Karen's Ex Is Affecting Her & Miles Marriage | Married At First Sight Season 11 Episode 7 — Transcript

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1. 0:00[Music]
2. 0:00so what is the root of that what is the
3. 0:02root of your
4. 0:04fear why is there such a fear of letting
5. 0:08your true self out
6. 0:11hey guys and welcome back to little
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20. 0:36yummy mineral okay all right cool so
21. 0:40just to do with karen and mars i think
22. 0:42it was very very interesting because we
23. 0:43got to see
24. 0:44i guess towards the end um the real
25. 0:46reason why karen says
26. 0:47she can't really be intimate or i guess
27. 0:50really close with miles because she's
28. 0:53consistently trying to figure out
29. 0:54whether miles is really talking a good
30. 0:56game
31. 0:56or whether he really is who he says he
32. 0:59is
33. 1:00um i think one of the one of the things
34. 1:01i really picked up from their
35. 1:02conversation is actually
36. 1:04let's look at this particular scene
37. 1:05where um herself
38. 1:07and miles are talking to dr calvin i
39. 1:10think what's really interesting about
40. 1:11their scene
41. 1:12is the way the body language is going so
42. 1:14um as you can see that you know
43. 1:16mao's um it's it's close to it's close
44. 1:19to karen
45. 1:20but it is not close enough like this is
46. 1:22not couple close this is
47. 1:23we're still trying to grow right and i
48. 1:26think that's evident from the space
49. 1:27between them two as well
50. 1:28the fact that obviously more time he
51. 1:29keeps his hands um open
52. 1:31but towards dr calvin and not towards
53. 1:33her at one point he does
54. 1:35but a majority of the case he put his
55. 1:36arm towards dr calvin and i thought that
56. 1:38was again
57. 1:39a very interesting tactic when they
58. 1:40first started speak when they first
59. 1:42started sitting down
60. 1:43also um you know karen also didn't
61. 1:47um turn her body immediately to face
62. 1:51dr carvin and miles again it was more
63. 1:54okay she was facing the exact same way
64. 1:55that miles was
65. 1:56and so unlike every other couple who's
66. 1:58trying to i guess
67. 1:59keep the conversation in a uh well
68. 2:02get open up the conversation and have um
69. 2:05i guess eye contact physical body
70. 2:07language
71. 2:07like mirroring the other people uh we
72. 2:09don't see that from karen instead so
73. 2:11when i say doesn't say miriam
74. 2:13open body language so what we see karen
75. 2:15do is sit down just as master sitting
76. 2:17down
77. 2:17but facing forward and then she changes
78. 2:20it as a conversation goes and i believe
79. 2:21the reason why she did that first is
80. 2:22because
81. 2:23she's not a very open person you've got
82. 2:24to you've got to ask very direct
83. 2:26questions to get her to open up
84. 2:28why because she's guarded she's she's
85. 2:30she's making sure that no information
86. 2:32slips through the neck that you can use
87. 2:34against her and i think that's one of
88. 2:35the reasons why she does that
89. 2:37also as well what's interesting is the
90. 2:39way that moms obviously reacts to her i
91. 2:40think at one point she said something
92. 2:41about
93. 2:42you know we're not we're not in love yet
94. 2:43we're not that close to and you know his
95. 2:45face kind of shows this kind of
96. 2:47storm in his eyes where he's he's trying
97. 2:50to be patient
98. 2:50but it's hurting him what he's hearing
99. 2:52right now and then obviously we see
100. 2:54we see a difference in that behavior
101. 2:56when he begins
102. 2:57to speak about um how he's attracted to
103. 3:01her you see his bounce and his joy and
104. 3:02his body that's energy and i think
105. 3:04that's just
106. 3:04again that's a reaction to the fact that
107. 3:06look he is explaining the fact that how
108. 3:08good he
109. 3:09feels being around karen and what she
110. 3:12makes him feel
111. 3:13like unlike his counterpart we don't see
112. 3:16that same energy
