I Control My Three Partners 24/7 | LOVE DON'T JUDGE — Transcript

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1. 0:00I control my three partners 24/7. Their
2. 0:02outfits [music] are fully approved.
3. 0:04Everyone is location tracked. I have
4. 0:06access to all of their messages, all of
5. 0:09their communications. They need approval
6. 0:11to eat. [music]
7. 0:12Often times they'll eat out of dog
8. 0:14bowls. This is a copy of the contract
9. 0:16[music] that they all have with me. I
10. 0:18was absolutely willing to do so. I'm
11. 0:20here to serve him and that's part of my
12. 0:22service. I don't worry about losing my
13. 0:24independence. I don't think I really
14. 0:25even think about my independence. It
15. 0:27doesn't mean much to me.
16. 0:28Girls, come in. Yes, Daddy.
17. 0:32This is Brenda, aka [music] Bloofy one.
18. 0:36This is Samantha, aka Bean
19. 0:38>> [music]
20. 0:38>> two.
21. 0:40And this is Adriana,
22. 0:42aka Age three.
23. 0:44I control my three partners 24/7. My
24. 0:47husband, [music] Scott, who has not one
25. 0:48but two girlfriends. We've been together
26. 0:51now for over 10 years. We've been
27. 0:53[music] married for nine. We had
28. 0:54actually talked about bringing other
29. 0:55women into the relationship pretty often
30. 0:58throughout our relationship, even from
31. 0:59the beginning. And we wanted to figure
32. 1:01out how to best make our relationship
33. 1:03work. Whatever Daddy wants, Daddy
34. 1:05[music] gets. I met a Daddy 7 years ago
35. 1:08and we actually work at the same
36. 1:09company. I met Daddy in October of 2023
37. 1:12[music]
38. 1:13and we met online. I have not been in a
39. 1:16relationship of this [music] kind. And
40. 1:18me neither. Daddy was my first real
41. 1:20relationship altogether. So, first time
42. 1:22for everything.
43. 1:23Good morning, Daddy. Good morning.
44. 1:26Everybody finish up their morning
45. 1:27routines? Yes, Daddy. Yes, Daddy. All
46. 1:28right, cool. Uh this is a copy of the
47. 1:31contract that they all have with me. I
48. 1:33made my wife and two girlfriends sign a
49. 1:35contract. Uh contract basically
50. 1:38encapsulates everything that pertains to
51. 1:40[music] their day-to-day lives, rules,
52. 1:43structures, adherences, punishments, all
53. 1:46that. After reviewing and signing
54. 1:47typically, and for us it's done in
55. 1:49blood.
56. 1:50To me it really symbolized like that
57. 1:52foreverness in our relationship. I mean,
58. 1:55signing the contract in blood is
59. 1:57definitely a little bit extra and I
60. 1:59don't think most people do that, but I'm
61. 2:00a fan of theatrics. When Daddy asked me
62. 2:03to sign a contract, I was absolutely
63. 2:05willing to do so. I'm here to serve him
64. 2:07and that's part of my service. When
65. 2:09Daddy first brought it up to me, I was a
66. 2:11little bit nervous, a little bit
67. 2:12hesitant. I read through it very
68. 2:15thoroughly, talked to him about it in
69. 2:17detail. And as I was nervous and we
70. 2:19hadn't met yet, I just had a really good
71. 2:22feeling about him.
72. 2:23Most of the rules at this point in time
73. 2:25are structure. And so things [music]
74. 2:26like the time that they have to wake up
75. 2:28every day, what they wear, their outfits
76. 2:31[music] are fully approved. What do you
77. 2:33think of this one? Love it, actually.
78. 2:34Looks good. What do you think of this?
79. 2:36Uh this dress with these [music] boots.
80. 2:38Very nice. Do it. Thank you.
81. 2:40Age, let me see what you're wearing.
82. 2:41Yes, Daddy.
83. 2:44Turn around. Are your marks on? Yes,
84. 2:45[music] Daddy. Okay. Fresh on the skirt.
85. 2:48Want to see it?
86. 2:49>> it. This is my symbol I use um
87. 2:52for ownership that
88. 2:54they're about to have branded on them,
89. 2:55but I require that on clothing. [music]
90. 2:57For me, they are an extension of me and
91. 2:59they they represent me, so it's
92. 3:00important to me that they look the part.
93. 3:02Hey Sam and Age, do you want to go for a
94. 3:03walk? Sure. Sounds good.
95. 3:06We definitely all hang out together and
96. 3:08I think we've formed like really strong
97. 3:11I don't even think just friendships,
98. 3:12kind of like a sisterhood amongst each
99. 3:13other.
100. 3:14>> Yeah, I would consider them like my best
101. 3:16friends. We are not allowed to be
102. 3:17romantic with each other and I don't
103. 3:19think any [laughter] of us have any
104. 3:20interest in that either.
