How To Negotiate Equity When You Have Zero Dollars—Hormozi’s Blueprint — Transcript
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- 0:00you've made and lost your money twice
- 0:02you have to make big bets in order to
- 0:03win big you have to be willing to go to
- 0:05zero how'd you get here it's this
- 0:06healthy appreciation for risk that's
- 0:08completely contrasted with the utter
- 0:11comfort with losing it all not all bets
- 0:14are going to be good ones what you've
- 0:15done is incredibly rare and impressive
- 0:18you've gone from a couple thousand to
- 0:20now worth $150 million youve more than
- 0:22100x what's the next step are you
- 0:24starting a fund Alex Heros welcome to
- 0:26the 10x Capital podcast thank you for
- 0:27having me honored to be here it's great
- 0:29to have you so you have one of these
- 0:31stories where you've made and lost your
- 0:33money twice you went from hero to zero
- 0:35and now back to $150 million NW worth
- 0:38how'd you get here geez I'll give you
- 0:40the shortest version possible so I was a
- 0:42Management Consultant right out of
- 0:43college um did well in school I did two
- 0:46years of that I went to go apply to you
- 0:49know all the big IV leagues uh to get an
- 0:51NBA and uh one of the questions on the
- 0:53test was uh how will you know Harvard
- 0:56NBA help you short and long-term goals
- 0:57and I sat there for like 4 days trying
- 0:59to answer the question and then I just
- 1:00came to the conclusion that it wasn't
- 1:01going to help my short long-term goals
- 1:03which is probably why they asked those
- 1:04questions on the application I was like
- 1:05I guess I'm going to do Fitness
- 1:06basically what I would do is I would
- 1:08sign a lease and then start running ads
- 1:10before I even had anything built out and
- 1:12the model that I had was not very
- 1:13difficult to get the equipment for I
- 1:14would generate enough pre-sales from the
- 1:16launch to cover the entire opening of
- 1:18the gym from there started doing gym
- 1:20turnarounds it was during that process
- 1:21that I lost my money twice uh once was
- 1:24with a partner at the very beginning who
- 1:26was like I filled his gym up and he said
- 1:27hey I'll come behind you and I'll just
- 1:29operate all the gyms then you don't have
- 1:30to give anything away you'll just own
- 1:31them all and then promptly took the
- 1:33money out of the business that I had
- 1:35saved up from selling the six gyms that
- 1:37I had uh and so that
- 1:39sucked but I learned a valuable lesson
- 1:41which is in general if you have the
- 1:43option between getting into business
- 1:45with someone who's already been indicted
- 1:46for fraud all things being equal yeah if
- 1:48you have no option everybody that you
- 1:49know has been indicted for fraud then
- 1:51you know you have to just choose the
- 1:51best one but for me that was big lesson
- 1:53number one honestly it was like four
- 1:55five 6 months later um it happened again
- 1:57so I called the next gyms that were
- 1:58supposed to launch and and uh told them
- 2:00hey we're getting out of the business
- 2:01we're going to do something else one of
- 2:03the guys says Hey launch my buddy's Gym
- 2:05and so I picked the highest number I
- 2:06could think of cuz I wanted to get him
- 2:07off the phone and he already said he was
- 2:08broke and so uh I said $6,000 and he
- 2:11said six grand done and I remember just
- 2:13like looking at the phone being like
- 2:14holy crap like what just happened I had
- 2:16seven more calls that day and next call
- 2:18same thing how much 8 Grand next call
- 2:20same thing how much 10 grand and up
- 2:22doing $60,000 in sales in a day I could
- 2:24finally breathe again I was officially
- 2:25just broke again but no debt and then
- 2:27from that the next month I think we did
- 2:28220 then 380 then 480 then 780 then a
- 2:31million then2 then 15 then I think it
- 2:33was like 18 2 22 and it went all the way
- 2:35up to 4.4 million a month within 20
- 2:37months we ended up packaging those
- 2:39companies and selling them to American
- 2:41Pacific group uh I sold 2/3 at of 46.2
- 2:44million valuation in an all cash deal
- 2:46that was your first Big Exit that was
- 2:47the first big exit and during the five
- 2:49years we took out 42 million in
- 2:50distributions so that was like still a
- 2:52very cash flow positive business but I
- 2:53just didn't want to be I'd been in gyms
- 2:54for like a decade at that point so I was
- 2:56I was ready to just not be the gym guy
- 2:58anymore and on Christmas Day I
- 3:00officially started acquisition. comom
- 3:01the thesis I had was everybody wants
- 3:03proprietary deal flow and everybody
- 3:04wants people who trust them when they
- 3:06get into a deal process I wonder if if
- 3:09somebody has merged like a influencer
- 3:12social media brand with the traditional
- 3:14private Equity model tell me about the
- 3:16social media ramp up year zero year one
- 3:18year two how quick did that ramp I had
- 3:20the gym Secrets podcast was that an
- 3:21interview Style no just me just talking
- 3:23ahead so I lost all my money the second
- 3:25time April of 2017 and my first episode
- 3:30is July of 17 you can follow the whole
- 3:32thing from zero back again 90 days after
- 3:35I was at zero we both know many people
- 3:37that make a lot of money then lose and
- 3:39oftentimes make even more on the come up
- 3:41why is losing all your money a
- 3:42prerequisite for success I hope it
- 3:44doesn't have to
- 3:45be third time is the charm for me
- 3:48probably 50% of the people I know worth
- 3:50hundreds of millions or billions of
- 3:51dollars have gone through this Arc
- 3:53there's something there what is it that
- 3:54makes me feel better I think I would say
- 3:55there's two completely dichotomous
- 3:58things that come out of it on one hand
- 3:59you earn a very healthy respect for risk
- 4:02not everything is going to work out on
- 4:03the other hand you know that you've lost
- 4:05everything and yet you are still here
- 4:07and so it's this healthy appreciation
- 4:09for risk that's completely contrasted
- 4:12with the utter comfort with losing it
- 4:16all anyways because you got there and
- 4:18you know I joke about this but Lea and I
- 4:20were happy when we were poor we're just
- 4:21about as happy now makes you anti
- 4:23fragile yeah that's perfect exactly and
- 4:25how does that practically help with the
- 4:26healthy appreciation for risk we are
- 4:28willing to take fewer but more strategic
- 4:30big swings you have to make big bets so
- 4:32you have to be willing to go to zero but
- 4:34at the same time knowing that not all
- 4:37bets are going to be good ones I feel
- 4:38like that is fundamentally the basis of
- 4:40good investing there's some huge power
- 4:42laws when it comes to Venture Capital
- 4:43One of the Investments and because of
- 4:45that you don't have to make huge
- 4:46Investments you can make Small Checks
- 4:48Jason calanis invested 25,000 made $100
- 4:51million for seoa is that the same thing
- 4:53in your private Equity business are you
- 4:55able to make small bets and make huge
- 4:57returns or do you really have to have
- 4:58more of a concentrate portolio the
- 5:00concentration for us right now is
- 5:01because we're super operationally
- 5:03involved and so this is something that
- 5:04we're to be very candid like we're
- 5:06actively looking at is there a way that
- 5:08we can maybe do less and so you know on
- 5:10one hand we've considered opening up a
- 5:11venture arm which is something that
- 5:12we're strongly considering right now on
- 5:14the more traditional private Equity
- 5:15route we have made small bets relative
- 5:18to the amount of money that we've made
- 5:19so we've had monster returns from a
- 5:21percentage basis but the amount of work
- 5:24that has gone into those companies the
- 5:25company that was at 2 million that went
- 5:26to 110 we've done a lot of work to be
- 5:28fair the founders have done an amazing
- 5:29job they're awesome people the credit
- 5:31should go to them but we've done a lot
- 5:32of work too and the same thing with the
- 5:33brick and Mort change that we have we
- 5:35have tended to go towards operationally
- 5:37complex businesses that just require
- 5:39lots of people uh and I think it's just
- 5:42because Lea and I are very comfortable
- 5:43in those types of environments we both
- 5:45came from a service based background but
- 5:46one of the big kind of like arbitrages
- 5:48we were talking right before we started
- 5:49the show 40% of our portfolio is
- 5:51software and we don't talk about it as
- 5:52much and part of the reason I don't talk
- 5:53about it in my content as much is
- 5:54because I think 78% of all businesses
- 5:56are service businesses it applies to
- 5:58such a small slice of the demographic
- 6:00that I'd rather just talk about the
- 6:01thing that applies to most people but we
- 6:02take a lot of the best practices that
- 6:04we've learned from traditional service
- 6:07businesses and then apply them to
- 6:08software as a service businesses because
- 6:11a lot of the same things work it's just
- 6:12a lot of it's automated and that's where
- 6:14you get you know huge Returns on it I
- 6:15want to double click on something so I
- 6:17read your book 100 million offers
- 6:19Incredible Book basically it's a book on
- 6:21how to create value you talk about how
- 6:23you would go to a company and they would
- 6:25give you 30% of the company with almost
- 6:27no investment and you've done this over
- 6:28and over dozens of times or so you've
- 6:30never really explicitly talked about how
- 6:31you construct that value proposition for
- 6:33the business owner so tell me how you
- 6:35get somebody to give you 30% of your
- 6:37business with no money down we do a
- 6:38combination to be fair the deal is
- 6:40evolved over time and I wrote the book I
- 6:44want to say three or four years ago
- 6:45between 20 and 24 deals in similar is
- 6:47structures so we had um an element of
- 6:50cash flow which is either a profit share
- 6:52or a revenue share depending on how
- 6:54volatile the business was um and then we
- 6:56had a profits interest um based on some
- 6:59agreed upon basis that we had or above a
- 7:00basis that we you know mutually agreed
- 7:02on and usually that that number was very
- 7:04low because the companies didn't really
- 7:05have a ton of intrinsic value and so
- 7:08that was more or less the combination of
- 7:09what it was it's like okay your business
- 7:10is worth 2 million bucks uh we get 30%
- 7:14of everything above that and for the
- 7:16work that we do in the meantime we need
- 7:17cash flow because we have a huge team
- 7:18helping you put all these things
- 7:19together and so that's pretty much how
- 7:22the deals work over time I started
- 7:24writing checks into companies cuz I
- 7:26noticed it changed the dynamic a little
- 7:27bit favorably for us and it was less
- 7:29like we're consultants for higher now we
