“How’s Parker? How are the kids?” | My final answer — Transcript

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1. 0:04how's
2. 0:05Parker how are the
3. 0:09kids what is the relationship with
4. 0:11Parker and his mother what is the
5. 0:13relationship with the other kids and
6. 0:15their
7. 0:16mother this is my final
8. 0:20answer Parker is
9. 0:22fine the kids are
10. 0:25fine
11. 0:26and my children's relationship with
12. 0:29their mother
13. 0:31or anyone else for that
14. 0:32matter is
15. 0:36private I've answered this question for
16. 0:3911 years
17. 0:41now and I'm not mad at anybody
18. 0:44especially if you're new to our story
19. 0:47some people think
20. 0:48that our story is brand new the Parker
21. 0:51movie started 11 years
22. 0:55ago but uh
23. 1:00I can't say anything
24. 1:02else other than what I've already said
25. 1:04as far as how's Parker how the
26. 1:08kids it's not my place to
27. 1:19say this is uh this has been
28. 1:22tough and I'm not going to lie I'm not
29. 1:26doing real good right
30. 1:27now not complaining
31. 1:30just saying how it
32. 1:32is I'm broke I don't know that the I
33. 1:35made the right decision all those years
34. 1:38ago to go public with our
35. 1:45story hasn't been a fun road cuz again
36. 1:48I'm
37. 1:49broke I don't want to be broken but I'm
38. 1:55broke I've had opportunities lots of
39. 1:58opportunities to take money
40. 2:00to give the inside scoop on my children
41. 2:04and their relationship with their mother
42. 2:06and I've turned them all
43. 2:08down believe me I'd love to have the
44. 2:11money it's not my
45. 2:16place I've been accused since D near day
46. 2:19one of you're only doing this to make
47. 2:22money off your children you're
48. 2:23exploiting your
49. 2:25children some people believe me when I
50. 2:27say that's [ __ ] and some don't
51. 2:30seems like most people do but there's a
52. 2:32lot of people that don't believe me at
53. 2:33all I can't say that I blame people for
54. 2:37having
55. 2:38doubts I've been wrong about people I've
56. 2:41followed stories like everybody
57. 2:44else come to find out sometimes I was
58. 2:47right some going to find out sometimes I
59. 2:49was
60. 2:53wrong but
61. 2:58uh I guess
62. 3:00all I know to tell the the haters and
63. 3:02the reason I'm saying this because here
64. 3:05lately I've been off of social media a
65. 3:08lot quite a bit particularly this
66. 3:11Channel people have always asked me
67. 3:13how's Parker out the kids and now people
68. 3:15are asking me why are you dodging the
69. 3:17question hm why are you what are you
70. 3:20hiding
71. 3:21Caleb well I'm hiding a lot I'm hiding
72. 3:24my kids' privacy it's no one's business
73. 3:27unless my children want to make it
74. 3:29someone business and go public it's not
75. 3:32my
76. 3:33place again I know what the scoop is I
77. 3:36know what's going on but I'm not going
78. 3:38to talk about
79. 3:40it if you want to someone really wants
80. 3:42to find out the scoop go ask my
81. 3:49children but good luck ask yourself
82. 3:53this if that was you and your dad
83. 3:56exposed the to the whole world what was
84. 3:59going on would you you want to talk
85. 4:00about it would you just give up
86. 4:02willingly give up that
87. 4:04information I doubt
88. 4:07it I don't know what it's like firsthand
89. 4:10for my kids
90. 4:12to going through what they're going
91. 4:14through but I know what it's like going
92. 4:16through on my
93. 4:18end but ask yourself would you want to
94. 4:21talk about it ask yourself this at what
95. 4:24price would you eventually talk about it
96. 4:30again I've been offered not Millions but
97. 4:32I've been offered thousands lots of
98. 4:34times to talk about it I can talk about
99. 4:39me but I'm just not going to talk about
100. 4:41my kids and believe me as broke as I am
101. 4:44now because of my choice all those years
102. 4:47ago I'd love to take the money I could
103. 4:51use it right
104. 4:52now but but I never I never was in this
105. 4:55for the
106. 4:56money believe me I've had a business
107. 5:00my business peaked in
108. 5:022006 the final year of my marriage to
109. 5:05their mother I grossed
