How to Manifest Anything You Desire DANGEROUSLY Fast — Transcript

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1. 0:00The law of attraction is
2. 0:02>> So the law of attraction is
3. 0:04>> Mhm.
4. 0:04>> Do you think you can manifest anything
5. 0:07[music] within 24 hours?
6. 0:08>> You can manifest anything you want in
7. 0:10under 1 minute. When you take that
8. 0:13attitude, my life is awesome [music]
9. 0:15as it is, I don't give a damn,
10. 0:18boom, it stops coming towards [music]
11. 0:20you.
12. 0:20>> I'm here with Vishen Lakhiani, one of
13. 0:22the most influential people in mindset
14. 0:24and personal growth, the owner of
15. 0:27Mindvalley, which is the biggest
16. 0:29platform in the world for personal
17. 0:31growth. And we're going to walk through
18. 0:34how to practically manifest anything you
19. 0:38want in your life, because we hear about
20. 0:40this buzzword.
21. 0:40>> A lot of people confuse manifesting with
22. 0:44wanting.
23. 0:45And this is the big mistake. Manifesting
24. 0:47is actually the opposite of wanting.
25. 0:50See, the universe doesn't give you what
26. 0:53you want. The universe is busy with
27. 0:54other things. It's the universe, right?
28. 0:56Doesn't give a damn what you want.
29. 0:59However, the universe will reflect back
30. 1:01to you who you are.
31. 1:04So manifesting isn't wanting.
32. 1:06Manifesting is the act of becoming,
33. 1:08becoming who you want to become faster,
34. 1:12more predictably, in the right way, with
35. 1:14the right values, with the right
36. 1:15identity, with the right vision. It's a
37. 1:18process of becoming.
38. 1:20Now, the secret is this.
39. 1:23If you can learn how to go from want,
40. 1:27which is a form of neediness, to
41. 1:29becoming, the universe will reflect back
42. 1:33to you.
43. 1:34And
44. 1:35the universe will not give you what you
45. 1:37want, but it will reflect back to you
46. 1:39who you are. This is the secret.
47. 1:42Manifesting,
48. 1:44at its essence, is a form of stepping
49. 1:46into a new identity that causes reality
50. 1:49to shift to match that identity in you.
51. 1:52>> Right. And so does that mean could you
52. 1:54accidentally manifest the wrong things
53. 1:57in your life.
54. 1:58>> Totally. Absolutely. You can do either.
55. 2:01If your identity goes in the opposite
56. 2:03direction, you manifest the wrong
57. 2:04things. The universe will reflect back
58. 2:05to you who you are. So, let me give you
59. 2:08an example, okay?
60. 2:09One of the most interesting books on
61. 2:10manifesting is a book called Reality
62. 2:13Transurfing
63. 2:15by Vadim Zeland. Now, it's a really
64. 2:17ridiculously thick book and it's written
65. 2:19by this guy from Russia. I can't I don't
66. 2:20know what year it was written, but it's
67. 2:22huge. Now, Vadim does write in a
68. 2:26long-winded way. I've never been able to
69. 2:29finish the book.
70. 2:30>> [laughter]
71. 2:30>> But, the grand summary, the most
72. 2:32important point of the book is this. So,
73. 2:33Vadim Zeland was a nuclear physicist and
74. 2:36he's now a recluse. No one really knows
75. 2:38like where he is or how to track him
76. 2:39down, but he was studying nuclear
77. 2:40physics and he
78. 2:42came to believe in the theory of
79. 2:44multiple universes. Now, today we know
80. 2:46[clears throat] this is more than
81. 2:47theories.
82. 2:48We know that there are multiple
83. 2:49universes out there. There's a universe
84. 2:51out there, Kiara, where you might be a
85. 2:55not just a well-known podcaster and a
86. 2:57social media star. There's a universe
87. 2:58out there where you might be a
88. 2:59billionaire. There's a universe out
89. 3:00there where you might be a bodybuilder.
90. 3:01There's a universe out there, right,
91. 3:03where you may where you may be a cat
92. 3:05lady at home with 29 cats and a universe
93. 3:09where you have 28 cats.
94. 3:11>> Yeah.
95. 3:11>> There's an infinite number of universes
96. 3:13out there. Now, science believes this.
97. 3:16So, let's look at quantum computing.
98. 3:17Quantum computing is about to change the
99. 3:19world. It's computing that moves
100. 3:21lightning fast and the head of Google's
101. 3:23quantum computing lab said the only way
102. 3:25to explain quantum computing
103. 3:28is that the calculations are happening
104. 3:29in multiple universes at once.
105. 3:32>> Wow.
106. 3:33>> So, we are now actually using
107. 3:35multiple universes in practical life.
108. 3:39>> So, it's backed by science, manifesting.
109. 3:41>> science, right? Well, multiple universes
110. 3:43is backed by science. So, what Vadim
111. 3:46came to believe is that we have access
112. 3:48to ident versions of ourselves in
113. 3:50multiple universes. You want to be with
114. 3:52the dream guy? There's that version of
115. 3:54you in a different universe. But there's
116. 3:56also a version of you that is a
117. 3:58billionaire. There's a version of you
118. 4:00that is in the most amazing body you can
119. 4:01imagine.
120. 4:02>> Yeah.
121. 4:03>> The question is, how do you step into
122. 4:05that universe? That's the trick.
123. 4:07>> Right. And how could we cuz you know,
124. 4:09sometimes it takes people a really long
125. 4:13time to manifest things that they want.
126. 4:14And they they get frustrated and they're
127. 4:16thinking, you know, I'm trying to do all
128. 4:18the manifesting, I'm trying to do this,
129. 4:20I'm trying to do that. Why is it not
130. 4:21working for me? What is stopping someone
131. 4:24from really getting the results that
132. 4:26they want when they are manifesting?
133. 4:29>> Okay. So, Vadim said this.
