HOW TO HAVE A MAGNETIC AURA ✨ *attract the attention you want* — Transcript
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- 0:00you know how there's some people where
- 0:01when you walk into a room you're just
- 0:02kind of drawn to them maybe even before
- 0:04they say anything well that is the power
- 0:07of a magnetic Aura but the thing is is
- 0:09that everyone is capable of this
- 0:11magnetic energy it's not just reserved
- 0:13for special people so in today's video
- 0:15I'm going to talk about how to become
- 0:17truly magnetic and have that captivating
- 0:20Aura so you can start attracting the
- 0:22attention you
- 0:24want Hello friends and welcome back if
- 0:27you're new here my name is jills and I
- 0:28help women step into their power tap
- 0:30into their divine feminine and become
- 0:32their best self so if that's something
- 0:34you want to do you should subscribe and
- 0:35stick around in today's world attention
- 0:38is a powerful currency whether it's 5
- 0:40Seconds to capture a viewers attention
- 0:42on social media or that first time
- 0:44meeting a new guy or those quick
- 0:46fleeting moments at a networking event
- 0:48our ability to command attention matters
- 0:51learning how to have a magnetic Aura can
- 0:53help stack the deck in your favor and
- 0:54make life easier and also make your
- 0:57energy more irresistible so what is an
- 1:00aura anyway an aura is basically a field
- 1:02of energy that exists around you and can
- 1:05kind of introduce you before you speak
- 1:08and you can either draw people in
- 1:10attract people into you or repel them
- 1:12away I know that some people are really
- 1:13big into energy and vibration and all
- 1:15that and some people aren't but you
- 1:18can't really deny that people can feel
- 1:20energy people can feel a certain Vibe so
- 1:23to say from a certain person whether
- 1:25they consciously realize it or not a lot
- 1:27of times the way we feel in Aura comes
- 1:30through in a subconscious way so for
- 1:32example maybe you just meet someone but
- 1:34you feel really comfortable and content
- 1:37in their presence you feel like you
- 1:39could tell them anything but we don't
- 1:40even really know why or we're repelled
- 1:42by someone right away with no logical
- 1:45reason to think that but you find out a
- 1:47month later there's clear evidence that
- 1:49he is just like a really sucky person
- 1:51that is our subconscious mind or our
- 1:53intuition picking up on energy and
- 1:55energy is powerful so to create that
- 1:57magnetic energy first thing you need to
- 2:00understand that an aura is a projection
- 2:03of our own inner State and a happy
- 2:06well-lived life will always create the
- 2:09most magnetic and enticing Aura your
- 2:11energy is always an extension of what's
- 2:13going on on the inside physically
- 2:15mentally spiritually all of it so when
- 2:17your inner world starts having a higher
- 2:19vibration or even when you start just
- 2:21like taking care of yourself and become
- 2:23healthier more clean on the inside you
- 2:25will notice that your energy will start
- 2:27to become more magnetic sometimes people
- 2:29when they want to become magnetic and
- 2:32attract attention and get people to like
- 2:34them they do this through manipulation
- 2:36like just manipulating people to see
- 2:38them in a certain way but the thing with
- 2:40life is that you attract what you are
- 2:42and what you put out into the world so
- 2:44if you try to manipulate people to get
- 2:47them to notice you or to get attention
- 2:49or to get what you want all you're doing
- 2:52is attracting other low Vibe people or
- 2:54situations into your life because you're
- 2:56vibrating at the same level and then
- 2:58also like there's so much much bad toxic
- 3:01dating advice on like Tik Tok and social
- 3:03media and all that if you act in a toxic
- 3:05way to get someone to like you or play
- 3:08games and play with their head to be in
- 3:10the power position all you're doing is
- 3:11attracting other toxic or wounded people
- 3:13the key is that you don't want to
- 3:15attract all the attention you want to
- 3:18attract the right attention and I'm
- 3:20going to talk about that in a sec
- 3:21because that's a super important point
- 3:23but this magnetic Aura is not something
- 3:24you can just completely slip on and off
- 3:26like a mask every 5 seconds because it
- 3:28kind of becomes either
- 3:30who you are or who you're not so if our
- 3:33Aura is a projection of our own inner
- 3:35State and we want to become more
- 3:37magnetic that means we do the work do
- 3:40the inner work forgive people heal past
- 3:43traumas and let them go take care of
