Identity work: How to Embody Your Millionaire Self Identity — Transcript

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1. 0:00If you want to create extraordinary
2. 0:03growth and business growth beyond logic,
3. 0:06you've got to shift your identity.
4. 0:07[music]
5. 0:08You've got to assume simply a different
6. 0:12place in you, who you are. Without it,
7. 0:15it's going to be freaking hard. I want
8. 0:17to talk to you today about energetic
9. 0:20anchoring and how to lock in that new
10. 0:24identity of yours so you don't waiver.
11. 0:27Because guess what? The doubts
12. 0:30will come.
13. 0:31The human mind [music] is not designed
14. 0:34to change easily. So, I'm going to give
15. 0:36you my three biggest [music] things that
16. 0:39to me are the most important. So, first
17. 0:42thing
18. 0:46>> [music]
19. 0:57[music]
20. 1:01>> Before we dive in, just in case we don't
21. 1:03know each other, hello my dear one. I'm
22. 1:06Lenka Lutonska. I'm a creator of
23. 1:08business energetics, which is all about
24. 1:10business growth beyond logic, beyond
25. 1:13lineal thinking and all of that old
26. 1:16business paradigm that left us exhausted
27. 1:19and tired and in resentment. That's old.
28. 1:23We are growing our businesses through
29. 1:27energy, through consciousness, through
30. 1:29who we are. And therefore, we can
31. 1:30collapse timelines and experience
32. 1:32business growth beyond logic. Let's dive
33. 1:36into this concept of energetic
34. 1:40anchoring. So, how do we do that? How do
35. 1:43we anchor that new identity, which by
36. 1:45the way, you know that is the first step
37. 1:48of nine of creating that quantum leap in
38. 1:52your business and life. I'm going to
39. 1:53give you my three biggest things that
40. 1:56are the most helpful and then few others
41. 1:59that are also very helpful but not as
42. 2:02powerful as those top three, okay?
43. 2:04So, first thing that will help you to
44. 2:06really really anchor and it's been case
45. 2:09for me the new sense of identity is
46. 2:12almost like proclamation,
47. 2:14such a decision and public proclamation
48. 2:18that you are proclaiming and commanded
49. 2:22this to be true. For instance, I
50. 2:24remember I'm going now years back before
51. 2:28I made my first million in my dear
52. 2:30beloved business and at the time I gave
53. 2:34birth to my first son. So, I was still
54. 2:37in sort of a mood that I wanted to rest
55. 2:40more and take care of the baby and paint
56. 2:42furniture. But in that time there was
57. 2:46all brewing that next level of identity
58. 2:49in me, like really brewing that
59. 2:51millionaire feel like the spiritual
60. 2:53millionaire or divine millionaire
61. 2:54identity. So, I was playing with it for
62. 2:56a while for a while until it came. I
63. 2:59pulled it down. It was a magical moment
64. 3:02and I write about this in my book
65. 3:03energetic selling and marketing when I
66. 3:05was painting a furniture and again I'm
67. 3:07contemplating on this millionaire, you
68. 3:10know, spiritual millionaire and making
69. 3:12millions by making a difference in the
70. 3:14world. And the thought occurred to me,
71. 3:16"Why am I not claiming it fully yet? Why
72. 3:18am I still putting it in the future?"
73. 3:20Like, "Oh my goodness, I'm ready to
74. 3:21claim it now. I'm ready to become it now
75. 3:24so to speak." And I dropped that
76. 3:26painting brush and I run to my hubby and
77. 3:30I said, "Thomas, Thomas, how would you
78. 3:32feel if I become a millionaire, if I'm a
79. 3:36director of a million pound a year or
80. 3:39more company?" And he's looking at me
81. 3:42amused.
82. 3:43And he goes, "Okay." A little confused
83. 3:46and he says, "Sure, my darling,
84. 3:49whatever makes you happy."
