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  1. 0:00you've made and lost your money twice
  2. 0:02you have to make big bets in order to
  3. 0:03win big you have to be willing to go to
  4. 0:05zero how'd you get here it's this
  5. 0:06healthy appreciation for risk that's
  6. 0:08completely contrasted with the utter
  7. 0:11comfort with losing it all not all bets
  8. 0:14are going to be good ones what you've
  9. 0:15done is incredibly rare and impressive
  10. 0:18you've gone from a couple thousand to
  11. 0:20now worth $150 million youve more than
  12. 0:22100x what's the next step are you
  13. 0:24starting a fund Alex Heros welcome to
  14. 0:26the 10x Capital podcast thank you for
  15. 0:27having me honored to be here it's great
  16. 0:29to have you so you have one of these
  17. 0:31stories where you've made and lost your
  18. 0:33money twice you went from hero to zero
  19. 0:35and now back to $150 million NW worth
  20. 0:38how'd you get here geez I'll give you
  21. 0:40the shortest version possible so I was a
  22. 0:42Management Consultant right out of
  23. 0:43college um did well in school I did two
  24. 0:46years of that I went to go apply to you
  25. 0:49know all the big IV leagues uh to get an
  26. 0:51NBA and uh one of the questions on the
  27. 0:53test was uh how will you know Harvard
  28. 0:56NBA help you short and long-term goals
  29. 0:57and I sat there for like 4 days trying
  30. 0:59to answer the question and then I just
  31. 1:00came to the conclusion that it wasn't
  32. 1:01going to help my short long-term goals
  33. 1:03which is probably why they asked those
  34. 1:04questions on the application I was like
  35. 1:05I guess I'm going to do Fitness
  36. 1:06basically what I would do is I would
  37. 1:08sign a lease and then start running ads
  38. 1:10before I even had anything built out and
  39. 1:12the model that I had was not very
  40. 1:13difficult to get the equipment for I
  41. 1:14would generate enough pre-sales from the
  42. 1:16launch to cover the entire opening of
  43. 1:18the gym from there started doing gym
  44. 1:20turnarounds it was during that process
  45. 1:21that I lost my money twice uh once was
  46. 1:24with a partner at the very beginning who
  47. 1:26was like I filled his gym up and he said
  48. 1:27hey I'll come behind you and I'll just
  49. 1:29operate all the gyms then you don't have
  50. 1:30to give anything away you'll just own
  51. 1:31them all and then promptly took the
  52. 1:33money out of the business that I had
  53. 1:35saved up from selling the six gyms that
  54. 1:37I had uh and so that
  55. 1:39sucked but I learned a valuable lesson
  56. 1:41which is in general if you have the
  57. 1:43option between getting into business
  58. 1:45with someone who's already been indicted
  59. 1:46for fraud all things being equal yeah if
  60. 1:48you have no option everybody that you
  61. 1:49know has been indicted for fraud then
  62. 1:51you know you have to just choose the
  63. 1:51best one but for me that was big lesson
  64. 1:53number one honestly it was like four
  65. 1:55five 6 months later um it happened again
  66. 1:57so I called the next gyms that were
  67. 1:58supposed to launch and and uh told them
  68. 2:00hey we're getting out of the business
  69. 2:01we're going to do something else one of
  70. 2:03the guys says Hey launch my buddy's Gym
  71. 2:05and so I picked the highest number I
  72. 2:06could think of cuz I wanted to get him
  73. 2:07off the phone and he already said he was
  74. 2:08broke and so uh I said $6,000 and he
  75. 2:11said six grand done and I remember just
  76. 2:13like looking at the phone being like
  77. 2:14holy crap like what just happened I had
  78. 2:16seven more calls that day and next call
  79. 2:18same thing how much 8 Grand next call
  80. 2:20same thing how much 10 grand and up
  81. 2:22doing $60,000 in sales in a day I could
  82. 2:24finally breathe again I was officially
  83. 2:25just broke again but no debt and then
  84. 2:27from that the next month I think we did
  85. 2:28220 then 380 then 480 then 780 then a
  86. 2:31million then2 then 15 then I think it
  87. 2:33was like 18 2 22 and it went all the way
  88. 2:35up to 4.4 million a month within 20
  89. 2:37months we ended up packaging those
  90. 2:39companies and selling them to American
  91. 2:41Pacific group uh I sold 2/3 at of 46.2
  92. 2:44million valuation in an all cash deal
  93. 2:46that was your first Big Exit that was
  94. 2:47the first big exit and during the five
  95. 2:49years we took out 42 million in
  96. 2:50distributions so that was like still a
  97. 2:52very cash flow positive business but I
  98. 2:53just didn't want to be I'd been in gyms
  99. 2:54for like a decade at that point so I was
  100. 2:56I was ready to just not be the gym guy
  101. 2:58anymore and on Christmas Day I
  102. 3:00officially started acquisition. comom
  103. 3:01the thesis I had was everybody wants
  104. 3:03proprietary deal flow and everybody
  105. 3:04wants people who trust them when they
  106. 3:06get into a deal process I wonder if if
  107. 3:09somebody has merged like a influencer
  108. 3:12social media brand with the traditional
  109. 3:14private Equity model tell me about the
  110. 3:16social media ramp up year zero year one
  111. 3:18year two how quick did that ramp I had
  112. 3:20the gym Secrets podcast was that an
  113. 3:21interview Style no just me just talking
  114. 3:23ahead so I lost all my money the second
  115. 3:25time April of 2017 and my first episode
  116. 3:30is July of 17 you can follow the whole
  117. 3:32thing from zero back again 90 days after
  118. 3:35I was at zero we both know many people
  119. 3:37that make a lot of money then lose and
  120. 3:39oftentimes make even more on the come up
  121. 3:41why is losing all your money a
  122. 3:42prerequisite for success I hope it
  123. 3:44doesn't have to
  124. 3:45be third time is the charm for me
  125. 3:48probably 50% of the people I know worth
  126. 3:50hundreds of millions or billions of
  127. 3:51dollars have gone through this Arc
  128. 3:53there's something there what is it that
  129. 3:54makes me feel better I think I would say
  130. 3:55there's two completely dichotomous
  131. 3:58things that come out of it on one hand
  132. 3:59you earn a very healthy respect for risk
  133. 4:02not everything is going to work out on
  134. 4:03the other hand you know that you've lost
  135. 4:05everything and yet you are still here
  136. 4:07and so it's this healthy appreciation
  137. 4:09for risk that's completely contrasted
  138. 4:12with the utter comfort with losing it
  139. 4:16all anyways because you got there and
  140. 4:18you know I joke about this but Lea and I
  141. 4:20were happy when we were poor we're just
  142. 4:21about as happy now makes you anti
  143. 4:23fragile yeah that's perfect exactly and
  144. 4:25how does that practically help with the
  145. 4:26healthy appreciation for risk we are
  146. 4:28willing to take fewer but more strategic
  147. 4:30big swings you have to make big bets so
  148. 4:32you have to be willing to go to zero but
  149. 4:34at the same time knowing that not all
  150. 4:37bets are going to be good ones I feel
  151. 4:38like that is fundamentally the basis of
  152. 4:40good investing there's some huge power
  153. 4:42laws when it comes to Venture Capital
  154. 4:43One of the Investments and because of
  155. 4:45that you don't have to make huge
  156. 4:46Investments you can make Small Checks
  157. 4:48Jason calanis invested 25,000 made $100
  158. 4:51million for seoa is that the same thing
  159. 4:53in your private Equity business are you
  160. 4:55able to make small bets and make huge
  161. 4:57returns or do you really have to have
  162. 4:58more of a concentrate portolio the
  163. 5:00concentration for us right now is
  164. 5:01because we're super operationally
  165. 5:03involved and so this is something that
  166. 5:04we're to be very candid like we're
  167. 5:06actively looking at is there a way that
  168. 5:08we can maybe do less and so you know on
  169. 5:10one hand we've considered opening up a
  170. 5:11venture arm which is something that
  171. 5:12we're strongly considering right now on
  172. 5:14the more traditional private Equity
  173. 5:15route we have made small bets relative
  174. 5:18to the amount of money that we've made
  175. 5:19so we've had monster returns from a
  176. 5:21percentage basis but the amount of work
  177. 5:24that has gone into those companies the
  178. 5:25company that was at 2 million that went
  179. 5:26to 110 we've done a lot of work to be
  180. 5:28fair the founders have done an amazing
  181. 5:29job they're awesome people the credit
  182. 5:31should go to them but we've done a lot
  183. 5:32of work too and the same thing with the
  184. 5:33brick and Mort change that we have we
  185. 5:35have tended to go towards operationally
  186. 5:37complex businesses that just require
  187. 5:39lots of people uh and I think it's just
  188. 5:42because Lea and I are very comfortable
  189. 5:43in those types of environments we both
  190. 5:45came from a service based background but
  191. 5:46one of the big kind of like arbitrages
  192. 5:48we were talking right before we started
  193. 5:49the show 40% of our portfolio is
  194. 5:51software and we don't talk about it as
  195. 5:52much and part of the reason I don't talk
  196. 5:53about it in my content as much is
  197. 5:54because I think 78% of all businesses
  198. 5:56are service businesses it applies to
  199. 5:58such a small slice of the demographic
  200. 6:00that I'd rather just talk about the
  201. 6:01thing that applies to most people but we
  202. 6:02take a lot of the best practices that
  203. 6:04we've learned from traditional service
  204. 6:07businesses and then apply them to
  205. 6:08software as a service businesses because
  206. 6:11a lot of the same things work it's just
  207. 6:12a lot of it's automated and that's where
  208. 6:14you get you know huge Returns on it I
  209. 6:15want to double click on something so I
  210. 6:17read your book 100 million offers
  211. 6:19Incredible Book basically it's a book on
  212. 6:21how to create value you talk about how
  213. 6:23you would go to a company and they would
  214. 6:25give you 30% of the company with almost
  215. 6:27no investment and you've done this over
  216. 6:28and over dozens of times or so you've
  217. 6:30never really explicitly talked about how
  218. 6:31you construct that value proposition for
  219. 6:33the business owner so tell me how you
  220. 6:35get somebody to give you 30% of your
  221. 6:37business with no money down we do a
  222. 6:38combination to be fair the deal is
  223. 6:40evolved over time and I wrote the book I
  224. 6:44want to say three or four years ago
  225. 6:45between 20 and 24 deals in similar is
  226. 6:47structures so we had um an element of
  227. 6:50cash flow which is either a profit share
  228. 6:52or a revenue share depending on how
  229. 6:54volatile the business was um and then we
  230. 6:56had a profits interest um based on some
  231. 6:59agreed upon basis that we had or above a
  232. 7:00basis that we you know mutually agreed
  233. 7:02on and usually that that number was very
  234. 7:04low because the companies didn't really
  235. 7:05have a ton of intrinsic value and so
  236. 7:08that was more or less the combination of
  237. 7:09what it was it's like okay your business
  238. 7:10is worth 2 million bucks uh we get 30%
  239. 7:14of everything above that and for the
  240. 7:16work that we do in the meantime we need
  241. 7:17cash flow because we have a huge team
  242. 7:18helping you put all these things
  243. 7:19together and so that's pretty much how
  244. 7:22the deals work over time I started
  245. 7:24writing checks into companies cuz I
  246. 7:26noticed it changed the dynamic a little
  247. 7:27bit favorably for us and it was less
  248. 7:29like we're consultants for higher now we
  249. 7:32only do cash in deals that's probably
  250. 7:34more traditional we look for a lot of
  251. 7:36majority covenants even if we're not in
  252. 7:37a majority position just because we want
  253. 7:39to have a good amount of operating
  254. 7:40control on the business honestly in some
