Kafeye gitmeyi neden bıraktım ? — Transcript
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- 0:06You guys have really driven yourselves
- 0:09crazy over a cup of coffee. I haven't
- 0:25gone to a cafe to drink coffee for a
- 0:27long time. The issue has nothing to do
- 0:30with money or whether outside food is
- 0:32healthy or not. It is entirely a social
- 0:36issue. Since I first started
- 0:39architecture school, what I have
- 0:41learned is how a space should be
- 0:43constructed for people or other living
- 0:46beings. When we design a space, we even
- 0:50consider how people will move there,
- 0:52what they will feel, and what they will
- 0:54do when they wake up in the morning.
- 0:57Involuntarily, as a professional
- 0:59deformation, I can perceive why and how
- 1:02external spaces are constructed, and
- 1:05after a point, I don't enjoy it at all.
- 1:08Even if the coffee I drink outside is
- 1:11the best in the world, it just feels
- 1:13like any other coffee to me. Spinoza
- 1:16says that even if a person is conscious
- 1:18of what they do, they think they are
- 1:20free because they do not know the
- 1:22reasons behind their actions. This is
- 1:25exactly the situation we are in. Have
- 1:27you ever asked yourself why you go out
- 1:29and drink coffee? Or why you go out and
- 1:32eat out every single day? Fifteen years
- 1:35ago, was drinking coffee or eating out
- 1:38every day a part of your life? This has
- 1:42nothing to do with the economy,
- 1:44economic freedom, or people with lower
- 1:47incomes spending all their money on
- 1:49daily pleasures. It has become a
- 1:52completely psychological and
- 1:53sociological situation. The concept of
- 1:56social decay, which has been quite
- 1:58popular lately, is triggered by
- 2:00architecture. When we assign a concept
- 2:03to a space, the people who go to that
- 2:06space turn into the character of that
- 2:08concept. If a space is too minimalist,
- 2:11the people who go there are usually
- 2:14dressed in very simple, chic, white,
- 2:17beige, basic, or nude tones. If you go
- 2:21to a rock cafe, you can see more fun
- 2:23and cheerful people. We can give an
- 2:26example like this. For instance, it’s
- 2:28like hippie style becoming fashionable
- 2:31again, but hippies paying five times
- 2:33the price of regular pants for a pair.
- 2:36I mean, hippies in the 70s wore clothes
- 2:39they found in the trash or elsewhere
- 2:41because they were truly broke. Because
- 2:44they didn't care about material things
- 2:46at all, it didn't bother them to wear
- 2:48someone else's clothes. But when we
- 2:51look at the hippies in the 2000s, there
- 2:54were people paying 4-5,000 in 2000s
- 2:57currency for baggy pants. Just like
- 3:01people who constantly drink coffee and
- 3:03eat out right now. So what does it
- 3:05matter to us? You could say, "If you
- 3:07don't eat out, then don't; if you don't
- 3:09drink, don't," and you would be right.
- 3:12In fact, after this statement, Spinoza
- 3:14says that when you think this
- 3:16unconscious act, done without knowing
- 3:18the reason, is freedom, you shouldn't
- 3:20feel guilty about it. That which is
- 3:23unconscious is innocent. The point here
- 3:26, and what I want to talk about, is
- 3:27being fully conscious of this. Humans
- 3:31have five senses. We actually use these
- 3:34five senses together wherever we go,
- 3:37but it is as if architecture and
- 3:39designing spaces are only talked about
- 3:42in terms of sight. Actually, the sense
- 3:45of sight is the last concept to be
- 3:47addressed in a space. Before seeing,
- 3:50there is feeling, touching, hearing,
- 3:53and smelling. These are the things that
- 3:56truly guide people in that space. The
- 3:59final thing that reveals the space is
- 4:01seeing. The sense of sight. But we are
- 4:04taught and habituated to act as if the
- 4:08only sense that matters is sight. And
- 4:11when you do something too much, it
- 4:13becomes dull; you become blinded.
- 4:17Speaking of social decay, people, or
- 4:19rather modern man's daily life, aren't
- 4:21even aware of what they are doing or
- 4:24how. You don't know why you go to a
- 4:27cafe. You don't know why you eat a meal
- 4:29. You don't even know why you share a
- 4:31photo of your coffee at the coffee shop
- 4:33. Because this was imposed on you as a
- 4:36rule, and you fell for it. You got lost
- 4:38, you got trapped. You lost your own
- 4:41character. There are even Google
- 4:43searches for outfits to wear when going
- 4:45to a coffee shop. I mean, why am I
- 4:47putting together an outfit to go to a
- 4:49coffee shop? Have you ever asked
- 4:50yourself this? The point of a coffee
- 4:53shop is to provide you with a comfort
- 4:56zone and to manage the time spent there
- 4:58. Let me give you another example. When
- 5:01you go to a fast-food restaurant, you
- 5:03sit for as short a time as possible,
- 5:06eat your meal, and leave. Because the
- 5:08space is already designed for that. The
- 5:11chairs in the place are uncomfortable;
- 5:13they aren't meant for long-term seating
- 5:15. A fast-food restaurant owner wants to
- 5:17make money through high volume. People
- 5:20should come, eat, drink, and leave. It
- 5:23is not a place to sit and chat anyway.
- 5:27But when you look at a coffee shop, dim
- 5:29lights, home-style armchairs, and
- 5:31chairs are created—areas where you
- 5:33won't get up for 5 hours once you sit
- 5:36down. Because it is ensured that this
- 5:39turns into a constant cycle. Get your
- 5:41coffee, sit, chat, look at your phone,
- 5:44get another coffee. Are you bored? Get
- 5:47tea, get lemonade, get a sandwich. Pay
- 5:49500 for a tiny sandwich. Keep sitting.
