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0:00You guys obviously know what this video
0:01is about. It's in my freaking title and
0:04everything. I got engaged last year on
0:0617th October. My partner and I are only
0:0922 years old. We wanted to get married
0:11because we were together for at that
0:12point it was 6 years. Now we're together
0:14for seven. We were together for 7 years.
0:16He's still finishing year three. He
0:18doesn't have a full-time job, no
0:19license, no army. And don't get me
0:21wrong, I was okay with all that. In
0:22fact, I told him not to worry about it
0:24because we were still young. We were
0:26like only 22. I saw a lot of potential
0:28in like our future. At that point in
0:29time, he treats me really well, like a
0:32queen, bro. He treats me like a freaking
0:34queen.
0:36And he cared for me really well as well.
0:38We had three major breakups during our
0:40seven years, 2020, 2022, and then last
0:43year when he asked to break up. I'm at a
0:45stage whereby we have planned I have
0:47planned 100% of the wedding. We have
0:50paid deposit for all our wedding
0:52vendors.
0:55And by the way, I'm still recovering
0:56from my jaw surgery. So if my jaw is
0:57like a bit, you know, weirdly shaped is
1:00because of that it still swelled that we
1:02literally wanted to video for the June
1:042026 video. I'm going to tell you guys
1:06the story in chronological order, not by
1:08which period of time each incident
1:10occurred. And I made a script so that I
1:13can have the full like evidence to show
1:15you guys and like not forget anything.
1:18This might be a bit jaggy to some of
1:20youall, but like it's very important
1:21that you guys know the context of what
1:24happened and what led me to finding out
1:26about this. On 2nd May 2026,
1:29that's where it started. My fiance
1:32wanted to have a boys night with his
1:33friends at the club. Before this,
1:34everything was good between us. It was
1:36like a very healthy relationship in my
1:38opinion. He did ask me four to five days
1:40before if he could go and then like I
1:44agreed. But on the date itself, I don't
1:46know why I was very emotional. I lashed
1:48out at him for going without me because
1:50like I could go but he like don't want
1:51me to come and like when I go club I
1:54will ask him I'll always ask him if he
1:55want to go with me. He always say no but
1:57I get it was like boys night and all. So
1:59maybe that's why he didn't ask me but
2:00that's not important. I cash out on the
2:02day on text. I said like a lot of
2:05hurtful stuff. So I forwarded what my
2:07friend said.
2:09She said it as a joke but she said
2:11divorce that red flag and then I forward
2:13it to my private Telegram channel. 2
2:14days later I got my period. So like you
2:16know I was literally having PMS. We all
2:17know that your PMS comes like a few days
2:19before your period. And I was like, "Oh,
2:20so that's why I was acting a bit crazy,
2:21but actually it was feminine intuition."
2:24Anyways, we really consult after my
2:25crash out. And then 2 weeks later, from
2:282nd May onwards, he started being very
2:32cold towards me. Like within the two
2:34weeks from the second June, he started
2:35being very very cold towards me. He told
2:37me that it was because he was really
2:38busy with good projects and school work.
2:40That's why he was like treating me like
2:42that. He was he was doing he was having
2:43a lot of good projects like um dude but
2:46it didn't explain his behavior towards
2:48me because I'm like why are you treating
2:50me like that just cuz you're busy? Then
2:51in the future if you're busy how like
2:53I'm busy but if I'm busy I'm always busy
2:55but I don't treat him like that. And I
2:56think it was either on 16 17th May when
2:58I stayed over at his house. I question
3:00him. I kept questioning him until he
3:01told me the truth. He was acting cold
3:04cuz he couldn't get over what I
3:05forwarded
3:07voice that reflect what my friend um
3:09sent me that I forward to my private
3:10telegram channel. like he couldn't get
3:12over the fact and then he also say like
3:14like you don't understand why I crash
3:15out that day and like how I was too
3:18emotionally dependent on him. I
3:20apologized very very sincerely cuz I
3:22knew it was my fault and I asked him if
3:24he needed some space to cuz he was
3:28acting super cold towards me like as if
3:30he didn't want me there at all and at
3:32that point like I would usually stay
3:33over almost every night at his house. He
3:35said, "Yeah, he wants like to try the
3:37break." And then I said that during the
3:40break we should communicate with each
3:41other. It shouldn't be like a break
3:42where you know we break then we a lot of
3:44people a lot of couples they break then
3:46they break up. But I said if you want a
3:48break this has to be like cuz we are
3:49literally engaged. I want you to like
3:51communicate with me and tell me you know
3:54like talk to me just maybe not meeting
3:56up long. I just told him to tell me when
3:58he's ready to like end the break and I
4:00assume it will be about a week. During
4:01this one week, right, I reflected so
4:03much about like my actions and my crash
4:06out on second May. I met up my friends
4:07to spend time with them. Now that I go
4:10cycling, usually I only meet my friends
4:12like once a month. So now I was like
4:14meeting my friends a lot because I was
4:16like thinking maybe I do rely too emot
4:18I'm too emotionally dependent on him. We
4:20spend almost every day together.
4:22We spend pretty much every day together.
4:23And I told my friend about the comment
4:25that she made. I was like maybe um cuz I
4:27apologized to him really so much. He
4:29couldn't get over. I was thinking if my
4:31friend apologized to me for making that
4:32text then maybe he could like
4:35try and like overcome this. So I sent
4:39this to my friend and I also sent him
4:42and he thumbs up the message on 23rd
4:44May. He told me that he was
4:46reconsidering our engagement because of
4:49what happened the crash out and the
4:50text. He cannot get over that text. I
4:53was like spiraling cuz I was like freak
4:54I freaking effed up with the crashing
4:56with the crash out on that day on that
4:58day and you know so I asked him to call
5:01me I was like can you please give me two
5:04weeks 3 weeks can you please give me 3
5:06weeks to try and change your mind about
5:07ending the engagement
5:10he told me that he'll give me two weeks
5:11instead of 3 weeks this man that I had
5:13from 23rd May until 6th June to try and
5:16convince him not to end our engagement
5:18over that crash and the forward text I
5:20want to remind everybody that the crash
5:22is on text. Okay. Not physically,
5:26not like crazy crazy, you know. So, I
5:28was like like I need to fix it. You
5:30know, my saying my friend wasn't enough.