- 3:45ourselves take care of our body eat well
- 3:47move our body and especially doing
- 3:49things you're passionate about doing
- 3:52things that make you excited to wake up
- 3:53in the morning things that inspire you
- 3:55and excite you living a life that also
- 3:57involves pleasure and fun this is how
- 3:59you create create a more High Vibe inner
- 4:01State and like I said this will project
- 4:03out onto the world and people will feel
- 4:04it you know how some people will give
- 4:06that compliment like oh she's glowing
- 4:08and it's not like she's actually changed
- 4:10she doesn't look any different but for
- 4:12some reason people can feel a glow to
- 4:14her they can see a glow to her that's
- 4:16because her inner state has changed
- 4:19something in her life has changed
- 4:21somehow to level up her inner State and
- 4:23people can feel it I have this longtime
- 4:25friend and since the moment I met her
- 4:27she has always been magnetic and even
- 4:30way back in the day I would look at her
- 4:31and I would be like how does she do that
- 4:33and knowing what I know now I know that
- 4:35it's because of her inner State she's
- 4:37always taken really good care of herself
- 4:39and truly loves doing it it's not just a
- 4:41chore to her she always always follows
- 4:44her passions and her desires even when
- 4:46it goes against the grain she was raised
- 4:49in a very loving safe home which makes
- 4:51her inner World more secure to begin
- 4:54with she's positive she's trusting and
- 4:56all of this makes her energy so
- 4:58captivating when when I was younger she
- 5:00was a big expander for me and she taught
- 5:01me a lot now like I said you don't want
- 5:04to attract all the attention you want to
- 5:06attract the right attention and the way
- 5:09that you do this is through authenticity
- 5:12and that's why magnetism can look
- 5:13different from person to person I'm
- 5:14going to say something very important
- 5:17the goal of having a magnetic Aura is
- 5:20not to get everyone to like you and once
- 5:22you understand this and get comfortable
- 5:24with this in your body it will change
- 5:26the game there's this saying I've heard
- 5:28liked by everyone loved by no one
- 5:30wanting everyone to like you will make
- 5:32you the opposite of magnetic think about
- 5:34an actual magnet it's actually
- 5:36polarizing a magnet can attract some
- 5:39things very strongly yes but it will
- 5:42also repel other things the only reason
- 5:44that magnet does attract some things so
- 5:46so strongly is because it also repels
- 5:49you command so much more presence with
- 5:51the right people with the right
- 5:52opportunities when you become the
- 5:54highest version of yourself if a magnet
- 5:56just tried to attract everything it
- 5:59might attract some stuff yes but not as
- 6:02strongly as a normal magnet would
- 6:04because the normal magnet is polarizing
- 6:07that's what causes it to have that super
- 6:09magnetic strength think about Taylor
- 6:11Swift she's obviously magnetic or else
- 6:13she wouldn't be as successful as she is
- 6:15you know she has this huge Swifty Army
- 6:18does everyone like her no my husband
- 6:21thinks she's incredibly annoying but
- 6:22there's also a whole bunch of people who
- 6:24would probably literally die for her and
- 6:26then think about Angelina Jolie she's
- 6:28also quite magnetic but in a very
- 6:31different way she's mysterious and
- 6:33sensual you know it's more in the
- 6:35attitude both women are magnetic but in
- 6:38their own ways think about it people
- 6:40tend to be magnetic for a certain reason
- 6:43so some people can be magnetic because
- 6:45they radiate warmth and love and trust
- 6:48and safety and that was more my friend
- 6:50the one I was talking about she's very
- 6:51much like that but then there are other
- 6:53people who can have a magnetic Aura
- 6:55because they radiate Power Authority
- 6:58leadership I'm rewatching in Gossip go
- 7:00right now because I mean it's the best
- 7:01but even think about Serena and Blair
- 7:04they both give off quite magnetic energy
- 7:07main character energy but they're also
- 7:09very different and they both really lean
- 7:11into who they are Serena is more of this
- 7:13like free-spirited hopeless romantic
- 7:16chill goes with the flow kind of girl
- 7:18and then Blair has more sass more
- 7:20Authority she's very organized and on
- 7:23top of things and they command more
- 7:24Presence by leaning into that in my
- 7:27opinion I think Serena is more magnetic
- 7:29than Blair especially in the beginning
- 7:31but I think as the show progresses and
- 7:34they both kind of heal some of their
- 7:36inner wounds they become more and more