113. 3:17in fact we've seen a lethargic energy
114. 3:19from karen right through the series
115. 3:21um and i think again we've had we've had
116. 3:24some impacts where she is
117. 3:25a bit bright you know we get to see her
118. 3:27earlier on before that when they're in
119. 3:29the house
120. 3:30and you can see her energy's a bit more
121. 3:31bright she's making a few jokes
122. 3:33you know what um you know she she makes
123. 3:35a little joke when he's on the
124. 3:36you know when he's about to go into the
125. 3:38sit on the couch um of her house and
126. 3:40which tells him to get um doing some of
127. 3:41my car picks etc
128. 3:43when they're both going into the the
129. 3:46cupboards you can see a little bit of
130. 3:48lightness and a bit of banter so she is
131. 3:50warming up
132. 3:50right we've seen that last episode as
133. 3:52well there's a little bit of warming
134. 3:53that's happening
135. 3:54and then it was an interesting thing
136. 3:55that happened as well
137. 3:57during their conversation which i found
138. 3:58quite key uh when they were at the house
139. 4:01going to move out of the various houses
140. 4:03he actually grabbed her um to put his
141. 4:05hands around on her face basically to
142. 4:07rub
143. 4:08her picture in your mind your picture in
144. 4:09your mind right now
145. 4:11it's in your mind right now i'm sorry
146. 4:12you got hurt me you have a temple right
147. 4:14um and at first it looked like at first
148. 4:17when i saw it i was like okay cool is
149. 4:18she gonna allow it or not
150. 4:20and at first it looked like she wasn't
151. 4:21properly allowing it
152. 4:23no no no that way picture in your mind
153. 4:24right now how many shoes you have in
154. 4:26your closet
155. 4:27all right and then we're going to
156. 4:28picture how many i have my
157. 4:30as a few other shots cut in we can see
158. 4:33that he
159. 4:33again goes for it once more and he's
160. 4:36doing it but as he's doing it something
161. 4:37that's really interesting happens
162. 4:39her hands don't go down now her
163. 4:42her voice her tone and what she says is
164. 4:45listen
165. 4:46that's really relaxing i can really fall
166. 4:47asleep right um
167. 4:49but her hands don't show i actually go
168. 4:52to sleep
169. 4:55what i yeah by that when your hands cut
170. 4:57look someone's doing this to you
171. 5:00and your hands are here in between right
172. 5:02you're not holding anything your hands
173. 5:03just here it's
174. 5:04slightly kind of awkward um that's
175. 5:06almost like a self-defense um kind of
176. 5:08scene right like i i knew she didn't she
177. 5:11didn't put her hands on him to stop me
178. 5:12from doing it
179. 5:13but it's almost like she didn't trust
180. 5:15him it was if she really didn't trust
181. 5:17him
182. 5:17and so wouldn't allow herself to let her
183. 5:19guard completely down so her hands came
184. 5:21up
185. 5:21and you can see her hands are there um
186. 5:23you know but she does allow him
187. 5:25eventually to rub her temple which is a
188. 5:27good sign which means that she's
189. 5:28she's not against physical dutch as she
190. 5:31said um later on in the conversation
191. 5:33calvin she's open to it it's just that
192. 5:36she's been hurt in the past and she's
193. 5:37very cautious
194. 5:38towards it that being said let's get
195. 5:40into that to freedom deeper a little bit
196. 5:42more
197. 5:42about what's being said um she made a
198. 5:45very point about a very early one about
199. 5:46how she felt
200. 5:48about the age situation so she came
201. 5:49clean again explained that she felt a
202. 5:51certain way about the age situation
203. 5:53and i found it quite interesting because
204. 5:54as they were moving stuff around
205. 5:56um into a new apartment they mentioned
206. 5:58about an xbox
207. 6:00and the way she said xbox it was a there
208. 6:02was a tone on it there was a
209. 6:05a small indignation behind it almost
210. 6:07like to say listen xbox grown-ass man
211. 6:09playing xbox and again
