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0:00The first kind of controversial thing
0:01I'll say, but I'm not trying to provoke
0:02controversy, but I'm just trying to get
0:03you thinking how I think is I'm actually
0:05not a communist, okay? I'm I'm a free
0:07market capitalist personally. That's my
0:08personal point of view. But that being
0:11said, I don't think like I feel like
0:13everyone has a point. And even though I
0:15don't like want to live under like
0:17Chinese or Russian communism, like
0:18personally,
0:20they do have a point. Okay. What would
0:23the point and I think it's important to
0:24understand this to first understand the
0:26trap that we are often in. So why is it
0:30that people So again, I am a free market
0:32capitalist. I I believe in, you know, if
0:34you work and you build something,
0:35someone shouldn't come and get to take
0:36that from you because they're lazy,
0:38right? But at the same time, why do
0:40communists
0:42believe in communism? Like what would a
0:44communist say is the justification for
0:46why they would do like a communist
0:47uprising? Like what would they say?
0:49>> Because they they have some points.
0:51>> Equality for all.
0:52>> Equality. Yeah. What else?
0:55>> Not everybody is a capitalist. Not
0:56everybody wants to build They say
0:58they're marginalized.
0:59>> Yeah. To be Yeah. A lot of it is like
1:01laziness, but there are some good
1:03points. Okay. Could anyone think of like
1:05a really good point that a a more
1:07left-leaning or communist person might
1:09have? There are some points in it. Yeah.
1:13>> Yeah.
1:15>> Okay. Well, here's how I think about it.
1:17Okay. Here's the way I think about it.
1:19I'm not a communist, but I will admit
1:23I have an unfair advantage and Marcel
1:26has an unfair advantage because we built
1:29businesses at a young age and so we're
1:32able to focus on our business 247 if we
1:35happen to want for the average person
1:38though if you get a job and you're
1:41working that job. People talk about 40
1:43like 60our weeks, 80 hour weeks, 100
1:45hour weeks. I think even a 40-hour week
1:47is a lot of work. You know, people like
1:48100 hour week. I'm like, what planet are
1:50you on? Like eight hours a day when you
1:52have 16 hours awake including a commute.
1:54That's like that's probably about 11
1:56hours. You only have 5 hours yourself.
1:57That's a 40-hour work week with only two
1:59days off. That's a lot of [ __ ] work.
2:01From my perspective, the first thing
2:03that you want to understand in
2:04entrepreneurship is the trap that you're
2:05in. Does that make sense, guys? So, how
2:08would you guys describe the trap that
2:10almost everybody is in when it comes to
2:13uh like entrepreneurship? Like what like
2:15what is the block? It's a hamster wheel.
2:17I need to chase something constant every
2:21single day.
2:22>> Yeah. The same thing over and not really
2:24feel free.
2:25>> Yeah. Like how much energy does the
2:27average person have after like you wake
2:29you say you wake up at 6:00. You get to
2:31work by like 7:30. You work until like 4
2:33or 5 p.m. You come home. What do you
2:35What's the average person want to do
2:36when they get home from a [ __ ]
2:38>> Yeah. Like I I don't smoke weed. Yeah. I
2:40don't I've never even smoked in my life,
2:42but I don't blame people for smoking
2:43weed. Like if I had a a regular job, I
2:45would smoke [ __ ] weed because
2:47like it's tough, you know, right? So I
2:50get that, you know, it's it's tough and
2:51it's um you know, you and especially if
2:54you got a couple kids, like like a woman
2:55with a job and kids, like I'm really
2:56sure she's going to come home and like
2:58start a [ __ ] business like like come
2:59on, dude. Like that is really hard.
3:01Okay, it's not impossible. Nothing is.
3:03But it's it's certainly not just like oh
3:05they're some lazy person, right? So what
3:07happens is like the way communists see
3:08is they're like look like some of these
3:10kids have rich parents. they get born
3:12into it or maybe some of them happen to
3:14like you know gamble on the right stock
3:16or you know whatever right or that you
3:18know whatever the case they get in and
3:20then they have all the leverage while
3:22everybody else is working a [ __ ] job or
3:24even a what's worse than a [ __ ] job a
3:27good job because now it's golden
3:28handcuffs some of you guys might have a
3:29great job it's hard to leave and it's
3:31hard to get out of it right like you do
3:32you do seal work was the thing
3:33>> I'm a machinist
3:34>> a machinist yeah so like when I see you
3:37you look a little tired if I'm being
3:39honest with you
3:40>> maybe Man, I work like
3:41>> Well, now you don't look now you look
3:42happy, but sometimes when I see you just
3:43look like like because I' I I've been
3:45knowing him for a little bit, right?
3:46Like you kind of just like look like
3:46like man like you kind of look like a
3:48guy that just came from a week of doing
3:49machine work.
3:50>> Yeah. Not like in a bad way, but just
3:52like you know it's like
3:53>> hey we're all grumpy machines get grumpy
3:55when they get all
3:56>> I bet. Yeah, I get it. So the point
3:58being though is like how much energy do
4:01you have to like and I'm not trying to
4:02limit you but it's just we have to be
4:03honest so we can beat we want to be
4:05honest about it so that we can beat it.
4:07>> So we we want to know what we're up
4:08against. My personal philosophy is if
4:10we're going to build, then let's build.
4:12If we're going to go out and socialize,
4:14then let's go out and socialize. If
4:16we're going to make money, let's [ __ ]
4:18print, okay? Let's print money. If we're
4:21going to build a personal brand, let's
4:23be the best. That's the kind of
4:25philosophy that I have. Whatever we're
4:26going to do, let's just do it. Okay?
4:28Like Master Yoda, there is no try. Let's
4:31actually do it. So, this is the kind of
4:33philosophy that I like to spread around
4:35the world because what I see is
4:37everybody's just playing halfass. So, if
4:40you're somebody who wants to play full
4:41out, then what I'd suggest to you is
4:43come and meet me in person. So, what
4:46I'll be doing this year is a series of
4:48free events. The four main topics that I
4:50cover at the free event. First of all,
4:52how to build insane social skills. In
4:54other words, how to go out and meet
4:56absolutely everybody. Just whoever you
4:58want to meet, you just know how to meet
4:59them. You know how to bring them into
5:01your life. And it's not hard. It's not
5:02It's hard. IT'S HARD. IT'S so easy, but
5:07you've got to know the right ways to do
5:08it. You Second one's how to just print.
5:10Okay? You want to just print. You're
5:11just ready to be rich. You like money.
5:13Well, I want to show you how to make
5:14cash. And I will show you a lot about
5:16how to make cash. I've done over $100
5:17million in sales in my life, and I want
5:18to show you how to do the same thing.
5:20So, if you like the idea of eight
5:21figures, definitely get to this event.
5:23The other one is how to build a personal
5:25brand. And for me, I've helped other
5:27people to build some of the biggest
5:28personal brands in the world. If you do
5:30some of the people that I were to help
5:31that I've helped build personal brands
5:33for, it would shock you. And I've also
5:34built my own. And last of all, I want to
5:36teach you what I kind of call a
5:37modern-day enlightenment. How to bring
5:39spirituality into your life, but in the
5:41modern age, not just sitting in some
5:43ashram, but how finding that absolute
5:45center point will change everything in
5:47your life. Who you attract, what you
5:48resonate with, absolutely everything,
5:50just being totally unfazed and having
5:52endless energy. So, this is what I cover
5:54at the free events. Make sure that if
5:56you want to be there, that you sign up
5:57right now. And here's why. I need you to
5:59sign up early. Don't wait until the
6:00date. Oh, the date's coming later and
6:02then it's just going to be available to
6:03me in my free event in my little
6:05narcissistic world. The reality is we
6:07book these venues many many months out.
6:10We need to know exactly who's coming and
6:11we can estimate it. But what often what
6:13happens that people wait to sign up and
6:15you just can't get in. You just can't
6:16because the venue is booked and I can't
6:18pack it like a sardine sardine can. So
6:20it sucks for everybody. Okay. So you've
6:21seen the ways that I like to do the
6:22venues here in these seminars. I like
6:23there to be enough space for everybody,
6:25which means that you've got to sign up
6:27early and get it reserved now. So, if
6:30you're serious about changing your life,
6:32click the link below right now. Get
6:34signed up right now. So, just do it now.
6:37Even if it's later in the year, just get
6:39it. Book now. That is off your plate.
6:40You don't got to think about it. You
6:41start to feel proud of yourself like,
6:42"Wow, I saw an opportunity and I
6:44actually did it and I feel good about
6:46You'll feel good as soon as you click
6:47this link. I'm excited to meet you in
6:49person at the free event. Click this
6:51link. It's going to feel great. As soon
6:53as you click it, we'll be shaking hands,
6:55meeting up with each other, working
6:56together. I'll be giving you feedback,
6:57getting to know you, and very, very
6:59excited to see you at the free event. We
7:01can all get rich, every last one of us.
7:04But the first step from my point of
7:05view, and I've coached a lot of people
7:06on this, is like writing down and
7:08getting familiar with the trap that
7:09you're in so that you can be honest with
7:11yourself about how much time you have.
7:13Because I personally believe that the at
7:15the foundational level of getting rich,
7:16it's a time management game. Okay? It's
7:19literally just like, "How many hours do
7:21I actually have?" And not lying to
7:22yourself like, "Well, I'm going to come
7:23home and I've got five hours. I'm use
7:24all five." Like, no, you're not. Like,
7:26you're not going you're you're probably
7:28not going to. I'm not saying you
7:29couldn't, but you're probably not going
7:30to. So, we have to get realistic about
7:32what amount of time you're actually
7:33going to use and having some kind of a
7:35business model that's realistic to dig
7:38yourself out with the time that you do
7:39have available. Okay, so that's the
7:41first thing. So, just to check here, who
7:44here is full-time on their business and
7:46who here is trying to carve out time to
7:49build a business? So, who here is
7:49full-time on their business? Okay. And
7:51then who here is trying to carve out
7:52time to build a business? Okay. So, it's
7:54about it's about 40%. So, for those of
7:56you guys that already are full-time on
7:57your business, we would have different
7:59conversations more about how to optimize
8:01that time. But for those of you guys
8:03that are stuck in the situation where
8:04you have to like pay the bills and keep
8:06the lights on and so on, you have
8:07obligations. It's something very very
8:10challenging for you is figuring out how
8:12to dial that in. Okay? That that's not
8:13an easy thing to do. So, you have to be
8:15very very honest about that. Okay? Like
8:18when we taught dating over the years,
8:19the biggest problem that a lot of guys
8:20have was like cuz we would teach work on
8:22your social skills. They didn't have
8:23time, right? Like like like we had an I
8:26had an unfair advantage because my job
8:29was to teach social skills so I could do
8:30it all the time. But people who didn't
8:32have the time, it's harder, you know,
8:34they might get to go out once a week for
8:35two hours to work on their social
8:36skills. it's harder for them to make
8:38progress. So, that's the biggest thing
8:39that I've learned is like anyone that
8:40gets great results is a master of time.