- 5:53Why? Because you are at a coffee shop.
- 5:55Look, I'm underlining this again here.
- 5:57It's never about the money. It's about
- 6:00selling you time. At a fast-food
- 6:03restaurant, you fill your stomach, but
- 6:05when you go to a coffee shop, you fill
- 6:07your time. There is a huge difference
- 6:09between the two. Or let me give you an
- 6:11example from somewhere else. When you
- 6:13go to a nightclub or a bar, the chairs
- 6:16there are also uncomfortable. There are
- 6:19high stools and so on. Only the VIP
- 6:22areas are comfortable. The reason that
- 6:25area is comfortable is so you feel like
- 6:27the owner of the place and spend all
- 6:30the money you have as if there is no
- 6:32tomorrow. The reason other areas are
- 6:34uncomfortable is that you will be the
- 6:36commoners who liven up the place.
- 6:39Instead of sitting at a bar stool for 5
- 6:41hours, you will stand up and dance. In
- 6:44fact, you turn from someone using the
- 6:47space into someone serving the space
- 6:50and energizing it. And you do it with
- 6:53your own money, just to listen to some
- 6:55music or have fun; you become just
- 6:57another object livening up the place.
- 7:01If a place consisted only of what we
- 7:04see, how would the visually impaired
- 7:06live in a place, in a house? Have you
- 7:09ever thought about this? If four of our
- 7:12five senses were really irrelevant and
- 7:14only our visual perception was
- 7:15important to experience a place, could
- 7:18the visually impaired live comfortably
- 7:20in a house? It seems like I've been
- 7:22constantly giving examples through
- 7:24cafes. It's like I've become obsessed
- 7:26with coffee. But I am actually someone
- 7:27who loves drinking coffee very much. I
- 7:29make it at home and drink it. Drinking
- 7:32it outside seems very meaningless to me
- 7:34. It might seem meaningful or enjoyable
- 7:36to others. The reason I am using cafes
- 7:39as a specific example is that they
- 7:41completely shape the private life,
- 7:44character, and appearance of the modern
- 7:46individual in their daily life, as well
- 7:49as the character and appearance of
- 7:51society itself. You might say, "You're
- 7:55exaggerating, you're getting too
- 7:57philosophical about a coffee shop," but
- 7:59there is a major problem lying here.
- 8:02These things happen very quietly and
- 8:04very innocently. You find yourself
- 8:07wanting to constantly spend time in an
- 8:09incredibly comfortable atmosphere. But
- 8:12I wonder about this. Can't you provide
- 8:14this comfort in your own home? For
- 8:17instance, we do. I mean, for the most
- 8:20part, we even provide more than that.
- 8:23Then why do we spend most of our time
- 8:25in cafes? Because this is perception
- 8:27management, this is behavioral
- 8:29engineering. These are things that what
- 8:32we call architecture designs,
- 8:34constructs, and makes you do
- 8:35unconsciously, eventually turning into
- 8:37the character of society. I can give an
- 8:40example from here as well. For instance
- 8:43, how did the older houses, with their
- 8:46very narrow streets, windows close to
- 8:48each other, and bay windows, affect
- 8:51society? Have you ever thought about
- 8:53this? There were neighbors and
- 8:56neighborhood friends who would talk to
- 8:58each other from bay windows and were
- 9:00forced to interact with one another
- 9:01unintentionally. Because the space was
- 9:04constructed that way. The city itself,
- 9:07the center of the city, was built with
- 9:09neighborliness and a traditional
- 9:11mindset. Since you were so close to
- 9:14your neighbor, you couldn't shout, yell
- 9:16, or fight in your house. You couldn't
- 9:18do things in your home that were
- 9:20frowned upon or not socially accepted.
- 9:23Because the space was constructed that
- 9:25way. Now, go ahead and do whatever you
- 9:28want in places with housing complexes
- 9:30and blocks of 200 or 300 buildings. Who
- 9:33cares, anyway? I mean, people from a
- 9:35neighborhood in that era are already
- 9:37crammed into an apartment building and
- 9:39no one even sees anyone else's face.
- 9:41The houses I mentioned are the most
- 9:43innocent part of it. When we come to
- 9:46commercial businesses, since money is
- 9:49indirectly involved, people are never
- 9:51left to their own devices here. People
- 9:54have to be managed there. Nothing can
- 9:57be left to chance. If it is left to
- 10:00chance, that business cannot be
- 10:02operated in the long run. If you cannot
- 10:04make the customer feel how long they
- 10:06should sit or how they should behave as
- 10:09an operator in a space, that space will
- 10:11not function in the long term and will
- 10:14be closed. Architects actually offer
- 10:16this exactly to their clients. So, what
- 10:18we call analysis is an analysis that is
- 10:21not just material, but also spiritual.
- 10:24To put it simply, you are given very
- 10:27limited data. When you sit outside, you
- 10:30are told you will do this, you will eat
- 10:32and drink this in this space, and this
- 10:34is marketed to you as comfort. A person
- 10:37no longer just exists within a space.
- 10:41They are also unconsciously taught how
- 10:43to behave there. And here, the issue
- 10:46connects to this. Do I exist in this
- 10:48space? Did I choose this place myself?
- 10:51Or is the space dragging me into a
- 10:53behavior that isn't me? You need to ask
- 10:55yourself these questions. Even if you
- 10:58feel happy when you go to a place, even
- 11:01that happiness is actually imposed upon
- 11:04you. Buying that coffee or eating that
- 11:07meal is reflected to you as if it were
- 11:09an obligation. Now, do you think all of
- 11:12this has to do with the price of coffee
- 11:15, or is it related to the change in
- 11:17individual character before the
- 11:19character of society?
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