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0:00but if we're being honest a lot of these
0:01women who have the whole independent
0:03woman I Don't Need No Man complex really
0:05hate it
0:08[Music]
0:14there hey girl welcome or welcome back
0:16to my channel my name is Trinity if
0:18you're new here today we're going to be
0:19talking about all things feminine energy
0:22how to feel more feminine how to look
0:23more feminine how to be more in touch
0:25with your feminine side if you're
0:27interested in hearing all about it just
0:28keep on watching make sure you like
0:30comment and subscribe and let's get
0:31right into it it's so funny when I make
0:33some of these videos I just be thinking
0:34like y'all really get me because some of
0:37these topics I wouldn't even tell other
0:39people that I Google stuff like this
0:40like I really used to Google how to feel
0:42more feminine how to feel more womanly
0:45how to live in your feminine energy I
0:47released a Google stuff like that and I
0:48was actually embarrassed about it until
0:50I got on YouTube and realized that a lot
0:52of y'all go through the same thing so
0:55I'm going to give you the tips that I
0:56follow and a lot of these things may be
0:58subjective like different things may
1:00make different women feel more feminine
1:02or feel more womanly but I'm going to
1:03share with you the things that I feel
1:04like helped and help me to feel more
1:07feminine these are things that I
1:08intentionally do every day and they have
1:10definitely helped me over the years I
1:12think I started being more interested in
1:15like going from girl to woman maybe
1:18around like 2020 when the pandemic
1:20happened I shared the story a lot but I
1:22went through a breakup at that time and
1:23I was really just trying to find myself
1:25and to just like become more confident I
1:27wanted to be content being by myself I
1:29didn't want to be relying on someone
1:30else for my happiness so there were a
1:31lot of things that I did that I feel
1:33like shifted my Persona around that time
1:37there were a lot of mindset shifts that
1:38occurred just a lot of shifts in general
1:40and one thing I always noticed in other
1:42women that I never really saw in myself
1:43was a very soft feminine side I used to
1:46always see it in so many different women
1:48and I could never really put my finger
1:49on exactly what made them more feminine
1:52than me and one day I took a piece of
1:54paper and I wrote out all the women who
1:55I feel like gave me that type of vibe
1:58and what I liked about them and from
2:00doing that I realized that a lot of
2:01these women had a lot of things in
2:04common they had a certain Grace about
2:05them they had a certain aura that they
2:07gave off for some of them it was the way
2:09that they dressed for some it was the
2:10way that they spoke the way they
2:12interacted with other people their
2:14confidence their demeanor so we're going
2:16to Deep dive into a lot of these things
2:17so that you can have a better
2:19understanding of what you can do in
2:20order to feel more womanly more feminine
2:22and just overall more of a soft woman so
2:27like I said my journey kind of started
2:29when the p pic began around 2020 but a
2:31lot of these things are things that I
2:33have learned since then over the years
2:35some of these things are things that I
2:36just started doing maybe 6 months ago
2:38because it's definitely a journey
2:40especially when you're like me and your
2:43masculine traits tend to take over way
2:45more than your feminine ones like that's
2:47where I was for majority of my life I've
2:49been an entrepreneur since I was a
2:51teenager for those of you who don't know
2:53I'm A Lash tag and a makeup artist well
2:55no longer makeup artist I just do lashes
2:56now but I've been doing lash extensions
2:58full time for for about 7 years now
3:01almost 7 years and even before I was
3:03doing that fulltime I was doing hair
3:05when I was in high school I was doing
3:06makeup and hair and college I was a hair
3:08stylist assistant throughout college so
3:11I've been getting to it for a real long
3:12time and while being an entrepreneur has
3:15its perks it can also Harden you and
3:17make it very hard for you to be feminine
3:20and soft and just be hustle culture was
3:23a really big thing for me for a really
3:25long time like I felt like if I had free
3:27time I should be taking clients I should
3:29be at work I should just be doing
3:30something productive I have to be doing
3:32something all the time I have to be
3:34going going going it's all about making
3:36money it's all about getting more
3:37clients I never prioritized rest like