8:43Just even though it's dumb, say that
8:44with me. Say master of time.
8:47>> Yeah. It's you you have to be a master
8:48of time. Like you've got to you've got
8:50to get really really good at just seeing
8:52um not to be mean. I'm not trying to say
8:53in a mean way, but who's wasting your
8:54time? Where is your time going? Are
8:57things giving you energy and giving you
8:58life or are they just dragging your
9:00energy down? And unfortunately, you have
9:01to be like really really good at that.
9:03Like when I teach in at length, we'll do
9:05like long form audits where it's like
9:06I'll make you write down everything in
9:08your [ __ ] life and like granularly
9:10look like is that giving you energy and
9:11giving you life or is that pulling from
9:13you and if it is pulling for you, maybe
9:14it's giving you something and it's a
9:15fair exchange, but you've got to be
9:17honest and you've got to know this stuff
9:18like top to bottom. Almost like playing
9:19a video game or making a race car and
9:21you've got to get the race car very
9:22efficient. Okay? It's kind of a funny
9:24stereotype in entrepreneur circles where
9:26there's like like I cut out this guy, I
9:28ditch this guy. like it's like
9:29everything gets cut and it's a cliche
9:31and it's almost like funny to laugh at
9:33how entrepreneurs do this cuz it's so
9:34over the top but you kind of have to do
9:36that to some extent in order to get back
9:39the time you want. Let let me give a
9:40simple example. Okay, watch this. So you
9:42guys know like I like to travel like
9:43Alaska. I like to travel in nature,
9:44right? One of the things I would do over
9:46the years if I'm working in LA is I have
9:48my favorite lunch restaurant which is
9:49Coft Alley. I like going to Coft Alley.
9:52Now would you say that if a guy's
9:53working and making millions of dollars
9:54that he deserves to be able to like
9:56maybe have a quick lunch at Coft Alley,
9:57right?
9:59Makes sense, right?
10:00>> Well, even that if you look at the math
10:02on that craft alley lunch, which is kind
10:03of funny to think about, if it's if I'm
10:05going to take, you know, 10 minutes to
10:07get the Uber, like to to get the Uber to
10:09my let's call it five, five minutes to
10:10get the Uber to my house and get in the
10:12Uber, 15 minutes to like actually get
10:13there. So, you're looking at like 20
10:14minutes there. You're probably going to
10:15wait about 20 minutes for your food. So,
10:17now you're at 40 minutes. You're
10:18probably going to eat for half an hour,
10:20you know, so now you're at an hour and
10:2110. And then you're going to go back.
10:22You're you're at an hour and a half. But
10:23in reality, is it really an hour and a
10:25half? You probably also take a minute to
10:26get back to work. You're probably
10:28looking realistically between the
10:29dallying towards getting there and the
10:31dallying towards getting back. It's
10:32probably about two hours. If you're
10:33doing that seven days a week, how many
10:35hours is that per year? And remember,
10:37we're not we're not awake 24 hours a
10:38day. We're awake 16 hours a day on
10:40average. So, if we're awake 16 hours a
10:41day, multi do the math. Pull your I just
10:43want to show you how to look at this.
10:44Pull one of you guys pull your phone
10:46out. Type in 2 hours times 365. How many
10:50hours is that? Two hours time 365.
10:52>> 730.
10:53>> It's 730 hours a year on Croft Alley.
10:56Now, I could have just had had food
10:57right there and just eaten while I'm
10:59working. So, how many Now, if you're
11:00alive for sorry, if you're awake for 16
11:02hours a day, how many 16s can fit into
11:04that 700, whatever it was, how many 16s
11:07fit in there?
11:09>> Can someone do the math? I want to I
11:10want to get you guys doing these
11:11calculations.
11:14>> Yep.
11:15>> 45.
11:16>> So, that means so out of out of a given
11:18year of my work year, 45 days is going
11:22to Croft Alley. But if you're taking a
11:24[ __ ] weekend here or there, 45 days
11:26is really what? 60 days. Because you're
11:29not working 16 hours a day. So it's
11:32really closer to 60 days. Okay? So how
11:34are you going to be competitive if
11:35you're an entrepreneur when 62 months a
11:37year is it go to [ __ ] Croft Alley?
11:40You see what I'm saying? So it's this
11:42thing where you deserve it, but you kind
11:44of, you know, it's kind of whatever,
11:45right? Like I'm single right now and
11:46like I can tell you like sometimes I'll
11:48be dating a girl and like you know we'll
11:51have like a lovely night and then she'll
11:52sleep over and then like maybe before we
11:54go to bed she starts annoying me. I've
11:56done this by accident. I didn't even do
11:57I think this is really rude so don't
11:58judge me but like I've done the point
12:00where like I'll wake up and before she
12:01wakes up I'm like I need to get out of
12:03here and like I'll I'll literally just
12:04leave two three,000 bucks on the table
12:06just so she can go home like buy
12:07yourself a dress like whatever. And I
12:09just leave before she even wakes up and
12:10it's and he's seen it. Tell him
12:13>> it's true. I was last night.
12:16>> I always Which one? But the point is
12:18this. Okay. But what I'm Okay. But what
12:20I'm getting at is this. Okay. But I'm
12:22kidding. But anyway, so what I'm getting
12:23at though is like it's um uh you you'll
12:27be at a point where um like I did that.
12:29It was like I feel almost like this like
12:31revulsion in me where it's like I've got
12:33children. I got a family. I have goals.
12:34Like I don't have time to argue with
12:36this crazy ass chick, you know? Right.
12:37Like she's hot and she's good sex, but
12:39like I don't have time for this [ __ ]
12:40And I love her to death. Like I still
12:41talk to her. I'm not I'm not mad at her,
12:43but I just don't have the bandwidth.
12:45Okay? If I can't go to [ __ ]
12:46Croft Alley, you're not piping off on
12:48me, right? And especially with women
12:49where they love a rich guy, right? You
12:51don't need money to get girls by any
12:52means, but they do appreciate when you
12:53have it. You don't need it to get a girl
12:54at all. But the point is, when you have
12:56it, they're they're benefiting from it
12:57and then they're going to take away from
12:58what you're building. No, if you're
12:59going to consume the resources, freaking
13:01add something to it. It's like you go
13:02camping, don't leave a mess. You know
13:03what I'm saying? Like, make the campsite
13:05better. So, the thing is like, yeah, I
13:07just can't do it. Like if like you'll
13:09get to a point with entrepreneurship
13:10where you're so instinctively afraid of
13:12people that are burning your time down.
13:14And I actually believe that people okay
13:15I mean this is like shows how deranged I
13:17am I guess cuz I have a lot of strange
13:19beliefs but I have the belief that
13:20there's like a timewasting demon that
13:23possesses people. Like I called the time
13:24waster demon. Like when I can see that
13:26someone's wasting my time I view it as
13:27demonic possession. Here's my little
13:30theorem. Okay. If you okay now obviously
13:32this is much worse but if someone comes
13:34and kills you that's obviously murder
13:37right? That's murder. Okay. So, if you
13:39were to go to like a six-year-old who
13:40might have lived till 80 and you were to
13:42murder them, you killed someone, right?
13:44But why do we tolerate a multitude of
13:47people who waste a quarter of that guy's
13:49life? That's murder. So, I'm so
13:52obnoxious and OCD about this. I view
13:54time wasting as actual murder. I'm like,
13:56you 5% murdered me. Like, you like Croft
14:00Alley like four like murdered 45 days of
14:03my life. You see what I'm saying?
14:05>> Like, no. No, you're not getting 45 days
14:06of my life. It's not happening. And it's
14:08not And it's not because I can't enjoy
14:09Coft Allery because I can't resolve, you
14:11know, a girl being, you know, clapping
14:13back at me. It's that I I have too much
14:17to live for. I have too many things I
14:18love. Like, if you if you start getting
14:20h I always tell people, get a hobby. You
14:22You might even want to write this down.
14:23Like, if I were to ask you guys like, do
14:25you have really good hobbies? Use that
14:27extra time that you would have wasted on
14:29some [ __ ]
14:31for your hobby. Like, who here for
14:33example has ever just taken a month in
14:34Alaska? Anyone here ever done that?
14:37Okay, I don't mean to shame you. I'm not
14:38I'm not It's not like the Alaska shaming
14:40brigade, but like that's so bad. Okay,
14:42look listen. You listen to me. Cut the
14:44[ __ ] Croft Alley. Cut the time
14:46wasting purse you're dating and go to
14:47Alaska for a month. You will thank you
14:49will be so h that'll be like your
14:50favorite thing you learn this weekend.
14:51You'll be happy about it. Okay, Alaska
14:53is so beautiful. Who has ever spent like
14:54a month just in Hawaii? Just go to go to
14:56Kawaii, hike the Nepali coast.
14:58>> Okay, you ever hiked Nepali?
15:00>> Yes.
15:00>> Okay, tell them how good Nepali Coast
15:02is.
15:02>> Pull out your phone right now. Do me a
15:04favor. I'm I'm trying to motivate you.
15:05Look up Nepali coast, Kawaii. N A P A L
15:08I. Okay. N A P A L I coast. Just look at
15:13it. What do you want to do? Argue with
15:15somebody and eat a salad or do you want
15:18to go here? You You could hike in this.