- 7:39magnetic as they get older especially to
- 7:41higher Vibe people in situations you
- 7:44will become the most magnetic when you
- 7:46Embrace who you are own it and lean into
- 7:50it and do it be that truest version of
- 7:52yourself from the highest vibration you
- 7:55can will that polarize some people sure
- 7:57but will it also magnetize and people to
- 7:59you yes so like if your true authentic
- 8:02self is more of a sensual nature you can
- 8:05lean into that not just by the way you
- 8:07are but also by the way you even present
- 8:10yourself like if you wear more red or
- 8:12black or dresses that show off your
- 8:14curves think about Samantha from Sex in
- 8:16the City she's a very exaggerated
- 8:18version of this I mean it's a TV show
- 8:20right but she really just owns who she
- 8:22is and even though some people might not
- 8:24agree with her lifestyle choices you
- 8:27can't deny that she does have quite
- 8:28magnetic energy she's just so herself
- 8:32and Serena vanderwood and from Gossip
- 8:34Girl she's just so herself even Blair
- 8:36she's just so herself so also if your
- 8:38natural personality is super warm and
- 8:41happy and bubbly and feminine wearing
- 8:43pink or even like a happy yellow color
- 8:45that will amplify that while yes you
- 8:47will become slightly more polarizing
- 8:49when you truly lean into your
- 8:51authenticity you will attract the right
- 8:53people and repel the rest and you will
- 8:55command more presence you will be more
- 8:58likely to be remembered M think about
- 9:00like a true high value woman right it's
- 9:02not uncommon that when a woman becomes
- 9:05very like high value and really raises
- 9:07her vibration and all of that she
- 9:09actually receives less interest in men
- 9:11overall not because you're now less
- 9:13appealing or less beautiful or anything
- 9:16but because you're now on different
- 9:18energy levels and it will start to repel
- 9:20the suitors who are energetically
- 9:22incompatible they're not thinking like
- 9:24oh her Aura is so different than mine
- 9:27I'm not going to approach her no but
- 9:28there's just this feeling that he gets
- 9:30of it not being a match and so he won't
- 9:32waste his time one time I was scrolling
- 9:34through YouTube shorts and I got this
- 9:36video that was like this ASMR video of
- 9:40somebody eating like the ASMR was the
- 9:42eating noises and stuff and not my thing
- 9:45but then I looked and that channel had 2
- 9:47million subscribers so clearly some
- 9:48people like it for some reason that I
- 9:50don't understand that content and that
- 9:52channel is magnetizing to some people
- 9:54and repelling to others if you want to
- 9:56become magnetic your goal is not to
- 9:58become a social chameleon who changes
- 10:01who she is in different situations so
- 10:04that she can be liked by everyone and
- 10:06guess what people can often sense when
- 10:07you have inauthentic energy cuz it kind
- 10:10of makes people feel slightly uneasy to
- 10:13be around you there's like this Aira of
- 10:15anxiety and you become less magnetic
- 10:18it's ironic but the more you try to be
- 10:20magnetic usually the less magnetic you
- 10:24become because it kind of turns into
- 10:26this sort of desperate energy I want to
- 10:28be liked by one energy the trick is not
- 10:30to focus on the end result of becoming
- 10:33magnetic but instead to focus on the
- 10:35little things that get you there think
- 10:37about creating the best energy for
- 10:39yourself and becoming more confident in
- 10:41who you are and living life from a place
- 10:43of authenticity and love because why
- 10:46wouldn't we want to do that anyways
- 10:47right and a more captivating Aura will
- 10:49start to fall into place now side note
- 10:51like I said this magnetic energy will
- 10:53help you to attract the right people and
- 10:54repel the wrong ones usually you still
- 10:57have to use discernment sometimes s and
- 10:59have boundaries for example with my
- 11:00videos some people might click on them
- 11:02and be like o yeah I love this girl and
- 11:03other people might click on it and be
- 11:04like man she's not for me next which is
- 11:06totally fine but then there's also the
- 11:08rare occurrence of someone being like oh
- 11:10she's not for me but let's see what kind
- 11:13of super rude comment I can think of to
- 11:15try to bring her down and make her feel
- 11:17terrible about herself like it's rare
- 11:19but there will be people like that in
- 11:20life and I call them leeches don't let
- 11:22them drag down your energy or convince
- 11:25you to be less of who you are now moving
- 11:28on people will be much more likely to be
- 11:31magnetized to you when you make them