85. 3:51And I said, "Okay, great." And I kid you
86. 3:53not, that painting brush stayed there
87. 3:55for a while. So did that furniture. I
88. 3:58think I had to at the end get rid of
89. 4:00that furniture because I never finished
90. 4:03painting it. But it collapsed the
91. 4:06timeline. I kid you not. I think couple
92. 4:10of months after that moment, I had my
93. 4:11first 100k month. First 100k. So it
94. 4:14massively collapsed the timeline because
95. 4:16I not only made that shift, that
96. 4:19identity shift, I proclaimed it. I went
97. 4:22to my hubby. It was such a strong
98. 4:24proclamation. And I went to my audience
99. 4:27and I told them what's happening. And
100. 4:28here is the thing. Few days ago, I had a
101. 4:31déjà vu. Literally déjà vu. And you
102. 4:33probably are aware of this if you're
103. 4:36watching my video, if you're part of my
104. 4:37community that as I'm working towards
105. 4:41seven-figure months, steady months so to
106. 4:44speak, as a change maker, over here,
107. 4:47that big level identity is 100 million
108. 4:51change maker or a CEO of 100 million a
109. 4:55year company. But it's such a huge
110. 4:57concept. Like
111. 4:59could I grasp it? No. But have I been
112. 5:01playful with it? Have I been, "Okay,
113. 5:02tell me more. What does it look like?"
114. 5:04Have I been exploring it? Yes. Yes, for
115. 5:07weeks. Of course, months even. Of
116. 5:09course. It's It's here. It knocks on my
117. 5:12consciousness. I'll honor it. I'll look.
118. 5:14There's not much I can grasp, but tell
119. 5:16me. Tell me more. Until it revealed
120. 5:18itself fully few Few days ago and it
121. 5:22landed in I pulled it down. I said, "Oh,
122. 5:25this is who I am. This is who I am." If
123. 5:28you like, I made the next really, really
124. 5:31powerful identity shift into a 100
125. 5:35million CEO, leader of business
126. 5:37energetics and business energetics
127. 5:39academy. What I consider what is the
128. 5:43most important movement
129. 5:47in a business in our generation. So, I
130. 5:50made a shift. But now I'm informing you
131. 5:53about that. I'm proclaiming it. I'm
132. 5:56saying that you will see this amazing
133. 6:00company, my work, growing into 100
134. 6:04million plus company
135. 6:06in not in short time. I don't know what
136. 6:08that is, it doesn't matter because as
137. 6:10far as I'm concerned, it's here. World
138. 6:12is ready. We ready. I'm ready. I'm
139. 6:14there.
140. 6:15Physical reality is already rapidly
141. 6:18adjusting and you are part of it. You
142. 6:20are part of this movement and revolution
143. 6:23where we going to together, not just me,
144. 6:26together with you, we're going to
145. 6:28honestly also save many lives because
146. 6:31that old paradigm, old business paradigm
147. 6:34relying on action and doggy dog and I
148. 6:37need to really kill myself to succeed,
149. 6:39that has got many men and women jumping
150. 6:42off the roofs of big corporations. And
151. 6:46we're going to stop it. We're going to
152. 6:48bring business energetics into
153. 6:51corporates, into all spheres of
154. 6:53business, into mainstream. I know it and
155. 6:56I thank you for being part of it. So,
156. 6:58anyway, that's my big proclamation, my
157. 7:01decision which I'm sharing with you
158. 7:04because I mean it. Because I mean it.
159. 7:07Because I know it. Because I've never
160. 7:10been so sure about anything else. That's
161. 7:13my tip actually how to anchor it. Share
162. 7:16it. Share it with others because if you
163. 7:18think, "Oh, but what if it doesn't
164. 7:20happen? What if What if it's just my
165. 7:22imagine" You see, you're still giving
166. 7:25partially into the stories of your old
167. 7:28identity and that can't be manifesting
168. 7:31simultaneously. In fact, that's
169. 7:33typically the case that we go a little
170. 7:35bit here, little bit there, little bit
171. 7:38of new, little bit old. But the point of
172. 7:41energetic anchoring and full embodiment
173. 7:45is to not do the old anymore. It's to do
174. 7:48fully the new. So, proclaim it. And what
175. 7:52I forgot to share with you is that
176. 7:54actually a few days ago I had a déjà vu
177. 7:57when my husband and I are talking and
178. 8:00I'm in that conversation I'm saying,
179. 8:02"But Thomas, how will you feel when I'm
180. 8:04a CEO of a 100 million company?"
181. 8:08And he looked at me and I recognized
182. 8:10that same look of love and a little bit
183. 8:13of confusion and he said, "My darling,
184. 8:15whatever makes you happy."