110. 5:081.2 something million dollars as a
111. 5:11Caterpillar diesel engine field service
112. 5:13mechanic servicing drilling rigs in the
113. 5:15west Texas
114. 5:18oilfield I can't go back to that for one
115. 5:21I'm too old I'm
116. 5:2347 I can't physically stand the the
117. 5:26demands and the pressure and two I know
118. 5:29this excuse is played out and Way
119. 5:32overused by so many people who fake it
120. 5:36but I have PTSD from West Texas from all
121. 5:40of Texas to be quite honest I hate that
122. 5:44place I resent what they did to my
123. 5:46children I resent what they did to
124. 5:51me I'm not again I'm not sure that I did
125. 5:55the right
126. 5:58thing I did the the best I could with
127. 6:00what I had to work with it the
128. 6:01information I had at the
129. 6:05time it is what it is it's out there and
130. 6:09I'm suffering because of
131. 6:12it again I'm not asking for sympathy
132. 6:15just stating a
133. 6:18fact I don't know what to tell people
134. 6:21that find themselves in our
135. 6:24shoes I you do have my sympathy but
136. 6:27there's nothing I can do about it
137. 6:32I documented what was happening to
138. 6:35us in hopes that at the time garnering
139. 6:39sympathy to expose the Crooked family
140. 6:44courts but now I just keep going because
141. 6:47yeah um I make money off this channel
142. 6:50that's all I got
143. 6:52left and it's not
144. 6:54much people look at the Parker movie W
145. 6:56that's got 50 million views you must be
146. 6:58a millionaire
147. 7:00Fat
148. 7:03Chance not even
149. 7:09close my hopes with this channel is the
150. 7:12best I can hope for at this
151. 7:16point is to help young people
152. 7:20particularly young men because I know
153. 7:21what it's like to be a young man I don't
154. 7:24know what it's like to be a young
155. 7:26woman particularly I hope to
156. 7:30help young men not repeat the same
157. 7:32mistakes that I've made because
158. 7:34ultimately there's really no way out of
159. 7:36it except just ride it out and it
160. 7:42sucks I've been riding it out since I
161. 7:44got divorc 17 years
162. 7:50ago finally got all the dollars settled
163. 7:53with the state I still owe
164. 7:56$46,000 or something they're still after
165. 7:59me they still they'll never let up they
166. 8:01never
167. 8:02stop
168. 8:05again I I know I get criticized for my
169. 8:08choices but I say this my rebuttal is
170. 8:11what would you do let's steal all four
171. 8:15of your children and let's steal your
172. 8:17bank
173. 8:18accounts and let's steal your house and
174. 8:21let's let your M kids move 5 hours away
175. 8:25and let's see how well you keep your
176. 8:27business up
177. 8:30I screwed up 27 years ago when I decided
178. 8:35that I wanted to marry that woman and
179. 8:37make four kids with their I screwed
180. 8:40up that was a devastating blow that was
181. 8:43a devastating mistake for me to
182. 8:46make I screwed up
183. 8:50again in
184. 8:532013 when Parker was taken from me I
185. 8:57screwed up again by turning to alcohol
186. 9:00to solve my
187. 9:02problems I own
188. 9:04it I screwed up bad I I I regret it I
189. 9:08shouldn't have done
190. 9:09it I guess that's another reason I like
191. 9:11to keep my channel
192. 9:13up I'm in decent shape for my
193. 9:19age I'm in great shape for my
194. 9:22age but I almost
195. 9:24died it was bad there for a while
196. 9:27towards the very end and and another
197. 9:29comment I get is well Caleb I'm glad for
198. 9:32your to hear about your sobriety in fact
199. 9:35today's the
200. 9:3719th 2 days from now it be four years
201. 9:40I've been sober but people say a lot I'm
202. 9:43real glad about your Spidy but that only
203. 9:45proves that you're an alcoholic during
204. 9:47the Parker movie no I wasn't I drank
205. 9:50occasionally like most of
206. 9:54America does that make me an alcoholic
207. 9:56cuz if it does that makes everybody
208. 9:57drinks an alcoholic I didn't become an
209. 10:00alcoholic a full-blown dedicated
210. 10:03alcoholic till two and a half months
211. 10:05later when Parker was taken from
212. 10:07me that's when I became an
213. 10:12alcoholic and I shouldn't have done it
214. 10:15and I have to live with
