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KILL YOUR NEGATIVE THINKING - Jim Rohn Motivation — Transcript

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  1. 0:02we all face negative thoughts at some
  2. 0:04point the I'm not good enough this is
  3. 0:06too hard or I'll never make it thoughts
  4. 0:09can creep in and take control of our
  5. 0:10minds but here's a powerful truth you
  6. 0:12need to hear today you have the ability
  7. 0:15to choose your thoughts you see your
  8. 0:18mind is like a garden whatever you plant
  9. 0:21in it whether it's positive or negative
  10. 0:23grows if you plant seeds of Doubt fear
  11. 0:27and negativity that's what will bloom
  12. 0:30but if you start planting thoughts of
  13. 0:31confidence success and resilience that's
  14. 0:34what your life will begin to reflect the
  15. 0:36good news it's all in your
  16. 0:39hands most people let their negative
  17. 0:41thoughts take charge and let them
  18. 0:43dictate their actions but what if you
  19. 0:46could break free from that cycle what if
  20. 0:48you could Step Up take control and start
  21. 0:51thinking in a way that propels you
  22. 0:53forward instead of holding you back this
  23. 0:56video is not just another motivational
  24. 0:57speech this is a wakeup call a challenge
  25. 1:00to transform the way you think and
  26. 1:02ultimately transform the way you live
  27. 1:04I'm going to walk you through exactly
  28. 1:06how to break free from that negativity
  29. 1:08and build a mindset that pushes you to
  30. 1:10take action to be relentless and to
  31. 1:12succeed it's time to stop letting your
  32. 1:15doubts decide your future your life does
  33. 1:17not get better by chance it gets better
  34. 1:20by change and the change starts in your
  35. 1:23mind stick with me and I'll show you how
  36. 1:25to shift your thinking Take Back Control
  37. 1:28and start winning in ways you never
  38. 1:29thought thought possible now let's dive
  39. 1:31into how you can truly kill your
  40. 1:33negative thinking and start creating the
  41. 1:35life you've always dreamed of number one
  42. 1:38make self-improvement a daily practice
  43. 1:41if you don't take control of your mind
  44. 1:43life will do it for you and let me tell
  45. 1:45you something life doesn't care about
  46. 1:47your dreams it doesn't care about your
  47. 1:49potential if you let it life will fill
  48. 1:52your mind with doubts fears and excuses
  49. 1:54one bad experience and you'll start
  50. 1:56thinking you're a failure one setback
  51. 1:58and you'll start believing you're not
  52. 1:59good enough
  53. 2:00that's how negativity takes root it
  54. 2:03sneaks in when you're not paying
  55. 2:05attention and if you don't do something
  56. 2:07about it that negativity doesn't just
  57. 2:10sit there it grows it multiplies it
  58. 2:13starts shaping your thoughts your
  59. 2:14decisions and ultimately your future
  60. 2:16before you know it you're stuck living
  61. 2:18the same day over and over again
  62. 2:20wondering why nothing ever changes but
  63. 2:21let's be clear your mind isn't the
  64. 2:24problem the problem is that you haven't
  65. 2:26trained it to work for you instead of
  66. 2:28against you if you want to kill negative
  67. 2:31thinking you have to make
  68. 2:33self-improvement a daily practice not
  69. 2:35once in a while not when you feel like
  70. 2:37it every single day because here's the
  71. 2:40truth your mind is like a muscle if you
  72. 2:43don't train it it gets weak it becomes
  73. 2:45lazy and a lazy mind will always default
  74. 2:49to negativity
  75. 2:50always that's why you can't leave it up
  76. 2:53to chance you can't hope that one day
  77. 2:55you'll just start thinking positively
  78. 2:57it's not how it works you have to
  79. 2:59program your mind you have to build the
  80. 3:02habit of feeding at the right things
  81. 3:04every single day now some people hear
  82. 3:06this and think that sounds exhausting I
  83. 3:09don't have time for self-improvement
  84. 3:10every day really but you have time to
  85. 3:12scroll through your phone for hours you
  86. 3:15have time to overthink and stress about
  87. 3:17things you can't control you have time
  88. 3:20to listen to people who do nothing but
  89. 3:22complain see it's not about having time
  90. 3:25it's about what you prioritize and if
  91. 3:26you don't prioritize your own growth who
  92. 3:28will no one is coming to fix your
  93. 3:31mindset for you that's your job so where
  94. 3:34do you start you start by paying
  95. 3:36attention to what goes into your mind
  96. 3:39most people don't even realize how much
  97. 3:40negativity they consume daily the news
  98. 3:43social media toxic
  99. 3:45conversations these things shape the way
  100. 3:48you think and if you're not careful they
  101. 3:50will shape your life that's why the
  102. 3:52first step in self-improvement is
  103. 3:54guarding your mind like your future
  104. 3:55depends on it because it does instead of
  105. 3:58starting your day by by checking your
  106. 4:00phone and filling your mind with
  107. 4:01nonsense start it with something that
  108. 4:03makes you better read 10 pages of a good
  109. 4:06book listen to something inspiring write
  110. 4:09down your goals do something that
  111. 4:11strengthens your mindset before the
  112. 4:13world has a chance to fill it with
  113. 4:14negativity and don't just do it once do
  114. 4:17it every single day because what you do
  115. 4:19daily is what shapes you if you read 10
  116. 4:21pages of a book today you won't see a
  117. 4:23difference but if you do it every day
  118. 4:24for a year that's 3,650 pages of wisdom
  119. 4:29that that's the difference between being
  120. 4:31stuck and breaking through but reading
  121. 4:34alone isn't enough you have to take
  122. 4:37action see a lot of people love to learn
  123. 4:40but they never do anything with it they
  124. 4:42watch motivational videos all day but
  125. 4:44never apply anything that's not
  126. 4:45self-improvement that's procrastination
  127. 4:47disguised as progress real growth
  128. 4:50happens when you take what you learn and
  129. 4:52use it if you read something powerful
  130. 4:54today don't just think wow that's
  131. 4:56inspiring ask yourself how can I apply
  132. 4:59this to my life today and then do it and
  133. 5:02let me tell you something when you start
  134. 5:04doing this daily you'll notice something
  135. 5:06incredible negative thinking starts to
  136. 5:08lose its power over you you stop
  137. 5:11dwelling on problems and start focusing
  138. 5:13on
  139. 5:14Solutions you stop overthinking and
  140. 5:16start doing you stop looking for excuses
  141. 5:20and start looking for opportunities and
  142. 5:21you know why because when you train your
  143. 5:24mind to grow every day it stops settling
  144. 5:26for Less it stops accepting negativity
  145. 5:29as normal it starts demanding more but
  146. 5:33here's the catch this isn't a one-time
  147. 5:36thing you don't just wake up one day and
  148. 5:37say all right I'm done with negative
  149. 5:39thinking and expect it to disappear
  150. 5:41forever it doesn't work like that
  151. 5:43negative thoughts will always try to
  152. 5:45creep back in fear will always try to
  153. 5:48stop you doubt will always whisper in
  154. 5:50your ear that's why self-improvement has
  155. 5:52to be a daily practice it's how you
  156. 5:55fight back it's how you stay in control
  157. 5:58and I know what some of you might be
  158. 5:59thinking but what if I miss a day what
  159. 6:02if I fall off track listen to me missing
  160. 6:05one day won't ruin you but letting that
  161. 6:08one day turn into a habit that's where
  162. 6:10people go wrong it's not about being
  163. 6:12perfect it's about being consistent you
  164. 6:15don't have to get it right every time
  165. 6:17but you do have to get back up every
  166. 6:19time because here's the truth
  167. 6:21self-improvement isn't something you do
  168. 6:23when life is easy it's something you do
  169. 6:26so that life doesn't break you when it
  170. 6:28gets hard it's something thing you do to
  171. 6:30make sure that no matter what happens
  172. 6:32you stay strong that no setback no
  173. 6:34failure no disappointment can take you
  174. 6:36back to the person you used to be
  175. 6:38because once you commit to this path
  176. 6:40there's no going back you'll start to
  177. 6:43see yourself differently you'll start to
  178. 6:45expect more from yourself and when you
  179. 6:47expect more from yourself Life starts
  180. 6:49giving you more but it all starts with
  181. 6:52one decision the decision to stop
  182. 6:54waiting the decision to stop making
  183. 6:57excuses the decision to start improving
  184. 7:00yourself every single day no matter what
  185. 7:02because the moment you make that
