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- 0:00There's only one skill that every
- 0:01successful person has and it's not
- 0:03marketing. It's not AI. It's not being
- 0:05reallying productive. It's the ability
- 0:07to sell anything to anyone, even if you
- 0:09aren't a salesperson. Most people think
- 0:11being good at sales is something you're
- 0:13born with. Charisma or having a great
- 0:15personality or the gift of gab, but the
- 0:17best sales people in the world, they
- 0:18just don't wing it. They follow a
- 0:20process. And I'm living proof of that. I
- 0:22grew up as a computer nerd. All I wanted
- 0:24to do was write code. I loved building
- 0:26software because it was safe. I didn't
- 0:28have to talk to anybody. But guess what?
- 0:30Nobody paid me a dime until I learned
- 0:32how to sell. Learning that one skill
- 0:34eventually led to me closing my first
- 0:36$750,000 deal in my 20s to now raising
- 0:40over $400 million in capital and
- 0:42training over 200 salespeople. All
- 0:44because I pushed through the awkwardness
- 0:46and learned how to sell. So today, I'm
- 0:49going to walk you through my exact
- 0:50process for selling anything to anyone,
- 0:53even if you've never sold before. And at
- 0:55the end, I'm going to show you how to
- 0:56turn this into a system where it is
- 0:58impossible for you not to get better
- 1:00every single [music] time. And it all
- 1:02starts with the biggest misconception
- 1:04people have about selling. Sales isn't
- 1:06manipulation. Most people think sales is
- 1:09about trying to talk somebody into doing
- 1:10something, being the salesperson.
- 1:12Essentially saying anything to get
- 1:14somebody to buy. We've all met these
- 1:16people, the sleazy salesperson. When
- 1:18Daniel Pink asked people for the one
- 1:19word to describe sales, the number one
- 1:21answer he got was pushy. The Mr.
- 1:24transactional. How you doing? Nice to
- 1:25meet you. Hey, my name's Phil. Blah blah
- 1:26blah. No, not that. When I was in my 20s
- 1:29and I realized I had to learn this is
- 1:30because I had two failed companies. I
- 1:32built great tech. I thought I was doing
- 1:34the right thing, but I couldn't sell
- 1:36anybody on buying it. I couldn't even
- 1:37sell somebody else to join my team. So,
- 1:39out of desperation, I decided to go get
- 1:42a sales audio book, drive around my city
- 1:45in my old 1987 Jetta, and just listen
- 1:48and listen and listen to sales CDs.
- 1:50Found this really cool book by Jeffrey
- 1:52Gimer. It's called the Little Red Book
- 1:54of Selling. And it clicked. Selling is
- 1:56about serving. Write that down. It's
- 1:58about helping people get a result. Sales
- 2:00is just simply helping somebody make a
- 2:02decision. And what's cool is it comes
- 2:03from the Latin word to cut off, meaning
- 2:06you have two options. We're going to cut
- 2:07off the bad option and help you make
- 2:08good decisions. And what I've discovered
- 2:10is people actually love to buy. They
- 2:12just hate being sold to. There's a
- 2:14difference. When you need the sale, they
- 2:16can feel it. [music] They go on their
- 2:17heels. That's called commission breath.
- 2:20And you know when it's happening. Great
- 2:21salespeople pull people into the vision
- 2:24they want to create for their life and
- 2:25help them make a decision around it. And
- 2:27the truth is is I've never sold a thing
- 2:29in my life. I've just helped thousands
- 2:31of people make decisions. So when you're
- 2:33selling, let me ask you one question to
- 2:35help you orientate yourself. Are you
- 2:37doing it for the sale or are you doing
- 2:38it for the soul? Are you trying to help
- 2:40them make a better decision or you just
- 2:42trying to get paid a commission? The
- 2:44question you want to ask yourself every
- 2:45time you're talking to them is, can I
- 2:47actually help this person? That's it. If
- 2:50you can, we'll give them their time
- 2:52back. But if you can, it's your
- 2:53responsibility to help them decide. So
- 2:56now we shifted our mind that sales is
- 2:58nothing more than helping people. But
- 2:59how do we actually do that? Pros follow
- 3:01a process. Amateurs freestyle. I think
- 3:04most people feel sales is hard because
- 3:07they think that it's a people skill.
- 3:09Like I either can sell or I can't sell.
