How to be MORE FEMININE | simple ways to tap into your feminine energy | PART 2 — Transcript
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- 0:00you can see a little something like I'm
- 0:02not completely covered up but I'm also
- 0:04not showing you anything like there's an
- 0:06art to
- 0:09sexiness
- 0:11me I'm
- 0:15just hey girl welcome or welcome back to
- 0:17my channel my name is Trinity if you're
- 0:19new here today we're going to be
- 0:20discussing how to be more feminine I
- 0:22already have a video on how to be more
- 0:24feminine but y'all seem to love that and
- 0:26I had a lot of people requesting a part
- 0:28two so here we are if if you're not new
- 0:30here then you know I am all about
- 0:32practicality and I'm going to give you
- 0:33simple realistic ways to achieve
- 0:35whatever you're trying to achieve and of
- 0:37course this video is no different so if
- 0:39you love this type of content if you're
- 0:40into personal development
- 0:42self-development type content make sure
- 0:43you subscribe to my channel and hit the
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- 0:46whenever I post a new video and without
- 0:48further Ado let's get right into it tip
- 0:50number one is to be more mysterious and
- 0:53this tip covers a good amount of things
- 0:56generally people don't need to know
- 0:58everything about you when they first see
- 0:59you or first meet you or maybe not even
- 1:01at all especially if they're not people
- 1:02who are close to you a lot of women make
- 1:04the mistake of sharing too much whether
- 1:07it be verbally or just physically
- 1:09physically meaning you're walking around
- 1:11with all your stuff hanging out we can
- 1:13see everything like there's no mystery
- 1:15to you a man doesn't even have to get
- 1:17you undressed to know what you look like
- 1:18Underneath Your Clothes but we'll get
- 1:20back to that in a second while on my
- 1:21journey to become and feel more feminine
- 1:24I realize that I don't have to talk that
- 1:26much I don't have to say everything
- 1:27that's on my mind at every moment I
- 1:29don't have to tell people everything
- 1:31about me especially men in the dating
- 1:33stage a lot of women make the mistake of
- 1:35telling a man every single thing they
- 1:37want everything they're looking for
- 1:39everything they desire and that might
- 1:41seem like a good thing because it might
- 1:43seem like you're being very direct and
- 1:45telling him exactly what you want so
- 1:47that he can do it but it can also
- 1:48backfire because he knows exactly what
- 1:50to do to get you and when a man knows
- 1:52exactly what to do although it may not
- 1:54be in him he's not able to keep that up
- 1:56for a really long time and you might
- 1:58catch feelings before he stopped his
- 2:00little ex now you told him one thing and
- 2:02you're doing another thing because
- 2:03you're accepting less than what you told
- 2:05him you wanted don't say much you can
- 2:07give little hints and that's not playing
- 2:09mind games at all but a man who really
- 2:11knows how to treat a woman doesn't need
- 2:13you to give him the rundown on how to
- 2:14treat you anyway you don't have to be
- 2:17loud you should not be the loudest
- 2:19person in the room because femininity is
- 2:21all about softness you're not being soft
- 2:23if you're being super loud all the time
- 2:26you can be fun and have fun without
- 2:27being loud and like I said clothes you
- 2:31want to be mysterious even with what
- 2:33you're wearing you don't have to walk
- 2:34around with your girls out with your
- 2:36booty cheeks hanging out you can show a
- 2:37little skin I mean right now some will
- 2:39say that I'm showing skin but I'm still
- 2:41pretty covered up y'all can't see but I
- 2:43got jeans on and it doesn't look trashy
- 2:45and I'm not overly revealing and I know
- 2:48someone's probably thinking well I want
- 2:49to look sexy sexy does not mean naked
- 2:53sexy does not mean showing everything
- 2:55this what I got going on might be
- 2:57considered sexy because you can see a
- 2:59little something like I'm not completely
- 3:01covered up but I'm also not showing you
- 3:03anything like there's an art to sexiness
- 3:06and that's something you really have to
- 3:07master if you want to look and feel more
- 3:10feminine while we're on the topic of
- 3:12clothing you want to make sure you're
- 3:13wearing clothes that flatter your body
- 3:15this is something that I feel like I've
- 3:17mastered within the last year or two
- 3:19because I know how to dress for my body
- 3:21type someone commented on my video a few
- 3:23days ago asking me to share where I get
- 3:25a lot of my fitted tops from because in
- 3:2790% of my videos I'm wearing ing a
