How to Turn ADHD Into a Genius-Level Advantage — Transcript
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- 0:00If you have ADHD and you're spending all
- 0:01of your energy, time, resources, and
- 0:04money just trying to be normal, you're
- 0:06actually taking the biggest risk of your
- 0:08life. Not because being normal is bad.
- 0:10It's actually because you will never get
- 0:11there. And the longer you try, the more
- 0:13you will lose. Think about how much
- 0:15you're burning just to keep up. How many
- 0:17resources, how much willpower just to be
- 0:19average at things neurotypical people do
- 0:22on autopilot. You are trying so hard
- 0:24just to be mediocre or even maybe blow
- 0:27mediocre. You are trying to win a race
- 0:29that was not designed for you. When you
- 0:30look at neurotypical people, you see
- 0:32them doing things effortlessly, paying
- 0:34bills on time, keeping their houses
- 0:35clean, following through on boring tasks
- 0:37without having a big crisis like you do.
- 0:39And you think this is what normal looks
- 0:41like. This is what I'm supposed to be.
- 0:43But why am I not able to do such normal
- 0:45things? Just trying to live a normal
- 0:47life is using all of your energy and
- 0:49willpower. And maybe on your absolute
- 0:51best day, after spending all the
- 0:53enormous amount of energy and willpower
- 0:55you have, you just become a mediocre
- 0:57neurotypical adult. So you develop this
- 0:59inner voice saying, "Why can I not do
- 1:01what everyone else does? Why am I
- 1:03failing at living a normal adult life?
- 1:06This should not be hard. There's
- 1:07something fundamentally lacking with me.
- 1:09Does this mean am I not going to be able
- 1:11to achieve something bigger than other
- 1:13people because I'm struggling with just
- 1:15living a regular life?" Okay, so I'm not
- 1:17going to give you a full neuroscience
- 1:18lecture, but you need to understand one
- 1:20thing about your brain because it
- 1:21changes how you approach everything.
- 1:23ADHD is actually not a deficit of
- 1:25attention, even though the name suggests
- 1:26that. The real issue is that you cannot
- 1:28control where your focus goes. Your
- 1:30attention is either zero or a max. It's
- 1:32not that your attention doesn't exist.
- 1:34And normal people control their
- 1:36attention and whenever they need to do
- 1:37this thing, they shift their attention
- 1:39to there even though sometimes they
- 1:40struggle with it. And the thing is that
- 1:42even though everyone struggles with
- 1:43focus and procrastination, with ADHD,
- 1:46even when the consequences are so high,
- 1:48you still do struggle with it or you do
- 1:51not even realize that your attention
- 1:53went somewhere else. It's not like oops
- 1:54I forget a deadline but for example for
- 1:56me I put off renewing my ID and almost
- 1:59could not enter the country and I was
- 2:01almost got banned and I knew the
- 2:04consequences and I really wanted to do
- 2:06it but for somehow every single day my
- 2:08attention drifted into somewhere else
- 2:10and I forgot to do that thing. So it's
- 2:12not really about wanting more or having
- 2:15self-discipline. When something gives
- 2:16you dopamine you lock in with a level of
- 2:18intensity that most people will never
- 2:20experience. When it does not, you are
- 2:22neurologically incapable of engaging.
