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I Manifested $300m By Pretending I Was Rich When I Was Poor — Transcript

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  1. 0:00Since 2003, I've built six companies,
  2. 0:02I've sold three for 300 million. Doesn't
  3. 0:04make me Jeff Bezos or or
  4. 0:06or Google or anything like that, but
  5. 0:07it's a pretty good result. When we use
  6. 0:09our imagination well, we do so from a
  7. 0:11perspective of familiarity. So, it's
  8. 0:13hard to imagine something we we have no
  9. 0:16concept of. It's vague. You know, it's
  10. 0:18easy to imagine when we know exactly
  11. 0:20what the thing we imagine is like. So,
  12. 0:22if we want to go on a world cruise, it's
  13. 0:24easier to imagine a world cruise if we
  14. 0:26actually visit a cruise ship and go on
  15. 0:27an open day on a cruise ship and walk
  16. 0:28around. It's harder to imagine if we
  17. 0:30just stand on the dock and watch a
  18. 0:31cruise ship. Although that's still
  19. 0:33helpful. It's even harder to imagine if
  20. 0:35we just sit at home and look at a cruise
  21. 0:36magazine, but that still helps. It's
  22. 0:38even more harder if we just simply sit
  23. 0:40in the chair and try to imagine it
  24. 0:42having never read the magazine or been
  25. 0:43to a dock or been on an actual cruise
  26. 0:45liner, okay? So, so the more familiar,
  27. 0:47the more specific we can get with that
  28. 0:49thing that we want, then the easier it
  29. 0:51is to imagine. And the easier it is to
  30. 0:53imagine, the quicker it shows up. So,
  31. 0:55what we do is we window shop. And so,
  32. 0:57for instance, if you want a house on the
  33. 0:59beach, you have to know what that feels
  34. 1:01like. And so, it's easy. You just go and
  35. 1:02visit an open house on the beach, and
  36. 1:04you touch everything, and you smell
  37. 1:05everything, and you talk to the realtor,
  38. 1:07and you sense the you you hear
  39. 1:09everything, and you just feel like you
  40. 1:11you imagine yourself living there. And
  41. 1:13that fires up your imagination to a
  42. 1:15really high level. We need at the same
  43. 1:17time, you you know, you have to live
  44. 1:18that lifestyle, you need to sample the
  45. 1:20best restaurants for their atmosphere.
  46. 1:22You need to experience flying first
  47. 1:23class. You need to ignore the thrift
  48. 1:25stores, never do coupon deals, avoid
  49. 1:27holiday sales, because you want to
  50. 1:29change your mentality to be able to be
  51. 1:30financially independent. When you're
  52. 1:32financially independent, you don't go to
  53. 1:33those things. You just don't, cuz you
  54. 1:35don't need to. So, in short, we need to
  55. 1:37be creative to find ways to get to know
  56. 1:39the feel of the lifestyle that we've
  57. 1:41chosen to have. So, you get to window
  58. 1:44shop to fuel your imagination. It's just
  59. 1:46simply window shopping. It does take
  60. 1:49courage, but it delivers in multiples.
  61. 1:51So, Sunday afternoon for me is window
  62. 1:53shopping, no matter what. It's
  63. 1:54exhilarating. First time it's terrifying
  64. 1:57typically, at least for me, and after
  65. 1:58that it's just exhilarating.
  66. 2:00>> And not everybody's window shopping.
  67. 2:02Some people haven't even started, and
  68. 2:04I'm shocked. And the shock is not um
  69. 2:06because people should have started and
  70. 2:08they haven't started. The shock is that
  71. 2:09I haven't been explicit enough
  72. 2:11uh in explaining the essential nature of
  73. 2:15window shopping. Window shopping isn't
  74. 2:17an option. It's not something that you
  75. 2:18wish you could do, but you don't you're
  76. 2:20a little bit too shy at the moment. You
  77. 2:21don't want to do it. Maybe you'll do it
  78. 2:22later. You will not achieve a single
  79. 2:25intention unless you window shop because
  80. 2:27it's about how things feel. When you can
  81. 2:30feel a day in the life, when you can
  82. 2:32truly feel it, it becomes yours. When
  83. 2:34you imagine it, but don't feel it
  84. 2:36because you don't you haven't exposed
  85. 2:37yourself to the actual experiences, it's
  86. 2:39going to always elude you. This isn't an
  87. 2:41option. This is a tool and technique
  88. 2:42that you have to get down pat. Now, I
  89. 2:45know how hard it is, and I know how much
  90. 2:47courage it takes because I've been
  91. 2:48there. I remember the first time I ever
  92. 2:51had the courage to go into a hotel. I
  93. 2:52was 18 and had never been in a hotel.
