KAREN DIDN'T WANT TO KISS MILES I'M SORRY | MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT SEASON 11 EPISODE 8 — Transcript

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1. 0:00got to take the lead she needs that and
2. 0:02she likes that she likes to be the
3. 0:03submissive woman
4. 0:05in the relationship you know like a
5. 0:07little bad puppy you got to be like
6. 0:09listen
7. 0:10this our house hey guys and welcome back
8. 0:13to
9. 0:13little black book you know what time it
10. 0:15is
11. 0:17we're talking to you guys about married
12. 0:18at first sight
13. 0:20aye okay hold on
14. 0:23which one you guys are married at first
15. 0:25sight karen still
16. 0:26don't like my boy miles i really don't
17. 0:28think she's there you understand
18. 0:30um but guys if you're new to channel
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22. 0:35and for those of you who are returning
23. 0:37as well you already know what it is baby
24. 0:38you got the minerals you got the
25. 0:41minerals
26. 0:42all right cool let's get into the video
27. 0:45all right cool so
28. 0:46here's the thing i'm gonna start for
29. 0:48some body language first and then we're
30. 0:50gonna go into actual video so
31. 0:51i want you to pay attention to the scene
32. 0:54okay now i know many people watched it
33. 0:55and saw
34. 0:56karen kiss miles in a little preview
35. 0:59they kissed a little bit
36. 1:00um and then the party came and
37. 1:03they kissed again there but that's where
38. 1:06we're gonna start we're gonna start at
39. 1:07the
40. 1:07the kiss area okay fantastic so while
41. 1:10she was
42. 1:11the the game was truthful there okay and
43. 1:13the cards were saying
44. 1:15what people should be doing okay so as
45. 1:17they got to that point what we saw
46. 1:20was um someone say obviously when the
47. 1:23card says go and sell this lap
48. 1:25i dare you to sit in mom's lap for the
49. 1:27remainder of the game
50. 1:30[Music]
51. 1:33right now she doesn't question she does
52. 1:36not
53. 1:37question the instruction
54. 1:40okay now pay attention to this part when
55. 1:43they say
56. 1:44that it says kiss miles at that point
57. 1:48she questions the card and
58. 1:51we're getting to kiss my house
59. 1:59right and it's a bit of energy when she
60. 2:00says it hold on what's that card really
61. 2:02say look bring the color let me see it
62. 2:03there's a bit of jokiness
63. 2:04but a bit of seriousness in there as
64. 2:05well right let me see it make sure right
65. 2:08and then she kisses him now so when
66. 2:10you're saying when i say when i was when
67. 2:11i'm looking at and i'm going
68. 2:13okay if i ask two people who genuinely
69. 2:15love each other to kiss each other
70. 2:16regardless whether the game or not i am
71. 2:18not going to question it
72. 2:19if i'm the one that likes this girl and
73. 2:20a girl likes me i'm not gonna question
74. 2:22this kiss ralph
75. 2:23you know i said i'm not gonna question
76. 2:25it at all why because at the end of the
77. 2:27day
78. 2:27listen i like you like me we're
79. 2:29attracted to each other
80. 2:30right but the problem here is that i
81. 2:33don't think
82. 2:34karen is sexually attracted to miles
83. 2:37right now
84. 2:38yeah which is making it very hard to do
85. 2:39the kissing
86. 2:41and the touching and the physically
87. 2:43close right
88. 2:44um so in that particular scene there
89. 2:47even then
90. 2:48i wanted to notice something as well
91. 2:49we're going to go a little bit back
92. 2:50again in body language right
93. 2:52um because i know some people commented
94. 2:53on the last video that i did that they
95. 2:54said oh but you know some people take it
96. 2:56slow
97. 2:56i want you to pay attention because it's
98. 2:58not only my thoughts the very people who
99. 3:00are in that show
100. 3:01are going to give you their own thoughts
101. 3:03when it comes to mars and sister by the
102. 3:04way martha's sister is stunning
103. 3:06woof i said wow but um
104. 3:09mom's a sister right um even just before
105. 3:12that kiss
106. 3:13you can watch her body language she goes
107. 3:16uh they say she goes okay and then she
108. 3:17says like something like kiss kiss