- 7:32only do cash in deals that's probably
- 7:34more traditional we look for a lot of
- 7:36majority covenants even if we're not in
- 7:37a majority position just because we want
- 7:39to have a good amount of operating
- 7:40control on the business honestly in some
- 7:42ways it's just you know keeping the
- 7:43emotionality of it from the founder from
- 7:45making like a really poor decision every
- 7:46one of the covenants that we're going to
- 7:47ask for are not thing like when we
- 7:49explain them they're like okay I get
- 7:50that the biggest companies we have are
- 7:52you know four four plus years that we've
- 7:53had with us and some of those were
- 7:55looking for you know liquidity events
- 7:57right now and I think we're kind of at a
- 7:58point of like okay we to from here
- 8:01that's kind of I would say the position
- 8:02that Lea and I are in right now with our
- 8:03Holdings and kind of like okay what went
- 8:05well from this last round what are we
- 8:07going to do differently next time and I
- 8:08say the big the big one is that we're
- 8:09just going to buy fewer bigger
- 8:11businesses at the onset because we've
- 8:12learned that a lot of times the bigger
- 8:14the business the more we can help
- 8:15because when it's a smaller business
- 8:17it's like we have to build so much
- 8:18infrastructure a lot of times there's
- 8:19there's no CRM so it's a you know it's
- 8:21all it's all Google Sheets and things
- 8:22like that so we have to implement a full
- 8:24CRM so we can get data pushed to us so
- 8:25we even know what's going on in the
- 8:27business finances are typically a mess
- 8:28it's just you know has mom's bookkeeper
- 8:30that's been doing it you know across the
- 8:32kitchen table that's been that's been
- 8:34doing the finances there's typically no
- 8:35leadership team in place it's usually a
- 8:37founder and like maybe a first follower
- 8:39somebody who's really loyal and kind of
- 8:40like an integrator for them but
- 8:41oftentimes they don't even have that and
- 8:43so when we've looked at the more and
- 8:45more mature businesses it's like they
- 8:46have a lot of these pieces in place and
- 8:47so then we can get straight to Value
- 8:49creation there's no leaking bucket yeah
- 8:52or less just to double click you're
- 8:54really good at deconstructing processes
- 8:56so you go to a founder and you say okay
- 8:58your company's worth $5 million I'm
- 9:00going to go and invest and then I want
- 9:0220% of The Upside or 30% of The Upside
- 9:04how do you ensure to the founder that
- 9:05you're not just freeloading on the
- 9:07upside and do you create Milestones do
- 9:10what construct do you use to align
- 9:12yourself not Milestones it's been pretty
- 9:14much straight up we get 30% of The
- 9:16Upside just trust yeah and that's I mean
- 9:18and that's been the whole point of
- 9:19building the brand and building the the
- 9:21presence that we have has been to have
- 9:22that trust um and I would say that it's
- 9:24definitely lubricated the deal process
- 9:26overall um we don't need to do nearly as
- 9:28much diligence you know as a as a
- 9:30traditional PE so we can we can move a
- 9:32lot faster on deals and we've generated
- 9:34a lot of cash anyways in the meantime so
- 9:36that now if we do want to write bigger
- 9:37checks we can do that I can't write the
- 9:39the check sizes that I would like to
- 9:40write but at this moment we can stroke a
- 9:4210 or A5 or $20 million check if we
- 9:44really like something I can't write
- 9:45multiple of those hundred million do
- 9:47checks for a company when we got
- 9:48introduced a month ago we started
- 9:49talking about this Crossroads that
- 9:51you're at You' engineered this model
- 9:52that works where you're owning large
- 9:54percentage of slightly smaller
- 9:55businesses and you're thinking should we
- 9:57continue building this kind of work
- 9:59holding company or should we go the
- 10:01private Equity route what are the pros
- 10:02and cons in your opinion if anyone who's
- 10:04listening is like he doesn't sound
- 10:05decided I'm aware um you know on one
- 10:08hand we could raise you know outside
- 10:09funds transparently I'm just so afraid
- 10:11of losing someone else's money I've made
- 10:12mistakes in the past for me and it's
- 10:14like okay that's an Alex mistake I'll
- 10:16own that and it was all my money losing
- 10:18someone else's money it makes me feel
- 10:20sick to think about cuz I just know how
- 10:21hard it is to make money and to Just
- 10:23Lose It for somebody else just like it
- 10:24kills me it's definitely an irrational
- 10:26fear of mine but that's Road one road
- 10:28two is that we continue to still write
- 10:30our own checks and we still to go after
- 10:31bigger companies but we just take
- 10:32smaller chunks so we actually go back to
- 10:34the minority thing that we started with
- 10:35but just with much bigger uh companies
- 10:37and I think we'd be able to get pretty
- 10:38good valuations on those companies if
- 10:40we're coming in as a morard position
- 10:41with value ad the third bucket is we
- 10:44just continue to do what we have been
- 10:46doing and just continue to level up
- 10:47slowly over time the size companies that
- 10:49we have with not necessarily the desire
- 10:51to sell them but some of the companies
- 10:52are really really cash flow positive and
- 10:54I don't need to sell them like some of
- 10:56the software ones we're absolutely
- 10:57looking to have liquidity event from an
- 10:59exit because we just plow all the money
- 11:01back into the business which it should
- 11:02do so those are kind of like the three
- 11:03doors that we have in front of us for
- 11:04like where two from here I've been
- 11:06honestly split cuz I'm also continuing
- 11:07to run what we're currently doing I
- 11:09would say that the likelihood that LE
- 11:10and I raise a fund is high I just don't
- 11:13have a timeline you're rationally being
- 11:15very slow in your decision-making
- 11:17because institutional capital and
- 11:19outside capital is infra Penny inra
- 11:21pound you take that dollar you're
- 11:22basically beh holding to those LPS for a
- 11:24decade what's coming through your
- 11:26pipeline are you getting Billion Dollar
- 11:27Deals cuz I think that should really
- 11:28factor in deal flow is absurd how do you
- 11:30even process it so we get about 3,000
- 11:33companies a month about 100 a day that
- 11:35come inbound that are trying that
- 11:37specifically apply for like we want to
- 11:39be a portfolio company um we have many
- 11:42more than that that just like want help
- 11:44and want information and things like
- 11:46that but 100 a day come in that fill out
- 11:48a full Min question application and then
- 11:50those go to my deal team so we have
- 11:52automated sifting that kind of just in
- 11:54the background based on the application
- 11:55questions that automatically you know
- 11:57remove 95% we don't do any deal de
- 11:59outside of the us so that takes off half
- 12:01cuz 55% of my audience is international
- 12:03so we have 45% left from there it's like
- 12:05we don't want other investors on the cap
- 12:06table that takes another half out from
- 12:08there we've got it just we just kind of
- 12:09like Whittle our way down to what are
- 12:11the kind of investable deals we probably
- 12:13get two to three Deals a day that are
- 12:15legitimate businesses that are of size
- 12:18that are us-based they're all over the
- 12:20place because the content I have helps a
- 12:22lot of different businesses so we'll get
- 12:24you know a a florist with a commercial
- 12:27cleaning company with a you know SAS
- 12:29company and then tomorrow it'll be a
- 12:31logistics broker with like it just it's
- 12:33all over the place what's the revenue
- 12:35split on that so 50% are 0 to a million
- 12:3925% are 1 to 5 million in Top Line and
- 12:41then 25% are 5 million plus and
- 12:43obviously there's you know a lot above 5
- 12:45million plus in terms of I mean it's 25%
- 12:47but I want to say it's somewhere in the
- 12:49neighborhood of like 5% of deals are do
- 12:50over 20 so that's where that taking 100
- 12:52would link down to like two-ish two to
- 12:54three Deals a day those are usually
- 12:56companies that are doing over 10 million
- 12:58and have all these other kind of things
- 12:59that are interesting about them but
- 13:00sometimes we just hop on a phone with
- 13:01the founder and then we're like this
- 13:02guy's crazy a lot of times on the first
- 13:04call we disqualify like 90% of companies
- 13:06cuz they're like this is hairy or this
- 13:08feels weird or I don't really like the
- 13:09business or whatever else a lot of times
- 13:11there businesses that don't have any
- 13:12like compounding vehicle and so that's
- 13:14what we look a lot for is I have this
- 13:16theory that a business can only compound
- 13:17if you have a product that people never
- 13:19stop buying or you have a network of
- 13:20people that never stop selling and so
- 13:22it's like if you have a real estate
- 13:23brokage right uh you have a network of
- 13:24people that never stop selling for you
- 13:26you have some reoccurring that comes
- 13:27from you know somebody sells a house and
- 13:29years later they come back to you but
- 13:30for the most part it's onesie twosies on
- 13:31the customer side you have a SAS
- 13:32software that's super sticky you sell it
- 13:34services and people don't really turn
- 13:35out those are the types of services that
- 13:36we focus a lot more on now um in our
- 13:39first round of companies we basically
- 13:41had to take companies that were really
- 13:43profitable or had like they had
- 13:44something that we really liked about
- 13:46them but they almost none of them had
- 13:47really good Revenue retention and so we
- 13:49spend a lot of time building that in so
- 13:52that we can get that compounding but we
- 13:53just want to see that people keep buying
- 13:56and that there are good gross margins as
- 13:58they continue to buy and so then those
- 14:00are the businesses that we can just
- 14:01knock out of the park because we know
- 14:02how to build acquisition out really well
- 14:04we know how to build delivery out really
- 14:05well the things that Lea and I are
- 14:06probably not the best at is like we're
- 14:08not the best at like super techy stuff
- 14:10like even though we have 40% of our
- 14:12portfolio is software based we heavily
- 14:15rely on the recruiting side of who we
- 14:17bring in who is good at that stuff so
- 14:18that we can then just do all the
- 14:20business fundamentals to that model and
- 14:22you're a big believer in demand
- 14:23constrained business not supply
- 14:24constrain business if I want to put my
- 14:26brand behind something I want something
- 14:27that's demand constrained if we're going
- 14:29to work on something then I prefer the
- 14:31opposite yes is the answer to the
- 14:33question sorry on both those situations