212. 6:10reducing him back to an age of 26 rather
213. 6:13than dealing with
214. 6:14who you got in front of you expect huh
215. 6:29[Music]
216. 6:31um so you know when you see that um you
217. 6:34know
218. 6:34unfortunately she keeps bringing it back
219. 6:36to the age of being a number and i
220. 6:37understand why i'm not actually kidding
221. 6:39her i get it
222. 6:40four years younger than you especially
223. 6:41when we know what we know about men and
224. 6:42women it can be
225. 6:44a very daunting prospect so i understand
226. 6:46that um
227. 6:47you know uh when they got to the house
228. 6:49um you know i
229. 6:51i i mean they both have so much clothes
230. 6:53but i guess it's very more odd when you
231. 6:55see a man have so much clothes and shoes
232. 6:57you have more shoes than me i don't you
233. 7:00do
234. 7:00i don't do you think this would be
235. 7:02helpful to have in there and i wonder
236. 7:04and again this may lead into a factor
237. 7:06what she may say again
238. 7:07is the feminine man why because the
239. 7:10feminine man
240. 7:11obviously always tries to make sure he's
241. 7:13presented well looking clean looking
242. 7:14sharp
243. 7:15always looking uh you know well done
244. 7:18takes long to get prepared etc etc
245. 7:20um you know has many different clothes
246. 7:21and shoes to change into because
247. 7:23he's got more of a feminine touch right
248. 7:25and i wonder if that was going through
249. 7:26her head
250. 7:27that wow this guy's got how many
251. 7:29trainers how many percentages you got
252. 7:31how many persons shoes you got
253. 7:32like and what does that play in their
254. 7:34mind that okay this is not a
255. 7:35masculine such thing to do right because
256. 7:38remember
257. 7:38her idea of masculinity is that kind of
258. 7:41old school
259. 7:42um you know stoic behind the behavior
260. 7:45heroic kind of man you know what i'm
261. 7:47saying that doesn't fit miles and i
262. 7:49think the shopping also
263. 7:50the fact he had so many shoes didn't fit
264. 7:52that because women don't feel like
265. 7:53they're being competing against in
266. 7:55beauty
267. 7:55no women don't want to no that's why we
268. 7:58say
269. 7:58handsome and beautiful or handsome and
270. 8:02pretty
271. 8:02right these words have although they are
272. 8:04can be launched at anybody they have
273. 8:06uh gender ties behind them so we say
274. 8:08someone's pretty you don't say a boy's
275. 8:10pre you say
276. 8:11oftentimes you don't say a voice pretty
277. 8:12often i say a girl is pretty and when a
278. 8:14boy looks pretty
279. 8:15he looks he has some feminine or
280. 8:16feminine uh
281. 8:18features you understand that will look
282. 8:20cute on a girl too so
283. 8:21so it's like for her one of she's
284. 8:23looking at her shoes and think to
285. 8:24herself
286. 8:25this is exactly what i'm talking about
287. 8:26this is not the masking that i'm wanting
288. 8:28to see
289. 8:28it's not the masculine that i want um
290. 8:32uh and obviously uh again about the
291. 8:36messy house situation i've said that
292. 8:37that's an obviously you know what he can
293. 8:39be a little bit messy but everything was
294. 8:40everywhere when she came in
295. 8:42so even if even if that wasn't the case
296. 8:44your house right now bro has proven the
297. 8:46case
298. 8:47that you're a bit messy bro there were
299. 8:48shoes on bed clothes on bed there was
300. 8:50everything on bed
301. 8:51like family everything was everywhere
302. 8:53blood so you kind of just proved a point
303. 8:56to you know get what your dad and mom
304. 8:58were saying that you're not that clean
305. 8:59bro
306. 9:00now that's it it may have been because
307. 9:01you knew you're gonna move out so
308. 9:02there's a lot of things
309. 9:03out of place but it looked like my
310. 9:06friends
311. 9:06it looked like my friends you weren't
312. 9:09organized it looks like you have a lot
313. 9:11of
314. 9:12things that are everywhere and that can
