Jim Rohn Living An Exceptional Life - Personal Development Coaching — Transcript
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- 0:01[Music]
- 0:06better life media America's leading
- 0:09source for Life Improvement
- 0:12presents Jim
- 0:14Rose living an exceptional
- 0:17[Music]
- 0:25life hey thank
- 0:28you how's everybody
- 0:31nice to see you thanks for coming today
- 0:34I appreciate it very much and uh I'm
- 0:36just delighted to be here how many of
- 0:38you have never seen me before this your
- 0:40first time wow
- 0:43everybody I keep thinking I'm famous but
- 0:46I guess you know that settles that
- 0:47anyway nice to see you I've got some
- 0:50interesting ideas to share with you if
- 0:51you're ready say I'm
- 0:53ready and if you'll take some good notes
- 0:55I got some lists for you to make that
- 0:58you can take home with you and Ponder
- 1:00at later times some of the things I want
- 1:03to share with you I was raised in
- 1:05Southwest Idaho my parents gave me an
- 1:09incredibly excellent start in my life
- 1:12which I appreciated very much but I quit
- 1:15school at age
- 1:1719
- 1:20unfortunately my reasoning was I'm smart
- 1:23enough to get a job how much smarter do
- 1:26you need to
- 1:27be and with that shallow thinking I quit
- 1:30school age 19 and got a job went to work
- 1:34little while later got married started a
- 1:37little
- 1:38family and I'm struggling and you know
- 1:40trying to do my best but it seems like
- 1:43each year I'm falling just a little bit
- 1:45further
- 1:47behind finally age
- 1:5025 the climax of my sort of you know
- 1:55weariness with where I was not doing as
- 1:57well as I thought I should I hear a
- 2:01knock on my door and I happen to be home
- 2:04alone when I opened the door there was a
- 2:06little girl scout about this tall
- 2:08selling Girl Scout
- 2:10cookies and she gave me the finest sales
- 2:13presentation I've ever heard Girl Scouts
- 2:15around the world no better
- 2:18organization and we've got these cookies
- 2:21only $2 several flavors and with a big
- 2:26smile she very politely asked me to buy
- 2:30no problem I wanted to buy big problem I
- 2:35haven't got $2 in my
- 2:38pocket now I'm a grown man I live in
- 2:42America I've been to one year of college
- 2:44I'm married I've got a family and I
- 2:47don't have $2 in my
- 2:50pocket and I didn't want to tell her
- 2:52that so I did what I thought was next
- 2:54best I lied to her I said hey look I've
- 2:58already bought lots of girls Girl Scout
- 3:00cookies I've still got plenty in the
- 3:02house that we haven't eaten yet and she
- 3:04said oh that's wonderful thank you very
- 3:07much and she leaves when she leaves I
- 3:10say to myself I don't want to live like
- 3:14this
- 3:15anymore I mean how low can you get lying
- 3:18to a Girl Scout I mean that's about as
- 3:22low as you can go but I promised myself
- 3:24that day I was going to start my search
- 3:27of finding opportunity finding somebody
- 3:30who could teach me and Coach me on doing
- 3:32much better for myself and for my family
- 3:34and for my future and shortly after that
- 3:37I met a most extraordinary man very
- 3:41wealthy but um a friend of mine said you
- 3:45got to meet this man he's rich but he's
- 3:48easy to talk to he's got a unique
- 3:50philosophy of business and life and the
- 3:53more he told me about this man the more
- 3:55I said I've got to meet this guy and
- 3:58shortly after that I had a chance to
- 3:59meet him sure
- 4:01enough uh when I met him I was impressed
- 4:04obviously he was rich but he was
- 4:07friendly and easy to talk to and I said
- 4:09to myself if I could just get around
- 4:12someone like him and if he would coach
- 4:15me I would be willing to learn anything
- 4:17I'd love to be like him well my good
- 4:20fortune was he invited me to join his
- 4:23company and over the next 5 years my
- 4:25dream came true he coached me and taught
- 4:28me how to turn my life from pennies to
- 4:31Fortune and he's not alive anymore but
- 4:34uh I'd like to pay tribute to him one
- 4:36more time Mr Earl cha for the dramatic
- 4:40impact he had on my life especially
- 4:43during that five-year period And so my
- 4:46whole life turned around I made my
- 4:48fortune by the time I was 32 starting at
- 4:51age
- 4:5225 and um some of the ideas that I want
- 4:55to share with you today came from that
- 4:57five-year experience
- 5:00then from there I got into lecturing and
- 5:02giving seminars and I've written a few
- 5:04books and uh my career now spans about
- 5:0741 years but I'll never forget the
- 5:10impact this gentleman had on my life
- 5:13with a few simple
- 5:15Concepts that totally changed my life
- 5:17changed my future and changed everything
- 5:20Jim Ron's view of the 21st century
- 5:22here's number one
- 5:24unprecedented
- 5:27opportunity we not only have begun a New
- 5:30Century Century 21 it's a new
- 5:34millennium a millennium is a
- 5:36Thousand-Year period we've had six so
- 5:38far this is the beginning of the seventh
- 5:41Millennium and some Scholars tell us
- 5:44that this could very well be an
- 5:45extraordinary time for the human race
- 5:48this seventh
- 5:50Millennium and there's probably a lot of
- 5:52good reason that that is probably
- 5:55true unprecedented opportunity uh We've
- 5:58now got the technology
- 6:00uh we pick up a telephone now and talk
- 6:01to somebody on the other side of the
- 6:03world Transportation now is so easy I
- 6:07get on an airplane in Los Angeles and uh
- 6:1013 hours later I'm in