215. 10:19that my only hope
216. 10:21is to show people who have made already
217. 10:24made that mistake and become alcoholic
218. 10:26you better quit now cuz you won't make
219. 10:28it if you had notice look around people
220. 10:31are dropping like
221. 10:32flies you better get yourself together
222. 10:34and you can do
223. 10:37it I'm still broke that's the one leg
224. 10:40that I haven't managed to overcome yet
225. 10:42I've got
226. 10:43[Music]
227. 10:44my embarrassingly low investment into
228. 10:47the crypto market right now which is
229. 10:49awful I live in a $3,000 junky little
230. 10:53basically a lean
231. 10:55to here in South Florida where the rents
232. 10:58400 a month and I can just barely make
233. 11:00it half the
234. 11:05time but I'm trying to show people who
235. 11:08have already become alcoholics and
236. 11:10they're already in the mess that they
237. 11:12find you know half that's how most
238. 11:14people find my channel looking for
239. 11:18answers you can do it you can
240. 11:21quit you can get your body in
241. 11:26shape I'm still working on my spiritual
242. 11:30mind I am a Christian I was an agnostic
243. 11:33for a long time for 10
244. 11:48years but I genuinely hope to be able to
245. 11:50prove to others that you can make it
246. 11:53financially eventually I'd really like
247. 11:55to be able to prove that up I don't know
248. 11:56if I can or not cuz again this is tough
249. 12:05and for the critics who say just go get
250. 12:07a job I owe so much money and back child
251. 12:11support and now back taxes because
252. 12:15of just barely being able to survive
253. 12:18getting through this with my kids
254. 12:20knowing
255. 12:21me I'm not qualified to do anything but
256. 12:24be a field mechanic and I'm too old to
257. 12:26be a field mechanic I could probably do
258. 12:28it but
259. 12:29to be real honest with you I'm old and
260. 12:32I'm
261. 12:34tired and I I just mentally I can't do
262. 12:38it so that leaves me to be at age 47 I'm
263. 12:42qualified for basically minimum
264. 12:46wage minimum wage working for someone
265. 12:49half my
266. 12:51age taxes taken
267. 12:54out and this
268. 12:57economy paying rent
269. 12:59cuz I'm not going to find in this little
270. 13:01town I'd have to
271. 13:03move by the time taxes and rent and cost
272. 13:06of living and child support and back
273. 13:09child support all gets taken out I
274. 13:11basically be breaking
275. 13:13even and to be quite honest with you
276. 13:16that just doesn't interest me anymore I
277. 13:19used to be that guy that could just go
278. 13:20work and work and work and work some
279. 13:23would argue maybe that's why you got
280. 13:24divorced cuz you work too much maybe
281. 13:26you're
282. 13:27right I picked the wrong woman and
283. 13:31then I work too
284. 13:35much damned if you do damned if you
285. 13:38don't you don't work enough you don't
286. 13:40you don't care about your
287. 13:42family you work too much you don't care
288. 13:44about your family you bring in plenty of
289. 13:47money she's lonely and miserable and she
290. 13:51takes you and gets a divorce cuz she's
291. 13:52got a she deserves it cuz she's a woman
292. 13:59don't make enough money you're a lazy
293. 14:01bum can't provide for your own family
294. 14:04it's lose lose for
295. 14:09men there's a reason the birth rates
296. 14:13going
297. 14:14down
298. 14:16and I've been pointing it out for years
299. 14:19but uh mainstream and even high-end
300. 14:23alternative media they acknowledge that
301. 14:26the birth rate's going down they
302. 14:27acknowledge that men aren't getting
303. 14:29getting
304. 14:29married they think they have covered why
305. 14:33they're not getting
306. 14:36married but the real reason they are not
307. 14:38getting married is because women are
308. 14:41financially incentivized to get
309. 14:44divorced that's the real reason and it's
310. 14:46through title for defunded family
311. 14:51courts Matt Walsh he tries but he'll
312. 14:55never acknowledge
313. 14:57it there's there's a few others I don't
314. 14:59know I'm going to go and name their
315. 15:01names but they'll never acknowledge that