- 3:30simple fitted top I personally feel like
- 3:33when I wear big t-shirts or just shirts
- 3:36that are not fitted I like drown in them
- 3:39I just feel so much more put together
- 3:41and Polished when I have on a fitted top
- 3:43there was a post that went around like
- 3:44are you little shirt big pants or big
- 3:46shirt little pants or whatever something
- 3:49like that and all my friends say that I
- 3:51am little shirt big pants because I wear
- 3:54a fitted shirt or I wear a crop top and
- 3:56my pants can be a little loose I wear a
- 3:58baggie pant parachute pant cargo pants
- 4:01that's just personal preference and to
- 4:03me it flows well because I feel like you
- 4:05can really see my Silhouette that way I
- 4:07don't have much up here I have more down
- 4:09bottom than I do up top so you would
- 4:11think that I would do it the other way
- 4:12around but to me it flows well the way I
- 4:15do it and I'm very big on my clothes
- 4:17fitting me right now like I said a lot
- 4:19of the time my bottoms are a little
- 4:21looser than my tops but I need myself to
- 4:25fit me perfectly in the waist I need you
- 4:27to be able to see some type of shape I'm
- 4:29not dra drowning in my bottoms although
- 4:30they're loose I'm just very intentional
- 4:32about everything that I wear femininity
- 4:34is all about like flow and movement and
- 4:37that even comes down to your outfit I
- 4:39feel like when you can see my Silhouette
- 4:41and my shape no matter what I'm wearing
- 4:43whether I'm wearing loose fitted clothes
- 4:45or fitted clothes you can see the
- 4:48movement you can see the curves now one
- 4:50thing I started doing in order to make
- 4:52sure my clothes fit me perfectly is
- 4:54tailoring specifically for my jeans I
- 4:57ran into a situation recently where I
- 5:00did not have time to get my jeans
- 5:02tailored for where I was going but I'm
- 5:04going to show you something I discovered
- 5:05recently I went on Amazon and I found
- 5:06these buttons that you can just snap
- 5:09right into your jeans so that they can
- 5:11fit you in your waist so this is the
- 5:13button that came on the jeans and this
- 5:14is the one that I got from Amazon
- 5:16because I only needed the waist taking
- 5:17in just a little bit and you literally
- 5:20just button your pants like normal and
- 5:23now they fit perfectly in the waist and
- 5:26they were like $6 they came overnight on
- 5:28Amazon so I will link those down below
- 5:30if you have an issue with your jeans not
- 5:31fitting you in the waist I'm telling you
- 5:33buy these little buttons because
- 5:36sometimes you don't want to spend $ 40
- 5:37$50 to get your jeans tailored another
- 5:39tip relating to physical appearance is
- 5:41to wear jewelry this is another thing I
- 5:43get asked about a lot in the comments
- 5:45but wearing jewelry definitely does make
- 5:47a difference and that's something that I
- 5:48became more intentional about when I
- 5:50wanted to look and feel more feminine I
- 5:52like everyday jewelry I have some rings
- 5:55that I switch out because some are more
- 5:56like statement pieces but for the most
- 5:58part I don't mind my Rings being a
- 6:00little busy just cuz my nails are
- 6:02usually busy but if you're not new here
- 6:03then you know that I'm pretty much a
- 6:04minimalist when it comes to everything
- 6:06outside of my nails so today I have on
- 6:08this dainty little choker necklace my
- 6:11friend syney actually bought this for me
- 6:12for my birthday it is from design gold
- 6:16jewelry I also wear my jbw watch every
- 6:20single day this is the I don't even know
- 6:23I don't know what it's called once again
- 6:25it'll be linked down below this is a
- 6:26two-tone watch I love two-tone I used to
- 6:29be just a gold girl something about the
- 6:31twoone just gives me Gran and I love
- 6:34mixing Metals now like I never thought I
- 6:36would be that girl but I'm that girl and
- 6:38it's nice and small and dainty I didn't
- 6:40used to like watches a while ago and I
- 6:41never cared about buying one because I
- 6:44felt like a lot of them looked very
- 6:46masculine cuz they were really big and I
- 6:48didn't want anything big and bulky so I
- 6:50was very careful and selective when
- 6:52picking out a watch and I love this
- 6:54perfect for every day it looks good when
- 6:55you're dressed up looks good when you're
- 6:56dressed down and then I have my small
- 6:59Little David y cable bracelet that my
- 7:02boyfriend got me this one is two-tone as
- 7:05well these rings on this hand are from
- 7:07my nail tech I don't know where she got
- 7:09these from and this one is also from my
- 7:12nail tech this one on my thumb is from
- 7:15preciously polished I believe they're