185. 8:18Same déjà vu just on a different
186. 8:20different level and I thought,
187. 8:22"Okay, fantastic. This is it." Because I
188. 8:25would already experience this moment on
189. 8:27a different level back then. You see,
190. 8:29beautiful how the the universe works, so
191. 8:32to speak. Proclamation, such a powerful
192. 8:34decision that you can go all in is very
193. 8:36very powerful way to lock in your new
194. 8:39identity to to anchor the energetics of
195. 8:42your new self fully. Second biggest one
196. 8:44to me is some form of big move, like
197. 8:47really really big move. In fact, you
198. 8:50know, it was What is it? 5 months ago or
199. 8:52so, where I really shifted my identity
200. 8:55to, if you like, seven figure months
201. 8:58change maker. And when I realized like,
202. 9:01"Okay, this is a new level. This is the
203. 9:03new level me." Again, I didn't wait for
204. 9:06it to be shared. I did something like a
205. 9:09big move where I where I proclaimed to
206. 9:12myself to myself, "I mean this. I mean
207. 9:15this." So, what is the way for me to
208. 9:17step into this? Not just be on the verge
209. 9:19of it, but step into this. And for me
210. 9:21it's always always something like a big
211. 9:24investment in something, you know? I
212. 9:25paid 100K, over 100K for a new level
213. 9:29coaching for me. I mean, immediately I
214. 9:31had aligned coach showing up like that,
215. 9:32which often happens. I paid that not
216. 9:35just as an investment in me and my
217. 9:37business, but definitely, and this is
218. 9:39always the case that the type of the
219. 9:41level of mentorship is in that
220. 9:43embodiment, that anchoring, like I mean
221. 9:45it. I mean it. That's why I'm putting so
222. 9:48much money to anchor this new identity.
223. 9:50I mean it. So, this type of big move
224. 9:53will always come back to you many, many
225. 9:55fold because it very, very powerful
226. 9:58anchors that new that shift in identity,
227. 10:00the new level just will more powerfully
228. 10:03than anything else, really. Yes? Big
229. 10:06moves, whatever you consider big moves
230. 10:08that demonstrate to you that you really
231. 10:11mean it, that you really believe in it.
232. 10:13That would be the second biggest tip
233. 10:16when it comes to energetic anchoring of
234. 10:19your new identity. Third, speed. Speed.
235. 10:23The universe, as you know, loves speed.
236. 10:25And those that honor it will be very
237. 10:28quickly rewarded. I mean, if you want
238. 10:31fast results, you've got to be fast,
239. 10:32right? You are, after all, the time. You
240. 10:36are divine timing, even. Speed, very
241. 10:39powerful way to anchor that new
242. 10:42identity. So, move because when you
243. 10:45shift that identity, when you decide
244. 10:46this is who I am, my goodness, you will
245. 10:50become aware
246. 10:52very quickly or your awareness will
247. 10:54open.
248. 10:55This is not a match anymore. I need to
249. 10:58let go or change. And this is a match.
250. 11:01Woo! Something new showed up in my
251. 11:04awareness that that's massively aligned.
252. 11:08That's a huge So, you've got to welcome
253. 11:10in. Letting go, welcome Make those moves
254. 11:13fast. Speed. Let go. Welcome in. Your
255. 11:17awareness is now, when you make the
256. 11:19shift in identity, totally open. But
257. 11:22don't sit on those decisions. Don't
258. 11:24don't sit in Oh, but can I let it go?
259. 11:26Can I change it? No. The next level you
260. 11:30doesn't hesitate. Again, make those
261. 11:32moves quickly. Speed. Speed. Simply
262. 11:35speed. Speed is the third way to really
263. 11:39anchor the new you inside of you all
264. 11:42very powerfully. And then, few more,
265. 11:44[snorts] okay? Which I'm not saying are
266. 11:46not as powerful, but these three are to
267. 11:49me the most powerful ways to anchor your
268. 11:52new identity. So, next one, or number
269. 11:54four if you like, would be some form of
270. 11:57daily identity ritual. Meaning, if you
271. 12:00haven't really fully anchored it,
272. 12:03embodied that identity, that you might
273. 12:06need to work on it quite a lot, that
274. 12:09where you are stepping into consciously
275. 12:13into the new identity. That daily new
276. 12:16you ritual might look like, "Okay, what
277. 12:19would that my next level me show up
278. 12:21today? Walk like today? Dress like
279. 12:24today? Decide today? Etcetera." Some
280. 12:26form of ritual. Create like a ritual for
281. 12:29the new level of identity for for you.
