Lecture 46- Defense Mechanisms-I — Transcript
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- 0:17Namaskar friends. Today we are going to
- 0:20start a new module of the stress
- 0:22management course. This is module 10
- 0:25which focuses on the use of defense
- 0:28mechanisms as a tool to reduce stress.
- 0:32This is lecture one of module 10. Let us
- 0:36have a quick precap of what we are going
- 0:39to study in this particular lecture. In
- 0:43this lecture, we will learn about coping
- 0:46strategies primarily the use of defense
- 0:50mechanisms and the defense mechanisms
- 0:52which have been covered in this
- 0:54particular presentation are acting out,
- 0:58rationalization,
- 1:00reaction formation, sublimation and
- 1:03suppression. So let us begin with our
- 1:06discussion and see what defense
- 1:09mechanism is.
- 1:13Coping as we all know are the strategies
- 1:18in terms of actions, thoughts and
- 1:21feelings which used to help people adapt
- 1:24to life changes and improve how they
- 1:28feel.
- 1:30Most of the time the changes which come
- 1:33to us abruptly or quickly can be stress
- 1:37genenic. In order to mitigate that
- 1:40stress, we try to engage in different
- 1:43kind of corrective or adaptive behaviors
- 1:47because it is challenging to cope with
- 1:50changes
- 1:52which are causes of lowering self-esteem
- 1:56which can potentially lead to anxiety,
- 1:59depression or physical changes. We need
- 2:02to come up with a number of coping
- 2:06methods.
- 2:08Usually the two basic ways to cope with
- 2:12stresses is cognitive appraisal. That is
- 2:16we try to change our perception about
- 2:19the situation or we try to change our
- 2:23emotions. We try to regulate our
- 2:25emotions and sometimes we try to detach
- 2:28intense emotions from the stressor from
- 2:32the situation which was initially very
- 2:35stressful as it was causing a lot of
- 2:38negative emotions.
- 2:40Now when we focus on emotion regulation
- 2:46there is a particular type of mechanism
- 2:48which is known as defense mechanism
- 2:51which comes to play.
- 2:55This defense mechanism was initially
- 2:58introduced by Sigman Freud.
- 3:01We all have heard the name of Sigman
- 3:04Freud, a legendary psychologist and
- 3:07psychoanalyst
- 3:08who came up with his psychoanalysis
- 3:11theory.
- 3:12In his theory, he divided the
- 3:15personality into three parts
- 3:18unconscious, subconscious and conscious.
- 3:21And similarly he proposed three arms of
- 3:25our ego structure that is it which is
- 3:28the unconscious part and it is composed
- 3:31of the desires the wants the wishes but
- 3:35which are known as it impulses. The
- 3:37second arm was the super ego which is
- 3:40the moral arm of our self. It contains
- 3:44all the ethical values, the moral values
- 3:48which are preached by the society. And
- 3:51the third which is more real arm,
- 3:54reality oriented arm is known as ego. So
- 3:58ego has a basic task to make a balance
- 4:02between super ego and it. Moreover, it
- 4:05tries to fulfill the id impulses in a
- 4:08socially sanctioned manner in order to
- 4:11avoid any potential harm due to becoming
- 4:16unsocial or antisocial in accomplishing
- 4:21one's goals.
- 4:23So what happens that ego has different
- 4:26kind of mechanisms to protect our
- 4:28self-concept to protect our self-esteem.
- 4:32Whenever we feel that we have done
- 4:34something wrong or we have some thoughts
- 4:37in our mind which are highly
- 4:39inappropriate or condemnable,
- 4:42it may dent our own self-concept, our
- 4:46self-esteem. It may put us in a state of
- 4:49shame or guilt. So, ego has a particular
- 4:53type of mechanism which safeguards such
- 4:57harms and that is why this is called
- 5:00defense mechanisms. The idea was
- 5:03initially proposed by Sigman Freud and
- 5:06later on elaborated by his daughter and
- 5:09his successor Dr. Anna Freud.
- 5:13Anna Freud identified 10 major defense
- 5:17mechanisms and the list was further
- 5:20expanded by other psychoanalysts who
- 5:23gradually came to field.
- 5:27Anna Freud while defining defense
- 5:30mechanism says that these are the
- 5:33automatic tactics which are used by the
- 5:36ego to reduce inner distress.