- 7:17called I don't take this one off now the
- 7:19more statement pieces I take them off
- 7:21because I'm not sure if they tarnish
- 7:23just because I didn't buy them and this
- 7:26one right here which I actually have two
- 7:28more of this is from banter which was
- 7:31previously piercing pagod this little
- 7:33simple band right here is like $80 but
- 7:37it does not tarnish and I never take it
- 7:39off the only reason why I took off my
- 7:40other two is cuz I wanted to wear my
- 7:42statement jewelry but whatever anyway
- 7:44like I was saying jewelry period really
- 7:47pulls your look together and just helps
- 7:48you to look more feminine especially
- 7:49when you're wearing dainty jewelry you
- 7:52also want to make sure you're smelling
- 7:54good at all times that is like the
- 7:57ultimate way to feel more feminine a
- 8:00woman should always smell good first of
- 8:01all everybody should smell good because
- 8:03I love me a good smelling man okay when
- 8:05my man got cologne on I just want to
- 8:07live in his skin and just sniff his neck
- 8:09all day long something about someone
- 8:10smelling good just makes me feel like
- 8:12they take good care of themselves and
- 8:14like I said in part one yes these are
- 8:15all tips that other people will probably
- 8:17notice but a lot of this stuff is for
- 8:20you smelling good will make you feel
- 8:22good it'll make you feel more confident
- 8:24it'll make you feel more feminine more
- 8:25womanly because you'll be getting whiffs
- 8:28of your scent all throughout the day and
- 8:30it'll just remind you that you took an
- 8:32extra step to take care of yourself that
- 8:34day I have different fragrances for
- 8:36different moods for different occasions
- 8:38today it is 85° in Baltimore and I'm
- 8:41going outside me and Sydney are going to
- 8:43go get some drinks so I'm wearing more
- 8:45of like a spring summer flirty type
- 8:48fragrance I'm wearing twily by AES it's
- 8:51a great summertime fragrance because it
- 8:53just gives really floral fruity girly
- 8:57type Vibes I don't know but yeah get you
- 8:59some smell good body lotions body creams
- 9:02body oils I'm wearing an unscented body
- 9:04lotion right now the Fenty body cream
- 9:07that has like a little bit of a scent a
- 9:09body oil and my perfume your girl is
- 9:12smelling good my next tip is to be more
- 9:15inviting and to not look so
- 9:16unapproachable if you're out and about
- 9:18try to smile a little bit more when you
- 9:20make eye contact with someone do a
- 9:21little smile a little smirk to show them
- 9:23that you are a nice approachable person
- 9:27I mean maybe not nice I know everybody
- 9:28doesn't like the word nice but try to
- 9:30make yourself seem more approachable
- 9:31especially if you're single and you're
- 9:33trying to get men to come up to you more
- 9:35often a lot of men will not approach you
- 9:38if you look unapproachable if they can
- 9:39look at you and tell that you're
- 9:40probably going to reject them or say
- 9:42something smart rude whatever they're
- 9:44probably not going to say anything to
- 9:45you so give a little smile every now and
- 9:47then I used to walk around with a
- 9:49resting you know what face and I had
- 9:53this attitude like well I don't want
- 9:54anyone to approach me anyway so I wasn't
- 9:57intentionally looking unapproachable but
- 9:59when it was brought up to me I confirmed
- 10:01that I didn't want to be approached your
- 10:03body language can throw people off
- 10:05sometimes so try to seem more
- 10:08approachable and even if you're not
- 10:09interested you don't have to be rude you
- 10:11don't have to be like standoffish you
- 10:13can politely turn someone down reject
- 10:16them in a nice way so that you can still
- 10:18be in your feminine energy cuz being
- 10:20like boy what why would I ever talk to
- 10:22you is not feminine at all and that
- 10:24leads me to the next thing don't be so
- 10:26aggressive if you want to be more
- 10:27feminine softer more womanly you cannot
- 10:31be super aggressive now I just used the
- 10:34example of someone trying to approach
- 10:36you and you saying boy what I'm not
- 10:37trying to talk to you I don't want to
- 10:38talk to you I got a boyfriend I got a
- 10:40man I got a husband that's aggressive
- 10:43but also when you're talking to your man
- 10:45on a day-to-day basis don't be
- 10:47aggressive with him if you want to be
- 10:48treated like a princess if you want
- 10:50princess treatment you want to be
- 10:51treated like a delicate flower a damsel
- 10:53in the stress you can't be aggressive
- 10:55because the man is just going to look at
- 10:56you like well why do you want me to be
- 10:58soft with you if you're not a soft being
- 11:00at all if you talk real loud all the
