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How to Design Your Life (Instead of Living on Default) - with Jon Butcher and Justin Butcher — Transcript

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  1. 0:00What is luminism? Luminism. Luminism is
  2. 0:03the realization
  3. 0:05that you have the power to shape your
  4. 0:07own reality by learning how to
  5. 0:09consistently transform your thoughts
  6. 0:12into matter. Now, that's a big thought,
  7. 0:14so we can break it down. Yeah, yeah,
  8. 0:15yeah. And the you know, the the main
  9. 0:18sort of
  10. 0:19uh machine or mechanism to do so is what
  11. 0:22we call the transformation equation,
  12. 0:24right?
  13. 0:24Right. Yeah, the the the way to learn
  14. 0:26how to consistently turn thought into
  15. 0:28matter is to there's three steps to it.
  16. 0:31The first step is to get crystal clear
  17. 0:33on the vision of what you intend to
  18. 0:35materialize.
  19. 0:36So, that's thinking. That's a thinking
  20. 0:38process.
  21. 0:39Uh the second piece is to develop your
  22. 0:41plan to materialize that vision.
  23. 0:44And the third piece is to take action on
  24. 0:46your plan until your vision is
  25. 0:48materialized. There's a lot more to it
  26. 0:50than that, but those are the basic three
  27. 0:51steps. So, the the second two components
  28. 0:55of that equation, I guess you could say,
  29. 0:58is what sets this apart from the modern
  30. 1:00manifestation movement, the law of
  31. 1:02attraction, all of these things, cuz
  32. 1:03they're they're From from what I've
  33. 1:05gathered at least, it's um
  34. 1:07if I imagine this this boat that I
  35. 1:09really want and I put a picture of a
  36. 1:11boat on my wall, it's going to show up
  37. 1:13in the water if I just believe hard
  38. 1:15enough. Yeah. Well, you know, the modern
  39. 1:17manifestation movement and the law of
  40. 1:19attraction, they're positive,
  41. 1:21well-meaning philosophies, and they can
  42. 1:23be efficacious, and they've definitely
  43. 1:25got the first step right, which is um
  44. 1:28get crystal clear on the vision of what
  45. 1:30you intend to either accomplish or to
  46. 1:32bring into your life.
  47. 1:33Mhm. Uh
  48. 1:35and if you think single-mindedly about
  49. 1:38something for long enough, it's going to
  50. 1:40absolutely have an effect in in physical
  51. 1:42reality.
  52. 1:43Yeah.
  53. 1:44Luminism just puts that power in your
  54. 1:46hands by adding the two steps, create
  55. 1:49your plan
  56. 1:50to achieve that vision, and then take
  57. 1:52incessant, consistent action on your
  58. 1:56plan until that vision is materialized.
  59. 1:58Now,
  60. 1:59the plan has to be a dynamic plan that
  61. 2:02it that accepts feedback.
  62. 2:03Yeah. You don't got to pay attention to
  63. 2:05what's working and what's not working so
  64. 2:06that you can adjust your plan
  65. 2:09uh
  66. 2:10according to the real world results that
  67. 2:12you're creating.
  68. 2:13Every everyone has a plan until they get
  69. 2:14punched in the face. Ex- Exactly.
  70. 2:16Uh Moltke, who is one of the greatest
  71. 2:18generals of all time, said, "No plan
  72. 2:20survives first contact with the enemy."
  73. 2:23So, it's not a weakness in your plan
  74. 2:25that it didn't work the first time.
  75. 2:27That's literally the nature of planning.
  76. 2:29Planning is, "This is my hypothesis
  77. 2:31about what's going to work, then I try
  78. 2:33it, and I find out what what worked and
  79. 2:36what didn't work, and then I adjust my
  80. 2:38plan accordingly.
  81. 2:39You do more of the stuff that worked and
  82. 2:40less of the stuff that didn't.
  83. 2:41Exactly. And then if you take consistent
  84. 2:42action, and that's what it's got to be,
  85. 2:44it's got to be daily, habitual,
  86. 2:46persistent, consistent, you pound on it,
  87. 2:48you pound it. You wake up every single
  88. 2:50day completely committed to
  89. 2:52materializing that vision, you your your
  90. 2:55plan has is dynamic, it's got
  91. 2:57flexibility built into it, so you're
  92. 2:58taking constant feedback, and if you
  93. 3:01just consistently persist
  94. 3:04to take action on your plan to
  95. 3:06materialize your vision,
  96. 3:08you are eventually going to materialize
  97. 3:10that vision.
  98. 3:11Yeah, I mean, it seems
  99. 3:13it's simple, but it's not easy type type
  100. 3:16of type of deal.
  101. 3:18Justin, here's the thing. It's so easy,
  102. 3:20and you're so good at it that you
  103. 3:22completely take for granted the fact
  104. 3:24that you have this power, which is
  105. 3:26almost godlike.
  106. 3:27Mhm. You literally have the power to
  107. 3:29think a thought, and all it is is an
  108. 3:32energetic intention in your head, and
  109. 3:34before the end of that day, you can
  110. 3:36materialize that thought in 3D physical
  111. 3:39reality. You can bring it into the 3D
  112. 3:42physical world. So, that's the create
  113. 3:44That's the god spark. That's the creator
  114. 3:47in all of us. Let me give you a super
  115. 3:48simple example, baking an apple pie.
  116. 3:51Easy easy example.
  117. 3:53It starts with an energetic intention.
  118. 3:55Hmm, what do I want to cook for dessert
  119. 3:57this evening? I want to cook an apple
  120. 3:59pie. That's what I want to cook. So, now
  121. 4:01you have an idea, a thought. All your
  122. 4:04apple pie is at that point is a thought.
  123. 4:06It literally does not exist in 3D
  124. 4:08physical reality.
  125. 4:10So, you get crystal clear on your
  126. 4:11vision, then you go you you develop your
  127. 4:14plan. You go about assembling the
  128. 4:17ingredients that you'll need to create
  129. 4:18the apple pie. You got your flour, you
  130. 4:20got your apple, you got whatever goes
  131. 4:21into an apple pie. You go collect those
  132. 4:23various Now, you're taking action on
  133. 4:25your plan. You're collecting those
  134. 4:27various ingredients and bring them
  135. 4:29bringing them together,
  136. 4:30and then the final piece of action that
  137. 4:32you take is you transform
  138. 4:35those varied individual ingredients
  139. 4:39until it becomes an apple pie, which did
  140. 4:42not exist in the 3D physical universe
  141. 4:45this morning, but now it does. It
  142. 4:48started out off as a thought in your
  143. 4:49head, and now you made it exist in 3D
  144. 4:51physical reality.
  145. 4:53Congratulations, you've just harnessed
  146. 4:55the law of cause and effect to turn your
  147. 4:58energetic thought into physical 3D
  148. 5:00matter. We all do this every single day.
  149. 5:03The problem is we use the power on
  150. 5:07mundane, unimportant things
  151. 5:09unconsciously.
  152. 5:11Very, very seldom do we use it on the
  153. 5:13most important things in life. It's so
  154. 5:16ubiquitous and common that we don't even
  155. 5:18realize that we have this power.
  156. 5:20But when you really understand what it
  157. 5:23is, and when you learn to harness and
  158. 5:25wield it and focus it on the big things
  159. 5:28in life, you it literally allows you to
  160. 5:30shape your reality.
  161. 5:31Yeah. And and wake up in a world of your
  162. 5:34own making every day. Your your life is
  163. 5:36an apple pie, and you need to go about
  164. 5:38consciously baking it.
  165. 5:39Well, the first thing you got to do is
  166. 5:40visualize exactly what you want it to
  167. 5:42look like.
  168. 5:42Yeah.
  169. 5:43And then you've got to assemble the
  170. 5:44ingredients and start putting to them
  171. 5:46together. You you you work on it every
  172. 5:48single day, and eventually your vision
  173. 5:51and your reality become one. So, so you
  174. 5:53just said sort of living in a world of
  175. 5:56your own making, you you shape your own
  176. 5:59reality. I I feel like there there
  177. 6:02should be a a definition to this, cuz
  178. 6:04people watching this may be like, "Well,
  179. 6:05I can't I can't change the president. I
  180. 6:08can't change where, you know, Germany is
  181. 6:11on the map. I can't change these things
  182. 6:12about my reality, so I can't change my
  183. 6:14reality at all." But there is an actual
  184. 6:16definition to not changing your reality
  185. 6:18per se, but shaping it, right? Yes. Um
  186. 6:22the first thing you've got to understand
  187. 6:23is that human beings inhabit two
  188. 6:27completely separate worlds
  189. 6:28simultaneously.
  190. 6:30The internal mental world of thought,
  191. 6:33which you're in that world half your
  192. 6:34freaking life. You're in in your head.
  193. 6:37And the external physical world of of
  194. 6:40the 3D physical reality. So, your
  195. 6:42internal world is all you. There's
  196. 6:44nobody in there but you. You're the only
  197. 6:46one that inhabits that world. And in
  198. 6:47that world, you have absolutely
  199. 6:50unlimited power. You can visualize
  200. 6:52anything you want with no limitations
  201. 6:54whatsoever. That world is yours.
  202. 6:57The physical world is a world we all
  203. 6:59share.
  204. 7:00You have a lot of control over your
  205. 7:01physical reality, but you don't have
  206. 7:03control over events in the Middle East
  207. 7:05or earthquakes or volcanoes.
  208. 7:07But you you have control over all the
  209. 7:10things that really make a difference in
  210. 7:12your life. You've got control of the way
  211. 7:14you treat people. You've got the
  212. 7:16control of the way you deal with
  213. 7:18setbacks. You've got control of the
  214. 7:20content you consume. You've got control
  215. 7:22over so many things that that are the
  216. 7:24things that really end up shaping your
  217. 7:26life.
  218. 7:27And the trick to luminism
  219. 7:30is getting crystal clear on the person
  220. 7:32that you want to become and the life you
  221. 7:34want to live. Really thinking down what
  222. 7:37that looks like, what that ideal life
  223. 7:39looks like.
  224. 7:41Then creating a plan to achieve that.
  225. 7:44Your plan will consist of the goals you
  226. 7:46choose to pursue
  227. 7:47that will make that life possible,
  228. 7:49and the daily habits you need to perform
  229. 7:52that will ensure the progressive
  230. 7:54realization of those goals.