134. 4:33You can step into any universe. You can
135. 4:35decide right now that you want to step
136. 4:37into a universe which is a fork from
137. 4:39this reality that will take you in the
138. 4:41direction you want. What is it? So, if
139. 4:43you had to think about one thing you
140. 4:44really wanted right now, what would that
141. 4:46be for you?
142. 4:46>> Okay. So, for whoever's listening right
143. 4:49now, you want your dream partner. You
144. 4:52want your dream boyfriend.
145. 4:54The person that you want to have
146. 4:55children with. How can you get that and
147. 4:57fast?
148. 4:58>> want to move into a universe where you
149. 5:00have met the ideal person for you, the
150. 5:02person you want to have kids with. Okay?
151. 5:03So, that's the one thing. Okay, now this
152. 5:05is what Vadim said.
153. 5:07The danger is this.
154. 5:11The way to slide into that new universe.
155. 5:13So, he says he calls it sliding. The way
156. 5:15you slide into that new new universe is
157. 5:18by not giving a damn.
158. 5:21>> Right.
159. 5:21>> Now, I know this sounds weird.
160. 5:23>> It sounds almost the opposite.
161. 5:24>> of wanting, right? So, he says every
162. 5:27time you have a desire,
163. 5:29what happens is you create an energy
164. 5:30force. And that energy force for that
165. 5:33desire
166. 5:34creates an opposing energy force that
167. 5:37pushes against it.
168. 5:39>> Fair.
169. 5:39>> Yeah. So, desire creates wanting. And
170. 5:43because of the way the universe works,
171. 5:45every time you want something, it is a
172. 5:47statement that you do not have it.
173. 5:49>> Right.
174. 5:50>> You see because in the universe in
175. 5:51metaphysics,
176. 5:53there is no such thing as time.
177. 5:55So, manifesting is not about the future.
178. 5:58It's about right now. So, as soon So,
179. 6:00everything that you want to manifest,
180. 6:01you got to think right now. Okay, this
181. 6:03is the secret. Now, it's not
182. 6:05so simple. I'm going to I'm going to get
183. 6:06there, but as soon as you say, "I want
184. 6:08that man." It means you do not have that
185. 6:09man. So, right now you create an
186. 6:11opposing force.
187. 6:12>> Yes.
188. 6:12>> So, Vadim says this,
189. 6:14"Trust. What you got to do is you got to
190. 6:17do the I don't give a damn method." And
191. 6:20the I don't give a damn method means
192. 6:21something like this. You kind of play
193. 6:23hard to get with the universe. You don't
194. 6:26want to be needy. You're thinking, you
195. 6:27know,
196. 6:28"I'm really awesome right now. I'm an
197. 6:30I'm amazing.
198. 6:31I may want to meet my partner, may want
199. 6:34to have kids, but my life is so awesome.
200. 6:36I don't really give a damn. If it comes
201. 6:38now, it comes later. Don't give a damn."
202. 6:41When you take that attitude, "My life is
203. 6:44awesome as it is. I don't give a damn."
204. 6:47Boom! It stops coming towards you. Think
205. 6:50about dating. If you're needy, "I need
206. 6:52to see him again. I need him to text
207. 6:53me." If you're needy, you push the
208. 6:55person back. If you're like, "Oh, you're
209. 6:57not going to text me for 5 days? That's
210. 6:58cool. You know, I'm busy."
211. 7:01He starts wanting you. And now I want to
212. 7:02bring in a couple of other teachings
213. 7:04from other philosophers because
214. 7:06it sounds so counterintuitive.
215. 7:08>> Yeah.
216. 7:09>> But it's actually not. And spiritual
217. 7:11masters have been talking about this
218. 7:13idea for for thousands of years.
219. 7:16So, let's go back to Rumi.
220. 7:18Rumi was an Afghan refugee. You love
221. 7:21Rumi, right? Amazing. He's the most read
222. 7:24poet in America.
223. 7:26So, Rumi wrote a poem that goes like
224. 7:28this.
225. 7:29"When I chase after what I think I want,
226. 7:33my life is a furnace of distress and
227. 7:36anxiety.
228. 7:37But if I sit in my own place of
229. 7:39patience, what I need comes to me
230. 7:43without any pain.
231. 7:44From this I understand that what I seek
232. 7:48seeks me, too.
233. 7:50There's a great secret in this for
234. 7:52anyone who would care to listen.
235. 7:55>> Wow.
236. 7:56>> Okay, so what's Rumi saying? When I
237. 7:58chase after what I think I want, my life
238. 8:02is a furnace of distress and anxiety.
239. 8:04When you chase after the goal that you
240. 8:06think you want, and notice he he used
241. 8:08the words I think I want, right? Because
242. 8:12very often what we want is what we think
243. 8:16is what we think is best for us. The
244. 8:17universe knows wiser. This is called in
245. 8:20the the philosophy of So, there's a
246. 8:21great writer who writes about
247. 8:23manifesting, Michael Bernard Beckwith.
248. 8:24He calls this immature wanting.
249. 8:27You are convinced you know what's good
250. 8:29for you, but no, the universe actually
251. 8:31knows better. So, this is what Rumi is
252. 8:32alluding to this. But, he goes on to
253. 8:34say, "When I sit in my own place of
254. 8:35patience, right?" Patience means
255. 8:39I don't cling to it. I don't need it.
256. 8:42I know it's coming.
257. 8:44>> Yeah. That's
258. 8:44>> That's confidence, right? That's the I
259. 8:46don't give a damn method. When I sit in
260. 8:48that place of patience, what I need
261. 8:51comes to me without any pain.
262. 8:53What he's saying is what you need, the
263. 8:56universe will deliver to you. Not the
264. 8:58guy
265. 8:59that you think you want. Maybe you think
266. 9:02I really need a guy who's got to be, you
267. 9:03know,
268. 9:045'9", got to have a a pet miniature
269. 9:07poodle cuz I love miniature poodles.
