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How to Maintain Good Grades While Managing Stress | Advice From A Full-Time Student Worker — Transcript

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  1. 0:00Hi guys. Welcome and welcome back to my
  2. 0:02channel. If you're facing [music] stress
  3. 0:05while juggling school at the same time,
  4. 0:08it can definitely feel like a challenge.
  5. 0:11My challenge for you is to stay until
  6. 0:13the end of this video with hopes that
  7. 0:16you will completely [music]
  8. 0:18rewire your thoughts around approaching
  9. 0:21studies while coping with stress at the
  10. 0:23same time
  11. 0:24>> [music]
  12. 0:25>> and finding healthy habits and practices
  13. 0:28to incorporate
  14. 0:30into your daily routines, practices,
  15. 0:33>> [music]
  16. 0:33>> in the most beneficial way to help
  17. 0:36supplement your well-being and help you
  18. 0:39focus better on your studies.
  19. 0:42I have multiple reasons to be making
  20. 0:44this video.
  21. 0:45>> [music]
  22. 0:45>> One, it was suggested by many of you and
  23. 0:48two, this was motivation by myself
  24. 0:51because I have personally been going
  25. 0:53through a lot of
  26. 0:55moving around and juggling coursework
  27. 0:58with working full-time while managing
  28. 1:00two YouTube channels.
  29. 1:02So, as somebody who has learned how to
  30. 1:04manage her stress while managing
  31. 1:08studying at the same time, I really feel
  32. 1:10like I have the expertise [music] and
  33. 1:12experience to be explaining this to you
  34. 1:14guys.
  35. 1:15So,
  36. 1:17unlike most of my videos, I have
  37. 1:19structured [music] this one out a little
  38. 1:20bit
  39. 1:21just because my schedule is about to
  40. 1:24become a little bit busier because I'm
  41. 1:25taking 15 [music] credits this semester
  42. 1:29for the summer to accelerate my
  43. 1:31>> [music]
  44. 1:31>> um
  45. 1:32degree pathway that I'm doing right now.
  46. 1:35I actually recently just attended my
  47. 1:38commencement ceremony for the previous
  48. 1:40college that I got my psychology degree
  49. 1:42at. Here's actually a picture of me just
  50. 1:45the other day.
  51. 1:46>> [music]
  52. 1:46>> It was great and that itself was
  53. 1:48motivation to make this video. But, to
  54. 1:52begin with, I want to step right into
  55. 1:54[music] the first principle
  56. 1:56of managing stress while studying. The
  57. 2:00first thing you have to think of is
  58. 2:03self-compassion.
  59. 2:04Because often times when we have all
  60. 2:06these circumstances going on in our
  61. 2:08lives, it's easy to want to blame
  62. 2:10yourself [music] and say, "I'm just not
  63. 2:12handling it well enough. I'm not smart
  64. 2:14enough to know how to handle it and I
  65. 2:16>> [music]
  66. 2:17>> I'm not efficient enough to have these
  67. 2:19resources or I'm not disciplined enough
  68. 2:21to incorporate [music] these practices
  69. 2:23into my life to help balance it out
  70. 2:25studies while
  71. 2:27trying to focus on self-care [music] and
  72. 2:30minimizing and ameliorating that stress
  73. 2:33that you're dealing with.
  74. 2:34You want to be compassionate with
  75. 2:36yourself about this because
  76. 2:38>> [music]
  77. 2:38>> we can't find a way to manage stress. We
  78. 2:42can't manage stress from
  79. 2:44self-rejection or self-hatred [music]
  80. 2:46because that only digs us deeper into
  81. 2:48that hole of self-hatred or
  82. 2:51>> [music]
  83. 2:51>> rejection. Because and I've spoken about
  84. 2:54this many times in previous videos of
  85. 2:56mine, but I really place the emphasis on
  86. 2:59taking action from a sense of self-love.
  87. 3:02Loving yourself first.
  88. 3:04>> [music]
  89. 3:04>> And then a lot of times I get questions,
  90. 3:06"Well, how exactly
  91. 3:08do [music]
  92. 3:09I love myself?" Ask yourself this.
  93. 3:13Where aren't you loving yourself? Are
  94. 3:16you giving yourself time to prepare a
  95. 3:18healthy meal? Are you giving yourself
  96. 3:21time to have a spa day, take a bath? It
  97. 3:25can really just be the little things in
  98. 3:27life. Like, I know not everybody
  99. 3:30>> [music]
  100. 3:30>> thinks about cooking a healthy meal from
  101. 3:32their for thems- for their selves.