  186. 7:03decision you take your power back the
  187. 7:07moment you make that decision negative
  188. 7:09thinking starts to die and the moment
  189. 7:12you make that decision your entire life
  190. 7:15starts to change number two detach from
  191. 7:17past failures and regrets your past does
  192. 7:20not define you unless you let it too
  193. 7:23many people are living today with the
  194. 7:25weight of yesterday pressing down on
  195. 7:26them carrying regrets mistakes mistakes
  196. 7:30failures like they are chained to their
  197. 7:33backs and they wonder why they can't
  198. 7:35move forward why they feel stuck why no
  199. 7:38matter how hard they try they seem to be
  200. 7:39trapped in the same cycle but here's the
  201. 7:42truth it's not your past that's holding
  202. 7:44you back it's your attachment to it it's
  203. 7:46your unwillingness to let go it's your
  204. 7:48decision yes decision to keep reliving
  205. 7:51what should have already been left
  206. 7:52behind you cannot change what has
  207. 7:55already happened no matter how much you
  208. 7:57think about it no matter how much you
  209. 7:58analyze it no matter how much you punish
  210. 8:00yourself for it it is done you cannot go
  211. 8:03back but you can go forward and that is
  212. 8:06where your power is the moment you stop
  213. 8:09replaying your past failures the moment
  214. 8:11you stop giving energy to regrets that's
  215. 8:14the moment you start living again that's
  216. 8:17the moment you start winning now I know
  217. 8:20what you might be thinking but I made so
  218. 8:22many mistakes I wasted so much time I
  219. 8:25hurt people I failed at things I really
  220. 8:28cared about and yet that may all be true
  221. 8:31but do you think holding on to that
  222. 8:32guilt that shame that disappointment is
  223. 8:34going to fix it do you think spending
  224. 8:37another day another week another year
  225. 8:40dragging yourself through those memories
  226. 8:42is going to make you better no it's only
  227. 8:44going to steal more of your time it's
  228. 8:46only going to drain more of your energy
  229. 8:48it's only going to keep you stuck in a
  230. 8:50place you don't belong anymore you have
  231. 8:53to understand that failure is not the
  232. 8:55enemy mistakes are not the problem it's
  233. 8:58what you do after them that matters Ms
  234. 9:00every person you admire every person who
  235. 9:02has ever achieved anything great has
  236. 9:05failed the difference is they didn't let
  237. 9:07their failures Define them they learned
  238. 9:11they adjusted they moved on and that's
  239. 9:14exactly what you need to do there are
  240. 9:15people who spend their whole lives
  241. 9:17trapped by something that happened years
  242. 9:19ago they Define themselves by their
  243. 9:21worst moments they tell themselves I'm
  244. 9:24not good enough because I failed before
  245. 9:27they stop trying because they think
  246. 9:28their past predicts their future but
  247. 9:31listen to me your past is only a teacher
  248. 9:34it is not your
  249. 9:36identity the only way it has power over
  250. 9:39you is if you give it power and you know
  251. 9:41how most people give their past
  252. 9:44Power by replaying it over and over in
  253. 9:47their minds by feeding it energy by
  254. 9:50talking about it like it still matters
  255. 9:52today but it doesn't the only reason it
  256. 9:54still feels real is because you keep
  257. 9:55bringing it back to life stop doing that
  258. 9:58to yourself stop reopening wounds that
  259. 10:00should have already healed stop
  260. 10:02reminding yourself of things that are no
  261. 10:04longer relevant to who you are becoming
  262. 10:07if you failed before good that means you
  263. 10:09tried that means you put yourself out
  264. 10:11there that means you were in the game
  265. 10:13and if you keep trying if you keep
  266. 10:15moving forward you're going to succeed
  267. 10:18but only if you stop holding on to what
  268. 10:19didn't work before let me ask you
  269. 10:22something if you were driving a car
  270. 10:24would you keep staring at the rearview
  271. 10:26mirror no because you'd crash and yet
  272. 10:30that's exactly what people do with their
  273. 10:32lives they keep looking back they keep
  274. 10:34focusing on what's behind them instead
  275. 10:36of what's in front of them and then they
  276. 10:38wonder why they're not making
  277. 10:40progress if you want to change your life
  278. 10:43you have to start acting like your
  279. 10:44future is more important than your
  280. 10:47past because it is what's ahead of you
  281. 10:50matters more than what's behind you the
  282. 10:52only thing you need to take from your
  283. 10:54past is the
  284. 10:55lesson that's it not the pain not the
  285. 10:58regret not the
  286. 10:59just the lesson and once you have it let
  287. 11:02the rest go I know it's not easy I know
  288. 11:05sometimes the past feels like it has a
  289. 11:07grip on you but that's just an illusion
  290. 11:09the only thing keeping you tied to it is
  291. 11:11your own thoughts and the good news you
  292. 11:13can change your thoughts you can train
  293. 11:15your mind to let go every time you catch
  294. 11:17yourself thinking about an old failure
  295. 11:20stop yourself and shift your focus every
  296. 11:22time regret Creeps in remind yourself
  297. 11:25that you are not that person anymore
  298. 11:27every time doubt tries to pull you back
  299. 11:29remind yourself that you are moving
  300. 11:30forward and nothing is going to stop you
  301. 11:32you owe it to yourself to give your
  302. 11:34future the energy you've been wasting on
  303. 11:35your past you owe it to yourself to stop
  304. 11:38looking back and start looking ahead and
  305. 11:40you owe it to yourself to finally once
  306. 11:42and for all detach from everything that
  307. 11:45has been holding you back because the
  308. 11:47moment you do you'll feel something
  309. 11:49incredible you'll feel lighter you'll
  310. 11:51feel stronger and you'll realize that
  311. 11:54the only thing that was ever stopping
  312. 11:56you was the belief that you couldn't
  313. 11:58move on but now you know better now you
  314. 12:01know that the past only has power if you
  315. 12:03allow it to and from this moment on you
  316. 12:05are taking that power back number three
  317. 12:07stop comparing yourself to others there
  318. 12:09is no faster way to destroy your
  319. 12:11confidence kill your motivation and Rob
  320. 12:13yourself of Joy than by comparing
  321. 12:15yourself to others and yet so many
  322. 12:17people do it every single day they wake
  323. 12:19up and the first thing they do is look
  324. 12:21at someone else's life someone else's
  325. 12:22success someone else's achievements and
  326. 12:24then they convince themselves they are
  327. 12:26not enough they convince themselves they
  328. 12:29are behind they convince themselves they
  329. 12:32are failing but let me tell you
  330. 12:34something important the only person you
  331. 12:36should ever compare yourself to as the
  332. 12:38person you were yesterday that's it
  333. 12:41because the truth is no two people have
  334. 12:43the same Journey no two people start
  335. 12:46from the same place have the same
  336. 12:47struggles or face the same obstacles and
  337. 12:49yet people make the mistake of measuring
  338. 12:51their progress against someone else's
  339. 12:53story someone else's timeline someone
  340. 12:56else's highlight re and when they do
  341. 12:58they set them elves up for misery you
  342. 13:00have to stop looking at what other
  343. 13:01people are doing and start focusing on
  344. 13:03your own path because when you compare
  345. 13:05yourself to others you're not even
  346. 13:07comparing reality you're comparing what
  347. 13:09you see on the surface you're comparing
  348. 13:11what they choose to show you see someone
  349. 13:14winning but you don't see the struggles
  350. 13:16they went through you see someone
  351. 13:17succeeding but you don't see the
  352. 13:19failures they had to overcome you see
  353. 13:21someone confident but you don't see the
  354. 13:23nights they spent doubting
  355. 13:26themselves and yet you look at yourself
  356. 13:28with all your
  357. 13:29struggles all your
  358. 13:31insecurities all your
  359. 13:34challenges and you convince yourself
  360. 13:36that you are less than them but you are
  361. 13:39not you are just at a different stage of
  362. 13:42your journey think about this when you
  363. 13:43plant a seed do you stand over it every
  364. 13:46day and get frustrated that it's not a
  365. 13:48tree
  366. 13:49yet no you understand that it takes time
  367. 13:51you understand that growth happens below
  368. 13:53the surface before you ever see
