Hit & Run: Is She Trying to Scam Me After I Crashed Into her? — Transcript

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1. 0:00So, I've just gone into the back of
2. 0:01someone. No.
3. 0:03>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Sorry. My internet
4. 0:06working.
5. 0:07>> It says yes, but it No.
6. 0:12>> Uh, and another thing uh toilet very
7. 0:15smelly.
8. 0:17>> You You know what I mean? Um like sewer
9. 0:21coming from toilet. Whole flat is like
10. 0:23Oh.
11. 0:24>> Okay. Okay.
12. 0:25>> All right. Come on. Come on.
13. 0:28[sighs] It's been such a peaceful couple
14. 0:31of days in my flat. There's been no
15. 0:33staff, no builders.
16. 0:35There's been one family in the house
17. 0:37here. Very quiet, not family, but just a
18. 0:39couple.
19. 0:41Very quiet. [sighs]
20. 0:43And yes, currently my apartment
21. 0:46does somewhat smell of feces.
22. 0:51Um, and I can assure you it's not just
23. 0:52my explosive rear end.
24. 0:56uh like it's like a deep sewage smell,
25. 1:00but I imagine they'll be able to sort
26. 1:01that with some sort of chemical, no
27. 1:03doubt.
28. 1:05And the internet's being superb. But
29. 1:07anyway, what what's much more
30. 1:09interesting than that? Maybe perhaps
31. 1:10potentially,
32. 1:13probably not, [snorts] is um
33. 1:17yeah, I love this flat. I absolutely
34. 1:19love this flat, but I'm very aware that
35. 1:21it could change at any minute. you know,
36. 1:23somebody could
37. 1:25move in next door at any moment, and
38. 1:28that makes a huge difference. There was
39. 1:30somebody who left a really good comment
40. 1:32on one of the recent videos, actually,
41. 1:33where they said h they got to a place
42. 1:36where it was just a they knew that for
43. 1:38their sanity, they needed a
44. 1:40non-negotiable barrier boundary, that
45. 1:43wherever they live, they never have an
46. 1:46adjoining wall with another property.
47. 1:48And I just totally agree.
48. 1:52So basically my visa expires in less
49. 1:55than a month and obviously I'm just
50. 1:57going to stay here for that month unless
51. 1:58something dramatic changes. They've
52. 2:00promised me that this half of a building
53. 2:03that clearly needs
54. 2:05building work isn't going to happen for
55. 2:083 months.
56. 2:10So you know I'm very much at the end of
57. 2:12this visa I'm moving on from Vietnam.
58. 2:14You know that's that's where I'm at.
59. 2:17But then I'm thinking, well, if I could
60. 2:19have this for another two months
61. 2:21and you know, you saw how hard it was to
62. 2:23find something like this. Now,
63. 2:24admittedly, those lessons I learn in
64. 2:26terrible properties, apartments, rushing
65. 2:29things, ignoring red flags. Obviously,
66. 2:32they've been learned and they'll be
67. 2:33taken to the next country. So, you know,
68. 2:35I'm confident that I can find something
69. 2:37equivalent much faster next time. But
70. 2:41but but it's hard. It's hard. So, I'm
71. 2:44thinking to myself, if I know for two
72. 2:46more months
73. 2:48that I can live in peace and in nature,
74. 2:53then maybe um
75. 2:56yeah, maybe I should do another one of
76. 2:57those horrendous visa runs because the
77. 2:59the airport still isn't open.
78. 3:03So, another one of those whatever is 36
79. 3:05hours, 48 hours really when you take
80. 3:07into account having to go the night
81. 3:09before for the flight.
82. 3:12I think this time though I'll do I won't
83. 3:14go to Natrang. I won't Yeah, cuz that
84. 3:16just extends it by another almost 24
85. 3:18hours. I'll I'll do the sleeper bus
86. 3:20twice. Now I know that the sleeper bus
87. 3:22isn't that bad. I'll go to Dat to Hoim
88. 3:26in on the sleeper bus straight and then
89. 3:28I'm going to use a visa agent this time.
90. 3:30So I'm going to be able to turn it
91. 3:31around and get a threemon visa
92. 3:35[sighs and gasps] in 24 hours.