270. 9:08[laughter] He's got to be in finance.
271. 9:11But, what if that's just your own BS?
272. 9:13What if the person you're meant to
273. 9:15conceive children with, to like to like
274. 9:17create a new life with, is 5'6"
275. 9:20>> Mhm.
276. 9:20>> and works in software engineering, and
277. 9:24is actually a cat lover.
278. 9:25>> Yeah.
279. 9:26>> So, what Rumi is saying is when you sit
280. 9:28in your place of patience,
281. 9:30what you need comes to you without any
282. 9:33pain. But, there's a third part. From
283. 9:36this I understand that what you seek is
284. 9:39seeking you, too.
285. 9:41There's a great secret in this for all
286. 9:43who would want to understand.
287. 9:45What you seek is seeking you, too, means
288. 9:46that
289. 9:47when you sit in your place of patience
290. 9:49and you trust, and you stop clinging and
291. 9:52wanting, and you trust,
292. 9:55you understand that the universe
293. 9:57actually has your back. The universe
294. 9:59wants what is right for you. It just may
295. 10:02be that the universe knows better. The
296. 10:03universe knows the timing is correct.
297. 10:05There's something you're meant to do,
298. 10:06and a relationship might distract you
299. 10:08from that. There's a new identity you're
300. 10:10meant to step into. There's something
301. 10:12you're meant to build. There's something
302. 10:13you're meant to learn. You got to trust
303. 10:15that timing.
304. 10:16>> So, for the people that take a long time
305. 10:20to manifest, that the biggest mistake
306. 10:22they're making is by giving desperate
307. 10:24energy.
308. 10:25>> Desperate energy.
309. 10:26>> energy is going to stop you manifesting
310. 10:28what you want in your life.
311. 10:30>> Yes. Mhm.
312. 10:31>> Okay.
313. 10:32But what about dating with intention?
314. 10:35Would you say that's desperate energy?
315. 10:37>> So, dating with intention is absolutely
316. 10:40not desperate energy as long as you're
317. 10:43in that state of trust.
318. 10:45>> Mhm.
319. 10:46>> Right? So, what this means is you go out
320. 10:48on a date with someone you like. They
321. 10:50don't call you back.
322. 10:51You can shift into desperate energy. But
323. 10:53now, as soon as you do that, you've now
324. 10:56created resistance in the universe
325. 10:57towards meeting more people because
326. 10:59you're clinging, you're wanting. The
327. 11:01universe hates that.
328. 11:02But if you're able to sit in patience
329. 11:04and trust,
330. 11:06and trust cuz you know you're worth it.
331. 11:08You know what's right for you is coming
332. 11:09to you.
333. 11:10Now, what happens is you start
334. 11:13attracting other dates, other
335. 11:16opportunities.
336. 11:17>> God will give you something better.
337. 11:19>> Exactly.
338. 11:20So,
339. 11:21what's happening
340. 11:23is that manifesting is an act of
341. 11:25fine-tuning your inner state. It's about
342. 11:28identity. It's not about clinginess.
343. 11:31Every time you go on a date, you're
344. 11:33actually building part of your identity.
345. 11:36You're understanding what you like, what
346. 11:37what attracts you. You're understanding
347. 11:39also what repulses you.
348. 11:41You're understanding how you deal with
349. 11:43rejection. You're understanding how you
350. 11:44deal with someone who maybe makes you
351. 11:46makes you nervous. How you deal with
352. 11:48someone who irritates you.
353. 11:50Those understandings start building up a
354. 11:53a picture, an identity. And eventually
355. 11:56that identity becomes so powerful, so
356. 11:59real, you attract the right person to
357. 12:01match that identity. Cuz imagine this,
358. 12:03right, Kiara?
359. 12:04Imagine
360. 12:05you're 27, 28 years old.
361. 12:08And
362. 12:09you know, when I was 27 or 28 years old,
363. 12:11I did not know I was still like I
364. 12:13was an absolute immature
365. 12:16dumbass.
366. 12:18Okay? Now, imagine you're at that age
367. 12:20and you attract a person who's a fit for
368. 12:22you. You're going to attract an immature
369. 12:24dumbass.
370. 12:25>> Right, so you attract what you are.
371. 12:26>> what you are. But if you give it time
372. 12:28and you focus on improving yourself, you
373. 12:30focus on growth, you focus on reading,
374. 12:31you focus on becoming the woman you're
375. 12:33meant to be. You focus on your own
376. 12:34goals, your own ambitions, your own
377. 12:36health.
378. 12:37You start raising your energy. You're
379. 12:39shifting your identity. You're You're
380. 12:41leveling up.
381. 12:42And as you level up, you cannot help but
382. 12:44attract
383. 12:46partners that are at that same level of
384. 12:48leveling up.
385. 12:49>> So, would you say
386. 12:51that that is the law of attraction or
387. 12:54the law of resonance? What's the
388. 12:55difference?
389. 12:55>> law So, yeah, you you hit on it. The law
390. 12:58of attraction is BS.
391. 13:01So, the guy You know, the guy one of the
392. 13:02people who coined the word the law of
393. 13:03attraction, Reverend Michael Bernard, he
394. 13:05was in The Secret 20 years ago.
395. 13:07>> Yeah.
396. 13:07>> So, Michael was in The Secret 1999. In
397. 13:102019, 20 years after The Secret, I was
398. 13:13organizing a festival in Portugal. He
399. 13:14was one of the speakers and I had a
400. 13:16chance to have breakfast with him. So, I
401. 13:17asked him, "Michael, it's been 20 years
402. 13:20since The Secret when everyone was
403. 13:22talking about the law of attraction."
404. 13:23>> Yeah, the law of attraction's huge.
405. 13:24>> Given what you've learned in two
406. 13:25decades,
407. 13:27would you change anything? And he goes,
408. 13:29"Yeah.