282. 12:31For me, I know what served me massively
283. 12:33in the past in this regard has been and
284. 12:37I called it new me walk. At the time I
285. 12:41was doing daily walks, and I still love
286. 12:43walks. Daily, even for a short time, I
287. 12:46would go out of the of the door and I
288. 12:48would leave the old me or the even
289. 12:51current me at home and I would go for a
290. 12:54walk. Doesn't matter how long or short.
291. 12:56Can be 10 minutes, even shorter or
292. 12:58longer, but you go for that walk in your
293. 13:01new identity. You carry yourself like
294. 13:03that. You think like that. You observe
295. 13:06the world like that, like your new you.
296. 13:08Whatever it might be, 100K a month
297. 13:10change maker, seven figure leader,
298. 13:14whatever, global bestselling author,
299. 13:16whatever it is. But you walk like that.
300. 13:18You observe the world like that. You
301. 13:20leave your old self or your current self
302. 13:22at home. So, that's a wonderful one
303. 13:25example of the daily embodiment of new
304. 13:28you, new identity ritual. The sec-
305. 13:31Secondly, or this would be for number
306. 13:33five, it could be the some form of
307. 13:35physical anchoring, meaning maybe piece
308. 13:38of jewelry, something get for yourself.
309. 13:40You know, when I shifted from a smoker
310. 13:43identity to non-smoker, I got to myself
311. 13:45this beautiful, beautiful ring. Look.
312. 13:49You know? And then I when I look at that
313. 13:52ring, it always reminds me like how
314. 13:56blessed I am
315. 13:57to be in that identity of a non-smoker
316. 14:00for the rest of my life. So, it's a
317. 14:03wonderful, beautiful reminder, I guess,
318. 14:05anchor, physical anchor. You can get
319. 14:07yourself something, be the piece of
320. 14:09clothing or jewelry, anything like that,
321. 14:11that is that next level leader. So,
322. 14:13something physical that you can touch,
323. 14:15that you can look at, can be a very,
324. 14:17very powerful way to help you anchor
325. 14:20that new identity. Environment. Well,
326. 14:23going back then, you know, when I
327. 14:26started this global movement really and
328. 14:28my online business, I was living still
329. 14:31at the time in a tiny little house and
330. 14:34my office was a little box room. But,
331. 14:37you know what?
332. 14:38In that box room, which was 2 by 2 m,
333. 14:41not even that, I made it environment,
334. 14:44physical environment that matched the
335. 14:45energy. All It was literally 2 sq m,
336. 14:48may- maybe even less.
337. 14:50But, it was clean, it was crisp. I got
338. 14:53from very little money I had back then,
339. 14:55I got the best furniture I could get for
340. 14:58that little, little physical space for
341. 15:00me. It's been incredibly helpful because
342. 15:03I anchored myself that I used my little
343. 15:06but physical environment to anchor
344. 15:08myself in the new identity. I knew that
345. 15:10I'm building my divine empire.
346. 15:13And I did and I'm continuing to build
347. 15:15and expand it, of course, from much
348. 15:17bigger space, but that's where it
349. 15:18started. And that physical space helped
350. 15:21me to anchor that new me, that spiritual
351. 15:24millionaire identity. Yes? And these are
352. 15:27my top tips. So, what did we come to?
353. 15:30Number six all together? Yes? And I will
354. 15:34say this, this energetic anchoring of a
355. 15:37new identity means nothing if you're not
356. 15:40fully engaged with this energy of yours.
357. 15:43Energetic engagement is equally
358. 15:45important, equally important. So, I'm
359. 15:48going to link a video about that topic,
360. 15:50about energetic engagement and its role
361. 15:53in creation, manifestation, the next
362. 15:55level of business success, illogical
363. 15:58business growth. I'll link it over here
364. 16:01and if you haven't watched that, that is
365. 16:03going to be your next freaking amazing
366. 16:06watch. So, for now, I will love, love,
367. 16:09love to hear from you. What are you
368. 16:11taking away from here? Which of these
369. 16:13six ways you are going to use?
370. 16:17And I'll see you, my limitless one, next
371. 16:21time.
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