  102. 3:35But, in my experience, in my opinion,
  103. 3:38this is one of the most nourishing, most
  104. 3:41loving things you can do about yourself
  105. 3:43do for yourself because you're
  106. 3:46feeding your body, mind, and soul. When
  107. 3:49you make a delicious, healthy meal for
  108. 3:52yourself,
  109. 3:53>> [music]
  110. 3:53>> when you look in the mirror and tell
  111. 3:55yourself,
  112. 3:56"I am worthy
  113. 3:58>> [music]
  114. 3:58>> of great things. I am worthy
  115. 4:02of rest." I'm actually looking at myself
  116. 4:04into my mirror as I say this because
  117. 4:06there's a mirror right at my [music]
  118. 4:07desk, which is great because, you know,
  119. 4:10when it while I'm recording, I get to
  120. 4:11look at myself and,
  121. 4:12>> [music]
  122. 4:12>> you know, take admiration for myself and
  123. 4:16admire the effort that I'm putting into
  124. 4:17my videos, well.
  125. 4:20I'm basically juggling all these things
  126. 4:21at once. Like, yes, I'm a busy person.
  127. 4:25Do I feel overwhelmed with working
  128. 4:27full-time, being a full-time student,
  129. 4:28and managing two YouTube channels? Of
  130. 4:31course, I feel overwhelmed. As a content
  131. 4:34creator preaching self-development,
  132. 4:37self-healing, and manifestation,
  133. 4:39I still need to know the relevance of
  134. 4:42facing [music] these challenging
  135. 4:44emotions because if I didn't deal with
  136. 4:46them, then
  137. 4:47there's no relevance in teaching you
  138. 4:48guys how to handle these emotions if
  139. 4:50[music] I didn't experience them.
  140. 4:54So, to take a step back and reflect,
  141. 4:57>> [music]
  142. 4:57>> be compa- be compassionate with
  143. 4:59yourself. Have that conversation that,
  144. 5:01[music]
  145. 5:02"Hey,
  146. 5:03where am I not loving myself? And
  147. 5:07how do I need to nourish my inner world,
  148. 5:10my mind, my body, and soul so [music]
  149. 5:14I can fill my own cup before I pour it
  150. 5:17into my studies?" [music]
  151. 5:20The next thing we want to focus on is
  152. 5:23the assessment [music]
  153. 5:24part of this step. So, assess where you
  154. 5:28are versus where you want to be.
  155. 5:31What do your current grades look like?
  156. 5:35Where are you in your academic standing?
  157. 5:38When I first [music] began college, I
  158. 5:41was not in a good position because prior
  159. 5:44to my first year, my first semester of
  160. 5:47college, I had no classroom experience
  161. 5:50[music]
  162. 5:50and I wasn't used to juggling
  163. 5:54full-time school [music] because I grew
  164. 5:56out
  165. 5:57I grew outside of the traditional
  166. 5:59classroom setting. So, being in a
  167. 6:00classroom setting was very intimidating
  168. 6:03and I ended up dropping
  169. 6:05two courses. My grade was very bad to
  170. 6:08begin with. I had a I had like a B- or
  171. 6:10something like that like that which
  172. 6:12isn't so bad.
  173. 6:14But, to my standards, I don't consider
  174. 6:17that as good.
  175. 6:18So,
  176. 6:20like I mentioned previously, I had to
  177. 6:23have that compassionate conversation
  178. 6:25with myself and say,
  179. 6:27"This is my first year of college. I've
  180. 6:29never had classroom experience before.
  181. 6:31There is no one in my life to really get
  182. 6:33me
  183. 6:33>> [music]
  184. 6:34>> here to where I am now
  185. 6:35to allow me to have that experience."
  186. 6:39I had to gauge
  187. 6:41where I wanted to be and that was
  188. 6:44finishing the semester with a 3.5
  189. 6:46[music]
  190. 6:46GPA and still finishing with seven
  191. 6:49credits on my transcript.