  231. 7:56And then you got to take action on it
  232. 7:57every single day, and if you do that
  233. 7:59persistently enough,
  234. 8:00you end up with a life like mine, where
  235. 8:02you end up you wake up every single day
  236. 8:05in a world that you made. I wake up
  237. 8:07every day in an environment that I
  238. 8:09created myself. Every plant, every tree,
  239. 8:13every building that I live in was
  240. 8:16consciously created by me. I wake up in
  241. 8:18a body that that was shaped according to
  242. 8:20my standards and values. I wake up in a
  243. 8:22world where all of my relationships have
  244. 8:24been shaped according to the things that
  245. 8:26matter most to me.
  246. 8:28Everything about my life, everything
  247. 8:30that would is within my reach has the
  248. 8:32fingerprints of my energetic intention
  249. 8:35on it, because I've been doing this for
  250. 8:36so long. And that is absolutely
  251. 8:39available to anyone who is willing to go
  252. 8:43through these three steps to shape their
  253. 8:45own reality. So, the
  254. 8:47there's Imagine that there's two
  255. 8:49different people. One is, I guess I
  256. 8:51guess I could say, letting life happen
  257. 8:54to them, and the other one is happening
  258. 8:56to life, I guess is is the way to put
  259. 8:58that, or having life come through them
  260. 9:00or or something like this. One of them
  261. 9:02is just like, "Oh, well, whatever
  262. 9:03happens happens. I'm kind of I'm I'm not
  263. 9:06happy where I am, but I'm not sad
  264. 9:08either. There's not enough pain to
  265. 9:09change, or there and there's not enough
  266. 9:10things to to strive for."
  267. 9:12Mhm. And the other one is, "I know
  268. 9:14exactly what I want. I know exactly how
  269. 9:16I'm going to get it.
  270. 9:16Mhm. Well, not exactly, but I have a
  271. 9:18best guess at how I'm going to get it,
  272. 9:19and I'm going to take action
  273. 9:20consistently until I get there." That's
  274. 9:23That's an important piece of that,
  275. 9:24right?
  276. 9:24It is. And And how I put that is is the
  277. 9:27difference between living your life from
  278. 9:29the inside out, which is "In here, I'm
  279. 9:32going to get clear on my intention. I'm
  280. 9:34going to look inside, and using my
  281. 9:36insight, I'm going to be the one who
  282. 9:39decides the person I'm going to turn
  283. 9:40into, the character traits I'm going to
  284. 9:42develop within myself,
  285. 9:44the life that I want to shape around me.
  286. 9:46I'm going to direct that. And when I
  287. 9:49engage with the world, when I engage
  288. 9:51with my technology, when I engage with
  289. 9:54with everything that's in my life, I
  290. 9:57will be directing from the inside out.
  291. 9:59Yeah. versus the other person that you
  292. 10:01described is living life from the
  293. 10:03outside in. I'm really not sure who I am
  294. 10:06or what I'm all about. I've got no clear
  295. 10:08direction in my life. I've got no clear
  296. 10:09purpose. So, I wake up every day and I
  297. 10:12react to situations. I react to people.
  298. 10:15I react to events. I don't proactively
  299. 10:18take action in the direction of my
  300. 10:20vision. Rather, I react to life. I'm
  301. 10:24living my life from the outside in. And
  302. 10:27there's a real problem with that in the
  303. 10:2821st century, which is if you don't have
  304. 10:33a clear vision for where you want to
  305. 10:35take your life, you're going to
  306. 10:37absolutely be swept up by somebody who
  307. 10:39is clear about where they want to take
  308. 10:41you.
  309. 10:41Absolutely.
  310. 10:42You're not going to be able to withstand
  311. 10:43the algorithms. You're There are plenty
  312. 10:45of people and plenty of organizations
  313. 10:47and institutions that are going to be
  314. 10:48perfectly happy to step up and fill your
  315. 10:51vision gap for you and take you where
  316. 10:53they want to take you.
  317. 10:54100% I I I talk about this all the time
  318. 10:56on this show.
  319. 10:57Almost everyone Well, I shouldn't say
  320. 11:00almost everyone, but almost everyone in
  321. 11:02the US at least or in the Western world
  322. 11:04has a magical box in their phone where
  323. 11:07all of information is is available to
  324. 11:10them. All of information, everything.
  325. 11:12The true, the untrue, the things in the
  326. 11:14middle. I can open up my my magical box
  327. 11:16or my phone and be happy, sad,
  328. 11:18depressed, excited, sad, any any emotion
  329. 11:22that I want at the literal
  330. 11:25click of a button.
  331. 11:25Right. Right? And if I if I don't have a
  332. 11:27a clear vision, you you taught me that
  333. 11:30every time uh uh you pick up the phone,
  334. 11:33you know exactly what you're going to do
  335. 11:34with it. Cuz if you don't, you're like
  336. 11:35you said, you're going to get swept away
  337. 11:37by these by these algorithms, right?
  338. 11:38Absolutely, yeah. So, that's the basic
  339. 11:42choice that each of us has to make in
  340. 11:43the 21st century is how to use that
  341. 11:45device. And that's a matter of life and
  342. 11:47death. It's literally a matter of life
  343. 11:49and death now.
  344. 11:49100%.
  345. 11:50That device can take you to heaven on
  346. 11:52earth.
  347. 11:52It can teach you anything you want to
  348. 11:54know. You have access to all the world's
  349. 11:56knowledge in your pocket at the speed of
  350. 11:57light. You can learn everything Marcus
  351. 11:59Aurelius or Aristotle ever said. You can
  352. 12:01take Harvard business courses for free.
  353. 12:03You can learn how to make your inner
  354. 12:05world more peaceful. You can literally
  355. 12:08learn any positive thing that you can
  356. 12:10imagine with that device. Or that exact
  357. 12:13same device can take you to the seven
  358. 12:15levels of hell. And and it's like your
  359. 12:17own personal neutron bomb killing all
  360. 12:19the life inside you and leaving an empty
  361. 12:21shell. It can drag you into every form
  362. 12:23of addiction. It can make you completely
  363. 12:25numb to life.
  364. 12:26Mhm. It can disorient you. It can
  365. 12:29desensitize you. It can ruin your your
  366. 12:32body and ruin your mind. It all depends
  367. 12:35on how you use it. And this comes back
  368. 12:38to living your life from the inside out
  369. 12:40or the outside in. When I go to pick up
  370. 12:43my device, it's because I've got
  371. 12:44something for it to do to move my life
  372. 12:48forward. It's the best possible servant,
  373. 12:51but it's the worst possible master.
  374. 12:53Yeah. It'll take you anywhere you want
  375. 12:54to go, but it won't replace you as the
  376. 12:56driver. You're the one that has to
  377. 12:58decide how you're going to use that
  378. 12:59device. And in the 21st century, it's a
  379. 13:02matter of life and death.
  380. 13:03Absolutely. And the um
  381. 13:06I guess you could say the sort of
  382. 13:07realization that you are at the center
  383. 13:10of of your life. You are the primary
  384. 13:12decision-maker. Everything in your life
  385. 13:15has been a result of your actions,
  386. 13:16beliefs, and plan or lack of a plan.
  387. 13:20We
  388. 13:22the the the power, the Luminism
  389. 13:24Manifesto
  390. 13:25defines that sort of feeling or
  391. 13:27realization as lumination, right?
  392. 13:29Right. That's right.
  393. 13:29What does that feel like and how does
  394. 13:31one become illuminated?
  395. 13:33Oh my god, I will never forget, Justin,
  396. 13:36when that happened to me. I was 21 years
  397. 13:38old. I was your age, exactly.
  398. 13:40And I was reading Atlas Shrugged by Ayn
  399. 13:42Rand. And I was at the Blandford Nature
  400. 13:45Center in Michigan. I was working off my
  401. 13:48100 hours of community labor that I got
  402. 13:50uh assigned to me in court for having I
  403. 13:53don't remember how many freaking
  404. 13:55tickets.
  405. 13:56So, I was doing my I was doing my time
  406. 13:59doing my time on a pig farm, literally.
  407. 14:02And stealing away to read this
  408. 14:04mind-boggling book every chance I got.
  409. 14:08Every minute I could possibly read it
  410. 14:10because my mind was on fire. Um
  411. 14:13And I I I I remember the moment that I
  412. 14:17realized holy
  413. 14:20My life is mine. I own it. I'm I'm the
  414. 14:24responsible party. I'm the
  415. 14:25decision-maker at the center of this
  416. 14:27freaking universe. I am the one in
  417. 14:29control. I'm the one who Nobody had ever
  418. 14:31told me that before in my entire life.
  419. 14:33And I have the power to take this
  420. 14:36anywhere I want to take it. That book
  421. 14:38was was the thing that broke me through.
  422. 14:39There's a lot of different ways to
  423. 14:41achieve the state of illumination. And
  424. 14:43that's one of the things that that we
  425. 14:45worked hard when when writing The Power,
  426. 14:47we worked hard to make sure that that
  427. 14:49document led to the experience of
  428. 14:53lumination, which is the result of two
  429. 14:56fundamental realizations. The first is
  430. 14:58what we were just talking about. My life
  431. 15:00is mine. I own it. I'm the responsible
  432. 15:03party. I'm the decision-maker at the
  433. 15:05center of my own existence. And the
  434. 15:07second is and I can shape this thing any
  435. 15:10way I want. I and I alone hold the power
  436. 15:13to shape my reality. And I'm going to do
  437. 15:16that. And and that's what happened to me
  438. 15:17when I was 21 and I've been living like
  439. 15:19that ever since. Once it's it it seems
  440. 15:22to be one of those things where it's
  441. 15:24like um once once you see it, you can't
  442. 15:26unsee it. Once you feel it, you can't
  443. 15:27unfeel it. You can't really
  444. 15:30give that back.
  445. 15:32and irreversible shift
  446. 15:34Yep. that changes the way you view
  447. 15:36reality and the way you interact with
  448. 15:38reality. Absolutely. And there's um
  449. 15:41it it is for
  450. 15:43for me at least, when I when I first
  451. 15:45read the um
  452. 15:47the power, the Luminism Manifesto, it
  453. 15:49seemed like instead of
  454. 15:52living life by default, you now have the
  455. 15:56opportunity and you have always had the
  456. 15:57opportunity, but this document says you
  457. 15:59have the opportunity to live life by
  458. 16:02design as opposed to just, you know,
  459. 16:04waltzing through and right? Letting life
  460. 16:06happen to you.