- 11:02time just talk real hard and talk at
- 11:04your man or talk at people in general
- 11:07cuz we're not even just talking about
- 11:08romantic relationships you will never be
- 11:10seen as a soft being your tone matters
- 11:14especially when dealing with men because
- 11:15they like to have their little ego
- 11:17stroke so sometimes you got to talk to
- 11:19him like he's the man and you're just
- 11:22the princess who's just there I don't
- 11:24know I don't really I don't feel like I
- 11:25know how to explain that very well but
- 11:27y'all should get the point now while
- 11:28we're talking about language and how you
- 11:31talk to people some of yall not going to
- 11:33like this one or maybe you will cuz I
- 11:34feel like if you clicked on this video
- 11:36then you know this is coming at some
- 11:37point your language matters so if you
- 11:40want to be seen as a feminine being even
- 11:43if you want to just feel more feminine
- 11:45you don't need to be cursing now me I
- 11:49told y a while ago that I'm working on
- 11:50the cursing thing when I'm with my
- 11:52friends it's a whole different story now
- 11:54if we out in public you're not going to
- 11:56catch me cursed not to where anyone can
- 11:57hear me but yeah y at the point when I'm
- 11:59out in public I'm not just raah rahah
- 12:03cursing dropping F bombs I mean I'm not
- 12:05going to just be dropping F bombs for no
- 12:07reason anyway but still when I'm out I'm
- 12:10not being R loud and aggressive and just
- 12:14using curse words every 5 seconds I'm
- 12:15just not because I'm mindful of my
- 12:17surroundings and yes often times I tell
- 12:21y'all you need to stop worrying about
- 12:23what everyone thinks about you don't be
- 12:24so invested in other people's opinions
- 12:26of you but in some cases you should be
- 12:29worried about how you're being perceived
- 12:31I personally don't want nobody running
- 12:33around telling everybody that I just be
- 12:35cussing every 5 Seconds like I I don't
- 12:38want that now like I said when I'm with
- 12:39my friends and we're by ourselves in
- 12:42someone's home I might talk a little
- 12:44different but I know how to turn it off
- 12:46and that's another thing there has to be
- 12:47a time and a place for everything if you
- 12:49want to twerk and you want to curse and
- 12:52you want to just act like a city girl
- 12:54fine by all means but there has to be a
- 12:57time and a place for all that stuff and
- 12:59that's one of the major reasons why I
- 13:00love my friend group so much because I
- 13:02feel like we know how to turn the switch
- 13:04on and turn the switch off we're not
- 13:06about to be out in public at a
- 13:07restaurant twerking being loud screaming
- 13:09sexy R lyrics like we're just not doing
- 13:11that now there are certain settings
- 13:13where that may be a little bit more
- 13:14appropriate but like right now me and
- 13:17Sydney are about to go out for drinks
- 13:19and yes there may be times where our
- 13:21friends might be throwing back shots now
- 13:23y'all know I'm not a shots girl I don't
- 13:26even drink that much anymore there are
- 13:27certain settings where you maybe taking
- 13:30shots throwing them back but there's
- 13:31also a time where you need to be
- 13:32ordering cute little girly drinks like
- 13:35we're about to go get nice little
- 13:36cocktails this is not the time to be
- 13:38ordering shots we're not drinking liquor
- 13:40straight today I knew how to dress for
- 13:41the occasion I got on my simple little
- 13:44black bodysuit showing a little bit of
- 13:45skin cuz it's hot outside got on some
- 13:48high waist mom jeans with some cute
- 13:51little sandals got my jewelry on my
- 13:53little dainty jewelry my hair is pulled
- 13:54back in the ponytail so you can actually
- 13:56see my face I got my soft makeup on I'm
- 13:59the vibe but time and place is a very
- 14:02important concept that you need to
- 14:03master another tip is to learn how to
- 14:06regulate your emotions now I mentioned
- 14:09this in the first video but you should
- 14:11embrace your vulnerability as a woman
- 14:13especially when you want to come across
- 14:15as more feminine and where you just want
- 14:17to feel more feminine you shouldn't mind
- 14:20expressing your feelings to your partner
- 14:21to your friends to whoever is around you
- 14:24because as a woman your vulnerability is
- 14:26your strength your ability to express
- 14:28your emotions and and feel certain
- 14:30emotions is your strength but I think a
- 14:33lot of women especially women who have
- 14:35gone through a lot of trauma especially
- 14:37in relationships if you've been cheated
- 14:39on if you've been in situations where a