  255. 7:42ways it's just you know keeping the
  256. 7:43emotionality of it from the founder from
  257. 7:45making like a really poor decision every
  258. 7:46one of the covenants that we're going to
  259. 7:47ask for are not thing like when we
  260. 7:49explain them they're like okay I get
  261. 7:50that the biggest companies we have are
  262. 7:52you know four four plus years that we've
  263. 7:53had with us and some of those were
  264. 7:55looking for you know liquidity events
  265. 7:57right now and I think we're kind of at a
  266. 7:58point of like okay we to from here
  267. 8:01that's kind of I would say the position
  268. 8:02that Lea and I are in right now with our
  269. 8:03Holdings and kind of like okay what went
  270. 8:05well from this last round what are we
  271. 8:07going to do differently next time and I
  272. 8:08say the big the big one is that we're
  273. 8:09just going to buy fewer bigger
  274. 8:11businesses at the onset because we've
  275. 8:12learned that a lot of times the bigger
  276. 8:14the business the more we can help
  277. 8:15because when it's a smaller business
  278. 8:17it's like we have to build so much
  279. 8:18infrastructure a lot of times there's
  280. 8:19there's no CRM so it's a you know it's
  281. 8:21all it's all Google Sheets and things
  282. 8:22like that so we have to implement a full
  283. 8:24CRM so we can get data pushed to us so
  284. 8:25we even know what's going on in the
  285. 8:27business finances are typically a mess
  286. 8:28it's just you know has mom's bookkeeper
  287. 8:30that's been doing it you know across the
  288. 8:32kitchen table that's been that's been
  289. 8:34doing the finances there's typically no
  290. 8:35leadership team in place it's usually a
  291. 8:37founder and like maybe a first follower
  292. 8:39somebody who's really loyal and kind of
  293. 8:40like an integrator for them but
  294. 8:41oftentimes they don't even have that and
  295. 8:43so when we've looked at the more and
  296. 8:45more mature businesses it's like they
  297. 8:46have a lot of these pieces in place and
  298. 8:47so then we can get straight to Value
  299. 8:49creation there's no leaking bucket yeah
  300. 8:52or less just to double click you're
  301. 8:54really good at deconstructing processes
  302. 8:56so you go to a founder and you say okay
  303. 8:58your company's worth $5 million I'm
  304. 9:00going to go and invest and then I want
  305. 9:0220% of The Upside or 30% of The Upside
  306. 9:04how do you ensure to the founder that
  307. 9:05you're not just freeloading on the
  308. 9:07upside and do you create Milestones do
  309. 9:10what construct do you use to align
  310. 9:12yourself not Milestones it's been pretty
  311. 9:14much straight up we get 30% of The
  312. 9:16Upside just trust yeah and that's I mean
  313. 9:18and that's been the whole point of
  314. 9:19building the brand and building the the
  315. 9:21presence that we have has been to have
  316. 9:22that trust um and I would say that it's
  317. 9:24definitely lubricated the deal process
  318. 9:26overall um we don't need to do nearly as
  319. 9:28much diligence you know as a as a
  320. 9:30traditional PE so we can we can move a
  321. 9:32lot faster on deals and we've generated
  322. 9:34a lot of cash anyways in the meantime so
  323. 9:36that now if we do want to write bigger
  324. 9:37checks we can do that I can't write the
  325. 9:39the check sizes that I would like to
  326. 9:40write but at this moment we can stroke a
  327. 9:4210 or A5 or $20 million check if we
  328. 9:44really like something I can't write
  329. 9:45multiple of those hundred million do
  330. 9:47checks for a company when we got
  331. 9:48introduced a month ago we started
  332. 9:49talking about this Crossroads that
  333. 9:51you're at You' engineered this model
  334. 9:52that works where you're owning large
  335. 9:54percentage of slightly smaller
  336. 9:55businesses and you're thinking should we
  337. 9:57continue building this kind of work
  338. 9:59holding company or should we go the
  339. 10:01private Equity route what are the pros
  340. 10:02and cons in your opinion if anyone who's
  341. 10:04listening is like he doesn't sound
  342. 10:05decided I'm aware um you know on one
  343. 10:08hand we could raise you know outside
  344. 10:09funds transparently I'm just so afraid
  345. 10:11of losing someone else's money I've made
  346. 10:12mistakes in the past for me and it's
  347. 10:14like okay that's an Alex mistake I'll
  348. 10:16own that and it was all my money losing
  349. 10:18someone else's money it makes me feel
  350. 10:20sick to think about cuz I just know how
  351. 10:21hard it is to make money and to Just
  352. 10:23Lose It for somebody else just like it
  353. 10:24kills me it's definitely an irrational
  354. 10:26fear of mine but that's Road one road
  355. 10:28two is that we continue to still write
  356. 10:30our own checks and we still to go after
  357. 10:31bigger companies but we just take
  358. 10:32smaller chunks so we actually go back to
  359. 10:34the minority thing that we started with
  360. 10:35but just with much bigger uh companies
  361. 10:37and I think we'd be able to get pretty
  362. 10:38good valuations on those companies if
  363. 10:40we're coming in as a morard position
  364. 10:41with value ad the third bucket is we
  365. 10:44just continue to do what we have been
  366. 10:46doing and just continue to level up
  367. 10:47slowly over time the size companies that
  368. 10:49we have with not necessarily the desire
  369. 10:51to sell them but some of the companies
  370. 10:52are really really cash flow positive and
  371. 10:54I don't need to sell them like some of
  372. 10:56the software ones we're absolutely
  373. 10:57looking to have liquidity event from an
  374. 10:59exit because we just plow all the money
  375. 11:01back into the business which it should
  376. 11:02do so those are kind of like the three
  377. 11:03doors that we have in front of us for
  378. 11:04like where two from here I've been
  379. 11:06honestly split cuz I'm also continuing
  380. 11:07to run what we're currently doing I
  381. 11:09would say that the likelihood that LE
  382. 11:10and I raise a fund is high I just don't
  383. 11:13have a timeline you're rationally being
  384. 11:15very slow in your decision-making
  385. 11:17because institutional capital and
  386. 11:19outside capital is infra Penny inra
  387. 11:21pound you take that dollar you're
  388. 11:22basically beh holding to those LPS for a
  389. 11:24decade what's coming through your
  390. 11:26pipeline are you getting Billion Dollar
  391. 11:27Deals cuz I think that should really
  392. 11:28factor in deal flow is absurd how do you
  393. 11:30even process it so we get about 3,000
  394. 11:33companies a month about 100 a day that
  395. 11:35come inbound that are trying that
  396. 11:37specifically apply for like we want to
  397. 11:39be a portfolio company um we have many
  398. 11:42more than that that just like want help
  399. 11:44and want information and things like
  400. 11:46that but 100 a day come in that fill out
  401. 11:48a full Min question application and then
  402. 11:50those go to my deal team so we have
  403. 11:52automated sifting that kind of just in
  404. 11:54the background based on the application
  405. 11:55questions that automatically you know
  406. 11:57remove 95% we don't do any deal de
  407. 11:59outside of the us so that takes off half
  408. 12:01cuz 55% of my audience is international
  409. 12:03so we have 45% left from there it's like
  410. 12:05we don't want other investors on the cap
  411. 12:06table that takes another half out from
  412. 12:08there we've got it just we just kind of
  413. 12:09like Whittle our way down to what are
  414. 12:11the kind of investable deals we probably
  415. 12:13get two to three Deals a day that are
  416. 12:15legitimate businesses that are of size
  417. 12:18that are us-based they're all over the
  418. 12:20place because the content I have helps a
  419. 12:22lot of different businesses so we'll get
  420. 12:24you know a a florist with a commercial
  421. 12:27cleaning company with a you know SAS
  422. 12:29company and then tomorrow it'll be a
  423. 12:31logistics broker with like it just it's
  424. 12:33all over the place what's the revenue
  425. 12:35split on that so 50% are 0 to a million
  426. 12:3925% are 1 to 5 million in Top Line and
  427. 12:41then 25% are 5 million plus and
  428. 12:43obviously there's you know a lot above 5
  429. 12:45million plus in terms of I mean it's 25%
  430. 12:47but I want to say it's somewhere in the
  431. 12:49neighborhood of like 5% of deals are do
  432. 12:50over 20 so that's where that taking 100
  433. 12:52would link down to like two-ish two to
  434. 12:54three Deals a day those are usually
  435. 12:56companies that are doing over 10 million
  436. 12:58and have all these other kind of things
  437. 12:59that are interesting about them but
  438. 13:00sometimes we just hop on a phone with
  439. 13:01the founder and then we're like this
  440. 13:02guy's crazy a lot of times on the first
  441. 13:04call we disqualify like 90% of companies
  442. 13:06cuz they're like this is hairy or this
  443. 13:08feels weird or I don't really like the
  444. 13:09business or whatever else a lot of times
  445. 13:11there businesses that don't have any
  446. 13:12like compounding vehicle and so that's
  447. 13:14what we look a lot for is I have this
  448. 13:16theory that a business can only compound
  449. 13:17if you have a product that people never
  450. 13:19stop buying or you have a network of
  451. 13:20people that never stop selling and so
  452. 13:22it's like if you have a real estate
  453. 13:23brokage right uh you have a network of
  454. 13:24people that never stop selling for you
  455. 13:26you have some reoccurring that comes
  456. 13:27from you know somebody sells a house and
  457. 13:29years later they come back to you but
  458. 13:30for the most part it's onesie twosies on
  459. 13:31the customer side you have a SAS
  460. 13:32software that's super sticky you sell it
  461. 13:34services and people don't really turn
  462. 13:35out those are the types of services that
  463. 13:36we focus a lot more on now um in our
  464. 13:39first round of companies we basically
  465. 13:41had to take companies that were really
  466. 13:43profitable or had like they had
  467. 13:44something that we really liked about
  468. 13:46them but they almost none of them had
  469. 13:47really good Revenue retention and so we
  470. 13:49spend a lot of time building that in so
  471. 13:52that we can get that compounding but we
  472. 13:53just want to see that people keep buying
  473. 13:56and that there are good gross margins as
  474. 13:58they continue to buy and so then those
  475. 14:00are the businesses that we can just
  476. 14:01knock out of the park because we know
  477. 14:02how to build acquisition out really well
  478. 14:04we know how to build delivery out really
  479. 14:05well the things that Lea and I are
  480. 14:06probably not the best at is like we're
  481. 14:08not the best at like super techy stuff
  482. 14:10like even though we have 40% of our
  483. 14:12portfolio is software based we heavily
  484. 14:15rely on the recruiting side of who we
  485. 14:17bring in who is good at that stuff so
  486. 14:18that we can then just do all the
  487. 14:20business fundamentals to that model and
  488. 14:22you're a big believer in demand
  489. 14:23constrained business not supply
  490. 14:24constrain business if I want to put my
  491. 14:26brand behind something I want something
  492. 14:27that's demand constrained if we're going
  493. 14:29to work on something then I prefer the
  494. 14:31opposite yes is the answer to the
  495. 14:33question sorry on both those situations
  496. 14:35we like demand contraint so either we
  497. 14:36can generate it or if it's something
  498. 14:38that I have a huge amount of my audience
  499. 14:40that I could push towards then that's
  500. 14:41something that'd be interesting so
  501. 14:42you're a big student of compounding yeah
  502. 14:45you talk a lot about it what skills have