3:40one day I think this was during my
3:42senior year in college I had to be
3:44rushed to the hospital because I was
3:46exhausted cuz I was literally going to
3:47class leaving class to go do clients and
3:49at this time I was traveling to clients
3:51so I was traveling near and far to do
3:53people's lashes I will be carrying my
3:55massage bed folded up uphills upstairs
3:58to go to people's apartment Apartments
4:00leaving there going to the next client
4:02sometimes I had to work in the hair
4:03salon like I was doing a whole lot and I
4:06was not even eating at that time like I
4:08probably would eat one meal a day so I
4:10was just like constantly overworking
4:12myself and I got to a point where I felt
4:14like I have to prioritized rest there's
4:17no way that I can be a soft feminine
4:20woman and not prioritize rest like
4:23everything was about working hard and
4:24around the time where I decided that I
4:25was going to prioritize rest I realized
4:27that it was important for me to figure
4:29out how to work smarter and not always
4:32harder whenever I will be trying to come
4:34up with new business ideas or ways to
4:35make more money or ways to get more
4:37clients I was always working harder to
4:39get those things and I realized you
4:41don't always have to work harder to make
4:43more money or to get more clients or to
4:45do whatever sometimes you just have to
4:47figure out a smarter way to get the
4:49things that you want I realized that I
4:51didn't have to be working 7 days a week
4:53I didn't have to be available 7 days a
4:55week for me to get clients for me to
4:56make a certain amount of money because
4:58people will adjust just like people
4:59adjust when a hair stylist goes out of
5:01town or a ltech or a nail tech you do
5:03not have to be available 7 days a week
5:06in order for you to be successful I now
5:08work 4 days a week and I'm making more
5:11money than I was at the time where I was
5:13working every single day of the week
5:15from sun up to sun down it's all about
5:17working smarter and once I started
5:20prioritizing rest I was able to feel
5:22softer because I wasn't a part of the
5:25hustle culture anymore I didn't feel
5:26like I always had to be busy sometimes
5:29the EAS way for you to be more in touch
5:31with your feminine side and to just feel
5:32like a softer being all you have to do
5:34is slow down we move so fast as women we
5:37always take on all these tests all these
5:39responsibilities we feel like we have
5:41the weight of the world on our shoulders
5:42and a lot of the time all we have to do
5:44is just sit back and relax for a second
5:47and I know somebody's probably watching
5:48this thinking well I have kids I have a
5:50business I have a husband I need to
5:51attend to I have a job I'm in school yes
5:54I understand that but just as much as
5:56all those things are important you are
5:58also important I hate waking up early
6:01but sometimes I got to wake up before my
6:03son if I want to be able to just have an
6:04easygoing morning if I don't want to be
6:06running back and forth from room to room
6:08getting him dressed getting myself
6:10dressed sometimes I got to get up before
6:11him because I feel more at ease when I
6:13do that I feel more at ease when I'm not
6:15rushing I feel more at ease when I'm
6:17living a slower life and that's one
6:19thing that I'm actually still working on
6:21the whole slow down thing because I rush
6:24to do a lot of things I'm rushing in the
6:26morning sometimes when I'm getting ready
6:28I'm rushing in the gym cuz I don't have
6:29as long as I thought I would have I'm
6:31rushing to eat lunch in between clients
6:33I'm rushing to get home and cook dinner
6:35so sometimes I really have to sell
6:36myself like girl make a priority list
6:38what are the top three things that you
6:40need to accomplish today pick three
6:42things and take your time with them you
6:44don't have to accomplish a thousand
6:45things in one day you don't have to
6:47accomplish a thousand things in one week
6:49you can move slow sometimes you don't
6:51always have to rush yourself with
6:52everything that you do another thing I
6:54started doing was asking for help
6:56because I realized that I never used to
6:59to let people do anything for me
7:01especially men like I had this thing
7:02where I did not want a man to be able to
7:05come back later and say oh I did XYZ for
7:07you I didn't want anybody to be able to
7:09hold anything over my head and I also
7:11didn't want anyone to ever feel like I
7:12needed them I always had this feeling
7:14like I need to be able to hold my own
7:16and while that is true you don't always
