How To Increase Your Hips — Transcript

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1. 0:00[Music]
2. 0:01oh that's not straight oh it is straight
3. 0:04that's not straight that's the average
4. 0:06thought process of people seeing me and
5. 0:09Finn today I would like to talk about
6. 0:12how
7. 0:14to put together outfits kind of it's not
8. 0:17like going to be super intense because
9. 0:19I'm not in my new house I don't have a
10. 0:21nice area to like show clothes and show
11. 0:23examples but I can show examples with
12. 0:25photos I want to kind of help you put
13. 0:29together outfits that compliment you and
14. 0:33help you out in your transition now I'm
15. 0:36going to preface this by saying I
16. 0:38personally believe that trans flaws are
17. 0:41not as much of a problem as people like
18. 0:44to think that they are I think that they
19. 0:46are just human variants my shoulders are
20. 0:48bigger than my
21. 0:50hips it's just not something to really
22. 0:52worry about I know that dysphoria is all
23. 0:54encompassing but I just think that
24. 0:56personally it is a little bit safer to
25. 1:00battle the brain thoughts rather than
26. 1:03try to obliterate the body and make
27. 1:05yourself feel bad anyway first of all
28. 1:09you need to kind of find your problem
29. 1:11areas so the areas of your body that you
30. 1:14dislike I made a video talking about the
31. 1:162/3 rule 2/3 of your outfit is kind of
32. 1:19one piece and then 1/3 is another piece
33. 1:22so if you can split your silhouette into
34. 1:25that 2/3 1/3 you'll have an attractive
35. 1:28outfit the stage before that
36. 1:31before you can decide what you want to
37. 1:33wear you need to decide what you're
38. 1:34trying to achieve if you're trans
39. 1:38if not just if your trans that was a
40. 1:41misstep sis women do this too this this
41. 1:44advice wouldn't exist if not for sis
42. 1:46women it's not just for trans women um
43. 1:50but anyway this is a trans
44. 1:52Channel I am so tired it took me so long
45. 1:54to get the puppy to sleep it was like an
46. 1:56hour before I even started the
47. 1:58video
48. 2:00obviously you have the whole bone thing
49. 2:03but more importantly is kind of the
50. 2:05muscles and the fat that as a you know
51. 2:08trans that's gone through through male
52. 2:11puberty you wouldn't
53. 2:13really have the same shape as a sis one
54. 2:17but it's not the end of the world it is
55. 2:18something that you can change obviously
56. 2:21genetic variance big thing depends on
57. 2:24your genetics you could be curvier than
58. 2:27is this woman it is human variation but
59. 2:30on average you'll probably have less
60. 2:32development around kind of I'd say like
61. 2:37this area here and on the back of your
62. 2:40butt I can show you my butt that will be
63. 2:43less fat than with this s woman and you
64. 2:47can you can change this with clothing or
65. 2:50with exercise strength training is huge
66. 2:52I use it my butt has grown here is the
67. 2:54before and after you can see back of my
68. 2:57ass is just filling out slightly
69. 3:00H
70. 3:02yeah finding problem areas my problem
71. 3:05areas are my shoulders they are wider
72. 3:08than my hips so I count that as a
73. 3:10problem area and the way that I handle
74. 3:12this most of the time is to wear
75. 3:16something flared at my hips so I talked
76. 3:19about this at Tik Tok on Tik Tok way
77. 3:21back when I started my Tik Tok but you
78. 3:24know you haven't seen that it doesn't
79. 3:25matter the best way to appear more
80. 3:27shapely more curved more find is to
81. 3:30flare your hips with something like a
82. 3:33mini skirt love trans women wear the
83. 3:35skater skirt for that very reason this
84. 3:37is the first thing that most of you ever
85. 3:41bought or like a oversiz pair of like
86. 3:46joggers or trousers jeans something that
87. 3:48kind of gives you more bulk uh if you're
88. 3:52going to choose a mini skirt which
89. 3:53probably will make sure you wear it
90. 3:56around this area here this is your waist
91. 3:59now not not here where these trousers
92. 4:00are this is your old waist this is your
93. 4:02new waist up
94. 4:05here so obviously this is kind of a big
95. 4:07thing with trans women this is like the
96. 4:09main problem is like wanting your hips
97. 4:11to be wider so a lot like I mentioned a
98. 4:14lot of trans women go from Min skirts
99. 4:16but you can have sufficient widening
100. 4:19with jeans you just kind of need to
101. 4:22oversize your jeans go for like a y 2K