- 3:11Then they think sales is really just
- 3:13about hoping and trying to figure it
- 3:14out. And when it doesn't work, they just
- 3:16say to themselves, I just don't have it.
- 3:18I'm not a salesperson. or that they need
- 3:20more leads. It's like a few months ago,
- 3:21a CEO in one of my companies had a sales
- 3:23rep who just couldn't close any deals.
- 3:25And anytime the CEO took over, the deal
- 3:27got closed. Anytime the rep took the
- 3:29call, the deal got lost. When I asked
- 3:31the CEO to show me the process, he
- 3:33couldn't show me anything. He didn't
- 3:35have an answer. It turns out the rep
- 3:37handled every call differently. Duh. He
- 3:39didn't know any better. He just winged
- 3:40it. He's like, "Here's what it is.
- 3:41Here's why you need it. Here's our
- 3:43benefits. Do you want to buy it?" No.
- 3:45But the CEO, when you listen to that
- 3:46call, followed a process every single
- 3:49time without even knowing it. Top
- 3:51salespeople don't close because of
- 3:53charisma or talent. They close because
- 3:55they can run the same play every single
- 3:58time and they can go from rejection to
- 4:00rejection without losing enthusiasm.
- 4:02When you always follow the same process
- 4:04and then the deal doesn't close, it's
- 4:05easy to see where the deal fell apart to
- 4:07fix it. It reminds me of this quote I
- 4:09heard a long time ago, which is if you
- 4:11don't have a process for selling, your
- 4:13prospect will show you their process for
- 4:14not buying. So, it doesn't matter what
- 4:16you're selling, how small or big your
- 4:18sales are, it follows the same four
- 4:20steps. First, we have to connect. We
- 4:21have to build trust and control the
- 4:23frame. I'll get into that in a second.
- 4:24Two, we have to diagnose what is the
- 4:26real pain, and it's not what they tell
- 4:28you. Third, we have to prescribe. We
- 4:30need to show them that what they're
- 4:31dealing with is something we've done in
- 4:33a way that's very different and unique
- 4:34to them. And four, we got to get them to
- 4:37commit. We have to get them to make a
- 4:39decision in part with their money. And
- 4:41the key is is we never skip a step. We
- 4:43don't go ahead. We don't come back. That
- 4:45is part of being a professional. Even if
- 4:47it's a friend or a warm lead, we follow
- 4:49the process the same way every time.
- 4:51Which brings us to step one of the
- 4:53process, which is to connect. I've seen
- 4:56a lot of sales reps. They get on their
- 4:57first call and the first thing they do
- 4:59because they're a little insecure is
- 5:00they just talk about themselves, what
- 5:02they've done, how great their company
- 5:03is. And the problem is is they lose a
- 5:05chance to create a connection with the
- 5:06potential [music] buyer. It's kind of
- 5:08like going on a bad date, right? Imagine
- 5:10on your first date with the person, they
- 5:11just sit there and they're like, "Yes,
- 5:13my job is this and I've accomplished
- 5:15these things and this is my 5-year plan
- 5:17and my vision and my goals. Uh me me."
- 5:20You're sitting there and you can't even
- 5:21get a word in. They don't even ask you a
- 5:24question about you and they're trying to
- 5:25go from like Tinder date to the altar in
- 5:27one night. Unfortunately, that's how
- 5:29most people are selling. I get pitched
- 5:31all the time and it's fascinating to me
- 5:32that people don't stop to ask
- 5:34themselves, "How do I come across to
- 5:36Dan?" The other day, I'm walking in my
- 5:37car and this guy literally comes up to
- 5:39me and he says, "Hey Dan, I'm going to
- 5:41make you a billion dollars." And I'm
- 5:42like, "Internesting. What's your name?"
- 5:45He introduced himself. I had no idea who
- 5:47he was. And I'm thinking, "I don't even
- 5:49know you." And he thinks that that's the
- 5:51best way to get me to buy into his
- 5:53vision. He didn't ask me a question. He
- 5:54didn't lead with credibility. And yet
- 5:56most salespeople do this to themselves
- 5:59every single call. Our first job is to
- 6:01establish a connection with the person.
- 6:03People lean in to a conversation when
- 6:06they feel seen, heard, and appreciated
- 6:09and also guided. People buy from those
- 6:12they know, like, and trust. And those
- 6:14things happen if we do the other three
- 6:16steps in the sales process. [music] But
- 6:17we first need to ensure that we're
- 6:19connecting and controlling the frame.