- 6:12Tokyo five meals three movies and you're
- 6:15there I mean you know it's a simple deal
- 6:18anyway we've got technology we've got
- 6:19Transportation we've got all the rest
- 6:21right so this is going to be a time of
- 6:23unprecedented opportunity in every field
- 6:26you can imagine every industry every
- 6:29every country it's going to be the
- 6:31greatest period of opportunity time in
- 6:35the history of the human race the 21st
- 6:37century especially these opening years
- 6:39of the 21st century so that's number one
- 6:42unprecedented opportunity now here's the
- 6:44second note to take now also Keen
- 6:48competition because we now play the
- 6:50world game and it's not just competition
- 6:53across the street and Company to company
- 6:55and you know division to division and uh
- 6:58you know company to company now it's
- 7:00worldwide
- 7:02competition a job now becomes available
- 7:04does it go to someone in Minnesota or
- 7:06someone in
- 7:08India worldwide competition so now
- 7:12you've got to be ready to cash in on the
- 7:14opportunity but you've also got to be
- 7:16ready for the competition so I've got
- 7:20some interesting ideas on how to be
- 7:21prepared for both opportunity and
- 7:25competition in these opening years of
- 7:27the 21st century here's some of my best
- 7:30advice number one you've got to have
- 7:33more than one
- 7:36skill it's okay to have one skill but
- 7:38I'm telling you if you want economic
- 7:40safety for the future especially this
- 7:42Century my personal opinion you need
- 7:45more than one
- 7:47skill we've seen people ride the last 15
- 7:5020 years that only had one skill work
- 7:53for this company for a long time the
- 7:54division the guy worked for got chopped
- 7:56eliminated now he loses his job now
- 7:59tells us he's in economic distress why
- 8:03would that be simple answer he only
- 8:06had one skill so for economic safety for
- 8:10the future my personal advice you got to
- 8:14have more than one
- 8:15skill in fact it led me to my first
- 8:19fortune and that was learning more than
- 8:21one skill I started learning these extra
- 8:24skills in Idaho where I grew up I knew
- 8:28how to milk cows but it didn't pay very
- 8:31well then someone gave me this
- 8:34incredible advice if you want to lay the
- 8:36foundation for a future Fortune you've
- 8:39got to learn more than one skill and I
- 8:41started that process age
- 8:4425 here's the first one and I started
- 8:46part-time a little
- 8:48sales job that I got a product that I
- 8:51believed in learned how to present it
- 8:53well enough for somebody to say yes gave
- 8:55excellent service so that that would
- 8:57lead to multiple sales and this this
- 8:59little extra part-time job in
- 9:02sales absolutely started multiplying my
- 9:07income from milk and cows now I've got
- 9:10this ability now to start getting
- 9:13customers keep them serviced and make
- 9:16some money in this extra skill so now
- 9:18I've got two skills milking cows and
- 9:21finding
- 9:22customers here's the next skill I
- 9:23learned just to give you a quick list
- 9:26next was Finding good
- 9:28people if you've got a little Enterprise
- 9:30going and you need some people you have
- 9:31to just go look for
- 9:33them and when I learned this skill
- 9:36finding good people for my little
- 9:40Enterprise I couldn't believe how it
- 9:42drastically changed my
- 9:45income my income now starts to multiply
- 9:49not just
- 9:50increase so now I've got what three
- 9:53skills milking cows getting customers
- 9:56finding good people I'm on my way here's
- 9:59the next one that paid me big money in
- 10:01case you're interested and that's
- 10:05organizing organizing simply means
- 10:07getting people to work
- 10:09together big challenge but if you learn
- 10:12the skill getting people to work
- 10:14together they
- 10:15pay
- 10:17extraordinary money here's the next one
- 10:20that really increased my income
- 10:22substantially and that's promotion and
- 10:25recognition rewarding people for small
- 10:28steps of progress
- 10:29I mastered this
- 10:32one and here's the philosophy behind it
- 10:35be so busy giving other people
- 10:37recognition you really don't need it for
- 10:41yourself I mastered this guess what it
- 10:45pays big
- 10:48money let me just give you one more and
- 10:50it's in three parts and that's
- 10:52communication learning to affect other
- 10:54people with your
- 10:56language of all the things not to be
- 10:58lazy about its language because words
- 11:01can work
- 11:03miracles and communication I found in
- 11:06three parts here's number one training
- 11:07showing somebody how the job
- 11:10Works showing somebody how the business
- 11:12works we call that training I got good
- 11:15at that paid big money here was the next
- 11:18one
- 11:19teaching teaching people how life Works
- 11:22teaching people how to set
- 11:24goals teaching how to become a leader
- 11:27manager
- 11:30entrepreneur stepping up to the higher
- 11:32opportunity and better
- 11:36challenge this one paid
- 11:38me extraordinary
- 11:40money but this one paid the best
- 11:43learning to
- 11:45inspire helping people to see themselves
- 11:48better than they are so I've got how
- 11:51many skills right a big long list so
- 11:55safety economic safety for the future
- 11:58especially the opening years of the 21st
- 12:00century learn
- 12:02more than one skill here's number two it
- 12:06would be good to learn more than one
- 12:11language some of my business colleagues
- 12:14who uh speak three or four languages