- 5:40Individuals
- 5:41commonly adopt these subconscious
- 5:44strategies. One must notice that these
- 5:48strategies operate on a subconscious
- 5:50level. So if you adopt one or the other
- 5:55defense mechanism, it doesn't mean that
- 5:57you are actually intentionally
- 5:59manipulating things. Everything is
- 6:02happening subconsciously. So the person
- 6:05using defense mechanisms may not be
- 6:08aware of the fact that he or she is
- 6:11doing it.
- 6:12What is the use of adopting such defense
- 6:15mechanism? The basic purpose is to
- 6:18manage the conflict within themselves.
- 6:22Now why this conflict is happening?
- 6:24Because it has its own demand and it
- 6:28wants to fulfill those demands at any
- 6:30cost. Whereas super ego exists there as
- 6:34a moral arm and it keeps checking the id
- 6:38impulses by saying that this is
- 6:40appropriate, this is inappropriate, we
- 6:42must not think like this, we must not
- 6:44act like this, this is not our right to
- 6:48enter into this situation but the it is
- 6:51not ready to listen to it. So there is a
- 6:54condition of conflict between these two
- 6:56aspects of an individual's personality.
- 7:00And ego is there to resolve this
- 7:03conflict because whenever there is a
- 7:06conflict stress builds up and if the
- 7:09conflict is inner it is even more
- 7:12stressful and it is very important to
- 7:15reduce that stress. Therefore ego adopts
- 7:19some kind of defense mechanism to
- 7:22safeguard the self
- 7:25from any kind of potential damage. Here
- 7:30is the first defense mechanism which we
- 7:34are going to discuss about and this is
- 7:36known as acting out.
- 7:39Acting out means the formation of
- 7:42damaging behaviors that take attention
- 7:44and motivation away from other stressor
- 7:48could potentially serve as a defense
- 7:51mechanism for individuals with conduct
- 7:54disorder, antisocial personality
- 7:56disorder or oppositional defined
- 8:00disorder. Even for people who are high
- 8:04in traits of hostility and aggression,
- 8:07this is a popular defense mechanism.
- 8:12Now, what do I mean when I say that
- 8:16adopting another damaging behavior can
- 8:19take my attention away from the actual
- 8:22stressor?
- 8:23You might have noticed that people
- 8:26usually scream, they shout at each
- 8:29other, they start fighting, they start
- 8:32breaking objects. Even a small children,
- 8:35they all come up showing this kind of
- 8:37behavior. Remember a very popular movie
- 8:40tamipar.
- 8:42What the main artist of that movie was
- 8:45doing? He was engaged in fighting with
- 8:48his friends. He was showing defiance
- 8:51towards the parents and the teachers.
- 8:53And at the end of the day, what we came
- 8:56to know about him that the child was
- 8:58suffering from learning disorder. He was
- 9:00suffering from reading disorder. And
- 9:02because he could not cope with the
- 9:05stress successfully, he engaged in other
- 9:08type of behaviors which were damaging
- 9:11for oneself as well as for others in
- 9:14order to take attention away from the
- 9:17actual cause. Now for children this is
- 9:21quite acceptable because they are still
- 9:24immature. They are not cognitively
- 9:26mature so that they can express their
- 9:30stress in the appropriate way and they
- 9:32can analyze their own self and they
- 9:35understand what the problem is so that
- 9:38it can be solved. But what if adults
- 9:41keep on doing the same kind of behavior?
- 9:45Most of us when get stuck with one kind
- 9:48of problem or the other kind which we
- 9:50are not able to solve or when we realize
- 9:55that we have committed some kind of
- 9:58mistakes due to which negative emotions
- 10:00are building up we are feeling stress
- 10:02what we try to do we start shouting we
- 10:06start finding we start throwing objects
- 10:09now these damaging behaviors because
- 10:12they are intense enough they can simply
- 10:17disorient the whole scenario snatching
- 10:20the intent uh attention away from the
- 10:23actual problem and focusing it on some
- 10:26other issue. Suicide is also an example
- 10:30of this kind of behavior. So instead of
- 10:34uh showing our emotion in a more matured
- 10:37way, instead of discussing the problems
- 10:41properly, communicating them, doing
- 10:44introspections,
- 10:45identifying the actual stressor and then
- 10:48working upon it either to change the
- 10:52situation or to upskill oneselves to
- 10:55enhance one's own resources to cope. one
- 10:58is simply engaging in a more damaging
- 11:02behavior so that the previous problem
- 11:05can become less important. Okay.