  461. 16:07That is 100% right. And and what this
  462. 16:09document does, I think for the first
  463. 16:11time in history, is this document offers
  464. 16:14a rigorously structured process that you
  465. 16:17just literally have to walk through step
  466. 16:18by step. And at the end of that process,
  467. 16:21you'll have a crystal-clear vision for
  468. 16:22your life. You'll have a detailed
  469. 16:24dynamic plan for its accomplishment. And
  470. 16:27you'll have a you you'll have a a list
  471. 16:29of things that you have to do daily that
  472. 16:31if you just simply check off every
  473. 16:33single thing on that list every day, you
  474. 16:36will end up in that life you've
  475. 16:37designed. The vision and the reality
  476. 16:39will become one.
  477. 16:41Luminism is a clearly defined process to
  478. 16:44make that happen. And that's why it's so
  479. 16:47valuable, such a breakthrough. So, an
  480. 16:49interesting an interesting idea that's
  481. 16:52in that's inside of the
  482. 16:53the power is um you are already living
  483. 16:57in a world that you've created, whether
  484. 16:59it's consciously or unconsciously.
  485. 17:01All of your beliefs, all of your
  486. 17:03actions, all of your planning or lack of
  487. 17:05planning has added up to where you are
  488. 17:07right now in in the present. How can
  489. 17:10someone go about beginning to shape
  490. 17:12their own reality in the image of their
  491. 17:14values and their vision without any of
  492. 17:16the grief or shame or bad feelings that
  493. 17:21come with ooh, I put myself here. All
  494. 17:24all of these things. Like the the
  495. 17:25radical self-responsibility that gets
  496. 17:28thrown at you when you when you read
  497. 17:29this document.
  498. 17:30Yeah, well, here's the thing. It's a
  499. 17:31bitter pill to swallow sometimes to
  500. 17:33realize that you have created all the
  501. 17:35situations in your life. That can be
  502. 17:37tough. But you got to stick with that
  503. 17:40thought because it because it becomes
  504. 17:42the most empowering thought you can
  505. 17:43possibly have. It's the most important
  506. 17:45thing you can ever realize as a human
  507. 17:47being on this planet is that oh, I'm the
  508. 17:50one that shaped my reality so far. That
  509. 17:52power is really in my hands. How about I
  510. 17:54start doing that consciously from this
  511. 17:56point forward?
  512. 17:57So, what you said is how do you start to
  513. 18:01move toward shaping your reality in the
  514. 18:04image of your values?
  515. 18:05Yep. You have to get clear on what you
  516. 18:07value. That's the first step. A value is
  517. 18:10that which one acts to gain or keep. So,
  518. 18:14values are the things that we want, the
  519. 18:17things we desire, the relationships that
  520. 18:20we esteem most, the attributes that we
  521. 18:22we we're looking for in in
  522. 18:24relationships. Values are all the things
  523. 18:26that we're willing to act to get and to
  524. 18:28hold close in our lives. And the first
  525. 18:31thing you've got to do is really take
  526. 18:33inventory of your life and decide what
  527. 18:35is it that you value. And that's a
  528. 18:37that's a subjective experience because
  529. 18:39value presupposes value to whom? Mhm. We
  530. 18:42all value different things. We all have
  531. 18:44different wants and needs and desires.
  532. 18:46And the road to the fulfillment of those
  533. 18:47desires is going to be different for
  534. 18:48every single one of us. So, the first
  535. 18:50step is to get crystal clear on what you
  536. 18:53want in your life. And most people
  537. 18:56haven't done that. It It takes a lot of
  538. 18:58courage just doing that takes a lot of
  539. 19:00courage. Well, yeah, cuz people I I I
  540. 19:03shouldn't say people, but some people,
  541. 19:05maybe a majority of them have
  542. 19:07uh what can be defined as limiting
  543. 19:09beliefs, right? I I want a million
  544. 19:10dollars or I say I do, but I believe in
  545. 19:13my core money is the root of all evil. I
  546. 19:15want a beautiful relationship with my
  547. 19:17wife, but I believe that all women
  548. 19:19cheat. I want You know, I want to have a
  549. 19:21great level of health and fitness, but I
  550. 19:23believe that my genetics are the number
  551. 19:24one uh sort of definitive factor of of
  552. 19:28how I look and how I
  553. 19:29family's unhealthy and overweight, so
  554. 19:31that's probably my destiny.
  555. 19:32Exactly. As opposed to a belief that it
  556. 19:35is my daily behaviors. It's my choices
  557. 19:37and actions that will determine my
  558. 19:38health and fitness, which is an
  559. 19:40empowering belief because that puts me
  560. 19:41in control versus it's my genetics, my
  561. 19:44family's unhealthy, I'm screwed. That's
  562. 19:46a disempowering belief because it I I
  563. 19:48don't have any any power over it. So,
  564. 19:50you make a very good point. It's super
  565. 19:52smart to get clear on what you believe
  566. 19:54about the most important areas of your
  567. 19:56life before you start charging in the
  568. 19:58direction of defining what you want
  569. 20:00because if you have a a contradiction
  570. 20:02between what you believe and what you
  571. 20:04want, I want a million dollars, but I
  572. 20:06believe that the love of money is the
  573. 20:08root of all evil,
  574. 20:09those beliefs will sabotage you at every
  575. 20:12turn. When when when things start to go
  576. 20:14well, you will you will do whatever it
  577. 20:17takes to get back into your
  578. 20:18psychological comfort zone. You'll start
  579. 20:20sabotaging yourself. You'll start making
  580. 20:22mistakes unconsciously because you most
  581. 20:25of the time behave consistently with
  582. 20:28your beliefs. Your beliefs really do
  583. 20:30tend to, not always, but tend to control
  584. 20:34your thoughts and your behaviors and and
  585. 20:37your choices. So,
  586. 20:39what you want is is an empowering
  587. 20:42aligned belief system,
  588. 20:44a crystal clear vision for every
  589. 20:48important area of your life,
  590. 20:50and then you simply have to create a
  591. 20:52plan to achieve that vision. That used
  592. 20:54to be the hard part, but we have AI now.
  593. 20:56Yeah. And that's the greatest planning
  594. 20:57system the world's ever ever known. That
  595. 21:01used to be the biggest hurdle to
  596. 21:02becoming a luminary, which is what we
  597. 21:04call the people that have really learned
  598. 21:06to shape their own reality. And our
  599. 21:08reality is a And our reality as well,
  600. 21:11exactly. By turning their thoughts into
  601. 21:13matter. I have a vision to put a man on
  602. 21:16the moon by the end of the '60s, John F.
  603. 21:18Kennedy, right? And and we all get to we
  604. 21:21we all get to participate in in those
  605. 21:24visions. Um yeah. So, we we got a little
  606. 21:28bit Ayn Randian there saying if you have
  607. 21:30contradictions, you need to check your
  608. 21:32your premises and things like this. Not
  609. 21:34a lot of people understand that um
  610. 21:36it's it's not well, I I believe these
  611. 21:39things, therefore I will always believe
  612. 21:40these things. That's not the way that
  613. 21:42No, beliefs don't work that way.
  614. 21:43Exactly.
  615. 21:43Exactly. It's a it's a
  616. 21:45the the way that our our buddy Peter
  617. 21:47Kobabe puts this is it's a
  618. 21:49you have a superhero buffet in front of
  619. 21:51you, right? There's Elon Musk, there's
  620. 21:53all these cool there's there's these
  621. 21:55amazing people,
  622. 21:56but you don't want to have Elon Musk's
  623. 21:58relationships because he's maybe not a
  624. 22:01good husband cuz he's got a bunch of you
  625. 22:02know
  626. 22:02He's great at rockets. Exactly. So, you
  627. 22:04go, "Okay, well, I like his business
  628. 22:06acumen." And then you look at, you know,
  629. 22:08someone else maybe I I don't know
  630. 22:11Tony Robbins or something like this. And
  631. 22:12you go, "Well, I want his his
  632. 22:13self-belief, but I don't want I don't
  633. 22:14want the rest of these things." You can
  634. 22:16sort of pick and choose from people that
  635. 22:18have already defined what what they
  636. 22:20believe the most empowering and almost
  637. 22:23most optimal beliefs for where you want
  638. 22:26to go. Right? Absolutely. Yeah. Well,
  639. 22:29here's what most people don't understand
  640. 22:30about beliefs.
  641. 22:31They come and go through life. You
  642. 22:33change them constantly as you learn and
  643. 22:36grow. As you go through life, you add
  644. 22:39new beliefs and you discard old beliefs.
  645. 22:42The fact is you choose your beliefs,
  646. 22:44whether you're conscious of it or not.
  647. 22:45You choose your beliefs.
  648. 22:48And and most people don't understand
  649. 22:49that. They they they think that the
  650. 22:51their beliefs are sort of fixed
  651. 22:52universal truths. They are neither of
  652. 22:55those two things. The more experience
  653. 22:58I've
  654. 22:59gained in this area of my life,
  655. 23:02the less I believe in belief itself.
  656. 23:05Sadhguru has a really interesting
  657. 23:07approach to this that I really love. He
  658. 23:09said, "I don't need belief. I don't need
  659. 23:11to believe anything. I either know
  660. 23:13through direct experience or I don't
  661. 23:15know. And I'm perfectly happy happy
  662. 23:17admitting that I don't know."
  663. 23:19The reason So, so let me just tell you
  664. 23:21the kind of beliefs that I've installed
  665. 23:23in my life. I've consciously chosen my
  666. 23:25beliefs across the 12 most important
  667. 23:27areas of my life,
  668. 23:28and I've chosen the beliefs that empower
  669. 23:30me the most. That's the only thing I use
  670. 23:32beliefs for. It's it's as a
  671. 23:34philosophical base so that I can get the
  672. 23:36I want out of life. That's that's
  673. 23:38how I use my beliefs.