- 12:16earn three4 million a
- 12:20year one of my friends Leon Weis Bine
- 12:22from Russia I remember when he was
- 12:24making $3 million a year he spoke three
- 12:27languages here's what he said I think
- 12:29learn another language make another
- 12:30million
- 12:32dollars those extra languages are so
- 12:35valuable when I travel the world I got
- 12:36to find somebody that knows more than
- 12:38one language or I'm in deep trouble if
- 12:40you think the time has passed you by to
- 12:42learn that second third language make
- 12:45this note you heard it from Jim ran give
- 12:48it as a gift to your
- 12:50children the second language maybe
- 12:53that'll Inspire him to learn the third
- 12:55language and then no telling where it
- 12:58might go from there
- 13:00I asked a school teacher one time how
- 13:01many languages can a child learn here's
- 13:03what she said as many as you will teach
- 13:07them they don't lack capacity they don't
- 13:10lack intelligence they certainly don't
- 13:11lack curiosity they only
- 13:14lack a
- 13:16teacher so you got my good advice now
- 13:19more than one skill more than one
- 13:22language here's the rest learn the
- 13:25simple
- 13:27economic formula that works for
- 13:31everybody and I can give it to you in
- 13:33just a couple of sentences a simple
- 13:35economic formula kids can understand it
- 13:38anybody can understand it anybody that
- 13:40wants to get paid here's the language
- 13:42for your
- 13:43notes we get paid for bringing value to
- 13:47the
- 13:49marketplace that's as simple as you can
- 13:51put economics anybody that wants to get
- 13:52paid you get paid for bringing value to
- 13:56the marketplace the marketplace is the
- 13:58people
- 14:01now the value we bring is one part of
- 14:04it a product or a service but here's the
- 14:07other part the value you
- 14:09become so just off to the side put the
- 14:12value is two parts the value you bring
- 14:14like a product if you manufactured it
- 14:16you might keep improving the product if
- 14:18someone else manufactured it and you're
- 14:19out selling it they probably keep
- 14:21improving the product but this is the
- 14:24one you have to work on yourself the
- 14:26value you
- 14:27become like an
- 14:29entrepreneur a leader a
- 14:33teacher supervisor
- 14:36manager what you become also pays much
- 14:40more than what you
- 14:42bring once I understood
- 14:46that then here's what my mentor said go
- 14:49to work on yourself harder than you work
- 14:52on your
- 14:55job if you work hard on your job you can
- 14:57make a living then and he said if you
- 14:59work hard on yourself you could make a
- 15:04fortune so I worked hard on my job and
- 15:06made a living but I learned starting
- 15:09with those extra hours per week learning
- 15:11these extra skills I started working on
- 15:15myself and here's a philosophical phrase
- 15:17everybody should take home here it is
- 15:19success is something you
- 15:22attract by becoming an attractive
- 15:27person Success is Not something you
- 15:30pursue it's what you attract by becoming
- 15:34attractive by becoming attractive to the
- 15:36marketplace what would do that multiple
- 15:40skills multiple
- 15:42languages and then some of the things
- 15:44I'm going to talk
- 15:46about the rest of the
- 15:49seminar so now what else would help you
- 15:52to be attractive to the marketplace
- 15:54besides more than one skill and more
- 15:57than one languages
- 15:59I've divided it into five five simple
- 16:03basic fundamentals of ideas to ponder
- 16:06and think about that will increase your
- 16:09value to the marketplace could perhaps
- 16:12like it did for me multiply your income
- 16:14by two and then multiply it by three and
- 16:18then multiply your income by four and
- 16:21then by five and once you get there it's
- 16:25not that difficult to multiply it by 10
- 16:30because all you have to do is make sure
- 16:31you become more valuable and more
- 16:34valuable and more valuable you don't
- 16:36have to work on the economy because
- 16:39here's the first
- 16:40note each person's income is determined
- 16:43primarily by their
- 16:45philosophy not by the
- 16:48economy once I understood that then I
- 16:50said well I don't have to go to work on
- 16:52the economy and the answer was no you
- 16:54only have to go to
- 16:55work on yourself
- 16:59to make yourself more
- 17:02valuable so now here's five things I
- 17:04want to share with you and the first one
- 17:06is your personal
- 17:07philosophy what could get you more
- 17:09prepared and ready for cashing in on the
- 17:12opportunity of the 21st century and
- 17:15here's the first one personal philosophy
- 17:17your personal philosophy is like a
- 17:19guidance system that helps you make
- 17:21decisions what to do what not to do from
- 17:24the information you get and what you
- 17:25learn and what you know we decide
- 17:28maybe your philosophy would have been 5
- 17:30years ago never to attend seminars like
- 17:33this you just didn't go now 5 years
- 17:35later here you are something happened
- 17:37along the way to change your mindset
- 17:39saying hey for the money and the time if
- 17:42I just get one good idea and walk away
- 17:45it certainly is worth the money in the
- 17:47time so now that little amendment in
- 17:49your philosophy you now say I'm going to
- 17:52regularly go because it doesn't take but
- 17:55a few ideas to make a great difference
- 17:57in your income personal life social life
- 17:59and all the rest so now you know that's
