JE-RK Off Like THIS 💦 (to Enjoy It 10x More!) — Transcript

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1. 0:00Gentlemen, your ejaculation is magical.
2. 0:03But what do you do with it?
3. 0:05Most men stick to the same routine, especially when they are masturbating
4. 0:10and their cumshot is maybe even, like an unwanted byproduct of masturbation.
5. 0:15Something that they, like,
6. 0:15kind of clean up and I don't think a lot of people have a positive or thoughtful
7. 0:20or really intentional relationship with their ejaculate.
8. 0:24someone on my Patreon recently asked about ways
9. 0:26to enjoy his cumshot more, and I thought, this is an awesome question.
10. 0:30Let's talk about it.
11. 0:31This is a normal and reasonable and interesting subject to address.
12. 0:36And today I'm going to talk to you about how you can enjoy your own cum shot.
13. 0:40And as a byproduct of that, enjoy your own masturbation even more.
14. 0:43Number one, let's talk about the environment that you are self
15. 0:46pleasuring in.
16. 0:47and if you want to learn more about the methods
17. 0:50that I recommend for masturbation in order to get better in bed
18. 0:53and be a better lover, please check out my Masturbation Hacks course.
19. 0:57The link is in the description below.
20. 0:58All right, let's talk about the environment
21. 1:00and the way in which you self-pleasure.
22. 1:02Having a private,
23. 1:03uninterrupted, quiet, safe and comfortable space is really important.
24. 1:07Not just for making love to a partner, but also making love to yourself.
25. 1:10Throw on some music. Dim the lights. Light a candle.
26. 1:13You can have a sensual, enjoyable, pleasurable atmosphere.
27. 1:17And indeed, you deserve one.
28. 1:19Something that allows you to rest and relax.
29. 1:21Secondly, let's think about how mindful and intentional you are being inside
30. 1:26of your masturbation routine, as opposed to treating it like a chore.
31. 1:30Slowing down and not focusing exclusively on orgasm
32. 1:34will help you to be more in your body
33. 1:36and heighten your awareness and your pleasure. For me,
34. 1:38if you're going to masturbate anyways, you might as well enjoy it, right?
35. 1:41You have this private moment with yourself that you are free to experiment in,
36. 1:46and so I recommend experimenting with how you can be more in your body, connected
37. 1:50with your breath, more deeply engaged with the process, instead of doing it
38. 1:54sort of mindlessly and, in the same place and with the same content
39. 1:58and in the same way every single time.
40. 2:00Some of the ways that you can increase your own pleasure while masturbating are:
41. 2:03edging, which is getting close to climax and then backing off,
42. 2:07which over time allows you to build up to a larger, more powerful orgasm.
43. 2:11You can play with different lube, you can play with different stroke techniques.
44. 2:15You can even just
45. 2:15switch up from using your right hand to using your left hand or the other way
46. 2:19around, changing things like your body position, lying down, kneeling, standing.
47. 2:22All of this will give you access to different sensations,
48. 2:25and they will help you to remain very present
49. 2:27when you are actually in your self-pleasure but.
50. 2:30And then finally where and how to climax the thing
51. 2:32that really sets your masturbation routine apart from, say,
52. 2:36a woman's is that you have this eruption that occurs, right?
53. 2:40So on the conventional side of things, I think most men choose
54. 2:43to ejaculate onto their bodies,
55. 2:45whether their chest or their abdomen, because they're sitting or lying down.
56. 2:48And it's easy to direct your ejaculate there.
57. 2:51the benefit of this is that you have a visual connection.
58. 2:54You actually get to see yourself ejaculate.
59. 2:55And if porn has taught us anything,
60. 2:57it has taught us that we really love to watch men ejaculate as like a culture.
61. 3:00It's very important to us.
62. 3:01It's kind of like the climax of porn, usually, right?
63. 3:04The other thing that this gives you
64. 3:05is a tactile thing where you actually feel your ejaculate hit your own skin.
65. 3:10It is warm.
66. 3:11It is what it is, a experience in and of itself.
67. 3:14And sure, you could just wipe it off and continue to go about your day,
68. 3:18or you could do something more interesting.
69. 3:20You could rub it into your skin, you could play with it.
70. 3:23You can experience the texture.
71. 3:25You can have a little bit of an exploration on it,
72. 3:27and you don't have to if that squeaks you out, not a problem.
73. 3:30But here are some other unique ideas that I think you could consider
74. 3:34for enjoying your own ejaculation. Even more.
75. 3:36You could record it.
76. 3:37You could literally take a video of yourself
77. 3:39ejaculating for your own use just to check out for yourself.
78. 3:42You can create a content for a lover if she's into that and it's consensual.
79. 3:48You actually may learn more about yourself and how you masturbate,
80. 3:51if you've never masturbated in a mirror, if you've never recorded
81. 3:54a video of yourself masturbating, maybe you're going to learn something
82. 3:57about your face, about the way that you hold tension.
83. 3:59Like, why am I grinding my teeth when I am orgasming?
84. 4:03Consider it a self study.