409. 13:29What I want people to know is that the
410. 13:32law of attraction is bunk."
411. 13:34>> So, the law of attraction is
412. 13:36>> Mhm.
413. 13:37What people really need to understand is
414. 13:40that the universe doesn't care what you
415. 13:41want. Rather, the universe reflects back
416. 13:44to you who you are. And he goes on to
417. 13:46say, "I call this the law of resonance."
418. 13:48>> And so, the law of resonance is
419. 13:50basically if you want to attract your
420. 13:52dream partner, you have to become
421. 13:55>> the dream person.
422. 13:56>> partner.
423. 13:57>> Exactly. You have to become your dream
424. 14:00partner.
425. 14:01>> So, if we're to go into manifesting, for
426. 14:02example, this is a manifesting workshop
427. 14:04on how to manifest your dream partner,
428. 14:06how to manifest your dream career, you
429. 14:08talk a lot about the crystal method.
430. 14:10>> Mhm.
431. 14:11>> C R Y S T A L
432. 14:13>> Right.
433. 14:13>> and that being the practical kind of
434. 14:17steps on how to manifest whatever you
435. 14:19want with your 20 years of experiencing
436. 14:21of manifesting.
437. 14:22>> Right.
438. 14:22>> Could you walk us through those steps
439. 14:24and how to, for example, let's take the
440. 14:27example of dating. I want to manifest my
441. 14:29dream partner.
442. 14:30>> Mhm.
443. 14:31>> I'm going to use the crystal method. Can
444. 14:32you walk us through the practical steps
445. 14:34that this person listening or watching
446. 14:35can take?
447. 14:36>> Absolutely. Now, the first one, C, means
448. 14:38clarity.
449. 14:40You got to be clear
450. 14:41>> Yeah.
451. 14:42>> on who you are
452. 14:45and what you want.
453. 14:46Right?
454. 14:46>> So, they can write down a list of
455. 14:48>> Yeah. Yeah. So, so remember, being clear
456. 14:50on what you want is different from
457. 14:52wanting. You can be clear on what you
458. 14:54want and know that it's coming to you.
459. 14:55That's what Rumi said.
460. 14:56>> Right.
461. 14:57>> be clear on what you want and be like
462. 14:58needy, "Oh, I got to get it now. I got
463. 15:00to get it now. I got to get it now."
464. 15:01That's like being that irritating child
465. 15:02in the backseat of the car going, "Are
466. 15:04we there yet? Are we there yet? Are we
467. 15:05there yet?" Now, imagine that the
468. 15:07universe is driving. He's going to like
469. 15:08turn around and smack you and go, "Knock
470. 15:10it off."
471. 15:10>> Yeah. Not now.
472. 15:12>> don't do it. Don't be the irritating kid
473. 15:13in the backseat of the universe's car.
474. 15:15>> Yes.
475. 15:16>> You got to get clear on what you want.
476. 15:17So, so this is the craziest way
477. 15:19I I heard someone do it. So, I have a
478. 15:21friend um haven't seen her in a while,
479. 15:23but she was a growth hacker in Silicon
480. 15:26Valley. So, she helped apps get millions
481. 15:29of downloads. So, she had a very
482. 15:30mathematical way of thinking. Now, what
483. 15:32happened to my friend is that uh she got
484. 15:34married young, then she got divorced
485. 15:36early before her 30s, and she wanted to
486. 15:38meet
487. 15:39um a new partner.
488. 15:41So, she put the same process of growth
489. 15:44hacking apps into meeting men. And she
490. 15:47set a goal for herself. She was going to
491. 15:49go on three dates a week
492. 15:52for 10 weeks.
493. 15:54Even if she was tired, even if she was
494. 15:56busy, she was going to commit three
495. 15:58dates a week for 10 weeks. So, I asked
496. 16:01her
497. 16:03what happened? And she said, "Okay, so
498. 16:05firstly, it was painful," she said. "I
499. 16:07met a lot of men,
500. 16:09and after about 90 minutes, I wanted to
501. 16:11get out of there. I met a lot of people
502. 16:13I liked, but something didn't work out.
503. 16:15I learned a ton about myself. I learned
504. 16:17a ton about dating. I learned a ton
505. 16:18about my preferences. But at the end of
506. 16:20the 10 weeks,
507. 16:21I learned so much. I was clear. I knew
508. 16:25what I liked. I knew what I did not
509. 16:27like. I knew myself. I knew my triggers.
510. 16:31I knew what I did that was sexy. I knew
511. 16:33what I did that maybe might turn someone
512. 16:35off.
513. 16:37After I got that clarity,
514. 16:39guess what happened?" And I said,
515. 16:41"You're now dating one of those 30 men?"
516. 16:44She goes, "No. None of those 30 men I'm
517. 16:46dating. But after I finished that
518. 16:4710-week exercise, within 2 weeks, I met
519. 16:50someone,
520. 16:51and we've now been married for 10
521. 16:53years."
522. 16:53>> Wow. So, those 30 dates, an
523. 16:56experimenting, and I guess putting
524. 16:58herself out there,
525. 16:59>> and co-
526. 17:00>> gave her the clarity.
527. 17:01>> Exactly.
528. 17:03>> Without being needy.
529. 17:05>> Exactly.
530. 17:06>> Okay.
531. 17:06>> Because when when she goes on those 30
532. 17:07dates, what's going on? She's going,
533. 17:09"Well, men are abundant. Dating is is
534. 17:11easy." Look, the worst thing that
535. 17:13happens is
536. 17:15you waste 90 minutes, you know?
537. 17:18On a on on a date, but that's okay.
538. 17:20You're you're meeting someone someone
539. 17:22new. Um you're connecting with another
540. 17:24human being, and human connection is so
541. 17:26important. Even if it's just friendship,
542. 17:28even if it's two strangers on a bus
543. 17:29talking. When you take that attitude,
544. 17:31dating isn't frightening, it isn't
545. 17:33painful, it isn't what um a a um a waste
546. 17:35of money, but it gave her that clarity.