- 11:08So this is the basic mechanism of acting
- 11:12out.
- 11:14What are the consequences of acting out?
- 11:17Obviously it has many many negative
- 11:21consequences including damaging
- 11:23relationships. If you keep fighting with
- 11:25your family members or with your
- 11:27colleagues obviously your relationships
- 11:30will be strained with them. It actually
- 11:33increases the stress because there was
- 11:36one problem and in order to take your
- 11:40attention away from the actual problem
- 11:42you engaged in some more damaging
- 11:44behavior creating a new front of
- 11:47stressgenic situation. So there may be a
- 11:51short time
- 11:54uh fleet from the actual problem. It is
- 11:57in no way going to reduce the stress
- 12:00actually for the person.
- 12:03This also has known consequences for
- 12:07one's mental health. So impacting mental
- 12:10health is also common. What could be an
- 12:14alternative to such behavior? An
- 12:16alternative to such behavior can be
- 12:19verbal expression of your problem. You
- 12:22can engage yourself in some other
- 12:24physical activity which is benign, which
- 12:27is not damaging. Maybe you can start
- 12:29playing or start playing some musical
- 12:31instrument or anything else. And then
- 12:34relaxation and mindfulness training can
- 12:37help you introspecting in a better way
- 12:41without getting anxious, without sinking
- 12:43into the feeling of guilt and then you
- 12:46can manage the emotions nicely.
- 12:51Coming to the second defense mechanism.
- 12:55When someone justifies their behavior by
- 12:59offering a reasonable explanation
- 13:02instead of telling the actual intention
- 13:06behind the behavior. It is known as
- 13:09rationalization. So we try to
- 13:11rationalize what we have done or
- 13:14rationalize what has happened to us.
- 13:16Okay.
- 13:19You might have read about the character
- 13:21of Robin Hood.
- 13:23He was a hero for poor people because he
- 13:28used to snatch money from rich and
- 13:31distribute it to the poor instead of
- 13:34keeping it for himself. Now this could
- 13:37be an example of rationalization.
- 13:41Snatching money from other people cannot
- 13:44be legalized. It cannot be socially
- 13:46approved. But when you take money from
- 13:50riches and distribute it to poors, it
- 13:54somehow help you to overcome the guilt
- 13:57of being indulged in an inappropriate
- 14:01action which is not socially sanctioned
- 14:03which is considered illegal. Okay. So
- 14:07this kind of defense mechanism can help
- 14:11the person
- 14:14reduce the stress for the time being but
- 14:17somehow it distorts the actual social
- 14:22situation the actual intentions and
- 14:25somehow people start believing in those
- 14:28alternative explanations only. So what
- 14:31happens the actual reason lies some uh
- 14:34at the back of their mind in their
- 14:36unconscious mind and at some later point
- 14:40of time it may convert its form it may
- 14:44cause some sort of mental health issue
- 14:47for them.
- 14:50Uh many times what happens if uh uh I
- 14:54talk about the academic life of all of
- 14:57us what we have done even everybody of
- 15:00us has sometimes missed the deadlines of
- 15:02submitting assignments and then we
- 15:04started telling reasons and excuses
- 15:08which were all related to the external
- 15:10world that this was happened that was
- 15:14happened that is why I could not
- 15:15complete my assignment and submit it
- 15:18timely.
- 15:20So this is also an example of
- 15:22rationalization.
- 15:24One thing that you should note that
- 15:26defense mechanisms has a range of
- 15:29intensity. Sometimes they can be very
- 15:32mild, they can be very benign. On the
- 15:35other hand, they can be very intense.
- 15:38Correct? For example, killing somebody
- 15:41and then trying to rationalize could be
- 15:44an intense example of using defense
- 15:47mechanism. On the other hand, giving
- 15:50simple excuses for being late for 10 or
- 15:5315 minutes uh g attributing the
- 15:56responsibilities to the external
- 15:58environment could be an example of mild
- 16:01use of defense mechanism. So there is a
- 16:03whole range right every time we come up
- 16:06with defense mechanisms or maybe
- 16:09rationalization if I talk about it
- 16:11particularly it is not all the same. It
- 16:14ranges from mild and acceptable to very
- 16:17intense and sometimes unacceptable use
- 16:20of rationalization.
- 16:22It usually helps to maintain a positive
- 16:25self-image and avoid accountability for
- 16:29an action or a word.
