Growth comes with letting go. — Transcript

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1. 0:00We must understand that [music] growth
2. 0:03comes with letting go.
3. 0:05There's a very specific reason I'm
4. 0:07making this video [music] today.
5. 0:08Not only is it because I've seen people
6. 0:10in the comment section in my videos talk
7. 0:12about examples of this in [music] their
8. 0:14life,
9. 0:15but this applies to cases when
10. 0:18manifestation, [music] things you've
11. 0:19manifested, disappear.
12. 0:22Maybe you felt totally elated when you
13. 0:24manifested something and 2 years later
14. 0:26it just completely left your life.
15. 0:28This is most likely because
16. 0:31>> [music]
17. 0:31>> you as a person watching this video on
18. 0:33this channel are very dedicated to
19. 0:36self-development and self-improvement.
20. 0:38>> [music]
21. 0:39>> Whether it be manifestation or not, it
22. 0:42doesn't matter. I know that you watching
23. 0:44this video, you you have great
24. 0:46potential. You can do so many things.
25. 0:49>> [music]
26. 0:49>> There is a reason why you're here and
27. 0:51we're here to talk about why your growth
28. 0:55is going to hurt. These are the
29. 0:57necessary growing pains that are going
30. 0:59to get a place that you need
31. 1:01>> [music]
32. 1:01>> because often times we are stuck in
33. 1:03places where we energetic initially we
34. 1:07energetically manifested those
35. 1:09environments, those people, but as we
36. 1:12get older, as we have more experience in
37. 1:14life, as we shift our energetic states,
38. 1:17[music] some things don't always going
39. 1:19to stick. Some things might start to
40. 1:21become dissonant [music] to our
41. 1:23energetic state when we have amplified
42. 1:25it to such a high point where you no
43. 1:29longer can take the nonsense
44. 1:31>> [music]
45. 1:31>> of the environment or the people around
46. 1:33you.
47. 1:36Besides the people in the comments who
48. 1:38have been talking about situations like
49. 1:41being in a relationship with someone
50. 1:43they really, really, really love, but
51. 1:45that person seems to be taking advantage
52. 1:47of them and constantly manipulating
53. 1:48them. And these people are on my channel
54. 1:50preaching manifestation, talking with
55. 1:52man talking with me about manifestation.
56. 1:56It makes me realize that this person is
57. 1:59energetically no longer in the same
58. 2:02frequency that they were when they met
59. 2:03that [music] partner initially.
60. 2:05Now, I don't want to call
61. 2:08>> [music]
62. 2:08>> people out on my channel for doing this,
63. 2:10but I feel like this does need to be
64. 2:12brought to the surface because this is
65. 2:14an an unhealthy pattern
66. 2:16>> [music]
67. 2:17>> of being involved in toxic relationships
68. 2:19that I have been seeing in the comment
69. 2:21section on [music] my channel. I've seen
70. 2:23multiple people say that they're trying
71. 2:26to manifest a better relationship
72. 2:28[music] with a partner, but their
73. 2:28partner is cheating on them, their
74. 2:30partner is demeaning them, bullying
75. 2:32them, neglecting them.
76. 2:35You can't You [music] can't stay in a
77. 2:37relationship
78. 2:39that you got into at a lower vibrational
79. 2:41state if [music] you are looking to grow
80. 2:44as an individual.
81. 2:45If you had self-respect, you would have
82. 2:48left that relationship. You would be
83. 2:49gone by now. There is no reason
84. 2:52>> [music]
85. 2:52>> that you would should continue to stay
86. 2:53in that relationship if you respect
87. 2:55yourself. I understand what the
88. 2:57emotional attachment feels like. Like, I
89. 3:00was in the same situation, too. I
90. 3:01manifested a partner [music]
91. 3:033 years ago that I thought was the one
92. 3:05for me. But, in the time frame of only 3
93. 3:07months, I did so much self-work that I
94. 3:09realized he wasn't the one for me. Not
95. 3:11only that, but he hid the fact that he
96. 3:13was literally doing drugs. Like, he was
97. 3:16smoking and he was drinking.
98. 3:18I was not okay with that.