547. 17:37That's the first C. Get clear, and the
548. 17:40only way to get clear
549. 17:43is
550. 17:44to
551. 17:45experiment.
552. 17:46To to figure out what truly lights you
553. 17:49up, but also truly what turns you off.
554. 17:51>> Mhm.
555. 17:52>> So, R in crystal stands for resilience.
556. 17:57So, let me tell you why resilience is
557. 17:59important.
558. 18:00>> Okay.
559. 18:00>> If you want to grow, if you want to
560. 18:03become a better person, if you want to
561. 18:06to improve yourself,
562. 18:08there are two ways that happens. One is
563. 18:10through insight. Maybe you attend a
564. 18:12conference, you study a book, you you
565. 18:14gain an insight.
566. 18:16But, that's not what happens to most
567. 18:17people.
568. 18:17>> Okay.
569. 18:18>> Do you know how most people really grow
570. 18:19and evolve?
571. 18:20>> Pain, suffering.
572. 18:21>> Exactly, right? So, so pain and
573. 18:25suffering. Now, in in but it doesn't
574. 18:27have to be that way. So, in Zen
575. 18:29philosophy, there are two concepts of
576. 18:31growth. There is satori, growth through
577. 18:33insight, and there's kensho, growth
578. 18:34through pain, right? Turns out most
579. 18:36people, because they are not deliberate
580. 18:38about their growth, when the universe
581. 18:40wants them to level up, the universe has
582. 18:41to smack them at the back of their head.
583. 18:43>> Yeah, that's what I thought.
584. 18:44>> a kensho moment. It It right It happens.
585. 18:46You You fall into the wrong
586. 18:47relationship, this person cheats on you.
587. 18:50You uh end up in hospital cuz you
588. 18:52weren't taking care of your health. Your
589. 18:53first business fails. But, the beauty of
590. 18:56kensho is that every kensho gives you an
591. 18:59insight that makes you better.
592. 19:01Person who cheats on you, you now start
593. 19:03to understand how to truly gauge the
594. 19:05quality of a human being. The health
595. 19:07issue that puts you in hospital, you now
596. 19:09start to take care of your health. The
597. 19:10business failure, you learn what not to
598. 19:12do. So, Kencho is growth disguised as
599. 19:16pain because you weren't listening.
600. 19:18Now, people who go in a personal growth
601. 19:20cycle,
602. 19:21they actually give the universe space to
603. 19:23help them grow without pain. This is why
604. 19:25meditation, study, online courses,
605. 19:28conferences,
606. 19:30the That's why this is important. It's
607. 19:32satori. You're giving space for growth
608. 19:34to happen without pain. So, the more you
609. 19:36invest in self-growth, the less pain you
610. 19:39experience cuz the universe doesn't have
611. 19:41to smack you at the back of your head.
612. 19:42>> Right.
613. 19:43>> She knows you're listening. So, the
614. 19:45universe just has to whisper. And that's
615. 19:47the insight you get in a daydream.
616. 19:49That's the aha moment you get from
617. 19:51reading the right book. So, you want to
618. 19:53grow through satori, but
619. 19:56to go through life,
620. 19:58to to to become the person you want to
621. 19:59be,
622. 20:00there will be moments of pain. And this
623. 20:02is why resilience is important. Every
624. 20:04time something painful happens,
625. 20:06you got to let yourself know, "Wow,
626. 20:09there's a light at the end of the
627. 20:10tunnel."
628. 20:11>> Yeah.
629. 20:11>> And eventually you'll get to a point
630. 20:12where you're saying, "Wow, okay, this
631. 20:14really sucked, but I can't wait to see
632. 20:17whom I'm going to become because of
633. 20:18this."
634. 20:18>> Yeah, my my therapist once told me I
635. 20:20went through the worst breakup of my my
636. 20:22entire life, and I remember her telling
637. 20:24me,
638. 20:25"This is your greatest gift." She said
639. 20:27it's a very badly wrapped gift, but it's
640. 20:30your greatest gift, and I'm so excited
641. 20:33for the person that you're going to
642. 20:34become after this experience. And I
643. 20:36looked at her like she was crazy. I was
644. 20:39like,
645. 20:40"What do you mean this is a gift? This
646. 20:42is the worst thing that's happening to
647. 20:43me in my whole life." But it was the
648. 20:45greatest thing that ever happened to me.
649. 20:47It led me to Mindvalley.
650. 20:49>> It's why Rumi said, "The crack is the
651. 20:53path through which the light enters."
652. 20:56>> Right.
653. 20:58So, you need those bad times in order to
654. 21:01grow, in order to get what you actually
655. 21:04want and desire, which is manifestation.
656. 21:06>> Exactly.
657. 21:08Every crack helps you grow.
658. 21:10That is resilience. That's the R in
659. 21:12crystal.
660. 21:13So, Y stands for your inner voice.
661. 21:16>> Okay.
662. 21:17>> So, a lot of people get obsessed with
663. 21:18manifesting.
664. 21:19But a lot of people forget that there's
665. 21:21another part of the the the spiritual
666. 21:23game that is so important. And that is
667. 21:26intuition. And women especially have
668. 21:29this so deeply.
669. 21:30>> Yeah.
670. 21:31>> Intuition lets you know
671. 21:33what directions you should take in life.
672. 21:35And it's real. It's it's dramatically
673. 21:37real.
674. 21:38>> What does it look like?
675. 21:39>> So, let me give you an example. Have you
676. 21:40ever been in a one of those longevity
677. 21:42centers where they put you in a
678. 21:44sensory deprivation chamber, like a
679. 21:46flotation tank? You are floating on
680. 21:48salt. Your body is completely relaxed.
681. 21:51And they play deep meditation music.
682. 21:53>> water chamber where you lie in water.