- 16:32However, it can lead to a lack of
- 16:36personal growth by preventing
- 16:38individuals from learning from mistakes
- 16:41and impair relationships creating a lack
- 16:44of accountability and trust.
- 16:50The next popular defense mechanisms
- 16:52which is used by most of us is reaction
- 16:56formation.
- 16:58Before we dwell into the technical
- 17:01discussions, if I try to explain this
- 17:04concept in a very simple and plain
- 17:06manner, reaction formation means
- 17:11hiding one's actual feelings and acting
- 17:15in an entirely different manner. So if I
- 17:19actually uh don't like a person, I will
- 17:24act in an overly generous manner towards
- 17:28him or her. This would be an example of
- 17:31reaction formation. Okay? So whatever
- 17:34was my true intention, true emotion
- 17:37towards that person, if I find it
- 17:40socially unacceptable
- 17:42or if I find it risky expressing them
- 17:46out, what will I do? I will try to
- 17:50substitute my actual emotions or maybe I
- 17:54try to hide my actual emotions beside a
- 17:58behavior an action which conveys an
- 18:03entirely different set of emotions which
- 18:06could be very positive.
- 18:08So uh now if you go through the text
- 18:13which is given on your slide, it says
- 18:15that reaction formation happens when one
- 18:18decides to replace their original
- 18:21impulse with the contrasting
- 18:24one pertaining to a situation or a
- 18:26concept. The way I explained that if I
- 18:29don't like a person but I don't find it
- 18:32either appropriate or or unsafe to
- 18:37reflect my true feeling, I would behave
- 18:40in a manner as if I were very very happy
- 18:42with the person and I actually like him
- 18:46or her a lot. Okay. So reaction
- 18:49formation can be identified in instances
- 18:52where an individual show exaggerated
- 18:55kindness towards another individual whom
- 18:58they hold animosity towards.
- 19:02It is when someone acts in a way that is
- 19:04the opposite of how they really feel in
- 19:07order to avoid anxiety or criticism from
- 19:11others.
- 19:13What is the use of reaction formation?
- 19:16It helps individuals avoid social
- 19:19disapproval. As I said, sometimes it is
- 19:22socially inappropriate to show your
- 19:25dislike, to show your anger, to show
- 19:28your emotion towards somebody due to the
- 19:31social norms due to something else.
- 19:34So if you react if you adopt the defense
- 19:39mechanism of reaction formation this
- 19:42will help you in avoiding such
- 19:44unpleasant happenings. You can manage
- 19:47your anxiety for the time being but this
- 19:51will lead to an inauthentic behavior and
- 19:55inner conflict. I have certain set of
- 19:58values but I'm showing an entirely set
- 20:00of actions in my behavior.
- 20:04So these were the three main defense
- 20:06mechanisms we covered in this
- 20:09presentation and the rest of them will
- 20:13be covered sequentially in coming
- 20:17lectures. Let us have a recap of what we
- 20:20have learned today. Coping mechanisms
- 20:24are definitely ways people adapt to
- 20:26adjust to their emotional stress in
- 20:29difficult situations.
- 20:32Some coping mechanisms are
- 20:35counterproductive. Counterproductive
- 20:37means which are adopted to get a certain
- 20:40result but instead of leading the person
- 20:43to the desired outcome, they started
- 20:47behaving in a way or they resulted in
- 20:50something which is actually
- 20:54contrary to what we wanted. So we
- 20:57adopted defense mechanisms in order to
- 21:00reduce the stress. Yes, they seems to
- 21:03reduce stress for the time being but in
- 21:07the long run they are going to increase
- 21:09the level of stress by you know
- 21:13worsening the situations.
- 21:16So defense mechanisms can be put under
- 21:20the category of counterproductive
- 21:22mechanisms. Apart from that we have
- 21:25problem focused coping where we directly
- 21:28operate upon the problems. These coping
- 21:30mechanisms will be dealt with in the
- 21:32next module. And then emotion focused
- 21:35coping of which defense mechanism was an
- 21:39example. We talked about acting out
- 21:43coping. We talked about rationalization
- 21:46and reaction formation. Whereas
- 21:48sublimation and suppression will be
- 21:51dealt with in the coming lectures.
- 21:54These are the references that you can go
- 21:58through for further enhancement of your
- 22:00knowledge.
- 22:03List of books and references continues.
- 22:09Here are some more books. Thank you very
- 22:12much for your patient listening.
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