- 11:33feel good about themselves and when they
- 11:35feel good in your presence this is just
- 11:38psychological fact people like to talk
- 11:41about themselves people like to feel
- 11:43special and people love to feel seen and
- 11:47heard and also valued very charismatic
- 11:50magnetic people can make someone feel
- 11:53like they are the only person in the
- 11:54room so how do you do this things like
- 11:56asking them real thoughtful genuine
- 11:59questions about themselves and actually
- 12:01listening not just waiting for your turn
- 12:03to talk or you trying to come up with
- 12:05your response while they're talking but
- 12:08just actually listening and being
- 12:10present with them or things like eye
- 12:12contact being excited about their
- 12:14interests being interested in their life
- 12:16talking to them about their passions
- 12:18remembering little things about them
- 12:20even little things like using their name
- 12:21when you speak to them Dale Carnegie who
- 12:24wrote How to Win Friends and Influence
- 12:25People which is a good book I recommend
- 12:28he says that
- 12:29something along the lines of a person's
- 12:31name is to that person the sweetest most
- 12:33important sound of any language a
- 12:35person's name is special to them it
- 12:37grabs their attention because we're
- 12:39programmed that way from childhood that
- 12:41our name is supposed to grab our
- 12:42attention you don't need to overuse
- 12:43their name cuz that's kind of weird but
- 12:45like for example when you first meet
- 12:47someone using their name in a
- 12:49conversation once maybe twice can help
- 12:51the person know that you are listening
- 12:53that you care that you're present with
- 12:55them if you have the power to make
- 12:56someone feel good about themselves when
- 12:58they're with you to make them feel more
- 13:00seen then they will likely be quite
- 13:03magnetized to you and you might think
- 13:05like oh well isn't that manipulative
- 13:07well it depends do you actually care
- 13:09what the other person has to say or are
- 13:11you just trying to get them to like you
- 13:13do you actually want to ask them genuine
- 13:15thoughtful questions because you really
- 13:17want to hear their answer or are you
- 13:19just getting them to like you don't just
- 13:21pretend to be interested in people to
- 13:24become more magnetic that's not the
- 13:26answer instead you have to start
- 13:28operating from an open heart and
- 13:30embodying the energy of Love genuinely
- 13:31care about other people genuinely be
- 13:33present with other people the more
- 13:35authentic your energy is the more
- 13:36magnetic you'll be and again like when
- 13:38you're trying to be magnetic often times
- 13:40you're just totally focused on yourself
- 13:42and thinking like oh did I do that right
- 13:44oh is does this person like me but when
- 13:46you do that you lose presence with other
- 13:48people and people can feel that and it
- 13:50does not feel good to be on the other
- 13:52side of that now another big key to
- 13:54having a magnetic Aura is being able to
- 13:57validate yourself you become more
- 13:58magnetic by being secure in yourself not
- 14:01needing other people's approval and
- 14:03Praises all the time to feel good about
- 14:05who you are when you are secure in
- 14:07yourself and no longer needy you become
- 14:10a magnet to who and what you're supposed
- 14:12to attract think about like
- 14:14manifestation and the Law of Attraction
- 14:16they say that to manifest what you want
- 14:19you have to stop needing it and the
- 14:21minute that you stop needing it to
- 14:23happen right now that's when those
- 14:25manifestations start to come into your
- 14:27life it's like the girl who's been
- 14:29desperately trying to find her husband
- 14:31but once she decides to take a break
- 14:33from dating and she decides that she's
- 14:35okay being single she meets her soulmate
- 14:37needy energy desperate energy repels and
- 14:40we become needy when we rely on other
- 14:42people to make us feel good when we
- 14:44start listening to other people's
- 14:45opinions instead of our own again like I
- 14:47said earlier when you focus on just
- 14:50trying to be magnetic you're usually
- 14:52doing it for a certain result you're
- 14:54usually doing it to be validated in some
- 14:57way essentially the people who are not
- 14:59trying to be magnetic are usually the
- 15:01ones who are more magnetic because
- 15:02they're not striving for your approval
- 15:04they're not hunting for your validation
- 15:06there's this Aura of security that they
- 15:08have within themselves and you have to