- 18:03valuable a change of mind a change of
- 18:06idea so that's what personal philosophy
- 18:09is all about the more we learn the more
- 18:11we know the better we're able to make
- 18:13better decisions about two major things
- 18:16your philosophical guidance system does
- 18:18two
- 18:19things for your notes number one helps
- 18:22you to see the dangers on one
- 18:24side so you can avoid
- 18:27those but here here's what else your
- 18:29guidance system does personal philosophy
- 18:32helps you to see the opportunities on
- 18:34the other side so that you can expand
- 18:38those maximize those and here's what
- 18:41that's called The Game of Life is to
- 18:44minimize the dangers and maximize the
- 18:47opportunities and the more we know and
- 18:49the more we learn the more experience We
- 18:51Gather in sessions like this from the
- 18:54sermon on Sunday morning to the books we
- 18:57read and all the rest helps us to keep
- 19:00continually adjusting our philosophical
- 19:03guidance system so that we minimize more
- 19:06dangers maximize more opportunities
- 19:09that's really the game of life I
- 19:11couldn't put it much more simply so
- 19:14number one we're affected by what we
- 19:17know now how do we know more things and
- 19:19learn more things that'll help us
- 19:21readjust our thinking so we can avoid
- 19:24the dangers maximize the
- 19:26opportunities here's number one learn
- 19:28learn from personal
- 19:31experience one way to learn do to do
- 19:33something right is what first do it
- 19:36wrong right mess up and then you say wow
- 19:39that was costly I'm never going to do
- 19:41that again so one way to learn to do it
- 19:43right first do it
- 19:45wrong sometimes a negative experience
- 19:47turns out finally to be
- 19:50positive they say if you survive your
- 19:52first heart attack you may now live to
- 19:55be a very old person
- 19:58why is that well that first heart attack
- 20:01if you survived it is called a wakeup
- 20:06call and maybe the doctor said one more
- 20:09of these in your history and you said
- 20:14wow and you make it for the health food
- 20:18store and you start reading every book
- 20:20you can find on good nutrition how to
- 20:24avoid another one of these heart attacks
- 20:26and you start jogging and start walking
- 20:28and doing all of the stuff and this
- 20:31total change of Lifestyle could now save
- 20:34your life and cause you to live to be a
- 20:37very old
- 20:38person here's what my mentor said that
- 20:40some of the best advice I ever got he
- 20:42said Mr ran if you will change
- 20:45everything will change for you if you'll
- 20:48start making personal changes your
- 20:50income will change your health will
- 20:51change your future will change
- 20:53everything will change if you're willing
- 20:55to start making the changes so sometimes
- 20:57a negative experience experience now
- 20:59causes us to really make a sudden shift
- 21:03in our philosophical guidance system
- 21:06that says hey I'm never going to let
- 21:07this happen to me again
- 21:10fantastic now here's the next way to
- 21:12learn and that is to learn from other
- 21:14people's
- 21:15experiences whether they are negative or
- 21:20positive it's too bad failures don't
- 21:22give seminars like
- 21:26this wouldn't that be good information
- 21:29now we don't want to pay them so they
- 21:31don't lecture so but their information
- 21:34would be
- 21:35valuable if you know a guy that's messed
- 21:37up his life for 40 years you have to say
- 21:39John would you spend a day with
- 21:41me and I will bring my notebook and take
- 21:45good notes a good-look guy like you
- 21:48beautiful family every reason to do well
- 21:50threw it all away teach me how for the
- 21:53last 40 years you messed it all
- 21:56up and he tells you and you take good
- 22:01notes learning from the negative side of
- 22:04someone's experience if somebody tells
- 22:06me these eggs are rotten I'm not going
- 22:08to make an omelet and try it right I'm
- 22:10just going to take their advice and
- 22:13their knowhow so learn number one from
- 22:16your own experiences learn number two
- 22:18from other people's experiences and my
- 22:20mentor taught me to always keep a
- 22:22journal here's what he said don't trust
- 22:25your memory if you want to live a
- 22:28Dynamic life multiplying your income
- 22:30multiplying your future be a good
- 22:33student if a good idea Comes Your Way
- 22:35write it down then ponder it then
- 22:38perhaps go do it okay
- 22:41now your philosophy comes from what you
- 22:44learn comes from what you know comes
- 22:46from other people's experiences three
- 22:49ways now to learn from other people
- 22:51here's number one learn from what you
- 22:53see one of the great watchwords of these
- 22:56early years of the 21st century pay pay
- 23:00attention if you just watch you can pick
- 23:02up Clues success leaves Clues and if
- 23:05you'll be a better
- 23:07Observer of the winners and the losers
- 23:10those that are doing well and those that
- 23:11are falling behind and just take mental
- 23:14notes and good notes and say I'm going
- 23:16to adjust what I'm doing based on what I
- 23:18see here's number two we learn so much
- 23:21from other people based on what we hear
- 23:24here's good advice on that be a
- 23:25selective listener
- 23:28listen to voices of value that have
- 23:31experience ideas reputation something
- 23:33valuable to
- 23:35share now here's number three read all
- 23:38the
- 23:40books now there's millions of books so