- 14:35we like demand contraint so either we
- 14:36can generate it or if it's something
- 14:38that I have a huge amount of my audience
- 14:40that I could push towards then that's
- 14:41something that'd be interesting so
- 14:42you're a big student of compounding yeah
- 14:45you talk a lot about it what skills have
- 14:47you compounded over your career and talk
- 14:49to me about why compounding is so
- 14:51important so I came from the gym
- 14:52business and probably one of the
- 14:54simplest reoccurring models that people
- 14:56understand a lot of people don't know
- 14:57about the gym business especially in the
- 14:58service based gym so like personal
- 14:59training semi-private training large
- 15:01group which is where I came from that
- 15:02was my bread and butter is that people
- 15:04cancel all the time whereas like a $10
- 15:06month membership it's lower and it tends
- 15:08to be more like a facility usage
- 15:10business than it is actually like a
- 15:11service business I remember the first
- 15:12time I looked at churn and saw that I
- 15:14was like okay 10% turn that's the
- 15:16industry average and then I just did it
- 15:17for a year and I was like oh I lose 70%
- 15:19of my customers every year that means
- 15:20that basically every month I have to
- 15:21like go hunt and I never get credit for
- 15:23what I did 3 months ago and so I wanted
- 15:25to have businesses where I could get
- 15:26credit for the work that I did 5 years
- 15:27ago to Lad up to the first question you
- 15:29asked which was you know what what has
- 15:31been compounding in my life skills has
- 15:33been the biggest investment I've made in
- 15:34my entire life and so you know when I
- 15:36first started uh I got pretty good at
- 15:39sales that I mean I didn't know anything
- 15:40about it but I got pretty good at it
- 15:41just from taking 4,000 101 consults in
- 15:44person I learned enough about the other
- 15:46stuff to have that just not be the
- 15:47limiter so I learned how to run Facebook
- 15:49ads in 2013 I went to a workshop and
- 15:51somebody taught me how to do it and that
- 15:52ended up completely changing my life and
- 15:54that's how I was able to fill all these
- 15:55gyms up later but then I didn't know how
- 15:56to do like more advanced stuff so then I
- 15:58paid somebody else to teach the more
- 15:59advanced stuff and so what I have
- 16:01noticed is that with each kind of new
- 16:03set of skills that I acquire over time
- 16:06it just makes the former skills that I
- 16:09learned way more valuable I like telling
- 16:11the story of Jay-Z as a simple example
- 16:13it's like okay so he had a natural
- 16:14privity towards like beats and Rhythm
- 16:16okay then he learns how to rap okay well
- 16:18he's got some skill there but then he
- 16:20learned how to promote so now that made
- 16:22his rapping skill more valuable and then
- 16:24he learned how to uh sign other people
- 16:27on or create a label on the he learned
- 16:29how to sign other people on and then
- 16:30promote them and so all of a sudden he
- 16:31just gets more and more leverage on the
- 16:33original skill set he still needs to be
- 16:34able to recognize good music from his
- 16:36original days but learning how to
- 16:38promote on top of that just gave him
- 16:40huge leverage and then doing it with
- 16:41other people more so so just to
- 16:43deconstruct that let's use Jay-Z so he's
- 16:46good at beats let's say you want to
- 16:48acquire the skill of rapping how would
- 16:49you go about that how do you a identify
- 16:52the skills needed and be acquire those
- 16:53skills well I'll walk you through
- 16:55something that we like to think about
- 16:56everything we do is off the theory of
- 16:58constraints we say say how do we do more
- 17:00what's working and we continue to do
- 17:01more of what's working until something
- 17:03else gets in the way of us doing more of
- 17:04what's working and then we ask the
- 17:06question why can't we do it and the
- 17:07answer to that question is typically the
- 17:09constraint and then all of our resources
- 17:11will get deployed towards relieving that
- 17:13constraint and then we go back to doing
- 17:14as much of that thing that made us money
- 17:16as possible and if you don't know how to
- 17:18relieve that constraint that's your lack
- 17:19of skill and then you gain that skill
- 17:21let's say you have to gain that skill
- 17:22let's say you have to become a promoter
- 17:24how would you go about I'll do a
- 17:25microcosm of this so the ads thing I was
- 17:27saying earlier I didn't know how to run
- 17:28n ad campaigns so I knew how to run them
- 17:30locally but then when we wanted to scale
- 17:31gym launch I was like I got to learn how
- 17:33to do this nationally I have no idea how
- 17:34do you target gym owners and so I uh got
- 17:37on the phone with um agency owners and
- 17:41uh I didn't have a ton of money at the
- 17:42time and so I just said hey can you um
- 17:44run my ads but also show me what you're
- 17:46doing and they all said no and so
- 17:48finally I was like on the sixth call uh
- 17:51the guy said no and I was like dude it's
- 17:54America like just name a price like what
- 17:56would it take and it's one of my
- 17:57favorite questions is yeah I was like a
- 18:00good line yeah what would it take I use
- 18:01that line all the time like what would
- 18:03it take to get a deal done what would it
- 18:04take for us to do five YouTube videos a
- 18:05week that are 10 out of 10 quality and
- 18:07then we can just decide the trade-off if
- 18:08it's worth it that particular agency
- 18:10owner said I don't sell my time but I
- 18:12would do it for 750 an hour and I was
- 18:14like okay and so I bought eight hours
- 18:17from him for six grand and I showed up
- 18:19to every call with like notes and
- 18:21recordings and I need I needed to learn
- 18:22how to do this we go document
- 18:24demonstrate duplicate so I have to
- 18:26figure out the checklist of all the
- 18:27things they do what are the behaviors
- 18:29and then uh you do it in front of me and
- 18:31then I do it in front of you and then as
- 18:33long as I can duplicate then I have the
- 18:35skill now I learned this from Lea was
- 18:37when we want to learn a new skill we
- 18:39also interview people for the skill
- 18:41because usually it's a company that has
- 18:43a void we'll get on the phone with 10 or
- 18:4520 people with the intention obviously
- 18:48of hiring you know somebody who's really
- 18:49good but if you talk to 10 or 20 people
- 18:51that are all like senior director of you
- 18:53know customer success he say hey walk me
- 18:56through some of the metrics that you
- 18:58track for this and then how do you move
- 19:00these metrics what activities do you do
- 19:02to change them my belief is that you can
- 19:04tell someone's skill by the quantity and
- 19:05quality of metrics they track easier
- 19:07thing is sales because most people who
- 19:08are listening get what that is if I talk
- 19:09to a sales director and I say first off
- 19:12how do you make this company more money
- 19:14now if they say something like well I'm
- 19:15going to increase sales it's like no but
- 19:16you're not going to be on the phone so
- 19:18how do you increase sales and so then
- 19:20it's like you start to put a little bit
- 19:21of pressure and then because if they
- 19:23can't tie the activities that they do to
- 19:24revenue generation on the interview then
- 19:26for sure they're not going to do
- 19:27anything work for you um and some guys
- 19:30like you know I'm just I'm going to R up
- 19:31the team and I'm going to you know get
- 19:32them excited we're going to do some
- 19:33training that's not going to be a good
- 19:34sales manager right if someone says well
- 19:37I'm going to look at you know the offer
- 19:38percentage that we have I'm going to
- 19:39look at our scheduling rates I'm going
- 19:40to look at our show rates if show rates
- 19:42are low I'm going to do this if offer
- 19:43rates are low we're going to look at
- 19:44marketing make sure the messaging is
- 19:45right if we're struggling with whatever
- 19:47a specific obstacle then what I'm going
- 19:48to do is I'm just going to isolate that
- 19:49obstacle and then we're going to drill
- 19:50it I'm going to look at that particular
- 19:51reps closing percentage and make sure
- 19:53that it gets up to K if he starts
- 19:54breaking down all of these pieces then
- 19:56I'm like okay not only is he tracking
- 19:58the metrics but he knows how to affect
- 19:59them and so then also when I talk to
- 20:01four other guys and I get on to the
- 20:03fourth call that first guy might have
- 20:05said something that I didn't know about
- 20:06but when I go on the fourth call I'm
- 20:07like so what do you think about this and
- 20:10then how they respond right I get better
- 20:12and better at it and so then I start to
- 20:13know what to look for and then if I
- 20:15still have no idea then that's when I'll
- 20:16pay somebody I mean I I'm still the
- 20:18biggest fan of one1 tutoring it's like
- 20:20out of Vogue now but I'll pay anybody to
- 20:22learn something I offered someone
- 20:23$350,000 for dinner he said no I offered
- 20:25250 and then we offered 350 he's like
- 20:27fine he didn't even take the money he's
- 20:28like I meet you for dinner cuz you're so
- 20:31desperate but I wanted to understand
- 20:32branding cuz I it was it was this thing
- 20:34that I I realized that I didn't
- 20:35understand so in gym launch it was very
- 20:37much an Arbitrage business like a media
- 20:38Arbitrage business and so everything was
- 20:40Quant based and that was kind of like
- 20:41how it was all all I cared about was
- 20:42just like what are ctrs what are cpms
- 20:44what's our cost per lead you know what
- 20:46what schedule what show what's close
- 20:47rate and that's all I cared about was
- 20:49just blowing as much money through that
- 20:50that that funnel as possible the moment
- 20:52that changed my life around this and
- 20:53this is ultimately the beginning of my
- 20:54path down to building a personal brand
- 20:56was this is going to sound embarrassing
- 20:58it's very embarrassing I saw Kylie
- 21:00Jenner on the cover of Forbes and I
- 21:02think she was 19 or 20 and I think I was
- 21:0427 at the time and I thought I was hot
- 21:06cuz I was like I'm taking a million
- 21:07and a half a month like personally and
- 21:08it said she was a billionaire and I was
- 21:09like she's a girl she's seven years
- 21:11younger than me cuz at the time I was
- 21:12still young now I'm just a white dude
- 21:14but like before this I was at least a
- 21:15young white too and so when I saw that I
- 21:19have this fundamental belief that if
- 21:20someone makes more money than you then
- 21:21they know something about business that
- 21:22you don't know and then they're better
- 21:23than you in some way and so you have to
- 21:24figure out what it is and so I looked at
- 21:26everything I was like I got to figure
