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Jim Rohn - The Challenge to Succeed Seminar - Anaheim, California 1981 — Transcript

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  1. 0:01here's the big challenge of life you can
  2. 0:03have more than you've got because you
  3. 0:06can become more than you
  4. 0:09are that's the challenge and of course
  5. 0:12the other side of the coin reads unless
  6. 0:14you change how you are you'll always
  7. 0:16have what you
  8. 0:18got I have found in my experience that
  9. 0:21income does not far exceed personal
  10. 0:24development now sometimes income takes a
  11. 0:27lucky jump but sure enough unless you
  12. 0:29grow out where it is it'll usually come
  13. 0:31back where you are life has strange
  14. 0:34ways if somebody hands you a million
  15. 0:36dollars best you become a millionaire
  16. 0:38quickly so you get to keep the
  17. 0:41money otherwise sure enough it'll
  18. 0:45disappear somebody once said if you took
  19. 0:48all the money in the world divided it up
  20. 0:51equally among everybody it would soon
  21. 0:53all be back in the same
  22. 0:56Pockets incredible success is something
  23. 0:59you trct not something you pursue
  24. 1:02success is looking for a good place to
  25. 1:05stay so instead of going after it you
  26. 1:07work on yourself personal
  27. 1:10development see the major question to
  28. 1:12ask on the job is not what are you
  29. 1:14getting the major question to ask on the
  30. 1:17job is what are you
  31. 1:20becoming see the big question is not
  32. 1:23what am I getting paid here the big
  33. 1:25question is what am I becoming here
  34. 1:30because true happiness is not contained
  35. 1:32in what you get happiness is contained
  36. 1:35in what you
  37. 1:37become so that's our major subject for
  38. 1:39tonight personal development of all the
  39. 1:42assignments Mr scha gave me at age 25
  40. 1:44this was probably the most difficult in
  41. 1:46fact I'm still working on this one I
  42. 1:47think it's an unending challenge to see
  43. 1:49what you can become the next subject is
  44. 1:51called basic
  45. 1:55laws and it's good to study the basics
  46. 2:00and I call these Basics primarily
  47. 2:01because they come from the Bible now I'm
  48. 2:04not a theologian or a minister and
  49. 2:06that'll be apparent but Mr schof taught
  50. 2:09me that the Bible was a good textbook
  51. 2:12for ideas and stories and success
  52. 2:14equations how to live the better life I
  53. 2:16found out that was
  54. 2:17true he also taught me that the Bible is
  55. 2:20as practical as it is spiritual and I
  56. 2:22found out that's
  57. 2:23true if you look at your bank account
  58. 2:26and your income and you're not happy
  59. 2:28there's several places in the Bible to
  60. 2:29check to see what the heck's wrong so
  61. 2:32you can make the changes and we're going
  62. 2:34to cover some of those tonight called
  63. 2:36Basics okay the next subject is my
  64. 2:39favorite setting
  65. 2:43goals Mr scha taught me how to set goals
  66. 2:46what a favor that
  67. 2:48was one morning at breakfast shortly
  68. 2:50after I met
  69. 2:51him he said Jim let me see your current
  70. 2:54list of goals and let's go over them and
  71. 2:55talk about them he said maybe that's the
  72. 2:57best way I can help you get a better
  73. 2:58Direction started
  74. 3:00and I
  75. 3:02said I don't have a
  76. 3:04list he said well is it out in the car
  77. 3:07or home somewhere I said um no
  78. 3:11sir I don't have a list
  79. 3:15anywhere he said well young man that's
  80. 3:17where we got to start he said I can tell
  81. 3:20you right now if you don't have a list
  82. 3:21of your goals with you he said I can
  83. 3:23guess your bank balance within a few
  84. 3:27hundred which he did
  85. 3:30and that got my attention I said you
  86. 3:33mean my bank balance would change if I
  87. 3:34had a list of goals he said
  88. 3:39drastically that day I became a willing
  89. 3:41student how to set goals and sure enough
  90. 3:44learning how to set goals changed my
  91. 3:45life and I often wondered why no one had
  92. 3:47ever taught me how to set goals up until
  93. 3:49age
  94. 3:5125 I went to high school but if they
  95. 3:54offered it I missed it I went to college
  96. 3:57for a year never heard it
  97. 4:01I work for
  98. 4:03Sears really and to my knowledge Sears
  99. 4:07never taught it right how to set goals
  100. 4:10so here I am age 25 married my family
  101. 4:12starting I've been to college I'm
  102. 4:14working and I still don't know how to
  103. 4:16set goals but fortunately when I was 25
  104. 4:19I met the man who taught me how and it
  105. 4:21revolutionized my whole life
  106. 4:23economically socially personally it's
  107. 4:25incredible so I want to share with you
  108. 4:27tonight what Mr SCH shared with me how
  109. 4:28to set goals it can be a
  110. 4:31lifechanger okay the next subject is the
  111. 4:34negative part of the
  112. 4:36seminar life is part negative so we got
  113. 4:38to talk about the negative and this
  114. 4:40subject is called
  115. 4:43diseases of
  116. 4:48attitude diseases of
  117. 4:51attitude there's a lot of things that
  118. 4:53can wreck your chances to do well we
  119. 4:55live in a rather dangerous world so you
  120. 4:57got to be not only wise you got to be
  121. 4:59care
  122. 5:01careful now attitude diseases are just
  123. 5:03as bad as physical diseases right high
  124. 5:05blood pressure heart trouble I mean a
  125. 5:07lot of things lace your chances to do
  126. 5:08well so you've got to be careful and
  127. 5:11attitude diseases are deadly I mean
  128. 5:13they'll destroy all the good things you
  129. 5:15start okay so we'll go through those
  130. 5:17attitude diseases how to spot them how
  131. 5:19to look for them what they are and and
  132. 5:21the Cure and I'm a pro on these because
  133. 5:23I've had them all so I can give you
  134. 5:25excellent advice on these now the last
  135. 5:27subject we're going to consider tonight
  136. 5:29is called
  137. 5:30the day that turns your life
  138. 5:33around the day that turns your life
  139. 5:37around and under this subject we're
  140. 5:39going to talk about the emotions that
  141. 5:40can change your life human beings are
  142. 5:42emotional
  143. 5:43creatures and emotions are powerful for
  144. 5:46life
  145. 5:47change now of course emotions are so
  146. 5:49powerful they can go either way on you
  147. 5:52emotions can either build or
  148. 5:54destroy so you really have to employ
  149. 5:56emotions properly we call civilization
  150. 5:59the intelligent management of human
  151. 6:02emotions if you can intelligently apply
  152. 6:04your emotions in the right direction no
  153. 6:06telling what can happen could turn your
  154. 6:07life around one day would be sufficient
  155. 6:10so we'll talk about those okay now
  156. 6:12that's a lot to cover in one
  157. 6:15evening but uh we'll keep at it here and
  158. 6:18see if we can't get it all
  159. 6:21done I'd like to have you now jot down
  160. 6:23the theme of the
  161. 6:24seminar every seminar should have a
  162. 6:26theme I guess we've got one it's on some
  163. 6:29of our literature if you happen to
  164. 6:30notice it but if you didn't for your
  165. 6:32notes here it is the theme of the
  166. 6:34seminar goes like this the major
  167. 6:39key
  168. 6:41to your better
  169. 6:45[Music]
  170. 6:47future is
  171. 6:51you that's the theme of our seminar
  172. 6:53tonight the major key to your better
  173. 6:55future is you and I'd like to have you
  174. 6:56underline two words just to give it some
  175. 6:58added punch underline the word major and
  176. 7:00the word
  177. 7:02you so that it reads the major key to
  178. 7:06your better future is
  179. 7:09you now my first suggestion is transfer
  180. 7:13this to a card or something where you
  181. 7:15can put it up where you can see it every
  182. 7:17day preferably put it up where you can
  183. 7:19see it at the beginning of the day
  184. 7:21before you go off to put the day
  185. 7:22together this is a good phrase just to
  186. 7:24glance out to keep in mind as you're
  187. 7:25putting the day together it's called The
  188. 7:28Silent seminar
  189. 7:30if you'll just let this talk to you
  190. 7:31during the day I found it to be
  191. 7:33tremendously helpful the major key to
  192. 7:35your better future is
  193. 7:39you for a big share of my life now I
  194. 7:41didn't have uh this one quite figured
  195. 7:44out among a lot of things I didn't have
  196. 7:45quite figured
  197. 7:46out many things used to puzzle me back
  198. 7:49in those early days I used to wonder why
  199. 7:51two people could work for the same
  200. 7:53company one make twice as much
  201. 7:56money now see that used to puzzle me and
  202. 7:59maybe were the same age graduated from
  203. 8:01the same school live in the same
  204. 8:03Community work for the same company with
  205. 8:05the same products and the same Services
  206. 8:07they've got the same traffic the same
  207. 8:10problems and one makes a th000 a month
  208. 8:12the other one makes 2,000 a
  209. 8:15month now that was my puzzling question
  210. 8:18why would this long list be the same and
  211. 8:19the money twice as
  212. 8:21much I asked what's the difference
  213. 8:23between a th000 a month and 2,000 a
  214. 8:25month and I don't mean a th a month
  215. 8:28right I could figure that out
  216. 8:30but what what makes the difference why
  217. 8:31would one person do twice as well three
  218. 8:33times as well speaking economically now
  219. 8:37I know there's more than one way to do
  220. 8:38well I understand that but in this
  221. 8:40little narrow area called compensation
  222. 8:43what's the
  223. 8:45difference well back then with my faulty
  224. 8:48thinking I'm trying to reason it
  225. 8:50out I thought well maybe time makes some
  226. 8:52of the difference right some people do
  227. 8:53better because they have more
  228. 8:56time I used to say Harold ought to be
  229. 8:59able ble to do well he's got a lot of
  230. 9:01time if I had all of Harold's time I
  231. 9:04could do
  232. 9:05well now that's got to be dumb right
  233. 9:09number one you can't get somebody else's
  234. 9:12time a guy says to me one time he says
  235. 9:15you know if I had some extra time I
  236. 9:16could make some extra money I said then
  237. 9:18forget it there isn't any extra
  238. 9:21time hey when the clock strikes 12
  239. 9:23midnight that about wraps it up right I
  240. 9:25mean you can look around the gongs there
  241. 9:26for a little more but it's over
  242. 9:29you say to the guy what are you doing he
  243. 9:30say I'm looking for extra time see
  244. 9:32they'll come and take you away right
  245. 9:34there isn't any more
  246. 9:38time now if you can't get more time
  247. 9:41which you can't what could you get more
  248. 9:43of that would make a difference in
  249. 9:45economic results and here's the key word
  250. 9:48make it a part of your notes we're going
  251. 9:49to consider it tonight the word is
  252. 9:54value and I have a little phrase for
  253. 9:56your notes value makes the difference in
  254. 9:59in
  255. 10:01results value makes the
  256. 10:05difference you can't get more time but
  257. 10:07you can create more
  258. 10:11value now here's the first lesson of
  259. 10:14Economics everybody should learn it from
  260. 10:15the time they're old enough to
  261. 10:16understand what a dollar means how to
  262. 10:18earn one how to get one how to keep one
  263. 10:20what to do with it first lesson of
  264. 10:22Economics we primarily get paid for
  265. 10:26Value that's lesson one
  266. 10:29bringing value to the marketplace that's
  267. 10:31how you get paid you don't get paid for
  268. 10:35the time I know it takes time to bring
  269. 10:37value to the marketplace but you get
  270. 10:39paid for the value not the
  271. 10:43time now since that's true here's one of
  272. 10:45the key questions of the evening is it
  273. 10:48possible to become twice as
  274. 10:51valuable at the market place and make
  275. 10:54twice as much money in the same time
  276. 11:00could you become three times as
  277. 11:03valuable make three times as much money
  278. 11:06in the same time is that
  279. 11:08possible the answer is yes
  280. 11:12if and it's always if right life is
  281. 11:16known as the big
  282. 11:18if Harry Truman once said life is iffy
  283. 11:22how
  284. 11:23true and here's the big if we're going
  285. 11:25to consider it tonight it's possible to
  286. 11:27do much better at the marketplace if if
  287. 11:29you go to work primarily on
  288. 11:34yourself and that's the theme of our
  289. 11:36seminar tonight learning to work
  290. 11:39primarily on
  291. 11:45yourself people have asked me for the
  292. 11:47last 24 years how do you develop an
  293. 11:50above average income and the answer is
  294. 11:52become an above average
  295. 11:57person develop an above aage aage
  296. 11:59handshake some people want to be
  297. 12:01successful they don't even work on their
  298. 12:03handshake as easy as that would be to
  299. 12:05start on they let it slide they don't
  300. 12:08understand develop and above average
  301. 12:10smile develop and above average
  302. 12:13excitement develop and above aage
  303. 12:15interest in other people develop an
  304. 12:17above average intensity to win see
  305. 12:19that'll change
  306. 12:22everything probably one of the most
  307. 12:24frustrating experiences in life is
  308. 12:26looking for an above aage job with above
  309. 12:28aage pay without becoming an above
  310. 12:30average
  311. 12:31person it's called
  312. 12:39frustration and Mr scha gave me probably
  313. 12:42the greatest clue he gave me when I
  314. 12:43first met him he said Jim if you want to
  315. 12:45be wealthy and happy the rest of your
  316. 12:47life just learn this lesson
  317. 12:53well he said learn to work harder on
  318. 12:58yourself than than you do on your
  319. 13:07job then Mr scha gave me
  320. 13:10probably one of the most important Clues
  321. 13:14among so many things he taught me but
  322. 13:15this was in those early days Mr scha was
  323. 13:19very kind but he was also very
  324. 13:22abrupt and he had these interesting
  325. 13:24questions to ask I'm giving him a little
  326. 13:27rund rundown one day on how things
  327. 13:28hadn't worked out out for me he said Mr
  328. 13:30O I've got the answer for you if you
  329. 13:32will listen
  330. 13:34carefully and listen carefully I did
  331. 13:36that day and for the next 5 years if
  332. 13:39somebody's wealthy and happy you got to
  333. 13:44listen he said Jim I've only known you a
  334. 13:46short time but he said it's already my
  335. 13:49honest opinion that for things to change
  336. 13:51for you you got to
  337. 13:55change that wasn't quite the answer I
  338. 13:57was looking for
  339. 13:59but that's the answer he gave me and I
  340. 14:01pass it along to you on this warm summer
  341. 14:04evening in Anaheim California
  342. 14:071981 for things to change for
  343. 14:11you you've got to
  344. 14:15change otherwise it isn't going to
  345. 14:19change before I met Mr shelf I used to
  346. 14:22say I sure hope things will
  347. 14:26change right that seemed to be my only
  348. 14:29hope if it isn't going to change I'm in
  349. 14:31serious trouble and then I discovered it
  350. 14:33isn't going to change so I'm in serious
  351. 14:37[Music]
  352. 14:42trouble see I can tell you what the 80s
  353. 14:45are going to be like you have dropped in
  354. 14:46to the right
  355. 14:49place I did a seminar one time for
  356. 14:52Standard Oil Executives in management in
  357. 14:56Honolulu and uh we're having a
  358. 14:58conference one day on this big
  359. 14:59conference table and one of them said to
  360. 15:01me Mr ran you know some fairly important
  361. 15:03people halfway around the world what do
  362. 15:04you think the 80s are going to be like I
  363. 15:07said gentlemen I do know the right
  364. 15:09people I can tell you so they all listen
  365. 15:13very carefully and I said gentlemen
  366. 15:15based on my wide experience I can really
  367. 15:18honestly say to you in my opinion in the
  368. 15:2180s it's going to be about like it's
  369. 15:24always
  370. 15:27been aren't you glad you came that's
  371. 15:29inside I don't pass that around just
  372. 15:32everywhere now of course I said that to
  373. 15:34make a point but I also said it because
  374. 15:36it's accurate it's going to be about
  375. 15:38like it's always been it isn't going to
  376. 15:42change the tide comes in and then
  377. 15:45what it goes out for 6 and a half
  378. 15:48thousand years that we know of recorded
  379. 15:50history and probably long before that so
  380. 15:52it is not going to
  381. 15:54change it gets light and then
  382. 15:57what it turn turns dark 6 and 1 half
  383. 16:00thousand years see it's not likely to
  384. 16:03change and we're not to be startled by
  385. 16:07that and if the sun goes down the guy
  386. 16:09says what's happened what's happened it
  387. 16:10means he hasn't been here long I guess
  388. 16:12right it always goes down about this
  389. 16:16time the guy says well I don't like that
  390. 16:18Arrangement well you got to talk to
  391. 16:19somebody besides me right it gets light
  392. 16:22then it turns
  393. 16:23dark in rotation the next season after
  394. 16:26fall is
  395. 16:27what winter
  396. 16:29pray tell how often does winter follow
  397. 16:33fall every year regularly for the last 6
  398. 16:35and half thousand that we know of see it
  399. 16:36is not going to
  400. 16:38change now some Winters are long and
  401. 16:40some are short and some are hard and
  402. 16:42some are easy but they always come right
  403. 16:44after Falls it isn't going to
  404. 16:49change sometimes you can figure it out