93. 3:38So that's where I'm at today. It's time
94. 3:41to replace the gorgeous flowers of the
95. 3:44lot. Return those to the land. Um it's
96. 3:49deeply ingrained in me to return flowers
97. 3:51to the land. Um from a pot shaman that I
98. 3:54did a lot of work with who was very
99. 3:56adamant that you know if you if you take
100. 3:58from
101. 3:59Gia, you give back to Gia.
102. 4:03And Patrima would actually be the word
103. 4:05he would use. Um, so I'm going to go and
104. 4:08return those flowers to the lands and
105. 4:10then Leslie, bless her, Leslie, my
106. 4:13regular donator on buy me a coffee,
107. 4:15which of course you can find in the
108. 4:16description below. Um, really amazing
109. 4:19supporter,
110. 4:21has left me £25 and said, "Buy yourself
111. 4:24a bunch of flowers." I think I don't
112. 4:25think she realizes that things are a bit
113. 4:26cheaper in Vietnam. So £25 will probably
114. 4:29buy me um the best part of 10 bunches of
115. 4:32flowers. But what I'm going to do is I'm
116. 4:33going to go and buy some really special
117. 4:35ones like some roses or something and
118. 4:37like obviously not not worry about the
119. 4:38money and feel the deep gratitude of
120. 4:41Leslie's kindness.
121. 4:44And then do I go and buy a SIM card? I
122. 4:46think I finally need to go and buy a SIM
123. 4:47card
124. 4:49cuz it's just not worth it. One day of
125. 4:50no internet cost me more than a SIM card
126. 4:52would cost me anyway if it means I can't
127. 4:54upload videos. So now you can hear maybe
128. 4:57that the thunder is thundering. It's
129. 5:00rumbling. It's about to pop. Feels like
130. 5:03we're half an hour away from from big
131. 5:05rainfall, which we haven't had for a few
132. 5:07days. So, when it comes, it's going to
133. 5:08really come,
134. 5:10but at some point, I'd like to get out
135. 5:11there and get a SIM card. So, I decided
136. 5:14to take a chance and just brave it. And
137. 5:16literally, as I strapped up and got
138. 5:18ready to go, the uh the spots started
139. 5:22falling on the ground.
140. 5:25Oh man, I'm so bored. It's so obviously
141. 5:27England's super rainy, but I feel like
142. 5:29you get trapped by the rain here more.
143. 5:31Like when it happens, it happens less,
144. 5:32but it's just way more aggressive. Like
145. 5:35it totally wipes out. Like, oh, it's a
146. 5:37scooter thing in it. Of course. It's cuz
147. 5:40I jumped on a scooter out here. [ __ ] it,
148. 5:42man. I'm probably going to really regret
149. 5:44this. I hate driving in that plastic. I
150. 5:47hate driving in the rain, but I just
151. 5:50It's like 2:00. I spent all day in the
152. 5:52flat. There's no internet. I've had a
153. 5:53very nice morning, but you know, I'm
154. 5:55done with self. I need some external
155. 5:58doing to occur and the police have just
156. 6:01started up the uh sound system. So,
157. 6:03yeah, definitely time to get on my bike.
158. 6:06Hello. You sell the vital sim card?
159. 6:09>> Yeah.
160. 6:17I bought this uh the signage is like
161. 6:19official, but it's clearly not an
162. 6:21official shop.
163. 6:23Um, the vital sim card.
164. 6:30Okay, I managed to get out of it. It was
165. 6:31one of those awkward people pleasing
166. 6:33moments where you think something is
167. 6:35something, a vital shop, an official
168. 6:37shop, and then you walk in there and you
169. 6:39realize it's not and then they're asking
170. 6:40you questions and you just want to get
171. 6:42out of there. Anyway, I managed to do
172. 6:43it.
173. 6:44>> But yeah, look, it's got an official big
174. 6:46vital sign. So, that's what I fell for.
175. 6:48But the minute I walked in and just saw
176. 6:50secondhand iPhones, I thought, "Oh [ __ ]
177. 6:55just felt like people please a panic."
178. 6:57Well, I end up getting into a
179. 6:58conversation, which I don't, you know.
180. 7:00No, this is the wrong shop. I want to go
181. 7:02to an official vital store. So then you
182. 7:04can't even say that because of the
183. 7:05language barrier. It's awful, man. I
184. 7:07hate that [ __ ] Anyway, if you want some
185. 7:09sea snails, this is where you come.