315. 9:14show a disorganization in the only other
316. 9:16aspect
317. 9:17so you may be very organized out there
318. 9:19but in the home you may be disorganized
319. 9:21and
320. 9:22and that again can be a turn off
321. 9:24especially when you want a masculine man
322. 9:25but i
323. 9:26i mean who says a masculine man is very
324. 9:27very clean or not very very clean you
325. 9:29know what i'm saying like no one who's
326. 9:30who dictates that
327. 9:31mints are like hard to come by fastico
328. 9:34really yeah so she doesn't compliment a
329. 9:36lot i mean she takes a little opened up
330. 9:38but karen doesn't compliment easy and i
331. 9:41think this is one of the cases that he's
332. 9:43dealing with with karen
333. 9:44she's not going to be a and so i said
334. 9:46i'm still scared the fact that
335. 9:47this is more than just um you know
336. 9:51just pain this also could look it looks
337. 9:53like this is also to do with how she
338. 9:55finds them attractive
339. 9:56like to say obviously um you know um
340. 9:58that you know it's one of the rare
341. 10:00things a compliment
342. 10:00and the reason why is rarely getting a
343. 10:02compliment is one if she does do
344. 10:04compliments let's take her
345. 10:05her line of of thinking when she said um
346. 10:08you know i feel like uh
347. 10:10i feel like obviously um you know i'm
348. 10:13going
349. 10:14i feel like obviously i can't trust
350. 10:15people right so her dropping compliments
351. 10:18would be
352. 10:19coming out of her shell and reaching
353. 10:20outward to you and so she may not want
354. 10:23to do it
355. 10:23but let's take another route which is
356. 10:24that maybe she just doesn't like you
357. 10:27and maybe she doesn't really she does
358. 10:29not like you the way she needs to like
359. 10:30you and therefore
360. 10:31she can't compliment you because she
361. 10:32doesn't feel like she needs to
362. 10:34compliment you because she don't
363. 10:35like you the way you like her
364. 10:38and so obviously it is a big problem
365. 10:39when you're in a relationship and you
366. 10:40hear this comment
367. 10:41that's a warning sign when he said oh
368. 10:43citizen it's rare to hear her compliment
369. 10:45me
370. 10:45that's the one inside that look chick
371. 10:47get your ass in order
372. 10:48and i think for many people as well you
373. 10:50may be in a relationship where you're
374. 10:51lacking that
375. 10:52uh affirmation verbally and i think this
376. 10:55is the way it's important as a
377. 10:56relationship as couples
378. 10:57you take the time out say listen this is
379. 10:59what i want we're gonna explain
380. 11:00something about something
381. 11:01about miles too the reason why he's not
382. 11:03getting i think a response from
383. 11:05karen too is because not just because of
384. 11:07mastin he's not showing enough
385. 11:09uh you know drive and aggression
386. 11:12but hey you know you have to understand
387. 11:15uh that when it comes to uh
388. 11:18you know voicing uh you know verbal
389. 11:21affirmations
390. 11:22all of us need it some of us need it
391. 11:24more than others because some of our
392. 11:25love languages weren't affirmation
393. 11:27so a compliment you know an appreciation
394. 11:29by word
395. 11:30can go a very long way for us to fill in
396. 11:32the love tank that we need
397. 11:34so you know miles made a very key point
398. 11:36you know it's very few times i've heard
399. 11:37her say that
400. 11:37and that can make you feel like this
401. 11:39person's not really in the relationship
402. 11:40the way you are
403. 11:41you know what i'm saying because we hear
404. 11:42in compliment all the time
405. 11:44um and what's some of those instruments
406. 11:45well um saturn i can't remember where it
407. 11:47was
408. 11:48but he said something she laughed and
409. 11:50then
410. 11:52with that girl thank you stop it all
411. 11:55right
412. 11:56you know it said i'm joking i'm joking
413. 11:58and it's interesting because see the
414. 11:59exact same thing