- 6:21When I say frame, I want you to
- 6:22understand it's the tonality. It's the
- 6:24structure. It's the why is the person on
- 6:27the call. You are the expert. The person
- 6:30has a problem. You're the gatekeeper. If
- 6:32you're a salesperson and you work for a
- 6:33neurosurgeon, he's not just going to get
- 6:35on a call with a bunch of people. That's
- 6:37your job. So, you can even say, "Look,
- 6:38my job is to figure out if it's the
- 6:40right fit or not. If it isn't, I'll let
- 6:41you know as soon as possible. But if it
- 6:42is, we can talk about what it looks like
- 6:44to work with him." Your job is to
- 6:45investigate, to set the agenda. You just
- 6:48have to set the frame. For me, the frame
- 6:50I love is the doctor frame. You qualify
- 6:53before they go see a specialist. So, you
- 6:55need to understand their situation
- 6:57before you would [music] even tell them
- 6:58who they need to see. Here's how we open
- 7:00up every sales call to build trust. Cuz
- 7:02trust isn't knowing my favorite sports
- 7:04team or you being a fan of that sports
- 7:06team. It's are you going to respect my
- 7:08time? Are you knowledgeable? Can I
- 7:10assess that based on the quality of your
- 7:11questions? Do I feel like you understood
- 7:13my situation? And that's what these
- 7:15questions help people to believe. You
- 7:16want to take control of the conversation
- 7:18and make it very clear. One of my
- 7:20favorite questions to ask is why me or
- 7:22why [music] us? Why did you decide to
- 7:24reach out to us? And then you get them
- 7:26to sell you on you. Then I like to ask
- 7:28them why now. What is true about your
- 7:30life right now that makes this a
- 7:32priority? Then they sell you on why now
- 7:34is the right time to make a decision.
- 7:36See how those two questions
- 7:37psychologically help them make a
- 7:39decision. So if you do that, set the
- 7:41frame with the agenda. Ask them the
- 7:43question why me and why now? You've
- 7:45built that connection. And now it's time
- 7:46to figure out if you can actually help
- 7:47them, which is when we move to step two,
- 7:49which is diagnose. And in this step,
- 7:52it's always about the problem behind the
- 7:54problem behind the problem. If someone
- 7:56tells you they need more leads, I want
- 7:57you to know it's probably not a leads
- 7:59problem. How do I know that? 3,000 sales
- 8:02calls. And what'll happen is that if you
- 8:04just ask the surface question, you'll
- 8:05end up solving the wrong thing. And
- 8:07they'll walk away cuz they don't truly
- 8:09believe that you understand them.
- 8:10Because what people say is the problem
- 8:12usually isn't the problem they actually
- 8:14have. And most people don't know how to
- 8:16explain the pain or the problem they're
- 8:17dealing with. And that's why the doctor
- 8:18frame is so good. It's like when I was
- 8:20mountain biking and I crashed into a
- 8:22tree and broke my hand. When I went to
- 8:23see the doctor, I thought my problem was
- 8:25with my wrist. And then he grabbed my
- 8:26hand. He started moving my fingers
- 8:28around. I literally had a lightning
- 8:30strike go through my body, the back of
- 8:31my neck. He goes, "No, the wrist is just
- 8:33a byproduct of the amount of pressure
- 8:34that got into your knuckle when you
- 8:36accidentally punched the tree when you
- 8:37fell off your mountain bike." And in
- 8:39that moment, he became the expert
- 8:41because he understood the problem and
- 8:42pain better than I could have ever
- 8:44explained it. Now, I'll tell you, Dr.