- 2:25Zero or max. That is your operating
- 2:27system. That is what ADHD is. Once you
- 2:29accept the fact that you cannot control
- 2:31your attention, you stop asking how do I
- 2:33fix myself and start asking how do I
- 2:36point this zero or max energy into the
- 2:38right direction. This is actually the
- 2:40trap trying to fit into a system that
- 2:42was not built for you. The world is
- 2:43designed for linear thinkers because
- 2:45they are the majority. schools, jobs,
- 2:47institutions, they all reward
- 2:49consistency, routine, and
- 2:51predictability, which are all the things
- 2:53that you don't have. And they punish
- 2:54nonlinear thinking, chaos, and
- 2:57unpredictability, which means they
- 2:59punish you. So, you spend your whole
- 3:01life trying to become someone you're not
- 3:03because the system tries to mold you,
- 3:04whether that's school, your parents, or
- 3:06the society. And the result is that
- 3:08burned out mediocre adult who has never
- 3:10discovered what they're actually capable
- 3:12of. The biggest risk you can take in
- 3:14life is not pursuing an unconventional
- 3:16path if you have ADHD. The biggest risk
- 3:19is spending your entire life trying to
- 3:22be normal, never discovering your
- 3:23potential, and ending up at average or
- 3:26below average at something you were
- 3:28never designed for. So why should you
- 3:30listen to me? Why should you care about
- 3:31what I'm going to say? Right? Because at
- 3:33the end of the day, I'm a random person
- 3:34on the internet. The reason is quite
- 3:36simple. because I built a successful
- 3:38life around my ADHD without fixing or
- 3:41turning myself into what society expects
- 3:43me to be. I built this YouTube channel
- 3:45from zero to almost 1.5 million
- 3:47subscribers after years and years and
- 3:49years of failure and everyone telling me
- 3:51to quit. And actually, I used this
- 3:53YouTube channel, the money that I made
- 3:55when my uncle scammed my dad and we
- 3:57almost went bankrupt to support my
- 3:59parents financially and retire them at
- 4:0121. And to be honest, right now in life,
- 4:03I don't have anything to complain. I
- 4:05really love my life and I did all of
- 4:07this not by fixing my ADHD or changing
- 4:09who I am but building a life around it
- 4:11that maximizes my strengths. But when
- 4:14you look at all these external factors,
- 4:16you might think I'm such a successful
- 4:17person. I'm so good at life. But no, I
- 4:19actually suck at normal life. I'm a
- 4:21disaster. You know, like for example, I
- 4:23forgot to apply to university two times
- 4:25in a row even though I had that deadline
- 4:27on my calendar like 6 months beforehand.
- 4:30And I had reminders every single
- 4:32freaking day reminding me to apply that.
- 4:34And I forgot two years in a row. How is
- 4:36that even possible? And I also pay my
- 4:39taxes late every single year that the
- 4:41late fee, the fines are literally became
- 4:44my budget now. And my mom wrote on her
- 4:46blog about how disgustingly dirty my
- 4:49apartment was. So when I tell you that
- 4:51trying to live a normal life is the
- 4:52biggest risk, I am the living example of
- 4:55it. So let me explain in this video. So
- 4:57what do we need to do instead? How can
- 4:59we design our life to maximize on this
- 5:01ability? It's by accepting few truths
- 5:04that nobody actually wants to say out
- 5:06loud. The first thing is that accept
- 5:07your weaknesses then stop fighting them.
- 5:10In this big book where a Japanese
- 5:11psychiatrist talks about all the
- 5:13neurodedevelopmental disorders that I
- 5:15read is saying that there was a parent
- 5:16who had a child with ADHD who kept
- 5:18losing their erasers at school and
- 5:20instead of punishing that kid, what
- 5:22parents did was accepting that erasers
- 5:24are something that gets lost. And
- 5:26instead of punishing the kid and getting
- 5:28angry towards that kid, they kept buying
- 5:30new erasers and they said it's fine. And
- 5:32that one shift removed all the stress,
- 5:33all the shame, all the conflict. Erasers
- 5:35gets lost. That is the reality. And that
- 5:38self-confidence of the kid started to
- 5:40skyrocket. And that spill into other
- 5:42areas of his life. If your parents did
- 5:44not give you that understanding, you can
- 5:46give it to yourself right now. The first
- 5:48step is killing the concept of normal as
- 5:50you should be. You are supposed to do
- 5:52this. You are supposed to be able to do
- 5:54that. No, deny that. There is such no
- 5:56such thing as normal. If you keep doing
- 5:58things even though you try, then that is
- 6:00your normal. You will lose things. You
- 6:02will be late. You will forget. The food
- 6:04will rot in the fridge. You might forget
- 6:05your taxes. It is fine and they happen.