  405. 16:52sometimes there's no way to figure it
  406. 16:54out sometimes it goes well sometimes it
  407. 16:56gets in a knot
  408. 16:59sometimes it sails along sometimes it
  409. 17:00gets in Reverse see that's not going to
  410. 17:02change the last 6,000 years reads like
  411. 17:05this opportunity mixed with difficulty
  412. 17:08that's how it reads it isn't going to
  413. 17:11change the man says well if it isn't
  414. 17:13going to change how will my life ever
  415. 17:15change answer when you
  416. 17:22change and whether I'm talking to high
  417. 17:24school kids or business Executives my
  418. 17:26message is always the same and it goes
  419. 17:28like this
  420. 17:29the only way it getss better for you is
  421. 17:32when you get
  422. 17:41better let me give you the four major
  423. 17:43lessons in life to learn here's four
  424. 17:47majors it's good to study the
  425. 17:52majors in our weekend seminar we teach
  426. 17:54some people don't do well because they
  427. 17:55major and minor things
  428. 17:59you've got to be on the lookout at the
  429. 18:01end of every week end of every month you
  430. 18:02got to check make sure you're not
  431. 18:03spending major time on minor things we
  432. 18:05go through that whole series majors and
  433. 18:10minors now let me give you two phrases
  434. 18:13before we get to the four majors this
  435. 18:14will set it up and you'll see where I'm
  436. 18:15going two key phrases for your notes
  437. 18:18here's the first
  438. 18:20one life and business is like the
  439. 18:24changing
  440. 18:26seasons that's the first phrase life and
  441. 18:29business is like the changing
  442. 18:34seasons one of the best ways to describe
  443. 18:37life it's like the
  444. 18:40seasons Frank Sinatra sings Life is Like
  445. 18:42The
  446. 18:44Seasons now here's the second phrase
  447. 18:47very important you cannot change the
  448. 18:50seasons but you can change
  449. 18:55yourself you can't change the season
  450. 18:59but you can change
  451. 19:03yourself and see that's how life gets
  452. 19:05better for you not by
  453. 19:08chance but by
  454. 19:11[Music]
  455. 19:13change now here's the four major lessons
  456. 19:15in life to
  457. 19:17learn I've got my first book finished
  458. 19:19came out a couple of weeks ago this is
  459. 19:21in it the four major lessons in life to
  460. 19:23learn here they are number one learn how
  461. 19:26to handle the
  462. 19:27winters that's lesson one they come
  463. 19:31right after
  464. 19:32Falls with
  465. 19:35regularity some are long and some are
  466. 19:37short and some are hard and some are
  467. 19:39easy but they keep
  468. 19:42coming you must learn to handle the
  469. 19:44knights they come right after days you
  470. 19:46must learn to handle difficulty it comes
  471. 19:48right after
  472. 19:49opportunity you must learn to handle
  473. 19:51recessions they always follow
  474. 19:53progressions for the last
  475. 19:566,000 see it isn't going to change the
  476. 19:58lesson you must learn is how to handle
  477. 20:01it and there's all kinds of winters
  478. 20:03right the winter when you can't figure
  479. 20:06it out the winter when it all goes smash
  480. 20:09the winter when it turns belly up the
  481. 20:12winter when it won't work when you've
  482. 20:14run out of money and you've got a broken
  483. 20:16heart see those are winter
  484. 20:19times there's all kinds economic Winters
  485. 20:23social Winters personal Winters when
  486. 20:27your heart is smashed in a thousand
  487. 20:29pieces and the nights are unusually long
  488. 20:32your prayers seem to go no higher than
  489. 20:34your head it's winter
  490. 20:37time Barbara strien
  491. 20:40sings it used to be so natural to talk
  492. 20:42about forever but used to be don't count
  493. 20:45anymore they just lay on the floor till
  494. 20:49we sweep them
  495. 20:50away you don't sing me love
  496. 20:53SS and you don't say you need me and you
  497. 20:57don't bring me
  498. 20:59flowers
  499. 21:02anymore a song of
  500. 21:04winter but see the disappointments Come
  501. 21:07Those are normal that's part of life but
  502. 21:10the question is how do you handle it how
  503. 21:13do you handle the coming Winters and the
  504. 21:15disappointments and the downtimes well
  505. 21:18you can't get rid of January by tearing
  506. 21:20it off the
  507. 21:23calendar but here's what you can do you
  508. 21:26can get stronger you can get wiser and
  509. 21:29you can get
  510. 21:32better the winters won't change but you
  511. 21:35can and that's how life changes for
  512. 21:38you see before I understood when it was
  513. 21:40Winter I used to wish it was summer I
  514. 21:43didn't
  515. 21:45understand when it was hard I used to
  516. 21:47wish it was easy I didn't know and then
  517. 21:50Mr scha gave me a part of his very
  518. 21:51unique philosophy when he said don't
  519. 21:54wish it was easier wish you were better
  520. 22:00see that triggered my whole life
  521. 22:03change don't wish for Less Problems wish
  522. 22:07for more
  523. 22:08skills don't wish for Less challenge
  524. 22:12wish for more
  525. 22:14[Music]
  526. 22:15wisdom that's the
  527. 22:18key so that's lesson one learn how to
  528. 22:20handle the winters here's lesson two
  529. 22:24learn how to take advantage of the
  530. 22:27spring that's the second one spring is
  531. 22:30called
  532. 22:32opportunity and spring follows winter
  533. 22:35what a great place for it if you were
  534. 22:36going to put it somewhere that'd be the
  535. 22:37place to put it right after
  536. 22:40winter and pray tell how often does
  537. 22:42spring follow
  538. 22:44winter every year with regularity
  539. 22:476,000 you can almost count on
  540. 22:51it see opportunity always comes days
  541. 22:55follow nights isn't that terrific
  542. 22:58opportunity follows difficulty but
  543. 23:01here's what you must learn to do
  544. 23:02underline these two words in that key
  545. 23:04phrase take advantage underline those
  546. 23:07two you must learn to take advantage of
  547. 23:10the
  548. 23:11spring see just because spring rolls
  549. 23:13around there's no sign you're going to
  550. 23:14look good come fall you got to do
  551. 23:17something with
  552. 23:20it in fact you have to get good at one
  553. 23:23of two things in life planting in the
  554. 23:25spring or begging in the
  555. 23:27fall or or get somebody to do it for you
  556. 23:29see those are about the only
  557. 23:32Alternatives now here's what else you
  558. 23:34must do take advantage of the Springs
  559. 23:36quickly because there's only a few just
  560. 23:38a handful of Springs have been handed to
  561. 23:40each of us they don't come forever life
  562. 23:43is fairly brief so you got to read every
  563. 23:45book you can get your hands on on what
  564. 23:46to do with your Springs while they're
  565. 23:48here and take advantage they soon run
  566. 23:52out the Beatles wrote life is so short
  567. 23:59and for John lenen it was extra short
  568. 24:03but life is brief Elton John sings She
  569. 24:06lived her life like a Candle in the
  570. 24:09Wind it's brief so whatever you're going
  571. 24:12to do with your life you got to get at
  572. 24:14it don't just let the Springs pass pass
  573. 24:19pass here's the third major lesson in
  574. 24:21life to
  575. 24:22learn learn how to protect your crops
  576. 24:25all summer
  577. 24:29you got to take care of what you
  578. 24:32start sure enough as soon as you've
  579. 24:35planted your garden in the spring the
  580. 24:37busy bugs and the noxious weeds are out
  581. 24:39to take
  582. 24:41it and here's the next bit of Truth they
  583. 24:44will take
  584. 24:46it unless you prevent it and that's the
  585. 24:52third major skill to learn you've got to
  586. 24:53learn to prevent the Intruder from
  587. 24:55taking all the good you start
  588. 24:59it's one of the
  589. 25:02challenges here's two key phrases under
  590. 25:04number three first one all good will be
  591. 25:09attacked on this planet maybe not the
  592. 25:11next one we get to but on this one all
  593. 25:14good will be
  594. 25:15attacked every Garden will be invaded
  595. 25:19not to think so is
  596. 25:23naive and here's the second phrase all
  597. 25:26values must be defended
  598. 25:31political values social values Community
  599. 25:33Values Family Values marriage values
  600. 25:36friendship values business values every
  601. 25:40Garden must be tended all
  602. 25:43summer third major
  603. 25:48lesson now here's number four fourth
  604. 25:51major lesson in life to
  605. 25:53learn learn how to reap in the fall
  606. 25:57without complaint
  607. 26:00learn to reap come Harvest
  608. 26:02time without
  609. 26:06complaint take full responsibility for
  610. 26:09what happens to
  611. 26:11you it's one of the highest forms of
  612. 26:13human maturity accepting full
  613. 26:17responsibility it's the day you know
  614. 26:19you've passed from childhood to
  615. 26:21adulthood the day you accept full
  616. 26:26responsibility and another note learn to
  617. 26:29reap in the fall without
  618. 26:30apology without apology if you do well
  619. 26:35and without complaint if you
  620. 26:37don't that's
  621. 26:42maturity I used to have that long list
  622. 26:44of reasons why I wasn't doing
  623. 26:47well to explain you got to explain right
  624. 26:51otherwise you're going to look bad I
  625. 26:54used to have this funny list called
  626. 26:56reasons for not looking good
  627. 27:03I used to blame the
  628. 27:05government I mean you can believe that
  629. 27:07or not it was at the top of my list I
  630. 27:08had a lecture Second To None the
  631. 27:10government that was on my list I used to
  632. 27:13blame taxes look what you got left after
  633. 27:15they take
  634. 27:17everything and they expect you to do
  635. 27:20well that was on M list
  636. 27:23there prices that one's easy right you
  637. 27:25walk into the supermarket with $20 come
  638. 27:27out with little half
  639. 27:29bag so I had that on my list I used to
  640. 27:33blame the
  641. 27:34weather I blame the traffic I used to
  642. 27:38blame my
  643. 27:39car I blame the
  644. 27:42manufacturers I used to blame the
  645. 27:44company I blamed company
  646. 27:47policy I used to blame the training
  647. 27:53program I blame my negative relatives
  648. 27:55they were always putting me down
  649. 27:58I blame my cynical neighbors they're
  650. 28:00just selfish looking out for themselves
  651. 28:02won't loan you money they were on my
  652. 28:08list I used to blame the
  653. 28:11economy I blame the
  654. 28:14community that's a pretty good list for
  655. 28:16not doing well isn't it I thought it was
  656. 28:19good I'll never forget one day Mr scha
  657. 28:23was very kind but he was also very
  658. 28:25blunt and this was no exception and I'm
  659. 28:28glad he was blunt there's a lot of
  660. 28:29things I'd have missed if he hadn't have
  661. 28:31been
  662. 28:32blunt one day with sort of a curious
  663. 28:34look on his face he said Jim just out of
  664. 28:36curiosity tell me how come you haven't
  665. 28:38done well up until
  666. 28:41now excellent
  667. 28:45question I thought well so I won't look
  668. 28:47too bad I'll go through my
  669. 28:51list and this list I just gave you I put
  670. 28:54that on him and he was very patient he
  671. 28:57let me go through the the whole thing
  672. 28:58the government the weather I went
  673. 28:59through this whole thing when I finished
  674. 29:02he looked my list over very carefully he
  675. 29:04said Mr R big problem with your list you
  676. 29:06ain't on
  677. 29:10it how
  678. 29:17brilant when I went to work for him a
  679. 29:20few months later I learned very quickly
  680. 29:22to tear up my list reasons for not doing
  681. 29:24well and I threw it away and I got me a
  682. 29:26fresh piece of paper and I put one word
  683. 29:29on it
  684. 29:32me there's a black Heritage spiritual
  685. 29:35that says it's not my mother nor my
  686. 29:37father nor my brother nor my sister but
  687. 29:39it's me oh Lord standing in the need of
  688. 29:44prayer see I used to blame everything
  689. 29:47outside and then let me give you a
  690. 29:49little philosophy that helped turn my
  691. 29:50life
  692. 29:51around for your notes here it
  693. 29:54is it's not
  694. 29:58what
  695. 30:02happens that determines the quality or
  696. 30:04the quantity of your life it's not what
  697. 30:08happens and the reason is because what
  698. 30:10happens happens to about everybody no
  699. 30:13different the sun went down on all of us
  700. 30:16last
  701. 30:16night a common event a
  702. 30:19happening and I found out that the same
  703. 30:22things can happen to two different
  704. 30:23people one gets rich and one stays poor
  705. 30:26why is that it's because it's not what
  706. 30:29happens but
  707. 30:31rather it's what you do that changes
  708. 30:39everything so that's a key phrase It's
  709. 30:42not what happens it's what you
  710. 30:45do what happens is about the same you
  711. 30:47might put that in parenthesis here same
  712. 30:50what people do that's what's
  713. 30:55different anything can happen right
  714. 30:57every can happen I've heard all the
  715. 30:59stories I've been one of the
  716. 31:01stories hey we could all tell stories
  717. 31:03all night long right
  718. 31:06happenings Anything Can Happen have you
  719. 31:08heard of Murphy's laws anybody here
  720. 31:10heard of Murphy's laws okay most of you
  721. 31:13have murf had these
  722. 31:15laws one of them was if anything can go
  723. 31:18wrong it will that's one of Murphy's
  724. 31:21laws he was not one of the great
  725. 31:24positive speakers of the day but anyway
  726. 31:26it's still true though right anything
  727. 31:28can go wrong everything can go wrong for
  728. 31:31sure I've fallen out of the sky so many
  729. 31:36times once to the tune of a couple of
  730. 31:40million devastating took me a while to
  731. 31:42survive that
  732. 31:45one now it wasn't all that much but it
  733. 31:47was all ah
  734. 31:48head I mean that's when it's much right
  735. 31:50when it's all you got if you got three
  736. 31:53two go you got one left you ain't
  737. 31:55looking that bad but when it all goes
  738. 31:58has anybody been there when it all went
  739. 32:01anybody come on rest of you Liars
  740. 32:05go hey we've all been there right when
  741. 32:07it all
  742. 32:10went of course it used to be a long time
  743. 32:12ago right when you ran out of money got
  744. 32:14to zero you were all through heck now
  745. 32:16you can whistle right on by zero right I
  746. 32:19mean they will bury you that's what they
  747. 32:21will
  748. 32:26do but see those are the happenings
  749. 32:29right everything can happen anything can
  750. 32:31happen but it's not the happenings it's
  751. 32:33what you do about it somebody says yeah
  752. 32:36but you don't understand the
  753. 32:38disappointments I've
  754. 32:40had come
  755. 32:42on everybody's had their
  756. 32:45share disappointments are not special
  757. 32:48gifts reserved for the
  758. 32:50poor everybody has them the difference
  759. 32:53is what you do about
  760. 32:56them it's not the weather I used to
  761. 32:58blame the weather and I discovered it
  762. 33:01rains on the rich so see that won't
  763. 33:05help two men wake up one morning there's
  764. 33:07a rainstorm on one of them looks out his
  765. 33:09window sees the rainstorm and he says
  766. 33:11wow what a storm with weather like this
  767. 33:13they can't expect you to go out and make
  768. 33:15sales he stays
  769. 33:19home same morning the other guy looks
  770. 33:21out his window sees the same storm says
  771. 33:24wow what a storm but he says you know
  772. 33:26what with weather like this what a great
  773. 33:28day to go out and make sales most
  774. 33:30everybody will probably be
  775. 33:31home especially the
  776. 33:38salesman see that's the difference in
  777. 33:40how your life works out it's not what
  778. 33:42happens it's what you do so here's one
  779. 33:44of the key questions of the evening
  780. 33:45starting tomorrow what are you going to
  781. 33:48do that'll make a change in your life's
  782. 33:52Direction good question what are you
  783. 33:54going to do starting tomorrow that'll
  784. 33:55make a difference
  785. 33:59now see if you don't do something
  786. 34:00starting tomorrow that'll make a
  787. 34:01difference guess
  788. 34:03what it's going to be the
  789. 34:09same and see that way you can guess what
  790. 34:11the next five years are going to be like
  791. 34:12look at the last
  792. 34:15five cuz the next five are going to be
  793. 34:17like the last five unless you major key
  794. 34:20tomorrow change it all or change a
  795. 34:23little or change something or don't
  796. 34:25change it's Choice time you can do
  797. 34:27whatever you you want but it's nice to
  798. 34:29know any day you wish you can change
  799. 34:31your whole
  800. 34:35life what can you do starting tomorrow
  801. 34:39that'll make a
  802. 34:41difference good
  803. 34:44question what can you do with economic
  804. 34:47chaos massive
  805. 34:49disappointment what can you do with a
  806. 34:51broken heart what can you do and it
  807. 34:52won't work good
  808. 34:55question so if I had a word with you
  809. 34:57tonight oneon-one just you and me I
  810. 35:01think my personal advice to you would be
  811. 35:04this year 1981 reach down inside of
  812. 35:09you and come up with some more of those
  813. 35:11remarkable human
  814. 35:13gifts they're there waiting to be
  815. 35:16utilized and then change anything for
  816. 35:19you you want to
  817. 35:20change and I challenge you to do that
  818. 35:22because you can