  369. 13:55results but when it comes to life people
  370. 13:58forget this
  371. 14:00they look at someone else who is in full
  372. 14:01bloom and they get frustrated that they
  373. 14:03are still growing they forget that their
  374. 14:06time will come if they stay committed if
  375. 14:09they keep pushing if they keep going the
  376. 14:12problem is when you compare yourself to
  377. 14:13others you start feeling like what
  378. 14:15you're doing is not enough you start
  379. 14:17doubting yourself you start rushing your
  380. 14:19progress and when you rush you make
  381. 14:21mistakes when you rush you lose focus
  382. 14:24when you rush you lose patience with
  383. 14:26your own journey and that's how people
  384. 14:28quit not because they weren't capable
  385. 14:31not because they weren't good enough but
  386. 14:33because they convinced themselves that
  387. 14:35they should be further ahead by now you
  388. 14:38have to train your mind to stay in your
  389. 14:39own lane you have to remind yourself
  390. 14:42daily that your path is your path and it
  391. 14:45does not have to look like anyone else's
  392. 14:48some people succeed quickly others take
  393. 14:51longer some people struggle in the
  394. 14:53beginning and then take off others have
  395. 14:55steady growth some people start with all
  396. 14:58the resource ources they need others
  397. 15:00have to fight for every opportunity but
  398. 15:03in the end none of that matters because
  399. 15:06the only thing that determines where you
  400. 15:08end up is your own effort your own
  401. 15:11discipline your own mindset instead of
  402. 15:13comparing yourself to others compare
  403. 15:15yourself to who you were last week last
  404. 15:17month last year that's the only
  405. 15:20comparison that matters are you better
  406. 15:22than you were before are you growing are
  407. 15:24you improving if the answer is yes then
  408. 15:27you are on the right track and if the
  409. 15:29answer is no then it's time to step it
  410. 15:31up not because of what someone else is
  411. 15:33doing but because you owe it to yourself
  412. 15:36to be better you have to stop measuring
  413. 15:38your success based on someone else's
  414. 15:40Journey you have to stop feeling bad
  415. 15:42about your progress just because someone
  416. 15:44else seems ahead you have to stop
  417. 15:46letting other people's success make you
  418. 15:48feel like you're failing because you're
  419. 15:50not you are on your own timeline and
  420. 15:53your only job is to keep going keep
  421. 15:55growing keep improving and trust that as
  422. 15:57long as you are doing that you are
  423. 15:59exactly where you need to be there will
  424. 16:00always be someone ahead of you there
  425. 16:03will always be someone who seems to have
  426. 16:04it easier who seems to be moving faster
  427. 16:07who seems to be doing better but that
  428. 16:10does not mean you are losing that does
  429. 16:12not mean you are not enough that does
  430. 16:15not mean you should doubt yourself it
  431. 16:17just means that their journey is
  432. 16:18different and that's okay because at the
  433. 16:21end of the day success is not about
  434. 16:23being better than someone else it's
  435. 16:25about being the best version of yourself
  436. 16:29and when you finally understand that you
  437. 16:31will stop wasting your time comparing
  438. 16:34and you will start focusing on what
  439. 16:35really matters your own growth your own
  440. 16:38progress number four make a decision and
  441. 16:41stand by it there Comes A Time in life
  442. 16:44when you have to make a decision a real
  443. 16:46decision not just a thought not just an
  444. 16:48idea but a firm decision that says this
  445. 16:51is it I am going all in and when you do
  446. 16:54that everything starts to change the
  447. 16:57problem is most people never truly
  448. 16:59decide they hesitate they second guess
  449. 17:02they tell themselves maybe later or I'll
  450. 17:05wait for the right time but the right
  451. 17:07time never comes because they never
  452. 17:11commit they never say no matter what
  453. 17:14happens I am sticking to this if you
  454. 17:18want to change your life if you want to
  455. 17:20succeed if you want to move forward then
  456. 17:22you must learn the power of making a
  457. 17:25decision and standing by it not for a
  458. 17:27week not for a month but until you get
  459. 17:30the result because that's what separates
  460. 17:32those who win from those who stay stuck
  461. 17:35the ones who win are the ones who decide
  462. 17:37and never look back they don't entertain
  463. 17:39doubt they don't waste time wondering if
  464. 17:41they made the right choice they move
  465. 17:43forward with full commitment full Focus
  466. 17:45full belief that they are going to make
  467. 17:47it work most people live in a constant
  468. 17:50state of
  469. 17:51indecision they start something but the
  470. 17:54moment it gets tough they question
  471. 17:56themselves they let fear creep in they
  472. 17:59start thinking about all the ways it
  473. 18:00could go wrong and before they know it
  474. 18:03they quit not because they couldn't do
  475. 18:06it not because they weren't capable but
  476. 18:08because they never truly committed in
  477. 18:10the first place they were still holding
  478. 18:12on to their Exit Plan they were still
  479. 18:14keeping one foot out the door but that's
  480. 18:18not how success works that's not how you
  481. 18:20build a great life you have to be all in
  482. 18:24the moment you make a real decision
  483. 18:26everything changes your focus sharpens
  484. 18:29your energy shifts you stop looking for
  485. 18:32distractions and you start looking for
  486. 18:34Solutions you stop waiting for things to
  487. 18:36happen and you start making things
  488. 18:38happen you stop wasting time wondering
  489. 18:40if you can do it and you start proving
  490. 18:42to yourself that you can but none of
  491. 18:45that happens until you decide until you
  492. 18:47say this is what I want and I will not
  493. 18:49stop until I get it you see indecision
  494. 18:52is the enemy of progress indecision
  495. 18:54keeps you stuck indecision makes you
  496. 18:56doubt yourself indecision wastes your
  497. 18:58time and worst of all indecision makes
  498. 19:01you live a life of
  499. 19:03regret because one day you'll look back
  500. 19:06and realize that all the things you
  501. 19:07could have done all the goals you could
  502. 19:09have achieved all the dreams you could
  503. 19:10have lived never happened because you
  504. 19:13never fully decided to go after them you
  505. 19:16can't build a strong life on weak
  506. 19:18decisions you can't expect great results
  507. 19:21with a half committed mind you have to
  508. 19:24decide what you want and you have to
  509. 19:25commit to it like your life depends on
  510. 19:27it because in many ways it does your
  511. 19:30future depends on it your success
  512. 19:32depends on it your happiness depends on
  513. 19:34it think about all the people who have
  514. 19:36made it to the top the athletes the
  515. 19:38entrepreneurs the leaders the artists
  516. 19:41they all had one thing in common they
  517. 19:43made a decision and they never back down
  518. 19:45they didn't let fear stop them they
  519. 19:48didn't let obstacles shake them they
  520. 19:50didn't let failure make them quit they
  521. 19:52stayed the course they adjusted when
  522. 19:54needed but they never changed the
  523. 19:56decision itself they said I'm doing this
  524. 19:58and they followed through and that's why
  525. 20:01they succeeded now you have to ask
  526. 20:02yourself what am I still undecided
  527. 20:05about what have I been hesitating on
  528. 20:08what have I been starting and stopping
  529. 20:10over and over again because that's
  530. 20:12what's holding you back that's what's
  531. 20:14keeping you from reaching your full
  532. 20:16potential and until you decide truly
  533. 20:19decide you will stay exactly where you
  534. 20:21are stop waiting for everything to be
  535. 20:24perfect before you commit stop thinking
  536. 20:27you need more time more information more
  537. 20:30confidence you don't what you need is to
  538. 20:33make a decision and
  539. 20:35start start where you are start with
  540. 20:37what you have start
  541. 20:38today and then once you start do not
  542. 20:41stop do not let doubt pull you back do
  543. 20:43not let fear make you hesitate move
  544. 20:45forward with full commitment with full
  545. 20:47belief with the absolute certainty that
  546. 20:49no matter how long it takes no matter
  547. 20:52what obstacles come your way you are
  548. 20:54going to see it through you have to be
  549. 20:56stronger than your excuses you have to