186. 7:12Okay, let's put our brown coconut theory
187. 7:15to the test. I've just driven past a
188. 7:18wagon that's selling them for 12,000
189. 7:20instead of a 17,000.
190. 7:23I think these are going to be amazing.
191. 7:25I've had them before. I know they're
192. 7:26amazing. And I just thought, oh, it was
193. 7:28a random amazing really sweet coconut,
194. 7:32but no, I think these are really
195. 7:34special. Hello, friend.
196. 7:37>> Hello. Can I get four coconuts
197. 7:41chopped?
198. 7:43Come on. Well, sirens and mayhem up
199. 7:46ahead. Whoa. Whoa. What is going on? I
200. 7:52can't zoom in cuz the camera's gone all
201. 7:53spazzy.
202. 7:55That's four massive army trucks. Five.
203. 7:59There's another one coming.
204. 8:02What is going on up there? Oh, I just
205. 8:05used a black word. How disgusting. So,
206. 8:07that's five. Six.
207. 8:11Uh, perfect.
208. 8:14And then a a police car. Wow.
209. 8:18That's um Yeah, something's kicking off
210. 8:21in Vietnam. Look at that phone machine.
211. 8:24This guy's an absolute professional. But
212. 8:27this is where the real profession comes
213. 8:29in. The years of experience, the 10,000
214. 8:32hours to be an expert in coconut
215. 8:35cutting. He's got to cut it so that it's
216. 8:38soft enough for me to be able to get
217. 8:39into, but he but he can't run the risk
218. 8:42of going too far and slicing it open.
219. 8:45Mad skill.
220. 8:54Perfect. Come on.
221. 8:56>> Come on.
222. 9:02>> Oh, good. So, I've just got into the
223. 9:04back of someone. Sorry.
224. 9:08My this No.
225. 9:11>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Sorry. What is there a
226. 9:13problem? Is there any damage?
227. 9:15>> Yes.
228. 9:16>> Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
229. 9:17Yeah. Sorry. What do we do?
230. 9:20>> Uh
231. 9:21>> in Vietnam, what do we do?
232. 9:23>> You must uh you must pay this.
233. 9:26>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay.
234. 9:28>> So, how? Then I will uh will bring this
235. 9:33car to a bar for
236. 9:35>> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay.
237. 9:37>> Uh and they will fix.
238. 9:39>> You want my telephone number or
239. 9:43>> I don't really know how it happened. I
240. 9:46think she slowed down. Definitely my
241. 9:47fault
242. 9:49and I I slam the brake that doesn't work
243. 9:51and then just ended up in the back of
244. 9:53it. Very strange. Anyway, this is the
245. 9:55damage to my bike.
246. 9:59That would fit back here.
247. 10:06So, we've exchanged numbers.
248. 10:21Finding out price now or
249. 10:24what we what we wait for now.
250. 10:27Heat.
251. 10:36Heat.
252. 10:58So, I'm not sure what I'm waiting for.
253. 11:01Um, I've given my number. My
254. 11:03understanding is she needs to go to a
255. 11:05garage now. I'm not sure why I'm stood
256. 11:07here, but I feel like she's expecting me
257. 11:10to stay here.
258. 11:16Hello there.
259. 11:19>> Starting to think she's calling the
260. 11:20police. Like she's looking at shops and
261. 11:22saying where we are. Very strange. What
262. 11:24are we waiting for? Are you going to go
263. 11:26to the garage now or
264. 11:27>> because you don't have a Vietnamese
265. 11:29number to
266. 11:32I
267. 11:32>> I give you my
268. 11:34>> but I but I can but I can not sure that
269. 11:40will keep me.
270. 11:42>> Okay. So what we doing? So what are we
271. 11:44doing?
272. 11:50>> Okay. So I I'm I'm here for another 30
273. 11:53days. I can show you my visa. No
274. 11:54problem. Um if you go to the garage and
275. 11:57get price, I will pay. That's not a
276. 11:59problem. And I give you my number. I'm
277. 12:03not running away. I live here. I'm not
278. 12:05I'm not a tourist. I understand. I do
279. 12:06understand. I do understand. But what I
280. 12:09just don't know why I'm standing in
281. 12:10rain, you know.
282. 12:13Yeah. No, I'm sorry. I I I understand. I
283. 12:16understand.
284. 12:17>> But I don't know what your friend can do
285. 12:19because what we need is price from
286. 12:20garage, don't we?