  819. 35:24change if you don't like how it is for
  820. 35:26you change it if it doesn't suit you
  821. 35:28change it if it doesn't please you
  822. 35:29change it if it isn't enough change it
  823. 35:32and I challenge you to do that because
  824. 35:33you can change see you don't ever have
  825. 35:36to be the same again after tonight only
  826. 35:39by
  827. 35:43choice if you don't like your present
  828. 35:45address change it you're not a tree
  829. 35:54[Music]
  830. 35:57yeah now let me give you three steps to
  831. 35:59personal development let's get down to
  832. 36:00the nitty-gritty what does it take to
  833. 36:02really make the changes starting
  834. 36:04tomorrow it takes more than
  835. 36:06philosophical pronouncement I know
  836. 36:10that it also takes more than enthusiasm
  837. 36:12I know we're hearing a lot about
  838. 36:13enthusiasm these days but see that just
  839. 36:15won't do the
  840. 36:17job we're still here on the old cliches
  841. 36:19of the 30s right to be enthusiastic you
  842. 36:21must act
  843. 36:23enthusiastic but see that's not going to
  844. 36:25help after you have leaped about there
  845. 36:27are some things you got to
  846. 36:29do or it isn't going to
  847. 36:33[Music]
  848. 36:34change see you can get all excited about
  849. 36:37lifting 200 lb till you get to the
  850. 36:40gym and then you need a new
  851. 36:43excitement and the new excitement is
  852. 36:45called
  853. 36:48discipline major step to human progress
  854. 36:53discipline if there's one thing to get
  855. 36:55excited over that's it get excited over
  856. 36:57your ability to make yourself do the
  857. 37:01necessary
  858. 37:03things what could you make yourself do
  859. 37:06starting tomorrow that would change it
  860. 37:07all no tell
  861. 37:12it now see that's exciting on any given
  862. 37:17day you can massively change the
  863. 37:18direction of your
  864. 37:21life murder is a clear example that any
  865. 37:24one person on any given day can forever
  866. 37:26alter the course of their life it just
  867. 37:29happens to be a negative
  868. 37:32act but just as sure as you can commit a
  869. 37:35negative act you can also commit a
  870. 37:38positive act and forever alter your life
  871. 37:41whenever you wish now that's
  872. 37:44exciting and whatever that act might be
  873. 37:46that changes your
  874. 37:50life the guy finally takes a shotgun to
  875. 37:53his
  876. 37:54car and blows out every window destroys
  877. 37:57every retire puts 100 rounds in this
  878. 37:59shabby old thing and he says I have
  879. 38:01driven this embarrassing thing for the
  880. 38:03last
  881. 38:05time and not only will I never drive it
  882. 38:08again nobody else will ever drive it
  883. 38:11again and he lets that shuttering things
  884. 38:14stand there for a while as a monument to
  885. 38:16the day he said today my life changes
  886. 38:19now who can do that anybody when can you
  887. 38:21do it whatever day you pick
  888. 38:24[Music]
  889. 38:32now here's the key to discipline start
  890. 38:35with the little disciplines get excited
  891. 38:36over the little
  892. 38:38disciplines and get right on those
  893. 38:40because those will lead to the big ones
  894. 38:42you can't handle the big challenges in
  895. 38:44life unless you take on the little ones
  896. 38:45make a list of all the things you can do
  897. 38:47get right on those discipline yourself
  898. 38:49for those both for the results and for
  899. 38:51the muscle and for the practice so that
  900. 38:53when life hands you some big challenges
  901. 38:55you'll be ready you'll have the muscle
  902. 38:58but see if you don't handle the small
  903. 39:00ones you can't take care of the big
  904. 39:07ones okay here's what else it takes for
  905. 39:10life change self
  906. 39:12motivation key phrase self-
  907. 39:15motivation I don't know why we call it
  908. 39:17self motivation it's really the only
  909. 39:18kind there is you got to motivate
  910. 39:20yourself because I found out you can't
  911. 39:22change people they can change themselves
  912. 39:24but you can't change them Lord knows
  913. 39:26some I've tried
  914. 39:28but see it won't
  915. 39:31work people have to change themselves I
  916. 39:35learned some of those lessons early I
  917. 39:36built a little sales organization way
  918. 39:38back in those early days I'm
  919. 39:3925 and I had some nice
  920. 39:42people I said I'm going to make these
  921. 39:44people successful if it kills me I
  922. 39:46almost died I mean you can't do that
  923. 39:58see I discovered this good people are
  924. 40:00not trained they're
  925. 40:02found you find good people you don't
  926. 40:05make them good you find them
  927. 40:08good training really is for the purpose
  928. 40:10of finding good people you don't need
  929. 40:11much instruction for a good
  930. 40:13person but too much training probably
  931. 40:15means you got the wrong
  932. 40:21people so you got to find the right
  933. 40:24people that's the key to getting a good
  934. 40:26job done well one of the major things we
  935. 40:28learn in man management lesson one don't
  936. 40:30send your ducks to Eagle
  937. 40:32[Laughter]
  938. 40:36[Music]
  939. 40:39school cuz it won't help I mean I'm
  940. 40:41telling you it won't help no matter how
  941. 40:42good your school is and the little Eagle
  942. 40:45badge and little Eagle hat I'm telling
  943. 40:47you it won't help it won't
  944. 40:51help you can tell whether your school's
  945. 40:53done any good right is when it's over
  946. 40:56right the duck goes for his first rabbit
  947. 40:58and makes him a friend you say no no
  948. 41:03no
  949. 41:04anyway so it takes self motivation to
  950. 41:07really alter your life and you don't
  951. 41:10want to give self motivation away to
  952. 41:11somebody else and make it somebody else
  953. 41:13motivating
  954. 41:14you the guy says boy if somebody just
  955. 41:18come by and turn me on what if they
  956. 41:20don't show up right see you got to have
  957. 41:24a better plan for your life
  958. 41:29okay now if you're excited and you're
  959. 41:32ready to change let me give you three
  960. 41:35steps to start life change that can
  961. 41:37change your life your personality your
  962. 41:39lifestyle everything can change here's
  963. 41:41the steps number
  964. 41:43one find out
  965. 41:47how
  966. 41:50things
  967. 41:52work the first key to doing better is
  968. 41:54find out to change your life really you
  969. 41:56need ideas
  970. 41:59there isn't anything an idea can't
  971. 42:00change and schul taught me the major
  972. 42:03problem is lack of an idea not a
  973. 42:06problem at first I didn't have any money
  974. 42:08I said to Mr SCH I don't have any money
  975. 42:09he said that's not a problem now see up
  976. 42:11until then I always thought it was right
  977. 42:13I was
  978. 42:15confused he said no no the problem is
  979. 42:17lack of an idea on how to create money
  980. 42:20in wealth it isn't lack of money it's
  981. 42:22lack of ideas so if you get the ideas so
  982. 42:24you can change anything now to get ideas
  983. 42:26you need a constant study of finding
  984. 42:30out now scha also said when you find out
  985. 42:32something that works put the information
  986. 42:35in your
  987. 42:36Journal don't use your head for a filing
  988. 42:39cabinet put it in your Journal so that
  989. 42:41you can do the next best thing
  990. 42:43repetition repetition repetition go over
  991. 42:46it and if you repeat it go over it sure
  992. 42:49enough someday some mysterious day the
  993. 42:52idea takes root starts to grow and shows
  994. 42:54up in your bank account and your dress
  995. 42:56and your person ity and your
  996. 42:59lifestyle but capture the ideas in your
  997. 43:01Journal find out how things
  998. 43:06work scha gave me this word for my life
  999. 43:09change he said
  1000. 43:11study great
  1001. 43:13word if you wish to be successful study
  1002. 43:17success if you wish to be happy study
  1003. 43:20happiness if you wish to be wealthy
  1004. 43:23study wealth don't leave it to chance
  1005. 43:28make it a
  1006. 43:29study some people just go through the
  1007. 43:31day with their fingers crossed see that
  1008. 43:34won't do it you've got to study the
  1009. 43:37things that can change your economic
  1010. 43:39social spiritual personal
  1011. 43:45life now here's a qualifying phrase and
  1012. 43:47we'll have several of these qualifying
  1013. 43:49phrases throughout the seminar here's
  1014. 43:51the first one you may not be able to do
  1015. 43:53all you find out I understand that you
  1016. 43:57may not be able to do all you find out
  1017. 43:59but you should find out all you can
  1018. 44:03do see you don't want to wind up at the
  1019. 44:05end of your life and discover that
  1020. 44:06you've lived only one tenth of it and
  1021. 44:09the other nine10 went down the
  1022. 44:13drain not for lack of opportunity for
  1023. 44:15lack of
  1024. 44:16information so that's number one find
  1025. 44:18out how things work now here's the best
  1026. 44:21human virtue for finding out curiosity
  1027. 44:24make a note of that Curiosity be curious
  1028. 44:31you might add a word to it that'll help
  1029. 44:32childish
  1030. 44:39curiosity what will kids do if they want
  1031. 44:41to know something bad
  1032. 44:43enough bug you that's the phrase they
  1033. 44:47can ask a thousand questions you think
  1034. 44:48they're through they got another
  1035. 44:49thousand they'll drive you to the
  1036. 44:53brink it's a virtue
  1037. 44:57when you got to
  1038. 44:59know be like a child in fact Jesus the
  1039. 45:03master teacher said unless you can
  1040. 45:04become like little children you might as
  1041. 45:06well forget it you don't have a prayer
  1042. 45:09excellent advice you got to be like
  1043. 45:11children four ways in my opinion to be
  1044. 45:14like a child number one's curiosity
  1045. 45:16number two is excitement get excited
  1046. 45:18like a child over your ability to make
  1047. 45:20yourself do anything for
  1048. 45:22change third is Faith have faith like a
  1049. 45:25child adults are too
  1050. 45:29skeptical and fourth is
  1051. 45:31trust trust is a childish virtue but the
  1052. 45:34rewards are
  1053. 45:36incredible so be like a
  1054. 45:38child now if you're
  1055. 45:41curious let me give you three ways to
  1056. 45:43find out how to change
  1057. 45:47anything any life Direction any
  1058. 45:50Dimension here's three ways to find out
  1059. 45:52how to change
  1060. 45:53anything number one is to read
  1061. 45:57become a good
  1062. 45:59reader all of the successful people I
  1063. 46:02know and work with around the world
  1064. 46:03they're all good readers curiosity
  1065. 46:05drives them to read they got to know
  1066. 46:07they just read read read read read read
  1067. 46:09read read
  1068. 46:13read become a good
  1069. 46:17reader now that's my opinion listen to
  1070. 46:20the other lecturers and listen to me and
  1071. 46:22make up your own mind don't be a
  1072. 46:24follower be a student
  1073. 46:27okay I say really for life change you
  1074. 46:29got to
  1075. 46:30read one way to learn is from your own
  1076. 46:32experiences but another way to learn is
  1077. 46:34from other people's experiences see one
  1078. 46:38book might save you five
  1079. 46:41years if you read
  1080. 46:46it did you know there's books on how to
  1081. 46:48be stronger more decisive be a speaker
  1082. 46:51be a leader have a better effect on
  1083. 46:53other people develop your personality
  1084. 46:55did you know there's books on that
  1085. 46:58and people don't read
  1086. 47:00them how would you explain
  1087. 47:02that and they can
  1088. 47:06read did you know that hundreds of
  1089. 47:08successful people have written their
  1090. 47:10stories in books and they wrote down how
  1091. 47:13they did it and people don't read it how
  1092. 47:17would you explain
  1093. 47:20that the guy's busy I
  1094. 47:23guess you know you get tied up
  1095. 47:27the guy says well yeah you work where I
  1096. 47:29work but the time you struggle home it's
  1097. 47:30late you got to eat a bite to supper
  1098. 47:32watch little TV get to bed you can't sit
  1099. 47:35up half the night reading reading
  1100. 47:37reading reading and the guy's behind on
  1101. 47:39his car
  1102. 47:43payment good worker hard worker
  1103. 47:48sincere but you got to be better than
  1104. 47:50sincere and work hard otherwise at the
  1105. 47:54end of your life you'll wind up cold
  1106. 47:56Stony broke
  1107. 47:57you got to be better than a good worker
  1108. 47:59you got to be a good
  1109. 48:03reader the whole world is governed by
  1110. 48:05laws the universe in fact laws we call
  1111. 48:08it the law of electricity we call it the
  1112. 48:10law of gravity there's mathematical laws
  1113. 48:14there's physical laws speed and velocity
  1114. 48:17laws agricultural laws there's all kinds
  1115. 48:19of
  1116. 48:20laws now that we find ourselves on the
  1117. 48:23spinning Planet you just have to learn
  1118. 48:25what I call the setup
  1119. 48:27learn the setup
  1120. 48:31life's
  1121. 48:34setup now we didn't set it up but we're
  1122. 48:38here so you got to learn it and we
  1123. 48:40should learn the setup for two basic
  1124. 48:42reasons number one to keep from getting
  1125. 48:44hurt it's one of the major reasons for
  1126. 48:47learning so you won't get
  1127. 48:49hurt the economically socially
  1128. 48:51personally you can get hurt just not
  1129. 48:54knowing ignorance is not
  1130. 48:57Bliss ignorance is poverty ignorance is
  1131. 49:00tragedy you got to know or you're going
  1132. 49:03to get
  1133. 49:05hurt it's good to know not to walk out
  1134. 49:07the 10-story window that's excellent
  1135. 49:10information now what if a guy didn't
  1136. 49:12know and he walks out now he's dead at
  1137. 49:14the bottom somebody says well the poor
  1138. 49:16guy didn't
  1139. 49:17know you got to
  1140. 49:19know or you're going to get
  1141. 49:22hurt okay now here's a parenthesis
  1142. 49:27you don't have to like the
  1143. 49:29setup I don't ask you to like how it
  1144. 49:33is that's not what's important but it is
  1145. 49:36important to learn how it
  1146. 49:39is okay so you don't have to like it but
  1147. 49:42you should learn
  1148. 49:43it that's what I tell the kids right
  1149. 49:46make sure you get the
  1150. 49:49information what you think about it
  1151. 49:51that's up to you what you're going to do
  1152. 49:52with it that'll soon be up to you but
  1153. 49:54make sure you get it
  1154. 49:57see there's nothing worse than being
  1155. 49:59stupid
  1156. 50:01nothing I mean being broke is bad but
  1157. 50:05being stupid is
  1158. 50:08awful and what's really bad is being
  1159. 50:10broken stupid right that's about the end
  1160. 50:13of the world I mean there isn't anything
  1161. 50:15much worse than that unless you're
  1162. 50:17sick sick broken stupid I mean that is
  1163. 50:20it right there's nowhere else to
  1164. 50:25go so make sure you get the information
  1165. 50:28it's key you don't have to like it but
  1166. 50:31learn
  1167. 50:33it if this big monstrous thing lifts up
  1168. 50:35in the sky hangs there for a little
  1169. 50:38while Cuts loose comes crashing down
  1170. 50:40boom shakes the ground for five
  1171. 50:42miles and then this big monstrous thing
  1172. 50:45lifts back up in the sky hangs there for
  1173. 50:47a little while Cuts loose again comes
  1174. 50:49crashing down boom shakes the ground for
  1175. 50:50five miles it just keeps doing that this
  1176. 50:52big monstrous thing lifting up and then
  1177. 50:55crashing down boom
  1178. 50:57now you might come along one day and say
  1179. 51:00that's got to be a stupid
  1180. 51:02Arrangement which is okay you're
  1181. 51:04entitled to your opinion but the first
  1182. 51:06thing you should learn to do is get out
  1183. 51:08from under it right that's number
  1184. 51:12one you might have a great moral
  1185. 51:14argument you might want to shake your
  1186. 51:16finger at the sky but do it from over
  1187. 51:18there right so you don't get
  1188. 51:20smashed it's called your basic
  1189. 51:24smart so number one learn so you won't
  1190. 51:27get hurt whether you like it or not
  1191. 51:29learn now here's the second reason for
  1192. 51:32learning the setup to
  1193. 51:35benefit it's called the plus of
  1194. 51:38life and that's what life is Right both
  1195. 51:40minus and plus the minus is tragedy
  1196. 51:44heartache misery failure
  1197. 51:47unhappiness but life is also happiness
  1198. 51:50Prosperity good feelings so here's the
  1199. 51:53key learn to get on the good side of the
  1200. 51:56way things
  1201. 52:03work now here's two of the basic laws
  1202. 52:05and we'll take our break scha taught me
  1203. 52:08these they come from the Bible now again
  1204. 52:11I'm an amateur okay when it comes to the
  1205. 52:13Bible I'm not a pro so you'll sort of
  1206. 52:15have to take my way of putting it but
  1207. 52:17here they are the first one is the law
  1208. 52:19of
  1209. 52:20use the law of
  1210. 52:23use and it goes something like this
  1211. 52:25whatever you don't use you
  1212. 52:29lose lack of use causes
  1213. 52:36loss on this planet maybe not the next
  1214. 52:40one but on this
  1215. 52:41one if you tie your arm to your body
  1216. 52:44leave it there long enough you'll never
  1217. 52:45use it
  1218. 52:47again it's over for the arm now may not
  1219. 52:50be over but it's over for the arm the
  1220. 52:52only way to keep the use of this arm is
  1221. 52:54what keep using it if you
  1222. 52:57you lose
  1223. 52:59automatically they don't bring it up for
  1224. 53:01a
  1225. 53:02vote you lose automatically when you