7:18have to operate like that I think
7:20everyone in my life knows that I can
7:21hold my own that doesn't mean that I
7:23want to hold my own all the time like I
7:26don't want to do everything for myself
7:28because let's be honest what what is the
7:29point of having all these people in your
7:31life if you have to do everything
7:32yourself if you don't have anyone to
7:34lean on if you don't have anyone that
7:35you can depend on why do you have all
7:37these people around you I used to be in
7:39relationships and the man would ask me
7:41if he could do certain things for me and
7:42I would just be like no it's okay he's
7:44literally offering why don't you just
7:46take the help whether it's Financial
7:48physical whatever now these days I'm
7:50taking all the help that I can get
7:51because like I said before you shouldn't
7:53carry the weight of the world on your
7:54shoulders if you don't have to if
7:56someone's trying to help you in any kind
7:58of way let them and and if they want to
7:59hold it over your head later on then
8:01that's on them that says more about them
8:02than it does about you like I wore the
8:04whole independent woman thing like it
8:06was a badge of honor and yes it's nice
8:09to be an independent woman like I said
8:10it's nice to be able to hold your own
8:12but if we're being honest a lot of these
8:13women who have the whole independent
8:15woman I Don't Need No Man complex really
8:18hate it there I know I did I didn't want
8:20to go half with the man on everything I
8:21didn't want to be a strong black woman I
8:24didn't want to be resilient I just felt
8:25like I had to be in order to be
8:27respected but one thing I learned while
8:29on this journey to feeling more feminine
8:32and just being softer is that men like
8:34to feel needed men like for you to ask
8:37them to do certain things for you it
8:39does something for their ego and I'm not
8:40going to lie I used to be the type of
8:41girl who would not stroke a man's ego
8:44just because I knew that that's what
8:45they wanted and that is why I always
8:47felt like another masculine being in a
8:50relationship I do believe in gender
8:51roles to a certain extent like I feel
8:53like men and women have different roles
8:56in a relationship that benefit each
8:57other like I said men like to feel
8:59needed they like to have their ego
9:01stroked and if you want your man to show
9:03up the way you want him to show up in a
9:05relationship you kind of got to stroke
9:06his ego sometimes and that's not a bad
9:08thing I don't know what made me feel
9:10like that was a bad thing but it's not
9:12whatever my man needs to make him feel
9:14like the man I'mma give him that and I
9:16know a lot of people probably not going
9:17to agree with that but I'mma give it to
9:19him because if he does things that makes
9:21me feel like I'm that girl why can't I
9:23do that for him but I think the key is
9:25you got to be dealing with a man who
9:26deserves that like I was dealing with
9:28man who didn't deserve that like when I
9:30think back on the times where I would
9:32cringe at the thought of making a man
9:34feel more manly it's because I was
9:36dealing with men who did not deserve it
9:37my boyfriend has never let me touch a
9:38door there are times when he'll come
9:40over my house and he'll know that I went
9:42grocery shopping earlier that day and
9:43he'll say leave anything heavy in the
9:45car and I'll get it when I come there
9:46fine by me okay because I used to be a
9:48girl who would just make five trips back
9:49to the car to bring all the groceries in
9:51I'm not doing it no more I don't have to
9:53open your mouth and ask like if you want
9:55help with anything ask because not times
9:58out of 10 if you're dealing with man who
9:59loves you he doesn't want to see you
10:00struggling in any type of way and I'm
10:02not just talking about financially like
10:04I said it doesn't have to be Financial
10:05but I feel like a man should make a
10:07woman's life easier in some type of way
10:09like if you were just really stressed
10:10out all the time you have a lot going on
10:12really just like emotionally drained
10:14physically drained mentally drained if
10:16you're dating a man he has to lighten
10:18that load in some kind of way I'm sorry
10:19that's just how I feel because what is
10:21the point of you being here and I'm
10:23still having the same exact issues I was
10:24having before you came in now we not
10:26talking about like trauma and stuff that
10:28people need to deal with on their own
10:29but take from this what you will if I
10:31got a man by my side I'm not going to be
10:33struggling the same way I was before he