316. 15:03it's the title for defunded family
317. 15:05courts that incentivizes women to get no
318. 15:09fault divorce they don't have to prove
319. 15:11anything they don't have to prove
320. 15:12infidelity they don't have to really
321. 15:14prove anything
322. 15:15just neglect or
323. 15:21abuse so young men I'm telling you stop
324. 15:26chasing women
325. 15:29get jacked focus on
326. 15:32yourself get
327. 15:35ripped read
328. 15:37books watch
329. 15:39documentaries educate yourself CU I have
330. 15:41learned this if you are rich and ripped
331. 15:45and educated you are far more hard to
332. 15:49[ __ ]
333. 15:50with women are hypergamous that's just
334. 15:54their
335. 15:55nature their nature is to seek security
336. 15:59for the benefit of them and that's not
337. 16:02even necessarily a bad thing it's nature
338. 16:04for them that's not need criticizing
339. 16:07that's what they're supposed to
340. 16:09do and some of the red pillar might say
341. 16:11wow Caleb I can't believe you'd say that
342. 16:13I liked you all until then well I would
343. 16:16never in a million years tell my
344. 16:18daughter London whatever you
345. 16:21do make sure you find a broke fat guy
346. 16:25who couldn't fight his way out of a
347. 16:27paperback and that's who you should
348. 16:28marry
349. 16:29I'd never tell you that tell my daughter
350. 16:31that I wouldn't expect any father to I'd
351. 16:33expect fathers to say find yourself a
352. 16:35man who's a man's man and he may be
353. 16:38flawed and make mistakes but he's a
354. 16:41fighter and he's a provider that's who a
355. 16:44reasonable father would tell their their
356. 16:46daughters to
357. 16:48find generally speaking when you're a
358. 16:50young man you make him fight you're not
359. 16:53going to be a provider cuz you're young
360. 16:54and that's not a slam towards you if
361. 16:55you're young and broke especially in
362. 16:57this economy
363. 17:02young men wait until you're 30 32 35
364. 17:06maybe even
365. 17:0740 get yourself
366. 17:10established they will come to you women
367. 17:14don't care
368. 17:15about your struggle to get there they
369. 17:18care about who crosses the Finish Line
370. 17:22That's who they want
371. 17:25ultimately it's just how it is some
372. 17:27women May be a little more headstrong
373. 17:30and see that the family has
374. 17:33money they'll stick with you long enough
375. 17:36to either you make it or you get your
376. 17:39family
377. 17:40money but women are hypergamous they
378. 17:43wait until the man cross the pish line
379. 17:45other than that they don't
380. 17:47care they care about security as they
381. 17:53should which is why again I tell young
382. 17:56men focus on yourself don't focus on
383. 18:00these young
384. 18:02girls you may be a good fling for a
385. 18:05night or two or couple months but they
386. 18:09don't care about you because you're poor
387. 18:10you're
388. 18:13broke all men in my opinion should wait
389. 18:17until they are
390. 18:19financially
391. 18:22stable even if it takes you to your
392. 18:2640 men can be 40 50 60 70 years old and
393. 18:30still start a family women simply
394. 18:35cannot their most fertile years are
395. 18:38obviously in their early to mid
396. 18:4120s again this isn't a slam towards
397. 18:44women it's just that's just
398. 18:46biology not even trying to make this
399. 18:49political having not been a woman I
400. 18:53don't really obviously don't have
401. 18:56experience or the know how to really
402. 18:58have recommendation
403. 19:00for what to tell when I'm as far as
404. 19:02giving advice I can give it from a man's
405. 19:05perspective as a father of a
406. 19:08daughter
407. 19:10um if I were you i' i' I'd take care of
408. 19:13myself don't sleep
409. 19:16around save yourself make
410. 19:19yourself the best version of you you can
411. 19:22make and if you are wanting a
412. 19:26family you might want to get that
413. 19:28started in your 20s and I wouldn't go
414. 19:31for a man your age young ladies find a
415. 19:35guy in his
416. 19:3730s that doesn't have
417. 19:41baggage you don't want to find yourself
418. 19:43someone like I was in my
419. 19:4630s me getting remarried shortly after