- 23:43you can't read all the books but make
- 23:45this note read all the books you need to
- 23:48read to make you as wealthy as you want
- 23:51to be as healthy as you want to be as
- 23:54prosperous as productive as unique a
- 23:56human being as you want to E to be read
- 23:59all of those books don't leave those
- 24:01books go
- 24:04unread my mentor got me started on my
- 24:06library when I was 25 I got one of the
- 24:08best if you saw my library you would be
- 24:13impressed I haven't read everything in
- 24:15it but I feel smarter just walking in it
- 24:17right my
- 24:19library I was smart enough to buy it all
- 24:22now I got to be smart enough to read it
- 24:25all now jot this down when you do read
- 24:27you have to sort through what you read
- 24:29and decide which is valuable to
- 24:32try that's part of the process of
- 24:35learning gathering information and
- 24:37sorting through it one the information
- 24:40that would apply to you and what you
- 24:42think would be valuable based on your
- 24:44current philosophical
- 24:47opinion so read all the
- 24:50books our lives are greatly affected by
- 24:53what we learn and what we
- 24:55know now here's number two of these very
- 24:57basic five things I want to share with
- 25:00you first your personal philosophy
- 25:02here's number two your
- 25:05attitude first we're affected by what we
- 25:08know when I talk to the kids in high
- 25:10school classes college classes that's
- 25:12the first thing I tell them get the
- 25:13information while you're here right
- 25:15nothing worse than being stupid when you
- 25:16get out of school so get the information
- 25:19being broke is bad
- 25:21but being stupid is what's really bad
- 25:25and what's really really bad is being
- 25:27broke and stupid
- 25:30nothing much worse than that unless
- 25:31you're
- 25:32sick right sick brok and stupid that's
- 25:37about as far as you can fall unless
- 25:38you're ugly
- 25:40right but surely that would be the
- 25:42ultimate right the ultimate negative
- 25:44life ugly sick broke and
- 25:48stupid so learn all you can we're life
- 25:51we're affected by what we know so get
- 25:53the information don't be lazy in
- 25:55learning don't be lazy in going through
- 25:57the books building your Library coming
- 25:58to classes like this consistently
- 26:00consistently some of them will be so
- 26:02dramatic your life will never be the
- 26:04same maybe this is one of those
- 26:06today next we're affected by how we feel
- 26:10attitude this is the emotional part we
- 26:13need the intellectual part to set sail
- 26:16so as the winds blow we can still get
- 26:18where we want to
- 26:19go redefine keep strengthening our
- 26:23psychological and philosophical guidance
- 26:26system but now we're also affected by
- 26:28the emotions that's the power and jot
- 26:31these notes down as I hurry along now
- 26:33four things to consider on attitude and
- 26:36how you feel here's number one it's how
- 26:39you feel about the
- 26:41past it's important to make the past
- 26:44useful past experience even past losses
- 26:48past failures as well as
- 26:50successes to review it and go back over
- 26:53it see where you went wrong correct that
- 26:55invest that now in the future don't live
- 26:58in the past and don't carry the past
- 27:01around like a burden but simply use your
- 27:04past as one of your
- 27:06mentors to help refine mistakes make
- 27:09some changes that you can invest now in
- 27:11the
- 27:12future here's the second attitude it's
- 27:15how you feel about the
- 27:17future we look back for
- 27:20experience but number two we look
- 27:23forward for
- 27:25inspiration now where does the
- 27:27inspiration come from looking forward
- 27:28here it is learning to set goals number
- 27:31one decide what you want takes more than
- 27:35five minutes take some time and decide
- 27:37what you want where do you want to go
- 27:39what do you want to do the next 10 years
- 27:4120 years what would you like to become
- 27:43how many skills would you like to learn
- 27:45what are the books you want to read how
- 27:47about the people you want to meet the
- 27:48cities you want to visit experiences
- 27:50you'd like to have over this next period
- 27:53of Time start thinking about all of that
- 27:56here's the next key write it all then
- 27:59building a life is like building a house
- 28:02you wouldn't start building the house
- 28:04until you had it
- 28:06finished wouldn't you look foolish
- 28:09starting to build the house if it wasn't
- 28:11finished
- 28:12first what if you were laying bricks and
- 28:14somebody came by and said what are you
- 28:16building here and you said I have no
- 28:18idea see they would take you away to a
- 28:20safe
- 28:22place so building a life is a lot more
- 28:25important than building a house and yet
- 28:27people trade it treat it so carelessly
- 28:29and so casually about planning and
- 28:32making plans for what they want their
- 28:34life to work out to be so I'm asking you
- 28:37not to be casual anymore start designing
- 28:39the future for yourself for your family
- 28:41for your business for your future okay
- 28:44decide what you want okay so from the
- 28:47past we get experience from the future
- 28:49we get
- 28:51excitement inspiration by setting
- 28:54goals now here's the next advice put
- 28:57everything on your list of goals little
- 28:59things insignificant to someone else but
- 29:01important to you a goal list is
- 29:03important you don't have to publish it
- 29:04in the local newspaper my Japanese