109. 3:19whatever whatever
110. 3:20but listen to the energy look at her her
111. 3:23body language where's she looking too
112. 3:26[Music]
113. 3:30right look at look at the energy she's
114. 3:32giving it it's not much energy
115. 3:34it's almost like i don't really want to
116. 3:35do this but i'm going to do kiss kiss
117. 3:37okay
118. 3:38because she looks i think she in her
119. 3:39head is the way she's really thinking
120. 3:41i already can see so it's not quite
121. 3:43right right and why do i say that
122. 3:45because earlier on the conversation
123. 3:48between karen
124. 3:49and miles and sister was very intriguing
125. 3:52all right
126. 3:52now martha's sister starts talking to
127. 3:53karen asking her how she's doing today
128. 3:55says obviously how's it miles on her
129. 3:57and then karen candidly candidly
130. 4:01uh submits information about how she
131. 4:03feels like yes they're getting on well
132. 4:04but she can't wait
133. 4:06for miles to go back to work first of
134. 4:07all i think the tonation of the way she
135. 4:10said i can't wait for him to go back to
136. 4:11work
137. 4:12sounded negative so the sister picked up
138. 4:14on it good
139. 4:15he's really nice he's very nice i'm
140. 4:18excited to see him go back
141. 4:19to like work i want to see who
142. 4:23real smiles very quickly right
143. 4:26but then she then she went on to say as
144. 4:28well extended past like karen
145. 4:29to say oh you know i want to see how
146. 4:32he's like
147. 4:33because i know he's a bit of a giver and
148. 4:35you know i want to see what he's like
149. 4:36when he goes back to work and the sister
150. 4:38goes on to say
151. 4:39like what do you need what do you want
152. 4:41what can i do
153. 4:43that might not go away though no that's
154. 4:46how he is
155. 4:47he will reply i think that's how he is
156. 4:49and i think he's not gonna what you know
157. 4:51he's not gonna change
158. 4:52you know um and karen um you know then
159. 4:55goes on to say about the fact that you
160. 4:56know she feels like
161. 4:58miles is stepping on her toes in terms
162. 5:00of
163. 5:01um um in terms of the giving part of
164. 5:04things let me be very frank with you
165. 5:06all right i can understand the
166. 5:07territorial thing unless you do
167. 5:09he let me do my thing i told him when i
168. 5:11needed help
169. 5:12tell him to give you my number okay and
170. 5:14if you need somebody though
171. 5:17even even you know with my my mrs at the
172. 5:19time um
173. 5:20you know i know that sometime when she
174. 5:22was in the kitchen or whatever and i
175. 5:24come to the kitchen she's like no
176. 5:25i want the kitchen space to myself to do
177. 5:27what i need to do right i get that
178. 5:29right but that's not the giving that
179. 5:31you're talking about
180. 5:32karen that's one that's one episode of
181. 5:34him trying to help
182. 5:35but in general you're talking about his
183. 5:37helpful nature
184. 5:38you're talking about the whole ethos of
185. 5:40a brother
186. 5:41okay you're talking about the whole
187. 5:44system of how this brother operates okay
188. 5:46you're not feeling the fact that he
189. 5:47gives it's just like because i'm a giver
190. 5:50a nurturer too and i'm like miles you
191. 5:52can't smother me because you don't
192. 5:54give me room to like get it for you
193. 5:57and i need that because it leaves no
194. 5:59room for you to give
195. 6:00i'm sorry that's not feminine and
196. 6:02masculine energy
197. 6:03all right in fact masculine energy is to
198. 6:05give i want you to understand this
199. 6:07before someone gets a misconstrued
200. 6:09masculine energy is to give how do we
201. 6:11know this when we look at god
202. 6:13he said he created male and female in
203. 6:15his image so both female and males
204. 6:17are together make up the image of what
205. 6:20god is like
206. 6:21a summation of what god can be like okay
207. 6:24it's not the totality it's what god
208. 6:26can be like right so carrying feminine
209. 6:28and masculine energy all right
210. 6:30combined right so here's the thing when
211. 6:32god is the father he gave his only son
212. 6:35okay the whole point is that the greater