420. 19:49getting divorced that was the dumbest
421. 19:51thing I've done since I got married the
422. 19:53first
423. 19:55time find yourself a man that's got a
424. 19:58[ __ ]
425. 19:59together that's maybe had a relationship
426. 20:02or
427. 20:03two doesn't have a bunch of kids
428. 20:05especially kids with a bunch of
429. 20:07different women in and out of Child
430. 20:09Support
431. 20:10Court find yourself a man that's in
432. 20:13shape cuz that just pretty much
433. 20:14automatically assumes he's not an
434. 20:18alcoholic again as far
435. 20:21as how the
436. 20:23kids house Parker what's their
437. 20:26relationship with their mother they're
438. 20:27fine they're 19 21 23 and 25 they're
439. 20:33grown adults they've got their problems
440. 20:35they've got their
441. 20:36successes it's not my place to talk
442. 20:38about where they are and what they're
443. 20:41doing other than having to find some way
444. 20:45to pay off their
445. 20:47mother yeah other than I have to pay her
446. 20:51$46,000 and some change I don't know how
447. 20:53I'm going to do it but that's where I'm
448. 20:56at
449. 20:58if somebody really wants to find out how
450. 21:01Parker is how his relationship with his
451. 21:04mother ask
452. 21:06Parker ask him I don't know what to tell
453. 21:12you he's probably if you can even find
454. 21:14him he's probably going to tell you to
455. 21:15go jump in the
456. 21:20creek if someone offered him $5
457. 21:24million I would imagine he'd tell you
458. 21:27cuz again
459. 21:29put yourself in my kids shoes would you
460. 21:31want to talk about
461. 21:32it knowing that your mother's
462. 21:35attitude and her selfish behaviors is
463. 21:38all over the Internet probably not well
464. 21:41Caleb why don't you take it down
465. 21:47well the reason I don't take it down is
466. 21:51I'm still pissed about the whole
467. 21:53thing that is my only Lifeline at the
468. 21:56moment that is my only income at the
469. 21:59moment other than my
470. 22:02investments even if I did take it down
471. 22:05my content has been downloaded
472. 22:08re-uploaded dozens hundreds possibly a
473. 22:10thousand times by other people I dare
474. 22:13say the people that have covered my
475. 22:15videos may have made a lot more off it
476. 22:18off of it than me if I take it down the
477. 22:21void will get filled somebody's going to
478. 22:23make the money I don't never see people
479. 22:25griping at the those people all the
480. 22:27ticktockers and other YouTub YouTubers
481. 22:28and instagrammers and whatever I don't
482. 22:31see anybody yelling at them about
483. 22:32covering it they only I'm the only one
484. 22:34that gets yelled
485. 22:39at yeah I'm not going to take it down
486. 22:41because at the moment that's my only
487. 22:42source of
488. 22:44income I feel cheated I feel
489. 22:47betrayed and I'm going to keep it up I
490. 22:49mean the damage is
491. 22:52done there's no there's no going back
492. 22:54the internet is
493. 22:56forever all the more reason why I'm not
494. 22:59going to talk about how my kids are now
495. 23:01other than say they're fine I'm not
496. 23:02going to talk about their relationship
497. 23:04with their mother if they want to talk
498. 23:06about it they can talk about it if you
499. 23:09want to go find Parker and his brothers
500. 23:11and sister and pay him five 10 million
501. 23:13bucks to get the
502. 23:15story if Parker would have come to me
503. 23:17and say hey Dad what would you do I'd
504. 23:19say hell yeah take the money son might
505. 23:22as well it's a dog eat dog
506. 23:24world but again that's up to him and
507. 23:27again I've been off offered not Millions
508. 23:29but I haven't offered thousands lots of
509. 23:32times and believe me I'm broke I could
510. 23:35use the
511. 23:36money but I'm not going to sell my kids
512. 23:39out that was never the intention in the
513. 23:41first
514. 23:44place I just got tired
515. 23:46of the whole town at the time Odessa
516. 23:51Texas her convincing everyone I was just
517. 23:53piece of crap father didn't give a crap
518. 23:55about his kids that was some monster I
519. 23:57got sick of it I finally Pro that it was