  192. 6:52Luckily, I actually finished that
  193. 6:55semester with a [music] 4.0 GPA
  194. 6:58and
  195. 6:59that was so that was at the college that
  196. 7:01I just graduated with with my psychology
  197. 7:04degree and
  198. 7:05>> [music]
  199. 7:05>> I ended up having a 4.0 GPA throughout
  200. 7:09the entire 2 years that I spent at that
  201. 7:11college and I
  202. 7:13credit that [music] to myself love and
  203. 7:17constantly gauging where I wanted to be
  204. 7:19against where I currently was. So, this
  205. 7:22kind of feeds into the next thing that I
  206. 7:25want to talk about is
  207. 7:27beyond assessing our current standing in
  208. 7:30[music] our academic performance, we
  209. 7:32want to assess what we control in our
  210. 7:34lives that is contributing to our focus
  211. 7:37in our studies.
  212. 7:38So,
  213. 7:40assess what you control around your
  214. 7:42study time versus what you can't.
  215. 7:43>> [music]
  216. 7:43>> Find opportunities / practices to relax
  217. 7:46your nervous system such as journaling,
  218. 7:49meditation,
  219. 7:50>> [music]
  220. 7:50>> yoga, therapy, or visualization,
  221. 7:52especially when it comes to the stress
  222. 7:54because
  223. 7:56>> [music]
  224. 7:57>> let's be real.
  225. 7:58School is very stressful. We're all
  226. 8:00human and we all experience stress
  227. 8:02surrounding school. [music]
  228. 8:03So, I want you to think about the things
  229. 8:06in your life that you can control that
  230. 8:08are contributing to the stress.
  231. 8:11So, for example,
  232. 8:13I want I highly believe I strongly
  233. 8:16believe that 90% of the things that are
  234. 8:20stressing us out are within the mind.
  235. 8:24And I realized this because I have been
  236. 8:26journaling for almost 4 years straight
  237. 8:28[music] every single day and the more I
  238. 8:30look back at my old entries, the more I
  239. 8:32realize
  240. 8:34that [music]
  241. 8:35it was really my thoughts that were
  242. 8:36stressing me out. Yes, the the external
  243. 8:39environment in my immediate
  244. 8:41surroundings, it would be easy to blame
  245. 8:44that for
  246. 8:45the reason of my stress, but if we if we
  247. 8:48want to be in control and we want to
  248. 8:51>> [music]
  249. 8:51>> regulate that stress, we have we have to
  250. 8:53gauge like how much of that is mental
  251. 8:56because
  252. 8:58you could let's say for example, so I
  253. 9:00have four younger siblings and [music]
  254. 9:02when I used to live with my family when
  255. 9:03I was 17,
  256. 9:06there was noise all the time and I'm
  257. 9:08I I like to have my quiet time, so it
  258. 9:10was it was very hard for me to focus,
  259. 9:14but even in the times of silence, I was
  260. 9:16still reflecting on the times where I
  261. 9:18was upset and I would ruminate on
  262. 9:21my anger and my fury about the noise
  263. 9:24that would go on even in the times where
  264. 9:26it was quiet, I would still
  265. 9:27>> [music]
  266. 9:28>> ruminate on that. So, I had to journal
  267. 9:30out I am in control of my thoughts and
  268. 9:33one thing [music] I can do to control my
  269. 9:35thoughts is by practicing yoga Because
  270. 9:37when we practice yoga, that actually
  271. 9:39brings your mind
  272. 9:40>> [music]
  273. 9:41>> down to somatic awareness. It brings
  274. 9:43your mind's focus to your body because
  275. 9:45when you do yoga, you have to focus on
  276. 9:47balance. [music] You literally have to
  277. 9:49be so focused on every single movement
  278. 9:51so you don't fall over because I do a
  279. 9:53lot of standing yoga and that is [music]
  280. 9:55something that
  281. 9:57really, really, really helped me bring
  282. 9:59my mind
  283. 10:00to my body instead of my mind spiraling
  284. 10:03to my thoughts because
  285. 10:05>> [music]
  286. 10:05>> back then I used to try to use my
  287. 10:07thoughts to control my thoughts, but
  288. 10:09that actually exacerbated the process.
  289. 10:11So, it's all about like bringing
  290. 10:13your mind [music] down to your somatic,
  291. 10:16your bodily awareness before proceeding
  292. 10:18[music]
  293. 10:19with again trying to use your thoughts
  294. 10:22to control even more thoughts. [music]
  295. 10:25So,
  296. 10:27the bottom line is we want to be aware
  297. 10:30of what we can control. [music]
  298. 10:33Don't blame your surroundings because
  299. 10:35the truth is even if you're in a chaotic
  300. 10:37environment, it is within your control
  301. 10:39to step out of that chaotic environment.