- 15:10stop chasing stop chasing people stop
- 15:14chasing men especially stop chasing
- 15:16approval stop chasing validation when
- 15:18you are in your authentic magnetic
- 15:20energy like I said you will attract some
- 15:23people very strongly and you will repel
- 15:25others you have to consider that if you
- 15:27have to chase the one to try to be in
- 15:29your life then maybe they're not
- 15:31actually meant to be there once you stop
- 15:33Desiring to be magnetic and once you
- 15:35stop Desiring for everyone to like you
- 15:37so you can get that validation that is
- 15:40when you will step into your most
- 15:42magnetic energy and your aura will be
- 15:44the strongest you become more magnetic
- 15:46by detaching from the outcome so you can
- 15:49start learning to validate Yourself by
- 15:51trusting your own thoughts and opinions
- 15:53trusting your intuition not running to
- 15:56someone else with every single little
- 15:59tiny decision that you have to make to
- 16:00make sure that they agree with you too
- 16:02and instead going with what you think
- 16:04what feels right to you not people
- 16:06pleasing not chasing giving yourself the
- 16:09validation that you're seeking learning
- 16:11to become your own best friend not
- 16:13getting triggered and have your world
- 16:14start crumbling when someone says the
- 16:16slightest negative thing about you
- 16:18learning how to validate yourself can
- 16:19take some time because when it comes
- 16:22down to it it's actually a process of
- 16:25learning how to trust yourself now
- 16:27lastly don't forget that when it comes
- 16:29to your energy and your aura it's
- 16:31something that you have to protect and
- 16:34cleanse regularly like for example if
- 16:36you get a nice new shiny car if you
- 16:38don't ever wash it then eventually over
- 16:40time it's not going to be so nice
- 16:42anymore I know that our energy is
- 16:43something much more mystical than a car
- 16:45and something that we can't really see
- 16:47but our energy and our Aura is
- 16:50constantly coming into contact with
- 16:52different people different things
- 16:53throughout the day and if you don't
- 16:54protect that and continue to keep it
- 16:56clean and strong so to say it can be
- 16:58affected if you encounter in your day
- 17:00really low Vibe people or even if you're
- 17:03just watching like a really low Vibe
- 17:05scary TV show or you have a moment of
- 17:07fear or panic in your day for some
- 17:09reason all of these things can affect
- 17:10our energy if you're starting to feel
- 17:13off or if you feel like things feel
- 17:15heavier for some reason and you don't
- 17:17know why or you're feeling more tired
- 17:19all the time or if you feel like you
- 17:21can't ever relax those could potentially
- 17:24potentially be a sign that your energy
- 17:27needs purifying or protecting you can do
- 17:29this through meditation especially
- 17:31meditations that are for like balancing
- 17:33the chakras or my personal favorit
- 17:36meditations where you sort of visualize
- 17:38your energy field and start cleaning up
- 17:41the impurities and I know it sounds
- 17:42weird but if you just sit with binal
- 17:44Beats for 10 or 15 minutes and then you
- 17:47just try to visualize and imagine your
- 17:49aura and your energy field and then you
- 17:51start kind of visualizing pulling out
- 17:54the dirty spots impurities whatever you
- 17:57start catching the holes in your energy
- 18:00you start creating like a big bubble
- 18:03around your energy of protection it can
- 18:05do wonders also water is very
- 18:07energetically purifying so lots of bass
- 18:10or showers can be really helpful or even
- 18:12the ocean if you live by an ocean that
- 18:14could be a wonderful way to kind of
- 18:17purify your energy or Also let's say
- 18:19that you're at work and a new client
- 18:21comes in for the first time and this guy
- 18:24just sucks like he just has terrible
- 18:26energy go to the bathroom after and just
- 18:28wash your hands like wash it off of you
- 18:30it's not like a nice warm bath but it
- 18:32can feel restorative for your energy
- 18:34field and can sometimes kind of
- 18:35recalibrate you I actually talk about
- 18:37this topic briefly in my video nine
- 18:39self-care habits that completely
- 18:41upgraded my life I hope that this video
- 18:43was helpful for you and gave you some
- 18:45valuable tips on how to become your most
- 18:47magnetic self so I think that you should
- 18:50probably go check out this video here
- 18:51but if not that's okay and I will see
- 18:53you next time in my next video thank you
- 18:55so much for watching love you guys bye
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