  674. 23:39A foundation. So, my beliefs in health
  675. 23:41health and fitness. I believe that I'm
  676. 23:43going to be a strong muscular athlete
  677. 23:44for my entire life. I believed that
  678. 23:46since I was in my '20s. I'm in my '60s
  679. 23:48now. I still believe that. Right? Um my
  680. 23:51intellectual life. I believe that my
  681. 23:52mind is my greatest asset. If I take
  682. 23:54care of it, then I should be able to to
  683. 23:56to use it at a very very high level for
  684. 23:59a long long time. These are just
  685. 24:01examples. I have taken a look at all 12
  686. 24:03areas of my life. I've asked myself,
  687. 24:05"What would the most empowering possible
  688. 24:07beliefs I could hold in each of these
  689. 24:09areas that are the most aligned with the
  690. 24:11reality and that are going to give me
  691. 24:13the highest chance of creating an
  692. 24:14extraordinary life that works at a high
  693. 24:16level in every important way?"
  694. 24:19And then I've assembled those beliefs
  695. 24:21and it's like, "Okay, that's what I'm
  696. 24:22going to believe about about myself and
  697. 24:25my life." Yeah. And then that's been
  698. 24:27been my philosophical foundation. And
  699. 24:28then with that underneath me, I can
  700. 24:30start thinking deeply about what I want.
  701. 24:32What is my vision in each of these
  702. 24:34areas? Get crystal clear on that, and
  703. 24:37then develop my plan to achieve that
  704. 24:39vision, take action on that plan every
  705. 24:41day. But here is a big realization that
  706. 24:43I've had in the last couple years as
  707. 24:45I've been working with AI.
  708. 24:48I don't even know what's possible
  709. 24:49anymore, man.
  710. 24:51Like I don't even want to I don't even
  711. 24:54want to put any governor or let or like
  712. 24:56I might just decide that I want to age
  713. 24:58backwards.
  714. 24:59Like I don't know anymore what's what
  715. 25:02what's possible and what's not possible.
  716. 25:04We're entering an absolutely
  717. 25:06unprecedented time in human history. And
  718. 25:10so I'm really being careful about my
  719. 25:12beliefs right now. I don't want them to
  720. 25:13constrict me in any way, shape or form.
  721. 25:16Are are you familiar with um
  722. 25:18Brian Johnson? He's he's literally
  723. 25:20trying to age
  724. 25:21Brian Johnsons.
  725. 25:22He's he's got like 150 supplements that
  726. 25:25he takes in the morning and he's doing
  727. 25:26all these crazy tests.
  728. 25:27I yeah, that guy.
  729. 25:28He's he's got the Netflix documentary
  730. 25:29Don't Die, I think it's called or or
  731. 25:31something.
  732. 25:31Yeah, so so there you go. I mean, that
  733. 25:32guy's an extreme case, but that's my
  734. 25:34point.
  735. 25:35is possible is is the
  736. 25:37And AI what AI is going to do is is the
  737. 25:39first thing it's going to do is it's
  738. 25:41going to transform every industry. And
  739. 25:43then those industries are going to start
  740. 25:45combining their technology and take us
  741. 25:47to a place that we the world will be
  742. 25:49absolutely unrecognizable three or four
  743. 25:51years from now. Oh, 100%.
  744. 25:53So, I'm trying not to let my beliefs,
  745. 25:55which are unbelievably empowering, but
  746. 25:57we're living in an age right now where
  747. 25:59we're blowing the top off of everything.
  748. 26:01So, I'm just I'm double-checking them to
  749. 26:03make sure that they're not going to, you
  750. 26:04know, hold me back in this coming age.
  751. 26:07100% and
  752. 26:08adaptability is one of the greatest
  753. 26:10traits that we can acquire coming into
  754. 26:12this AI revolution.
  755. 26:13it's probably the most important single
  756. 26:15trait for us going into the future is
  757. 26:17our our ability to adapt to the changes
  758. 26:21that are happening so fast. Well, it's
  759. 26:24adaptability in in the sort of
  760. 26:26transformation equation could could be
  761. 26:28defined as feedback. You put feedback
  762. 26:31into your plan and you act on it as fast
  763. 26:33as possible.
  764. 26:34right. Yep. So, let's let's
  765. 26:36let's talk about the difference between
  766. 26:38the law of attraction and the law of
  767. 26:40cause and effect. Obviously, just from
  768. 26:41me saying that, people are watching this
  769. 26:43are going to be like, "Well, duh. The
  770. 26:45law of attraction is I put a picture of
  771. 26:46a boat on my wall and the boat shows
  772. 26:48up." That's not really how it works. And
  773. 26:50the law of attraction or the excuse me,
  774. 26:52the law of cause and effect is
  775. 26:54I put a picture of a boat on my wall and
  776. 26:56because there is a picture of a boat, I
  777. 26:57now get reminded I need to do the
  778. 26:59actions necessary to get that boat.
  779. 27:01Right. Right?
  780. 27:01That's exactly right.
  781. 27:02Yeah. Yeah, I I think that um cause and
  782. 27:04effect
  783. 27:06connects the feedback loop that
  784. 27:09the manifestation movement and the law
  785. 27:11of attraction leave open. Cause and
  786. 27:13effect is the the fundamental premise of
  787. 27:18luminism. Cause and effect is the is the
  788. 27:20principle that luminism is built on.
  789. 27:21Yep. And cause and effect is every cause
  790. 27:23has its effect, every effect has its
  791. 27:25cause. There's nothing in the universe
  792. 27:27that escapes that law. Yeah. There are
  793. 27:29many different planes of causation, but
  794. 27:32nothing anywhere in the universe escapes
  795. 27:34that law. And the law of cause and
  796. 27:37effect is not only widely overlooked in
  797. 27:40the self-development space, it's
  798. 27:42sometimes disparaged. Mhm. Um and it's
  799. 27:46often
  800. 27:47Well, let me just put it this way. The
  801. 27:49fundamental false claim at the base of a
  802. 27:52lot of broken promises and a lot of
  803. 27:54fly-by-night philosophies
  804. 27:56um in in the personal development world
  805. 28:00is the separation from cause and effect.
  806. 28:02The separation of a beautiful body from
  807. 28:05the cause of diet and exercise. The
  808. 28:08magic pill approach, right?
  809. 28:10Yeah. The separation of of um
  810. 28:13building wealth
  811. 28:14from the cause of creating value for
  812. 28:16other people.
  813. 28:17scheme.
  814. 28:17Yeah, the exactly. The separation of
  815. 28:20of um having a wonderful love
  816. 28:22relationship from the cause of
  817. 28:24developing lovable attributes within
  818. 28:26yourself. The idea of separating cause
  819. 28:29and effect is is harmful and it's
  820. 28:31dangerous, but the reason that it's can
  821. 28:33be so wildly popular is because it
  822. 28:36promises something really seductive.
  823. 28:38Success without effort.
  824. 28:39Yeah, it's something for nothing.
  825. 28:40Everyone loves that. Everyone wants
  826. 28:41that. An effect without a cause. And
  827. 28:44luminism is the opposite of that.
  828. 28:46Luminism doesn't promise success without
  829. 28:47effort. It promises that in order to
  830. 28:50achieve success, you need to have two
  831. 28:52different kinds of effort going on
  832. 28:54simultaneously.
  833. 28:56Effort in your internal world and then
  834. 28:58effort in the external world. And I
  835. 29:00think that that's
  836. 29:02that's a widely overlooked part of the
  837. 29:04law of attraction and the modern
  838. 29:06manifestation movement, the effort in
  839. 29:08the external world.
  840. 29:09Yeah. Which closes that loop.
  841. 29:11Exactly. Cuz even
  842. 29:13even even though it is well-meaning, the
  843. 29:15manifestation movement, law of
  844. 29:17attraction, all of these things, it is
  845. 29:19kind of offering something for nothing.
  846. 29:21All I have to do is believe hard enough
  847. 29:22and then it shows up, right?
  848. 29:24Right. Well, that's something. It's just
  849. 29:27it doesn't it doesn't close the loop.
  850. 29:28It's better than nothing. Yeah. Thinking
  851. 29:31positively and and being in contact with
  852. 29:34what you really want and and and
  853. 29:36allowing yourself to want it, giving
  854. 29:39yourself permission to desire that at a
  855. 29:43really really high level and meditating
  856. 29:45on it and and and wanting to attract it.
  857. 29:48That is definitely better than nothing.
  858. 29:50But if you really want to if you really
  859. 29:52want to go a step farther, you'll create
  860. 29:54a plan to get it and you'll take action
  861. 29:56on your plan until you've gotten it.
  862. 29:58That and that's what that's what
  863. 29:59Luminism teaches you how to do.
  864. 30:02Something interesting that I've I've
  865. 30:04thought about a lot with the whole magic
  866. 30:06pill, something for nothing, get get get
  867. 30:09rich get rich quick scheme is if A, if
  868. 30:13something was easy to accomplish,
  869. 30:16everybody would have it. B, if everybody
  870. 30:19has it, you no longer really want it
  871. 30:22much. And C, it's
  872. 30:25it's really you know the the whole thing
  873. 30:27is it is it the journey or the
  874. 30:28destination type of deal? It's like
  875. 30:30everyone is like oh it's the it's the
  876. 30:31journey always. That's kind of true cuz
  877. 30:35if you do go through trials and
  878. 30:36tribulations and all of these things, it
  879. 30:38feels so much more
  880. 30:40it satiates your need for that thing
  881. 30:43more so than even having it cuz you
  882. 30:45worked so hard to get to building your
  883. 30:47dream house, you've built your physique,
  884. 30:49you you have a beautiful love
  885. 30:50relationship, all these things. If if
  886. 30:53everybody had that and if it was so
  887. 30:54easy,
  888. 30:55maybe you wouldn't even want it. Um it's
  889. 30:58pretty nice. Yeah, well maybe maybe not
  890. 31:00maybe not dream house and and good
  891. 31:02physique and good love relationship.
  892. 31:03Whenever you're faced with a with a
  893. 31:05quandary like that, is it the journey or
  894. 31:08is it the destination? The answer is
  895. 31:10always the same. Yes.
  896. 31:12It is. It is literally always the same.
  897. 31:14It's both. It
  898. 31:15they're the Kabalion teaches all truths
  899. 31:18are but half truths and all paradoxes
  900. 31:20can be resolved. Truth is not a a
  901. 31:22pinpoint. It happens on a continuum. It
  902. 31:25depends on what angle you're looking at
  903. 31:27it from. It's wonderful to arrive at
  904. 31:29your destination. It's wonderful. It's
  905. 31:33absolutely wonderful and it's also
  906. 31:34wonderful to learn and experience the
  907. 31:37journey. Yeah. They're they're they're
  908. 31:38they're both great. When you arrive at
  909. 31:40that destination, what do you do? You
  910. 31:42create a new destination.