  1226. 53:04quit now the same thing that goes for
  1227. 53:07your arm goes for your brain mentality
  1228. 53:10the same thing goes for all the human
  1229. 53:12virtues ambition unused
  1230. 53:17declines strong feelings
  1231. 53:20unused
  1232. 53:22diminish it doesn't grow it diminishes
  1233. 53:26Faith unused
  1234. 53:31decreases it's a
  1235. 53:33law Vitality unused diminishes energy
  1236. 53:37unused
  1237. 53:39decreases the guy says well I'm going to
  1238. 53:41save up my energy you can't do
  1239. 53:45that that's like trying to save today
  1240. 53:47put it on the end of the year see you
  1241. 53:49can't do that they'll come take you
  1242. 53:51away if you don't use today
  1243. 53:54what it's lost the guy says well I'll
  1244. 53:57work twice as hard tomorrow to make up
  1245. 53:58for it see that's foolish you could have
  1246. 54:00done that anyway today unused is lost a
  1247. 54:03talent unused is lost an ability unused
  1248. 54:06is lost so here's one of the key
  1249. 54:08expressions of the evening take a new
  1250. 54:10inventory of
  1251. 54:13yourself starting tomorrow new project
  1252. 54:16take a new
  1253. 54:18inventory and make sure that all of your
  1254. 54:21talent and ability and mentality and
  1255. 54:23Ingenuity and vitality and strong
  1256. 54:25feelings
  1257. 54:26Faith courage make sure that all you've
  1258. 54:28got's being used otherwise you
  1259. 54:31[Music]
  1260. 54:34lose now one of the best illustrations
  1261. 54:36of the law of use is a Bible story
  1262. 54:38called the parable of the
  1263. 54:43talents the talent story interesting
  1264. 54:46story if you haven't read it in a while
  1265. 54:48just review it it's a good story an
  1266. 54:50ancient story says there was a Master
  1267. 54:52with three servants he got them together
  1268. 54:54one day and he said to the three I've
  1269. 54:58got these
  1270. 54:59talents and in those ancient days a
  1271. 55:01talent was a measure of
  1272. 55:04gold and he said to the three servants
  1273. 55:06take these talents and see what you can
  1274. 55:08do with them while I'm gone he said I'm
  1275. 55:09taking a journey and I'll be gone for a
  1276. 55:11while when I come back we'll get
  1277. 55:12together go over the book see how you
  1278. 55:14did he said here's five of these talents
  1279. 55:16for you
  1280. 55:18five here's two of them for you
  1281. 55:21two and here's one for you one the
  1282. 55:26master said take those talents see what
  1283. 55:28you can do with them when I come back
  1284. 55:29we'll get together we'll go over it all
  1285. 55:31the servant said okay Master takes off
  1286. 55:34according to the ancient story The
  1287. 55:36Master comes back from his trip when he
  1288. 55:38gets back he gets the three servants
  1289. 55:41together and as he said he would he asks
  1290. 55:44how did it go with those
  1291. 55:48talents you were five what happened that
  1292. 55:51servant said well I took the five
  1293. 55:53talents you gave me and I put them to
  1294. 55:56work
  1295. 55:57a little shaky at first but he said
  1296. 55:58things finally got rolling and he said I
  1297. 56:00poured it on and he said my talents grew
  1298. 56:02to 7 8 9
  1299. 56:0410 he said I doubled my talents from 5
  1300. 56:07to 10 books will show Master
  1301. 56:12said one heck of a
  1302. 56:14job or something like
  1303. 56:17that he said I gave you two talents what
  1304. 56:19happened that servant said about the
  1305. 56:21same thing happened to me I put those
  1306. 56:23two talents to work poured it on they
  1307. 56:25grew to three and then to four he said I
  1308. 56:27doubled my talents from two to four
  1309. 56:29books will show Master
  1310. 56:31said well
  1311. 56:34done he said I gave you one Talent what
  1312. 56:37happened that servant said well I took
  1313. 56:40the talent you gave me and I carefully
  1314. 56:42wrecked it and I dug a hole and buried
  1315. 56:47it and camouflaged it I suppose right so
  1316. 56:51nobody would steal it and he said
  1317. 56:53fortunately nobody got it
  1318. 56:56and he said I knew you were going to be
  1319. 56:58here today so I dug it up here it is
  1320. 56:59safely wrapped I did not lose it while
  1321. 57:04you were
  1322. 57:05gone according to the ancient story The
  1323. 57:09Master said take that Talent away from
  1324. 57:15him and give it to the man that's got
  1325. 57:2110 now you might say well I don't like
  1326. 57:23that
  1327. 57:25arrangement the poor guy's only got one
  1328. 57:28Talent he's already got
  1329. 57:3110 it ought to be
  1330. 57:34more
  1331. 57:37even remember I didn't ask you to like
  1332. 57:40it but this one I would ask you to learn
  1333. 57:43because it simply means whatever you do
  1334. 57:46not employ you
  1335. 57:51forfeit it's a
  1336. 57:53law so learn well the law of use
  1337. 57:58now here's the second one and we're
  1338. 57:59going to take our
  1339. 58:00break Second Law from the
  1340. 58:05Bible this one we've heard since we were
  1341. 58:07small I'm sure it's called The Law of
  1342. 58:10sewing and
  1343. 58:16reaping in fact we probably heard it so
  1344. 58:18often we could quote
  1345. 58:21it it says whatever you sow
  1346. 58:24what you shall shall
  1347. 58:29reap fairly blunt hopefully
  1348. 58:33clear here's my first suggestion on the
  1349. 58:35law of sewing and reaping don't try to
  1350. 58:37beat
  1351. 58:39it you might as well try sitting on the
  1352. 58:42sun in the morning keep it from coming
  1353. 58:43up you'll have better
  1354. 58:45luck whatever you sew you
  1355. 58:50reap now for a fair share of my life I'm
  1356. 58:52a bit mixed up on how all this applies
  1357. 58:54among a lot of things I was mixed up
  1358. 58:57F I knew I wasn't reaping too good that
  1359. 59:00I
  1360. 59:01understood my problem was I was confused
  1361. 59:04about what was causing it remember me
  1362. 59:07with a funny list I thought those are
  1363. 59:09the reasons why it isn't working out
  1364. 59:10well and then Mr scha gave me the clue
  1365. 59:13that helped me figure it all out he said
  1366. 59:15Mr on I have another answer for you
  1367. 59:17there's another way to quote this
  1368. 59:20law that'll show you where the problem
  1369. 59:22is so you can go to work on it right
  1370. 59:23away all you need to know is where the
  1371. 59:25problem is then you can go to work on it
  1372. 59:28so he quoted me the law another way and
  1373. 59:30I found out what my problem was here's
  1374. 59:31the way you quote the
  1375. 59:33Law whatever you reap is what you've
  1376. 59:40sown now I knew what my problem
  1377. 59:44was whatever you reap is what you've
  1378. 59:49sown if you don't like the crop who do
  1379. 59:52you look up answer whoever planted it
  1380. 59:57and where do you find who planted your
  1381. 59:59crop answer in the
  1382. 1:00:03mirror what I finally learned to do
  1383. 1:00:05comef fall was to go to the mirror
  1384. 1:00:07that's where you
  1385. 1:00:09go and if necessary you say a few skinny
  1386. 1:00:14carrots I got to be
  1387. 1:00:17unimpressed where were you last spring
  1388. 1:00:21asleep didn't you read the books did you
  1389. 1:00:25break your ho
  1390. 1:00:30let me give you seven key points to the
  1391. 1:00:32law of sewing and reaping let's tick
  1392. 1:00:33right down through the list of seven and
  1393. 1:00:36it'll be break
  1394. 1:00:39time seven points to sewing and reaping
  1395. 1:00:42here's part of the philosophy that
  1396. 1:00:43really helped me to make some changes in
  1397. 1:00:45life Direction Number One the law of
  1398. 1:00:47sewing and reaping is
  1399. 1:00:50negative that's number one which simply
  1400. 1:00:53means if you so bad you reap
  1401. 1:00:57bad now this is kind of third grade but
  1402. 1:00:59it doesn't hurt to go over the
  1403. 1:01:03basics if you plant thistle seeds you
  1404. 1:01:05don't get
  1405. 1:01:08pumpkins honest no use looking for
  1406. 1:01:11pumpkins John says how come no
  1407. 1:01:14pumpkins come on John the law is
  1408. 1:01:18negative that's how
  1409. 1:01:20come now here's number two the law is
  1410. 1:01:24positive
  1411. 1:01:26which simply means if you seow good you
  1412. 1:01:28reap
  1413. 1:01:29good if you plant pumpkin seeds you
  1414. 1:01:31don't get thistles not from pumpkin
  1415. 1:01:35seeds Mother Nature won't pull tricks on
  1416. 1:01:37you over in the corner Snicker and push
  1417. 1:01:38new thistles and you plant and pumpkin
  1418. 1:01:40seeds she won't do that you will get
  1419. 1:01:42pumpkins from pumpkin seeds and the
  1420. 1:01:44reason is because the law is
  1421. 1:01:46positive now here's number
  1422. 1:01:48three I got excited when I found out the
  1423. 1:01:50full dimension of this see you do not
  1424. 1:01:54reap what you sow
  1425. 1:01:56but
  1426. 1:01:57rather you always reap much more than
  1427. 1:02:02what you
  1428. 1:02:03sell so the third key word is
  1429. 1:02:08more you don't get back what you put out
  1430. 1:02:12you get back much
  1431. 1:02:15more than what you put out and it works
  1432. 1:02:19both positive and
  1433. 1:02:24negative on the negative side it said if
  1434. 1:02:27you sew to the wind you reap the Whirl
  1435. 1:02:31wind so you got to get ready for that or
  1436. 1:02:33you will be naive but now it also works
  1437. 1:02:38positive if you plant a cup of corn in
  1438. 1:02:41the spring how much corn do you reap in
  1439. 1:02:42the fall not a cup you might as well
  1440. 1:02:45keep the cup you
  1441. 1:02:47got why go to all the trouble planting a
  1442. 1:02:50cup of corn in the spring water it and
  1443. 1:02:51take care of it all summer look after it
  1444. 1:02:53carefully cross your fingers and pray
  1445. 1:02:56why go through all that reason come fall
  1446. 1:02:59you could well get a bushel for the cup
  1447. 1:03:03a bushel for a cup it's called one of
  1448. 1:03:05life's better
  1449. 1:03:09deals guy says well yeah I'll figure out
  1450. 1:03:11how that works you could get rich that's
  1451. 1:03:12right that's
  1452. 1:03:17right then how come more people aren't
  1453. 1:03:21wealthy they don't study much sew and
  1454. 1:03:23reap
  1455. 1:03:26the guy says well yeah you work where I
  1456. 1:03:27work but the time you struggle home it's
  1457. 1:03:30late you got to eat a buite to supper
  1458. 1:03:32watch little
  1459. 1:03:34TV here's number
  1460. 1:03:37four fourth key to sewing and reaping
  1461. 1:03:40there are many ways to sew and
  1462. 1:03:43reap there's many ways to change your
  1463. 1:03:46life there's many ways to get promoted
  1464. 1:03:48there's many ways to move up there's
  1465. 1:03:50many ways for financial
  1466. 1:03:52Independence there's so many ways to do
  1467. 1:03:55well especially in this country you
  1468. 1:03:57don't have to go without
  1469. 1:04:00any if we lived in the middle of Africa
  1470. 1:04:03the middle of India with economic
  1471. 1:04:05disaster all around you might have some
  1472. 1:04:06excuses for not doing well but not here
  1473. 1:04:09there's too many ways
  1474. 1:04:11here there's too many libraries there's
  1475. 1:04:14too many classes there's too many
  1476. 1:04:17seminars there's too much information
  1477. 1:04:18there's too many
  1478. 1:04:19books there's too much Capital there's
  1479. 1:04:22too much help there's too much training
  1480. 1:04:24here not to do well well there's too
  1481. 1:04:26many ways so find you some ways there's
  1482. 1:04:32plenty here's the fourth key to sewing
  1483. 1:04:36and reaping are
  1484. 1:04:38five and that key word is anyone anyone
  1485. 1:04:41can sew and reap that's what's
  1486. 1:04:44exciting anyone
  1487. 1:04:47can now the question is whether or not
  1488. 1:04:49you
  1489. 1:04:51will but can is not the question
  1490. 1:04:55will is the question anyone
  1491. 1:05:00can Mr Kio says try my plan I put it
  1492. 1:05:03together the Kio plan put aside $145 a
  1493. 1:05:06month for the next 30 years it's a
  1494. 1:05:08million dollar with the tax advantages 1
  1495. 1:05:11million 30 years Kio plan $145 a
  1496. 1:05:15month not a bad plan become a
  1497. 1:05:21millionaire now anybody
  1498. 1:05:23can the question is who will
  1499. 1:05:26that's the
  1500. 1:05:28question son asked his father when his
  1501. 1:05:31father's 50 we're rich right the Kio
  1502. 1:05:36thing his father said no no we're not
  1503. 1:05:39rich his son says well the the Kio thing
  1504. 1:05:41the 145 a month k thing he says yeah I
  1505. 1:05:43know the k thing but I didn't go for
  1506. 1:05:47that son says you didn't says
  1507. 1:05:53no I picked a another
  1508. 1:05:58plan for the
  1509. 1:06:00$145 so what' you do with $45 said well
  1510. 1:06:02I bought beer and
  1511. 1:06:05[Laughter]
  1512. 1:06:12cigarettes see anybody can whether you
  1513. 1:06:16will or not see that's the
  1514. 1:06:18question and here's a good question to
  1515. 1:06:21ask we are all buying somebody's plan
  1516. 1:06:24the question is who
  1517. 1:06:27who's got you talked into doing what
  1518. 1:06:28you're
  1519. 1:06:30doing who's got you talked into your
  1520. 1:06:32present
  1521. 1:06:34plan see 10 years from now you will
  1522. 1:06:36surely arrive the question is
  1523. 1:06:41where but see anybody if you want to can
  1524. 1:06:44go searching for a good plan pick it and
  1525. 1:06:46start working it and sure enough as the
  1526. 1:06:48time passes as it surely will 5 years
  1527. 1:06:49from now 10 years from now then you'll
  1528. 1:06:51be winding up wearing what you want to
  1529. 1:06:52wear driving what you want to drive
  1530. 1:06:54living where you want to live become
  1531. 1:06:55what you want to become but now is the
  1532. 1:06:57time to fix the next 10 years and who
  1533. 1:07:03can
  1534. 1:07:07anybody here's number
  1535. 1:07:09six the sixth key to sewing and reaping
  1536. 1:07:12this is leveling with you now as we
  1537. 1:07:13promis to do there's one thing better
  1538. 1:07:16than the truth and that's the whole
  1539. 1:07:19truth and here's part of the whole truth
  1540. 1:07:21of the law of sewing and reaping number
  1541. 1:07:23six is you could lose
  1542. 1:07:29there are times when you just lose no
  1543. 1:07:31matter what you do it's that kind of
  1544. 1:07:34planet you reap what you sow yes
  1545. 1:07:38but what does that mean yes but
  1546. 1:07:42well the farmer plants his crop in the
  1547. 1:07:45spring takes care of it all summer loves
  1548. 1:07:48his family Works 10 12 hours a day six
  1549. 1:07:50seven days a week is an honorable
  1550. 1:07:53man come fall he's got a beautiful crop
  1551. 1:07:57and he deserves every bit of
  1552. 1:07:59it but the day before he sends the
  1553. 1:08:02combines into the field a hail storm
  1554. 1:08:05comes along and beats it all in the
  1555. 1:08:08ground which means you
  1556. 1:08:14lose somebody says well what did he do
  1557. 1:08:17wrong answer nothing it's just that kind
  1558. 1:08:20of
  1559. 1:08:22planet sometimes it's going to hail on
  1560. 1:08:24your crop
  1561. 1:08:26and rain on your parade so you got to
  1562. 1:08:29get ready for that or you will be naive
  1563. 1:08:31that's just part of the life
  1564. 1:08:34Arrangement and don't press me why I was
  1565. 1:08:37not in on some of the original decisions
  1566. 1:08:38here so I don't know how it got set
  1567. 1:08:40up but there's just times sometimes you
  1568. 1:08:43lose that's part of life but now here's
  1569. 1:08:45number seven the seventh key to sewing
  1570. 1:08:48and
  1571. 1:08:50reaping and it goes like this it's just
  1572. 1:08:53another way to quote the same law and it
  1573. 1:08:55goes like
  1574. 1:08:56this if
  1575. 1:08:58you don't
  1576. 1:09:04so that's just another way to quote the
  1577. 1:09:06law if you don't SE what you don't reap
  1578. 1:09:10you don't even have a
  1579. 1:09:13[Music]
  1580. 1:09:16chance so if you looked at your game
  1581. 1:09:18plan tomorrow you might come to the
  1582. 1:09:20quick conclusion I got to get some seing
  1583. 1:09:22going how true get some SE and
  1584. 1:09:26going and remember you've got plenty of
  1585. 1:09:29time you've got all the time there
  1586. 1:09:32is some people spend enough TV time to
  1587. 1:09:35make a
  1588. 1:09:38fortune the latest article on television
  1589. 1:09:40watching in this country according to
  1590. 1:09:41the latest article the average
  1591. 1:09:43television is on in this country in
  1592. 1:09:44every household s hours a day called the
  1593. 1:09:48big
  1594. 1:09:51seven I asked a guy one time what his TV
  1595. 1:09:54cost he said about
  1596. 1:09:56$450 I said you forgot to look at the
  1597. 1:09:59price
  1598. 1:10:01tag he said what do you mean I knew he
  1599. 1:10:04was a TV Watcher I said that television
  1600. 1:10:07cost you in my opinion at least $122,000
  1601. 1:10:10a
  1602. 1:10:11year to watch it not to own it owning it
  1603. 1:10:17cheap watching it is what's expensive
  1604. 1:10:21and I said hey 12,000 a year is too much
  1605. 1:10:23to pay to watch TV that's too much pay a
  1606. 1:10:25little but not
  1607. 1:10:2912,000 and he's the guy that said I hope
  1608. 1:10:31pay TV never
  1609. 1:10:40comes okay we're trying to cover an
  1610. 1:10:43awful lot tonight I realize that but my
  1611. 1:10:46time schedule is such that uh we just
  1612. 1:10:49have to sort of give it all to you and
  1613. 1:10:51let you uh sort the rest out I wish we
  1614. 1:10:54had plenty of time for questions and
  1615. 1:10:55answers and that whole thing but our
  1616. 1:10:57time is just
  1617. 1:10:58limited but we are trying to go through
  1618. 1:11:00an awful lot I realize that but uh looks
  1619. 1:11:03like everybody's getting it this about
  1620. 1:11:05the note- takest crowd I've seen in a
  1621. 1:11:07long time incredible does anybody have