  302. 10:42It is with [music]
  303. 10:43in It is within your control to put in
  304. 10:45headphones. It is within your control to
  305. 10:48find a quieter room to [music] study and
  306. 10:51really put that effort into everything
  307. 10:53that you're learning.
  308. 10:55Now,
  309. 10:56the fourth step in this process that I
  310. 10:58want to talk about is [music]
  311. 11:00beginning to take action. And this very
  312. 11:03much
  313. 11:04reflects the latter that I just
  314. 11:06explained was taking action. You know,
  315. 11:07stepping into a quieter room, putting in
  316. 11:09earbuds, [music]
  317. 11:10practicing yoga. Maybe it's meditation.
  318. 11:13Something that just makes you [music]
  319. 11:15feel calm.
  320. 11:16One thing that I like to do in
  321. 11:17particular is if I'm feeling overwhelmed
  322. 11:21with studying and working and [music]
  323. 11:23managing two YouTube channels, something
  324. 11:25I really like to do is I just come to my
  325. 11:29desk and I either light maybe [music]
  326. 11:31two or three candles. I love candles and
  327. 11:33I love essential oils because I feel
  328. 11:36like aromatherapy really has the power
  329. 11:38to bring us [music] down into the
  330. 11:40physical realm, like I previously
  331. 11:43emphasized when I talked about yoga and
  332. 11:45bringing the mind down into the bodily
  333. 11:46awareness.
  334. 11:48I like to do that while I'm studying
  335. 11:50because I've actually made a connection
  336. 11:52with a certain scent and I've
  337. 11:54made that association. Like, when I
  338. 11:56smell that particular scent of the
  339. 11:58candle or essential oil, like I
  340. 11:59immediately think studies. I immediately
  341. 12:02think of like,
  342. 12:03>> [music]
  343. 12:03>> it's time to be calm and it's time to be
  344. 12:05focused on my studies. So, it's kind of
  345. 12:07like somatic anchoring, which is
  346. 12:09something I've mentioned [music]
  347. 12:10previously in a few of my videos. So, I
  348. 12:12would highly suggest just finding a
  349. 12:15place where you can be alone, a place
  350. 12:16that's quiet, maybe put in some [music]
  351. 12:18earbuds. And again, just light candles
  352. 12:21or get an essential oil diffuser.
  353. 12:26One thing a lot of people like to do
  354. 12:27while studying that I want to also
  355. 12:29mention is listening to music while
  356. 12:30studying.
  357. 12:31There you can listen to study
  358. 12:33frequencies and like instrumental
  359. 12:34[music]
  360. 12:35calming music, but I actually don't
  361. 12:36recommend listening to music with lyrics
  362. 12:39because that is scientifically proven in
  363. 12:41studies to actually hinder your focus
  364. 12:43[music]
  365. 12:44because you shift between trying to
  366. 12:47listen to the lyrics [music] while
  367. 12:48studying. Like, even if you're not
  368. 12:51consciously aware of it, we
  369. 12:52subconsciously tend to do it because
  370. 12:54when we're listening to music, we want
  371. 12:55to focus on the lyrics and we want to
  372. 12:57>> [music]
  373. 12:57>> we want to focus on like the feel good
  374. 13:00vibes from the music. So,
  375. 13:02when you're studying and if you want to
  376. 13:03listen to music, listen to like gamma
  377. 13:06waves frequencies [music] because they
  378. 13:08can actually like
  379. 13:10scientifically boost different types of
  380. 13:13brain waves released by your brain and
  381. 13:15actually like helps you focus while
  382. 13:17studying. [music] So, like I actually
  383. 13:19have made subliminals on my subliminal
  384. 13:21channel. Like, there's a mental agility
  385. 13:23subliminal that I made. I I to it
  386. 13:25specifically when I'm studying because I
  387. 13:27have actually incorporated frequencies
  388. 13:29in that subliminal. I believe it was
  389. 13:31741 hertz paired [music] with gamma
  390. 13:34waves to help accelerate
  391. 13:37my ability to focus
  392. 13:39>> [music]
  393. 13:39>> while studying while also listening to
  394. 13:41brain power affirmations in the
  395. 13:43background.
  396. 13:44So, anyway, I'm going to start stop
  397. 13:47blabbering and I'm going to move on to
  398. 13:49um the fifth step of this process
  399. 13:52is I want you to evaluate this action
  400. 13:55plan [music]
  401. 13:56{slash} whatever this relaxing technique
  402. 13:58you're doing to help manage your stress
  403. 14:00while studying.