  911. 31:43Yeah, there's always a new mountain,
  912. 31:44right? Exactly.
  913. 31:45I I got an interesting perspective on
  914. 31:47the whole journey or or destination
  915. 31:49thing from my buddy Evan Carmichael.
  916. 31:51He he said well everybody always says
  917. 31:54it's the journey or some people say it's
  918. 31:55the destination and I was listening to
  919. 31:57an interview of this guy and he said
  920. 31:58it's neither, it's the company you keep
  921. 32:00along the way.
  922. 32:00Ah, that's nice. That's nice.
  923. 32:01Which is like I I agree with
  924. 32:03But of course you can't say it's
  925. 32:04neither. It's all it's all,
  926. 32:06right? It depends on what angle again.
  927. 32:08It depends on what angle you're you're
  928. 32:09looking at it from. So
  929. 32:12if if the people watching this are you
  930. 32:14know living in their basically their own
  931. 32:16creation, they've they've maybe not
  932. 32:18envisioned it consciously but they they
  933. 32:20are living in a world of their own
  934. 32:21making already, how going forward do
  935. 32:24they
  936. 32:25limit the things that they do not want
  937. 32:28and optimize for the things that they do
  938. 32:29want? Well, the first thing you've got
  939. 32:31to do is get crystal clear on what it is
  940. 32:33that you want. That you did that that's
  941. 32:35the important thing. You get crystal
  942. 32:37clear on what you want.
  943. 32:39Then you've got to figure out, okay, so
  944. 32:41here's I'm going to I'm going to give
  945. 32:43you the transformation equation in as
  946. 32:46short as I possibly can.
  947. 32:48You take a look at the 12 different
  948. 32:49categories of your life and
  949. 32:52it's good to get clear on your beliefs
  950. 32:53but I'm just going to go straight to the
  951. 32:55absolutely necessary active ingredients
  952. 32:57here. What precisely do you want in
  953. 33:00every important area of your life? What
  954. 33:02precisely do you want from your health
  955. 33:03and fitness? From your intellectual
  956. 33:05life? From your emotional life? From
  957. 33:07your love relationship? From your
  958. 33:08career? From your parenting? From your
  959. 33:10financial life? These these 12
  960. 33:12categories, what does the ideal you
  961. 33:15living your ideal life look like in that
  962. 33:17category? Define that as clearly as you
  963. 33:20possibly can. Okay?
  964. 33:22Then what you do is you take those
  965. 33:24individual category visions and you add
  966. 33:27them all up into one compelling singular
  967. 33:30vision for your life. If I accomplished
  968. 33:32if if I was to hit my ideal in all of
  969. 33:35those categories, what does that look
  970. 33:36like all added up together? That's
  971. 33:38called your life vision. That is now
  972. 33:40your North Star. That is now your
  973. 33:42decision-making framework. Every
  974. 33:43decision you make from that point
  975. 33:45forward is held up to that North Star.
  976. 33:47Does this if I'm I'm trying to decide
  977. 33:50whether to go right or left, whether to
  978. 33:51do this or not. Does going left get me
  979. 33:54closer or does going right get me
  980. 33:55closer? It is literally your
  981. 33:57decision-making framework. If you don't
  982. 33:59know where you're going in your life,
  983. 34:01you can't possibly know which is the
  984. 34:03right path to take.
  985. 34:05It's the Cheshire Cat
  986. 34:07Yeah, that's exactly what it is.
  987. 34:09Cheshire Cat, can you tell me where I
  988. 34:11ought to go from here? said Alice. Well,
  989. 34:13that depends exactly on where you want
  990. 34:14to go, said the cat. Well, I don't much
  991. 34:17care, said Alice. Well, then it doesn't
  992. 34:19matter which way you go, said the cat.
  993. 34:20But I want to get somewhere, said Alice.
  994. 34:22Well, you're sure to do that if you walk
  995. 34:24long enough.
  996. 34:25That's the deal. That's what most that's
  997. 34:27the world that most people live in.
  998. 34:28They're just they're just walking. They
  999. 34:30have no destination in mind. They have
  1000. 34:33no they have no sense of purpose, no
  1001. 34:35sense of their own identity, no sense of
  1002. 34:37where they want to end up in life. And
  1003. 34:39if you don't know that, you can't know
  1004. 34:41which is the right path to take. That's
  1005. 34:43why it's so important to take the small
  1006. 34:47amount of time that it takes to sit down
  1007. 34:49and decide what do I want in the most
  1008. 34:52important areas of my life? What does
  1009. 34:54that up add up to?
  1010. 34:56What does that look like all together?
  1011. 34:57What is my life vision? And now I'm
  1012. 34:59going to use that as my decision-making
  1013. 35:01framework as my North Star. Every
  1014. 35:04decision I make is going to be held up
  1015. 35:06to that.
  1016. 35:07And of course and we have a a rigorously
  1017. 35:09structured process on how to get even
  1018. 35:11even more granular. So what you do is
  1019. 35:14once you get that life vision in place
  1020. 35:16and you're crystal clear on it and
  1021. 35:17you're devoted to it and you're
  1022. 35:18committed to it,
  1023. 35:20then you need to define the most
  1024. 35:22important goals upon which that life
  1025. 35:24vision rests. What are the five to six
  1026. 35:27goals that if you accomplish those
  1027. 35:28goals, you'd be living that life vision.
  1028. 35:31Like do you have to hit a certain
  1029. 35:31financial number in your career?
  1030. 35:33Do you need to get out of a broken
  1031. 35:35relationship or or or repair a
  1032. 35:38relationship or find the love of your
  1033. 35:40life?
  1034. 35:41Do you need to do you need to finally
  1035. 35:44figure out your career that that that
  1036. 35:46creates financial abundance and is is
  1037. 35:49fulfilling for you?
  1038. 35:51Do you need to move to a location where
  1039. 35:53you can build your dream? What are the
  1040. 35:54five to six goals upon which that life
  1041. 35:57vision rests where once you achieve
  1042. 35:58those goals, you're living that vision.
  1043. 36:00That's the next big piece of thinking
  1044. 36:02you've got to do. Then once you've got
  1045. 36:04those goals, that's magic because five
  1046. 36:07to six goals can live on one page. And
  1047. 36:09that page contains everything that you
  1048. 36:12want everything you wish for in your
  1049. 36:14life is on that one page. It's like a
  1050. 36:15mini blueprint for your ideal future.
  1051. 36:18Then the next step is to figure out what
  1052. 36:21are the daily behaviors that I need to
  1053. 36:23perform that will ensure the progressive
  1054. 36:27accomplishment of those goals because if
  1055. 36:29I can achieve those goals, I'll be
  1056. 36:30living my vision.
  1057. 36:32And you define the most important habits
  1058. 36:35that you need to perform each day
  1059. 36:37one of which will be touching your most
  1060. 36:38important goals every single day and
  1061. 36:40moving them forward. So there's a whole
  1062. 36:42process for it that's outlined in in in
  1063. 36:44the power the the Luminous Manifesto and
  1064. 36:48anybody can participate in it now. It
  1065. 36:50used to be very very difficult to make a
  1066. 36:53plan to achieve a life vision. That was
  1067. 36:55the that was the hurdle to entry. There
  1068. 36:57were maybe
  1069. 36:5810 to 20% of people had the intellectual
  1070. 37:02aptitude, the ability to do the
  1071. 37:04deductive reasoning, the reverse
  1072. 37:06engineering, and the complex sort of
  1073. 37:09calculations required to figure out
  1074. 37:12precisely the plan to achieve their life
  1075. 37:14vision. But now literally if you can
  1076. 37:17figure out your detailed life vision,
  1077. 37:21you can put it into AI and AI can give
  1078. 37:23you a step-by-step roadmap on how to get
  1079. 37:25there. And that's that makes the power
  1080. 37:29accessible to everybody
  1081. 37:31where it five years ago it wasn't. Now
  1082. 37:33it is. There's no excuse anymore. We we
  1083. 37:35have access to unlimited deductive
  1084. 37:37reasoning in our pockets now. That's
  1085. 37:39exactly right.
  1086. 37:40So you say I want to I want to get here
  1087. 37:41and I am here and then it goes whoop.
  1088. 37:43Yeah. Here's what you got to do in order
  1089. 37:44to get from here to here.
  1090. 37:46AI can't do your vision for you. The
  1091. 37:48only way you can get your vision is
  1092. 37:49looking inside of you because that's
  1093. 37:51that's internal, right? AI also can't do
  1094. 37:54your push-ups for you. That's true.
  1095. 37:55Can't can't take your action. Can't tuck
  1096. 37:57your kids into bed at night. Can't can't
  1097. 37:59take action for you. But what it can do
  1098. 38:01is it can bridge your energetic
  1099. 38:03intention, your desires, what you want
  1100. 38:06with the action you need to take to get
  1101. 38:09it by giving you that plan and that's
  1102. 38:11always been the hard part. That's been
  1103. 38:13the hurdle to becoming a luminary in
  1104. 38:14history. Well, people are there's no
  1105. 38:17issue on taking action. Everybody's busy
  1106. 38:20all the time. They're just busy with the
  1107. 38:22wrong things.
  1108. 38:23So if you have a literal roadmap to your
  1109. 38:29ideal future, to your life vision,
  1110. 38:31living your best life that is dynamic
  1111. 38:34meaning you put feedback into it based
  1112. 38:36on real world, you know, experiences,
  1113. 38:38all you have to do is your daily habits
  1114. 38:41cuz the only thing like we we we've
  1115. 38:43we've talked about this before. The um
  1116. 38:46we can imagine the the present and we
  1117. 38:48can sorry the the future and we can
  1118. 38:51remember the past but the only thing
  1119. 38:53that exists empirically is the present
  1120. 38:56right now. It just matters what I do
  1121. 38:58today right now, right? Well, back to
  1122. 39:01the fact that we live in two different
  1123. 39:02realities simultaneously.