  550. 20:58be more committed to your goals than
  551. 21:00your fears you have to decide that you
  552. 21:02are done living the same way done making
  553. 21:05the same mistakes done holding yourself
  554. 21:07back and when you do that when you
  555. 21:09finally make that decision and stand by
  556. 21:11it everything in your life will start to
  557. 21:14change because decisions shape Destiny
  558. 21:17and the moment you make a real one you
  559. 21:19will never be the same again number five
  560. 21:21replace emotional reactions with
  561. 21:23thoughtful responses there will always
  562. 21:25be moments in life that test you
  563. 21:27situations that put push your buttons
  564. 21:29people that say things that frustrate
  565. 21:30you disappointments that shake your
  566. 21:32confidence and in those moments you have
  567. 21:34two choices you can react emotionally
  568. 21:36let anger take over let frustration
  569. 21:38Cloud your judgment let fear dictate
  570. 21:40your next move or you can take control
  571. 21:43and respond with thoughtfulness with
  572. 21:45Clarity with strength One path keeps you
  573. 21:48stuck the other moves you forward most
  574. 21:51people don't realize how much their
  575. 21:53emotional reactions are controlling
  576. 21:55their lives they think they're making
  577. 21:58choices
  578. 21:59but in reality they're being controlled
  579. 22:01by their
  580. 22:02emotions something happens and they
  581. 22:04react without thinking someone says
  582. 22:06something negative and they let it ruin
  583. 22:08their whole day they get bad news and
  584. 22:10suddenly they spiral into hopelessness
  585. 22:13they feel fear and instead of pushing
  586. 22:15through they give up this is how most
  587. 22:18people live always reacting always
  588. 22:21letting their emotions take the driver's
  589. 22:23seat and the result regret because when
  590. 22:27you react emotionally you often say
  591. 22:29things you don't mean do things you wish
  592. 22:32you hadn't and make choices that don't
  593. 22:34serve your future but the people who win
  594. 22:36in life the people who stay in control
  595. 22:38they don't operate that way they don't
  596. 22:41let emotions dictate their
  597. 22:43decisions they don't let temporary
  598. 22:45feelings shape permanent outcomes they
  599. 22:48train themselves to pause to think to
  600. 22:51act with wisdom not just impulse because
  601. 22:53they understand something powerful
  602. 22:55emotions are temporary but the
  603. 22:58consequence es of reacting emotionally
  604. 23:00can last a lifetime think about it how
  605. 23:02many times in your life have you said
  606. 23:03something out of anger and regretted it
  607. 23:05later how many times have you made a
  608. 23:07decision based on fear and realized
  609. 23:08later that it was the wrong choice how
  610. 23:11many times have you let frustration make
  611. 23:12you give up only to wish later that you
  612. 23:14had stuck with it that's what emotional
  613. 23:17reactions do they Cloud your judgment
  614. 23:19they make small problems feel bigger
  615. 23:20than they are they push you into
  616. 23:23decisions that don't align with your
  617. 23:24long-term goals you have to start
  618. 23:26catching yourself in those moments the
  619. 23:28moment you feel anger Rising the moment
  620. 23:30frustration starts creeping in the
  621. 23:31moment fear makes you want to run
  622. 23:35pause don't react don't say the first
  623. 23:38thing that comes to your mind don't let
  624. 23:41emotions hijack your thinking take a
  625. 23:43breath step back give yourself a moment
  626. 23:45to process before you act because once
  627. 23:48you do that something powerful happens
  628. 23:50You Take Back Control you start
  629. 23:52responding instead of reacting and
  630. 23:55that's when you become dangerous in the
  631. 23:57best way possible possible because when
  632. 23:59you are in control of yourself nothing
  633. 24:01and no one can manipulate you most
  634. 24:04people don't even try to control their
  635. 24:06emotions they say that's just how I am
  636. 24:08or I can't help it but that's not true
  637. 24:12you can train yourself you can build the
  638. 24:14habit of pausing of thinking of
  639. 24:16responding with wisdom it's a
  640. 24:19skill and like any skill the more you
  641. 24:21practice it the better you get the more
  642. 24:24you catch yourself before reacting the
  643. 24:26more you build the ability to handle
  644. 24:28pressure to stay calm to think clearly
  645. 24:31no matter what is happening around
  646. 24:33you because life is
  647. 24:36unpredictable you will face problems you
  648. 24:38will encounter people who try to bring
  649. 24:40you down you will deal with situations
  650. 24:42that don't go your way and if you're
  651. 24:43always reacting emotionally you will
  652. 24:45always feel out of
  653. 24:47control you will always be at the mercy
  654. 24:49of your feelings but if you train
  655. 24:51yourself to respond thoughtfully you
  656. 24:53become
  657. 24:54unshakable you become the person who
  658. 24:57stays calm in the storm
  659. 24:58who makes smart decisions Under Pressure
  660. 25:00who doesn't let temporary emotions ruin
  661. 25:03long-term
  662. 25:04goals imagine how different your life
  663. 25:07would be if you mastered this skill
  664. 25:09imagine how much more respect you would
  665. 25:11earn if people knew they couldn't push
  666. 25:12your buttons that you don't break Under
  667. 25:15Pressure that you don't let Small Things
  668. 25:17control you imagine how much more peace
  669. 25:20you would feel if you weren't constantly
  670. 25:21getting upset over things that don't
  671. 25:23matter in the long run imagine how much
  672. 25:25more success you would have if instead
  673. 25:27of reacting emotionally you responded
  674. 25:30with strategy with intelligence with
  675. 25:32power this is what separates average
  676. 25:35people from high Achievers the average
  677. 25:37person reacts they get emotional they
  678. 25:40take things personally they waste time
  679. 25:42and energy on things that don't matter
  680. 25:45but the high achiever the person who is
  681. 25:46going places they think before they act
  682. 25:49they don't let small setbacks break them
  683. 25:52they don't let negative people shake
  684. 25:54them they stay focused they stay in
  685. 25:57control and because of that they always
  686. 25:58have the advantage this is your
  687. 26:00challenge starting today start catching
  688. 26:02yourself before you react when something
  689. 26:05upsets you pause when fear Creeps in
  690. 26:07pause when frustration builds up pause
  691. 26:10give yourself a moment to think before
  692. 26:11you speak before you act before you
  693. 26:13decide because that one habit that one
  694. 26:16change in how you handle situations will
  695. 26:18transform your life in ways you can't
  696. 26:20even imagine the people who Master this
  697. 26:23skill they don't just achieve more they
  698. 26:25live better they have better
  699. 26:27relationships better opportunities
  700. 26:29better control over their
  701. 26:31future because they are no longer
  702. 26:34prisoners of their emotions they don't
  703. 26:36react they
  704. 26:38respond and that changes everything
  705. 26:41number six condition your mind for high
  706. 26:44performance thinking your mind is the
  707. 26:46most powerful tool you will ever have it
  708. 26:48determines your success your failures
  709. 26:51your confidence your self-doubt
  710. 26:54everything the way you think shapes the
  711. 26:56way you live but here's the problem
  712. 26:58problem most people don't train their
  713. 27:00minds they don't condition their
  714. 27:02thinking for Success they let their
  715. 27:05thoughts run wild filled with negativity
  716. 27:08doubt and fear and they wonder why they
  717. 27:10can't seem to break through why they
  718. 27:13feel stuck why they can't get to that
  719. 27:15next level in life it's because they
  720. 27:16never took control of their own mind
  721. 27:18they never built the habits that create
  722. 27:21high performance thinking high
  723. 27:22performance thinking isn't something
  724. 27:24you're born with it's not luck it's not
  725. 27:27some natural ability that only a few
  726. 27:29people have it's a habit it's a mindset
  727. 27:32that you build every single day and if
  728. 27:34you don't train your mind if you don't
  729. 27:36condition it the world will condition it
  730. 27:38for you the negativity around you will
  731. 27:40take over the fear will take over the
  732. 27:42doubts will take over and before you
  733. 27:44know it you're operating at a fraction
  734. 27:46of your potential that's what happens