10:35came in and it's not about being needy
10:37or anything like that it's just about
10:39relationships being transactional like I
10:41said there are certain things that women
10:42should do for men and men should do for
10:44women you should both be reaping the
10:45benefits of being in a relationship in
10:47some type of way and from my experience
10:49when you have a man and a woman in a
10:51relationship it doesn't really work for
10:53both of them to be masculine now of
10:55course as women we do have masculine
10:57traits we do have feminine traits and
10:59and the same goes for men if we being
11:01honest but there has to be a healthy
11:02balance in the relationship and
11:04individually so allow that man to help
11:06you in whatever way you need him to help
11:07you the next thing is having a
11:09maintenance routine if you're not new
11:10here you know I talk about this all the
11:12time but it works I'm telling you I used
11:15to be this type of girl who only got her
11:16nails done for occasions my hair was
11:18usually done for the most part because
11:20like I said I did hair when I was in
11:22high school and college so that one was
11:24pretty much always taken care of but
11:25like I didn't really get pedicures often
11:27I would do my own TOS a lot the time and
11:29it did not look great polish would be
11:31chipped on either my hands or my nails
11:34this was pre-lash extension so no lashes
11:36I didn't have no real skincare routine
11:38and my skin was kind of out of control
11:40for like a really long time I didn't
11:42have no type of Maintenance routine at
11:43all I would just get stuff done
11:44occasionally whenever I had somewhere to
11:46go I wasn't the type of girl who was
11:49always ready cuz y'all know now I stay
11:50ready so I don't have to get ready but
11:52when I started the journey to feeling
11:53more womanly I started prioritizing my
11:56looks not only because I wanted to look
11:58good good but because it made me feel
12:00good like there's something about
12:02pouring into yourself that automatically
12:04makes you feel more feminine and more
12:06soft and it's also a great way to boost
12:08your confidence and like I said being
12:10confident in yourself plays a big role
12:12in femininity so I started making sure
12:14my hair was always done I was getting my
12:16nails done on a consistent basis every 2
12:18to 3 weeks now I'm making sure my toes
12:20are done all throughout the year not
12:22just in the summer time and the
12:23springtime when I'm going to have my
12:24feet out and some sandals but yeah I am
12:27very dedicated to my maintenance routine
12:29because like I said it just makes me
12:30feel good I love pouring into myself I
12:32love taking care of myself I have a
12:34shower routine I do not play by my
12:36shower routine and if y'all not new here
12:38y'all know I spend a lot of time in the
12:39shower I be in there like 15 to 20
12:41minutes on some days because that's my
12:42me time that's how I take care of my
12:44body I romanticize my after shower
12:47routine where I'm putting on all my body
12:49care products my perfume it just makes
12:51me feel like a woman and since I
12:54mentioned having a shower routine
12:56hygiene and Body Care are crucial to
12:58femininity like you can't really say
13:00that you're a womanly woman if you don't
13:02take care of your hygiene like there are
13:05things that we have to do that men don't
13:06have to do as a woman you should not be
13:08walking around funky in no type of way
13:10because you should be on top of your
13:11stuff all the time like have a spare
13:14deodorant in your car just in case you
13:15forget to put deodorant on carry around
13:17travel size perfume just in case you
13:18need to reapply throughout the day make
13:20sure you got some lotion in your purse
13:21make sure you got some hand cream
13:23cuticle oil all that stuff will just
13:25make you feel more womanly and it'll
13:27also make you look good like I said
13:28before and I used to be this type of
13:29girl who felt like doing all that stuff
13:31was for everybody else like oh I'm
13:33putting on perfume for other people I'm
13:35putting on makeup for other people I'm
13:36putting on a cute outfit for other
13:38people and then I got to a point where I
13:40realized no this makes me feel good this
13:43makes me feel good about myself I'm
13:44taking time out of my day to really put
13:48lotion on my whole entire body I think
13:49it was Mona McMichael the other day she
13:52posted a real on Instagram I think it
13:53was an ad for some type of lotion she
13:56was talking about how putting lotion on
13:58as a kid used to be a chore like really