- 21:27out this brand stuff like it's it's the
- 21:29brand I don't have a brand and so then I
- 21:30went through this long like do I want to
- 21:32be known publicly Fame has pros and cons
- 21:35and at this point in my life it has more
- 21:37Pros than cons thing is is that the pros
- 21:39of Fame there were some pros that I
- 21:40didn't expect the biggest one is
- 21:42recruiting our ability to attract Talent
- 21:44now is unparalleled and that has
- 21:46probably driven more Alpha from the
- 21:48investment than anything the companies
- 21:50we started investing in there was no way
- 21:52that some of the top talent that we put
- 21:53in those companies would have even taken
- 21:55a call with those companies but we
- 21:56recruit from hold they see a priv Equity
- 21:58Firm family office they can look at a
- 22:01whole bunch of our content be like these
- 22:02people seem okay they don't want to work
- 22:03at a $10 million Revenue business but if
- 22:05it's part of a family office where you
- 22:06could grow and grow your skill set
- 22:08that's yeah if you prove yourself we can
- 22:09move you over and if you want to be in a
- 22:10different industry we've got different
- 22:12Industries and if you crush it then you
- 22:14can come up to hold Co and then
- 22:16basically act as an adviser for all of
- 22:17those roles across the portfolio and so
- 22:19like our director of Cs directs all the
- 22:22directors of Cs in all the portfolio
- 22:24companies our director of sales directs
- 22:26and recruits the sales directors for all
- 22:27the portfolio companies now what what
- 22:29this does is it gives us a huge amount
- 22:31of Leverage and kind of like inside man
- 22:33for all the companies and so because we
- 22:35recruit some of the leaders they have a
- 22:38good relationship with us so we're not
- 22:39like this the board you know what I mean
- 22:41they're like oh no it's Alex and Lila
- 22:42and they're they're the ones who brought
- 22:43me in my first three interviews were
- 22:45with acquisition. comom and then they
- 22:46put me into this business as my last two
- 22:48interviews and so that's more or less
- 22:50the process that that we run in order to
- 22:52place Talent so that's been a huge
- 22:53that's been probably the biggest
- 22:55unforeseen benefit from Fame has been
- 22:58ability to recruit Talent um obviously
- 23:00the deal flow stuff is I mean that's the
- 23:02the obvious benefit those are probably
- 23:03the two biggest ones access to people to
- 23:05be candid with you I don't reach out to
- 23:07many people why take this the way I mean
- 23:09it to everyone who's listening I'm
- 23:10pretty sure I know what I need to do
- 23:11what activities I need to do in order to
- 23:13hit the goals that we have in the next
- 23:1412 to 24 months it is straightforward
- 23:17and so the only thing that separates me
- 23:18from that is doing it and so I basically
- 23:21try to eliminate all meetings there's a
- 23:23concept of efficiency versus
- 23:24Effectiveness yeah and you're clearly
- 23:27very efficient how do you know that
- 23:28you're
- 23:28how do you have such certainty around
- 23:30that the outcomes that we've generated
- 23:31so far you know in December of 2016 I
- 23:33had 1,000 bucks and we have a lot more
- 23:34than 1,000 bucks now how much of your
- 23:36success based on thousands of hours of
- 23:37hard work versus high IQ you deconstruct
- 23:40everything on a skill set basis but
- 23:41isn't there a minimum IQ that you need
- 23:43to be successful in business I think it
- 23:44depends on the business and it depends
- 23:46on the timeline I've seen all manners of
- 23:48business owners walk through our doors
- 23:50here at acquisition. comom I've seen
- 23:51some guys with janitorial businesses own
- 23:53$40 $50 million a year and I wouldn't
- 23:55say that they were super high IQ they
- 23:57just stuck with it for 20 years I think
- 23:59the the narrower the field of focus the
- 24:01lower the IQ requirement because
- 24:03fundamentally if you have a sound
- 24:05original model and you continue to try
- 24:08on a long enough time Horizon eventually
- 24:10you try something and it does work and
- 24:12then that gives you the next you know
- 24:13Peg you know up on the on the ladder and
- 24:16you just keep doing that I think we're a
- 24:17lot of entrepreneurs get in trouble is
- 24:18they try too many things so you just
- 24:19don't get enough failures in a narrow
- 24:21enough scope so that you can move
- 24:23forward I've been really thinking about
- 24:24this Paradigm of transactional versus
- 24:26relational businesses I'm very much a
- 24:28straight shooter and sometimes people
- 24:29are put off by that by the transactional
- 24:32nature but it's meant to be an honest
- 24:33trade and sometimes historically I would
- 24:35feel bad about that and then I noticed
- 24:37an interesting thing that anytime that
- 24:39somebody pushes back on that and says
- 24:40I'm like relationship I'm not
- 24:41transaction they have never executed not
- 24:43a single time somebody that pushes back
- 24:45on this construct on this kind of like
- 24:47explicit exchange have they actually
- 24:49executed so it makes me feel a little
- 24:50bit more confident in that I think that
- 24:52great relationships are built on great
- 24:54transactions what do you think about
- 24:56this so I'm glad that this is where we
- 24:58went because that's wholeheartedly agree
- 25:00I mean Lea and I have an explicit
- 25:01agreement of our exchange we we resit
- 25:02that agreement if we feel like one of us
- 25:03is out of exchange with the other or
- 25:05we're not meeting the other person's
- 25:06needs but I genuinely believe everything
- 25:08is transactional and there's just people
- 25:10who realize it or admit it and people
- 25:11who don't fundamentally if you are not
- 25:12rewarded for a relationship on a long
- 25:14enough time rise and you will leave it I
- 25:15think there's two aspects there one is
- 25:17the transactional aspect is only
- 25:19highlighted when it's really out of sync
- 25:21so for example if if we have a
- 25:23relationship uh you know I make you $100
- 25:25million you make me $200 million I don't
- 25:27think that's a problem yeah I think
- 25:28we're going to be best friends I think
- 25:31but over enough of a time if it's so
- 25:33lopsided then people naturally kind of
- 25:35go to like hey there needs to be more
- 25:36transactional ising for for me or more
- 25:39benefit for me that's where it really
- 25:40gets off of sync with these extremes and
- 25:42you look at Partnerships too you look at
- 25:43co-founders or 50/50 I don't think if
- 25:45somebody's doing 55 45 I don't think
- 25:47there's I've never seen a problem it's
- 25:49when it becomes like 9010 the other
- 25:51person tries to kind of guilt the other
- 25:52person saying like well I thought we
- 25:53were co-founders I thought we started
- 25:54this together but I I think you need a
- 25:56pretty wide disparity before becomes an
- 25:58isent something I learned from Lila that
- 26:00helped me out a lot in the earlier years
- 26:01is she said never count anybody else's
- 26:03money that's proven so profitable for me
- 26:05to just say what do I have available to
- 26:07me and does this does this deal make
- 26:09sense for me if this guy makes 20
- 26:11billion on this deal but the economics
- 26:14based on my side work fine and comparing
- 26:18those economics to the similar amount of
- 26:20activities or effort that I have to put
- 26:21in all the other vehicles that I could
- 26:23consider if I get the best return on
- 26:24this thing then I'm good with it and so
- 26:27I've I've had this um construct for
- 26:30Value creation which has been well
- 26:31rather value capturing which is there's
- 26:34the the the value that you add which is
- 26:36thing one your ability to negotiate that
- 26:39against that value how much of that can
- 26:41you capture third Vector is how many
- 26:43other people can do it that thing and
- 26:46then fourth is what's the risk you take
- 26:47on and I think that with those four
- 26:50elements you can usually look at most
- 26:52deals and kind of know the major levers
- 26:55that are at play so walk me through one
- 26:56of your private Equity deals using that
- 26:58framework if I bring brand to a deal
- 27:03then that's going to be a huge amount of
- 27:04value the ability that I to negotiate to
- 27:07capture as much of that value as
- 27:08possible is predicated on the idea that
- 27:09I have many other deals that I could do
- 27:11as well that are lined up behind this
- 27:13other person and you're negotiation
- 27:14skill set I still believe that all
- 27:15negotiation happens before you sit sit
- 27:17down to the table um the big stuff it's
- 27:19fundamentally Supply demand I just have
- 27:22always seen it that way so it's like if
- 27:23I want to have crazy terms to get into a
- 27:25relationship with a girl for example if
- 27:28I have no demand for me it's going to be
- 27:29very hard for me to get my terms if I
- 27:31have a line out the door I can ask 100
- 27:33people and one of them will say yes to
- 27:34my terms right so one is what's the
- 27:36value that I bring two is what are my
- 27:38skills at negotiating capturing as much
- 27:40of that value as possible three and this
- 27:42also hints out Supply demand which is
- 27:43how many other people are available who
- 27:45can do that same thing this is like a
- 27:46common one with like a sales guy right
- 27:47so it's like okay well I brought in 3
- 27:49million this year for the business it's
- 27:51like okay well your ability to negotiate
- 27:52the value fine you might be good at
- 27:54sales and be able to you know go back
- 27:55and forth but I've got 10 other guys who
- 27:57can do the exact same thing as you you
- 27:59were just selling candid a baby you were
- 28:00selling something very very attractive
- 28:02right and then finally it's what's the
- 28:04risk that's taken on and that's actually
- 28:05the the most recent one which sounds
- 28:07silly on an investor podcast to bring
- 28:08that up but we were talking to a high
- 28:10level employee that we wanted to bring
- 28:12in and he was like hey I would like
- 28:13shares of the business kind of upfront
- 28:14because I'm going to be you know
- 28:15forgoing this other stuff basically the
- 28:17tldr was you want to be compensated as a
- 28:20business owner without taking on the
- 28:21risk of a business own unless you're
- 28:22willing to put the same amount of skin
- 28:23in the game as I am or a business owner
- 28:26would in your position when you started
- 28:27yeah EX years ago right well yeah then
- 28:30that's that's not appropriate so from
- 28:31your perspective it should be about
- 28:33their opportunity cost one of your
- 28:34competitors and you don't have to offer
- 28:36much more just because they're I want
- 28:37people to be happy to be very clear like
- 28:39what would it take is still is always