  1622. 1:11:09five pages yet anybody oh
  1623. 1:11:14fantastic
  1624. 1:11:16incredible
  1625. 1:11:19okay maybe you heard the story about the
  1626. 1:11:22preacher down in Texas southern part of
  1627. 1:11:24the country
  1628. 1:11:26um he was an evangelist back in the
  1629. 1:11:28horse and buggy
  1630. 1:11:30days and he was very good at being an
  1631. 1:11:33evangelist and a lot of people used to
  1632. 1:11:35come and hear him preach and one day he
  1633. 1:11:37put up his tent in one of these Texas
  1634. 1:11:38towns and expected a big crowd as usual
  1635. 1:11:40come hear him preach and he got there
  1636. 1:11:43first night of the Tent Revival walked
  1637. 1:11:45in 7:30 time to start and to his
  1638. 1:11:49surprise the tent was
  1639. 1:11:52empty he thought well something must be
  1640. 1:11:54draged drastically
  1641. 1:11:56wrong so he waited till qu to 8 nobody
  1642. 1:11:59showed up 8:00
  1643. 1:12:01zip
  1644. 1:12:03finally
  1645. 1:12:058:15 one lone C
  1646. 1:12:07Cowboy wandered up on his horse tied his
  1647. 1:12:10horse up outside came in sat down on the
  1648. 1:12:12front bench right waiting for something
  1649. 1:12:15to happen the preacher thought well at
  1650. 1:12:17least I better go down and talk to the
  1651. 1:12:19Cowboy so he walks down talks to the
  1652. 1:12:21Cowboy and he says Cowboy I'm the
  1653. 1:12:24preacher
  1654. 1:12:26and he said I don't know what to tell
  1655. 1:12:27you something's gone wrong he said this
  1656. 1:12:30tent was supposed to be full of people
  1657. 1:12:32he said I'm embarrassed he said you're
  1658. 1:12:35the only one that showed up and he said
  1659. 1:12:37I really don't know what to
  1660. 1:12:39do and the cowboy said well I'm not a
  1661. 1:12:42preacher so I really can't tell you what
  1662. 1:12:44to do you know he said I'm just a
  1663. 1:12:45cowboy but he said I know this if I went
  1664. 1:12:48out to feed my cattle and only one
  1665. 1:12:50showed up I'd at least feed
  1666. 1:12:53it the preacher thought
  1667. 1:12:55hey the cowboy is right if you've got a
  1668. 1:12:59good idea to share you should share it
  1669. 1:13:01if there's one or a
  1670. 1:13:03thousand so he got kind of inspired by
  1671. 1:13:05this conversation and he jumped up on
  1672. 1:13:07the platform started to preach as if the
  1673. 1:13:10tent was full of people just exploded
  1674. 1:13:12and he went for an hour hour and 15
  1675. 1:13:15minutes just kept rolling finally he
  1676. 1:13:18quit and when he finished he came down
  1677. 1:13:21off the platform talked to the Cowboy
  1678. 1:13:22again says well Cowboy what did you
  1679. 1:13:24think I'm a a sermon and the cowboy said
  1680. 1:13:27well I'm not a preacher so I really
  1681. 1:13:29can't tell you know he said I'm just a
  1682. 1:13:31cowboy but he said I know this if I went
  1683. 1:13:34out to feed my cattle and only one
  1684. 1:13:35showed up I'd feed it but I wouldn't
  1685. 1:13:38dump the whole load on
  1686. 1:13:44it so
  1687. 1:13:47anyway if it seems like we're dumping
  1688. 1:13:49the whole load tonight I guess we are
  1689. 1:13:51but uh gosh everybody's doing well I'm
  1690. 1:13:53having a good time I appreciate the
  1691. 1:13:55response here tonight okay the next
  1692. 1:13:57subject is setting
  1693. 1:14:00goals let me show you what turned my
  1694. 1:14:03life every Way but
  1695. 1:14:05Loose Mr scha dropped this idea on me
  1696. 1:14:08changed me
  1697. 1:14:11completely setting goals here's what can
  1698. 1:14:14easily happen if you don't set goals
  1699. 1:14:17it's easy to let life deteriorate into
  1700. 1:14:20making a
  1701. 1:14:22living instead of Designing a life
  1702. 1:14:25and we all have a choice make a living
  1703. 1:14:29or design a
  1704. 1:14:34life it's easy to get trapped by
  1705. 1:14:37economic necessity and settle for
  1706. 1:14:40existence rather than substance that's
  1707. 1:14:44easy but the best advice I I can give
  1708. 1:14:46you on how to break out of that trap is
  1709. 1:14:47to learn how to set
  1710. 1:14:51goals Mr scha put it to me this way he
  1711. 1:14:54said Jim if you had enough reasons you
  1712. 1:14:57could do the most incredible things I
  1713. 1:14:59never forgot how he put that if you have
  1714. 1:15:05enough
  1715. 1:15:08reasons see reasons will change your
  1716. 1:15:11whole
  1717. 1:15:13life Mr scha said to me he said Mr R I
  1718. 1:15:16think you've got plenty of intelligence
  1719. 1:15:18you've got plenty of talent you've got
  1720. 1:15:19plenty of ability probably what you lack
  1721. 1:15:22is plenty of reasons
  1722. 1:15:26he said I don't think your current bank
  1723. 1:15:28balance is a true indication of your
  1724. 1:15:30level of
  1725. 1:15:32intelligence I was happy to hear
  1726. 1:15:34that he said I think you're much smarter
  1727. 1:15:38than your present bank balance
  1728. 1:15:40indicates and that turned out to be true
  1729. 1:15:42I was much
  1730. 1:15:43smarter but of course my first question
  1731. 1:15:46was well then why isn't it bigger and he
  1732. 1:15:48said you don't have enough
  1733. 1:15:51reasons you've got enough intelligence
  1734. 1:15:55but not enough
  1735. 1:15:57reasons so see reasons can change your
  1736. 1:16:00life here's what else I found out
  1737. 1:16:02reasons come first answers come
  1738. 1:16:06second you don't get the answers to do
  1739. 1:16:09well till you get the
  1740. 1:16:13reasons life has a mysterious way of
  1741. 1:16:15hanging on to all the answers and only
  1742. 1:16:18gives them up to the people that are
  1743. 1:16:20inspired by
  1744. 1:16:22reasons so reasons make the difference
  1745. 1:16:25in how your life works out now what are
  1746. 1:16:27some of the reasons for doing well let's
  1747. 1:16:28go through a quick list called reasons
  1748. 1:16:30for doing
  1749. 1:16:34well first is personal reasons some
  1750. 1:16:38people do well for recognition some
  1751. 1:16:40people do well for
  1752. 1:16:42respect some people do well for the way
  1753. 1:16:45it makes them feel they love the feeling
  1754. 1:16:49of being a winner those are good reasons
  1755. 1:16:55I have some millionaire friends that
  1756. 1:16:56keep working 10 12 hours a day making
  1757. 1:16:59more
  1758. 1:17:01millions and it's not because they need
  1759. 1:17:04the
  1760. 1:17:05money it's because they need the joy and
  1761. 1:17:10the
  1762. 1:17:11satisfaction and the pleasure that comes
  1763. 1:17:14from being a constant
  1764. 1:17:17winner and see it's not just the money
  1765. 1:17:19anyway it's the journey not the
  1766. 1:17:23money once in a somebody says to me boy
  1767. 1:17:26if I had a million dollars I'd never
  1768. 1:17:27work another day in my life that's
  1769. 1:17:29probably why the good Lord sees to it
  1770. 1:17:31they don't get their million right
  1771. 1:17:33they'd quit they'd
  1772. 1:17:39quit okay next is family reasons some
  1773. 1:17:43people do extremely well for other
  1774. 1:17:45people and that's
  1775. 1:17:47powerful human beings can greatly affect
  1776. 1:17:51each
  1777. 1:17:53other sometimes we will do things for
  1778. 1:17:55somebody else we will not do for
  1779. 1:17:58ourselves we are made that
  1780. 1:18:03way I met a man one time who said Mr R
  1781. 1:18:05to do all the things I want to do with
  1782. 1:18:07my family around the world he said I got
  1783. 1:18:09to have at least a quarter of a million
  1784. 1:18:11dollars a
  1785. 1:18:12year I thought
  1786. 1:18:17incredible could a guy's family affect
  1787. 1:18:20him that much and the answer is of of
  1788. 1:18:26course how fortunate are the people that
  1789. 1:18:29find themselves greatly affected by
  1790. 1:18:32somebody for Personal
  1791. 1:18:37Achievement and we are
  1792. 1:18:40affected the writer of a recent song
  1793. 1:18:42said if not for
  1794. 1:18:45you the winter would hold no spring
  1795. 1:18:47couldn't hear a robin Singh I just
  1796. 1:18:51wouldn't have a clue if not for you
  1797. 1:18:56so we can be affected that might be one
  1798. 1:18:59of the most stimulating reasons to do
  1799. 1:19:01well finding
  1800. 1:19:04somebody when Andrew Carnegie died the
  1801. 1:19:08we little Scotsman that built the big
  1802. 1:19:09steel industry when he died they opened
  1803. 1:19:11up his desk and in one of the desk
  1804. 1:19:14drawers they found a slip of paper on
  1805. 1:19:16that piece of paper Mr Carnegie had
  1806. 1:19:18written his goal for his life and he
  1807. 1:19:21wrote it when he was in his 20s
  1808. 1:19:26and on that piece of paper it said I'm
  1809. 1:19:29going to spend the first half of my life
  1810. 1:19:31accumulating money I'm going to spend
  1811. 1:19:34the last half of my life giving it all
  1812. 1:19:40away what a
  1813. 1:19:42goal he got so inspired by that goal
  1814. 1:19:45that the first half of his life he
  1815. 1:19:47accumulated $450 million and the last
  1816. 1:19:51half of his life he gave it all
  1817. 1:19:57away good question tonight what's got
  1818. 1:20:00you turned
  1819. 1:20:01on what's got you bombed out of sight to
  1820. 1:20:04get up early and stay up late and hit it
  1821. 1:20:06all
  1822. 1:20:09day next
  1823. 1:20:12question what's got you turned
  1824. 1:20:17off when I found the answers to those
  1825. 1:20:20two questions my life exploded into
  1826. 1:20:22change I finally found out what had me
  1827. 1:20:25turned off and I got that cured and then
  1828. 1:20:28I got me a long enough list of reasons
  1829. 1:20:30to turn me
  1830. 1:20:31on and once the lights went on for me
  1831. 1:20:34age 25 they've never gone
  1832. 1:20:36out I've fallen out of the sky a few
  1833. 1:20:39times but I've never lost that drive to
  1834. 1:20:41make something unique out of my life see
  1835. 1:20:43reasons altered my whole
  1836. 1:20:48life now there's another list of reasons
  1837. 1:20:51called nitty gritty
  1838. 1:20:55hard little reasons sometimes those
  1839. 1:20:57little reasons are the most powerful
  1840. 1:20:59reasons that can change your
  1841. 1:21:02life sometimes it doesn't take
  1842. 1:21:06much I now carry several hundred in my
  1843. 1:21:10money
  1844. 1:21:11clip it's only a few hundred but it was
  1845. 1:21:14one of those reasons turned my life
  1846. 1:21:17around just before I met Mr
  1847. 1:21:20scha I heard a knock at the door I go to
  1848. 1:21:23the door and there's a little girl
  1849. 1:21:25standing there about this tall selling
  1850. 1:21:26Girl Scout
  1851. 1:21:28cookies and she gave me one of the
  1852. 1:21:30finest sales presentations I've ever
  1853. 1:21:32heard special deal several flavors this
  1854. 1:21:34whole package of stuff
  1855. 1:21:37$2 and with a big smile she very
  1856. 1:21:40politely asked me to
  1857. 1:21:43buy and I wanted
  1858. 1:21:46to big
  1859. 1:21:49problem I'm
  1860. 1:21:51broke I don't have two dolls
  1861. 1:21:56and to this day I can remember the pain
  1862. 1:21:59and the
  1863. 1:22:01embarrassment I'm a father I'm a husband
  1864. 1:22:05I've been to college I'm working I'm 25
  1865. 1:22:09I don't have
  1866. 1:22:10[Music]
  1867. 1:22:12$2 and I didn't want to tell her that
  1868. 1:22:15for some
  1869. 1:22:18reason so I did what I thought was next
  1870. 1:22:20best I lied to
  1871. 1:22:27I said hey look I've already bought lots
  1872. 1:22:30of Girl Scout cookies I've still got
  1873. 1:22:32plenty stacked in the house which was
  1874. 1:22:35not
  1875. 1:22:37true but it seemed to get me off the
  1876. 1:22:40hook for the moment she said well gosh
  1877. 1:22:43that's wonderful thank you very much and
  1878. 1:22:46she went
  1879. 1:22:48away when she left I closed the door and
  1880. 1:22:52that was the day I said to myself I
  1881. 1:22:54don't want to live like this
  1882. 1:22:58anymore I've had it with lion and I've
  1883. 1:23:02had it with being broke I'm never going
  1884. 1:23:04to let this happen to me ever again I
  1885. 1:23:07promised that day I would work as hard
  1886. 1:23:09as possible and would always carry
  1887. 1:23:12plenty it took me a little
  1888. 1:23:15while but now I do it was one of those
  1889. 1:23:18reasons and I guess I carry plenty for
  1890. 1:23:21two reasons one is the way it makes me
  1891. 1:23:22feel but also in in case I bump into
  1892. 1:23:25another girl scout selling cookies right
  1893. 1:23:28I'm
  1894. 1:23:33ready I walked out of the Bank of
  1895. 1:23:35America one time up in Saratoga
  1896. 1:23:37California where I used to live two
  1897. 1:23:40little girls selling candy right outside
  1898. 1:23:42the bank good
  1899. 1:23:45place some girls organization they're
  1900. 1:23:47working for right I come walking out of
  1901. 1:23:50the bank this first little girl walks up
  1902. 1:23:52to me she said mister would you like to
  1903. 1:23:53buy some C candy I said I probably would
  1904. 1:23:57what kind is it she said it's Alman
  1905. 1:24:02Roa I said my gosh that's my
  1906. 1:24:07favorite she said
  1907. 1:24:10wonderful I said how much is it she said
  1908. 1:24:13it's just
  1909. 1:24:15$2 I thought
  1910. 1:24:20incredible I said how many boxes of that
  1911. 1:24:23candy have you got
  1912. 1:24:26she said
  1913. 1:24:29five and her little friend was standing
  1914. 1:24:31there she was selling candy too I said
  1915. 1:24:33how many boxes have you got she said
  1916. 1:24:35I've got four I said that's nine I'll
  1917. 1:24:38take them
  1918. 1:24:40all they said
  1919. 1:24:43really I said yeah it's my favorite I've
  1920. 1:24:46got some friends I'll pass them around
  1921. 1:24:49they got so excited put all this candy
  1922. 1:24:51together I reached in my pocket gave him
  1923. 1:24:54the 18
  1924. 1:24:55when I've got the candy and they've got
  1925. 1:24:57the money that first little girl looked
  1926. 1:24:59up looks up at me she says Mister you
  1927. 1:25:02are really
  1928. 1:25:05something how about that can you imagine
  1929. 1:25:08only spending
  1930. 1:25:09$18 and have somebody look at you in the
  1931. 1:25:12face and say you are really
  1932. 1:25:15something now you know why I carry heavy
  1933. 1:25:19right I'm not going to miss anymore
  1934. 1:25:25it was just one of those reasons helped
  1935. 1:25:27to change my life one of my nitty-gritty
  1936. 1:25:30reasons was Budget
  1937. 1:25:32Finance Budget Finance used to grind my
  1938. 1:25:40soul way back in those early days I had
  1939. 1:25:43fallen for one of those consolidation
  1940. 1:25:46loans where you take all your little
  1941. 1:25:49hard to pay bills put them into one big
  1942. 1:25:51impossible to pay bill right
  1943. 1:26:00I would get four five payments behind
  1944. 1:26:03this one guy used to call me day and
  1945. 1:26:06night I don't think they're allowed to
  1946. 1:26:08do that anymore harassed me threatened
  1947. 1:26:11to run me in front of the judge
  1948. 1:26:12threatened to ruin my credit threatened
  1949. 1:26:14to embarrass my family one day he said
  1950. 1:26:17we're going to come get your car drag it
  1951. 1:26:19rear end up down the street in front of
  1952. 1:26:20your
  1953. 1:26:21neighbors the guy even called me a
  1954. 1:26:27flake and back in those days I'm broke
  1955. 1:26:30I'm pitiful there's nothing I can do
  1956. 1:26:32about it but I never forgot how the guy
  1957. 1:26:35treated
  1958. 1:26:37me and when I met Mr shelf and I got my
  1959. 1:26:41life started straightened out and the
  1960. 1:26:42money started to flow that was one of my
  1961. 1:26:44first projects Budget Finance I poured
  1962. 1:26:46it on day and
  1963. 1:26:49night I finally put all the money
  1964. 1:26:52together I owed him which was
  1965. 1:26:53considerable I picked a day for the
  1966. 1:26:55payoff and when the payoff day came I
  1967. 1:26:58put the money in small bills in a big
  1968. 1:27:04briefcase and I walked into the Budget
  1969. 1:27:07Finance office on Wilshire Boulevard in
  1970. 1:27:10Los Angeles the guy who harassed me so
  1971. 1:27:13often his desk was about three back I
  1972. 1:27:15walked right up to his desk startled him
  1973. 1:27:17he wonder what I was doing there it was
  1974. 1:27:20the first time I'd been there since I'd
  1975. 1:27:21borrowed the money right without saying
  1976. 1:27:24in a word I opened up this briefcase
  1977. 1:27:26dumped this pile of money all over his
  1978. 1:27:29desk I said count it it's all there I
  1979. 1:27:32will never be back and I turned around
  1980. 1:27:34and stormed
  1981. 1:27:37out now that might not be Noble but if
  1982. 1:27:41you haven't tried it you got to one
  1983. 1:27:45[Applause]
  1984. 1:27:49time it can be the day that turns your
  1985. 1:27:52life around all you need is a reason
  1986. 1:27:54that turns you
  1987. 1:27:56on one of my dear friends Robert Dew
  1988. 1:28:00Bobby used to be a school teacher in
  1989. 1:28:02Lindy Olive capital of the world Bobby
  1990. 1:28:06taught school several years got a little
  1991. 1:28:07weary teaching school one day decided he
  1992. 1:28:10wanted to get into sales so without
  1993. 1:28:12telling anybody he just up and quit his
  1994. 1:28:14job teaching school and jumped into
  1995. 1:28:16sales when he did his brother made fun
  1996. 1:28:21of him laughed at him
  1997. 1:28:25put him down said Roberts lost his mind
  1998. 1:28:29had a good job teaching school now he
  1999. 1:28:31thinks he's a s he's going to go down
  2000. 1:28:34the drain lose everything just put him
  2001. 1:28:36down something fierce Bobby
  2002. 1:28:38said the way my brother acted when I got
  2003. 1:28:41into sales he said that made me so mad I
  2004. 1:28:45decided to get
  2005. 1:28:50rich and my question for you tonight is
  2006. 1:28:54is it possible to get that
  2007. 1:28:59mad of
  2008. 1:29:04course wealth is not a matter of
  2009. 1:29:06intelligence it's a matter of
