How to Get Anyone to Reveal Their Real Pain — Transcript
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- 0:00Hopefully it should help in terms of the
- 0:01sales process.
- 0:03Okay, so um
- 0:07Can you tell us how to dig into the pain
- 0:08in the sales call? Great. This is a
- 0:10great question.
- 0:12So there are nine steps in discovery.
- 0:13I'm not going to go through all of them.
- 0:15But let me give you the two magic
- 0:16questions. All right, so the two magic
- 0:17question are
- 0:19after you've asked somebody like, "Okay,
- 0:21you know, what brought you in today?
- 0:23What's the problem you're trying to
- 0:23solve? Okay, how long you've been
- 0:25dealing with that for? Got it. Okay,
- 0:27we've got we've gotten those ones out of
- 0:28the way. Now the the the digging
- 0:31questions are oscillating between two
- 0:33things. These are so good.
- 0:34Can you give me an example of that?
- 0:37And tell me more about that.
- 0:39That's it. You literally just oscillate
- 0:40back and forth between, "Can you give me
- 0:41an example of that?" And "Tell me more
- 0:42about that." So someone says, "Um
- 0:46Uh hey, you know, uh what what brought
- 0:48you in today?" Um you know, my business
- 0:50isn't growing as much as I want. Okay.
- 0:53Tell me more about that.
- 0:54Oh, well, you know, it's
- 0:56uh you know, it's just not growing as
- 0:57fast as I'd like. Can you give me an
- 0:58example? Well,
- 1:00um you know, I didn't I didn't get any
- 1:03you know, as many leads as I as I would
- 1:04have really liked last month. Okay, tell
- 1:06me more about that.
- 1:07You could just [ __ ] go back and
- 1:09forth, back and forth, back and forth.
- 1:11Oh, the leads. So
- 1:13um
- 1:14Yeah, they just weren't they weren't the
- 1:15right quality. Huh, can you give me an
- 1:16example?
- 1:18Oh, well, I mean, some of the leads
- 1:19were, you know, for bigger house owners
- 1:21and some of the leads were for smaller
- 1:22house owners and big house owners are
- 1:24the ones that actually worth the most
- 1:26money. Ah, so it sounds like So now I've
- 1:28got I've got the piece I need. So it
- 1:30sounds like you have an a lead quality
- 1:31issue, not necessarily a volume issue.
- 1:33So that might be a messaging and avatar
- 1:35thing in terms of your targeting. Does
- 1:36that sound about right? Boom.
- 1:38We have the meat. And so you don't need
- 1:40to do this that many times, but you can
- 1:41see how natural it is to just go, "Can
- 1:43you tell me about Tell me Give me an
- 1:44example of that?" Uh "Tell me more about
- 1:46that." "Can you give me an example of
- 1:47that?" "Tell me more about that." Um and
- 1:49as a 201 sales tactic for the for the
- 1:52sales pros in the room, I'm giving
- 1:53commands automatically, subconsciously,
- 1:56positions you as an authority within the
- 1:57sale. Tell me more about that. It's a
- 1:59Um and so nifty. So, anyone can use
- 2:03that. If you're not getting enough meat
- 2:06or pain, and this is the most important
- 2:07part of the sale. Like, the discovery
- 2:09process is the most important part of
- 2:10the sale. I probably said this about all
- 2:11the parts of the sale, but it's also the
- 2:13most important part of the sale because
- 2:14the discovery process is what motivates
- 2:15action. So, like if we think about sales
- 2:17as
- 2:20you're a motivational speaker.
- 2:22Like at the most basic level, we're
- 2:23trying to motivate action. Right? And
- 2:25so, if we're trying to motivate action,
- 2:26then we need to give someone a carrot
- 2:28they're going towards or we need to give
- 2:29them a fire that they're running away
- 2:30from. And so, we do both with the sales
- 2:32motion, but people are far more
- 2:34motivated to be loss averse or pain
- 2:35driven than they are about pleasure or
- 2:37gain.
- 2:38And so, the discovery process is
- 2:39significantly longer than the pitch when
- 2:40done correctly. Right? So, it's like if
- 2:42I can accurately depict to you in as
- 2:44excruciating detail as possible the
- 2:46pains that you're suffering from, you
- 2:47will almost always believe that I can
- 2:49help you solve them if I can describe
- 2:50them with enough color and visual to
- 2:52your specific situation. And mind you,
- 2:54anyone can do this without being an
- 2:55expert. That's the beauty. I don't even
- 2:57need to tell you what the solution is. I
- 2:58just have to know the problems. I'll
- 3:00give you another
- 3:01201 version of this is that once you
- 3:04understand how to sell a specific
- 3:05prospect, the product becomes
- 3:08irrelevant. I'm going to say this again.
- 3:10You
- 3:12You must learn to sell the prospect, not
- 3:13the product. I can promise you if I have
- 3:16a lady who's in front of me who's 35
- 3:17years old and is trying to lose weight
- 3:18after her second kid,
- 3:19I the sale the conversation is the same.
- 3:22The sales conversation is the same. I'm
- 3:25going to start with clarify what they're
- 3:26labeling the problem. Okay, you're
- 3:27you're 180 and you want to be 140. Got
- 3:29it. So, it's 40 lbs difference. What are
- 3:31you doing right now that you can't, you
- 3:32know, that that's that's hurting your
- 3:34life because of this? Okay, what can you
- 3:35not do as a result of this 40 lbs? Okay,
- 3:38got it. You can't go on vacation. Tell
- 3:40me more about that. Hmm. Can you give me
- 3:42an example? Right?
- 3:44Dig. Right? Give me an example. Oh,
- 3:46well, this last summer we had the Huh,
- 3:48tell me more about that. Well, you know,
- 3:49I was out with my family and we did
- 3:51Right? You're just [ __ ] there. But,
- 3:52it's not hard to ask. Just boom, ping
- 3:54pong back and forth. All right? And if
- 3:56you want to add a third one, you can,
- 3:57but I just teach those two, and they
- 3:58[ __ ] work great. Um
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- 4:19appreciate you and enjoy it.
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