683. 21:55>> Same thing. Same thing. Okay, so the
684. 21:56University of Edinburgh did this crazy
685. 21:59study. It's called the Ganzfeld test
686. 22:01experiments. So, they put people They
687. 22:03took two groups of people. And they put
688. 22:04one group in a flotation tank. And
689. 22:06again, there was the peaceful music. And
690. 22:08the idea was to put these people in a
691. 22:09deep state of relaxation. Relaxation and
692. 22:12meditation, same thing. Slowing down of
693. 22:15the brain waves, right?
694. 22:16>> Okay.
695. 22:16>> Now, in the other room, they had someone
696. 22:18called a sender. The people in the
697. 22:19flotation tank were receivers. They were
698. 22:21in like a dream-like meditative state.
699. 22:24The other room was a sender. Now, the
700. 22:26sender was shown what was shown
701. 22:29one of four pictures.
702. 22:31So, the pictures could be, you know,
703. 22:32horses rush rushing through a stream. It
704. 22:34could be a a tank. It could be a zebra.
705. 22:38And the goal was the sender had to
706. 22:40transmit the picture. Let's say the
707. 22:41picture of the zebra. Just pretend they
708. 22:43could send the picture to the receiver.
709. 22:45Now, the receiver is brought out of the
710. 22:47tank, is shown four pictures, and they
711. 22:50have to guess what did the sender see.
712. 22:53Now,
713. 22:54their odds of getting it correctly
714. 22:55through chance is what?
715. 22:57>> 20%.
716. 22:58>> 25%, right?
717. 22:59>> Yeah.
718. 23:00>> One in four, 25%.
719. 23:01>> 25%.
720. 23:02>> What University of Edinburgh found is
721. 23:04that they actually scored correct 1 in
722. 23:073, 33%.
723. 23:10So, this defies Now, they did this with
724. 23:12hundreds of people. This defies all the
725. 23:14laws of science.
726. 23:15>> Yeah.
727. 23:15>> It shows beyond a doubt that there is
728. 23:18some form of communication that moves
729. 23:21that that links us.
730. 23:22>> Mhm, like telepathy.
731. 23:24>> Yeah.
732. 23:24>> Or intuition.
733. 23:26>> Yeah, it it's it's it's it's intuition.
734. 23:28We all have this. But, the way to really
735. 23:31step into it is to be relaxed like
736. 23:34you're in that sensory deprivation
737. 23:35chamber. That's why so many people who
738. 23:38meditate or who who help themselves or
739. 23:41know or even you can get relaxed through
740. 23:43four ways. You can do meditation, you
741. 23:45can do neuro training, you know, those
742. 23:46devices you wear in your head. You can
743. 23:48do plant medicine, um things like
744. 23:50mushrooms are amazing to put you in that
745. 23:52state, and then finally there's
746. 23:53breathwork. And when you do any of these
747. 23:55four practices and you go into that
748. 23:57relaxed state, that's when your
749. 23:58intuition starts speaking to you.
750. 24:01>> Okay.
751. 24:01>> And the more you do that, the more it
752. 24:02starts speaking to you in the waking
753. 24:05state.
754. 24:06>> Right.
755. 24:06>> Now, when you develop intuition, this is
756. 24:09your inner voice. This is the knowing
757. 24:12that knows you better than anyone else.
758. 24:14This is the voice you have to awaken,
759. 24:16and this voice will guide you towards
760. 24:20who you're meant to be.
761. 24:21>> And how do you know if that voice is
762. 24:23either ego or if it's intuition?
763. 24:26>> So, it's it's really simple, right?
764. 24:28>> Like your thoughts and your emotions.
765. 24:29>> Yeah.
766. 24:29>> Or thoughts.
767. 24:30>> So, you got to be able to discern. Did
768. 24:33my desire come from outside me, or did
769. 24:36it come from inside me? So, here's a
770. 24:39story I like to tell that talks about
771. 24:40speed of action. There's a man who
772. 24:42really wants to win the lottery. Every
773. 24:43morning when he wakes up, he prays to
774. 24:45God, "God, help me win the lottery."
775. 24:47Then, before lunch, he prays to God
776. 24:48again, "God, help me win the lottery."
777. 24:50Then, before going to bed, he prays to
778. 24:51God again, "God, help me win the
779. 24:52lottery." And he does this every day,
780. 24:54and a year passes. Then, 5 years passes.
781. 24:57Then, 10 years pass, then 20 years pass,
782. 24:59then 30 years pass, and he gets hit by a
783. 25:00bus.
784. 25:01And he ends up in heaven, dead. And
785. 25:03there he meets God, and he goes, "God,
786. 25:05what the heck, dude? Like, I prayed for
787. 25:08you 30 [laughter] years, three times a
788. 25:09day.
789. 25:11Help me win the lottery.
790. 25:12Nothing."
791. 25:13>> Yeah.
792. 25:14>> And God goes,
793. 25:16"Ch."
794. 25:17"You could have at least bought a
795. 25:18ticket."
796. 25:19>> Yes,
797. 25:21exactly.
798. 25:22>> So, so that friend I mentioned, who went
799. 25:25on 30 dates in 10 weeks,
800. 25:28that's speed of action.
801. 25:30>> Exactly.
802. 25:30>> She took action. And what happened after
803. 25:32those 30 dates?
804. 25:34Not only did she gain clarity, but
805. 25:35within 2 weeks, the universe said,
806. 25:38"Okay, you mean business. You're taking
807. 25:40action.
808. 25:41Boom. Here's the man you're going to
809. 25:43marry for at least the next 10 years."
810. 25:45>> For at least the next 10 years.
811. 25:46>> Yeah, cuz they've been [laughter]
812. 25:47they've been together for 10 years.
813. 25:48Hopefully for the next couple of
814. 25:49decades, but
815. 25:51there's a great secret in this for
816. 25:52anyone who cares to listen. That is
817. 25:54trust.