415. 12:01um i think the last episode another
416. 12:03episode before that where
417. 12:04she said something serious or says i'm
418. 12:06joking or joking
419. 12:07or seriously about about them too and
420. 12:10then she makes joke that i'm kidding i'm
421. 12:11kidding
422. 12:11and i really believe that's a
423. 12:12self-defense mechanism to say to say
424. 12:14something and then say no i'm just
425. 12:16kidding just kidding all the time
426. 12:17when the thing is not a kidding kind of
427. 12:20joke
428. 12:21the kidding joke don't work um and so
429. 12:24therefore i think she does that
430. 12:25to kind of defend herself like you know
431. 12:27she's saying what she thinks
432. 12:28but then she recuperates it back because
433. 12:31she can't handle the
434. 12:32the the backfire and the backlog feels
435. 12:34weird right now
436. 12:36i have to be honest like i haven't done
437. 12:38pda
438. 12:39in so long and it feels weird to have
439. 12:41someone like
440. 12:43coming up behind me and just like
441. 12:44hugging well i think alarm bells and my
442. 12:46head start ringing
443. 12:47what type of relationship were you in
444. 12:48previously why is it that it feels weird
445. 12:51that someone can kiss
446. 12:52you hug you come up behind the is weird
447. 12:54for those things
448. 12:55what did you experience in that last
449. 12:57relationship did that person
450. 12:58shake you so much that you're now afraid
451. 13:01of physical touch you're now afraid of
452. 13:02getting
453. 13:03allowed to be that close and not
454. 13:05physical with you
455. 13:06is it also due to the fact that your ex
456. 13:08boyfriend potentially could have been
457. 13:09abusive
458. 13:10like johnny because i'm looking at going
459. 13:13what's the reason for her saying
460. 13:15like she's not used to this like it
461. 13:17wasn't long are you in a relationship so
462. 13:18what are you not used to being hugged
463. 13:19you're not being used to um kissed and
464. 13:21not used to
465. 13:21a person coming up behind you and giving
466. 13:23you a hug or whatever why aren't you
467. 13:25used to that
468. 13:25that's normal behavior that people do
469. 13:27when they're in a relationship so what
470. 13:28is it that is changed what's different
471. 13:30the type of man that you go for you see
472. 13:33when she said masculine she's talking
473. 13:34about a type of guy she goes for
474. 13:36that type of man that she goes for maybe
475. 13:37doesn't do the hugging
476. 13:39it's very stoic very strong faced um
477. 13:42yeah i'm a man
478. 13:42what man don't do arcs around it yes i'm
479. 13:45gonna do emotion
480. 13:46which is why probably she doesn't do
481. 13:47emotion because what she's learned from
482. 13:48the past relationship is
483. 13:49given all her emotions to a guy who was
484. 13:51on them
485. 13:52unemotional she's now alert that okay
486. 13:55fine i'm not going to give my emotion to
487. 13:56someone else
488. 13:56i can't do i can't get hurt like that
489. 13:58when i gave my emotions it got rejected
490. 14:00got pushed
491. 14:00back because for me to hear that it's
492. 14:03weird for someone to come up behind i'm
493. 14:04like what
494. 14:05brother you've been in a relationship
495. 14:06and you still don't know that someone
496. 14:07come behind you like what were you doing
497. 14:09five years
498. 14:10like how could it be weird so either
499. 14:12you're weirded out by the fact that you
500. 14:13know that you're you've been abused
501. 14:15by this previous partner and so it
502. 14:17skewed your your kind of thinking
503. 14:19um in that regard or maybe you just feel
504. 14:22like
505. 14:23you don't like miles doing that you
506. 14:26don't like miles doing that because you
507. 14:27don't think he should be that
508. 14:28comfortable
509. 14:29why because you're not feeling them
510. 14:30potentially that way before i'm saying
511. 14:32like
512. 14:32i'm trying to look at different angles
513. 14:34i'm not concerned i'm just i'm trying to