287. 12:39There's we we can't sort it out here. We
288. 12:42can only sort it out with professional
289. 12:43engage, can't we? That's the problem. So
290. 12:46even if your friends come, we can't do
291. 12:48anything. We need we need garage.
292. 12:57It
293. 12:57>> all seems a bit strange to me.
294. 13:03Is there anything else you need? Um,
295. 13:14okay.
296. 13:32I suggest that you pay for me, right? Uh
297. 13:3610 million. So uh we will
298. 13:40>> Oh, that's a lot. That's a lot.
299. 13:42>> Wait, wait, wait. We will bring this car
300. 13:45to the village and
301. 13:47>> and uh we will show you the pro the bill
302. 13:51uh to fix.
303. 13:53>> You think it's going to be 10 million? I
304. 13:54don't think it's going to be 10 million
305. 13:55and I will pay and
306. 13:57>> but then I'm having to trust you. Let's
307. 13:59Why don't we both go to the damage now?
308. 14:05>> 10 minutes.
309. 14:06>> Okay. I go to phone shop. Pixel shop
310. 14:08just there and I come back. Okay. I just
311. 14:11want to go and buy a SIM card. Okay.
312. 14:18>> Demon died.
313. 14:19>> I thought the bike felt a bit funny as I
314. 14:21just drove, I don't know, 3 km and I
315. 14:25just found this piece of plastic. In
316. 14:27fact, this this young man found it and
317. 14:29pointed it out to me underneath the
318. 14:32wheel. It's still attached to the wheel.
319. 14:34So, I've just been driving on this
320. 14:37plastic for 3 km.
321. 14:40So, we have a building update for those
322. 14:42who are watching the channel when I used
323. 14:44to live in this hell hole. Yeah, still
324. 14:47going, still noisy.
325. 14:50[sighs]
326. 14:51So, I'm actually recording this the next
327. 14:53day because it all just got too much for
328. 14:56me.
329. 14:58Yeah, it was it was it was stressful.
330. 15:02So, I went back to my old flat just then
331. 15:05to collect some post if you're
332. 15:06wondering.
333. 15:07So, as you saw on the camera, you know,
334. 15:09I was totally
335. 15:12wanted to put that back. I, you know, I
336. 15:16I'll be totally honest. I could notice
337. 15:17the part of me that when I smashed into
338. 15:19the back of her and she very slowly was
339. 15:22pulling over like acknowledged like I
340. 15:24could so easily just drive off right
341. 15:26now. A scooter is going to outpace a car
342. 15:28no problem in the city. Uh you know I
343. 15:31can acknowledge a part of me that
344. 15:32thought that but at no point was I like
345. 15:35yeah that's that's the way to solve
346. 15:36this. It was like absolutely
347. 15:39uh 95% of me wanted to do the right
348. 15:41thing, wanted to put it right and and
349. 15:43that that was my intention.
350. 15:47Ah, it's such a difficult one
351. 15:51because I can totally see from her point
352. 15:52of view and I've been where I judge her
353. 15:55to be. So that's like very status
354. 15:56driven, very materialistic,
355. 15:59uh, middle class, brainwashed cuz all
356. 16:01middle class people are brainwashed cuz
357. 16:03they're the ones that go to the
358. 16:04indoctrination camps that we call
359. 16:05universities and all this. Um, and
360. 16:08they're the ones that aren't in
361. 16:09survival. Like if you're in survival,
362. 16:11like look at the British working class.
363. 16:13Look at the working class out here. You
364. 16:15know, there's no time for ideology.
365. 16:17There's no time for angr.
366. 16:19You know, there's no time for liberal
367. 16:21[ __ ] politics that sound nice but
368. 16:23completely impractical. There's just
369. 16:24none of that. Like that's why you don't
370. 16:26get it in the working classes.
371. 16:28So, you know, her newish or however new
372. 16:31Ford obviously means a great deal to
373. 16:33her. And I get that. You know, I used to
374. 16:34drive a G Wagon. I used to drive a
375. 16:36Porsche. And when I was driving those
376. 16:38and when I was completely in the
377. 16:40material and completely in the external,
378. 16:41I too would have wanted a full
379. 16:44replacement of the bumper. Whether I'd
380. 16:46have been like, we have to go to the
381. 16:48Mercedes garage, I don't know. But
382. 16:52right, we we are in the land of BGE
383. 16:54jobs. Like for long-term viewers who saw
384. 16:57my adventures on Fuqua Island, I broke
385. 17:00the bike seat and they did what you
386. 17:04would call a bodgege job, but it was
387. 17:05absolutely fantastic. Works brilliant.