  404. 14:02So, I want you to ask is it working or
  405. 14:05is it not? I want you to measure how far
  406. 14:07you've come to your goals if you've
  407. 14:09already completed them. Basically,
  408. 14:11asking yourself what went right or what
  409. 14:13went wrong and use that as a learning
  410. 14:15opportunity for how to improve in the
  411. 14:19future. [music] So, now that you have
  412. 14:21your
  413. 14:22you know, maybe it's your little quiet
  414. 14:24place where you light your candle or
  415. 14:27diffuse your essential oil, listen to
  416. 14:29your affirmations, listen to your
  417. 14:30subliminals while studying. I personally
  418. 14:32listen to the subliminals while studying
  419. 14:35like I like I said in other videos and
  420. 14:38>> [music]
  421. 14:38>> maybe I I know I spoke a little about
  422. 14:41that in this video in particular, but
  423. 14:43>> [music]
  424. 14:44>> really just assess how far you've come
  425. 14:48to your academic goals based on like how
  426. 14:50much you've been able to regulate your
  427. 14:52nervous system through making yourself
  428. 14:54feel calmer and not feeling as much
  429. 14:56stress.
  430. 14:57So, in my case
  431. 14:59recently because I just began the summer
  432. 15:01semester and I'm taking 15 credits,
  433. 15:03three of those classes being accelerated
  434. 15:05while working full-time and managing two
  435. 15:07YouTube channels
  436. 15:09I've really had to be hyper aware
  437. 15:11of my surroundings and the in the
  438. 15:14environment that I've made for studying
  439. 15:16because I mean, that is so incredibly
  440. 15:19condensed [music] and
  441. 15:20my brain literally
  442. 15:23feels like it's just on go mode 24/7
  443. 15:26because I'm constantly thinking of all
  444. 15:28the things I have to do.
  445. 15:30But, because I've trained my nervous
  446. 15:32system to realize
  447. 15:34I chose I chose to be full-time. I chose
  448. 15:37to be a full-time student, a full-time
  449. 15:38worker, and manage [music] two YouTube
  450. 15:40channels. That is within my control. And
  451. 15:42if I need to stop, I have the power to
  452. 15:45stop. So, realize that you're the one in
  453. 15:47control here, and you [music] have the
  454. 15:49power to reassess and reassess
  455. 15:53and adjust your environment, your your
  456. 15:56goals based on where you are. So, you
  457. 15:58basically have to be
  458. 16:00>> [music]
  459. 16:00>> hyper-aware.
  460. 16:01And then
  461. 16:02just sit back and relax and realize that
  462. 16:04you're the one in control.
  463. 16:07So, like
  464. 16:09the bottom line of this step is just
  465. 16:11basically
  466. 16:13making adjustments as needed and [music]
  467. 16:16starting over with step three and repeat
  468. 16:18as needed. So, step three being assess
  469. 16:20where you control [music] what you can
  470. 16:23control around your study time versus
  471. 16:25what you can't and finding
  472. 16:26opportunities/practices
  473. 16:28to relax your nervous system. Again,
  474. 16:31maybe that's journaling, meditation,
  475. 16:32yoga, therapy, or visualization.
  476. 16:37So, I want to keep this video short and
  477. 16:39succinct because my time is [music] a
  478. 16:43little limited here.
  479. 16:45So, if you stayed until the end of this
  480. 16:47video, thank you so much. It's been an
  481. 16:49honor to talk with you, and
  482. 16:51>> [music]
  483. 16:52>> don't forget to like, comment, and
  484. 16:54subscribe for more content like this. If
  485. 16:56you guys have any questions, do not be
  486. 16:58afraid to reach out to me in the comment
  487. 17:00section below. I do believe I have my um
  488. 17:03>> [music]
  489. 17:03>> life coaching email in my bio on my
  490. 17:06YouTube channel. If you're ever
  491. 17:07interested in a personal one-on-one with
  492. 17:10me, make sure to contact me at
  493. 17:12[email protected]
  494. 17:13[music]
  495. 17:15for a personalized coaching details or
  496. 17:17even if you just have any questions
  497. 17:19[music] or topics you'd like to discuss
  498. 17:23or if you have suggestions for future
  499. 17:24videos, please do not be [music] afraid
  500. 17:26to reach out to me.
  501. 17:28And
  502. 17:29without further ado, I will see you guys
  503. 17:32in the next one. I love [music] you and
  504. 17:34take care.
  505. 17:35Bye.

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