15:20>> I flew a helicopter and
15:23>> How amazing was it?
15:25>> Would you rather do that or argue with
15:27someone you're dating?
15:29>> Right.
15:30>> Would you rather do that? Would you
15:32rather go camping in there on the Calala
15:34Trail? I' I've probably been in there
15:35like 10 times camping for a week or two.
15:37So, do you want to do that or do you
15:39want to dick around at some [ __ ]
15:41restaurant? Do you want to dick Do you
15:42want to dick around with this [ __ ]
15:44person, right? So, I think for every
15:46entrepreneur, have a hobby that you're
15:48really, really, really excited about.
15:50Like, for example, I take off at least
15:51two months every summer to travel with
15:53my children. Okay? So, I will literally
15:55be like, I want two months. So, like my
15:57favorite thing is like I'm with my three
15:58sons. We're in like the redwood forest.
16:00They're climbing up, you know, they're
16:01climbing on these like trees that are
16:02falling down that are awesome. You know,
16:04or we're like in Montana. I'll get like
16:05these big huge [ __ ] like chalets for
16:07like 3,000 4,000 bucks a night. I got my
16:10kids there. I got the fire going. You
16:11know, we're doing hiking and stuff. Like
16:12I want to do that. I don't want to sit
16:14there arguing with somebody. I don't
16:15want to like I I don't need to go to
16:17Craft Alley. Like I want to go do that
16:18[ __ ] Does that make sense, guys? So
16:20yeah. So, you've got to be thinking
16:21within a context of like what is it that
16:23I like so much that I'm willing to like
16:26cut off things like can I cut off all
16:28this stuff that's kind of mid that is
16:30cool and like you do like maybe you like
16:32to go to like a Starbucks type place in
16:33the morning for a coffee. Get a pay pay
16:36$1,000, go to Best Buy, pay a,000 bucks,
16:38pay 2,000 bucks, get a [ __ ] coffee
16:40machine, hire someone to make you the
16:42[ __ ] coffee. Now, was it a nice
16:44ritual to be like, "Ah, it's I'm at the
16:46cafe. It's nice." Yeah, I love Dude, I'm
16:48human. I love all that stuff. Don't get
16:49me wrong, I love that stuff. But if you
16:51can get that time back and you can
16:53generate money, man, it's going to be
16:55just awesome. It's really, really cool.
16:57You know, Marcel, he does a really big
16:58Shabbat dinner. He's Jewish. He does
17:00every Friday he'll do a huge Shabbat
17:02dinner. He invites over like 30 people
17:04from his community and he puts it on. He
17:05pays for everything. He's got a a
17:06gorgeous. Who has ever been to Marcel's
17:08house? Yeah. Like, do you want to have
17:10like do you want to have a If you're
17:11Jewish, you want to have a Shabbat
17:12dinner with your community on a Friday
17:14or do you want to be arguing with
17:16somebody or wasting your [ __ ] time?
17:18>> Yeah. Right? Because end of the day,
17:20everything has a price and it's not just
17:22financial. It's also a time, energy, and
17:25focus. Okay? So, repeat this after me.
17:26I'm going to give you a couple sequences
17:27that are simple. I'm gonna add to them.
17:29Say, "Time is money."
17:32>> Is actually not true.
17:35>> Time plus focus is money.
17:38>> Time plus focus.
17:39>> But that's not even fully true.
17:41>> But that's not even fully true.
17:42>> Time plus focus plus momentum is money.
17:50is money.
17:51>> Most money is made
17:54>> from a state of flow.
17:55>> From a state of flow
17:56>> and massive momentum
17:57>> and massive momentum
17:58>> momentum is money.
18:01>> That's what it is. Okay, guys. So, in
18:02other words, like I learned this from
18:03all the years I taught dating. Like, if
18:05you're if you're a guy, right, girls
18:06don't deal with all this silly stuff.
18:08Guys deal with you guys have your own
18:09stuff like all these losers. But the
18:11point is like if you if you um if you're
18:14a guy and say that you you spent four
18:16hours out, right? When you start
18:17chatting people, because I always do it
18:18sober, when you start chatting people,
18:20what's going to happen is like at first
18:21you're nervous. So whatever girl that
18:23you want to meet, you're not going to
18:24meet her in the first 10 minutes because
18:25you're nervous. Now if you keep just
18:27having cool conversations with people in
18:28a social environment, after an hour
18:30you're not nervous, but you're maybe not
18:31great. But but if you went out out at
18:33like 9:30, by the time it's 1:30 in the
18:36morning and you've been socializing for
18:383 or 4 hours, how social, how funny,
18:41charismatic, confident, and flows do you
18:43get after 3 hours of fun conversations
18:46at a night out in social gathering? How
18:47good do you get?
18:48>> You're [ __ ] in flow.
18:49>> You're in total flow. So yeah, so that
18:51same that same girl who like would have
18:53shut shot you down, you see her later
18:56and you can actually go talk to her. But
18:58here's the thing. What if you what if
18:59you're pulling your phone up all the
19:00time and while you're trying to take a
19:02night to get into momentum to talk to go
19:03talk to people, maybe meet the love of
19:04your life, but now what happens is that
19:06you got bad news on the phone and it
19:08took you out of flow, you just lost
19:10those couple hours that you spent
19:12building up getting into a flow state.
19:14>> It's a waste.
19:14>> It's a waste. So instead, like I tell
19:16guys like you know in that third hour if
19:18you're out socializing like go get a
19:20million phone numbers or Instagrams or
19:21go meet someone or go home with them or
19:23something. But like find a way to
19:24maximize that flow state that you've
19:26gotten. If I'm doing videos, I'm just
19:28shooting videos. If I'm doing speeches
19:29all day, like this is me. Like, who
19:31here's ever seen me public speak before?
19:32Put your hands up. Okay. How crazy do I
19:34get when I'm deeper into my seminars?
19:37>> Crazy as [ __ ]
19:38>> Yeah. How loud do I get?
19:40>> I mean, you're you're the loudest of any
19:42human.
19:43>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I get I get into a
19:44flow. It's [ __ ] epic, right?
19:46>> Well, thank you. Thank you. I'm excited
19:48to meet her. Okay.
19:49>> She's single.
19:50>> Okay. So, yeah. But but you guys see
19:52what I'm saying, right? Like it's like
19:53like Okay, we'll talk. So the the but
19:56the point being is like if if if I'm
19:58doing seminars, right? I know that like
20:00in hour three and four, that's when I
20:03should be like really turning the like
20:04that's when I should be turning the gas
20:06on, right? Like I was I had a angry ex-
20:08landlord cuz I do huge parties at my
20:10house and when I moved out, he wanted to
20:11sue me. So he he sued me actually, but
20:13it doesn't matter. I paid it off. It was
20:14only half a million in damages. But the
20:15point being I did a lot of parties.
20:17Yeah. But who here was at my event when
20:18when they gave me the subpoena right in
20:20the middle of the event? Were you guys
20:21there? Right. Yeah. And like and and I'm
20:23thinking to myself, I'm like this event
20:25is not only will I probably do like at
20:27least a quarter million at minimum in
20:29sales in this event. So like if you
20:31think about it, that guy wants to get me
20:32for like 500K. In the end, he'll
20:34probably get me for like 300 or
20:35something, right? But the point is this.
20:37If I'm at an event where I could make
20:39around 300Kish anyway, and I let that
20:42[ __ ] subpoena throw me off, how much
20:44more money do I lose?
20:46>> All of it.
20:46>> Yeah. But in addition, I want to get a
20:48badass video. That that event was
20:49[ __ ] huge. That was like a sea of
20:50people. it look makes me look [ __ ]
20:52dope that I've got all these [ __ ]
20:53people there. I don't want to I don't
20:54want to lose my video either. So, I'm
20:56going to make money from the video that
20:57I'm creating and I'm going to make money
20:58from the event. So, I don't want that to
21:00throw me off. So, what you're also going
21:02to learn is that when you're putting
21:03aside time to work, turn your [ __ ]
21:06phone off. Okay? That little [ __ ]
21:08[ __ ] sat out there for like 3 hours
21:10to finally get past my staff and hand it
21:11to me. But the point is, did I show a
21:14big reaction when that subpoena got
21:15handed to me?
21:17>> You want to know why? I'm not letting
21:19that guy kill my [ __ ] day, right? I
21:21can make money when I'm there and I can
21:23uh and I can get a great video. So, I'm
21:25not going to let that ruin my day. Okay,
21:28that video that I recorded that night
21:29got about 100k views and it sent me even
21:31way more money than even the seminar
21:32did. So, why am I and that was a 3 4hour
21:35video to do. If you're doing 100,000
21:36views off a three or four hour seminar,
21:38you know that that's a valuable [ __ ]
21:40video. So, I made money from the video.
21:41I made money from the seminar. So, do
21:42you guys see it's all about protecting
21:44your peace, protecting your time, not
21:46because you're selfish, not because
21:47you're narcissistic, not because you
21:49can't handle friction, but because you
21:51make money from from uh handling time,
21:53because it's in a state of momentum that
21:55you're at your sharpest. Okay? All the
21:57money gets made when you set aside time,
22:00blocks of time to lock in and actually
22:02get things done and generate actual
22:04resources. Okay? So everything that I'm
22:06doing is like this battle where I'm
22:08saying how can I put it like how can I
22:10put aside time to make a ton of cash
22:13from a flow state or how can I put aside
22:15time to do public speaking and do like a
22:18killer killer killer killer killer event
22:20or how can I put aside time to spend
22:22time with my family does that make sense
22:24guys or if I want to bring a woman like
22:26say I want to do something romantic like
22:27there's certain places you maybe you
22:28want to go the woman not just your kids
22:29well say that you want to go the woman
22:31like I'm not just going to pick the most
22:33attractive woman that I can
22:35I'm going to pick the most peaceful
22:37woman that I can meet. Does that make
22:39sense, guys? Like, say, okay, say that I
22:40want to go to a trip to like Vermont and
22:42I'm going to bring a woman with me,
22:43right? I don't want to go there and have
22:44friction with that girl and then now I
22:46come back more fried than I left. So,
22:48what kind of woman am I going to choose?