  503. 14:47you compounded over your career and talk
  504. 14:49to me about why compounding is so
  505. 14:51important so I came from the gym
  506. 14:52business and probably one of the
  507. 14:54simplest reoccurring models that people
  508. 14:56understand a lot of people don't know
  509. 14:57about the gym business especially in the
  510. 14:58service based gym so like personal
  511. 14:59training semi-private training large
  512. 15:01group which is where I came from that
  513. 15:02was my bread and butter is that people
  514. 15:04cancel all the time whereas like a $10
  515. 15:06month membership it's lower and it tends
  516. 15:08to be more like a facility usage
  517. 15:10business than it is actually like a
  518. 15:11service business I remember the first
  519. 15:12time I looked at churn and saw that I
  520. 15:14was like okay 10% turn that's the
  521. 15:16industry average and then I just did it
  522. 15:17for a year and I was like oh I lose 70%
  523. 15:19of my customers every year that means
  524. 15:20that basically every month I have to
  525. 15:21like go hunt and I never get credit for
  526. 15:23what I did 3 months ago and so I wanted
  527. 15:25to have businesses where I could get
  528. 15:26credit for the work that I did 5 years
  529. 15:27ago to Lad up to the first question you
  530. 15:29asked which was you know what what has
  531. 15:31been compounding in my life skills has
  532. 15:33been the biggest investment I've made in
  533. 15:34my entire life and so you know when I
  534. 15:36first started uh I got pretty good at
  535. 15:39sales that I mean I didn't know anything
  536. 15:40about it but I got pretty good at it
  537. 15:41just from taking 4,000 101 consults in
  538. 15:44person I learned enough about the other
  539. 15:46stuff to have that just not be the
  540. 15:47limiter so I learned how to run Facebook
  541. 15:49ads in 2013 I went to a workshop and
  542. 15:51somebody taught me how to do it and that
  543. 15:52ended up completely changing my life and
  544. 15:54that's how I was able to fill all these
  545. 15:55gyms up later but then I didn't know how
  546. 15:56to do like more advanced stuff so then I
  547. 15:58paid somebody else to teach the more
  548. 15:59advanced stuff and so what I have
  549. 16:01noticed is that with each kind of new
  550. 16:03set of skills that I acquire over time
  551. 16:06it just makes the former skills that I
  552. 16:09learned way more valuable I like telling
  553. 16:11the story of Jay-Z as a simple example
  554. 16:13it's like okay so he had a natural
  555. 16:14privity towards like beats and Rhythm
  556. 16:16okay then he learns how to rap okay well
  557. 16:18he's got some skill there but then he
  558. 16:20learned how to promote so now that made
  559. 16:22his rapping skill more valuable and then
  560. 16:24he learned how to uh sign other people
  561. 16:27on or create a label on the he learned
  562. 16:29how to sign other people on and then
  563. 16:30promote them and so all of a sudden he
  564. 16:31just gets more and more leverage on the
  565. 16:33original skill set he still needs to be
  566. 16:34able to recognize good music from his
  567. 16:36original days but learning how to
  568. 16:38promote on top of that just gave him
  569. 16:40huge leverage and then doing it with
  570. 16:41other people more so so just to
  571. 16:43deconstruct that let's use Jay-Z so he's
  572. 16:46good at beats let's say you want to
  573. 16:48acquire the skill of rapping how would
  574. 16:49you go about that how do you a identify
  575. 16:52the skills needed and be acquire those
  576. 16:53skills well I'll walk you through
  577. 16:55something that we like to think about
  578. 16:56everything we do is off the theory of
  579. 16:58constraints we say say how do we do more
  580. 17:00what's working and we continue to do
  581. 17:01more of what's working until something
  582. 17:03else gets in the way of us doing more of
  583. 17:04what's working and then we ask the
  584. 17:06question why can't we do it and the
  585. 17:07answer to that question is typically the
  586. 17:09constraint and then all of our resources
  587. 17:11will get deployed towards relieving that
  588. 17:13constraint and then we go back to doing
  589. 17:14as much of that thing that made us money
  590. 17:16as possible and if you don't know how to
  591. 17:18relieve that constraint that's your lack
  592. 17:19of skill and then you gain that skill
  593. 17:21let's say you have to gain that skill
  594. 17:22let's say you have to become a promoter
  595. 17:24how would you go about I'll do a
  596. 17:25microcosm of this so the ads thing I was
  597. 17:27saying earlier I didn't know how to run
  598. 17:28n ad campaigns so I knew how to run them
  599. 17:30locally but then when we wanted to scale
  600. 17:31gym launch I was like I got to learn how
  601. 17:33to do this nationally I have no idea how
  602. 17:34do you target gym owners and so I uh got
  603. 17:37on the phone with um agency owners and
  604. 17:41uh I didn't have a ton of money at the
  605. 17:42time and so I just said hey can you um
  606. 17:44run my ads but also show me what you're
  607. 17:46doing and they all said no and so
  608. 17:48finally I was like on the sixth call uh
  609. 17:51the guy said no and I was like dude it's
  610. 17:54America like just name a price like what
  611. 17:56would it take and it's one of my
  612. 17:57favorite questions is yeah I was like a
  613. 18:00good line yeah what would it take I use
  614. 18:01that line all the time like what would
  615. 18:03it take to get a deal done what would it
  616. 18:04take for us to do five YouTube videos a
  617. 18:05week that are 10 out of 10 quality and
  618. 18:07then we can just decide the trade-off if
  619. 18:08it's worth it that particular agency
  620. 18:10owner said I don't sell my time but I
  621. 18:12would do it for 750 an hour and I was
  622. 18:14like okay and so I bought eight hours
  623. 18:17from him for six grand and I showed up
  624. 18:19to every call with like notes and
  625. 18:21recordings and I need I needed to learn
  626. 18:22how to do this we go document
  627. 18:24demonstrate duplicate so I have to
  628. 18:26figure out the checklist of all the
  629. 18:27things they do what are the behaviors
  630. 18:29and then uh you do it in front of me and
  631. 18:31then I do it in front of you and then as
  632. 18:33long as I can duplicate then I have the
  633. 18:35skill now I learned this from Lea was
  634. 18:37when we want to learn a new skill we
  635. 18:39also interview people for the skill
  636. 18:41because usually it's a company that has
  637. 18:43a void we'll get on the phone with 10 or
  638. 18:4520 people with the intention obviously
  639. 18:48of hiring you know somebody who's really
  640. 18:49good but if you talk to 10 or 20 people
  641. 18:51that are all like senior director of you
  642. 18:53know customer success he say hey walk me
  643. 18:56through some of the metrics that you
  644. 18:58track for this and then how do you move
  645. 19:00these metrics what activities do you do
  646. 19:02to change them my belief is that you can
  647. 19:04tell someone's skill by the quantity and
  648. 19:05quality of metrics they track easier
  649. 19:07thing is sales because most people who
  650. 19:08are listening get what that is if I talk
  651. 19:09to a sales director and I say first off
  652. 19:12how do you make this company more money
  653. 19:14now if they say something like well I'm
  654. 19:15going to increase sales it's like no but
  655. 19:16you're not going to be on the phone so
  656. 19:18how do you increase sales and so then
  657. 19:20it's like you start to put a little bit
  658. 19:21of pressure and then because if they
  659. 19:23can't tie the activities that they do to
  660. 19:24revenue generation on the interview then
  661. 19:26for sure they're not going to do
  662. 19:27anything work for you um and some guys
  663. 19:30like you know I'm just I'm going to R up
  664. 19:31the team and I'm going to you know get
  665. 19:32them excited we're going to do some
  666. 19:33training that's not going to be a good
  667. 19:34sales manager right if someone says well
  668. 19:37I'm going to look at you know the offer
  669. 19:38percentage that we have I'm going to
  670. 19:39look at our scheduling rates I'm going
  671. 19:40to look at our show rates if show rates
  672. 19:42are low I'm going to do this if offer
  673. 19:43rates are low we're going to look at
  674. 19:44marketing make sure the messaging is
  675. 19:45right if we're struggling with whatever
  676. 19:47a specific obstacle then what I'm going
  677. 19:48to do is I'm just going to isolate that
  678. 19:49obstacle and then we're going to drill
  679. 19:50it I'm going to look at that particular
  680. 19:51reps closing percentage and make sure
  681. 19:53that it gets up to K if he starts
  682. 19:54breaking down all of these pieces then
  683. 19:56I'm like okay not only is he tracking
  684. 19:58the metrics but he knows how to affect
  685. 19:59them and so then also when I talk to
  686. 20:01four other guys and I get on to the
  687. 20:03fourth call that first guy might have
  688. 20:05said something that I didn't know about
  689. 20:06but when I go on the fourth call I'm
  690. 20:07like so what do you think about this and
  691. 20:10then how they respond right I get better
  692. 20:12and better at it and so then I start to
  693. 20:13know what to look for and then if I
  694. 20:15still have no idea then that's when I'll
  695. 20:16pay somebody I mean I I'm still the
  696. 20:18biggest fan of one1 tutoring it's like
  697. 20:20out of Vogue now but I'll pay anybody to
  698. 20:22learn something I offered someone
  699. 20:23$350,000 for dinner he said no I offered
  700. 20:25250 and then we offered 350 he's like
  701. 20:27fine he didn't even take the money he's
  702. 20:28like I meet you for dinner cuz you're so
  703. 20:31desperate but I wanted to understand
  704. 20:32branding cuz I it was it was this thing
  705. 20:34that I I realized that I didn't
  706. 20:35understand so in gym launch it was very
  707. 20:37much an Arbitrage business like a media
  708. 20:38Arbitrage business and so everything was
  709. 20:40Quant based and that was kind of like
  710. 20:41how it was all all I cared about was
  711. 20:42just like what are ctrs what are cpms
  712. 20:44what's our cost per lead you know what
  713. 20:46what schedule what show what's close
  714. 20:47rate and that's all I cared about was
  715. 20:49just blowing as much money through that
  716. 20:50that that funnel as possible the moment
  717. 20:52that changed my life around this and
  718. 20:53this is ultimately the beginning of my
  719. 20:54path down to building a personal brand
  720. 20:56was this is going to sound embarrassing
  721. 20:58it's very embarrassing I saw Kylie
  722. 21:00Jenner on the cover of Forbes and I
  723. 21:02think she was 19 or 20 and I think I was
  724. 21:0427 at the time and I thought I was hot
  725. 21:06cuz I was like I'm taking a million
  726. 21:07and a half a month like personally and
  727. 21:08it said she was a billionaire and I was
  728. 21:09like she's a girl she's seven years
  729. 21:11younger than me cuz at the time I was
  730. 21:12still young now I'm just a white dude
  731. 21:14but like before this I was at least a
  732. 21:15young white too and so when I saw that I
  733. 21:19have this fundamental belief that if
  734. 21:20someone makes more money than you then
  735. 21:21they know something about business that
  736. 21:22you don't know and then they're better
  737. 21:23than you in some way and so you have to
  738. 21:24figure out what it is and so I looked at
  739. 21:26everything I was like I got to figure
  740. 21:27out this brand stuff like it's it's the
  741. 21:29brand I don't have a brand and so then I
  742. 21:30went through this long like do I want to
  743. 21:32be known publicly Fame has pros and cons
  744. 21:35and at this point in my life it has more
  745. 21:37Pros than cons thing is is that the pros
  746. 21:39of Fame there were some pros that I
  747. 21:40didn't expect the biggest one is
  748. 21:42recruiting our ability to attract Talent