102. 4:2590s kind of vibe where they're baggy and
103. 4:30they kind of give that form of like just
104. 4:34bulky they bulk it out so for this
105. 4:36example you have found your problem area
106. 4:38which is your hips and you have decided
107. 4:41that a bulky joggers or skirt or
108. 4:44whatever is your option so you need to
109. 4:47then move on to reducing shoulders the
110. 4:50best way to kind of make a ju position
111. 4:52between big bulky or wide hips and your
112. 4:56torso is to wear something tight like
113. 4:59like I have on now like a tank top a
114. 5:01tight t-shirt something form fitting and
115. 5:04it kind of produces that balance you
116. 5:06have it makes this area look smaller and
117. 5:08your lower half look aier and then the
118. 5:12shoulders you can hide them or you can
119. 5:15be a bad and you can keep them out
120. 5:17cuz if you you can balance your body so
121. 5:19that you know your your skirt is flaring
122. 5:22your your midi skirt your you know large
123. 5:25skirt baby tiny transwoman skirt that
124. 5:30is very risky it can balance out your
125. 5:32body and you can just have your
126. 5:33shoulders out and no one's going to know
127. 5:35anything or think anything you look
128. 5:37great trust me or you can kind of cheat
129. 5:41if you're feeling insecure and you can
130. 5:42wear a hoodie and then you put this
131. 5:45hoodie or a jacket a crop jacket crop
132. 5:48jacket would be cute cuz it would match
133. 5:49the mini skirt but then this hides your
134. 5:52shoulders the bulkiness of the jacket
135. 5:54kind
136. 5:55of removes the idea that your shoulders
137. 5:58are creating the form and then it's just
138. 6:00the jacket doing that and if you wear a
139. 6:02jacket um and it makes you a bit top
140. 6:05heavy that's what a jacket is supposed
141. 6:06to do and it kind of helps with
142. 6:10confidence and helps
143. 6:12with not feeling like you stand out
144. 6:15alternatively you could wear a shapewear
145. 6:18either shapewear that pulls in your your
146. 6:22midsection so that you have more of like
147. 6:24that hourglass shape or you could wear
148. 6:27shapewear that gives you kind of fake
149. 6:29hip or thick boobs or any of that stuff
150. 6:32do not feel bad about that because that
151. 6:34is made for CIS women it's not made for
152. 6:38you they're made for sis women that are
153. 6:39insecure the whole female Market is for
154. 6:42insecurity and bettering yourself and it
155. 6:45applies for trans women the same as this
156. 6:47one the shapewear will be in most stores
157. 6:50stores that sell underwear they will
158. 6:52have like the hip forms or the boob
159. 6:54forms or the butt forms and that's the
160. 6:56quickest way to feel safe in public I
161. 6:59think the hardest thing with that is to
162. 7:01feel like you're cheating but that's
163. 7:04stupid and safety is priority I would
164. 7:07say safety and then kind of figuring out
165. 7:10your brain so you're not you know being
166. 7:12as harsh on yourself about just natural
167. 7:14features and
168. 7:15then
169. 7:17altering I would not recommend a BPL but
170. 7:20you can do you it is very dangerous it's
171. 7:23one of the most dangerous like cosmetic
172. 7:25surgeries which is a bit freaky but you
173. 7:27know if you I'm not
174. 7:29I'm not your
175. 7:31mom exercise strength training killer it
176. 7:34really does help losing weight like
177. 7:37exercising cardio being healthy gives
178. 7:39you like more of an inward waste shape
179. 7:41especially if you've got your hormones
180. 7:44in the female range for a long enough
181. 7:45time and then strength training if
182. 7:48there's that kind of myth that you'll
183. 7:50become bulky or too big that is not
184. 7:53going to happen that is incredibly hard
185. 7:54you would have to try and become a
186. 7:57bodybuilder if you just do like stand
187. 7:59standard like you know decent strength
188. 8:02training where you do like lower body
189. 8:03upper body and then a full body day you
190. 8:06would just
191. 8:07grow your muscles in a way that is
192. 8:10uniform and you know you're you can have
193. 8:13like a leg Focus I like to do more lower
194. 8:15body exercises than upper and that is
195. 8:18you know adding muscles that weren't
196. 8:19there it's giving me shape that wasn't
197. 8:21there before and that has been a huge
198. 8:23confidence boost targeting specific
199. 8:25muscles which are
200. 8:27your I can't remember what they're