213. 6:38blesses
214. 6:39the lesser all right so masculine energy
215. 6:41is about
216. 6:42giving so if you tell me that listen
217. 6:44it's not very ma
218. 6:45if you tell me that oh you know he's
219. 6:47he's taking up my space in terms of
220. 6:49being a nurturer and a giver right
221. 6:51you've missed it
222. 6:52all right because it's not only
223. 6:53nurturing that women do it's not only a
224. 6:55feminine thing
225. 6:56right masculine males are meant to also
226. 6:58nurture
227. 6:59that's a whole is the nurturing comes
228. 7:00from protection serving
229. 7:02providing and loving okay and the loving
230. 7:06is nurturing do you understand yeah so
231. 7:09yes
232. 7:10um you know we may look at it because
233. 7:13and
234. 7:13when the sister saw that she picked up
235. 7:15on it instantly
236. 7:16talk where i was just like because i'm a
237. 7:18giver a nurturer too
238. 7:20and i'm like my she can't smother me
239. 7:22because you don't give me room
240. 7:24to like get for you and she was like
241. 7:27listen
242. 7:28sit karen you know and you watch her
243. 7:29watch her face at this point
244. 7:31watch her face she's like scrutinizing
245. 7:33karen at this point why is she
246. 7:34scrutinizing counterpoint
247. 7:35because she's trying to figure out hold
248. 7:37on a minute sis like are you trying to
249. 7:38complain about a guy that gives
250. 7:40are you complaining about a black male
251. 7:42that wants to love you
252. 7:43take care of you and provide and and be
253. 7:46a caregiver emotionally
254. 7:47like in her head i can see this the cogs
255. 7:49are spinning and go and the sister said
256. 7:51like are you
257. 7:52mad or are you mad right then the sister
258. 7:55goes on to verbally
259. 7:56begin to talk about how she feels
260. 7:59this is very very important watch the
261. 8:01sister she says
262. 8:02so just you know that's a good one
263. 8:06i wouldn't lie to you i know you're a
264. 8:07stranger and i'm a stranger to you but i
265. 8:09don't know reason a lot i'm telling you
266. 8:11sis let me tell you this one is a good
267. 8:13one
268. 8:15this one is a good one why would the
269. 8:17sister need to say that
270. 8:19she needed to say that because she was
271. 8:21sensing the energy karen was carrying
272. 8:23was negative she was sensing as a sister
273. 8:26as a woman that this woman is carrying
274. 8:28an energy that is going to try and
275. 8:29reject
276. 8:30um a miles right
277. 8:34so she had to interject and say this one
278. 8:37is a good one
279. 8:38which is why i said that i saw the
280. 8:40energy later on when she was saying
281. 8:42oh about the kiss it was down i saw that
282. 8:45she's clocking something's not quite
283. 8:47right
284. 8:49yeah all right cool then we can flip it
285. 8:52on to even but just before that
286. 8:54the friend comes you're gonna give me a
287. 8:55nice tour oh yeah
288. 8:57actually i'm gonna let him give me a
289. 8:58tour no i'm not giving it to him yeah
290. 9:00you gotta give me a tour i need to get
291. 9:01to know you sir
292. 9:03what's her name i can't remember my name
293. 9:04is though i've got my name she's very
294. 9:06cute though you know good looking sister
295. 9:08um my friend came in and it was like to
296. 9:11karen r you know give me a tour and then
297. 9:12she changed my mind
298. 9:13actually not you want let miles give me
299. 9:15a tour mars like what me
300. 9:16uh nah i don't do them things around
301. 9:19here sis
302. 9:20and then she goes now i want to get to
303. 9:21know you more right then they sit
304. 9:23down this is very very important they
305. 9:25sit down and sitting down is very very
306. 9:26important because what it does
307. 9:28is it settles the nerves it brings the
308. 9:30conversation down
309. 9:31and here is the thing that i want you to
310. 9:33pay attention to their friend
311. 9:35was speaking very frankly but she was
312. 9:38being very conscious
313. 9:39what i mean by that their friend
314. 9:41intention listen to when she look what
315. 9:42she how she starts
316. 9:43she's all loud at the beginning and
317. 9:44saying look i want you to come and show
318. 9:45me they sit down and she lowers her