818. 25:56Trust basically summarizes everything
819. 25:57we've been talking about right now.
820. 25:59You're trusting your intuition. You're
821. 26:02trusting timing, especially timing.
822. 26:05You're trusting the universe.
823. 26:08You see, there are two types of desires,
824. 26:09according to the Reverend Michael
825. 26:10Beckwith. Immature wanting and mature
826. 26:13wanting. Immature wanting, as I
827. 26:15mentioned, is the stuff that you think
828. 26:16you want, but no, it's it's just outside
829. 26:18programming. It's like, I must have a
830. 26:20guy who loves dogs, okay?
831. 26:24>> The checklist.
832. 26:25>> Yeah, yeah, it's the checklist.
833. 26:28Mature wanting is wanting that comes
834. 26:30from the soul.
835. 26:31>> Mhm.
836. 26:32>> You kind of sense There's There's a
837. 26:34direction. You kind of sense that you
838. 26:35need to be in a city. You kind of sense
839. 26:38that you need to be in a particular
840. 26:39field. It's coming from the soul, and it
841. 26:42may not be apparent.
842. 26:44>> Mhm.
843. 26:44>> Sometimes the universe has to destroy a
844. 26:46part of your life that is merely good
845. 26:49for something truly great to enter.
846. 26:52>> Absolutely.
847. 26:53>> I got fired from Microsoft. It was
848. 26:55merely not good for something truly
849. 26:58great, owning an
850. 27:00an amazing festival company.
851. 27:01>> Yes.
852. 27:02>> To enter. What is that for you?
853. 27:05I I once interviewed this incredible MBA
854. 27:07professor called Srikumar Rao, and he's
855. 27:09kind of a legend in the MBA world. And
856. 27:11why he's a legend, why so many people
857. 27:13love his classes, is he brings in wisdom
858. 27:15from the East into modern MBA classes.
859. 27:17And when I was interviewing him, I asked
860. 27:18him, what is the most important belief
861. 27:22that people should have to be
862. 27:23successful? And he said, "Ah, that's
863. 27:25very easy.
864. 27:26It is the belief of the benevolent
865. 27:27universe. It is the belief that the
866. 27:30universe is acting in your favor. The
867. 27:32universe loves you. The universe cares
868. 27:34about you. The universe has your back.
869. 27:36It is the benevolent universe. And even
870. 27:38when things go wrong,
871. 27:40the universe is watching out for you."
872. 27:42>> Yes.
873. 27:42>> And then he dropped this metaphor. He
874. 27:44says, "Imagine you're a child. Okay,
875. 27:45you're 2 years old,
876. 27:47and it's breakfast time.
877. 27:48And your mom says,
878. 27:50'Here are some veggies.
879. 27:52I want you to eat the veggies.' And you
880. 27:53go, 'No, I want chocolate ice cream.
881. 27:55I don't like broccoli. I want chocolate
882. 27:57ice cream.' And your mom goes, 'No, no
883. 27:59chocolate ice cream. You have to eat the
884. 28:01broccoli.'
885. 28:02And the child is upset, and the child is
886. 28:04crying, and the child in their childlike
887. 28:06mind is going, 'Mom hates me. Like
888. 28:09I hate mornings. Why do I have to eat
889. 28:11broccoli? Why can't I have the chocolate
890. 28:13ice cream?' But think about that. The
891. 28:14mom is the wiser, loving force. The mom
892. 28:17is benevolent. Well, the universe is
893. 28:19like that.
894. 28:19>> Exactly.
895. 28:20>> Sometimes you want chocolate ice cream,
896. 28:21but the universe is saying, "Hey Kiara,
897. 28:23you got to eat your veggies right now."
898. 28:24>> Mhm.
899. 28:25>> So, trust that the universe knows, and
900. 28:29that the universe is benevolent. And
901. 28:31what you think is a veggie
902. 28:34is actually something that's going to
903. 28:35make you healthy, so you can eat
904. 28:37chocolate ice cream anytime you want
905. 28:39without putting on the pounds.
906. 28:40>> Exactly. [laughter]
907. 28:41So, now we have the last two, A and L.
908. 28:44>> Right. So, A is alignment. That's very
909. 28:47important. It means live by your values.
910. 28:49Know that some of the stuff that you
911. 28:52believe about the world could be
912. 28:54could be holding you back. It's It's
913. 28:55being aware of your really.
914. 28:58All of us have trauma. We have bad
915. 29:00beliefs. We have things that happened in
916. 29:02the past that poked us, that shaped us,
917. 29:04that created, you know,
918. 29:06um
919. 29:07um some sort of like trauma.
920. 29:09>> Yeah.
921. 29:09>> And you're constantly being
922. 29:11moving towards alignment. You're going
923. 29:14for yoga classes. You are working with
924. 29:17counselors. You're working with
925. 29:18therapists. No one is perfect.
926. 29:20>> Mhm.
927. 29:20>> But you are aligning your your mind,
928. 29:23your body, your soul. You're working on
929. 29:25removing everything between you and the
930. 29:28person you want to be. Constantly
931. 29:29working on yourself. That is alignment.
932. 29:32When you are aligned, the universe will
933. 29:35start aligning reality with your
934. 29:38internal alignment.
935. 29:39>> Yes, which we've also been taught and
936. 29:42mentioned.
937. 29:43>> Right.
938. 29:43>> Love is light. Love is pure. Love is
939. 29:45unconditional.
940. 29:47Love is actually not outside. It's
941. 29:49within you.
942. 29:50>> Yeah.
943. 29:50>> That's also what we've been taught, that
944. 29:52love is outside you and when you find
945. 29:54that love, then everything's going to be
946. 29:56so much better. But really, if you want
947. 29:58to find the love of your life, you have
948. 30:00to become the love of your life.
949. 30:02>> Exactly.
950. 30:03>> You have to be the love of your life.