  735. 27:48when you don't take control of your
  736. 27:51thoughts every day you have to wake up
  737. 27:53and take command of your mind you have
  738. 27:55to decide what kind of thoughts you will
  739. 27:57allow in
  740. 27:58because your mind is like a garden if
  741. 28:00you don't take care of it if you don't
  742. 28:02remove the weeds the negativity will
  743. 28:05grow and the only way to stop it is to
  744. 28:07actively condition your mind for success
  745. 28:10for resilience for confidence for power
  746. 28:13you have to build the habit of feeding
  747. 28:15your mind with the right things start by
  748. 28:18paying attention to the thoughts that
  749. 28:19run through your head are they
  750. 28:21empowering you or holding you back are
  751. 28:23they making you stronger or
  752. 28:25weaker most people don't even realize
  753. 28:29how negative their thinking is because
  754. 28:30they've never stopped to examine it they
  755. 28:32just accept whatever thoughts come up
  756. 28:34but if you want to perform at a high
  757. 28:36level in life you can't afford to do
  758. 28:38that you have to challenge those
  759. 28:40thoughts you have to rewire your
  760. 28:42thinking because your thoughts are
  761. 28:44shaping your future the way you think
  762. 28:46affects the way you feel and the way you
  763. 28:48feel affects the way you act and the way
  764. 28:49you act determines the results you get
  765. 28:51in life if your mind is filled with
  766. 28:53doubt you'll hesitate if your mind is
  767. 28:56filled with fear you won't take action
  768. 28:59if your mind is filled with negativity
  769. 29:01you'll sabotage your own success but if
  770. 29:03your mind is trained for high
  771. 29:05performance if it's conditioned for
  772. 29:07confidence for resilience for
  773. 29:09discipline you become Unstoppable this
  774. 29:12is why successful people think
  775. 29:14differently it's not because they are
  776. 29:16smarter or luckier it's because they
  777. 29:18have trained themselves to think at a
  778. 29:20higher level they have built mental
  779. 29:22toughness they have created a habit of
  780. 29:24high performance thinking and because of
  781. 29:26that they act differently they move
  782. 29:28differently they don't waste time with
  783. 29:29negative thoughts they don't let fear
  784. 29:31stop them they don't let setbacks break
  785. 29:34them they keep going they keep pushing
  786. 29:36they keep winning you have to start
  787. 29:38building this mindset now you have to
  788. 29:40start training yourself to think in a
  789. 29:42way that serves your future stop letting
  790. 29:43old habits of negative thinking hold you
  791. 29:46back stop entertaining thoughts that
  792. 29:48weaken you every time you catch yourself
  793. 29:50thinking something that doesn't serve
  794. 29:52you replace it with something that does
  795. 29:55every time fear Creeps in remind
  796. 29:57yourself that you are capable every time
  797. 29:59doubt shows up remind yourself that you
  798. 30:02have overcome challenges before every
  799. 30:05time negativity tries to take over shift
  800. 30:08your focus to what you can do what you
  801. 30:11can control what you can build most
  802. 30:15people don't do this because it takes
  803. 30:16effort it's easy to let your thoughts
  804. 30:18control you it's easy to stay in a cycle
  805. 30:20of doubt and fear but easy won't get you
  806. 30:24anywhere if you want to achieve more if
  807. 30:27you want to be better if you want to
  808. 30:28reach your Highest Potential you have to
  809. 30:31do the work you have to build the habit
  810. 30:33of thinking like a high performer
  811. 30:35because once you do everything changes
  812. 30:38imagine what your life would look like
  813. 30:40if you had complete control over your
  814. 30:42thoughts imagine how much more you could
  815. 30:44accomplish if you never let doubt slow
  816. 30:46you down imagine how powerful you would
  817. 30:48be if you trained your mind to focus on
  818. 30:51Solutions instead of problems on
  819. 30:53possibilities instead of
  820. 30:55limitations that's what high performance
  821. 30:57thinking does it turns you into a person
  822. 31:00who can handle anything a person who
  823. 31:02doesn't break Under Pressure a person
  824. 31:04who moves with confidence who acts with
  825. 31:07purpose who achieves what others only
  826. 31:10dream about this is not about motivation
  827. 31:12it's about discipline it's about
  828. 31:14rewiring your brain for Success because
  829. 31:17when you build the habit of high
  830. 31:18performance thinking success is no
  831. 31:20longer a question it becomes a certainty
  832. 31:23you won't have to wonder if you're going
  833. 31:25to win you will know because you have
  834. 31:27trained change your mind to operate at
  835. 31:29the highest level and once you do that
  836. 31:32nothing can stop you number seven
  837. 31:34reconstruct your identity around
  838. 31:36strength not weakness there comes a
  839. 31:38point in life when you have to decide
  840. 31:40who you really are not who the world
  841. 31:42says you are not who your past mistakes
  842. 31:44try to Define you as not even who your
  843. 31:46own doubts whisper you might be no you
  844. 31:50have to reconstruct your identity based
  845. 31:52on your strength not your weakness
  846. 31:54because if you let weakness Define you
  847. 31:57if you let let failures and insecurities
  848. 31:59dictate the way you see yourself you'll
  849. 32:02never break free from the cycle of
  850. 32:04limitation you'll stay stuck you'll keep
  851. 32:07playing small you'll keep doubting
  852. 32:10yourself and worst of all you'll keep
  853. 32:11proving yourself
  854. 32:13right that's the dangerous part when you
  855. 32:16believe you're weak you act weak when
  856. 32:20you believe you're not capable you don't
  857. 32:23even try and then you look around and
  858. 32:25say see I knew I wasn't good enough
  859. 32:28that's how people trap themselves in a
  860. 32:30life they don't want but you don't have
  861. 32:32to stay there you can decide right now
  862. 32:35that from this moment on your identity
  863. 32:36will be built around your strength not
  864. 32:39your fears not your doubts not your
  865. 32:41failures only your strength the problem
  866. 32:44is most people never take the time to
  867. 32:46decide who they are they accept whatever
  868. 32:49identity has been given to them by
  869. 32:51Family by teachers by Society by past
  870. 32:54mistakes someone calls them lazy and
  871. 32:56they believe it someone tells them
  872. 32:58they're not smart and they carry that
  873. 33:00label for years they fail once and
  874. 33:03suddenly they see themselves as a
  875. 33:04failure
  876. 33:07forever that's how most people live but
  877. 33:10you can't afford to think like that
  878. 33:13because the way you see yourself
  879. 33:14determines everything the way you act
  880. 33:16the risks you take the opportunities you
  881. 33:18chase the challenges you face the goals
  882. 33:20you believe you can
  883. 33:22reach your identity is the foundation of
  884. 33:25your success or your downfall and if if
  885. 33:27you want to rise you have to reconstruct
  886. 33:30that Foundation the right way strength
  887. 33:32is not about never failing it's not
  888. 33:34about being Fearless it's not about
  889. 33:36having all the answers strength is about
  890. 33:38resilience it's about knowing that no
  891. 33:40matter what happens you will get back up
  892. 33:43it's about proving to yourself that you
  893. 33:45can handle anything even when it's hard
  894. 33:48even when it hurts even when you feel
  895. 33:50like giving up that's strength that's
  896. 33:53the identity you need to build but
  897. 33:55here's the key no one is going to give
  898. 33:57you that identity no one is going to
  899. 34:00come along and tell you you are strong
  900. 34:02now no one is going to hand you
  901. 34:05confidence discipline or self-belief
  902. 34:08that's something you have to take for
  903. 34:10yourself that's something you have to
  904. 34:12build Brick by Brick every single day
  905. 34:17look at how you talk to
  906. 34:19yourself pay attention to the words you
  907. 34:21use in your own mind because those words
  908. 34:25are shaping your identity do you do you
  909. 34:27tell yourself that you're not good
  910. 34:29enough that you always mess things up
  911. 34:32that you'll never succeed or do you tell
  912. 34:34yourself that you are strong that you
  913. 34:36are capable that you can handle whatever
  914. 34:38comes your way if you've been feeding
  915. 34:41yourself negative beliefs it's time to
  916. 34:43stop it's time to tear down the identity
  917. 34:47that's been holding you back and build a