319. 9:48voice
320. 9:51she's like a little rebel yeah it's hard
321. 9:53to dictate what she really likes
322. 9:54to but so help me help me understand how
323. 9:57many other things
324. 9:58i'm trying to stand the whole dynamic
325. 9:59okay she lowers her voice why she
326. 10:01doesn't want character over here what
327. 10:02she's about to say
328. 10:03because she's about to keep it
329. 10:04absolutely real and then she asks a very
330. 10:07poignant question
331. 10:08right she goes hold on miles let me just
332. 10:10ask this question
333. 10:11is karen has she's been a good
334. 10:12communicator because i know she is with
335. 10:14her friends but i don't know you know
336. 10:16she hasn't been in a relationship yeah
337. 10:18is karen is karen telling you what she
338. 10:20wants
339. 10:21uh because you know i know she's good at
340. 10:22communicating um
341. 10:24in a friendship right but is she good at
342. 10:26communicating in a relationship now how
343. 10:28how would a friend ask that
344. 10:31if if karen seems like a good
345. 10:33communicator were amongst friends
346. 10:35why would she not be a good community
347. 10:37communicator in a relationship
348. 10:39unless you have seen evidence of the
349. 10:42fact that when she was in a relationship
350. 10:43her communication skills
351. 10:45weren't that tight
352. 10:48or maybe she really isn't that great of
353. 10:50communicating amongst her friends
354. 10:52and therefore they're almost hyping her
355. 10:54up and
356. 10:55and overcompensating for her right
357. 10:58because a friend literally blatted out
358. 11:00she went on to say is she doing is she
359. 11:02like uh talking to you in professional
360. 11:04karen or normal karen
361. 11:06right um because that's what they
362. 11:08they've obviously experienced that
363. 11:10again right that you know karen can can
364. 11:12be i guess talk in a way that
365. 11:14maybe uh it's not loving or nervous to
366. 11:17say not nurturing or not
367. 11:18as caring as it needs to be a bit like a
368. 11:20boston employee kind of style right
369. 11:22that happens all right cool then she
370. 11:24says something which is so
371. 11:26so key in fact before i get to that
372. 11:28point something interesting
373. 11:30miles has bought flowers right and and
374. 11:33um
375. 11:33he says obviously karen doesn't really
376. 11:35appreciate this kind of thing she's not
377. 11:36a flower kind of person she's not a gift
378. 11:38wow she doesn't like flowers
379. 11:40but i was like you know what we need
380. 11:41something new oh well
381. 11:43she's she's like a little rebel yeah
382. 11:45it's hard to dictate what she really
383. 11:46likes all right too
384. 11:47but it's interesting that the friend was
385. 11:49like oh my god those flowers are so
386. 11:50beautiful
387. 11:51do you see the difference oh my god the
388. 11:53flowers are so beautiful
389. 11:55right so the appreciation here
390. 11:58is missing from my brother you
391. 11:59understand missing all right come back
392. 12:02scoot back a little bit more as as a
393. 12:05talking
394. 12:06okay um as a talking she says obviously
395. 12:09you know what she needs a man that can
396. 12:10lead
397. 12:11all right she's a man that can take
398. 12:13control how
399. 12:14would you recommend like navigating that
400. 12:16i think with her you really just got to
401. 12:17take the lead
402. 12:18she needs that and she likes that she
403. 12:20likes to be the submissive woman
404. 12:22in the relationship you know like a
405. 12:25little bad puppy you gotta be like
406. 12:26listen
407. 12:27hold on a minute how can i take control
408. 12:30when you're taking control
409. 12:32you you're asking me to take the wheel
410. 12:33while you're behind the wheel
411. 12:35how can i do that ladies let me be very
412. 12:38frank of you
413. 12:38stop asking the man to take the wheel
414. 12:40when you won't release the wheel
415. 12:43the car gonna crash you want me to take
416. 12:45leadership
417. 12:46get out the car go around and sit in the
418. 12:49passenger seat
419. 12:50stop telling me to take the lead and you
420. 12:53won't allow me to get the lead things
421. 12:54that is helpful for me i know it's also
