I studied 27 manifestation gurus. This is the one thing they all agree on — Transcript

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1. 0:00I went from broke and getting the lights
2. 0:01shut off in our two bedroom apartment to
3. 0:03living in my dream home with a tennis
4. 0:05court. And if you've been trying to
5. 0:06manifest money, freedom, or the life of
6. 0:08your dreams and it's still not showing
7. 0:10up, you're not broken. You're probably
8. 0:12missing this one thing. You see, I've
9. 0:14studied 27 of the best manifestation
10. 0:16teachers in history. I'm talking about
11. 0:18Dr. Joe Dispenza, Neville Goddard,
12. 0:20Abraham Hicks, the whole lot of them.
13. 0:22And they all agree on this one thing.
14. 0:25So, in this video, I'm going to show you
15. 0:26what that one thing is and give you
16. 0:28three simple practical tools that you
17. 0:30can use today so that you can manifest
18. 0:32your dreams. Now, to show you what that
19. 0:34one thing is, I got to tell you a pretty
20. 0:36embarrassing story. So, it's 2019 and
21. 0:38I'm playing Monopoly with my wife and my
22. 0:409-year-old daughter in our tiny
23. 0:42apartment and the lights go out. Or more
24. 0:44accurately, they got shut off because I
25. 0:46hadn't paid the electric bill. I look at
26. 0:48my wife and we tell our daughter, "We're
27. 0:50having a campout." Which, thankfully,
28. 0:51she believed because we decided a long
29. 0:54time ago we never wanted her growing up
30. 0:56feeling like we didn't have enough. But
31. 0:58inside, I'm thinking I failed as a
32. 1:00father and as a provider. So, we're all
33. 1:02in the same apartment. We're all in the
34. 1:04same dark room. And to my daughter, it's
35. 1:06a fun campout. And to me, it's proof
36. 1:09that I'm a failure. And that's the one
37. 1:11thing that all 27 of these teachers
38. 1:13agree on. It's not what happens to you,
39. 1:16it's your state of being that determines
40. 1:18everything. Neville calls it assuming
41. 1:20the feeling of the wish fulfilled. Dr.
42. 1:22Joe Dispenza calls it stepping into your
43. 1:24future. And Abraham Hicks calls it
44. 1:26getting on the high-flying disc.
45. 1:28Different words, but all the same idea.
46. 1:30And if you're like me, you've heard all
47. 1:31of this. I knew this stuff in that
48. 1:33apartment. See, understanding it isn't
49. 1:35the problem. It's about embodying it.
50. 1:37So, the real questions are, how do you
51. 1:39get into the state? And more
52. 1:41importantly, how do you stay there when
53. 1:43your reality isn't reflecting abundance
54. 1:45yet? Well, think about my daughter in
55. 1:46that dark room for a second. How did she
56. 1:48get into that state? With one sentence.
57. 1:51"We're having a campout." She didn't
58. 1:52visualize. She didn't say an
59. 1:54affirmation. She looked at her mom and
60. 1:56dad, saw that we looked more or less
61. 1:58okay, and her body relaxed. And how did
62. 2:01she stay there? The same way. She felt
63. 2:03safe, so there was nothing to fight, and
64. 2:05that's what I was missing. See, I was
65. 2:07trying to think my way into a better
66. 2:09state while my body was in full-on
67. 2:12survival mode. And spoiler alert, your
68. 2:14body wins that fight every time. Dr. Joe
69. 2:17Dispenza talks about this. He says that
70. 2:18your body gets so used to feeling a
71. 2:20certain way that it becomes the mind,
72. 2:23and it'll pull you right back into
73. 2:25what's familiar. Because your state of
74. 2:26being isn't just what you think, it's
75. 2:29also how you feel and what you do. Most
76. 2:32of us start with the thinking part, and
77. 2:33that's backwards. So, these three tools
78. 2:36go in a very specific order: the body,
79. 2:39the belief systems, and then action.
80. 2:41Tool number one is for your body, and I
81. 2:43call it the lights-on reset. Because
82. 2:45when the lights go out in your life, the
83. 2:47first thing to do is to turn your lights
84. 2:49back on. It takes about a minute, and
85. 2:51we're going to do it together right now.
86. 2:53If you're driving, keep your eyes on the
87. 2:55road and just do the breathing part.
88. 2:57Step one is to look. Wherever you are,
89. 3:00slowly look around for three things that
90. 3:03you can see. Now, I know, I know, I
91. 3:04Ramona, I came here to manifest more
92. 3:06money, and you've got me staring at a
93. 3:07lamp. Stay with me for a second. You're
94. 3:10showing your body where it actually is,
95. 3:12right here, right now. And right now,
96. 3:15you're okay. Step two is to breathe. Two
97. 3:18inhales through your nose and one long
98. 3:21exhale through your mouth. Here we go.
99. 3:24So, in through the nose.
100. 3:27Another little sip on top.
101. 3:29And a long, slow exhale all the way out.
102. 3:34Let's do that one more time. In through
103. 3:36the nose.
104. 3:37An extra sip on top.