  918. 34:48new one think about the strongest
  919. 34:50version of yourself think about the
  920. 34:51person you want to be the version of you
  921. 34:53who doesn't give up who pushes through
  922. 34:54fear who stands tall even when things
  923. 34:56get tough that version of you already
  924. 34:59exists it's not some distant dream it's
  925. 35:02inside you right now you just have to
  926. 35:04bring it out you have to act like that
  927. 35:07person every day because identity is not
  928. 35:10something you wait for it's something
  929. 35:11you create you don't become Strong by
  930. 35:14waiting for strength to appear you
  931. 35:16become Strong by making strong choices
  932. 35:19by thinking strong thoughts by taking
  933. 35:21strong actions and the more you do that
  934. 35:23the more your identity shifts you stop
  935. 35:26seeing yourself as someone who tries and
  936. 35:28start seeing yourself as someone who
  937. 35:30does you stop seeing yourself as someone
  938. 35:33who wants to change and start seeing
  939. 35:35yourself as someone who is already
  940. 35:38changing that's the key you have to live
  941. 35:40as that person
  942. 35:41now not someday not when you feel like
  943. 35:45it right now there will be moments when
  944. 35:48you feel like the old version of you is
  945. 35:49trying to pull you back when the doubts
  946. 35:51creep in when the fear tries to take
  947. 35:53over when you feel like slipping into
  948. 35:55old habits that's the test
  949. 35:58that's the moment when you decide am I
  950. 36:00going to stay the same or am I going to
  951. 36:03fight for the identity I want because
  952. 36:05make no mistake it is a fight your mind
  953. 36:09will try to pull you back into what's
  954. 36:11comfortable into what's familiar but you
  955. 36:13have to stand your ground you have to
  956. 36:15remind yourself that you are not your
  957. 36:18past you are not your failures you are
  958. 36:21not your fears you are only what you
  959. 36:23decide to be today start proving your
  960. 36:26new identity to yourself not with words
  961. 36:28but with
  962. 36:29actions you don't need to convince
  963. 36:31anyone else just you if you say you're
  964. 36:35strong then act strong if you say you're
  965. 36:38discipline then keep your promises to
  966. 36:40yourself if you say you're confident
  967. 36:43then walk like it talk like it move like
  968. 36:45it because every time you do you're
  969. 36:47reinforcing your identity you're telling
  970. 36:50your mind this is who I am now and the
  971. 36:52more you do that the more real it
  972. 36:54becomes you don't have to be perfect to
  973. 36:56build a strong identity you just have to
  974. 36:58be consistent every small choice you
  975. 37:00make is either reinforcing weakness or
  976. 37:02reinforcing
  977. 37:03strength every time you push past fear
  978. 37:05every time you refuse to give up every
  979. 37:08time you take one more step when you
  980. 37:09feel like stopping you are proving to
  981. 37:11yourself that you are strong and once
  982. 37:13you start seeing yourself that way
  983. 37:15Everything Changes because When You
  984. 37:17Believe in Your Own Strength you stop
  985. 37:20looking for approval you stop waiting
  986. 37:22for permission and you stop holding
  987. 37:24yourself back you move differently you
  988. 37:27think differently you become the kind of
  989. 37:29person who makes things happen so right
  990. 37:32now in this moment decide who you are
  991. 37:35decide that from this day forward your
  992. 37:37identity is built on
  993. 37:39strength no more doubting yourself no
  994. 37:42more carrying around old labels no more
  995. 37:45acting like someone you don't want to be
  996. 37:47from now on you stand tall you move with
  997. 37:50confidence you take control of your life
  998. 37:53because when you reconstruct your
  999. 37:54identity around strength nothing can
  1000. 37:55break you nothing can stop you and that
  1001. 37:59is when you become truly UN number eight
  1002. 38:01avoid people who drain your energy there
  1003. 38:04Comes A Time in your life when you have
  1004. 38:06to make a decision not just about what
  1005. 38:08you want to do but about who you allow
  1006. 38:09to be around you because whether you
  1007. 38:12realize it or not the people you
  1008. 38:13surround yourself with are shaping your
  1009. 38:15mindset your energy and your future some
  1010. 38:18people add to your life they push you
  1011. 38:20forward they challenge you to be better
  1012. 38:22and then there are the others the ones
  1013. 38:24who drain your energy who bring nothing
  1014. 38:26but negative it who pull you down every
  1015. 38:29chance they get these are the people you
  1016. 38:32cannot afford to keep in your life
  1017. 38:34because if you do you will never reach
  1018. 38:37your full potential there are people who
  1019. 38:39will never support your growth not
  1020. 38:41because you're doing something wrong but
  1021. 38:42because they can't stand to see you
  1022. 38:44rise they are comfortable where they are
  1023. 38:47and the moment you start changing the
  1024. 38:49moment you start working on yourself
  1025. 38:52they feel threatened they see you
  1026. 38:54putting in the effort making sacrifices
  1027. 38:57pushing yourself beyond what they ever
  1028. 38:59dared to do and instead of being
  1029. 39:01inspired they feel insecure so what do
  1030. 39:04they do they try to pull you back they
  1031. 39:07make fun of your goals they tell you
  1032. 39:08it's impossible they remind you of every
  1033. 39:10time you've failed before they
  1034. 39:12discourage you and if you're not careful
  1035. 39:15if you're not strong you'll start
  1036. 39:16listening to them you'll start doubting
  1037. 39:18yourself you'll start believing that
  1038. 39:20maybe they're right that's how dreams
  1039. 39:23die not because of failure but because
  1040. 39:26of the wrong WR people whispering in
  1041. 39:28your ear you need to understand this
  1042. 39:31your energy is everything the way you
  1043. 39:33feel the way you think the way you act
  1044. 39:35it all comes down to your energy and if
  1045. 39:37you let the wrong people drain you if
  1046. 39:40you let them fill your mind with
  1047. 39:41negativity self-doubt and excuses you
  1048. 39:45will never break free you will stay
  1049. 39:47stuck you will carry their weight on
  1050. 39:49your shoulders and before you know it
  1051. 39:52you'll be moving slower thinking smaller
  1052. 39:54giving up easier not because you wanted
  1053. 39:56to but because they made you believe
  1054. 39:59that's all you were capable of you
  1055. 40:01cannot let that
  1056. 40:03happen you cannot allow toxic people to
  1057. 40:06rob you of your potential sometimes the
  1058. 40:09hardest thing you'll ever do is walk
  1059. 40:10away from people you once cared about
  1060. 40:13friends co-workers even family members
  1061. 40:17people who have been a part of your life
  1062. 40:18for years but you need to ask yourself
  1063. 40:22are these people pushing me forward or
  1064. 40:25holding me back are they they Lifting me
  1065. 40:28up or draining me dry because here's the
  1066. 40:30truth just because someone has been in
  1067. 40:32your life for a long time doesn't mean
  1068. 40:34they deserve a place in your future
  1069. 40:37loyalty should never come at the cost of
  1070. 40:40your own growth there are people who are
  1071. 40:41always complaining always blaming always
  1072. 40:44talking about what's wrong with the
  1073. 40:45world and the more time you spend around
  1074. 40:48them the more their negativity seeps
  1075. 40:50into you at first you might think you're
  1076. 40:52just listening just being a good friend
  1077. 40:55but over time you start picking up their
  1078. 40:57habits you start focusing on the
  1079. 40:59negatives you start seeing obstacles
  1080. 41:01instead of opportunities you start
  1081. 41:02making excuses instead of taking action
  1082. 41:05and before you know it you're living in
  1083. 41:06the same cycle they are stuck frustrated
  1084. 41:09and blaming everything except yourself
  1085. 41:12that's what happens when you surround
  1086. 41:13yourself with people who drain your
  1087. 41:14energy you need to be ruthless about who
  1088. 41:16you L into your circle not everyone
  1089. 41:18deserves access to you not everyone
  1090. 41:20deserves to be in your space to hear
  1091. 41:22your ideas to be a part of your journey
  1092. 41:24you need people who challenge you who
  1093. 41:26push you who inspire you to be better
  1094. 41:28people who celebrate your wins who
  1095. 41:30encourage your growth who make you feel
  1096. 41:32stronger not weaker those are the people
  1097. 41:34who deserve a place in your life anyone