14:00putting it on your whole body I used to
14:01put lotion on my elbows and my knees my
14:03ankles my hands call it a day no now I'm
14:06putting lotion on every inch of my body
14:09maybe three times cuz I have an
14:10unscented body lotion I have Body Oil I
14:13have sented body lotion then I'm going
14:14in with my perfume like it's a whole
14:16process okay but I feel like that is one
14:18of the differences between being a girl
14:20and being a woman because you take that
14:22extra time you go the extra mile to make
14:25sure you look good and feel good and
14:26smell good when I say I romantic ize my
14:29shower routine and my body care routine
14:31I romanticize it like I take my time I
14:34use products that make me feel good
14:36about what I'm doing I use products that
14:37smell good so that I'm more excited
14:39about doing my routine every day that's
14:41how you romanticize stuff in your life
14:43and that brings me to the next Point use
14:45and buy small things that help you to
14:47romanticize your life I like to buy
14:49little small things that can get used on
14:52a daily basis like things that I can use
14:54in routines that I already have just so
14:56that I can feel better about those
14:58routines and and those tasks that I have
14:59to do all the time and I love when I
15:01meet girls who like Thrive off of stuff
15:04like that too I'm not saying go to
15:05Target and buy all the cute little
15:07things that you see but if there's
15:08something that you can buy that will
15:10make you feel better about things that
15:13you might not be that happy about on a
15:15regular basis or that excited about on a
15:16regular basis buy those things I didn't
15:19need this $30 cup from Target this is
15:22the simple modern one I was not paying
15:24for a Stanley Cup I lowkey still want a
15:26Stanley Cup but a lot of people say this
15:28one is better so so whatever I got this
15:29one this has me drinking so much water
15:31on a daily basis like it just makes it
15:34more fun having a cute cup makes
15:36drinking water so much more enjoyable
15:38for me and it's practical because one
15:40problem that I always had with big water
15:42jugs like this is that they never fit in
15:44my cup holder in my car this one fits
15:46perfectly in my cup holder it has a
15:47handle so I can carry it around my
15:49boyfriend got me this cute set of pots
15:51and pans for Christmas and I feel like
15:53that makes me more excited to cook every
15:55day another way to feel more feminine is
15:58to wear we underclothes that you're
15:59proud of even if no one else is seeing
16:01them I used to have a whole bunch of
16:02granny panties and just like bras and
16:04panties that didn't match and then one
16:06day I was like you know what I want them
16:08all to match so I just bought like tones
16:10at first I was only buying black so
16:12Black Panties and black bras but then I
16:13started adding neutrals I got rid of all
16:15the prints so that I always had a
16:17matching set and that just makes me feel
16:20good to know that I have on a cute pair
16:22of undies a cute bra under my clothes
16:24even though no one else is seeing it
16:26because everything isn't for everybody
16:28else I can't really describe the feeling
16:31that you get from doing stuff like that
16:32but try it and I promise you you will
16:35feel a lot more feminine than you do now
16:37this next one is super duper crucial you
16:40have to learn how to let go of control
16:43be less micromanaging allow yourself to
16:46be led this was a really really hard one
16:49for me because like I said I had this
16:51whole independent woman complex I don't
16:54need no man that was my vibe while it
16:56was nice for me to have a man in my life
16:58I never wanted to need a man I never
17:00allowed myself to need a man I felt the
17:02need to control a lot of situations in
17:05my life I needed to know the outcome of
17:07everything I didn't trust anyone to lead
17:09me in any type of way I hated group
17:11projects in school because I didn't like
17:12letting anybody else be in control of
17:14anything I felt like I was the only one
17:17who knew how to get us or myself from
17:20point A to point B in the way that I
17:22wanted to get there and that was me
17:23living in my masculine energy I had to
17:26learn how to let go of control and this
17:28is another one that really only works if
17:30you're dealing with a man who you can
17:32trust to lead you it only works if
17:34you're dealing with a man who you can
17:35let your guard down with it only works
17:37if you're dealing with a man who does
17:38not require you to micromanage
17:40everything that he does I realize that