105. 3:40And let it all go. Step three is to
106. 3:43feel. Put a hand on your chest and just
107. 3:45notice what changed. Maybe your
108. 3:47shoulders dropped a little. Maybe your
109. 3:49jaw let go a little. That's your body
110. 3:52deciding that it's safe. And this isn't
111. 3:54just me. Researchers at Stanford tested
112. 3:56this exact breath, 5 minutes a day for a
113. 3:59month, and it improved people's mood
114. 4:01more than meditation did. Now, that was
115. 4:03the 60-second version. If you want the
116. 4:05full thing, my Abundance Reset
117. 4:06Meditation takes your body all the way
118. 4:08there. It's free, and it's in the link
119. 4:11in the description. Now, this leads us
120. 4:12into the second pillar of your state of
121. 4:14being, which is your belief system. And
122. 4:16explain this, let's go back to 2020 for
123. 4:18a second. So, I'm a full-time tennis
124. 4:20coach, and overnight all the courts are
125. 4:22locked down because of COVID. I've got
126. 4:24no way to make money. And my gut
127. 4:26reaction is, we're screwed. The
128. 4:27difference is, in 2019, I truly believed
129. 4:30we were screwed. In a sense, my whole
130. 4:32life had been built around that belief.
131. 4:35But in 2020, I heard that thought, but I
132. 4:37didn't keep thinking it. Because as
133. 4:39Abraham Hicks says, a belief is just a
134. 4:41thought that you keep thinking. And the
135. 4:43only reason I could let that one go by
136. 4:45is that my body was no longer in
137. 4:47survival mode anymore. So, a friend of
138. 4:49mine happens to run into a woman who
139. 4:51used to be one of my tennis students.
140. 4:53They get to talking, figure out they
141. 4:54both know me, and he tells her that I
142. 4:56need a court to coach on. And she says,
143. 4:58"Tell him to call me." So, I did, and
144. 5:00she offers to let me use her court so
145. 5:03that I can make some money during COVID.
146. 5:05And I'm over the moon, and I say, "Thank
147. 5:06you so much. And to pay you back, one
148. 5:09day I'm just going to buy this house for
149. 5:10you." Now, over the next couple of days,
150. 5:12she laid out a plan for us to do exactly
151. 5:15that. Basically, it was a lease option
152. 5:17with a very low monthly payment for this
153. 5:19house. I've got a whole video on how it
154. 5:21happened, and I'll link to it at the end
155. 5:23of this video. But here's the point. The
156. 5:25ashamed father in the dark apartment
157. 5:27could never have said that to her. My
158. 5:29circumstances hadn't gotten any better,
159. 5:31but what changed was what I believed was
160. 5:34possible for a guy like me. And your
161. 5:36beliefs determine which opportunities
162. 5:38you can even see. So, here's the second
163. 5:41tool, and I call it the one sentence.
164. 5:43Step one, think of the thing you want
165. 5:46most right now. The income, the
166. 5:49relationship, the house, and notice the
167. 5:51very first sentence that your mind says
168. 5:54about it. That's not for people like me.
169. 5:56I'll probably mess it up. We're screwed.
170. 5:58Don't fight it. Don't fix it. That's
171. 6:01just a thought that you've been thinking
172. 6:03for a long time. Step two, do the lights
173. 6:06on reset. The look, the breathe, and
174. 6:08then the feel. Because you can't let a
175. 6:10thought go by while your body is bracing
176. 6:13for impact. And step three, ask
177. 6:15yourself, what would the version of me
178. 6:17who already has this say? And then say
179. 6:20that sentence out loud one time. Mine
180. 6:23was, one day I'm going to buy this house
181. 6:25from you. Now, it doesn't have to feel
182. 6:26true yet. I had no money when I said
183. 6:29mine. It just has to feel possible. And
184. 6:31put your sentence in the comments. I
185. 6:33want to read them. Now, this brings us
186. 6:34to the third pillar of your state of
187. 6:36being, and that is what you do. Now,
188. 6:38before that night in the dark apartment,
189. 6:40I was coaching tennis to pay the bills,
190. 6:42and I needed every single lesson to turn
191. 6:44into money. After that night when the
192. 6:46lights went out, I made a promise to
193. 6:47myself that I was going to change my
194. 6:50state of being. Not my circumstances,
195. 6:53but me. So, I put every bit of me into
196. 6:56my tennis coaching. I enjoyed planning
197. 6:58every lesson, lifting up my players,
198. 7:00sending them encouraging texts between
199. 7:03lessons, doing my job to the best of my
200. 7:06ability. And I learned to detach from
201. 7:08the outcome of their matches. Now, when
202. 7:10COVID hit and I had no courts to coach
203. 7:12on, I didn't just sit around. I started
204. 7:15making videos for tennis coaches,
205. 7:16teaching them how to bring their
206. 7:18business online. And I had an absolute
207. 7:20blast doing it. I focused on being
208. 7:22really present with my family and
209. 7:23friends, and that's when I got the phone
210. 7:25call about the house. I didn't know it
211. 7:27at the time, but I had stumbled upon a
212. 7:29formula that I wouldn't actually hear
213. 7:31until 2024 from a teacher named Bashar.
214. 7:34Here's the formula. Every moment that
215. 7:36you can, act on the thing that excites
216. 7:38you the most. Take it as far as you can
217. 7:41with zero insistence on what the outcome
218. 7:43should be and then stay in a positive
219. 7:45state no matter what happens. Now, when
220. 7:47I heard that, I thought, "Oh, that's
221. 7:50what happened." So, this brings us to
222. 7:52tool number three. In the next hour,
223. 7:54pick the most exciting thing available
224. 7:57to you. It can be small, but do it as
225. 7:59well as you possibly can and let go of
226. 8:02what it's supposed to turn into. So,
227. 8:04that's the one thing that all 27 of the
228. 8:07gurus agree on. Your state of being
229. 8:09determines everything. And now you know
230. 8:11how to get there and how to stay there.
231. 8:13Now, that formula from Bashar is what I
232. 8:15was doing without knowing it when this
233. 8:17house showed up and I made a whole video
234. 8:19on how it works and why it can happen
235. 8:21instantly. So, watch this video next to
236. 8:23figure out how to manifest instantly.