- 8:46Alex, because he did that, he's my guy
- 8:48in the future. If I hurt myself in any
- 8:50way, he's the guy I'm going to turn to
- 8:51because he was able to diagnose this way
- 8:53faster than I could ever do it on my
- 8:54own. And here's the reality. If you know
- 8:56your customer's pain better than they do
- 8:58and can explain it back to them in words
- 9:00they couldn't even use, then you become
- 9:02the expert. The sale is made between
- 9:05their current reality and their desired
- 9:07outcome. This is the gap. Okay. From
- 9:10here all the way to there. And what
- 9:12we're trying to do, I'm going to try to
- 9:13pull without hurting my hand. We're
- 9:15going to pull, pull, pull, pull, pull,
- 9:17pull, pull, pull, pull, pull, pull,
- 9:18pull, AND STRETCH THE GAP. IMAGINE IF I
- 9:21LET IT GO RIGHT NOW. BUT right there,
- 9:24that's where a sales mate. So, here's
- 9:25how we stretch the gap. First is we need
- 9:27to figure out where they want to be. And
- 9:29I'll tell you why. Most people are more
- 9:30likely in the beginning of a call to
- 9:32tell you about their goals than tell you
- 9:34about the worst things that happening in
- 9:35their life right now. So, we want to ask
- 9:36them in 12 months from now, let's
- 9:38pretend we're celebrating, what are we
- 9:40celebrating? And they're like, what do
- 9:41you mean? It's like, well, you came for
- 9:42me to solve this problem. If we solved
- 9:43it and we sat down and we had a meal and
- 9:45we're cheersing each other and you just
- 9:47had the best year ever, what would have
- 9:48happened? That gets them into
- 9:50visualizing the experience that they
- 9:52want. Then, after I talk about that and
- 9:54get very specific about it, then I'm
- 9:56going to go back to, well, based on
- 9:57where you want to be, tell me where you
- 9:59at today. That creates a logical
- 10:01connection of asking the questions that
- 10:03might feel a little sensitive or private
- 10:05to disclose. Say you want to travel the
- 10:07world 12 weeks out of the year, how many
- 10:09weeks did you travel this year? And then
- 10:10the ban in the center is like, now that
- 10:12I've stretched the gap, what's currently
- 10:14preventing you from getting there? What
- 10:16have you tried in the past? That is such
- 10:18a powerful question. If we don't ask
- 10:20that question, we don't go deep in the
- 10:22understanding when we go to do the
- 10:24pitch. They won't believe that we truly
- 10:26understand their current situation. If
- 10:27I'm selling to you and I don't ask you
- 10:29what you've tried in the past, then when
- 10:31I make my presentation, then you're
- 10:33going to assume it sounds a lot like
- 10:34things you've done in the past. I'm
- 10:36dealing with an objection that isn't
- 10:37real that I don't even know. But if I
- 10:39make them verbalize that specific thing,
- 10:41it's like, what else is a problem? This,
- 10:43what have you tried in the past? Then I
- 10:44deal with the objection without knowing
- 10:46what they've tried in the past, you're
- 10:47going to be fighting a monster you can't
- 10:49see. Now, pro tip. When I'm trying to
- 10:51help someone make a decision, I also ask
- 10:53myself in real time based on what we're
- 10:55talking about, do I feel like they're
- 10:57overconfident in their ability to do it
- 10:58themselves? Like they feel like, oh, I
- 11:00could do this myself, or do they feel
- 11:02uncertain about themselves, in their
- 11:04ability to do this? Cuz both of those
- 11:06doesn't allow me to bring them to the
- 11:07center, which I call the buying zone.
- 11:09So, if somebody's overconfident, I need
- 11:11to make a comment or ask them a question
- 11:13that brings them down a peg. Well, it
- 11:14sounds like you have a plan. Why haven't
- 11:16you hit it yet? Or if they're uncertain,
- 11:18I might say something like, "My best
- 11:20clients when they came to me had the
- 11:22same thoughts that you just said. They
- 11:23felt the same way about their situation.
- 11:25And honestly, I'd be concerned if you
- 11:26didn't." Cuz it's those kind of people
- 11:28that make the investment to show up that
- 11:30actually will do the work to get them
- 11:31the results. In both situations, I'm
- 11:33pulling this person forward and this
- 11:34person, I'm bringing them back. And that
- 11:36buying zone is where the deal is done.
- 11:38And when you ask them everything they've
- 11:40tried or any answer they're giving,
- 11:41please write it down because we're going
- 11:43to need that in a minute. And look, if
- 11:44you're growing your business and you
- 11:46want to move from a founder sales
- 11:47process to a sales team sales process
- 11:50and you want my help, I put together my
- 11:51rocket selling system that I teach every
- 11:53entrepreneur I work with that's
- 11:55literally made my clients millions of
- 11:57dollars. I want to invite you to scan
- 11:58the QR code or click the link below to
- 12:00book a growth session with my team. I'd
- 12:02love to see if we can help you out. So,
- 12:03now that we've helped somebody feel the
- 12:04gap, it's time to show them how to close
- 12:06it. This is where we prescribe. And
- 12:08look, as a doctor, you can't prescribe
- 12:11until you diagnose because if you do,
- 12:13that's considered malpractice. And the
- 12:14truth is, people will pay more for a
- 12:17painkiller than they will a vitamin. If
- 12:19I've got a migraine, I'll pay whatever
- 12:21for that pill. After you do the whole
- 12:23diagnostic process, most people want to
- 12:25get right into the sales, but I like to
- 12:27give the buyer the perception that
- 12:29they're in control. And the way I do
- 12:30that is I repeat what they just told me.