5:31Apologizing wasn't enough. Trying to
5:34like change wasn't enough. So, during
5:36this one week, I made a boo basket for
5:38him. Contain stuff I knew that he
5:39needed. I baked his favorite treats,
5:42cookies and honey conflicts. I made an
5:45envelope with coupons, weekend tickets,
5:47an apology letter I wrote for my heart
5:49because at this point it was like really
5:50reflecting on my actions. And I was
5:52like, even though I didn't think that
5:54the crash shot was worth ending a
5:56freaking sevenyear relationship and an
5:58engagement with everything planned
5:59really, I didn't think it was worth
6:00ending, but I wanted to see things from
6:02his perspective. So, I wanted to prove
6:04to him that I can change, I guess, and
6:06not cash out like that again. And that I
6:08was going to be less emotionally
6:10dependent on him. In 28th May, I went
6:12over to his house to pass him the
6:14basket. I was supposed to sleep over at
6:16his house. I didn't sleep over for like
6:172 weeks, 3 weeks already. But I was so
6:19excited to
6:22meet him after so long and he took me so
6:25last minute. He didn't want me to stay
6:27over. But either ways, I respected his
6:29decision because I don't want to push
6:30him and I just gave him the blue basket
6:33and then I read the apology letter to
6:35him. Then we spent some time and then I
6:37went home. On 31st May, I brought him to
6:39like Bhouse Spa to spend some time with
6:41me and then we ate dinner. Keep in mind
6:43I only have two weeks to try and change
6:44his mind and like make him want to
6:47continue our engagement. He also just
6:49started his internship. So he would
6:51avoid meeting me by telling me he was
6:53sick and then it's very easy to it's
6:55like such an easy excuse because I
6:57wouldn't want to get sick, right? So I
6:58wouldn't meet him and he's like he can
6:59it gives him like 3 to 4 days of like
7:01not meeting me. So remember the fact
7:02that he tell me he was sick during this
7:05week.
7:06The next time we met was on Sunday 7th
7:08June to watch back rooms. We had dinner
7:10and we decided that he was going to tell
7:12me about his decision on 10 June. But I
7:15wanted to see how he was feeling anyway
7:17cuz it was only 3 days away from 10
7:18June. During these two weeks, I was only
7:20able to meet him like three times to
7:22spend time with him and you know correct
7:25my mistakes. But I didn't push because I
7:27wanted to give him the space that he
7:28needed to think about it. I asked him
7:31which decision are you swaying towards
7:32too? He was like it's still swaying
7:34heavily towards ending the engagement.
7:37Well, when I hear that, well, I I want
7:38to cry. But I was in the restaurant, so
7:40I didn't say [ __ ] And we had an hour
7:41before the movie start. So, I keep
7:42talking. I thought very unfair. You tell
7:44me you gave me two weeks, then you only
7:45made me three times. You didn't let me
7:47like stay over at your house at all. We
7:51didn't even text. I just we just good
7:52morning, good night. Because I wanted to
7:54respect his face. I thought he needed
7:55the space to he was hanging out with his
7:56friends more than like being alone to
7:58reflect on like the relationship whether
8:00he really wants to end. So, I asked him,
8:01can you like don't tell me sh you want
8:02to end engagement? Can you like tell me
8:03if you want to like try for 2 weeks?
8:05Because in my mind it's like really
8:06because of that crush. I cannot I cannot
8:08accept the fact that he wanted to end
8:09because of that crash out. If he told me
8:11it was like you know something else then
8:15okay okay but you telling me you want to
8:17end the engagement over one crash out
8:19and one bloody forwarded t it doesn't
8:21make any sense. So I told him on 10 can
8:22you tell me if you want to try for
8:24another like two weeks and then this
8:25time these two weeks you actually put
8:26effort into a relationship instead of
8:28like ending it straight away. Then now I
8:30had to wait until 10 June whether he
8:31want to end the engagement or want to
8:33try my [clears throat] method of
8:34continuing for 2 weeks. and then him
8:35trying in the process too. I was very
8:37desperate to a point where I was texting
8:39his best friend and I we together for
8:41six, seven years, right? I've never once
8:43texted any of his friends to help me. I
8:45texted his friend. My fianceé told me he
8:48couldn't get over the text because of
8:49the fact that in his eyes I wasn't
8:52taking the engagement seriously. That's
8:53what he told me. I told him like how am
8:56I not taking it seriously? You seen
8:57everything that I'm doing to try and
8:59make up for that mistake that I did for
9:01that mistake for the crash for
9:02forwarding what my friend said and then
9:04you are the one wanting to end the
9:05engagement. Who's the one not taking the
9:07engagement seriously? I texted his
9:09friend hoping that he could talk some
9:11sense into my fianceé. Fast forward to
9:13Tenjun. I was shaking my boots. I
9:15couldn't eat because I was so nervous
9:16and like I went over his house to stay
9:18over on tenjun. Then he when we talked,
9:21he agreed. He agreed that he took too
9:23much advantage of the space that I gave
9:25and he agreed that it wasn't fair for
9:26me. So he told me that he want to try
9:28for 2 weeks. He talked to his friends
9:29and he like agreed that it wasn't fair
9:32for me. But he told me that he don't
9:34guarantee me that within like after two
9:35weeks he will still want to continue the
9:36engagement. I was still very happy
9:38because I felt like he gave me another
9:39chance. So we had a good conversation
9:40during dinner and honestly the past I
9:42was like very out with what he was doing
9:45like why are you behaving like this like
9:47it's not that deep. It I don't think it
9:49was ever that deep and I was right. So I
9:53stayed over on 10 to 11th June. The next
9:57day on 11th June,
10:01he went off to work first cuz his intern
10:02starts, you know, his intern started. So
10:04I was in his room alone. His iPad was
10:06there. I went to like snoop on his iPad
10:09because I don't know feminine intuition.
10:12I found this note that he wrote
10:14yesterday
10:16and he take a photo of it.
10:20Huh? My heart sank when I read this. I'm
10:23going to give you some context on this
10:25girl. Let's call her PN. This girl is
10:28his classmate in Poly. Last year I
10:30repeatedly told him I don't want him to
10:32talk to her because I knew for a fact
10:34that she homeed one of his classmates
10:36relationship. The point where guy's
10:39girlfriend ask him to ask him to choose
10:40between her or P. What? Hey sister, have
10:44some self respect for yourself. Why you
10:46asking another guy to ch anyways? I
10:48didn't I didn't like the vibes family in
10:51intuition. You know, I told him not to
10:52talk to her. Last year on 27th August
10:542025, I found out that he had been
10:56calling her on this call almost every
10:57night for the past like 2 to 3 months.
11:00He would lie to me that he was sleeping
11:03and then calling her afterwards.
11:07That was a period of time when he asked
11:08me to break up. And actually during
11:10these six years together, he had never
11:11once brought breakup to me. Only when we
11:14got back together, after we got back
11:16together, then I found out about the
11:18Discord calls. He told me that he was
11:20calling purely to do school project
11:22because they were like grouped together.
11:23He said that he don't have a choice of
11:26choosing his own teammates and him and
11:29the girl was just all in a lot of group
11:31projects together and their groupmates
11:32do not do any work. None of their
11:34groupmates in every one of the projects
11:36don't do any work. So it was only him
11:37and her doing the group project
11:38together. And yeah, they call purely to
11:41do school work and nothing else. I
11:44scolded him when I found out cuz like
11:45why the hell you calling another girl?