  1124. 39:04In the mental world, the past and the
  1125. 39:06future exist. In the physical world,
  1126. 39:08it's always the present. So again, we
  1127. 39:11inhabit two different worlds with
  1128. 39:13completely different opposite sets of
  1129. 39:15laws actually. Literally opposite sets
  1130. 39:17of laws. But both can be grasped and
  1131. 39:19generally understood. And once you
  1132. 39:22understand that you inhabit these two
  1133. 39:23different worlds that behave completely
  1134. 39:25different and you can master both of
  1135. 39:27them, you can go into the internal world
  1136. 39:29of energetic intention
  1137. 39:31where you have unlimited power
  1138. 39:34and you can define uh the vision that
  1139. 39:36you want to achieve and then you come
  1140. 39:38out into the limited world where you
  1141. 39:40don't have complete control but you can
  1142. 39:42chisel away, chisel away, chisel away.
  1143. 39:44And
  1144. 39:44Yep.
  1145. 39:45this this methodology is absolutely
  1146. 39:47foolproof. You cannot fail. You
  1147. 39:49literally cannot fail
  1148. 39:51if you take the time to get crystal
  1149. 39:52clear on the vision of what you want to
  1150. 39:54accomplish, develop a solid plan to
  1151. 39:57achieve that,
  1152. 39:58take action on that plan every single
  1153. 40:00day, pay attention to what's working and
  1154. 40:02what's not working, roll that feedback
  1155. 40:04into the system so that the plan can
  1156. 40:06adjust, and keep going, there's
  1157. 40:08absolutely no way you can fail to make
  1158. 40:11measurable progress toward your life
  1159. 40:13vision
  1160. 40:14every whatever period you you you happen
  1161. 40:16to be measuring, whether it's week,
  1162. 40:18month, year. This isn't
  1163. 40:20you can't fail. The only way you fail is
  1164. 40:21if you quit.
  1165. 40:22That's exactly right.
  1166. 40:23Cuz failure
  1167. 40:25for for for most people, I would I would
  1168. 40:27guess, I would assume, that failure is
  1169. 40:30what we define as feedback. This didn't
  1170. 40:32work, so I'm going to feed that back
  1171. 40:33into my plan.
  1172. 40:34100% right.
  1173. 40:35And now I'm going to do less of that and
  1174. 40:36more of things that Setbacks are
  1175. 40:38literally there to teach you what to do
  1176. 40:41next.
  1177. 40:41Yep.
  1178. 40:42They're they're there to get you to
  1179. 40:43stop, think, take inventory,
  1180. 40:46what worked, what didn't, what do I want
  1181. 40:48to pull forward, what do I want to leave
  1182. 40:49behind? Boom, they're they're the best
  1183. 40:52possible guidance system. Yeah, man.
  1184. 40:54It's um, you know, it again it's pretty
  1185. 40:57it's pretty simple and it seems like
  1186. 41:00it's
  1187. 41:02easier it's there's there's this good
  1188. 41:04quote. I don't know who said this. It
  1189. 41:05was either like Warren Buffett or
  1190. 41:07Charlie Munger, one of these financial
  1191. 41:09dudes,
  1192. 41:10and they were talking about putting
  1193. 41:10money into the S&P 500 and he said,
  1194. 41:12"It's so easy. The only thing that's
  1195. 41:14easier is not doing it."
  1196. 41:16Which is kind of the same thing as as as
  1197. 41:18this. The it's it's so simple and it's
  1198. 41:20so easy, but the only thing that's
  1199. 41:22easier than doing this is just not doing
  1200. 41:25it and kind of letting life, you know,
  1201. 41:26happen to you, living from the inside
  1202. 41:28out as opposed to the outside, living
  1203. 41:30life outside in as opposed to inside
  1204. 41:33out. Yep. Well, you you know also that I
  1205. 41:36don't know I think it's David Goggins
  1206. 41:39who says, "Choose your hard." It's it's
  1207. 41:42hard to get up and and work out every
  1208. 41:44single day. It's also hard to be 200 lb
  1209. 41:46overweight. Choose your hard, right?
  1210. 41:48So, nothing in life is easy. You've got
  1211. 41:50to you've got to
  1212. 41:51make a choice. And if you if you decide
  1213. 41:53not to make the choice, you've still
  1214. 41:55made a choice. You've chosen not to
  1215. 41:56decide and you've chosen to leave it to
  1216. 41:58default, you've chosen to leave it to
  1217. 41:59chance, and that doesn't usually work
  1218. 42:02out great.
  1219. 42:03Yeah. Chance is merely a term for the
  1220. 42:05law of cause and effect not cause and
  1221. 42:07effect not yet recognized.
  1222. 42:09right.
  1223. 42:09Right.
  1224. 42:10So,
  1225. 42:12we we we touched on earlier how you can
  1226. 42:14control the things that matter most in
  1227. 42:16your life, but not geopolitical events,
  1228. 42:18not volcanoes, not earthquakes, not any
  1229. 42:20of this stuff.
  1230. 42:21When something outside of your control
  1231. 42:24hits you hard, like illness or loss or
  1232. 42:28something like this,
  1233. 42:30what do you have under your control
  1234. 42:32there? Well, that depends on the
  1235. 42:33individual situation. And so so
  1236. 42:36luminism, the tenets of luminism, the
  1237. 42:39transformation equation,
  1238. 42:41like like I said, it's it's it's
  1239. 42:43foolproof in the sense that you cannot
  1240. 42:45fail if you follow if if if you follow
  1241. 42:48those steps, you cannot fail to make
  1242. 42:49measurable change. And that is in the
  1243. 42:52absence of serious physical or mental
  1244. 42:55disabilities or or challenges. Sometimes
  1245. 42:59things hit you so hard that you can't do
  1246. 43:00anything but lie in bed for 3 months,
  1247. 43:02right? I mean, we've known people that
  1248. 43:04that's happened to and
  1249. 43:06I'm I definitely don't want to discount
  1250. 43:09the fact that there are sometimes
  1251. 43:10tragedies that are so intense that they
  1252. 43:13literally take up they they everything
  1253. 43:15else has to go away. But most of us
  1254. 43:18don't don't live there. You know, that
  1255. 43:20is the exception, not the rule.
  1256. 43:22Yeah. And the I think this was Marcus
  1257. 43:24Aurelius that said you can't change you
  1258. 43:27can't change what happens, but you can
  1259. 43:29change your reaction to it. It was
  1260. 43:31something like this, right?
  1261. 43:32it's it's one of the greatest quotes and
  1262. 43:33there's there's been a lot of people who
  1263. 43:35have said it, but I think I think close
  1264. 43:37translation to what Marcus Aurelius said
  1265. 43:39is,
  1266. 43:40"If you are vexed by a thing, if you're
  1267. 43:43upset about something, it's not the
  1268. 43:45thing itself that's upsetting you. It's
  1269. 43:48your reaction to the thing. And this you
  1270. 43:51have the power to revoke at any moment.
  1271. 43:54You are in complete control of how
  1272. 43:56you're viewing that. Is it a tragedy or
  1273. 43:59is it a challenge?" Those are two
  1274. 44:01completely different mental orientations
  1275. 44:04to the to to to the same thing.
  1276. 44:06And that's a and that's a big big thing
  1277. 44:09and I I work on that every single day.
  1278. 44:11Like if you master that, if you if you
  1279. 44:13can master your response to the things
  1280. 44:17really master,
  1281. 44:18where you are the master of your your
  1282. 44:20responses and your emotions, that's one
  1283. 44:23of the greatest areas and forms of of
  1284. 44:25human mastery.
  1285. 44:26And that's been a a years-long,
  1286. 44:29you know,
  1287. 44:31path for me. Yeah, it's it's a battle,
  1288. 44:33man, cuz like you said, there's some
  1289. 44:35things that are just like
  1290. 44:36ooh, I've been hit so hard I need to
  1291. 44:38stay in bed for 3 months. Exactly.
  1292. 44:40Right. And and I think that especially,
  1293. 44:42you know, the Stoics
  1294. 44:44the Stoics had a very good grip on
  1295. 44:48focusing on the things they could
  1296. 44:49control. That's what the Stoics did. And
  1297. 44:53they they didn't waste a lot of time on
  1298. 44:54the things that they couldn't control.
  1299. 44:56You know, Justin, one of the greatest
  1300. 44:58pieces of philosophy that has ever ex
  1301. 45:00one of the most dialed-in
  1302. 45:02pieces of philosophy ever is the
  1303. 45:05Serenity Prayer.
  1304. 45:07It is it is so freaking profound. You
  1305. 45:09can live your life God grant me the
  1306. 45:11serenity to accept the things that I
  1307. 45:14can't change,
  1308. 45:16the courage to change the things I can,
  1309. 45:20and the wisdom to know the difference.
  1310. 45:22Now, that third piece, the wisdom to
  1311. 45:24know the difference between what I can
  1312. 45:26control and what I can't control, are
  1313. 45:28what most people get wrong. Right.
  1314. 45:30They sell themselves short.
  1315. 45:32They have they have no idea the level of
  1316. 45:35control that they could exercise over
  1317. 45:37their own existence if they would
  1318. 45:39literally step forward and have the
  1319. 45:41courage to do it. Yeah. And so that that
  1320. 45:44piece of philosophy is it's one of my
  1321. 45:46absolute favorites. It's so dialed-in.
  1322. 45:48Yeah, man. I mean, it's And let me just
  1323. 45:50say something. And and when I was young,
  1324. 45:53I realized that I could control just
  1325. 45:56about everything in my life that
  1326. 45:57mattered. When I had that experience of
  1327. 45:59illumination when I was reading Atlas
  1328. 46:01Shrugged when I was 21, and I realized
  1329. 46:03my life is mine. There is going to be no
  1330. 46:06knight in shining armor coming to my
  1331. 46:07rescue, no one's coming to make my life
  1332. 46:10right, no one's coming to solve my
  1333. 46:11problems. If I want a a healthy, happy,
  1334. 46:15fulfilled, balanced life, it is up to me
  1335. 46:18to learn how to satisfy that desire.
  1336. 46:20And that's what I intend to do.
  1337. 46:23And
  1338. 46:24and ever since ever since that
  1339. 46:26experience, I've I've decided that I'm
  1340. 46:29going to shape my world in the image of
  1341. 46:31my values. I spent 40 years doing it.