- 12:32I heard you're here, you want to be
- 12:34here, but this is getting in the way.
- 12:36Did I get that right? And I'll do that
- 12:37for three, four of those items. Then
- 12:39I'll say something like, you know, so
- 12:41far I've been asking a lot of questions.
- 12:43Why don't we switch roles and you become
- 12:45the asker? Where do you want to go from
- 12:46here? And in that moment, 99% of the
- 12:49time, they give me back control of the
- 12:51call and say, I don't know, what does it
- 12:52look like? Then there's a perception
- 12:54that they're asking you to sell to them
- 12:56or to this next step, which is
- 12:58prescribe. Most salespeople when they
- 13:00get on a call, they're just so excited
- 13:02for the person. They want to tell them
- 13:03about their solution and they start
- 13:04listing features after features after
- 13:06feature. They want to tell them
- 13:08everything, all the options and the
- 13:10bonuses and the comparison. And the
- 13:11problem is is that it overwhelms buyers.
- 13:13And a confused mind never buys. And the
- 13:16more you talk, the less likely they will
- 13:19actually buy. Imagine you hire a real
- 13:21estate agent and they come and they meet
- 13:22with you and instead of asking you any
- 13:24questions or maybe they ask you three or
- 13:26four, they just start showing you
- 13:27hundreds of listings at once and instead
- 13:29of feeling super clear on what you want,
- 13:31you leave feeling even more confused
- 13:33than before. So, do you think you're
- 13:34going to buy? Your buyers could be
- 13:36experiencing the exact same thing. So,
- 13:38that's why what I recommend is you guide
- 13:41the process. When we asked them where
- 13:43they are and where they want to go, we
- 13:45really double clicked on what was
- 13:46getting in the way and what they needed
- 13:48most. That's when I made the mental note
- 13:50that I told you to write down so that
- 13:51when I prescribe it only maps to those
- 13:54things. I don't confuse them with
- 13:56everything else. You might have 17 other
- 13:58benefits. Guess what? Don't tell them.
- 14:00Unless it's supportive to the decision,
- 14:02it is confusing. And I always say the
- 14:05right information at the right time gets
- 14:07the deal done. So then what I do is when
- 14:09I prescribe, I'm literally going through
- 14:11each one of the roadblocks they gave me.
- 14:13Because then when I review how we work,
- 14:16I'm literally mapping our offer, the
- 14:19specific benefits to the roadblocks I
- 14:22got them to agree upon. When I go
- 14:23through the solution, it feels like a
- 14:26perfect fit for them. It's like a fine
- 14:28tailored suit. They're like, "Oh my
- 14:29gosh, this is what I've been looking for
- 14:30my whole life." And you're like, "I
- 14:32know." And the best part is the
- 14:34investment is only and I give them the
- 14:36price. Now, amateurs stop right there
- 14:38and they wait. I give them the price and
- 14:40then I move on to another ninja benefit
- 14:43that they're going to get because I know
- 14:45people like them struggle with X. So,
- 14:47because of that, I gave them this Y. For
- 14:48example, I'll say, and that's why the
- 14:51investment is only 25K. And because I
- 14:53know that you also probably need to get
- 14:54your team trained up on this, I also
- 14:56include two extra seats so that you can
- 14:58upskill two people on your team at no
- 15:00extra cost. See how I made the
- 15:02investment, moved on, gave him some more
- 15:04value. Then I come back to it and I go
- 15:05for the ask. Now, you might have heard
- 15:07people say the first person to talk
- 15:09after you say the price loses a sale.
- 15:11It's the first person to talk after you
- 15:13made the offer loses a sale. The offer
- 15:15for me includes letting you know what
- 15:17the investment is and also let you know
- 15:19about a benefit, but it kind of allows
- 15:20you to say it in a very nonchalant from
- 15:22the heels kind of way. It's like look,
- 15:24the investment is only 50K and because I
- 15:26know that you're probably going to
- 15:26struggle with this, I've also included
- 15:28this so that you get this kind of
- 15:29benefit. So, what car did you want to
- 15:31put that on?