11:47Why the hell are you lying to me that
11:48you calling another girl? Because I also
11:50scaled a girl because you know that he
11:52has a girlfriend. So why are you calling
11:53him every night when you know he has a
11:56girlfriend? I don't care if it's school
11:57project or whatever. Like you are
11:58calling him for so long. That's
12:00literally a call for 7 hours. So I
12:02texted her. Okay, I get that my message
12:05was a bit childish, but I didn't want to
12:07say so much. Then she sent me this text
12:10of her site of the story to Xavier's
12:12WhatsApp. They both have given me the
12:14same story. Exactly the same.
12:18And I have a very good impression of my
12:21fianceé. I didn't I didn't believe that
12:23he would be like cheating on me and like
12:26I have I just didn't believe that he
12:27could do this kind of thing. So I
12:29believe him cuz I was like since this
12:30girl say the same thing him he say the
12:32same thing to me. I was like okay fine.
12:33I'm just going to forget about it and
12:36then move on. I guess I was very naive
12:38because like I will believe what you
12:39tell me. He promised me like he se his
12:41mother, father, everybody on his entire
12:43life, nothing happening. But either
12:44ways, I told him I do not ever want to
12:46see her name
12:48ever again. If I see her name again, I'm
12:50just going to break up him. That's why I
12:52told him I got to tell him this. I
12:53remember telling him this. Also, now you
12:55know the context behind this PN girl.
12:57The fact that last time he wanted to
12:58break up during the the period of time
13:00that the Discord calls kept happening
13:02and then now he wanted to end the
13:04engagement and then I see her name
13:06again.
13:09The same girl was involved during both
13:11times.
13:14Everything like clicked to me. I'm
13:16someone who wears that heartless sleeve.
13:18I confronted him instantly about the
13:19note. You guys can see what he say about
13:23the note. Basically, he's telling me,
13:25you know, the note didn't mean anything.
13:27He wanted to write down good qualities
13:28he wish I had. I asked him why her of
13:31all people on the paper. He said he
13:33randomly thought of a name. He didn't
13:35even know if this traits of her was
13:37accurate, but he admitted to feeling
13:42he admitted to having infatuation for
13:43her last year when we were having
13:45problems. And he keeps saying it's not
13:47really feelings. It's just a bit of
13:49infatuation cuz like she's nice. Then I
13:51was like, "Huh? Am I supposed to be
13:52worried about every nice girl from now
13:54on?"
13:55Keep in mind that this dude wanted to
13:56end the engagement over the forwarded
13:58text that I forward. He kept emphasizing
14:00at that point. Now he telling me that
14:02it's because of why you crash up. But at
14:03that point time he keep emphasizing on
14:05the fact that I forwarded the divorce
14:07that red flag command. But this guy can
14:09write down a comparison note
14:12of me and another girl and then take a
14:14photo of it to discuss with his friend
14:16Pu. Let's call him Pu.
14:19Anyways, in the end I want to move past
14:21this cuz I still love this man a lot and
14:24he keeps telling me he keeps telling me
14:27nothing going on. He keeps giving me
14:29these excuses. So like I don't
14:30understand why are you I don't
14:33understand like cuz like he tell me all
14:34this then okay I want to move past it
14:36because he wants to move past it. If he
14:38wants to move past it with me then okay
14:40fine I believe I wanted to believe that
14:42this note really didn't mean anything
14:44but I was still like a bit sus. I need
14:46to go through his phone to see if like
14:48there's anything going on. On 13th June
14:50I stayed over at his house again. I
14:52looked through his phone and then took
14:54like random pics of anything that I
14:55thought was suspicious. When I first saw
14:57this, I didn't think much of it. Even
14:59though he's been going to this block,
15:00okay, this block is going to be
15:02extremely important. Let's call this
15:04place how block ABC. I'm not going to
15:07say that exact blog. I'm not going to
15:08dox anybody. So yeah, I was concerned on
15:11why he was spending $400 on GR at that
15:13point when he freaking owes me money for
15:15like the wedding prep. Anyways, the next
15:17morning I took this screenshot and I
15:19went about my day as usual. I was doing
15:22my client's right when it suddenly hit
15:24me, bro. I was like, "Wait a second." I
15:27remember last year confronting him about
15:28a place that he kept grabbing to and he
15:30was like at Hangto [clears throat] if
15:31I'm not wrong. I remember that I asked
15:32him why he always go there and he kept
15:34telling me that it's a place where he
15:36goes with his friends after CCA
15:40to eat and I was confused like NYP and
15:43Hang is not NYP
15:46you need to like at least grab down
15:48there or like it will take a few bus got
15:50a lot of food to eat. I stayed at Amoko
15:51before. There's a lot of food to eat.
15:53Why y'all go directly to Halong just for
15:55the copy dump? Then this guy was telling
15:57me his entire CCA friends grabbed down
15:59to this place to eat. I believed him. I
16:01believed him back then. Anyways, it
16:05clicked to me. Then I go and check his
16:08grab history for 2025. It was the exact
16:12same block Hung ABC. It was the exact
16:15same block he kept going last year when
16:17we were having problems. And then I'm
16:19going to show you guys a few examples of
16:21how he would lie to me, but he was
16:24actually at Block ABC 16th May 2026. So,
16:29we're having our break. Okay, remember
16:31that we're having our break. He left
16:33Hango ABC to home at 11:33 p.m. But I'm
16:36sending our wedding blind box that I
16:38created and stuff. He's telling me I'm
16:40at my grandma's house talking and
16:42spending time with two of them. I'm
16:43leaving my phone on site to charge. I
16:44need to help them with the fan. What
16:47he's telling me? so detailed on what
16:49he's doing at his grandma's house, but
16:51he was at Hunglock ABC. Okay. 17th May
16:542026, the next day he searched PN up on
16:58his Instagram.
17:00They were having some T program. So as
17:02part of the internet, so all of them had
17:03like T public accounts. He searched her
17:05up and I argue with him cuz I told him I
17:07I told him last year, I don't see her
17:09name on your phone. And he tell me I'm
17:11hung up about the history. He was like,
17:13you know, the history of was just us
17:14doing work. Then he tell me why are you
17:17still angry about it now? Blah blah
17:19blah. Okay, let's go back to like the
17:21grapes there. I confronted him about the
17:23situation because at this point of time
17:25I don't know who stays there and why he
17:27was lying to me a lot telling me he's at
17:31home at school when he's at block Hong
17:34Kong ABC. He told me that his friend
17:36let's call him Pishua stays at block
17:39ABC. He would always come here with him
17:43and maybe some friends, but mainly
17:45Pishua. And then he told me that he lied
17:47to me because he said that I would get
17:49angry if he hangs out with his friends.