99. 3:20And I drew the line where he physically
100. 3:23>> [music]
101. 3:23>> tried to harm me when he was
102. 3:24intoxicated. I was like,
103. 3:26"That
104. 3:28does not That does not align with my
105. 3:30values. That does not energetically
106. 3:32>> [music]
107. 3:33>> align with my goals, my values."
108. 3:37It was difficult. I won't deny it. I
109. 3:39went through a lot of partners in that
110. 3:41time frame because I was energetically
111. 3:43in a very turbulent state because I was
112. 3:45entering adulthood at that time. I had a
113. 3:47lot going on with my life, and I was
114. 3:50going I was struggling between
115. 3:52>> [music]
116. 3:52>> college work and trying to move out of
117. 3:54the environment that I was in currently.
118. 3:57It took a lot of work.
119. 3:58It took a lot of realization that
120. 4:01>> [music]
121. 4:02>> me growing in as a person does not
122. 4:05belong in this environment and it
123. 4:06[music] really hurt because
124. 4:09I found myself often
125. 4:11pursuing relationships that were at a
126. 4:14lower [music] vibrational frequency than
127. 4:17my state. And this wasn't just like
128. 4:21romantic relationships. This was family
129. 4:22relationships, friends, and whatnot,
130. 4:24acquaintances. I just had to go.
131. 4:27I had to go. I had to say bye.
132. 4:29Because there [music]
133. 4:30there is a point of equilibrium where we
134. 4:32can we can have relationship we can have
135. 4:34respectful relationships
136. 4:36while respecting ourselves. Like
137. 4:40part of my struggle recently is that
138. 4:43there are a lot of people
139. 4:45in my environment
140. 4:46>> [music]
141. 4:47>> that haven't been able to respect my
142. 4:50me haven't been able to respect my
143. 4:52choices
144. 4:54>> [music]
145. 4:54>> as an individual. Even if they don't
146. 4:56harm anyone, they still disrespect them.
147. 4:58And the last 3 weeks I've [music] been
148. 5:01doing a lot of shadow work on this
149. 5:03because it actually goes back to a lot
150. 5:04of childhood trauma that I have.
151. 5:07And even though the environment that I'm
152. 5:09in right now, I can't
153. 5:11there's [music] really not an easy way
154. 5:13out, which I'm working on.
155. 5:16I have to learn to physically keep that
156. 5:19distance and work on boundaries because
157. 5:21[music]
158. 5:23you know, changes don't happen
159. 5:24overnight. Manifestation Manifestation I
160. 5:27believe really happens when
161. 5:29the timing [music]
162. 5:30is right. Like when you when you don't
163. 5:33try to force it.
164. 5:34I met the partner that I have right now
165. 5:36at the right time. [music]
166. 5:37There was no forcing. I just so I solely
167. 5:39trusted that the universe would provide
168. 5:41me with this person [music]
169. 5:43when the time was right.
170. 5:44So, I believe that even though I'm
171. 5:46struggling right now, yes, I am [music]
172. 5:48struggling. I am haven't been okay for
173. 5:51the past few weeks even as somebody who
174. 5:53preaches self-improvement [music] and
175. 5:54manifestation,
176. 5:56we go through these things, too.
177. 5:58And you might think, well, as a
178. 6:00manifestation coach, you would
179. 6:02you wouldn't experience [music] these
180. 6:03things because you know exactly how to
181. 6:05cope.
182. 6:06That is not the case.
183. 6:08>> [music]
184. 6:08>> Manifestation coaches, life coaches, and
185. 6:12mentors in general, we we feel those
186. 6:14[music] things. We experience those
187. 6:16things. The difference between us
188. 6:19and people who don't coach these things
189. 6:21is our coping mechanisms. We know how to
190. 6:23cope. We know how to deal with these
191. 6:25[music] things.
192. 6:26I have been actively shadow journaling
193. 6:28for the past 3 weeks [music] because I
194. 6:30have uncovered a lot of trauma
195. 6:33that I
196. 6:34did not know still [music]
197. 6:36existed in my subconscious mind.
198. 6:39It was coming up in the form of
199. 6:40nightmares.
200. 6:41>> [music]
201. 6:41>> It was coming up in forms of like all
202. 6:44these epiphanies that I would have.