- 15:34See, the other person will want to talk
- 15:36and when they talk, let them talk and
- 15:38say, "I totally understand." Deal with
- 15:40the objection. Go for the close. Now, to
- 15:42bring this up to the next level, we have
- 15:44to talk about objections because if you
- 15:46do it right, the objections are actually
- 15:48obstacles. If you bring them up early,
- 15:50most people, this is where they jump
- 15:52straight into the offer and where they
- 15:54lose the sale. Once you prescribe and
- 15:56you talk about the price, that's when
- 15:58you usually hear objections. That's what
- 15:59everybody else does. If you deal with it
- 16:01before you prescribe, then it becomes an
- 16:03obstacle. So, I call this the clear
- 16:05common obstacles. When you look at your
- 16:07calls, there's only really three common
- 16:09obstacles. The first one is who else is
- 16:11involved making the decision? Maybe it's
- 16:13I don't have the money. That's obstacle
- 16:14number two. So, you might ask them, did
- 16:16you put a budget aside to solve this
- 16:18problem? If there was a solution
- 16:19presented to you today, what budget
- 16:21would you have available to make an
- 16:22investment in it? The third one is, do
- 16:25you feel if you had the right solution,
- 16:26you'd have the time to implement it
- 16:27today? How much time could you give me
- 16:29per week? You want to ask them ahead of
- 16:30time so that when you tell them about
- 16:32it, they'll be like, "Well, I don't have
- 16:33enough time." It's like, "You actually
- 16:34said you did and there was other things
- 16:35you were working on that you probably
- 16:36need to stop doing so you had the time
- 16:38to focus on this one." So, they give you
- 16:40the ammunition to deal with it after you
- 16:42give them the prescription. So, now that
- 16:44we've talked about the offer, we've
- 16:45dropped the price. There's only one
- 16:46thing left to do. Get them to commit. If
- 16:49you've made it this far in the process,
- 16:51you need to collect the money. If you
- 16:53know you can help them, it is your
- 16:55responsibility to help them make a
- 16:57decision. Don't let people be flaky and
- 16:59disappear. Unfortunately, most people in
- 17:01the world, they don't know how to do
- 17:03this and they'd rather make no decision
- 17:05than the wrong decision. When you go to
- 17:07a restaurant and then you're done eating
- 17:09and the waiter brings you the bill, he
- 17:10doesn't just like say, "Yeah, thanks for
- 17:12coming. Hope you pay." He brings you the
- 17:14check and he stands there and he waits
- 17:16to make payment. He collects payment on
- 17:18the spot. High-end restaurants, high-end
- 17:20companies, they collect payment where
- 17:21you're sitting. I don't believe a yes is
- 17:23a sale until you get the money. And
- 17:24someone's saying they want to move
- 17:25forward and they're like, "This is
- 17:26great." Yeah. I know. Send me a
- 17:27proposal. Mm- No, never send a proposal.
- 17:31Ask them when they want to schedule a
- 17:32time to review the proposal so that you
- 17:34can walk it through with them because
- 17:36information doesn't help people make a
- 17:37decision cuz if it was, then they would
- 17:39just be researching about.com all day.
- 17:42Just please don't confuse a promise with
- 17:44a payment. [music] As a Canadian,
- 17:46they're super nice. They tell me all the
- 17:48time, "I love it, Dan. I'm buying." I'm
- 17:50like, "Cool. What card do you want to
- 17:51put that on?" Well,
- 17:53see that? That's not a commitment. Pros
- 17:56collect payment on the call. It could be
- 17:58a deposit if you're selling a proof of
- 18:00concept. It could be the wire details.
- 18:02It could be whatever it needs to be, but
- 18:04you're collecting some kind of payment
- 18:06that makes it a commitment on the call.
- 18:08And look, if you follow this whole
- 18:10process, this shouldn't feel awkward.
- 18:13This is where the call naturally ends up
- 18:15going anyway. I remember this one time I
- 18:17was talking to this guy named Matt and
- 18:18he wanted to work with me and I was
- 18:20like, "Cool." And I went through the
- 18:21whole process I just walked you through
- 18:22and we got to the point where I was
- 18:24like, "Great. what card do you want to
- 18:25put that on? And he's like, oh, well,
- 18:26I'm driving. I said, cool. Just pull
- 18:28over. Pull out your credit card. I'll
- 18:29wait. You're going to make me pull over?