17:42as a very naturally independent woman
17:45and a woman who can do a lot for herself
17:48and as a woman who has never really
17:50trusted anyone to make decisions for her
17:53or for the relationship I have to be
17:55with a man who knows how to make
17:57decisions on on his own I have to be
17:59with someone who I can trust to make
18:00decisions someone who I can trust to
18:01lead us someone who doesn't just go with
18:03the flow someone who considers me and
18:06his decision making and doesn't just do
18:07things as if it only affects him and
18:09that is probably one of the main things
18:13that I feel like has allowed me to rest
18:15in my femininity over the last maybe
18:18year or two if I can't trust you to make
18:20no decisions or if I feel like I have to
18:22be the one steering the ship I don't
18:24really want to be on a ship with you
18:25I've steered ships long enough just for
18:27men to make me want to just jump off and
18:29leave them on there by themselves but
18:31like I said if you have a man who
18:32fulfills all those things you have to
18:33learn how to let go of control there's
18:35no way for you to rest in your
18:37femininity if you're always trying to
18:38control everything and that doesn't mean
18:40that you can't help make decisions that
18:42doesn't mean that you can't give your
18:44input like I don't believe in just being
18:46a woman who just sits back and shuts up
18:47and doesn't say anything that's never
18:49going to be me I don't care how that
18:50comes across I'm never going to be the
18:52one to just sit back and not say
18:53anything but I have learned that I don't
18:56always have to be talking oh the time
18:59and that was another one that was really
19:00hard for me I have to give my two cents
19:02on everything especially if it doesn't
19:04directly concern me in that moment and
19:06I've also learn how to give my input
19:07without telling someone what to do or
19:10being the one leading and steering the
19:12ship all the time basically I learn how
19:14to be a team player cuz like I told
19:16y'all I hated group projects in high
19:18school I either wanted to just work by
19:20myself or I wanted to be in control of
19:22the group I used to lie on job
19:23applications all the time I used to lie
19:25in job interviews all the time telling
19:26them that I knew how to be a team player
19:28that I work well in groups I did not
19:31work well in groups I was not a team
19:33player because I felt like I had all the
19:35answers but then I got to a point where
19:36I realized if I'm around people not even
19:39just like men in relationships but if
19:41I'm around people who require me to make
19:43all the decisions that's a reflection of
19:45me why am I surrounding myself with
19:47people who I don't trust to make good
19:49decisions why am I in relationships with
19:51men who I don't trust to make good
19:53decisions another thing that helped me
19:55to really rest in my femininity was
19:57embracing my vulnerability as women we
20:00are naturally just vulnerable we're
20:02naturally nurturing we're naturally
20:03caring we're naturally compassionate
20:05we're naturally just lovers if you are
20:07not those things there are probably
20:09things that have happened to you that
20:11have made you a little hard things have
20:13probably happened to you that have
20:14caused you to have a guard up something
20:17probably happened that caused you to
20:18feel like you can't trust a man or you
20:21can't really put your all into a
20:22relationship it happens to the best of
20:24us trust me but if you truly want to be
20:28a feminine being and if you really want
20:30to live in your feminine energy you have
20:33to embrace your vulnerability it's
20:35actually one of your strengths whether
20:37you want to believe it or not my ability
20:38to be vulnerable and caring and
20:40compassionate is my strength as a woman
20:43I don't have to see that as a weakness
20:45anymore at one point I felt like I had
20:46to have a guard up in order to protect
20:48myself from certain heartbreak or just
20:50certain traumatic experiences that have
20:52happened to me in my past but then I
20:54realize that if I keep recycling the
20:56same experiences over and over over and
20:58over and over again it's because I'm
21:00constantly dealing with the same type of
21:02man if I keep recycling my negative
21:04traumatic experiences it's because
21:06there's something that I'm not learning
21:08there's a lesson that I am not learning
21:09from all of these experiences every time
21:11you get in a new relationship or every
21:13time one relationship ends you should be