- 29:08friend Toro eada San Jose California put
- 29:11on his first list a Caucasian Gardener I
- 29:15said
- 29:17gotoro back then everybody had a
- 29:19Japanese Gardener he said no I'm
- 29:21Japanese I want a Caucasian gardeners I
- 29:23like that so set goals set the goals
- 29:28goals that'll turn you on goals that'll
- 29:29get you excited put everything on your
- 29:33list now here's the next attitude it's
- 29:37very important how you feel about
- 29:39everybody if you want to be a leader
- 29:42extraordinaire here's what you learn
- 29:44each of us need all of
- 29:46us one person doesn't make an economy
- 29:49one person doesn't make a symphony
- 29:51orchestra it takes all of us for each of
- 29:54us to be
- 29:56successful each of us need all of us us
- 29:58and all of us need each of us each gift
- 30:01is
- 30:02important as we bring it to the table as
- 30:05we bring it to the country as we bring
- 30:07it to the community learn to appreciate
- 30:09that each of us need all of us now
- 30:12here's the last one on attitude it's how
- 30:14you feel about yourself nothing more
- 30:17powerful than self-confidence to start
- 30:19multiplying your income by two by three
- 30:20by five by 10 and where does that come
- 30:23from make the note it comes from
- 30:26self-esteem doing the things you know
- 30:28you should do and at the end of the day
- 30:30your self-esteem is soaring and high
- 30:34you've met the people you said you'd
- 30:35meet you made the calls you said you
- 30:37would make you did the things that you
- 30:40required of yourself to do and at the
- 30:42end of the day you feel great about
- 30:45yourself that is one of the greatest
- 30:47motivating factors for the future
- 30:49self-esteem feeling good about yourself
- 30:53now let me give you the miracle piece of
- 30:54this formula if you're ready say I'm
- 30:56ready
- 30:58here it is number three is
- 31:01activity we're affected by what we
- 31:05do now we've gotten to the formula of
- 31:08how to turn ideas into reality how to
- 31:11turn imagination into
- 31:13substance it's called number three
- 31:16activity so add these notes to it now
- 31:18activity is the
- 31:21work activity is the
- 31:26labor you might add had labor
- 31:31pains I'm short on personal experience
- 31:33here but the mothers in the room would
- 31:35tell us we know what that's all about
- 31:36labor pains why would an upcoming
- 31:39potential mother be willing to put
- 31:41herself through maybe a rather painful
- 31:42experience she said that's an easy
- 31:45answer and it's for your notes it
- 31:47produces New
- 31:50Life why wouldn't she put herself to the
- 31:54labor now comes the miracle of New Life
- 31:58and whether it's new career life or new
- 32:00business life or new friendship life or
- 32:02new married life or New Life of any kind
- 32:05it has to come from the work it comes
- 32:07from the
- 32:09labor in fact labor was so important
- 32:12here was the original formula for labor
- 32:14if you have forgotten it remind yourself
- 32:17for your notes six days of Labor and
- 32:22what one day of rest now it's important
- 32:26not to get those numbers mixed up why is
- 32:30that here's
- 32:32why why not 52 I don't know maybe five
- 32:34and two would be okay if God would have
- 32:36thought of five and two he might have
- 32:37made it five- two but you can't think of
- 32:39everything when you're putting one of
- 32:40these
- 32:43together but maybe one of the reasons
- 32:45for 61 jot this down now if you rest too
- 32:49long the weeds take the
- 32:52garden not to think so is
- 32:55naive as soon as you've planted
- 32:58the busy bugs and the noxious weeds are
- 33:00out to take it so you can't linger too
- 33:02long in the rest mode you got to go back
- 33:05to work six days of work then rest and
- 33:09spirituality and friendship and change
- 33:11of
- 33:12pace and then go back over the last six
- 33:15days what did I do what did I miss who
- 33:17did I miss what happened so that I can
- 33:19invest those Corrections in the next six
- 33:20days of higher productivity have you got
- 33:23that now six days of work one day of
- 33:27rest don't get the numbers mixed up
- 33:30activity Now activity finishes the
- 33:35miracle good question for your notes how
- 33:37did this convention center get
- 33:42here let me give you the steps number
- 33:44one somebody saw it while the property
- 33:49was
- 33:50vacant you say well how could you see a
- 33:52Convention Center if it isn't here it's
- 33:54the only way it will be here and
- 33:57somebody has to it so clearly they can
- 33:58draw a picture of it saying this is the
- 34:02convention center you say no it isn't
- 34:05there they say yes this is the
- 34:07convention
- 34:09center the artist rendering shows you a
- 34:12picture of what isn't there that's the
- 34:15beginning of imagination so to turn
- 34:17nothing into something here's what you
- 34:18do imagine the
- 34:20possibilities that's why we recommend
- 34:22testimonials for someone to say hey I
- 34:24started with pennies and I made a
- 34:26fortune and when they finished sometimes
- 34:28they say something like this if I can do
- 34:29it what you can do it and we start
- 34:32Imagining the possibilities here's
- 34:34number two have faith to believe that
- 34:36some of them are possible for
- 34:39you and both imagination and Faith are
- 34:42powerful forces but we still don't have
- 34:45a hotel we still don't have a
- 34:49house even though those are powerful
- 34:52forces it is the beginning now