422. 12:56a challenge for you it's being able to
423. 12:58like
424. 12:59know with words like how you're feeling
425. 13:03how can she how can how can he lead when
426. 13:06when
427. 13:06when she's dictating the pace by saying
428. 13:09uh uh we
429. 13:10we should move our own pace you know we
430. 13:12shouldn't compare ourselves to armani
431. 13:13and
432. 13:14and woody in terms of our intimacy
433. 13:16levels right
434. 13:17um we will get there when we'll get
435. 13:19there you understand oh i don't really
436. 13:20do this because actually you know what
437. 13:22um i take things slow yeah and i take
438. 13:24things slow because obviously as well
439. 13:26you know um i've been hurt in the past
440. 13:29how can the brother
441. 13:30shift and move you're asking the brother
442. 13:32to move around
443. 13:34and lead you and you're leading the
444. 13:36proceedings
445. 13:38you're asking him for patience you're
446. 13:40asking to sit back and wait
447. 13:42and then when you're ready now you
448. 13:43should come and take over how
449. 13:45because you've been leading the whole
450. 13:46entire time you left from the very
451. 13:48beginning when you knew about the social
452. 13:50media profile
453. 13:51right you led the moment you went to
454. 13:53research the profile and you commented
455. 13:55and come and say he's emotional it's
456. 13:56emotional it's emotional right
457. 13:58you were leaving you led also with the
458. 14:00fact that if i need space how do i tell
459. 14:02you i need to have space
460. 14:03you led with that yeah you elected that
461. 14:06you created a narrative your mom came
462. 14:08along and said listen
463. 14:09she doesn't like pressure if you
464. 14:10pressure her she folds
465. 14:12so what is a brother to do
466. 14:15you're asking this guy to work miracles
467. 14:17ladies let me tell you straight
468. 14:19do not send a mixed signal to a brother
469. 14:21the brother can't understand it bro
470. 14:23give us one give us one signal you want
471. 14:26me to lead
472. 14:26step aside
473. 14:30you want the brother to lead step aside
474. 14:33you understand now i agree also that
475. 14:36mars could be a bit more assertive why
476. 14:37do i say that because
477. 14:38in the last episode he didn't really
478. 14:39define what he means
479. 14:42right and so i understand that the
480. 14:44communication weren't necessarily there
481. 14:46in terms of
482. 14:47communicating what he exactly needs
483. 14:50he did it in this episode right and as
484. 14:52soon as he did it
485. 14:53there was a tiny bit of pushback why did
486. 14:55i say that um and i'm
487. 14:57skipping ahead i'm going to come back to
488. 14:58this point when they were talking
489. 15:00uh the video that i did earlier on guys
490. 15:03when you were talking
491. 15:04he said about i need a bit more
492. 15:05affection i need a bit more uh i need
493. 15:06you know he said you're trying to play
494. 15:07it down by saying look i don't need you
495. 15:09to hype up every single time but it'd be
496. 15:10nice if you told me listen i look good
497. 15:12you don't have to gass me up all the
498. 15:13time i'm not expecting that just
499. 15:15sometimes
500. 15:16yeah but sometimes you know let me know
501. 15:17like hey you look guys yeah
502. 15:19you look good you're not saying it'd be
503. 15:21nice if you told me that right
504. 15:22and she what she says i don't really do
505. 15:24them kind of things
506. 15:26it's not my way to kind of say it like
507. 15:27that blah blah blah blah blah
508. 15:29so the brother told you what it needs
509. 15:31now and you're already trying to duck in
510. 15:33the diving because
511. 15:34yeah not only that there was an
512. 15:36opportunity to practice this
513. 15:38later on all right i'm kind of skipping
514. 15:40it when he came from the room
515. 15:42[Music]
516. 15:46look guys you looking all cute today and
517. 15:47stuff look at you now i'm trying you're
518. 15:49doing good
519. 15:50don't say i never tried and before
520. 15:52people came in as guests
521. 15:54he came and said hold on a minute let me
522. 15:56just talk to you he said hold on a