- 6:08Okay? Stop treating these as character
- 6:10flaws or there's something fundamentally
- 6:12lacking with you. If you are struggling
- 6:14with these, then what we need to do is
- 6:16not internalize it as a failure, but
- 6:18build systems and build methods that
- 6:20actually will prevent them. Not going
- 6:22deep inside and fighting with your self-
- 6:23value. The first one is that double down
- 6:25on your strength and ignore all your
- 6:27weaknesses. This is something that
- 6:29actually I heard Elon Musk talking
- 6:30about. He is never like officially
- 6:32diagnosed, but he claims he has
- 6:34Asperers, which is now called autism, a
- 6:37high functioning autism, which I read
- 6:39his book and he definitely shows a lot
- 6:41of signs of it. And autism and ADHD
- 6:43often times overlap because they are
- 6:45under the neurodedevelopmental
- 6:46disorders. But anyway, he was talking
- 6:48about that he had obviously a lot of
- 6:49weaknesses with a lot of social issues
- 6:51and of his interests as well. But what
- 6:53he was trying to do instead of treating
- 6:55his weaknesses and become an allrounder
- 6:57of a mediocre or slightly below
- 6:59mediocre, it is way better to maximizing
- 7:02your strengths that you become
- 7:04exceptional. And the most important
- 7:06thing with ADHD is abusing this and
- 7:10becoming exceptional at something else
- 7:12that you're interested in. Therefore,
- 7:13the rule too is finding your domain and
- 7:15excelling at it. You need to find
- 7:17something that you like or you're good
- 7:20at. If you have ADHD, you should not
- 7:22only think about the conventional path
- 7:24that everyone suggests. You need to
- 7:26focus on the thing that you love that
- 7:28you cannot stop thinking about because
- 7:29I'm sure there is something and
- 7:31following a career might be a high-risk
- 7:33thing, right? That's true. But this is
- 7:36the only way that we can succeed. We
- 7:38cannot do a regular 9 toive job that you
- 7:41do not care about and live a mediocre
- 7:43life. Because with ADHD, think about it,
- 7:45it is the condition that you have. Our
- 7:47dopamine receptors are different. The
- 7:48amount of dopamine that is in our brain
- 7:50is different. There's something that
- 7:52what people call a normal life going to
- 7:54a job that they do not like does not
- 7:56work for us because if it worked then it
- 7:59would not be called ADHD. It would not
- 8:01be such a big issue that they would
- 8:02diagnose you. So you have to find your
- 8:05domain and excel at it. For example, me
- 8:07since I was a kid, I thought I'm going
- 8:08to be a doctor. I I studied basically
- 8:10like as long as I can remember as a kid
- 8:13because I was such a competitive kid
- 8:15that I did not want to lose towards
- 8:17anyone else that studying became my
- 8:19dopamine source that I got really good
- 8:21at it that I got into the best high
- 8:23school in Turkey, right? And after that,
- 8:25even though I battled with depression
- 8:27and I battled with like a lot of mental
- 8:30issues, I still maintained pretty good
- 8:31grades. And after that, I got into
- 8:34medical schools multiple times because I
- 8:36could not pick. So I kept switching and
- 8:37I got into all medical [laughter]
- 8:39schools that I applied. But I realized
- 8:41that medical school is not something
- 8:42that I'm actually passionate about. The
- 8:44only reason that I wanted it was it was
- 8:46the top, you know, career choice that I
- 8:48could make that I could prove the world
- 8:50that I am intelligent and I'm capable. I
- 8:53was that competitive. I was toxic as
- 8:55hell. But that was the environment that
- 8:56I grew up. Okay. But even though I got
- 8:58into a medical school, I got actually
- 9:00into the University of Rome medical
- 9:02school, which is a good one. I could not
- 9:04go. I could not continue because I'm not
- 9:06interested. Even though I spent all the
- 9:08years of my life from childhood since I
- 9:11was five, I was saying that I'm going to
- 9:12be a doctor. I could not go because I'm
- 9:15not interested in the materials of the
- 9:17medical school. I'm not I realize I'm
- 9:19not interested become in becoming a
- 9:21doctor. I'm not interested in becoming a
- 9:23physician, right? Practicing every day.
