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0:00You're understanding that you are source
0:03energy expressing through these physical
0:05bodies.
0:07You're understanding that you are
0:09eternal beings, so much more than this
0:11one perspective. But oh, what a glorious
0:14experience it is when you allow
0:19your physical human personality
0:22to be vibrationally attuned to your
0:25source energy. It just does not get any
0:28better than that.
0:29And of course, you really can't stop
0:32that from happening. That just happens.
0:34In other words, you would not even be
0:36here if that were not happening.
0:39But you, who are beginning to understand
0:43what we have called science of
0:44deliberate creation
0:46more recently, art of allowing that you
0:50can control the degree to which you
0:52allow who you really are to flow. In
0:56fact, that's what allowing means.
0:58Allowing means how much of who I really
1:01am am I allowing by my choice of thought
1:05to be present in this moment.
1:07When you're ornery, you're pinching some
1:09of it off.
1:11That's why you feel ornery.
1:13Really.
1:15When you're allowing who you really are
1:17to flow, you feel good. You feel as we
1:20feel. You feel clear. You feel sure. You
1:24feel invincible. You feel powerful. You
1:26feel eager. You feel adventurous. You
1:29feel kind. You feel willing. You feel
1:32compassionate. You feel understanding.
1:36You feel like giving others the benefit
1:38of the doubt. When you're edgy, when
1:40you're ornery, when you're
1:43feeling a little vulnerable, or when
1:44you're feeling
1:46defensive
1:48when you're feeling guilty or blameful,
1:50when you're feeling fearful
1:52these feelings are indications that
1:54you're pinching off who you are, and
1:56it's no wonder you feel bad. When you
1:58pinch off who you are, that's what
2:00feeling bad is.
2:02Instead of saying, "I think I feel bad
2:04because you said such and such to me."
2:06or "I think I feel bad because outside
2:09circumstances have
2:11happened in this way." We would like you
2:13to stop for a moment and say, "Oh, wait
2:15a minute. I feel bad for only one reason
2:18and one reason only. I feel bad because
2:21I'm not allowing
2:22who I really am to flow.
2:24And this is what it feels like when I
2:27pinch
2:28that off.
2:31We say, "Somebody should do something
2:32about that."
2:35>> [laughter]
2:37>> And guess what?
2:39There is only one person who can.
2:42So, we have a new game for you to play.
2:45And the game goes like this.
2:47I've decided in my physical human form
2:50that I'm going to take complete ultimate
2:54only responsibility for everything that
2:56happens to me.
2:58I will not ever again
3:00It'll take a little getting used to.
3:03I'm not ever again going to blame
3:05somebody else for where I am, for how
3:08I'm feeling, for what's happening to me.
3:12Can you imagine if everyone would say,
3:16"It's my job. My life is my job."
3:20So, you don't blame your mate anymore.
3:22You don't blame your kids. You don't
3:23blame your parents. You don't blame your
3:25teacher. You don't blame circumstances.
3:27You say, "I take full responsibility."
3:30The reason that this is ultimately so
3:32satisfying is because you have only ever
3:35always only ever always only ever always
3:38been the only ever always one who could
3:40only ever always do anything about
3:43anything in your life experience. Nobody
3:45else can do anything. In other words,
3:47asking someone else to change, even if
3:49they're willing, even if they can do it
3:51for five or 10 or 15 or 20 years, even
3:53if you can get somebody else to contain
3:55their behavior so that you will feel
3:57better, you are the only one ever that
4:00could do anything about it.
4:02And so, when you stop and think about it
4:04and you think
4:06>> [sighs and gasps]
4:07>> Let's talk about the uprising, the
4:09seemingly eternal uprising in the Middle
4:11East.
4:13Everyone thinking that somebody else
4:15should do something different.
4:17And nobody else willing to do it
4:19different for the other. And we say,
4:21"Can you imagine how peaceful and
4:23wonderful experiences could be if each
4:26individual would understand that, hey, I
4:29can do something. I can do something."
4:31And what is it that we're asking you to
4:32do? We're asking you to choose any
4:34thought, any word, any action that
4:37allows who you are to come back in this
4:40moment.
4:41So,
4:43you are so angry at your mate or your
4:46mother
4:47or someone, someone you work with,
4:49someone you work for.
4:51And they just seem to be ruining your
4:53life
4:55because they will not change their
4:57behavior.
4:58You do not seem to be important enough
5:00to them
5:01to change their behavior, which hurts
5:03your feelings a great deal.
5:07And then you discover, "Wait a minute.
5:10They don't have to change a thing in
5:12order for me to feel better. I can start
5:14looking for positive aspects.