22:49So, like if I if I'm going to go take a
22:51week off just to go look at some [ __ ]
22:52like, I don't know, it's like September,
22:54October, there's some red leaves, some
22:56yellow leaves, some orange leaves. I'm
22:58not making money. I'm just staring at a
22:59bunch of [ __ ] leaves. Okay? If I'm
23:01going to go stare at [ __ ] leaves for
23:0210 days, what kind of what kind of
23:04things do I want to have happen by the
23:06time I come back? How what kind of
23:07emotional state do I want to return from
23:08the leaves the leave extravagana from?
23:11>> Enlightened.
23:12>> Yeah, I want to come back like [ __ ]
23:13enlightened, right? Like I want I want
23:14to come back basically like if say that
23:17you go on a trip like that, right? Say
23:18you take a girl to Hawaii, okay? Or girl
23:19if you take a guy to Hawaii or he takes
23:21you to Hawaii and there's friction.
23:23What's even the [ __ ] point? There's
23:25literally no point. You want to have
23:26good sex, you want to have a good time.
23:28You want to enjoy yourself and you want
23:30to come back like you want to get it to
23:31where when you come back from that
23:32vacation. You're almost like over it and
23:35wanting to get back to work three days
23:37before it ends
23:38>> because you're recharged. You're like
23:39you're like man like you know this like
23:41this was awesome. I feel good. I want to
23:44return to work now. I don't want to just
23:46keep looking at leaves. This was great.
23:47I actually want to go like do some
23:49accounting right now because I have so
23:50much focus. Right? But if you go on that
23:52vacation and the person is like crying
23:53and complaining. Look who we've probably
23:55all had right where you have someone
23:56that you're deeply in love with. like
23:57you literally would die for them because
23:59they they're not just this annoying
24:00person. They have a lot of great
24:01qualities. They're like they have
24:02qualities that you admire, you're
24:03attracted to them, you do enjoy sex with
24:05them and you love everything about them.
24:07But if there's ongoing friction, you're
24:09never able to get lift off. You know,
24:11like I've had it where I'm with a girl
24:13and uh you know, I love her so much, but
24:16my finances are kind of stagnating,
24:18right? And we'll break up and even
24:20though I miss her and I feel shitty, I
24:22feel horrible because I miss her. I
24:23watch as my finances triple within six
24:26six weeks like within six like I feel
24:28horrible and I miss like and I even wish
24:30that she'd come back but I'm looking at
24:31my bank account I'm like my god I'm
24:33making more money because I've removed
24:35the cancer. Okay. What's that
24:39>> Shakira was like that
24:42partnered on her and she
24:44>> and then she blew up. Yeah. So the Okay.
24:46So the point being is like what'll
24:48happen is you have people in your
24:50ecosystem that might be poisoning you,
24:52but you know who else may be poisoning
24:53you? You, right? As Jesus would say,
24:56don't judge the chip in your brother's
24:57eye when you have a plank in your own
24:59eye, you hypocrite. So you've got to
25:00look at your own toxicity, right? No
25:02one's, you know who your own worst damn
25:04enemy is, right? It's yourself, right?
25:06It's not just some other person. It's
25:07you. So you've got to ask yourself, am I
25:09bringing toxicity? And am I my own worst
25:12enemy? Right? And and when you do, see,
25:14it's sad because what you'll find, okay,
25:16this is very very deep what I'm going to
25:17say here. What you're going to find is
25:19that spiritual beliefs are very
25:21subjective and there's no no one has any
25:23concrete proof of whatever it is they
25:26believe. Like no one has proof of it,
25:27right? iPhones didn't exist 20,000 years
25:28ago. You know, there was no Snapchat of,
25:31you know, these like miracles happening
25:32or things like that, right? But we can
25:34kind of have conjecture into what we
25:35think about spirituality. And one thing
25:37that I personally believe, it's just a
25:38subjective opinion. I'm not making it
25:40dogmatic, is that heaven or hell, like
25:43when Jesus talks about heaven or hell,
25:45he doesn't just mean a guy with horns
25:47and a pitchfork like ah and then like a
25:49bunch of angels with clouds like, okay,
25:52there's actually degrees of heaven or
25:53hell while alive. And what you'll see is
25:56people get addicted to I know this
25:58sounds crazy to say, but people are
26:00addicted to being broke. Like their
26:02added level of spiritual development
26:04where poverty is where they are. And you
26:06know this because they'll say, "Oh, it's
26:08a lack of opportunity." But you could
26:10literally take them, bring them to your
26:12mansion, get them a haircut, give them
26:14clothes, get them a job, and still
26:16they'll probably skip their job, and
26:17you'll find them in your bathroom taking
26:19meth. And even and and it's it's because
26:21of trauma, right? It's not entirely
26:23their fault, right? But, you know, like
26:24you think that if you just took a person
26:26like off the streets, clean them up,
26:27gave them a job, they automatically
26:29everything would be fine.
26:30>> No.
26:30>> No. Because they're not ready yet.
26:32They're not done with that level of
26:35their own spiritual development. So,
26:37what they often teach you is when
26:38someone's at a limited level, you can't
26:40save them, right? You know, Jake J.Cole,
26:42she don't want to be saved. Don't save
26:43her. She don't want to be saved. Don't
26:45save her. Right? You remember that song?
26:47It's real, right? A lot of guys here
26:48that got rich can tell you like, you
26:50think, yeah, women like money. So, you
26:51get to the point you're a
26:52multi-millionaire. You have assistance
26:53and help everywhere. You're doing trips
26:55all the time. The girl literally has
26:57like an army of people to help her hand
26:59on foot. No friction. you've healed
27:02yourself, so you're not giving her
27:03friction and you're literally to the
27:05point where she'll still get mad all the
27:06time. She will get mad the same amount
27:08as when she was poor. Like, you could
27:11take the girl out of trailer park, you
27:12can't take the trailer park out of the
27:13girl, right? Like, if she if she
27:15probably spent about 3 hours a day being
27:18angry when she lived in squalor, she'll
27:21still be angry 3 hours a day when
27:23there's wealth. But it will be worse
27:25because before in the squalor, she had
27:27all these little beefs and things that
27:28made her a victim. So, it made sense.
27:30Now she has nothing, so she has to make
27:32[ __ ] up. So that's where you have this
27:34like hundred million dollar parade right
27:36out your window, but all the person can
27:38focus on is there's a fingerprint on the
27:39window, right? Like baby, it's it's was
27:42it was $100 million to create this, my
27:44love. Yeah, BUT THERE'S A FINGERPRINT. I
27:46JUST CAN'T ENJOY IT. THE SMUDGE. AH, the
27:49smudge. You're like, "My love, I paid
27:51hundred million for the parade. Let's
27:52just watch the parade." you put your
27:54fingerprint on the window and then you
27:57realize she would be happier being put
27:59back in the metaphorical trailer park so
28:01that now she doesn't have to get mad as
28:02someone she get mad at something real.
28:04Do you guys see what I'm saying? And
28:05many women in this room have dated men
28:07or samesex couples, have dated people
28:09where you've you've seen it up close.
28:11Has everyone here seen what that
28:13limitation looks like up close?
28:15>> You've all seen it, right? Maybe you've
28:16been the one doing it.
28:16>> Sounds like my last marriage.
28:18>> You understand, right? Yeah. And and you
28:20realize Yeah. There's there's a mismatch
28:22in the spiritual development. That's why
28:24someone who's healed is best to date
28:26another person who's healed. Like people
28:28will say like, "Oh, I'm dating this new
28:29person." Like, "Oh, let's see them. Are
28:30they hot?" Don't worry if they're
28:32[ __ ] hot. Worry if they're going to
28:33[ __ ] destroy your life, right? Like,
28:35yeah, attraction is is an important part
28:37of any relationship, but it should also
28:39just be, is this person healed, right?
28:40And ask yourself, are you healed? Don't
28:42just start pointing at everybody else,
28:43right? Don't point at everybody else.
28:45Point back at yourself. Now, that
28:47healing extends past not only um uh you
28:51know, relationships where you know, you
28:53take someone out to like a $50,000 trip
28:56to Hawaii and they're still crying half
28:57the day because they would have been
28:58back in their old life. It's not just
29:00because they're not healed. So, it
29:01doesn't matter what what you do for
29:02them. But in addition, it's on yourself.
29:05I would challenge you to say that if
29:06you're not wealthy yet, that is this is
29:09a bit of a stretch and I don't mean to
29:10like condescend very real life
29:13impediments. So, I don't I'm not taking
29:15away from whatever challenges you've had
29:16or where you've been hurt, but I believe
29:18it's partially spiritual. Partially
29:20spiritual. So, in other words, like
29:22people will say, um, you know, money is
29:25the root of all evil or harder for a
29:27camel to go through the eye of a needle
29:28than a rich man to go in the kingdom of
29:30heaven. There's definitely truth in that
29:32that like a lot of the elites, so to
29:33speak, and I've coached some of them,
29:34are at a point where their entire ego
29:36and identity is based around money. I
29:38absolutely agree that a lot of evil
29:40people ignore like like they can't even
29:42just be nice to a waiter. They can't be
29:43nice to someone who does Uber. They
29:44think they're better than somebody else,
29:46right? Which is wrong, right? Like you
29:48could tell someone's moral character by
29:49how they treat an Uber, how they treat
29:51uh, you know, a hotel employee or, you
29:52know, things like that. People who like,
29:53you know, you you go get your room and
29:55you're in and out of that boring
29:56interaction in 5 minutes. They're there
29:58for 10 hours a day. So like, how you
30:00treat that person is your level of
30:01evolution as well. That being said
30:03though, I also believe that somebody who
30:05works at that place could benefit from
30:08some evolution. Why are they at a point
30:10where they resonate with that? Does that
30:12make sense? Look, I don't believe this,
30:14so I'm not saying this as a literal
30:15truth, but have you ever heard the the
30:16expression there's no victims, there's
30:17only volunteers? It's a partial truth.