514. 14:35see
515. 14:36um so what is the root of that what is
516. 14:39the root of your fear why is there such
517. 14:42a fear
518. 14:44of letting your true self
519. 14:47out and then she mentioned about the
520. 14:48fact that you know she's afraid of
521. 14:49someone hurting her
522. 14:51and she needs to phys she needs to trust
523. 14:52before she can get physical um and so
524. 14:54again
525. 14:55you know i i really appreciate it i
526. 14:57think this is what we need to discuss
527. 14:59about relationships and about pain and
528. 15:01about um getting hurt relationships
529. 15:03in relationships they are never easy why
530. 15:05are they never easy because
531. 15:07the pain that people experience often is
532. 15:10taken into the next relationship
533. 15:12um and when we take onto the next
534. 15:13relationship we feel it
535. 15:15and we move with it and we are
536. 15:18uh trapped by our experiences and
537. 15:21therefore
538. 15:22sometimes we're often doomed to repeat
539. 15:23the next then the next relationship
540. 15:25those experiences all right because
541. 15:27we're trying to learn and try to make
542. 15:28sure we don't
543. 15:29make mistakes we're trying to make sure
544. 15:30we don't get hurt again trying to make
545. 15:32sure that we don't get
546. 15:32beat up like last time drumming
547. 15:34emotionally and so i what i see from
548. 15:37karen is a carrying of heavy baggage
549. 15:39and an unwillingness to unload in that
550. 15:41baggage to get in
551. 15:42to get walking with miles and i think
552. 15:45it's going to take a bit of time before
553. 15:46she gets there
554. 15:47but the truth of the matter is also i
555. 15:48think that she's just just in feeling
556. 15:50mars
557. 15:50miles does not represent the type of
558. 15:52masculinity she talks about miles
559. 15:54is emotional he's emotional he's a
560. 15:56motive
561. 15:57right he deals with emotions and she
562. 15:59doesn't why because i believe
563. 16:00that whatever she experienced that
564. 16:01lovely and maybe even with her
565. 16:03parents
566. 16:03she's become so hard to emotion that it
567. 16:06takes a very long time for the emotion
568. 16:08to come out past the shell that she's
569. 16:10created to protect herself
570. 16:12and so now what's happening is as he's
571. 16:14trying to tap into
572. 16:15the inner a core being of herself she is
573. 16:18losing power she's losing control so she
574. 16:20refuses to give it up
575. 16:21by allowing him into the internet into
576. 16:24her personal space emotionally
577. 16:26i think that's what's happening here
578. 16:28what is
579. 16:29like putting your feelings or what you
580. 16:32need on the back burner like
581. 16:34i want you to tell me because at the end
582. 16:37of the day i feel like
583. 16:38you know your patience may not be really
584. 16:40patience it may just be that you're
585. 16:42excited about something and you're
586. 16:44willing and i won't say willing to wait
587. 16:46but you know um you know we talk about
588. 16:49these nice guys right these nice guys
589. 16:51nice guys will always be mine
590. 16:54you know um these nice guys sometimes
591. 16:56are actually masking a veil oh sorry
592. 16:58they're veiling a mask or something
593. 17:00to say they're holding a mask right and
594. 17:02that mask is the fact that i'm
595. 17:04so nice i'm so dishonest but then they
596. 17:06don't actually say what they actually
597. 17:08need
598. 17:08therefore then they get hurt in the
599. 17:10process like oh you know i
600. 17:11i thought you knew no they didn't know
601. 17:13nothing you were saying you didn't say
602. 17:15any of those kind of things what i'm
603. 17:16saying
604. 17:16then like
605. 17:20i feel like to answer that question it's
606. 17:22it's tough for me
607. 17:23why because if she's happy
608. 17:27and like you were not so saying what you
609. 17:30needed you were just kind of chatting
610. 17:31and rapping
611. 17:32and making noise but you never stated
612. 17:33what you needed and therefore what