- 14:42man broke your trust if you've been in
- 14:44situations where men didn't really allow
- 14:46you to embrace your femininity and you
- 14:48had to be masculine then you either
- 14:52don't show your femin side at all or you
- 14:55shut down real quick real bad when
- 14:58someone does something that makes you
- 14:59feel unsafe now this is important to
- 15:02note because this is where your
- 15:03emotional regulation is going to have to
- 15:05come in in my last long-term
- 15:07relationship before the one that I'm
- 15:08currently in I did not feel emotionally
- 15:10safe at all for numerous reasons so when
- 15:13I got into my current relationship in
- 15:15the very beginning if he did anything
- 15:18that made me feel emotionally unsafe I
- 15:21shut down and my masculine switch just
- 15:24went right up and often times I was hurt
- 15:28but didn't come across as hurt or sad it
- 15:32came across as angry cuz I didn't know
- 15:34how to regulate my emotions because my
- 15:36feelings were hurt and because I felt
- 15:38unsafe and because I felt neglected
- 15:41because I felt those ways I started
- 15:44lashing out and like I said that is a
- 15:47very masculine thing to do you don't
- 15:49have to lash out just because your
- 15:51feelings are hurt you don't have to
- 15:52start talking any kind of way and being
- 15:54rude and saying all these mean hurtful
- 15:56things because someone hurt your
- 15:58feelings no no you can express to that
- 16:00person that they hurt your feelings
- 16:02there's no shame in that I used to feel
- 16:04weak when I did that I used to feel like
- 16:06if I cried because something hurt my
- 16:08feelings or if I told the person like
- 16:10you really hurt me I felt like I was
- 16:11being weak but I noticed now that there
- 16:14strength in telling my man like I didn't
- 16:18like when you did this that made me feel
- 16:20XYZ this is how this makes me feel and
- 16:23that is something you have to master as
- 16:25a woman especially if you want to have
- 16:26healthy relationships with men who allow
- 16:28you to be feminine and lastly this isn't
- 16:32one that I hear a lot of people mention
- 16:33but it's something that I have noticed
- 16:35makes me feel more feminine and it's
- 16:36something that I have noticed in other
- 16:38women who are very soft the last tip is
- 16:41to compliment other women the reason why
- 16:43this makes you seem softer and more
- 16:45feminine is because a lot of women who
- 16:47really live in their masculine energy
- 16:49are jealous competitive insecure so
- 16:54complimenting other women just shows
- 16:56that you don't have those traits it
- 16:58shows that you can see Beauty in someone
- 17:00else and that you're not in competition
- 17:01with everyone who's around you now if
- 17:04you are insecure and if you do have low
- 17:06confidence that might be something that
- 17:07you have to practice you might have to
- 17:09actually practice complimenting women
- 17:11and I'm not saying be fake don't walk up
- 17:13to someone and tell them you like their
- 17:14outfit if you don't really like their
- 17:15outfit but when you acknowledge mentally
- 17:19that someone is beautiful that they look
- 17:21nice that their outfit is nice that
- 17:22their nails are cute their shoes are
- 17:24cute whatever say that anyone who's ever
- 17:26met me in real life can vouge for the
- 17:28fact that I do not mind giving other
- 17:30women compliments now this is something
- 17:32that I didn't do as often when I was
- 17:34very insecure and had low confidence
- 17:36especially if I was a friend of my man
- 17:38you would not catch me complimenting
- 17:39another woman because I didn't even want
- 17:40him to start getting any ideas but now I
- 17:43can be out with him I can be out with my
- 17:44friends whoever if a girl walks by and
- 17:46she's pretty I'll say you look really
- 17:48pretty or I really like your hair I love
- 17:50your outfit your skin is so nice like I
- 17:52don't mind saying those things because
- 17:54I'm confident in who I am and I can
- 17:56appreciate Beauty in someone else so
- 17:59like I said don't be fake don't just
- 18:01make up stuff don't pull stuff out of
- 18:02the sky but start making it a habit to
- 18:04compliment other women compliment at
- 18:06least one person a day so that's all for
- 18:08this video like I said if you have not
- 18:10seen part one make sure you go watch
- 18:12that I'll link it down below in the
- 18:13description box as well as everything
- 18:15else that I mentioned today in this
- 18:16video make sure y'all like comment and
- 18:18subscribe and I will see y'all in the
- 18:20next one
- 18:23bye to
- 18:25me I'm just hoping don't be
- 18:30beat history
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