  1098. 41:36else you need to distance yourself and I
  1099. 41:39know it's not always easy it's not easy
  1100. 41:41to cut ties with people you've known for
  1101. 41:43years it's not easy to say no to those
  1102. 41:45who have been a part of your past but
  1103. 41:47you have to understand your future is
  1104. 41:50more important than your past and if you
  1105. 41:52want to get to where you're going you
  1106. 41:55can't afford to carry dead weight start
  1107. 41:57paying attention to how you feel after
  1108. 41:59spending time with certain people do you
  1109. 42:01feel motivated energized excited about
  1110. 42:03your goals or do you feel drained
  1111. 42:06frustrated full of Doubt because that
  1112. 42:08feeling is your answer the wrong people
  1113. 42:11will drain you in ways you don't even
  1114. 42:13realize they don't have to say anything
  1115. 42:15negative directly they just bring an
  1116. 42:18energy that pulls you down and over time
  1117. 42:20that energy can destroy your motivation
  1118. 42:22your confidence and your belief in
  1119. 42:25yourself that's why you have to make a
  1120. 42:27change now it's not about being cruel
  1121. 42:31it's not about thinking you're better
  1122. 42:32than anyone else it's about protecting
  1123. 42:35your energy it's about understanding
  1124. 42:37that your time your focus your mental
  1125. 42:39state these are your most valuable
  1126. 42:42assets and if you spend them on the
  1127. 42:44wrong people you won't have anything
  1128. 42:46left for yourself you won't have the
  1129. 42:48energy to chase your goals to build the
  1130. 42:50life you want to become the person
  1131. 42:51you're meant to be some people will try
  1132. 42:53to make you feel guilty for distancing
  1133. 42:55yourself
  1134. 42:57they'll say you've changed they'll say
  1135. 42:59you're being selfish and you know what
  1136. 43:01they're right you have changed and you
  1137. 43:03are being selfish with your energy with
  1138. 43:05your time with your future and that's
  1139. 43:08exactly how it should be because the
  1140. 43:11only people who get upset when you set
  1141. 43:13boundaries are the ones who benefited
  1142. 43:15from you having none right now you need
  1143. 43:16to make a
  1144. 43:17choice are you going to keep allowing
  1145. 43:20toxic people to drain you are you going
  1146. 43:22to keep letting their negativity control
  1147. 43:24your mindset your energy your life
  1148. 43:27or are you going to take control
  1149. 43:30surround yourself with people who lift
  1150. 43:32you up and protect your energy like your
  1151. 43:34success depends on it because it does
  1152. 43:37the people around you are either fueling
  1153. 43:39your fire or putting it out and if you
  1154. 43:41want to win if you want to grow if you
  1155. 43:44want to become the person you know you
  1156. 43:45can be you need to choose wisely because
  1157. 43:48your future depends on it number nine
  1158. 43:51keep moving forward no matter what life
  1159. 43:54doesn't always go as planned in fact it
  1160. 43:56rarely does the road to success is often
  1161. 43:58filled with unexpected twists bumps and
  1162. 44:00detours there will be times when things
  1163. 44:03don't go your way when the obstacles
  1164. 44:05seem too big the challenges too tough
  1165. 44:07and the odds stacked against you but
  1166. 44:09here's the thing those are the moments
  1167. 44:11when you have to keep moving forward no
  1168. 44:14matter what it's easy to get discouraged
  1169. 44:16when things aren't going the way you
  1170. 44:17imagined when you've put in all that
  1171. 44:19effort and still face failure after
  1172. 44:20failure it can feel like the universe is
  1173. 44:22against you you start doubting yourself
  1174. 44:24you question whether all the hard work
  1175. 44:26the late nights the sacrifices were
  1176. 44:28worth it and in those moments the
  1177. 44:30temptation to stop to give up to throw
  1178. 44:32in the towel becomes overwhelming but
  1179. 44:35you have to understand something
  1180. 44:37important those moments of struggle of
  1181. 44:40Doubt are the exact moments when you
  1182. 44:42need to push the hardest you see success
  1183. 44:44is not about avoiding
  1184. 44:46failure it's not about never
  1185. 44:48encountering
  1186. 44:49setbacks no one has a straight path to
  1187. 44:52success everyone faces challenges
  1188. 44:55everyone has doubts but what separates
  1189. 44:58the ones who succeed from the ones who
  1190. 45:00don't is their ability to keep moving
  1191. 45:02forward in the face of adversity you
  1192. 45:05can't let the tough times stop you you
  1193. 45:08can't let the setbacks Define you you
  1194. 45:10need to get back up no matter how many
  1195. 45:13times life knocks you down think about
  1196. 45:15the great Achievers in history think
  1197. 45:17about the people who changed the world
  1198. 45:19the people who made a real impact were
  1199. 45:21their lives smooth sailing were they
  1200. 45:23free of challenges setbacks or failures
  1201. 45:27absolutely not they faced rejection
  1202. 45:29criticism disappointment and failure
  1203. 45:32just like you the difference was they
  1204. 45:34didn't let any of that stop them they
  1205. 45:36didn't quit when things got hard they
  1206. 45:38didn't throw in the towel when the world
  1207. 45:40told them they couldn't do it they kept
  1208. 45:42going even when every part of them was
  1209. 45:44screaming to
  1210. 45:45stop and that's why they succeeded the
  1211. 45:48key to making progress to achieving
  1212. 45:50greatness lies in your ability to keep
  1213. 45:52moving forward no matter how hard it
  1214. 45:54gets the greatest achievements in life
  1215. 45:57don't come from moments of comfort they
  1216. 45:59come from moments of struggle every time
  1217. 46:02you feel like giving up every time you
  1218. 46:03face another setback that's just life
  1219. 46:06giving you another chance to prove
  1220. 46:08yourself that's another opportunity to
  1221. 46:10show the world What You're Made Of now I
  1222. 46:13know it's not easy it's easy to say keep
  1223. 46:15moving forward but when you're in the
  1224. 46:16thick of it when you're facing failure
  1225. 46:18after failure it feels impossible it
  1226. 46:20feels like you're running on empty like
  1227. 46:21you don't have the strength to keep
  1228. 46:23going but this is where your mental
  1229. 46:25toughness comes in you have to train
  1230. 46:28yourself to keep moving forward even
  1231. 46:30when you don't feel like it you have to
  1232. 46:33build that muscle of resilience that
  1233. 46:34ability to push through the tough times
  1234. 46:37the truth is you'll never feel fully
  1235. 46:39ready you'll never feel like you have it
  1236. 46:40all figured out and guess what that's
  1237. 46:43okay it's all part of the process you
  1238. 46:46don't need to know exactly how
  1239. 46:48everything will unfold you don't need to
  1240. 46:49have all the answers what you need to do
  1241. 46:52is show up day after day and keep moving
  1242. 46:55forward even when the path is is unclear
  1243. 46:57here's the secret that most people don't
  1244. 46:59tell you progress doesn't always look
  1245. 47:02like
  1246. 47:03progress there will be days when you
  1247. 47:05feel like you're stuck when it seems
  1248. 47:07like you're not getting anywhere but the
  1249. 47:09truth is every step forward no matter
  1250. 47:12how small is a step in the right
  1251. 47:14direction every single day that you
  1252. 47:16don't give up every time you choose to
  1253. 47:18move forward instead of quitting is
  1254. 47:20progress it may not be obvious but it's
  1255. 47:22happening and one day you'll look back
  1256. 47:24and realize just how far you've come
  1257. 47:27success isn't a destination it's a
  1258. 47:30journey and that Journey requires you to
  1259. 47:32keep moving forward no matter what it's
  1260. 47:35about showing up every day even when
  1261. 47:37things are tough even when you don't
  1262. 47:38feel like it even when you doubt
  1263. 47:40yourself it's about pushing through the
  1264. 47:42fear the uncertainty and the setbacks
  1265. 47:45and knowing that every step you take is
  1266. 47:47one step closer to your goal when you're
  1267. 47:49in the middle of a struggle it's hard to
  1268. 47:51see the light at the end of the
  1269. 47:53tunnel but I promise you it's there the
  1270. 47:56the hard times won't last forever the
  1271. 47:59tough moments won't Define you the
  1272. 48:01challenges will pass and you'll come out
  1273. 48:04the other side stronger smarter and more
  1274. 48:06capable than ever before but only if you
  1275. 48:09keep moving forward so the next time you
  1276. 48:11face a setback the next time you want to