523. 15:57minute carrie you're looking spicy today
524. 15:59rock
525. 16:00yeah you're looking nice my size oh my
526. 16:03god
527. 16:04hey you are beautiful girl yo sam
528. 16:08what was compliment back none
529. 16:12none do you understand yeah i told you
530. 16:15what i need
531. 16:16you're not fulfilling what i need you
532. 16:17understand all right cool flip back to
533. 16:19the conversation
534. 16:20with a friend okay the friend says
535. 16:22something which is really for me
536. 16:25the wording was off but i i i don't know
537. 16:28if that's because she's a bad
538. 16:28communicator with a word she used
539. 16:30or whether she intentionally used those
540. 16:31words not knowing the implications of
541. 16:33what she was saying
542. 16:35she said listen you need to tell her
543. 16:39what like what it is basically you need
544. 16:40to control the home and what it is yeah
545. 16:42okay you need to treat like a bad puppy
546. 16:46and she likes that she likes to be the
547. 16:48submissive woman
548. 16:49in the relationship you know like a
549. 16:51little bad puppy you gotta be like
550. 16:53listen
551. 16:54this our house what
552. 16:58excuse me a bad puppy what kind of what
553. 17:02kind of relationship have you been in
554. 17:03that you need to be treated like a bad
555. 17:04puppy
556. 17:05what kind of relationship have you been
557. 17:07in that you need to treat
558. 17:08when i hear words like that that for me
559. 17:11triggers
560. 17:11abusive relationships that you've been
561. 17:13in the past and you've dealt with men
562. 17:15who are unemotional unavailable
563. 17:16and will tell you what to do in a
564. 17:18controlling manner you've never dealt
565. 17:20with somebody who can just
566. 17:21issue you love yeah who needs a back we
567. 17:24don't need a bad puppy blood
568. 17:25mandom don't need a bad puppy blood yeah
569. 17:28he don't need a bad puppy bro that's
570. 17:30stress we want peace as we get older we
571. 17:33want peace
572. 17:34not war yeah
573. 17:37all that kind of stuff here out the
574. 17:38window we want peace not war
575. 17:40you understand all right cool so
576. 17:44that was what was happening that
577. 17:45particular scene um
578. 17:47i think also as well uh what was
579. 17:50interesting again
580. 17:51that christina was talking earlier on in
581. 17:53a group scene
582. 17:54and saying obviously that henry is not
583. 17:56very commanding
584. 17:58as she said that karen was like yeah um
585. 18:00you know when i'm christian said i'm
586. 18:01attracted to assertive guys
587. 18:03i am an affectionate person but it's not
588. 18:05in my nature to initiate
589. 18:07that's like attractive to me it's like a
590. 18:09confidence thing
591. 18:10but that was currently yeah me too i'm
592. 18:12attracted to herself guys bear in mind
593. 18:14remember
594. 18:15the few episodes before this all karen's
595. 18:17been saying is
596. 18:18oh my gosh you know um i want to see
597. 18:20leadership from i want to see that
598. 18:21assertiveness from him
599. 18:23but when man's a certain yeah how can i
600. 18:26assert if
601. 18:27i've been told not to put pressure on
602. 18:29you because you shut down
603. 18:31do you from saying like a man can't do
604. 18:33that bro like he'd be a if he
605. 18:35did that
606. 18:36if he decides to be assertive when he
607. 18:38knows that you
608. 18:39yeah have said that uh pressure mission
609. 18:42shutdown or your mom said that sorry
610. 18:44how what's a brother to do you know what
611. 18:46i'm saying so at the end of the day i
612. 18:48i hear the karen in the mild situation i
613. 18:50get the fact that he has to be more
614. 18:52she wants to be more muslim i get it
615. 18:56but the truth of the matter is the
616. 18:58conditions have not been conducive
617. 18:59enough to let a brother
618. 19:01exist and thrive in so i don't know guys
619. 19:04let me know your thoughts what do you
620. 19:06guys think
621. 19:07you understand let us know your thoughts
622. 19:09down below comment on that
623. 19:10make sure you do all right appreciate
624. 19:12you guys stay locked loaded
625. 19:14you've got the minerals baby you got the
626. 19:15minerals you got the minerals