203. 6:46>> [music]
204. 6:46>> And not only that, but of course, again,
205. 6:48referring to the growing pains, the
206. 6:50growing pains aspect
207. 6:52of outgrowing things that once
208. 6:56vibrationally matched your frequency.
209. 6:57[music]
210. 6:59One specific example of this that
211. 7:00happened, and I know a lot of my
212. 7:02subscribers knew that I was
213. 7:03transitioning jobs.
214. 7:05I have been doing good at the new job. I
215. 7:07just started like 3 weeks ago. That has
216. 7:10been going fantastic. I've been super
217. 7:11happy, but I have not explained to
218. 7:13anybody [music]
219. 7:14that instead of putting in
220. 7:17originally putting in my 2-week notice
221. 7:19at my or
222. 7:20>> [music]
223. 7:20>> the past job I was at, I walked out. I
224. 7:23walked out. I flat out walked out
225. 7:24because I epiphanized that day
226. 7:26>> [music]
227. 7:26>> that the environment that I was in
228. 7:29was not aligned with who I am
229. 7:31energetically as an individual.
230. 7:33I still [music] stayed respectful for my
231. 7:36to my colleagues at the time, but there
232. 7:37was a point to where there was bullying,
233. 7:40and [music] there was a lot of gossip.
234. 7:42There was a lot of
235. 7:44rumors that I was mentally sick and that
236. 7:47I was not taking care of myself and I
237. 7:50just had to leave. I told HR this is my
238. 7:53last day. This is what's going on up
239. 7:55front. This [music] needs to be taken
240. 7:57care of. I don't think you guys deserve
241. 7:59me because even though I have I put a
242. 8:01lot of effort into everything [music]
243. 8:03that I did and even though I got a
244. 8:05really good raise
245. 8:07the people there
246. 8:08were not nice.
247. 8:11I put my foot down and I said bye.
248. 8:14I had to leave and I think you should do
249. 8:16the same because if you're somebody
250. 8:18who's strong-willed, if you're somebody
251. 8:19who has a vision, [music] a dream about
252. 8:21something you want to become, you have
253. 8:23to set up your own boundaries. You have
254. 8:26to [music] stay you have to say no. You
255. 8:28have to have tunnel vision on your
256. 8:30journey. [music]
257. 8:31This is not about pleasing other people.
258. 8:33This is about you and yes, it does hurt
259. 8:36in the process but in [music] the end
260. 8:38you are choosing yourself and you four
261. 8:40years from now
262. 8:42>> [music]
263. 8:42>> is going to be proud of you saying no
264. 8:44now to all that pressure, all of that
265. 8:47drama, all that gossip gossip, all that
266. 8:49bullying. You need to stand [music] up
267. 8:52for yourself no matter how much it's
268. 8:54going to hurt.
269. 8:56Say no. Leave that job. End the
270. 8:58relationship if it's draining. There are
271. 9:00better things out there for [music] you.
272. 9:03I do want this video to be a sign that
273. 9:05you are not alone no matter what you are
274. 9:08going through. [music]
275. 9:09Life is full of ups and downs like
276. 9:13um the unpredictable [music]
277. 9:14can happen
278. 9:16and I didn't I didn't ever think I'd see
279. 9:18myself going through [music] this
280. 9:21phase of downcast in reflection
281. 9:25but now that I realize it it's necessary
282. 9:27for my growth because I am shedding
283. 9:30>> [music]
284. 9:30>> a skin. You are shedding a skin.
285. 9:33You are becoming a new version of
286. 9:35yourself. You are shifting [music] into
287. 9:37an environment. You're finding the
288. 9:38environment that you need
289. 9:41to vibrationally align with to become
290. 9:43the best version of yourself and live
291. 9:44out the life of your dreams.
292. 9:46>> [music]
293. 9:46>> I'm giving much thanks for those who
294. 9:48stayed until the end of this video.
295. 9:51It was not structured, as you can
296. 9:52probably tell.
297. 9:54I will be posting more content now that
298. 9:56I am back from school and I am settled
299. 9:59[music] into my new job. So,
300. 10:02thank you guys again. More content will
301. 10:04be coming soon. And I love you.
302. 10:07Bye.