  2010. 1:29:12inspiration today Robert happens to be
  2011. 1:29:15one of my millionaire friends bobb's
  2012. 1:29:21Rich Frank sopor said one time the best
  2013. 1:29:24revenge is massive
  2014. 1:29:35success hey get you a long enough list
  2015. 1:29:37of reasons so that after tonight you
  2016. 1:29:38never lack for inspiration you might not
  2017. 1:29:41have all the answers right away but you
  2018. 1:29:42can get the answers if you can get the
  2019. 1:29:47reasons now let me give you a little
  2020. 1:29:49simple formula for goal setting
  2021. 1:29:52okay we take two two and a half hours on
  2022. 1:29:55the weekend for the whole 10-e plan we
  2023. 1:29:56don't have time for that tonight but let
  2024. 1:29:57me get you started with a little simple
  2025. 1:29:59formula Mr scha gave me and maybe this
  2026. 1:30:02will be helpful first of all I've
  2027. 1:30:04divided goals into two parts first is
  2028. 1:30:07long
  2029. 1:30:10range long range goals that's your
  2030. 1:30:15dreams your dreams for the next three
  2031. 1:30:17five 10 20 30 40 years actually the rest
  2032. 1:30:20of your life your dreams you've got to
  2033. 1:30:23keep
  2034. 1:30:26dreaming Ronald Reagan president said to
  2035. 1:30:29the Joint session of Congress a few
  2036. 1:30:31weeks ago the Republic is a
  2037. 1:30:34dream and if we don't keep dreaming we
  2038. 1:30:37will lose the
  2039. 1:30:40Republic your better future is a dream
  2040. 1:30:43for yourself and for your family where
  2041. 1:30:45do you want to go what do you want to do
  2042. 1:30:46what do you want to be what do you want
  2043. 1:30:48to see you've got to dream dreams
  2044. 1:30:51there's a Bible phrase that says without
  2045. 1:30:53dreams and vision
  2046. 1:30:54people perish you've got to have
  2047. 1:30:56something to go for that inspires the
  2048. 1:30:58heart and the
  2049. 1:31:01Soul
  2050. 1:31:04dreams from The Children of Sanchez it
  2051. 1:31:09says take the crumbs from starving
  2052. 1:31:12soldiers they won't die take the bread
  2053. 1:31:15from Hungry children they won't cry but
  2054. 1:31:18without dreams we all will
  2055. 1:31:22die you've got to
  2056. 1:31:24dream don't lose your
  2057. 1:31:28dreams for yourself for your future for
  2058. 1:31:32your family the dreams of love and
  2059. 1:31:34Enterprise and travel and doing things
  2060. 1:31:38becoming something unique on your
  2061. 1:31:40journey here don't lose your dreams do
  2062. 1:31:43some dreaming that's long range goals
  2063. 1:31:46you got to have those so that's number
  2064. 1:31:48one here's the second part of goals
  2065. 1:31:51short range
  2066. 1:31:55short range goals that's your goals for
  2067. 1:31:57tomorrow this week this month this year
  2068. 1:32:00the immediate future we call these
  2069. 1:32:02confidence
  2070. 1:32:03Builders because if you set up something
  2071. 1:32:05short range go for it get it lat latch
  2072. 1:32:07on to it work hard accomplish it that
  2073. 1:32:09starts building your strong feelings to
  2074. 1:32:11go for your
  2075. 1:32:14dreams now I've divided goals into three
  2076. 1:32:17categories here they are number one is
  2077. 1:32:21economic that's your goals for money
  2078. 1:32:23income business profits
  2079. 1:32:27production economics make sure you've
  2080. 1:32:30got your economics well
  2081. 1:32:32planned economics plays a major role in
  2082. 1:32:36everybody's life economics is Major
  2083. 1:32:39which means it ought to be meticulously
  2084. 1:32:41well planned for tomorrow this week this
  2085. 1:32:43month this year long
  2086. 1:32:46range what if you ask somebody tomorrow
  2087. 1:32:49if you could see their meticulously well
  2088. 1:32:50planned list of economic goals
  2089. 1:32:54what would they probably
  2090. 1:32:56say they say you're some kind of a nut
  2091. 1:32:59you must be
  2092. 1:33:02weird hey I found out what success is
  2093. 1:33:06success is doing what the failures won't
  2094. 1:33:11do make sure you've got your economics
  2095. 1:33:14well planned it'll put you in the top
  2096. 1:33:175% one of the key little subjects we
  2097. 1:33:19talk about on the weekend is the seven
  2098. 1:33:21fundamentals for wealth and happiness
  2099. 1:33:24and that's one of them well planned
  2100. 1:33:26economics it's a fundamental if you want
  2101. 1:33:28to do well join the top 5% anybody in
  2102. 1:33:31this room can join the top 5% if you
  2103. 1:33:36will okay now here's the second category
  2104. 1:33:40of goals things make a list of the
  2105. 1:33:43things you
  2106. 1:33:45want and on my list of things now I put
  2107. 1:33:47everything little things as well as
  2108. 1:33:49major things doesn't matter how small it
  2109. 1:33:50is it goes on my list I used to just put
  2110. 1:33:53major things cars homes I don't do that
  2111. 1:33:55anymore I now load my list with
  2112. 1:33:57everything
  2113. 1:34:00everything and the reason is part of the
  2114. 1:34:02fun of having a list is checking it
  2115. 1:34:05off that's it boy at the end of the day
  2116. 1:34:09if you can go got it got it got it got
  2117. 1:34:11it got it got it Whatever It Is Right
  2118. 1:34:13you get into the Habit so load up your
  2119. 1:34:16list the things you want now when you
  2120. 1:34:18check off something
  2121. 1:34:21major celebrate that's an important
  2122. 1:34:24point to make celebrate your
  2123. 1:34:31achievements Live It Up have a
  2124. 1:34:34party when you reach something you've
  2125. 1:34:36worked for for a while see we all grow
  2126. 1:34:40from two experiences one is called the
  2127. 1:34:42pain of losing the other one is called
  2128. 1:34:45the joy of
  2129. 1:34:46winning we need both of them amplify
  2130. 1:34:49them as much as you can which also means
  2131. 1:34:52make losing pain
  2132. 1:34:54if you set up something fooled around
  2133. 1:34:56didn't get it put it on
  2134. 1:34:58yourself on the other side if you did
  2135. 1:35:00get it congratulate yourself self-
  2136. 1:35:03congratulations is a sign of
  2137. 1:35:06maturity seeking congratulations is a
  2138. 1:35:09sign of
  2139. 1:35:10immaturity but hey winning and losing
  2140. 1:35:12see that's what it's all about that's
  2141. 1:35:14the name of the
  2142. 1:35:16game now some people lead such mediocre
  2143. 1:35:18lives at the end of the day they don't
  2144. 1:35:20know whether they're winning or losing
  2145. 1:35:23they got no clue guy's just going
  2146. 1:35:25through the day with his fingers
  2147. 1:35:28crossed there's a better
  2148. 1:35:31way okay here's the third category of
  2149. 1:35:34goals personal
  2150. 1:35:37development put those goals together
  2151. 1:35:39personal development goals that's your
  2152. 1:35:40goal is to be stronger more decisive be
  2153. 1:35:43a speaker be a
  2154. 1:35:44leader learn a language all kinds of
  2155. 1:35:47skills okay the whole weekend seminar
  2156. 1:35:50was designed to improve all your skills
  2157. 1:35:52so that you walk away more skillful and
  2158. 1:35:55that's what you want the personal
  2159. 1:35:56development skills that's what attracts
  2160. 1:35:58that's what brings good things to your
  2161. 1:35:59life the person you become more
  2162. 1:36:03skillful now this is quite a package to
  2163. 1:36:05work on economics things personal
  2164. 1:36:09development for tomorrow this week this
  2165. 1:36:12month this year long
  2166. 1:36:15range okay that'll get you
  2167. 1:36:18started now here's the simple formula
  2168. 1:36:20for setting goals it goes like this a
  2169. 1:36:24work on your
  2170. 1:36:26goals that's step one work on
  2171. 1:36:29them and I put the word work there
  2172. 1:36:31deliberately setting goals is plain hard
  2173. 1:36:35work I don't want to kids you we haven't
  2174. 1:36:37come here tonight to kid each
  2175. 1:36:40other it's work I know it's work that's
  2176. 1:36:43why a lot of people just let it slide
  2177. 1:36:45it's
  2178. 1:36:46work many people work hard on their job
  2179. 1:36:50but they don't work hard on their future
  2180. 1:36:54they just let that
  2181. 1:36:57slide and the work involved is making
  2182. 1:37:02plans I know most people don't I
  2183. 1:37:06understand that but don't let that be
  2184. 1:37:11you guy says well yeah you work where I
  2185. 1:37:13work but the time you struggle home it's
  2186. 1:37:16late you got to eat a bite to supper
  2187. 1:37:18watch little TV get to bed you can't sit
  2188. 1:37:20up half the night plan plan plan and the
  2189. 1:37:24guys
  2190. 1:37:28behind good worker hard worker
  2191. 1:37:32sincere but you got to be better than
  2192. 1:37:36sincere working
  2193. 1:37:39hard you got to be better than a good
  2194. 1:37:41worker you got to be a good
  2195. 1:37:45planner somebody once wisely said the
  2196. 1:37:47people who fail to plan are planning to
  2197. 1:37:50[Music]
  2198. 1:37:51fail well said
  2199. 1:37:54so work on your goals here's step
  2200. 1:37:57two write your goals
  2201. 1:38:00down that's so important I teach my
  2202. 1:38:03staff around the world put your goals in
  2203. 1:38:05your
  2204. 1:38:08Journal because one of the major people
  2205. 1:38:10you want to study is
  2206. 1:38:15yourself so here's the list of goals I
  2207. 1:38:17put together 3 weeks ago here's the list
  2208. 1:38:19of goals I put together two years ago
  2209. 1:38:22here's some of the changes I made re
  2210. 1:38:23arrangement of my priorities I scratched
  2211. 1:38:26these off I put these on I've gotten
  2212. 1:38:27these study your accomplishments study
  2213. 1:38:30what your desires are put them on paper
  2214. 1:38:33write them down here's another reason
  2215. 1:38:35for writing your goals down it shows
  2216. 1:38:37you're serious about doing better and to
  2217. 1:38:40do better you got to get
  2218. 1:38:43serious you don't have to be Grim but
  2219. 1:38:46you must be
  2220. 1:38:47[Music]
  2221. 1:38:50serious everybody hopes things will get
  2222. 1:38:55better everybody
  2223. 1:38:58hopes poor people hope that ought to
  2224. 1:39:01tell you
  2225. 1:39:03something it means the future does not
  2226. 1:39:06get better by hope it gets better by
  2227. 1:39:13plan I used to have the Affliction
  2228. 1:39:15called passive hope it's an
  2229. 1:39:21Affliction it's bad
  2230. 1:39:24probably what's even worse than that is
  2231. 1:39:25Happy hope now that is really bad that's
  2232. 1:39:30bad Happy
  2233. 1:39:33hope the guy's 50 and he's broke and
  2234. 1:39:36he's still smiling see that's not
  2235. 1:39:42good so get serious about your goals put
  2236. 1:39:45them on paper write them down there's
  2237. 1:39:48all kinds his goals her goals their
  2238. 1:39:51goals business goals Financial goals
  2239. 1:39:53Financial Independence goals family
  2240. 1:39:56goals I mean there's so many things to
  2241. 1:39:58work on on this that if you don't get
  2242. 1:40:00busy and work on it sure enough the time
  2243. 1:40:01will pass and sure enough 5 years from
  2244. 1:40:03now you'll wind up where you don't want
  2245. 1:40:05to be wearing what you don't want to
  2246. 1:40:06wear driving what you don't want to
  2247. 1:40:08drive being what you don't want to
  2248. 1:40:10be Now's the Time to fix
  2249. 1:40:13it now here's the third step to your
  2250. 1:40:16goals check the size of your goals and
  2251. 1:40:19the kinds of
  2252. 1:40:21goals how big they they are what kind
  2253. 1:40:24they
  2254. 1:40:26are affects
  2255. 1:40:30you and here's one of the important
  2256. 1:40:32phrases of the evening your goals are
  2257. 1:40:34affecting you whatever they
  2258. 1:40:37are your goals affect your handshake
  2259. 1:40:40your goals affect your attitude
  2260. 1:40:42personality your goals affect the way
  2261. 1:40:44you walk the way you talk the way you
  2262. 1:40:47dress all day long we're being affected
  2263. 1:40:51by our goals
  2264. 1:40:55now some people have goals but they have
  2265. 1:40:57such lousy
  2266. 1:40:59goal the effect is
  2267. 1:41:04bad I asked a guy one time what are your
  2268. 1:41:06goals for this month the guy said look
  2269. 1:41:08if I could just scrape up enough money
  2270. 1:41:09to pay these lousy bills that was his
  2271. 1:41:13goal I'm not saying it isn't a goal it's
  2272. 1:41:16a goal but it's such a lousy go the
  2273. 1:41:18effect is
  2274. 1:41:21bad you don't jump out of beted on
  2275. 1:41:23Monday morning and say oh boy another
  2276. 1:41:24chance to go out and scrape up the money
  2277. 1:41:26to pay my lousy bills so you don't do
  2278. 1:41:28that usually you say oh not another
  2279. 1:41:37mondy and some people have so given up
  2280. 1:41:39on
  2281. 1:41:40life they have joined the Thank God It's
  2282. 1:41:46Friday
  2283. 1:41:48Club how
  2284. 1:41:50sad surely those are the same people
  2285. 1:41:53when when life is over for them will say
  2286. 1:41:55thank God it's over let me give you a
  2287. 1:41:59Bible philosophy that teaches how to get
  2288. 1:42:01whatever you want that's the title of
  2289. 1:42:03the next set of notes how to get
  2290. 1:42:05whatever you
  2291. 1:42:07want from the
  2292. 1:42:11Bible now again I'm an amateur when it
  2293. 1:42:15comes to the Bible I'm not a pro but
  2294. 1:42:16this I can quote and I think that'll be
  2295. 1:42:21sufficient how to get whatever want
  2296. 1:42:23here's what it says if you're ready it
  2297. 1:42:26says
  2298. 1:42:32ask that's
  2299. 1:42:34it end of
  2300. 1:42:38notes
  2301. 1:42:40ask if there's one art in life to learn
  2302. 1:42:43extremely well that's got to be one of
  2303. 1:42:45them the art of
  2304. 1:42:49asking what does ask mean ask means what
  2305. 1:42:53do you
  2306. 1:42:56want and the formula is staggering it
  2307. 1:42:59says ask and
  2308. 1:43:02what a guy ought to look into
  2309. 1:43:11that he says yeah but you work where I
  2310. 1:43:13work by the time you struggle
  2311. 1:43:16home it's
  2312. 1:43:18late you got the toite a supper watch
  2313. 1:43:21little T TV get to bed you can't sit up
  2314. 1:43:24half the night ask ask ask and the guys
  2315. 1:43:28be
  2316. 1:43:29[Music]
  2317. 1:43:31H see you've got to be better than a
  2318. 1:43:33good worker you've got to be a good
  2319. 1:43:35asker now let me give you three key
  2320. 1:43:37points on asking and receiving this can
  2321. 1:43:40do it number
  2322. 1:43:42one asking is the beginning of
  2323. 1:43:47receiving asking starts a unique process
  2324. 1:43:50mental and emotional I don't even know
  2325. 1:43:52how it works all I know is it works it's
  2326. 1:43:55like pushing a button and all this
  2327. 1:43:57Machinery starts working I don't know
  2328. 1:44:00how it just works there's a lot of
  2329. 1:44:02things you don't need to know how just
  2330. 1:44:05work
  2331. 1:44:07them some people are always studying The
  2332. 1:44:09Roots others are picking the fruit I
  2333. 1:44:12mean it depends on what end of it you
  2334. 1:44:13want in
  2335. 1:44:18on asking is the beginning of receiving
  2336. 1:44:20so start the process here's number two
  2337. 1:44:23receiving is not the
  2338. 1:44:27problem receiving is
  2339. 1:44:31automatic now if that's true receiving
  2340. 1:44:33is not the problem what's the
  2341. 1:44:35problem failure to ask might be one of
  2342. 1:44:38your major problems I don't know check
  2343. 1:44:41it
  2344. 1:44:42out the guy says oh now I see it I got
  2345. 1:44:46up last year and hit it every day but
  2346. 1:44:48there's not a scrap of paper with my
  2347. 1:44:50goals on it
  2348. 1:44:53good
  2349. 1:44:55worker poor asker so you got to change
  2350. 1:44:58that here's number
  2351. 1:45:01three receiving is like the ocean
  2352. 1:45:04there's
  2353. 1:45:06plenty especially in
  2354. 1:45:12Califoria it's like an ocean
  2355. 1:45:19here success is not in short
  2356. 1:45:23Supply it isn't rationed and you stepped
  2357. 1:45:26up to the window and it was all gone no
  2358. 1:45:28no no it's like an ocean
  2359. 1:45:34here now if that's true what's the
  2360. 1:45:36problem well some people go to the ocean
  2361. 1:45:38with a
  2362. 1:45:41teaspoon have you got the
  2363. 1:45:45picture see what you want to do in view
  2364. 1:45:48of the size of the ocean is trade your
  2365. 1:45:50teaspoon for at least a bucket
  2366. 1:45:53and you'll look better down at the
  2367. 1:45:56ocean kids won't make fun of you
  2368. 1:46:02right okay now there's two ways to ask
  2369. 1:46:05and we'll wrap up goal setting two
  2370. 1:46:08ways here's number one ask with
  2371. 1:46:13intelligence it didn't say ask
  2372. 1:46:15intelligently but I'm sure it meant that
  2373. 1:46:18don't Mumble you don't get anything by
  2374. 1:46:21mumbling be clear C be specific
  2375. 1:46:24intelligent asking means how wide how
  2376. 1:46:26high how soon when what size what color
  2377. 1:46:29how
  2378. 1:46:31much Define what you want and describe
  2379. 1:46:34what you want that's powerful in the
  2380. 1:46:38weekend seminar we teach goals become
  2381. 1:46:40like a magnet they pull you that
  2382. 1:46:42direction and the better you describe
  2383. 1:46:44them the more they
  2384. 1:46:48pull so ask intelligently here's number
  2385. 1:46:51two ask with
  2386. 1:46:55faith that's the childish part of the
  2387. 1:46:57equation believe you can get what you
  2388. 1:47:00want like a
  2389. 1:47:05child not an adult adults are too
  2390. 1:47:11skeptical so the formula really reads
  2391. 1:47:14make plans like an adult and believe in
  2392. 1:47:17him like a
  2393. 1:47:19child and the most incredible things
  2394. 1:47:21will happen
  2395. 1:47:23just try it for 90 days just try it you
  2396. 1:47:27can always go back to the old ways just
  2397. 1:47:29try it just 90 days 90
  2398. 1:47:34days now here's the last qualifying
  2399. 1:47:37phrase on goal setting as we promised to