388. 17:08Solved the problem. Cost £250.
389. 17:12Now, maybe I'm wrong, maybe there was
390. 17:15more damage, maybe her sensors were
391. 17:17affected, but what I saw was a hairline
392. 17:20crack on the top of her bumper, which
393. 17:24you know, with a skill set in Vietnam
394. 17:26for stuff like this, like that that
395. 17:29could that could easily be fixed by
396. 17:32filling it in, sanding it off,
397. 17:33repainting it. Um, probably for 10, 20,
398. 17:38maybe up to 50. Uh, and you would never
399. 17:41notice. You would never notice. But of
400. 17:44course, she wants to go to a Ford
401. 17:45garage. Straight away she mentions a
402. 17:47Ford garage. And even then, I'm like,
403. 17:49"Yeah, okay. Here's my number." You
404. 17:51know, what can I do? I'm in the wrong.
405. 17:54Um, you know, looking back on the
406. 17:55incident now.
407. 17:57I just don't know. I still don't know
408. 17:59how it happened. I haven't actually
409. 18:00watched the footage. Maybe I should
410. 18:01watch Oh, no. Cuz I don't film the
411. 18:02crash. I filmed the aftermath.
412. 18:05All I know is when I went to break,
413. 18:09sadly I hit the the right brake, the one
414. 18:12that doesn't work because that's the one
415. 18:13that I I you I have used the most in the
416. 18:16past and therefore like when I'm in a
417. 18:18panic situation, my nervous system knows
418. 18:20to just grab that. So I I grabbed that
419. 18:22and I remember feeling the despair. I
420. 18:25remember the physical feeling of a break
421. 18:27just, you know, you can feel like the
422. 18:29brake has resistance. When a bake is
423. 18:31working, it has resistance in it and you
424. 18:32actually have to like use your muscles
425. 18:34to um pull it towards you. But when it's
426. 18:38[ __ ] there's no resistance and it's
427. 18:39just like so I can remember the feeling
428. 18:42of that in my hand and I can remember
429. 18:44the despair in my body and soul as I
430. 18:47hurdle towards his car. And then what
431. 18:50naturally happens when you panic on a
432. 18:52bike if you're I mean maybe it happens
433. 18:55if you're really experienced but I would
434. 18:56still class myself as relatively
435. 18:58inexperienced you know compared to a
436. 19:00Southeast Asian who was put on a bike at
437. 19:02like 3 months old for example uh and
438. 19:05then was driving one themselves by 10
439. 19:07years old. H I've been driving I've
440. 19:10driven I've driven a motorcycle for one
441. 19:13year of my life altogether maybe a bit
442. 19:15more maybe 18 months.
443. 19:18So, what I noticed a lot when I first
444. 19:21started riding a scooter and now I still
445. 19:23notice in extreme situations like that
446. 19:25is when something goes wrong, you panic
447. 19:29and lean back, which is obviously the
448. 19:32worst thing you can do. And when you do
449. 19:34that, you end up going like that, which
450. 19:37which is the accelerator. So, not only
451. 19:40did the base not work, I actually
452. 19:42accelerated into the back of her. I hit
453. 19:45her as hard as you could possibly hit
454. 19:47someone without getting hurt, you know,
455. 19:49any any harder than I' I'd have come off
456. 19:51a bike. So, it wasn't super hard, but it
457. 19:54it was pretty hard. I mean, it was a
458. 19:56real thud. And it's done some, you know,
459. 19:58it's done some proper damage to my bike,
460. 20:02a Russian's bike.
461. 20:04And, you know, I'm a bit pissed off with
462. 20:06him for not responding adequately when I
463. 20:08told him the brakes were were [ __ ]
464. 20:09I'm also pissed off at myself for not
465. 20:12pushing that further and just being
466. 20:14like, "Okay, I'll drive around on a
467. 20:15[ __ ] up bike and risk my life." I
468. 20:17mean, just mental. So, she mentions the
469. 20:20Ford garage.