  94. 2:55And and I had the courage, and I planned
  95. 2:57it, and I thought I honestly thought
  96. 2:58that the the doorman was going to trip
  97. 3:00me up and throw me out because I didn't
  98. 3:02belong, right? What right did I have to
  99. 3:04be in this hotel?
  100. 3:05And so I made myself climb the steps. It
  101. 3:07was a big fancy hotel, and I was waiting
  102. 3:09for the interrogation by the doorman,
  103. 3:11you know, I assumed he'd say, "What are
  104. 3:13you doing?" Because I I assumed that he
  105. 3:15would look at me and think, "Oh, he
  106. 3:16doesn't deserve to be here." But no, he
  107. 3:17just opened the door.
  108. 3:19And I went straight in, and I was so
  109. 3:20intimidated I walked straight through
  110. 3:22the lobby, down the corridor past some
  111. 3:24of the the ballrooms, and straight out
  112. 3:26the back door and into the into the
  113. 3:27parking lot. I didn't I didn't see
  114. 3:29anything, do anything,
  115. 3:31but I got that first one out of the way,
  116. 3:33and that was so important. So, now I'd
  117. 3:35learned, okay, the doorman opens the
  118. 3:36door for you. He's not going to stop
  119. 3:38you. So, then the next time then it
  120. 3:39wasn't that same day, it was on another
  121. 3:41occasion. Then the next time I went more
  122. 3:43slowly, the doorman opened the door, and
  123. 3:45I stopped in the lobby, and I looked
  124. 3:46around as if I was looking for a friend,
  125. 3:48and then I noticed the coffee shop, and
  126. 3:50then I noticed the lounge and people
  127. 3:52just hanging out. And I walked around
  128. 3:54and again went out the back door
  129. 3:56straight into the parking lot, but I'd
  130. 3:57slowed down and then like third or
  131. 3:59fourth time, you know, I had the courage
  132. 4:01to go and sit down and order a coffee
  133. 4:02and that's what it takes. It takes
  134. 4:04courage. I have um it you've you've got
  135. 4:07to do it. There's there's no easy pass
  136. 4:09to this.
  137. 4:10>> So everybody needs a starting point. So
  138. 4:12if any of this resonates with you
  139. 4:14watching this or listening to this, the
  140. 4:16foundation is three simple steps, a book
  141. 4:18I wrote in 2012. It has all the basic
  142. 4:21tools you need to completely change your
  143. 4:24life into a new trajectory tomorrow.
  144. 4:26Just read the book once and the tools
  145. 4:27are there.
  146. 4:28>> So if in your intentions you have, you
  147. 4:30know, your super car and your fancy
  148. 4:32house on the beach and
  149. 4:33traveling first class and or private and
  150. 4:35then and you know, going through Europe
  151. 4:37and all it whatever it may be, whatever
  152. 4:38is in your intention, you've got to
  153. 4:40expose yourself to each one of those
  154. 4:42parameters, each one of those events,
  155. 4:43each one of those bits of material. You
  156. 4:45have to know what it feels like, what it
  157. 4:47smells like, what the sounds are like,
  158. 4:49uh what the atmosphere, the energy.
  159. 4:51You've got to understand what it's like
  160. 4:53in order to build a mini mind movie
  161. 4:55that's going to work. And I thought I
  162. 4:57had taught this and I realized now
  163. 4:58actually I don't talk about this very
  164. 4:59much at all and so as as all the great
  165. 5:03teachers will say, it's not your
  166. 5:04responsibility to learn, it's my
  167. 5:06responsibility to teach.
  168. 5:08So if you don't get this yet, that's my
  169. 5:10fault and I take it on and that's why
  170. 5:11I'm doing this podcast. So I'm I'm going
  171. 5:13to say to you I'm not encouraging you
  172. 5:15and I'm not suggesting and I'm not
  173. 5:16offering advice, I'm telling you
  174. 5:18directly you have to shop. You have to
  175. 5:22window shop.