613. 17:35happened is
614. 17:36your knees got pushed her back burning
615. 17:38which is what mars was even talking
616. 17:39about with karen and karen said listen i
617. 17:40don't want you to keep quiet about your
618. 17:42needs
619. 17:42no you should say it and i think this is
620. 17:44where the masculinity that she took
621. 17:46my lies she feels that miles is not
622. 17:48giving her the direction
623. 17:50let me know what you need listen i'm
624. 17:51gonna let you karen i'm gonna be honest
625. 17:53with you
626. 17:53i need this in my life i'm gonna let you
627. 17:55can you perceive that
628. 17:57i'm about that boss you know what i'm
629. 17:58saying and i think he doesn't want to do
630. 18:00that because he's going to upset her
631. 18:01because he finds somebody really pretty
632. 18:03right she doesn't offset the balance
633. 18:05um but the truth of the matter is i
634. 18:06think she would give more brownie points
635. 18:08to him
636. 18:09as a masculine male when he tells us
637. 18:11straight what it is you understand
638. 18:13so you hear her saying to him listen no
639. 18:15i want you to tell me the truth like
640. 18:16tell me what you want tell me what you
641. 18:18need
642. 18:18i'm saying i got what you want
643. 18:22i got what you need you're saying like
644. 18:25she wants that straightforwardness
645. 18:27because for her that's an aspect of
646. 18:28masculinity she probably deals with
647. 18:30or has dealt with previously as to why
648. 18:32she said what
649. 18:33she said and i think that's the key
650. 18:36point um
651. 18:37and so you know when obviously mars is
652. 18:40stating about what he actually wants he
653. 18:42goes on says
654. 18:43um yeah i don't have no i don't know
655. 18:44issues or nothing like that and i mean
656. 18:46i'm good to go with the flow
657. 18:47whatever happens i'm here to be patient
658. 18:50and the past car asked one question
659. 18:51which decimated all
660. 18:52like are you going to go without sex in
661. 18:54this relationship and he goes oh hell no
662. 18:56all right because now we know that you
663. 18:58have needs and you have one sir
664. 19:00stop pretending this if you don't have
665. 19:01any stop trying to be this perfect guy
666. 19:03you are not it this is why um also as
667. 19:05well that i agree with
668. 19:07um karen saying that i don't trust it
669. 19:09because these nights he's a nice guy and
670. 19:11he's too nice
671. 19:12when is the real facade going to crack
672. 19:15when's the real miles gonna please stand
673. 19:17up
674. 19:17please stand up you know i'm saying when
675. 19:19are you going to stand up because that
676. 19:20real mask is going to have some backpack
677. 19:22that mask will have a bit of sliding
678. 19:24remarks that miles is going to say
679. 19:25listen enough is enough
680. 19:26that miles is the one that i really want
681. 19:28because i know where i stand with him
682. 19:30because he's real
683. 19:31you understand at the moment you're
684. 19:32giving me nice nicely trying to be bare
685. 19:34understanding but the truth of the
686. 19:35matter is just you need to cool
687. 19:37down your fire you need to call down
688. 19:38what you need what is it you need
689. 19:40right like you said sex is something
690. 19:42that you want in a relationship you need
691. 19:44it in relation in terms of
692. 19:45where you're going to do i mean you
693. 19:47couldn't be without it and so
694. 19:48the issue is that karen has i guess i
695. 19:51believe suffered
696. 19:52some level of abuse from a past
697. 19:53boyfriend like maybe he just really was
698. 19:55whack i don't know
699. 19:56but the way that she's reacting about
700. 19:59the fact that i had a baby
701. 20:00it seems like it's more than that it
702. 20:02seems like the baby was the last straw
703. 20:04not the first straw that made you walk
704. 20:05girl you know what i'm saying because of
705. 20:07the way you're reacting
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