- 28:41one of my one of my favorite questions
- 28:42if I have somebody who's oneof one who
- 28:43can create a ton of value then the
- 28:45supply demand shifts in their favor
- 28:46you've taught me by the way about a
- 28:48players not like giving them what they
- 28:50want at the margins don't be cheap with
- 28:51a players even though they negotiate
- 28:53hard I've learned so much from Lila
- 28:54about business she was really the one
- 28:56who's pushed me to be like let's pay
- 28:57above Market I was like why pay above
- 28:59Market let's pay Market Why Pay above
- 29:02Market because you get so much more so
- 29:04on one level you'll be able to attract
- 29:05the a players if you're paying a blood
- 29:06Market but I think that once the person
- 29:09comes in the door all of their behavior
- 29:11is going to be predicated on the the
- 29:12reinforcement Loops that you have within
- 29:13the business and so I I think that it's
- 29:15the ticket of Entry like the comp is the
- 29:17ticket of Entry but all their
- 29:18performance is going to be based on how
- 29:20well they are managed and led and their
- 29:21opportunities for growth um and honestly
- 29:23just like how much they sync within the
- 29:24culture of the business based on how we
- 29:26do things and if they're rewarded
- 29:27frequently doing things the way we want
- 29:28them to be done that make us the most
- 29:29money then they're going to be they're
- 29:31going to really like working here and
- 29:32then that will ultimately like the big
- 29:34Vegas headlights for a plus Talent is
- 29:36unlocking discretionary effort I want
- 29:38someone's shower time and I'm open about
- 29:40that if someone Works based on threat of
- 29:42punishment which is that you lose your
- 29:43job right then you will get as much
- 29:46effort as required to not lose your job
- 29:48for the most skilled people that
- 29:50requires the least effort for them to do
- 29:52as little as required to keep their job
- 29:53and those are the people that you lose
- 29:54the most Alpha on in terms of how much
- 29:56they could add if they really tried I
- 29:58mean if you wanted to zoom all the way
- 30:00out like Le and I's purpose of of all of
- 30:02this stuff is to show that having a way
- 30:05of running a company that is off of
- 30:07Praise not punishment is a more
- 30:08profitable way to run a business and
- 30:11people don't hate you but no one's going
- 30:13to believe us until we have multiple
- 30:14billions and then people then ask but
- 30:16that is our entire thesis Daniel's here
- 30:18he he'll vouch for it and the unlocking
- 30:21discretionary effort is that only
- 30:23captured through Equity could that be
- 30:25captured through salary and how do you
- 30:27oh yeah yeah no it doesn't have to be
- 30:28Equity at all I think it's just how you
- 30:29treat people whether they're rewarded
- 30:30for going above and beyond and I think
- 30:32reward Cycles are way too latent in most
- 30:34people's business and arbitrary yeah
- 30:35well latent in terms of like delayed if
- 30:37someone does something we want to reward
- 30:39in minutes a paycheck is so hard to
- 30:41attribute a behavior that you did my
- 30:43closest friend Dr caty is like a
- 30:45behavioral scientist you know genius guy
- 30:47he showed me this chart and it like it
- 30:48changed the way I saw everything he said
- 30:50this is a chart of how to train a dog
- 30:51how to sit on one vector it had yeah a
- 30:53number of attempts to until they learn
- 30:54the trick and how delayed the trainer
- 30:58was before they gave them a treat when
- 30:59they sat and so if you gave the dog the
- 31:02treat immediately it took a couple of
- 31:04times and they learned how to sit
- 31:06because we reared them immediately after
- 31:07they did so they could they could tie
- 31:08the two together if you waited 5 Seconds
- 31:11it would be like 20 tries if you waited
- 31:1345 seconds it was a zillion tries after
- 31:16a minute the dog was untrainable it
- 31:19would never learn how to sit now what
- 31:21where it gets like the 2011 version of
- 31:23this is but that you still continue to
- 31:24give them a treat which means you were
- 31:25training them you were just training to
- 31:26do them to do something else else and so
- 31:28I think about this a lot within the
- 31:29context of compensation systems but comp
- 31:32with you know paychecks is at such a
- 31:33delay that it's a very effective way of
- 31:35getting someone to join your company in
- 31:37a very terrible way of getting them to
- 31:38work as hard as they can without us
- 31:39sounding like Psychopaths do you believe
- 31:41in operate conditioning so somebody does
- 31:44something you give them a bonus on
- 31:45Friday 100% And do you think there's any
- 31:47exception tooper and condition I don't
- 31:48even believe in free will tell me more
- 31:50well we behave in ways that we have been
- 31:52rewarded for in the past if you can
- 31:54control all the variables you can
- 31:55control someone's Behavior now that
- 31:56sounds like psychopath stuff but I don't
- 31:59see it that way I just see it as more of
- 32:00a statement of fact if I wanted everyone
- 32:02in here to take all of their clothes off
- 32:03I could guarantee that I could do it I
- 32:05would just raise the temperature in this
- 32:06room into a point and we just stay in
- 32:07here until I lock the doors and I raise
- 32:08the temperature and then eventually all
- 32:09of us would take our clothes off and so
- 32:11if I can change the conditions to get a
- 32:12behavior then did that person at Free
- 32:15Will and so BF Skinner is one of the you
- 32:17know the the forefathers of this
- 32:18behavioral he has this quote that I just
- 32:20love and it'll be at the beginning of
- 32:21one of my books but everyone says that
- 32:23you can lead a horse to water but you
- 32:25can't make it drink he said false he
- 32:27said if I salted the horse's mouth and I
- 32:29dehydrated the horse for weeks and then
- 32:31I put its mouth right in front of water
- 32:33I can veritably guarantee that it will
- 32:34drink when I think about like sales
- 32:35processes for that reason is that there
- 32:37is a perfect sales process there is a
- 32:39way that we can get it so that we can
- 32:40control all of the variables and every
- 32:42single person would buy now it may not
- 32:44be worth the return on investment which
- 32:46is a separate question to create that
- 32:48and then you have the tradeoffs that you
- 32:49have within a business but the same
- 32:50things exist when you're when you're
- 32:51when you're hiring someone so like if I
- 32:53know we're getting into a little bit of
- 32:54the the offside of business it's hard
- 32:55for me to to to stay away but there's
- 32:57this whole whole concept of you know
- 32:58hire for attitude and train for aptitude
- 33:01and you've heard plenty of these things
- 33:02right you hire for the smallest skill
- 33:04deficiency period it's just that
- 33:07attitude has bundled terms in terms of
- 33:09language and so if I say I want someone
- 33:11who has Charisma Charisma if I say be
- 33:14charismatic to a child even if they
- 33:16understand what the word means they
- 33:18can't be charismatic they have to then
- 33:20translate that into smile when you walk
- 33:22into a room nod your head when someone's
- 33:24listening speak louder when someone says
- 33:27something say it back to them you know
- 33:29it's a bundled term for 30 sets of
- 33:31behaviors and then those behaviors are
- 33:33trainable now I believe in the concept
- 33:36of hire for attitude not aptitude
- 33:38because to teach someone to be kind
- 33:41maybe 50 different micro Skillets that I
- 33:44would have to teach and that's probably
- 33:45not worth a return on investment now in
- 33:47a higher level role it might be easier
- 33:49to teach someone to be kind than to
- 33:50teach them 20 years of Finance or just
- 33:52find someone else right we believe at
- 33:55acquisition. comom that everything is
- 33:56trainable but everything is not worth
- 33:59training what about coachability
- 34:01deconstruct that what makes somebody
- 34:02more trainable someone who is coachable
- 34:04I would use at least our internal
- 34:06definition around this was just just
- 34:07intelligence intelligence is rate of
- 34:08learning if we Define learning as same
- 34:10condition new Behavior then if I say hey
- 34:13enter this phone and say the script and
- 34:15the phone rings and then you don't say
- 34:16the script and I say now read this
- 34:18script phone rings again same condition
- 34:19and then they read the script new
- 34:20Behavior they have learned if I can do
- 34:22that in one repetition with somebody and
- 34:24it takes somebody else five repetitions
- 34:26the first person is more intelligent
- 34:27some people say more coachable than the
- 34:29other person and so I think you aply
- 34:32pointed out that one of the number one
- 34:34things that we look for now is just
- 34:37general intelligence basically our
- 34:39return on investment for what we put in
- 34:41to train someone we can get down oneth
- 34:45if the person has higher general
- 34:47intelligence and so this is where um
- 34:49sometimes you have people who come in
- 34:51with lots of experience and so they have
- 34:53a lot of skills but they're actually not
- 34:54very intelligent and so what you see is
- 34:56pretty much all your going to get
- 34:58because the amount of effort it takes
- 34:59them to teach one or two more skills you
- 35:02could probably teach a younger Junior
- 35:04hungrier more intelligent person in you
- 35:07know the same period of time but then
- 35:09once I've matched that person or once
- 35:10that candidate has matched the more
- 35:12experienced one they blow past them then
- 35:14a subset of intelligence is ego and the
- 35:16ability to to take feedback sure but you
- 35:18don't believe in trauma I no I do
- 35:19believe in trauma I believe in it in
- 35:21defining it which is a permanent I'll
- 35:22say this way I don't believe trauma is
- 35:24bad it's a permanent change of behavior
- 35:25based on an aversive stimulus so if I
- 35:29was a kid and I touched the stove and I
- 35:31burned my hand that is something that
- 35:33taught me something now if I never touch
- 35:35a stove again from that then the stove
- 35:37traumatized me so the followup question
- 35:39is was that bad fundamentally you can
- 35:41imagine me with like a room of like
- 35:42holistic healers who are like doing Bell
- 35:44things and like I think you're storing
- 35:45your trauma in your back I'm like how do
- 35:47you know that where point to the anatomy
- 35:50please tell me where I'm storing trauma
- 35:53what does that even mean and so by
- 35:54seeing this world the world this way at
- 35:56least as we do it and I'm going say
- 35:57saying everyone should this is just it's
- 35:58helped me see the world more clearly I
- 36:00think it's taken a lot of the Gob