520. 24:01untrue
521. 24:02so get mad at me all you want for not
522. 24:06talking about it cuz that's a criticism
523. 24:09I get is
524. 24:11well you uploaded all that in the big in
525. 24:14the first
526. 24:16place again maybe I screwed up maybe I
527. 24:19maybe I shouldn't have done it I don't
528. 24:22know but that doesn't mean that I owe
529. 24:24everyone an
530. 24:27explanation if I wanted to just milk
531. 24:29this for all it's worth I'd be like
532. 24:31every other overly dramatic YouTube
533. 24:34channel and be talking about every
534. 24:37little thing that's never was what this
535. 24:40channel was about ever I can talk about
536. 24:44me and believe me it's not flattering to
537. 24:48talk about yourself here it is 27 years
538. 24:51after meeting here 17 years after
539. 24:52divorcing her walking by myself out here
540. 24:57in South Florida
541. 24:59being
542. 25:03broke again my channels I've said it I'm
543. 25:06public about it my channel is my only
544. 25:08source of income at the
545. 25:12moment I could be like every other
546. 25:16pathetic YouTuber out there that simply
547. 25:21sells their souls for
548. 25:25money that's just that never has been
549. 25:28what I was about I wanted her to stop
550. 25:31suing me I wanted her to stop jailing my
551. 25:35kids I wanted her to stop taking my kids
552. 25:385 and 1 half hours away to San
553. 25:42Antonio cuz that was
554. 25:46tough I had to shut down my whole life
555. 25:49and lose everything just to be a father
556. 25:52of my children
557. 25:58that's what I don't understand about a
558. 26:00lot of my critics they grp at
559. 26:03me for uploading all of that
560. 26:07stuff 11 years ago with Parker and eight
561. 26:12years 7 eight years ago with
562. 26:14bla they grap at me for uploading and
563. 26:17now they grp because I'm hiding
564. 26:22something it just seems to me like some
565. 26:25people are just going to gripe
566. 26:28I don't know what to tell
567. 26:31you so I guess what it boils down to is
568. 26:35I don't know what the answer is how to
569. 26:37survive what y'all are going
570. 26:41through I guess I'm a good example of
571. 26:43what not to
572. 26:48do cuz I I don't know that it was worth
573. 26:52it I don't regret being there for my
574. 26:55children
575. 27:00but only thing I know to do is just keep
576. 27:04going I'm in it this
577. 27:06deep so I guess I'll uh
578. 27:10be giving my walks on this Trail for the
579. 27:14time being
580. 27:16until Bitcoin decides to do whatever
581. 27:19it's going to do crash to nothing or go
582. 27:23to the Moon I have no
583. 27:26idea so
584. 27:33I don't know give me your give me your
585. 27:35ideas if this is something you
586. 27:39enjoy hearing someone with my strange
587. 27:42ass
588. 27:44experience let me know what you'd like
589. 27:48to discuss or like for me to discuss
590. 27:50from my point of
591. 27:51view middleaged single father broke off
592. 27:55his ass relying on YouTube and descript
593. 27:59Investments you say it out loud it
594. 28:01sounds like just too many Christmas
595. 28:03sounds
596. 28:05pathetic I wouldn't wish this on
597. 28:09anyone best thing I know to do is to not
598. 28:12find yourself in this position in the
599. 28:14first place
600. 28:15just
601. 28:18until Society improves until the family
602. 28:21courts decide
603. 28:23to change the rules and change the laws
604. 28:26that aren't so devastating to men
605. 28:30stay single
606. 28:32man if you do get married wait till
607. 28:35you're
608. 28:36established make sure you get a
609. 28:38prenuptial agreement make sure she knows
610. 28:40it up front she steps out of line all
611. 28:44right you're on your own
612. 28:47chick make sure she can't take
613. 28:49everything cuz they say she takes half
614. 28:51which she
615. 28:52does but usually or lots of times it
616. 28:55winds up being everything
617. 28:58I mean ask anybody that's in business if
618. 29:01suddenly they yanked out half of their
619. 29:05everything their net worth their
620. 29:06customer base their income everything
621. 29:09could they survive the vast majority of
622. 29:11them would tell you
623. 29:14no enjoy your day