85. 4:05You also could do something a little kinkier like you could
86. 4:08ejaculate onto a unexpected surface.
87. 4:11I think it's like particularly kinky to jack onto a wood floor because you're
88. 4:15not supposed to spill things on the floor and ejaculate being one of those things.
89. 4:19So consider if you could ejaculate onto like,
90. 4:21tile or wood or a different surface in your home.
91. 4:25That makes it really easy for you to clean up and see
92. 4:26if that makes you feel like a bad, naughty boy.
93. 4:29I think that's like fun and interesting. I don't know if you try that.
94. 4:32Write me a comment below. I want to know how it feels for you.
95. 4:34Was it like the fun, kind of kinky, edgy taboo,
96. 4:37or was it like not so funny and you felt kind of guilty afterward?
97. 4:39Nothing wrong with that.
98. 4:40I've also heard about people ejaculating into their own protein shakes
99. 4:43and then eating it because it is additional protein.
100. 4:45There's plenty of vitamins and nutrients in there.
101. 4:47That's your thing.
102. 4:48I totally support you doing it.
103. 4:50Never, ever, ever.
104. 4:51Obviously give that to anyone else without their consent.
105. 4:54That is not cool.
106. 4:55But if that's your thing and you want to taste it or have your own,
107. 4:58that makes you feel like kinky, naughty thrill, go for it.
108. 5:02And of course, no matter
109. 5:03where you decide to ejaculate, just make sure that you have a cleaning
110. 5:08rag and or solution and that you wipe it up quickly.
111. 5:12if you have any shared surfaces that you're thinking about ejaculating on to
112. 5:15like you want to ejaculate under the kitchen counter, no shame,
113. 5:18but make sure that you disinfect it and use an actual kitchen
114. 5:21cleaner or something strong like that to clean it up.
115. 5:24You don't want to do anything that feels unhygienic, or that would be
116. 5:27a violation of the consent of someone who you live with.
117. 5:30And then afterward.
118. 5:32And this is perhaps the most important part,
119. 5:34no matter where you choose to ejaculate or how after savor the moment, a lot of men
120. 5:39rush from orgasm as if that's like the finish line to the very next thing.
121. 5:43They're like back on a work meeting,
122. 5:44or back to sleep, or back to gaming or whatever it is.
123. 5:47Take a moment.
124. 5:48It doesn't have to be a very long period of time.
125. 5:50It could be three minutes to lie still,
126. 5:53to breathe, to gently touch your body,
127. 5:56to observe your mind, to
128. 5:59have this like post orgasmic glow.
129. 6:02Don't rob yourself of that experience.
130. 6:05Don't jump straight to cleaning up, and instead
131. 6:07take a moment to actually appreciate how amazing your body is
132. 6:11and how great an orgasm feels.
133. 6:13And like that you did that. Celebrate yourself.
134. 6:15As you are going about this journey.
135. 6:17Make some notes.
136. 6:18Start a journal or some kind of note where you catalog your experiences.
137. 6:23What was exciting? What was awkward?
138. 6:24What would you like to try again in the future?
139. 6:27Make sex even solo sex a fun adventure
140. 6:30and track yourself and your progress over time.
141. 6:33This is going to give you interesting information
142. 6:35that will help you to tailor your next experience and the experience after that,
143. 6:38So that you can get to these moments of like oh my god
144. 6:41I didn't even know that I could experience this.
145. 6:43This is exactly what I desired.
146. 6:45And it's given me a tremendous amount of pleasure.
147. 6:48Remember
148. 6:48you don't have to try anything that I've said here,
149. 6:50but I do invite you to write into the comments.
150. 6:53What is one place that you have ejaculated that was surprising or unknown,
151. 6:57mentionable or offbeat, or out of the box, but brought you a lot of joy?
152. 7:01Obviously, if it caused harm or wasn't consensual,
153. 7:04please don't share those and please don't do those things.
154. 7:07But I know y'all.
155. 7:08I know the people who watch my content.
156. 7:10You are sexually curious,
157. 7:13you are interesting, you are fun, and you have got a lot of good ideas.
158. 7:17I'm sure that you have thought about this before, so please write in the comments.
159. 7:21Other ideas, things
160. 7:22to do to enjoy your own ejaculation and enjoy your own orgasm that much more.
161. 7:27And remember, for any of the things that I've recommended here
162. 7:29or anything that we see in the comments below,
163. 7:31make sure to do it in a way that is safe, in a way that is consensual in a way
164. 7:35that is mindful of other people around you and after that, just enjoy.
165. 7:40Masturbation is supposed to be fun and pleasurable.
166. 7:43It can be a ritual. It can be a self-care practice.
167. 7:46And I hope that you will check out my course Masturbation Hacks.
168. 7:49If you would like my suggestions for how to build a masturbation routine
169. 7:53that helps you to last longer in bed, get and stay harder and be a better lover.
170. 7:58I'm Caitlin V, thank you so much for tuning in.
171. 8:00Make sure you are subscribed and I will see you here soon. Bye.