5:17I can look for things within them that
5:20make me feel good." "Oh, that's
5:21impossible." you say.
5:24"There is so much that is bad and not
5:26much that is good. In fact, I haven't
5:28seen a glimmer of anything good for so
5:29very long." And we say,
5:32"Are there other subjects to which you
5:33could give your attention?"
5:37"Well, maybe."
5:38you say reluctantly.
5:41"My dog.
5:44My dog is easy to love or my cat." And
5:46we say, "Do whatever it takes to find
5:49something to be your object of
5:50attention. And as you give your
5:52attention to something that allows you
5:54to feel good,
5:56you've done something about this
5:58relationship that was bothering you.
6:00In fact, if you will make it your work
6:03to feel good,
6:04Every relationship that you have
6:07will be one that pleases you.
6:10Now, that's offensive to some of you
6:11because you've been holding others as
6:13being responsible for you feeling good
6:15for so long that it's sort of hard to
6:18let loose of that. It's sort of hard to
6:21let them be whatever they need to be
6:23while you selectively choose whatever it
6:25is that you need to choose to feel good.
6:27And we know, friends, it would be a lot
6:29easier for you to do this if they'd
6:30learned it first.
6:35>> [laughter]
6:37>> But you can't wait for them to figure
6:38this out. And you don't need to because
6:41once you figure it out, your life is
6:43going to feel so much better.
6:46It does not matter how many aspects
6:50of whatever it is you're giving your
6:51attention to that's making you feel bad.
6:54It does not matter how many negative
6:55aspects there are. It is our absolute
6:58knowing that in there somewhere are some
7:00positive aspects.
7:02Now, it might be that the way your
7:04relationship has been evolving that you
7:07have begun to focus upon the aspects
7:10that you don't like. So, you have
7:12activated that part of your vibration to
7:14an art.
7:16So that when you come together with this
7:18person or these people, that what they
7:21mostly show you is that part that is
7:23most active in your vibration. Did you
7:25hear that?
7:26What they mostly show you is the part
7:29that is most active in your vibration.
7:32It's such a wonderful thing. Did you
7:34hear that? What What they keep showing
7:37you is the part of them that is most
7:39active in your vibration. And all this
7:41time you thought it was their doing.
7:44It is the part that is most active in
7:46your vibration. That's why when we say
7:48to you, "Somebody should do something
7:50about it." The person that we're always
7:52talking about is you, not them, you.
7:56Because Oh, we know they could stand on
7:59their head and they could work really
8:01hard to only show you things that would
8:04please you. But you know, you're sort of
8:05fickle in what you want from moment to
8:08moment. And they're outside of your
8:10emotional guidance system. They've got
8:12to find ways of pleasing you based upon
8:15the letters that you've written or the
8:16prenuptial agreements that you've
8:18signed.
8:19Or the arguments that you've had where
8:22you've come to I promise I will never do
8:24that again. In other words, it's so
8:25awkward when you try to control the way
8:28you feel by controlling their behavior
8:30from the outside. We've never seen it
8:32work, not for very long. That's why it's
8:34easier to just keep moving to a new
8:36relationship where you have not
8:38activated in you the negative aspects of
8:41them.
8:42A new relationship is easier because you
8:45don't know much about them until you
8:47have that dinner when you say, "Tell me
8:48about yourself."
8:52Very good in coming together vows would
8:55be, "I promise you I will never tell you
8:57anything about my past if you will
8:58promise me that you will never tell me
8:59anything about your past. Let's start
9:02just start in this fresh place. Please
9:03don't tell me about any of your failures
9:05because as sure as you do, I'm going to
9:07activate them in my vibration and then
9:09I'm going to suck them right out of you
9:11and then our relationship is just going
9:13to be like all the other lousy
9:15relationships you and I have ever had.
9:17Let's not do that. Let's start fresh."
9:20So, tomorrow what we want you all to do
9:22is leave everyone that you know.
9:28Go out into the desert all alone.
9:31Meditate and start your lives over
9:35with all fresh new vibration. So, what
9:38we're getting at here, of course you're
9:39not going to do that and we really do
9:41not want you to do that. It would be
9:42easier if you could do that. But, if you
9:45were to do that, if you were to start
9:46all over with all fresh new
9:48relationships
9:51without understanding
9:53what we're really going to talk about
9:54all day here today, before long you'll
9:56be right back in the same situation
9:58where you'd need to leave all of those
9:59relationships, too. Because you have
10:02habits of vibration within you that
10:04evoke what happens in your life. And all
10:07this time you've been thinking that it
10:08was to do with other people. And it was
10:10never to do with other people. It's only
10:12about what you activate in your
10:13vibration.