105. 3:22No offense, I love you guys.
106. 3:24I think [laughter] all of us are
107. 3:25straight.
108. 3:27Daddy, can we go outside?
109. 3:29Yes. Thank you. Thanks, Daddy. See you
110. 3:32later. Anytime that we leave the house
111. 3:34[music] for anything unexpected, we have
112. 3:36to make sure that we ask permission to
113. 3:38do so and then along the way we have
114. 3:40[music] to check in and let him know
115. 3:42what's going on and what we're doing.
116. 3:44And continue to ask permission to like
117. 3:45stay out or come home. Do you want to
118. 3:47check in with Daddy now? We probably
119. 3:48should.
120. 3:49>> Yeah, that's good. Okay.
121. 3:50Daddy has all of our locations through
122. 3:52our phones, through our watches, through
123. 3:54our cars. But then we also all [music]
124. 3:57send texts. He hardly ever texts my
125. 3:59messages. Yeah, we're good.
126. 4:02I have never thought of it [music] as
127. 4:03anything but a positive. He just wants
128. 4:05to know for safety reasons, not for
129. 4:07>> [music]
130. 4:07>> any other. I don't worry about losing my
131. 4:09independence. I don't think I really
132. 4:10even think about my independence. It
133. 4:12doesn't mean much to me. They're not
134. 4:14allowed to have social media unless it's
135. 4:16approved by me. I have [music] access to
136. 4:18all of their messages, all of their
137. 4:20communications.
138. 4:22Um they need approval to eat. Often
139. 4:24times they'll eat out of dog bowls. When
140. 4:26they're with me, they [music] don't sit
141. 4:27on the couch. This is a special thing.
142. 4:30Um
143. 4:31but yeah, they typically will sit on the
144. 4:32floor. So, the collars that these three
145. 4:35wear are custom designed by me. To me,
146. 4:38that literally this is my version
147. 4:40between a wedding ring and a collar,
148. 4:41which one has the more significance? And
149. 4:43for me, it's the collar. The day I got
150. 4:45my collar was the day [music] I will
151. 4:46remember for the rest of my life. I
152. 4:49mean, it was probably the
153. 4:50most important day. It was a [music]
154. 4:52very special day. It was the
155. 4:55biggest thing. I was in shock. Like I
156. 4:56think I just remember [music]
157. 4:58being completely shocked that he wanted
158. 5:00to be with me long term.
159. 5:02>> [music]
160. 5:02>> I think it for us was a day that was
161. 5:05kind of a turning point in our overall
162. 5:07relationship. So, it's something [music]
163. 5:09that I definitely hold very close.
164. 5:12All right. I actually wanted to get a
165. 5:13picture up today, so come on over. Yes,
166. 5:16Daddy. Everybody in. Everybody in.
167. 5:19So, a lot of times we get a lot of
168. 5:21comments, not as much as you would think
169. 5:23about multiple people, but a lot about
170. 5:25the dynamic itself. There's a lot of
171. 5:27times because in our dynamic none of the
172. 5:29girls have safe words or limits. That's
173. 5:32one of [music] our number one comments
174. 5:33we get about how it's irresponsible and
175. 5:36how people with experience [music] would
176. 5:37never do something like that. We have a
177. 5:39lot of collective frustration when we
178. 5:41come across someone that doesn't really
179. 5:42[music] get it or that passes judgment,
180. 5:43we all typically kind of pounce on it
181. 5:46together. My friends [music] and family
182. 5:49chose to not accept this part of my life
183. 5:52>> [music]
184. 5:52>> and
185. 5:54that's a struggle every day. When I
186. 5:56shared the relationship I was in with
187. 5:58previous friends, I did receive a lot of
188. 6:00judgment. They [music] weren't open to
189. 6:03hearing about it or accepting that part
190. 6:06of my life. I had a conversation with
191. 6:07like my dad about you like, "Oh, like
192. 6:10these poor girls are not allowed to sit
193. 6:11on furniture." And it's like, "Well,
194. 6:13>> [laughter]
195. 6:14>> right. It it is a choice and like that's
196. 6:16a rule that we have. It's been defined.
197. 6:18They enjoy it. I enjoy it. So, what's
198. 6:20the issue?" We see people react to our
199. 6:22posts positively often enough, just
200. 6:25words of encouragement. I've seen all
201. 6:26three of the girls have insane feedback
202. 6:29just saying like, "Hey, reading this
203. 6:31tells me that this life that actually is
204. 6:32kind of possible."
205. 6:33>> [music]
206. 6:33>> The girls all actually mentor people on
207. 6:36Discord that are also in these kinds of
208. 6:38relationships and give guidance and and
209. 6:40help other people. Knowing that I can
210. 6:42use my [music] story and our story to
211. 6:45help someone else is just feels really
212. 6:47fulfilling.
213. 6:48So, I think Gwen should actually be here
214. 6:49pretty much any minute. So, why don't
215. 6:51you guys get some drinks together? Yes,
216. 6:53Daddy.