  2400. 1:47:38qualify everything and it simply goes
  2401. 1:47:41like this remember you won't get
  2402. 1:47:44everything you
  2403. 1:47:48want and we've already studied the
  2404. 1:47:50reason for that simply sometimes it haes
  2405. 1:47:53on your crop and rains on your parade
  2406. 1:47:56it's that kind of planet so you won't
  2407. 1:47:58get everything you want but if you will
  2408. 1:48:00work this goal setting formula you can
  2409. 1:48:03get plenty for wealth and
  2410. 1:48:07happiness okay that's goal setting we
  2411. 1:48:09use it around the
  2412. 1:48:11world we recommend
  2413. 1:48:14it now maybe it won't work as well for
  2414. 1:48:17you as it has for me I don't know maybe
  2415. 1:48:20not but what if it did
  2416. 1:48:25you got to
  2417. 1:48:27try the diseases of
  2418. 1:48:34attitude it's never that Pleasant to
  2419. 1:48:36talk about the negative but we got to
  2420. 1:48:38talk about it because life is part
  2421. 1:48:39negative these attitude diseases are
  2422. 1:48:42like weeds that grow in the garden it's
  2423. 1:48:44a normal part of life here's a good
  2424. 1:48:47phrase to note negative is normal it's
  2425. 1:48:50not successful but it's normal it's part
  2426. 1:48:52of
  2427. 1:48:55life and here's the next key in my
  2428. 1:48:58opinion you must learn to handle the
  2429. 1:49:00negative don't ignore it handle
  2430. 1:49:05it now I know some people teach the
  2431. 1:49:07other
  2432. 1:49:09way and listen to them and listen to me
  2433. 1:49:13and then make up your own mind right
  2434. 1:49:15don't be a
  2435. 1:49:16follower be a
  2436. 1:49:19student but I say you got to handle the
  2437. 1:49:22negative
  2438. 1:49:24you don't have to live in it you don't
  2439. 1:49:27have to dwell on it but you do have to
  2440. 1:49:29handle it my
  2441. 1:49:32opinion I know some people teach just
  2442. 1:49:34turn your head real quick and say
  2443. 1:49:35there's no weeds there's no weeds
  2444. 1:49:36there's no weeds they'll take your
  2445. 1:49:42guard so you've got to handle the
  2446. 1:49:46negative here's what part of it is it's
  2447. 1:49:48called the Great war between good and
  2448. 1:49:50evil Mr Reynolds and I working on a new
  2449. 1:49:53book this year called the Great war
  2450. 1:49:54between good and
  2451. 1:49:56evil and there is a war on the minute
  2452. 1:49:58you were born you got involved in the
  2453. 1:50:00war between good and evil between
  2454. 1:50:02Darkness and Light between negative and
  2455. 1:50:04positive between evil and good between
  2456. 1:50:08tyranny and democracy between weeds and
  2457. 1:50:10human activity I mean the war is
  2458. 1:50:16on if democracy sleeps guess who never
  2459. 1:50:19sleeps tyranny
  2460. 1:50:23in the absence of light guess what's
  2461. 1:50:24automatic
  2462. 1:50:27Darkness if good does not arouse itself
  2463. 1:50:30and become active guess what moves in
  2464. 1:50:34evil it's a war a mental War a physical
  2465. 1:50:39War a financial war between Enterprise
  2466. 1:50:42and ease between accomplishment and
  2467. 1:50:44failure it's a
  2468. 1:50:47war that's why there's an Old Testament
  2469. 1:50:50phrase that gives the best advice for
  2470. 1:50:52human activ when it says six days labor
  2471. 1:50:56one day
  2472. 1:51:00rest now I'm sure we've taken that to
  2473. 1:51:02mean don't work all seven days take one
  2474. 1:51:05off here's what it also means only take
  2475. 1:51:08one
  2476. 1:51:13off or you're liable to lose the
  2477. 1:51:18war now we've got it down to 5 and two
  2478. 1:51:22and maybe that's not too dangerous I
  2479. 1:51:24don't
  2480. 1:51:25know if God would have thought a 5- two
  2481. 1:51:28he might have made it 5- two I don't
  2482. 1:51:29know you can't think of
  2483. 1:51:31everything but here's what it does mean
  2484. 1:51:34Enterprise is better than ease if you
  2485. 1:51:36rest too long the jungle overtakes the
  2486. 1:51:40village now here's the good news about
  2487. 1:51:42the war between good and evil evil is no
  2488. 1:51:44match for good but good must be
  2489. 1:51:48active weeds are no match for human
  2490. 1:51:50activity but if you stand still how far
  2491. 1:51:53in will they
  2492. 1:51:55come all the way they'll grow right up
  2493. 1:51:58around your
  2494. 1:52:02shoes but if you get busy how far back
  2495. 1:52:04can you take
  2496. 1:52:05them as far as you
  2497. 1:52:08wish they're no match but you must be
  2498. 1:52:11active that's why the six and one make
  2499. 1:52:14sure you're not losing the war by taking
  2500. 1:52:16off too
  2501. 1:52:18much guess what the average years are
  2502. 1:52:20after retirement
  2503. 1:52:26six
  2504. 1:52:28six which means don't
  2505. 1:52:34retire your chances are too
  2506. 1:52:40slim okay the war between good and evil
  2507. 1:52:44the
  2508. 1:52:45weeds you got to make sure you recognize
  2509. 1:52:48the negative handle it deal with it and
  2510. 1:52:51then go on let's make a list of the
  2511. 1:52:53diseases of attitude that can wreck all
  2512. 1:52:55your chances to do
  2513. 1:52:57well one of the words that destroys
  2514. 1:52:59everything is called
  2515. 1:53:01neglect
  2516. 1:53:04neglect and I found this out a week of
  2517. 1:53:07neglect could cost you a year of repair
  2518. 1:53:09it isn't worth
  2519. 1:53:11it so what to be on the lookout for
  2520. 1:53:14here's the list if you were making it
  2521. 1:53:15you'd have the same list I've
  2522. 1:53:17got right we're not covering anything
  2523. 1:53:20new tonight this is a reminding session
  2524. 1:53:22not a teaching session but it doesn't
  2525. 1:53:24hurt to go over it again here's the list
  2526. 1:53:27attitude diseases number one is
  2527. 1:53:30indifference the shrug of the shoulder
  2528. 1:53:32the guy's not even concerned he's just
  2529. 1:53:36drifting this is called the mild
  2530. 1:53:38approach to
  2531. 1:53:41life a disease known as
  2532. 1:53:48mildness the guy says well I can't see
  2533. 1:53:50getting all that worked up
  2534. 1:53:54well to be any kind of winner you got to
  2535. 1:53:57get worked up there's one problem with
  2536. 1:54:00drift you cannot drift to the top of the
  2537. 1:54:05mountain and the good Lord said in the
  2538. 1:54:07closing chapters of the Bible here's the
  2539. 1:54:09best way to live one way or the other
  2540. 1:54:11that's best hot or what's next best cold
  2541. 1:54:14is next best to
  2542. 1:54:16hot not the Half Baked middle lukewarm
  2543. 1:54:19not too hot not too cold what a sad way
  2544. 1:54:21to live
  2545. 1:54:23I think what it means is pick a
  2546. 1:54:24direction and go with everything you got
  2547. 1:54:27just pick one and
  2548. 1:54:29go somebody says yeah but what if it's
  2549. 1:54:31the wrong direction you'll find out
  2550. 1:54:36quicker it won't take you 25 years to
  2551. 1:54:38wake up and say oh no I've been walking
  2552. 1:54:40the wrong
  2553. 1:54:42road I told my staff the other day next
  2554. 1:54:44best to Prosperity is
  2555. 1:54:48adversity if one doesn't get you pray
  2556. 1:54:50for the other
  2557. 1:54:53we all do better from one of two reasons
  2558. 1:54:55inspiration or
  2559. 1:55:00desperation and I don't wish anything
  2560. 1:55:02bad on you tonight but if you're not
  2561. 1:55:03inspired I hope a wagon comes down your
  2562. 1:55:10rut whatever it takes to get you to try
  2563. 1:55:13harder read more set your goals and go
  2564. 1:55:15for
  2565. 1:55:19it somebody asked me one time what
  2566. 1:55:21quality would I pick if I wanted to work
  2567. 1:55:23with somebody and you know what I picked
  2568. 1:55:25first number one strong
  2569. 1:55:28feeling please number one give me
  2570. 1:55:31somebody that feels strong about most
  2571. 1:55:34anything I don't even care just so they
  2572. 1:55:36believe
  2573. 1:55:38it even if they disagree with me
  2574. 1:55:41wonderful just so they disagree
  2575. 1:55:47vigorously I'm not saying it's easy to
  2576. 1:55:49win those kind of people to your point
  2577. 1:55:50of view but I'd rather do that than to
  2578. 1:55:52try to resurrect people from the dead
  2579. 1:55:54pump them up every month pump them up
  2580. 1:55:56Pump them
  2581. 1:55:58up I
  2582. 1:56:04pass the good Lord needs a leader for
  2583. 1:56:06the early Christians remember the early
  2584. 1:56:07days of the Christians not like today if
  2585. 1:56:10you were to stand up in the early days
  2586. 1:56:11and say I'm a Christian cut off your
  2587. 1:56:14head toss you and your wife in jail let
  2588. 1:56:16you rot I mean those were ugly
  2589. 1:56:19days being a Christian back then was not
  2590. 1:56:21called social
  2591. 1:56:24acceptable they didn't have
  2592. 1:56:27125,000 in the Los Angeles Coliseum to
  2593. 1:56:30hear Billy Graham on a Sunday afternoon
  2594. 1:56:33not back in those days back in those
  2595. 1:56:35days when the Christians got in the
  2596. 1:56:36Coliseum it was a different story right
  2597. 1:56:39I mean the word was stay out of the
  2598. 1:56:41Coliseum especially on
  2599. 1:56:44Sunday last Sunday was Lions 33
  2600. 1:56:46Christians
  2601. 1:56:49nothing see those were mean tough
  2602. 1:56:51struggles days for the Christians now
  2603. 1:56:53when the days are mean and tough and
  2604. 1:56:54struggling you got to have some kind of
  2605. 1:56:56leader do you know who the good Lord
  2606. 1:56:58picked for the leader when the days were
  2607. 1:57:00mean and
  2608. 1:57:01ugly
  2609. 1:57:04Saul from
  2610. 1:57:07Tarsus that's who he picked
  2611. 1:57:10Saul I'll tell you what I would have
  2612. 1:57:13picked him you would have picked him
  2613. 1:57:15anybody would have picked Saul Saul was
  2614. 1:57:18one of those incredible guys once he got
  2615. 1:57:20into something look out
  2616. 1:57:22everybody in the community knew what
  2617. 1:57:25Saul was in because whatever he joined
  2618. 1:57:27he flip all the switches open up all the
  2619. 1:57:28dials turn on all the Fosters and go
  2620. 1:57:30like Med he was known as all out Saul I
  2621. 1:57:32mean he was something else now at first
  2622. 1:57:36it wasn't working out well Saul hated
  2623. 1:57:39Christians which makes a poor leader
  2624. 1:57:41right I mean that won't
  2625. 1:57:44work Saul got this bug somewhere about
  2626. 1:57:47the Christians he got to hating
  2627. 1:57:48Christians and he hated them so bad
  2628. 1:57:51every time somebody would say Christian
  2629. 1:57:52he'd fly into a
  2630. 1:57:55rage and I guess he decided one life or
  2631. 1:57:58one day it was his mission in life to
  2632. 1:58:00get rid of all the Christians he was
  2633. 1:58:02Saul anyhow could do most anything he
  2634. 1:58:04wanted
  2635. 1:58:05to so he got him these letters of
  2636. 1:58:07authority to go around to the various
  2637. 1:58:09communities and hunt down the Christians
  2638. 1:58:11they said do whatever you want to with
  2639. 1:58:12them Saul they're unpopular anyhow drag
  2640. 1:58:14them in the streets whip them Stone them
  2641. 1:58:16torture him kill him you mention the
  2642. 1:58:18name Saul from Tarsus to the early
  2643. 1:58:20Christians I'll tell you what they would
  2644. 1:58:21do they would run hide lock the doors
  2645. 1:58:24leave town dive underground I've been in
  2646. 1:58:27the catacombs of Rome where they hid he
  2647. 1:58:30was mean I mean terribly
  2648. 1:58:32mean but remember the story one day
  2649. 1:58:35Saul's making it for Damascus heard
  2650. 1:58:37about some new Christians flies into a
  2651. 1:58:38rage takes off for Damascus and the
  2652. 1:58:40story said he was angry there's a little
  2653. 1:58:42sentence in the story that says on his
  2654. 1:58:44way to Damascus he was breathing out
  2655. 1:58:46threatenings and Slaughter which meant
  2656. 1:58:49he felt rather strong about the idea
  2657. 1:58:51right that's strong that's
  2658. 1:58:55strong but on this journey right
  2659. 1:58:57according to the story as Saul was
  2660. 1:58:59making his way to Damascus the good Lord
  2661. 1:59:01looks down out of heaven and says
  2662. 1:59:03there's my man Saul he's got to be
  2663. 1:59:07something
  2664. 1:59:08else and according to the story this
  2665. 1:59:10great light shines Out of Heaven knocks
  2666. 1:59:12him flat right off his horse grinds his
  2667. 1:59:16face in the dirt and blinds him for 3
  2668. 1:59:19Days the good Lord using recruiting
  2669. 1:59:21tools we can't use
  2670. 1:59:25but when you're Lord
  2671. 1:59:29right to make a long story short Saul
  2672. 1:59:32from Tarsus becomes converted to
  2673. 1:59:35Christianity he becomes
  2674. 1:59:37Paul the great leader the
  2675. 1:59:41Apostle and without a doubt the good
  2676. 1:59:43Lord got him a
  2677. 1:59:46Dandy one he didn't have to pump up
  2678. 1:59:49every month
  2679. 1:59:53in one of his later writings he said
  2680. 1:59:55thee things I once hated I now loved the
  2681. 1:59:57things I once loved I now
  2682. 2:00:01hate see that's strong here's the key to
  2683. 2:00:05the good life learn to put everything
  2684. 2:00:07you've got into everything you
  2685. 2:00:11do whatever you are doing pour it on it
  2686. 2:00:16will quickly open up into opportunity or
  2687. 2:00:18quickly disclose to you that you ought
  2688. 2:00:19to be doing something else
  2689. 2:00:22the delusion is if I had a better job
  2690. 2:00:24I'd really pour it
  2691. 2:00:26on see that's
  2692. 2:00:29delusion wherever you are pour it on
  2693. 2:00:32don't give somebody half a job for a
  2694. 2:00:35day's
  2695. 2:00:37pay pour it on see that'll help change
  2696. 2:00:39your life get rid of this disease here's
  2697. 2:00:42the next attitude disease
  2698. 2:00:45indecision mental paralysis the guy
  2699. 2:00:48can't make up his mind and it becomes a
  2700. 2:00:50disease pretty soon he knows he's got it
  2701. 2:00:53the guy says well I know I'm on the
  2702. 2:00:55fence but he says what if I get off on
  2703. 2:00:57the wrong side listen after a while it
  2704. 2:00:59doesn't matter just get
  2705. 2:01:02off any side will
  2706. 2:01:04do a life full of Adventure is a life
  2707. 2:01:07full of many
  2708. 2:01:08decisions the ones that turn out to be
  2709. 2:01:10wrong give you better experience to make
  2710. 2:01:12better decisions so don't see how many
  2711. 2:01:14decisions you can get out of see how
  2712. 2:01:16many you can get into that's where the
  2713. 2:01:18adventure is so shake off this disease
  2714. 2:01:20indecision
  2715. 2:01:22the next one is
  2716. 2:01:25doubt Doubt's like a plague and one of
  2717. 2:01:29the worst is Self Doubt there are many
  2718. 2:01:31but that's one of the worst the guy
  2719. 2:01:33doubts himself doubts if it'll last that
  2720. 2:01:36long for him doubts if he can do that
  2721. 2:01:37well doubts if he can make that much
  2722. 2:01:39doubts if he can accomplish all that a
  2723. 2:01:41chronic excellent
  2724. 2:01:43self-doubt you can imagine what damage
  2725. 2:01:45that does to your future so here's the
  2726. 2:01:48key turn this coin over and become a
  2727. 2:01:51believer
  2728. 2:01:53and there's many things to believe in
  2729. 2:01:55one of the majors is
  2730. 2:01:58yourself the understanding of selfworth
  2731. 2:02:00is the beginning of
  2732. 2:02:04progress now if those three don't get
  2733. 2:02:06you this one will
  2734. 2:02:10worry that's a devastating disease worry
  2735. 2:02:13worry causes health problems social
  2736. 2:02:16problems personal problems family
  2737. 2:02:18problems it's
  2738. 2:02:20devastating where long enough it'll drop
  2739. 2:02:22you to your
  2740. 2:02:24knees could reduce you to
  2741. 2:02:27begging I know how bad this one is I
  2742. 2:02:29used to have it
  2743. 2:02:31bad I used to be known as a super
  2744. 2:02:35Warrior not a super Warrior no super
  2745. 2:02:38Warrior my family wished I'd have been a
  2746. 2:02:43warrior I got those years to make up
  2747. 2:02:46for but I tell you what my advice to you
  2748. 2:02:50is do what I finally did on
  2749. 2:02:52worry give it
  2750. 2:02:54up who needs it I'm not saying it's easy
  2751. 2:02:59I'm saying it's worth
  2752. 2:03:01it it took me almost one year to kick
  2753. 2:03:03the worry habit and it was not an easy
  2754. 2:03:05year it was one of the toughest years I
  2755. 2:03:06ever spent but I finally got that monkey
  2756. 2:03:10off my back and I discovered you could
  2757. 2:03:13live the most incredible Life free of
  2758. 2:03:15worry not free of challenge not free of
  2759. 2:03:18difficulty free of worry I learned how
  2760. 2:03:20to do it and you can
  2761. 2:03:23here's the next attitude
  2762. 2:03:25disease over
  2763. 2:03:29caution some people never will have much
  2764. 2:03:32they're too
  2765. 2:03:36cautious now you can also be too
  2766. 2:03:38Reckless but you can also be too
  2767. 2:03:41cautious this is called the timid
  2768. 2:03:44approach to
  2769. 2:03:49life and my caution was always the risk
  2770. 2:03:51risk used to drive me right up the
  2771. 2:03:53wall I used to say what if this
  2772. 2:03:58happens it's called the language of the
  2773. 2:04:01poor what if this happens and on top of
  2774. 2:04:04that if this was to happen look at the
  2775. 2:04:06fix i' be in I better not
  2776. 2:04:09try I could always Ace myself
  2777. 2:04:12out then I'll tell you what changed my
  2778. 2:04:14whole life when I finally discovered
  2779. 2:04:17it's all
  2780. 2:04:20risky the minute you you were born it
  2781. 2:04:22got
  2782. 2:04:23risky if you think trying is risky wait
  2783. 2:04:25till they hand you the bill for not
  2784. 2:04:29trying if you think investing is risky
  2785. 2:04:31wait till you get the tab for not
  2786. 2:04:32investing see it's all risky getting
  2787. 2:04:35married is risky having children is