- 18:30I'm like, uh-huh. And he's like, right
- 18:33now. And I said, look, I just want you
- 18:34not to have another thing on your to-do
- 18:36list that you might not get to. He goes,
- 18:37no, I promise you I'll call you when I
- 18:38get home. I said, I understand and I
- 18:40believe you. Why don't we just deal with
- 18:41it now? And he's like, but I'm driving.
- 18:43Heard it the first time. Call me crazy,
- 18:45but I have a lot of stuff on my to-do
- 18:47list I never get to, and I want to make
- 18:48sure we get you started. It sounded like
- 18:50it was important to you. If it is, I'll
- 18:52wait. Pull over. pull out the credit
- 18:53card. And I remember the whole time he's
- 18:55like, I can't believe you're asking me
- 18:56to pull over. Like, I would have called
- 18:58you back. And I said, look, I'm a
- 18:59professional. I'm going to teach you how
- 19:00to be a professional. And one of the
- 19:02things we have to make sure is we get a
- 19:03commitment on the call. And I will tell
- 19:05you, if you ever meet Matt, he'll tell
- 19:06you the same thing. I'm so glad that Dan
- 19:09forced me to make a commitment on the
- 19:11call. I know. I've done this quite a few
- 19:13times. There's like one time I got on a
- 19:15sales call and this guy from Chicago,
- 19:16he's in sales and he's like, "Hey, I'm a
- 19:18sales guy. Just tell me what the pitch
- 19:19is." And I was like, "Bro, I got nothing
- 19:20to sell you." 35 minutes later, he's
- 19:22giving me his credit card. He's like,
- 19:23"Wow, that was really good." I said, "I
- 19:26know. I can't wait to teach you." And
- 19:27he's like, "I thought I knew all the
- 19:28things." And I'm like, "I'm just Look,
- 19:30bro, I'm a pro." He's like, "But you
- 19:32said you had nothing to sell me." I
- 19:33didn't at that time. I didn't know if I
- 19:35could help you. That's the whole point.
- 19:37You have to diagnose before you
- 19:39prescribe. And at that point, I had
- 19:40nothing to prescribe. And guess what?
- 19:42Sales people love to buy. Just go to
- 19:44which car would you like to put that on?
- 19:46It's the assumptive close. I'm assuming
- 19:49I know where you're at, where you want
- 19:50to go, and you want to work with me. I
- 19:51want to work with you. So, all I need to
- 19:52know is what form of payment do you want
- 19:54to use? When you get used to asking for
- 19:56the order, and assuming they're going to
- 19:58then have an objection, which you say
- 20:00totally makes sense, and deal with it,
- 20:02right? Cuz you have your talk tracks,
- 20:03that is when the deal gets done. And for
- 20:05whatever reason, if you couldn't deal
- 20:07with the objections cuz they weren't
- 20:09obstacles or you couldn't get the person
- 20:11to make a decision and you do need to
- 20:13book another call, you have to bam bam.
- 20:15Which means you get the next call
- 20:17scheduled confirmed. And then you ask
- 20:20them a very simple question. Can I ask
- 20:21you a favor? They go, yeah, what's up?