951. 30:05You have to understand that I am the
952. 30:07love of my life. I complete myself. No
953. 30:09one completes me. Who outside me
954. 30:11completes me? I am whole, worthy, and
955. 30:14loved just as I am.
956. 30:16And what I feel like
957. 30:17for the person whoever's listening to
958. 30:19this right now, if you really want to
959. 30:21manifest the love of your life or you
960. 30:23really want that job, you must believe
961. 30:25in your whole heart that you don't need
962. 30:27it because you are whole already.
963. 30:29>> Yeah.
964. 30:30>> That's it.
965. 30:32You must align with that feeling of I am
966. 30:35the highest vibration of love. I am all
967. 30:39the things that I want my partner to be.
968. 30:42And that will just
969. 30:44quickly come into your life because it's
970. 30:46like, "Oh, this is a line now."
971. 30:48>> And if you have a crack, that's okay,
972. 30:50too.
973. 30:50>> Yeah.
974. 30:51>> Rumi said, "The crack is the
975. 30:53slit through which the light enters."
976. 30:55>> Yeah.
977. 30:55>> Great. Light has entered through that
978. 30:57crack. You've learned something because
979. 30:58of that crack. Now, all you do is just
980. 31:00patch the crack. No big deal.
981. 31:02>> Realign.
982. 31:03>> Always life is all about just
983. 31:04realigning. Oh, okay. Yeah, let's
984. 31:06realign. Back we go.
985. 31:08Um and then L.
986. 31:10>> L is my favorite.
987. 31:12L stands for love the journey.
988. 31:14>> I was going to say love. Yeah.
989. 31:17Yeah, love.
990. 31:17>> So
991. 31:18So, love the journey looks like this.
992. 31:20The greatest manifestos in the world,
993. 31:22okay? It's not about the destination.
994. 31:25It's about the road trip.
995. 31:26>> Yes.
996. 31:27>> So, L is where you're enjoying the
997. 31:30journey, not just waiting for the
998. 31:32destination. Because if you're
999. 31:34constantly chasing
1000. 31:36a goal,
1001. 31:37goals are like
1002. 31:38chasing the horizon. You can
1003. 31:40[clears throat] run towards the horizon,
1004. 31:41you're never going to catch the horizon.
1005. 31:42It's always slightly out of reach.
1006. 31:44That's why so many people fall into the
1007. 31:45money trap. They hit a million, they
1008. 31:47want 10 million, they want 100 million,
1009. 31:49they want a billion, they want 10
1010. 31:50billion. Never stops.
1011. 31:52It's about enjoying the journey. So,
1012. 31:54many people say that, "I want to meet
1013. 31:56the one. I want to meet that one
1014. 31:57person."
1015. 31:58>> Yeah.
1016. 31:59>> But so many people who are with the one
1017. 32:01person
1018. 32:02are thinking, like right now, so many
1019. 32:04people who are in committed
1020. 32:06relationships with the one person are
1021. 32:07thinking, "Gosh, I miss the sense of
1022. 32:09adventure. I miss the variety. I miss
1023. 32:12the crazy parties I could go to. I miss
1024. 32:14the random hookups."
1025. 32:15>> Yes.
1026. 32:16>> No matter what side we're on, we miss
1027. 32:18the other side.
1028. 32:19>> Yes.
1029. 32:19>> So, the most important thing is enjoy
1030. 32:21the journey. If you're
1031. 32:23having to date multiple people to find
1032. 32:25the one, enjoy that journey. If you're
1033. 32:28with the one, enjoy the journey. The
1034. 32:30most important thing is whatever path
1035. 32:33you're on, whatever side of the ideal
1036. 32:35relationship, enjoy the journey. but as
1037. 32:38you enjoy the journey, ensure that you
1038. 32:41are creating greater clarity of what you
1039. 32:43want to be. Ensure that you are
1040. 32:47displaying resilience when things goes
1041. 32:49off, that you truly know yourself and
1042. 32:53are listening to that voice within, that
1043. 32:55you are taking action. S, speed of
1044. 32:59action, that you trust that you are in
1045. 33:02alignment, that you love the journey.
1046. 33:05>> Yeah.
1047. 33:05>> You're going through that that crystal
1048. 33:06framework. So, that's the most important
1049. 33:08thing. Because I can tell you
1050. 33:10so many people who are in relationships
1051. 33:12miss the life they had before the
1052. 33:14relationship. And people who are not in
1053. 33:17a relationship miss the life that they
1054. 33:19think they will have after being in a
1055. 33:21relationship.
1056. 33:22>> the grass is greener.
1057. 33:23>> Always make it about the journey. You
1058. 33:27can never go wrong.
1059. 33:28>> And that is all of those things put
1060. 33:31together, I think.
1061. 33:33As you said, loving the journey being
1062. 33:35the most important one of those because
1063. 33:37when you when you are manifesting and
1064. 33:39when you are working towards you're
1065. 33:41walking towards the things that you
1066. 33:43desire, whether that's your dream job,
1067. 33:45if you've always wanted to have a
1068. 33:46podcast, if you've always wanted to have
1069. 33:48a YouTube channel. If you're not
1070. 33:49enjoying filming it, if you're not
1071. 33:51enjoying editing it, if you're not
1072. 33:53enjoying the process of sitting down
1073. 33:55with these people, sitting down in front
1074. 33:57of the camera and actually making the
1075. 33:58content,
1076. 33:59I assure you you're not going to get
1077. 34:02those millions of followers cuz people
1078. 34:03are going to be able to see if you
1079. 34:04actually enjoying the thing that you're
1080. 34:06doing.
1081. 34:07>> I hope you have amazing day, whatever
1082. 34:09you're doing right now, and I hope that
1083. 34:11you achieve everything that you desire
1084. 34:14in life and and more. Cuz you can always
1085. 34:17have more.
1086. 34:18>> Amazing.
1087. 34:19>> Thank you.
1088. 34:20>> Thank you, Kiara.