  1342. 46:35And as a result, I wake up every day in
  1343. 46:38a world of my own making. I'm surrounded
  1344. 46:40by the exact environment that I built
  1345. 46:41around myself, the relationships that I
  1346. 46:44cultivated according to to the things
  1347. 46:46that matter most to me. I I've sculpted
  1348. 46:49my body to be exactly the way I want it,
  1349. 46:51or more precisely, exactly the way my
  1350. 46:53wife wants it. There's a there's a
  1351. 46:55second party involved in that one.
  1352. 46:57Even my inner world, my my thoughts, my
  1353. 47:00feelings, my emotions, I've worked
  1354. 47:03really really hard on. Haven't mastered
  1355. 47:05that yet, but I've refined them to be
  1356. 47:07more more harmonious and aligned. The
  1357. 47:11reason
  1358. 47:12that Missy and I
  1359. 47:14have the life that we have
  1360. 47:16is because I don't know of any human
  1361. 47:19beings on the planet that have thought
  1362. 47:20more deeply about what they want than we
  1363. 47:23have. And as a result, we we wake up
  1364. 47:26every day in a world of our own making.
  1365. 47:28And we've codified how to do that. We
  1366. 47:32have we've defined a rigorously
  1367. 47:35structured process that anyone can go
  1368. 47:37through, a step-by-step process,
  1369. 47:39to do exactly what we did. We We had to
  1370. 47:41do it manually, and that wasn't so easy.
  1371. 47:43It took decades. But but now there is a
  1372. 47:45structured process, step-by-step, that
  1373. 47:48you can start at the beginning and and
  1374. 47:51go all the way through and and and learn
  1375. 47:53to
  1376. 47:54master the skills that we've learned to
  1377. 47:56master over the last 30 years in a
  1378. 47:59fraction of the time.
  1379. 48:01It's precisely
  1380. 48:03a create-your-character,
  1381. 48:05choose-your-own-reality adventure game
  1382. 48:08that we inhabit right now. And and AI is
  1383. 48:11what makes it possible. Right. Five
  1384. 48:13years ago,
  1385. 48:14anyone with with a little basic training
  1386. 48:16can get clearer on the vision of what
  1387. 48:18they want for their That's what the
  1388. 48:19Lifebook program does that we created.
  1389. 48:22And and you can go through that program,
  1390. 48:24whether it's in a four-day experience
  1391. 48:26or, you know, do it doing it It takes
  1392. 48:27about 18 hours. And and and people who
  1393. 48:30don't think that they have 18 hours to
  1394. 48:32sit down and think through their life,
  1395. 48:34well, I'm sorry. I don't know what to
  1396. 48:36tell you. That's not that's not a lot of
  1397. 48:37time to to take for the benefit that you
  1398. 48:39get about having that North Star and
  1399. 48:41knowing where you're going. So, anyone
  1400. 48:42with a little bit of basic training can
  1401. 48:45can think through a vision, an ideal
  1402. 48:48vision for their life.
  1403. 48:49Also, most people are willing to take
  1404. 48:52action to get what they want once they
  1405. 48:54know what to do. It's it's the plan.
  1406. 48:57It's the bridge between the energetic
  1407. 48:59intention and the 3D physical
  1408. 49:01materialization of that intention that
  1409. 49:03has been so hard. And and like I said,
  1410. 49:06less than 20% of people are capable of
  1411. 49:10doing that heavy intellectual lifting.
  1412. 49:13But now with AI,
  1413. 49:14it makes it available to all of us. So,
  1414. 49:17we're we're stepping into a world where
  1415. 49:19the delta between having the thought of
  1416. 49:22what you want to materialize and the
  1417. 49:24materialization of that thought is going
  1418. 49:26to get shorter and shorter and shorter
  1419. 49:29until we're probably just materializing
  1420. 49:31things very very quickly.
  1421. 49:33Yeah, it's going to be it's going to be
  1422. 49:34interesting to see kind of the
  1423. 49:37the evolution of of humanity cuz you you
  1424. 49:40outlined in the um
  1425. 49:41the Luminous Manifesto, the the power,
  1426. 49:44how the agricultural revolution sort of
  1427. 49:47freed up humans' time. We have food
  1428. 49:50surplus, we have shelter, we don't
  1429. 49:51really have to worry about survival much
  1430. 49:53anymore. And the industrial revolution
  1431. 49:57freed up people's minds, right? Because
  1432. 50:00we automated things with machines and
  1433. 50:03and assembly lines and things like this.
  1434. 50:05And now we're going through the AI
  1435. 50:07revolution, right? Which is Which is
  1436. 50:10freeing us from intellectual labor. The
  1437. 50:12industrial revolution freed us from
  1438. 50:14physical labor. That gave us more time
  1439. 50:16to think, which led to the
  1440. 50:17enlightenment. But now with the AI
  1441. 50:19revolution, we're being freed from
  1442. 50:21intellectual labor. We do not have to do
  1443. 50:24the deductive reasoning. We don't have
  1444. 50:27to do the reverse engineering, the the
  1445. 50:29the intense calculations. We can get
  1446. 50:31that done for us at the speed of light.
  1447. 50:33And that is going to be a game changer
  1448. 50:36in every area of human endeavor. Yeah.
  1449. 50:38You can use artificial intelligence to
  1450. 50:41make your grocery list or to crunch
  1451. 50:43spreadsheets.
  1452. 50:45But the consistent with the highest use
  1453. 50:47of the power, probably the highest use
  1454. 50:50of AI, not probably,
  1455. 50:53but definitely, is to figure out a plan
  1456. 50:55to create the life that you want to
  1457. 50:57live.
  1458. 50:57Exactly. And that plan is going to
  1459. 50:59consist of your goals and your habits.
  1460. 51:01So basically what you do, nobody and
  1461. 51:03nothing can look inside of yourself and
  1462. 51:05decide what you want. AI doesn't have
  1463. 51:07access to that.
  1464. 51:08Your preacher, your teacher, your guru,
  1465. 51:11no one has access to that. Your parents,
  1466. 51:13your best friend, no one has access to
  1467. 51:15that. The only way you can
  1468. 51:17the only way you can get in touch with
  1469. 51:18your desires is to use your insight. And
  1470. 51:21what that means is you turn inward. When
  1471. 51:23you look inward and ask yourself
  1472. 51:25questions, that's called insight.
  1473. 51:27Mhm. And the reason that no one can
  1474. 51:29access that information other than you
  1475. 51:32is because no one stationed at the
  1476. 51:33critical point of view to have access to
  1477. 51:36that information but but you.
  1478. 51:38What do I really want out of life? How
  1479. 51:39do I feel about myself right now? Where
  1480. 51:41am I going in my life? What's the
  1481. 51:43purpose of my life? These are things
  1482. 51:44that only you can can look inside and
  1483. 51:47and and answer. The answers are not out
  1484. 51:49there, they're in here. Yeah. But once
  1485. 51:50you do that and you look inside and you
  1486. 51:52define what it is that you want in the
  1487. 51:54most important areas of your life and
  1488. 51:56you you organize that and you get it
  1489. 51:58together, you pull it together into a
  1490. 51:59vision,
  1491. 52:00you put that into AI and then you you
  1492. 52:03ask AI, what are the six goals that that
  1493. 52:05depends on that I need to accomplish?
  1494. 52:08Oh, wow. So if I just get those six
  1495. 52:11things done, I'll be living my ideal
  1496. 52:13life? Yeah, okay. Can you please break
  1497. 52:15those goals each down into the main
  1498. 52:16milestones that I need to accomplish?
  1499. 52:19Great. Now, what daily habits will
  1500. 52:22ensure the progressive accomplishment of
  1501. 52:24those worthy goals? And now it's not
  1502. 52:27going to be perfect, you're going to
  1503. 52:27have to massage it, you're going to have
  1504. 52:28to work with it, but but that's your
  1505. 52:30plan.
  1506. 52:32You perform your habits every day,
  1507. 52:33you're going to achieve your goals. You
  1508. 52:34achieve your goals, you're going to be
  1509. 52:35living your life vision. And and that's
  1510. 52:37what AI can give you now, the bridge
  1511. 52:40between your energetic intention, your
  1512. 52:42desires,
  1513. 52:43and the physical materialization of
  1514. 52:46those desires.
  1515. 52:47I think it was um
  1516. 52:49like Ralph Waldo Emerson or or Bernard
  1517. 52:51Shaw, one of those quote machine guys
  1518. 52:53that was like we we are what we
  1519. 52:55consistently do every day or something
  1520. 52:57like this.
  1521. 52:58of people have said a variation of that,
  1522. 52:59yeah. But it's it's absolutely true.
  1523. 53:02It's absolutely true.
  1524. 53:04And it's it's very interesting to think
  1525. 53:06about how
  1526. 53:08in order to accomplish this really big,
  1527. 53:10super vivid vision of of my life, what I
  1528. 53:13want to accomplish,
  1529. 53:16I just need to do these things every
  1530. 53:17day.
  1531. 53:17Exactly. Well, it's freeing. It's it it
  1532. 53:20it makes your path astonishingly simple.
  1533. 53:24Yeah. You no longer have to worry about
  1534. 53:26the complexity of your life vision. You
  1535. 53:28no longer have to worry about the
  1536. 53:29magnitude of your goals. You don't have
  1537. 53:30to think about that stuff anymore. You
  1538. 53:32don't have to second-guess. You don't
  1539. 53:33have to All you have to do is wake up
  1540. 53:35and say, I've got these 12 things that
  1541. 53:36I've got to do today and I'm going to
  1542. 53:38check all of them off.
  1543. 53:40You do that 365 days in a row,
  1544. 53:43you're going to be so far down that path
  1545. 53:45to your life vision, it'll boggle your
  1546. 53:47mind.
  1547. 53:48It'll be unrecognizable.
  1548. 53:49Exactly. That's just the deal. We
  1549. 53:51Basically, the transformation equation
  1550. 53:53is the mathematical formula
  1551. 53:56for learning how to harness the power to
  1552. 53:59transform thought into matter. Yeah. So
  1553. 54:03obviously we've talked about the the
  1554. 54:04power and and luminism and luminaries in
  1555. 54:07a very positive light in this in this
  1556. 54:09interview so far.
  1557. 54:10Although it is a the power is neutral,
  1558. 54:14the term luminary is also neutral. There
  1559. 54:17have been bad people that are
  1560. 54:18luminaries. They've left their marks on
  1561. 54:20the world and shaped realities. Lenin,
  1562. 54:22Stalin, Mao, Hitler.