- 9:25Even though I'm interested in science
- 9:27and neuroscience and our body, I'm not
- 9:30necessarily interested in that
- 9:31structure. Therefore, no matter how hard
- 9:33I would try, I could not go because it's
- 9:36not my domain. It's not something that I
- 9:37want to excel at. It's not something
- 9:38that I'm interested in. But for example,
- 9:40this YouTube channel since from the age
- 9:4215, I tried for 5 years and I kept
- 9:44failing and failing and failing that
- 9:46everybody made fun of me in high school,
- 9:48but I was still obsessed every single
- 9:50day. I was thinking about YouTube like
- 9:51for 5 years. Who can do that? I've
- 9:54coached like hundreds of people to grow
- 9:56their YouTube channel and nobody was
- 9:57able to do that except like few people
- 9:59that were really obsessed with it. If
- 10:01you're not obsessed at something, you're
- 10:03not going to get exceptional results
- 10:04because you are competing with other
- 10:06obsessed people. But with YouTube,
- 10:08because I was obsessed, even after 5
- 10:10years of failing, I kept going that on
- 10:12the fifth year, we went from 0 to 100K
- 10:15subscribers in only 3 months. And from
- 10:17there, in within like 2 years, we
- 10:19reached 1 million subscribers and now we
- 10:21are at almost 1.5. And I am living my
- 10:24best life. Literally my whole goal was
- 10:26to become a YouTuber and I became one.
- 10:28It was because I was obsessed.
- 10:29Obviously, my looks probably helped, but
- 10:31during the 5 years that I failed, I
- 10:33looked the same. But it didn't it didn't
- 10:36really help. But the only reason I was
- 10:38able to keep going was it's because I
- 10:39was obsessed with YouTube. And that is
- 10:41the only way that you can excel at
- 10:44something with ADHD. And the rule number
- 10:46three is that you have to be in
- 10:48environment this is rewarded. This
- 10:50obsession is not going to be rewarded in
- 10:52every single job scenario because
- 10:54traditional settings punish everything
- 10:56about how we work. They want you to
- 10:58follow the process. consistent
- 10:59deadlines, be predictable, sit in
- 11:01meetings, do the same tasks in the same
- 11:03way every day, but we'd like to find a
- 11:06new ways. We are we our head is, you
- 11:09know, my head there are like 200 ideas
- 11:11that I could right now give about video
- 11:13ideas and business ideas that I could
- 11:14give to you. But traditional settings do
- 11:16not reward this. And if you are in a
- 11:18career, even when you're obsessed with
- 11:20it, if it does not reward you, then that
- 11:23life is not designed for you and you're
- 11:24not going to be able to successful in
- 11:26societal terms. You need an environment
- 11:28where creativity is valued, where
- 11:30nonlinear thinking is an advantage, and
- 11:32where chaos is acceptable, where you are
- 11:34not measured by how well you follow the
- 11:36rules, but what you produce. This is why
- 11:38actually so many entrepreneurs have
- 11:40ADHD. Not because we are business
- 11:42geniuses, but because entrepreneurship
- 11:44is constant variation, constant novelty,
- 11:47constant ups and downs. It is never the
- 11:49same day twice. It's high risk, high
- 11:51reward. It is never boring, and we need
- 11:53that. Like Richard Branson has ADHD and
- 11:55built an empire of companies. The
- 11:57Spotify CEO has talked about how he
- 11:59works with total obsession on whatever
- 12:01he commits to. These people did not
- 12:03succeed despite ADHD. They succeed
- 12:05because they have ADHD. They succeeded
- 12:07because the environment they built
- 12:09rewarded exactly how their brain works.
- 12:11But it does not have to be an
- 12:12entrepreneurship. High pressure kitchens
- 12:14where every moment is different. for
- 12:15example, right? Journalism or creative
- 12:17work or research or any work with
- 12:20variety, autonomy and dopamine
- 12:22generating challenge is for us. So if
- 12:24your b work bores you, you will fail.
- 12:27Doesn't mean that every single second of
- 12:28your work is going to be exciting. No.
- 12:30But majority of the time it has to be
- 12:33fun for you. You might think, oh, I mean
- 12:34that is the common advice of follow your
- 12:36passion, right? It's not necessarily
- 12:39follow your passion. It's more about
- 12:40follow your obsession. And obviously it
- 12:43applies for most people but most people
- 12:45are not obsessed as we are. That is the
- 12:48differentiation because when we are
- 12:49obsessed it's almost scary because when
- 12:51I was growing my YouTube channel I was
- 12:53posting three times a week for one and a
- 12:56half years and consecutive. And during
- 12:57that time I did not see anyone. I did
- 12:59not hang out with anyone. I did not talk
- 13:01anything about anything other than
- 13:03YouTube. My mom was so concerned that
- 13:05she thought I went crazy. That is the
- 13:08thing we need to succeed in this world.