470. 20:23Then she starts ringing what she says is
471. 20:26her friends. I mean, I have no idea who
472. 20:27she was ringing. And she's telling them
473. 20:29the shops and and then she's telling me
474. 20:31to stay there for 10 minutes. So, you
475. 20:33know, I'm a foreigner on my own in a
476. 20:36foreign land where everything is
477. 20:38completely the opposite. I don't know
478. 20:39the laws. I don't know the culture. I
479. 20:42don't know anything.
480. 20:44Now, up until this point, I've been
481. 20:46really cordial, really uh yes, I'm going
482. 20:49to fix this. I've even said, "Why don't
483. 20:51we both go to the garage right now, get
484. 20:53the quote, and then I'll pay the money."
485. 20:55Um, and then she starts ringing friends
486. 20:58to come and and so obviously my paranoid
487. 21:01mind starts going to like, well, who are
488. 21:03these friends and what are they going to
489. 21:06demand? Obviously, it's going to be a
490. 21:07load of men. Um,
491. 21:10whilst my overall experience and
492. 21:13interactions with Vietnamese people is
493. 21:15incredibly positive, you know, I've also
494. 21:18been scammed a couple of times. So, you
495. 21:22know, I start going into admittedly
496. 21:24extreme and unlikely possibilities, but
497. 21:26you know, possibilities like, am I going
498. 21:28to get dragged around ATMs?
499. 21:31Now, so then she mentions, sorry, before
500. 21:34I go into that, she mentions giving her
501. 21:3610 million dong. That's like I think
502. 21:38£360, $400,
503. 21:41$450 maybe. Um,
504. 21:46that's that seems way way over the top.
505. 21:50And then she does talk about like
506. 21:51acknowledging it's over the top and
507. 21:53giving me the rest back once she's paid
508. 21:55for it. But then what? You want me to
509. 21:57put trust into another Vietnamese person
510. 22:00after every time I put every time I've
511. 22:03put money and trust to a point where
512. 22:06they've had power over me into a
513. 22:07Vietnamese person. It's No, that's not
514. 22:09true. There was the concrete bunker hell
515. 22:11hole uh where she gave me a full refund
516. 22:14after I broke a chair on her ceiling and
517. 22:16she didn't want me there anymore. So no
518. 22:19it's not entirely true but I have
519. 22:20experienced you know if you give more
520. 22:24than and give power to it gets abused
521. 22:28and that would absolutely happen in
522. 22:29England as well you know this isn't you
523. 22:31know I'm not knocking Vietnam actually
524. 22:34overall my experience is Vietnam is much
525. 22:36more honest and trustworthy than England
526. 22:39is now not what England used to be h but
527. 22:42what England is now since we let just
528. 22:44absolute scum and bow weapons in and
529. 22:46everyone's just given up having any sort
530. 22:48of morals or pleasantries or or um you
531. 22:51know everyone's just totally in survival
532. 22:53and and grabbby grabby grab grab.
533. 22:58[sighs]
534. 23:00So I started hearing £360. I started
535. 23:04seeing that people were coming and I I
536. 23:07basically panicked and genuinely like
537. 23:10when I hit her I was on my way to a shop
538. 23:13that was about 100 yards away from where
539. 23:15I hit her.
540. 23:17So genuinely I was
541. 23:21say I said to her, "Listen, I'm going to
542. 23:23go and get my SIM card. I don't want to
543. 23:24just stand here and I'll come back." And
544. 23:26when I said that,
545. 23:28I guess I didn't mean it because I
546. 23:29didn't go back. But you know, I I I
547. 23:31thought I meant it.
548. 23:33And then as I'm driving away,
549. 23:39yeah, I make a selfish decision and it
550. 23:41doesn't feel good. Like it's not a it's
551. 23:42not an aligned decision. It's not a
552. 23:44decision of integrity. It's definitely
553. 23:45coming from the shadow.
554. 23:47Because really, if I if I was in total
555. 23:50trust with the universe, I wouldn't even
556. 23:51mind getting ripped off because I just
557. 23:52know the universe is going to give me
558. 23:54back. Because it basically the more you
559. 23:56just learn to accept and not
560. 23:59not get triggered by not trying to
561. 24:01control from the ego, the universe just
562. 24:03fills that space that creates space and
563. 24:05that just gets filled up with higher
564. 24:07vibrations and more abundance. So, you
565. 24:09know, intellectually I understand that
566. 24:11and I do live by that in in in a large
567. 24:14percentage of my life. But sometimes
568. 24:16it's just too much for my ego even
569. 24:18though I know that it's the wrong
570. 24:20decision and I know morally it's wrong.