17:51I guess it comes off like that sometimes
17:54cuz I'm like, why you don't want to
17:55spend time instead? I guess it's valid
17:56his reason. I still felt that there was
17:59something off with this story. On 14th
18:02and 15th June, I consulted a tarot
18:04reader, which was my friend's sister.
18:07Before you guys say anything, I know
18:08that tarot reading isn't 100% accurate,
18:09but it's a good way to like guide you on
18:11your decisions. And I knew that whatever
18:13the tarot reader said, I was going to
18:14take it with a pinch of salt. So, I
18:16asked him, is he actively cheating? She
18:18says that there's someone he's growing
18:19an emotional attachment to. Then I do
18:20another round of readings like what is
18:22he truly doing when he's visiting this
18:24location? Then I ask him, I suspect the
18:26name is P, the person that he's growing
18:30an emotional attachment with. All cuts
18:32point to yes. Okay. All cuts point to
18:34yes. Anyways, I have this in England
18:36that Pisha doesn't stay at Block Hawk on
18:38ABC. Just nice. I know of someone who
18:39has a fake account and I ask that fake
18:41account to help me catfish Pisha and see
18:44if the my friend could ask Pisha like a
18:46bit of like you know where his location
18:48is. Like it doesn't have to be his exact
18:50blog. Just tell me like you stay. If you
18:52tell me you stay Hong Kong, then okay, I
18:53don't need to worry about the location
18:54anymore. I don't know how but like he go
18:57and tell my friend his freaking blog and
18:59everything. And he doesn't stay at Hong
19:00Kong. I'm not going to tell you guys
19:01where he stay. I'm not here to talk to
19:03anybody. He doesn't stay at Hong Kong.
19:05But to go to block Hong Kong ABC from
19:07his house, it will probably take bus a
19:10bus ride off about five stops. So my
19:12fiance lie again. I find out that my
19:15fiance was lying again that his friend
19:16Pishwa stays here. When he doesn't, I go
19:18and confront him. This time he tell me
19:21block ABC Hang is actually a supper spot
19:23where he goes with his friends and
19:25Pishwa. I ask him the place you go got
19:27so bloody good, man. You stay here until
19:28so long. Why are you lying? You go to
19:31people's house usually go to a copy
19:32nearby to eat. Why you taking five bus
19:34stops to go to block ABC Hang just to
19:36eat supper? Mind you, this man is very
19:38lazy with me. He doesn't like to travel.
19:40When we at his house, he always want to
19:42go to like the mall right beside. He
19:43doesn't ever want to go to anywhere
19:45else. I'm very confused. So why are you
19:46acting like this with like your friends
19:48then? And he has never once grabbed to
19:51Pishwa's actual address. So he said that
19:53him and his friends like to chill at
19:54block ABC Hang. And the reason why he
19:57like is because he will always smoke and
19:59drink here. I don't like it when he
20:01smokes or drink. I don't even know he's
20:02smoking. I told him I don't like smokers
20:04since the start. I didn't even know he
20:06was smoking you know. So like hearing
20:08that I was like what the hell? Then it
20:09made sense to me again because you know
20:10I don't like him smoking. But he still
20:13denying any involvement of any girls. He
20:15tell me no girl involved. I asked him so
20:18is he like got go with like some girls
20:19here? He say no. Tell me no. I check his
20:21gra again. 16 May he boot from ankle
20:24point to block ABC. He reached block ABC
20:26at 6:00 p.m. He leaves block ABC at
20:3011:42 p.m. You tell me you stay at a
20:33supper spot for 6 hours. A supper so
20:36good you stay here for 6 hours and you
20:39don't go anywhere else. You know, you go
20:41you booked to block ABC then you leave
20:43block ABC. So you are just staying at
20:45block ABC for 6 hours. Right. At this
20:46point he's telling me that he doesn't
20:48know anybody who stays at this block. He
20:50tell me he none of his friends stay at
20:51block ABC. How come? And I I was looking
20:54around the block. Max, right? Is like
20:55got one dim sum place. If you're always
20:57coming here for supper, why are you not
20:58booking to the dim sum place or like the
21:00cop? Why are you booking directly to the
21:01block ABC? He's telling me he booked to
21:03block ABC then go like you know supper
21:06then come back to block ABC to go home.
21:08It doesn't make sense. So I had a
21:09feeling that this is where the PN
21:11staying right. You remember how she had
21:12the school public TP account on
21:14Instagram? She had posted this post
21:16commuting to work. I'm not going to show
21:17you guys the post later yall like find
21:19out her address. So like let's keep it
21:21lowkey. Okay. My best friend went to
21:22zoom into the photo. I'm going to show
21:23an example. This an example. This is not
21:25her her photo. An example of like the
21:30the car commuting to work. Then there's
21:33like a map and then this map. We go to
21:36Google Maps and then we see block ABC
21:39right there. The road is exactly the
21:42same. It's exactly the same. So we're
21:44like, "Oh shit." So she does stay at
21:46Hong Kong. Okay. We don't know any
21:47confirmation that she stays at block. We
21:49just know that she stay at Hong Kong.
21:51her LinkedIn her mention mentioned like
21:53secondary and primary schools. Her
21:56primary school was a seven minute walk
21:58from block ABC.
22:01Her secondary school was like a
22:0230-minute bus, right? But still very
22:03close. We all know that secondary and
22:05primary school have to be close by to
22:06each other. And I keep confronting Z
22:08every time I find out new information.
22:10When I tell him right, I know P stays
22:12there. He not even shocked, bro. Like I
22:14at this point, I don't have any
22:15confirmation that she stays at that
22:16exact block. But I wanted to tell him
22:17like I I pretended confirm I know P
22:20stays at vlog ABC. He not even shock
22:23bro. He just tell me like huh how will
22:25you even know blah blah you know but he
22:27say I don't know where she stay but how
22:29how you know I told him that I saw
22:30through the her Instagram account just
22:32nice the same time I bought it she
22:34privates that account. Coincidence
22:37fast forward a few more days later I was
22:39at Malaysia. One of my friends was very
22:41curious about vlog ABC. He wanted to go
22:43walk the rounds like see if there's
22:45anything suspicious he could help to for
22:47me to figure out the truth. He went to
22:48block ABC and there was so much P that
22:50she posted that I managed to assess. It
22:52was her outfit check in her outside her
22:55house or something like it's a wall.