- 13:09And normal people do not have that and
- 13:11we do have it. Therefore, it's all about
- 13:14finding the thing and pointing out that
- 13:16energy there and forgetting all about
- 13:18your weaknesses because the moments you
- 13:20succeed, everyone is going to accept
- 13:22that. So, stop wasting your energy
- 13:24trying to eliminate things that are
- 13:25never going away because every drop of
- 13:27energy you spend fighting your
- 13:29weaknesses is energy you're not spending
- 13:31on your strength. With ADHD, what we
- 13:33need to do is not covering our covering
- 13:35our weaknesses and become a mediocre or
- 13:37below mediocre, but maximize on our
- 13:40strengths so that we become exceptional.
- 13:41Because with ADHD, the thing is that you
- 13:43are never an allrounder. Most of the
- 13:45ADHD people that I've seen in my life,
- 13:47and I have so many around, me because
- 13:49I'm an ADHD magnet for some reason, is
- 13:51that a lot of people do suck at majority
- 13:54of the things, but there is one thing
- 13:56that they are very good at. And the
- 13:57successful people are the people who
- 13:59maximize on that thing. maximize on
- 14:01their strength that they are exceptional
- 14:03compared to other people. But when you
- 14:05look into their personal life, they suck
- 14:07at normal life. They can do their bills,
- 14:09they can do their taxes, they can do
- 14:10their dishes. Their normal life is
- 14:12chaos, but they're so exceptional at
- 14:14that one thing that society actually
- 14:16forgives them. And that is the truth
- 14:18number two that you need to know.
- 14:20Success is actually our ticket to
- 14:22freedom. This is the part that nobody
- 14:24wants to hear. But this is the truth.
- 14:26The only way to be accepted for us to
- 14:28being different is to be undeniably
- 14:31successful at something and serving the
- 14:33society. Look at the old historical
- 14:35figures. When you look at Leonardo da
- 14:37Vinci or Einstein, they are all kind of
- 14:39like weirdos. They had very weird traits
- 14:41or very weird preferences and the way
- 14:44that they lived and it was so chaotic.
- 14:46But society accepted them because they
- 14:48were successful. All successful
- 14:50historical figures are kind of the
- 14:52extremes and weirdos. And when I was a
- 14:54kid, I literally could not like sit in
- 14:56the class, you know? I could just not
- 14:58like focus. I would walk around the
- 14:59classroom while teacher was talking. And
- 15:02you know what? As long as my grades were
- 15:03good, the teachers were fine with it.
- 15:05They would say like, "Oh, Rory just like
- 15:06needs that. She she does it and she
- 15:08doesn't bother anyone, so let her walk."
- 15:10But the moment my grades dropped, it
- 15:12suddenly became a problem. Suddenly, I
- 15:14need to get it together and I need to
- 15:16behave correctly. And my mom told me
- 15:18this when I was a kid. That stuck me
- 15:20with forever. Because you are weird. You
- 15:22have to be successful, Rudy. She
- 15:24explained that if you're a little bit
- 15:25weird, people will always tell you to
- 15:27change your behaviors. But if you're
- 15:29extremely weird, so weird you're not
- 15:31even on the scale anymore and you're
- 15:32successful, people accept it as a quirky
- 15:35part of you. And that makes it unique
- 15:37from other people's perspective. But as
- 15:39long as you are successful, if you're
- 15:41not successful and if you're a little
- 15:42bit weird, then you're going to be
- 15:44lonely. You're going to be pushed away
- 15:45from society. And that is the reality in
- 15:47our life. Society operates on
- 15:49meritocracy, whether we like it or not.
- 15:51When your ability is high, everything is
- 15:54tolerated. Your quirk becomes your
- 15:56genius traits. What makes you unique?
- 15:58Your chaos becomes a creative process.
