1378. 1:06:18being kept
  1379. 1:06:20here. You're here. You're here
  1380. 1:06:22willingly. Remember we talked about
  1381. 1:06:24that? You're still Look at me. You're
  1382. 1:06:26still You're still here voluntarily. I'm
  1383. 1:06:29not I'm not detaining you. I'm not
  1384. 1:06:31keeping here. I said you want to walk
  1385. 1:06:33out and take a break, catch a breath,
  1386. 1:06:36get something to eat. If you want
  1387. 1:06:37something to eat, we've been here for
  1388. 1:06:38for a while. If you want something to
  1389. 1:06:40eat, I'll be more than happy to get you
  1390. 1:06:41some food, whatever you want. We'll send
  1391. 1:06:42somebody to go get it or whatever you
  1392. 1:06:44want to do. It's it's totally up to you
  1393. 1:06:46of of I said you're voluntarily here.
  1394. 1:06:53I mean, I just I don't I don't know what
  1395. 1:06:55the
  1396. 1:06:58I will I will stay here and talk to you
  1397. 1:07:00until you get everything off your chest
  1398. 1:07:01as as long as you want to. The
  1399. 1:07:03detectives stepped out of the room and
  1400. 1:07:05asked if Amato needed anything. The
  1401. 1:07:07interrogation was basically over. They
  1402. 1:07:09already knew who did it. Now all they
  1403. 1:07:11needed was his confession. They reminded
  1404. 1:07:14him he was free to leave. Amato said he
  1405. 1:07:17didn't want to be there, but just wanted
  1406. 1:07:19it all to be over. After a while,
  1407. 1:07:21nothing happened. He went to change his
  1408. 1:07:24clothes and then his older brother
  1409. 1:07:26showed up. The brother lived on his own
  1410. 1:07:27and wasn't at the house when the murders
  1411. 1:07:29happened.
  1412. 1:07:51All right. So, uh I I take it you know
  1413. 1:07:53what happened. Yeah.
  1414. 1:08:00I just I'm going to ask you plain out.
  1415. 1:08:02You are not part of it anyway. No.
  1416. 1:08:05How when's the last time you sold
  1417. 1:08:08everybody?
  1418. 1:08:09I left the house between like uh
  1419. 1:08:12midnight and like 12:30
  1420. 1:08:15on Thursday night. So Friday morning
  1421. 1:08:17going in the front.
  1422. 1:08:20Why? Just did that's when you went to a
  1423. 1:08:22hotel? No. No. The first night I uh I
  1424. 1:08:26stayed just in the public's parking lot
  1425. 1:08:28by the tractor supply. Okay. And why did
  1426. 1:08:32you leave though? It's cuz dad had
  1427. 1:08:34kicked me out Thursday because I was
  1428. 1:08:38still talking to the woman that had
  1429. 1:08:40caused everything and I was uh using
  1430. 1:08:43mom's cell phone to do that with her
  1431. 1:08:45knowledge but uh no not uh Cody or
  1432. 1:08:50dad's. So then dad found out somehow
  1433. 1:08:54uh and that was one of the things that
  1434. 1:08:56he had said would lead to
  1435. 1:08:59my being removed from the premises.
  1436. 1:09:04So he forced you, he basically told you
  1437. 1:09:07you had to leave. Yeah.
  1438. 1:09:15Okay. So, who could have done this?
  1439. 1:09:20I don't So, you didn't have any problems
  1440. 1:09:22or troubles with this woman or the
  1441. 1:09:24online? You didn't owe them any money? I
  1442. 1:09:26mean, there's no like lone shark out
  1443. 1:09:28looking for you or
  1444. 1:09:30I just don't see
  1445. 1:09:34how things aren't adding up. I
  1446. 1:09:38just I'm really confused,
  1447. 1:09:43Grant. I don't understand. How did you
  1448. 1:09:46get money to pay for a hotel? I still
  1449. 1:09:49had a few hundred on my debit card and
  1450. 1:09:53then Cody uh gave me his debit card.
  1451. 1:09:58Okay. And
  1452. 1:10:02even his own brother didn't believe him.
  1453. 1:10:05Judging by his reaction, he was crushed.
  1454. 1:10:07It's a heartbreaking moment knowing that
  1455. 1:10:10your youngest brother did the
  1456. 1:10:11unthinkable and took away your family.
  1457. 1:10:13Yet, you still don't feel hatred toward
  1458. 1:10:15him. The family was gone and the
  1459. 1:10:18youngest brother who killed them would
  1460. 1:10:20spend the rest of his life in prison. At
  1461. 1:10:22the trial, Amato kept saying he was
  1462. 1:10:24innocent, but he was found guilty on all
  1463. 1:10:26three murder charges. At the end, he
  1464. 1:10:29said something that stuck with everyone.
  1465. 1:10:31My family blamed me for months for
  1466. 1:10:33ruining their lives and stealing.

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