22:57It's just a blank wall. But right, we
23:00inspected every single crack on the
23:02wall. I don't know how. Just nice. My
23:05friend was standing beside the wall that
23:07she was taking a photo at. Just nice,
23:09you know. And the wall is down to
23:11detail. The cracks, the bloody cracks on
23:13every single inch of the photo is
23:15exactly the same. So, we're like, [ __ ]
23:17she actually stays at block ABC. We know
23:19for a fact that now she stays at block
23:21ABC. This is my confirmation that not
23:23only does she stay at How, she stays at
23:25block ABC and he's been grabbing back
23:27and forth to this place and he's been
23:28lying about why he's grabbing her. We
23:30have the knowledge of the comparison
23:31note where he dead writes her whole name
23:34and compares me and her in a
23:35relationship. We have the info that she
23:37stays here. He's been lying about
23:38everything. This guy right do not want
23:40to fess up. So I was like, "Okay, maybe
23:43I can talk to her."
23:44>> Okay, guys. We're on the way now. Stupid
23:46ass zigger. Sh me. Then I need to waste
23:47my time coming down to confront some
23:49other annoying. Seriously, I could be
23:52doing so much more things with my time.
23:54No, you make me waste my time. Yeah,
23:55seriously.
23:57>> Me and my friends went to area. We sent
23:58her a message because in this time at
23:59this time I really very drained already.
24:01Like every everything that we getting
24:03right is like I'm getting fed on
24:05breadcrumbs. everything I had to own
24:07self like dig up because nobody wants to
24:10tell me the truth and I wanted to
24:12confront her. I wanted her to admit, you
24:14know, that him, her and Z had something
24:15going on because they both keep denying
24:17it. I sent her a message. I told her
24:19like, I just want to talk. I genuinely
24:21just want to talk. We gave her by 9:00
24:24p.m. to come down and we not I'm not
24:27here to slap you, to punch you. Just
24:29tell me the truth, please. I just want
24:30to know the truth. Like genuinely, I'm
24:32just seeking for the truth. Okay. So,
24:35exactly at 8:55 p.m. she came down.
24:38She kept walking past me and my friends
24:40and just keep continue walking. I was
24:41very confused like is this the girl or
24:43not? I'm a bit shocked. Anyways, I
24:45wanted to talk to her alone because I
24:46didn't want her to feel like we're gang
24:48up on her. So, I tap her shoulder
24:50because I'm seriously here just to talk
24:52to you. I pull for a chat and then I
24:54like talk to her
24:56because like
24:58genuinely at this point I just want to
25:00know like what's going on. You didn't
25:02ask everything because like um I think
25:06we can sit here.
25:08>> So for like the past month he's been
25:09coming here.
25:11>> Yeah.
25:11>> Okay. I want to know if he has been
25:13going to your house.
25:14>> No. What the
25:16>> No. Okay.
25:17>> Okay.
25:18>> Okay.
25:19>> Okay. Okay. To be very honest,
25:22>> I feel like I thought like the [ __ ]
25:24already happened
25:26>> ended last year actually.
25:28>> Sorry. Yeah.
25:29>> It's okay. So, uh-huh.
25:31>> I think
25:33um whatever I said to you in the message
25:36already.
25:36>> Uh-huh.
25:36>> Yeah. Actually, I can't remember what I
25:38said, but like if you realize, I talked
25:40to her very nicely because like I don't
25:42have any confirmation. She denied
25:43everything. And not going to lie, I was
25:45prepared for every scenario except for
25:47her denying anything, any involvement.
25:50And when I saw her face, I also cannot
25:51believe like this man was cheating on me
25:53with this girl. So, I couldn't take
25:56myself seriously. After five minutes
25:59I left and then I go and find my
26:00friends. Then they go and school me like
26:02why you so nice. I grew her a bit more.
26:03I was like I I felt bad. I felt bad for
26:05if like really nothing going. Then I go
26:06and waste the time. They they say that
26:08they want to talk to her again. Then we
26:09ask her if she can meet us for a while.
26:11Then she say okay sure. So now this time
26:15my two friends were sitting with me cuz
26:16they they were going to do like the
26:18talking for me in case I forget
26:19anything. She agreed to meet us. We sat
26:20down and guys I bloody scared of cat
26:24bro. Kina this place got three cats.
26:26Yeah, [gasps] this place got three
26:29freaking cat. Then why losing aura, bro?
26:31I over here jumping on the table. I
26:33bloody scared of the cat. So yeah, my
26:35friend and I talked to her for about an
26:37hour. Her story
26:39exactly the same as it's the same thing
26:42like last year when they both give me
26:43the same story, but this time it's very
26:44eerily similar. I'm going to insert
26:46parts of the convo. She will tell me
26:49they are not close to a point where he
26:50will even know where I stay. But the
26:52problem is if you know like you stay
26:55here then he keep grabbing here cannot
26:57be like you know the world so small.
26:59Yeah. That's why we just like want to
27:01know like
27:02>> you never see ever see him.
27:03>> Yeah. Ever see him?
27:04>> Yeah. Never ever.
27:05>> So you also never bring him.
27:06>> Have you given him your home attention
27:09before anything? Was there any reason?
27:10>> We're not so close.
27:13>> We're not so close to the point you know
27:17where I would give him my home address.
27:20I I know maybe we really have nothing
27:23but it's like you know we just want like
27:25hopefully maybe you got maybe like the
27:27last bit of morals or maybe like like
27:29not not that but like
27:31>> but I really like honestly
27:34>> yeah that nothing going on.
27:37>> Yeah. So we're just hoping like you know
27:39like so nothing.
27:41>> Can I ask like how how how um how are
27:44you feeling right now?
27:45>> I'm like a bit nervous. Not really
27:48nervous once but like very con you're
27:50not scared right that we getting out of
27:51you not no TV
27:55anything
27:57>> I wouldn't [laughter]
27:58violence never an answer
28:00>> okay I know you all want to seek
28:02clarifications from myself so I
28:03understand that that's why like I'm
28:04trying to give you whatever I can also
28:07tell me professionals nothing going on
28:10absolutely nothing going on between them
28:13>> confusing and I'm sure like from you can
28:16kind
28:17uh sympathize the truth.
28:19>> Yeah. So it's it's not that we want to
28:22say that you're guilty or anything. It's
28:23just that we just need the truth so that
28:24we can move on from here.
28:26>> Yeah. Because like he invited to take
28:30this.
28:31So I like
28:34also like okay I assume that you guys
28:38and then you have like this story on and
28:41probably like tell you like not to tell
28:43you anything like for the sake of like
28:46protecting your image and stuff but
28:49honestly I have all the evidence really
28:52>> trying to clear your name cuz if you
28:53have nothing to do with it then you'll
28:55just be focused on him but if you can
28:56tell some information like if you were
28:59to tell me now I would
29:02just for your side and just focus on him
29:05because he's also it takes two hands.