  749. 21:44now is unparalleled and that has
  750. 21:46probably driven more Alpha from the
  751. 21:48investment than anything the companies
  752. 21:50we started investing in there was no way
  753. 21:52that some of the top talent that we put
  754. 21:53in those companies would have even taken
  755. 21:55a call with those companies but we
  756. 21:56recruit from hold they see a priv Equity
  757. 21:58Firm family office they can look at a
  758. 22:01whole bunch of our content be like these
  759. 22:02people seem okay they don't want to work
  760. 22:03at a $10 million Revenue business but if
  761. 22:05it's part of a family office where you
  762. 22:06could grow and grow your skill set
  763. 22:08that's yeah if you prove yourself we can
  764. 22:09move you over and if you want to be in a
  765. 22:10different industry we've got different
  766. 22:12Industries and if you crush it then you
  767. 22:14can come up to hold Co and then
  768. 22:16basically act as an adviser for all of
  769. 22:17those roles across the portfolio and so
  770. 22:19like our director of Cs directs all the
  771. 22:22directors of Cs in all the portfolio
  772. 22:24companies our director of sales directs
  773. 22:26and recruits the sales directors for all
  774. 22:27the portfolio companies now what what
  775. 22:29this does is it gives us a huge amount
  776. 22:31of Leverage and kind of like inside man
  777. 22:33for all the companies and so because we
  778. 22:35recruit some of the leaders they have a
  779. 22:38good relationship with us so we're not
  780. 22:39like this the board you know what I mean
  781. 22:41they're like oh no it's Alex and Lila
  782. 22:42and they're they're the ones who brought
  783. 22:43me in my first three interviews were
  784. 22:45with acquisition. comom and then they
  785. 22:46put me into this business as my last two
  786. 22:48interviews and so that's more or less
  787. 22:50the process that that we run in order to
  788. 22:52place Talent so that's been a huge
  789. 22:53that's been probably the biggest
  790. 22:55unforeseen benefit from Fame has been
  791. 22:58ability to recruit Talent um obviously
  792. 23:00the deal flow stuff is I mean that's the
  793. 23:02the obvious benefit those are probably
  794. 23:03the two biggest ones access to people to
  795. 23:05be candid with you I don't reach out to
  796. 23:07many people why take this the way I mean
  797. 23:09it to everyone who's listening I'm
  798. 23:10pretty sure I know what I need to do
  799. 23:11what activities I need to do in order to
  800. 23:13hit the goals that we have in the next
  801. 23:1412 to 24 months it is straightforward
  802. 23:17and so the only thing that separates me
  803. 23:18from that is doing it and so I basically
  804. 23:21try to eliminate all meetings there's a
  805. 23:23concept of efficiency versus
  806. 23:24Effectiveness yeah and you're clearly
  807. 23:27very efficient how do you know that
  808. 23:28you're
  809. 23:28how do you have such certainty around
  810. 23:30that the outcomes that we've generated
  811. 23:31so far you know in December of 2016 I
  812. 23:33had 1,000 bucks and we have a lot more
  813. 23:34than 1,000 bucks now how much of your
  814. 23:36success based on thousands of hours of
  815. 23:37hard work versus high IQ you deconstruct
  816. 23:40everything on a skill set basis but
  817. 23:41isn't there a minimum IQ that you need
  818. 23:43to be successful in business I think it
  819. 23:44depends on the business and it depends
  820. 23:46on the timeline I've seen all manners of
  821. 23:48business owners walk through our doors
  822. 23:50here at acquisition. comom I've seen
  823. 23:51some guys with janitorial businesses own
  824. 23:53$40 $50 million a year and I wouldn't
  825. 23:55say that they were super high IQ they
  826. 23:57just stuck with it for 20 years I think
  827. 23:59the the narrower the field of focus the
  828. 24:01lower the IQ requirement because
  829. 24:03fundamentally if you have a sound
  830. 24:05original model and you continue to try
  831. 24:08on a long enough time Horizon eventually
  832. 24:10you try something and it does work and
  833. 24:12then that gives you the next you know
  834. 24:13Peg you know up on the on the ladder and
  835. 24:16you just keep doing that I think we're a
  836. 24:17lot of entrepreneurs get in trouble is
  837. 24:18they try too many things so you just
  838. 24:19don't get enough failures in a narrow
  839. 24:21enough scope so that you can move
  840. 24:23forward I've been really thinking about
  841. 24:24this Paradigm of transactional versus
  842. 24:26relational businesses I'm very much a
  843. 24:28straight shooter and sometimes people
  844. 24:29are put off by that by the transactional
  845. 24:32nature but it's meant to be an honest
  846. 24:33trade and sometimes historically I would
  847. 24:35feel bad about that and then I noticed
  848. 24:37an interesting thing that anytime that
  849. 24:39somebody pushes back on that and says
  850. 24:40I'm like relationship I'm not
  851. 24:41transaction they have never executed not
  852. 24:43a single time somebody that pushes back
  853. 24:45on this construct on this kind of like
  854. 24:47explicit exchange have they actually
  855. 24:49executed so it makes me feel a little
  856. 24:50bit more confident in that I think that
  857. 24:52great relationships are built on great
  858. 24:54transactions what do you think about
  859. 24:56this so I'm glad that this is where we
  860. 24:58went because that's wholeheartedly agree
  861. 25:00I mean Lea and I have an explicit
  862. 25:01agreement of our exchange we we resit
  863. 25:02that agreement if we feel like one of us
  864. 25:03is out of exchange with the other or
  865. 25:05we're not meeting the other person's
  866. 25:06needs but I genuinely believe everything
  867. 25:08is transactional and there's just people
  868. 25:10who realize it or admit it and people
  869. 25:11who don't fundamentally if you are not
  870. 25:12rewarded for a relationship on a long
  871. 25:14enough time rise and you will leave it I
  872. 25:15think there's two aspects there one is
  873. 25:17the transactional aspect is only
  874. 25:19highlighted when it's really out of sync
  875. 25:21so for example if if we have a
  876. 25:23relationship uh you know I make you $100
  877. 25:25million you make me $200 million I don't
  878. 25:27think that's a problem yeah I think
  879. 25:28we're going to be best friends I think
  880. 25:31but over enough of a time if it's so
  881. 25:33lopsided then people naturally kind of
  882. 25:35go to like hey there needs to be more
  883. 25:36transactional ising for for me or more
  884. 25:39benefit for me that's where it really
  885. 25:40gets off of sync with these extremes and
  886. 25:42you look at Partnerships too you look at
  887. 25:43co-founders or 50/50 I don't think if
  888. 25:45somebody's doing 55 45 I don't think
  889. 25:47there's I've never seen a problem it's
  890. 25:49when it becomes like 9010 the other
  891. 25:51person tries to kind of guilt the other
  892. 25:52person saying like well I thought we
  893. 25:53were co-founders I thought we started
  894. 25:54this together but I I think you need a
  895. 25:56pretty wide disparity before becomes an
  896. 25:58isent something I learned from Lila that
  897. 26:00helped me out a lot in the earlier years
  898. 26:01is she said never count anybody else's
  899. 26:03money that's proven so profitable for me
  900. 26:05to just say what do I have available to
  901. 26:07me and does this does this deal make
  902. 26:09sense for me if this guy makes 20
  903. 26:11billion on this deal but the economics
  904. 26:14based on my side work fine and comparing
  905. 26:18those economics to the similar amount of
  906. 26:20activities or effort that I have to put
  907. 26:21in all the other vehicles that I could
  908. 26:23consider if I get the best return on
  909. 26:24this thing then I'm good with it and so
  910. 26:27I've I've had this um construct for
  911. 26:30Value creation which has been well
  912. 26:31rather value capturing which is there's
  913. 26:34the the the value that you add which is
  914. 26:36thing one your ability to negotiate that
  915. 26:39against that value how much of that can
  916. 26:41you capture third Vector is how many
  917. 26:43other people can do it that thing and
  918. 26:46then fourth is what's the risk you take
  919. 26:47on and I think that with those four
  920. 26:50elements you can usually look at most
  921. 26:52deals and kind of know the major levers
  922. 26:55that are at play so walk me through one
  923. 26:56of your private Equity deals using that
  924. 26:58framework if I bring brand to a deal
  925. 27:03then that's going to be a huge amount of
  926. 27:04value the ability that I to negotiate to
  927. 27:07capture as much of that value as
  928. 27:08possible is predicated on the idea that
  929. 27:09I have many other deals that I could do
  930. 27:11as well that are lined up behind this
  931. 27:13other person and you're negotiation
  932. 27:14skill set I still believe that all
  933. 27:15negotiation happens before you sit sit
  934. 27:17down to the table um the big stuff it's
  935. 27:19fundamentally Supply demand I just have
  936. 27:22always seen it that way so it's like if
  937. 27:23I want to have crazy terms to get into a
  938. 27:25relationship with a girl for example if
  939. 27:28I have no demand for me it's going to be
  940. 27:29very hard for me to get my terms if I
  941. 27:31have a line out the door I can ask 100
  942. 27:33people and one of them will say yes to
  943. 27:34my terms right so one is what's the
  944. 27:36value that I bring two is what are my
  945. 27:38skills at negotiating capturing as much
  946. 27:40of that value as possible three and this
  947. 27:42also hints out Supply demand which is
  948. 27:43how many other people are available who
  949. 27:45can do that same thing this is like a
  950. 27:46common one with like a sales guy right
  951. 27:47so it's like okay well I brought in 3
  952. 27:49million this year for the business it's
  953. 27:51like okay well your ability to negotiate
  954. 27:52the value fine you might be good at
  955. 27:54sales and be able to you know go back
  956. 27:55and forth but I've got 10 other guys who
  957. 27:57can do the exact same thing as you you
  958. 27:59were just selling candid a baby you were
  959. 28:00selling something very very attractive
  960. 28:02right and then finally it's what's the
  961. 28:04risk that's taken on and that's actually
  962. 28:05the the most recent one which sounds
  963. 28:07silly on an investor podcast to bring
  964. 28:08that up but we were talking to a high
  965. 28:10level employee that we wanted to bring
  966. 28:12in and he was like hey I would like
  967. 28:13shares of the business kind of upfront
  968. 28:14because I'm going to be you know
  969. 28:15forgoing this other stuff basically the
  970. 28:17tldr was you want to be compensated as a
  971. 28:20business owner without taking on the
  972. 28:21risk of a business own unless you're
  973. 28:22willing to put the same amount of skin
  974. 28:23in the game as I am or a business owner
  975. 28:26would in your position when you started
  976. 28:27yeah EX years ago right well yeah then
  977. 28:30that's that's not appropriate so from
  978. 28:31your perspective it should be about
  979. 28:33their opportunity cost one of your
  980. 28:34competitors and you don't have to offer
  981. 28:36much more just because they're I want
  982. 28:37people to be happy to be very clear like
  983. 28:39what would it take is still is always
  984. 28:41one of my one of my favorite questions
  985. 28:42if I have somebody who's oneof one who
  986. 28:43can create a ton of value then the
  987. 28:45supply demand shifts in their favor
  988. 28:46you've taught me by the way about a
  989. 28:48players not like giving them what they
  990. 28:50want at the margins don't be cheap with
  991. 28:51a players even though they negotiate
  992. 28:53hard I've learned so much from Lila
  993. 28:54about business she was really the one
  994. 28:56who's pushed me to be like let's pay