21:15going into the next one with tweaked
21:17preferences or tweaked standards
21:19something should change you shouldn't
21:20want the same exact thing that you
21:22wanted when you went into the last
21:23relationship so if you're walking into a
21:25better situation you shouldn't be more
21:27guarded you should actually be more
21:29vulnerable because now you're dealing
21:30with someone who checks off more of the
21:33boxes that you have on your list so
21:34embrace your vulnerability don't look at
21:36it as a weakness go into your situations
21:40being exactly who you are exactly who
21:42you are meant to be you're meant to be a
21:44nurturing caring loving being you're not
21:47meant to be hard you're not meant to
21:48have a guard up you're not meant to have
21:50a wall up you're not meant to not trust
21:52whoever you're with and I know a lot of
21:54the time we're scared to go into
21:55situations being our vulnerable selves
21:57because we're are scared to get hurt but
21:59if you don't allow yourself to go all in
22:02you will never know the full potential
22:04of that situation and you don't want to
22:06be the reason why it doesn't work if the
22:07other person doesn't do what they're
22:09supposed to do if they don't play that
22:10role the way they're supposed to then
22:12that's on them you can say you did
22:14everything that you could but just know
22:16that it is a strength to be vulnerable
22:18and to allow yourself to really love to
22:20your full capacity and that doesn't mean
22:22be dumb don't be dumb like I said learn
22:25the lessons from your previous
22:26experiences but don't go into anything
22:28expecting to get exactly what you want
22:30with a guard all the way up it's never
22:32going to work and there's no way for you
22:34to feel as feminine as you want to feel
22:37with a guard up fighting the world
22:38fighting everybody feeling like
22:40everybody is against you and lastly if
22:42you really want to be more feminine and
22:44just feel more womanly stop chasing and
22:47start attracting you should not be
22:49jumping through hoops to get anybody's
22:50attention I remember my therapist
22:52telling me a few years ago you don't
22:54have to do cartwheels for somebody to
22:55notice you just be you be there be in
22:58the room and that's all you need to do
23:00your presence should say enough for
23:02itself you don't have to do a whole lot
23:04especially to get a man if you've seen
23:05any of my recent videos and you already
23:07know my take on women approaching men me
23:11personally I'm not doing it because I
23:12feel like like my therapist said all I
23:15got to do is show up and you either
23:16coming over here or you're not I
23:18personally don't ever want to be in a
23:19situation where I want a man more than
23:20he wants me like it's a man's job to go
23:23after what he wants I believe in some
23:24generals I'm sorry and a man is going to
23:26have to come and get me I believe that I
23:28attract what I want the type of man that
23:30I want I attract him I don't have to go
23:32chasing him I D on show don't want no
23:34man that I got to chase at all learn to
23:36have magnetic energy as a woman believe
23:38that the things you want not even just
23:40relationships but the things that you
23:41want in life believe that they come to
23:43you yes you do have to put in some work
23:45sometimes but for the most part we are
23:48magnetic beings like one thing that I
23:50learned in business that I feel like
23:52applies to a lot of things in life is
23:54that you have to know your target
23:55audience you are not for every everyone
23:58you are not for everything everything is
24:00not supposed to be in your life everyone
24:02is not supposed to be in your life so
24:03you have to know what you want know
24:05exactly what you're trying to attract so
24:07that you can do the necessary things to
24:09attract those things and those people
24:11because the things that are really meant
24:12for you you don't have to go chasing
24:14they'll come to you I hope youall
24:15enjoyed this video it's been a long time
24:17coming I've been wanting to talk about
24:18this for a really really long time and
24:20there were actually a few things that I
24:21left out I just didn't want this video
24:22to be like 2 hours long so let me know
24:24if y'all want a part two if you have any
24:26tips that you would like to share with
24:27us feel free to leave that down below in
24:29the comments make sure you like comment
24:30and subscribe and I will see you on the
24:32next video
24:35bye to
24:37me I'm just hoping don't
24:41be beat
24:43[Music]
24:46hisory

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