29:08>> Correct. And also because I mean you
29:10really see us here you already know that
29:12we got like enough evidence that like
29:15you know pointing everything towards you
29:17>> everything. So we just
29:19>> and I
29:21>> Yeah. So we just want give you one last
29:23chance to come like you know say
29:25anything if you have
29:26>> I think from my side I don't know about
29:28him but like like what I've always been
29:31telling you like we're just like
29:33professional in a way something sus
29:35about her right
29:37we asked her can you okay can you if you
29:39want to prove to us right cuz like all
29:41evidence pointing towards you and him
29:42can you just do us one favor can you go
29:44and call him on your phone then we want
29:45to see how he like reacts to call and if
29:47she's not guilty she'll just call right
29:49but she kept refusing [laughter] to call
29:51And her reason for refusing is that she
29:52feels uncomfortable doing it because
29:54he's attached blah blah blah. Huh? Well,
29:57she can say all this. It's crazy because
29:59we all know she's lying
30:00>> in a sense like saying that evidence is
30:02going to get me. But
30:03>> okay, then can you do us one favor?
30:06>> You call Z.
30:07>> Yeah. Who was speak?
30:08>> Why?
30:10>> I I don't want to be doing that cuz like
30:15>> Yeah. What?
30:17>> Because what?
30:19>> Like I don't know. Like it's just
30:22>> a bit.
30:23>> Yeah.
30:23>> If she really not if she really never do
30:25anything wrong, it's a bit
30:26uncomfortable.
30:27>> Okay.
30:28>> Yeah. But the last thing you do
30:33quite uncomfortable with that cuz like I
30:35think right now a lot of things is like
30:37in my head now you know then like your
30:40child saying
30:42like also then frustrated.
30:44>> Yeah.
30:45But okay, if like if you have nothing to
30:48hide, you say, "Well, why not call him
30:50and pull a sticker?"
30:51>> Okay.
30:52>> For my morals in a way, I feel like I
30:57don't really want to be touching like or
31:00like calling or like texting
31:02>> someone's fiance.
31:04>> Like someone who is already engaged,
31:07>> but she's here and she's like, "She's
31:11here like
31:12>> and but at that point in time, I believe
31:13so." I think I very gullible but I'm I'm
31:15going to stop being so gullible because
31:17oh I swear I'm believing everything
31:18everybody tells me and I didn't I keep
31:21telling my friends not to force her to
31:22call cuz I was like yeah like people
31:24phone people's privacy like don't force
31:25her you know but my friend say something
31:27to me my friend say something on me
31:29imagine yourself in the shoes you not
31:31guilty you see then talk to us for 1
31:33hour for what I'll just show you my
31:34phone and then I tell you I will just
31:35throw my phone to you it's not that deep
31:37it's just a call after we left my
31:39friends [clears throat] made like a list
31:41on why we think she's lying
31:44The first grab he books to block ABC
31:47this year 2026 right was on 29th April.
31:55Our fight was on 2nd May. So in my mind
31:58like was he just using this as an excuse
32:00like my one crash out as an excuse to
32:03end the engagement? 20th May,
32:06wished him 520 at 12:00 a.m., but he was
32:09at her house until 12:40 a.m. Let's not
32:12forget how during the two weeks when I
32:13had to convince him to give us another
32:15shot, he said that he was at home having
32:16sro and sick, but bro was actually at
32:18her house cuz remember he told me he was
32:21sick but he was at block ABC. How come
32:24at our house 2nd June he was having in
32:28which ends at 6:00 p.m. Doesn't reply me
32:30until 11:02. tells me at 11:02 that he
32:33was napping
32:36but he left her house at 10:22. Bro
32:38ended in turn at 6:00 or maybe he end
32:41earlier and I just didn't know. Made his
32:43way from Pioneer all the way to Hang
32:46just to spend time with her for a few
32:47hours. Then grabs back home. I asked him
32:49if I could sleep over the next day. He
32:51tells me he's lowkey feeling sick. Third
32:53June tells me after in turn he's going
32:55home because he feels sick and at 7:13
32:57p.m. says he's popping two panels in and
32:59was taking and was going to sleep but
33:02leaves block ABC at 11 p.m.
33:0510 June tries booking grab from his
33:07intern workplace to Hang at Hang Block
33:10ABC at 12:00 p.m. His break I know that
33:13his break is at 12 p.m. and then he ends
33:16at 6 p.m. So I'm not sure what could be
33:17happening here. Maybe he took half day
33:19leave or something. Then he probably
33:21take a to place after after not being
33:23able to find a grab. And mind you, we
33:25met on 10 June night time. So he wanted
33:28to maybe meet her for like one last time
33:31or something. Remember guys, I slept
33:34over that day and I find out the
33:37comparison note the next day. Let me
33:39bring you guys back to 2025. On 9th June
33:432025 last year, he went to fix his
33:44computer. He literally grabs from the
33:47computer place,
33:49reaches Hokkang at Hong Kong ABC at 7:13
33:53p.m. Then leaves block ABC Hang at 7:22
33:57p.m. Keep in mind this grab the time on
34:01the grab is like what time you get
34:03picked up. So bro really probably book
34:05the book the grab instantly. I'm very
34:07confused. You tell me this is a spot
34:08then you stay here for 2 minutes for
34:09what? He tell me that I confronted him.
34:12He told me that his friend Pisha went to
34:14follow him to fix the computer and he
34:16wanted to share gra to go to block ABC.
34:21I was like he doesn't even stay here.
34:23What do you mean? He tells me Pisha
34:24wanted to grab supper from block ABC. So
34:27that's why they booked grab that and
34:28then they wanted to smoke it. Smoke for
34:302 minutes. I'm like why you cannot smoke
34:32at like the computer place outside the
34:33mall? Why must you book directly to
34:35block ABC to smoke you? That's not even
34:37a smoking. It's just a random block.
34:38Then he tells me, you see, like I can't
34:40spend time with him on the grab there
34:41like that.
34:46Obviously, it's either to send her back
34:48or like, you know, see her for 2 minutes
34:50or something. This happens multiple
34:52times. But the one that takes the
34:54freaking cake, I tell you, this fell
34:5627th July 2025
35:00at 9:52
35:02to 11:06. So, he reaches Haang ABC at
35:0611:06 p.m. No grab shown home. 28th July
35:092025. Grabs at 10:48 a.m. to 11:05 a.m.
35:14from block ABC to NYP's
35:1711:22 a.m. 11:20 a.m. NYP to home. This
35:21is just plain evidence that he stayed
35:22over. You tell me you don't know any of
35:24your friends who stay at this block. You
35:27tell me none of your friends stay at
35:28this block. Then you you What are you
35:31doing? You sleep at the staircase. you
35:33sleep at the freaking stage or what?
35:34Guess what his excuse was this time? He
35:37he told me he was working which is true.
35:38I have proof that he was like working
35:40that day because from our conversation
35:42he told me that just nice P was working
35:44with him like coincidentally she was
35:45working with him and at the end of the
35:48shift she tried booking grab but there's
35:50no car. So he helps her book a grab
35:53and then he she pays him in cash. Then
35:57the next day they had presentation in
35:59school and she was going to be late but
36:01again she can't book any grab to school.