- 15:59Your impulsivity becomes visionary
- 16:01leadership. But when your ability is
- 16:03low, nothing is tolerated. The same
- 16:06traits that would be celebrated get
- 16:08labeled as irresponsible, unreliable,
- 16:10scattered, difficult. And you will never
- 16:12fit in. You will always be an outlier.
- 16:14Because that is a definition of ADHD. If
- 16:16two and 3% of people of the population
- 16:19have it, then it means that 97 98% of
- 16:22the population do not have it.
- 16:23Therefore, they do not operate like you.
- 16:25Therefore, they do not think like you.
- 16:27So, you are going to be weird because we
- 16:29are the minority. But success buys you
- 16:31the freedom to be yourselves without
- 16:33constantly justifying your existence.
- 16:35Because as long as you're successful,
- 16:36people are going to accept it and even
- 16:39cherish it. This is not fair obviously,
- 16:41but understanding is a power. So mindset
- 16:44three is that you're playing a different
- 16:45game. Not a worse game compared to other
- 16:47people but the life of a game that we
- 16:49play is [music] a different one which is
- 16:52a high-risisk highreward game. The highs
- 16:54with ADHD are very high but the lows are
- 16:56very very low indeed. There's no
- 16:58peaceful middle ground because your
- 17:00brain does not do middle ground. It's
- 17:01either zero or max. I never seen an ADHD
- 17:04person live a mediocre life. They're
- 17:06either very successful or they're doing
- 17:08very poorly or even though they're doing
- 17:10well, they think they are doing very
- 17:12poorly because of that all or nothing
- 17:14attitude. And you cannot play the rules
- 17:16that were designed for neurotypical
- 17:18people. Their game is consistency,
- 17:20routine, slow and steady progress. But
- 17:22our game is obsession, intensity, and
- 17:25all or nothing. The sooner you accept
- 17:27this is your game, the sooner you can
- 17:28start playing with it instead of trying
- 17:30to play someone else's. If you're
- 17:32sitting here and thinking, "This is
- 17:33great, but I have no idea what my thing
- 17:35is. I do not have a passion. I don't
- 17:37know what I'm good at, or I'm not really
- 17:39obsessed with anything." Probably
- 17:40because you haven't tried enough things.
- 17:42If you tried all the different things,
- 17:44you're going to be able to get good at
- 17:46finding your obsession. Because I
- 17:47actually tried every single thing that I
- 17:49can try think of. Like I literally
- 17:51played the flute for a while. Played the
- 17:53piano, played the Japanese like okoto,
- 17:56which is like a traditional kind of like
- 17:58an instrument. I did cheerleading,
- 18:00dance, which I sucked at. I tried
- 18:02badminton volleyball. I swam. I, you
- 18:06know, like tried every single thing that
- 18:08you can think of. And now I am obsessed
- 18:10with golf, by the way. But the more
- 18:12things you try, the more you will learn
- 18:14about yourself, your abilities, your
- 18:15weaknesses, and your strengths. If you
- 18:17cannot right now tell me the three
- 18:18things that you're exceptionally good at
- 18:20and three things you're exceptionally
- 18:22bad at, it means that you don't know
- 18:23yourself enough, which means you need to
- 18:26explore more things. Because every new
- 18:28thing you try is another chance for your
- 18:30brain to say this is it. This one that
- 18:33turns on the switch. Try creative work.
- 18:35Try building something. Try your sport.
- 18:36Try a skill. Try starting a project
- 18:38online. Try something that scares you.
- 18:40The thing about ADHD is that when you
- 18:42find it, you will know because zero will
- 18:45become Max overnight. It will consume
- 18:48all the energy, all the attention that
- 18:50you'll have that it is going to be
- 18:52undeniable that you're going to be
- 18:54obsessed with it, that you're obsessed
- 18:55with it. then do not giving the research
- 18:57up. Okay, the search itself is not a
- 18:59failure. Giving up on the search is a
- 19:01failure. So the moment that your energy
- 19:03shifts into something and your attention
- 19:05shifts to something, do not feel bad
- 19:07about it. It is exactly what you needed
- 19:09because if you have ADHD, I know you had
- 19:1110 different hobbies that you tried and
- 19:13that you abandoned, but it is the
- 19:15search. That is what our life looks
- 19:17like. Do not feel bad about it. Our
- 19:20existence is only truly accepted through
- 19:22success. Okay, remember that. That
- 19:24sounds harsh. I know. And I think that
- 19:26it is very sad sometimes that I
- 19:28sometimes think that if I'm not
- 19:29successful, I'm just going to be treated
- 19:31as a incapable adult being because I
- 19:34suck at everything else other than
- 19:37YouTube and business. I'm really bad at
- 19:39it, but that is the truth. But it is
- 19:41also free because it means you're not
- 19:42chasing success for the same reason
- 19:44everyone else is. They want the
- 19:46validation. They want they want to flex.