201. 8:29called cuz I'm not that smart but the
202. 8:30muscles on the sides of your body the
203. 8:34outside not the inside a lot of leg
204. 8:36exercises Target the inside of your hips
205. 8:38but you want the outside of your hips
206. 8:39and those are very specific exercises
207. 8:42like hip abductions and they really
208. 8:44really do help things to avoid
209. 8:47specifically for the kind of hips
210. 8:49problem area you should avoid bodyc
211. 8:53dresses dresses that are very tight to
212. 8:55you and they have no flare they're just
213. 8:57you know straight down um those rely on
214. 9:00your body providing the shape of the
215. 9:02dress and if you're not quite there yet
216. 9:04it's not going to make you feel very
217. 9:05good um so avoid things like that avoid
218. 9:09tight jeans you want to avoid things
219. 9:12that kind of accentuate your shoulders
220. 9:15people would say that like tank tops
221. 9:16accentuate your shoulders but it really
222. 9:18depends on the type and it depends on
223. 9:20your hairstyle there are a bunch of
224. 9:22different things you know I think the
225. 9:24best thing to do is just try clothes on
226. 9:27and see what works for you this is what
227. 9:29I did it's what I still do I try certain
228. 9:33styles of clothing on and I go okay I
229. 9:34can wear that I can wear the bodyon
230. 9:36dress now or I can wear this tank top I
231. 9:38can wear this tight t-shirt or I can't
232. 9:41wear that there's a bunch of stuff that
233. 9:43is just not for me I think the best way
234. 9:45to to find a really good outfit for you
235. 9:48is to go through your wardrobe try stuff
236. 9:50on and see what suits your body and when
237. 9:52you go shopping for clothing try a
238. 9:56variety of styles so tank top or t-shirt
239. 10:00or you know button-up shirt and try them
240. 10:03in different sizes because a big
241. 10:05oversized t-shirt is really nice but a
242. 10:07mediumsized t-shirt doesn't suit me very
243. 10:09well it comes to a really weird stage on
244. 10:11my body where it kind of it doesn't fit
245. 10:14the 2/3 rule properly it makes me look
246. 10:16like a block um but a tight t-shirt can
247. 10:19make me look really good so I usually go
248. 10:21for either really baggy or really form
249. 10:24fitting because I you know I I tried it
250. 10:27on in the store and I saw like oh this
251. 10:29is way nicer and I think that you would
252. 10:30be surprised like you you can think
253. 10:32you're a medium or a large or whatever
254. 10:34and you try the smaller one because you
255. 10:36like a little bit into your transition
256. 10:37now you haven't realized and it fits you
257. 10:39nicer you you you know your body is
258. 10:42moving at a faster Pace than your brain
259. 10:43realizes you'll have changes that you
260. 10:45would even have noticed that you'll only
261. 10:48really see when you start to explore
262. 10:50more
263. 10:51like feminine clothing or form fitting
264. 10:53clothing or you know just just trying
265. 10:56more stuff honestly I've kind of rambled
266. 10:58on about the one problem area this whole
267. 11:01video so I feel like I'm just going to
268. 11:02leave it at that if there are other
269. 11:04problem areas I should talk about I feel
270. 11:07so bad calling a problem area because
271. 11:08it's just it's not but I understand
272. 11:11where it comes from um if there are
273. 11:14other areas like that that you feel that
274. 11:16you would need help with if there's
275. 11:18enough of Buzz about it then I will do a
276. 11:21little video talking about other areas
277. 11:23off the top of my head I can't really
278. 11:25think about anything the the most common
279. 11:28problem in is like how do I make my hips
280. 11:31bigger how do I reduce my shoulders
281. 11:33which
282. 11:34hopefully I have helped with just a
283. 11:37little bit thank you for watching please
284. 11:39subscribe there will be more fashion
285. 11:41stuff in a few months when I move into
286. 11:43the new house it will be a focus we'll
287. 11:45be talking about my brand and like how
288. 11:47it's building and how I'm getting all
289. 11:49the samples and making it ready blah
290. 11:50blah blah the things I'm looking for and
291. 11:53I'll be trying to do more like long form
292. 11:55fashion helpful videos like I started
293. 11:57with Tik Tok but I was going to say more
294. 11:59coherent but they will probably be less
295. 12:01coherent because I am not particularly
296. 12:03very
297. 12:05coherent
298. 12:12loveia