36:03So then then again he helps book her
36:06grab to school. If you believe this
36:08right I got some flying pics I can sell
36:09you. And this contradicts everything
36:11because let's say this story is correct
36:12right means this guy can book two times
36:15grab for her.
36:16That means he knows where she stays on.
36:18So just nice the same month you keep
36:20going there. Just nice right? You
36:21literally go there. You literally go to
36:23block ABC the day before. Then the next
36:24day you go again and then you're telling
36:25me it's actually to book for her. So you
36:27know, you have the information that oh P
36:30stays at Block ABC because she admits to
36:32booking GR for her. And remember what
36:34happened when we confronted her? She
36:36tells us that they're not close to a
36:38point where she would give him her
36:41address, but she clearly did if he was
36:43booking grab for her. This mean that
36:46they are both lying to us again. 10 July
36:502025.
36:52This period of time when we were having
36:54problems, we're not even having much
36:55problems honestly at this point in time.
36:57He just keep telling me that he wants to
36:59stay back in school to do his group
37:00projects because he's he's alone. He
37:02tells me he's always alone doing school
37:04projects, you know, alone and stuff.
37:07Tells me he's doing work then going home
37:10at 11:44 p.m. Tells me that he's at Bona
37:12Vista and there's no bus home. So, he's
37:14booking Grab from Bona Vista to home.
37:16Bona Vista to home. He stayed he one
37:19hour he got direct bus to his house. So
37:20I was like, "Oh, understandable."
37:23Actually was at block ABC and went home
37:25at 11:52 p.m. 13th June.
37:30Tells me he was having CC and support
37:31with his teammates, but I was actually
37:32at block ABC. 8th July 2025.
37:36[clears throat] Tells me he's bathing
37:37and stretching and using massage gun at
37:3912:56 a.m.
37:42But as you can see from the gra, bro was
37:44at block ABC. Didn't even reach home
37:45until 1:20 a.m. 9th July.
37:50was having class BBQue which the PN was
37:53also in. Tells me his teacher is drawing
37:56them to Bishan and somehow somehow ends
37:58up at block ABC again. Leaves block ABC
38:00at 11:10 p.m. to home 15th July 2025.
38:08Tells me he needs to meet his dad at
38:09Sant for some insurance talk with like
38:11his insurance guy. Meets meet tells me
38:14at 1000 p.m. he's at Shirang and that
38:17his dad will book grab for them back.
38:19tells me that his battery is low and was
38:20charging at Shilang at 11:54 p.m. Was
38:23actually at Block ABC again since 10:49
38:26p.m. Left Block ABC to home at 11:50
38:30p.m. 16th July. You guys can just pause
38:33to read. Okay. 16th July 2025
38:37says at 10:06 p.m. he CCA and had a mini
38:40argument with his CCA people and tells
38:42me he's grabbing home pretty much I
38:43guess from NYP
38:45was actually at the block until 10:507
38:48p.m. 11 August 2025
38:53tells me he has that day says he's going
38:56to reach home soon at 11:40 11:05 p.m.
38:59but 9:51 p.m. He's at her block ABC her
39:03house. No grab shown back so should be
39:05stay over. 12th August 2025.
39:08Tells me again he's staying in school to
39:09do work. Tells me he's at home at 11:04.
39:12Actually grab back to block ABC and
39:14reach P's house at 10:03 p.m. No grab
39:18shown back. Probably stay over. This was
39:20our convo on 13th August 2025. And this
39:23was the last recorded grab to her this
39:26block from that year. I didn't think
39:30about this much. I I don't really care.
39:32I didn't think that he would like show
39:33me. Like he tell me like, "Oh, Hong Kong
39:35is just a place where his CCA friends go
39:36to blah blah." Then I was like, "Okay,
39:38whatever." I just believe. I didn't
39:39really like go and like dig into it
39:42because I'm not freaking insane. I'm
39:45only insane now because I know that
39:46there's something going on. Let's go
39:48back to this year. 16th June tells me
39:51he's having supp leaves school at 9:21
39:54p.m. Reaches Kalang Mall at 9:41. took
39:58probably took bus from there to G7
40:00Cinema Live Seafood. Then he goes from
40:03the seafood restaurant to Hong Kong ABC
40:06at 11:55 p.m. Leaves Block ABC
40:10at 12:17 to go home. Brother, Block ABC
40:13is a SA spot. You go, you literally came
40:16from a restaurant, then you go to to
40:18spend 20 minutes at Block ABC.
40:21I had a thought with him. You and Pisha
40:23so close. Then what is the last
40:24conversation? What is the last message
40:26you have sent on 17th May? Because in
40:29June, he was literally going telling me
40:31he grabbing here with grabbing here to
40:32spend time with Pisha all the time and
40:35the way they text not even super close
40:36or anything but they're at a point where
40:38they can meet like five to six times a
40:40week at this exact block. No calls,
40:43nothing. I ask him, you call now, you
40:45call now. You tell him meet you at block
40:46ABC. Then I see what he says. I'll let
40:49you guys listen to a call here.
40:53So, do you want to go down to our kind
40:55of supper that you just got now?
40:58>> No.
40:59>> Yeah.
41:00>> Now, can you do tomorrow?
41:04>> Uh, you let me check
41:08right now. I'm out.
41:12>> Okay. Okay. Never mind. But tomorrow if
41:15you free, you are there or I'm always
41:18there. Literally, just tell me when
41:20you're free. I'll be talking.
41:23>> You play football?
41:25>> You better play football there, man.
41:27>> Yeah, I play every Saturday, right?
41:30>> I mean, I play Saturday, Sunday, but
41:32like technically I'm always
41:35I mean, I drink there, but like you say,
41:38because I go eat and after that, if you
41:42want to meet, I just shoot you. Just
41:44meet me then.
41:48>> Okay. Okay. Let me know again. Who the
41:50hell is I here every day? What?
41:52Saturday, Sunday, I'm always here.
41:53Saturday and Sunday, I'm always at this.
41:54I tell you, if I ask my friend Gochi,
41:56right, she tell me what every Saturday,
41:58Sunday, I just tell her to stop yapping
41:59and just tell me yes or no, bro. The
42:00call was so freaking fake. All my
42:02friends thought it's fake.
42:05And at this point, I'm very confused why
42:07everybody's helping him cover up.
42:10with the amount of grab to the location
42:12last year and you telling me that you're
42:13always here with Pisha. You assume
42:15they're very close but he only follow
42:17Pisha on Instagram on 23rd
42:2023rd March 2026
42:23but last year he was always going there
42:25and his name Pisha's name never once
42:27came out in our conversation before this
42:29was confirmation to me of the cheating
42:30and the amount of lies and secrets. I
42:31don't have any physical proof of the
42:32cheating part but like you can't
42:34convince me that these evidence isn't
42:35enough. I didn't think to the extent of
42:38how bad the cheating was because I don't
42:41have any proof and nobody tells me
42:42anything. I remember the Discord calls
42:44last year. It was the Discord calls was
42:47from 7 June 2025 up to 9 August 2025.