10:15And then you say, and you're right, you
10:17say,
10:18"But it wouldn't be active in my
10:20vibration if they weren't showing it to
10:22me all over the place."
10:24And we say, "Yes, but they're showing
10:26you a lot of things. If you will be more
10:28selective in your sifting, if it will
10:30matter more to you
10:33how you feel
10:35than anything else,
10:37then what your experience will be is one
10:39of bliss because as you look at a
10:42relationship that has been happening for
10:44a while, and you deliberately look for
10:46things that make you feel good, and you
10:48practice looking at things that make you
10:51feel good until
10:54you activate within yourself that
10:56vibration, then what happens is
11:00those people that you're interacting
11:01with literally rise to match your
11:04vibration. We're not kidding you about
11:06that.
11:07You've seen it sometimes with children.
11:09You'll see a child with one person
11:11behave one way, and the same child with
11:13another person
11:15behave entirely differently. And you
11:17say, "I cannot even believe that that is
11:19the same child." And what is happening
11:21is different people have activated
11:23different vibrations. In other words,
11:25you are multi-faceted beings.
11:28Someone said to us recently,
11:30after talking through tears about some
11:33unpleasant things that were happening,
11:36"I think this happened when I was in the
11:37second grade."
11:39And now, this is an adult, children of
11:42her own.
11:44"I believe that this happened to me when
11:46I was in the second grade."
11:47And we say, "We think so, too. We think
11:50that things happen along your physical
11:52trail, and some of them stand out really
11:54big in your life experience. Some of
11:57them are so bold and so big, or they get
12:00your attention in some dynamic way for a
12:02period of time, and they cause you to
12:04learn, sometimes over a gradual long
12:06hammering steadily time, and sometimes
12:09in a very short, very fast, very
12:11flamboyant, very dramatic time. In other
12:14words, if when you're four, the train
12:17runs over your toe, you will always have
12:19a different relationship with trains
12:21than most people that you know. When
12:23things happen like that, it causes you
12:25to begin to offer a vibration in a more
12:29dynamic way. And then what happens is,
12:31without knowing it, you practice those
12:33vibrations. You talk about them, you
12:35talk about them over dinner, you think
12:37about them, you dream about them, you
12:39write letters about them. Now you're
12:40writing electronic mail letters about
12:43them. In other words, you find yourself
12:44communicating about what your lives have
12:47been or about what your lives be. And so
12:49you keep alive a vibration within you
12:52that is the point of attraction. You
12:53remember that, don't you?
12:55This is a vibrational universe and
12:57everything is about vibration.
12:58Everything is about law of attraction.
13:00It is a universe of inclusion, there is
13:02no exclusion. So whatever it is you're
13:05offering vibrationally, that represents
13:07your life experience. So let's say that
13:10you have a particular poignant
13:11relationship with someone when you are
13:13very young, and that relationship
13:15causes, for whatever reason, a vibration
13:18to be activated within you. Maybe you
13:20begin to feel vulnerable, maybe somebody
13:22picks on you on a pretty regular basis,
13:24and you develop some patterns of
13:26vulnerability or defensiveness.
13:29And then you practice them and practice
13:31them and practice them so much so that
13:33almost everybody that shows up in your
13:35experience treats you in similar ways
13:37until later people say about you, "Well,
13:39you have a chip on your shoulder." or
13:41"You are very defensive." When you come
13:43into your first relationship that begins
13:45to evolve pretty quickly. And then, in
13:47psychotherapy, it is determined, "Well,
13:49that happened in second grade." And we
13:51say, [clears throat]
13:52"A lot of things happened in second
13:54grade and third grade and fourth grade.
13:55A lot of things happened. A lot of
13:57things happened yesterday, some things
13:58will happen today." But now you are in
14:00the place that you understand about
14:02vibration. Now you are in the place that
14:04you understand that your emotions tell
14:06you about how you are feeling, and they
14:08tell you how much of who you really are
14:10you were allowing.
14:12So when you get this straight in your
14:13mind, that when you are allowing who you
14:15really are, you feel eager, you feel
14:18sure, you feel powerful, you feel
14:21adventurous, you feel healthy, you feel
14:23vital and alive, you feel well, you are
14:26source energy pouring through these
14:28physical bodies, and anything less than
14:30that is you pinching it off a little
14:32bit. Then it's pretty easy for you to
14:34begin to guide yourself into thoughts
14:37and words and actions that feel good
14:40while you're thinking them because as
14:42you are feeling good, then you are in
14:44the vibrational place of allowing who
14:46you really are to pour through you.
14:49It is so much fun to watch our physical
14:52friends coming back consciously and
14:54deliberately into their own

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