- 34:54imagination and Faith must be deposited
- 34:57in inactivity or it is
- 35:02wasted but the Finishing Touch of the
- 35:04miracle process is now go to
- 35:08work go to work and build a better
- 35:10career go to work and build good health
- 35:13you can't have good health without the
- 35:15work when did we start hearing that
- 35:16phrase no pain what no gain you got to
- 35:19do the work you can read all the books
- 35:22until you're wise you can have faith and
- 35:24believe until it is extraordinary but
- 35:27now you must
- 35:28go to work and if you'll learn to
- 35:31appreciate the work that produces the
- 35:33miracle of good health the miracle of a
- 35:36career the miracle of a relationship the
- 35:38miracle of a fortune only humans Now can
- 35:41do
- 35:42this the birds of the field can't do it
- 35:45no other life form can imagine and
- 35:47create something from
- 35:50nothing have faith and then build it and
- 35:52make it real only
- 35:55humans it's an extraordinary gift
- 35:57depends on how often you use
- 35:59it so number one of the ideas I wanted
- 36:02to share with you to make this an
- 36:03extraordinary opening year Century for
- 36:06you is philosophy we're affected by what
- 36:08we know second is attitude we're
- 36:10affected by how we feel third is
- 36:12activity we're affected by what we do
- 36:14now here's the final two
- 36:17pieces number four learn to measure
- 36:21progress once you've set up a project
- 36:24now you want to turn nothing into
- 36:25something now you must measure your PR
- 36:27press how are you
- 36:31doing here's how we teach it to our
- 36:33children life expects us to make
- 36:35measurable progress in reasonable
- 36:39time measurable progress in reasonable
- 36:42time that is The Game of Life so part of
- 36:46it is not just to set up the proposed
- 36:49project but as we start working on it we
- 36:52start measuring how we're
- 36:54doing now first what is reasonable time
- 36:58you can't ask someone every five minutes
- 37:00how are you doing now see that's too
- 37:03soon guy says I haven't left the
- 37:05building yet give me a break now we
- 37:07can't wait 5 years that's too
- 37:11long so there's reasonable time so make
- 37:13this note now what is reasonable time
- 37:15one at the end of the
- 37:17day a conversation a father should have
- 37:20with his daughter today because the
- 37:21magic is there if he waits till tomorrow
- 37:23the magic may be
- 37:25gone today next is a week make that
- 37:31note usually we get paid by the
- 37:35week somebody adds up our value to the
- 37:37marketplace out comes the check the next
- 37:40week somebody adds up our value to the
- 37:42marketplace out comes the
- 37:44check what I learned to do is to change
- 37:46my value to the marketplace so the check
- 37:48kept getting bigger and bigger and
- 37:50bigger I didn't have to change the
- 37:52economy I only had to change
- 37:55myself measure your your own
- 37:59progress success is a numbers
- 38:05game we demanded of our children how
- 38:08many years do you want your child to
- 38:09spend in fourth grade
- 38:12approximately about one year right you
- 38:14say well if they're nice kids would you
- 38:16give them three or four years you say no
- 38:19this is not a nice game this is getting
- 38:22ready for the future this is getting
- 38:24ready for the challenges and the
- 38:25opportunities you can't linger in one
- 38:28grade more than one
- 38:30year now make this note the same should
- 38:33go for us as
- 38:35adults don't linger more than one year
- 38:38in one grade of
- 38:40learning adult management
- 38:44entrepreneurship leaderships of all
- 38:47kind keep up the pace of
- 38:50learning okay the
- 38:54numbers measure count
- 38:58now here's the key face the truth if
- 39:01you're only making this much progress
- 39:03you know there's no use trying to kid
- 39:05the world no you're trying to kid
- 39:06anybody else and especially don't kid
- 39:09yourself if in a period of time you've
- 39:11only made so much progress you just got
- 39:13to swallow hard and say this is the
- 39:18truth I've got to face it now what could
- 39:20I do to start increasing my progress and
- 39:24make my health better make my income
- 39:26better make my investments better make
- 39:29my value to the marketplace much better
- 39:32get busy learning the second skill and
- 39:34the third skill and the next language
- 39:37and the next language to increase my
- 39:39value I got to get busy and do that see
- 39:41if you will do that I promise you one of
- 39:44the greatest motivating factors in the
- 39:46world is
- 39:49progress and if you'll measure it you'll
- 39:51get
- 39:54excited now here's number five of the
- 39:56five major things I wanted to share with
- 39:58you to make these opening years of the
- 40:0121st century really pay off for
- 40:05you and here's the word
- 40:09lifestyle learning to live well because
- 40:12the ultimate essence of life is not a
- 40:14Ferrari the ultimate Essence Is Not a
- 40:16Home the ultimate Essence is not a bank
- 40:18account it's not a million dollars it's
- 40:21not a fortune here it is the ultimate
- 40:24essence of life is learning to live a
- 40:28good life that's the key whether you
- 40:32have modest resources or whether you
- 40:35have Mega Millions either way the real
- 40:39key is learning to live a good
- 40:42life and so in my closing five minutes
- 40:44let me give you what I think is a good
- 40:47list now this is the short list in other
- 40:49presentations I cover a longer list but