- 36:02gobbledygook um out of the many things
- 36:04that are on social media and the
- 36:06internet and it's also I think helped a
- 36:07lot of our team in some of these things
- 36:09I had an interview with um a candidate
- 36:12uh that we ended up hiring um and he's
- 36:14like you know uh I just have a lot of
- 36:16demons and I was like what does that
- 36:17mean and he was like I just you know
- 36:20sometimes like I can I can sabotage my
- 36:22success cuz I'm like afraid of being
- 36:23successful I was like you under skilled
- 36:26you don't know how to beh in conditions
- 36:28that's all this is so when this new
- 36:31condition occurs we're going to do a
- 36:32different Behavior than you've done in
- 36:33the past if you can do that we're fine
- 36:35and he was like I can do that I was like
- 36:37okay both could actually be true that
- 36:39could have this fear but but you
- 36:41desensitize the fear through repetition
- 36:43in that condition totally habituation
- 36:45absolutely so you talk about the one
- 36:47meta skill that's overshadows all other
- 36:49meta skills what is that meta skill I me
- 36:51I think the ability to learn is the meta
- 36:52skill and you know intelligence is like
- 36:53your rate of learning I think that's the
- 36:55big thing from a business perspective I
- 36:57think the big meta skill is being able
- 36:58to get other people to do stuff cuz
- 37:00fundamentally if you only had that skill
- 37:01you get everyone else to do everything
- 37:02else you need at least in the small
- 37:03business World which is where I live so
- 37:05you know Sub sub 200 employees whatever
- 37:08um the vast majority of business owners
- 37:10conflate CEO and business owner they see
- 37:13them as one and the same yeah and so
- 37:14fundamentally an owner uh a good owner
- 37:17rather um can bring all of the people
- 37:20who can run the business like right now
- 37:21if I own a share of Apple then that
- 37:24business functions without me if I can
- 37:26get other people to do basically a
- 37:28business doesn't require so leverage
- 37:29yeah some form of Leverage exactly what
- 37:31are the different forms of Leverage so I
- 37:32think I'd be stealing from Nal here but
- 37:34I mean he has I I remember with C so
- 37:36it's like code content collaboration
- 37:38which is what I say so getting other
- 37:39people to do things and capital right
- 37:41those are the four that he brings up but
- 37:42I think there's I mean fundamentally
- 37:43Leverage is just getting more for what
- 37:44you put in um and so in any situation
- 37:47where you get more for what you put in
- 37:48then you have leverage you have several
- 37:49dozen companies does basically managing
- 37:52hard or micromanaging ever work or is it
- 37:55about aligning incentives really good
- 37:56question I want to say yes I think
- 37:58aligning incentives is people can't have
- 38:01incentives that are against the benefit
- 38:02of everyone else so that feels like
- 38:04number one we don't want to have
- 38:05something that gets in our way but like
- 38:06micromanagement and abdication sit on uh
- 38:09equal opposite sides of uh and I think
- 38:11it's more of a dichotomy to be managed
- 38:13rather than a problem to be solved if
- 38:15you tell someone to do every single
- 38:16thing like at some point you've lost all
- 38:18of your leverage and why bother on the
- 38:20other hand if you delegate something and
- 38:21stats go down you abdicated it you did
- 38:23not delegate it if you delegate it and
- 38:25stats remain the same or go up then you
- 38:26have properly delegated so that gives us
- 38:28a very easy limus test for when people
- 38:29move up in the business and they replace
- 38:31themselves in a role that helps us do
- 38:33that from the micromanagement
- 38:34perspective this is probably like
- 38:36recency bias but I just read have you
- 38:37seen the whole founder mode I think
- 38:39there's some truth to it I think it's
- 38:41less about micromanaging and more about
- 38:44what are the behaviors that a Founder is
- 38:46doing that are not duplicated when they
- 38:49leave I'll give you a really micro
- 38:50example of this Caleb who's directs all
- 38:52of our media he was the first person we
- 38:54hired uh when we wanted to get in this
- 38:55content game he was so good to film with
- 38:57you know he moved up and he replaced
- 38:59himself I was like I hate filming this
- 39:01is not good I don't want to do this
- 39:02anymore and so then we're like okay what
- 39:04is it that because we're like he just
- 39:06has such a great Vibe I was like a Vibe
- 39:08is not a thing so what are the behaviors
- 39:10that he does during a shoot that other
- 39:12people are not replicating and so it
- 39:14turned out uh one is when we were
- 39:17talking he would be nodding his head
- 39:18behind the camera and when we'd make a
- 39:20good point he'd be like he would throw
- 39:22his thumb up like that was awesome and
- 39:24immediately after the the podcast or
- 39:27what you know whatever the recording
- 39:28session was over he would give us a fist
- 39:30bump and then he would have notes on his
- 39:32phone that he'd be like hey followup
- 39:34question hey followup question hey
- 39:35follow question and so I was like this
- 39:37is so enjoyable so he had some basic
- 39:40business context so that he could ask
- 39:42good questions he was being reinforcing
- 39:45very low latency while I'm actually
- 39:47doing the recording in multiple ways
- 39:48both visually from how he's nodding and
- 39:50raising it th up and at the end he get I
- 39:51basically had another reward cycle where
- 39:52he gave me a bump saying like awesome
- 39:54job you crushed it once we took that
- 39:56checklist that became the videographer
- 39:58training checklist has he been fist
- 39:59bumping oh every time we then duplicated
- 40:02all of those activities with other
- 40:04videographers that before this we did
- 40:05not enjoy filming with all of a sudden
- 40:07we enjoyed filming with them as well and
- 40:08all of a sudden they all had great Vibes
- 40:10and so I say that as a microcosm of the
- 40:13founder mode question that we began with
- 40:15which is I think that soft skills are
- 40:18hard to quantify but they are still
- 40:20skills and so it just means that there
- 40:23are more subskills underneath of them
- 40:25that we have to learn and observe so
- 40:27that we can duplicate it your
- 40:28deconstructing skill sets probably some
- 40:30people think you're crazy other people
- 40:31probably love it like how did people
- 40:33adapt to the style of management I wish
- 40:35my team was here because I think they
- 40:36would answer the question even better
- 40:37but I would say that this is our view of
- 40:40the world if this is a view that you
- 40:41don't agree with that's totally okay you
- 40:43just won't do well here one of the
- 40:45benefits doing a call back to the fame
- 40:46thing is that almost everybody who comes
- 40:48in the company has consumed a lot of my
- 40:49stuff and so they kind of know how we
- 40:51operate and so we have such a speed up
- 40:55on the cultural kind of assimilation
- 40:57Andor rejection so if someone doesn't
- 40:59fit in like we had somebody who just
- 41:00started uh three days ago and it third
- 41:02day he was like I don't think this is
- 41:03for me and we're like cool do push that
- 41:05Tony zapo famously from from Vegas had
- 41:07he would give people a bonus to quit I
- 41:08think after that first month I think
- 41:09it's a brilliant idea I think that the
- 41:11skills that everything is is a skilled
- 41:13efficiency perspective is incredibly
- 41:15refreshing for the vast majority of the
- 41:16team because that is how we manage and
- 41:19so instead of being like you suck or you
- 41:21are this way insert label which then
- 41:23feels out of their control say hey
- 41:25you're a dick very hard toach someone to
- 41:27not be a dick but if you say hey these
- 41:30are five things that you do that people
- 41:32complain about and we under these
- 41:33conditions we need you to change your
- 41:34behavior and then all of a sudden
- 41:36they're like oh thank you for the
- 41:37clarity and so the difficulty in
- 41:39managing this way is that it takes more
- 41:41work we have to be more precise with our
- 41:43language and we be more precise with the
- 41:46deficiencies that someone is exhibiting
- 41:47this whole everything focus on Behavior
- 41:49permeates through the entire business
- 41:51and so I'll give you an example of the
- 41:53team thing and then I'll example the
- 41:54one-on-one thing from the the team
- 41:55perspective most business own owners or
- 41:57teams are accustomed to reporting data
- 41:59on performance and then when they get
- 42:00into that Loop they start just providing
- 42:02more and more and more and more more
- 42:03data I had to do a breakdown for the
- 42:04team and say hey if this goes up what do
- 42:07we do if this goes down what do we do if
- 42:09we don't do anything based on if this
- 42:11data moves we do not need it and so all
- 42:12of a sudden it took this these massive
- 42:14sheets and then just simplified them to
- 42:15three or four pieces of data that we
- 42:16look at it's like great because these
- 42:18affect our Behavior now we can have a
- 42:19productive meeting and so from a from a
- 42:22large perspective then we say this is
- 42:24the this is the the data that's off
- 42:25these are the behaviors that we're going
- 42:26to do to fix that and that's what we're
- 42:28going to start doing tomorrow with the
- 42:29team doing XYZ from a 101 perspective
- 42:31it's addressing the skill to sufficiency
- 42:33they have they may have 10 things that
- 42:34are off that they're working on who
- 42:36determines that manager or the leader
- 42:38whoever the leader is so it's not meant
- 42:39to be like here I think you should be
- 42:41more charismatic it's based on outputs
- 42:43on the metrics that that you're
- 42:44responsible for and we would never say
- 42:46be more Caris we say you need to smile
- 42:47more is yeah is there speed of feedback
- 42:50is there like a natural speed like I try
- 42:52to goes back to negotiation there's a
- 42:54negotiator Chris Vos he says if you need
- 42:55to let the air out of a and do it slowly
- 42:58even with a hostage negotiation if you
- 43:00have 3 hours do it like 10 minutes at a
- 43:02time do you believe in that I think
- 43:03giving one piece of feedback at a time
- 43:04is incredibly important but I'll give
- 43:05you an example we started running
- 43:06workshops here at our headquarters and a
- 43:08lot of our team although subject matter
- 43:10experts are not good at presenting that
- 43:11wasn't a skill set that they had we had
- 43:13to teach the whole team how to present
- 43:15in a way that other people liked and
- 43:17would continue to watch and learn from
- 43:18and so the way that we did that was you
- 43:21know someone would get on stage and they