30:19There actually are victims. People get
30:20victimized every day is horrible. I'm
30:22not taking away from that. But have you
30:24ever heard the expression where like a
30:26lot of the times someone who's like you
30:27might have someone who has an abusive
30:29ex, well, what kind of person are they
30:30going to choose next? Probably
30:32>> abusive.
30:32>> Probably another one because they
30:34haven't healed, right? So they're so
30:35they're say the word their compass is
30:36[ __ ]
30:38>> Yeah. In other words, they're being
30:39drawn into situations that will burn
30:41down time. You know, I had an employee
30:43on the phone the other day and he was he
30:44had a little squabble with the other
30:45employee. He's like, "Why didn't this
30:47guy just say this? Like, why didn't he
30:48come to me directly?" I go, "I literally
30:50don't care at all. I just want to go
30:53make more money." Right? Like like you
30:55can't get me to get mad about anything.
30:57Like I like I just like my brain's like
30:59more money so I can be with my family in
31:01Alaska. Like I want I want to be on a
31:05private plane flying into Denali
31:07Mountain with my children today. So if
31:11this is not leading me there, I this is
31:13not real to me. Do you guys see what I'm
31:15saying?
31:16>> Like so so like when I tell people I
31:18don't watch regular TV. Look, TV is an
31:21art form. There's great TV out there.
31:22There's beautiful people that create TV
31:23shows, but you can't make me watch TV. I
31:26try to watch TV. I'm like, I'm going to
31:27watch some TV. I'm like, and then I
31:29can't watch it. You know guys have porn
31:31addiction. You ever heard of that? You
31:33guys have porn addiction?
31:34>> No.
31:35>> I wish I had a porn addiction. Like,
31:37please send me this miraculous porn that
31:39I'm I just keep jacking off to all day.
31:41Like, what porn are you watching? Like,
31:44show me this amazing porn. Like, it's
31:45just it's just Yeah. Like, like it's
31:46like anime or something. Like, what is
31:48this? Like, a guy who just jacks off all
31:50day to porn. There is no porn good
31:52enough to jack. They're like, "No,
31:54because it gives the guy a new stimulus
31:55and he can't stop watching." I'm like,
31:56"What spiritual condition somebody have
31:58to be in that they just jack off all
32:00day?" I'm not afraid of porn at all.
32:02Okay. Like and same as video games. Like
32:03like don't play any video games. Like
32:05where is this video game that I'm not
32:07going to take my family to Hawaii
32:09because I just can't stop playing the
32:10video game? Give me that game. Like show
32:13me this game that's so amazing that I
32:15just cannot stop. Like I just can't stop
32:17playing the video game. Okay. So what is
32:19that when you see somebody playing a
32:20video game and they can't stop? What is
32:22that?
32:23>> GTA.
32:25>> That's an exception. But it's about to
32:27shut it's about to shut down the whole
32:29we're basically going to be back to co
32:30days where no one's outside cuz
32:32everyone's playing GTA 6. If you know
32:34you know. But the point is like aside
32:36from GTA 6. What does it mean if someone
32:38plays video games all day? I believe
32:40that's spiritual,
32:41>> right? There's something in their in
32:42their antenna that's saying I'm going to
32:44keep play like I'm going to do this
32:45thing. See here's the main thing. Okay.
32:47I think one of two of the most spiritual
32:48words that you could say just repeat the
32:50word back to me. Say what else.
32:51>> What else?
32:52>> In other words, it's not about Croft
32:54Alley. It's about what else like what
32:57else could you get if you did uh instead
33:00of Coft Alley and you got back that 45
33:02days well what else could you get right
33:04>> with the 45 days right well that extends
33:07um even down to like okay so you played
33:09video games all day which allowed you to
33:10zone out and to disassociate or maybe it
33:12was fun video games would be fun
33:14>> but what else could you have done with
33:16that time you see what I'm saying right
33:19you jacked off all day this is the thing
33:20by the way guys I know some of the women
33:22here like do men do this is like a real
33:25Yeah, it's it's called porn addiction.
33:26It's it's actually very common in men.
33:27>> I haven't heard of it.
33:28>> Yeah. But like I like and like I'm l
33:30like guys guys are like don't even look
33:32at porn. I'm like where where show me
33:35this porn? Like where is this like porn
33:37where you drop out of your whole life to
33:38look at like just look at two people
33:40screwing each other and you're like I
33:41just can't stop. I just oh I just can't
33:44leave my house. Like come on dude. Like
33:46that must be some great [ __ ] porn.
33:47But the truth is it's not great porn.
33:48Why are they doing it?
33:51like a mask or like they're just trying
33:52to like block out something of their
33:54mind.
33:54>> I think it's Yeah, I think it's a
33:56spiritual condition.
33:57>> I I think they're literally so
33:59traumatized that they just want to numb
34:01out, disassociate, medicate, just zone
34:05out. They just want to zone out. Okay.
34:08And like and and Yeah. What's that?
34:09>> It's like any addiction, right? Drugs.
34:11>> Like any Yeah. Yeah. In other words,
34:12they're running from it, stuffing it,
34:14and medicating it rather than what?
34:16Releasing it. So again, say running from
34:18it.
34:19>> Stuffing it.
34:21medicating it.
34:21>> Medicating
34:22>> rather than what?
34:23>> Releasing it.
34:24>> Say releasing it.
34:25>> Correct. Yep.
34:26>> So then
34:27>> do you ever have like do you ever stop
34:30have a desire to zone out at anyone?
34:32>> I do. But the beauty of life is that as
34:35you age when you especially if you're
34:37like myself and Marcel where you're
34:39studying a lot of personal growth, what
34:40happens that you realize that the
34:42money's made where time plus focus plus
34:45momentum is money. And so you realize
34:48that if you can train your mind off
34:50these basically things that allow you to
34:52medicate it, stuff it, run away from it.
34:55If you could just release it, let it go,
34:58then you'll be more locked in, and then
35:01you'll be in a flow state more, then
35:03you'll get major money more. And when
35:05you have major money more, now you can
35:07spend time with your friends and family
35:08doing what you care about you now. So,
35:11so that's why again, like, you know,
35:13I've got a girl saying over, she's
35:15clapping back a little, she's chirping a
35:16little bit. I wake up and I go and I'm
35:18just like, "Fuck, I got to get out of
35:19here because I don't even want to stay
35:20there to explain why I've got to go."
35:24Take if you need $10,000, take it. But
35:27I've got to go. Why? Why would I even
35:29say 10 grand? I didn't leave 10 grand
35:31that time. I probably left about five.
35:33But why did I do it?
35:35>> Because can I make more than 5,000 in a
35:38day if I have my focus?
35:40>> Now, here's what's funny. In that one, I
35:41was in Savannah. I was in Do you guys
35:43know Charleston, North Carolina?
35:44>> Yeah. Love Charleston.
35:45>> Okay. My two favorite walking cities in
35:47America are Charleston, North
35:48Charleston, South Carolina. Not
35:50Charlotte, but Charleston. Charleston.
35:52Nice. Very nice. But Charleston
35:53specifically. Who has ever been to
35:54Charleston?
35:55>> Okay. And who has ever been to Savannah?
35:56>> I love Savannah.
35:57>> Yeah. Kind of some weird history there,
35:58but they're so beautiful. Okay. So, the
36:00point being is this. Okay. The two of
36:01the best walking cities in the country
36:03are Savannah and Charleston. Here's my
36:05thing. You know what? You know what real
36:06wealth is? When you can go to [ __ ]
36:08Savannah with a nice girl because you
36:11know, okay, you know, guys talk about
36:12sex all the time.
36:14Sex is not the beall end all. Great
36:17great sex is important, but it's not the
36:19beall end all. When you have sex with a
36:20woman, what's the average amount of time
36:21you have sex with a woman?
36:23>> Could be a couple hours if you're really
36:24feeling it, right? But what's average?
36:26Be honest.
36:26>> 30 seconds.
36:29>> I'm a 10 seconds. Yeah. So, yeah. But
36:32what's average? What's an average amount
36:33of time you have sex?
36:35>> 10 minutes.
36:36>> Could be 10 minutes. Could be half an
36:38hour. Could be an hour. But it's like,
36:40you know, for a typical couple that's
36:41kind of, you know, seeing each other a
36:42lot, it's probably 18 minutes or
36:44something. You know, what if we were to
36:45chat GBT, it's probably 13 minutes,
36:47right?
36:48>> So, okay, even if you did an hour,
36:49right, you you got a lot of lot of
36:51testosterone. Point being is that the
36:53the quality of a relationship is like
36:55can can you go to Savannah, walk down
36:58the street holding hands, check out some
37:00art galleries, check out, you know, find
37:01the path that George Washington walked
37:03on, bask in the magic of like, wow,
37:06George Washington was here, or whoever,
37:08whoever you're a fan of, you know, and
37:09like actually like take it in and enjoy
37:12the [ __ ] day and have them, not that
37:14you need somebody else, but you could be
37:16open to someone else bringing their good
37:18energy to the table and adding to it,
37:20right? So that's the real magic. So like
37:22even the case like that was a very very
37:24beautiful girl. Like trust me,
37:28look, there was definitely a debate
37:30between my head and my penis. And my
37:32dick was very mad at me when I walked
37:34out of that room. But the point is,
37:36okay, I'm just being real with you,
37:37okay? I'm vulgar, but I'm just being
37:38honest. But like, you know, any guy ever
37:40felt that way before?
37:41>> Oh, yeah.
37:41>> Okay. So like, trust me, there's
37:43definitely a part of my brain or sorry,
37:44another brain that I have that was like,
37:46"No, you don't, [ __ ] Oh, no you
37:48don't." Because she's there. She she
37:50would have shown me a good time in
37:51certain respects. But instead of and
37:54this is important less about business.
37:55Instead of walking through the streets
37:57with her, which I wanted, Ibrahim was
37:59with me because we we're uh on the other
38:01coast running some events and he was
38:03planning to stay in work and I decided
38:05that Ibrahim was going to make a
38:06romantic walk with me for several days
38:08in Savannah.
38:09>> Okay. And so Ibrahim, what did we do?