  995. 28:57above Market I was like why pay above
  996. 28:59Market let's pay Market Why Pay above
  997. 29:02Market because you get so much more so
  998. 29:04on one level you'll be able to attract
  999. 29:05the a players if you're paying a blood
  1000. 29:06Market but I think that once the person
  1001. 29:09comes in the door all of their behavior
  1002. 29:11is going to be predicated on the the
  1003. 29:12reinforcement Loops that you have within
  1004. 29:13the business and so I I think that it's
  1005. 29:15the ticket of Entry like the comp is the
  1006. 29:17ticket of Entry but all their
  1007. 29:18performance is going to be based on how
  1008. 29:20well they are managed and led and their
  1009. 29:21opportunities for growth um and honestly
  1010. 29:23just like how much they sync within the
  1011. 29:24culture of the business based on how we
  1012. 29:26do things and if they're rewarded
  1013. 29:27frequently doing things the way we want
  1014. 29:28them to be done that make us the most
  1015. 29:29money then they're going to be they're
  1016. 29:31going to really like working here and
  1017. 29:32then that will ultimately like the big
  1018. 29:34Vegas headlights for a plus Talent is
  1019. 29:36unlocking discretionary effort I want
  1020. 29:38someone's shower time and I'm open about
  1021. 29:40that if someone Works based on threat of
  1022. 29:42punishment which is that you lose your
  1023. 29:43job right then you will get as much
  1024. 29:46effort as required to not lose your job
  1025. 29:48for the most skilled people that
  1026. 29:50requires the least effort for them to do
  1027. 29:52as little as required to keep their job
  1028. 29:53and those are the people that you lose
  1029. 29:54the most Alpha on in terms of how much
  1030. 29:56they could add if they really tried I
  1031. 29:58mean if you wanted to zoom all the way
  1032. 30:00out like Le and I's purpose of of all of
  1033. 30:02this stuff is to show that having a way
  1034. 30:05of running a company that is off of
  1035. 30:07Praise not punishment is a more
  1036. 30:08profitable way to run a business and
  1037. 30:11people don't hate you but no one's going
  1038. 30:13to believe us until we have multiple
  1039. 30:14billions and then people then ask but
  1040. 30:16that is our entire thesis Daniel's here
  1041. 30:18he he'll vouch for it and the unlocking
  1042. 30:21discretionary effort is that only
  1043. 30:23captured through Equity could that be
  1044. 30:25captured through salary and how do you
  1045. 30:27oh yeah yeah no it doesn't have to be
  1046. 30:28Equity at all I think it's just how you
  1047. 30:29treat people whether they're rewarded
  1048. 30:30for going above and beyond and I think
  1049. 30:32reward Cycles are way too latent in most
  1050. 30:34people's business and arbitrary yeah
  1051. 30:35well latent in terms of like delayed if
  1052. 30:37someone does something we want to reward
  1053. 30:39in minutes a paycheck is so hard to
  1054. 30:41attribute a behavior that you did my
  1055. 30:43closest friend Dr caty is like a
  1056. 30:45behavioral scientist you know genius guy
  1057. 30:47he showed me this chart and it like it
  1058. 30:48changed the way I saw everything he said
  1059. 30:50this is a chart of how to train a dog
  1060. 30:51how to sit on one vector it had yeah a
  1061. 30:53number of attempts to until they learn
  1062. 30:54the trick and how delayed the trainer
  1063. 30:58was before they gave them a treat when
  1064. 30:59they sat and so if you gave the dog the
  1065. 31:02treat immediately it took a couple of
  1066. 31:04times and they learned how to sit
  1067. 31:06because we reared them immediately after
  1068. 31:07they did so they could they could tie
  1069. 31:08the two together if you waited 5 Seconds
  1070. 31:11it would be like 20 tries if you waited
  1071. 31:1345 seconds it was a zillion tries after
  1072. 31:16a minute the dog was untrainable it
  1073. 31:19would never learn how to sit now what
  1074. 31:21where it gets like the 2011 version of
  1075. 31:23this is but that you still continue to
  1076. 31:24give them a treat which means you were
  1077. 31:25training them you were just training to
  1078. 31:26do them to do something else else and so
  1079. 31:28I think about this a lot within the
  1080. 31:29context of compensation systems but comp
  1081. 31:32with you know paychecks is at such a
  1082. 31:33delay that it's a very effective way of
  1083. 31:35getting someone to join your company in
  1084. 31:37a very terrible way of getting them to
  1085. 31:38work as hard as they can without us
  1086. 31:39sounding like Psychopaths do you believe
  1087. 31:41in operate conditioning so somebody does
  1088. 31:44something you give them a bonus on
  1089. 31:45Friday 100% And do you think there's any
  1090. 31:47exception tooper and condition I don't
  1091. 31:48even believe in free will tell me more
  1092. 31:50well we behave in ways that we have been
  1093. 31:52rewarded for in the past if you can
  1094. 31:54control all the variables you can
  1095. 31:55control someone's Behavior now that
  1096. 31:56sounds like psychopath stuff but I don't
  1097. 31:59see it that way I just see it as more of
  1098. 32:00a statement of fact if I wanted everyone
  1099. 32:02in here to take all of their clothes off
  1100. 32:03I could guarantee that I could do it I
  1101. 32:05would just raise the temperature in this
  1102. 32:06room into a point and we just stay in
  1103. 32:07here until I lock the doors and I raise
  1104. 32:08the temperature and then eventually all
  1105. 32:09of us would take our clothes off and so
  1106. 32:11if I can change the conditions to get a
  1107. 32:12behavior then did that person at Free
  1108. 32:15Will and so BF Skinner is one of the you
  1109. 32:17know the the forefathers of this
  1110. 32:18behavioral he has this quote that I just
  1111. 32:20love and it'll be at the beginning of
  1112. 32:21one of my books but everyone says that
  1113. 32:23you can lead a horse to water but you
  1114. 32:25can't make it drink he said false he
  1115. 32:27said if I salted the horse's mouth and I
  1116. 32:29dehydrated the horse for weeks and then
  1117. 32:31I put its mouth right in front of water
  1118. 32:33I can veritably guarantee that it will
  1119. 32:34drink when I think about like sales
  1120. 32:35processes for that reason is that there
  1121. 32:37is a perfect sales process there is a
  1122. 32:39way that we can get it so that we can
  1123. 32:40control all of the variables and every
  1124. 32:42single person would buy now it may not
  1125. 32:44be worth the return on investment which
  1126. 32:46is a separate question to create that
  1127. 32:48and then you have the tradeoffs that you
  1128. 32:49have within a business but the same
  1129. 32:50things exist when you're when you're
  1130. 32:51when you're hiring someone so like if I
  1131. 32:53know we're getting into a little bit of
  1132. 32:54the the offside of business it's hard
  1133. 32:55for me to to to stay away but there's
  1134. 32:57this whole whole concept of you know
  1135. 32:58hire for attitude and train for aptitude
  1136. 33:01and you've heard plenty of these things
  1137. 33:02right you hire for the smallest skill
  1138. 33:04deficiency period it's just that
  1139. 33:07attitude has bundled terms in terms of
  1140. 33:09language and so if I say I want someone
  1141. 33:11who has Charisma Charisma if I say be
  1142. 33:14charismatic to a child even if they
  1143. 33:16understand what the word means they
  1144. 33:18can't be charismatic they have to then
  1145. 33:20translate that into smile when you walk
  1146. 33:22into a room nod your head when someone's
  1147. 33:24listening speak louder when someone says
  1148. 33:27something say it back to them you know
  1149. 33:29it's a bundled term for 30 sets of
  1150. 33:31behaviors and then those behaviors are
  1151. 33:33trainable now I believe in the concept
  1152. 33:36of hire for attitude not aptitude
  1153. 33:38because to teach someone to be kind
  1154. 33:41maybe 50 different micro Skillets that I
  1155. 33:44would have to teach and that's probably
  1156. 33:45not worth a return on investment now in
  1157. 33:47a higher level role it might be easier
  1158. 33:49to teach someone to be kind than to
  1159. 33:50teach them 20 years of Finance or just
  1160. 33:52find someone else right we believe at
  1161. 33:55acquisition. comom that everything is
  1162. 33:56trainable but everything is not worth
  1163. 33:59training what about coachability
  1164. 34:01deconstruct that what makes somebody
  1165. 34:02more trainable someone who is coachable
  1166. 34:04I would use at least our internal
  1167. 34:06definition around this was just just
  1168. 34:07intelligence intelligence is rate of
  1169. 34:08learning if we Define learning as same
  1170. 34:10condition new Behavior then if I say hey
  1171. 34:13enter this phone and say the script and
  1172. 34:15the phone rings and then you don't say
  1173. 34:16the script and I say now read this
  1174. 34:18script phone rings again same condition
  1175. 34:19and then they read the script new
  1176. 34:20Behavior they have learned if I can do
  1177. 34:22that in one repetition with somebody and
  1178. 34:24it takes somebody else five repetitions
  1179. 34:26the first person is more intelligent
  1180. 34:27some people say more coachable than the
  1181. 34:29other person and so I think you aply
  1182. 34:32pointed out that one of the number one
  1183. 34:34things that we look for now is just
  1184. 34:37general intelligence basically our
  1185. 34:39return on investment for what we put in
  1186. 34:41to train someone we can get down oneth
  1187. 34:45if the person has higher general
  1188. 34:47intelligence and so this is where um
  1189. 34:49sometimes you have people who come in
  1190. 34:51with lots of experience and so they have
  1191. 34:53a lot of skills but they're actually not
  1192. 34:54very intelligent and so what you see is
  1193. 34:56pretty much all your going to get
  1194. 34:58because the amount of effort it takes
  1195. 34:59them to teach one or two more skills you
  1196. 35:02could probably teach a younger Junior
  1197. 35:04hungrier more intelligent person in you
  1198. 35:07know the same period of time but then
  1199. 35:09once I've matched that person or once
  1200. 35:10that candidate has matched the more
  1201. 35:12experienced one they blow past them then
  1202. 35:14a subset of intelligence is ego and the
  1203. 35:16ability to to take feedback sure but you
  1204. 35:18don't believe in trauma I no I do
  1205. 35:19believe in trauma I believe in it in
  1206. 35:21defining it which is a permanent I'll
  1207. 35:22say this way I don't believe trauma is
  1208. 35:24bad it's a permanent change of behavior
  1209. 35:25based on an aversive stimulus so if I
  1210. 35:29was a kid and I touched the stove and I
  1211. 35:31burned my hand that is something that
  1212. 35:33taught me something now if I never touch
  1213. 35:35a stove again from that then the stove
  1214. 35:37traumatized me so the followup question
  1215. 35:39is was that bad fundamentally you can
  1216. 35:41imagine me with like a room of like
  1217. 35:42holistic healers who are like doing Bell
  1218. 35:44things and like I think you're storing
  1219. 35:45your trauma in your back I'm like how do
  1220. 35:47you know that where point to the anatomy
  1221. 35:50please tell me where I'm storing trauma
  1222. 35:53what does that even mean and so by
  1223. 35:54seeing this world the world this way at
  1224. 35:56least as we do it and I'm going say
  1225. 35:57saying everyone should this is just it's
  1226. 35:58helped me see the world more clearly I
  1227. 36:00think it's taken a lot of the Gob
  1228. 36:02gobbledygook um out of the many things
  1229. 36:04that are on social media and the
  1230. 36:06internet and it's also I think helped a
  1231. 36:07lot of our team in some of these things
  1232. 36:09I had an interview with um a candidate
  1233. 36:12uh that we ended up hiring um and he's
  1234. 36:14like you know uh I just have a lot of
  1235. 36:16demons and I was like what does that
  1236. 36:17mean and he was like I just you know