571. 24:23It makes me feel [ __ ]
572. 24:25Um, it also makes me paranoid that I'm
573. 24:28going to get into trouble obviously. I
574. 24:30mean, I've looked into the law and
575. 24:34essentially it says that police are very
576. 24:36unlikely to get involved in what they
577. 24:39would see as a civil matter as nobody
578. 24:41got hurt. They said the exception to
579. 24:43that is if she's someone important then
580. 24:45they will absolutely look into it, you
581. 24:47know, like a political member or
582. 24:48something like that. Um,
583. 24:51and then they said, so they said it's
584. 24:53unlikely they look into it and then if
585. 24:55you're unlucky that she's a powerful
586. 24:57person and they do look into it, um,
587. 25:00then they're not going to come searching
588. 25:02for you. They're going to invite you to
589. 25:04the station for mediation.
590. 25:07So that's that's I experienced that in
591. 25:08Thailand. Um, you know, that's how the
592. 25:11police work out here. It's it's very
593. 25:13different and I think better. I haven't
594. 25:15really experienced it enough or thought
595. 25:17about it enough, but it's got to be
596. 25:18better than our horrendous um two-tier
597. 25:21treasonous disgusting liard police
598. 25:25system police deep state foot soldiers.
599. 25:28Just [ __ ] tyrannical absolute [ __ ]
600. 25:30Just to be clear, I'm speaking about
601. 25:32English police here. Um so it's
602. 25:36definitely better because the because
603. 25:37their police um are patriotic and love
604. 25:40their country. So it's it just has to be
605. 25:43a million times better. even if there
606. 25:45are some bad elements to it, which I'm
607. 25:46not even saying there are. I don't know.
608. 25:48Um, so they would not just come and
609. 25:51arrest me. They would invite me in for
610. 25:53mediation in which I would obviously
611. 25:55have to take ownership for the fact it
612. 25:58was my fault cuz it was. And we would
613. 26:01agree a price and it would be paid at
614. 26:03the station. And then there may be some
615. 26:05what's called coffee money for the
616. 26:07police um as a thank you for them
617. 26:09mediating the situation.
618. 26:12Um, and that's kind of worst case
619. 26:15scenario. Um, absolute worst case
620. 26:17scenario is, um,
621. 26:21I get done for like leaving the scene
622. 26:25and that's a fine of about 80 to£120.
623. 26:28So, I don't think there's um, you know,
624. 26:31I don't think it's a massive crime. I'm
625. 26:34I'm not
626. 26:36I you know I can notice a part of my
627. 26:38mind that wants to run away with that
628. 26:39story and and will get paranoid about it
629. 26:41particularly after a smoke in the
630. 26:42evening. But um but really I'm I'm
631. 26:46feeling good about that. It's just
632. 26:48really the moral side and the fact that
633. 26:50you know I have caused damage to
634. 26:52someone's car and I haven't put it
635. 26:53right. But then at the same time it's my
636. 26:56judgment that she's trying to scam me.
637. 26:57So, it's like I want to meet her
638. 27:00correctly and then she wants to meet me
639. 27:03with a scam potentially
640. 27:08why I'm not playing that game. But then
641. 27:10is that just my ego making that up to
642. 27:13justify why I'm not doing the right
643. 27:15thing?
644. 27:17Oh, the Shadow Dance. It's an
645. 27:19interesting one. If you think it's
646. 27:20interesting, then check out my other
647. 27:22channel because we talk about this sort
648. 27:23of stuff way more. Well, that's what it
649. 27:25is. That's what the channel is. uh @ tom
650. 27:28g r e a t o r e x.
651. 27:34Let me know in the comments what you
652. 27:35would have done in that situation. Try
653. 27:36and be honest. Try not to just, you
654. 27:38know, stroke your ego and chat [ __ ]
655. 27:40because I'll see through it and it's
656. 27:42boring. What's the [ __ ] point?
657. 27:44Honesty is the only way that life is
658. 27:47worth experiencing. Uh yeah, let me know
659. 27:50what you think in the comments, what
660. 27:51you'd have done. Make sure you've liked
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