38:11>> Oh, we went through Savannah, the most
38:13beautiful place, some of the oldest
38:14buildings in uh North America. Just the
38:17history, being able to see even parks
38:19out there and you'll see like park after
38:21park like it's basically just trees and
38:23and lots of historical buildings and
38:25each one we even found this one place
38:27called the pink house. You ever go to
38:29Savannah? Go visit the pink house.
38:31You'll definitely love that you did just
38:34you know the people there they'll
38:35reenact you know history what happened.
38:37There was even a lady we met who could
38:39sing and uh we were trying to convince
38:41her to get on social.
38:44>> So do you see what a nice time we had?
38:45So, look, Savannah is the kind of place
38:47you normally bring a woman, but you know
38:49what? I would rather not get laid and
38:53bring a dude and bro out over a nice
38:56park walk with me and Ibraim than have
38:59friction. Why? How did entrepreneurship
39:02train my brain on that?
39:04>> You lose money anytime you're
39:06>> I'm not coming back from a trip
39:08depleted.
39:09>> Yeah,
39:10>> it's not happening.
39:11>> You lost all your momentum.
39:12>> Yeah. If I'm going to go to Savannah, if
39:13I real wealth is being able to go to a
39:16place like Savannah, Georgia, which is
39:18probably the single best walking city in
39:20the country and you could maybe argue
39:21New York because it's so huge. They're
39:22they're kind of both neck and neck, but
39:24Savannah is like a small version and
39:25very historical. New York's historical,
39:27too. So, the point being though is like
39:28for like if you ever want to write a
39:29book, do you guys ever feel like you
39:32don't want to do some crazy ass [ __ ]
39:34uh like vacation and you just want to go
39:36somewhere to relax?
39:38>> Yeah.
39:38>> Sometimes you want that kind of
39:40vacation, right? Sometimes you want to
39:41do a a a nature excursion, but sometimes
39:43you want to relax. A great place would
39:45be do like two days in Charleston, three
39:47days in Savannah and just lower your
39:50cortisol and just walk. Every block's
39:53beautiful. There's beautiful history.
39:55Every single block, the stores, the
39:57trees, if you're there at the right time
39:59of year, and you can just chill, okay?
40:01And if you want to take it further, you
40:02go to Europe. So the point being is like
40:05that's real wealth. Okay? Okay, if I
40:07take two months off to go with my kids,
40:10what is real wealth? Real wealth is like
40:12me, my children, and my phone is off.
40:16Okay, so you want to build a system.
40:18Okay, now people say, "Yeah, I'm turning
40:20my phone off." No, no, you don't just
40:21get to turn your phone off. What happens
40:24if you just randomly turn your phone off
40:25when you shouldn't?
40:27>> You go bankrupt.
40:28>> Okay, people like, "Fuck my phone." I'm
40:30like, "No, no, no, no, no, no." Okay.
40:33The way you get how do you how do you
40:35take yourself out of a business for two
40:36months where you can turn your phone
40:38off?
40:38>> Systems.
40:40>> Systems and a backup phone. So you have
40:43someone watching it and you say, "Look,
40:44if it if it crosses a certain threshold,
40:46then call me, right? You don't want to
40:48come back. The whole thing's burned
40:49down." You're like, "Well, I'M TAKING
40:50I'M TURNING MY PHONE OFF." AND NOW
40:52YOU'RE bankrupt living in the streets.
40:53You're like, "Well, at least I got to
40:54turn my phone off." Okay. But do do any
40:56do any of you guys find like you um
41:00you're you're you try to put aside time
41:01but you don't truly get to enjoy it
41:03either because of one of the three
41:04things. Your business piss you off, your
41:07spouse or friends piss you off, or you
41:10piss yourself off.
41:11>> Yeah.
41:11>> Any you guys notice that?
41:13>> Real wealth is when you get your
41:15business under control. You choose peace
41:18in your partner. Okay. Like you date
41:20people or get in relation with people
41:21who prioritize peace. And and if you
41:24have a little bit of what's called
41:24rupture repair, that's fine. But it has
41:26to be fast resolved. You have a way of
41:28resolving and a path to resolution.
41:30Doesn't mean you have to like let stuff
41:31build. There's like but there's like a
41:32healthy way to have some friction that's
41:34quick. Maybe some good makeup sex and
41:36it's quick. And then the last one is are
41:37you attacking yourself in your own
41:39brain. Okay. So if you look at Marcel,
41:41he's very very good at this. He does not
41:42attack himself in his own brain. I've
41:44watched Marcel on ups. I've watched
41:46Marcel on downs. He's the same guy. I
41:47could proudly say I'm pretty much the
41:49same. Okay. I probably talked to him a
41:51little bit too cuz I'm a little older.
41:52So the point being is like like that's
41:54real that's real life and he taught it
41:56back to me too. We reinforcing each
41:57other. We emotionally regulate each
41:58other. You want to have friends like
41:59that that that irregulate each other.
42:01Okay, if I'm being honest with you, just
42:03being very blunt. So then from there,
42:05okay, now you've got your time doubted
42:07in. But again, you've built systems that
42:10get you your time back. Now, do you
42:12remember I said at the beginning of this
42:14talk, I talked about recognizing the
42:15trap that you're in. A job like yours is
42:18the opposite of what I just described.
42:20Do you see how from this position, if
42:22I'm in a position where I have calm and
42:25peace, time, focus, and achievable
42:29momentum, can you guys see why it's easy
42:31for me to make cash? Very, very easy.
42:34Does that kind of make sense?
42:36>> Do you see why it's easy to make money
42:38when you have that?
42:39>> Do you see it?
42:41>> Because if you have a What's your
42:42business model?
42:45>> Okay. So, do you have a good business
42:47model?
42:48to find a good business model
42:49>> that you're happy with.
42:52>> I make a [ __ ] ton of money.
42:53>> Sounds like a good business model.
42:55>> Yeah. But are you stressed? I guess. Is
42:57that what it is? I got you. Okay. So,
42:59okay.
42:59>> Not my business.
43:01>> Yeah. But, you know, if it's making
43:02great money, even if it's not your
43:03business, fine. But it's just um
43:05>> what's that?
43:06>> Stress.
43:07>> I got you. Okay. You could I'm sure you
43:09could uh even maybe after the short
43:10talk, you'll probably have some renewed
43:12ideas. You're clearly highly
43:13intelligent. You could probably fix a
43:15lot of it if it was a priority. Yeah.
43:18Okay. So, and then we could, you know,
43:20have a total paradigm shift if we kept
43:21going, right? But we could even fix up
43:23today. Okay. Okay. So, then Okay. So,
43:25guys, okay. So, can you see why I feel
43:29Do you remember I started this this
43:30conversation with a strange thing about
43:31how uh communists have a point?
43:34>> If someone is already rich, like my kids
43:38have an unfair advantage. And you know
43:40what their unfair advantage is? I'm not
43:42giving them any money. My kids will have
43:43no money. I I will No, no. I'm spending
43:46all my money. I believe in nothing for
43:48those kids. Okay. I'm not Okay. Every
43:50penny I'm spending. If if I if I know
43:52I'm going to die tomorrow, I'm throwing
43:53a party, man. I'm getting rid of all of
43:54it. They're getting nothing. Okay. But
43:57yeah, that's my money.
43:59>> What's that?
44:00>> The same way.
44:00>> Yeah, it's my money.
44:02>> Yeah, I'm having fun. They can I'm not
44:04Yeah, I'm not I'm not like condescending
44:05them, treating them like [ __ ] idiots,
44:07right? They're capable. But what is the
44:09unfair advantage that my children have
44:10that most people are not going to have?
44:12>> Abundance environment.
44:14>> Calm household. abundance, high vi high
44:17high paradigm thinking, uh high
44:19vibration, and a spiritual gift, which
44:22is being around that high frequency at a
44:25high standard. Say high frequency.
44:27>> High standard.
44:28>> High standard.
44:28>> Yeah. So, that's that's more like what
44:30they're used to, right? Like my like one
44:31of my sons right now is wandering around
44:33uh in civil, Spain. Anyone here ever
44:34been to Sevil?
44:35>> Yeah. Beautiful. Right. So, like, you
44:37know, imagine you're a kid, you're 14,
44:38you're just you and your friend like
44:39unsupervised just wandering around civil
44:41Spain. That's going to open your mind up
44:42to possibility. It creates a frequency.
44:44it creates a standard. So when I say
44:46that like I'm not a communist, but I do
44:48think communists have a point even
44:49though I'm not a comm I I I don't want
44:50to go Chinese communism. I want American
44:53freedom. But I can see that they do have
44:54a point that if someone comes from a bad
44:56background and you know there's chaos
44:58and then they have and then they have to
44:59they have to quickly get out of the
45:01household because the household isn't
45:02safe. So now they're working from a
45:04young age. They've got a 40-hour a week
45:05job. Even 40 hour a week, I'm sorry
45:07that's a lot. Let alone six or 100, two
45:10jobs, whatever. How are you going to
45:12build a business? Right? and you're
45:13like, "Well, this is America. Pull
45:14yourself up by your bootstraps. You're
45:16just lazy." They're not lazy. They're
45:17working [ __ ] hard. They're exhausted
45:19and and there's no foreseeable way out.
45:22So, the very first thing I teach before
45:24I teach anything else is I teach you to
45:27have an honest conversation with
45:29yourself about where your time's going,
45:31where your focus is going, and how much
45:33momentum you're in. So, some of you guys
45:35are probably killing this. Some of you
45:36guys are in the middle. Some of you guys
45:37are struggling. How many hours a week do
45:39you guys feel like you're in a clear
45:42high momentum state of peace, focus,
45:45high momentum where you're not just say
45:48say the word not treading water
45:51>> but moving the ball down the field
45:54>> okay do you guys see the difference
45:55>> right so if I feel that what I'm doing
45:58is water treading rapidly I try to build
46:00a system around it if it's just a
46:02sustain right I'm just sustaining I
46:05don't want to live like that I don't
46:07want to just sustain
46:08I want to be moving the ball down the
46:10field. Is it Is it um that I'm more at
46:14peace because I'm spiritually evolving?