  1237. 36:20sometimes like I can I can sabotage my
  1238. 36:22success cuz I'm like afraid of being
  1239. 36:23successful I was like you under skilled
  1240. 36:26you don't know how to beh in conditions
  1241. 36:28that's all this is so when this new
  1242. 36:31condition occurs we're going to do a
  1243. 36:32different Behavior than you've done in
  1244. 36:33the past if you can do that we're fine
  1245. 36:35and he was like I can do that I was like
  1246. 36:37okay both could actually be true that
  1247. 36:39could have this fear but but you
  1248. 36:41desensitize the fear through repetition
  1249. 36:43in that condition totally habituation
  1250. 36:45absolutely so you talk about the one
  1251. 36:47meta skill that's overshadows all other
  1252. 36:49meta skills what is that meta skill I me
  1253. 36:51I think the ability to learn is the meta
  1254. 36:52skill and you know intelligence is like
  1255. 36:53your rate of learning I think that's the
  1256. 36:55big thing from a business perspective I
  1257. 36:57think the big meta skill is being able
  1258. 36:58to get other people to do stuff cuz
  1259. 37:00fundamentally if you only had that skill
  1260. 37:01you get everyone else to do everything
  1261. 37:02else you need at least in the small
  1262. 37:03business World which is where I live so
  1263. 37:05you know Sub sub 200 employees whatever
  1264. 37:08um the vast majority of business owners
  1265. 37:10conflate CEO and business owner they see
  1266. 37:13them as one and the same yeah and so
  1267. 37:14fundamentally an owner uh a good owner
  1268. 37:17rather um can bring all of the people
  1269. 37:20who can run the business like right now
  1270. 37:21if I own a share of Apple then that
  1271. 37:24business functions without me if I can
  1272. 37:26get other people to do basically a
  1273. 37:28business doesn't require so leverage
  1274. 37:29yeah some form of Leverage exactly what
  1275. 37:31are the different forms of Leverage so I
  1276. 37:32think I'd be stealing from Nal here but
  1277. 37:34I mean he has I I remember with C so
  1278. 37:36it's like code content collaboration
  1279. 37:38which is what I say so getting other
  1280. 37:39people to do things and capital right
  1281. 37:41those are the four that he brings up but
  1282. 37:42I think there's I mean fundamentally
  1283. 37:43Leverage is just getting more for what
  1284. 37:44you put in um and so in any situation
  1285. 37:47where you get more for what you put in
  1286. 37:48then you have leverage you have several
  1287. 37:49dozen companies does basically managing
  1288. 37:52hard or micromanaging ever work or is it
  1289. 37:55about aligning incentives really good
  1290. 37:56question I want to say yes I think
  1291. 37:58aligning incentives is people can't have
  1292. 38:01incentives that are against the benefit
  1293. 38:02of everyone else so that feels like
  1294. 38:04number one we don't want to have
  1295. 38:05something that gets in our way but like
  1296. 38:06micromanagement and abdication sit on uh
  1297. 38:09equal opposite sides of uh and I think
  1298. 38:11it's more of a dichotomy to be managed
  1299. 38:13rather than a problem to be solved if
  1300. 38:15you tell someone to do every single
  1301. 38:16thing like at some point you've lost all
  1302. 38:18of your leverage and why bother on the
  1303. 38:20other hand if you delegate something and
  1304. 38:21stats go down you abdicated it you did
  1305. 38:23not delegate it if you delegate it and
  1306. 38:25stats remain the same or go up then you
  1307. 38:26have properly delegated so that gives us
  1308. 38:28a very easy limus test for when people
  1309. 38:29move up in the business and they replace
  1310. 38:31themselves in a role that helps us do
  1311. 38:33that from the micromanagement
  1312. 38:34perspective this is probably like
  1313. 38:36recency bias but I just read have you
  1314. 38:37seen the whole founder mode I think
  1315. 38:39there's some truth to it I think it's
  1316. 38:41less about micromanaging and more about
  1317. 38:44what are the behaviors that a Founder is
  1318. 38:46doing that are not duplicated when they
  1319. 38:49leave I'll give you a really micro
  1320. 38:50example of this Caleb who's directs all
  1321. 38:52of our media he was the first person we
  1322. 38:54hired uh when we wanted to get in this
  1323. 38:55content game he was so good to film with
  1324. 38:57you know he moved up and he replaced
  1325. 38:59himself I was like I hate filming this
  1326. 39:01is not good I don't want to do this
  1327. 39:02anymore and so then we're like okay what
  1328. 39:04is it that because we're like he just
  1329. 39:06has such a great Vibe I was like a Vibe
  1330. 39:08is not a thing so what are the behaviors
  1331. 39:10that he does during a shoot that other
  1332. 39:12people are not replicating and so it
  1333. 39:14turned out uh one is when we were
  1334. 39:17talking he would be nodding his head
  1335. 39:18behind the camera and when we'd make a
  1336. 39:20good point he'd be like he would throw
  1337. 39:22his thumb up like that was awesome and
  1338. 39:24immediately after the the podcast or
  1339. 39:27what you know whatever the recording
  1340. 39:28session was over he would give us a fist
  1341. 39:30bump and then he would have notes on his
  1342. 39:32phone that he'd be like hey followup
  1343. 39:34question hey followup question hey
  1344. 39:35follow question and so I was like this
  1345. 39:37is so enjoyable so he had some basic
  1346. 39:40business context so that he could ask
  1347. 39:42good questions he was being reinforcing
  1348. 39:45very low latency while I'm actually
  1349. 39:47doing the recording in multiple ways
  1350. 39:48both visually from how he's nodding and
  1351. 39:50raising it th up and at the end he get I
  1352. 39:51basically had another reward cycle where
  1353. 39:52he gave me a bump saying like awesome
  1354. 39:54job you crushed it once we took that
  1355. 39:56checklist that became the videographer
  1356. 39:58training checklist has he been fist
  1357. 39:59bumping oh every time we then duplicated
  1358. 40:02all of those activities with other
  1359. 40:04videographers that before this we did
  1360. 40:05not enjoy filming with all of a sudden
  1361. 40:07we enjoyed filming with them as well and
  1362. 40:08all of a sudden they all had great Vibes
  1363. 40:10and so I say that as a microcosm of the
  1364. 40:13founder mode question that we began with
  1365. 40:15which is I think that soft skills are
  1366. 40:18hard to quantify but they are still
  1367. 40:20skills and so it just means that there
  1368. 40:23are more subskills underneath of them
  1369. 40:25that we have to learn and observe so
  1370. 40:27that we can duplicate it your
  1371. 40:28deconstructing skill sets probably some
  1372. 40:30people think you're crazy other people
  1373. 40:31probably love it like how did people
  1374. 40:33adapt to the style of management I wish
  1375. 40:35my team was here because I think they
  1376. 40:36would answer the question even better
  1377. 40:37but I would say that this is our view of
  1378. 40:40the world if this is a view that you
  1379. 40:41don't agree with that's totally okay you
  1380. 40:43just won't do well here one of the
  1381. 40:45benefits doing a call back to the fame
  1382. 40:46thing is that almost everybody who comes
  1383. 40:48in the company has consumed a lot of my
  1384. 40:49stuff and so they kind of know how we
  1385. 40:51operate and so we have such a speed up
  1386. 40:55on the cultural kind of assimilation
  1387. 40:57Andor rejection so if someone doesn't
  1388. 40:59fit in like we had somebody who just
  1389. 41:00started uh three days ago and it third
  1390. 41:02day he was like I don't think this is
  1391. 41:03for me and we're like cool do push that
  1392. 41:05Tony zapo famously from from Vegas had
  1393. 41:07he would give people a bonus to quit I
  1394. 41:08think after that first month I think
  1395. 41:09it's a brilliant idea I think that the
  1396. 41:11skills that everything is is a skilled
  1397. 41:13efficiency perspective is incredibly
  1398. 41:15refreshing for the vast majority of the
  1399. 41:16team because that is how we manage and
  1400. 41:19so instead of being like you suck or you
  1401. 41:21are this way insert label which then
  1402. 41:23feels out of their control say hey
  1403. 41:25you're a dick very hard toach someone to
  1404. 41:27not be a dick but if you say hey these
  1405. 41:30are five things that you do that people
  1406. 41:32complain about and we under these
  1407. 41:33conditions we need you to change your
  1408. 41:34behavior and then all of a sudden
  1409. 41:36they're like oh thank you for the
  1410. 41:37clarity and so the difficulty in
  1411. 41:39managing this way is that it takes more
  1412. 41:41work we have to be more precise with our
  1413. 41:43language and we be more precise with the
  1414. 41:46deficiencies that someone is exhibiting
  1415. 41:47this whole everything focus on Behavior
  1416. 41:49permeates through the entire business
  1417. 41:51and so I'll give you an example of the
  1418. 41:53team thing and then I'll example the
  1419. 41:54one-on-one thing from the the team
  1420. 41:55perspective most business own owners or
  1421. 41:57teams are accustomed to reporting data
  1422. 41:59on performance and then when they get
  1423. 42:00into that Loop they start just providing
  1424. 42:02more and more and more and more more
  1425. 42:03data I had to do a breakdown for the
  1426. 42:04team and say hey if this goes up what do
  1427. 42:07we do if this goes down what do we do if
  1428. 42:09we don't do anything based on if this
  1429. 42:11data moves we do not need it and so all
  1430. 42:12of a sudden it took this these massive
  1431. 42:14sheets and then just simplified them to
  1432. 42:15three or four pieces of data that we
  1433. 42:16look at it's like great because these
  1434. 42:18affect our Behavior now we can have a
  1435. 42:19productive meeting and so from a from a
  1436. 42:22large perspective then we say this is
  1437. 42:24the this is the the data that's off
  1438. 42:25these are the behaviors that we're going
  1439. 42:26to do to fix that and that's what we're
  1440. 42:28going to start doing tomorrow with the
  1441. 42:29team doing XYZ from a 101 perspective
  1442. 42:31it's addressing the skill to sufficiency
  1443. 42:33they have they may have 10 things that
  1444. 42:34are off that they're working on who
  1445. 42:36determines that manager or the leader
  1446. 42:38whoever the leader is so it's not meant
  1447. 42:39to be like here I think you should be
  1448. 42:41more charismatic it's based on outputs
  1449. 42:43on the metrics that that you're
  1450. 42:44responsible for and we would never say
  1451. 42:46be more Caris we say you need to smile
  1452. 42:47more is yeah is there speed of feedback
  1453. 42:50is there like a natural speed like I try
  1454. 42:52to goes back to negotiation there's a
  1455. 42:54negotiator Chris Vos he says if you need
  1456. 42:55to let the air out of a and do it slowly
  1457. 42:58even with a hostage negotiation if you
  1458. 43:00have 3 hours do it like 10 minutes at a
  1459. 43:02time do you believe in that I think
  1460. 43:03giving one piece of feedback at a time
  1461. 43:04is incredibly important but I'll give
  1462. 43:05you an example we started running
  1463. 43:06workshops here at our headquarters and a
  1464. 43:08lot of our team although subject matter
  1465. 43:10experts are not good at presenting that
  1466. 43:11wasn't a skill set that they had we had
  1467. 43:13to teach the whole team how to present
  1468. 43:15in a way that other people liked and
  1469. 43:17would continue to watch and learn from
  1470. 43:18and so the way that we did that was you
  1471. 43:21know someone would get on stage and they
  1472. 43:22would you know begin their presentation
  1473. 43:24and they'd be 30 seconds in we'd be stop
  1474. 43:26say it this way way change your tone do
  1475. 43:28it again stop go back to the beginning
  1476. 43:30one more time like this go back to
  1477. 43:32conditioning them at the behavior not