- 20:23You go, could you do me the honor that
- 20:25if for any reason you can't make our
- 20:27call that you let me know ahead of time
- 20:28so that I can make myself available to
- 20:30the other people that want to chat? Once
- 20:32they make that commitment, their brain
- 20:34goes consistency bias. They're not going
- 20:36to want to break that contract. Even
- 20:37when you follow every step, not every
- 20:39call is going to close. So, how do you
- 20:41make sure you're actually getting
- 20:42better? Not just burning leads. Which
- 20:44brings us to the next point. Every lost
- 20:46sale leaves clues. Here's what I see all
- 20:49the time. Amateurs do a call, doesn't
- 20:51work out, and they just run to the next
- 20:53one. They essentially lose a sale, and
- 20:54there's no information. They never find
- 20:56out why the deal didn't close. where was
- 20:59the mistake that they made and then they
- 21:00just keep making on the next call and
- 21:02the next call. I don't know if you know
- 21:03this but Kobe Bryant, one of the best
- 21:05basketball players of our time, used to
- 21:07watch his own game tape from the first
- 21:09half of the game at halftime going into
- 21:12the second period so that he can see
- 21:15where he was making mistakes against the
- 21:17people he's playing so he can come back
- 21:19in the second half and absolutely crush
- 21:20it. It's a fast feedback loop and every
- 21:23call will tell you something. Look, if
- 21:25you got to the end of the call and you
- 21:27didn't collect any money, then there are
- 21:29steps that got rushed or skipped. And
- 21:31every lost sale leaves you little tiny
- 21:34breadcrumbs to figure out what was
- 21:35broken in the process. [music] And the
- 21:37best salespeople, the pros, learn from
- 21:39every call, especially the ones that
- 21:41didn't close because they know using the
- 21:44process I'm about to teach you that
- 21:45every no brings you one step closer to a
- 21:48yes. So, we need to do what Kobe did,
- 21:51which is review our game tape. And the
- 21:53best part is we're going to use AI to do
- 21:55it automagically. So the first thing we
- 21:57have to do is collect transcripts from
- 21:59any close one and also close loss
- 22:01transcripts because the worst thing in
- 22:03sales isn't knowing why you're losing.
- 22:06It's not knowing why you're winning
- 22:07because then you can't replicate it
- 22:09every time. So here's what I want you to
- 22:11do. If you're using Grockbot, nice job.
- 22:13Or use Claude and just point it at these
- 22:15files that I just asked you to collect.
- 22:17So we got to ask these four questions.
- 22:19First, connect. Did I establish trust
- 22:22and control the frame? Second, diagnose.
- 22:24Did I feel real pain and did I create
- 22:26desire for a solution? Three, prescribe.
- 22:29Did I make the solution as clear and
- 22:31simple as possible? And four, commit.
- 22:34Did I ask for the money with confidence?
- 22:37Find the patterns that work and what
- 22:38didn't and give me advice and scripts to
- 22:40improve. If you do that, you will build
- 22:43a self-perpetuating sales manager that
- 22:46will turn you into a weapon. I'm telling
- 22:49you, this process has been codified and
- 22:51deployed across all of my companies in
- 22:53that single process. I told you at the
- 22:55beginning, this is going to be a
- 22:56gamecher because nobody does this. That
- 22:58simple process will give you the talk
- 23:00tracks, will give you the objection
- 23:01overriding, will give you the frames to
- 23:03be able to go to your next call with
- 23:05confidence and know they're going to
- 23:06buy. And look, here's what I believe. If
- 23:09you know what you do is world class, if
- 23:12you know what you're selling will help
- 23:13people, then I consider it your number
- 23:16one job to get people to make a decision
- 23:19to work with you. I've worked with
- 23:20people that sell in every industry. And
- 23:23the reason why I'm so passionate about
- 23:24this is they're usually incredible
- 23:26people, incredible at their craft. They
- 23:28care about their customers, but
- 23:29unfortunately, they don't know how to
- 23:31follow a process. They don't know how
- 23:33structure, and they don't do it every
- 23:34time. And that means the person you are
- 23:36talking to unfortunately ends up working
- 23:38with somebody else that doesn't care
- 23:40about them, that's not going to deliver,
- 23:42that's literally just going to take
- 23:43their money and treat them like a
- 23:44number. If that's not you, then it is
- 23:46your responsibility to show up like a
- 23:48pro. And I'm telling you, on the
- 23:50backside of you doing what we just went
- 23:52over, you will [music] help so many
- 23:54freaking people and create so many
- 23:55resources in your life that you will
- 23:57wonder why you waited so long to become
- 23:59the best version of yourself. Cuz sales
- 24:01is not just about selling to people.
- 24:03It's about personal development done at
- 24:05scale. And if you know you can help
- 24:07people, you literally would be doing a
- 24:09disservice to not act like a [music]
- 24:11pro. So, I want to hear from everybody
- 24:13below. What part of the sales call do
- 24:15you struggle with the most? And yes,
- 24:16it's probably objections, but maybe it's
- 24:18connect, maybe it's diagnosed, maybe
- 24:20it's prescribe. Let me know below and
- 24:21tell me in the comments. And remember,
- 24:23if you want help scaling your sales
- 24:25process and growing your business, then
- 24:26scan the QR code or click the link below
- 24:28to book a growth session with my team.
- 24:30And if you want my full course on how to
- 24:32build a business that runs without you,
- 24:34just click here and I'll see you on the
- 24:35other
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