46:16Am I educating myself? Am I laughing
46:18more? Am I building money? Am I building
46:20wealth? Am I building assets? Am I
46:23building time with my children? But it
46:24has to be there has to be a [ __ ]
46:25point. Notice that I'm not one of these
46:27like business teachers who's like,
46:28"You're going to make the most money,
46:30billions and bill." I'm not saying that.
46:32I'm not even saying you need to be a
46:33billionaire. What I'm saying is you've
46:34got to find peace, right? You've got to
46:36find happiness and what is happiness?
46:38Like what is actual happiness? Once you
46:40make enough money, you start to have a
46:42lot of weird existential questions. And
46:44one of those is like what is actual
46:45happiness, right? Like what is [ __ ]
46:48What is happiness? Like you know, um I
46:50was with a guy last night in a in a
46:52backyard in the hood. Okay, I was in the
46:54hood last night. So I'm one of those
46:55guys where like you'll see me in like,
46:57you know, $100 million mansion and
46:58you'll see me in South Central LA. I'm a
47:00man of the people. I'm in nature where
47:02where I have no cloud status at all.
47:04I'll be in a rough area. I'll be in a
47:06rich area. I to me someone who can only
47:08be in some hoyy toy rich area is kind of
47:10a [ __ ] Like I don't want to be one of
47:12those guys, right? So I'll I I'll hang
47:14out in a rough neighborhood. I hang out
47:15I'll I'll hang out in like Bandon,
47:17Oregon like Whitefish, Montana or
47:21Jackson, Wyoming. I mean, some of those
47:22are rich areas in nature to be fair. But
47:24the point is like, you know, I'll be in
47:25the middle of New Mexico at a Denny's
47:26and I'll be at like some random table
47:27laughing with people there like whose
47:29teeth don't even uh fit properly in
47:30their mouth. You know what I'm saying?
47:31Right. Yeah. And I think it's great. So,
47:33you know, so you know, I'll be with a
47:34fisherman somewhere just chilling. So,
47:35it's like, yeah, I like everybody. I've
47:37been all over the [ __ ] place. Real
47:39happiness is the capacity to enjoy life
47:41for real, not some [ __ ] And that,
47:44oh yes, real happiness is not I make
47:46more money. That means happiness. Real
47:48The guy who I was with, this was what I
47:50was going to say. The guy that I was
47:51with last night in the hood, he had a
47:53backyard. He's in this like cheap suit,
47:55but it's like a pajama suit,
47:57>> okay? Where like the shirt matches the
47:59jacket matches the pants with like these
48:01like floral pattern. and he's wasted off
48:03his [ __ ] ass and he's rushing and
48:05he's in the backyard with a whole bunch
48:07of people dancing and he's got a DJ in
48:10his cheap ass house in the backyard in
48:13his [ __ ] pajama suit with all his
48:14friends. That man is rich.
48:16>> Okay, he was super happy. He was
48:18dancing. He was He was as confident as a
48:21celebrity. Didn't give a [ __ ] He was in
48:24a flow state. He was smiling. He's about
48:2662. That's rich. Okay. So, everyone's
48:28always like, "Oh, I have to have, you
48:30know, the the Rolex watch or the mansion
48:32or whatever." That's just a thing to
48:33have. But that guy, I promise you, was
48:36way happier than so many people I know
48:39who are unable to be happy. Now, that
48:41said, I think that if you're high IQ and
48:43you're high drive, you can learn to be
48:45both financially rich and internally
48:46rich. Okay? Because people tend to make
48:48it mutually exclusive. I'm like, "Can't
48:50we just be rich and happy?" Like, it's
48:52like, "No, it's one or the other." Like,
48:53that's not true. That is not true. So,
48:56in other words, um, uh, happiness comes
48:59from many areas, okay? But you, you, as
49:01you get older, you have, look, I've been
49:03in a house where I'm paying 80,000 a
49:04month in rent and I'm miserable. I've
49:07had that experience, okay? I know
49:09exactly what that's like. So that's what
49:11I'm telling you is like like you want to
49:12build something that actually is like
49:15because you realize like oh this person
49:16who's here cannot be happy and it's not
49:19their fault and whatever turned them
49:21into this is really [ __ ] sad and I've
49:23tried to fix it and I can't. Okay, so
49:26there's there's a spiritual gap that's
49:28there. So you've got to recognize if
49:30you're poor, what is the spiritual gap
49:32that drew you to waste your time? Why
49:35did you resonate with wasting your time?
49:37Why did you resonate with situations
49:38that are limited? If you talk to Marcel,
49:41the joke that I always say, my staff
49:42will call Marcel sometimes for like a
49:44tech issue. And I'll be like, "Hey,
49:45let's get Marcel in three-way." And I'll
49:46tell them, "Yo, Marcel likes to move
49:48quick. Don't waste his time." They go,
49:49"Yeah, I got it." I go, "No, no, no.
49:51This is Marcel Klein. Don't waste his
49:53[ __ ] time. Just get to the point
49:55quickly. Get quickly to the point." So,
49:57I'll get Marcel on the phone and my
49:58staff will be like, "Hi, Marcel.
50:01Uh, it's Alex.
50:04I work with Owen
50:07and we had a look at some of your
50:09systems and you know we were auditing
50:12it. By that time Marcel hung the phone
50:14up.
50:15>> But you know what's funny about Marcel?
50:18You're thinking that he hung the phone
50:19up like what's this [ __ ] Click.
50:21That would imply he even knows what he's
50:23doing.
50:25That's not the Marcel I know and love.
50:27The Marcel I know and love would be like
50:31Eddie would forget that he was on the
50:32phone. his brain will literally zone
50:35out. Okay? He his brain can if this
50:39guy's going to sit there making him wait
50:40for a minute to get to the point, he
50:42views his time as so expensive that he
50:44will forget the person exists.
50:47Do you remember I said that when that
50:48when I had the girl saying over and I
50:50just felt like I have to get out? It's
50:52like a compulsion. I'm not meant to be
50:55here. This is like say this. We live in
50:57the same physical reality.
51:01>> But human beings
51:03>> live in different
51:05>> energetic realities.
51:07>> So when I can feel that I'm in that
51:08hotel with that girl is getting a little
51:10clappy. I'm like, I'm not meant to be
51:14here. Like I don't resonate with this.
51:16This is not where I meant to be. I
51:17cannot be here. I like if you were right
51:20now in a really really dangerous place
51:21in the third world, what would your
51:22brain be telling you?
51:24>> Get the [ __ ] out. Right? So, I'm not
51:26trying to take away from their
51:27experience, but at a certain point, like
51:30again, I I actually believe that there
51:31are victims in life. I I don't I don't
51:33literally think there's no victims.
51:34There's only volunteers, but there's
51:37partial truth in that statement, not
51:38entire truth. To a certain extent,
51:41someone chooses it. Okay? They're
51:43actively choosing for that in
51:46themselves. Okay? So, you've got to ask
51:48yourself, what am I choosing? How do I
51:51value my time? What am I putting my time
51:53into? What am I where is my time, focus,
51:55and momentum? So, if I were to ask you
51:57guys here, each I'm going to ask each
51:58one of you one by one very quickly. How
52:01many hours a week do you have in high
52:04focus? Okay, blocked off time, cleared
52:07time with no distraction, phone [ __ ]
52:09off, people that are annoying away from
52:12you.
52:13High focus, high momentum. How many
52:17hours a week do each of you guys get to
52:20work on something that's not your
52:21primary job? that's just keeping the the
52:23lights in the building on, but something
52:25that is expanding your income or moving
52:28your life experience forward. How many
52:29hours would you say?
52:30>> And say it loud so everyone can hear,
52:32please.
52:32>> Now.
52:33>> Yeah. Loud and fast. Don't do the Marcel
52:34thing that I showed you. Okay. One a
52:36week.
52:36>> Seven.
52:37>> Seven a week.
52:39>> Don't Don't do the Marcel thing where
52:40you go, um, get to the point. Two hours
52:42a day.
52:43>> All of them.
52:44>> Amazing. How wealthy are you?
52:45>> Pretty wealthy.
52:46>> Surprise, surprise. How about you?
52:51five hours.
52:56>> What' I say? A week.
53:00>> Sorry about that, but I can see this
53:01frustrating. Hopefully this was like the
53:02right speech at the right time. Okay,
53:04good. How about you? I Bro, I've been
53:06there. I've so I've so been there. Like,
53:09you don't give a speech like this at
53:11random, right? You don't give a speech
53:12like this on accident. So, I've I've
53:14I've I've been in webs of my own
53:16creation where it's like just everything
53:18is just pulling you from one horror to
53:20the next. So, you it just comes with uh
53:22hitting a breaking point. Yep.
53:24>> 20. Cool. Speak up. Yep.
53:26>> Awesome.
53:28>> Speak up. Yep.
53:40>> Cool. Okay. So, let me show you an
53:42example how I do it. Okay. When I record
53:44a video, what I'll do, I'll book an
53:47Airbnb in the middle of Montana. I will
53:50turn my phone off. I'll give myself a
53:52week to jet. Here's what I'll do.
53:54Imagine if you're creating content. You
53:56did this. This is very extreme. I'm not
53:57saying you have to do this, but I want
53:58you don't worry about my example. Apply
54:01it to your own life. What I'll do is I
54:04will take a week off at an Airbnb in
54:06Alaska or Montana or wherever. Okay?
54:09Then what I do is at night in front of a
54:11fireplace I work on the content for what
54:13videos I want to create. In the daytime
54:15I hike somewhere cool and I just pay I
54:18spend a week just creating the content
54:20or when I do seminars I'll literally
54:22just book a seminar and I do some
54:24seminars that are paid seminars that are
54:26expensive. Um, but what I'll do for just
54:28free content for YouTube is I'll just
54:30book a room and I'll do a free event.
54:32And I do that just be like those are not
54:34like, you know, highly transformative
54:36events compared to a paid event, but
54:38it's a chance for me to record content.
54:39But, you know, people will come watch
54:41cuz they want to meet me. So, let's say
54:42that I rent out a hotel and I spend
54:4430,000 for a couple days on a big ass
54:47hotel. Right now, how many hours a day
54:49do I have to record video? Maybe 10
54:51hours a day. Any you guys ever seen me
54:52do this?