- 43:22would you know begin their presentation
- 43:24and they'd be 30 seconds in we'd be stop
- 43:26say it this way way change your tone do
- 43:28it again stop go back to the beginning
- 43:30one more time like this go back to
- 43:32conditioning them at the behavior not
- 43:33like 30 minutes later and oh it's
- 43:35useless it's completely useless I
- 43:37genuinely believe that 95% of businesses
- 43:40have no idea how to train they mostly
- 43:42survive on luck they plow 20 people in
- 43:44they see that five people work because
- 43:46those five people came in with a small
- 43:48enough skill deficiency at Baseline that
- 43:50they could be successful in the role the
- 43:52other 15 fall off and that's how they
- 43:53run their business a lot of people are
- 43:54on Zoom calls and they want to give
- 43:55feedback to somebody you just record
- 43:57that and then go over it and we slack
- 43:59them in real time it's way faster that
- 44:00way so we' be like hey bring this up hey
- 44:02your tones off try this do you self-
- 44:04select for employees that want to
- 44:05develop themselves it's actually the
- 44:07number one thing that people come to
- 44:08acquisition. comom for the number one
- 44:09thing that people say they're coming
- 44:10here for is growth people follow my
- 44:12stuff they know that I'm a big skills
- 44:14guy yeah and so they usually want more
- 44:16of them and we do our very best to
- 44:18provide them you're obviously highly
- 44:19skilled I mentioned you're worth
- 44:21hundreds of millions of dollars what
- 44:22skills are you working on right now
- 44:24let's break this into two buckets
- 44:25knowing about and knowing how to is
- 44:27basically the two big buckets and where
- 44:30the biggest blind spots that I've had in
- 44:31my career are me not knowing about I
- 44:33didn't know private Equity existed I
- 44:34didn't know that was a thing right so
- 44:37that was like I couldn't get good at
- 44:38private Equity until I learned about
- 44:39private Equity knowing about private
- 44:41equity and how it works is very
- 44:42different from knowing how to run a
- 44:45private Equity Fund raise funds deal
- 44:47with LPS negotiate deals do deals Source
- 44:49deals all of the micro things that occur
- 44:51underneath of that I would say that for
- 44:52me right now from the learning about
- 44:54side I'm still learning more on the the
- 44:57fund stuff I'm still very very green
- 44:59there and then the how-to is really
- 45:01going to come from that will be like my
- 45:03second kind of order of skills that I'll
- 45:05have to break down the thing that we
- 45:06have right now is we have tons of deal
- 45:08flow and we know how to create value so
- 45:09those are the two things we have the
- 45:10things that we've been lacking have been
- 45:12the funds to execute honestly the amount
- 45:14of deals that we could do at the size
- 45:15that we want so what's the largest deals
- 45:17that that you get from a deal standpoint
- 45:19we I mean we got companies doing 300
- 45:20million a year coming to us and what are
- 45:21they looking for honestly most people
- 45:23come to us for expertise they watch some
- 45:25of our deep stuff on you know scaling a
- 45:27sales team from 0 to 40 guys in 90 days
- 45:30and they're like how did you do that can
- 45:31you do that for me and we're like yeah
- 45:33but not for
- 45:355% and so then that's really where the
- 45:37negotiation you know kind of gets in
- 45:38it's like okay well if we do do this
- 45:40then we're going to 5x the value of the
- 45:42company people come to us because they
- 45:44have some constraint they either have
- 45:45identified or haven't do you have a
- 45:47vesting schedule where you grow it five
- 45:48times and you're like okay my job is
- 45:50done do you continue to stay with the
- 45:51business so my CFO gave me this and um
- 45:54and I've I've been trying to to stick
- 45:56with it which is um one of his friends
- 45:58was a very successful VC and what they
- 46:01figured out was that when they doubl
- 46:03down on the ones that they did really
- 46:04well on they did even better and so um
- 46:08you know I would say if you had asked me
- 46:09five years ago ex feed the winners
- 46:11starve starers exactly but I mean it's
- 46:13harsh but it's it's the Venture yes it's
- 46:15kind of the same thing I mean we
- 46:16absolutely pay more attention to the
- 46:18companies that are the biggest ones in
- 46:19the portfolio and in terms of us kind of
- 46:22like letting off the gas pedal once we
- 46:23have a 5x it's like kind of the opposite
- 46:25of that the better they do the more we
- 46:26push so I don't often do this but what
- 46:28questions do you have for me if you were
- 46:30in my position what would you do so I
- 46:32think there's a general situation where
- 46:34it's the ultimate grass is greener every
- 46:36private Equity person that you talk to
- 46:38will say Do Your Own Thing and every
- 46:40person that says Do Your Own Thing will
- 46:42say private Equity I think there's a
- 46:43couple ways first of all meta comment I
- 46:45would say is I think you're very right
- 46:48to take your time on this decision I had
- 46:50a friend he went around he's actually my
- 46:51co-host Eric torberg and he spent 18
- 46:54months I would see him ask the same
- 46:55questions to people I'm like this guy
- 46:56he's just not executing like what is he
- 46:58doing just do something and like figure
- 46:59it out and then he built this incredible
- 47:01business and he had this huge launch and
- 47:03it was very successful I was just blown
- 47:05away by like how somebody could
- 47:07consciously gather information so I
- 47:09commend the thoughtfulness because it's
- 47:11a very big decision and it's
- 47:12irreversible yeah it's one of those
- 47:14things to quote Jeff Bezos it's a door
- 47:16it's a non-revolving door yeah so first
- 47:18of all it is a very big decision second
- 47:21of all I would think about one of my
- 47:23mentors Eric Anderson who's on the
- 47:25podcast he's developed more drugs than
- 47:27anybody else in history he started his
- 47:29last company alloy Therapeutics what is
- 47:31the last business that I want to start
- 47:32what company do I want to work with in
- 47:34next 20 30 years so I think there's a
- 47:36Founder product fit question which is
- 47:38what does Alex heroi want to do over the
- 47:40next 30 years because you're so good at
- 47:42operationalizing you look at everything
- 47:44from a number standpoint but you're also
- 47:45a human being and I think the question
- 47:47is especially after you gain a certain
- 47:49amount of wealth is your lifestyle what
- 47:52do you want to be doing day-to-day and
- 47:54you can make those decisions not only
- 47:56from the perspective of private Equity
- 47:58or non-private Equity but also which LPS
- 47:59do you want one of the other things
- 48:01which I didn't mention is door four
- 48:03which has been a strong consideration I
- 48:05don't know why I didn't mention it has
- 48:06just been raising around at our holdco
- 48:09level and just doing a minority round
- 48:11there that would allow us to get the
- 48:12funding to then just do all the stuff
- 48:14that we're currently doing the way we do
- 48:15it the way we already know works and
- 48:17just do it on bigger deals that would
- 48:19then capture all of the brand growth
- 48:21that I have so those LPS would be like
- 48:22oh wow you know I guess it wouldn't be
- 48:23an LP structure I guess they would just
- 48:25be owners of you know my hold C and
- 48:28that's something that's actually been um
- 48:31very interesting to me because it's the
- 48:33your original Point like I've structured
- 48:35my day for the most part to do exactly
- 48:36what I want to do and what I think I'm
- 48:38good at and what does that look like I
- 48:40have a pretty empty schedule I work all
- 48:42the time but I have no commitments and
- 48:43my way of saying it is I end up working
- 48:45on that which matters most every day and
- 48:47so sometimes that which matters most is
- 48:48something that's going to come to
- 48:49refresh in a year but I have one day a
- 48:51week on Mondays that I have all my
- 48:52meetings and then I have basically Media
- 48:56stuff so content me writing books things
- 48:59like that basically the rest of my week
- 49:00is predominantly deep work and that has
- 49:02worked really well for Ila and I and the
- 49:04only way that I can live that lifestyle
- 49:06is because of Lila Lila's schedule is
- 49:08the inverse of mine she has one day a
- 49:10week of deep work and then four days a
- 49:11week where she has 20 plus meetings a
- 49:14day she has many indirect reports that
- 49:16she's soft touching you know two levels
- 49:18down three levels down to continue to
- 49:20develop Get Talent bring up rising stars
- 49:23get good feedback on their leaders so
- 49:24that she can give them feedback directly
- 49:26like she will never get the credit that
- 49:27she deserves because she's a woman and
- 49:29because I'm so vocal in public but she's
- 49:31absolutely the reason that we have what
- 49:32we have like I had only made up to 3
- 49:34million dollar a year before I met Ila
- 49:36what was the constraint blocking and
- 49:37tackling I Ruled through fear to be
- 49:39honest that's what it was I know a lot
- 49:40better now but when I met Lila she told
- 49:42me on one of our first dates she said I
- 49:44just want to build a place that people
- 49:45love to work and I was like well I just
- 49:47want to make a lot of money and she said
- 49:49she wanted to do that but she was very
- 49:50like anti-money when we met she was like
- 49:52bleeding heart I just want to help
- 49:54everybody and I was like well you won't
- 49:55be able to help anyone if you're poor
- 49:57and so what if we can merge kind of
- 49:58these two thought processes and that's
- 50:00been kind of like the Journey of our our
- 50:02working relationship is that she has
- 50:04been and I don't want to say the soft
- 50:05side because I think that does a
- 50:06disservice to the fact that she's made
- 50:08of iron it's really impressive no one
- 50:10has ever left any company that we've had
- 50:12and been like Lila is unfair she is a
- 50:14matriarch in terms of how everything is
- 50:16run within all of our portfolio
- 50:17companies I would say all the founders
- 50:19have tremendous respect for Ila and they
- 50:21know that she's the one you go to when
- 50:22you have to have the hard conversation
- 50:23with someone and she will be like this
- 50:25is how you do it you have such a High
- 50:27performing culture and not everybody
- 50:29fits with it and they leave what do they
- 50:30say when they leave we have very low
- 50:32turnover is that because of a good
- 50:34screening processor our ability to
- 50:36create culture and operationalize
- 50:38culture has just improved so much
- 50:40between businesses because it's still on
- 50:41on such a short timeline if you think