  176. 5:23You've got to go in, you've got to pluck
  177. 5:25up the courage, take a deep breath,
  178. 5:27swallow,
  179. 5:28put your chest up, head up high and walk
  180. 5:31into the fancy hotel or walk into the
  181. 5:33dealership or walk into the open houses
  182. 5:35on the beach. And and although you'll
  183. 5:37feel like a fraud at first
  184. 5:39uh and you might be uncomfortable,
  185. 5:40you'll slowly settle into it and you'll
  186. 5:42slowly realize that you know what,
  187. 5:44everybody else who's here, they don't
  188. 5:46they don't they can't afford to stay
  189. 5:47here either. You know, the people who
  190. 5:48can afford to stay here, they're
  191. 5:49probably in their hotel rooms and
  192. 5:50they're probably they've already bought
  193. 5:52their cars or whatever. You just have to
  194. 5:54get used to the environment. And you do
  195. 5:57it with all these things that are part
  196. 5:58of your mini mind movie, whatever that
  197. 6:01may be. So,
  198. 6:02you know, in in my in my case it was
  199. 6:04fancy hotels and fancy restaurants that
  200. 6:06I really couldn't afford, but I would
  201. 6:07find a reason to go in and sit at the
  202. 6:09bar and have a half a half glass of beer
  203. 6:11or something.
  204. 6:13Open houses, you know, I got the courage
  205. 6:15It was really intimidating first cuz the
  206. 6:17the beautiful open houses are typically
  207. 6:18behind gates and they have security
  208. 6:20guards who who have guns. And so, it's
  209. 6:22really intimidating first, but then the
  210. 6:24very first time that Len and I had the
  211. 6:26courage to go to the $5 open house that
  212. 6:28we really liked and that we'd seen
  213. 6:29online and we wanted to go to it. Yeah,
  214. 6:31there was a guard there. He had the
  215. 6:33uniform on, security guard and
  216. 6:34everything. And I don't know whether he
  217. 6:35had any gun or not, but he he had his
  218. 6:37pockets look quite full. I had my speech
  219. 6:39ready to justify why we were there that
  220. 6:41day. And he talked to me and he was
  221. 6:43Scouse. He had He had the Liverpool
  222. 6:44accent. And we just And we And straight
  223. 6:46away And we were off talking about
  224. 6:47Liverpool and then of course he said,
  225. 6:48"Hey, go and enjoy yourself." I was
  226. 6:49like,
  227. 6:50"Um I'm just saying that you just need
  228. 6:52the courage and life will fill in the
  229. 6:53details for you. Life will not make it
  230. 6:55difficult.
  231. 6:56Life will not make this a challenge for
  232. 6:58you. The challenge is in your head. And
  233. 7:00once you overcome the nervousness and
  234. 7:03you make yourself do it, life will point
  235. 7:05out, "See how easy this is? See how nice
  236. 7:07people are? See how kind they are to
  237. 7:09you?" And it's just it it becomes a
  238. 7:10really good experience. In the
  239. 7:13Facebook group, Shawn Morrissey I think
  240. 7:15started this conversation and he was
  241. 7:17saying a similar story how intimidated
  242. 7:19he was the first time that he was sat in
  243. 7:21a in a hotel. He thought he was bound to
  244. 7:23get thrown out, you know, probably
  245. 7:24beaten up or something. That's how it
  246. 7:26feels the first time. I understand that.
  247. 7:28But you're just going to get through
  248. 7:29that first time. Now, he treats hotels
  249. 7:31like he would his own lounge, as I do. I
  250. 7:33places to hang out, places to meet.