  1277. 48:13quit I want you to remember this the
  1278. 48:16most successful people in the world
  1279. 48:19didn't get there by avoiding failure
  1280. 48:22they didn't get there by giving up when
  1281. 48:24things got tough they got there by
  1282. 48:26keeping moving forward they got there by
  1283. 48:29staying persistent by staying resilient
  1284. 48:33by refusing to let failure Define them
  1285. 48:35you have that same power inside of you
  1286. 48:38the power to keep going to keep pushing
  1287. 48:40to keep moving forward no matter what
  1288. 48:43you just have to make the decision to do
  1289. 48:44it and when you do you'll be amazed at
  1290. 48:47what you can achieve keep moving forward
  1291. 48:50and nothing can stop you number 10
  1292. 48:53decide right now that you will win
  1293. 48:56there's one one thing that all
  1294. 48:57successful people have in common no
  1295. 48:59matter who they are or where they come
  1296. 49:00from and that one thing is this they
  1297. 49:02made the decision to win and I'm not
  1298. 49:05talking about some vague decision some
  1299. 49:07wishful thinking or hoping that things
  1300. 49:09work out I'm talking about a deep
  1301. 49:12committed decision a decision that comes
  1302. 49:14from the core of who they are they
  1303. 49:17decided right then and there that they
  1304. 49:19would win no matter the odds no matter
  1305. 49:22the obstacles and no matter how many
  1306. 49:24setbacks they encountered along the way
  1307. 49:27success doesn't come by accident it's
  1308. 49:30not something that just happens to you
  1309. 49:31if you sit around long enough and wait
  1310. 49:34you have to decide to win you have to
  1311. 49:36make the choice that you will succeed
  1312. 49:38and then go all in no matter what but
  1313. 49:41making that decision is where most
  1314. 49:42people go wrong they sit on the fence
  1315. 49:45unsure of what they want and because of
  1316. 49:48that uncertainty they miss the
  1317. 49:49opportunity to truly commit to their
  1318. 49:51success it's time to stop waiting for
  1319. 49:53permission stop waiting for the right
  1320. 49:55moment that moment you've been waiting
  1321. 49:57for it's right now the decision to win
  1322. 50:00is something you can make today you
  1323. 50:03don't need to wait for everything to
  1324. 50:04line up perfectly for all the stars to
  1325. 50:06align you don't need to wait for someone
  1326. 50:08else to tell you that you're ready
  1327. 50:10you're ready now the only thing standing
  1328. 50:12in your way is the decision to take
  1329. 50:14action think about the people you look
  1330. 50:15up to the ones who have achieved great
  1331. 50:18things who have reached the heights you
  1332. 50:20aspire to what makes them different from
  1333. 50:23you do they have some kind of special
  1334. 50:26talent that you don't no the only thing
  1335. 50:29that separates them from the person who
  1336. 50:31doesn't achieve their dreams is the
  1337. 50:33decision to win they decided that
  1338. 50:35success was
  1339. 50:36non-negotiable they decided that they
  1340. 50:38would keep going until they succeeded
  1341. 50:41and that's exactly what they did it
  1342. 50:43doesn't matter what anyone else says it
  1343. 50:46doesn't matter if the world tells you
  1344. 50:47it's too hard too competitive or too
  1345. 50:50risky if you decide that you will win
  1346. 50:53nothing can stop you the moment you make
  1347. 50:55that decision you unlock a new level of
  1348. 50:57focus of power and of determination you
  1349. 51:00become Unstoppable but you've got to be
  1350. 51:03ready for the sacrifices that come with
  1351. 51:05making that decision winning isn't easy
  1352. 51:08it requires hard work long hours and
  1353. 51:10sometimes it will feel like the world is
  1354. 51:13against you there will be days when you
  1355. 51:15feel like quitting when the obstacles
  1356. 51:16seem too big and the journey feels too
  1357. 51:18long but that's when your decision will
  1358. 51:20matter the most because when you've made
  1359. 51:23the decision to win you don't quit when
  1360. 51:25things get tough you push harder you
  1361. 51:27find a way you dig deeper you've got to
  1362. 51:30develop a mindset that is locked in on
  1363. 51:32your goal you can't afford to let
  1364. 51:35distractions derail you to let
  1365. 51:36negativity from others shake your
  1366. 51:38resolve this isn't a game this is your
  1367. 51:41life and if you've made the decision
  1368. 51:43that you will win then everything you do
  1369. 51:46from this point forward must align with
  1370. 51:47that decision every choice you make
  1371. 51:50every action you take must be in service
  1372. 51:52of your success it's time to stop making
  1373. 51:54excuses it's time to stop holding back
  1374. 51:57the only thing standing between you and
  1375. 51:59your dreams is the decision to go after
  1376. 52:01them and that decision when made with
  1377. 52:04absolute certainty and commitment will
  1378. 52:06change everything you'll start to see
  1379. 52:07opportunities where you once saw
  1380. 52:09obstacles you'll start to find Solutions
  1381. 52:11where you once saw problems and slowly
  1382. 52:14but surely you'll start to build
  1383. 52:16momentum the more you move toward your
  1384. 52:18goal the more you will believe that
  1385. 52:20success is
  1386. 52:21inevitable you need to understand that
  1387. 52:23success doesn't belong to the lucky or
  1388. 52:25The Talented
  1389. 52:27success belongs to those who make the
  1390. 52:29decision to keep going to keep fighting
  1391. 52:31and to never back down that's the key
  1392. 52:35decide right now that you will win and
  1393. 52:36nothing will be able to stop you the
  1394. 52:38only way to fail is to quit and if you
  1395. 52:41don't quit if you keep going if you stay
  1396. 52:43committed to your decision then success
  1397. 52:46will eventually be yours so make that
  1398. 52:49decision today decide with all of your
  1399. 52:52heart and mind that you are going to win
  1400. 52:55and let that decision go guide every
  1401. 52:57thought every action and every choice
  1402. 52:59you make moving forward you have the
  1403. 53:02power to shape your future but it all
  1404. 53:04starts with a single decision the
  1405. 53:06decision to win once you make that
  1406. 53:08decision you'll notice that the world
  1407. 53:10starts to
  1408. 53:11shift your energy changes your focus
  1409. 53:14sharpens you'll attract people who
  1410. 53:17support you opportunities that help you
  1411. 53:20and the strength you need to push
  1412. 53:22through the toughest moments because
  1413. 53:24when you decide to win you become
  1414. 53:27magnetic to success but you've got to
  1415. 53:29commit you've got to decide with
  1416. 53:31absolute certainty no hesitation no
  1417. 53:33second guessing just a clear unwavering
  1418. 53:36commitment to your success and when you
  1419. 53:39do that there's no stopping you you'll
  1420. 53:42rise above the challenges you'll push
  1421. 53:43through the pain you'll break through
  1422. 53:45the barriers that once held you back and
  1423. 53:47when you look back on your journey
  1424. 53:50you'll realize that the moment you
  1425. 53:51decided to win was the moment everything
  1426. 53:54changed you're ready now decide to win
  1427. 53:56and never look back but you can start
  1428. 53:59fresh right now you can decide to stop
  1429. 54:01letting negative thoughts control you
  1430. 54:04you can choose to focus on what you can
  1431. 54:06do not what you can't and every time
  1432. 54:09those doubts and fears creep in you can
  1433. 54:12replace them with the kind of thoughts
  1434. 54:14that will push you toward your goals
  1435. 54:16remember you have the power to control
  1436. 54:17your mind your thoughts shape your
  1437. 54:19reality and your actions will follow
  1438. 54:20your thoughts if you want to succeed
  1439. 54:21start by thinking like someone who's
  1440. 54:23already succeeding the mind is a
  1441. 54:25powerful tool use it wisely so take a
  1442. 54:28deep breath stand tall and step forward
  1443. 54:30with confidence the future you want is
  1444. 54:33waiting for you and it all starts with
  1445. 54:35how you choose to think today if you're
  1446. 54:37ready to take charge if you're ready to
  1447. 54:39break free from those negative thoughts
  1448. 54:41then commit to making that change
  1449. 54:43because when you change your mindset you
  1450. 54:45change your life thank you for watching
  1451. 54:48and remember the best time to take
  1452. 54:50control of your thinking is now keep
  1453. 54:52pushing forward and let's make those
  1454. 54:54dreams a reality

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