217. 6:54Gwen is one of my oldest friends and I
218. 6:57would say [music] has a unique
219. 6:58perspective on me.
220. 7:00Gwen thinks that I am insane, but she
221. 7:02would have thought that before [music]
222. 7:03this. When I first found out Scott had
223. 7:05had multiple partners, it was just him
224. 7:08and his wife Brenda and Sam. I thought
225. 7:10that [music] was very odd juggling more
226. 7:13than one partner, especially when you're
227. 7:14married. The third girlfriend, that was
228. 7:16definitely way more shocking. What's
229. 7:18new, dude?
230. 7:19Oh, you know, same old, same old. How
231. 7:21about you guys? Good.
232. 7:23>> Everybody good? Yeah, business as usual.
233. 7:25Business as usual. Yeah.
234. 7:27So, what was your first reaction when I
235. 7:29told you about this whole thing? You
236. 7:32know,
237. 7:33I could never. Um I have one boyfriend
238. 7:36and that's enough. I couldn't imagine
239. 7:37three. How is it living life like
240. 7:40day-to-day, the kids, work, school, all
241. 7:43of that? How do you guys like manage to
242. 7:44do that? One of the things I love most
243. 7:47about like the [music] family aspect is
244. 7:48like when something does happen, like
245. 7:50someone has to go to the doctor, or
246. 7:52someone has to run to the store, just
247. 7:53like everyday life things. Like you just
248. 7:57have an extra person.
249. 7:58>> Yeah, like someone's always here like
250. 8:00enabled to take care of things.
251. 8:02Very much like I get a sisterly bond
252. 8:05between you guys. Like at the beginning
253. 8:08of the relationship, I said to Scott,
254. 8:09"So, wait.
255. 8:10>> [laughter]
256. 8:10>> Are you guys girlfriends? And you're
257. 8:13like, what is the dynamic?" Gwen, do you
258. 8:15think this lifestyle would ever work for
259. 8:17you? Um
260. 8:19probably not though. I don't do well
261. 8:21with sharing. I would have to do a lot
262. 8:23of inner work.
263. 8:25So, out of all the comments you get,
264. 8:27like how many people think that it's
265. 8:28just straight misogyny? Or taking
266. 8:30advantage of them. They [music] choose
267. 8:32to be in this, which in its own
268. 8:35form is really just them still having
269. 8:37the the choice. So, that's kind of the
270. 8:38opposite. What about you, dude? Have you
271. 8:40ever thought that this was [music] like
272. 8:42um degrading or like an abusive setup or
273. 8:44anything like that? As I said earlier,
274. 8:47um I'm very like um
275. 8:48>> [music]
276. 8:49>> a man don't tell me
277. 8:50Yeah. Yeah. Men don't tell me anything.
278. 8:54Men's don't control me.
279. 8:55So, what makes you guys [music] want to
280. 8:58kind of give control over to him and um
281. 9:01just yeah, give over that dynamic, that
282. 9:04power dynamic?
283. 9:05I think for me it's just the trust that
284. 9:07I have in Daddy to I mean, I think he
285. 9:10knows my mind better than I do and he
286. 9:12[laughter]
287. 9:13can direct my life better than I can.
288. 9:16Yeah, I definitely agree. Growing up,
289. 9:18like I was kind of forced to be really
290. 9:20independent and I did it for so long
291. 9:24that I was like, I just want someone
292. 9:25that's going to be there for me, that's
293. 9:26going to help guide me, that's going to
294. 9:28give me advice and structure and
295. 9:29accountability. I didn't have a lot of
296. 9:31structure growing up and so I feel like
297. 9:33it was just something that I lacked and
298. 9:35looked for and wanted a father figure in
299. 9:38my life, not having a dad, and I found
300. 9:40that.
301. 9:42I feel like the three of them have
302. 9:43definitely mellowed me out a little bit
303. 9:46and made me a little bit less harsh cuz
304. 9:48I definitely am a naturally harsh
305. 9:49person. And in general, just bring a lot
306. 9:52of happiness and light into my life. I
307. 9:54think our relationship works because of
308. 9:55Daddy. There's never been anything that
309. 9:57he's wanted to accomplish that he
310. 9:59hasn't.
311. 9:59>> I could go on all day about the things
312. 10:01that I love about Daddy. He walks into a
313. 10:03room and just pulls everybody into
314. 10:05[music] his gravitational orbit. I think
315. 10:08this whole relationship has just made me
316. 10:09feel very whole.
317. 10:11>> For me, for people that judge, my
318. 10:12message is simply just seek to
319. 10:14understand and then [music] be
320. 10:15understood. And underneath all of that,
321. 10:17there's people. And so, I think taking
322. 10:19the time to understand the people first,
323. 10:21you'll have an easier time understanding
324. 10:23why things are the way they are.