- 40:50this is called Jim Ron's short list for
- 40:54living the good life here it is number
- 40:58one
- 40:59productivity you really won't be that
- 41:02happy if you don't produce and here's
- 41:04the next bit of advice on that produce
- 41:07to the
- 41:08max if you possibly can to produce a
- 41:11little is okay to produce enough is okay
- 41:15to produce some to get by is all right
- 41:18but why not try productivity to the
- 41:24max Andrew Carnegie who built the steel
- 41:28industry back in the 30s here's what
- 41:29Andrew
- 41:30said I'm going to spend the first half
- 41:33of my life accumulating money I'm going
- 41:35to spend the last half of my life giving
- 41:38it all
- 41:43away he got so inspired by that goal
- 41:47that the first half of his life he
- 41:49accumulated 400 million doll which back
- 41:53in the 30s was a lot of money
- 41:57a mega Fortune guess what he did the
- 42:01last half of his
- 42:02life he gave it
- 42:05all
- 42:08away I got a good question for for you
- 42:11as we close here's the question what's
- 42:14got you turned
- 42:16on what's got you up early what's got
- 42:21you eager to face the
- 42:23day what's got you inspired
- 42:28to learn the extra skill put in the
- 42:29extra time go the extra mile learn how
- 42:33to work with people guarantee your
- 42:35future good question here's number two
- 42:38good friends you got to have good
- 42:41friends the best support system in the
- 42:43world is good
- 42:45friends collect and nourish those as
- 42:50Priceless good friends are those
- 42:52wonderful people who know all about you
- 42:54and still like
- 42:56you those are good
- 42:58friends here's number three your
- 43:02heritage what's made America so unique
- 43:04among all the nations of the world and
- 43:06the greatest experiment in the history
- 43:09of the
- 43:10world and that is the depository of
- 43:13gifts that have come to America over the
- 43:15last 3 or 400
- 43:17years the Heritage from all walks of
- 43:20life all over the world now the key to
- 43:23keeping America vital and powerful and
- 43:25unique for Generations to come is to
- 43:27keep alive these heritages the music the
- 43:31dance the costume the Customs the
- 43:33literature the poetry and all the rest
- 43:36combin together making us an
- 43:38extraordinary unusual Nation among
- 43:41nations keep your heritage
- 43:44alive here's number four your
- 43:50spirituality whatever you believe in
- 43:52terms of
- 43:55spirituality that's important and I've
- 43:57got three words for you to consider here
- 43:58they
- 43:59are study practice and teach whatever
- 44:02you believe in terms of spirituality
- 44:05study practice and
- 44:07teach don't leave your spirituality
- 44:09unstudied don't leave it unpracticed and
- 44:11don't leave it
- 44:13untaught it's one of the major
- 44:15components of a good
- 44:17life and now to close for your notes
- 44:22take special care of the Inner
- 44:25Circle family close
- 44:28friends nourish them they will nourish
- 44:30you inspire them they will inspire
- 44:34you and take care of the details the
- 44:37little things that makes it special for
- 44:39family and
- 44:41friends when my father was still alive
- 44:44after my mother died my father lived
- 44:45about another 7even eight
- 44:48years when I used to travel I would try
- 44:51to call him while he was having
- 44:52breakfast with the farmers Southwest
- 44:55Idaho make his special day if I'm in
- 44:57Israel I got to get up in the middle of
- 44:59the night but I call in the middle of
- 45:00the night Papa I'm in Israel and they
- 45:02would bring him the phone in this little
- 45:04cafe called the decoy
- 45:06in and papa would say Israel son how are
- 45:09things in Israel and he'd talk real loud
- 45:11so everybody could hear right say papa
- 45:14they gave me a reception last night on
- 45:15the rooftop overlooking the
- 45:17Mediterranean he say overlooking the
- 45:21Mediterranean now he's got a story to
- 45:23tell for the rest of the day my son
- 45:25called me this morning while I was was
- 45:27having breakfast with the farmers I know
- 45:29he had to get up in the middle of the
- 45:31night special
- 45:33days one more Scene I thought about my
- 45:37father walking down the lane on the farm
- 45:39to the mailbox opening it up and this is
- 45:42for your
- 45:43notes make sure the mailbox is not
- 45:48empty my father lived to be
- 45:5193 what kind of an experience would that
- 45:53be for a day age 93 open the mailbox and
- 45:57it's empty even if it's just a
- 46:02postcard make sure the mailbox is not
- 46:07empty the details the Inner
- 46:11Circle and now here's the last maybe
- 46:13just maybe some of the things I've
- 46:14shared with you have been seeds that
- 46:17have fallen on your Consciousness at the
- 46:19right time and then if it turns into
- 46:22something valuable for you in the future
- 46:24that will be well worth my coming being
- 46:27away from my grandchildren and my
- 46:29children for a little while to come and
- 46:31deposit the best of my experience with
- 46:33all of you today thank you very much God
- 46:35[Music]
- 46:36[Applause]
- 46:38bless we hope you've enjoyed this
- 46:40special presentation of Jim Ron's living
- 46:43an exceptional life if you'd like to own
- 46:46a copy of this program or any of better
- 46:48life media's programs please visit our
- 46:50website at betterlife media.com where
- 46:54you'll find all types of valuable life
- 46:56Improvement information
- 46:58[Music]
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