- 50:42about it from a business I mean I
- 50:44started my first business when I was 20
- 50:47uh2 and that was 13 years ago you know
- 50:50in the investor timeline it's like I've
- 50:52had one funds worth of time right 10
- 50:54plus plus one plus one yeah right
- 50:56exactly and so it's been a very short
- 50:58timeline and so like you know how I
- 50:59built my gyms was very different than
- 51:01how we built gym launch which is very
- 51:03different from how we've built
- 51:04acquisition. comom and um this I mean
- 51:07this has been my favorite business uh to
- 51:09run and I feel like it's Lea and I are
- 51:12both in our stride we are doing what we
- 51:14are both very good at we've given each
- 51:15other the protection or space to just do
- 51:18what we do best so Lela basically runs
- 51:21everything and I'm in charge of rain
- 51:23making that's been always the best
- 51:25division of labor you tell Lea I just
- 51:27want to make more money is that really
- 51:28what drives you or is that kind of more
- 51:30Market I always like saying that because
- 51:32I never want to be one of those people
- 51:33who like says they're trying to do yeah
- 51:35that's my reputation Insurance like yep
- 51:36I'm here to make money and I say that in
- 51:38all my content like not here to be a
- 51:39good guy here to make money so I'll give
- 51:40you a longer answer than you probably
- 51:41asked for when we sold gym launch we
- 51:44taken 42 million in distributions and
- 51:46then we got $31 million check for the
- 51:492/3 at 46 right and I had invested a
- 51:51little bit and so the the 42 had grown
- 51:53or whatever at that point though we had
- 51:54zero responsibilities and the year
- 51:56during the sale I wasn't you know
- 51:58typically you don't like change anything
- 52:00while you're in the middle of a deal
- 52:02process and so the whole company pretty
- 52:03much just ran and we just got checks
- 52:05every month basically and that was it
- 52:06and it was the saddest year of my life
- 52:08because I couldn't start something new
- 52:10because I didn't know if the deal was
- 52:11going to happen you know like things can
- 52:12fall through whatever but I also
- 52:14couldn't work on the business I
- 52:15basically just had to sit idly for a
- 52:17year and I had a lot of time to just
- 52:19think and the conclusion that I came for
- 52:21me was that hard work is the goal for a
- 52:24very long time it was hard work so that
- 52:26I can and then it was just insert
- 52:28whatever thing but when I looked back on
- 52:31my favorite days of my life it was when
- 52:32I left nothing on the field when I was
- 52:34completely used up at the end of the day
- 52:36and the first boss that I had the
- 52:38management consulting firm that I had
- 52:39right out of college she said this thing
- 52:40to me they had like a good weekend and I
- 52:42came in on Monday like in a good mood or
- 52:43something she asked me why and I said I
- 52:45just you know I had a great weekend and
- 52:47she said I'm pretty sure the secret to
- 52:49life is living as many days in a row
- 52:51like that as you can I always remembered
- 52:52that and so in trying to structure my
- 52:55life I actually used the same process
- 52:56that we use to improve everything in
- 52:59everything we do so whether it's media
- 53:00whether it's ads which it's it's sales
- 53:02teams it's CS whatever we just look at
- 53:04what did we do in the past what were the
- 53:06top 10% days or outcomes what did those
- 53:09look like and what were the bottom 10%
- 53:10and then the bottom 10% tell us what not
- 53:12to do and the top 10% we do more of that
- 53:14and so when I look at my life my top 10%
- 53:17days had the same two or three things
- 53:18that were involved I ate food with
- 53:21people I liked I worked out hard and I
- 53:25worked and accomplished something
- 53:27meaningful for the day and I usually
- 53:29have nothing left at the end and so I
- 53:33pretty much just try and do that every
- 53:34single day that's my that's my goal and
- 53:37the things that I enjoy working hard on
- 53:39is business I love business it's like
- 53:41almost like a romantic love of mine I
- 53:43love it I draw pictures about it I write
- 53:44books about it I make videos about it I
- 53:46do business every day it's the thing
- 53:48that I love I could talk to you for 10
- 53:49more hours about business stuff I
- 53:50interviewed Steve mcclaflin he's
- 53:52considered the world's Rich banker and
- 53:55he spends 80% of his time time dealing
- 53:56with clients and how do people like like
- 53:59you and Steve say no to other things
- 54:01that you may not want to do but that
- 54:04quot unquote need to be done I get
- 54:05emails like how do you operationalize
- 54:08four days of deep work I have no direct
- 54:11reports zero like if you look at the
- 54:13work chart it's me and then dotted line
- 54:15to Lila and then Ila has the whole
- 54:16company what about bills there's a long
- 54:19tale of things that just hit your email
- 54:20Reas check my email and they route
- 54:23things and make decisions based on just
- 54:25like DEC
- 54:27yeah exactly how long did it take for
- 54:28you to create that system we have 3 EA
- 54:30senior just became director of Ops but
- 54:32it's been seven 8 years that we've had
- 54:35that team and so what were the biggest
- 54:36fails in that system I have had 10 EAS
- 54:39personally and have failed all of them
- 54:42and so then we realized after the 10th
- 54:44try it's me not them Lea paired us for a
- 54:47quarterly to give feedback to one
- 54:48another and she said I feel like when I
- 54:52message you I'm bothering you I'm
- 54:54assuming with the hope that I would say
- 54:57oh no it's fine message me and instead I
- 55:00said you are I'm working and then when
- 55:02you take away from that work you make us
- 55:04less money and so I do see it pretty
- 55:06much always as a punishing event for me
- 55:08to basically have to stop doing
- 55:10something that I'm enjoying doing to do
- 55:11something that I enjoyed less doing and
- 55:13so over time the EA now they'll come in
- 55:16when I eat lunch because it's the same
- 55:1715 minutes every day and they'll just
- 55:19like they'll be like I have six things
- 55:20for you this thing this thing and it's
- 55:22while I'm not working anyways self
- 55:23manage but honestly my lifestyle is only
- 55:26I'm only able to do this because Lea's
- 55:28lifestyle is the inverse of mine
- 55:30Together We Are One good CEO she is a
- 55:32work funnel like she just swallows work
- 55:36and then she brings people in and trains
- 55:37them brings people in and trains them
- 55:38and her her rate of operating is just
- 55:41unbelievable and so she allows me to
- 55:43think really big and have the space to
- 55:44do it it's all because of her what are
- 55:45your special skills I think it's
- 55:47actually just education like I love
- 55:48teaching which sounds terrible like
- 55:50saying that you love teaching is kind of
- 55:52lame but I see sales as an education
- 55:54process you educate a prospect and if
- 55:56they educated enough and if you have a
- 55:57product that really is good if they
- 55:58believe what you believe then they will
- 56:00buy I see marketing and sales as the
- 56:01same Continuum like you just need a
- 56:03certain amount of information for
- 56:04someone to make a purchasing decision
- 56:05and so I see them as one thing that's
- 56:07what I spend a lot of time doing and so
- 56:10if we Define education as changing
- 56:11someone's Behavior then that is that is
- 56:14what has been the passion of my life
- 56:16hopefully everybody who's listening to
- 56:17this who's an LP I hope I didn't bore
- 56:19you to Absolute death not talking about
- 56:21too much investing and just talking way
- 56:23more about business if you were to do a
- 56:24fund like tell me about what you would
- 56:26want LP Partners I'd probably want one
- 56:28of two types I'd either want completely
- 56:29passive LP who just let me do what I
- 56:32think we're good at or somebody who had
- 56:33some Strategic Benefit that they could
- 56:35bring to the table probably wouldn't be
- 56:36deal flow but it probably be
- 56:38relationships around whatever the you
- 56:39know investment thesis that we were
- 56:40going to build it off of as you've
- 56:42evolved your private Equity business
- 56:43have you narrowed down do you have a
- 56:45very specific kind of hit Lane on these
- 56:47are the types of deals I want to do or
- 56:48are you more opportunistic I would say
- 56:50Lea and I both like service and software
- 56:53businesses those are the two when we've
- 56:54looked at all the deals that we've done
- 56:55those are the ones that we do the best
- 56:56with and especially ones that are demand
- 56:58constrainted those are the ones that we
- 57:00just can absolutely murder it for if
- 57:01someone has really good you know user
- 57:03retention and they have you know good
- 57:05Ascension processes the best guys are
- 57:07the ones who are just obsessed with
- 57:08product like the reason that I did the
- 57:09school deal was when I saw the Ben of
- 57:11the business I was like this thing's a
- 57:12monster like it's just early they just
- 57:14need demand and I think all product
- 57:17seeks distribution and all distribution
- 57:19seeks good product and so I see myself
- 57:21as distribution and so that was just
- 57:23like such a no-brainer it was perfect it
- 57:24was school it's education it worked with
- 57:26the 70% of my audience that want to
- 57:28start a business so only 30% of my
- 57:29audience have a business now if I talk
- 57:31about business then everybody who wants
- 57:32to start a business is still going to
- 57:33listen right and so I can't I don't I
- 57:34don't try and you know uh kick them out
- 57:36or anything but it took me three or four
- 57:39years of looking at a zillion different
- 57:40businesses I was like okay what's the
- 57:42easiest thing someone can start who's
- 57:43just going to go zero to one build their
- 57:45confidence yeah exactly yeah just
- 57:46develop basic skills of business and so
- 57:49that was a perfect vehicle for me to to
- 57:51help and so like that type of business
- 57:53is those are the ones that I love people
- 57:54that want to learn more about you what's
- 57:55the best onramp to learning more about
- 57:57Alex Heros probably YouTube or if you're
- 58:00actually if you're a podcaster then I
- 58:01have a podcast what is it called you can
- 58:02just search my name and it'll come up
- 58:04excellent well Alex this has been a
- 58:05master class I've been following your
- 58:07work for a year I learned a lot you have
- 58:09an incredible way to deconstruct
- 58:10Concepts and teach millions of people
- 58:12it's you're making a big difference in
- 58:14the world appreciate you jumping on the
- 58:15podcast thank you for having me I
- 58:16appreciate it
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