  1478. 43:33like 30 minutes later and oh it's
  1479. 43:35useless it's completely useless I
  1480. 43:37genuinely believe that 95% of businesses
  1481. 43:40have no idea how to train they mostly
  1482. 43:42survive on luck they plow 20 people in
  1483. 43:44they see that five people work because
  1484. 43:46those five people came in with a small
  1485. 43:48enough skill deficiency at Baseline that
  1486. 43:50they could be successful in the role the
  1487. 43:52other 15 fall off and that's how they
  1488. 43:53run their business a lot of people are
  1489. 43:54on Zoom calls and they want to give
  1490. 43:55feedback to somebody you just record
  1491. 43:57that and then go over it and we slack
  1492. 43:59them in real time it's way faster that
  1493. 44:00way so we' be like hey bring this up hey
  1494. 44:02your tones off try this do you self-
  1495. 44:04select for employees that want to
  1496. 44:05develop themselves it's actually the
  1497. 44:07number one thing that people come to
  1498. 44:08acquisition. comom for the number one
  1499. 44:09thing that people say they're coming
  1500. 44:10here for is growth people follow my
  1501. 44:12stuff they know that I'm a big skills
  1502. 44:14guy yeah and so they usually want more
  1503. 44:16of them and we do our very best to
  1504. 44:18provide them you're obviously highly
  1505. 44:19skilled I mentioned you're worth
  1506. 44:21hundreds of millions of dollars what
  1507. 44:22skills are you working on right now
  1508. 44:24let's break this into two buckets
  1509. 44:25knowing about and knowing how to is
  1510. 44:27basically the two big buckets and where
  1511. 44:30the biggest blind spots that I've had in
  1512. 44:31my career are me not knowing about I
  1513. 44:33didn't know private Equity existed I
  1514. 44:34didn't know that was a thing right so
  1515. 44:37that was like I couldn't get good at
  1516. 44:38private Equity until I learned about
  1517. 44:39private Equity knowing about private
  1518. 44:41equity and how it works is very
  1519. 44:42different from knowing how to run a
  1520. 44:45private Equity Fund raise funds deal
  1521. 44:47with LPS negotiate deals do deals Source
  1522. 44:49deals all of the micro things that occur
  1523. 44:51underneath of that I would say that for
  1524. 44:52me right now from the learning about
  1525. 44:54side I'm still learning more on the the
  1526. 44:57fund stuff I'm still very very green
  1527. 44:59there and then the how-to is really
  1528. 45:01going to come from that will be like my
  1529. 45:03second kind of order of skills that I'll
  1530. 45:05have to break down the thing that we
  1531. 45:06have right now is we have tons of deal
  1532. 45:08flow and we know how to create value so
  1533. 45:09those are the two things we have the
  1534. 45:10things that we've been lacking have been
  1535. 45:12the funds to execute honestly the amount
  1536. 45:14of deals that we could do at the size
  1537. 45:15that we want so what's the largest deals
  1538. 45:17that that you get from a deal standpoint
  1539. 45:19we I mean we got companies doing 300
  1540. 45:20million a year coming to us and what are
  1541. 45:21they looking for honestly most people
  1542. 45:23come to us for expertise they watch some
  1543. 45:25of our deep stuff on you know scaling a
  1544. 45:27sales team from 0 to 40 guys in 90 days
  1545. 45:30and they're like how did you do that can
  1546. 45:31you do that for me and we're like yeah
  1547. 45:33but not for
  1548. 45:355% and so then that's really where the
  1549. 45:37negotiation you know kind of gets in
  1550. 45:38it's like okay well if we do do this
  1551. 45:40then we're going to 5x the value of the
  1552. 45:42company people come to us because they
  1553. 45:44have some constraint they either have
  1554. 45:45identified or haven't do you have a
  1555. 45:47vesting schedule where you grow it five
  1556. 45:48times and you're like okay my job is
  1557. 45:50done do you continue to stay with the
  1558. 45:51business so my CFO gave me this and um
  1559. 45:54and I've I've been trying to to stick
  1560. 45:56with it which is um one of his friends
  1561. 45:58was a very successful VC and what they
  1562. 46:01figured out was that when they doubl
  1563. 46:03down on the ones that they did really
  1564. 46:04well on they did even better and so um
  1565. 46:08you know I would say if you had asked me
  1566. 46:09five years ago ex feed the winners
  1567. 46:11starve starers exactly but I mean it's
  1568. 46:13harsh but it's it's the Venture yes it's
  1569. 46:15kind of the same thing I mean we
  1570. 46:16absolutely pay more attention to the
  1571. 46:18companies that are the biggest ones in
  1572. 46:19the portfolio and in terms of us kind of
  1573. 46:22like letting off the gas pedal once we
  1574. 46:23have a 5x it's like kind of the opposite
  1575. 46:25of that the better they do the more we
  1576. 46:26push so I don't often do this but what
  1577. 46:28questions do you have for me if you were
  1578. 46:30in my position what would you do so I
  1579. 46:32think there's a general situation where
  1580. 46:34it's the ultimate grass is greener every
  1581. 46:36private Equity person that you talk to
  1582. 46:38will say Do Your Own Thing and every
  1583. 46:40person that says Do Your Own Thing will
  1584. 46:42say private Equity I think there's a
  1585. 46:43couple ways first of all meta comment I
  1586. 46:45would say is I think you're very right
  1587. 46:48to take your time on this decision I had
  1588. 46:50a friend he went around he's actually my
  1589. 46:51co-host Eric torberg and he spent 18
  1590. 46:54months I would see him ask the same
  1591. 46:55questions to people I'm like this guy
  1592. 46:56he's just not executing like what is he
  1593. 46:58doing just do something and like figure
  1594. 46:59it out and then he built this incredible
  1595. 47:01business and he had this huge launch and
  1596. 47:03it was very successful I was just blown
  1597. 47:05away by like how somebody could
  1598. 47:07consciously gather information so I
  1599. 47:09commend the thoughtfulness because it's
  1600. 47:11a very big decision and it's
  1601. 47:12irreversible yeah it's one of those
  1602. 47:14things to quote Jeff Bezos it's a door
  1603. 47:16it's a non-revolving door yeah so first
  1604. 47:18of all it is a very big decision second
  1605. 47:21of all I would think about one of my
  1606. 47:23mentors Eric Anderson who's on the
  1607. 47:25podcast he's developed more drugs than
  1608. 47:27anybody else in history he started his
  1609. 47:29last company alloy Therapeutics what is
  1610. 47:31the last business that I want to start
  1611. 47:32what company do I want to work with in
  1612. 47:34next 20 30 years so I think there's a
  1613. 47:36Founder product fit question which is
  1614. 47:38what does Alex heroi want to do over the
  1615. 47:40next 30 years because you're so good at
  1616. 47:42operationalizing you look at everything
  1617. 47:44from a number standpoint but you're also
  1618. 47:45a human being and I think the question
  1619. 47:47is especially after you gain a certain
  1620. 47:49amount of wealth is your lifestyle what
  1621. 47:52do you want to be doing day-to-day and
  1622. 47:54you can make those decisions not only
  1623. 47:56from the perspective of private Equity
  1624. 47:58or non-private Equity but also which LPS
  1625. 47:59do you want one of the other things
  1626. 48:01which I didn't mention is door four
  1627. 48:03which has been a strong consideration I
  1628. 48:05don't know why I didn't mention it has
  1629. 48:06just been raising around at our holdco
  1630. 48:09level and just doing a minority round
  1631. 48:11there that would allow us to get the
  1632. 48:12funding to then just do all the stuff
  1633. 48:14that we're currently doing the way we do
  1634. 48:15it the way we already know works and
  1635. 48:17just do it on bigger deals that would
  1636. 48:19then capture all of the brand growth
  1637. 48:21that I have so those LPS would be like
  1638. 48:22oh wow you know I guess it wouldn't be
  1639. 48:23an LP structure I guess they would just
  1640. 48:25be owners of you know my hold C and
  1641. 48:28that's something that's actually been um
  1642. 48:31very interesting to me because it's the
  1643. 48:33your original Point like I've structured
  1644. 48:35my day for the most part to do exactly
  1645. 48:36what I want to do and what I think I'm
  1646. 48:38good at and what does that look like I
  1647. 48:40have a pretty empty schedule I work all
  1648. 48:42the time but I have no commitments and
  1649. 48:43my way of saying it is I end up working
  1650. 48:45on that which matters most every day and
  1651. 48:47so sometimes that which matters most is
  1652. 48:48something that's going to come to
  1653. 48:49refresh in a year but I have one day a
  1654. 48:51week on Mondays that I have all my
  1655. 48:52meetings and then I have basically Media
  1656. 48:56stuff so content me writing books things
  1657. 48:59like that basically the rest of my week
  1658. 49:00is predominantly deep work and that has
  1659. 49:02worked really well for Ila and I and the
  1660. 49:04only way that I can live that lifestyle
  1661. 49:06is because of Lila Lila's schedule is
  1662. 49:08the inverse of mine she has one day a
  1663. 49:10week of deep work and then four days a
  1664. 49:11week where she has 20 plus meetings a
  1665. 49:14day she has many indirect reports that
  1666. 49:16she's soft touching you know two levels
  1667. 49:18down three levels down to continue to
  1668. 49:20develop Get Talent bring up rising stars
  1669. 49:23get good feedback on their leaders so
  1670. 49:24that she can give them feedback directly
  1671. 49:26like she will never get the credit that
  1672. 49:27she deserves because she's a woman and
  1673. 49:29because I'm so vocal in public but she's
  1674. 49:31absolutely the reason that we have what
  1675. 49:32we have like I had only made up to 3
  1676. 49:34million dollar a year before I met Ila
  1677. 49:36what was the constraint blocking and
  1678. 49:37tackling I Ruled through fear to be
  1679. 49:39honest that's what it was I know a lot
  1680. 49:40better now but when I met Lila she told
  1681. 49:42me on one of our first dates she said I
  1682. 49:44just want to build a place that people
  1683. 49:45love to work and I was like well I just
  1684. 49:47want to make a lot of money and she said
  1685. 49:49she wanted to do that but she was very
  1686. 49:50like anti-money when we met she was like
  1687. 49:52bleeding heart I just want to help
  1688. 49:54everybody and I was like well you won't
  1689. 49:55be able to help anyone if you're poor
  1690. 49:57and so what if we can merge kind of
  1691. 49:58these two thought processes and that's
  1692. 50:00been kind of like the Journey of our our
  1693. 50:02working relationship is that she has
  1694. 50:04been and I don't want to say the soft
  1695. 50:05side because I think that does a
  1696. 50:06disservice to the fact that she's made
  1697. 50:08of iron it's really impressive no one
  1698. 50:10has ever left any company that we've had
  1699. 50:12and been like Lila is unfair she is a
  1700. 50:14matriarch in terms of how everything is
  1701. 50:16run within all of our portfolio
  1702. 50:17companies I would say all the founders
  1703. 50:19have tremendous respect for Ila and they
  1704. 50:21know that she's the one you go to when
  1705. 50:22you have to have the hard conversation
  1706. 50:23with someone and she will be like this
  1707. 50:25is how you do it you have such a High
  1708. 50:27performing culture and not everybody
  1709. 50:29fits with it and they leave what do they
  1710. 50:30say when they leave we have very low
  1711. 50:32turnover is that because of a good
  1712. 50:34screening processor our ability to
  1713. 50:36create culture and operationalize
  1714. 50:38culture has just improved so much
  1715. 50:40between businesses because it's still on
  1716. 50:41on such a short timeline if you think
  1717. 50:42about it from a business I mean I
  1718. 50:44started my first business when I was 20
  1719. 50:47uh2 and that was 13 years ago you know