- 19:48But what we want is freedom. What we
- 19:50want is to be accepted in society. We
- 19:53want a peace in society. The freedom to
- 19:55work the way your brain works. The
- 19:57freedom to live life on your terms. The
- 19:59freedom to stop pretending like who you
- 20:02are not because of people's
- 20:04expectations. And the best news is that
- 20:06we are living in the single best era for
- 20:08ADHD brains. The internet has
- 20:10democratized everything. Knowledge,
- 20:11opportunities, audiences, income. Like
- 20:14for example, English is not even my
- 20:15first language. I didn't even go to an
- 20:17international school. Yet here I am
- 20:19communicating with you on my third
- 20:21language. I did not even live in the US
- 20:23yet. You're watching this video and
- 20:24we're communicating and remote work is
- 20:26normalizing different ways of working.
- 20:28The creator economy rewards exactly what
- 20:30we are good at. The gap between us and
- 20:32neurotypicals is actually shrinking
- 20:34because attention spans across the board
- 20:36are getting worse which means our way of
- 20:38working. Nonlinear creative flexible
- 20:41intents is becoming more valuable less
- 20:43because their attention span is
- 20:44shrinking but they're not getting good
- 20:46at creativity. Whereas ours is good and
- 20:49our attention span is bad. You need to
- 20:51stop playing their game and start
- 20:52playing yours first. Find what makes you
- 20:55hyperfocused. Find what makes you
- 20:56curious. Find what you can do for hours
- 20:58and lose track of time. That is your
- 21:00signal and chase it. Except that you
- 21:02will forget things. You will be late.
- 21:04You will struggle with basic tasks.
- 21:06Design around it. I have many videos
- 21:09showing how you can design a life around
- 21:11it. How you can manage your life, how
- 21:13you can manage your to-do list, how you
- 21:14can manage your organization, etc. More
- 21:16videos are coming, right? Like get
- 21:18support. My mom left Japan 40 years ago
- 21:20because she knew society was not
- 21:22designed for her personality. My mom
- 21:23also has ADHD by the way and she married
- 21:25a foreigner. My dad moved to a different
- 21:28country and built a completely different
- 21:29life. Think about it. And it happened
- 21:31like 40 years ago where international
- 21:33marriage was not that common in Japan,
- 21:34neither Turkey. But she gave me the
- 21:36permission to be different from the
- 21:38moment that I was born because I was
- 21:40different. And that is the greatest gift
- 21:42that she could give to me. And if your
- 21:44parents didn't give that to you, now
- 21:45it's your time to give it to yourself. I
- 21:48know it is hard but you have to remember
- 21:50that we are built for obsession, for
- 21:52pattern recognition, for connecting dots
- 21:54others cannot see, for hyperfocus, for
- 21:56all or nothing. The biggest lie you have
- 21:58been told is that you need to fix
- 21:59yourself to succeed. The truth is the
- 22:01opposite. You need to stop fixing and
- 22:03start building the way you work. That is
- 22:05how you get successful. A life that
- 22:07works with your brain and not against
- 22:09it. Because when an ADT brain finds the
- 22:11right domain, points it obsession in the
- 22:13right direction, and goes to max,
- 22:15there's almost nothing in the world that
- 22:17can compete with that. So stop fixing
- 22:18and start building. And if you want to
- 22:20learn how you can manage your life
- 22:22despite living with ADHD and maximize
- 22:24your productivity and get more things
- 22:26done so that you can focus on that
- 22:28signal, then watch this video Next.
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