  1563. 54:24Adolf Hitler was a was a very very
  1564. 54:26powerful, very effective luminary who
  1565. 54:28was really really good at shaping the
  1566. 54:30world around him and and turning
  1567. 54:33transforming his thoughts into matter.
  1568. 54:35Yeah. But he used his power for evil.
  1569. 54:37And um in doing so, he destroyed half
  1570. 54:40the world and and millions of lives as a
  1571. 54:42result.
  1572. 54:43Yeah. And and he went completely off the
  1573. 54:44rails. Um another example that's not so
  1574. 54:47extreme is a lot of the brilliant
  1575. 54:50artists and musicians that we've we've
  1576. 54:53had in history who have died of
  1577. 54:55addiction.
  1578. 54:55Mhm. Um that had the power to shape
  1579. 54:58their own realities. They they This is
  1580. 55:00creative power that we're talking about.
  1581. 55:01This is the God spark.
  1582. 55:03There's nothing more powerful in the
  1583. 55:05universe than a mind that has the
  1584. 55:08ability to shape that very universe in
  1585. 55:11the image of its values. That's pretty
  1586. 55:13much
  1587. 55:14that's the God spark, right?
  1588. 55:16Well, you know, people like Jimi Hendrix
  1589. 55:19and Janis Joplin and Jim Morrison and
  1590. 55:21all of the, you know, how many?
  1591. 55:23Countless brilliant, wonderful
  1592. 55:27creative geniuses that have left us so
  1593. 55:29much, but they couldn't control the
  1594. 55:31power that they possessed. It was too
  1595. 55:33much for them. Cuz here's the thing,
  1596. 55:36once you realize that your life is yours
  1597. 55:38and you can take it any direction you
  1598. 55:40want, it is up to you to decide how to
  1599. 55:43drive that car. When you move from the
  1600. 55:45passenger seat into the driver's seat,
  1601. 55:47the power is yours now.
  1602. 55:48Are you going to crash the thing?
  1603. 55:50Because you can crash it if you're if
  1604. 55:52you're not conscious with it. Using the
  1605. 55:53power unconsciously, using it
  1606. 55:56recklessly, losing it using it
  1607. 55:58maliciously is going to lead to
  1608. 56:00destruction for yourself and for the
  1609. 56:02people around you. So it is a it is an
  1610. 56:04awesome
  1611. 56:05but neutral gift that comes with an
  1612. 56:08equally awesome responsibility.
  1613. 56:11It'll take you anywhere you want to go,
  1614. 56:12but it will not replace you as the
  1615. 56:14driver. If you decide that you're going
  1616. 56:16to learn how to how to harness
  1617. 56:18and wield the power,
  1618. 56:21you need to do it carefully,
  1619. 56:23consciously, and for the highest good.
  1620. 56:25For the people that have consciously
  1621. 56:27done evil,
  1622. 56:29obviously their their goal was
  1623. 56:31destruction or or to, you know, affect
  1624. 56:33the world in in the way that they did.
  1625. 56:36But for you you just gave a really
  1626. 56:37interesting example of the artists that
  1627. 56:40have died of addiction, the creatives
  1628. 56:42that have that have died of addiction.
  1629. 56:43That wasn't necessarily them trying to
  1630. 56:45do that. That was the unintentional
  1631. 56:47misuse of the power. Yeah. Cuz you you
  1632. 56:51control everything that matters most.
  1633. 56:53You control what vices you have, you
  1634. 56:55control what drugs you take, you control
  1635. 56:57whatever what whatever goes in or out of
  1636. 57:00your of your body. And Can I share a
  1637. 57:03thought about that? I thought about this
  1638. 57:04a lot. I
  1639. 57:06did the movie Black Star that's about
  1640. 57:08this, that's about the connection
  1641. 57:10between between artists and addiction
  1642. 57:12and death. So these are creative people.
  1643. 57:14Yeah. And and they usually start with a
  1644. 57:17vision. Elvis Presley wants to be a rock
  1645. 57:19star. Marilyn Monroe wants to be a movie
  1646. 57:21star. Whitney Houston wants to be an
  1647. 57:23amazing singer. They all start with a
  1648. 57:25with a vision.
  1649. 57:26But but one of the commonalities it
  1650. 57:29seems to me is once they get into that
  1651. 57:32channel,
  1652. 57:33it becomes too much. It it sort of
  1653. 57:36starts to override or like like Elvis,
  1654. 57:39poor Elvis, he, you know, he's a country
  1655. 57:41boy and all of a sudden he's the biggest
  1656. 57:43thing in the world. There are just the
  1657. 57:47women throwing themselves at him. Money
  1658. 57:49coming at him right and left. It's like
  1659. 57:51no place to hide, no privacy. He can
  1660. 57:55give away Cadillacs. He can There's no
  1661. 57:57limits on anything. Well, damn, dude.
  1662. 57:59Now now you got a country boy behind the
  1663. 58:03wheel of a Maserati.
  1664. 58:05And and and he's not necessarily trained
  1665. 58:07on how to drive that Maserati. He's
  1666. 58:09going to go off the freaking rails at
  1667. 58:10some point. What I've noticed like I
  1668. 58:12remember a Whitney Whitney Houston
  1669. 58:14interview where she said, at some point
  1670. 58:17it just became too much. It was just too
  1671. 58:19much. I couldn't I didn't know she lost
  1672. 58:21her vision. She lost her sense of self.
  1673. 58:24She wasn't living her life anymore from
  1674. 58:26the inside out. It was all coming at her
  1675. 58:28too fast and she didn't know what to do.
  1676. 58:31So
  1677. 58:33those luminaries who have gone off the
  1678. 58:35rails
  1679. 58:36and died from self-destructive behavior,
  1680. 58:39most of them started off with a vision,
  1681. 58:42but that vision
  1682. 58:44got somehow Derailed. derailed and and
  1683. 58:47wasn't strong enough to pull them
  1684. 58:49through. Yeah. Right?
  1685. 58:51It's it's the people the the ones who
  1686. 58:53have survived that almost a great
  1687. 58:55example is is David Bowie. He you you've
  1688. 58:58you've told me about the white diet of
  1689. 58:59of milk, bread, and cocaine and he wakes
  1690. 59:02up in a ditch and he's like, this
  1691. 59:03probably isn't great.
  1692. 59:04Right, right. Right? He he decided to
  1693. 59:06renounce all of these things and then be
  1694. 59:07like, I'm going to go to Didn't he go to
  1695. 59:10He went to Berlin. He got off coke and
  1696. 59:12got on heroin. He went to Berlin with
  1697. 59:13Iggy Pop, right?
  1698. 59:14Right. But he eventually he eventually
  1699. 59:16was able to end his relationship with
  1700. 59:18with drugs.
  1701. 59:19The the the point is, if you have the in
  1702. 59:22in the example of I'm I'm a rock star,
  1703. 59:25I'm a country boy, and I I have
  1704. 59:28come into basically a lot of power. I
  1705. 59:30have influence over people. I can do
  1706. 59:32whatever I want. Money's not really an
  1707. 59:33issue. Things like this.
  1708. 59:35The ability to renounce that in favor of
  1709. 59:38your life vision is one that is
  1710. 59:40literally a matter of life and death.
  1711. 59:42Yeah, that's right. Right?
  1712. 59:43Yeah. So, you know, obviously I I don't
  1713. 59:46think that many people watching this are
  1714. 59:48in Elvis's shoes. I don't think that
  1715. 59:50they're like, "Oh, well, I was a country
  1716. 59:51boy and now I have millions of dollars
  1717. 59:53and I have all these I'm giving away all
  1718. 59:54these cars and things like this."
  1719. 59:56But, there are tradeoffs in life that
  1720. 59:58you must make in order to get to your
  1721. 1:00:00life vision, right? If If you have a
  1722. 1:00:03self-destructive behavior, limiting
  1723. 1:00:04belief, or something like this, there
  1724. 1:00:08there are tradeoffs that you need to
  1725. 1:00:09make in order to get there.
  1726. 1:00:11How How would you say
  1727. 1:00:14What What would you say is the best way
  1728. 1:00:16for people at home watching this to
  1729. 1:00:18trade off limiting beliefs, destructive
  1730. 1:00:21behaviors, things like this in the name
  1731. 1:00:22of their life vision? If you have a
  1732. 1:00:24clear life vision, it's a lot easier
  1733. 1:00:27to participate in deferred
  1734. 1:00:29gratification. Here's the problem.
  1735. 1:00:31Without a clear life vision, if you
  1736. 1:00:33don't know what you want in your life,
  1737. 1:00:35you can easily find yourself in a place
  1738. 1:00:37where most people find themselves, and
  1739. 1:00:38that's gravitating toward what makes you
  1740. 1:00:40feel good in the moment.
  1741. 1:00:41Mhm.
  1742. 1:00:42Right? Which is every form of addiction
  1743. 1:00:44you can think of. It's It's drugs. It's
  1744. 1:00:45alcohol. It's pornography. It's
  1745. 1:00:47gambling. It's It's you know, that whole
  1746. 1:00:49ball of of stuff. Going toward pleasure
  1747. 1:00:53and away from pain. Going toward
  1748. 1:00:54pleasure in the moment and away from
  1749. 1:00:56pain without regard to the long-term
  1750. 1:00:59consequences. When you have a clear life
  1751. 1:01:01vision,
  1752. 1:01:03you accept both pleasure and pain as a
  1753. 1:01:05necessary part of the journey. Right.
  1754. 1:01:07Some days are going to be easy. Some
  1755. 1:01:09days are going to be hard. I'm going to
  1756. 1:01:10have my wins. I'm going to have my
  1757. 1:01:11losses. It's all part of the process.
  1758. 1:01:14That's not what's important, that I have
  1759. 1:01:15a hard day here and an easy day here. My
  1760. 1:01:18destination is what's important. So,
  1761. 1:01:21that clear vision again, it's a
  1762. 1:01:23decision-making framework. It allows you
  1763. 1:01:25to defer a little short-term
  1764. 1:01:27gratification because you know you've
  1765. 1:01:29got a a much bigger reward waiting for
  1766. 1:01:31you in the future, which is the
  1767. 1:01:33attainment of your ideal vision.

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