42:52It matches with the time period he keeps
42:54going to her house from 31st May 2025
42:57until 12th August 2025. So it matches
43:00you know the time period is exactly the
43:02same. I told him like how you want me to
43:04trust you? He kept telling me he's
43:05telling me the truth. But he can be
43:07lying to me for like months and he
43:12didn't even beg me to like stay, you
43:14know, like after I find out everything.
43:16He just keep emphasizing that he didn't
43:18cheat and he emphasized on the fact that
43:20he keep emphasizing on the fact that he
43:21lost feelings for me. He said he lost a
43:24bit. He keep emphasizing it's only a bit
43:26of feelings I lost for you because of
43:27the crash.
43:29So yeah. Anyway, I went to Korea for jaw
43:30surgery and I was supposed to tell him
43:31my decision on whether I want to
43:32continue the engagement. When I came
43:34back, I was looking because I was
43:37thinking that maybe the cheating isn't
43:38that bad. Like it's not too bad. Maybe I
43:41cuz I don't know what's the actual
43:42truth. I just know that he grabbed here
43:43a lot and stuff. I told him that I
43:45wanted to end the engagement because
43:46like he would tell me that he's not
43:48enjoying his time with me as much. And
43:49then like he finally ding me, you know,
43:51I told him to be honest. I guess that's
43:52him being honest. He's not enjoying the
43:54time as much with me because of his
43:56feelings. Even though he keeps saying
43:58it's only a bit of feelings he lost and
44:00it hurts me because it's like you are
44:03the one who did all these to me. You did
44:05all this lying cheating
44:07and then I have to wait for you to gain
44:10your feelings back because at that point
44:11he also tell me he don't know whether he
44:12want to continue that. He don't know if
44:13it's best to continue the engagement
44:15with with his feelings like that. So I
44:17had to wait for him. He told me that he
44:18wanted to try he wanted to try fix the
44:21relationship and he told me to wait
44:22until like we agreed to wait until end
44:24July. But then when I came back from
44:27Korea, two days later, three days, you
44:29cheat, you lie, you do all that. Then I
44:31need to wait for you. It hurt me so much
44:33to end the engagement off. But it was
44:36like what's best for myself. I was like,
44:37I had enough of being disrespected for 2
44:40months. I started posting the a bit
44:42about the cheating,
44:44like hinting about it. I didn't even
44:47bring up the name of any girl. I didn't
44:50bring up the face of any girl. I didn't
44:51bring up anything. I just hinted that he
44:54was cheating. Suddenly, everybody from
44:57NYP telling me the story of how they
45:00thought how they are in school. I'll
45:02show you guys every single message I
45:04received. So close to a point where
45:06people thought they were dating. Huh?
45:09Then you know what they tell me? They
45:10tell me that nobody told me cuz they say
45:12that everybody thought that I knew. So
45:14everybody think that h I posted this man
45:17on my social media so much and I got
45:20engaged to him all that and then I knew
45:22about the cheating and I was subject
45:24myself to this and that's why nobody
45:27told me and I had a comment that said oh
45:30people are just sending you because
45:31sending you the same thing because they
45:33see other people send I didn't post what
45:35people are sending me it's only when I
45:37compile everything then I post that
45:39everybody's been telling me the same
45:40story he's been so close with this girl
45:42every single day he's to a point where
45:43people thought they dating to a point
45:45where there's a bubble of them because
45:46people of people people think how sus is
45:48but this won't send to me. I don't know
45:50why. What's wrong? What's wrong with you
45:52guys? I'm sorry, but what's wrong with
45:53you guys? Do you really think that
45:54somebody will be in such a He's in such
45:57a public engagement and how everybody
46:00see him. He's not even hiding the
46:02cheating. He's publicly out here
46:04disrespecting me to my face to other
46:07people behind my back and then behind my
46:09back he's telling me all this lies. Why
46:11are you lying to my face for over a
46:13year? It's not even just It's not even
46:15like one month, two months, three
46:17months. You lied to me for a year. You
46:19proposed to me in the middle of your
46:21cheating.
46:24You make us plan a whole ass wedding and
46:26it's not even a simple wedding. It was
46:27like a legit wedding. It is like a
46:30humiliation rituals. Yeah. Genuinely,
46:32it's it's so embarrassing for me. And I
46:35don't know what's worse is him cheating
46:37and on me for over a year having a
46:39different persona from the man that I
46:40thought he was.
46:43And I and or the fact that everyone NYP
46:46saw it know his angage and then one tell
46:48me or the fact that right he's still
46:51denying it until now and he refuses to
46:53take accountability for his actions. He
46:55refuses to admit that he was cheating on
46:56me.
47:00Calls me crazy for saying that he's
47:02cheating on me and then gives me an
47:04excuse for every reason that I have. Who
47:06do you think made me crazy?
47:09Who do you think made me crazy? got some
47:10comments say like my personality crazy.
47:12Maybe that's why maybe I'm crazy because
47:14everything he's doing behind my back and
47:16lying to my face. I don't understand.
47:17Why can't you just break out with me?
47:18Honestly, I didn't think the cheating
47:20was that bad to a point where he was
47:23cheating publicly in front of
47:25everybody's face behind my back. I blame
47:29myself for the crash out, but you guys
47:30seen how hard I tried to give us keep us
47:32together. You guys can read. You guys
47:34seen the way he lies to me.
47:37I don't want to say anything else.
47:40except for this situation.
47:43But yeah, I'm selling my wedding
47:44planning book for $30. Got insert my
47:48reviews here. This is a list of what it
47:50includes the wedding cuz I was planning
47:52this wedding for months. And I think
47:54that my how in planning the wedding
47:56shouldn't be going to waste. Hence why
47:58I'm selling the book. And I just want to
48:00say thank you to everybody who's been
48:01supportive of me and sending me
48:03encouragement. I may not reply to
48:05everybody but it helps a lot given the
48:09what this man did to me. It is very
48:12painful for me but like I said I already
48:14gave my all. He did this. So yeah,
48:20thank you guys for watching.
48:24Subscribe to me. Thank you
48:27guys. I just edited finished the video
48:29and I'ming right now because I had a tip
48:32off that my fiance last year on 20
48:3720th July to 21st July he booked
48:41a hotel station with her for her
48:44birthday. Her birthday was like I think
48:45next two months or something but I think
48:47it was an early I don't know he just
48:48booked a hotel there and I literally
48:50have the confirmation proof that he
48:52booked a hotel there and I have our chat
48:55which he was lying about.
48:59So yeah, I don't
49:03I actually don't know what to say.

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