  251. 7:35I have my own I have my own coffee that
  252. 7:37I I have shipped to me. Um
  253. 7:40and it's really the only coffee that I
  254. 7:41like. it's a really healthy coffee. So,
  255. 7:43so I typically just make my coffee. But
  256. 7:45if I was to have a coffee out, the last
  257. 7:47place I would have it would be in a
  258. 7:48chain store. I mean, I don't think the
  259. 7:50price of a coffee in something like a
  260. 7:51Starbucks is going to be that different
  261. 7:53to the price in a five-star hotel. And I
  262. 7:55can tell you, I can guarantee that the
  263. 7:56coffee in a five-star hotel is going to
  264. 7:58be a lot better quality and taste a lot
  265. 7:59better and be prepared with love
  266. 8:02and uh served with finesse. And so, I
  267. 8:04would I can't understand why people say,
  268. 8:06"I need to go for a Starbucks." I'd say,
  269. 8:08"Go to
  270. 8:09a five-star hotel and order a coffee and
  271. 8:11you could at least you get it served in
  272. 8:12a proper cup, for goodness sake, and a
  273. 8:14in a nice environment. And while you're
  274. 8:15there, you can take in the beautiful
  275. 8:17artwork, the wonderful flower displays,
  276. 8:20the the architecture of the place, the
  277. 8:22history, the smell of it. And and you
  278. 8:24can do all of that just having a coffee
  279. 8:26in the lobby of a or or in the next to
  280. 8:28the lobby in in a fancy hotel.
  281. 8:31But most people will say, "I just need a
  282. 8:32coffee, I'll go to Starbucks." And
  283. 8:34completely miss the point of window
  284. 8:36shopping.
  285. 8:37And so, if you're one of those, please
  286. 8:38please listen to what I'm saying. You've
  287. 8:40got to change your approach.
  288. 8:42You've got to say, "Okay, so right,
  289. 8:43today I've decided today is the day that
  290. 8:46I'm going out for dinner, okay?" And so,
  291. 8:48typically you I don't know what your
  292. 8:49dinner would be, but let's say, you
  293. 8:50know,
  294. 8:51me and my wife or me and my husband or
  295. 8:53me and my family, where I would we
  296. 8:54typically go out and we have a pizza,
  297. 8:56okay? And there's nothing wrong with
  298. 8:57that. That's great fun. It's a great
  299. 8:58family thing to do, but it's not going
  300. 8:59to get you to the next level. So, you
  301. 9:01have to think about that and you say,
  302. 9:02"Okay, here's the budget that I would
  303. 9:03normally spend on just going for pizza.
  304. 9:05What I'll do instead is we'll get a
  305. 9:06pizza in and, you know, we'll we'll save
  306. 9:08like 10, 20% to that. And with that 10,
  307. 9:1120%, I'm just going to take my partner
  308. 9:13out for a coffee in a fancy hotel or a
  309. 9:15beer in a fancy hotel. I'm just going to
  310. 9:16we're just going to sit at the bar for
  311. 9:17an hour. We're going to make this drink
  312. 9:19last an hour." And I can guarantee you
  313. 9:21all kinds of magic will happen.
  314. 9:23And I I look forward to you describing,
  315. 9:26"You won't believe what happened."
  316. 9:27Because I will, because I've done it.
  317. 9:29I remember specifically going through
  318. 9:31this mental process. I've got X amount
  319. 9:33of money. We're not going to go and
  320. 9:34spend it on a cheap meal somewhere uh in
  321. 9:36in a crap place.
  322. 9:38We're going to go to the bar and we're
  323. 9:40just going to sit and we're going to
  324. 9:41have a drink and I remember Lynn had a
  325. 9:43she only ever drank Pinot Grigio, which
  326. 9:45I don't even consider alcohol, but but
  327. 9:47she but anyway, she has a Pinot Grigio
  328. 9:49and I've got a beer, just a small beer.