  2788. 2:04:36risky going into business is risky
  2789. 2:04:38investing your money is risky it's all
  2790. 2:04:42risky I'll tell you how risky life is
  2791. 2:04:44you're not going to get out
  2792. 2:04:47alive that's risky
  2793. 2:04:52the Englishman says well if that's the
  2794. 2:04:53way it's going to work out let's give it
  2795. 2:04:54a go right that's what it's for give it
  2796. 2:04:57a
  2797. 2:04:59go somebody says yeah but I'm looking
  2798. 2:05:02for Safety and Security fine then huddle
  2799. 2:05:04in a
  2800. 2:05:05corner we'll cover you with a sheet
  2801. 2:05:07bring you three meals a day and we'll
  2802. 2:05:10protect you feed you look after you care
  2803. 2:05:13for you we won't let anything happen to
  2804. 2:05:15you and you'll probably live to be
  2805. 2:05:18100 the guy said well yeah I'd live to
  2806. 2:05:20be 100 but what a way to live right what
  2807. 2:05:24a way to live safe and secure don't ask
  2808. 2:05:27for security ask for
  2809. 2:05:32adventure better to live 30 years full
  2810. 2:05:34of Adventure than 100 years safe in the
  2811. 2:05:40corner and see it's not important how
  2812. 2:05:43long you live what's important is how
  2813. 2:05:45you
  2814. 2:05:49live here's the next attitude disease
  2815. 2:05:52we're almost through with this mly list
  2816. 2:05:53in fact we're almost through hang
  2817. 2:05:56on the next one is
  2818. 2:06:03pessimism pessimism the deadly disease
  2819. 2:06:05of always looking on the bad side the
  2820. 2:06:07problem side the difficult side checking
  2821. 2:06:09all the reasons why it can't be done the
  2822. 2:06:12poor pessimist leads an ugly
  2823. 2:06:16life he doesn't try to figure out what's
  2824. 2:06:18right he tries to figure out what's
  2825. 2:06:20wrong he doesn't look for virtue he
  2826. 2:06:22looks for faults and when he finds them
  2827. 2:06:25he's delighted how
  2828. 2:06:28ugly this is the poor guy looks through
  2829. 2:06:30the window doesn't see the sunset he
  2830. 2:06:32sees the specks on the
  2831. 2:06:38window and this is the poor guy right
  2832. 2:06:40who rushes up takes such leave of his
  2833. 2:06:42senses this guy rushes up and he says
  2834. 2:06:44I've got five good reasons why it won't
  2835. 2:06:46work he's so dumb he doesn't know all
  2836. 2:06:48you needs one he's got five
  2837. 2:06:57to the pessimist the glass is always
  2838. 2:07:00half
  2839. 2:07:02empty to The Optimist the glass is half
  2840. 2:07:06full why would the same measure affect
  2841. 2:07:09people two different ways answer it all
  2842. 2:07:11depends on how you look at it our lives
  2843. 2:07:14are mostly affected by the way we think
  2844. 2:07:17things
  2845. 2:07:18are not the way they are the the way we
  2846. 2:07:22think they are affects us
  2847. 2:07:27most there's a subject we don't have
  2848. 2:07:28time to get into tonight called better
  2849. 2:07:30thinking
  2850. 2:07:32habits one of the major things show
  2851. 2:07:35taught me when I met him he said poor
  2852. 2:07:37thinking habits keeps most people poor
  2853. 2:07:42not poor working habits most people work
  2854. 2:07:44hard but they don't think
  2855. 2:07:46hard and Cha taught me that the mind is
  2856. 2:07:48like a factory a mental Factory and
  2857. 2:07:51whatever you think about all day long
  2858. 2:07:53pours ingredients into this mental
  2859. 2:07:55Factory and that's what builds the
  2860. 2:07:57economic
  2861. 2:07:59social Financial fabric of your
  2862. 2:08:04life he quoted me a Bible phrase that
  2863. 2:08:07says as you think so you
  2864. 2:08:11become how
  2865. 2:08:15awesome when he talked about poor
  2866. 2:08:17thinking habits he had me I used to
  2867. 2:08:20start the day reading the morning
  2868. 2:08:22newspaper I mean you can believe that or
  2869. 2:08:24not I'd get a cup of coffee and read the
  2870. 2:08:26paper I'd load up on Wars and riots and
  2871. 2:08:28murders and stabbings and killings and
  2872. 2:08:30bank robberies and muggings and car
  2873. 2:08:31wrecks and tragedies I'd even read the
  2874. 2:08:33back pages I seem to like that stuff for
  2875. 2:08:35some weird reason I'd load up on all
  2876. 2:08:37that and then I'd start the day you can
  2877. 2:08:38imagine the kind of days I used to have
  2878. 2:08:42you walk around on your financial
  2879. 2:08:44knees they call you economic peeeee
  2880. 2:08:55the guy says I want to be a great leader
  2881. 2:08:59wonderful the first thing we do is
  2882. 2:09:01follow him to his house when we get
  2883. 2:09:03there we walk in and check his
  2884. 2:09:07library number
  2885. 2:09:10one somebody says well why check his
  2886. 2:09:13Library the reason is because what a man
  2887. 2:09:17reads pours massive ingredients into his
  2888. 2:09:21mental Factory and the fabric of his
  2889. 2:09:23life is built from those
  2890. 2:09:28ingredients you would not believe what
  2891. 2:09:30some people have got in their house to
  2892. 2:09:34read you would not believe one of the
  2893. 2:09:36best dressed up words I know for a lot
  2894. 2:09:38of it is
  2895. 2:09:39trash can you imagine dumping a barrel
  2896. 2:09:41of trash into this mental Factory every
  2897. 2:09:44day and coming out with a rich Dynamic
  2898. 2:09:46positive life it can't be
  2899. 2:09:49done you might as well try making a cake
  2900. 2:09:52with
  2901. 2:09:56cement the kids back in Danbury
  2902. 2:09:59Connecticut High School they're asking
  2903. 2:10:02me questions one day I'm talking to the
  2904. 2:10:03kids kids got good questions these days
  2905. 2:10:06one of them said to me Mr R how do you
  2906. 2:10:08build the good
  2907. 2:10:09life I said it's simple it's not easy
  2908. 2:10:16but it's simple here's how you build
  2909. 2:10:19anything select the right ingredients
  2910. 2:10:21keep out the wrong ingredients and it
  2911. 2:10:24starts with
  2912. 2:10:27thought everything starts with thought
  2913. 2:10:30so you must be wise and careful what you
  2914. 2:10:34think about because that starts
  2915. 2:10:39everything you got to be wise and
  2916. 2:10:43careful I asked the
  2917. 2:10:45kids what would happen if somebody
  2918. 2:10:47dropped sugar in my coffee they said
  2919. 2:10:50well you'd be okay
  2920. 2:10:52I said what if somebody dropped strick
  2921. 2:10:54nine in my
  2922. 2:10:55coffee they said well you'd be dead I
  2923. 2:10:59said correct lesson one life is both
  2924. 2:11:02sugar and strict
  2925. 2:11:05nine you got to be
  2926. 2:11:10careful I said what if my worst enemy
  2927. 2:11:12drops in the sugar they said will you be
  2928. 2:11:15okay I said what if my best friend even
  2929. 2:11:18by accident drops in the strick nine
  2930. 2:11:20they said well you'd be dead I said
  2931. 2:11:22correct lesson two watch your
  2932. 2:11:30coffee you got to be careful see it
  2933. 2:11:32doesn't matter who hands you the bad
  2934. 2:11:34stuff it doesn't matter where you get
  2935. 2:11:36the bad stuff it'll still do its damage
  2936. 2:11:38on your bank account wherever you get
  2937. 2:11:42it Mr scha gave me one of the greatest
  2938. 2:11:45phrases when I first met him when he
  2939. 2:11:46said Jim every day stand guard at the
  2940. 2:11:50door of of your
  2941. 2:11:56mind how
  2942. 2:11:58important stand guard at the door of
  2943. 2:12:03your
  2944. 2:12:06mind and you decide what goes into your
  2945. 2:12:08mental Factory don't let anybody just
  2946. 2:12:10dump anything they want to in your
  2947. 2:12:12mental Factory because you've got to
  2948. 2:12:13live with the
  2949. 2:12:18results okay here's the last disease and
  2950. 2:12:20we're through with this list in fact
  2951. 2:12:21we're almost through hang
  2952. 2:12:24on the last subject is very
  2953. 2:12:27brief the last disease but this one is
  2954. 2:12:30deadly engage in this one indulge in it
  2955. 2:12:33even slightly and you might as well
  2956. 2:12:34forget the future because it's going to
  2957. 2:12:35forget you
  2958. 2:12:39complaining crying whining griping a
  2959. 2:12:44Bible word called murmuring see that'll
  2960. 2:12:47Ace your
  2961. 2:12:49future spend 5 minutes complaining and
  2962. 2:12:51you have wasted five and you may have
  2963. 2:12:54begun what's known as economic cancer of
  2964. 2:12:56the
  2965. 2:12:57bone surely they will soon haul you off
  2966. 2:13:00into a financial desert and there let
  2967. 2:13:02you choke on the dust of your own
  2968. 2:13:05regret I hope I said that well so you
  2969. 2:13:08won't forget it's a deadly
  2970. 2:13:11disease if you don't think it's bad ask
  2971. 2:13:14the children of Israel of Old Testament
  2972. 2:13:16Fame typical of us all their story just
  2973. 2:13:19happened to get in the book
  2974. 2:13:21story says children of Israel were
  2975. 2:13:24slaves God performed a series of
  2976. 2:13:27dazzling Miracles and got them out and
  2977. 2:13:30now they're heading for the promised
  2978. 2:13:31land remember the story heading for the
  2979. 2:13:34promised land tragedy of the story they
  2980. 2:13:37never got
  2981. 2:13:39there
  2982. 2:13:41reason from day one they started to
  2983. 2:13:46complain they griped about the water
  2984. 2:13:50they griped about about the weather they
  2985. 2:13:53whined and cried and griped about the
  2986. 2:13:55food they griped about the leadership
  2987. 2:13:57they whined and cried because it was too
  2988. 2:13:59far too cold too hot too difficult too
  2989. 2:14:03miserable I mean they whed and whined
  2990. 2:14:06and cried for years finally God said
  2991. 2:14:09I've had it trip
  2992. 2:14:13canel or something like
  2993. 2:14:17that the story says they died in the
  2994. 2:14:21desert never got to the promised
  2995. 2:14:26land which I think means two things
  2996. 2:14:28indulge in this long enough you get your
  2997. 2:14:30future K and I guess it also means even
  2998. 2:14:34God himself can only take so
  2999. 2:14:41much
  3000. 2:14:45okay just be on the lookout of the
  3001. 2:14:47things that can destroy all the good you
  3002. 2:14:48start the war is on
  3003. 2:14:51and this evening tomorrow mentally
  3004. 2:14:53personally socially economically you got
  3005. 2:14:56to make sure you're winning the war and
  3006. 2:14:58this is part of
  3007. 2:15:01it
  3008. 2:15:03okay here's the last subject the day
  3009. 2:15:06that turns your life
  3010. 2:15:09around let me just quickly give you a
  3011. 2:15:11list of four emotions that can change
  3012. 2:15:13your life in one
  3013. 2:15:15day emotions are
  3014. 2:15:18powerful sometimes it doesn't take much
  3015. 2:15:20to alter your whole life
  3016. 2:15:27Direction okay here they are number one
  3017. 2:15:33disgust powerful emotion disgust says I
  3018. 2:15:39have had
  3019. 2:15:42it see that could be the day the day you
  3020. 2:15:45can say I've had
  3021. 2:15:47it and whether you've had it with
  3022. 2:15:49something small or something major
  3023. 2:15:51the day you can say I've had it may not
  3024. 2:15:54be the day it ends but the day it
  3025. 2:15:57begins that's what I said when that
  3026. 2:15:59little girl scout left my door when I'm
  3027. 2:16:0125 I give her the big lie she leaves I
  3028. 2:16:05say I don't want to live like this
  3029. 2:16:11anymore I've had it with lying and being
  3030. 2:16:16broke powerful
  3031. 2:16:19day the man's finally had it with
  3032. 2:16:24mediocrity he's had it with being a
  3033. 2:16:27loser he's finally had it with those
  3034. 2:16:30awful sick feelings inside knowing his
  3035. 2:16:32wife is at the grocery store looking at
  3036. 2:16:34two cans of beans one Mark 37 cents one
  3037. 2:16:37Mark 39 cents and the guy sick inside
  3038. 2:16:39knows his wife's going to buy the 37
  3039. 2:16:41Cent can and she doesn't even like the
  3040. 2:16:44brand do you know why she's going to buy
  3041. 2:16:46the 37 Cent
  3042. 2:16:48can to save
  3043. 2:16:51to
  3044. 2:16:53sin the guick inside finally says I've
  3045. 2:16:57had it being on my knees in the dust
  3046. 2:17:00looking for pennies we're not living
  3047. 2:17:02like this
  3048. 2:17:04any
  3049. 2:17:09more could be the day that turns your
  3050. 2:17:11life around the day you can say I've had
  3051. 2:17:18it he walks into his closet and rips
  3052. 2:17:21everything in it to shreds and says I've
  3053. 2:17:25worn this embarrassing stuff for the
  3054. 2:17:28last
  3055. 2:17:29time and not only will I never wear it
  3056. 2:17:32again no one
  3057. 2:17:34else will ever wear it
  3058. 2:17:37again commit an act that
  3059. 2:17:40says
  3060. 2:17:42I've had
  3061. 2:17:44it powerful here's the next one
  3062. 2:17:49decision and decision- making is
  3063. 2:17:52powerful and it's emotional that's those
  3064. 2:17:55knots in the pity of your stomach right
  3065. 2:17:57waking up in the middle of the night in
  3066. 2:17:58a cold sweat trying to
  3067. 2:18:02decide we sometimes call it inner Civil
  3068. 2:18:07War what shall I
  3069. 2:18:10do well for Progress you must
  3070. 2:18:15decide the best advice I can give you
  3071. 2:18:17came from a wealthy friend of mine who
  3072. 2:18:19said if if it's easy do it easy if it's
  3073. 2:18:23hard do it hard just get it
  3074. 2:18:29done if you went home tonight and in the
  3075. 2:18:32next few days cleaned up a whole list of
  3076. 2:18:34decisions that might furnish enough
  3077. 2:18:36inspiration for the next 10
  3078. 2:18:39years I found this out many times after
  3079. 2:18:42you've decided getting on with it is
  3080. 2:18:44easier than deciding sometimes decision
  3081. 2:18:46is the toughest
  3082. 2:18:48part here's the next emotion desire
  3083. 2:18:51wanting to bad
  3084. 2:18:54enough and I don't know how to tell you
  3085. 2:18:57to want to that's something you've got
  3086. 2:18:58to come up
  3087. 2:18:59with there's two things I know about
  3088. 2:19:01desire number one it comes from inside
  3089. 2:19:04not outside you don't send off for
  3090. 2:19:09it number two I know desire can be
  3091. 2:19:14triggered by something who knows what it
  3092. 2:19:17might be sometimes desire Waits and
  3093. 2:19:20sleeps for something to
  3094. 2:19:22happen maybe it's a book maybe it's a
  3095. 2:19:25song maybe it's a sermon maybe it's a
  3096. 2:19:28lecture a seminar maybe it's the
  3097. 2:19:30conversation of a friend a happening an
  3098. 2:19:34event who knows the best I can advice I
  3099. 2:19:38can give you is what I give my staff it
  3100. 2:19:40goes like this welcome every Human
  3101. 2:19:44Experience you never know which one is
  3102. 2:19:47going to turn it all on
  3103. 2:19:50even the bad
  3104. 2:19:52experiences sometimes from The bitterest
  3105. 2:19:55Experience comes the greatest
  3106. 2:19:57Awakening so let down the barriers take
  3107. 2:20:00down the Walls the same wall that keeps
  3108. 2:20:02out disappointment keeps out
  3109. 2:20:07happiness let Life Touch you don't let
  3110. 2:20:09it kill you but let it touch
  3111. 2:20:13you here's the last one this one's
  3112. 2:20:16powerful
  3113. 2:20:19resolve resolve says I will two of the
  3114. 2:20:22most powerful words in the language I
  3115. 2:20:26will Benjamin Disraeli once said nothing
  3116. 2:20:29can resist a human
  3117. 2:20:31will that will stake even its existence
  3118. 2:20:34on the extent of its
  3119. 2:20:36purpose shortly put I'll do it or
  3120. 2:20:40die see that's powerful that could be
  3121. 2:20:43the day that turns your life around the
  3122. 2:20:45world has a strange way of stepping
  3123. 2:20:47aside when somebody says I'll do it or
  3124. 2:20:49die
  3125. 2:20:52the man says I will climb the mountain
  3126. 2:20:56they've told me it's too high it's too
  3127. 2:20:57far it's too Rocky it's too difficult
  3128. 2:20:59it's never been done before but it's my
  3129. 2:21:01Mountain I will climb it pretty soon
  3130. 2:21:03you'll see me waving from the top or
  3131. 2:21:06dead on the side cuz I ain't coming
  3132. 2:21:15back the best definition I ever got from
  3133. 2:21:18the word resolv came from a little
  3134. 2:21:19Junior High girl in Foster City
  3135. 2:21:21California up North I'm talking to the
  3136. 2:21:24Junior High kids one day I love to ask
  3137. 2:21:27kids definitions they come up with
  3138. 2:21:30Beauties I got to the word resolve and I
  3139. 2:21:32asked who can tell me what resolve means
  3140. 2:21:36and I got several hands and they were
  3141. 2:21:38all pretty good but the last one was the
  3142. 2:21:41best little girl about three rolls back
  3143. 2:21:44held up her hand she said Mr rone Mr
  3144. 2:21:46rone I think I know what resolve means I
  3145. 2:21:49said' darling what do you think it means
  3146. 2:21:50she said 'I think it
  3147. 2:21:52means promising yourself you will never
  3148. 2:21:55give
  3149. 2:21:57up I said that's
  3150. 2:22:00it Webster stand aside that is the
  3151. 2:22:06definition promise yourself you will
  3152. 2:22:08never give
  3153. 2:22:10up I asked the kids how long should the
  3154. 2:22:13a baby try to learn how to
  3155. 2:22:16walk how long how long would you give
  3156. 2:22:18your average baby before you shut him
  3157. 2:22:19off how
  3158. 2:22:22long see any mother in the world would
  3159. 2:22:25say you're crazy my baby's going to keep
  3160. 2:22:27trying until it learns how to walk what
  3161. 2:22:29a magic
  3162. 2:22:34formula now let me show you what
  3163. 2:22:36triggers all emotions into activity that
  3164. 2:22:39brings results and results is the name
  3165. 2:22:42of the game here it
  3166. 2:22:44is
  3167. 2:22:45action finally you must do something
  3168. 2:22:48about how you feel
  3169. 2:22:54Jesus the master teacher said don't just
  3170. 2:22:56be listeners be doers the world admires
  3171. 2:23:01the doers

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