  1720. 50:50in the investor timeline it's like I've
  1721. 50:52had one funds worth of time right 10
  1722. 50:54plus plus one plus one yeah right
  1723. 50:56exactly and so it's been a very short
  1724. 50:58timeline and so like you know how I
  1725. 50:59built my gyms was very different than
  1726. 51:01how we built gym launch which is very
  1727. 51:03different from how we've built
  1728. 51:04acquisition. comom and um this I mean
  1729. 51:07this has been my favorite business uh to
  1730. 51:09run and I feel like it's Lea and I are
  1731. 51:12both in our stride we are doing what we
  1732. 51:14are both very good at we've given each
  1733. 51:15other the protection or space to just do
  1734. 51:18what we do best so Lela basically runs
  1735. 51:21everything and I'm in charge of rain
  1736. 51:23making that's been always the best
  1737. 51:25division of labor you tell Lea I just
  1738. 51:27want to make more money is that really
  1739. 51:28what drives you or is that kind of more
  1740. 51:30Market I always like saying that because
  1741. 51:32I never want to be one of those people
  1742. 51:33who like says they're trying to do yeah
  1743. 51:35that's my reputation Insurance like yep
  1744. 51:36I'm here to make money and I say that in
  1745. 51:38all my content like not here to be a
  1746. 51:39good guy here to make money so I'll give
  1747. 51:40you a longer answer than you probably
  1748. 51:41asked for when we sold gym launch we
  1749. 51:44taken 42 million in distributions and
  1750. 51:46then we got $31 million check for the
  1751. 51:492/3 at 46 right and I had invested a
  1752. 51:51little bit and so the the 42 had grown
  1753. 51:53or whatever at that point though we had
  1754. 51:54zero responsibilities and the year
  1755. 51:56during the sale I wasn't you know
  1756. 51:58typically you don't like change anything
  1757. 52:00while you're in the middle of a deal
  1758. 52:02process and so the whole company pretty
  1759. 52:03much just ran and we just got checks
  1760. 52:05every month basically and that was it
  1761. 52:06and it was the saddest year of my life
  1762. 52:08because I couldn't start something new
  1763. 52:10because I didn't know if the deal was
  1764. 52:11going to happen you know like things can
  1765. 52:12fall through whatever but I also
  1766. 52:14couldn't work on the business I
  1767. 52:15basically just had to sit idly for a
  1768. 52:17year and I had a lot of time to just
  1769. 52:19think and the conclusion that I came for
  1770. 52:21me was that hard work is the goal for a
  1771. 52:24very long time it was hard work so that
  1772. 52:26I can and then it was just insert
  1773. 52:28whatever thing but when I looked back on
  1774. 52:31my favorite days of my life it was when
  1775. 52:32I left nothing on the field when I was
  1776. 52:34completely used up at the end of the day
  1777. 52:36and the first boss that I had the
  1778. 52:38management consulting firm that I had
  1779. 52:39right out of college she said this thing
  1780. 52:40to me they had like a good weekend and I
  1781. 52:42came in on Monday like in a good mood or
  1782. 52:43something she asked me why and I said I
  1783. 52:45just you know I had a great weekend and
  1784. 52:47she said I'm pretty sure the secret to
  1785. 52:49life is living as many days in a row
  1786. 52:51like that as you can I always remembered
  1787. 52:52that and so in trying to structure my
  1788. 52:55life I actually used the same process
  1789. 52:56that we use to improve everything in
  1790. 52:59everything we do so whether it's media
  1791. 53:00whether it's ads which it's it's sales
  1792. 53:02teams it's CS whatever we just look at
  1793. 53:04what did we do in the past what were the
  1794. 53:06top 10% days or outcomes what did those
  1795. 53:09look like and what were the bottom 10%
  1796. 53:10and then the bottom 10% tell us what not
  1797. 53:12to do and the top 10% we do more of that
  1798. 53:14and so when I look at my life my top 10%
  1799. 53:17days had the same two or three things
  1800. 53:18that were involved I ate food with
  1801. 53:21people I liked I worked out hard and I
  1802. 53:25worked and accomplished something
  1803. 53:27meaningful for the day and I usually
  1804. 53:29have nothing left at the end and so I
  1805. 53:33pretty much just try and do that every
  1806. 53:34single day that's my that's my goal and
  1807. 53:37the things that I enjoy working hard on
  1808. 53:39is business I love business it's like
  1809. 53:41almost like a romantic love of mine I
  1810. 53:43love it I draw pictures about it I write
  1811. 53:44books about it I make videos about it I
  1812. 53:46do business every day it's the thing
  1813. 53:48that I love I could talk to you for 10
  1814. 53:49more hours about business stuff I
  1815. 53:50interviewed Steve mcclaflin he's
  1816. 53:52considered the world's Rich banker and
  1817. 53:55he spends 80% of his time time dealing
  1818. 53:56with clients and how do people like like
  1819. 53:59you and Steve say no to other things
  1820. 54:01that you may not want to do but that
  1821. 54:04quot unquote need to be done I get
  1822. 54:05emails like how do you operationalize
  1823. 54:08four days of deep work I have no direct
  1824. 54:11reports zero like if you look at the
  1825. 54:13work chart it's me and then dotted line
  1826. 54:15to Lila and then Ila has the whole
  1827. 54:16company what about bills there's a long
  1828. 54:19tale of things that just hit your email
  1829. 54:20Reas check my email and they route
  1830. 54:23things and make decisions based on just
  1831. 54:25like DEC
  1832. 54:27yeah exactly how long did it take for
  1833. 54:28you to create that system we have 3 EA
  1834. 54:30senior just became director of Ops but
  1835. 54:32it's been seven 8 years that we've had
  1836. 54:35that team and so what were the biggest
  1837. 54:36fails in that system I have had 10 EAS
  1838. 54:39personally and have failed all of them
  1839. 54:42and so then we realized after the 10th
  1840. 54:44try it's me not them Lea paired us for a
  1841. 54:47quarterly to give feedback to one
  1842. 54:48another and she said I feel like when I
  1843. 54:52message you I'm bothering you I'm
  1844. 54:54assuming with the hope that I would say
  1845. 54:57oh no it's fine message me and instead I
  1846. 55:00said you are I'm working and then when
  1847. 55:02you take away from that work you make us
  1848. 55:04less money and so I do see it pretty
  1849. 55:06much always as a punishing event for me
  1850. 55:08to basically have to stop doing
  1851. 55:10something that I'm enjoying doing to do
  1852. 55:11something that I enjoyed less doing and
  1853. 55:13so over time the EA now they'll come in
  1854. 55:16when I eat lunch because it's the same
  1855. 55:1715 minutes every day and they'll just
  1856. 55:19like they'll be like I have six things
  1857. 55:20for you this thing this thing and it's
  1858. 55:22while I'm not working anyways self
  1859. 55:23manage but honestly my lifestyle is only
  1860. 55:26I'm only able to do this because Lea's
  1861. 55:28lifestyle is the inverse of mine
  1862. 55:30Together We Are One good CEO she is a
  1863. 55:32work funnel like she just swallows work
  1864. 55:36and then she brings people in and trains
  1865. 55:37them brings people in and trains them
  1866. 55:38and her her rate of operating is just
  1867. 55:41unbelievable and so she allows me to
  1868. 55:43think really big and have the space to
  1869. 55:44do it it's all because of her what are
  1870. 55:45your special skills I think it's
  1871. 55:47actually just education like I love
  1872. 55:48teaching which sounds terrible like
  1873. 55:50saying that you love teaching is kind of
  1874. 55:52lame but I see sales as an education
  1875. 55:54process you educate a prospect and if
  1876. 55:56they educated enough and if you have a
  1877. 55:57product that really is good if they
  1878. 55:58believe what you believe then they will
  1879. 56:00buy I see marketing and sales as the
  1880. 56:01same Continuum like you just need a
  1881. 56:03certain amount of information for
  1882. 56:04someone to make a purchasing decision
  1883. 56:05and so I see them as one thing that's
  1884. 56:07what I spend a lot of time doing and so
  1885. 56:10if we Define education as changing
  1886. 56:11someone's Behavior then that is that is
  1887. 56:14what has been the passion of my life
  1888. 56:16hopefully everybody who's listening to
  1889. 56:17this who's an LP I hope I didn't bore
  1890. 56:19you to Absolute death not talking about
  1891. 56:21too much investing and just talking way
  1892. 56:23more about business if you were to do a
  1893. 56:24fund like tell me about what you would
  1894. 56:26want LP Partners I'd probably want one
  1895. 56:28of two types I'd either want completely
  1896. 56:29passive LP who just let me do what I
  1897. 56:32think we're good at or somebody who had
  1898. 56:33some Strategic Benefit that they could
  1899. 56:35bring to the table probably wouldn't be
  1900. 56:36deal flow but it probably be
  1901. 56:38relationships around whatever the you
  1902. 56:39know investment thesis that we were
  1903. 56:40going to build it off of as you've
  1904. 56:42evolved your private Equity business
  1905. 56:43have you narrowed down do you have a
  1906. 56:45very specific kind of hit Lane on these
  1907. 56:47are the types of deals I want to do or
  1908. 56:48are you more opportunistic I would say
  1909. 56:50Lea and I both like service and software
  1910. 56:53businesses those are the two when we've
  1911. 56:54looked at all the deals that we've done
  1912. 56:55those are the ones that we do the best
  1913. 56:56with and especially ones that are demand
  1914. 56:58constrainted those are the ones that we
  1915. 57:00just can absolutely murder it for if
  1916. 57:01someone has really good you know user
  1917. 57:03retention and they have you know good
  1918. 57:05Ascension processes the best guys are
  1919. 57:07the ones who are just obsessed with
  1920. 57:08product like the reason that I did the
  1921. 57:09school deal was when I saw the Ben of
  1922. 57:11the business I was like this thing's a
  1923. 57:12monster like it's just early they just
  1924. 57:14need demand and I think all product
  1925. 57:17seeks distribution and all distribution
  1926. 57:19seeks good product and so I see myself
  1927. 57:21as distribution and so that was just
  1928. 57:23like such a no-brainer it was perfect it
  1929. 57:24was school it's education it worked with
  1930. 57:26the 70% of my audience that want to
  1931. 57:28start a business so only 30% of my
  1932. 57:29audience have a business now if I talk
  1933. 57:31about business then everybody who wants
  1934. 57:32to start a business is still going to
  1935. 57:33listen right and so I can't I don't I
  1936. 57:34don't try and you know uh kick them out
  1937. 57:36or anything but it took me three or four
  1938. 57:39years of looking at a zillion different
  1939. 57:40businesses I was like okay what's the
  1940. 57:42easiest thing someone can start who's
  1941. 57:43just going to go zero to one build their
  1942. 57:45confidence yeah exactly yeah just
  1943. 57:46develop basic skills of business and so
  1944. 57:49that was a perfect vehicle for me to to
  1945. 57:51help and so like that type of business
  1946. 57:53is those are the ones that I love people
  1947. 57:54that want to learn more about you what's
  1948. 57:55the best onramp to learning more about
  1949. 57:57Alex Heros probably YouTube or if you're
  1950. 58:00actually if you're a podcaster then I
  1951. 58:01have a podcast what is it called you can
  1952. 58:02just search my name and it'll come up
  1953. 58:04excellent well Alex this has been a
  1954. 58:05master class I've been following your
  1955. 58:07work for a year I learned a lot you have
  1956. 58:09an incredible way to deconstruct
  1957. 58:10Concepts and teach millions of people
  1958. 58:12it's you're making a big difference in
  1959. 58:14the world appreciate you jumping on the
  1960. 58:15podcast thank you for having me I
  1961. 58:16appreciate it

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