  329. 9:51And we sat there and of course, someone
  330. 9:53comes and sits next to us, we start
  331. 9:54talking. The synchronicity was almost
  332. 9:56unbelievable. It was like it was a like
  333. 9:58God had planted somebody right next to
  334. 9:59us who who really needed to be in a
  335. 10:01light right now. And this guy loved us
  336. 10:03and the next thing he's buying us
  337. 10:05drinks. And we end up having two or
  338. 10:06three drinks at his expense and he pays
  339. 10:08for our bill and everything. We, you
  340. 10:10know, he gives me his card. We we pat we
  341. 10:11pat each other on the back and off we
  342. 10:13go. Wonderful experiences come out of
  343. 10:15doing window shopping. But they don't
  344. 10:17come out of just saying I fancy a
  345. 10:18coffee, I'll go to Starbucks. Or um you
  346. 10:21know, we've got enough money for
  347. 10:22something to eat, let's take the whole
  348. 10:23family out for pizza. As nice as that is
  349. 10:25to do, that's not going to create the
  350. 10:28synchronicity you need. You need to put
  351. 10:30yourself into a
  352. 10:31uncomfortable position. The same thing
  353. 10:33happens in dealerships when you go to
  354. 10:34the fancy car dealership and but you you
  355. 10:37go in with the attitude first of all, I
  356. 10:38don't belong, no one's going to talk to
  357. 10:40you. When you go in thinking that this
  358. 10:41car's mine one day and I'm just pulling
  359. 10:43it to me right now
  360. 10:45and you've gone in with a little bit of
  361. 10:46pre-knowledge. So you've gone onto the
  362. 10:47internet, you've looked at you know
  363. 10:48everything there is to know about this
  364. 10:49car. You I mean, why would you go into a
  365. 10:51dealership and not know everything about
  366. 10:52the car if it's the car you want. So you
  367. 10:54go in and you ask a couple of questions
  368. 10:56of the sales guy. Is this the one with
  369. 10:58the such and such, you know, whatever
  370. 10:59the engine is you're looking at. Is is
  371. 11:02this is this this version or is this
  372. 11:03last year's version? You just start a
  373. 11:05conversation and before you know it,
  374. 11:07you've got a best friend for life. This
  375. 11:08is window shopping. So it's it's not
  376. 11:11it's 90% window shopping is about
  377. 11:13feeling comfortable and feeling your
  378. 11:16future now and 10% is kind of the
  379. 11:19synchronicity that that kicks off that
  380. 11:21will blow your mind away.
  381. 11:23So en- enough lecturing, enough enough
  382. 11:25um preaching. I just I was a bit shocked
  383. 11:28that people aren't even window shopping
  384. 11:29and I'm sorry, I apologize I haven't
  385. 11:31picked up on this before. So, please
  386. 11:33jump in on the conversation and get into
  387. 11:34Facebook. Don't don't be crazy about
  388. 11:36this. Just get into Facebook and share
  389. 11:38with your wizardry colleagues anything
  390. 11:40that you feel like sharing or just hang
  391. 11:42out and get the energy. It's a good
  392. 11:43thing to do. That's number one. And
  393. 11:45number two, please start the window
  394. 11:47shopping and feel free to share You
  395. 11:48don't have to, but feel free to share
  396. 11:50your experiences because they're
  397. 11:51typically amazing and funny.
  398. 11:53Um I've never had a bad experience doing
  399. 11:55it. And I still get nervous, by the way.
  400. 11:57I was just last week I was down in Key
  401. 11:58West, one of my favorite places on the
  402. 12:00whole of this planet. And I would look
  403. 12:03at There's a There's an island for sale.
  404. 12:05It's owned at 50 million. And then I was
  405. 12:07I'm seriously thinking about something
  406. 12:09like that. And but it took a lot of
  407. 12:11courage because that's a significant
  408. 12:12amount of cash.
  409. 12:14Um you know, you don't get mortgages for
  410. 12:15private islands, at least I don't think
  411. 12:17you do. So So it's a significant amount
  412. 12:19of cash and and it takes courage to, you
  413. 12:21know,
  414. 12:21to get to that island and use up a whole
  415. 12:23day of somebody of the of the broker's
  416. 12:25time in order to figure out what to do
  417. 12:28with this island and how it's going to
  418. 12:29work and everything. Takes courage,
  419. 12:31always.
  420. 12:32Um but it starts off with that very
  421. 12:33first one, which is getting into a hotel
  422. 12:35lobby or getting into a dealership or
  423. 12:37something like that.
  424. 12:38So, I hope this is useful. Please please
  425. 12:40please start the window shopping. You
  426. 12:42will not achieve your intentions without
  427. 12:44it. Have a great week. Make a positive
  428. 12:45difference in someone's life. Maybe, you
  429. 12:47know what? Pick someone in the
  430. 12:49dealership or in a fancy restaurant or
  431. 12:50something and make a difference in their
  432. 12:52life because they can't afford to live
  433. 12:53or to buy those cars and they can't
  434. 12:55afford to eat in that restaurant,
  435. 12:56either. They're work- They're working
  436. 12:57there. And so you can uplift these
  437. 12:59people and and you'll have as a result.
  438. 13:02So, make a positive difference in
  439. 13:04someone's life. Have fun doing it.
  440. 13:06Cuz this is all fun.
  441. 13:08And share in all the rewards, material
  442. 13:09and otherwise, they come naturally as a
  443. 13:11result of setting the energy in flow.
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