54:53>> Yeah.
54:53>> Or like I'll just rent a big conference
54:54room. It's called the free tour. I'll
54:56rent this big ass conference room and
54:57then I'll just like sit there for three
54:59[ __ ] days, 10 hours a day banging
55:01videos. Want to know why I do that?
55:03Because if you just paid 30 grand for a
55:05venue,
55:06>> are you going to turn your phone off or
55:07you going to keep it off?
55:08>> It's going to be
55:09>> Yeah, that phone is off and the whole
55:11world can get [ __ ] Okay, [ __ ] off.
55:14But imagine if all that you do is you
55:16set aside 3 days, you got 30K down
55:20and it's just to record content. How
55:22good is your content going to be?
55:24Okay, so have you guys ever seen it
55:25where I speak all [ __ ] day and you're
55:27like, "How does this guy have energy?"
55:30Well, I'm about to reveal how I had that
55:32much energy. Imagine if you paid 30
55:35grand to record three days of videos.
55:38>> Would you have energy?
55:39>> You're going to come up with it.
55:41>> Could you come up with some cool topics?
55:43Would you get tired? People like, "Man,
55:45he's been up there all day." I'm like,
55:46"Do you know what I This is a free
55:47event. You know what I paid?" See, I
55:48don't even want to get paid on that
55:49event because I want I want me to pay so
55:51that I'll do good content. And then I
55:53can replicate that by renting an Airbnb
55:56in Montana, flying my team out there,
55:58flying out a camera team to make myself
56:00concentrate. What do you guys think the
56:02quality of my work is going to be if I
56:03set aside time like that and make myself
56:06concentrate?
56:07>> Really good.
56:08>> Really [ __ ] good.
56:10>> Spot on. Right. So people will say, "Oh,
56:12Owen, you must have a high aptitude for
56:15what you teach." Right? They go, "Oh,
56:16you're, you know, a smart guy." You
56:17know, whatever they say, right? Is it
56:19that I'm a smart guy or is it that I
56:21have a better process?
56:23>> You see what I'm saying? Yeah. I'm smart
56:24enough.
56:25>> How'd you get the process? You have to
56:26be intelligent.
56:27>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I'll take it.
56:28I'm smart. Okay. It's all my it's all my
56:30my IQ and my my high quality genetics.
56:33But the point being is like it it really
56:35is just um smart enough. But you don't
56:38need to be a super genius to know that
56:39if you put aside the time and you have
56:41skin in the game, you're going to
56:43produce something [ __ ] amazing. So
56:45now what I do is I use that for creation
56:48of value. But then you have the
56:50discharge of value. So in other words,
56:51you got to learn the art of making
56:52money. But what other art do you have to
56:54learn?
56:55>> Spending money.
56:56>> The art of spending money. Right? So I
56:58always say there's an art form to
56:59spending money. Because when you made
57:01enough money in your life, look, we've
57:02all had the experience where you made a
57:03bunch of money, you took a vacation, and
57:05you're like, damn it, I'm not any
57:06happier here than I was at home. Okay. I
57:11hit that epiphany because in my late 20s
57:13I was fortunate to build a business. I
57:15made my first two million in in info
57:18marketing at age 26 maybe 27 somewhere
57:21around there. I made my first 2 million
57:22like 2 million in the bank. Imagine
57:24being 26 2 million in the bank. Pretty
57:25cool, right? And this is years ago. So
57:27that's like 5 million maybe. I don't
57:29know. Sounds like it. We'll just go with
57:315 million.
57:33Was it? I don't know. Okay. So 5
57:35million. Okay. So look at you in 26 got
57:37about 5 million in the bank, right? How
57:38cool is that? So, I remember I took this
57:41Mexico trip with the mother of my kids
57:42and we go around Mexico and I was not
57:45really any happier. I was like, and it
57:47was a trip I'd want to take for years
57:48because I kept thinking about business
57:50and stress. Then I got back to Hawaii
57:52where I was living at the time and I'd
57:53be surfing a wave in and I'd still be
57:55unhappy. So, that's when you realize
57:57you're like, "Wait a minute." You're
57:58like, "Fuck this [ __ ] It's not about
57:59It's not just the money. You got to
58:01learn how to you got to learn how to
58:02spend the money and you got to learn how
58:04to be at peace and you got to find some
58:06hobbies, right? So you got to make the
58:09money. Then you got then then you got to
58:11find out things you even want to spend
58:12the money on. Then you got to figure out
58:14how to not be how to build the systems
58:16to get away from work. And then even
58:18once you have the clear free time to
58:21just do some [ __ ] you've got to be at
58:22peace. You've got to find peace within
58:24your own mind. It's a spiritual thing.
58:26That's real wealth, right? Like say that
58:29me and Marcel want to go do a road trip
58:31together, you know, and we're like,
58:32"Okay, like maybe like uh are you guys
58:34going to F1 with Marcel?" I'm going to
58:35go to F1 with them. Okay. You're going
58:37to go to F1, right?
58:38>> Yeah. So, like when we go there, it's
58:40not just about going there to go there
58:41to get photos. It's like, you know,
58:43everybody's like like you'll see people
58:44that are like unhappy and then they go
58:46to post on Instagram, then they smile
58:47like that, but they're actually unhappy.
58:49Can it's not about just an Instagram
58:51photo. It's can you go to F1 and really
58:55take it in, right?
58:56>> Do you have a pallet for it? Is your
58:58pallet refined? Right? So, say that me
59:00and Marcel want to do a road trip after
59:02and we want to do say like, I don't
59:03know, drive like say that you're in
59:05Vegas. What are some cool places you
59:06could go to from Vegas?
59:07>> In Vegas.
59:08>> Z. How about Valley of Fire is half an
59:10hour from Vegas. Maybe you could go to
59:12Z.
59:13>> What's that?
59:13>> Hot Springs.
59:14>> Which ones?
59:15>> In Vegas.
59:16>> Very cool.
59:17>> From Vegas. So, you know, by the Hoover
59:18Dam. There's a trail that leads to right
59:21up to it. There's hot springs. It's like
59:22an hour. Badass.
59:24>> That's great. That's probably something
59:25I do with a girl, but I could do Marcel
59:27too if we want to. You know, in the
59:29hotring, right? So, I have hobbies I
59:30want to do the woman. I have hobbies I
59:31want to do the man. Right. You know the
59:33different, right? Sex with the man,
59:36don't jump with the girl. No, just
59:36kidding. Okay. So, point being is this.
59:38Okay. Yeah. So, anyway, what I'm trying
59:41to get at is basically like, you know,
59:43so it's like maybe how Who has been to
59:45Zan? Who has ever been to Zan?
59:47>> Guys, come on.
59:48>> Zion.
59:50>> Who here's
59:51>> guys?
59:52>> Guys. Guys, it's six hours from here,
59:54please. Let me say again. Who here has
59:56been to Zion National Park? Guys,
1:00:01>> I feel like
1:00:02>> Zion.
1:00:06>> Well, that's a great drive.
1:00:07>> Guys,
1:00:09>> guys,
1:00:10>> it's six. Okay, who has been a big sir?
1:00:13>> Guys,
1:00:16>> yes, many times, guys. It's a great
1:00:18place, but that's far. There's at least
1:00:20an excuse.
1:00:20>> Well, that's where I live.
1:00:21>> Okay, fine. Fair enough.
1:00:22>> Is far from me.
1:00:23>> Okay. Are you guys locals more or No,
1:00:25>> I'm in New York.
1:00:26>> Have you been to Acadia? No,
1:00:28>> guys. Okay. Okay. All right. I'm just
1:00:30being dramatic to make a point.
1:00:31>> Yeah. But do you see my point? Look at
1:00:33all that money that you made. And then
1:00:34you go, "Wait a minute. I'm not even
1:00:35doing the things I want to do." Okay.
1:00:36So, the point is like, if I can set a
1:00:38several day road trip with Marcel and me
1:00:40and him can go not talk about business,
1:00:42but talk about life and make jokes,
1:00:44maybe bring some girls, maybe not, and
1:00:46we can actually go have fun. That's
1:00:48really living, okay? Cuz when you're
1:00:49dead, it's not going to matter what
1:00:50Instagram photos you add. What matters
1:00:51is real memories. Like, like, and you
1:00:53lose your memories and you die, too. But
1:00:54like a real life experience, well-lived,
1:00:56okay? So that's what you want to think
1:00:57of as wealth. That's what I'm saying
1:00:59when when I started this bizarre
1:01:00statement of like, you know, the
1:01:01communists do have a point. It's hard
1:01:04for the look at how most of you guys
1:01:05have not been to Zion, right? It's hard
1:01:07to get to that point where you can even
1:01:10get away from work. You have not just
1:01:12the money, but you have the bandwidth
1:01:14and to even enjoy it and not go negative
1:01:17in your own brain. So that's real
1:01:20wealth. Okay? You know, guys will say
1:01:22like like how many girls have you had
1:01:23sex with or how hot was she? Did you
1:01:25like her? Was the sex good? Was the
1:01:29connection good? Did you have fun? After
1:01:32you finish having sex for 25 minutes,
1:01:34did you have a nice day after? Did you
1:01:35go to a nice restaurant? Did you have a
1:01:36walk? Did you have good chemistry? Did
1:01:38you get along well? Like people just get
1:01:41focused on this one metric. It's more
1:01:42about a holistic metric, a real holistic
1:01:45metric. Okay? If you guys live in New
1:01:47York, you could go, if you had a guide,
1:01:48you go pick reishi mushroom, chug a
1:01:50mushroom up in upstate New York. What
1:01:52does it take to be able to go do that?
1:01:54Okay. So, that's how you want to think
1:01:55about is you want to think about it like
1:01:57you're in this like b like in a sword
1:01:59fight and your version of a of a win in
1:02:01a sword fight is getting clear time to
1:02:03actually have fun. That's real wealth.
1:02:06And to actually make money to actually
1:02:08make money, okay? or to actually
1:02:12increase a skill.

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